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I’m currently 72 but stayed single since I was 37 with a 3 year old daughter… I went ‘all in’ and became super involved with my daughter growing up. I became very active in her school, I was asked to be the 3rd grade class ‘mom’. We vacationed, just the two of us every year… I had a really fulfilling experience as a single Dad… I dated casually and probably let down too many women…but I stayed the course till I walked her down the aisle when she was 26… I have no regrets with the choice I made… …
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/26 04:37 PM
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0 for 2…. was time to work on staying happy single…. It’s much more sustainable…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:41 PM
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Happened to me after a 16 year marriage with a 2 year old at home. Was completely blindsided. It’s a life changing experience. Reason was simply I was too ‘beta’ and in her view, she had passed me by…. I was raised in a large family (8 kids) with no memory of ‘any’ disagreement between my parents …. we assumed that was the norm… There are 5 boys in our family and I think to varying degrees we’ve all struggled in relationships being what is viewed as too beta… nice guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:19 PM
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I’ve traveled throughout my career… 40+ years … I’ve only seen a couple friends that cheated on their wives in the open . I’ve been approached while on the road a few times but overall I think it’s relatively rare …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:33 AM
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My income tripled from 90g to close to 300g… on the advice of my attorney, he said pay it and not make waves…. I had more $ to lose then I had to gain…. Was the right call… under the circumstances
/r/MensRights14/05/23 06:58 PM
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Family courts operate without actual principle. Men are assumed to be lacking in the skills to raise a child. I dealt with that attitude for a lot of years… there’s nothing further from the truth… I paid full child support for 15 years plus day care and was able to stop it with my ex’s consent at 18 when I agreed to pay for college… which I already had saved for… My income tripled shortly after the divorce and I didn’t really want to my ex to drag me back into court. So I had to play ‘very nice’…
/r/MensRights14/05/23 03:31 PM
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It’s only money… focus on being an incredible Dad… I paid 15 years of child support for a daughter that lived with me 80% of the time, I provided the stable housing, went to all the parent-teacher meetings, arranged all her medical care, help pick her college, paid for it 100% , planned and paid for her wedding… It’s about you and her, not her Mom… you’ll never regret it
/r/MensRights14/05/23 02:46 PM
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Takes time for a man to be trusted around kids. When thru the same feelings when I started to volunteer at my daughters school… I kept showing up every Friday afternoon for 3 years and by the end all the faculty knew me… and trusted me…. They called me to be the classroom mom one year because none of the mothers volunteered…. Stick with it…. Win people over
/r/MensRights05/05/23 10:35 PM
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During the 1900, half your age plus seven became a popular dating rule for sexual partners… this goes for both men and women… Anything more is inappropriate
/r/MensRights05/05/23 04:16 PM
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She has made no genuine apologies.. I think a couple really lamé attempts over the years. Frankly I don’t care. Last time I saw her was when I drove up a few hours to say goodbye to her father right before he was taken to hospice… he passed a week later… Him and I maintained a close relationship over the years as I have with my ex brother in law…. They know the BS I dealt with supported me when I became an ex…
/r/MensRights31/03/23 02:43 PM
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I spent 21 years in a relationship, 16 or those married. We had one child together… When our daughter was barely 3, she informed me that she found someone that could provide her a more material lifestyle . That I was a great guy but I could never understand how important material things were to her. I was completely shocked and unprepared… she remarried 60days later. Ironically I ended up far more successful then she had ever envisioned. I own a company a couple commercial buildings and have mad…
/r/MensRights01/03/23 06:36 PM
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I had a GF move in to my home for 2-3 months and she ended up being drunk most of the time, really a mess. Yet when I asked her to move out, she assumed she could take the new bedroom furniture because she was dating me when I bought it as if was marital property… modern society has hard wired women to grab property when there is a breakup … what an ex once told me… what’s mine is mine and what’s yours is mine ….
/r/MensRights01/03/23 02:17 PM
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There are different pathways to being happy. We do get to choose, be it going our own way or spending your life in a committed relationship. It good to have that choice…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:25 AM
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I was a single father raising a daughter from the age of three. Spent years in the schools and being her biggest supporter… I think I raised her with all the attributes that I value in women. Smart, open minded, adventurous, hard working and loyal. Something her mother never was…. Always told her to reach the highest level she wanted to achieve in life… and only then find an equal….
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 10:01 PM
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Room and Board for Sex…. It’s a bargain if that’s the extent….
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:07 PM
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There’s many ways we can choose to live. Not just those we a led to believe. If the arrangement works, it’s all good. One day he will look for more but until then, he needs to enjoy being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:36 PM
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It’s says ‘but we should stay in touch’.
/r/MensRights19/02/23 08:51 PM
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Have a nice fitness club and a ymca in my neighborhood… I’ve been a member of both for extended periods…. far- far less distractions at the ymca…in fact never… that’s why I stick with the y
/r/MensRights29/01/23 03:06 AM
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Oh Yeah, after being single for years after a divorce, I remarried. She never could get along with my daughter and made my life absolutely miserable because I did not side with her. There was never affection or intimacy… she told me to my face I had to choose her or my daughter… I took my daughter… I said ‘f’ this bs…
/r/MensRights19/01/23 02:07 PM
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Certainly does…. but it what I know….
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:55 AM
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I’ve been married, for years, I’m a parent and dated around for years. I’m most content and at peace living single…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:42 PM
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More and more people are choosing to live single. It’s highly underrated… For many it’s a Cost vs Benefit decision….
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:20 PM
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I was single dad and when my daughter started 3rd grade I got a call from someone from the school PTA asking me if I wanted to be the classroom ‘mom’. I chuckled and questioned the reason she was calling a single Dad instead of someone’s Mother. She said none of the moms volunteered… and someone suggested me. I ended up having such a good time with the kids and was a regular school volunteer for the next 3 years… Men need to step up and get involved in schools. It is crazy fun once you get accep…
/r/MensRights11/12/22 06:20 PM
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I’ve had a lot of years married (16) and even more single afterwards (30) . My happiest years were as a single parent and now as a single grandparent… Not even close….
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:55 AM
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I believe it’s 3-4 kids
/r/MensRights01/12/22 11:52 AM
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Our daughter was three when her parents divorced and a month later she had two dads… My daughter never asked me but at one point I told her, if you ever want to talk about what occurred, she would have to directly ask me. She never did. Now my 8 year old grandson did a few months ago and I just told him he would have to discuss that with his Mom…. It’s all about the kids and what is best for them…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:05 AM
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I was monkey branched at 36 and was told to me face that it was for the ‘material lifestyle’ she wanted. She got a better offer. And about at the same time my income tripled and stayed there for the next 30 years. I dated a number of women in my 30-50’s and it was never difficult for me. Age ultimately becomes an uphill battle and you feel the wall … age also brings a sense of contentment and it’s all good. Money attracts all kinds of mischief … so contentment is important to find …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:04 PM
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What a Man Loves is when his Lust for a Woman is returned .
/r/ExRedPill11/11/22 06:30 PM
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Most of it is pretty obvious, at least in retrospect. I told the same to my daughter when she was 16 and started dating. I will tell my grandson, not to take anyone seriously until you first reach the best you can be yourself and only then look for someone that’s your equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:56 PM
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My daughter is with the father, he’s a great Dad and I’m ‘all in’ to see them succeed. But my daughter knows the rough spots I had to overcome. I’m convinced if someone had pulled me aside and explain what was expected of me, I would have at least seen it coming and been better prepared…. My grandson will blow most of what I tell him ‘off’. But his eyes won’t be totally shut…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:46 PM
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Some not all are looking for a particular life style… here’s a quote I came across a while back that sums it up… “Men are in a relationship to be with a specific woman with all the trappings . Women are with a man to be in a specific type of relationship with all the trappings. “
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:19 PM
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I have an eight year old grandson that I see a lot of myself in. He’s going to go ‘all in’ with his first girlfriend like I did. I recently told my daughter I’m going to sit him down one day and explain how the game of both male and female hypergamy works. Daughter gave me complete permission …. I wish someone would have pulled me aside when I was 15/16 years old and explained the game. I would have played it much better then I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:58 PM
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MGTOW when I first came across movement just resonated with the path I had been on for years. It just put a name on how I felt and assured me I wasn’t the only one on a similar path. I’m just a guy that loses himself in relationships and I end up miserable and feel so relived when I escape from one.
/r/MensRights22/10/22 05:22 PM
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A extremely involved Father has to earn his place…keep showing up.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 12:49 PM
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Statistics are only as good as the sample group, often not a good representation. I’m an older single male that spent 19 years of my life married and trying to stay married. But once I was tossed, against my will, into the single life, I quickly discovered the ‘gift’ of being single. The biggest challenge is accepting‘singleness’ as a positive option that can make you so much happier and content …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:10 PM
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Men are often facing years of writing a child support check every month to remind them of their cheating ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 10:14 PM
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Listen to your heart. Men are more then able and capable of raising a child. Boy or girl… on their own… I had my daughter 80% of the time from when she was barely 3… I volunteered in the schools as a single father for years. Help her pick a college then a grad school. Helped my son in law come up with a special way to propose to my daughter… Good parenting can come from a single father or a single mother… I was also mid 36-37 when my daughter was 3… I had a good business which I was an owner and…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:48 PM
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Of course, men have lived celibate lives for centuries. As have women. In theory it opens new doors to spend time on other things…. Chasing consumes much of our time and effort
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 09:26 PM
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I’m an older guy… I married very young, tried to make that work for the first 15y of my adult life. Divorced mid 30’s, spent the next 20y chasing and catching up some, till that got to be more trouble then it was worth. The last 10y traveling, staying healthy and focused on my daughter and her family and my work. They are my purpose and I really choose to live single and free to follow my own agenda…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:32 AM
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On a scale of 1 to 10, 5 being average …. I think both men and women are good with average. I’ve gone out with women that after a couple dates I decided they were way too nice. I think the door swings both ways…. My ex of 30+ years recently told me, “I was the nicest man she had ever known”. I don’t think it was meant as a major compliment, nor did I take it as one…. It was more, ‘ oh I like your tie’
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:29 PM
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The experience make me who I am today. In a way I have her to thank for the good life I’ve had. She was slowly killing in ... I truly found ‘The Gift of Singleness’ in the a non-biblical sense and applied it to my career and my life in general...
/r/MGTOW207/05/21 10:44 AM
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I was married a long time and came to understand that the only thing that mattered to my wife was the life style I could provide her. The moment she had a chance to grab a better life style , they go for it... Those were her exact words to me, as if I would somehow understand her reasoning... It’s a wake up call for many...
/r/MGTOW207/05/21 10:27 AM
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Still single after 31 years after D-Day... my ex, a hair stylist, never made over 10g in a year... monkey branched me , told me to my face ‘I was a great guy, but I didn’t understand how materialistic she was’... I found my own way... my way... own a business, couple buildings... money in the bank, doing just fine at , more importantly doing as I please ... bought a custom Italian jacket for myself this week just because I wanted it... flying out on the spur of the moment, to see my GK’s in OR..…
/r/MGTOW04/05/21 11:26 PM
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On paper and financially certainly not... but in my case, It was worth it.
/r/MGTOW203/05/21 07:12 AM
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It’s basically what Corinthians 7:32-35 Says...
/r/MGTOW03/05/21 12:05 AM
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I turn 68 next month... married twice both times to extremely materialistic women. I raised my daughter from the time she was 3... serial dater for close to 30 years. Single today, fairly well off, very active and comfortable in my life. Getting to this place took time and experience, both good and bad. Understand the nature of game, understand what women seek. Then choose your path. Don’t be surprised and suffer the trauma that many of us go through. This is what I hope to teach my grandson at …
/r/MGTOW202/05/21 11:16 PM
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It’s been written singles have fewer responsibilities and fewer distractions... truly a gift to aspire to...
/r/MGTOW02/05/21 08:39 PM
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I made the same dish prior to going to Russia for the first time. Made a point of trying the borsch there... Thought mine came out better... all good , good job !
/r/MGTOW202/05/21 07:40 PM
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I think far more important then MGTOW is to make sure you are Red Pilled’ enough to understand the real nature of women. How they seek ‘high value’ men in a similar way men seek youth and beauty. Having a child is important to men don’t give that dream up, just understand the nature of women and how they are mostly looking for the highest branch ...
/r/MGTOW229/03/21 02:54 PM
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Recently my ex made a comment that sums it up. We’ve been divorced for over 30 years and we very seldom cross paths. But we share a daughter and a couple grandkids... Out of the blue she told me I was the ‘nicest’ man she had ever known... I did not have a reply... 30 years ago she told be ‘she could walk into a night club and leave with any men there’ Hypergamy just doesn’t give a rats a__. Keep it simple... go your own way ...
/r/MGTOW228/03/21 12:54 AM
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Two random pics... It’s open for interpretation...
/r/MGTOW226/03/21 07:07 PM
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Marriage is just a social structure for having children. Creates a new entity... If you never want to have children one should never even remotely consider marriage...
/r/MGTOW225/03/21 03:52 PM
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Think first you need to decide if you want to be a participant in the game. A lot I see that’s MGTOW is not playing... that’s of course is an option. But at 19 that’s probably hard to do. Just understand women are ultimately attracted to ‘high value’ men. It’s a biological attraction... in the same way we are far more attracted by youth and beauty. Women seem to understand this innately. But really be aware of the dangers once they get their hooks into a man. They are still perfectly free to swi…
/r/MGTOW225/03/21 02:27 PM
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Maybe because most of us are raised by a mother we end up pretty ‘blue pilled’ to how women are. We are just not told shit. It’s in their DNA to be attracted to ‘high value’ men ... maybe in the same way men are attracted to youth and beauty... if you choose to play, definitely know the rules and how it works... don’t get blindsided 10 years later...
/r/MGTOW225/03/21 02:00 PM
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She remarried the guy she was sleeping with 30 after the D was final. He left his wife with twin one year olds..at the same time. Was nice seeing two equally‘spineless’ people find one another... I went on quicker then you’d think. Being a really involved Dad was my real Love. I redefined a helicopter Dad... that was BIG for me.
/r/MGTOW225/03/21 01:30 PM
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I really don’t know how people including my family think of the fact I’m so single. I have gone out with a lot of women, but I really seem insulted from getting attached. I probably fall into an aro category. I mostly avoid meeting women today. In my case I realize the dangers. I have to remind myself I will be 68 in June. It’s a strange place to be...
/r/MGTOW225/03/21 01:12 PM
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In my case, I went to work for a company that my father was a partner in. I started up a separate division in the company and it maybe surprise everyone, including myself. Today it’s 95% of the company. I was fortunate to have the opportunity, I understand that. But was blessed with good timing and it was really fun to see it grow from really a modest beginning...
/r/MGTOW225/03/21 01:04 PM
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If you live young and embrace change age is really a non issue. I love the age I am... It’s like the famous poem...’Do Not Go Gentle Into That Good Night’.
/r/MGTOW225/03/21 12:52 AM
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I became very adverse to committing again... I was 36/37 and felt like I just started dating... it was pretty interesting... I also had a 3 y/o close to full time, she pull me thru... My career also took off about the same time. I was lucky... and made sure my ex saw what she threw away ...
/r/MGTOW225/03/21 12:28 AM
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The adage that you don’t want to grow old alone is total BS... I think both men and women at a point enjoy the peace of living alone... I saw that in my mother after my Dad passed after 49 years together... I could tell she loved it...
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 11:24 PM
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You know I basically told my daughter the same when she was 15/16 years old... told her to rely on herself and reach the goals in life on her own... then look for your equal ... so I think it’s true for both women and men... Her Mom was an extreme example of monkey branching... I did not want a daughter like that
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 10:40 PM
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Most men are blue pilled into thinking one way. And we never understand the game between men and women, until it’s too late... Focus on yourself until you reach the height you want for yourself. Don’t expect a woman to help you... or tag along... they are generally not that patient or loyal...
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 09:18 PM
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I actually love living alone. It’s really underrated ... Being married and happy is an acquired skill just like staying single and living alone...
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 09:12 PM
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I believe the fundamental nature of both men and women is biological and in our DNA... Men have a biological need to spread their seed to as many young attractive females... while women are naturally selective for stable and strong males... this is what separates us from the apes ... I think modern society has made it so much worse. And a lot has to do with how a woman was raised... and how they think. There are woman that are not materialistic are honorable . I’m just not ready to throw all wom…
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 08:39 PM
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You can only do what you can do... nothing more... that was the advantage of having a child too young to have any memory of her parents together... that was even part of my ex’s rational... so she said... marriage was doomed long before... that’s why you can get treated like shit for years. You become accustomed to the shit... that’s why there’s so much peace afterwards... They are hoping you bale first. If that doesn’t work they start sleeping around hoping they get caught... that occurs both m…
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 08:13 PM
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You can only hope the girls come around. I have a friend of mine in FL that his daughter stopped speaking with him as a result of a divorce. Really for nothing except for what his ex filled her with... Our girls were the same age... I don’t believe she ever has... after maybe 20 years... I always tell him it’s a huge loss for his daughter. Maybe a bigger loss...
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 07:39 PM
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That’s a shame with your three kids. Similar speed bumps in my career and she was sleeping with one of her clients. She was a hairstylist, never made more then 10g, and basically told me I was a ‘great guy but she found someone better off financially... she admitted that to my face. We had a daughter that just turned 3 at that time, so it was a rough patch for me. I was totally blindsided... I moved out the next day to an apartment with my clothes... my ex remarried 30 days after the divorce was…
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 06:03 PM
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I didn’t mention, I raised a daughter from the time she was 3... She just turned 34 and has two kids... so yeah a daughter raised by a red pilled single Dad...
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 05:38 PM
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Good for You... I paid dearly to have my daughter from the time she was three. Dads can certainly be amazing parents... that’s your life now... it’s great..when it’s done right
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 04:54 PM
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Yeah, I see in my grandson how he acts around little girls. He gets totally distracted. That’s nature...I was the same at 15/16...and really screwed up... the next 20+ years...
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 04:51 PM
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Loyalty is not particularly valued by women. But you’re right, Most Men are taught to take a bullet for their country and their family. So we are caught entirely off guard when someone you’re’that’ committed to, tells you to your face, ‘I can do better then you’... that’s a lot to overcome... Become a ‘high value’ man for yourself... not for a woman. That’s real freedom’... and power...
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 04:43 PM
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Reminds me of my 2nd wife... a big mouth princess....
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 10:56 AM
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I got one 30 years ago... works quite well they say they are reversible but no guarantee... normally a very painless procedure... done in the Dr office with a local ...
/r/MGTOW222/03/21 10:57 PM
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I first heard of MGTOW 4 years ago but turned MGTOW 30 years ago...
/r/MGTOW208/03/21 01:59 AM
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Congrats... shit works, I got mine 30 years ago...
/r/MGTOW206/03/21 08:41 PM
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Dealt with the same for 16 years... I had my daughter 80% of the time as long as I paid my ex her 1200$ A month ... was worth it for my daughters sake but the system is really messed up ... been single for the 30 years since... was my ‘red pill’
/r/MGTOW211/02/21 02:32 AM
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