At a ripe old age

Professional_Gold_25 · 2021-03-24T13:53:38+00:00

I'm probably older than your average poster as well (48) and would like to impart some wisdom I've amassed over the years. While female nature appears highly complex, it's actually not and can often times be distilled into several relatively easy to grasp concepts.

I'd like to write my treatise on gender relations but it would consume far too much time here. I've started a blog/financial advice site for men (I'm a financial advisor among other things) and need to attend to that more often as a man and his money are soon parted when a woman is involved.

aftermathinmono · 2021-03-24T17:39:13+00:00

I'm 62 and pretty much the same thing only married for much longer. In 2004 I lost my 20+ year career and she was still making a ton of money but I was no longer ''good enough." I moved from Boston to rural South Dakota alone in 2008 to get away from everything and it worked for ten years then I was ready to rejoin the real world and moved to Southern California 3 years ago. In between she raped me thru divorce, turned my two daughters against me, and stole money from my retirement, which the IRS came after me on for the taxes, so I had to withdraw more to pay the taxes on the taxes. Luckily my son saw thru it all and barely speaks to her or his sisters because of what they did to me. Like the OP I had been with her since we were 15. A lifetime. Wasn't good enough in our 40's without the salary. So she continued to make life miserable and since I dared leave, despite her wanting me to, she stole from me. Never cheated on her. Not once. Never beat her. All about the money.

I have become hyper observant of women and have concluded they are all , regardless of age, culture, race, etc they are all dominating, manipulative gold diggers. They have to be comfortable at all times. They cannot exist without talking nonstop. I could go on and on. These past 15 years or so being alone have been mostly wonderful. I could never live with anyone ever again, especially a woman and her dominating ways. Every time I read/hear a guy say ''have to check with the wife" I cringe. I live how I want. I spend how I want. I do what I want. I'm fine jerking off when I need release. Peace and quiet is what I'm used to now. Or blasting MY music when I want. Watch what I want. The list is endless. I still revel in it all. I see couples at stores and the men just look beat up. You can hear the women just ragging on them relentlessly. I feel like pulling the guys aside and telling them to run. It's just a trap.

ArishOrhan · 2021-03-24T16:24:12+00:00

Coming from a 22 y/o this kind of posts are really inspiring and really fun to read from time to time. I appreciate your knowledge, dude. Your grandson is a lucky kid. I dream of being your age and having traveled and lived a life as interesting as yours. I'm putting all my efforts into it. Keep striving!

Failedalife · 2021-03-24T16:09:29+00:00

The real victim here is the kids, me and many others are just that, left behind, or be criminals

Ofc that's not your or likely any other mans fault

Loyalty is in our nature, just like MB as a female

Solo_and_Simple · 2021-03-24T22:59:10+00:00

Thanks for sharing your story, man. I'm approaching 60 myself, and I've been happily single for about 13 years now. Glad to hear you're enjoying the ride.

handsome_monkeyking · 2021-03-24T20:15:12+00:00

I don’t necessarily agree with all the MGTOW doctrine but I do believe men should make themselves very aware of what’s going on when it comes to women. They are not like us... I was unprepared myself and I’m a little disappointed my father didn’t pull me aside at young age and explained the game and suggested how I should play it

I would be interested in hearing how you differ from the MGTOW doctrine. And also what exactly you would have wanted that your father tells you when you were younger. Or what you would tell your grandchild for that matter.

Acceptable-Change204 · 2021-03-24T20:46:43+00:00

Thanks for your comments. It's always good to get input from older MGTOWs.

A point some young men post is: "I want to be MGTOW, but I don't want to be old and alone." How would you answer this?

I don’t necessarily agree with all the MGTOW doctrine

Can I ask: what part of MGTOW doctrine that is?

Thanks again for your comments.

Acceptable-Change204 · 2021-03-24T20:56:30+00:00

I’m 18 found MGTOW when I was 17. Similar to you I don’t necessarily follow every doctrine but I’m on a better path I’d say.

BlackmesaTBX · 2021-03-25T02:11:04+00:00

Thanks for sharing, brother. And for being a force for good with the young men around you. I too had to learn the hard way about “the game” we play and wished I had a man in my early life lucid and free enough to teach these lessons.

RottingVillain666 · 2021-03-24T17:28:41+00:00

Hey, how you have a grandson? Are you a great uncle? And of course they are made different. Sexual reproduction needs it.

StarbirdBothan · 2021-03-24T23:46:16+00:00

OP, if you don’t mind sharing, how do you feel about that relationship now? Did you find it hard to move on?

timascus · 2021-03-25T00:30:21+00:00

Do you ever worry about being old (let’s say 70+) and alone? Don’t you think you’ll get lonely after you quit working? I’m seriously wondering as I was duped as well and am not sure what to do with my life now.

slugsquad0007 · 2021-03-25T02:49:42+00:00

I’m 19. Teach me about the game please?

rackoon_3 · 2021-03-25T12:35:33+00:00

Thanks for your post. It is very insightful for younger guys. My question is about how you pulled off being successful financially and in your career despite everyone knowing you are single. How did you navigate society, bosses, the gov to avoid their hate and marginalisation of single men?

It would be interesting to know.

Germantaffer · 2021-03-25T15:38:07+00:00

First I wanna congrat you for being much smarter than me! And indeed I share with you some disappointment, that my father never told his side of the story. He plays the stoic, always helping soldier, who knows no pain. But I understand now much better what was happening, when he was young.

wokeprince2020 · 2021-03-28T20:07:53+00:00

Hey gramps, 26yo here, Indian, here the women don't cheat much. But I have this innate need to procreate and marry someone you know. Being completely honest with you, I've read all there is to mgtow and everything, but it's still sometimes hard to accept the truth you know? I know my country has the most populated tag on it, and it would probably go to ruin in a decade or so, with the current trend, but I feel lonely sometimes. My question is, does it get easier or less lonely after a while? Or do I start enjoying just quiet time with my thoughts and everything? Any help is appreciated. I am just afraid I will marry someone and be done with, like everyone here said.

Title	At a ripe old age
Author	Acceptable-Change204
Upvotes	140
Comments	66
Date	March 24, 2021 1:28 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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