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| 10 | Long distance breakup | AcceptableCourage370 | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/11/22 03:32 PM |
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| 2 | My boyfriend and I have not been intimate since 2022 and it’s my faultSounds like you’re withholding sex to gain emotional intimacy. Might work in the short term, make him chase but ultimately, it’s game tactics. He loves you and he’s seeking other solutions (masturbating and porn) but how long will this last? Imagine if it were the other way. You guys still had sex but he withheld emotional intimacy, you’d crave it more. You’d look elsewhere maybe, rom coms, hobbies, family and friends but eventually you might fall for someone else who gives you it. I think look … | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/23 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with jealousy - boyfriend looking at women he knows on IGHe’s a guy, he’s gonna look at other women. It’s totally normal. Me and my gal pals, many of whom are in relationships look at other hot men. It’s about intention. If he’s texting women with intent, then that’s a no. If he’s just casually scrolling/snooping then man, we all do that. You don’t know why he searched her; and maybe he’s now feeling embarrassed about it so deleted it. Just approach it logically and rationally | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/23 01:41 PM |
| 16 | Perfect girlfriend material?This guy is not over his ex. He still has feelings for her unfortunately and when that happens, he can’t see anything with you. It could be for a myriad of reasons but the end point is the same, he doesn’t think you’re right for him. In my opinion, he’s being very nice because he probably thinks you’re lovely and doesn’t want to hurt you. Guys think that by saying “you’re perfect gf material” then it’ll boost us up, but in fact, it makes us think if they say that; why aren’t we together? By agre… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/11/22 12:17 PM |
| 2 | To text him after a first date, or not?Depends on what you think would help. Personally, I think the more you do an activity the less power you give it. You need to not be afraid of rejection, see it as a blessing that this specific man has stopped blocking the space for someone who’ll treat you like a diamond. I was an ugly duckling so I experienced a hella lot of rejection when I was younger. Now as I’ve gotten older (and been told more attractive), if a man says he doesn’t feel a spark it literally does not bother me. My advice wo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/11/22 08:16 AM |
| 4 | To text him after a first date, or not?Men will text if they’re interested. He’s not interested in you, if you feel an off vibe, that’s because there is. Trust your woman’s intuition and move onto the next man. You’re acting from a place of scarcity right now and not from a place of plenty. Keep moving! | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/22 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Dear US ladies, how hard it is to come across high value man in US? Is chivalry also almost dead there?Dated a Dutch man for 9 months, it was a culture shock. I’m used to at least guys being chivalrous and trying to win over affection. This was not the case here. He explicitly stated that he didn’t want to fund someone else for no reason initially as it is very expensive for him. I was like.. ok but there’s a nicer way of saying it. He got really defensive about it. He had to pay for everything with his last girlfriend so coupled with his Dutchness this was too much. Anyways we agreed to go 50/50… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/22 06:40 PM |
| 4 | Thoughts on invasive cosmetic procedures?Had a nose job for my breathing mostly but I added a little tip lift for vanity sake and I have zero regrets. I’ve told every man I’ve been with about it and I’m not ashamed. My ex was even there through all the recovery and planning. Transparency is key. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/22 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Long distance breakupI said to my boyfriend at the very beginning, in the wise words of Samantha Jones…. “I love you, but I love me more”. And that’s honestly how it needs to be. If he’s not ready then it’s time to just pick yourself up, put yourself first. It’s been two weeks now and I’ve already been asked out on a date this weekend. I’m going to go because why not! I love my ex but I can’t wait forever. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/22 05:55 PM |
| 2 | how important is attraction?What’s your story? | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/22 02:20 PM |
| 2 | how important is attraction?Hey, This sounds similar to my story and I’ll give you some advice. To highlight: I’m 26F who dated a 26M, I consider myself attractive but he is a male model. I broke up with him 2 weeks ago as we weren’t on the same page and he said he couldn’t offer me the security I needed right now. I love him but it’s not the right time for us. Right now, it sounds like you’re operating from a place of fear. You’ve chosen to remove this guy who you thought was high value, but it sounds like he meant a lot … | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/22 07:12 AM |
| 2 | how important is attraction?Hey, This sounds similar to my story and I’ll give you some advice. To highlight: I’m 26F who dated a 26M, I consider myself attractive but he is a male model. I broke up with him 2 weeks ago as we weren’t on the same page and he said he couldn’t offer me the security I needed right now. I love him but it’s not the right time for us. Right now, it sounds like you’re operating from a place of fear. You’ve chosen to remove this guy who you thought was high value, but it sounds like he meant a lot … | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/22 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Long distance breakupHi guys, I really do miss him truly and I want him back in my life as my boyfriend. Do I break the no contact rule? I don’t want to play games and I need to be true to my feelings. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/11/22 06:02 PM |
| 6 | Long distance breakupI’ve followed this advice and I’ve told him that I need no contact for this reason. It’s exactly what I’ve been feeling so I’m glad that you’ve helped me to put it into words. Ive blocked him from social media too! Ive said I need time to heal from this and to think about what we lost. Let’s see what happens. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/11/22 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Long distance breakupYou’re absolutely right, I guess I didn’t consider that aspect of it. I’m 100% a loyal woman and so would hate to even do that to a partner. We made these plans in the heat of the breakup and it’s only now, 5/6 days later that I’m processing it and what it means. It’s an attempt to hold on without facing the reality of the situation. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/11/22 04:47 PM |
| 3 | Long distance breakupBy the way, thankyou for your response. I feel like the women on this subreddit feel how I do, so I truly appreciate your words. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/11/22 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Long distance breakupHe liked my picture on Instagram the other day and I did not retaliate one bit. I’m sticking firm to no contact but we did not put a time limit on it like you and your partner. What’s best to do now? Just wait until/if he makes contact via text and then give the ultimatum or should I send him this after letting myself diffuse from the situation? I am hurt but I’m also a very pragmatic person. I’ve also always been the one to end things. Something doesn’t feel right with this man though, I don’t … | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/11/22 04:43 PM |
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