Hi ladies,

I’ll keep it simple. I’ve been in a LDR (1 hour flight) with my ex for 9 months and I broke it off last Wednesday. Were both 26 currently.

We are both into the red pill community and have similar values - both like JP, Ben Shapiro etc. We were best friends. I broke it off as despite him saying he could see a future and wanting to end up with me, he did not want to commit to me moving to his country or vice versa.

I was unwilling to wait for someone who wasn’t certain about our relationship. We ended on fantastic terms, and I haven’t spoken to him since.

His reasons for being uncertain came out of him being a 4 year long relationship before we got together,he doesn’t have a house yet, isn’t in his career stride yet and feels that he isn’t the man I need right now. He said that he wanted to provide and care for me but I think he’s feeling inadequate.

He also wanted to experience being in his prime - he’s a very attractive male model just FYI.

Anyways, I feel that I’ve lost someone who could be the love of my life. I had to do it right now. We said it’s a case of right person, wrong time. We planned a date in 2 years time. We said if we’d moved with other people then it’s a good way to check in with an old friend.

We both want to rekindle but am I wrong for holding out hope? I can take blunt responses so please don’t hold back.