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Outer Game Acceptable_Act1435/r/seduction28/09/24 04:21 PM
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Fundamentals Acceptable_Act1435/r/seduction20/05/24 06:06 PM
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sigh What I mean is the following (and before you pin me down on details, this is just an example to explain my point, I'm not citing a study) Men think to be successful in bed: 1. Dick size (the bigger the better) 2. Looks 3. Fitness 4. Experience Etc. Women think for men to be successful in bed: 1. Being attentive to what women like (for example foreplay, tenderness, pace, etc.) 2. Turning her on with foreplay 3. Experience (how to eat her out, stimulating the right spots the right way, clitor…
/r/seduction02/01/25 02:03 PM
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Look up any AskReddit thread about the topic, plenty of factors are more important.
/r/seduction30/12/24 12:31 PM
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Men care much more about dick size than women. Might sound cliche, but it's way more important how you use it, which means, you can improve and learn to be good. Don't make excuses, you can learn what's necessary
/r/seduction29/12/24 10:20 PM
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Pictures play a very important role when meeting sexual partners, especially in contexts like FWB or hookups where the main focus is sex. While Reddit does support images, the platform isn’t primarily designed for self-presentation.
/r/seduction20/12/24 11:12 AM
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I used to believe I could avoid rejection and become someone who would never face it. But the truth is, no matter how perfect you try to be or how well you handle things, rejection is inevitable. It's simply a part of life.
/r/seduction05/12/24 07:14 PM
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A male friend recently shared that his girlfriend has a much higher sex drive than him. If it were up to her, they would have sex every day. He, on the other hand, feels pressured. I’m in an open relationship and once had sex with a friend, assuming it wouldn’t bother my girlfriend. It turned out it did, but we talked it through, and everything is fine now. She actually wants me to have that kind of freedom, but she’s not fully ready yet. However, my friend keeps bringing it up every time we see…
/r/seduction05/12/24 05:32 PM
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Tell her now. Yes, it might hurt her, but waiting will only lead to more drama as her expectations grow. The longer you wait, the more she'll expect commitment from you, and the more disappointed, heartbroken, and rejected she'll feel when she realizes you were never serious about a relationship with her.
/r/seduction30/11/24 06:38 AM
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You seem like someone who has already put a lot of effort into self-development and is committed to continuing that journey. You’ll get there! I used to be very shy and socially anxious, but I’ve come a long way. People are often surprised now when I tell them I used to struggle with social anxiety (though, like anyone, I still experience it occasionally). Feeling “not enough” can have many causes, but it’s often rooted in a lack of self-esteem developed during childhood. There’s likely a part o…
/r/seduction27/11/24 10:24 AM
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🤦‍♂️... Here's what's gonna happen. Girl one will arrive, girl two will arrive. Girl one will ask "who is she?" and girl two will be confused as well. You'll have to explain. Both will think you are an idiot and walk away pissed because... Well, if it comes to that, they would be riggt, and you wasted their time. It's not socially adecuate and every adult could tell you that
/r/seduction26/11/24 04:31 PM
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Actually, now I remember she did actually say virgo, not taurus! Because I text a lot, planned the date and sent her many links
/r/seduction25/11/24 07:56 AM
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During a date, she asked me about my astrological sign. Instead of answering directly, I told her to guess. She confidently said, 'Taurus, for sure.' I’m not a Taurus, but I played along, acting surprised and saying, 'No way! How did you know? You stalked me and found out my birthdate, didn’t you?' She seemed amused, and after a while, I admitted I was just messing with her. It was a hilarious moment, even though things didn’t work out in the end, but probably for other reasons.
/r/seduction24/11/24 08:17 AM
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If I agree there is no romantic chemistry and we got along anyway something like "yeah, I don't feel it either, but we could stay friends if you want :)". It has happened that they start getting interested in fwb after showing that I'm m ok with noth having sex and not pressuring them If I was attracted something like "too bad, I would have give it more time, but thanks for telling me. Wish you the best!" Even in this case I have written some after months, just as friends, to go do something tog…
/r/seduction21/11/24 06:02 AM
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Yep, happens I think because many women feel pressured on the first dates, don't feel like it yet and/or might have other options. That can change if enough time passes
/r/seduction21/11/24 05:57 AM
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Stop watching porn, work out and improve your photos to become a "6", "7" or "8", and focus on if you vibe together and if something about her is cute. I most of the time go with the smile
/r/seduction20/11/24 05:50 AM
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If you feel the need to explore this and it’s not interfering with what you truly want in life, then who’s to say what’s right or wrong for you besides yourself, as long as nobody is getting hurt. It could be just a phase, and once you grow tired of it or feel like you’ve proven to yourself what you’re capable of, you might choose to stop and focus on yourself or on building one emotionally deeper relationship (or two or three, if a polyamorous lifestyle suits you). However, if you want to stop …
/r/seduction18/11/24 11:20 AM
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It really depends on the person and their pictures. I’ve been on many first dates where I was surprised to find the person wasn’t as fit as they appeared in their photos, or I noticed things like their teeth (which weren’t visible in their pictures), their smile, how their face looked from the side, or even their voice. Some people look better in real life, while others come across better in their profiles.
/r/seduction16/11/24 09:53 AM
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Not a girl, but this has been asked before and I can confirm that being good at eating her out and doing that will make them very happy. So much, that they often return the favor. Not that you always have to it, but if you want to be good, this is a good card to play. The more you turn them up before, the better. Men can be a bit quick with forplay
/r/seduction15/11/24 03:36 PM
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Wait. Now you have upvotes and your comment before too... So it's a lie?
/r/seduction15/11/24 10:50 AM
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One of the first women I managed to have sex with after being single again, told me that it seemed like I "knew what I was doing". I took it as a compliment, because it was one of my first attempts at escalating, so I barely had any idea about what I was doing. Another time, more recently, I was telling a female friend about how I usually escalate and she just told "hey, you know your stuff, that's exactly how you should do it!" So yeah, it's no secret, dating, approaching, flirting, escalating,…
/r/seduction24/10/24 11:08 AM
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Imo less exhausting than approaching hundreds of women on the streets without knowing if they are in a relationship, if they are looking for something or if you like their personality. I recently joined a weekly climbing course without looking for anything special and naturally started chatting with two that seem interested. Most are women and almost all very fit. Also working out releases stress, there are warming up excercises done in couples, so you get in contact and feel comfortable getting…
/r/seduction21/10/24 06:44 PM
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Depends on how often you see them, but yeah for me, it's hard to build attraction/intimacy meeting so many so rarely
/r/seduction17/10/24 10:43 AM
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I have a hard time understanding the "women enjoy the attention even if you are friends", as if it was a female characteristic to manipulate men into not having sex and getting the only thing they want (attention), while for men it's the other way around, they only give attention if they get sex in return. Women also like sex and men also like attention and sometimes women don't want the attention and men don't want sex. I also enjoy the attention from friends, male or female and sometimes I fri…
/r/seduction10/10/24 07:47 AM
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I think most girls wouldn't come over to a strangers place or invite a stranger over. It's much more probable that you just go to a normal date, have a great time, escalate, kiss and usually by then, you will know if she's dtf, because hands and kisses will go places. Then you can tell her your place is just nearby and there you could show her or do xyz. Not all women will have sex and many wouldn't even kiss on the first date, but some will be happy to if they felt attracted to and comfortable …
/r/seduction10/10/24 05:45 AM
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Thanks! Good to know
/r/seduction29/09/24 10:37 AM
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I already have a routine with dating apps and am bored of it. I love going to clubs and dancing to the music and always saw being flirty around women as part of the fun experience, but I wasn't able to have that during my relationships. So I want to expand my comfort zone and learn something new, not only do what I already can
/r/seduction28/09/24 11:22 PM
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It's not about wanting more women, it's about wanting more skill and confidence around them and the way to get them is through experiences.
/r/seduction28/09/24 11:19 PM
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What about it?
/r/seduction28/09/24 07:20 PM
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On the one hand, I do notice that they look at me much more when walking on the street besides my gf, for example (my positive mood and smiling might also play a role). On the other hand, I notice they are disinterested because I'm partnered (even though I'm in an open relationship. I get much less matches since I put that info on the profile). So I think women want men that other women want, but that haven't made a commitment yet.
/r/seduction24/09/24 03:44 PM
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Seid ihr immer noch aktiv? Hab Interesse
/r/seduction24/09/24 08:57 AM
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If you want to go with baby steps to the club, either don't go alone or go alone and only make as much eye-contact as you feel comfortable at first. Going alone means finding or making a group (or more) most of the times anyways. Iguess it depends sonewhat on the club, but I really can't think of one single scenario in which sunglasses will help you. You might feel more comfortable at first, but at the expense of other people feeling uncomfortable and most will think you're weird, so they'll avo…
/r/seduction20/09/24 10:21 PM
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And I'm considered good looking and was not very successful with women before, because I never knew how to talk to them. I ended up settling for relationships with easy to get women. It's until recently that I became single again, I've been learning more about women and been able to have more success
/r/seduction19/08/24 06:24 PM
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I have 0 tattoos, but it has proven many times as a good conversation topic when others have it (asking for the meaning, were did you get it, what did it cost, next tattoos, stories, etc etc) and if escalated enough/correctly a good excuse to gently touch parts of the body
/r/seduction14/08/24 03:14 PM
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The venue has never been that important for me, but it works best, if at some point we sit so that we can make eye contact and at another point we can move around freely, so I can easily get close or make space. For example, going for a walk, then sit in a park, drink beer or coffee (depending on what type she is) or eat something, then continue walking. During, just the usual small talk, ask about her, share about yourself relating to that topic, make jokes, tease her and tell her you are not s…
/r/seduction12/08/24 07:28 AM
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-I've seen people recommend to ask out as soon as possible and from my own experience, at least showing you are respectful in the first 3 exchanges and not some asshole without social skills or empathy, makes a huge difference. A female friend was chatting with a guy she hadn't met and he almost send her a dick pic. Guess who didn't get the date. Writing with someone doesn't necessarily mean that you are getting invested, because you don't have to care. After some time you get used to "getting g…
/r/seduction12/08/24 07:09 AM
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I'm not as attractive, have had less matches, but more dates and got laid with 5 women in 5 months, all of them wanting to stick around. If OP gets matches, but his dates don't want to stick around, he has to work on something other than visual attractiveness. Also, some "findings" just aren't true. I've had many women take more then a day to respond, I give them all the space and time they need and many appreciate that. It shows that you are independent and secure enough to let her be and give …
/r/seduction11/08/24 09:13 PM
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Tell him you like him AND ask him out. It sometimes happens that a woman tells a guy that she likes him, which doesn't happen often, and guys don't know how to react, so they get awkward. Women then misinterpret this as a sign that they shouldn't tell that to guys, because they are not used to it. However, they are just a bit overwhelmed by the positive attention and don't know what to do (later he will regret he didn't say something). So, tell him you like him and also that you want to get to h…
/r/seduction10/08/24 02:46 PM
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And your advice was saving the kiss for when she's at your place...? Because? I'm just saying no one on reddit can tell you when the right moment for a kiss is (if the first, second, thurd or whatever date). It all depends on have far and at what pace you've escalated and how receptive she is. If she's really into you, then why wait? Unless you don't want to, for whatever reason The answer is escalation, etc. Flirt, touch hands, shoulders, back, lower back, knees, hair, face, get near, kiss othe…
/r/seduction30/07/24 10:34 PM
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The reasoning is his own and it's how he feels comfortable. I've kissed the first time on the first date, at my place, at her place, on the 2nd date, on the 3rd date, etc. there is no right answer. Escalate as you and she feels comfortable and kiss her when you want to and she wants to.
/r/seduction30/07/24 12:57 PM
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My father has cancer and everytime I tell it to someone, who doesn't know, my voice cracks and sometimes I cry, sometimes more, sometimes less. Heck, I even cried in front of my boss, which was pretty embarrassing, but he was very understanding. I've NEVER felt judged by a woman and it was never a reason for rejection, even for women I just met. Ok yes, generally, avoid crying in front of people you don't know well, because it's a sign of vulnerability, can be interpreted as a weakness and peopl…
/r/seduction23/07/24 06:09 PM
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Everyone*
/r/seduction22/07/24 12:13 AM
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Yeah, it can work, but I can tell you right away, people in Austria in my experience are very skeptical of strangers generally. First thought that comes to mind when a stranger talks to you is "who is this guy, what does he want and how can I get rid of him?". Just as an example, there was this guy in the news that was traveling through Europe by staying only over tinder dates. Austria is the only place he didn't find someone. Not that tinder doesn't work here, but it's harder to be invited to s…
/r/seduction22/07/24 12:10 AM
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On the cotrary, they can be sexually very liberal, but where I live, people meet in bars, clubs, at work, in school, but almost never on the streets. Good luck looking and smiley and expecting just anyone to talk to you. It might happen, but mostly because you have people with very different cultural backgrounds. I might add, it really depends where in Europe, meeting on the streets could definitely happen in Italy for example
/r/seduction21/07/24 10:47 PM
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This wouldn't work everywhere or with anyone in Europe, but I think US-americans tend to speak more openly to strangers
/r/seduction21/07/24 12:14 PM
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Every time a women starts playing hard to get with me, I immediately lose interest and stop wanting her. The same way women look for confidence in a man, I want a woman who goes for what she wants and doesn't wait for someone to fight for her.
/r/seduction16/07/24 07:57 PM
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Although true, I have found that going through a ho-phase is important just so you know what's out there. Once you settle down, you know what you are giving up and if it's worth it. I was for example in a very long relationship and didn't know of was just thinking the grass is greener on the other side or if I was really missing out. Breaking out was the right decision after all.
/r/seduction06/06/24 09:21 PM
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I haven't regretted going for the first one, but I regret being to pushy afterwards. I expected she wanted more and overdid it a bit, which led to her not wanting to see me, which honestly was for the best, I don't think we were that compatible tbh
/r/seduction03/06/24 01:36 PM
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As someone many times described as good looking I can confirm, good looks are secondary to women
/r/seduction01/06/24 10:19 PM
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And I wish I could have some hook ups... Before last year I was in two relationships (11 years total). The problem was that even when I was kind of happy in the relationship, I wasn't sure if she was the one, because I hadn't met so many women. Now I'm in love again, but in an open relationship. Women I meet tend to either not want to be around after the first or second date or want to meet me at least once a week and I have no time for that.
/r/seduction24/05/24 04:04 PM
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It's funny, because I have kind of the opposite problem. I'm super picky but would like to have experience with women I'm not that into, too. However, they seem to notice my lack of interest and tell me after the first or second date that there is no chemistry or that we seem to be looking for something else. The very few cases when I'm indeed very attracted, I take initiative and they reciprocate. It seems to be a matter of balance
/r/seduction23/05/24 12:28 PM
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I'm clueless and still getting as much action as I want. Makes sense. Have a good one
/r/seduction21/05/24 04:08 PM
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What the hell are you even talking about? What excuses? What nonsense? Be like what other guys? You have no idea about what's going on in my life and what I've been doing. I'm actually very content with my life right now and I've learned a lot from this sub, from some books and youtube videos and also from experiences I've been collecting since I became single. I've progressed the last 5 months more than I ever imagined I could. As I said, I'm not missing any action at all and could get laid as …
/r/seduction21/05/24 03:59 PM
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If I have a question or want to reflect on something, it means I'm not going out or interacting enough? What makes you think that? Since I broke up a few months ago I've been dating so much that I barely had time for friends. I have made some fwb and have an open relationship and am still meeting other women. If anything, I'm overdoing it a bit right now. I want more experiences and that's what I'm going for, but I like to think about what I'm doing right or wrong and to find out about other peo…
/r/seduction21/05/24 12:11 PM
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30m 8 For 11 years I was in two very long relationships, so this year I want to gain for experience with different women Also, this would have been interesting as a poll
/r/seduction22/04/24 03:11 PM
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I'm not sure if I'm in the majority, but I don't just want to get laid with just any bimbo. I enjoy conversations before and after sex with intelligent women and it makes the sex more enjoyable for me. I also feel like I'm enriching my own and someone elses life in the process. Having sex with dumb and drunk women doesn't sound much like an achievement to me
/r/seduction22/04/24 01:55 PM
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How? Just become* a 9/10 male with good* looks and charisma. Its not* that easy.
/r/seduction16/04/24 02:01 PM
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I remember this guy at a club/party that was hitting at girls standing in line to use the bathroom. They didn't like it.
/r/seduction14/04/24 09:57 AM
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So she says she misses you and don't wants to go with you on a date...? Bro, she's playing with you. She probably kind of misses the good times sometimes when she is bored, but deep down, she doesn't want to be with you, she just wants to feel to you still love her, because it feels good to feel loved and that someone is obsessing over you. Tell her "you know what, you are right, it's not a good idea" and move on. Either she will get more interested (unless you start showing interest again) or m…
/r/seduction03/04/24 07:52 PM
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Men care much more about penis size then women. For women it's best if it's thick, but not too thick, long but not too long, but if they are in bed with you, they'll just go with it.
/r/seduction20/03/24 09:08 AM
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If she is strictly looking for something long-term, she will bring it up soon enough. Answer as honestly as you are willing to and you'll see if she is still interested
/r/seduction04/03/24 05:16 PM
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Yeah, thats true
/r/seduction21/02/24 02:06 PM
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By that logic, you can't ask directions either, because everyone can use google maps. A friend wanted to stop using her phone so much and started asking people for directions. Most took out their phone to search them on maps lol
/r/seduction21/02/24 11:33 AM
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In my experience, when I am unsure about if I feel attracted to a woman, I clearly feel more attracted to her when she shows she is really attracted to me. And I've come to realize that showing that I am attracted can also make her more interested in me. So I do think compliments can create attraction when the potential is there.
/r/seduction14/02/24 01:51 PM
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You meet another one
/r/seduction14/02/24 05:56 AM
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For some it isn't, for some it is. That's what makes a trustful and supportive relationship
/r/seduction11/02/24 02:47 PM
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Yeah, we end up talking about the same stuff we were texting about anyways. I write just enough to see if they are not crazy and to be sure the first date will not be boring, but after that's clear, I ask them, when they have time and propose going for a drink and/or walk
/r/seduction11/02/24 07:46 AM
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I have been super vulnerable with all my sexual partners and all of them liked it, some even found it sexy, because I am man enough and secure of myself to share a weakness with her. And it makes everything so much better... When we put our ego aside, there is more place for intimacy.
/r/seduction11/02/24 07:13 AM
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Doesn't have to be a date. Could be after clubbing or meeting in a bar
/r/seduction08/02/24 12:10 AM
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The advantages I see with OLD is that it is more obvious from the start that you are looking for more than just be friends, you can expect her to not have a boyfriend (if she has and is not telling you, that's her business. Irl she might tell you after you apprached her and wasted your time, because she likes the approval), you get a lot of info quickly before hitting on her, so you have time to decide if you are interested, you don't have to approach (which can be scary), you get to meet tons o…
/r/seduction07/02/24 10:21 PM
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Tons of girls prefer it at their place, because they feel safer there and will invite you if they are dtf
/r/seduction07/02/24 09:07 PM
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If she comes to your place, you save commuting time. There was a time I traveled an hour to a friend with benefits, stayed two hours and went back home another hour. Right now I have another one that lives with her mother because of reasons and comes whenever I invite her.
/r/seduction07/02/24 09:04 PM
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