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I've been in the game for more than 10 years and all the posts I attempted to write were auto-banned so I just gave up.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/23 12:09 AM
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Learn about no contact. You need to go through the pain now, as it will free you down the road. When you're over-committed, it's coming from a place of doubt within yourself. You confront those doubts by going no contact. It sucks. It's agonizing. But it is the single most powerful way to retake the power, even if you don't get back with her. If a chick dumps you, and you say nothing and disappear off the planet from them, it fucks with their head 99.99% of the time to the point where they event…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/22 05:35 PM
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Stop fucking with married women. You never know if that dude has the balls to kill his wife and you if he catches you guys together. Plenty of fish in the sea, married women are loaded with baggage and your goal should be to find women with as little baggage as possible. If you're having problems with frame, you're over-committed. Frame comes from not caring. If she is running through your frame, create more distance and pull yourself out of the doubts and shit. Stop caring.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/22 02:59 PM
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Lol, nice job. This is hilarious, and honestly does represent a lot of the dorks on here. Thanks for the bantz, it's needed here.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/22 04:30 PM
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This should be changed to "You're either a pimp or a trick." Hoes go home to their pimps and do housewife shit. Be a pimp, don't be a trick.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/22 07:04 PM
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Learn how to fight. Becoming dangerous will change how you walk and talk. If you don't lift, do. Get strong, learn how to fight. Literally the biggest change in how people treat you are the cues you pick up from those developing those two traits. Being strong, being dangerous.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/22 07:19 PM
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If a woman leaves, you go no contact, which is not the same thing as letting her walk out with indifference. Nobody who is in love with a woman or who has been with a woman for many years and wants to continue the relationship can just switch those feelings off. Nor should you. You're the man, you lead. Point blank, period. If she leaves, you don't pursue because she has stepped outside the boundaries of what's acceptable. But you can't and you won't just not care. It shouldn't even get to that …
/r/TheRedPill10/03/22 12:17 AM
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Being indifferent is the same as letting her walk all over you. There is a time and place to be indifferent, when she is destroying your manhood and cucking you isn't that time. Understand, women want to be put in their place. Period. Your mission and purpose have nothing to do with those moments where a woman is at risk of destroying your relationship and your manhood, you handle that shit. In your kingdom, you don't sit idly by while somebody takes your crown, you take two swords to that mothe…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/22 01:53 AM
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That is classic new RP thinking. You should always be gauging your woman's interest in you. You always control how the relationship is going, you always dictate the frame in which she enters your world. Crying about your feelings to your woman is not the right thing to do, and it will bite you in the ass 100% of the time.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/22 06:02 PM
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You know you're RP when you don't feel sorry for him and it's not sad. He had it coming. Women do not like men who cater to them and sacrifice their manhood on the altar of pussy. To women, those men are food, a plant, something to use and abuse until something better comes along. It's not personal. It's just nature at work. Those types of men got women killed in the past, and women developed an ability to use them to their advantage to keep them and their offspring alive. Alpha fucks, beta buck…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/22 11:07 PM
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You can do all the cool shit in the world, but if you don't work on loving yourself, you're gonna have a rough go of it. Stop comparing yourself to losers and start comparing yourself to people who have tremendous success in life, and aspire to do what they do. And toughen up. Life sucks for pretty much everybody, you're not special because you don't have a girlfriend or because some people don't like you. Nobody is gonna feel sorry for you, and that "woe is me" bullshit is going to close a lot …
/r/TheRedPill27/02/22 12:05 AM
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Lol I've been to Croatia. Yes it is. They just don't hook up w you. Sorry to burst your bubble.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/22 02:28 PM
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Never let yourself be seen as a pussy in the eyes of any woman you are fucking. Ever.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/22 10:55 PM
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Don't marry sluts. Wisdom as old as time itself.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/22 04:15 AM
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Nope, but you can out-alpha your fears of not being good enough and never finding a woman who has your best interest at heart. Assuming all women are looking for a divorce or any reason to dump you is ignoring the reality that 50% of marriage also don't end in divorce. And a lot of those dudes aren't even this subreddit's version of alpha. The cops, the law, the judge don't play a part in it if you keep your bitch in check and stay aggressive in life. Just my experience.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/22 03:08 AM
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Arguably, the ideal man is one who supplement both sides of that duality. I disagree with the top 5%, just from my experience. I'm not top 5% but I am treated very differently by women in my life, whether at the store, at work, at home, wherever. I've found that at a certain point beyond where most men are at, most men on here even as most men here are still on the climb, that when women are in the presence of a dude who is simply above MOST other men, that is enough. Women rarely even come into…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/22 03:04 AM
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No it isn't. You don't have to be perfect to be what women pursue and want to keep. You just have to be better than most men. And most men are losers and weak and soft and will never have the self awareness to become high value. That's the crazy part. Once you get comfortable with competition, it becomes easy to destroy most other men because of the awareness of the power structure that you have and they don't.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/22 10:44 PM
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Correct. When you're high status, women treat you differently. They are satisfied with what they have as long as you remain what you are to them. They don't want other men because other men are low status in comparison to you. We were at the zoo the other day and this woman walked past us and eye fucked the shit out of me and then looked at my wife straight in the eyes and smiled like "Damn, if I could that, I'd have some fun." My wife knew what was up, she knows what she has, and we joked about…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/22 12:58 AM
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The latter. One can't come up with his own hypothesis without doing things. I'm not most dudes on here who regurgitate the same information everybody else does. There are variations to all of this, especially if you are in an LTR or married. I've been doing the RP thing for more than 10 years and I've helped many men close to me sort their relationships out. You only LTR high quality, self aware women who work hard to get you. Those women do not destroy their relationships on a whim and they are…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/22 10:14 PM
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Control is just an illusion, but a woman who has to work for a very, very long time for you won't give you up that easily. 50% of marriages end in divorce, but 50% also don't, meaning those women stay with their men. Not all of those marriages are alphas, and not all alphas stay married. But if you are a woman's alpha and remain that, she will not leave. There is a difference between an alpha, and HER alpha. Her alpha is the dude she simply can't stay away from, the woman who perhaps had ideas o…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/22 01:55 AM
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I think our relationships are just different. Not my first rodeo. But I do wish you the best and I'm developing a strategy to help guys deal with the MOAB and awful divorces. Maybe I can get your insight in the future. :)
/r/TheRedPill02/02/22 01:48 AM
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Going through your history, I can see the experience of divorce hurt you badly. I'm sorry to hear that man, I really am. Knowing the context of your comments, I'll just say I hope you can find what I have some day. You deserve it. :)
/r/TheRedPill31/01/22 12:28 AM
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Lol, okay. I wish you luck in your journey my friend. :)
/r/TheRedPill29/01/22 09:58 PM
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You don't try and make them happy. A woman can be shitty one day for no reason, and it's your job to be unphased by all of her mood swings. Women won't leave dudes who put them in their place, and that's what makes them happy. Yes, be sweet. Yes, be loving. Yes, joke around with her and be nice. But in those moments where she is acting out, you put her in her place without remorse and without anger. It's business. A relationship run by a woman is headed for a cliff. So when she tries to take the…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/22 09:57 PM
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Cristian can be all those things and still not be an alpha. Different mentality, different energy. I know dudes from Detroit who live in slums who crush college pussy every weekend because of the energy that exude. I know rich, good looking dudes whose wives cuck them and humiliate them. Different mentality, different energy. Becoming an alpha is not easy, and requires years of mental work if you came into this game BP. There are things you have to do with women that your mind screams is the wro…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/22 09:53 PM
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Dudes on here won't admit it, but EVERY MAN GETS COMPLACENT. It's okay. It happens. Just be able to spot it and fix it, and keep moving forward with your progress.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/22 09:42 PM
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Thank you my friend. Happy to share!
/r/TheRedPill29/01/22 09:40 PM
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As a man, you have to be stronger than the world. That is your purpose, finding how far you'll go to become that.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/22 09:40 PM
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Just because you failed doesn't mean other men will. I get it probably gave your ego a bruising, and if that's the case I empathize with you. Her family doesn't like me and constantly tells her to leave me. She was with them for two months and they took care of everything for her. She still came crawling back to me, and made a video begging on her hands and knees to let her come home. There's levels to this game. Stop letting your failures dictate what you know about game or women.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/22 09:38 PM
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Interesting take. Alpha male shit does work in LTRs and marriages, but you're right about the "providing" aspect in terms of expanding a relationship beyond plating. I'd say it's a balance. Women need strong, dominant energy, even years into the relationship. And to still be chasing. But they also need companionship and to feel your love too. Especially as her alpha, your approval is very important to keeping her in a good state of mind.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/22 10:32 PM
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Yeah, maybe YOU don't, but one day you will. Don't give and just keep at it. The anger phase is a motherfucker my friend. I wish you the best with it.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/22 10:28 PM
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Punishment is all about training. So make such an impact emotionally that the next time she wants to complain about some dumb shit or start a fight over something that doesn't need to be argued about, you take it so far, and make your response so excessive that she will think twice about how she responds when a similar situation pops up. So if she starts a fight with you because of the garbage, or she is mad that you didn't wash your dish after dinner, make your response so excessive, she would …
/r/TheRedPill28/01/22 08:14 PM
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Thanks for the feedback man. I figured it was my time to give back and help. I see so many guys in pain and I just want to show them that there is a light at the end of the tunnel, you just have to fight through the pain to get there. Thank you for what you do. :)
/r/TheRedPill28/01/22 08:04 PM
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No offense brother but if you're making this post and having a hard time with it, you're still that dude in a sense. That's something you have to realize, so you can destroy your ego to become your best self. Your best self would put them in their place right off the bat. Don't ever, EVER let a woman disrespect your manhood or clip your nuts. Ever. Don't whine about it either, just shut it down, even if it's uncomfortable for everybody else. Alphas dictate the mood of the room, nobody else.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/22 08:58 PM
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There are two ways you can handle this: Escalation of the insult to show it doesn't phase you, or drawing a hard boundary if it seems like it's a woman attacking your nuts. One of the foundations of a woman's attraction is a man's competence and ability to maintain boundaries. Women like men that can put them in their place when they're acting out. Stop them in their tracks if you don't like it. Don't go overboard but just casually say something like "Shut the fuck up, Jessica, nobody thinks you…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/22 04:18 PM
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I think a lot of social anxiety comes from the lizard brain where you're in a loud, highly energetic environment and the inherent feeling of embarrassment if you strike out is higher than usual. I found getting into jiu-jistu and boxing, along with weight training and getting bigger allowed me to be way less anxious going out. When you're not as worried about getting your ass whooped in front of hundreds of people at a bar, your ability to relax increases. This leads to finding that "zone" much …
/r/TheRedPill26/01/22 07:05 PM
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That's my experience too. But to be that man, a lot of damage has to be undone for a lot of us. The first time you experience the WAY a woman reacts when you tie them up or spit on them or choke them is insane. A site to behold. Those are the moments when your perceptions of women change, because YOU are experiencing the other side of the fence. Awesome contribution my friend. :)
/r/TheRedPill25/01/22 02:43 AM
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Hey man. I'm really sorry that that happened to you and I bet that experience was traumatizing. I completely empathize with your experience and if that had happened to me, I'd probably feel the exact same way you do. I hope RP helps you and I hope you can find some solace from the pain you feel. You story and what happened would probably mean a lot to a lot of men on here, and I hope you can share it with us if you haven't made an article about it already. Much love, and I am rooting for you.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/22 02:40 AM
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Yup. Keep in mind he is not the norm though. Most tiny dudes let that shit define them and when women fuck with them about their height, they get self conscious. He is the exception, and it's because he is such a hard dude. So your point is correct, it's just with operators they are more likely to break the conventional rules of attraction as a result of what they are. Dangerous men don't have the same effect on women as most regular dudes. And that is why I think it's an important distinction t…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/22 12:44 AM
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Dude, please stop. You're so alpha, talking about my dick like that. I am getting brutalized. You've exposed me for the small dick chump that I am. Please, while you're taking a break from playing Age of Empires and smoking weed and calling people "shills" on Reddit, save some pussy for the rest of us.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/22 06:24 PM
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Also, you want to control the conversation by asking the questions. Keep your responses short and clever. This creates an environment where she has to earn your more thoughtful responses and will appreciate them more. You should let her do the majority of the talking. Just ask questions and see where the answers lead, and follow that road naturally. Remember, approach is a numbers game. You aren't trying to make her like, you're talking to her to see if there is a possibility that she COULD like…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/22 06:17 PM
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Good one my man! Absolutely slaying it on Reddit! You seem to play a lot of games and do a lot of drugs according to your post history. I'll have to make sure to stay out of your way you Chad. Thanks for gatekeeping what being an alpha is, I was so dumb to make this post. <3
/r/TheRedPill24/01/22 06:12 PM
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*Finishes typing on keyboard* "Yeah, showed that fuckin' pussy." Lol just playing. Sorry you feel that way man! Hopefully the message helps you despite how you feel about America. :)
/r/TheRedPill24/01/22 04:09 PM
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Operators are not all giant bearded vikings. Many, many of them are normal looking dudes who if you saw them outside of work you would NEVER be able to tell. Some are bald and ugly. Some are on the chubbier side(but can still run 20 miles in kit at a 6 min/mile pace) They still slay with women who are supposedly WAY out of their league(leagues don't exist). The small ones are the most dangerous because they had to do all the same shit the big dudes had to do in selection. Those dudes are fucking…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/22 04:00 PM
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Thank you my friend. Any other advice or insight that you would like, feel free to reach out to me.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/22 03:48 PM
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Just hit the gym my brother. Keep at it, keep lifting to get stronger first and then focus on aesthetics. Being strong is a game changer with how you walk and talk in life. Hope this helps. :)
/r/TheRedPill24/01/22 03:47 PM
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Yup, me and him still talk to this day. I asked him about it and he was just like "I was bored and wanted to see if I could do it." He says he's always had that switch, even as a little kid. So for some, it's natural, others have to learn how to develop the mindset to overcome limiting beliefs. Domination amongst men is a huge factor.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/22 03:46 PM
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That's the other side of washing out. No amount of pain in training is worth the hell of being undes.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/22 07:28 PM
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Dudes in the military are for the most part, NOT alpha. So the stories you hear are about the fat, dumpy dudes in the military. Operators get cheated on but it is EXTREMELY rare. Don't let anybody tell you otherwise. Women want to be with operators. Women love the idea of being married to an operator. The movies paint a very different picture than what the reality of this lifestyle is. :)
/r/TheRedPill23/01/22 07:24 PM
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You can learn to fight without turning into a glue eater lol.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/22 07:22 PM
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Lifting. If you get strong enough, you can control just about anybody with little to no fighting experience.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/22 07:21 PM
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Not all military dudes are alpha lol. There are MANY fat, beta slobs in all branches. The operators I know and spent time with have happy families. The ones who are single run the gauntlet. Even the ugly ones.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/22 07:20 PM
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It's not as bad as you think. All about perspective, as is every challenge you face in life. :)
/r/TheRedPill23/01/22 07:19 PM
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Hey man, you go ahead and believe what you believe. I'm not going to start using the lingo on here to prove I am who I am lol. It wouldn't be conducive with the message I'm trying to convey which is to help guys on here first and foremost. Using jargon like the Teams and Team Guys doesn't mean anything to anybody who doesn't work in the Teams. SOF is something many people on the outside recognize. I'm also not Army. In my branch we're simply called enablers. Sounds like your experience and mine …
/r/TheRedPill23/01/22 07:17 PM
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Yes, the military and SOF specifically are not for the faint of heart. But it's a lot of fun if you can handle it. Most guys in SOF don't have that problem. Hollywood likes to paint us that way but everybody in this line of work knows what they're getting into and has no qualms about the consequences of what happens when shit goes sideways. Men are equipped to handle that naturally, so the hard living you're talking about is present, but not as common as you'd think. Many have wives and kids and…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/22 03:02 PM
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Most of the guys doing this don't have problems with war. They sleep fine at night when they come home. Again, being a dangerous man can't be faked and people in life CAN tell the difference. Thanks for your response! :)
/r/TheRedPill23/01/22 02:58 PM
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Thanks for the response! If you have any better feedback for me, I'm all ears. Have a good one. :)
/r/TheRedPill23/01/22 02:55 PM
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lol, most dudes in the community are doing it because it's fun and they like killing people. don't overthink it my guy.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/22 02:54 PM
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Interesting response. Don't think it came off as propaganda but I'll be sure to keep that in mind if I write another post about being in the military. Thanks for your insight!
/r/TheRedPill23/01/22 02:52 PM
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Interesting that you think I'm being defensive. Guess we'll just have to disagree on things. Have a good one man. :)
/r/TheRedPill22/01/22 09:39 PM
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You're like the 3rd guy to accuse me of being tiny on here. Fascinating that that is one of the projecting responses to a disagreement on here. A future article will explain why you saying that makes you immediately sound as if you're projecting, even if you aren't. It's just small dick energy my guy. One day I will post my picture on here for you guys lol. I work in SOF by the way.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/22 01:33 AM
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Women are attracted to men whose thoughts and feelings are unclear. The process of seduction is like a drug for them. The "what will happen next?" If you give it all away, you're deflating that balloon of emotion that fills up when you keep your space until SHE starts giving you more and more of her time and attention. She must be working towards you two ending up together more and more. Keep it to a minimum until you see she is starting to develop feelings for you, and then slowly give her more…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/22 10:41 PM
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Women on first dates don't "revere" men. Even women with very high levels of interest. You're still an unknown until you aren't. With women, and people in general, making the effort to find moments to say something significant or impactful is a lot less effective than learning how to take a genuine interest in people and talk about the things they're interested in. Just what I've seen works. Thanks for the insight!
/r/TheRedPill19/01/22 10:39 PM
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You're welcome. Hope it helps. :)
/r/TheRedPill19/01/22 10:35 PM
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Thanks for the feedback, man. :)
/r/TheRedPill19/01/22 10:35 PM
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You're overthinking it because you're scared it isn't going to work out. Any time you get a girl's number, wait 4-5 days before calling or texting. Don't worry if she doesn't remember you, act like that's not even in the realm of possibility when you get ahold of her. "Hey girl, had a great time the other night. I'd love to take you out sometime this week, let me know what your schedule is." Leave it at that. Don't follow up, don't freak out if she doesn't text back. If she doesn't text back, yo…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/22 10:35 PM
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Thanks for your response! This post is geared towards guys who are newer to game and haven't internalized the concept of being high value and don't know how to project it. You can be high value and portray yourself as low value if you don't know you're high value. Just look at Will Smith getting cucked as an example. Being quiet and listening allows you to remain a mystery and maintain the essence of high value. A high value guy doesn't need to qualify himself, and listening while not talking to…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/22 03:57 AM
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Thank you my friend. Great points as well! I should probably elaborate a bit further with the art of conversation and the balance of using the phone. Two articles I can start working on for the future. Thanks for taking the time to read. :)
/r/TheRedPill19/01/22 01:04 AM
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This is a form of natural selection. Women who can't maintain a relationship with a viable man who provides for and takes care of her is not fit for this world. All this is doing is weeding out those who can and can't differentiate between what is and isn't destructive for them as a species. Weak men get killed by strong men. A nation of weak men will eventually be killed by a nation of strong men. Women are just reacting to that reality with the West, but they're going head first into the mouth…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/22 05:32 PM
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Women will do what you is tolerable to you. It's easy to sit down and make a video, it's a lot harder to disappear with no word and hold her accountable.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/22 05:24 PM
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That's part of the journey too, my man. Kill your idols. The only validation you need is your own. Lots of dudes like him have come and gone. Lots of dudes like him read the info but never go much further than that, save for regurgitating it to guys newer than him. You know you've found the other side when you can laugh at shit like this because it's just one dude's journey to climb out of the crab bucket, and a bunch of crabs pulling him back in. It will happen to all of us in our own way until…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/22 02:29 AM
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For when she comes back, until you're a genuine alpha who lives the life naturally, practiced indifference is the key. Fuck her, send her on her way. 5 days later coordinate sex with her, fuck her, send her on her way. Keep talking to women, keep finding friends with value, and let her become one day of your week.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/22 02:22 AM
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It's like the first time you jump out of a plane in Airborne school. You think the other side is going to be pain and death. But once you jump, it becomes the ride of your life, and then you land and you're in one piece if you followed the steps correctly. The same applies to getting out of a bad relationship and moving on. It's scary as fuck, but you're not a pussy, you're a man and so you'll make it out in one piece.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/22 02:19 AM
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Here's the truth of it. If any woman wants to destroy you in this age, she can. Your best bet to protect yourself from this is to learn how to filter out bad women from quality women. Only focus your time and energy on good women. Here is another truth. A woman will protect THE FUCK out of her alpha. If you are an alpha, and I mean a no-shit taking, confident, big, aggressive dude, women will find and take care of you. They would never throw you to the wolves, even if you dumped them. Women lite…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/22 02:17 AM
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Happy I can help. If you have any further questions or need somebody to talk to, feel free to reach out to me. Battle Buddy and all that.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/22 02:12 AM
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Want some truth? You can't remain indifferent forever. Eventually if you want something more, you'll have to come face to face with love. Despite the ongoing premise that AWALT, and it is true in a sense, there are different levels of quality when it comes to women. Some women will cheat on you at the drop of a hat because she is so ruined by her life experience's that she can't find it in her to do anything other than use men. Other women will be patient and insightful and have better control o…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/22 02:09 AM
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There have always been grifters peddling the same knowledge but not practicing it. There are a lot of men who are still living in a fantasy world on here who think acting like psychopaths is sustainable. If you stick around long enough, you find the balance for yourself and guys like Murphy remind you that this game is a bitch to play for a long period of time.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/22 12:24 AM
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Thank you for the feedback my friend!
/r/TheRedPill13/01/22 12:21 AM
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It all depends on how you feel about it. You have to remember, once you master these concepts, which takes roughly 7-8 years to really get the hang of in my opinion, you can simply choose to find other women. But if the sex is great and fun, and with that comes the nonsense and her being a hassle to be around sometimes, you're better off just cutting off the rot and starting fresh. With LTRs and marriage, it's trickier because you can have years under your belt and a lot of emotional history wit…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/22 12:17 AM
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When going through the hard parts of No Contact, go onto Youtube and listen to videos explaining the process and what the other person is thinking. It helps solidify WHY No Contact works when everything in you is screaming to try and fix things. Taking walks in those moments of struggle really helped me a lot, just getting out and moving and away from my phone.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/22 12:11 AM
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When a breakup happens, you must remember if you decide to take her back, it won't be the same. It might heal to a manageable place over time but breakups permanently damage what was once there. The best thing you can do is let her go and find somebody who won't do that to you. Although most women will try to nuke the relationship at some point down the road, so it's a balance.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/22 01:45 PM
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It depends. For me, "wyd" is how somebody who knows they fucked up tries to act like the stuff they fucked up didn't happen. "wyd" is three letters. "hey" is three letters. No effort is put into that response. So if they're putting in the minimal response, the minimal effort, that isn't good enough. So leave it alone. This can actually make the no contact even stronger as they realize with more conviction, "oh shit, he is gone and wants nothing to do with me and doesn't care. am I not even worth…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/22 01:39 PM
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Even if you are the prize, you can still come face to face with being dumped because women today have a false sense of their own value. If you are in a LTR, or a marriage, there will come a time where you will be tested HARD. Knowing how to respond will make or break that relationship. It's great in theory to keep saying these things, but EVERY MAN NO MATTER HOW FUCKING GOOD THEY ARE, WILL GET COMPLACENT. Great response and thanks for taking the time to share your knowledge!
/r/TheRedPill12/01/22 02:04 AM
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You're doing it again. Interesting. I guess you and I will just disagree on these points. Have a good one.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/22 11:26 PM
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Excellent points. I treat feminism as a part of nature. Women who deny their biological programming or delay it to the point that they have to settle when it comes to reproducing are just slowly eliminating themselves from the gene pool. Feminists who have boys are at the end of the road, because those boys will be so blue pilled and women worshipping, they'll never procreate and thus, eliminate the feminist's bloodline from human history. I have high hopes for the future, but it's going to take…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/22 12:43 PM
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I love the "experts" on here. I've been doing this shit for 10 years man, and I've helped many men who were in really bad places with what I know. And it's because I've been where you're at. The moment she's "got" you isn't real if you're not a fucking pussy. Women don't want to play "gotcha!" with an alpha, and you only think that way because you haven't finished climbing your mountain yet. Women pull "gotcha" with betas and betas who are pretending to be alpha, which is A LOT of dudes on here.…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/22 12:33 PM
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Because most men aren't as apathetic as they first appear to be. Dark triad types often use that energy as a coping mechanism because they're scared to get hurt first. Women get tired of it quickly and they are hard wired to find your weaknesses and bring them to the surface. When these men get exposed, it is often worse than with normal shit tests because 1. the women they game have seen through the bullshit and 2. they're already insecure and using dark triad strategies to protect themselves. …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 04:42 PM
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No problem. :) Happy to help.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 04:32 PM
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Keep it up. You'll find hot ones who aren't like that. Stay away from women with lots of guy friends. That is one of the biggest red flags.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 04:31 PM
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Did you mean to say I understood nothing, or that I did, in fact, did not understand nothing, and therefore did understand what you were saying?
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 04:30 PM
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First thing you'll learn in this game, not everybody wants to be helped, and you can quickly lose a good friend bringing this stuff up to the wrong person. Some people need the cope, the underdog feeling, the "I'm a good guy why does this keep happening to me" mentality to exist because it's a huge part of their identity. Some people will read the books and say they're doing the work and repeat the same mistakes over and over while you watch with sadness. It is what it is. Men won't change until…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 01:42 PM
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Lol, yes they do. The problem is most men start doing RP and practice it but don't internalize it. Which is why women eventually see you for what you are and then leave. Women don't leave men who are genuinely alpha. They will hold onto them for as long as they can and will live an entirely separate life away from their friends and family to be with him. My wife of 7 years left me a few weeks ago with my kids and was thousands of miles away from me surrounded by her family who were completely ta…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 01:33 PM
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Don't get too mad at yourself. Blue Pill conditioning takes years to break and even the most successful, aggressive guys still get caught up in it sometimes. The good thing is you can see where you went wrong, and can start doing the work to learn how to control your emotions better. Being centered always is hard, especially when you feel you are being attacked. You often have to do the opposite of what your lizard brain is telling you to do, to the point where it can be terrifying. But just rem…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 01:24 PM
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Good lesson for you. Stay away from women who surround themselves with other men. A good woman that you game correctly will want nothing to do with other men, and if she tries to normalize that behavior, drop her quickly and move on. The best thing you can say during a breakup is nothing. Cold turkey silence destroys women because they get no closure and if there was any attraction there for you, that shit drives them crazy.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 01:19 PM
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Competition drives human beings, especially men. Don't get hung up on it(not saying you, just saying in general for men Embrace the competition.) Anxiety about being with a woman comes from a feeling of not being good enough, and that comes from not having options available to you. Do more work and get better. What is really crazy is that women ARE faithful, just if you get cheated on, it's because she isn't faithful to you. Women have no sympathy for weak men. They will pretend to, but in reali…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 01:15 PM
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Beautiful. This reality angers many men when they see it for themselves. But the key to overcoming that is working on becoming your buddy. We only get mad when it's not us... on the other side, dudes can't stop having fun with it. Remember, it's nothing personal. It has nothing to do with you. It's them and their shit. Women do what they want to make them feel good. The best parts of them they save for the men who are worth it. The good news is you don't need to work that hard to become that bec…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 12:54 PM
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Yikes man. No judgements here, but I hope you can move past those beliefs. A woman isn't your slave and you aren't hers when you decide to become something more with her. Even Rollo is happily married with a kid, and he's the one who literally wrote the book on this. There is a way to get out of the anger phase, and I know how long it takes. If that is where you are at, I wish you the best and hope to see you on the other side.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 12:45 PM
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Nothing more gay than asking anonymous men for face pics on a forum. Stay weird my guy.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 05:21 PM
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Didn't mean to infer that you're not good with women. Just that I've been in shoes similar to yours and I hope you can find the better parts of this journey for yourself. :)
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 05:14 PM
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Sounds to me like you're being a gatekeeper of sorts. It's hard to debate somebody on those merits. All good, keep forming those ideas and maybe some time down the road we can re-approach this conversation.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 05:13 PM
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But the attraction itself IS NOT LOGICAL. If a fat guy can pull a 10, and a jacked dude with no knowledge of game struggles with 4s, there is no logic in those results. Hence what we are attracted to, as individuals, is not consistent, and can't be explained in a Venn diagram.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 12:33 AM
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More proof that attraction isn't logical lol
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 12:26 AM
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Thanks for the insight. I'll shave myself head to toe tonight and give you an update on the results! ;)
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 12:25 AM
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I think you and I have a very different view on women. When I first started my journey, I was in the same boat as you with a lot of my ideas. Over time, I've learned that there is nuance to all this. You're still trying to logically process women's emotions and it just doesn't work. When you learn to speak their language, it all begins to make sense and you can find the real magic. How you speak about them indicates to me you aren't there yet. All good. Agree to disagree on some points, but I wi…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 12:24 AM
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"Paint goes on a canvas." Yes but how do I paint a house?
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 12:18 AM
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Yes, I was simply stating that getting bigger will make the biggest difference but it's only one piece of the puzzle.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 12:17 AM
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You should leave if that's all you've gotten from this sub lol. Have fun being an incel I guess. No sympathy.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 12:16 AM
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I will cover this plenty in a future topic for married men. But to summarize, most men fuck up when they get married by getting soft and stopping the things that made them attractive to their woman. I, in turn, have done the opposite. I am more attractive today than when I met my wife. I am heavily tattooed and incredibly strong and in shape. I go out a few nights a week by myself to socialize with people and have a good time. This lets my wife think about and miss me and think about what would …
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 12:15 AM
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Most men don't know how to overdo it, so that's not an issue for most men. It contributes far more than 20% and that percentage is literally pulled out of somebody's ass if you're repeating it. If you go to the gym and aren't seeing huge results when you go out, you're not working out hard enough, and you're not taking your diet seriously. Being big and strong literally changes the game for you, more-so than any other change you can try and incorporate. The gym isn't a cope, but it is painful an…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 12:08 AM
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-A woman's dad. I've dated plenty of women who were very happy with me I was nothing like their dads. I dated women who didn't have dads and didn't have daddy issues. Again, no logic in attraction or emotions my guy. -Attraction is an emotional response, not a logical one. Women don't understand why they're attracted to certain men, and that is because the response is emotional and not something they think and decide on. -You, just like another poster above, are over-analyzing the information an…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 12:05 AM
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Interesting ideas. I feel as though your ideas about women are rooted in pain or disgust. If that is the case, I hope you find a way to make it through the anger phase and come through to the other side better for it. It's a lot of fun once you make it past there.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/22 11:57 PM
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I'm just here to help, so I appreciate the feedback as it helps me determine what I can do better. :)
/r/TheRedPill07/01/22 11:53 PM
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I enjoyed this response. Thank you. As such, I take it as I'm not good enough at writing out my ideas and as any ambitious man knows, there's always room for improvement!
/r/TheRedPill07/01/22 11:52 PM
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Attraction isn't logical. If it was, women would say what they want outright, and the Red Pill wouldn't exist. As such, that's not the case. Attraction can be observed, but so can the Universe and that doesn't mean we can comprehend how vast it is. Emotions, which is the language women speak, are not rooted in logic, and you will get yourself in trouble if you approach the nuances of game from that perspective. The guys most successful with women speak that emotional language, and it is what sep…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/22 11:50 PM
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Thanks for taking the time to respond. I appreciate the effort and length you put into it, so I hope you don't mind if I break down some of your points. Hopefully you find what I say constructive, and if I come across as mean, please don't take it that way. I think you're over-analyzing the information way too much. You're likely a very smart guy, as reflected in your comment above and the nuance of your responses to my ideas. Things like saying I can't use Google to define the universally accep…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/22 11:42 PM
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How can I hope to reach people if I take criticism personally? One of the first things you have to get good at to get good with women is not taking rejection personally. That can be applied across many experiences in life. :)
/r/TheRedPill07/01/22 11:19 PM
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Just curious, do you think not going to gym increases your chances of success with women?
/r/TheRedPill07/01/22 09:13 PM
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Thanks for the feedback! I tried to keep a summary at the bottom for people who don't have time to read the article. I'll try and condense it more next time for you!
/r/TheRedPill07/01/22 03:14 PM
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All good, happy to hear these questions from you! Social skills is a huge topic so if you'd like, I can start with the basics. If you want a book to read on getting better at understanding how to interact with people, How To Win Friends and Influence People is the best book I've found that breaks down how to be the guy in the room everybody remembers. I can write a topic on the effect that book has had on me and why it's one of the best resources you can read and master to break away from everyb…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/22 11:31 PM
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Cool, I can also go into how to become the dude who isn't awkward to flirt with if you'd like. It's not as simple as do this, then this will happen. With flirting and escalation, you have to develop into a dude that NATURALLY does these things. That is a whole course, to go from where you are now to the dude at the bar that can walk up to any woman and have fun with them. Let me know if you'd like that the journey or more just about the dynamics of flirting and escalating.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/22 11:27 PM
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Would you like to better understand how desire works in women? Like how their brain thinks?
/r/TheRedPill06/01/22 11:24 PM
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Anarchist Cookbook is a good place to start.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/22 11:23 PM
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I'm married with kids so I can go in depth with this. Will start with some of the differences between plates and marriage. The good news is that marriage and a family are still in the cards for plenty of men.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/22 11:23 PM
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I'll write up an article about this soon. :)
/r/TheRedPill04/01/22 09:07 PM
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There are some women inherently better in quality as far as personality and morals than others. He didn't say there were unicorns. Men who have options and high value don't have to work hard to find women who will go out of their way to compete for and take very good care of them. It's just most men on here will never reach that point because you're all stuck in the anger phase. Thinking in absolutes is as fucking blue pill as it gets. AWALT is what happens when men never do any self reflecting …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/22 08:12 PM
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Women are faithful. They're just not faithful to you.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/22 08:02 PM
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Anger phase is the longest because you're undoing years of programming and before you can move on, you have to recognize and acknowledge you've been a fucking idiot for years and ACCEPT that society isn't going to have the same revelation you have. When you realize it's nothing personal, and not specifically about you, you can start to move on.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/21 02:38 AM
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Porn makes your worse in bed. Get out there and do the work to be a good lay. It's not that hard, otherwise humans would have been extinct a long time ago.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/21 04:41 AM
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Because you're missing something in your life and masturbation is how you cope. Find your struggle.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/21 01:15 PM
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Yikes. I disagree with this outlook and I hope you find your way past the anger phase. Good luck friend.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/21 03:39 PM
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There are people who misuse the concepts underneath it all and bastardize it into a caricature of what it actually is. PUA are one example of that.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 05:43 PM
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I didn't make this post to hear your opinion on what Red Pill is, nor do I care. Nor am I selling anything. Now fuck off.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 03:23 PM
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It's a philosophy in that not every action has the same outcome with the same person. It's not a binary approach to life. "I act alpha,therefore I succeed." It's a mindset, and one that takes time to internalize, and even more time to see rewards from. Plenty of dudes lift who aren't alpha. Plenty of dudes don't life and are as alpha as they come. Point being, a lot of guys misinterpret what it is and what it does. I'll elaborate more in a future post.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 02:09 PM
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You're in trouble. The best thing you can do is start being cold, distant, and scarce until she starts to slide back into your energy.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 01:35 PM
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Like all things in life, balance is necessary. You should not overreact or get upset at every little thing your women does that upsets you. But there are times when you have to be a cold blooded gangster in your relationship. When women test your manhood, ie tell you they're talking to other dudes, the response to something like that should immediately instill a sense of dread in them. How do you do that? Let their imaginations run wild. It's like the best horror movies always don't let you see …
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 01:29 PM
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don't let women clown around with your manhood. lightly joking while she is actively disrespecting you is the wrong approach. shit tests are stuff like her acting mad at you because you don't go shopping with her so she pretends to ignore you. trying to cuck you into a reaction is fucked up, and you should always approach situations like that as if it's rational what they're doing. if you're in a relationship, your chick should not be texting dudes, nor showing you. you allowing it shows her you…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 03:11 AM
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I'm starting a gym dedicated to helping men find their purpose with a 16 week workshop that culminates in a week long trip into the wild where the guys have to rely on each other to get through sleepless nights and brutal days of scenarios. Men need struggle and they need struggle for good purpose.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/21 04:05 PM
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Tell them you like where you are. If she doesn't like it, let her leave and move onto the next. The relationship needs to always be on your terms.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/21 04:09 AM
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You're still comparing yourself to other dudes. You befriended a chick you wanted to fuck instead of walking away, and then cucked yourself by asking her to show you the guys she fucked. Stop being so nice to women who don't want the same things as you. Learn how to be a bit of a dick and filter the ones who waste your time from the ones who don't. It's okay to not want to hang out with women if sex isn't going to be involved and chances are any chick making you work for it is a bad lay.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/21 01:14 PM
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It actually makes it worse even. Because when you take away someone's words, you leave no other choice for them but to take action. Words are the most precious things we as humans have aside from our individual autonomy. Chimpanzees can't have long debates about disagreements so they in turn tear each other's dicks off. Any person that casually supports censorship as a necessary good is a fucking psychopath in my eyes, and throughout history, has bitten people with similar ideas in the ass HARD …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/21 03:38 AM
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Feminism will be dead in a few generations as the ones who manage to reproduce will breed beta ass men that will end up dying alone and childless because their moms will brainwash them into thinking being an Ally™️ will make them wanted by other women. The rest will be cat food as they die alone in their apartments realizing they fucked up big time.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/21 01:48 AM
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Decentralized applications
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