AccidentallyInterest Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	General decision to not be an invisible lurker in the community		AccidentallyInterest	/r/seduction	07/09/16 06:05 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	So 8 days ago a random girl approached me and said something….interesting to me. What did she mean? What should I have done? No I mean the part where you could make a post saying 'what does it mean when a girl literally compliments my face' but also you have decided you aren't into a large swathe of perfectly eligible girls because of their hair color. Do you think intellectual girls would be into that? This is coming out more harsh than I intended but focus on yourself king. And know you have to start somewhere.	/r/seduction	12/09/22 04:38 AM
2	So 8 days ago a random girl approached me and said something….interesting to me. What did she mean? What should I have done? This is unreal hahaha good luck my guy	/r/seduction	11/09/22 05:50 PM
17	What do you say when a girls asks you about your previous relationships/experience and your a virgin? Presumably the person you are trying to date or sleep with wouldn't want you to tell everyone the sordid details of what you do together. Private time is private. The implication is that you are polite enough not to talk about your past and by extension not going to be talking about her either	/r/seduction	28/08/22 05:27 PM
0	What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”? Not this, 100%	/r/seduction	28/08/22 05:20 PM
5	Why do women think that it's totally normal and acceptable to completely ignore texts from a guy? No one owes you the time of day. Sucks but you also don't owe anyone the time of day. You can be entitled and bitter about it, or accept it as a reality of life and keep it pushing	/r/seduction	03/06/22 10:25 PM
3	Is it stupid to not know how attractive i am ? (guy) Their top post of all time is a 56 year old woman. They appear to agree that in her age range she's effectively perfect. There's even a link to her in the 90's and shes considered perfect then. Her rating is an 8. If a perfect person isn't a 10 because those are "unattainable extremes" then why put the numbers on the scale? It doesn't really make sense at all. Not even a 9. Bit dumb to me.	/r/seduction	26/05/22 10:03 PM
7	Is it stupid to not know how attractive i am ? (guy) The post on the top right now is an objectively gorgeous young woman and they talking about 6.5-7 lmfao. You'll get banned if you rate someone more it seems like. Mean while a few posts down someone objectively unattractive is a 4-4.5.	/r/seduction	26/05/22 05:01 PM
11	What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating? Big same. I literally cannot relate, and when I shoot my shot with black women they are RARELY feeling me lol. White women love my black ass lmfao	/r/seduction	16/05/22 12:41 PM
1	How to respond ,when you notice a girl staring at you ? Jesus, just smile, anon	/r/seduction	09/03/22 07:28 PM
1	Right Now I don't want a girlfriend but why do I feel the need to have one ? You can't see the pure time-sink on the backend of it so you don't know. Even in an awesome relationship (I'm NOT scoffing YOU'RE scoffing) theres still plenty of work put in. People don't think about that looking at couples feeling jealousy.	/r/seduction	23/01/22 06:20 PM
2	How effective is “have I seen you before?” I'm a local (went to school in my town, lived here all my life, have a social life) so I genuinely do constantly run into people I've seen before. So I do ask have I seen you before or do I know you genuinely, but often it turns out didn't know them. Typically goes well but it's not really my opener or "a line".	/r/seduction	08/11/21 10:45 PM
3	How do you respond when a girl you’re interested in is complimenting you? I thought for sure this was satire until I read the second paragraph. People like you and to a lesser extent OP make my 'just-beyond-mediocre" look fucking excellent, so thanks	/r/seduction	31/10/21 06:09 PM
1	[deleted by user] lots of good advice here, just want to add in getting better at talking to EVERYONE not just hot women. You know those annoying customers who have to say a little something to the clerk or whatever, or make some little joke all the time? Not saying have some contrived lines ready made or whatever but whatever you're thinking at the time start just talking to people when you're out and about. Get better at that and you'll find its the same energy you need to sort of break the ice and be in a posi…	/r/seduction	21/10/21 10:06 PM
1	Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret? Not there and ideally won't really ever be. Within the last few months I've crossed over 20, lifetime, and I'm 26. I feel like I'm getting to the point where if I meet someone and it CAN happen I'm fairly able to make it happen. But that is a lot of time to give away, much less to random people you don't care to build any lengthy rapport with (sexually or otherwise). You might be an outlier, but it feels like once you hit a certain point that's not what you care about anymore and your focus will…	/r/seduction	19/10/21 11:34 AM
8	Head over heals but not into him after sex I know but someone else was saying how it is for them, not talking directly about op	/r/seduction	10/10/21 06:51 PM
6	Head over heals but not into him after sex weird question lol	/r/seduction	10/10/21 05:53 PM
2	3 approaches/ 0 successful but I feel good Irrelevant but in this context assuming you were approaching a woman it would be Latina. the o in spanish is masculine.	/r/seduction	10/10/21 05:42 PM
7	Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sex I think you're at the point where your main focus should be enjoying the experience. Chances are high if you're feeling good then the feeling is mutual. Ik it's useless to say "don't overthink this" but really you will form plenty of strong new opinions as you have more experiences. Congrats are in order!	/r/seduction	04/10/21 11:51 PM
19	Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sex I like heavy breathing in my ear for some reason lol. But literally just try shit that you think seems sexy chances are great that he won't mind	/r/seduction	04/10/21 09:49 PM
5	Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sex I think based on your line of questioning you're in a decent place but I have some buts. Cumming is great. You wanting her to cum before you is great. BUT. Cumming does not always need to be the goal. Its tough to get past only thinking about P in V and your own cumming which you seem well on your way beyond. But that goes both ways. You should be able to tell during if she's into it if you only pay a bit of attention. Obviously its a lot when you're new, but see how she responds to what you do.…	/r/seduction	04/10/21 09:47 PM
1	I am sick of the "didn't feel a spark" after dates, any advice? If you can manage to get out of your head a bit and worry less, you can start to see signals that someone is into you more clearly. Sure they're showing up for a date, but they're also probably going for prolonged eye contact, making the puppy dog please kiss me faces, staying in close proximity to you rather than moving away when you're close by - once you pay attention to how people are responding to you on the more subtle level and you learn to just notice that kind of thing - if you're anyth…	/r/seduction	01/03/21 03:19 PM
11	I am sick of the "didn't feel a spark" after dates, any advice? "No idea if I'm good looking or not" 🙄 bro if that's true that pretty much says it all. If you're not feeling yourself in spite of the fact that girls clearly are -by not only matching with you but meeting you in a pandemic- short of them pinning you down and having their way with you what more would it take for you to think you're a person women want to hookup with?? If you don't KNOW that you're a person people are attracted to no wonder you also aren't escalating things. You need to rectify t…	/r/seduction	28/02/21 12:30 AM
72	You eating at a diner, and you see a girl sitting next to you, eating alone. It's Friday night. She doesn't have a bf. Do you go talk to her? Or hope she gives you signs of interest first? If you really hate yourself, you shouldn't be trying to figure out how to flirt with strangers, you should be figuring out how not to hate yourself	/r/seduction	15/03/19 06:21 PM
14	Sliding into DM's on insta ??? Strongly disagree	/r/seduction	19/10/18 11:50 PM
29	Remember that your emotions will try to fuck you up And shame on a nigga who tries to run game on a nigga	/r/seduction	10/10/18 08:10 PM
19	2 girls, 3 days, 4 lays - the sordid week-end of a newly unplugged betabuxx She's not planning to tell him. Hell, she's not planning anything, shes letting her feelings guide her, and her subconscious is giving her hamster a quick little jog so down the line she can say "he didn't make me cum like you, though!"	/r/TheRedPill	19/09/18 07:25 PM
17	Mini-Vent If you don't make a move ON THE DATE why would they go on another one? They're obviously interested, they agreed to the date, you do nothing, they conclude you aren't interested. When you create easy outs for yourself like "I don't make a move on the first date" how can you expect to be sleeping with them in the same breath?	/r/seduction	11/09/18 06:01 PM
3	How to get rid of a girl that friendzoned me Well I mean if shes literally just lying then who cares, just ignore her until she goes away.	/r/seduction	18/08/18 06:18 PM
1	How To Become The Attractive Man All Women Want Damn this post is long as hell	/r/seduction	17/08/18 09:07 AM
12	What should my first text be? When you text its for making plans or establishing rapport. Decide what you're doing before the text. Rapport kind of goes by ear, plans should be short and to the point without being cold. Otherwise keep the non face to face contact low, lest you say some dumb shit.	/r/seduction	23/07/18 07:01 PM
1	For some reason, still stuck on that insecurity that she has been with other experienced guys than me. It seems like your real problem is oneitis. Based on the hopeless romantic neediness coming through in the post and your replies it sounds like in your lack of experience you have this idea of what someone being into you is like that doesn't match reality, and whatever your flavor of the week is will fall short of your imagination every time. It also sounds like your "happiness" is dependent on someone else saying something really specific to you, which sounds like a let down waiting to happen, …	/r/seduction	08/05/18 05:47 PM
1	What is the best book that you have read on seduction? I'm pretty sure I know what you're getting at but this is horribly written	/r/seduction	08/05/18 04:33 PM
8	[FR] “Buy me a drink” shit test Nah bozo, CLEARLY this guy gets laid 😂	/r/seduction	30/04/18 05:47 PM
3	The Galactic-Sized Problem With Inner Game This post doesn't really say anything in ny opinion. "Don't just say you're working on yourself and be lying, do it, and make specific changes" like, duh. What you described wouldn't work, but that's not inner game or working on yourself, its being the same person you were and not doing anything and just saying you are	/r/seduction	16/03/18 03:20 PM
1	General decision to not be an invisible lurker in the community Not necessarily but it seems like an ideal place to start	/r/seduction	08/09/16 04:56 AM