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Of course, who doesn't want to get laid with a hot foreigner while they're on vacation?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:19 AM
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5 failed relationships in 2 years is a much bigger red flag than 5 consensual hookups in a summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:30 AM
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I saw a short, fat Hispanic man with crooked teeth do well with women because he had game. Same for a short fat white friend of mine. Looks don't matter if you don't know how to talk to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:42 AM
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Raw sex is dangerous. Not only you can catch disease from it, but you can catch feelings from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:57 PM
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It would make your relationship harder There's your answer, that's why I wouldn't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:44 AM
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Because I wouldn't want to date a rude, attractive or uncaring woman. Dropping those standards would make my dating life harder, not easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 09:20 AM
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Well my standards that don't involve body count. If you're interested in policing women's past sex lives do you. It doesn't appeal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 09:18 AM
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Body count was never one of my standards. I thought slut was synonymous for cheater for a long time. I had no idea that just having casual sex make a woman a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:51 AM
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I have standards, body count just isn't one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:49 AM
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Dating is simple when you stop worrying about body count. It's way easier to attract women when you know that they want sex as much as you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:28 AM
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I'm going to try treating women as human beings like Reddit suggested. I'll let y'all know how it goes, wish me luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 11:17 PM
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Sex reduces stress, improves immune function, Lowe's blood pressure, and increases sleep quality. Casual sex is only a vice if you have so much of it that you don't have time to fulfill your daily responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:44 PM
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Are you a virgin or something? Stop overthinking things and fuck this girl if she wants to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:10 PM
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Dating hasn't changed for women since the 90s. They still have the same complaints they've always had about dating. If anything it's worse since men are less confident and way less likely to commit now. Marriage rates have fallen off a cliff. The only change is that promiscuity isn't as frowned upon as it used to be. It's going to keep getting worse until society embraces female nature instead of twisting it to suit society's traditional agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:03 PM
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Women don't care about hookups that much, it's just sex. If you want women to hook up with you communicate your intentions and don't act like you want more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:59 PM
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Women don't need straight porn as much because they have guys they can call irl when they want their needs meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 12:36 PM
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You see it in the Language used when having sex. He "banged" ,"Cracked" ,"smashed" ,"blew her brains out" and "re-arranged her guts". Its always an act of humiliation or violence done to a woman that men say. Smashed actually is used mutually (I.E. "we smashed"). Phrases like "re-arranged her guts" delude to rough sex or deep penetration which a lot of women like. Sex is often times described as an act DONE to women instead of a mutually enjoyable experience. Its always "I fucked her" instead of…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:59 PM
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Thinking about the dicks a woman had before she met you is gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 10:24 PM
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Interestingly enough people stopped complaining about women being objectified in Marvel Rivals when they gave male characters bigger asses, bulges, and sluttier skins.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:58 PM
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The fact that you think you're getting rejected because you're ugly means that you think you're ugly. That alone will get you rejected since women can sense when you don't think you're good enough. It also means that you need to put more effort into your style and grooming.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:46 PM
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Keanu Reeves is a grown man with hover hands. I like him as an actor and a person, but he isn't a masculine role model.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:40 PM
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Young men are struggling because they don't talk to enough women or put effort into being sexually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:34 PM
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Nightclubs are fine. There's more to online dating that just being good looking. Some attractive men suck at getting matches in online dating. Nightclubs are good venues to socialize, make friends, and meet women. Youre better off approaching women in your day to day life, but you can do that, online dating, and clubbing at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:15 PM
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I think being a woman is easier, but the tradeoff is that men have more control over their destinies. Women are generally more passive and agreeable. Women who are more assertive are labeled as controlling or even bitchy. It's easier for women to get sex, but is it worth it when each partner lowers your value? And let's talk about periods, vaginal acidity, and porta potties. Women can't even stop on the side of the road and take a leak! The more I think about it, the less appealing being a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:32 PM
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Yea this was a layup. She was literally talking about having sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:05 PM
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She wasn't negging she was flirting. She left the door wide open for you to tell her how useful your muscles are in the bedroom. If the conversation goes far enough down that road she gets horny and goes home with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:04 PM
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I have no problem with women lying about their body counts. Men who believe that women are less sexual deserve to get played. A lot of these men lie to women about wanting a relationship to get sex anyways. Men and women are counterparts. How we attract partners differs, but the desire for sex is ingrained into everyone. Giving men full sexual freedom while suppressing women's sexuality is an exercise in futility that backfires on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 01:59 PM
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My abs got me got laid once off FetLife, which is the only place I show my body off. I'm not saying they don't help, but abs alone won't get you that many women. You have to wear a shirt most of the time. You also have to talk to women anyways. You're better off focusing on mouthpiece than abs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 04:30 PM
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The way he told me this story, I always felt like he was being himself, remembering details of the last interaction to make her feel heard and appreciating her academic achievements and her beauty (wasn't insecure by her achievements), other than this he even helped her a few times. None of these things involve being yourself. So your friend is a nice guy, who cares? What's unique about that? I wanted him to succeed, a little faith I had in the blue pill at that time. He didn't, he failed and lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 04:20 PM
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There's nothing dehumanizing about enjoying a nice pair of tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:52 AM
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If a man only cares about tits, it won't matter if she's covered up, "respectable," young, old, shy, loud, religious, married, liberal, conservative. He'll only think in cup sizes. He's already made up his mind women are only good for a nice pair of tits to look at. OP's own words. There's nothing wrong with a man liking tits. If he only wants a woman sexually that's fine too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:47 AM
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OP seemed to imply that it's wrong to just want sex for a woman. I disagreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:33 AM
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There's nothing dehumanizing about casual sex. It's fine to just want sex from someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:19 AM
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There's nothing wrong with just wanting sex. If I only want a woman for sex there's no accountability to absolve me from because I've done nothing wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 10:31 PM
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My point is that you can't compromise without a disagreement. The discussion about said disagreement is usually an argument. Why don't you give me examples of the toughest compromise you've made in a relationship? Walk me through the "discussion" you went through to reach that compromise. This argument collapses if one removes the overgeneralization completely, especially because you have no stats or studies to back that claim. There's no shortage of studies and articles concluding that 50/50 re…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:46 PM
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Compromise is the result of a debate. Debate is another word for an argument. When every little decision requires compromise, every little decision leads to an argument. And let's be honest, women get very emotional in these "discussions". Score keeping and dead bedrooms are usually the result. Women also use sex as a bargaining chip to manipulate men. The woman is in control of most 50/50 relationships in practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 06:09 PM
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Relationships require hierarchy because no two people agree on everything. It's fine for both partners to take part in the decision making process, but one has to have the final say on things or arguments start. Someone has to steer the ship. If you put two sets of hands on the wheel it crashes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 04:55 PM
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Women do judge promiscuous men as sluts for the most part. They'll have sex with them, but they won't always take them seriously. Women won't judge promiscuous men as harshly as incels though since they can use promiscuous men for sex. Incels, on the other hand, serve no purpose for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 06:00 PM
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Clavicular got frame mogged by a random ASU frat boy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:19 AM
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Sex isn't that deep from an evolutionary perspective. It's a pleasurable activity with the additional benefit of reproduction. Humans have powerful biological urges to have sex and reproduce with people they're sexually attracted to. These urges are suppressed by society and technology, not biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:01 PM
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Men often improve with age since much of their desirability is based on skill and experience. A lot of women will take an older man who knows what he's doing over a younger man who just looks good. Women, on the other hand primarily attract men with their looks, which rapidly decline with age. Men can also reproduce well into old age while women have a hard cap in their late 30's. This makes a lot of relationships between older women and young men unviable. Even in old age the odds of a man prod…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 04:20 PM
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Well they have to have some excuse to hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 10:45 PM
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Yea you still have to play your cards right which most men won't. But at least there's hope for average men if they put themselves in the right place at the right time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:42 PM
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After reading a bunch of posts and comments about ovulation on Reddit I'm convinced that men only have to be fuckable to get laid. If a woman is even remotely attracted to you there's a good chance dirty thoughts will float through in her head during that cycle. Ovulation is nature's way of telling women to lower their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:55 PM
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Look up ovulation on Reddit if you don't think women are as horny as men. The comments and posts are very eye opening.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:50 PM
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This is the problem with modern men - they're afraid of pussy. Use protection if you're worried about STDs and kids.Women who are genuinely attracted to you are unlikely to accuse you of rape or blackmail you. Especially if you're a nobody like me. If a woman is showing consistent signs of strong interest you can easily vet her for sex in one date. I'm not saying you have to have sex on the first date, but it doesn't take 5 dates to figure out if you're into someone sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 03:33 PM
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I mean wrong as in immoral. None of the things you mentioned are considered immoral. They aren't attached to gendered double standards either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 03:01 PM
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I disagree with you but I can respect this opinion. I think men who say casual sex is good for men and bad for women are a joke though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 07:02 AM
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I guarantee that OP has had sex with a guy faster than 3 dates. You guys need to stop being so naive and easily manipulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 02:20 AM
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The natural consequence of reproducing and sustaining the human race? Do you really think that's unnatural? Do you think women are biologically inclined to abstain from sex so they can work in a corporate office?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:27 AM
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What makes you think women aren't supposed to have sex when they're horny?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:21 AM
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Among primates, certain species are quite promiscuous. Female Barbary macaques, for example, mate with as many as 10 males each day during estrus https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/adapting-to-promiscuity/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:06 AM
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Sex is pleasurable because it incentivizes reproduction. When a woman is sexually attracted to a man she's supposed to have sex. When a woman is ovulating and horny she's supposed to find a man to have sex with. Women weren't saving themselves for marriage in the paleolithic era.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 11:56 PM
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I don't think it's logical to want something you think is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:56 PM
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On the other hand it basically makes you a fool who cannot end a relationship despite red flags, flaws, and incompatibility. It takes months before your brain finally regulates and you can begin to detach. And even then, detaching takes a while too. Pair bonding after sex is not what's turning you into a fool. You just don't respect yourself to enforce boundaries. Knowing that hvm expect to have sex by 3/4 dates, and knowing that they will lie/pretend/and hold back information until they get sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:54 PM
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Sure, I'm only concerned with men who want casual sex in this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:44 PM
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You won't attract women for casual sex if you don't know that you're desirable. You have to understand that you have value no matter what your body count is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:08 PM
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You're free to feel that way and complain about it. I'm just saying that your complaints are invalid if you self-sabotage by looking down on women willing to have casual sex with you. Yes, I'm a man. I just see the bigger picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:04 PM
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Both men and women want sex. You don't have to apply the same standards to men. Just understand that it will be harder for you to get casual sex if you look down on women who enjoy it. That's why you shouldn't complain if you aren't getting any.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:38 PM
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Women do not value that to the same degree. Women instead put more value on social standing & ability to provide. Women prefer these things for long term relationships, not short term sex. They cheat on successful men with broke men all the time. You can hold women to whatever standard you want. You're free to only date virgins if that's your standard. Just understand that it will be harder for you to get laid if you look down on women who have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:34 PM
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I read the title and thought it would be a man saying that we shouldn't be judged for wanting sex. Instead I ended up reading a rant about porn, butt plugs, and slutty clothes. First of all no one cares about men or women watching porn in moderation. It only becomes a problem when men are addicted to porn to the extent that it affects intimacy with women. Women don't want to feel like they're competing with porn and losing. As for toys, no one cares if you use a Fleshlight. You might get called …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 02:04 PM
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A woman saying she doesn't need a man doesn't equate to her not wanting one. She's just content with her life. Nothing wrong with that. A lot of these women are just having a hoe phase. Genuine misandry is a terminally online phenomenon. Most women in the real world don't hate men. A lot of the complaining women do about men is girls being girls. Women love to complain about guys with each other. It doesn't mean anything most of the time. True misandrists are a minority of women and can easily b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:23 AM
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The point is that you think her past partners are better than you in bed. I don't worry about that because I have a big dick and I know how to use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:15 PM
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Let's be honest, you aren't concerned that her past partners gave her more flowers and chocolates than you. You're concerned that their dicks might have better than yours. Otherwise you'd have nothing to worry about. It was just meaningless sex. This is penis envy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:11 PM
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I have a huge dick so the odds of her previous partners measuring up is extremely low. I understand the insecurity if you have a small penis though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:51 PM
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I never said any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:37 PM
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In biology, a pair bond is the strong affinity that develops in some species between a mating pair, often leading to the production and rearing of young and potentially a lifelong bond. From Wikipedia. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:52 PM
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Monogamy will never go away. Humans naturally pair bond and form nuclear families. The top men will have their harems, but average guys will still be able to use stability, commitment, and his seed to attract women who want to settle down and have a family. We're pretty much in a hybrid polyamorous/monogamous system right now. Women sleep around with hot guys when they're single then settle down with average guys when they want commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:01 PM
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I'd say it doesn't matter. The vast majority of men do not commit violence against women. If you're a solid guy who does no wrong you have nothing to worry about. If you're a violent man you won't listen to women anyways. Women are generally attracted to men so they desire male attention, even if they hate men. Women fall in love with violent men every day. So nothing you said matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 01:40 PM
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Women don't have a problem with submissive men. They often like dating them since submissive men are safer and willing to do what they want. Women are just more attracted to dominant men. Dominant men also get what they want way easier since women follow their lead. If you follow a woman's lead you have to jump through whatever hoops she puts in place.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:24 AM
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I used to have a coworker who loved taking me to strip clubs. Eventually he started sleeping with strippers and escorts. Not too long after that he had a breakdown and quit his job. We still stayed friends and stayed in touch. The last time I saw him was about a year after he quit. We had lunch and went kayaking. A few weeks later he was in the news for murdering his mom. I know there was way more to his outcome than paying for sex, but I've always thought it played a role in his insanity. It's …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:04 AM
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I'm cool on paying a deposit to go on a date. That's next level simping. Have fun dating losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:16 PM
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Height
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:25 PM
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That's fair, I always wondered why women didn't just give their kids away for adoption. How do you think adoption agencies could do a better job?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:56 AM
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Unfortunately that's a recipe for extinction at the current reproduction rates. We need a certain number of unplanned pregnancies to sustain the human race. Unplanned pregnancies used to lead to shotgun marriages. Now they lead to abortion. I think we should come up with a way to change that. Even if it means compensating single mothers for their efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:28 AM
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Unfortunately if you have kids too young it can ruin your life Is there a way to change that? Moms are important.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:18 AM
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Condoms are 87-98% effective depending on how properly they're used. Correct me if I'm a hopeless romantic, but if you hook up with someone, use a condom, and still get pregnant isn't that a sign? Maybe the two of you were meant to be together. Why can't you just take care of the kid? Why does pregnancy have to be horrible in a world where the birth rate is below replacement level?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:55 AM
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I saw Send Help this weekend and it legitimately made me cry. Not because it was good or bad, but because it was so close to being a beautiful movie. I love strong women. But I hate how Hollywood makes men look weak to make the woman look strong. I hate how the strong woman has to still be a villain in a roundabout way. I hate how every man has to be a villain. Am I wrong for speaking for the majority of men and saying that we generally like women? I feel like even the most hardcore alpha male g…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:44 AM
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Using a porta potty at Gasparilla turned me into a feminist. How do you ladies do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:02 PM
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What do you wish women would understand about dating women? I answered your question. Tough luck if you don't like the answer. This discussion is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:27 PM
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Women not getting it is a struggle in the sense that it impacts the overall dating market. Be part of the solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:20 PM
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I gave 3 example of things I wish women understood about dating women. I wish women would understand that there are two sides to ever story involving a man who dates women. We need to hear the full story to decide who's in the wrong. I wish women would understand that men who date women make mistakes due to inexperience and provide constructive criticism. I wish women would understand that men who date women have to approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:58 PM
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Sometimes when I share bad experiences with men some men come and claim that women are no better I wish women would understand that they have to give specific examples of these bad experiences for it to be taken seriously. For all we know your "bad experience" was your fault not his. I also wish women would understand that some (not all) of the bad experiences with men come from inexperience, not the man being a bad person. I wish women's criticisms of men were more constructive. I also wish mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:43 PM
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That's fine if you don't frame it as female nature. Hypergamy is not a natural phenomenon. It's something the red pill made up to make beta males feel better when their girlfriends dumped them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:09 PM
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That's the problem. Red pillers pretend to think in terms of nature when their ideology is based on social norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:06 PM
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Money wasn't a thing in the paleolithic era. We couldn't even store food for extended periods of time so resource hoarding wasn't a thing. Power and influence fall under the dominant umbrella I touched on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:01 PM
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Choosing a partner is primarily about reproduction biologically speaking. The benefits of relationships are designed to motivate the human race to sustain itself and raise the next generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:51 PM
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Neither are correct. Feminism is inherently flawed because it doesn't stop at giving men and women equal rights. It tries to frame men and women as equals which is incorrect. TRP fails because it frames social constructs like monogamy as natural. This over-complicates its foundation and frames natural female behaviors as devious. Without monogamy hypergamy just becomes a woman's capacity to be attracted to multiple men. Within monogamy hypergamy becomes monkey branching. Women hopping from man-t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:00 PM
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You complain about men not asking for hookups every day. You should make a post explaining why and how you want men to ask for hookups instead of spamming incoherent posts like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:18 PM
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I would categorize him as the main character of a fairy tale or rom-com
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:09 AM
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Then no one is objectively ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:52 AM
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Being ugly is a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:34 AM
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So I'm just curious is this sub and/or the redpill believe women are supposed to choose better or women are suppose to fuck anybody they feel lust for out of impulse. I'm not saying women should fuck on of impulse, but I don't see a problem with women fucking who they want to fuck. If you're a man and that's not you tough luck 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:42 PM
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Not someone who is going to tell him the harsh unflattering truth about himself or his reality with no comfort. Men might accept this from other men but they quite literally HATE this from women. Let me expand upon this since you removed my other comment. Women don't tell men the truth. Women don't even tell the truth about their body counts. Y'all are not dependable sources of information for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 11:49 AM
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I'd probably be down to eat some pussy after a couple weeks. Maybe a month max. My mouth still works so why not? Worse case scenario I play with her pussy. Watching her squirm and moan while my finger dances with her clit would be fun. What else am I going to do in bed, post on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:34 AM
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It's slightly more complex since a man has to know what he's doing for a woman to enjoy the sex. It's easy for a man to say or do something that gives the woman a negative perception of his bedroom abilities, even if it's subconscious. Women also have to navigate sexual double standards among other things that complicate their sex lives. Female Sexuality is simple, but circumstances around it complicate things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:22 AM
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hand job it is then
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 06:36 PM
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Probably not but I expect an occasional blowjob.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 06:28 PM
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You can have a sex life while raising kids. If my wife says she can't have sex anymore I'll just find a woman who does want sex. We can have an open relationship or we can separate and continue to co-parent, it's not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:34 AM
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Did you ask a priest? Who told you that not making a woman orgasm is a sin?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:35 PM
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Can you cite the biblical text stating that not making your wife orgasm is a sin?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:28 PM
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"Though shalt make her cum" isn't one of the 10 commandments
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:25 PM
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Women play games with men they aren't really attracted to. It's the man's job to filter those women out and find the ones they're compatible with. I think shows like Fresh & Fit where they just tear women down nonstop are counter-productive and misogynistic. You can't convince me that Myron Gaines likes women. It's one thing to call out women's bullshit, but the manosphere takes it way too far. It's not about men bettering themselves anymore. It's about putting women down so men feel better abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 03:21 PM
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Women dislike clear communication from men they want to string along and use.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 03:08 PM
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Most women won't approach either way. A few women approaching you won't change the fact that you're the average guy they want to marry. The way you talk to them changes that. There are average and even ugly guys who get more casual sex than most good looking guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:03 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:12 AM
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It's deeper than just being hot. A lot of physically attractive guys don't get casual sex because they don't have a sexual vibe. They're nice guys who take women on multiple dates when they just want sex. But the sex isn't casual at that point - you and the woman are dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:57 AM
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I'm sure you one sided view of every single encounter with a woman where you are always a bad ass and never make a mistake is perfectly accurate example of what actually happened. Strawman, I never said I'm perfect. If you told some of my female friends that they were acting like a bitch because they had a bad day not only would they leave I didn't tell her she was acting like a bitch. I asked her to leave. Do you think I'm obligated to be a woman's human stress ball? Would it be ok if one of yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:42 AM
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Only 1 was in a relationship with me. In these examples the women were already attracted to me but I have examples where they weren't 100% yet like this girl off Tinder I hadn't even met yet. She told me to send her a picture after we already set up a date. I didn't want to so I said no. Her next message was about sex. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 09:26 PM
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She didn't offer sex. She apologized and I accepted her apology. When the sex did happen that night she was unbelievably wet and said what I did was a turn on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 09:15 PM
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Mature women are used to men being doormats too. If you let a woman walk all over you she will do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 09:11 PM
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How do we feel about briefs? I've worn boxer briefs for most of my life, but I'm thinking about bringing these back. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 08:31 PM
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Women like Pedro Pascal because he's a nice guy. Women actually like nice guys, they just aren't sexually attracted to them. The men women are sexually attracted to pump and dump since they have options. So women often like beta males and hate alpha males. The end result is women telling men to be like the beta males they like but aren't really attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 08:44 PM
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Getting rejected 100 times isn't a failure. Sitting on the sideline because you're scared is failure. If you tie your self worth to the opinions of random women it's a personal problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:18 PM
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I wouldn't call men and women's roles in society equal. Women weren't on the front lines against fascism during WWII. They played a valuable role in support, but it was not equal to storming Normandy Beach. I would say that men and women are equal under the law, which is fair. Women should be free to make their own decisions. But a patriarchy will always develop since most women want to submit to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:24 PM
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Women generally like being submissive and passive to men. An aspect of that will always leak out of the bedroom so there will always be a patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 04:12 PM
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Facing rejection can be a constant thing for some men, which can really hurt the ego. Especially if the woman a man is approaching isn't even all that. So, it can work but for some men it isn't worth the risk. You just don't have what it takes if you avoid women to protect your ego
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:40 AM
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I need you to unpack at least one interaction. What did you say to the woman and how do you look? Go in detail
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:30 PM
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I'd need to hear some details on your approach to see where it goes wrong. Are we talking about dozens or hundreds of women here?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:07 PM
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Tell me how many times you tried and how you said you wanted sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:56 PM
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an example, a man is interested in casual sex, his best option is to simply lead women on into thinking they're interested in a relationship and then simply ghost. If you just want sex grow a pair of balls and say so in the beginning. Lying just gets you strung along on multiple dates you don't want to pay for. It can also cause the woman to retaliate by doing shit like keying your car. because American society is this way, it is the only feasible option that will work. because anyone who says d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:49 PM
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I don't care. I don't want a 50/50 household. My house, my rules. If you don't like cooking or cleaning leave and I'll do it myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:38 PM
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Women do chase men. Men just have to make the first move and get the ball rolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:13 PM
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Because men can clean their own houses without the headache of a nagging woman who keeps score. Women are the ones desperate for long term companionship and marriage, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:10 PM
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It doesn't matter. Stay in shape and maintain the physique you like. Don't worry about women or celebrity standards, it's all fake. Actually talking to women and getting better at that is most important. Spending too much time in the gym takes away from that if anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:56 PM
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No, let's say he wants a relationship but doesn't want to wait until the third date for sex. There's nothing wrong with that. Stop acting like it's wrong for men to prefer dating women who have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:02 PM
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To make the point I just made. Women don't wait that long to have sex with men they want to have sex with. If a woman expects a man to take her out on 3 or more dates before sex she's not interested in him sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 11:43 AM
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I don't pretend to like relationships and never said I wanted one. I wouldn't wait 3 dates for sex if I did. Most of the women I've slept with didn't even go on 1 date with me. So if she doesn't want sex by date 2 that's a sign that she doesn't want sex in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 11:37 AM
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If you're not even entertaining the idea of a relationship without sex by date 3, then relationships were always optional to you. Sex was the main goal. Why would I go on 3 dates with a woman who doesn't want to have sex with me? I'm not saying that first date sex is a requirement, but if we don't have sex the next time we see each other she doesn't want it bad enough. We're following the script of the woman resisting sex and the man chasing it at that point. No man wants that dynamic in a relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 11:25 AM
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Part of my vetting process is sexual interest from the woman. It's not about despising non-sexual activities. I'm just not interested in a LTR with a woman who doesn't want my dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:06 AM
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I haven't jumped through hoops for a woman in a long time. I'm just upfront about wanting sex by the end of the first date if not the first conversation. Either they're down or not. The closest I've come to jumping through hoops was with this FWB I had for a while. I walked up to her outside of a club at 2 am and just told her what I wanted. It didn't happen that night, but we eventually went out for drinks together. Then we had a another date at my house where she cooked me dinner. She said she…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:51 PM
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I still find it insane that women came out en masse to say "we like casual sex too" and the typical male response was to call them sluts and whores; even though virtually every man wants casual sex. Generational fumble by men as a group
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:21 AM
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You're wrong, but it's not my job to convince you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:47 PM
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Men as a whole don't have to change. They just have to put in the work as individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:19 PM
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A man can pressure, mislead, ghost after sex, spread STIs, or disengage emotionally with little risk to his safety, health, or reputation. A woman making a comparable misjudgment risks pregnancy, violence, social stigma, or long-term caretaking consequences. A man can catch a sexual harassment charge for pressuring and sometimes misleading. Misleading women often leads to serious drama including false rape claims. Being too emotionally engaged while saying you want casual sex is a form of mislea…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:34 PM
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YouTube, but r/seduction is also a good resource. I learned a lot from Alan Roger Currie (RIP)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:29 PM
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But I disagree that "doing the work" will change anything. Most of the people who struggle with dating aren't even "losers" they are ordinary people, who have a slew of positive and negative traits just like the women they try to court. If a guy like this approaches enough women he'll meet multiple girls who are into him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:27 PM
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All of the solutions you suggest do not work if you're below average genetically (short, neurodivergent, the wrong race in a specific environment, etc). I've seen men of all races and heights pull massive amounts of pussy. I'm somewhat neurodivergent myself and that hasn't stopped me. I just have to accept that I have to put a massive amount of effort into my social skills and confidence. But I still get results when I put in the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:25 PM
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Right, there are way more men than women on apps among other issues. One problem is that you look like Al from Toy Story 2 when you don't have to. The other is that you don't talk to enough women. You need to invest in your appearance. I suggest hiring a stylist if you can. If you can't, then I suggest watching the Style OG or some other fashion YouTuber. Focus on looking good and being confident. Then ask chat gpt for help posing for pictures. You can send it selfies and ask for advice on your …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:22 PM
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Why do you think you're too ugly for apps? Are you out of shape, or do you just think you dislike your face? Discord changes things a bit, but not by much. When and how did you exchange pictures with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:38 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:54 PM
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I never said go to the gym. Go outside and look at men. Very few of them are born with a face that makes them unfuckable. Height makes a man marginally more attractive, but the way you talk to a woman can make or break the interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:32 PM
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Get good pictures and a decent bio then start asking matches out asap. 3-4 messages max if you don't ask them out with the first message. She can read your bio to see if she's interested. The date is for getting to know each other, not the app.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 05:26 PM
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Not sure if this is allowed here, but I've come to the realization that this is a forum for losers. It's just bitter men and women whining about each other. Any post that attempts to give actual solutions from a male perspective is buried by mods. The woman who runs this sub should rename it to BlackPillDebates
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 05:16 PM
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Women stopped shaming each other for having casual sex during the hookup culture era, so no. And then following this, the friends end up following the queen hen and feeling like they have to be hypersexual and treat sex casually to fit in with the kind of lemming social culture that women tend create for themselves? A woman who isn't into casual sex will just tell her friend "Not for me, but have fun!". A woman interested in casual sex will have it because she wants sex. Her friend group doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:31 AM
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How long did it take you to ask her out and how did you do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:02 AM
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Y'all need to talk to a woman who is not single by choice to understand where incels are coming from Fixed the title for you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:24 PM
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Summary - Women are collectively saying what they like in bed, but men aren't listening. To be fair it doesn't take much effort to work on being a better lover. Women do it for us, so we can do it for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 09:02 PM
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As you said, this is slowly changing in the right direction, but I would stay we are still very far from not centering piv. Isn't piv sex how it's done in the wild? Why move away from something that's clearly natural?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:14 PM
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I saw a lot of college girls out Friday night.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:07 PM
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Because you don't have to do much talking to get a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:00 PM
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BBW
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 04:18 AM
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There's an aspect of truth to women dressing for themselves. It feels good to feel sexy when you look in the mirror. With that said, women do dress proactively for attention too. Some women show skin to attract men, others show skin to get an ego boost from the heads they turn. They'll rarely admit that though for various reasons. I'm not saying it's wrong, I'm just saying that's the way it is. I personally like being out with a woman in a sexy outfit. If you don't just date women who dress mode…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 05:16 PM
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Interesting how most of the women here cite low self-esteem, anxiety or say they checked out of the dating game entirely. It's almost like sex is a normal part of a woman's healthy dating life and long dry streaks are not. As for empathy, stop asking for it. You don't need empathy, you need help. If you're unhappy with your dry streak take action and end it. The majority of the women responding are coping about their dry streaks. Be the man who ends dry streaks so they don't have to cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 05:04 PM
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Slightly unrelated question, but how you feel about going out to a gay bar with a straight guy so you can wing-man/woman for each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 04:55 PM
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At 31 if I approach a woman who deems me too old I'll get called a predatory creep, I'm 35 and bald. I approached 2 college girls Saturday. They didn't call me a creep, they flirted with me. I walked away because they asked if I wanted to buy a drink (aka buy them drinks) which was a turn off. but when I was 21 with my hairline intact and less wrinkles and I approached someone exactly my age I was hurled racist slurs at because asians weren't their type. Is her disgust somehow reflective of me a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 12:54 PM
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I have social anxiety and I'm a natural introvert. I get attention from women all the time, but I often fail to capitalize due to my anxiety and lack of confidence. I feel like I consistently get close to getting laid recently, but I panic when it's time to close.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:03 AM
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Why is this a question for women when women don't use virgin as an insult? Men call each other virgins as an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 12:58 AM
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Some women don't want a relationship Some women can't get one with a man they want Some women don't want to sleep with the person they're with All of those women get horny and want sex though. Their fantasies generally involve them being fucked, not monogamy. Most women do think about doing something slutty at various points of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 11:26 PM
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Women do that when they want a ring more than they want their man. You'll see red flags long before it gets to that point
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 05:45 PM
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Don't take dating advice from women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 04:54 PM
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Women are biologically attracted to dominant men. A woman wants the man to make the first move, schedule the first date, and move things forward. You're going to have a hard time with women until you get comfortable initiating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 04:41 AM
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Men and women tend to get horny differently. When men are bored, sex is the entertainment. For women, they generally need to already be having fun before they want to have sex. Women have fun flirting with a guy they like. Women also masturbate for fun, so they can get horny when they're bored. Sometimes boredom leads to horniness. That's why coffee dates are often criticized over dinner and drinks--not just because its low effort, Its just harder to feel sexual feelings towards someone after co…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:11 PM
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Male-female friendships are usually the result of the man being afraid to make a move or the woman rejecting him. Either way it's a weak position for the man. Women also have a hard time handling locker room talk. Most women wouldn't appreciate their male friend commenting on a women's huge tits as she walks by. Or pointing to the woman across the room and saying he'd fuck the shit out of her. Being friends with lots of women sounds like it could be useful for a man for many reasons. Like imagin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:55 PM
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Speak for yourself buddy, I've had women turn to putty and touch themselves from my voice alone. Sucks to suck but your complaining won't stop women from desiring good sex. Do you really think that some woman is going to read this and think Hmm, that guy is right. I shouldn't have enjoyed all the amazing sex I've had in my life. I should have saved myself for the mediocre guy who posts on Reddit. Of course not, your shaming tactics won't change anything. Women don't need to be re-wired to fantas…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 03:18 PM
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Well good luck finding a nice guy so he can give you a bunch of money for no reason
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 10:20 PM
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It's about being a pleasant, giving, moral person without expecting rewards for it. That's the definition of a sucker, not a nice person. I'm not giving you anything unless I'm donating to charity or you've earned it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:56 PM
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Normal people grow out of that mindset. Nonsense, I can go to any bar and find men who buy random women drinks, sometimes without even introducing themselves. Do you think these guys are genuinely kind people, or do you think they want to fuck those girls? Do you think men take women on extravagant dinner dates because they're just wholesome good men? No, they do it because they want to fuck. The bad boy is an asshole because he doesn't jump through hoops like that for pussy like nice guys. He f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:34 PM
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Does begging women for empathy, compassion, or anything else sound masculine to you? The cold, hard reality is that men have to stop begging women for guidance and start being men. No woman wants hold a man while he cries in her arms about the hardships of being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:11 PM
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I fancy her a lot...I think she fancies me a little It was over before the date started. You could tell how nervous he was the entire time. There was no substance besides him telling her to put the wallet away. She probably liked that until he giggles and growled like a clown. But he was 100% cooked when he leaned across the table and kissed her on the cheek with a frail sounding "happy birthday". Get up, take her hand, have her stand up, tell her you've had a great time with her, and go for a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:16 PM
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Nice guys do nice things because they were told that it will make women like them. Bad boys are assholes because they do what they want and let women do nice things for them. Nice guys follow the woman's lead while bad boys make women follow their lead. That's why bad boys are simultaneously irresistible to women and assholes at the same time. It's not because they're actually assholes, it's because they can't be controlled like nice guys. But women like dominant men hence the contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 05:48 PM
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I like women who wear sexy clothes but I digress. While I agree that your boyfriend sounds insecure, I think you should respect his wishes and cover up if that's what he wants. The fact that you're on Reddit calling him insecure instead shows that you don't respect him. Maybe that's his fault for failing to be a man and communicate his standards early, maybe it's not. Either way a relationship where the woman doesn't respect the man is in trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 02:13 PM
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So if men and women are equal, why is the man supposed to make the first move, establish the relationship and give it that name, buy a ring and propose, all that jazz? This isn't chasing, it's leading. Why is love something to be earned as a man through your actions but something you simply deserve as a woman? Even the most liberal or leftist women I know do not go against these norms. I would bet you know little to no women who make the first move and definitely no woman who's ever proposed (to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 08:10 PM
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Everything you mentioned can be improved besides dick size. John Fetterman has a hideous face and he has an attractive wife comparatively.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:47 PM
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I also said dating skills. You have to know how to attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:31 PM
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Many people try to become the best version of themselves, but still fail to find a partner. Maybe it's on them, but I believe a lot of guys and gals have just been dealt a bad hand from the start. Not everyone was "meant" to have a relationship/have sex, and trying to deny this is like denying nature itself. Being the best version of yourself doesn't work if you don't improve your social and dating skills. As a man that means approaching women, flirting, asking women out, and building sexual ten…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:27 PM
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There's also birth control. Prior to birth control reproduction was almost guaranteed after frequent sex. Since it's easy to prevent conception or get an abortion fewer births occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:47 PM
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I'm not red pill but I came pretty close. I noticed this tall blonde girl walk out of the bathroom with a similar jacket to mine and said she had good taste. We talked for a few minutes and she started brushing her face against mine to talk in my ear when she wanted to say something. Pretty clear IOI. I probably could have teased her about it, asked if she got her New Years kiss, said it's not too late, and made out with her. I just didn't go for it. My excuse is that I hadn't gone out in 2 mont…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:51 PM
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Black pillers need to accept that it's their fault they don't get laid not genetics. Men need to realize their value, develop standards, and be the best versions of themselves instead of obsessing over height, muscles, money, jaw size, etc. Slut shaming probably needs to end since it inherently creates resentment and envy. But people generally just need to focus on getting what they want instead of crying about not getting it on the Internet. Go outside and actually talk to the people from the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:43 PM
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A woman thinking at the back of her mind that he's a safe option but not hot enough to have flings. Physical attraction not being top priority as it was for her flings. Women don't consciously think this. Women have flings with men when there's heavy flirting, there's mutual attraction, and the guy makes it clear that he just wants sex. It's a go with the flow type of situation. The same guys wouldn't have gotten flings if they came at her with friendly energy. They'd just be another nice guy in…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:07 PM
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Changing who you are so you can bring what you think women want to the table is nice guy behavior. You should be the best version of yourself and find the women who meet the following criteria: You're attracted to them They're attracted to you They want the same thing you want Don't settle for women who you're not attracted to or waste time chasing women who aren't attracted to you. You'll never be attractive to every single woman. But you should especially not change what you want to fit a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:33 PM
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If this doesn't convince you to stop asking women for dating advice I don't know what will
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 05:19 PM
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Hookup culture isn't really a thing anymore. People are still hooking up, but that's reverted back to something that happens under the curtains instead of something that's openly embraced.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:37 PM
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Most lonely men are lonely because they have poor social skills and don't talk to women consistently. Getting a better job or a better body won't change much if women don't like what they hear when you open your mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 03:45 PM
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Because women are very happy to have a land away from men Let's be real, women wouldn't last a week without male attention. Even if they could somehow keep the lights on and society running without men, which they couldn't. Women would sneak off the island and hide men in their basements if it came to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:41 PM
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No, you're putting women on a pedestal if you find them enchanting. I'm attracted to women, but there's nothing magical about them. They're mortal human beings like the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 07:33 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:25 PM
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You wouldn't complain about me taking time out of my day to try and help people if you weren't upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:13 PM
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Can I ask why you're so upset about this? Are you afraid to lose your job to AI?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:55 PM
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That's like asking someone who drives to work if they can't just walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:53 PM
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It doesn't change on a whim, different people have different preferences. What's top 20% to you is not top 20% to every man in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:34 PM
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Well Thomas Matthew Crooks didn't even wash his face. Of course women won't call you attractive if you don't do the bare minimum in terms of hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:31 PM
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Yep, I've seen it over and over again. Women are more turned on by the way you take care of yourself and the way you talk to them than they are by bone structure, height, or whatever other nonsense this sub preaches. But my karma is taking a beating because men don't want to take accountability. They want to blame women for their woes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:27 PM
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Feel free to report my post. I will repost this as the original if this gets taken down. But AI is going nowhere, get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:25 PM
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Let's say 95% of women find short men unattractive. That leaves 5%. Why would we say this? You haven't even defined short. Can you provide a peer reviewed study showing that 95% of women men refuse to date or sleep with men below what you consider short? Look at that. You got super lucky. You met one of those 5%. It's not about luck. It's about putting yourself out there and meeting the women who are right for you. You have a small dick. Women don't like that. Now, that 5% decreases down to 2%. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:11 PM
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I'm going to end the conversation here since you're ignoring the point about the top 20% being subjective to different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:49 PM
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Worst case scenario they're locked out of being in the top 20% to most women. Even then there will be some women who will see him as a top 20% man based on the way he carries himself and takes care of himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:48 PM
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Meaning this in a 3rd world country. Where people are living worse. A man with x amount of things would be seen as top 20%. Not necessarily. He could just be seen as someone to use for resources. Everyone is in shape then it’s normal or below average. Never going to happen But I have baseline objective attraction to women Your baseline objective attraction is probably different from mine. Different women also have different baseline objective attractions. Meaning it doesn’t matter if their are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:46 PM
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There's no such thing as a universal top 20% of men. Different women see different men as top 20%. Most men won't put the work in to be too 20% so there will always be room for men willing to grind.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:41 PM
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I literally said looks matter in my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:35 PM
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I used ChatGpt for editing. Here's the prompt for transparency: I have a new r/PurplePillDebates draft. What do you think? It's a pseudoscientific subreddit, so don't worry about things sounding clinical. There's a lot of talk about the 80/20 rule in this forum. I personally believe that it's true - women are only attracted to the top 20% of men. But attraction is subjective. Different people have different preferences. I believe that this is partially due to the fact that we all have different …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:35 PM
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I never said that tall and conventionally attractive men don't have an advantage. But what percentage of men are tall, conventionally attractive, and confident? It's probably 1-2% of men at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:30 PM
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Well I didn't downvote you. I believe that height gives you an advantage. Shorter guys flat out have to work harder. But even a 5' guy can find a girl who thinks he's hot if he puts the work in.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:28 PM
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Obviously he's not high value. He's a low value man who managed to seduce a woman. I'm just saying that even men with huge red flags attract women, so be vigilant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:27 PM
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I actually think you could fall for a guy even if he didn't meet your 5th, 6th and (unfortunately) 4th standards. After all - plenty of women stick with abusive men. But you're generally proving my point. A lot of your physical attraction to a man is based on things within his control.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:21 PM
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I'm tall too. I used to have a chubby 5'6 friend from Mexico with bad teeth. I'll never forget the time me and him approached a couple of Midwestern white girls girls during covid. He got one of them to say that they're bitches who like being fucked within a minute. Meanwhile I was awkward and not that confident. The girl I was talking to flat out rejected me. I know plenty of short guys who get laid more than I do. Height makes things significantly easier, but it isn't the end all be all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:15 PM
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Realistically every man won't put in the work, but some woman is going to see you as the top 20% man if that does happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:59 PM
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I wore a sleeveless American flag jumpsuit from Spirit Halloween. It was one of my tamer costumes on the surface since I usually wear something that shows off my abs. But it highlighted my bulge and had a zipper on the front that one girl had fun with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:23 PM
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Hope everyone had a good Halloween. It's probably my favorite holiday since it's the one day of the year where men get to dress like sluts too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:51 PM
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I didn't realize that it got that bad. With that said, dating apps still work if you have top of the line pictures. You just can't depend on them. Focus on IRL and use apps as a supplement.
/r/seduction01/11/25 03:49 PM
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but when a man they are attracted to comes in the picture Key words here. But men here will believe that women hold all men to the same standards. In reality, when the hot guy wants sex on the first date he gets it because she'll do anything for him to like her. When the average guy wants sex on the first date, she's not that type of girl. And that's exactly what he wants to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:31 AM
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I'll believe it when I see it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:25 PM
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No, I think the human race is fine the way it is. I'm not interested in imposing test tube reproduction on billions of people. But I digress, I didn't come here to debate your fantasy. I came here to point out the reality that civilization would not exist without sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:01 PM
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I'm good
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:41 PM
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The human race would have gone extinct a long time ago without sex so no, there wouldn't be any technology without sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:34 PM
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Why does does society exist? Sex. Why do economies exist? Sex. Why do you want to continue working? Sex. Why do you want to to learn or get a degree? Sex. To be fair none of these things would exist without sex. Stop acting like it isn't a basic human need.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:29 PM
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I got bullied in elementary school. That stuck with me throughout high school and early adulthood even though I was tall and unbelievably good looking. I thought I was stupid, and I even thought I had a small penis even though it was over 7 inches long. I hit the genetic lottery, but it didn't matter because I was beaten down mentally. I skipped so many days of school the principal almost reported me to the police for truancy. Eventually I dropped out and got my GED. My decision to drop out of s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:21 PM
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No, next question
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:07 PM
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It's not society's fault if you're a loser, it's your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:50 PM
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You don't think that women ask men to smile? I've had women tell me to smile my whole damn life and I hate it. With that said, flirting is not harassment. You should learn what the word means before you use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:46 PM
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Idk about you, but I prefer to live in the real world. I'm definitely not fantasizing about 16 year olds getting gangbanged at parties. The fact that you even thought of that is a bit disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 07:28 PM
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Why would you ever imagine a 16 year old girl asking her dad if she can go fuck 10 guys at a party? I doubt that's ever happened in the history of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 07:22 PM
1

Why not do both?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:17 PM
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Why would I want anything but sex from a 22 year old when I'm in my 30s? I dated a 20 year old when I was 26 and she was just a drain on my resources. I prefer women 25-30 for something serious. I know you like to think the 22 year olds sit at home knitting sweaters, but they're dating multiple men and having sex. 18-25 are the sluttiest years of a woman's life. You need to lower your age range below the age of consent if you want purity. It's kind of creepy that you're so obsessed with somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:15 PM
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Idk what "sexually ruined" means, but women are getting their backs blown out long before the age of 25. The average age of virginity loss is 17.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 12:28 AM
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I've hooked up with women sober a few times. One girl met me at the beach off Tinder and she even refused to drink. We walked and talked for 15 minutes then went back to her condo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 11:30 PM
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The standard for casual sex is sexual attraction. In other words if a woman gets horny while she's flirting with a guy she just met she'll more than likely be open to casual sex with him. Long term relationships provide emotional support, stability, and resources in addition to regular sex. So there are many attributes men can use to make up for weaker sexual attraction and get a long term relationship. But when it comes to casual sex you either make her wet enough to lose her inhibitions and ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:25 PM
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it absolutely fucking sucks that I can’t have a romantic or sexual life let alone be apart of the hookup scene. How often do you approach women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:19 PM
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I don't like getting laid because it's an achievement. I like getting laid because I like sex and it's fun. It's casual sex, not ranked competitive sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:15 PM
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In this context the main restriction for men is no casual sex. There are some restrictions on what men can wear, but they have way more freedom than women do in this area.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:10 PM
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If you interact with a lot of women a few of them are bound to be attracted to you. Some of those women will be interested in casual sex. If you don't go out and talk to women you won't get these opportunities. If you slut shame women for having casual sex you'll sabotage these opportunities too. All men really have to do is put a bit of effort into their appearance and approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:04 PM
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Women don't want a man who twists himself into a nice guy so people like him. They want a man who's real and authentic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:47 PM
3

I'm just realistic. The majority of women have had casual sex and all women lie about their n count. Why would I waste my time with a woman who probably had casual sex with another man but pretends that she's incapable of having sex with me on the first or second night? Why would I want a woman who makes me work for sex instead of one who wants sex just as much as I do because she's attracted to me? Chasing low n count women is a waste of time. Most of you will end up with a high n count woman w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:22 PM
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Except a woman asks a man for his salary probably wants to use him for money. A man who asks a woman her body count wants to be denied sex. He wants sex to be something he has to beg for until the woman rewards him like a good boy since she's not "easy".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:15 PM
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People always leave personal preference out of this discussion. There's no universal top 1% man to women. A man who's top 1% to one woman might be repulsive to another. The problem is that being attractive to a lot of women requires hard work. You have to look your best and play the numbers game. You have to stop slut shaming women who actually want to have sex with you. You have to stop chasing "good girls" who make you waste months of your time for sex. If you look your best eventually you'll …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:11 PM
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This is why shaming women is a waste of time. Women aren't going back to the 1950s unless society goes full Sharia law. Men need to adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:04 PM
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Some of the advice is good, but 3 and 5 are trash. It's like OP put them there so he could post this as a question for women and get validation from them. Stop asking and debating women about dating advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:03 PM
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And the thing is; it works. That's why they exist. Yea, it works at getting into the friendzone
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:40 AM
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Most of our sample (aged 18-82; roughly as many men as women) said they had had casual sex (73%) ever. About 12% refused to answer, and 4% were unsure. The rest said no. Gender Differences in Casual Sex So only 11% of people claim to have never engaged in casual sex according to this survey. Trust me, the vast majority of women have casual sex. You also misunderstand what turns some women on as physical attractiveness is not the only thing When did I say anything about physical attractiveness? O…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:22 PM
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Yes, not all women enjoy casual sex or heightened sexual attention Women enjoy sex with men they're sexually attracted to, period. If a woman is truly turned on by the man she'll be fine with casual sex. But this also means that, on average, women don't need to worry about sexual selection in a partner, in the sense that, by default, a man will more often than not sexually desire a woman. Therefore, a woman can focus more on selecting a partner based on personality and compatibility, since they …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:19 PM
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They weren't sexually attracted to their husbands and they don't want to admit it. They could use sex to manipulate their husbands into doing more chores or treating them a certain way. In other words control. Men get comfortable and let themselves go after marriage, further reducing sexual attraction. The women telling you that they can only have sex within a relationship are lying to you. Once they've gone through divorce the pressure to protect their image is alleviated, making it easier for …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 03:03 PM
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Can we stop saying that a woman who engages in casual sex is being used? It's insulting to both men and women. If women don't enjoy sex with you speak for yourself. You're only using a woman for sex if you have to lie or pay to get it. No one gets used when a man and a woman who are attracted to each other have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 09:31 PM
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There are plenty of nice guys who don't know how to socialize or attract women and turn them on. Being nice doesn't get you what you want, taking action does. You don't need to subscribe to an ideology, but being pleasant won't cut it if you want the hot girl across the room. You have to approach, start a conversation, and building attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 04:55 PM
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Men please be honest with me and with yourselves. Do you TRULY notice and admit to yourself when a woman is not attracted to you? Or you find all kinds of excuses? My guy friends are oblivious. Even when a woman rejects them, they don't take the hint. If a woman won't hold eye contact or gives me a bad vibe I'll move on. If a woman is friendly with me but she doesn't reciprocate when I try to flirt or and escalate. I look for signs of high interest from start to finish, any signs that she's not …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 01:48 PM
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The threshold of what a woman considers to be wealthy enough/kind enough/genuine enough/"not a walking red flag" is unrealistically high. Authenticity is the only one of these traits that really matters. Women really just want men who turn them on and make them wet. Everyone else is invisible to them until they realize that Chad only wants sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:23 PM
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As the person actually there, I'm confident that you're wrong. The key is to do it a way that makes them feel like it's actually safe and fun to open up like this--that your defenses aren't up so hers don't have to be. I'm confident that I'm right, but I have no interest in digging deeper into your interactions so we'll agree to disagree. It builds genuine connection, makes your first date stand out from her other first dates, and scores you "he's-not-like-other-guys" points. Talking about past …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 06:44 PM
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I actually do all of that. I admit I'm a bit unusual in that respect, but it does work for me. You're definitely lowering the attraction level by doing this, but keep doing it if you're happy with the results. But I'm not really talking about all that. You said "If she asks." And if she asks, it's weird to totally evade and think it's not going in the red flag binder. That's all. Most women understand that they aren't entitled to that information. If you change the subject they'll go with the fl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:35 AM
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It's not digging into your past. It's not like she's hiring a private detective. It's asking a normal getting-to-know-you question and quite rationally wondering why you're being evasive. Unless you're dating an idiot, she's going to clock it. If you want to tell a girl your body count and talk about your failed relationships be my guest. You can ask about her body count and why her relationships failed in return since your pasts are fair game. I don't recommend it but I'm not here to change you…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:54 PM
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If she really insists on digging into your past she's not that into you. If she's interested she'll be more than happy to flirt and talk about her future with you. Women like to ramble about their pasts with their girlfriends. Talking about each other's exes or your inability to attract women puts you in that category.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:53 PM
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Just don't talk about your past with women. If she asks about it gaze into her eyes and say something like - Our pasts are the last thing on my mind right now. The only thing I can think about is our future. Like how we're going to do so and so... Maybe gently hold or caress her hand while you're at it. And just like that you've changed the subject, broken the touch barrier, and got her thinking and talking about whatever you want to do with her. If you let the conversation drift into your past …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 01:34 PM
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Its not me claiming this. Its women themselves saying how their current boyfriend or hubby wasn't exactly their "type" and needed to "grow on them" first. Because their spouses chased them and wore them down until they gave them a chance. All of those men would have been better off moving on and finding a woman more attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 06:28 PM
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