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Accomplished_Gene176/r/Divorce_Men21/10/23 08:04 AM
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8

Just 99% I can go on this sub reddit or elsewhere and read the EXACT same story over and over every single day.
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/24 06:34 PM
2

Yep, women want their best possible option and they have access to online dating, every guy at work, and any guy on their insta. What could go wrong?
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/24 08:08 AM
7

White and woke
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/24 09:08 PM
2

Women dont take accountability thats why
/r/MensRights16/09/24 04:13 AM
5

Yes my parents stayed together through thick and thin. Still together today. I thought when you married you worked through the issues but today the way women work through things is by replacement.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 07:49 PM
-1

Im on Trt and have run my estrogen up 3x what its supposed to be and let me tell you I can fully understand why they are so fickle natured. Constant panick attacks over little things, wanting to cry watching movies I lived a brief period of time through their lense.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 05:00 PM
15

Cant agree more. Had a woman I dated for a year (cheated on me and left me) hit me up about 6 months ago going on about how shes 37 and it may be too late to have a baby blah blah. She wanted me to go on a date with her and I agreed then ghosted as a big fuck you. She is now married to a guy yes only 6 months later and will prob crap out her calf soon. Best of luck to him LOL
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 04:53 PM
1

Women want what you can do for them not you.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 08:24 AM
1

You need to be channing tatum too
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 08:11 AM
2

Dating sucks in the west, women here dont actually need us due to higher pay and a better standard of living. This is why many here have been used as sperm donors and baby slaves. Ill be trying my luck overseas when I can afford it
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 08:05 AM
2

You can date a woman on those apps but bet she will keep the app during the entire relationship. Men can settle on one choice and focus, women on the other hand cannot if offered too many options.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 04:26 AM
-3

Put her on blast
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 11:12 AM
2

Maybe just do things with him that you know he enjoys to get him through the rough patch.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 04:25 AM
2

The housing market in canada is a bubble ready to burst. Id be leveraging a decent house I paid 230k for to buy a 600k wartime pos. Ill buy stocks during dips for now.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 03:16 AM
1

Honestly its just easier if you can afford it. Endless interviewing and having your self esteemed trashed over and over doesnt appeal to me
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 03:15 AM
1

Escort using around 250 cad if its an hr, hh is much cheaper. Do your research on review boards to make sure you know exactly who you are getting.
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/24 11:15 PM
6

I honestly dont do it often once per month or so. I just really hate speaking to women in general after my experiences and would rather not spend much time on them. I make 110k per year and get a pension of 900$ per month from my company. My house is also 90k left until paid off same age as you at 32. Thailand or Philippines sounds great someday.
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/24 07:03 PM
11

Theres no good options dude, you can date and get cheated on inevitably. Or youll meet a nice woman move her in to share your shit and she will finish you off financially in the divorce. I chose paying for sex for now, I have zero patience left for speaking to women to date. The thought of allowing them the upper hand to cheat on me makes me feel icky
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/24 06:53 PM
11

Dating a single mother is like playing someone elses saved game. They are for practise sex only.
/r/MensRights08/09/24 06:47 AM
1

I think women get treated better regardless of looks.
/r/MensRights08/09/24 06:42 AM
4

Perceived “upgrade” so usually they actually leave a hard working man for a drug dealer or a registered sex offender
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/24 04:03 AM
12

To add to this Men and women cheat for different reasons. Men will cheat to taste a new flavour, women cheat to upgrade
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/24 02:58 AM
2

Ill bet the farm she was screwing around with the co worker and thats why it ended. Probably still with him now or a different guy. Did she really go see her “family” doubt it. Im sorry you had to go through this bs but its time to stop helping her and start living for you. If you want to date again you need to get red pilled on women. No more marriage, living together or helping them.
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/24 10:05 AM
-2

If you arent a chad you will be dusted on apps. Pay for sex or bars
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/24 01:44 AM
28

Women only listen to other womens problems. A man being open gives them ick and it will be used against him.
/r/MensRights31/08/24 05:15 PM
28

Some guys are stupid enough to do these tasks after the divorce. Congrats on having a back bone
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/24 05:12 PM
11

Yep you find out who really gives a shit and who doesnt real fast. The wifes family usually treats you as dead to them lol
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/24 12:48 PM
18

Because everything in society is geared towards women good and men automatically bad unless hes gay or does drag
/r/MensRights31/08/24 08:34 AM
4

She wouldnt hesitate to leave you for a better option
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/24 09:25 PM
-9

The top G is number one for me.
/r/MensRights29/08/24 01:41 PM
1

Simply put itll never change because women are experts at it and never really fall in love like men do. Women dont like you they like what you can do for them
/r/MensRights29/08/24 11:27 AM
23

Pay for sex if you have to as well. Why are we following some bs moral fabric and they dont have to?
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/24 03:58 AM
1

What did you expect out of a country that banned knives
/r/MensRights28/08/24 11:11 AM
2

My thought as well.
/r/MensRights27/08/24 01:51 AM
2

Look into thailand
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/24 12:22 PM
15

Bingo, she wants the kid not you. Period.
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/24 12:16 AM
-1

Just joan of ark
/r/MensRights22/08/24 09:54 PM
17

First off know your wife cheated and replaced you, accept this fact. I found having my own dog the most fulfilling thing to fill my time. My dog requires lots of exercise and takes up a lot of my free time. Their love is also unconditional unlike your ex’s. A woman will never really love you, they love what you can do for them.
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/24 07:09 AM
7

Look up monkey branching. This is a common theme these days.
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/24 10:29 AM
3

Figures, the truth is usually 10x worse than what you think
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/24 05:28 AM
14

Could very well be projecting because she cheated
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/24 04:15 AM
29

Dude 99% of the time they have a guy before the relationship is even over.
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/24 02:54 AM
10

She will cheat again and wont hesitate to destroy you in the process. You can stay and she will have zero respect for you and view you as a mangina or leave and take the high road and meet loyal prospects. Its clearly over dude.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/24 02:26 AM
4

You steal half her shit just like if the shoe were on the other foot
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/24 01:57 AM
3

You steal half her shit just like if the shoe were on the other foot
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/24 01:56 AM
12

Of course they planned it and you got fleeced dude. Look at the parents. Divorced = daughter sees divorce as no big deal
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/24 04:55 PM
9

Yeah and sadly no one will ever care. You see a homeless woman and theres always some dude who will rescue her
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/24 12:51 AM
16

We all die alone brother. Dont sweat it
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/24 06:15 AM
1

She met someone else
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/24 03:08 AM
7

She wouldn’t say her body count and I missed it because She loved bombed me and I had never experienced the level of affection she gave.
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/24 12:25 AM
3

You need a trip to pattaya thailand
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/24 06:28 PM
5

The family will always turn on you even if she caused the separation. Facebook is meaningless crap same as insta.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/24 06:46 PM
6

Ive found most male friends have wives and kids and dont bother unless its with another couple. A lot of the time the wife doesnt want the husband seeing how easy the single life is.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/24 12:45 AM
2

Yep their scam is the long game
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/24 08:57 PM
4

This is a load of bs dude
/r/MensRights29/07/24 01:06 AM
3

This. They are happy “for now”. When a new man makes her tinkle at work itll be the beginning of the end. The husband wont even see it coming.
/r/MensRights29/07/24 01:01 AM
2

Private trt clinic is the easiest, if you are over 30 years old chances are your test levels are low. You pick a clinic online, pay the 50$ for the blood test and a nurse practitioner goes over your blood work and assess what you need for dosage. You choose cream or needle injection and then they ship the vial / needles to your house and you inject twice a week.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/24 11:28 PM
3

Also get on trt
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/24 11:16 PM
10

How do you trust again? You dont its 2024 women have so many options the minute you mess up and come home with he wrong starbucks latte she will likely be sexting guys in her phone. You are sabotaging the new ones because deep down you know they dont love you they like what you can do for them.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/24 07:13 PM
5

Most women want the wedding not the marriage, the marriage requires work and accountability. Yes it is true women are only as loyal as their options. She has to wake up everyday and look in the mirror and say this is the nest I can do or its game over
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/24 10:11 AM
1

Where did you meet her
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 02:15 PM
36

They are only as loyal as their options
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 02:39 AM
6

Wants to remain hidden because she doesnt want you meeting the new guy
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/24 06:54 PM
3

One of my exes had pots pans and even her wedding dress bought before we lived together. Yes I ran.
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/24 06:50 PM
35

I am 32, Im in your exact shoes and have been alone for 1 year now. Ive come to the conclusion no matter what you will get love goggles and become weak in relationships. Essentially you will screw up at some point. A modern relationship is just too much work for the average man. My advice would be if you need sex pay for it. Get bored then start working out.
/r/MensRights26/07/24 05:19 PM
33

They move on long before the divorce dont be fooled
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 11:31 PM
9

Usually when they accuse you of cheating and want your location its projection because they are actually the ones cheating and knowing where you are allows them to do it.
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/24 04:14 AM
8

Dude its over accept it
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/24 08:52 PM
1

Mine is andrew tate the top G
/r/MensRights17/07/24 04:30 AM
11

All I had to read was 1st and 2nd husband and I knew these women are trash. The craziness gets pushed down generation to generation.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/24 01:17 AM
1

These stories remind me that modern relationships are utterly pointless. How does a man live like that being worn down every single day doing all the heavy lifting until hes burnt out. I guess you could have said no but who knows maybe she’d just go all boss bitch and protest it. Living with women shouldnt be this hard. My ex was very lazy didnt do any house chores but what do I do? Say no and live in filth and the dogs never get walked. Guess thats why its over
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/24 08:33 PM
5

Never trust a womans tears unless she is alone. The crying is manipulation. She is trying to see if you will bail on the new chick and chase her so she can flick her bean to stringing you along while having a bf.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/24 08:20 PM
6

You might as well write door mat on your forehead.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/24 08:11 PM
5

People who have nothing to hide, hide nothing. She was 100% screwing john and her banging him likely led her to not care about you and let the marriage collapse. Do not even try to reconcile all she will do is operate covertly. When a woman sees you as her hypergamous best option all other men are invisible to her.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/24 07:59 PM
1

Could be her thyroid has gone to crap. Have her do a blood test. If you get along otherwise The attraction could be rekindled. That or turn off the lights and think of other women.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/24 07:50 PM
2

100% truth
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/24 11:25 AM
3

Go to the gym or work out at home and pair it with trt. It goes together like carrots and peas.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/24 01:47 PM
14

Yep saddle up the new pony
/r/MensRights09/07/24 01:37 PM
42

When a woman leaves a relationship its 99% chance shes been cheating emotionally or physically with another guy
/r/MensRights09/07/24 11:41 AM
6

Women care about their friends and their immediate blood family, everyone else is disposable in their life.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/24 08:44 PM
5

I had a woman I was engaged to do exactly this crap. We’d plan a day trip and by the time she got her ass in gear it was too late to go to the destination because itd be dark out lol.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/24 07:31 PM
12

Get 8 hrs of sleep per day. My ex was a lazy pos and would never get up to take our dogs out so I was the one jumping out of bed to deal with them (we worked nights). Usually Id be lucky to get 5 hrs sleep.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/24 04:19 PM
2

We could speak up but theres too many white knight manginas that will betray us. Its simply not worth losing my job over it. Ill sit back and watch society burn to a crisp
/r/MensRights07/07/24 08:25 AM
1

Any time Im in the mood for fapping during the week I put the energy into working out. The weekend I fap away.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/24 07:44 AM
10

Any man over 30 should chase money and use it to pay for the occasional pleasure rather than chase this garbage
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/24 05:34 AM
1

Ive had a the conversation with a few Dr and all claimed ssri does not affect test levels. Who knows. I was on lexapro for about a year started halving my dosage for about 2 months and my test levels were lower with half the dosage. Went from 11.2 to 9.4 scale is 8.4 to 28 here
/r/MensRights30/06/24 09:54 AM
1

Get tested. Some doctors are really good for helping you out others will be useless. Mine was useless I came back with a 9.4 test level the scale is 8.4 to 28 and he was telling me Im normal and fine Im 32. I knew it wasnt right and went to a trt clinic and they tested everything and found I was in fact low for LH, free Test and Test. My insurance covers some of the drugs so its not that bad better than feeling like ass all the time.
/r/MensRights30/06/24 09:46 AM
6

They always give the new toy the most attention. Take things slow and try to not put so much pressure on the relationship. Be prepared to walk away at any time and don’t ignore the red flags. You probably have trust issues and who could blame you.
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/24 09:41 AM
8

The unplugged alpha and no more mr nice guy
/r/MensRights29/06/24 03:31 PM
7

I wouldnt overlook those red flags, shes telling you shes a pain in the ass.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/24 12:11 PM
5

Only if they get left theyll cry about how wrongly they were treated. Theyll leave the next guy and treat him 10x worse then they were and not think twice about it
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/24 03:50 PM
2

Women have a monopoly on dating and sex is why men are so desperate
/r/MensRights25/06/24 11:51 AM
1

Sounds like you made a good choice just keep doing what your doing. The other option is getting destroyed good and proper next time.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/24 11:30 AM
3

Single mothers are always 1 sorry away from being back with their baby daddy and this is a prime example. Same thing happened to me when I dated a single mom for 4 months
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/24 09:19 PM
1

I used to nail this crazy bitch tarpless for 2 years and only pulled out no bc. Youll be fine
/r/MensRights18/06/24 11:54 AM
8

Shes a single mother first of all so she ruined another man. Shes playing you like a fiddle, doesnt have to do anything and you foot the bill. Time to cut her loose things wont get better.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/24 08:45 AM
3

I said the same thing with my ex, no way she was seeing someone. Then about 8 months later I sat down and connected the dots, she was 100% cheating with a co worker. They always have a cock to land onto when they leave.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/24 07:30 AM
5

Her and the new guy are probably laughing it up right now lol. Grow a pair and pull the rug right out.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/24 07:26 AM
13

Never ever build a woman up. They will always use their new status to upgrade to better men. Perfect example is when fat women lose weight and leave their husband for the carousel. Shes likely met a new exciting man and cant wait to get rid of you.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/24 07:18 AM
20

She was monkey branching and the branch she grabbed broke. She will do this nonsense again
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/24 07:00 AM
7

I meant the helping her pack as an insult, dont actually do it
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/24 03:57 AM
15

She 100% cheated, the relationship is over. Only thing you should ask her is if she wants you to help her pack.
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/24 12:43 AM
30

Should compare std tests of the old man and her then we'll see who the real disgusting one is.
/r/MensRights11/06/24 11:31 AM
6

This woman is just being open and honest about being a grifter. The rest just do this naturally as Npc's.
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/24 10:27 PM
13

Lol at all these stupid moral calculators these white knights have. Go as young as possible as long as shes legal and who cares if she wants more, you give her more and youll be right back in this subreddit when she fleeces you.
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/24 02:25 AM
10

She meant 40 just got her numbers mixed up. She will leave again and emotionally wreck you twice as hard. By taking her back you delay the invevitable.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 08:06 AM
1

When she took her stupid cats and crap out of my basement a few months later I set up an entire home gym down there, have dumbells 10-90 lb, bench press, power tower, functional trainer cable machine, lat pull down. Its a nice set up. Im currently looking into taking trt.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/24 02:49 PM
42

Dog. Less whining, it loves you unconditionally and it wont make false DV claims
/r/MensRights02/06/24 12:00 PM
17

No one wants to hear your bs excuses. Now run along
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/24 11:55 AM
12

The legal aspect aside it is uncomfortable as hell living with someone who you are separating from. Women are merciless when theyre done with you. I dont recommend even living with a gf.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/24 07:28 PM
1

You dont need to feel positive about dating again, you need to fully give up on it. After my last break up I fully surrendered to the red pill. I saw female nature for what it is and never looked back. Now I workout a ton, get tons of projects done, and enjoy my hobbies. No stress from having to be a circus monkey. It may not just be you either the dating landscape gets much worse every year.
/r/MensRights30/05/24 11:39 AM
1

I think a fair amount of them will be thinking" hey this guy wont jerk me around and is willing to get married". If you're broke from the divorce that may turn off some.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/24 10:54 PM
1

I think it will depend on the woman individually. Some will see it as a red flag others will see you have the ability to commit all the way.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/24 12:25 PM
1

Why do you need to tell them? Maybe if the conversation comes up someday. Just act as a single guy thats it
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/24 07:13 AM
15

The travellers just want a Simp to pay for it and they might get to see her getting changed once as a reward before she goes out to find chad at the tikki bar
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/24 09:56 PM
6

You sure she wasnt cheating, from what you've told us Id bet the farm on it
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/24 11:10 AM
22

Meh I bet its small potatoes compared to the skeletons in her meat curtain closet
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/24 08:41 AM
4

They almost always have someone else lined up when they leave unless theres actual abuse. It's unfortunate that us Men get love goggles and dont see this until months after. I did the pick me dance and now I seriously regret not just kickin her out day 1 as one last F U
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/24 05:33 AM
10

Yes I have, you've been fully red pilled brother congrats. You have reached a full understanding of female nature and now no longer see any value in them. Theres no going back from here either just embrace it.
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/24 10:44 PM
10

She belongs to the streets
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/24 03:46 PM
126

Every single mom is running a nigerian aids scam on the general male population. Theres a reason why its become common knowledge to view them purely as practise sex
/r/MensRights26/05/24 01:56 PM
10

I gave up about a year ago. Whats the point of jumping through all these hoops and bs to appease a woman. I can work overtime for a couple hrs and see a working girl instead
/r/MensRights25/05/24 09:42 AM
10

To go from ok to stone cold over nothing shes met someone else. She likely has had them as plan b for a while. Dont listen to what she says, just watch what she does. 100% an affair
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/24 09:25 AM
12

Her slutty past. When I asked her body count and got crickets I should have ran!
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/24 10:24 PM
2

Being bitter will save you from fucking up again. Its ok to be jaded. With time youll put the bitter energy into hobbies and working out
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/24 04:33 AM
6

She was alpha widowed by a chad. You are her Beta provider. Time to cut her loose
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/24 06:34 PM
2

You can use escorts, super easy in canada. Yeah blowing 300$ every month or couple months sucks
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/24 05:53 PM
1

Guns
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/24 03:13 PM
4

Why is she dressed up like gandalf
/r/MensRights15/05/24 04:09 AM
11

Go for the cs, drain that bitch!
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/24 11:47 AM
5

All men are viewed as disposable now days. You have so many women that were raised by single mothers they simply dont know what a strong man in their life looks like and they could care less to have it. My ex religiously was on insta watching relationship videos of couples making stupid quilts together and all the bs. Couple that with the fact she grew up watching her mom get married and divorced 3 times lol
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/24 01:54 AM
1

Yea we do get the shaft on everything. A decent looking woman has beta orbiters on social media and thirsty guys at work ready to smash her at any given time. Do one thing wrong in the relationship? shes ready to bounce to one of em. Its truly the worst time in history to be a man dating. There are alternatives though, if you make good money sex workers can be a viable option.
/r/MensRights24/04/24 12:55 AM
2

Thats some Walter White shit
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/24 11:59 AM
2

This is the way
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/24 11:33 AM
3

You can use her for sex but be aware she may try to trap you somehow
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/24 01:09 AM
-10

You need to let go of women, I view them as a birth canal for my offspring if needed and a hole for pleasure. They serve no other purpose to me. Workout, eat healthy and take up some hobbies that you can really get into depth. Youll have no time for women and tbeir stupid games. It worked for me
/r/MensRights18/04/24 09:17 AM
12

You felt bad because us men have mercy and feelings even if we are betrayed. Her and most of her comrads wouldnt stop to scrape youre dead body off the road if thats how they found you lol.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/24 07:05 AM
-3

Cheat
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/24 07:01 AM
0

Single moms are only good for practise sex
/r/MensRights18/04/24 05:43 AM
1

Sounds like she will never find another man like you. Good riddence to her
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/24 10:25 PM
1

Get on an ssri
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/24 12:13 PM
14

Likely their time just hasnt come..yet.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/24 11:10 PM
54

The 80/20 rule is a real thing. You have to look like jake gyllenhaal from the new road house movie or Tom hardy from war machine but the woman thats 300lb still has more options than you. Unless hes a chad hes probably screwed.
/r/MensRights13/04/24 01:31 AM
15

Must have been a divorced nigerian prince
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 07:17 PM
2

I think they should charge by weight, most western women would probably have to go in the cargo hold
/r/MensRights12/04/24 12:04 PM
6

She never loved you, she loved what you can do for her. If you want something that truly loves you unconditionally get a dog. Hell some pet lizards probably love their owners more than a woman would love you. Its just female nature if they loved us the way we love them the human race would have gone extinct long ago.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/24 06:01 PM
8

Thats a Bingo
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/24 04:04 AM
3

Most of the top redpillers on youtube are based in canada. That should tell you what the women are like.
/r/MensRights07/04/24 07:37 AM
3

Take an ssri youll be asexual in a few weeks time trust me id know
/r/MensRights06/04/24 11:17 PM
5

Sounds like her plan is going accordingly
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/24 07:10 AM
8

Just stay home and wack off save yourself the hassle
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/24 07:17 AM
78

Feminism is now a supremacy movement
/r/MensRights01/04/24 03:56 AM
2

Use sex workers
/r/MensRights31/03/24 06:48 PM
1

I cant comment on hair loss, but during my separation I got tons of grey hairs that eventually went away and didnt come back
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/24 06:06 PM
30

Women dont love you, they love what you can do for them. Get that through your head.
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/24 07:34 AM
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Its legal for them to sell sex here. Makes it much less likely youll egt in legal troubles
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/24 02:30 AM
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If you are canadian, use sex workers. Read up on reviews and learn how to spot fake ads
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/24 01:12 AM
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Dogs love unconditionally. A womans love is always conditiional
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/24 01:11 AM
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Women are allergic to accountability
/r/MensRights23/03/24 11:45 PM
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No there are escorts on there, just have to go with well reviewed ones
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/24 04:02 PM
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Leolist.com
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/24 08:43 AM
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Us men get love goggles, women dont get love goggles they see 20/20 all the time.
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/24 08:40 AM
1

Lets be honest if youve dated women youve done it too
/r/MensRights20/03/24 03:53 AM
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Shes a woman and probably a feminist so you had to be abusive some how lol. Shes going to be nothing but problems especially being that she was a single mother my advice would be to start figuring out how to minimize damage when she leaves
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/24 09:15 AM
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Yep youre right. You get to sit there and interview them pay for the meal and hope they pick you out of their roster of 20 dudes. Then when you do get to dating her if anything doesnt go her way she monkey branches to one of her "guy friends". Dating is a humiliation ritual for men. The best way to beat the game is to simply not play. Paying for companionship is a far better option.
/r/MensRights18/03/24 07:23 AM
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Use sex workers if your in Canada. Its much easier for a quick bang. Just go to them to avoid problems dont have them to your place.
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/24 08:08 PM
5

If youre in a hell hole like canada it wont be easy to find a new quality gf. What you can do is start using things to your advantage. Go to your doctor get some viagra or the equivelant and start checking out well reviewed sex workers. I can see one once or twice a month and have plenty of time for the gym or my hobbies. Youll forget real life women even exist. Itll take time to accept that your ex has moved on and its best to not look into things so you arent reliving the trauma.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/24 07:33 AM
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If you do take her back make sure you cheat too so its fair. If your ugly escorts are great
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/24 02:48 PM
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If you do take her back make sure you cheat too so its fair. If your ugly escorts are great
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/24 02:47 PM
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She was riding new cock while she was with you, do you still think shes a good person lol. Shes a female doing what females do and thats always hunting for a better deal somewhere else.
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 05:23 AM
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Most women view relationships as a buisiness transaction. Ie what can I get out of it for very little effort. Id stay off these apps for your own health and sanity.
/r/MensRights12/02/24 10:25 PM
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Use her as a warm hole only until something better comes along. Remember she would do it to you
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/24 08:05 AM
2

It's just the times. If you want true companionship get a dog they are awesome
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 12:49 AM
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What you seek is unlikely to happen for you in this lifetime, accept it as I have too. Dating is a humilation ritual for men. Date around and dont get too emotionally attached. Definetly dont move any women into your home unless you want to be treated like a POW.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/24 01:49 PM
2

Get a dog
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/24 08:28 AM
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Ive dated a single mom once and she cheated on me with the baby daddy. Just stick to escorts let the single moms and their calf starve like nature intended
/r/MensRights19/12/23 08:34 AM
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Theres always using sex workers or having short term relationships
/r/MensRights21/11/23 08:17 AM
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At least the knowledge is out there. The slavery only exists now by choice
/r/MensRights21/11/23 12:42 AM
1

Men are also the disposable ones in relationships, usually the man is discarded 80 % of the time.
/r/MensRights20/11/23 09:30 PM
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Yes it has, its freed us from the traditional role as the provider and protector. We're now free to enjoy our lives as we see fit and watch the females enjoy their boxed wine and 10 cats.
/r/MensRights20/11/23 07:08 PM
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There is no point, we all got sold a lie. Luckily men are starting to wake up to female nature and we're walking away from marriage. Together we can starve the beast. The notion of them just blowing up 20 years is hard but they dont use logic like us.
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/23 08:43 PM
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They flip the switch in secret and you dont notice. They usually only say things like Im not happy to put distance between. In reality they made up their mind long before. I know you dont want to believe it and I wish it werent true
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/23 03:21 AM
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Its just their nature, they turn on you fast when they decide its over. You can have 20 good years and 1 day its all bad to them
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/23 03:02 AM
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Im 31 lived with 2 women. Ive finally accpeted you can either get into another relationship and have it blow up in your face again at some point or you can be single. The stress you face from a separation is far worse than the good times you get
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/23 03:30 AM
1

How old are you?
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/23 12:54 AM
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In her mind it wasnt good enough and Brad pitt is waiting on tinder to match with her any minute.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 12:45 PM
3

Thats exactly it, women are fickle minded by nature. One day youre the man of their dreams next theyre not happy
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/23 11:07 AM
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It was already over in her mind a long time ago so ask yourself this next time you go to live with a woman or get married. Are you willing to risk it all on someone who wont tell you how theyre feeling? All these relationships ending are basically a copy and paste but us men are still signing up for it. They have far more reasons to leave and we believe we have more reasons to stay and work it out
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/23 12:48 AM
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This is solid proof nothing is good enough for a woman. Guy earns 200k and looks after the family
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/23 11:43 AM
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Its a massive compromise while they compromise very little generally. It isnt possible to be happy living with them.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/23 11:11 PM
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Considering theres even segregated dating apps for it Id say its the contrary to what he said
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/23 01:11 PM
1

100% this was the one where it hit me. Eventually or next time I am going to get seriously burned
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/23 10:34 AM
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I didnt want a bunch of women commenting , I wanted mens perspective who have seen it all
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/23 01:25 AM
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I think it comes from having such a stressful event happen everything else seems like nothing. Do not allow another woman in by marriage or cohab. Having to hold frame 24/7 and live day to day life is fuckin bs sold to us. You can never do it all the time everyday. Everyone has weak times and the kne time you do she cuts your head off and hates you. This game is rigged 100%
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/23 12:19 AM
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Not gonna lie tho dude its always the people that HAVE It that say its no big deal. But the stigma is massive here and life as a guy is already hard. Yes I risked it big time but if I didnt get her to take them and I caught it Im dealing with it long after Ive forgotten about this broad
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/23 11:30 PM
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No kidding. Thats why after the advice here and listening to No more Mr nice guy, Ive come to the conclusion you can never move them in ever. Eventually my frame will decline or issues arise and poof Im screwed they have no reason to stick it out and work things out. What happens when Im older and hit a health issue?
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/23 09:45 PM
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Which is shocking in a sense I clearly would have let it go that far. Guess the short sighted thinking of women saved me
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/23 05:54 PM
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Im going to take as long as I need, work out, dont search for women and expand my hobbies / friendships I am truly thankful for responses here and that I can start over
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/23 03:22 PM
1

She definetly didnt care, and certainly not if I got it.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/23 02:49 PM
2

Will do Thanks
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/23 02:46 PM
2

You are spot on, the first one I spent all my energy driving her and the 2nd I spent all my energy making sure she had to do nothing. I had stopped focusing on me. They hated me for it in the end.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/23 02:06 PM
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No she gave time to think on it and I got her on antivitals then proceeded. Having said thay I caught her stopped taking them once and didnt tell me
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/23 01:34 PM
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Ill order it up thanks
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/23 12:11 PM
3

I thought making her pay her way wasnt being a nice guy but I guess when I asked her to do her share of chores then it was a problem
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/23 11:39 AM
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I guess I thought it was a way to get them to commit for me. Never again tho
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/23 11:20 AM
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Thanks for the support, and as for buying the pussy thats what Im thinking is best. My needs will hopefully be taken care of and Im still financially well off. I just need to get back to normal regain my drive and find a few regulars. I found having assets comes with its own issues they have no money invested and will gladly use it / possibly trash what you have. Plus they always view your house as yours even if you share it to them for years
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/23 09:33 AM
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I dont hate women but I think the game is rigged for us men. We always compromise try to keep things together and then get dumped for something new while we were trying to improve. You just have to accept you will never be loved the same as you love them. They can and will drop you at a minutes notice and they are very cold and calculated when its over. Dont hate women, watch them suffer from a distance.
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/23 08:41 PM
1

Imagine betting youre life savings on a feeling
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/23 01:12 AM
1

And when you avoid marriage and just pump and dump that bad boy becomes YOU. So why play to lose? Even a live in girlfriend is a horrible idea. If you dont mind being a slave to someone through youre services and finances go ahead get married.
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/23 12:23 AM
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Frame can only be held so long, health issues, any life problems can bring down frame. Then poof its over.
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/23 12:10 AM
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