My relationship past has been nothing but hell. I own my own home. I make 100k a year, Im over 6 ft and Im not ugly.My first live in gf was pretty great in bed but a rough around the edges woman. We dated 6 months then I foolishly asked her to move in. 1.5 months after living together she says to me out of the blue oh by the way Ive lost my court case for dui and so I end up driving her literally everywhere for basically free while shes living with me for free. She gets her license back and 2 weeks later poof shes gone and bought a house because she saved so much here. The next one I decide to work on myself get skinny, work out and get a dog. I meet this beautiful girl. We get intimate kissing and she tells me btw I have an std its genital herpes. I take a solid month humming and hawing over it and decide if she goes on anti virals Ill pursue a relationship. 1 year later she moves in things are great we make future plans. The next year together she gets lazy lets me do all the chores but otherwise I was happy. She changes her job to an all men enviroment and I figure how can she cheat with her health issue. Within the past month she went stone cold to me no cuddling no kissing shes just sitting there pretending and I can see it. I decide to sit her down and say look are we done? She says yes I got an apartment moving in 2 weeks so basically she was going to ghost me one day otherwise. I asked why and the answers were flimsy she said my dog drove her nuts and that I didnt buy her flowers enough without her asking. And that I didnt get along well enough with her friends. I tried my best with her and I dont get it does this seem like a me problem? Luckily no marriage involved and no kids and I made her pay rent while she was here.