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But men won’t learn and we will continue to hear these stories
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/25 07:07 PM
8

Sympathize man. Hopefully this can serve as a lesson for other men. AND DONT GET MARRIED AGAIN. Crazy this has to be said
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/24 02:21 AM
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Or, just don’t get married as is the most fool proof
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/24 05:57 PM
2

lol they still won’t listen.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/24 08:16 AM
1

As per usual
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/24 12:21 PM
2

Got mine last year 😊😊😊
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/24 08:51 PM
5

This has to be a troll post lmaooo
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/24 03:17 AM
2

Facts. The right way to see it
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 07:38 PM
2

Some don’t learn
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/24 08:35 PM
3

I mean look at how much information is in the public domain and men are still getting married. Have no one besides yourself to blame if you still go ahead with it.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/24 06:35 AM
6

Hopefully other men will learn from this. I certainly have
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/24 05:59 AM
5

Most men still won’t listen unfortunately.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/24 05:56 AM
1

Damn why did you get rinsed so bad. Did she not work?
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/24 01:28 PM
2

I mean not trying to be insensitive here but you CHOSE to get married. No one had a gun to your head. Have to take accountability for your choices and you can’t really expect any sympathy when you should have known better 🤷
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/24 04:19 PM
2

Unfortunately most men are hard headed. I have friends who are intent on marriage despite knowing the risks. When things inevitably blow up in their faces as I know they will, I already see the signs, I will feel no sympathy for them. Many men must learn the hard way unfortunately.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/24 02:44 PM
5

Yea you have to be an Uber chad in all other aspects for it not to diminish her respect. But if things are already on the rocks, the end is likely near once she starts to out-earn u.
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/23 07:49 PM
8

Yes low key she will not respect the man
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/23 07:38 PM
2

Sad people have to leave what should otherwise be common sense the hard way
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/23 12:57 AM
14

Lmaoo never understood how women would be so baby crazy so as to risk having children with just about anyone. Clown world.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/23 08:23 PM
1

Lmaoo people like him are delusional. There is no helping such men. I just hope he expects no sympathy when things inevitably go bad. A lot of men are very hard headed. No matter how many facts you present to them, they’ll still get married.
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/23 12:21 AM
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lol she’d have to know where he is and u really think most countries have the capacity to actually force you to pay. Move to somewhere in Thailand and fuck them. See if they can get ur money.
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/23 01:47 AM
1

It is this thinking that allows woman to get the upper hand since women don’t care about the best interest of their children and will fuck the father of the children if they can get away with it
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/23 01:45 AM
1

Lmaoo u ain’t learn the first time
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/23 11:14 PM
3

Your comment is spot on. I’ve noticed it too. Things like love languages etc were never really concepts just a few years ago now they’ve entered the common vocabulary and everyone is just going along with it like these are legitimate things, LOL. Feel like I’m living in the twilight zone.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/23 01:49 PM
1

Lmaoo hopefully not. Would hate to see him have to learn the hard way
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/23 09:35 PM
4

lol single moms are recreational use only. Have definitely had some fun with ones 🥰🥰
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/23 09:34 PM
4

Yea man, that’s right approach! By the sounds of it you’re good looking financially stable guy. You shouldn’t be going through this. Appreciate and understand women for what they are and NEVER GIVE THEM LEVERAGE OVER YOUR LIFE (MARRIAGE, CHILDREN, MOVING IN WITH THEM)
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/23 03:40 PM
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Facts lmaoo dudes out here simping hard then complain. Stop needing to have women in your life. The problems you faced are entirely avoidable. It’s the simping of men that has lead us to where we are today.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/23 02:57 PM
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lol is is pretty cucked about women too don’t be fooled
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/23 09:11 AM
1

Yep got mine a couple months ago. Best investment ever especially for 1k
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/23 08:56 AM
0

Facts and GIGA based
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/23 01:56 PM
2

Facts the right approach tbh
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/23 11:10 AM
4

Lmaoo right a brain surgeon at 24. Story makes zero sense
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/23 10:44 PM
2

Lol like what u did there
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/23 02:47 PM
1

Lol you’re white im assuming
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/23 03:26 PM
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lol welcome to women. Long term thinking isn’t their forte
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/23 11:32 PM
1

I never knew how men were willing to bind themselves financially to another person, let alone a woman
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/23 07:04 PM
1

The only right answer
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 04:36 PM
1

Yep tax fee smh, at least u recall
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 04:35 PM
5

Facts enjoy the company do women but give them no leverage over you via marriage or kids because thats when the fangs come out
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/23 11:41 AM
3

Factz
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/23 09:14 AM
2

Lol men will still line up for the slaughterhouse
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/23 12:20 AM
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Everyone on this forum should read and study the works of Rollo Tomassi. Helps address alot of the questions that routinely surface here
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 12:09 PM
2

Lol you’re naive if you think the only issues between men and women are solely caused by the current legal regime. Men still contend with the same issues with women in geographies where the legal frameworks are not as punitive against men. Things like false domestic violence allegations, paternity fraud, and female disloyalty take place all over the world and are near universal features of the male female dynamic. Would you say that this is solely because of similar legal frameworks all around t…
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/23 12:19 PM
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Perhaps, but marriage is a raw deal for men today, doubly so for men with means and resources. If men understood evolutionary biology, they wouldn’t have ended up here. They wouldn’t have signed a legal contract with the state with women who are fundamentally opportunistic. Are some marriages good, perhaps but the risk still isn’t worth it. The explanation I’m giving here would save the lives of countless men. What do you have to offer besides platitude and generic advice?
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/23 12:09 PM
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Lol I’m the guy who failed with woman but am not paying child support or alimony to a vindictive woman and all my money is mine. Enjoying the paid company of attractive woman too Lmaoo. Think I’m doing okay all things considered. Only lurk here to see the stories of destruction and remind myself that I’m not missing anything 😂😂😂
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/23 11:56 AM
4

No it’s not dont have any kids but got the snip. Best ~1k I’ve ever spent
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/23 01:36 AM
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Yes, you’ve exhausted your usefulness and she consequently has no need for you. Plus deep down, women understand what little value they have. As such, they come to resent any man who commits to them since what man of value would ever commit to them. Hence why they chase Chads. It’s a really perverse way of thinking but your fate was sealed as soon you married her (conceded all your leverage) and put some babies in her. Now she has all the power and women fundamentally lack the capacity to respec…
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/23 10:47 PM
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Very based. Have heard the stories about the man hating courts in India
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/23 03:04 PM
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You never understood female nature. Get red pilled ASAP if you aren’t already.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/23 02:00 PM
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Most accurate statement in this thread. I fit the category of such men women would describe as creepy. Fuck em. I have no sympathy for them and their demon spawn
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/23 08:57 PM
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It could be all so simple Lmaoo
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/23 08:56 PM
1

Very astute observation. You’ve articulated something I never quite appreciated
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 10:10 PM
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You didn’t learn the first time?
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/23 09:32 AM
1

Exactly you lose all ur leverage when you get married initially
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/23 06:35 PM
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You’ll have a lot of time there. Just keep your wits about u
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/23 01:06 AM
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Unfortunately you didn’t learn your lesson the first time, smh. Sorry for what you’re going through OP but it’s no surprise men are in the conditions they’re in when they don’t use their big head.
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/23 12:34 AM
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Dude get out + why the hell are you married to someone older than you
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/23 01:05 PM
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She’s not yours it’s just your turn. See what women for what they are, not what you want them to be
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/23 10:07 AM
2

Lmaoo what is this
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/23 01:53 PM
3

Exactly, having fucked so many escorts/sex workers I can attest to this. Not fazed by beautiful women since I’ve fucked more than I can even recall at this point.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/23 07:52 PM
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Isn’t that how it usually starts out though?
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/23 02:18 PM
1

sent her to "get dug out" is crazy lmaoo
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/23 02:33 AM
0

Dude I don’t blame you for hating women Lmaoo. A part of me probably still does lol. But I understand women so I’m never surprised or taken aback by any of their fuckery
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 03:21 PM
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Right fuck these hoes, get money
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 11:43 AM
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Dude get redpilled ASAP if you haven’t been already. Once you understand women, all the pain you’re feeling will melt away. You simply never understood women, hence why you ended up where you are today.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 11:38 AM
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Just fuck her but don’t commit to her. And kick her to the curb if she tries to pull anything.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/23 07:39 PM
1

Yea except buying a cup of coffee dosent have the potential to entirely destroy my life
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/23 11:48 AM
1

Right when will men learn
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/23 12:22 PM
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Most men won’t listen until they’ve been burned. I’ve tried to warn friends but I’ve been dismissed as a jaded incel lol. No sympathy for them when they inevitably learn the hard way.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/23 12:16 PM
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Only in the most rare of situations and should be highly time constrained
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/23 05:59 PM
2

Yea I love fucking single moms they’re freaky for sure but recreational use only. One must never commit to them
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/23 10:14 PM
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It absolutely is. There is zero reason to do it in the modern day. Everyone thinks it won’t be them, until it is. Marriage has a way of distorting women’s incentives.
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/23 10:35 PM
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You’re on the right track financially. Why are you intent on inviting the government into your romantic relationship? As soon as you marry her, you cede all your leverage. You’ve been forewarned. I’d hate to see another young man like yourself become another divorce statistic.
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/23 10:28 PM
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DO NOT GET MARRIED!
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/23 10:14 PM
2

Secure everything you're entitled to! Times are hard right now. Her well being is no longer your concern!
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/23 01:00 PM
1

Make sure you redpill your son
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 09:57 PM
8

Lmaoo I guess some folks have to learn the hard way
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 09:55 PM
6

Perfectly put, saving this
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/23 08:14 PM
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Any man who gets married under American laws is a simp. If you’re willing to give a woman such leverage over your life knowing the laws are against you, you are simp.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/23 05:43 PM
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Another simp pays the price
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/23 05:33 PM
1

Damn man. I guess I grew up knowing that I’d never get married. Being young the prospect of legally opening myself to this insanity never made sense. Glad you’re doing better now though
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/23 10:14 AM
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Maybe as a woman. As a man you’re betting off working to earn that money. It’s much easier and less painful
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/23 06:31 PM
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At the end of the day, she allowed someone to nut inside her. No one forced her. She at any time could terminate the child, with or without OPs consent. You want him to be responsible for this. But responsibility only applies when one has 100% authority. In the west, men have next to no authority but 100% responsibility. There’s a word for that, it’s called slavery. OP don’t allow people to shame you. Funny how I’m seeing the exact shaming language feminists use from other men here. How far men …
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/23 10:40 AM
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No it wouldn’t be morally wrong. I don’t agree with the men here who believe a man should endure under any circumstances for a child. You have one life to live and you should absolutely not spend it in pain and suffering. Fuck her. Whatever happens to that kid is not on you. A lot of the men on this sub pride themselves on being martyrs all the while complaining about the horrid circumstances they find themselves in. Save yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/23 02:18 AM
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Yea there’s zero reason to get married in any circumstance Lmaoo
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/23 02:13 AM
1

Most guys don’t anticipate getting divorce raped and having to pay someone who no longer wants anything to do with them. Most are okay providing for the woman they love. Very different propositions.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/23 10:33 PM
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Lmaoo simping hard my guy
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/23 12:54 AM
2

You can get that in tech/finance/consulting
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/23 12:00 AM
1

Facts and to at least have assets hidden away or some shit. Better yet, DONT EVEN GET MARRIED
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 11:56 PM
1

No women are always the same person. They just don’t have a reason to pretend anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 11:54 PM
5

That’s is true, some states have common law marriage. That is why you should NEVER GET MARRIED or a live in a way the state might otherwise characterize as marriage
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 07:59 PM
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But it isn’t lol. Some men are just really dumb and I have zero sympathy for them
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 07:58 PM
2

Yep women always have their exit plan in mind before marriage
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 07:56 PM
1

BASED. She’s never yours it’s just your turn.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 07:51 PM
1

How is it “scumbag stuff” to prevent yourself from being raped financially by unjust child support payments?
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 07:48 PM
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Right Lmaoo some of the people in here are gluttons for punishment. No surprise they ended up where they’d did
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 07:48 PM
2

Lol just get a dope coverup
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 11:47 AM
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DO NOT GET MARRIED AGAIN AFTER THIS
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 12:50 AM
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LEAVE NOW. Look at how bad it is without kids. It will literally become a nightmare if you have kids with this woman. SHE WILL NOT CHANGE. Do not be forced to learn the hard way like many men.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/23 10:48 PM
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She may use this to later accuse you of rape as leverage
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/23 08:14 AM
1

True. I still associate with women on temporary bases but I maintain boundaries and will cut them off if they act out or transgress my boundaries
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 01:02 AM
1

Lmaoo the entitlement
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 01:00 AM
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Same Lmaoo
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/23 06:03 PM
3

Unfortunately many men don’t listen even when given advice. Have ran into the same issues when I try to warn and redpill friends. Unfortunately most have to learn the hard way
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/23 03:22 PM
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Damn your dad was super based
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/23 03:21 PM
1

Lol simping ain’t easy. Some of the most successful and rich men are simps
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/23 03:20 PM
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Damn crazy. Glad you made it out alive sheesh
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/23 05:22 PM
1

Brutal reality
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/23 08:22 AM
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I browse this forum for the very same reason. Glad I found the redpill while young. God knows what I would have done otherwise.
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/23 01:24 AM
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Na there isn’t. Especially as an upwardly mobile man. Marriage is for suckers in the modern day.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 03:31 AM
1

Definitely a brutal reality when you understand female nature, but its ultimately freeing. I still enjoy the company of women but see them for what they are and don’t allow them leverage over my life.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 12:37 AM
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Yep it’s absolutely the leverage. Women only behave when you have leverage.
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/23 12:36 AM
1

Right Lmaoo. Holding them accountable is abuse 😂😂😂
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/23 11:57 PM
1

Yep I’d sooner leave the country than continue paying a woman fucking another man on my dime. With how much this guy has, he may even be able to set himself up well enough in another country.
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/23 11:48 PM
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You can have sex without a committed relationship
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/23 02:54 AM
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Yea man. However, your situation certainly isn't that uncommon. I know a number of folks here have suggested taking your assets and fleeing to more favorable jurisdiction. I honestly can't fault them. Forced to choose between slavery for the rest of what might be my life and freedom, I know what choice I'd make.
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/23 03:17 PM
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Either your wife submits to your authority and reigns in her family or you cut her loose. I’ve heard many such stories from Indian men. Unless she makes a drastic change, THINGS WILL MOT GET BETTER. If I was in your shoes though, I’d cut her loose. It doesn’t sound like you have children. If you make the mistake of getting this woman pregnant, you’re in for a world of pain. You went to an IIT, have a startup and have a bright future ahead. Don’t allow your wife’s family to throw all this into je…
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/23 02:13 PM
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The only right answer here Lmaoo
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/23 03:42 AM
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Yea I’ve long ago decided that I’ll never be married. But hearing these stories day in and day out only serve to affirm that decision. It’s unfortunate more men can’t learn from the experiences of other before themselves going through the divorce machine.
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/23 03:39 AM
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A pocket pussy
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/23 11:32 PM
1

Yep deal with them but always be ready to cut them loose if they threatens to drag you down with them
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/23 06:05 AM
2

Lol talk about petty
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/23 06:03 AM
3

Facts. Based on what we know about humans and behaviorism, people really don’t change. The only logical conclusion is that women are really good at keeping up the act for a very long time
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/23 06:01 AM
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She is just trying to assuage her own guilt. Honestly wouldn’t pay it much mind and would just look to the future
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/23 09:31 PM
1

Nearly 99% don’t
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 01:03 PM
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Exactly it. Men naively believe women want to be with them. They don’t. Since the dawn of time, women have associated with men purely out of necessity and opportunism. But with modern marriage laws, a woman does not need to continue associating herself with the man once she’s secured leverage through marriage and child birth. At that point, she can do away with the man she never wanted while continuing to benefit from his resources. SAY NO TO MARRIAGE.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 12:54 PM
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Yep perception is all that matters with women. Not reality. Women rarely have a firm grasp on reality so what they perceive to be the case is what informs their behavior.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 12:51 PM
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Yep she had all the leverage she now needed against you. No need to keep the charade running any longer
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 12:46 PM
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Very true I’ve seen such images floating around.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 10:33 PM
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But even the notion if frame in marriage is flawed. Frame is necessarily based on leverage. But within western marriages, a woman has all the leverage so what “frame” can you really maintain?
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 09:58 PM
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You’re not alone. This is the vast majority of women today. Put them on short term contracts and once they’ve exhausted their utility put them out much like they do to men.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 01:39 PM
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Nope. What you’re seeing is women’s true nature. Men intrinsically believe in things like honor, loyalty and commitment. Women on the other hand are biologically wired to have no commitment to such ideals. They are purely opportunistic.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 01:38 PM
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No women are quite simple to understand. It’s just that our intuition regarding how they should be is completely at odds with reality hence the confusion
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 01:35 PM
5

Exactly it. I still associate with them but remain ready at any time to put them out with no sympathy or mercy.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 01:34 PM
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Yep same. Women fundamentally lack the capacity to appreciate the sacrifices a man makes to facilitate their reality so it is really a fools errand to help or otherwise assist them.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 01:33 PM
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Same I’ve been burned by both genders. I trust no one now
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 01:32 PM
2

Facts why jump through all these hoops in the first place. Pretty indication of how bad marriage is
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/23 12:44 PM
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If you don’t have kids with her BLOCK HER.
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/23 12:40 PM
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Yep you’re fighting against evolutionary instincts. It’s hard but we have to fight it otherwise women become entitled and insufferable
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/23 12:38 PM
2

WTF my guy you’re simping hard as fuck right now. It’s this kind of behavior that likely caused you to end up where you are. Become heartless like women. You think she’d ever show you such grace were the tables turned? It’s really hard to be cold to women since we’re evolutionary wired to want to protect and provide for them but this instinct will destroy your life if you can’t reign it in.
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/23 12:37 PM
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A woman’s respect and admiration for you is inversely proportional to what you do for her. Tough pill to swallow but true nonetheless
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/23 12:53 AM
3

Yea man you need to get out. She is not your problem. Your willingness to compromise and putting her interests before your own is what lead you down this path in the first place. Divorce her asap and move on lest you get this person pregnant. You have a short life and you’ve had sex a couple times over more than a decade? Don’t even know why this a question. YOU CANNOT NEGOTIATE GENUINE SEXUAL ATTRACTION. She’s simply not attracted to you or perhaps never was. In any case, do what’s best for you…
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/23 10:03 PM
3

Damn it’s crazy how there are literal industries built around feasting on the carcasses of dying marriages.
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/23 05:27 PM
2

Right. There is no redpill solution for marriage the only solution is to not get married
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/23 05:23 PM
1

Brutal, no good deed goes unpunished
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/23 02:08 PM
5

Yea she fucking. DROP HER ASAP AND DO NOT KNOCK HER UP
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/23 02:05 PM
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That’s great to hear man, keep your chin up! It’s only up from here
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/23 01:59 PM
3

Most men are too delusional and idealistic. The same idealism men have used to conquer new lands and build civilization is the same naive idealism that convinces them they can fix fundamentally broken women.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/23 12:30 AM
3

Yep don’t know why men are still signing up for the traditional arrangement. You will absolutely be hosed financially when things go wrong as they inevitably always do
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/23 12:35 PM
2

Facts. The amount of respect a woman has for you is inversely proportional to the amount you do for her.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/23 12:34 PM
5

LEAVE. IT WONT GET BETTER
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/23 09:38 PM
1

Having a realistic assessment of women dosent mean you hate them
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/23 09:37 PM
0

He’s not wrong. I hate a lot of other men because they are simps. It’s their stupidity that’s has contributed TJ female entitlement whether simping in marriage or paying for onlyfans. No sympathy for such men since they make things infinitely worse for all men who don’t skmp
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/23 09:37 PM
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I mean he’s not wrong. In so many of the stories here the men in marriages were simps and simultaneously complain about female entitlement. Like how are they unable to see how their own behavior has contributed to the very issue they rail against. So while he could have been more tactful he is absolutely right.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/23 09:35 PM
0

Sure but men shouldn’t be enriching women when what they offer can be had for free elsewhere. It contributes to the entitlement and narcissism of women. If you’re going to pay women make sure they actually have to render a sexual service. It’s the fact that so many men are simps as we see one the marriage stories here and onlyfans that women have become so intolerable
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/23 09:34 PM
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Also for the vasectomy you can either opt to go under while it’s being done or awake while it’s being done. I open for the latter since I wanted to be able to drive back home on my own and didn’t want to rely on someone else for transportation. There will also be a waiting period of about a month after an initial consultation because they want to make sure you’re certain about your decision so had mine done about a month and a half after the initial consult. Wasn’t too expensive either, about 1k…
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/23 04:48 PM
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Haha no worries man. Being on these forums has exposed me to me so much as well. And yea my vasectomy was like a 20 minute procedure, I was awake for it. Didn’t hurt too much while it was being done and I was sore for a few days after. However I have to go for a semen analysis in a couple weeks, about 4-5 weeks from now so not quite 6 months. They’ll just want to make sure I don’t have any swimmers. Haven’t experienced any side effects or pain yet so optimistic that there won’t be any complicati…
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/23 04:46 PM
2

Love to hear it just got the snip myself a couple weeks back. But you doing everything for her actually made her respect you less and less. A woman’s attraction and admiration for a man is inversely proportional to the amount of stuff the man does for her. Women fall in love with a man they do things for, not the other way around. How else do you explain the ease and frequency with which women leave men who gave them the world while staying with men who give them absolute scraps. Everything with…
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/23 03:18 PM
1

More like millions or hundreds of thousands
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/23 01:26 PM
3

Well her end game was to fleece you of everything you have. Maybe she miscalculated as women often do. But she may have thought divorce would have provided her a very favorable financial outcome. Drive you to madness by her behavior have you file for divorce, paint herself as the victim and sail off into the sunset with your money while leveraging your child against you. It’s the female playbook. Hopefully all goes well and NEVER EVER MARRY AGAIN. Yes this has to be said because even in these fo…
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/23 01:19 PM
2

Factz 💯💯💯
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/23 01:04 PM
5

Lmaoo facts. The man always loses
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/23 01:03 PM
7

Because we as men are delusional and idealistic. Every man believes it won’t be him, except until it is. That’s why I’d not have any hope that most men will ever wake yo they’re too bluebpilled
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/23 12:46 PM
1

I’m giving your harsh advice since you clearly need it. You’re the one dealing with a single mother who you chose to get involved with. If you want to be coddled you came to the wrong forum my guy. Do what you want you but your judgment regarding women is clearly compromised given where you’ve ended up. Good luck though
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/23 10:45 PM
0

And sorry about your experience man. Not saying single mothers is like redpill 101 but seems like you’ve leaned from that
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/23 09:59 PM
5

Exactly I fuck a ton of single mothers they’re great for fun and are pretty much open o anything sexually but I’m not stupid enough to ever commit to them long term
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/23 09:59 PM
2

Smh some of y’all some simps it’s no surprise women are so entitled today goddam grow some fucking balls
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/23 09:20 PM
1

Lol you were still even marginally interested in getting married after being on this sub Lmaoo. It’s makes sense why so many men end up here. Completely delusional, idealistic and blind to women’s opportunistic nature. Good luck if you ever get married though
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/23 09:06 PM
1

That figure is wildly wrong and outdated. That figure in reality is probably closer to 150K as a single person
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/23 08:59 PM
5

Single mothers fit this especially well. They tend to be quite sexually experienced and willing to please especially if you dangle the carrot of long term partnership.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/23 08:47 PM
1

He wifed a single mother with chads crotch spawn. And she’s now cheating on this supposedly abusive man who she reproduced with. That’s why she’s a hoe and that’s why he’s a simp
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/23 10:35 AM
2

Gotta find another cope lol
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/23 10:29 AM
2

Lmaoo clown world. What man with self respect would put up with this. Just for some pussy? Yea no thanks. Women are literally pricing themselves out of the market
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/23 10:25 AM
2

Lol so she can have you as a provider and divest you of your resources. If you think women generally care about creating a stable family you haven’t acknowledged female nature, which explains exactly why you ended up where u are today. Get red pilled ASAP and read the works of rollo tomassi. Women fundamentally operate from a place of opportunism and their association with men is typically transactional. Why do you think women love getting married? They can secure access to your resources while …
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 01:58 PM
1

Smh extricate yourself from this train wreck of a human
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 01:47 PM
1

I hear ya but I want the real thing
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/23 03:16 PM
9

Because pussy feels good
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/23 04:08 PM
2

Wish I could upvote this more than once. Very based
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/23 07:36 AM
2

Yea man I’ve only heard great things about Germany. I’ll need to include it as a broader euro trip, hopefully sometime next fall
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/23 09:39 PM
2

Lol I second this Thailand is definitely heaven need to take a trip out to Germany though.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/23 07:17 PM
4

Dating apps can be very effective depending on how good looking you are. If you’re looking for something more certain, you could avail yourself of escort services
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/23 01:45 PM
1

But your risk exposure isn’t only financial though? How many stories have we heard here of false domestic abuse allegations. I mean live your life but it’s just curious to me how men still get married after getting burned. That’s why I don’t really have hope of things changing. Most men will just have to get burned or divorce raped before they learn. It’s not enough for them to hear the testimonials of thousands of other men
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/23 05:58 PM
3

Why are you engaged again?
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/23 09:22 AM
1

Yea how many men have been tricked by women lying about being on birth control
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/23 08:23 PM
1

There is not getting back frame. He never had it. He needs to cut her loose get redpilled and then jump back into dating. This dude is a target with his thinking he should absolutely not be dating in his current state
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/23 08:07 PM
5

Get the hell out of this relationship yesterday and grow a fucking back bone. Jesus Christ. I wish a woman would treat me the way you’re being treated. She’d be on her ass so fast her head would spin. Get redpilled on female nature you’re a colosal simp and things will end very badly for you if you don’t wake up sooner rather than later
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/23 07:58 PM
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Look into the works of Rollo Tomassi principally the rational male series. He also has a ton of videos on YouTube and longer livestreams for the more academically inclined. No more Mr. Nice Guy is also a good read but you need to get redpilled on female nature ASAP to the extent your already aren’t
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/23 07:54 PM
1

Yea I hear ya man men collectively need to beat more responsibility for our reproductive systems
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/23 06:02 PM
2

Or, you get this magic thing called a vasectomy.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/23 05:27 PM
3

There’s actually empirical support for this indicating that divorces spread like a contagion in a social group.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/23 04:38 PM
0

When you nut in nearly any woman
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/23 04:35 PM
2

Or take all ur remaining assets and flee the country
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 05:49 PM
5

Lol make the money
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 04:08 PM
3

You have the right idea
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/23 09:57 AM
5

lol right I swear to god they're like bots. They're so predictable. all operating on the same software
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/23 09:52 AM
1

Well if you choose to take the risk accept everything that comes with it and don’t end up here a couple years down the line complaining you’ve been divorce raped. You can enjoy the company of women women without inviting the government into your romantic relationships
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/23 08:47 AM
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DONT GET MARRIED
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/23 12:27 AM
2

This is demonstrably false. Men inherently are more desirous of sex. I won’t even bother citing the litany of studies on this. Can’t believe unscientific shit like is being posted on this sub.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/23 05:09 PM
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That’s what she tells u. You haven’t learned yet. You’ll be here again in a couple years. The naïveté of men is outstanding
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/23 11:48 PM
6

Yep marriage is the quickest way to destroy your sex life
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/23 10:30 PM
4

Lol it’s an act. As soon as you commit she has no reason to behave as you’ve already learned. DO NOT GET MARRIED AGAIN. don’t be forced to learn the hard way again. Purge your relationship thrust and or suffer the consequences
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/23 10:17 PM
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Yep exactly yet there are men foolish enough to sign up for this shit deal
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/23 11:36 AM
2

That’s why he should travel abroad
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/23 10:29 PM
3

Some people never learn
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/23 10:29 PM
0

Understand female nature it appears you’ve yet to do so
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/23 11:59 AM
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Way to go man. More men need to lurk here as an example of what happens when you allow yourself to become a victim to the modern state of matrimony
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/23 07:08 PM
1

So all the empirical evidence indicating women are opportunistic, divorce raping rich husbands, requesting alimony when they can work, getting rid of a man as soon as they’re pregnant so they can collect child support. All these can be explained by briffaults law. If it’s pseudo science to you why do so many men report the same experience and what other explanatory theories do you have since you speak with such conviction
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/23 05:55 PM
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How is it junk science when this entire thread is literally emblematic of womens mercenary and opportunistic nature. I guess anything that offends your sensibilities is junk science
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/23 11:28 AM
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Yes to your questions at least in western society. Or you can deal with women but go into it eyes wide open. Just because I know female nature dosent mean i don’t want their companionship but I won’t allow my desire for companionship to cloud my judgement about the mercenary and opportunistic nature of women. You can still get married and have children if you want but don’t be surprised if you fail at the endeavor like most men inevitably do. Sounds like you’re still struggling with facing reali…
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/23 10:14 AM
1

Yep every man should know this. Men as a class are too naive. Feel for OP but this is what happens when you fail to understand female nature
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/23 09:11 AM
1

This is spot on. Most men are idiots that’s why I have no sympathy for those who get burned these days.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/23 09:16 PM
1

To each his own I guess 😂😂😂
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/23 10:16 PM
1

Yea what is marriage providing that he can’t get without it? Just because I’m going to die, dosent mean I wanna give my money away to some white and not my family
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/23 09:57 PM
1

How else do you explain a billionaire getting married? No redpilled man would let alone a fucking billionaire. His actions clearly indicate he’s bluepilled.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/23 09:13 PM
1

People like him are too bluepilled and they’re rich enough that getting divorce raped doesn’t materially change their life hence why why never learn.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/23 05:27 PM
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Hire an attorney if you haven’t already. It’s likely going to be very ugly for u, realistically
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/23 02:00 AM
1

Isn’t the onus on them to do the research before signing the contract in question
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/23 12:34 PM
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Men shouldn’t compromise their freedom by marriage in America. If they choose to do this in America, you deserve all the pain that may come your way. There are plenty other countries people can move to if they really want a wife and children. If you choose to play stupid games (marriage in the west ) you deserve to get stupid prizes
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/23 02:55 AM
2

I’m not advising anything. If you choose to marry as a man knowing the risks expect no sympathy when you get burned.
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/23 02:38 AM
2

Don’t allow the state to dictate what happen to your money or freedom (I.e don’t get married). Men can’t keep getting married and crying when it goes sour especially when the stats are out there and knowing what u stand to lose
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/23 10:19 PM
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Smh that’s why I don’t believe we can successfully prevent most men from getting married. Most are fools and deserve to get burned. Unfortunately many can only learn through getting burned multiple times and even that may not be enough
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/23 04:32 PM
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These fools never learn
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/23 12:33 PM
1

This is crazy smh
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/23 05:52 PM
3

Happy for you. Don’t do it again lol
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/23 05:24 PM
1

Unfortunately to many men fail to listen before it happens to them. That’s why there will always be these stories. Every man is convinced he won’t be a study if and yet countless do
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/23 08:06 PM
13

Yes a woman assumes the interests of the new man she’s fucking. Very common behavior
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/23 07:59 PM
1

Fuck outta here with that simp shit dude.
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/23 09:07 PM
1

Lol loved his sound drops
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/23 04:33 PM
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No she cares for sex and is definitely having it with chad but is now looking for a beta male provider after having beeen run through more times than the hollan tunnel
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/23 04:33 PM
2

Women are just acting in their own interests. They fundamentally lack the capacity to empathize with the male experience and quite frankly don’t care. That’s why it’s east for them to be so callous in a divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 09:17 PM
2

It’s funny how as the relationship progresses, the man necessarily loses leverage while the woman gains it. One guy put it perfectly. For a man, the beginning of the relationship represents as good as things will ever be. However the inverse is true for women since over time they accrue much more leverage, both in relative and absolute terms.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 09:10 PM
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Yes it is. A woman realizing she doesn’t need you is hypergamy because it necessarily means you represent a sub optimal mate choice. Many men believe in this fiction that women inherently desire men. They DONT. They’ve largely paired themselves with men solely out of necessity. Historically women had to say with men to maintain access to men’s resources. Today they don’t thanks to big daddy government. And so once they’ve secured access to your assists/resources, you’re discarded like a used con…
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 09:08 PM
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Because you’ve exhausted your usefulness. Most men continue to believe in the fiction of love. Women are incapable of loving men in the way they think women ought to be. Women have an opportunistic notion of love, purely conditional on what they can extract from you. Too many men don’t understand evolutionary biology and female nature.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 09:00 PM
8

Sounds like u haven’t been redpilled. Read the rational male
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/23 06:55 PM
2

Yea paying for pussy is the most expedient way tbh.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/23 05:17 PM
1

Lol ucan get stds from normal girls too lol especially if they’re getting around. Just wear a condom and u should be straight
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/23 05:15 PM
1

Love this guys stuff. Has a way of framing RP truths in a new way
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/23 09:20 AM
3

Single mothers are recreational use only. Too many learn only too late
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/23 02:36 AM
1

Especially a single mom. Never every marry a single mom or knock them up. Fuck them yes but only for recreational use
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/23 02:20 PM
2

Smh right the kind of stories we hear ok here. Well at least other men can hopefully learn form this.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/23 01:54 PM
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Yea women should absolutely NOT be posting here and I see some simp men supporting women who do. There is no shortage of places where woman can speak about their own issues yet they always feel the need to invade male spaces.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/23 08:52 PM
2

Yea because the kind of simp questions I see in this sub suggests that many men have yet to read it. Every man must read the book and internalize the concepts Rollo talks about. I also love his very long live streams for the more academically inclined.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/23 03:23 PM
4

Yea I mean u just need to see relationships for what they are. Men tend to view women idealistically. Once you’ve rid yourself of such delusions, you can enjoy women for what they provide.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/23 07:34 PM
2

It’s in their nature. Men tend to view idealistically though and have to learn the hard way
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/23 03:13 PM
10

Yea women fundamentally lack the capacity to appreciate the sacrifices men make to facilitate their reality. Women are solipsistic and not empathetic. They fundamentally lack empathy for the male experience. You should get redpilled on female nature by reading the rationale male if you haven’t already.
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/23 02:22 PM
1

😂😂😂
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/23 05:32 PM
3

Lol men are incels for not playing Russian roulette with their future. If so, I’m a proud incel
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/23 05:25 PM
8

You need to read the Rational male and get redpilled on female nature
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/23 05:22 PM
3

No good deed goes unpunished
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/23 12:51 AM
1

Factz without men supporting the insanity that feminism is, everything collapses
/r/AntiFeminists07/02/23 07:07 PM
1

This is insanity. You’ve been burned once, why would you put yourself in a compromising position again? Jesus Christ, it’s no surprise that there’s no shortage of men signing up for the marriage slaughterhouse
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/23 01:38 AM
1

Empirical data shows otherwise. Women generally prefer men making much more than them
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/23 11:25 PM
2

Well hopefully this is the last go round for u
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/23 11:18 PM
1

Jesus fucking Christ. Clown world
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/23 11:05 PM
2

That’s rough homie. She took advantage of your kindness. Good thing you’re reading rollos stuff now. I think you’ll really appreciate a live stream Rollo did with himself, rich cooper and 2 Muslim dudes (abu American and some other guy).
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/23 08:52 PM
2

You’re a Muslim and u accepted a cheating wife back on numerous occasions?
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/23 08:48 PM
3

Yea lol your approach is much more expedient. It’s unfortunate things have become so dire in the western world
/r/AntiFeminists29/01/23 05:42 PM
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That’s why many just pay for pussy
/r/AntiFeminists29/01/23 04:58 PM
5

Except men are shamed for having such preferences
/r/AntiFeminists21/01/23 01:55 AM
5

Lol the shaming doesn’t work anymore
/r/AntiFeminists20/01/23 02:56 AM
0

You’re fucking retarded. Generalizations exist for reason and men generally are more desirous of sex than women are, exceptions notwithstanding.
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/23 04:29 PM
1

This is a biological fact that men want sex more than women
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/23 12:36 PM
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Because women aren’t as desirous of sex as men are
/r/AntiFeminists18/01/23 11:30 PM
2

Yes
/r/AntiFeminists14/01/23 10:15 PM
1

No, the redpill means something very specific. It’s a praxeology that describes intersexual dynamics. How people to choose to interpret or otherwise act on the data the redpill presents is an entirely different question though.
/r/AntiFeminists10/01/23 12:21 PM
2

Cope. Redpill praxeology is firmly rooted in empiricism and data whereas feminism is divorced from any empirical evidence that would otherwise legitimize the efforts of its adherents. Trying to draw any equivalence between the redpill and feminism is intellectually dishonest at best and purposefully malicious at worst.
/r/AntiFeminists10/01/23 12:19 PM
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Yep don’t get married
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:57 AM
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No he’s not. Unlike toxic feminists, Tate is actually providing practical advice for men in todays feminized gynocentric society.
/r/AntiFeminists01/01/23 01:28 AM
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Read the rational male to understand why she’s behaving this way. Will put things in perspective.
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/22 03:57 PM
2

Absolutely you certainly don’t have to pay for it if you don’t want
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/22 04:31 AM
2

Women can go toe to toe with some of the best capital allocators out there lol
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/22 04:06 AM
5

The irony here is that by entering in marriage, you’re almost necessarily guaranteeing that what you’ll ever get is transactional sex. Chads who get validational sex don’t commit to women. Validational sex can only really exist in an environment where you have leverage or control. A woman in a marriage implicitly knows she has you by the balls and that you’re in her frame. As such, you’ll more than likely only get transactional sex. If you’re not convinced, go visit r/deadbedrooms. Much better t…
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/22 04:02 AM
2

Read the rational male and start watching some of rollo tomassis’s stuff on YouTube. Will really help demystify things and put everything in perspective.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/22 10:03 PM
5

😂😂😂
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/22 09:55 PM
2

Google women are wonderful effect
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/22 09:54 PM
3

It’s part of women’s evolved mental firmware. It was evolutionarily advantageous for them to prioritize their interests and that of their offspring above all else . As such, women fundamentally lack the capacity to appreciate the sacrifices a man makes to facilitate their reality. The sooner men understand their disposability from the female vantage the better off they’ll be.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/22 04:48 PM
4

Great book. I also love rollos 4 hour livestreams. He really breaks down different concepts to a molecular level.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/22 04:42 PM
1

Many men are simps and beyond beta. When you try to warn them they shun you. I’ve tried to warn friends but they still got married. Unfortunately, we can’t save most men. Many just have to learn the hard way
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/22 08:51 PM
3

Yep too many men are willing to sign up for this deal and when you warn many of them they ignore you. I even wonder if most men can be saved
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/22 02:29 PM
13

Lol the irony of this statement. Red pilled men actually care about men vs clowns like you who would pretend marriage hasn’t become an unconscionable contract for men. Fuck off cunt. Countless lives would be saved if men knew the true dangers of marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/22 09:30 PM
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If you want family and kids leave western society. Otherwise, you’re just playing Russian roulette. People have to live in reality, no matter how bleak things are and it just doesn’t make sense to get married
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/22 09:23 PM
1

If a girl is genuinely attracted to u, you’d Houdini have to fight. Everything is organic. Chad certainly doesn’t have to fight for it.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/22 08:17 PM
1

If more men were cynical perhaps less would have gotten destroyed in marriage
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/22 08:09 PM
1

Dude don’t do it. There’s enough evidence showcasing why you shouldn’t. The reason why things will never change is because men are still willing to play a game that is extremely rigged against them.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/22 08:08 PM
8

No, karma is a just a cope people use. It doesn’t exist.
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/22 11:12 PM
2

These right here are big facts
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/22 04:09 PM
1

This is cope tbh. A man’s attractiveness and shoulder width predicts a female partners sexual satisfaction. So I’m skeptical that good looks don’t play the biggest role.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:38 PM
1

They tend to be more physically attractive. The bad body appeal is largely inconsequential relative to their really good looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:19 PM
1

Desperation would be my guess. There’s no other logical reason
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/22 06:37 PM
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