AceArguments Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
23	Do You Think 63% of Men Are Actually Single?		AceArguments	/r/ExRedPill	14/03/23 01:11 PM

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22	Are they aware they are abusing women? They are abusing women and they know it, they justify it under the belief that women are not humans. They're objects to these men. I used to debunk every point they would bring up. I have all the counterarguments and there are even more answers online. Except for one problem, they created a circular reasoning system to self-justify every point they make one way or another. They think they're being 'logical' when in actuality, they've created a just-so story for everything. A lot of these guys cr…	/r/ExRedPill	10/06/23 10:26 PM
3	Women’s hypersensitivity to awkwardness and lack of social prowess/dominance is not rooted in fear or some “survival instinct” they’ve evolved in response to dangerous men, but rather in their privilege and abundance Privilege and abundance...Something tells me you don't read the news. Women are killed left and right for slights against men. You're not the target of abuse. So of course you can sit safely behind your screen and tell every woman that their means to keeping themselves safe is wrong. Because you're not the target. Congrats, you're an armchair psychologist at work here. You're the same kind of people that blame poor people for not saving enough. Poor people are just bad with money. That's why the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/23 09:10 PM
-2	Is it me, or has toxicity towards men been normalized? Statistically speaking men are more likely to not only violently lash out and murder women, they're also much more likely to gaslight and financially or emotionally manipulate women. I can understand why there are a lot of women out there that want to protect themselves. Until women commit crimes and do the sort of crazy shit men do on an equal level, it won't go both ways in any field for both men and women just because the data is overwhelming that men cause most of the trouble. Also, it's not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 03:05 PM
1	Women should admit it is kind of a privilege that they essentially control the couple's social life Then why your friends be leaving you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 11:37 PM
56	Women should admit it is kind of a privilege that they essentially control the couple's social life Women put in more effort and work...So they get the reward of a better support network. You put in more care, you get more care back from people. You give more kindness, people are more kind to you. What a surprise. If men took control of their own social lives, this wouldn't be an issue. Way to blame women for literally everything. Not taking accountability for your own actions in your own social life where the people are supposed to be your friends and you're not even treating them good is man…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 03:31 PM
7	Why do men get redpilled? The men in power told all the average men that their reward for putting their life on the line and doing what they said was status, wealth, and women. It's a good motivator for war and creating male camaraderie when there is no semblance of friendship there. If men are part of a higher status, higher power, higher intellect group, then everyone that does not fit into 'male' is automatically sorted out. Making them special by default solely for being males. That structure motivates men to always …	/r/ExRedPill	01/06/23 01:58 PM
2	Who stands more of a chance - women who've been 'fuck-zoned' or men who've been 'friend-zoned'? Someone here argued at some point that once you’ve had sex then technically that’s a romantic relationship of sorts. That first part...ooof. Big ooof. I don't know what child on the internet said that but I don't have enough patience in me to explain. Look, most girls I know that get fuck zoned have the relationship end after 1-3 rounds of action. Either she leaves cuz she has too many feels or he ghosts her after he gets what he wanted or some other emotional scenario comes up. In the fuck zone…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/23 02:07 AM
2	Who stands more of a chance - women who've been 'fuck-zoned' or men who've been 'friend-zoned'? I answered the specific situation. Friend-zoned men get to stick around, fuck-zoned women just get booty calls when the dude needs some but outside of that, he's not going to talk to her or hang out. I don't get where the confusion is...	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/23 12:55 AM
2	Who stands more of a chance - women who've been 'fuck-zoned' or men who've been 'friend-zoned'? The man that is friend-zoned has a bigger chance of ending up in a successful relationship. The qualities people select for sex is not the same qualities people choose for relationships. If you're in the friend zone, it means you already have qualities the other person likes, values, and wants to keep around long-term. Whereas with sex, you don't have to like the other person at all. Some of the hottest sex is between people who hate each other. So there doesn't need to be any compatibility or a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/23 11:29 PM
1	CMV: Women complain about the "expectation" to wear makeup even though they enjoy it. Men complain about the expectation to be a man even though they enjoy it. Same thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/23 11:07 PM
10	CMV: Women complain about the "expectation" to wear makeup even though they enjoy it. That is the worst strawman in the entire world. Porn is nothing like marvel films. One of them biologically hijacks your brain and feeds on neuro circuitry that makes you repeat that behaviour ad nauseam.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/23 11:06 PM
2	Why married women are you on this sub? I wanted to know why the guys of the manosphere are so messed up and what their arguments for their beliefs are. Went through the youtube pipeline; Think Before You Sleep, Taylor the Fiend, Sneako, Hamza, Andrew Tate, F&F, Whatever Podcast, Alexander Grace, Chris Williamson, Rollo Tomassi etc. I've rarely met a guy IRL that wasn't "getting something". Probably because I actually go outside and these guys are chronically online. Most guys I know are purposely single because they want to sleep aro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/23 02:55 PM
–	Just want to point out that fictional female characters are often held to certain dress-code standards by women Female fictional characters in video games and action movies are created by men. The men clothe these female characters in highly impractical revealing outfits that would never protect them in the line of battle. The men get to wear armour and protective gear in battle games but the women have to wear skin tight bikinis? The men get bullet proof vests in action movies but the women get a sequin dress? So men will create battle games that depict reality as close as possible but when it comes to w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/23 03:38 PM
1	Men would be alot less frustrated in the dating effort if they were given brutally honest and often politically incorrect truths about what most women expect from a man. I've read all of it. Don't you worry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/23 10:56 PM
2	Men would be alot less frustrated in the dating effort if they were given brutally honest and often politically incorrect truths about what most women expect from a man. Of course but families are the building blocks of nations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/23 10:42 PM
3	Men would be alot less frustrated in the dating effort if they were given brutally honest and often politically incorrect truths about what most women expect from a man. You don't think men walking out on their families destroys economies? Single mothers are the poorest households out there because you can't live in most places on a single income. That's why majority of women around the world live in poverty... Men get to walk out with no consequences because they can't get pregnant and they don't even take a hit to their earnings when they leave.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/23 10:27 PM
1	Men would be alot less frustrated in the dating effort if they were given brutally honest and often politically incorrect truths about what most women expect from a man. As a non-westerner, I respectfully disagree with you. Just something to consider. Don't you think that there are similarities in those preferences because those are the type of men most available? Just as men gravitate towards nurturing, feminine, nice women (who make up the majority of women because they are socialized that way)?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/23 10:19 PM
1	Men would be alot less frustrated in the dating effort if they were given brutally honest and often politically incorrect truths about what most women expect from a man. The basis of your argument is that in the dating world, different women give different answers so the conclusion is that they're hiding the truth. When in reality, those women gave you different answers because they are different women... There is no conspiracy. Different women want different things. Every country outside of the West embraces "the uncomfortable truth that women like disagreeable men" that you speak of and all they have is fathers that abandoned their families, falling birth rate…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/23 09:40 PM
3	Women of PPD, how often do you get hit on in public? There are more forest fires where I live than people. So the answer is 0.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/23 11:15 PM
1	Taylor Siwft's "You Belong with me" is simply complaints men have about women but since it is gender flipped it is respected and celebrated instead of mocked Sir...do you think other people are so dumb that they can't come to the analysis of it's a "he should be with me" song? Because when I first heard that song 13 years ago. That was the go to criticism....	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 01:12 PM
9	Imagine the outrage if leg lengthening was for women You idiot it is for women. It was popularized in Asia by women. Only in the past decade have men starting doing these surgeries. https://www.nytimes.com/2002/05/05/world/risking-limbs-for-height-and-success-in-china.html https://www.theguardian.com/world/2003/dec/15/gender.uk	/r/AllPillDebate	11/05/23 09:43 PM
2	Q4W: What do you think of men who want you to sign a prenup before marriage? Makes sense to protect the assets a couple had before they were together. I don't see any issues. There are some women I know that are distrusting of prenups but in my personal experience they were either conservative, traditionalist, or religious and the idea of not sharing everything was a huge sign that the other person didn't want to give the marriage 1000%. In a lot of traditionalist views you're supposed to give everything to the other person; mind, body, and spirit as you would to God. I'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/23 05:16 PM
8	Taylor Siwft's "You Belong with me" is simply complaints men have about women but since it is gender flipped it is respected and celebrated instead of mocked False dichotomy and false premise. Nice try.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/23 07:58 PM
72	Taylor Siwft's "You Belong with me" is simply complaints men have about women but since it is gender flipped it is respected and celebrated instead of mocked Feminists had already criticized this when it came out 13 years ago... The people that celebrated it were overwhelmingly also 13....	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/23 04:37 PM
2	If women aren't as polyamorous as they claim, why are they so against enforced-monogamy? Majority of the world operates on monogamy right now. There are very few countries that allow you to marry more than one partner and it is already socially enforced in society. People are mad at Peterson because he said that in the context of a van attack by Alek Minnassian who killed 10 pedestrians. “He was angry at God because women were rejecting him,” Peterson said of the alleged Toronto killer. “The cure for that is enforced monogamy. That’s actually why monogamy emerges.” Insinuating that …	/r/AllPillDebate	08/05/23 02:25 AM
3	Why did your previous relationships end? The concept of love. The guys I dated early on had this weird stereotypical idea that you were supposed meet someone, get the feels, and fall madly in love. It was an instinct where it happened or it didn't happen. There was a massive emphasis on it. Like it was the most important thing in the entire world. Everyone knows it from movies as the idea of 'the spark'. You're supposed to feel this instinctual overwhelming sense of visceral desire and attraction. But I never took movies seriously... T…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/23 06:12 PM
2	Q4W: Where would you ideally like/be open to find your partner (school, work, club, bars, apps, etc). Can you rank/score them in order of preference? I knew people met on some websites but it was minimal when I was growing up. I saw a lot of ads for Christian Mingle and E-Harmony but they weren't advertised as dating websites. They were seen as match-making services. So I can't say that they operated the same way as Tinder. If anything, they were entirely different because they focused on finding long-term partners or marriage. Some of them made you fill out long questionnaires about likes, dislikes, hobbies, etc in order to match you with so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/23 04:05 AM
7	Why did your previous relationships end? Inability to communicate due to cultural differences. I had not realized how staggering the differences between cultures were until I dated outside of my own. Other people's concepts of things were completely different! Not even close! Even the concept of love is entirely different. I guess it only works out if the cultures are very similar to each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/23 03:19 AM
20	Q4W: Where would you ideally like/be open to find your partner (school, work, club, bars, apps, etc). Can you rank/score them in order of preference? High School/College: Majority of my friends and relatives found their partners here. High school friends and classmates from college often knew each other because we all lived in the same city. So finding friends of friends in college or high school was the norm. Introducing yourself through one of those connections was a surefire way to get yourself into parties. Parties/Drinking Games (House Parties/Birthday Parties/Pub Crawls): If you don't know anyone going to a place full of drunk random pe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/23 01:28 AM
1	women using the "men only want sex" excuse to not see their counterparts as prospects I'm also talking about the current generation. Everyone knows the study. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/ Religion does keep people single, unless you're going to marry them, you don't date them. I like how you think this is a cope when religion is literally everywhere and still makes up at least 50% of the population of most developed countries. But sure. It isn't real and has no bearing on reality. Cope cope. There's explanat…	/r/AllPillDebate	04/05/23 06:03 PM
2	Is the Red Pill an incredibly stupid ideology? Alcoholics drag all their family members into their addiction. None of their family members are alcoholics. Gamblers drag all their family members into their gambling addiction. None of the family members are gamblers. Not a hard concept.	/r/AllPillDebate	04/05/23 04:02 PM
3	Being a bad boy is very beneficial when it comes to being respected by peers and attracting women Yes...Being a good moral person is ten times harder than taking the path of least resistance...Literally the basis of most religions and philosophical work... Can't be weak if you are the threat. Those that steal, get more stuff. Those that use force get more respect. Those that kill are taken more seriously. The hardest thing to do in life is be a good person that is stepped on but turns those experiences into understanding. But I'll tell you what, when anyone puts actions to their words, every…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/23 02:40 PM
2	women using the "men only want sex" excuse to not see their counterparts as prospects Just shutting this shit argument down. The population of singles in U.S is 30%. Single Men surveyed: 32% Single women surveyed: 28% Men are slightly more single by 4% in pool of 30% of singles.... Also the stat did not include any religious reasons for why people might be sexless even though half of the U.S population belongs to a religion of some sort. A good 25% of the 63% you cited could just be celibate for religious reasons.	/r/AllPillDebate	04/05/23 02:27 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? So what happens when there is data that contradicts RP? Men have been saying that marriage is worse for the man but long-term studies show that women were strongly disadvantaged in terms of losses in household income and associated increases in the risk of poverty. Or how about the fact that women rarely had a choice in who their partners were because most marriages were arranged and therefore could never create this 'hypergamy' every man believes to be the case? Or how about the data that most …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 09:37 PM
1	Sharing positive stories? Eventually my psycho shit paid off Girl, same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/23 05:17 PM
1	Not many women seek casual sex, but it takes just each of them having a on-and-off with the top % men for 20/80 rule to work. It's useful if you know what it's quantifying. If you use one metric to quantify everything, then how do you know it quantifies that one thing you are looking at when you are using it on everything else and everyone finds it all equally valid? If you ask women to rate men's attractiveness according to images but then you throw in miscellaneous details, then is that metric quantifying attractiveness or something else? As soon as you added the additional detail, that metric no longer quantifies at…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/23 10:01 PM
1	Not many women seek casual sex, but it takes just each of them having a on-and-off with the top % men for 20/80 rule to work. It also doesn't mean those numbers reflect what you think they reflect. The issue with quantifying abstract ideas is that the metric could be flawed and in this case it is flawed. A 1-10 rating system could be doing what we think it does which is quantifying attractiveness but it could also just be quantifying beliefs from marketing campaigns that brainwash us into thinking certain things are attractive. Or it could be quantifying a very niche group's perception of attractiveness. We don't know …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/23 04:01 PM
1	Not many women seek casual sex, but it takes just each of them having a on-and-off with the top % men for 20/80 rule to work. Women are shown to under score men and assume the "average man" is a lot higher bar than what the average man is (in looks and income usually). Scores don't determine the who, what, why, or where an individual finds a a date, let alone a partner. Bigger factors are geographical location, socio-economic status, and who your friends are. Scores are nothing but imaginary numbers we made up to help quantify something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/23 03:33 PM
1	Not many women seek casual sex, but it takes just each of them having a on-and-off with the top % men for 20/80 rule to work. yea, reality is hard to believe...	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/23 02:40 PM
2	Recovering from RP The people that can go to court in the first place is already in the top 30% of people. Most people cannot go to court or hire lawyers. Chances are if you see them on TV, in a documentary, or hear personal accounts of it, it's availability bias. Most people cannot even afford an emergency $500 payment for anything let alone a lawyer.	/r/ExRedPill	28/04/23 02:16 PM
9	What kind of demographic is most vulnerable to the red pill? The few RP guys I met in real life were almost all low socio-economic kids from bad parents or divorced parents that spend more time alone or were over burdened in life. They had very low self esteem and tried to fix it with RP Manosphere videos but the issue wasn't them. The issue is that they were poor and overburdened.	/r/ExRedPill	27/04/23 04:15 PM
1	Recovering from RP Hey I've been through the divorce court myself and the laws are not in the woman's favour. Even though the laws haven't changed much, the interpretation and ruling of the law is very different today than it was 50-100 years ago. The laws dictates today that in a marriage without kids it's a 50/50 split. If you have kids, the favour is in the parent that spends the most time with the child (which in most cases it is the woman) but if the man fights for legal guardianship he is awarded legal right…	/r/ExRedPill	27/04/23 02:39 PM
1	The Liberal left had abandoned men. The Rise of Andrew Tate and Redpill creators is a result of that How are people even married?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/23 07:59 PM
-3	The Liberal left had abandoned men. The Rise of Andrew Tate and Redpill creators is a result of that Sir, talking about your emotions is not subservience... Being emotionally available is not subservience. What is the reasoning here? Because you need some vulnerability to open up about your emotions, that vulnerability translates to weakness and therefore the natural conclusion is that weakness leads to subservience??? Being emotionally honest and available is subservience to you guys?!?!? Are you serious????	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/23 05:20 PM
2	Recovering from RP The whole exchange theory is repulsive and ancient. Men exchange money, status, and stability for a young 18 year old woman's beauty and chastity. I come from a super traditional background where the woman takes care of the children and works a part time job, while the man is the main breadwinner and is developing his career. The reason my parents got married was exactly the above situation. They had nothing to say to each other 99% of the time. They did not share any hobbies, beliefs, or common…	/r/ExRedPill	24/04/23 04:41 PM
-2	The Liberal left had abandoned men. The Rise of Andrew Tate and Redpill creators is a result of that In all of human history, we have never been able to remove people from cults. The victims of which are largely men with the leaders also being mostly men. The Redpill is another cult that has sprung up, except its tenets are a little more appealing; a historical culture of hating women and shifting the blame to the world around (the matrix). We don't take people out of cults. It is near impossible with the amount of brainwashing people have gone through. Politics don't take people out of cults. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/23 02:41 PM
4	The "male housework list" or "honey do list" (the second shift) \| Sources from Dr. Warren Farrell This sounds like a long list of things from a 1950's suburban house owner in Texas. Even if you owned a house and a yard, most people I know just hires someone else to take care of it. What do you think immigrant labour is for? So white people can clean their own gutters?! No one remodels or repairs their house anymore. I have friends that work in home remodelling and had literal people pay them to change a light bulb in someone else's house and put up a painting. Obviously she's not going to sa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/23 01:49 PM
1	There’s no such thing as ex redpill Sir, you learned one ideology and then used it for everything. Justifying all actions and outcomes from the same source makes everything easy. This is not discovering the truth of anything. Reality is multifaceted and ever-changing with the current of time. The only person living in a dream is you because you cannot adapt to the environment and instead choose one ideology that you slap onto every situation. I don't believe you'll change your mind any time soon. If you don't know you're Sisyphus,…	/r/ExRedPill	23/04/23 08:25 PM
2	What are the most absurd things you've heard from Red Pill influencers and who was it? This isn't necessarily absurd but definitely wrong. This quote permeates the Manosphere, Incels, and Pill ideologies. “Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times.” The quote is from a postapocalyptic novel by the author G. Michael Hopf. This has been spread through the grapevine by Joe Rogan, Chris Williamson, Rollo Tomassi and echoed by all the other RP guys in their Youtube videos and streams. This quote is the basis f…	/r/ExRedPill	22/04/23 04:37 PM
3	Purple pill debate It's just a nice toxic place to find out the core beliefs of the people that follow RP ideology and what they think. It's nice that they're open about their ideas because that means no one has to give them the benefit of the doubt as most civil humans would. They're very good at clarifying what they mean and how they go about it so I can see what red flags look like, what keywords to look out for, and what kind of tactics they're doing to try and get there. Also, a lot of them parrot talking poi…	/r/ExRedPill	22/04/23 03:04 PM
1	This sub doesn't actually seem to be about discussing gender issues The problem with sociology studies is that they're often performed to affirm a belief. If you read some of them this becomes abundantly clear. That the conclusion is often just the researcher interpreting the data to fit their own narrative. How does finding a tribe of cannibals be affirming one's beliefs? Do the people the write sociology textbooks like cannibalism? The very first encounter between Europeans and Māori may have involved cannibalism of a Dutch sailor. In June 1772, the French exp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 04:59 PM
4	Is the idea of being rejected by men you are interested in for shallow reasons hard to accept? Anyone can reject anyone for shallow reasons. Some people get offended, and others don't care. But if you publically reject someone and announce it to everyone, then parts of society will publically shame you. Why? Because you made it public. You shout in a town square and you're surprised people shout back? Keep it in your head. Just say 'I don't like you' and move on instead of this whole; women after 30 hit a wall and their eggs dry up like their beauty and they become useless to men ordeal. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 09:57 PM
1	Rules/Structure are falsely equated with masculinity and that's why the patriarchy isn't real. Sir. You stating my evidence as nonsense doesn't make it nonsense. I'm not determined to be a victim; life makes it so and it decides it for you at birth. You refuse to acknowledge there are poor and desperate people in the world that have nothing while big giant companies monopolize your 'meritocratic system', the only person determined here is you. Determined to be blind. Good luck with your fantasy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 09:34 PM
7	Don't you think the redpill is somehow necessary? One does not drink sea water because you are thirsty.	/r/ExRedPill	19/04/23 06:42 PM
2	From my observation, the standard of beauty for men is a lot higher than the standard of beauty for women. Majority of men around the world are taller than women. The average height difference between a man and a woman is 4-6 inches. Stop putting a number at your desired threshold so you can skew the data towards 6 feet. Women- big tits, big buttocks, attractive face, and average height You forgot for women that they need to be within the right proportions (1/3 body type with legs longer than torso), with the right features (big round eyes, tall and slim non-aquiline nose, plump lips, long voluminous…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 05:55 PM
2	How do you explain bad relationships? To me, this has the implication that people who are in relationships, are mature and mentally stable. Everyone knows not all relationships are mature and mentally stable, we have a divorce rate of 50% for a reason. There are kids of divorced parents walking around right now trying to deal with their unstable lives. We aspire to mature and stable relationships but it's super hard to do. Just as religious people aspire to be good people under the commandment of God but they still have huge issues …	/r/ExRedPill	19/04/23 05:25 PM
1	Rules/Structure are falsely equated with masculinity and that's why the patriarchy isn't real. First of all, that is patently false, women were educated in all but a handful of cultures. False, most cultures did not educate women, only women of upper class and wealth. There were periods of times in which some countries allowed women to be educated at formal institutions but almost all of them overturned with time. Most formal institutions barred women from entering and only allowed some wealthy upper class girls to attend basic rudimentary education. The only institution that allowed wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 04:22 PM
4	I wish dating had not gotten infected with these MLM-fueled "coaching" systems. It's become parasitic. The only true MLM I've seen was hustler university which you can pay thousands of dollars to in order to learn how to manipulate women into doing cam work and take more than half the pay from them. The others are kind of MLM like? I know they having 'coaching businesses' where they have to hire other people and the guys have sessions with those dudes who do basic training stuff before getting to talk to the actual Top G. The basic training dudes are probably on the same shitty contracts as every…	/r/ExRedPill	19/04/23 03:49 PM
3	Rules/Structure are falsely equated with masculinity and that's why the patriarchy isn't real. You're telling me that women have to fight all of the armed and trained men for freedom? Not the ones hiding behind a computer right now? You're saying that if men had their way, they would 'neutralize entire armies' of women just so they can't get their own freedom? You know, you're right. Violence is the only way to get anything in this world. Men seem to really like going to war over it. If women win, it's freedom. If women lose that war, we'll honour kill ourselves so there's no women left o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 02:54 PM
2	Rules/Structure are falsely equated with masculinity and that's why the patriarchy isn't real. And why is that exactly? Think about this for a moment, how did these men get that power/influence in the first place and why do they keep it? Nepotism and ideas of natural ruler. Kings wanted to remain kings so what did they tell the peasants? I was ordained by God. Why don’t another group of men (or a larger group of women) simply kill off the first group and appoint themselves the rule makers? That has historically been happening for thousands of years. That's how colonization and conquest wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 02:00 PM
1	Rules/Structure are falsely equated with masculinity and that's why the patriarchy isn't real. Yea, probably had something to do with women bombing places if they didn't get equal rights.... Technology once it's made, can be used in the hands of anyone that can get it. That's how technology works. When both people have guns, we're on equal grounds. If men had it their way for another 50,000 years, they would have never let a gun fall into the hands of a woman. She might want the same things in life as a man. Atrocious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 01:28 PM
1	Rules/Structure are falsely equated with masculinity and that's why the patriarchy isn't real. That's not a true scotsman fallacy, if you don't read up the literature on a topic, any topic. Then you have no clue what it is. You can't go around calling every social service communism if you've never read the literature on it. Way to go, you learned what a fallacy was and not how to apply it. Men gave women their rights. They didn't. Women had to bomb places for their rights and fight with everyone around them. The men caved. Most of which whom did not want the right to vote and would not ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 01:26 PM
18	Women still need men, maybe more than ever, but not in the same way Women vote for socialist policies to get the most entitlements from the government, Socialist policies that, I don't know, run your schools and other draining institutions like libraries, healthcare, pensions, and nursing homes? The things that we as a collective decided that everyone should have instead of it being a private institution monopolized by one group of men??? not to take down those top men and distribute power on the industries and labor If it's so easy to take down those top men th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/23 09:43 PM
0	Rules/Structure are falsely equated with masculinity and that's why the patriarchy isn't real. Patriarchy is a social structure where the actions and ideas of men are dominant over those of women. This circumstance of male dominance is reflected in correlative inequities throughout the society, the foremost being in the family domain where the father or eldest male is considered the patriarch of 'head of the household'. Patriarchal societies have customs or laws where wives and children in a family are owned by the father or nearest male relative. Patriarchies are patrilineal where the de…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/23 09:16 PM
0	Rules/Structure are falsely equated with masculinity and that's why the patriarchy isn't real. I can't access the article you sent so could you do me the labor of explaining it as concisely as possible or is that not something that can really be done without losing the essence? It's literally on the first page...I didn't make you go tot he bayou for this... Patriarchy is a social structure where the actions and ideas of men are dominant over those of women. This circumstance of male dominance is reflected in correlative inequities throughout the society, the foremost being in the family d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/23 08:39 PM
15	Rules/Structure are falsely equated with masculinity and that's why the patriarchy isn't real. "The Patriarchy" seems to be perceived in the minds of the feminist collective as some big bad ruler and so all rules and regulations in society are associated with oppression. That's not what feminism is at all. It's look at what laws/rights/privileges are made available to a specific group but not to anyone else and asking why is it that way? Then challenging those structures. Feminists have been blaming the rules and those that make the rules ever since its conception. Women have rights today…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/23 05:59 PM
3	Have any of you ever really thought about this saying Yooo! That's soo interesting! Thank you for sharing!	/r/ExRedPill	17/04/23 03:44 PM
7	Have any of you ever really thought about this saying Technically you can't have perfect genes because the perfect genes for each environment is different. The point was to have a variety so that if something came along like a disease that only affected super healthy people, there was a portion of the population that wouldn't be affected. When Charles Darwin said survival of the fittest, he didn't mean the healthiest or the best. It was the traits that were beneficial to the environment. As an example: Pingelap atoll, a Micronesian island in the So…	/r/ExRedPill	17/04/23 03:25 PM
1	CMV : As a Man i believe using Game and Manipulation is immoral, but i believe u have to do it because otherwise u cant compete, and this is actually sad. Keep competing. Forever and ever and ever and ever...At least Sisyphus knew his life was a punishment. I guess it's better to be oblivious so you can keep playing games and manipulating people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/23 02:58 PM
1	What would the world be like where women were the ones in positions of power? Potentially, but even the idea of women ruling the world would take centuries. Let's pretend a century passes, I always imagined the future to have high-tech cosmetic procedures or full-on technological enhancements to the human body that would pretty much make that scenario obsolete. I don't know if you have netflix but there's this show called Altered Carbon: Resleeved. Something like that I guess. I don't know, as humans we've innovated out of most of our problems like the green revolution.	/r/AllPillDebate	14/04/23 10:20 PM
1	What would the world be like where women were the ones in positions of power? Read up on the differences between chimps and bonobos and you'll get the general idea of what happens if women were in power. Chimpanzee Society For chimpanzees, the relationships between males define the group structure. A classic example of natural selection, chimps compete for power in the group which translates to more chances to mate and pass on their offspring. The more dominant alpha males intimidate younger chimps and have more offspring. However, this fierce competition comes at a viole…	/r/AllPillDebate	14/04/23 08:54 PM
–	Fathers work harder overall than mothers on average. False. Infidelity Over half of all participants cited infidelity as a major reason for divorce and infidelity was the most often endorsed “final straw” reason. Infidelity is not a major focus in PREP, though the curriculum does address the importance of commitment, including protecting one’s relationship from attraction to others. Based on participants’ reports from this study, it may be that premarital programs could be improved by more directly addressing how to reduce the potential for extram…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/23 02:46 PM
2	Fathers work harder overall than mothers on average. Women already leave 50% of the time...	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/23 09:10 PM
5	Fathers work harder overall than mothers on average. Women do that already. It's happening all around the world. Literally, majority of women take care of their own children. The vast majority of men all around the world do not want to take care of their own children. But everyone wants to trash on the single mother even though she's doing all the work. So pick whichever is more beneficial 🤷‍♂️I don't see who it is they want to blame that it isn't perfect Asking your partner to do half the work isn't asking for 'perfect'.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/23 09:09 PM
15	Fathers work harder overall than mothers on average. They do. Majority of women leave husbands because they don't do enough of the work. No one ever said it wasn't bad. Women leaves despite how bad it gets. The women that leave don't whine. I like how you degrade all the data that you brought to the table as soon as it disproves you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/23 09:07 PM
6	Women lie about their partner preferences. They self-report preference for intelligent and ambitious men, but they chose the most attractive ones ignoring other traits. The act was to say whether you felt aroused and were interested in the imagery that was presented. Women even when aroused said no they would not be interested regardless of whether they were aroused or not. A woman could be shown something that was very arousing and they could still answer no. It shows a greater level of loyalty to ones core beliefs and ideas over their physiology. Sorry you're too blinded by ideology.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/23 08:55 PM
8	Women lie about their partner preferences. They self-report preference for intelligent and ambitious men, but they chose the most attractive ones ignoring other traits. Did you read the actual experiment? Because they didn't lie. What that study proved was that women had an automatic function in their brains that heightened their arousal but they were effectively able to identify when that arousal was inappropriate and not to be acted upon. It's called delayed gratification. You don't want to act on sexual desires just because you have it. Such as in the case of seeing images of children...Men on the other hand would get aroused and act upon it. One of the many…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/23 08:39 PM
1	If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored. This is just your social conditioning speaking. Traditional women and modern women aren't that different. Sir...they are worlds apart. Modern women own their own bank accounts, traditional women have their husbands or their fathers. Big difference. Femininity has nothing to do with being financially and emotionally dependent on a man. Femininity is definitely tied with being financially and emotionally dependent on a man. That's what makes it feminine. There's tones of guys on this forum that wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/23 04:53 PM
1	If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored. Whats interesting is you're basically saying a high value male pays for women, and a high value woman allows the man to pay for her. A traditional high value woman is that. You want a feminine woman. That's her. That's the biggest complaint of the west is that women aren't feminine enough and men need to leave the country for more feminine high value women. Don't complain when you get a feminine woman and she expects you to pay. She dresses and acts traditional so she can distinguish herself fro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/23 04:20 PM
1	If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored. This is the reason for a lot of entitlement we see today. Just the simple fact that there are many women out there who actually expect a man to pay for dates proves this. Those are traditional women. A lot of men see that as high value. If you can't get them, then you're not high value enough for a traditional woman. Unfortunately when it comes to dating, women have so many requirements and unrealistic expectations, but society generally doesn't point these things out Society points out women's …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/23 01:26 PM
1	CMV: We have turned relationships into leisure, most relationships are no longer focused on starting a family or working towards a common goal, as a result people are naturally gonna get pickier with their options even amongst religious and traditionalist types, don't value commitment, responsibility and moral integrity like they once did. I's not the we don't value it. The issue is that although we might aspire to values such as commitment, responsibility and moral integrity it doesn't mean we actually achieve it. It's a constant work in progress. One of the many reasons why Christianity is so appealing to people, you can mess up and still be forgiven. You can be a criminal and start another life with Go…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 03:07 PM
11	New research helps explain why relationship satisfaction tends to be lower in role-reversed heterosexual couples Perceptions of dominance and weakness were linked to reduced levels of relationship satisfaction within role-reversed couples. The study emphasizes the potential consequences for couples who deviate from conventional gender norms and underscores the continued impact of these norms on relationships. Vink and her colleagues concluded, “Overall, these findings suggest that backlash effects for role-reversed, heterosexual relationships are another way in which the gender hierarchy is protected and w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/23 11:53 PM
1	Women's passivity and ease of dating makes it hard to feel sympathy for their dating struggles Sir you started the debate with a statement. What 'honest' debate are you talking of? Your last sentence already reveals you to be an incredibly immature person. That is the most unsophisticated view of life ever. It reeks of 'I've never met anyone beyond the confines of my city ever and therefore dismiss anything that doesn't align with what I've already experience'. You're "I'm an asshole and it works" schtick is a game. A game where all you do is win in the short term attracting women that li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/23 03:25 PM
3	Now that Passport Bro'ing is going mainstream, how do you think this will effect the dating market? They will eventually increase immigration restrictions/requirements to enter thier countries to try and combat this A lot of Asian countries' source of income is tourism. They won't prevent foreigners from coming in. But they also won't help them if anything happens to them inside the country. They won't increase restrictions, often times if you piss off the locals, it's taken care of naturally by any gangs, militias, and other groups of men. I seriously don't understand why you think these coun…	/r/AllPillDebate	08/04/23 05:51 PM
3	The majority of younger women (18-24) are NOT attracted to old men 30+ You can't buy healthy skin at the mall or on Amazon. Yea you can, it's called sunscreen. Look up what happens to people that get too much sun exposure. They develop fine lines, sagging, wrinkles, sunspots and other melanoma issues that can lead to cancer over time. Most men don't even wear sunscreen on a regular basis during the summer. Another thing you can buy for healthy skin is collagen. Stop with the ape brain. Humans have been buying things to make us have healthy skin and other things for…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/23 05:26 PM
5	Women's passivity and ease of dating makes it hard to feel sympathy for their dating struggles I like how you think the game has to be played one way. As if the only method available for people to find dates or partners is to pursue, pursue, pursue. This is life, the game can be played a million ways. The idea that you could find someone in a common hobby or activity is clearly out of the ballpark for you. I bet you think finding someone in your area that grew up with you and dating them is 'not making it happen'. This is the method in which most people find partners in the early half of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/23 05:09 PM
10	Fresh And Fit brought what seems like a proud rapist on their podcast while denying rape culture. Honestly, these guys are so good at gaslighting women it's unbelievable. Rape culture doesn't exist, I'm a nice guy. "But also we used to sneak crack into the white women's cigarettes to fuck em." - grapist charleston white Keep telling women it doesn't exist when guys like these are literally revealing themselves because they are PROUD of their actions. Nice video, we need more compilations of their crimes.	/r/ExRedPill	07/04/23 10:24 PM
4	CMV: Women on PPD exaggerate how much women generally work and earn. Bro, kids aren't independent until they are like six. And I'm sorry you had to help take care of your siblings but guess what. That's the norm all over the world. So kind of you to help out your dear old mother. In other parts of the world, even if there was a dad, it would have still been your job FYI	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/23 09:32 PM
7	CMV: Women on PPD exaggerate how much women generally work and earn. You think the average women has the money for daycare? See, this is how I know you're just a bean bag chair. Also, when the kids are away for eight hours, it's not like the chores stop, and the groceries aren't needed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/23 09:30 PM
12	CMV: Women on PPD exaggerate how much women generally work and earn. Shit! Well if it's such an easy job taking care of children from birth to 18 years old, why don't men just help out? If it's that easy and women are just lazy. Then a husband should be able to do it no problem! Should be as easy as cake!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/23 09:27 PM
7	CMV: Women on PPD exaggerate how much women generally work and earn. Oh wow, women working around the clock at home is delusional? Obviously you've never dealt with kids. Your lack of experience is showing, it's glaringly obvious. As a veteran of five. You're out of your mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/23 09:08 PM
10	CMV: Women on PPD exaggerate how much women generally work and earn. Taking care of kids is a 24 hour job. You're waking up at 2 in the morning and going back to bed at 3. You're constantly running from one place to another with no breaks; school, work, school, home, clubs/sports, home, homework/tutor. You have to make arrangements five weeks into the future just so your child meets all standard criteria; health checks (dental, vision, general), vaccinations, school fees, enrolment documentation, parent/teacher meetings etc. She's working 168 hours a week. You're…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/23 08:55 PM
19	Men Desire Romantic Relationships More Than Women Do Yea, they desire it more to get rid of loneliness, have a live in house maid but also for prestige. The men that can 'get' women are seen as desirable. The issue is that when those guys get a relationship, very few of them put in any effort in the relationship; unequal distribution of household chore labour, lack of sympathy/empathy for partner, constant complaints of never getting enough sex, breakdowns in communication fuelled by petty spite or vengeance, selfishness and no efforts to maintain…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/23 08:05 PM
1	Why are bigger chicks and mid's so picky? It's on easy mode for men and women with Euro features. Euro men are some of the tallest men in the world with the most prominent brow ridge and angular jaws. They're playing life on easy mode in every way. They'll be seen as more competent, hired more easily, readily promoted, more sought after, more likely to be in positions of power, more likely to be paid more etc. Any women that has Euro features out weighs whatever other attributes making them less attractive. Blue eyes alone can propel so…	/r/AllPillDebate	04/04/23 08:05 PM
4	Western men deserve to get a girl more attractive than them CMV That's already happening...what is this post. Western men have been going around as passport bros and sex tourist travel since the first country borders were drawn. They go to poorer countries and get the most beautiful women every month of the year. That's already happening and has been happening ever since travelling between borders was a thing. I can't wait until word goes around about you guys. Many countries are run by gangs, faux governments, militias, and dictators. Women don't have a lot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/23 07:33 PM
3	Results from a survey with an (approximately) 25k sample size about sexual happiness, cheating, and satisfaction in long-term hetero monogamous relationships. It falls in line with every study ever about this lol. Thank god these are reoccurring topics. I'm sure another study will come out proving the same thing in the future. Adds to the pile. I hope I live long enough to see that pile of data.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/23 06:44 PM
1	the number of adult transmen are equal to that of transwomen, in the younger demo, transboys actually outnumber transgirls: I always thought there were more MTF transitions because men have historically had more money and resources available to them. I don't see any hope for more women to transition without subsidized health care of some sort.	/r/AllPillDebate	04/04/23 06:32 PM
3	I attempted to make a video criticizing Alexander Grace I watched Alexander Grace for some time. You were spot on, a lot of these Youtubers use some very casually manipulative tactics; stating things as facts or interjecting opinions mixed in with facts to fumble the information so you can't tell where the opinion starts and where the fact ends. The worst is Chris Williamson who will get dismissive of information because it doesn't mesh with his ideology. His casually dismissive go to phrase is 'so it doesn't explain everything'. He pisses me off the…	/r/ExRedPill	04/04/23 05:12 PM
1	Why are bigger chicks and mid's so picky? Perceptions of "on their level" is incredibly subjective. If you thought she was one your level but the bigger chick has a baby doll face, blue eyes, and pale skin with the only problem is that she's bigger... then she's actually three tiers above you. You guys don't pay attention to beauty standards the way women do. So obviously you're going to think you're way hotter shit than you are. But in the world of western beauty ideals, if she got those germanic Aryan features, her weight means jack s…	/r/AllPillDebate	04/04/23 01:49 PM
1	women talking ugly and short men out of surgery is virtue signaling No they haven't. A man's goal and purpose in life was resources and accumulating wealth for most of human history and if he had that, parents would arrange a marriage for the man with their daughter. The fact that majority of ancestors are women doesn't mean that men were subjected to beauty standards. Those two have no relations. As a matter of fact it's the opposite. The women today were the slightly more beautiful one. Over time this has compounded and has made women significantly more beauti…	/r/AllPillDebate	04/04/23 01:33 PM
3	Thoughts on the dick pill? Potentially the most brutal pill. I've worked at over 10 jobs with 1-2 years at each job. Every woman I've ever had the displeasure of listening to the woes of at work complain about not getting enough oral and not getting enough foreplay. The clitoris is external....The clitoris has more than 10,000 nerve endings. Focus on the clitoris! You guys are literally battery ramming a problem you already have the answer to (figuratively and literally). The answer is the clitoris! Having the cervix touched doesn't hurt most women, the f…	/r/AllPillDebate	03/04/23 08:33 PM
0	women talking ugly and short men out of surgery is virtue signaling Every time you change something about yourself, physical or not, you are put into a different category by people perceiving you. When you get surgery, you put yourself into a different category with more people looking for the same thing. That category is called 'western beauty ideals'. That category is huge because it's cross cultural and cross nations. Almost every country shares some aspect of the 'western beauty ideal'. So when you use surgery to fit into that box, obviously you get more att…	/r/AllPillDebate	03/04/23 05:24 PM
5	Am I the only one who has noticed that Redpillers, MRAS, MGTOW Men, and Incest are super hypersensitive to any criticism? Majority of the problems these guys face are economic in nature mixed with increasing technological change. The affluent are basically calling all the shots while they get men and women to fight over each other. Literally the usual bullshit that happened throughout time and history. Women are a very good scape goat for the rich men that want the world a certain way.	/r/ExRedPill	31/03/23 04:02 PM
1	Do ugly women really have it harder than pretty women? Seems like the basis of your argument is; because this happened to me and I'm average, therefore, it isn't that uncommon and therefore it isn't as bad as what pretty girls go through. Duly noted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/23 03:02 PM
10	I recently found out that a guy I’m talking to has a high body count and I am repulsed Uh. No, you are not wrong in thinking that. Wow. Alarm bells be ringing in my ears. Dear lord, that guy probably has an STD. Do not do anything with him please! Unless he has documentation, I wouldn't put a finger on him! We share a lot of values but I just can’t look at him the same way This is life. We choose which things to value more over the other. You can't have them all on a horizontal line. You have to prioritize one over the other. Please ask yourself whether your values on sexual behav…	/r/ExRedPill	31/03/23 01:58 PM
1	Do ugly women really have it harder than pretty women? I live in the west. Also, when you say "some of these things happened to me", please tell me it was more than a handful of times. Because this shit was every day until you left school.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 11:16 PM
2	So where exactly are these ugly women? Yo...nailed it. Holy cow, thanks for putting that into words. If there's a third gender category called Invisible. That would pretty much fill in the gap.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/23 02:21 PM
1	What would happen if women lowered their standards? Dude has anyone ever read r/deadbedroom? Yikes that place is full of women settling for "good men" that literally pine after sex day and night but they won't take the time to look at the critical issues of their marriages but instead go about doing these "nice" gestures like washing the dishes (but only when she's looking of course) and giving massages (but only when she's mad at him). I did all the chores, why am I not getting the sex?! The guys are always on fire. It usually ends with "she lie…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/23 01:44 PM
1	Female mating strategies prevent them from giving men genuine answers For every thing you listed, there's a male equivalent. Wife material vs Fuck material: Women a man dates a woman knowing full well it's going nowhere but keeps her emotionally attached for sex. The Man Hoe Phase: Men rack up high body counts and then gaslight women into thinking it's okay for him to have that many because he's a guy and that's how you know he's good in bed. But then you get into bed and he sucks because all he did was shove shove. Fat Phobia: Men are the biggest hypocrites makin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/23 01:30 PM
6	Do ugly women really have it harder than pretty women? If you're an ugly girl, you're bullied by boys and girls in school (elementary, high school, and post-secondary), it makes you a big red target. You are only invisible to potential partners because they would never see you that way or want to associate with you. Every single day of an ugly girl's life is filled with shit. Every girl picks on you, spreads rumours about you, gossip about you, and play awful tricks on you for no reason other than they can. All the boys make jokes about how ugly you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/23 10:48 PM
-2	What would a Red Pill alternative from a leftist perspective look like? This is why the blue pill doesn't resonate with so many young men, because it doesn't provide them any actionable advice. Pointing to the broader economy, toxic masculinity, lack of positive male role models, etc is 100% accurate but it does absolutely nothing for a 17 year old nerdy skinny kid. Vague platitudes about being yourself Wow, telling people to be themselves and find someone that likes you for who you are rather than grinding at the gym to be part of the top 10% that get bitches. How …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/23 04:17 PM
1	What would a Red Pill alternative from a leftist perspective look like? because god forbid anybody actually say women are animals and, as animals, can be fairly predictable and follows certain patterns as any dimorphic animal does. Would you say that men are animals and therefore can be fairly predictable and follow certain patterns as any animal does?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/23 03:59 PM
2	Question 4 Women: Has PPD and TRP made you less trustful of men or dislike them? Bro, women already had a long list of things we have to vet guys for (so nothing bad happens and we don't get blamed) and TRP and the Manosphere in general just made that list a hundred times longer. Women have a strong vetting process because we have no clue who the crazy people are because some guys hide it under a facade of confidence. This sub really opened my eyes to a lot of things I hadn't known before. Like encounters with men aren't natural, they were preplanned be a guy who was doing r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/23 03:32 PM
-3	Where is all this "men are lazy, useless, losers" rhetoric coming from? That age demographic of men is making more because they're not going to colleges at the same rate as women (60% Women vs 40% Men). They're not postponing work to get educated so you can expect more men in that age range to be employed full-time. Men still dominate the most lucrative college majors(engineering, CS, finance, etc), well-paying skilled trades jobs, and other well-paying jobs that don't require a college degree like law enforcement, firefighting, and the military. Just because you ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/23 12:57 AM
2	Who should men be listening to? For advice, direction, understanding. No one. There's no recipe to getting people. They either like you or they don't. They're either attracted to you or they're not. The reasons are always out of your control. And trying to fit into neat little categories so someone can like you doesn't lead to success. You end up investing time into obtaining something shallow for someone that only likes shallow things. So obviously, they're just going to leave you over a different shallow thing. Anyone that wants to play and game others into beli…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 03:23 PM
1	Women subscribe to the r3dpill ideas more than they let on. And this is bad if they consider themselves feminist This is where the contradiction on how feminists and women subscribe to red pills reality. They date men. Have you ever thought that women date men because the majority of people are straight? And they seek traditional qualities in men while wanting to get rid of the very system that forces tradition and gender roles in men. Have you ever thought that instead of seeking out these men, those are the only men available? Most men still personally view male masculinity according to traditionalist va…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 10:12 PM
1	Femininity is undervalued in society, and ironically progressive people (especially women) contribute a lot to that. In the eyes of society, anything a woman does is feminine and therefore second class. Women in computing were among the first programmers in the early 20th century. In the 1960's computer programming was called "soft work" because it was dominated by women. It was seen as low level work and highly undervalued. "Tedious" computing and calculating was seen as "women's work" through the 1940s[43] resulting in the term "kilogirl", invented by a member of the Applied Mathematics Panel in the early 19…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 08:27 PM
2	You should "choose better" aswell That's why I said you ignored 60% of reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 07:37 PM
0	Women are attracted to qualities that allow her to do less "I want a woman that can cook and clean" - he doesn't have to cook or clean anything "I like a woman that is feminine" - he doesn't have to face embarrassment or emasculation. He knows exactly who wears the pants in the relationship b/c women wear dresses. "Women should be beautiful" - the man doesn't need to put work or money into his appearance. Women have to take on all the financial costs of keeping up with the beauty standard. If her tits are saggy, she needs to get implants to keep up the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 07:32 PM
5	You should "choose better" aswell Women are specifically attracted to antisocial, psychopathic traits. Men aren't. The amount of men that love crazy women that have psychopathic traits is staggering. I've heard tones of men say that the crazy women are the ones they have the best sex with. I've seen husbands cheat on their wives with these sorts of women. Everyone loves a Harley Quinn. That's just a lie.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 02:53 PM
-4	You should "choose better" aswell Very few women are in managerial positions to begin with. Majority of employers are men...This analogy is ignoring like 60% of reality. Men are like the employers hiring shitty workers and keeping them around. Men are like workers taking what they can get. "women fuck who they want" Yes. Very consensual sex act is people fucking who they want. If you aren't fucking who you want then that's a you problem or this is a r*pe situation. "Men fuck who they can" Because men want to fuck whoever they ca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 02:50 PM
2	You should "choose better" aswell Absolutely not. It was the other way around. Women have always been crucified if they cheated or left the man. They would lose community support and friendships over it. And if it was the man that cheated, it would be her fault because why was she such a bad girlfriend/wife that he would want to leave. Read a history book you have that literally backwards. I can point to literally any culture, any country, and any time period in history where that was the case. It hasn't changed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 02:44 PM
1	Why isn't the plight of unattractive women ever talked about? When I see super pretty girls in all these "gotcha women are shallow" videos being called 4's at best, I die...If the pretty 19 year old blondes are a 4 I'm a fucking 1.5. I'm ready to be thrown off a cliff like the greek god Hephaestus.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/23 05:38 PM
17	Why do so many men get so angry when they see another man in a committed relationship with a single mother? Most men believe that the bio dad is the "real" dad and if they were married, that's the only position they would occupy. If they don't blame the single mom and step dad (for raising their kid and being the more responsible parent), who do they have left to blame but themselves (the bio dad)? I think a lot of these guys are living under the impression that if that was their wife, no way they would let another man raise their child but in reality, a lot of bio dads fail their wife and child or ab…	/r/ExRedPill	15/03/23 05:21 PM
3	Why isn't the plight of unattractive women ever talked about? Ugly women are either completely invisible, used, or bullied. All the girls that Manosphere men are angry about are all young pretty women hanging out at clubs and bars. I watched quite a few Taylor the Fiend videos and it was basically 99% pretty women. Even the ones Wheat Waffles or Coach Redpill complains about are all pretty women. They're young and beautiful college girls living their lives. Literally all these guys have more access to see beautiful women online than ever and are mad that n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/23 03:02 PM
1	How can an average-looking dude inspire visceral attraction in women!? Be funny. Women love men that are funny. Comedians get a lot of women. It's a good tactic if you've got nothing else. As someone who is hideous. I can 100% vouch on this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/23 06:33 PM
3	Do You Think 63% of Men Are Actually Single? The wording of the questions is the other thing I was contemplating. People date around a lot and some relationships are short lived. I don't know how you'd account for that and whether it would still be seen as single if you've had 3 short relationships in a year but failed to go long term with any of them.	/r/ExRedPill	14/03/23 06:30 PM
2	Do You Think 63% of Men Are Actually Single? Huh. Nice stats. Thank you! I will use this.	/r/ExRedPill	14/03/23 03:33 PM
2	Do You Think 63% of Men Are Actually Single? Unfortunately, the entire U.S republican voter base seem to be just as bad. I found sensationalized headlines in both The Hill and other media outlets.	/r/ExRedPill	14/03/23 03:28 PM
2	Do You Think 63% of Men Are Actually Single? I don't think the majority of women in their 20's are dating men in their 30's. I'm almost certain, they're in casual hook-up relationships or non-committed ones. That trend in age gap relationships is declining from what I've read. Can you cite me that? Because I have a world stat that says English speaking countries are almost at parity. It also says that there is slightly less men in the U.S (98 men per 100 women). Of course you cited the age range but that's the stat I don't have. If you can…	/r/ExRedPill	14/03/23 03:18 PM
3	Do You Think 63% of Men Are Actually Single? Yea, I think that's what most guys mean when they say they are single 'not in a serious relationship'.	/r/ExRedPill	14/03/23 03:11 PM
1	Q4W - Why did Maslow, in his Hierarchy of Needs, originally list Sex as a Basic, Physiological need? He most likely made sex a physiological need because it's one of the many things that manifest in humans early. In human development, we come to know and understand certain things faster than others. First is our conception of language, love, and safety. Second to that is life and death. Third to that is bad and good. Sex manifests the latest (during puberty) but it manifests nonetheless. However, children obviously do not need sex it is more so the idea that sexuality manifests in children as a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/23 02:11 PM
1	Q4W - Why did Maslow, in his Hierarchy of Needs, originally list Sex as a Basic, Physiological need? He most likely made sex a physiological need because it's one of the many things that manifest in humans early. In human development, we come to know and understand certain things faster than others. First is our conception of language, love, and safety. Second to that is life and death. Third to that is bad and good. Sex manifests the latest (during puberty) but it manifests nonetheless. However, children obviously do not need sex it is more so the idea that sexuality manifests in children as a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/23 02:11 PM
–	How will sex robots affect dating? Honestly, when sex robots comes out, if they can be programmed to wash dishes and do laundry, all the women will probably end up in relationships with them. They're going to be great hubbies. All the men can go their own way and all the women can go theirs. The people at the ends of the bell curve won't need to do crazy things for sex anymore, which will keep a lot of real people safe. I'm sure a lot of people would be very content to finally get exactly what they want. Men want sex. Women want …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/23 04:47 PM
1	The current dating situation is the result of women's free sexuality Thanks! The issue with online discourse is, if you allow too much of the same rhetoric to build up, people end up having access to only one side. It's a huge issue for any new users that come online (Gen Z especially since they grew up on the internet) because they only get to see one thing and may come to think that it is the only thing out there. Especially considering that these types of online communities often participate in things like raids. I think one comment can really help prevent a b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/23 11:51 PM
-2	The current dating situation is the result of women's free sexuality Women's sexuality is highly selective towards the men that make her feel safe to be around and comfortable. Getting turned on happens naturally when you don't think your partner is going to murder you or take advantage of you. The emphasis on sexually attractive men is overblown. Safety, security, comfort and the standard threshold of attraction are more important factors. If you've ever read news on male celebrities that have committed SA or R*pe, the women (even though they are in the presence…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/23 08:49 PM
2	Do men even enjoy dating women? No, men don't enjoy dating women in the Manosphere. They do it for sex. Ask any man whether women and men can be friends. The entire Redpill will tell you no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/23 03:33 PM
8	I legitimately hate men now and am heartbroken Sending lots of love and care! Beaming through the internet now!	/r/ExRedPill	08/03/23 08:37 PM
1	What do you think of this "green flags" list? Another wish list that Santa ignores and God laughs at.	/r/AllPillDebate	08/03/23 08:11 PM
21	I legitimately hate men now and am heartbroken The sole basis of anyone's entire being shouldn't be to appease others by playing a role. Expectations is a moving goal post that no one should try to meet unless it stems from a true desire to do so. Basing your entire existence on something other than yourself is a road to hell. Everyone knows that road right? The one full of good intentions. When I was young, I never really liked the idea of living for myself. It seemed rather selfish. I didn't want to be utterly useless to everyone around me…	/r/ExRedPill	08/03/23 06:34 PM
1	Guys, I have good and bad news for you. The bad news first. Sorry but 80% of you men out there will not hook up with /marry a super beautiful woman. Well, that's good news for all the ugly women out there. Myself included of course.	/r/AllPillDebate	07/03/23 10:37 PM
1	Q4W: What's your take on hypergamy? Here's my point. Success and wealth will not be a factor in the future if women can make their own. Intelligence will always be a factor because no one wants to talk with someone they aren't on the same level as. It's all character traits from then on. you need to be her best available option in order to have a fulfilling longterm relationship. If a women sees herself as being superior to you in multiple ways (maturity, intellect, financially), she'll lose respect for you as a man, which will be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/23 05:27 PM
1	Q4W: What's your take on hypergamy? Hypergamy is the most outdate old world concept. It literally exists only because women are prevented from achieving the same education, opportunities, wealth, status, positions, and resources as men. All over the world. Literally the boys are trying to keep it that way because it's the only thing keeping them in a framework where they are in the advantage. A woman can't leave you if she relies on you for money. So everyone is stuck in this male provider, female submission dynamic cause none of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/23 04:56 PM
1	CMV: Men and their issues must be recognised and highlighted on International Men's Day instead of being preached to be better . Why do women participate in male created structures... Bro, isn't the running argument that men built society?! How do you opt out of something built by "the men"? You can't. Also, few woman are okay with only males being conscripted. The head honcho decided it was best to have women continue their family line rather than fight on the battlefield. Women never had a choice in what happened to men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/23 04:31 PM
1	CMV: Men and their issues must be recognised and highlighted on International Men's Day instead of being preached to be better . I don't get it. If there's no patriarchy. Why the hell is there even war? Who starts wars with men? Other men... Who conscripts men? Other men... Who makes men do the dirty work? Other men... Who shames men for not putting their lives aside for others? Other men... If you watched the video. It wasn't just women that are victims. It's women, children, and other men that choose not to participate in certain male behaviours. If you see being at the mercy of others as powerful. Being able to have yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/23 03:19 PM
0	CMV: Men and their issues must be recognised and highlighted on International Men's Day instead of being preached to be better . Wow. You are right, men truly don't have issues if that's the major problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/23 03:14 PM
4	The top 20% of young men are having 84% of the sex So you manipulated data, and chose your own numbers to arrive at your own conclusion? Dear god. One man came up with the idea of alpha's and beta's, put himself at the top, and got lackeys like you to create evidence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/23 02:27 AM
3	The 'Sexlessness Rise' is not specifically male-driven Yes and men make the same jokes and I start to see where they're coming from.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/23 05:22 PM
1	The 'Sexlessness Rise' is not specifically male-driven I'm having a great time thank you. It was more of a joke at the end but I understand a lot of people here aren't very good with jokes. Don't worry, I'll make another one tomorrow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/23 05:15 PM
1	The 'Sexlessness Rise' is not specifically male-driven all dating apps are dominated by men with bots making up 1/3 of women. Those guys are having fun dating the male employees of Hinge, Tinder, and Bumble. Yes, the app works 67% of the time. 67% is a good hit rate. If you're hitting. When did I say those apps didn't work?!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/23 05:10 PM
0	The 'Sexlessness Rise' is not specifically male-driven Men get dates 2/3 of the time. Don't make me do the math for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/23 05:00 PM
14	The 'Sexlessness Rise' is not specifically male-driven Great stats. I love it. Too bad men only care about their own sexual needs. So this will probably be labeled irrelevant in the eyes of all manosphere men. Just like office work isn't a real job, women can't be sexless, and my favorite "it is the feminization of society". But also...this is great work and I will be saving this. Much better than the dating app stats they keep throwing around even though almost all dating apps are dominated by men with bots making up 1/3 of women. Those guys are ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/23 04:34 PM
1	someone change my mind? "get confident and you'll get women" is also too simplified, crude, etc. I'm not saying get confident and get women. I'm saying get confident and attraction naturally happens. There are certain traits humans in general are attracted to. As for the second part: how would you describe the difference between nice and kind? Kindness is an act of care for an individual above our own well-being. We tell people the truth because we are kind. We tell people lies because we are nice. Kindness is a regard…	/r/ExRedPill	05/03/23 12:51 AM
2	someone change my mind? Isn't this just the redpill repackaged? Instead of saying, "women are attracted to muscular and wealthy men", you're saying, "women are attracted to confidence". This seems just as reductive, if not more. It's not the RP repackaged. Confidence isn't tied to muscularity or wealth. Confidence is a much more complex trait than cockiness because if you want the healthier version of confidence then you'll pursue the slow and steady accumulation of skill rather than material possessions or physical at…	/r/ExRedPill	04/03/23 09:44 PM
2	Understanding Romance From A Male Perspective (Explaining The Disconnect) Bro, you lied about who you were, went to places you didn't like, doing things you didn't want to do to get a woman. That is on you. A woman wants to meet a guy at a cafe because he actually goes to that cafe. A woman wants to meet a guy at a community event because he wanted to be at the event. A woman wants a guy that does the things she does. This is why so many women are more proactive in their own lives rather than finding a guy. Because if they explore their interests, chances are, there's…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 06:00 PM
8	someone change my mind? The Redpill and Andrew Tate espouse the masculine ideal. The masculine ideal is the belief of what makes a man; strength, competence, ambition, self-sufficiency, control (physical & emotional), and leadership. Here are the tenets that I see most often. Masculinity is essential to men. Men should live up to the masculine ideal. Men need to accumulate as much resources as possible in order to attract women. This means becoming skilled enough to be rich so that you are the prize. Women only want ch…	/r/ExRedPill	04/03/23 05:17 PM
1	There is no easy way to get women other than going after very unattractive women “Women, don’t women. Dating, or no dating… You are too concerned with what was and what will be. There’s a saying: In attempts to get all the women you will get none of the women." - Master Oogway	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 01:54 AM
2	Does "average people are in relationships" says anything about women's issues? That was too good! Please be my friend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/23 08:02 PM
1	CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships. No content creator is absolved from being responsible for what they say on social media. Raids happen on them all the time. However, just because there's a ring leader, doesn't mean all those that participated don't have a responsibility to themselves to reflect upon their behaviours. People don't follow crazed maniacs without some part of them being in agreement with what is being sold to them. I don't care about your moral judgements of me. Go find someone else to preach to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/23 06:23 PM
3	CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships. Stop listening to advice on social media. Problem solved. You're complaining for nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/23 03:11 PM
8	Andrew Tates struggling in prison conditions others deal with fine again. Whoever holds his social media accounts is getting transmissions from Tate in prison...Is what I'm guessing.	/r/ExRedPill	01/03/23 08:45 PM
3	are a smaller percentage of men considered attractive compared to women? Women closer to your age are a lot more open that's for certain. The Pill People only seem to talk about the demographic of 18-29-year-olds. So I thought it would be most relevant that I used younger examples. Sorry. Dating stats are often used around here and the majority of people hyper-focused on them seem to also be in that age range which is why it spread like wildfire. Personally, those stats aren't reflective of the general populace at all let alone you. Those stats are as significant to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/23 12:27 AM
0	are a smaller percentage of men considered attractive compared to women? I know you said you don't think in terms of "a type" but in my personal experience, women very much think in terms of a type. The attractiveness is secondary. Women develop their types from things they were introduced to when they were young, mainly from cartoons, movies, shows, and media that were consumed or who they spent most of their time around. Sure you can view someone as being objectively beautiful just as someone from anywhere in the world can take a look at the Statue of Adonis and be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/23 11:42 PM
4	Do you consider sex and relationships/dating to be separate things? Sex and dating are two very different things. You date to see if you're compatible long-term. You can get sex anywhere with almost anyone. You can't always get a relationship because that means you have to start analyzing values, beliefs, boundaries, goals, and life circumstances. Sure you can have both sex and relationships but you can't say that they're on equal footing. We're humans, our time is limited, our efforts are limited, and our resources are limited. You have to weigh the two and see…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/23 10:14 PM
1	So, who's fault is it? Why? Legal Shifts - 15% - Rights for Women, Children, Minorities, and Animals - Migration of Women into the Workplace Outside of Home - Access to resources without a husband (bank accounts, owning property, business) - Changes in Wages, Creation of Labour Unions, New Regulations & Safety Laws Economy - 20% - 2008 Financial crash - Covid Shutdown 2020 - Massive Inflation, Rising Prices, More National Debt - Crypto Crash Technological Advancement - 35% - Revolutions in Computers, Wifi Technology, and t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/23 08:48 PM
8	60% of young men are not chronically single because they "lack emotional skills" It literally says in your article one of the biggest reasons that women are not getting into relationships in a mismatch in values. It’s not surprising then that a 2012 Pew Research study found, in a reversal of traditional gender roles, that while two-thirds of millennial women say that “being successful in a high-paying career or profession” is of high importance to them, only 59 percent of young men do. At the same time, a significantly larger number of young women than men say that a success…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/23 05:32 PM
12	The widespread research declaring that women are happier single has long been retracted and refuted by experts as well as the original researcher. You can say exactly the same thing of men. Men also only encounter their own personality flaws when in a relationship. Rather than admit to themselves they have flaws that need improving, they would rather avoid relationships and become a Chad that has sex with 80% of women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/23 05:11 PM
13	The widespread research declaring that women are happier single has long been retracted and refuted by experts as well as the original researcher. The same is happening to men in the Manosphere. Look in the mirror instead of hyping up info that points the finger elsewhere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/23 05:09 PM
-1	The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys. You can't ban women from doing labour jobs and working in certain fields for centuries and then tell women to be grateful that you guys built the society. And also in today's "modern society" your clothes, shoes, and technology is being built by women and children in developing countries. I don't see anyone being grateful for the women and children of Bangladesh, Vietnam, Nigeria, or Cambodia. It's soo convenient to say that men built the entirety of society and negate that the rest of the world…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 05:44 PM
2	The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys. Bruh, the disagreement is with the cause. You're a terrible detective. You literally created a trail of clues where the only conclusion is "because women". A) you agree with the points of the RP that men are struggling (sex wise and otherwise) but… Men are struggling, it's not because of women. B) stating those grievances is slander towards women (per your OP)? The RP is a space where men compare notes, develop tools that are useful, create a MAP (male action plan), and hope to affect positive c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 05:35 PM
2	The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys. Cardi B is not a spokesperson for feminism stop with the BS.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 05:25 PM
0	The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys. Feminism are not the ones demanding men have their rights be taken away. Just Pearly thinks women shouldn't have the right to vote. Exactly what about feminism is harming and disadvantaging men more than what they're already doing to themselves? Nothing about feminism is about taking rights away, rather it's about giving more rights to the marginalized. If the only response to feminism is to slander them, then you have very poor argumentation skills.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 05:22 PM
3	The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys. First of feminism has way more power than any organisation that revolves around men. Most institutions are historically owned by men. If you're looking at men's only organizations yes there are few but that's because almost every institution is owned/run by men. Higher education is dominated by men. Science fields are hard for women to get into because they are run by men. Even classical music was heavily discriminatory. Feminism isn't incorporated within the dominant ideology. There are few ins…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 05:17 PM
1	The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys. BP, RP, MGTOW and the Manosphere as a whole were born out of each other. They're not completely distinct if they all mutually share underlying beliefs, a shared diction/language, and a mutually compatible foundation. Here's a fact: Vast majority of women don't need to watch the hours long content to understand that these redpill content literally repeat the same rhetoric over and over again. I've watched hours of a variety of Manosphere channels. I've only heard the same topics discussed over an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 04:35 PM
2	The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys. Yes, there are extremists on both sides of this gender war but that doesn't stop people from taking action anyways. Opposition isn't enough of an excuse to not make changes as a collective. Regardless of feminists on Tik Tok and youtube will have you believe, no one is stopping men from getting into HEAL jobs, they comment sure, they gossip maybe, but actual barriers? There are none. Nothing is stopping men from changing their own dynamic amongst men internally. Opposition isn't a good enough ex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 04:18 PM
5	The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys. Hustler University were paid online courses for men that costed thousands of dollars. Those courses taught guys how to be pimps, use women, and emotionally extort as much money from other beta men as possible. Tate would have women text men and dangle the prospect of meeting each other in order to get money for "expenses" for the trip. The "War Room" had some weird hazing rituals in which you had to fight each other to gain respect. Being a better version of yourself meant beating some other guy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 04:10 PM
0	The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys. You guys turned it into a movement unified on the hatred of women. You can redefine it as much as you personally want but the image of the manosphere was created by the collective men that inhabit the space. They are not mutually exclusive because they are all standing on the same foundations with similar rhetoric, mutually compatible diction/language, and a shared hyperfocus on female nature. Weird that you would say that the manosphere is not associated with Men's Rights because in order to ca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 04:00 PM
-1	The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys. First of all, if women were censuring men, we've done a terrible job considering the manosphere makes international headline news and people like you can freely and openly express yourself on forums such as these. Censuring is not the problem. Sounds like a scapegoat. Nice try. Also because women piss you guys off, you're going to violently burst? Does everyone who pisses you off make you violently burst? Comical. Absolutely comical how so many men call women crazy when this is their response.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 03:39 PM
0	The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys. If you don't think an entire sphere of men that do nothing but disparage women is irrelevant then why do it amongst only men? Surely if it's irrelevant than any woman a man meets should be made openly aware of such disparaging views. If it's the truth then your dates and female acquaintances should have no problem with you voicing such things out loud rather than just to other men. That's one of the things I always have an issue with you blokes. If it truly is irrelevant whether your words dispa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 03:23 PM
4	The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys. You don't need nation wide consensus to implement a solution. People implement solutions every day regardless of the consensus of a mass. Nothing is preventing you personally as an individual from going out there to help boys with mental health or providing company to boys/men that are lonely and need someone to talk to. Waiting for acceptance or consensus is just an excuse to not do anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 03:10 PM
0	The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys. I completely agree. I'm an active member of my community where I both mentor, babysit, and provide programs for boys and girls. Every fundraiser and community hosted event I've ever been to has almost always been female dominated. I used to volunteer for library services that help kids in the community that were low income and all the volunteers were women. I also used to volunteer at community centres for after school programs for kids with parents that work late or couldn't afford a babysitter…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 03:05 PM
3	Which man would you pick? Tom. Hands down, multiple partners are a red flag with glitter. It's too blinding of a warning sign to not see.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 08:05 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I don't know, men fight for weird things. Ask putin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 03:42 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Okay maybe like 1/200 of people might? I don't know, I'm just trying to propose a solution to a potential civil war. You know Harlow’s Classic Studies with the monkeys? It'll be like that but for hikkikomori's. You know? I don't know. Lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 12:40 AM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread I swear AI robots will solve all these problems. Women will get the romantic partners they want and men can finally have sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 12:12 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread 50 shades of grey was hyped up to be more than what it was. It was not very popular (unless you know what wattpad and fanfiction.net is but I swear to god it's not really representative of the average woman just thirsty fangirls with too much time and not enough quality erotica). There was a lack luster response from all the women that went to view the movie. The response was one of terrible disappointment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 11:41 PM
2	Men are more superficial but women are more shallow. Men attribute personalities for every hair color of a woman. Dumb blonde being one and feisty red head being another. You got natty hair? You're obviously not professional. How shallow is that? She may see a buff man and immediately say he's full of himself, condescending, etc. Even before he speaks. She attributes a dominate personality and everything she thinks goes with that. She attributes the nerd as being passive shy before even meeting him. If women attribute looks and personality as the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 11:37 PM
2	Thoughts on having kids without being married but making the woman stay loyal to you? Nice idea conceptually. Legally, this is a nightmare. Legally speaking, if you are not married and your partner or you end up in the hospital you may not be allowed to see them right away because you are not a family member. If you have a child with a woman and you die years later. Your assets will not be given to your wife and children because you are not married. Relatives (even distant ones) can lay claim to your assets if there is no will explicitly stating that you will give your wife and c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 10:54 PM
1	Is it understandable to dislike RP, PUA, Manosphere, but also dislike FDS? You think FDS which has 251K subs and an average of a few hundred views on youtube as being representative of the average woman? There are millions of incels globally. Millions in comparison to 251K is nothing. Hell, the entirety of the manosphere is at least 10 million men strong. You manosphere men make the bloody headline news. FDS is the most fringe of the female internet space. We'll take them seriously when they produce terrorists the way inceldom does.	/r/ExRedPill	25/02/23 10:12 PM
2	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for them Men being thrusted into finding a life purpose other than spouse and children to develop a higher sense of autonomy? Wow sounds like something women recently did...	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 05:54 PM
4	Boyfriend/Husband Material Men Getting Less Than What Other Guys Got Men were more likely to report weight gain in the first year than women. Almost 7 in 10 men said they had gained weight during that time while fewer than half of women (45 percent) reported the same. Brooooo!! Nice stats! I'm using this!!!!!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 04:11 PM
2	What are your perceived benefits of being female? There are benefits. In the eyes of society women are not a threat physically to anyone. It's also the reason why men are very comfortable with approaching any woman and escalating things if she says no. Because women are the least physically capable of defending themselves and also because women often times rarely use brute force in order to defend themselves. The benefit of not being a threat to society is also a detriment for everyday working women. For rich, young, pretty women it's great. Bu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 02:23 PM
3	Modern day dating is basically a winner takes all market… Great justification. Please go to your local grocery store, walmart, liquor shops and target to see all them boys with side-chicks walking around in public and no one paying any mind. It's not like social media exists and friends can pull out their phones to expose guys with extra girls on the side. It's not like that's a whole genre of Tik Tok's, youtube compilations, and websites dedicated to exposing double dippers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 03:04 AM
5	Modern day dating is basically a winner takes all market… A pew survey is just capturing one data point in a specific time period. Those who did respond could have been very different from those who didn’t respond. After all, those who were busy, didn’t have regular Internet access, or didn’t want to share their thoughts at the time were probably a lot less likely to have responded to the survey. There are more single men because they don't believe themselves to be in relationships when women do. This is due to really bad dating dynamics. This is why t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 01:15 AM
17	Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young. Indeed, a dramatic rise in violent behavior, targeting girls in particular, was a stark finding in the CDC report. One such assault received national attention this month when Adriana Kuch, 14, was attacked as she walked down a high school hallway in New Jersey. Video of the incident was posted online in an attempt to “make fun” of her, Kuch’s father said. Kuch died by suicide days later. Sexual violence, too, has risen among girls, with 1 in 5 saying they'd experienced it within the past year, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/23 11:55 PM
4	It is OBVIOUS why there is not a body positivity movement for both genders The copium from all the guys is off the wall. Don't start at all because nothing will change. What a defeatist mentality. I guess we're stuck in the dynamic of men degrading and demeaning other men to get ahead in a hypothetical nonexistent race to nowhere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/23 04:06 PM
1	What do women first think of when trying to obtain a man? My overriding thought is always "I hope he's like me". My test to see if the guy is similar to me is always to tell a joke. If he doesn't laugh, the date pretty much ends and we never talk again. I really hate people that don't share my humour, interests, beliefs, values, hobbies etc. I can't date a guy that doesn't like watching Planet Earth for fun, or find Philomena Cunk funny. If I show him a clip of Fast & Loose (not a porno) and he's not laughing on the floor from British tomfoolery. I'd r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/23 03:36 PM
4	2023 PPD Demographics Survey Well, supposedly (according to online dating) any woman above 18 is basically geriatric in the dating market these days...	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/23 06:40 PM
2	2023 PPD Demographics Survey I'm going to make my height a round number just to spite you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/23 06:37 PM
1	What hobby to choose in order to meet women organically? I think tutoring and volunteer is your best way to organically meet women. Widen your tutoring subjects, you'll be more likely to meet tutoring women from different subjects. But more importantly volunteer at a kids or children's program for tutoring. Women volunteer to places with children and kids more often than men. So a lot of these environments are female dominated. Camps for kids that run during the summer are filled with women volunteers. Library programs would be second to that. Museums…	/r/ExRedPill	22/02/23 05:08 PM
1	Most women would rather have a placeholder boyfriend than be single Your sources also define single as being "that is, not married". Same thing as being "unmarried". Not very accurate lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/23 10:29 PM
31	Most women would rather have a placeholder boyfriend than be single The vast majority of women are single. The women that are pressured to be in relationships of some sort belong in a very specific age range of high school to college age because that's the social environment during those stages of life. It's also a crucial period in life development because those are the stages in which you build networks and find future partners. Once a woman has experienced a long-term relationship of some sort, they often don't want to do it again. And choose to remain single…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/23 08:25 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Congratulations confetti!	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/23 07:04 PM
1	Sex is the most important aspect of a relationship. Yes. The population of couples in a relationship is not being kept together by sex. They're being kept together by communication, understanding, care, commitment, and love. Sex is one aspect. Anyone that has ever gone through a tough time can tell you. Sex didn't keep things together, ease the tension, or solve their issues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/23 06:46 PM
1	Sex is the most important aspect of a relationship. Personally, for you it does. Probability-wise for an entire population? Unlikely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/23 06:06 PM
1	Sex is the most important aspect of a relationship. You saying it does, doesn't make it so. Anyone who has been injured in any manner (mentally, emotionally, or physically) will tell you they are definitely not in the mood for sex. You personally might be that way. But the majority? I think not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/23 05:19 PM
1	Why aren't friendships pushed and encouraged onto young men as much as relationships? Friendships should be just as important and they are but I think it shows up differently in men. Though I don't know why. In my personal experience, a lot of people have adopted the standard that friendships today should be ride or die to be considered a friend. As a child, kids will talk to you, play with you, be your friend with little to no other prerequisites than be fair and nice. You could suddenly move away and come back two years later and they would be cool with it. Continue on from whe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/23 05:07 PM
9	My prediction: Ukrainian men have lost, even if they win. Putin started a war and fucked Ukraine over. If we accept that men during war times will do terrible things (rape, pillage, steal, kill). Then we can accept that women during war times will do something equivalent. There are more important issues to cover during a war than whatever the hell this is. It's not women's fault that some deranged man decided to initiate a war. Your priorities are out of place. Can we get back to the actual problem? The war.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/23 01:55 PM
3	CMV: individual women take general criticisms of female behavior personally because they are solipsistic, invalidating the purpose of this sub This isn't a gendered thing. Both men and women do this. When women talk about how they're sexually assaulted or raped men don't go “I might not do X, but I’ve got to admit it is common.” Men outright deny that such things happen, they would never do this, and it's not common. The 1 in 5 stat is overblown etc. It's extremely difficult to have discussions in general because no one wants to admit a behavior is both negative and common in fear of the other using it against them or holding it agains…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/23 01:33 PM
2	Biggest hypocrisies of PPD Cute isn't about appearance. It's about perception. Get it right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/23 03:20 AM
2	Sex is the most important aspect of a relationship. The reason why sex between two individuals happens in the first place is because of some sort of mutual attraction, a comfortable level of trust, a shared feeling of either love/connection/understanding, and a bond built over a period of time (however long or short that time period is). Sex doesn't help couples through tough times or ease tension. The last thing anyone who is experiencing hurt, anger, sadness, frustration, or pain would tell you is that they are definitely not in the mood to fuc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/23 03:15 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread It's a bop. Love it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/23 12:18 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread She's the thot of redpill ideology. She gets fat stacks. It's super hard to say no to parroting RP talking points when guys keep throwing money at her. How did that song go again? Oh right. You get a little bag and take it to the store (store, money) Get a little cash (money) You shake it real fast, you get a little more (money) She's shakin real fast.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/23 11:50 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread The test said I was 7.17% Lighter than the average person. I don't want to be light. I want to be Light Yagami. Not an option in the test, unfortunately...	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/23 11:42 PM
-1	Could "baby trapping" be underreported and much more common than we think? Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity. But also I wholeheartedly support your conclusion. Men should definitely get a vasectomy if they don't ever want kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/23 04:31 PM
1	Seen repeated claims “there are more attractive women then men.” Women are more attractive than men on average. Why? Because men value beauty and fertility in a woman above all else. The process of men selecting attractive partners over the span of human history has made it so that women are more attractive than men. Scientists have found that evolution is driving women to become more attractive, while men are not likely to advance in the looks department at all. Random Reditor: Well Ace, then why are there ugly people? Men select for beauty. Women do not sol…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/23 04:16 PM
1	What, or when, do you think the breaking point will be? People have been coming up with doomsday ideas since the dawn of humans. There won't be a breaking point. It'll be a shift in behavior into a new norm that we have yet to establish. It is the younger generation that will adapt. You and everyone else on this forum will only see it in passing. One of the worst things about being a conscientious human is knowing that some things will pass you by and you'll be relegated to an archaic remnant of the past. Have fun with that thought.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/23 02:15 PM
1	Thoughts on why divorce rates are so high now When are the polyamorous communes going to pop up? That way no one ever needs to get married or divorced ever again. No institutional anything! Kumbaya my Lord, kumbaya!	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 07:35 PM
2	How I imagine life as an attractive woman is like You forgot compliments like "the back of your head is ridiculous".	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 02:54 PM
1	Valentine's day revolves around women because most relationships revolve around women. Men probably should stop creating all these weird holidays then. Fuck pope Gelasius and Geoffrey Chaucer! Let's burn his books!	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 02:48 PM
5	"Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate" Initiating a divorce doesn't equal fault. We don't put blame on those that decide to leave anything/anyone. It's not women earns more. The point was that it's an international trend that when a country becomes wealthier, majority of people decide not to have kids. It's not just women, men are also choosing not to have children with anyone and actively avoid it. Though, the latter isn't anything new...	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 08:50 PM
3	Why is attraction important when selecting a life partner you will spend 50+ years with? I agree with you there are far more important things than attraction but it seems to be very important if you check r/DeadBedrooms. A lot of people see sex as very much a show of love and closeness when there are many other actions that are a much better indicator of such things. I still agree with you though. Attraction definitely shouldn't be a deal breaker but it seems to have caused a lot of people grief later on in relationships when attraction isn't a deciding factor. Conundrums. Conundrum…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 07:33 PM
-2	The officially published and recirculated data on female breadwinners is not only wrong but also deliberately misleading. Again, exceptions don't destroy an entire system.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 04:50 PM
39	"Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate" This is a general pattern that has been emerging in developed countries for decades now. Internationally, the more prosperous a country gets, the less likely they are to have children. This is because in poorer countries, children are a net benefit since they'll grow up to earn money that they can bring back to their poor household. However, in developed countries, the cost of raising them for 18-22 years is a net negative and they obviously do not bring back money to the family. Their earnings …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 04:14 PM
1	The officially published and recirculated data on female breadwinners is not only wrong but also deliberately misleading. Why? Why would a governmental agency of a country that is presumably a patriarchy post misleading statements overestimating the levels of women's economic power and independence?Having a patriarchy doesn't mean that men are constantly in the best position and women are constantly in the worst position. The patriarchy is a hierarchical system system that puts rich influential white men at the top because they're the ones that make decisions in the system. You think they wouldn't do things to othe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 02:37 PM
11	If there are more single men than single women, then women would rather be a side piece than date a man in their own league Holy cow not this pew research again! My god, way to fill in your preconceived notions. Men ages 18-29 - claims 63% are not in a relationship which means 37% are Women ages 18-29 - claims 34% are not in relationships which means 66% are Do you see something weird? Those numbers are very close. Kinda like, a vast majority of women think that they're in relationships with men and the men are thinking that they're not...because they're sleeping around. What's more likely? Women dating the men ages …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/23 02:38 PM
4	If there are more single men than single women, then women would rather be a side piece than date a man in their own league On that point, there are very few modern day harems to begin with...	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/23 02:27 PM
1	Divorce rate after 5 years hops from 7% to 18% to 30% for people who have 0, 1, and 2 premarital partners respectively. After that, it stabilizes in the 30s for 3+ partners. Having low bodycounts reduces divorce but it's not the number that creates the divorce rates. If you start viewing people above a certain body count as a lost cause and not marriage material, then you've just put the number before the connection. It's the connection and relationship to the other person that determines if the marriage will succeed. In studies the scientist uses the best variables available to capture data. That doesn't mean the variables chosen are actually the best metric to get…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/23 02:25 PM
4	What is the actual point of PPD? It's a place where all the trolls get trolled while trolling the trolls. Trolololola lol la la la!	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/23 08:13 PM
–	Hot single moms on dating apps prove that women can stay fit during marriage but they choose not to I like how you blame the woman but disregard the overwhelming factors of marriage and childbirth being bad for the mother. Of course, unmarried women look better, they're not putting anyone first but themselves. And they're not taking care of a man-child on top of their own child. Looks to me like marriage and children are just a bad deal for women. They sacrifice so much for their husband and child only to have their man turn around and call them fat. Hot single moms are a result of drastic lif…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/23 03:51 PM
3	Things the RedPill misses Very well articulated! This is going in my save box!	/r/ExRedPill	11/02/23 03:20 PM
4	Things the RedPill misses Very well articulated! This is going in my save box!	/r/ExRedPill	11/02/23 03:20 PM
1	How would you react if your (potential) girlfriend/boyfriend saw your posts and comments on this sub ? I'd personally be very okay if my potential girlfriend/boyfriend dumped me over a post I made recently online. If it was like a year ago, we'll talk and see if I have the same opinion but if it's within a year. Yea...dump dump	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/23 10:55 PM
3	The pregnancy risk is certainly true but overblown as an excuse to reject average guys You said. But at the same time it's not like there's a 90% risk that safe protected sex leads to a baby. A woman can have sex with plenty of men and use protective measures and not get pregnant. Sex workers are seeing multiple random clients per day and I'm quite confident they aren't just having random babies all the time. Sex workers have a higher pregnancy rate and abortion rate in comparison to the general public. Just because the risk is lower doesn't mean it can't happen. Do you understand…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/23 08:32 PM
0	Many female users here claim that they commonly see "attractive" women dating "less attractive" men. Does makeup explain this? Men were never bred or sexually selected for their attractiveness. If women sexually selected for attractiveness, we would have a bunch of drop gorgeous men. But only men select for attractiveness. Obviously the pattern of men selecting for more attractive women throughout history would compound and end up with a large disparity between the average attractiveness of men vs women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/23 07:48 PM
5	The pregnancy risk is certainly true but overblown as an excuse to reject average guys Super easy for a guy to say that pregnancy risk is overblown. Good job mate, you've just reassured women that the scariest thing that could happen to them and ruin their lives is clearly overblown because nice guys will totally put on a condom, get regular STD checkups, and take other measures like male birth control options. Dude, condoms are like the one job for a guy and a lot of guys can't even do that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/23 07:27 PM
4	TRP is slowly becoming more and more mainstream, what is this going to mean for the future? Men will get exactly what they want and then complain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/23 05:00 PM
–	Why is sex framed as something a woman “gives” and a man “takes”? Men have this thing with framing everything in terms of winning or losing, conquest or submission. Like a guy can't be a normal guy. He's either an alpha or a beta. You can't just win at life, you have to make it your bitch. You can't just be a man, you have to be the man. The idea that something could be neutral, average, or mutual is like nonsensical to them. They have to frame it in terms of some hypothetical ladder where someone is on top and someone is at the bottom. Because if everything i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/23 03:07 PM
3	What do you think women refer to when they say dating apps are full of low quality sexual offers and very few actual options? Everyone and anyone can be nice to you online or give off an air of authenticity. Do you think anyone online is anything like they are in real life? Even people in front of a camera all day like youtubers, actors, public spokes person, mayors, and presidents can later come out as being highly immoral individuals. Are you so naive as to take everyone at their face value online? There are men pretending to be children in child gaming spaces right now who are very very very "nice". They take all th…	/r/ExRedPill	09/02/23 07:23 PM
0	Displaying stereotypical gendered behavior is crucial to get laid as a man Women want dominant men in the sense that they know what they're doing and they can make independent smart decisions. Your idea of dominance as in literally dominating a woman physically (height, build, money, status etc) is not what women want. Women want a man that is self-confident, able to communicate, make decisions, and compromise if needed. Aggressive competitiveness is toxic. I see you've never played a sport in your entire life, Even in the most competitive sports there is a sense of ca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/23 05:48 PM
3	Women of PPD, how did you meet your significant other, and what made them/their approach different from the rest? My best friend in college fell in love with a guy and got together. She held a birthday party where she invited her friend group (which included me) and her BF's friend group (which included my current SO). When I went to her birthday party and met her BF for the first time, he introduced me to his best friend. We hit it off immediately. He introduced himself like a normal person. Didn't rush into any flirtatious banter which I liked. He mainly asked me about what I did and what school I went to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/23 03:36 PM
1	Romantic Chivalry and "being a gentleman" is institutionalized pedestalization It's not an institutionalized pedestalization. It was just a historical concept that became a social movement and like all social movements, they come in and out. The people that practice the concept of being a gentlemen are niche and exist in a specific area that have a culture that revolves around that. On the most part, all of that is on its way out. There's far greater evidence that concepts like "being a gentlemen" are not going to exist in the future at all. Majority of people in today's s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/23 02:44 PM
4	Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELY Yes. Finally. Guys get off the dating websites. Get off the dating apps...forever. Don't come back. Be safe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/23 03:08 PM
1	shaming and bullying people for watching the red pill isn't going to help them get away from it (ex : watching andrew tate, hamza, sneako, and etc) Even if no one shamed or bullied people, there would still be the concept of masculinity that appeals to young men and pulls them towards performing this ideal. The left can give as much advice as they want but the Red Pill is selling men something concrete. The Red Pill is selling workout bromance, a community that all thinks one way, a niche underdog group to belong to, an idealized stoic masculine image to look up to, clear hierarchy, and sex. Regardless of shame and bullying. The left doesn'…	/r/ExRedPill	17/01/23 05:28 PM
2	Question for all, but mainly other women: What are your thoughts on long term relationships (lifetime as ‘the girlfriend’ title) with no marriage proposal? Red flag, or not a red flag? Yes it is a red flag. Marriage is the ultimate partnership based on trust and vulnerability. Saying no to marriage is saying no you don't trust them enough to have joint responsibilities. People that say no still have issues to work through and they're too afraid to let their guard down. Which is completely human. All I gotta say is if they don't marry you, don't have kids with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/23 05:30 PM
3	Are many men really relocating to developing countries to find women to marry? Yes they are bluffing. Very few men are actually going to uproot their lives, sell all their worldly possession, and go to a completely different country where they can't speak the language, understand the culture, or comfortably digest the food. This isn't because they are men but because the majority of people are very lazy in general. The few that can pull it off are usually financially well off in some manner. Also, the belief that foreign women will treat them better is wishful thinking. Ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/23 04:20 PM
6	"Men and Women will always experience aggression differently" I've heard this a lot and I went looking for the literature. I read it a couple of years ago and I can't help but notice an almost fatal flaw to this idea. I don't think it's anti-social behaviour when women or men manifest aggression with verbal abuse and gossip. The problem with the literature is that they don't study girls/boys from different socio-economic backgrounds to add to that. Using and getting away with verbal abuse and gossip is a high functioning social skill. It requires tact, cle…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/23 03:54 PM
1	Women are happiest single, therefore their dating issues are irrelevant Married men are happiest, therefore their relationship issues are irrelevant. You see, I know the difference between there and their. Good grief, you guys come up with something new every day. First of all, women are indeed staying single. The list you provided is exactly why women are opting out. Only 50% of U.S age 18-29 use dating apps, with a heavy skew towards more men than women. 67% of Tinder users are men; 33% are women. The other half of the population is doing a mixture of going out, m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 03:12 PM
0	Just out of curiosity, why are Redditors so up in arms and worried about incels compared to other social media such as tiktok,insta,and twitter? Reddit allows you to write more in comparison to tiktok, insta, and twitter. There's no cap on characters. There is no visuals to detract from your arguments so people don't devolve into appearance shaming and criticism right away. Incels started in forums (4chan) so it's not surprising that they would appear in a different forum based website. Forums allow them to be anonymous so they can say their misogynistic rhetoric without repercussions. Contrary to what Incel men believe, not all women li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 02:49 PM
1	Many women are users I see you like to make things up so you can categorize women. First it's two types of women but I'm sure later on you'll adopt the quadrant. Everyone loves quadrants. People really love making up categorizations for things. Instead of going on a black and white dynamic, why don't you look at some other methods of categorization that would be much more accurate than what you have provided. Big five personality tests, enneagrams, Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI), 16 Personalities. Any of these w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/23 09:19 PM
6	Sometimes I wonder “just who the hell are these women holding out for??” A lot of people fall into poor thinking that if someone looks like they have it all, they must have it all. And if they don't, then they should be entitled to it. It seems to me like you're being blinded by someone's outer appearance. Everyone treats beautiful and wealthy people much better than average or below average people regardless of accomplishments. Your friend might be attractive but might not have characteristics that make him relationship material. Chances are that the "bland" girlfri…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/23 07:47 PM
1	Reason why women can stay single easily is because sex is easy for them Great story bro. Keep making up conclusions like the detective your are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/23 03:54 PM
2	Reason why women can stay single easily is because sex is easy for them Sure getting sex is easy but is it good sex? I know a lot of men don't care about female pleasure at all or getting them off. Even if they cared, they're not very good at it. I can compile a list a hundred miles long of poor sexual experiences from women. As for relationships, why would any woman want to be with a guy so she can be her bangmaid? You admit that women "can't get quality relationship /sex anytime they want" which is at the crux of a lot of female's dipping out of the dating pool an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/23 03:52 PM
5	Do too many “unpaired” men cause societal instability? The most recent example of instability caused by unpaired men right now is China. Ever since the one child policy, the country basically doomed itself to a cohort of young men all together with little else to do. This has lead to people human trafficking women from other countries or scamming/tricking them with prospects of a job only to be married off and abused. If nothing changes for them soon, I wouldn't be surprised if the men gave up because there just isn't enough women around to marry an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/23 02:56 PM
2	Women in their twenties: Would you be okay with a 10-year age gap? Max 4 years and that's only if I really really like you. Dating and attraction is just that. 10+ year age gap for a serious relationship? That's alarm bells right there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/23 02:35 PM
2	Is Ignoring Women a good strategy? It's not really ignoring women and it's really not a strategy even though the video frames it that way. It's what everyone has to go through at some point in their lives. People that don't message you, cancels on meet ups, doesn't respect your time. This could easily happen from a family member or friend as it could happen from a woman you met online. It's a good course of action for anyone who is met with ambivalent people. Everyone needs to learn how to assert your boundaries and standards. Ju…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/23 07:03 PM
4	Women need to experience a strenuous job at least once in their lives The type of “daughters of” some family with good careers and are basically groomed to be a good-looking housewife in the future are pretty limited to the top 20% of the population. I'm most certain most women work an intense job to survive. Percentage of Women Working Per Sector "Education and health services (74.8 percent), other services (53.9 percent), financial activities (52.6 percent), and leisure and hospitality (51.2 percent). (Other services include repair and maintenance industries, pe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/23 06:26 PM
1	Open relationships - stats vs. media Hey, where's the actual data? I looked through the article but it doesn't link to the stats. On OP's YouGov America, it tells you what questions asked, what answers can be chosen and what generation the individual is born into. But your website doesn't show anything. I even searched google and everyone else references the article but doesn't show the data.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/23 03:52 PM
1	Female women, have you ever been friendzoned? As soon as I found out my feelings were solid I asked him out. He rejected me three times. I didn't pester him though, I put a year between each ask. Either way I good try and I think that was good enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/23 02:05 PM
1	You have to have an unfulfilling life if you go into a relationship NOT prioritising sex I wasn't claiming any buddhist doctrine, though the sentiment does fall under aspects of buddhism. I was more pointing out that a long term partner that will be with you until the end of your life isn't as useless as you seem to imply. Though of course nothing is forever, everyone knows that. Whenever humans mention forever, they usually refer to the span of a human life time. As for the idea that the other person will change, wouldn't that also happen to you? And if the other person leaves, you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/23 08:39 PM
8	You have to have an unfulfilling life if you go into a relationship NOT prioritising sex What happens when the passion and sex you built your life on is taken away? Usually, as people age they risk developing arthritis, osteoporosis, dementia, alzheimer’s, cancer and parkinson’s. What happens when you are in need of a drug but one of those side affects is that your libido is shot? You're not going to take a necessary drug? What happens when your parents die and your friends find their own partners and settle down, leaving little time for you? What would you do? Sex and passion isn't…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/23 05:53 PM
5	Why is it so hard to believe women can willingly date shitty men ? I'm surprised very few people brought up economic background and instead blamed people for their character. Poor people grow up around other poor people. If you live in a slum full of boys in gangs then that's your only option for relationships. Who else are they going to date? Obviously men in the slums. And don't come at me with the "well they should work harder to get themselves out of those situations". Poverty is the hardest thing to overcome. Even in the richest country, poverty isn't elim…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/23 02:40 PM
-3	The bluepill is too difficult for most men to swallow That's just Maslow's hierarchy of needs. It was around before MGTOW and is generally what most people strive for in life. Man or woman. Most teenagers are introduced to the concept of self-actualization either through taking a year 12 psych elective or in English class if you pay attention.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/23 12:39 AM
22	Female women, have you ever been friendzoned? Hardcore got friend zoned in high school by my biggest crush. Did a lot of stupid shit to try and get his attention including being thrown into a tree, making bad jokes in order to get him to laugh and joining a club that I hated because he was in it. Pretty cringe but I feel good that I at least tried.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/23 12:34 AM
2	The bluepill is too difficult for most men to swallow True! What's harder? Working towards being a self-actualized person that is unique in this world and looking for an equal healthy partner that is compatible to you? Or gaming the matrix with cheat codes from Andrew Tate so you too could become a millionaire driving a Bugatti and sleeping with 72 virgins.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/23 12:17 AM
5	Evaluating a double standard between older/divorced men and women Generally speaking, when a woman embarks on multiple casual hookups, society views it as a sign of being out of control while for a man doing the same thing, it is a sign of being in control and having lots of skill, which is why older men would suffer less shame and condemnation. The redpill manosphere is a prime example of younger men looking up to older men for tactics on how to pick up women. They're seen as "learned" individuals whereas a woman that's willing to have casual sex of any sort …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/23 06:37 PM
1	Blaming your childhood is no excuse for shitty behavior and shitty choice in dating Based.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/23 11:39 PM
6	Blaming your childhood is no excuse for shitty behavior and shitty choice in dating 1000% dude. People with childhood trauma grow up in an environment where nothing is normal, all your boundaries are broken, standards are completely messed up and nothing makes sense. Like many people from these backgrounds don't know stealing is wrong or lying is wrong because in their house, it was necessary to survive and seen as a normal thing to do. Why would I ever ask my dad for money when he doesn't even buy me clothes or feed me? Better steal it. They don't do it because they think it's…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/23 10:31 PM
1	Misogynistic men get laid more Sexism and sexual risk behavior in adolescents "Only eight percent of the sample comprised a masculinity profile consistent with “traditional” ideas about masculinity; this group was labeled Misogynistic because of high levels of sexual assault and violence toward female partners. " Violence to Control Women’s Sexuality The very beginning of the study literally gives a definition for what they mean when they say control women's sexuality. "Physical, psychological, or sexual violence employed by …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/23 10:27 PM
3	Misogynistic men get laid more They get laid more because they use violence, manipulation and coercion to take sex aka r*pe. Did you read any of these studies?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/23 10:10 PM
3	General idea of how modern Western woman engage in sexual activity Based.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/23 09:22 PM
1	There are 50/50 male/female to hookup with each other but somehow there's a mass of men that are struggling but women are chilling. How does this make sense? I was referring to his article which I read in full in which college students around US were surveyed about sexual activity in high female ratio vs low female ratio. It literally states in the beginning of the article that women (who are sexually active) are literally taking anyone available. It definitely does mean men are getting laid, women who want to be sexually active don't have anyone else to choose from except the 40% men. However, I do acknowledge that sexual activity rates in on the de…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/23 07:20 PM
9	It is kinda arrogant how many women openly say they know men very well, and yet they keep falling for bad relationships Well when you put all women into one group like that, I can see how you would confuse women in loving relationships that know the men in their lives very well with women that are abused. I guess if it's one group, there really is no distinctions between individuals let alone other major distinctions such as class, wealth, economic position, and other more important categories in life that set people apart and give them certain trajectories in life. It's funny how men will say they're "nice guys"…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/23 04:36 PM
6	There are 50/50 male/female to hookup with each other but somehow there's a mass of men that are struggling but women are chilling. How does this make sense? Serious question, did you read your own article? Women on college campuses are settling for whoever they can get. That was the beginning of the article. Men are definitely getting laid all around campus with a 40M-60F demographic. The issue is the top guys. It clearly states "fraternities have a long history of engineering circumstances that tip the scale even further in men’s favour" but only the men at the top of those fraternities. So the top guns are "barring entry to outside men, older frat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/23 04:22 PM
1	What if dating gets easier for short men? Christ dude, they're one of the most conservative societies out there! Parents literally kick their kids out of the house and disown them if they do anything sexual. The focus is on only school. That's it. Same for Korea, they have one of the highest student suicide rates because of how education focused they are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/23 02:09 PM
1	Why are open relationships so taboo? I believe the idea might be seen as a threat to a lot of people. Humans need a foundation to stand on and for many people, the basis of their lives was built on monogamy. Whenever anything changes it means that we also have to re-evaluate our foundations to see if it is sturdy and built on good ideas. There's a real possibility we have to restart from the ground up again. Humans are not made for that. I'm of the opinion that people think of polyamoury as a threat to monogamy. An opponent that is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/23 02:27 AM
45	Most people are absolutely clueless when it comes to red flags in relationships. Most people are clueless about red flags because a large majority of people come from messed-up families of some sort. Even if they're wealthy. No one chooses who they are born to, what their lives will be like, what country or religion will be dominant, what class or education background they will come into. Of course they don't know. If we're born without role models for good relationships, we won't know what an abuser looks like. If you're born into a world of war, obtaining peace is going to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 11:30 PM
1	What if dating gets easier for short men? Based.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 11:22 PM
-2	What if dating gets easier for short men? Isn't the declining birth rates and sexless men mainly because of the 1 child policy in China. I'm pretty sure China skews a lot because of that one policy. The only other country know that I know to have a declining birth rate is Japan but that's because of other social issues. Sure Asian women prefer taller and masculine men but their idea of it is completely different from what we have here in the west. Just how love is a concept that exists in every culture, the way people view love can be c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 10:24 PM
11	What if dating gets easier for short men? Well I think it's already easy right now. The obsession with height is mainly a western value. 62% of the world population lives on the continent of Asia alone and a vast majority of them don't care how tall you are. Short men over there have a perfectly fine time with women. The majority of women on that side of the world also have never been socialized with western ideals or inundated by western media so they probably aren't even thinking about your height to be quite honest. And even if there…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 09:42 PM
3	Why is the PUA community associated with incels mgtow and other hating group? It's not talking to someone in public that's the issue, it's not being aware of surroundings. For example, a woman commuting home on the subway isn't look for someone to talk to, she just wants to go home. A woman walking around the mall isn't looking for hookups, she's there to run errands or to shop. The time of day also makes a lot of woman very cautious. As soon as the sun is setting, you have to be on guard. The issue I was referring to is crossing boundaries. The most common form of crossi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 09:22 PM
1	Women are a monolith in this one thing. Sorry my bad. I didn't know that! Will do, thanks for telling me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 08:25 PM
1	Women are a monolith in this one thing. Wait is that actually a rule? I can't use shortened links?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 08:19 PM
1	Women are a monolith in this one thing. Hey as long as you finger blast her back, we're good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 07:44 PM
10	Why is the PUA community associated with incels mgtow and other hating group? The PUA community is directly associated with Incels, MGTOWs and other hate groups because the centralized belief of these groups is that women have a particular nature that is inherent and biological therefore unchanging. The belief in all these communities is that there is a certain set of actions (input) that will make women do a certain outcome because all women are essentially the same. The mentality is that there are certain ways to "hack" or "game" them. The PUA community does this by coe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 06:56 PM
9	Women are a monolith in this one thing. Sure there's no pregnancy but anal sex increases your risk of diseases (herpes, chlamydia, HPV). Aside from that anal is very painful for women which completely outweighs any pleasure in sex. Free sex where the woman is in pain because of anal penetration isn't really worth it even if it's free. They don't have prostates. Oral sex comes with their own set of problems like gonorrhoea HPV. It's safer if you know the stranger is clean/safe. But there's no way to test a stranger on the spot to ensur…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 04:56 PM
1	How can men find high libido women? Is it even realistically achievable? Based.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 03:26 PM
26	Women are a monolith in this one thing. I agree no women on this planet would feel lucky to get "free sex" from a complete stranger but that is because women bear all the burdens of sex. Sex is super costly for women both physically and financially. If a woman get's pregnant we'll have to deal with either childbirth or if legally possible abortion (which is super strenuous on the body). Women are also much more susceptible to STD's because the lining of the vaginal wall is very thin and right behind it is blood vessels. Men can be car…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 03:19 PM
5	How can men find high libido women? Is it even realistically achievable? Aspects of that is true. Like you can turn some women into high libido women but I've read that quite often certain traits are inherent and built into us. You can make an introverted woman less introverted by giving her positive social experiences and certain tactics to enhance social situations but you can't turn her into an extravert. Regardless, nothing in life ever just plays itself out. So yes I would agree that effort is needed in almost every aspect of life including sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 03:08 PM
6	How can men find high libido women? Is it even realistically achievable? Honestly, at the place where we are in society, we have no clue how to find a high libido women. Most high libido women think of their sex drive as normal therefore wouldn't label themselves as such unless they've talked to surrounding people and have found out the state of other people's libido. Also, women are expressly told by society that if you have any interest, kinks, or desires in sex you are a whore. And men don't like women with high body counts so obviously any high libido women would…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 02:36 PM
6	"A woman with no relationship experience is more prone to have a heart broken, that's why women should have dating experience before marriage". How true is this statement? I believe it is overwhelming true. We can think that we want something or someone and find out later that it was a completely misguided ideal. We can end up with someone that we never thought we would ever like but somehow it works. The more you date around, the more you learn about yourself and build a foundation on the qualities you want in a relationship. Some people learn the hard way that there are certain qualities you cannot compromise on such as faithfulness, compatibility, resilience, o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 11:01 PM