AceOfSpadesGymBro5 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	SuperMarket Oh okay, I see. You asked her out in such a weak way that I didn't even notice you do it. You should have texted her - "No need to let me know later, I will be making other plans for Saturday and also I don't like planning g things last minute. Let's look at your schedules for next week. How is Tuesday or Thursday?" If she still give you the runaround and is not committal, dump her don't call her again.	/r/seduction	31/01/24 08:36 PM
-1	Women will reject or lose interest in a guy for the most frivolous reasons, and then completely rule him out no matter what he does to redeem himself Why so angry?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 08:08 PM
5	SuperMarket Sorry, I'm not understanding the purpose of all this texting? Are you looking for piano lessons?	/r/seduction	31/01/24 08:05 PM
-1	Women will reject or lose interest in a guy for the most frivolous reasons, and then completely rule him out no matter what he does to redeem himself "Little protection against marital rape".	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 08:02 PM
1	Women will reject or lose interest in a guy for the most frivolous reasons, and then completely rule him out no matter what he does to redeem himself Oh of course - the old "men were raping every woman until 10 years ago (when Tinder came out)" trope. Got it! Makes total sense!	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 07:36 PM
-1	Q4M: have you ever made it work with a woman who’s has a past? Well, then they need to figure out how to get it. I tired nothing and I'm all out of ideas is not good business.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 07:35 PM
0	How to set the rules of a relationship? You should have set the rules on your first date.	/r/seduction	31/01/24 05:56 PM
1	Women will reject or lose interest in a guy for the most frivolous reasons, and then completely rule him out no matter what he does to redeem himself Your first sentence makes absolutely no sense (is nonsense) in any model of evolutionary science.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 05:07 PM
11	Women will reject or lose interest in a guy for the most frivolous reasons, and then completely rule him out no matter what he does to redeem himself No, you don't understand, women are ONLY attracted to square jawed, 6'+ white men with beards. Except for the following exceptions: A skinny guy but that's because he's a rockstar An old bald guy, but that's because he's super rich Black guys, but hats because they are athletes or rappers Asian guys, but that's because they remind her of K-pop band members Unemployed guys, but hats because they are super exciting and good in bed Short guys but that's because they are a DJ at their local night cl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 05:05 PM
6	Women will reject or lose interest in a guy for the most frivolous reasons, and then completely rule him out no matter what he does to redeem himself Usually the reason for a woman to lose attraction to a man has to do with her realizing that he is not as high status as she thought he was. This could be something like someone (including her) disrespects him and he doesn't do anything about it; he does something that is perceived as low status/childlike, such as collecting action figures, Pokémon cards, watching kids cartoons, etc.; or he simply gets too needy and shows her that he needs her more than she needs him. These all fall into the cat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 05:01 PM
1	Do you guys think AI humanoid girlfriends will be popular in the future? It's hard to quantify feelings and emotions, which loneliness certainly is. And is marriage/relationship the answer to end all loneliness? Apparently not really: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9565016/#:~:text=There%20is%20a%20tendency%20to,intimate%20relationship%2C%20so%20does%20depression.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 03:43 PM
5	Do you guys think AI humanoid girlfriends will be popular in the future? Is there any real statistics that show there is a rise in sexlessness and loneliness? I just read story about a Japanese incel in the 1930s who slaughtered half his village because all the girls his age rejected him. Do you really think this is a brand new phenomenon? I would really like to see real studies on the subject and how they define loneliness and sadness and how it tracks over time to actually take your claim seriously.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 02:09 PM
3	Is It real that Russian/ukranian women are goldiggers or they care about Money like every women? What?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 01:15 PM
1	Do you want to go back to my place? My favorite is a line from Dan Perrion: hey girl, let's head back to my place. I have two bottles of champagne, one for us to drink and the other: to pour all over your body.	/r/seduction	31/01/24 12:41 PM
1	Do you want to go back to my place? Bro, just offer them rice and beans. How do you think they got them big ol' booties in the first place?	/r/seduction	31/01/24 12:38 PM
1	Q4M: have you ever made it work with a woman who’s has a past? If you are so insecure about being inexperienced then go out and get that experience. Being resentful of a woman who had nothing to do with you being a loser is kind of fucked up, don't you think? Do you enjoy paying the price because some man did a woman dirty sometime in the past and now she has to take it out on any guy who tries to get close to her?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 12:30 PM
–	Men have already lost the gender war and it's bound to get worse Honey, not only is there no gender war, there couldn't possibly ever have been one or our species wouldn't have survived for as long as it did.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 12:24 PM
0	How come it is almost never considered that a guy can develop feelings for a woman he is friends with and that he just became friends to get into her pants? I think the whole idea of attraction taking a long time to develop is ridiculous and unrealistic. You are either sexually attracted to a person or you are not. That doesn't mean that you will necessarily make a move or that you consider them a good dating prospect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 06:49 AM
–	standards don’t matter High standards are not the reason women aren't attracted to you. It's because you have bought into the story that you need to earn sex and love through performing or being a good worker bee, which reinforces the idea that you are somehow below women. Because most men behave in a way that reinforces this belief, women who are primarily attracted to high status's automatically assume that the man is lower status than her and therefore of no interest. A man doesn't need to be tall, bearded, sociall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 05:49 AM
2	What benefits do you value most in a long term monogamous relationship / marriage? She does anal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 03:21 AM
3	What’s the hate with hijabi women? What's the most camels a guy has offered for you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 01:15 AM
–	The reason why society shuns age gap dating is because the younger a girl is, the more shes coveted This reminds me of this meme: https://imgflip.com/i/8e5mae	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 01:14 AM
3	Is It real that Russian/ukranian women are goldiggers or they care about Money like every women? All women usually end up dating the same type of guys they grew up with. For a lot of women in these countries, the alpha males they grew up with were small or mid level gangsters who were the only ones usually making any money. That's who a lot of these women end up dating and marrying. Rough types you don't want to mess with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 01:02 AM
0	Is It real that Russian/ukranian women are goldiggers or they care about Money like every women? Wow, you are shaming the people who pick up your garbage that you probably couldn't be bothered to even sort properly?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 01:00 AM
1	What’s the hate with hijabi women? Cause I want to look at hot women and it's a waste for some of these girls to be covered, cause they are hot. The fat ones can stay covered all they want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 12:58 AM
-1	Red Pill analysis of relationship power dynamics between men and women inevitably leads to supporting ‘traditionalism’ or ‘patriarchy’ as it only thing that can theoretically limit or destroy ‘womens power.’ I feel like your reading level is at the first grade.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 10:27 PM
2	Red Pill analysis of relationship power dynamics between men and women inevitably leads to supporting ‘traditionalism’ or ‘patriarchy’ as it only thing that can theoretically limit or destroy ‘womens power.’ Exactly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 08:46 PM
26	Did my first true cold approach and oof Don't beat yourself up. Start small. Start with making eye contact with 10 women. Then smile at 10 women. Then smile and say hi to 10 women. Then approach 10 women non chalantly and give them a compliment (mean it) because you appreciate the way they look and not because you are trying to get something out of her. Something like "Hey, I just wanted to tell you, you look really great in this dress" or "I really love your shoes", etc. Then just say "bye, have a good one" and keep going. At that po…	/r/seduction	30/01/24 08:36 PM
6	Red Pill analysis of relationship power dynamics between men and women inevitably leads to supporting ‘traditionalism’ or ‘patriarchy’ as it only thing that can theoretically limit or destroy ‘womens power.’ Believing they need them to be happy, which leads to chasing them like trophies that need to be won. Chasing anyone is giving your power away.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 08:11 PM
1	How big of a concern would it be for you if your children/potential children reached adult age without any romantic success? Well go and get kissed bro. Stop finding excuses for why you haven't been successful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 07:55 PM
17	Society is finished, terminal stage Yet everyday when I go out to walk my dogs I see happy couples doing lovey dovey things, getting engaged, taking engagement photos, etc. But sure, society is going to shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 07:48 PM
0	Red Pill analysis of relationship power dynamics between men and women inevitably leads to supporting ‘traditionalism’ or ‘patriarchy’ as it only thing that can theoretically limit or destroy ‘womens power.’ All of this mumbo jumbo becomes moot when a man accepts the responsibility that he alone has been giving away his power to women and he alone can take it back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 07:47 PM
14	[STUDY] There exists a positive correlation between being a bully and success in dating and sexual relationships Women have been hooking up with the strongest male they can find for time immemorial. Is it noble? Probably not, but neither is the male propensity to sleep with any woman they have an opportunity with just to kick her to the curb.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 07:46 PM
2	The number of women having casual sex is highly exaggerated Actually, all of these things are true and happen in reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 07:43 PM
1	Why is it normalized for women to be irritable and thus yell at their partners when before they menstruate or are pregnant? When I was low T yes I did, but not since I went on TRT.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 06:02 PM
3	Why is it normalized for women to be irritable and thus yell at their partners when before they menstruate or are pregnant? I release testosterone into my system every Friday morning and I don't snap at my wife or burst into crying fits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 05:46 PM
0	The idea women are loved unconditionally I want any man here to go to his mom and ask her if she loves him conditionally and what her conditions are? With a straight face.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 12:20 PM
27	Are women not getting approached anymore? You sound just like the multitude of guys here complaining about never meeting women. When pressed, they eventually reveal that: -they rarely go out -they don't socialize -they work a job that is a total sausage fest -they are unwilling to do absolutely anything to change their predicament But yeah, it's all because of the other gender's fault.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 12:09 PM
3	Why do so many female offenders get a boyfriend/husband easily? If every woman has a guy, then how come there are so many guys who don't have anyone? The m/f pop is generally split 50/50. Don't make no sense	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 12:06 PM
4	Having Less Success than my Friends, why? I can write for days on this topic, but basically when it comes to women, all the things that apply to other aspects of life, like your career, athletic skill, etc., just fly out of the window. In all these other aspects, hard work, putting in hours, doing things because you want an outcome will produce results. But not with women, at least not the way you are doing it. It may sound paradoxical, but the more weight you put on getting women, the less you will get them. Why? Think about it. The gu…	/r/seduction	30/01/24 09:05 AM
6	When should I approach? I think most men here are very socially re*arded when it comes to approaching. They think they should just shoot their shot at any girl that passes their probably already really low standards for looks. The reality is if you are focusing on approaching, you are focusing on the wrong thing. That's like just going door to door trying to sell vacuum cleaners or something. Knocking on doors until one opens. Why don't you instead focus on walking through doors which are held open for you? Why don't y…	/r/seduction	30/01/24 08:27 AM
3	Having Less Success than my Friends, why? You lost me at "putting in the most work". Classic sign of neediness and desperation which is causing to come on too strong and try too hard.	/r/seduction	30/01/24 08:23 AM
2	Push Pull or Stability I don't know! Why don't you ask Mystery and the RSD guys since they are so known for their healthy, long term relationships.	/r/seduction	30/01/24 08:22 AM
6	What is the actual reason why men get shamed for having preferences? Can you just make one edit to your comment? Please substitute "many men are" with "I am". Thanks!	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 08:18 AM
1	How big of a concern would it be for you if your children/potential children reached adult age without any romantic success? Lol imagine my kid being romantically unsuccessful? That would be something. If I had a son, he'd probably get banged by his hot high school teacher.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 08:14 AM
7	This is what I don't get about the "wait to text" line of thinking Whenever I hear guys say this, I tell them. Just think of the times that a woman has pulled something like this on you. Do you immediately lose interest if she doesn't text you right back? If she cancels a date last minute, do you say "good riddance, my interest just went to zero" OR do you start obsessing even more about why she did, and if she's losing interest and what you did wrong to cause that and how you can recover from this situation. And low all of a sudden you find yourself trying har…	/r/seduction	30/01/24 03:06 AM
1	What was your game changing moment or moments? Oy vey	/r/seduction	30/01/24 01:40 AM
5	Are relationship worth it? You can do whatever you want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 12:31 AM
3	She hits me up, but then doesn’t respond? I mean if you were the one getting ghosted you'd probably be pissed off too, wound y you say.	/r/seduction	29/01/24 09:30 PM
2	Transferring her from location to home? The more you focus on that and make it your end goal, the less likely it will ever happen. You are sending needy horny signals to her and you are turning her off. Stop focusing on that and focus on having fun.	/r/seduction	29/01/24 09:27 PM
6	What was your game changing moment or moments? It's the only leverage they have over us. And while sex drive is a helluva of a thing, we can control it and when you do that, you have all the leverage.	/r/seduction	29/01/24 08:49 PM
6	What was your game changing moment or moments? The more important you make women in your life, the more you need them, the more you depend on them for your happiness, the less likely you are to get any of them interested. And vice versa, the less you need them and the less important they are to you, the more interested they are.	/r/seduction	29/01/24 08:48 PM
1	Predictions for how the dating market will look 100yrs from now? You are giving them cartblanche to murder and destroy stuff. Isn't that what they are all threatening to do anyway?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/24 08:09 PM
4	Predictions for how the dating market will look 100yrs from now? If we make an army completely made up of incels, we would have the most unstoppable army in the world bent on destroying everything they lay their eyes on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/24 05:46 PM
2	Sexist people make the best partners. Lol, how long before you become a violent rapist in her eyes? How many arguments away are you from that assessment .	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/24 05:43 PM
2	Cold approach success rate I'm 192-193, 5'11", game - I'm just being funny and flirty. Again, I'm married so not dating. When I was actively dating I was much skinnier but also had more hair and less grey around the temples. If you are struggling with past luggage (aren't we all?), take a look at something like CBT therapy, Feeling Good by Dr David Burns. He has a good podcast as well. You may need to do some work, but my overarching advice to this is to stop being judgmental of your past and recognize that when you were …	/r/seduction	29/01/24 04:00 PM
1	What do you suppose influences hypergamy from in a systemic social context? The bow and arrow is just an allegory for the society rule that work=sex. It's what boys have been taught for time immemorial in every single culture on earth. Work and be a successful member of society and ONLY THEN can you go and get an attractive woman. And if you don't work and contribute to society, THEN you are a worthless piece of shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/24 02:31 PM
1	Indirect game lovers, do you always act like “don’t know anything” tourists? Oh god you are stuck in the past. Nobody does that anymore. Just have a normal conversation.	/r/seduction	29/01/24 01:52 PM
2	What do you suppose influences hypergamy from in a systemic social context? This is a complex subject but it basically comes down to this. Men and women are attracted to different things. The reason men admire women's bodies and their looks first and foremost is because the woman is the one who carries the baby in her womb for months. A woman's physical features are indicators of her reproductive qualities. Her skin, hair, breast size, butt and hip size and shape, her hip to waist ratio, etc. are scientifically proven indicators of reproductive fitness. Since the evolut…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/24 12:11 PM
18	What do you currently lean on for success with women? Understanding that the only problem you have wjth women is believing you have a problem with women.	/r/seduction	29/01/24 02:12 AM
1	Is it a bad idea to let the girl choose the date? Either evening over drinks or if you are doing a day date, it should be something fun and active.	/r/seduction	29/01/24 02:00 AM
3	I walked away. It happens man. Some women are weird, like to play games, have issues. Who knows. They keep making them so it's not like there is a shortage.	/r/seduction	28/01/24 11:16 PM
1	Work Remote. Should I move to NYC? Let me make sure I'm hearing you correctly: you are avoiding all of the things that people usually do to meet others like being social, enjoying social activities, going to bars and clubs, using dating apps and your solution to your dating problems is love to NYC?	/r/seduction	28/01/24 11:12 PM
4	Cold approach success rate When I was actively dating, it could be close to 100%. But I'd let women approach me first, which they often do with stuff like shooting me flirty eyes, hovering around me, making innocent conversation, etc.	/r/seduction	28/01/24 11:11 PM
1	Question? It has never stopped working and is probably the only thing that truly works.	/r/seduction	28/01/24 07:35 PM
0	Getting fit was the greatest change in my life. Has anyone else noticed the social changes? You don't know anything about hypogonadism. And no, you can't raise your T levels to normal if they are as low as mine without medication.	/r/seduction	28/01/24 07:17 PM
5	Getting fit was the greatest change in my life. Has anyone else noticed the social changes? Hahahahhahaja sure buddy. You are thinking about some niche monster looking guy while most of the Hollywood actors women pine over are enhanced in one way or another.	/r/seduction	28/01/24 07:16 PM
-1	Getting fit was the greatest change in my life. Has anyone else noticed the social changes? And how would I do that with 250 testosterone? The levels of an 80 year old man?	/r/seduction	28/01/24 06:42 PM
1	“I’m not so sure…” Exchange a few messages, flirt, banter and ask them out. You are just wasting your time dragging conversation s out for days and you can suss out the weirdos who are going to waste your time and never go out with you anyway. Be a man who knows what he wants and go for it. Don't play by their rules.	/r/seduction	28/01/24 05:13 PM
1	🥶 approach Should get that look at by a doctor.	/r/seduction	28/01/24 04:08 PM
-8	Getting fit was the greatest change in my life. Has anyone else noticed the social changes? I'm in that weird spot where I take steroids but neither women nor men comment on my physique.	/r/seduction	28/01/24 04:08 PM
1	“I’m not so sure…” Why are you talking to them for days?	/r/seduction	28/01/24 04:06 PM
1	Is it a bad idea to let the girl choose the date? I mean usually I would say it's a bad idea but then read your date plan and I want to punch you in the face. Sunday morning coffee and walk in the park where you will make a move? Have you ever had a girlfriend? She was out partying Saturday night: the last thing she wants is to wake up early still stinking of booze and go meet a Tinder date for coffee in the park. Have some sense my man. That's not romantic at all.	/r/seduction	28/01/24 03:20 PM
2	How to act after getting the number early in the night. All the answers here are regarded. These guys are soooo needy and attached to the outcome. If you are sitting there thinking 5 steps ahead I can guarantee you, you will not get the girl at the end. If you get a number early in the night, just stay there and talk to her. Engage with her, get to know her a little better. Tell her, "You are a pretty interesting girl and definitely want to get to know you better. I will call you tomorrow to arrange a date". Then you can excuse yourself and say you w…	/r/seduction	28/01/24 03:15 PM
3	Solo and Sober Nightclub It starts with how you are at home before you go out. It's about the story you tell yourself everyday. What's your story? Is it: "I'm a loner, who was bullied in high school, I have no friends, nobody loves me because I'm so weird". OR Can your story be something like: "I love who I am, I love my life, I've grown into the person I am today through a series of events and circumstances that have shaped me into a quality guy. I'm complete and satisfied with myself and my life, there is nothing I ne…	/r/seduction	28/01/24 03:07 PM