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Aceking1983/r/Divorce_Men20/02/25 01:21 AM
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Aceking1983/r/Divorce_Men03/08/24 09:32 PM
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Aceking1983/r/Divorce_Men01/02/24 03:27 PM
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Here's a fun way to get past that. Take the money you usually spent on her for her birthday and go by yourself something nice! as the years pass, you'll either forget about it altogether or you'll be lookin forward to your second birthday of the year!
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/26 09:37 PM
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That's wild to actually read that a mini version of yourself brings you no happiness. If that is truly the case, my opinion is there is no fixing this situation as it seems like you resent the child and will only continue to resent your wife....because the child...isn't going anywhere.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/25 09:44 PM
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Lol I'm sorry this happened to you but if I'm being honest it makes feel better and not alone on this. I started talking to a really cool woman and she had the complete opposite schedule as me too. As much as I tried to think in my mind we could make it work it wasn't reality. Best of luck and hope we both find someone on the same schedule!
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/25 01:54 PM
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Did you mean to reply to me because this is literally what I just said but with different wording lol
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/25 09:19 PM
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They all "want to be friends", as you already know that statement isn't true at all. If no kids are involved I would proceed to erase and replace.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/25 07:10 PM
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I've said this before on here and I'll say it again. Writing is a powerful thing, especially if you look back over and truly re-read what you've written while going through a difficult time because we all seem to write the answers to end our own pain in them. " I don’t want to be with her anymore, but the thought of her happy with someone else just eats at me." The answer for you to eventually find peace you wrote yourself. You don't want to be with her anymore, which means you have accepted the…
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/25 03:38 PM
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I had the same feelings and thoughts when I was going through my divorce. At mediation I was told I was going to receive a monthly payment of xyz and I was so confused as we both always made around the same income. Come to find out, she got a gigantic raise right before we separated (coincidence?). I told them I didn't want the money and they pretty much told me I had to take it its just based off a calculator. If you feel bad about taking it or weird, consider doing what I do. I put the money e…
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/25 01:58 PM
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Do you really need help with this? There's no negotiation to be had, either she accepts your child or tell her to piss off. Thats your one and only man!
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/25 01:30 AM
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Just a suggestion but possibly start writing more, maybe in a journal. The reason I say this is the answers to your happiness are in your writing. You seem to love your children and they keep you from going overboard. By dissecting the writing you'll see your light is through them, and the darkness you are in is also shown in your writing because your hatred is with her. You may feel like you moved on because you got a new girlfriend, but the writing shows your focus is still 100% on this bitch …
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/25 04:49 PM
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Oh yea don't get me wrong, I fully anticipated her to move on and the fact of her dating other people honestly doesn't bother me. What does bother me is did it really have to be someone I knew and was a friend with for over 20 years?!?!?
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/25 04:20 PM
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When I got separated I started running 9 miles a day 5 days a week and have been going strong at it for almost a year in a half. I think a transition to adding weightlifting is in order though!
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/25 04:18 PM
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I'm just going to add because during the beginning of my separation/divorce I lurked on here a lot and the advice that's always handed out rings true and I can tell you that first hand. DO NOT LEAVE YOUR HOME. I know in some man way it may seem like "the right thing to do" but this situation breaks those barriers as you're now in a legal struggle and by what you've said yourself your in a fight for your own livelihood if it means you might be living in your car. I held my ground, moved into our …
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/25 04:12 PM
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I don't know if this is an option for you but works great for me. Dropoff and pickup are at my house. If she drops off just the oldest (7) he knows the garage code, opens it and comes in on his own. When she's picking the 7yr old up and has our younger 4 yr old with her, she lets him out and he comes and rings the doorbell and it gives me a extra time to say hi and give him a hug. This way the kids don't see anything and I don't have to see her ever, win win for everyone
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/25 08:36 PM
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I think you're thinking to deeply into that but it's ok. A- why would your kids see that? B- I'm not saying just use women, I'm saying get back out there, date, have fun and go out, bang, enjoy your life. But in the end do what's best for you!
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/24 11:25 PM
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I'll keep it short. "The only way to get over somebody is to get under somebody."
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/24 10:14 PM
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Your wife decided she wanted a contested divorce the moment she began recording you bro. You need to stop listening to any option she offers you, and take the option your lawyer tells you is the best route at this point.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/24 05:16 PM
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I'm just gonna keep it short and sweet. Hit the gym and lift weights or hit the pavement and start running. Have any hobbies you could never do, do them now. Read, reflect, and become the best version of yourself. Then, when the time is right and you feel up to it, go bang some bitches!
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/24 02:18 AM
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Cheers to being a good dad and knowing that those kids are everything and irreplaceable. A wife that doesn't appreciate you, cheats, and treats you like shit on the other hand...you can replace that one!
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/24 09:27 PM
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We do have a in our decree to start using an app once the decree/divorce is approved by a judge. There are no camera's at her place and she is currently living in an apartment. The children do not have a phone or any means to contact her if there is an emergency. No she won't check in with me. Since our divorce has started there is little to no communication on her end. Most times I have to send the same text message each day saying "please respond as I have not received any response on xyz. Yes…
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/24 07:42 PM
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I believe she loves them, but since this divorce process has started (which I'm sure is a broken record to hear) she is a completely different person. I want to believe she loves our children, but my son tells me everytime he's with me she doesn't spend time with them, she either just has them sit in her apartment and watch tv or will take them to the pool and sit on her phone while they play in the water. As my 7yr old put it "mom doesn't admire me like you, she won't even look at me when we go…
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/24 01:37 AM
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Bro the fact that you're on a divorced subreddit asking advice when you have never even been married is highly concerning. You should seek a therapist to work through these issues. I know text comes off the wrong way sometimes but I'm not trying to be rude to you this just seems like a deep seeded issue you have going on.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/24 08:35 PM
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She replies "yes, I'd like it to be civil and amicable". Im sure she does, and at this point I do too. Ahhhhhhh memories. I to fell for this exact line about 6 months ago. When people laughed when I told them that's how we both wanted to handle it I was confused and told them nah, seriously we've always been chill with each other I think this will go smoothly........ Please don't put yourself through the hell I'm currently in. Do not believe that, do not put your dick in that, and get the best l…
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/24 09:38 PM
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"doesn’t want to deal with dividing assets." That's when you tell her you didn't want to deal with creating a new home in the garage for her because you bought a home to live in it together. Don't let that woman hold the reigns any longer. File and free yourself of this madness.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/24 09:08 PM
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I should clarify this. My attorney is advising that all accounts should be put on the table, that includes my stbx's checking, 401k, and savings as well as they should all be equitably split
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/24 04:39 PM
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I feel your pain, my wife asked for a divorce 3 days before Thanksgiving. But out that energy in something beneficial over a bottle. Get outside and run, lift weights, or if you can't run then walk. If you can't walk then write, call a friend and catch up like you used to begore you were married were you had the time to talk for awhile. It's painful, but drinking your lain away will only cause more pain.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/23 06:34 AM
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I've been going through this since October with two kids. At first I was in your same place, heartbroken, scared, and just felt sad non stop. I couldn't think of life without my family and wanted anything to fix it. The more time that's drawn on since then I've still been sad, but have realized I liked the idea of all of us together. But the reality is I will still have my family which are my two children, and as spiteful as my stbxw has been I know longer have feelings for her and can't wait fo…
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/23 04:33 PM
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Be careful with that thought. I can only go off of what I'm currently going through but even at the start of separation my wife wanted me to know she "wasn't going to screw me, that she is going to be fair and we have always talked through everything and we will be amicable if it came to that" Fast forward to one month and I was served divorce papers. I advised her I thought we were going to be amicable, getting an attorney involved before even asking for the divorce doesn't seem like the way to…
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/23 04:39 PM
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