| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 31 | How to deal with borderline wife? | Need Support | Acidhouse2137 | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/24 08:36 AM |
| 15 | BPD violent spouse and divorce | Need Support | Acidhouse2137 | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/24 01:44 PM |
| 7 | Trapped | Need Support | Acidhouse2137 | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/03/25 09:28 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 11 | Looks like im joining the club I never wanted to be a part of…im heartbroken and not sure I’ll ever trust another woman again.Once a cheater alwsys a cheater. Its just like in the script. A planned monkeybranching | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/25 06:16 PM |
| 1 | TrappedUpdate - it still shitty although my wife's rages/tantrums happen just oncecper week. But she is mean/bmverbalky/emotionally abusive, nagging, criticism, always the victim, dislikes pur kid - I do 80%of the parenting- yet demands money. I just hate hate hate her so much. Eish she could have an heart attack as she gained weight and has no healthy habits while I'm fit. Or I wish she could file a divorce and leave us alone. But I cannot do anything, she might even hurt me or our kid, she is able to… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/25 11:00 AM |
| 5 | My role as a man in my former marriage has turned me off from datingThe wholexsettibg boundaries and no more nice guy etc won'tcwork if your spouse has narc/bpd traits. You have to be an abused caretaker blamed for everything or you can leave and become an object of revenge | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/25 06:51 PM |
| 5 | Very happily married and wife suddenly in big rush to leaveHire an reluable PI man and ofc lawyer up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/25 01:27 PM |
| 3 | Is it feasible? Is it worth it?If she is mistreatibg you, divorce will happen. She just waiting for opportunity. She is entitled. Do you havexto walk on eggshells around her? Check for personality disorders. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/25 06:55 PM |
| 6 | Marriage is LonelyI feel you. Honestly its a kind of parasitism not marriage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/25 06:40 PM |
| 1 | She calls me abusive and evil, but after everything she did… I’m starting to think it was the other way around.Narc/bpd detected. Grey rock and block. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/04/25 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Life is better overall, but some days really suckI noticed that lots of women involved in nerdy hobbies/circles are cluster B demons. Read you posts and damn man I'm sorry. You have to protect your kids. Those narcs/bpds should receive permanent tatoos as warning for their partners or dhould be banned from relationships by law. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/25 06:56 PM |
| 3 | Divorce in TexasYou have married a narc. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/25 08:28 PM |
| 18 | Wife (29F) monkeybranched on me (30M) after 16 months of marriageIntensive love, rushing things. Thrn sudden cheating and monkeybranching. Aww man, she is probably BPD. You dodged a bullet. You don't have kids. You are lucky. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/25 10:24 AM |
| 2 | Why don’t you hear it from them?It will backfire hard on those modern evil women and enabling society. More and more people voting far-riht/conservative. Islam rising. Wars incoming. World turning into old ways. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/03/25 01:14 PM |
| 3 | Why don’t you hear it from them?This is called projection. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/03/25 07:14 AM |
| 3 | Why don’t you hear it from them?Those women are often cluster B. Lacking empathy. Solipsism in full bloom. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/03/25 07:14 AM |
| 1 | TrappedSo qhat should I do? Filling for divorce? I doubt she is gonna play it easy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/25 06:57 AM |
| 1 | TrappedI doubt she will figure it. She kinda embraced it and is proud of being evil and mean. People in past hurt her (drunk dad etc) so she is gonna hurt others. That's how she rolls. Sadly, instead hirting our crazy exneighbours etc she hurts primarily me. I'm blamed for everything. She rejects any treatments as this is for loonies and she isn't crazy, I'm the crazy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/25 09:54 AM |
| 1 | TrappedIm trying to grey rock her, avoid conflicts, being submissive etc. Theconly thibgs to work is to stay away from her. I wish I could take my kid and go NC. Just custody exchanges/child related rhings, preferably per attorney so no contact. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/25 07:18 PM |
| 22 | Marriage is DeadProbably she gas cheated on you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/25 07:12 PM |
| 1 | TrappedI'm just trying to avoid her. Less time together - less drama. If not a kiddo, I woukd divorce her, leave the town and country, go NC. If I ever leave, I think I'm unable to date ever again. I just want to live in peace. Yes, my kid is kinda difficult but at least he is harmless and innocent. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/25 01:04 PM |
| 1 | TrappedYou have to pay for everythibg there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/03/25 10:14 AM |
| 2 | TrappedNo help. Everyone flaked out. They don't want to deal with screaming, tantrums etc. I do it 90% time. Due to my wife's toxic behaviour we are isolated from our families as she is high conflict. A joke or criticism means violent drama. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/03/25 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Is it time for a divorceThis. Those are sick people of poor character. No empathy. Egoistical and callous. I mean tbe malignant BPD those ealso exhibit traits of NPD. Leave man. If you don't have kids. Leave. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/03/25 10:09 AM |
| 2 | TrappedYes. Acc to family xohrts the worst mother is better than the bedt father. I now that she will use pariental alientation tricks and do. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/03/25 02:36 PM |
| 5 | Is it time for a divorcebpd marriage yep it's time to leave. but take care, she may babytrap you, pretend to change, threaten you. Such parasite losing her supply becomes unpredictable. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/03/25 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Legal separation first, then divorce?Read a book "splitting" about divorcing someone with personality disorder. Also, shrink4men | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/02/25 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Legal separation first, then divorce?It wont help, she will just hit him/abuse more. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/02/25 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Suicidal thoughts?Record and keep a journal. She will be grilled at the court. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/02/25 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Married 7 yrs with A 2yr oldOf course typical blamers. Probably cluster b. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/25 05:20 PM |
| 4 | She Plottedtypical modern woman moment. just callous, egoistical and entitled. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/25 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Did you ever reconcile after the divorce?Was she bpd? | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/01/25 04:32 PM |
| 3 | "Happier After Divorce"dormant or open cluster B personality disorders became very very common | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/24 04:36 PM |
| 6 | I'm about to get destroyedLawyer up, record everything. You learned hard way that people esp women change. Divorced friend, social media, feminism, dormant cluster B disorder, lavk of accountability as women just want everything , thry are often eternally spoiled children, mollycoddled by the modern society. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/24 12:05 PM |
| 9 | Had the talk with kids todayOh yeah this is it. She changed and narcissist/cluster B protocol activated. She will ruin the kids and blame you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/24 02:06 AM |
| 6 | Narcissism seems to be the new buzzword today. Did or are you dealing with that in your present or past divorce?They are projecting. In my experience when woman is accusing her ex of beibg narcisstic or bpd or whatever - she is guilty. She manipulated and gaslighted someone. This is called projection. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/24 08:12 PM |
| 6 | Narcissism seems to be the new buzzword today. Did or are you dealing with that in your present or past divorce?If you say no and don't allow yourself to becoming a doormat/servant, you are a narcissist. Btw l strobgly believe modern women in majority having dormant cluster B traits, i'ts like a fucking dud or landmine - waiting to explode. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/24 05:10 PM |
| 5 | I won. Here's howI believe that most women nowadays have the hidden and dormant cluster B personality disorders. It just lurks deep to explode someday and you're fucked. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/24 09:06 AM |
| 3 | Losing my coolYeas drama, they love drama... sometimes I consider to play stupid or trigger her to cause meltdown so everyone can see how crazy she is | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/24 12:13 PM |
| 7 | Wife (F30) leaves me (M30) 6 months after marriage, where do you start?You got money, hire PI asap | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/24 08:16 AM |
| 3 | How to deal with borderline wife?I know it will be no bettet. I just have to go into survival mode now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/24 08:48 AM |
| 1 | BPD violent spouse and divorceI'm terribly scared. I as always a weakling. I know that she can manipulate everyone and law and society will support her. Silver bullet divorce or suicide or tarnishing my reputation | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/24 06:41 PM |
| 1 | BPD violent spouse and divorceAre there paperworks about this? My wife might check my youtube search and stuff, she's snooping around. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/24 06:40 PM |
| 1 | BPD violent spouse and divorcePoland. Women are very privileged here | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/24 05:55 PM |
| 0 | BPD violent spouse and divorceShe will know. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/24 05:54 PM |
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