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And I completely understand that but you realize that's like saying "don't confuse the self improvement side of redpill with the incel- mysoginistic side" while I understand and agree with feminists who simply just want equal rights. It gets heavily clouded with the SJW bullshit and a lot of misandry that no one is calling out.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/21 12:18 AM
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PS: You didn't say that But yeah I agree it can be a gateway into redpill
/r/ExRedPill16/04/21 05:15 PM
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I wasn't specifically inquiring about dr.shaym but a couple of the people you said to avoid are just because they are anti-feminist. "If I'm anti feminism, does that make me redpill" is more of what i was asking?
/r/ExRedPill16/04/21 04:35 PM
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Wait... wait so being an anti feminist makes you redpill? How come
/r/ExRedPill16/04/21 03:33 PM
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and? whether someone is masculine or feminine isn't dependent on how they have sex. And ITS PORN, it is not real, those girls are acting (if you didn't believe this to be true), most of it doesn't represent the way people (in general) have sex.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/21 05:50 PM
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i mean ill keep saying this. the "women are better, new-age feminism" shit is the same thing as the redpill just marketed to women. It usually comprises of women who have failed to heal from whatever trauma they had and become bitter and misrable. Just like most redpill guys, you also intaking a lot of toxic information and you should avoid it and detoxify yourself.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/21 06:16 PM
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uuhhhh, i guess? i really have no idea what your on about with the analogy of lesbian and bisexual relationships. In same sex relationship there's still a masculine and feminine dynamic. Men can be feminine and women can be masculine. You can usually take a look at gay couples and tell who is more masculine or feminine.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/21 06:06 PM
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Sadly, its very sparse to find good channels for masculinity as opposed to channels for femininity which there are plentiful. As far as i know Order of Man Jordan B. Peterson Warrior Poet Society 21 Studios (beware with this content though, there are speakers that just say complete nonsense and red pill shit but you can find gems)
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/21 02:04 AM
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im an INTJ but can also be an ENTJ.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/21 07:11 PM
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the most important tip i can give you is DIET,DIET DIET in fact don't do anything until you can maintain healthy eating habits. And first of, I'm not talking about FAD diets like KETO, IF etc. Stay away from them because of their restrictive nature but I mean eat healthy foods that you TRULY enjoy eating and stay way from junk. Then make a habit of eating clean with the occasionally cheat meal every once in a while. Preferably eat less calories if you want to lose fat or if you want to build a l…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/21 12:06 AM
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Exactly, picking up wisdom wherever you can find. There is a reason why people say "Youre the average of your friends" (im paraphrasing). But a lot of who we are and what we do are "habits" that we have been exposed to, either its at home from your parents, school from your friends, religion etc. Even though ideologies may give you more structure in your thinking its better to become self aware and find out who you are and what your thoughts are.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/21 04:24 PM
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Okay, ive decided that were definitely twins. I'm the same way, in that I can watch a redpill video and sift through all the nonsense and if I cant find anything that is applicable, doesn't go against my morals and reasonable, I completely trash it. Even though it may challenge my viewpoints, if it makes sense I can entertain it and in the redpill its mainly ever been about self-development for me . The point you make about feminism is too on point and something that i noticed too. Feminist most…
/r/ExRedPill23/03/21 04:11 PM
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My thoughts exactly. Im a naturally open-minded person(well sometimes) and i feel like it prevents me from the toxicity of the redpill ideas but all in all not having a cult-like way of thinking is probably the best- if not- the more peaceful way of living.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/21 03:44 PM
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it isnt hate per se, but it tends to be very tribal. Personally i think that if feminism was truly gender equality, redpill wouldnt be as populous as it is but that's just my personal opinion.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/21 03:36 PM
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My thoughts excatly, in fact (unfortunately) this sub tends to have feminist and women who were never redpilled but find an opportunity to mention how toxic and bad the redpill as whole is and how much feminism is a better alternative. It is what it is though.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/21 02:11 PM
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From what ive obvserved this is very common in relationships. One of the partners (or both of them) stop putting in effort to maintain attraction and hence become complacent like getting fat, lounging a bit too much, lazy sex etc. If your bf couldn't care less and you don't like that amount of effort then you shouldn't worry about it. I have a routine (short) that helps me stay groomed and look/smell decent, almost like brushing your teeth. And I throw in an accessory just incase but nothing ove…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/21 02:03 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCx0Qvzk0WkvuXgEdo6gSjWA im a dude so this isn't my forte but I'm very interested in masculine energy and i was on YouTube looking for the woman's side of that and got recommended to Lisa Hart. Its really just fashion and seduction but she tends to touch on body language and characteristics of feminine behavior and energy
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/21 01:47 PM
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...are you my twin? lol. this is a conclusion that i came to just recently. They basically do the same things but for the different genders. I agree with a lot of redpill stuff but i can also agree with a lot of feminism topics but now ill take knowledge where i can get it and throw away things that do not align with my values or just doesn't make sense and can be easily rebutted by a 3rd grader.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/21 12:37 PM
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After reading all the comments... wow i have a lot to say but hopefully, this comment will still be of value and not me going beserk. -To address the initial question: It depends on what the "issues" are. Like the issues you listed in your last paragraph such as: Violent & Disposable Lack of social standing Being call toxic(simply for displaying masculine tendencies) A sense of uselessness and again disposable These are all valid issues that some men face, solving them probably wont directly aff…
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 08:06 AM
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go to therapy.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/21 02:31 PM
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She's playing you. This is basic seduction 101 lol (PUSH THEN PULL). The fact that you emotionally reacted to her made her know that she got you hooked. Humans are selfish creatures and love to feel important and listened to. When someone who has been very attentive and needy, suddenly pulls away that source of charm and positivity from you. You will feel the need to want that source of validation back and your little outburst confirmed that she got you hooked and she gave it back to you with th…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/21 02:50 AM
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Finally, someone said it. A lot of guys bitch and moan about female nature this and that but never realize that it is easily as applicable to men as well Women fuck the man with more money, status, etc. = Men fuck the women with more ass and titties. Women settle for a beta provider who won't cheat/leave = Men settle for average-looking women who are less likely to cheat/leave. At the end of the day, its just human nature. End of disscussion
/r/TheRedPill19/03/21 02:20 AM
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Bro, this is exactly my whole perspective. It claims to be about alpha this and stoic that, yet a lot of them are the complete opposite. In fact, the most respectable men that I know will probably not agree with A LOT of TPR ideology.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/21 01:43 AM
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I think it's because they believe that women chose the wrong men or had a past where they were super promiscuous and shouldn't expect another man to raise their kids. And shame the men who do get with these types of women because they are settling for "damaged goods". Such is the case of Ciara and Russell. But as the whole generalizing thing is very common in any group. I mean people understand that there are gonna be outliers but put more emphasis on the majority. Red Pillers do it, feminists d…
/r/ExRedPill19/03/21 01:18 AM
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...wow, you had a lot of time on your hands😂
/r/ExRedPill29/01/21 05:34 PM
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I really like that take on it. Didn’t think about it when writing the post
/r/ExRedPill28/01/21 01:31 AM
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Yeah I see that and agree, I just thought it’d be fun to notice and analyze the certain tricks they use and how that relates to psych. 😂😂
/r/ExRedPill27/01/21 02:18 PM
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Well, PUA is also prevalent in red pill and on YouTube, there are PUA artist that have red pill ideology😂
/r/ExRedPill27/01/21 01:01 AM
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Also, what is wrong with the mindset of “winning” with a woman. As a guy, when I’m advancing in a relationship with a woman, like getting that first kiss, second date, I am happy and count those advancements as “wins” to a bigger objective, a relationship. Even in business, if I’m reaching out to a potential client and they respond back with high interest, I may count that as a “win”, that’s just the kind of person I am...I’m competitive. But, somehow, you’ve managed to flip that on it’s back an…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/21 07:29 PM
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...yikes, okay. First of all, you are putting words in my mouth. When I said “winning” I meant a healthy successful relationship with a woman, whether it is casual sex, dating or a long-term relationships. Secondly, I get the feeling that you are trying to say that I objectify women or view women as objects. When I gave the ANALOGY with the race example, it was a figure of speech and not meant to be literal. I was overall talking about men having success with women and that success TRPers may ha…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/21 07:21 PM
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Your post is a bit like mine too😂
/r/ExRedPill26/01/21 06:29 PM
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Exactly, in fact some EXPECT to have an abusive women and have tactic to spot avoid or finesse them
/r/ExRedPill26/01/21 06:26 PM
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I don’t know if that Is what “holding frame” is but “frame” is the social theory that individuals have a collection of anecdotes and stereotypes, that they use to interpret, understand and respond to events. It’s basically a filter that has been built with our biological and cultural influences that we use to make judgments in social interactions For example, if you and rollo met, you two would hold different frames of mindsets, you think that “holding frame” (and I’m gonna guess your talking ab…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/21 03:35 PM
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Damm bro, this is basically me about the whole red pill and I was exposed to it at around 15 (turning 17) and fortunately I didn’t get exposed to that toxicity of red pill, I was simply unaware of it and just saw it as women advice and this is completely what my perception of it is. It introduced me to general human nature (of course more so to women) and self improvement which I think a lot of guys need but then I cringe at some of the shit I see of red pill aware guys, you see a lot of shit li…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/21 10:04 PM
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In my perspective, “marry for money” is not economic oppression Economic oppression meaning, the practice of bonded labour, denial of equal opportunity, economic discrimination based on sex,race or nationality I still don’t understand how marrying someone for wealth is seen as oppressive, in fact wouldn’t it be opposite, since you are gaining access to more economic opportunities?. If you are saying “it is the cause of economic oppression that leads people to marry for money” like their country …
/r/ExRedPill11/01/21 02:16 AM
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Yeah I can agree that what makes someone “valuable” is subjective and different for others. But it is just as objective when you study behaviors and trends , you can easily make correlations and predictable outcomes with them. And, I’m very confused when you say “if anyone is choosing a lover for any reason other than there personal attraction to them, that person is oppressed”, so... someone is or at least subjected to harsh or authoritarian treatment if they choose a lover for any reason other…
/r/ExRedPill11/01/21 12:33 AM
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I should have put “some women” but that’s good man, I don’t believe it’s luck,I think there are plenty of women out there
/r/ExRedPill10/01/21 10:25 PM
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Ok, I’m also black, but I didn’t grow up in that kind of environment so I don’t know what it’s like. And yes I’m that goofy dude who is into anime and made all the girls laugh and I had girls who showed me high amounts of interest, which I credit to my perceived self esteem and goofy charisma. But I didn’t know how to tone that shit down and ended losing a lot of their attraction. So that’s for dating, with normal peers (looking back at it) I was overbearing and uncontrollable. I don’t claim to …
/r/ExRedPill10/01/21 01:09 PM
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*stoicism But yeah, if you do not want to practice it, that’s fine really. However I’m not insisting that you become an “emotionless-always serious man” I view it as a skill or mindset and a way to cultivate emotional strength, intelligence and awareness
/r/ExRedPill10/01/21 12:53 PM
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This was more than “a note”😂😂😂
/r/ExRedPill10/01/21 10:58 AM
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On a note of emotional vulnerability. This is why stoicism is important (not the cultural definition), philosophically stoicism is not trying to worry about the external things that you can’t control and control you attitude towards it. In my opinion, crying can be healthy but it is a sign that you do not have control over your emotions and easily over whelmed by them Okay let me give an example: A man with a wife and children of two comes back to his house completely destroyed by a fire. Of cou…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/21 10:58 AM
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Well it’s a game and you have to play it to be successful weather it’s dating or even landing a job but you don’t have to play it if you do not want to. Everyone is vulnerable to something but I think the first step is owning that your vulnerabilities and then learning to choose when to be vulnerable and who you should be vulnerable with. And as far as authenticity, it’s a very weird subject, I believe you should always be authentic but that can mean a lot of things because your “authentic self”…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/21 10:12 AM
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Okay that makes sense, although I would say that you can lower the risks of getting hurt in a relationship by setting boundaries early and spotting red flags. But I disagree, you wouldn’t run into “risks” of forming a relationship even by becoming open and vulnerable, you only run risks of getting hurt if you are forming a relationship with someone who is going to hurt to. And of course, everyone has that potential but relationships can be formed in a healthy manner and can be disassembled in a …
/r/ExRedPill10/01/21 09:45 AM
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Well of course it happens and you are totally right. However, it’s isn’t about age more so about gender dynamics and the sexual market value between women and men in society. I have no hidden agenda when I say this and I’m really not trying to put anyone down, I am not MGTOW and I will never be one. However, it is true, the majority (not all of course) of a woman’s value is placed on her beauty, so as she ages and the less attractive she is (if she isn’t genetically gifted ofc😂) she will find it…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/21 09:24 AM
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People tend to equate submission to weakness and someone whose being used and controlled (kinda) but that’s not what it is. A submissive woman is attractive to men because it is a trait on femininity and that complements a mans masculinity. However submission should be well placed and Earned by men I adore submission but too much of it is a huge turn off to me especially to the point where a woman seems incapable of doing anything. And in all honesty women are naturally submissive to masculine m…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/21 09:04 AM
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No I think it’s about putting women on a pedestal and making them the center of your life, of course you should care about people who are important to you, the issue is that some do not know where to draw the line and set boundaries. That then makes you “a slave” it’s the same thing is you don’t place boundaries on yourself and don’t set standards for yourself, you become a slave to your mind and your lowest instinct...you chase pleasure and short term gratification etc. And I have a question wh…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/21 08:54 AM
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To be fair tho, some women see men as wealth objects and how they can get that wealth from them although it isn’t as demeaning as being viewed as just an object of pleasure
/r/ExRedPill10/01/21 08:44 AM
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1.Let it go. if she not interested let her be Ask her out. I'm pretty sure its not imperative to marry someone of the same religion
/r/RPChristians18/12/20 02:02 AM
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Watch and analyze feminine behavior in social interactions, Movies etc. I can't really say because I'm not female but I would like to give advice on this
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/20 01:50 AM
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he was probably not an "alpha male" at the start and was just posing as one because maybe that's what he taught you liked. If you like this version of him, it probably is a good thing because you were able to draw out his REAL self but can be a bad thing because he was too insecure and decided to wear a mask and who know what else he's hiding. If you keep showing him affection, you probably wouldn't have to worry about him pulling away. You want him to be dominant...tell him . It's really that s…
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/20 01:45 AM
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