I want ex redpillers (preferably only exredpillers) to suggest an alternative to the redpill. Because while we can agree that the redpill can be useful it is clouded by ignorance and toxicity at large. The reasons why people (men usually) gravitate towards is could be curiosity, disappointment in women, lack of male community etc.

So what would you guys suggest are better alternates that can avoid a lot of the hate and tribalism that spaces like redpill, feminism, incel etc. have all the while presenting knowledge and guidance to people who may not know better.