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Right.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/21 03:16 AM
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No, solo pienso que es irónico que el crea en que las mujeres son hipergamas intrínsecamente y al mismo tiempo me diga que 'merezco algo mejor', incluso si yo no me he planteado eso. Pero es algo tonto.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/21 03:05 AM
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I don't know, I see it in a different way. There are more peer pressure between women to have a good looking partner, so even if they don't feel real attraction to a certain type of guy, they would tell they are into that type of guy. I say it because I did it in school. I lied about what guy I liked for peer pressure, and then, when I grow up, I dated a couple of times a guy who I really like but who wasn't appealing to my classmates.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/21 09:21 AM
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Come here, babe
/r/ExRedPill24/09/21 12:11 AM
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Ugh shut up. None of your points are worth arguing, because literally if I say no, then you will think that I am lying to look good and that what I am saying is BluePill. And if I confirm something of what you say, you will ignore any additional information that does not confirm your position and you will withdraw into it. I'll just say, it's insulting and seems worthy of a jerk for someone to tell me that I can't love men if they aren't Chad. The level of dehumanization you have women at is ove…
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 05:48 PM
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Here
/r/ExRedPill08/09/21 02:52 PM
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Is trash uwur
/r/ExRedPill08/09/21 06:16 AM
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It is possible that they will vote negatively. But I think that now only the single thought that feminism is always good and not wrong is accepted. And to suggest that, to people, is like suggesting that women shouldn't have rights. And yes, sometimes it is, but in this case it's not. I think feminism can indeed leave men behind and we have to find a way to find solutions for them as well.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 05:57 AM
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I suggest that the subreddit recommend mental health books such as Feeling Good by David Burns, Complex PSTD surviving by Pete Walker, Coping with Trauma by Suzette Boon or Ellis' ABC's.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 01:21 AM
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"You can easily have a boyfriend." Ah? Well, I don't see it. The last guy I dated stopped responding to my texts. Maybe there's an invisible boyfriend in my room that I can't see. It's not small, but it's still not 80% difference like some people paint. Women want sexually attractive partners for short-term relationships. In the long term they focus more on personality and, according to Sam Vaknin, they have a fifth requirement that the man has money.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 03:36 AM
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Can you explain to me why I don't have a boyfriend when I am a woman? Can you explain to me why I don't have a Chad after making me accounts on dating apps? Can you explain to me why there is only a 10% difference between men and women over the age of 18 who are virgins? Can you explain to me why Hillman,2021 found that 10% of college men were voluntarily celibate? And that only 40% of women had boyfriends? Can you at least give some scientific proof that incelism is genetic or will you ask rhet…
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 12:13 AM
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Good genes theory is already debunked. here, here and here
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 11:56 PM
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It is relative, if you are really alone and without any company, it is difficult to adopt that mentality. But sometimes people still long for company even when they have people who love them around them, because they are immersed in their own sadness and don't properly feel the warmth of others. And really no one is saying that he should repress his emotions, if not let go of the distorted idea that having a girlfriend will automatically improve his life. It is always healthy to cry and self-exp…
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 11:14 PM
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You are filtering information to make a negative generalization. You got a pretty decent score from the girls. I won't tell you to go to therapy, because it may not be accessible to you, but I will recommend that you check out Feeling Good by David Burns or practice Ellis' ABC's to change your mental distortions. Also, to improve your mood, I recommend that you sunbathe in the mornings and not expose yourself to artificial light at night. It sounds stupid, but it will reduce your chances of havi…
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 11:09 PM
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You have no critical sense or real knowledge about things. You just go from one extreme to another. Keep in mind that an ideology may make logical sense to you, but the same ideology may not be real. I suggest that if you have no real interest in a subject, don't get involved in it, so you will avoid outside opinions leading you to one position or another. Focus on those around you, improve the lives of the people around you or your own. Try to become the best at something. Don't waste time on s…
/r/ExRedPill09/08/21 03:17 AM
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I would like if there are any studies that controlled the number of participants from the start rather than taking a sample from the dating apps. I think something like that could prove or disprove the 80/20 rule, than for example, have 100 women and 100 men participate on a platform similar to Tinder and see the results.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 11:16 PM
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Excuse me, but I'm asking if any of this server has scientific studies that replicate the results of those dating apps. I know what you are telling me.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 10:33 PM
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Thank you uwur
/r/ExRedPill31/07/21 09:16 PM
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I envy you, I'm not a particularly musical person. It's nothing, I like to help UwU My DMs are open if you need anything.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/21 12:52 AM
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Being smart does not give you political power to make your institutions. You can make inventions, but you need someone to finance you, and someone to manufacture that invention for you in order to mass-produce it. I was recently reading Ernst Belfort's The Fraud of Feminism and he was saying that it was necessary for women not to vote, even the exceptionally intelligent ones. And he used George Elliot (a woman writer) as an example. Elliot said that even the ignorant gardener who watered her flo…
/r/ExRedPill30/07/21 10:08 PM
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I agree that men are not encouraged to report as much as women. There are no awareness campaigns that encourage men to do so, but you also have to admit that even the groups that are supposed to look out for men, do not help men.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/21 09:56 PM
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I would add here that there is research that found that men overestimate their intellectual capacity, while women think they are less intelligent. Maybe if you think you are smart, and therefore capable, you dare to do more things than if you think you are dumb.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/21 09:49 PM
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It's great that you play instruments, hopefully soon you will be able to solve your jaw problem, as it is a problem to your health. I hope you are well.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/21 09:27 PM
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Nature is cruel. I also have a problem with my jaw and I am autistic. We have to go our own way and forge our value in other things. I stopped comparing myself to people my age who have boyfriends or friends a long time ago. Now I just want a halfway decent life and then retire to a house in the mountains. Maybe you need to work on the thoughts you are having, you may be ruminating the same thing over and over again. I suggest using David Burns' books or Ellis' ABC's, so you can stop going throu…
/r/ExRedPill29/07/21 04:49 PM
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Give it up and dedicate yourself to yourself, if female companionship comes to you after that, decide.I think it's a normal thing to desire companionship and a partner, there are a lot of young people more obsessed with that than succeeding at anything in life and it's understandable. But the best thing, I think, for everyone, is to focus on a mission and carve out our future instead of begging, dreaming, longing for a romantic partner. As an autistic woman, that's what has helped me move forwar…
/r/ExRedPill29/07/21 04:29 PM
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I don't know what is his point.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/21 06:45 PM
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This sub is ex-redpill, I think it is implicit that RedPill content is not allowed.I don't know too much about Peterson, but the last I saw of him was a clip where he said that the higher the IQ of women, the fewer children they had. (Is this a way of saying that it is better for women to be stupid?)Sounds a bit like Baron-Cohen's sexist theory where he blames intelligent women for their children's autism :)But no, I really have no idea.I have another theory: this is an ex-redpill sub, not a sub…
/r/ExRedPill25/07/21 05:36 AM
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You are beautiful, you look like my crush. Don't give up!
/r/ExRedPill25/07/21 03:59 AM
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Source? Study? Paper?
/r/ExRedPill01/07/21 08:45 AM
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Age difference is 2-3 years.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/21 07:08 AM
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Some do, some don't.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/21 08:31 PM
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You talk about biology and then you say, "In my country..." That is, it has more of a cultural connotation than a natural one. In liberal countries where women can earn money and be in well reumunerate jobs, there are households where it is the woman who brings in more money than the man. As much as it pains the RedPills. But even if it's otherwise, the post already said it: rich people marry rich people. Maybe a girl with a family of (imaginary figure) 10K marries a guy with a family of 15K, bu…
/r/ExRedPill20/06/21 08:22 PM
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Go out for a drink and talk to a girl.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/21 02:54 AM
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Source? Study? Paper?
/r/ExRedPill18/06/21 07:50 PM
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women can go cold and indifferent without warning Anyone can go cold and indifferent without warning I fixed it for you uwur
/r/ExRedPill18/06/21 12:01 AM
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NO
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 11:59 PM
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Sam Vaknin has a video about it and also talks about alcohol. He says that people are inhibited and ashamed of their bodies and that people would rather drink to have sex.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 05:30 PM
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The article is garbage. I don't even know where to start. Briffault's law is not real, it is not a law. It's just a sentence from a book describing the ANIMAL world and on the same page it talks about how it can't be applied to modern humans. Then, as usual in the RedPill they have a highly sexist view of emotions. No, men do not decide their emotional states nor are they more rational. What happens is that overly masculine men experience alexithymia. And men in general are not encouraged to ide…
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 02:10 AM
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"Let me expand on that a little, and tie it into what we call Briffault's law." It's all bs
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 01:55 AM
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Only one word: gaslighting
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 06:04 PM
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We should consider the manosphere to be right for five or six single studies. Yes.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/21 08:28 AM
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Thank you for say it
/r/ExRedPill11/06/21 02:26 PM
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You are on the right track. Still I don't know if you want practical, emotional or more cerebral responses. It worked for me the latter, which is why I'm researching data contrary to the RedPill.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/21 08:53 AM
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The cold hard and rational truth, bru 😔
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 07:04 PM
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There are 2x as many young women in college who are sexually active compared to men in college who are sexually attractive. Smells like "I think the 80/20 rule is real."
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 09:45 PM
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I'm tired of the same nonsense in a different format.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 09:38 PM
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The RedPill does not fall within psychology. It is an ideology that sometimes uses loose data and studies from evolutionary psychology, usually evolutionary psychology from the Santa Barbara school, that most of the time cannot be replicated. Read my post about it: /r/exredpill/comments/kuwodr/why_is_evolutionary_psychology_so_criticized/ I have never seen any RedPill Guru use the scientific method. Never. Attaching studies or "data" does not mean anything. There are studies for everything, even…
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 01:13 AM
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The RedPill does not fall within psychology. It is an ideology that sometimes uses loose data and studies from evolutionary psychology, usually evolutionary psychology from the Santa Barbara school, that most of the time cannot be replicated. Read my post about it: https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/kuwodr/why_is_evolutionary_psychology_so_criticized/
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 01:09 AM
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Hello dear. I am one of the most active women in the Exredpill discord community, mainly because I am dedicated to researching and searching for data contrary to the RedPill. Yes, I am an exredpill woman. At the RedPill info I felt very depressed, and even thought about committing suicide because of "my nature". I also had to experience that the man I liked, told me that I was a prostitute and that I disgusted him, among other things because of the RedPill. (I am an angry single woman too uwur )
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 01:06 AM
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I like a man who is 20 years older than me. But it's toxic :3 So, no and that doesn't work most of the time.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 01:00 AM
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It is always the same. "Name three female scientists." And you name them and they don't take it seriously. It's ridiculous how they don't realize that women's work and careers are not taken seriously or taken into account. You can name hundreds or thousands, they won't give them any importance. He just feels inferior and takes refuge in the idea that having the same genitals as Einstein or Tesla makes him cool. It's pathetic.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 09:09 AM
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I don't care what you say. All individual experiences on dating apps are insignificant. Having lots of reactions to your profile doesn't translate into more dates, or even more quality dates than you would have in real life. Most people use those apps to hang out or boost their self-esteem, and most people don't use them on a daily basis. Women get more reactions than a man, because those apps have more male users than female users. Easy to understand, basic math.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/21 06:25 AM
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I am a woman and I am not having sex with any men :( What a scam.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/21 09:13 PM
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Sam Vaknin Made a video about Tinder and 80/20, watch it.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/21 09:08 PM
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It is seen that you did not understand anything. Let's see, let's go slow. In patriarchy, the woman is only valued for her reproductive capacity. Therefore, that is the role of the woman, it is an obligation in the patriarchy to pass from the arm of the father to the arm of a husband. Feminism proposes then to liberate the woman from her role, and to allow her to choose whether she wants to be a mother and wife or not. It is not that difficult to understand. Therefore, there are many feminists w…
/r/ExRedPill29/05/21 01:21 AM
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"Men built the world" Ok, let's pretend that's true. What does that mean? That people who no longer exist and who are dead did things. What do I do about it? Nothing What can I do? Nothing. They are already dead. That you pretend to be better just because you have the same genitals as Tesla or Einstein and for that we should congratulate you or something like that, is pathetic and can go against you very easily. In the end, you belong to the same sex that killed, massacred, tortured other people…
/r/ExRedPill29/05/21 01:05 AM
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"It's true because I saw it in a Youtube video" Ok, Sir.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/21 08:23 PM
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I suggest you read Judith Rich Harris. She wrote about the myth of parental education, and how it was socioeconomics that affected children more than their parents' education. Single mothers tend to have less money than married people; remember that married people pool their assets with each other and can leave inheritances. Also, single parents tend to live with their parents, so the children may have more material benefits. That translates into access to better schools, and therefore healthier…
/r/ExRedPill25/05/21 09:28 PM
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https://discord.gg/qvtUM5Rh
/r/ExRedPill23/05/21 03:20 AM
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This sounds very familiar to me. I thought like this after knowing the RedPill, I sincerely wanted to commit suicide, because I was afraid of hurting others by "my nature". What helped me was researching the issues that RedPill touches on scientifically. In the end it's all rubbish. Personally that worked for me because I am a very cerebral person. But I recommend that you see a therapist. Perhaps she is afraid of hurting others, and it is something intrinsic to her. At least that's how it was i…
/r/ExRedPill23/05/21 03:11 AM
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There is also porn of people eating poop, peeing on themselves or having sex with sexbots; the latter is very popular among women. I guess it follows that all women want to have sex with sexbots. It's borderline ridiculous to use porn as proof of anything, but if you're interested. I like watching Lindsey Love having sex with her skinny little boyfriend. I guess I'm not a woman. "If you’ve read our 2018 Year in Review, you may already know that Lesbian (NSFW) is by far the most popular category …
/r/ExRedPill23/05/21 02:36 AM
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And about inceldom. Female virginity also grew. Adolescent sexual relations declined. And there is even talk of an epidemic of loneliness, caused by individualism, the shape of cities and new technology. (But whatever, let's blame it all on women!) On the other hand, a statistic is not an argument. Perfectly those men can: have homosexual relationships, be asexual, have certain beliefs about their virginity or simply not be interested in having a relationship. But of course, let's use data witho…
/r/ExRedPill23/05/21 02:30 AM
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It is always common for newcomers here with RedPill ideas to change the goal of the discussion. The point of my comment was about the myth of the woman who trades her beauty for money. But now you respond with "Ya, but women have it easier than men". Sure, but I never argued that point. So goodbye. You'll never change your mind about anything because as long as I refute a point, you'll change the goal and come up with a new story.
/r/ExRedPill23/05/21 02:26 AM
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About Tinder, I wrote about it some days ago: I'm tired of the "80/20" cliché. Let's take it one step at a time. Dating apps are mostly occupied by men. In the UK there are nine men for every one woman in the app. It's impossible for the sexual market to be equal under those conditions. The users of these apps are less interested in flirting, they use them to procrastinate, to kill boredom or to increase their self-esteem. Within the percentage of people who want to flirt: women want long-term r…
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 11:28 PM
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Lots of them want a man with money while they are earn less. In reality, men feel good when their partners earn less than they do. In the United States, it is increasingly common for women to earn more or bring in more income to the household, and men in that situation are reluctant to declare that their wives earn more. They get very stressed when their wives earn more, and that diminishes the quality of the relationship. Despite the fact that women contributing more to the household reaches 40…
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 11:24 PM
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You're not considering whether these men chose their partners based on their intelligence, work ability, or some personality trait they like. The myth of the beautiful woman married to a rich, ugly man only works because the only thing people emphasize about women is the beauty they have rather than their personal accomplishments or individual characteristics. And obviously they assume that they have married for the money, but it is not known if they also come from an upper class background or h…
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 11:13 PM
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*That is why there is a belief, in the manosphere and in general, that a woman has physical effects after having had sex. From the concept of virginity, to having a specific age, to having a very wide bust or hips, to the pseudo-scientific hypothesis that microchimerism is real; according to the manosphere, women absorb the DNA of the sexual partners they have and that changes them physically and mentally. They perceive women who are alone and happy with their sex life as crazy or damaged object…
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 04:28 AM
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Why does every guy who comes here always attach the same study? What part of this paper says that men don't associate personality traits with physical traits in women?* Just the other day I was reading how men perceive women with makeup on: they take them more seriously than women who don't wear makeup. Also, all my life I've heard men say "Oh, this one has a slutty face" when they see a very attractive woman. About the study itself, what kind of dominance are you referring to? Dominance is ofte…
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 04:21 AM
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Why does every guy who comes here always attach the same study? What part of this paper says that men don't associate personality traits with physical traits in women? Just the other day I was reading how men perceive women with makeup on: they take them more seriously than women who don't wear makeup. Also, all my life I've heard men say "Oh, this one has a slutty face" when they see a very attractive woman. About the study itself, what kind of dominance are you referring to? Dominance is often…
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 04:20 AM
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The best part comes when you realize that they don't want children but only fuck with -25 women. Yep. It has a lot of sense! Fakts enD LoYik!
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 03:29 AM
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To claim that domestic violence was not common and to say that is a feminist trap is ridiculous. Do yourself a favor and look at a current statistic on abuse and now ask yourself what it would be like if society were even more sexist than it already is now. Relationships were not the paradise that 1950's propaganda tells us. And no, it was not good for men either, look at the data on abuse in places like Saudi Arabia, there men are still abused as women in almost equal proportion. On marriage an…
/r/ExRedPill01/05/21 06:19 AM
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What do you intend to defend, in the end? You just go round and round. I take apart everything you say, and you pull out more and more garbage. YOU HAVE NO SOURCES FOR YOUR STATISTICS, moreover. And most of them are surely false and biased, as you prove EVERY TIME I read the original studies (which you DON'T READ, clearly). "Women were protected and cared for." Yes, we were being protected from other men who saw us as objects. How pitiful that some men still see us as objects and defend that min…
/r/ExRedPill01/05/21 05:53 AM
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Why do they ask such stupid questions? Why can't you understand something so simple? The norm for families choosing their daughters' boyfriends is to arrange marriage. And the extreme case you propose does not justify that norm, because it is an extreme and minority case. It's like banning paper just because some idiots cut their finger with it. Would I allow my daughter to marry a child rapist? YES, because it is her freedom and she is not a child to be guarded. Will she marry one? Oh dear...It…
/r/ExRedPill29/04/21 03:46 PM
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'women are idiots who chose abusive partners' Yes, I'm a little silly. I had a childhood full of abuse and what's good, looks bad to me. I'm afraid of affection and people who are cheerful and treat me well. It has been getting better with time, but it's hard to realize that I normalize things that are not normal and repel positive things for me just because of my fears. You really get used to living badly. The thought that people 'enjoy' being abused has some truth to it, but in a twisted way. …
/r/ExRedPill28/04/21 08:17 PM
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Well, he's not my boyfriend, but I like him and we're friends. I had much lower self-esteem when I met him than I do now. Back then he would say horrendous things about women that I overlooked. But then...I don't know, I started to have a little dignity and I started reading and looking for things to argue against RedPill. And when I did that he got very, very angry. He called me a prostitute, that I was disgusting, among other horrendous things. I just told him that I was worried about him, bec…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/21 05:41 PM
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I believe there is no formula for self-improvement. I think it depends on what you want and your values. For me, self-improvement is meaningless if I don't also help others. But I think it might help you to consult the books of David Burns and Albert Ellis, if you want to have better mental health. Also books or blogs about nutrition (I recommend the blog Fitness Revolucionario, but it is in Spanish). Some book (a serious book, based on realistic things) or a course on how to manage your own fin…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/21 05:31 PM
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RedPill without scientific evidence: 0h, iTz TrUe Bruh! ExRedPill with scientific evidence: iTz bLuPiLl bRuH, itZ a LiE!
/r/ExRedPill19/04/21 02:36 AM
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Like always, RedPillers need to make hamstering to justify their bullshit. Women are capable of love, get over it.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/21 02:31 AM
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No, it is not illegal to dislike someone or to be stupid. It is illegal to hate speech. And the definition of misogyny is HATING women. I know what they say about women, hate them, dehumanize them. I think that is enough to make the case that such speech should be censored, especially when the followers of these ideas are so contrary to reason, to the point that I have refuted them with their own sources and they still don't come to their senses. I'm tired of having to debate with guys who think…
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 10:35 PM
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Oh, okay, so you don't agree with those books. I thought so because you were comparing their censorship to Nazi book burning. LOL. Well, I did read at least one on the list, and yes it is what I said: having hate speech against women. Which is why I can substantiate why I think they should be censored, which you can't. And here's the thing, Esther Vilar's book says a lot of misogynistic things, because it is a caricature of reality. But the MGTOWs (so brilliant they are) take it as fact. There a…
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 10:02 PM
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Oh, and by the way, answering you a comment pointing to Godwin's law is not even close to showing me agreeing with censorship. LMAO. I'm all for dialoguing with bigots, except when they don't want to listen to reason, which is when you have to be intolerant of them. And look, I've been debating and rebutting RedPillers AGAIN AND AGAIN for quite some time, in fact most of the time the ones who end up blocking me or denying even my own existence or human nature. I've been told that "I'm not a real…
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 09:56 PM
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Hurt my feelings? Oh, dear... It's not even about that. In fact one of the books on the list, written by Esther Vilar, is one of my favorites and I understand her message very well. The problem is when people read these books and misinterpret them or take them as an authoritative and definitive source. And also (and this is a crazy theory of mine) the books promote a misogynistic and hateful discourse towards women, which is much more than just hurting a couple of feelings. Keep advocating for m…
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 09:50 PM
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The Rational Male.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 09:26 PM
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She refers to her book as a "pamphlet." In the few interviews I have read of her (in Spanish), she says she is a feminist, but not a typical feminist. I gather that she wrote the book as a critique of some women of her time (we are talking about a very specific era), those who benefited from benevolent sexism. She said that her book portrayed a part of the truth, but not the whole truth. Vilar wanted progress and the complete liberation of women, both from the more negative side of patriarchy an…
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 09:23 PM
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Godwin's law. Buh.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 09:17 PM
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I'm tired of explaining to RedPillers that the sky is blue with their own fonts. What does the study say? That women pair up short-term with muscular men and associate muscle with physical dominance (protection from other men) and volatility (which can translate into things like an adventurous or partying spirit, hence fun). Can RedPillers ever stop misreading the studies they attach to themselves?
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 04:03 PM
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It doesn't matter. If you have an abortion, you are damaged goods. If you take responsibility for the care of your child, you are damaged goods.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 03:56 PM
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And? I don't see any RedPiller encouraging any man to fight for custody of his children, but many blaming women for...you know, the terrible act of raising their children. They hate women taking responsibility for their decisions to have children. Again, I don't see you judging those fathers who are "away" not taking care of their children.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 03:53 PM
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I think this is one of the times when RedPill could be right, but instead concludes useless things. Yes, muscles are attractive and are likely to get you lots of sexual partners* (But maybe decrease your chance of a long-term partner) if you know how to combine them with a good personality. But not because they make you an aggressive alpha male (!). But because muscles indicate health and, for women who are more insecure about themselves, they can be a sign that you will protect them (instead of…
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 03:10 PM
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> You can never really be open with women. All women who are psychologists at this time: ...And then why therapies in men do not work well, will it be because of this misogynist belief that some promote for men not to express themselves with their female therapists...? > This is because women care about security an awful lot. This need for security prevents them from going into deep ends on some subjects. Because of this barrier they often look for answers from the wrong people and get fed incor…
/r/ExRedPill08/04/21 04:31 AM
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> How do you expect guys to form relationships with you? In a relationship? Basically that they give me a lot of affection; in all my relationships that has always been the most important thing. I tend to be very detailed with my partners, I even remember conversations we had before we started the relationship. At least I expect them to congratulate me on my birthday and remember something I like. > Would agree agree that seduction is an important element in creating chemistry? Chemistry is not …
/r/ExRedPill08/04/21 03:56 AM
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To say that we are like children is degrading. You see, besides being female, I am on the autism spectrum. And autistic people are constantly told that "we are like children"; that is ableism, but some people really believe that it is not degrading and that it is even something sweet and innocent to say that we are like "eternal children". It's not a good thing. For things like that, we are deprived of basic rights, our voices are taken away (literally researchers often ask parents or acquaintan…
/r/ExRedPill08/04/21 03:24 AM
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A bit contrary to what you say, my intention in being here is to refer to the facts and debate from there. Although most of the time I debate the redpill based on the redpill's own sources (the few there are). I think it's useful to create a counter-narrative with contrasting data for the general public, especially for teenagers (like me) or people on the autistic spectrum who approach the RedPill with no idea of what the relationships are like and believe in it because "it's what the data says"…
/r/ExRedPill08/04/21 02:37 AM
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Your rhetoric makes me evoke something called "overgeneralization" and that racist metaphor of the jar of poisoned M&Ms. How do you tell the difference? I just recommended a book to you by a person who worked 15 years with batterers. Isn't that enough to give you an idea of what kind of people to avoid? I'm precisely recommending the book because I'm not an expert and I don't have to educate you either. Why don't you google your vague and useless questions? You can find the book on r/MGTOWBan
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 02:05 AM
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Okay, I really need those studies. Because I have the opposite information. When both are virgins, they are stable and happy. It destabilizes when they have one or two partners before, but it stabilizes again when they have more partners. I would really appreciate it if you could send me your data. For now I only have a few studies based on the National Survey of Family Growth.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 02:00 AM
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Honestly, it gets to a point that is a little outrageous. Last time I begged for sex from a 'beta' man. And he said NO. And I did it several times over the week and he turned me down completely :( And then these guys come along and explain things to me about my wonderful sex life. No well, I wish.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 03:40 PM
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I think it's a big lie. And it's ironic that he accuses others of using anecdotal evidence when he does exactly the same thing, without attaching any studies to support his publication or ANY of what he says. I think it's a lie, girls make up rumors about others, and guys exaggerate the number of sexual partners in youth. It's obvious and it's ridiculous. The worst thing is that RedPillers are the first to use these anecdotes before using official data made in anonymous tests, because 'people li…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 03:37 PM
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So, women do admit their number of partners. They don't tell men, because they run the risk of men looking down on them and making stupid theories on the internet about their sex lives.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 03:34 PM
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Sometimes when I see this kind of publications I say to myself: ok, where do I sign for something like this? Where are my simps? My betas club? Where are all those men who supposedly surround me and want to date me? And above all, where is my own...sexual desire?
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 03:15 PM
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How do you prove all of the above? Where is the evidence? Where are the studies? I don't know. If there is evidence in favor of what you say, check the studies and the numbers. Because I've actually been reading some RedPillers' sources a lot and the studies either have a very small statistical effect or combine with a larger database that doesn't confirm their assertions. A sensational headline and a juicy theory can be supported by a table of numbers with very little statistical significance. …
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 03:11 PM
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Dude, do I really have to explain every single thing I write? Let's see. The blog I attached, Seducción Agresiva, is a Spanish blog. In Spanish there are no RedPill gurus. It's the MGTOWs themselves who make RedPill content; they talk about 'feminine nature', Briffault's law, 80/20 rule, etc. There are no RedPill Gurus, but in essence the ideas are the same, only that MGTOWs do not use them for PUA purposes. But it's the same thing. MGTOWs get mad at no-redpill PUAs and try to explain RedPill to…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 02:14 PM
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I didn't know that rational men were also inside the Dogpill. You're welcome, anytime you want you can come back to contribute your misogyny and out of all logic comments, every screenshot I've taken will serve me for my videos exposing your garbage.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 06:04 AM
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As far as I know, he does not follow any feminine imperative. He lives very well on his own terms. I think he is a better model of seduction rather than the RedPill and her no-big-hit gurus. But if you want to continue to feel enlightened and out of the Matrix believing in nonsense and listening to gentlemen paired with ugly, older women, well, I'm not stopping you 🤷. Good luck uwur
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 05:59 AM
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No, by "real seducer" I mean that he is a guy who is single (and does not plan to get married) and who sleeps with many women and made a blog (not courses or anything paid) commenting on his experiences and what he has learned from the world of seduction. Occasionally some angry MGTOWs come to comment to him and he has sometimes responded with some posts to RedPill's ideas.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 05:55 AM
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I also find it funny that you say this, because I like to read and follow the blog (in spanish) of a real seducer, who dismantles in some posts the dogmas of the RedPill. Hahahahahahahaha.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 12:09 AM
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? I am not giving advice on how to catch fish or how to pair up. I am arguing from science, which as far as I know, is done by scientists (men and women), based on experiences of men and women. And by the way, isn't it a bit contradictory to seek advice on how to fuck and be an alpha from married guys, who are betas, with ugly girlfriends and providers of single mothers? I think you're taking advice from the wrong hunters.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/21 11:57 PM
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I don't tell any man what to do with his life or his time, nor do I invalidate their degree of "reality" as members of one sex or the other based on arbitrary criteria as you do. LMAO. I rely on what little I know about subjects that always caused me interest: the mind and human sexuality to speak. And what's more, I don't think people should base their lives on statistics. What I do think is that the RedPill Gurus are wrong to make claims based on nothing and pretend that they have more validit…
/r/ExRedPill05/04/21 10:26 PM
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¿? And what does the number of couples have to do with all the disciplines I just mentioned? Is it that all of them are based on the data that women give about their number of partners? Sexology began as something experimental. They literally put people to fuck with wires attached to their bodies to measure their physical reactions. And in (almost?) all the disciplines I mentioned there are experimental studies that can reveal people's biases or whether they lie. Anecdotal experience is less tha…
/r/ExRedPill05/04/21 09:55 PM
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Yes, you have seen the truth. Without any study in sexology, psychology, anthropology, sociology and serious scientific studies. The truth is found in forty-something internet gentlemen without any training.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/21 04:30 PM
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The attached study only considers women who cohabited with their husband or with another man, that is, those who had one or two partners before marriage, (Only this data is shown as statistically significant). And according to the third graph provided by The social pathologist, women with two partners are more prone to divorce, but not those with more partners and the risk of divorce rises again after the 20th partner. IFSTUDIES also has its own calculations on happiness and basically concludes …
/r/ExRedPill05/04/21 04:40 AM
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Hi, I'm interested in the data of NSFG and make good graphs...
/r/ExRedPill05/04/21 04:20 AM
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You basically confirm what I'm saying XD Families would walk away from their daughters if she married a man they didn't approve of. I mean, in the end the family also arranged who their daughter's partner was. And then you say that arranged marriages weren't the norm XDDDDDDDDD Get out of here, my god.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/21 08:13 PM
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Dude, I am from the West. I am the granddaughter of a woman who was married by a forced marriage. That was the norm. My paternal grandmother also had forced marriage. And my mother married only because abortion was not legal and so almost everyone I know XD. Go on, keep explaining to me what women's lives are like based on misogynistic ideology.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/21 08:11 PM
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I will debunk RedPill because I am worry for men.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/21 07:52 PM
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Princes marry princesses. People marry people similar to themselves. And what you say is something more marginal than the norm, so hypergamy is still something residual in society rather than part of "nature" (money is very natural and very biological).
/r/ExRedPill04/04/21 06:54 PM
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"Arranged marriages weren't the norm" My grandmother who was married at 15 with an adult men: 🤦 Women forced to marry their rapist if they became pregnant by him: 🤦 Women forced to marry the man who got them pregnant so as not to look bad in the eyes of society, because abortion is a sin: 🤦 Parents who approved or disapproved of their daughters' partners: 🤦 Women that men kidnapped in the villages to marry them off: 🤦
/r/ExRedPill04/04/21 06:49 PM
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I am (F/19) autistic and I fell on RedPill because I am a disaster with relationships. And yes, it is as you say. I'm naturally not feminine, but when I met the RedPill I learned to see that in a more positive way and tried to be. But it didn't quite work out; I'm burnt out from masking and what I need most is to be myself. The only RedPill person with whom I was involved for a long time was also autistic, in this case a man.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/21 05:40 AM
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Thank you <3
/r/ExRedPill03/04/21 05:09 PM
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🤷
/r/ExRedPill03/04/21 08:06 AM
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We are exredpill, not misogynists. There are no 'bitches’ and all that stuff here.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/21 07:10 AM
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DON'T USE TINDER.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 01:45 PM
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Read David Burns books. Feeling Good help me for my depression.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 01:44 PM
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The few guys I know who are "seductive" work harder than average to get laid a lot. They have suffered a lot of rejection from women, they work on their looks, their clothes, their conversation and they develop their own seduction style. There are some who prefer to exploit their physical appearance. Others prefer to surround themselves with women or talk to several women at the same time. They also have their bad times, there are seasons in which they do not hook any woman.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 01:42 PM
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That is feminism.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 06:34 PM
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Daddy issues.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 06:32 PM
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Nop. I like to be the smarter
/r/ExRedPill30/03/21 01:10 PM
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Is there anyone else who has analyzed the source as you have?
/r/ExRedPill29/03/21 02:10 PM
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Contrary to what has been said here, I was a RedPill woman. I believed that many things about the RedPill were true. But that doesn't mean I acted on it (okay, I tried for a while, like for two days); the RedPill has almost no content for women and almost all there is is traditionalist advice. I know several women who know what MGTOW is and agree with that information, but still go about their lives without more. Even being a bit WGTOW. What made me leave the RedPill was being treated badly by a…
/r/ExRedPill26/03/21 06:18 PM
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I'm a woman. I would feel bad if the term "toxic femininity" became common.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/21 02:52 AM
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What rule? The rules you have are made up of out-of-context data, pseudoscience and anecdotal evidence of men traumatized with women. 98% Number taken from...🤡
/r/MGTOW225/03/21 12:31 AM
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"mother nature" does not exist.
/r/MGTOW225/03/21 12:16 AM
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A femcel here :v I am autistic and basically my social relations are my family. Although really things are superficial. I haven't made any friends in college. I don't know; everyone seems busy entertaining each other but me. (I hate them). I think I'm becoming a bit of a narcissistic person. I feel envious of others, anger, impulses that are a bit anti-social and embarrassing to me. I've never had a boyfriend. The only one wasn't real; I basically agreed to be his girlfriend because he stalked m…
/r/ExRedPill25/03/21 12:11 AM
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The reality is that there is no wall and men still have a taste for older women. Your own data proves it again. Thanks for the input. Also your own data shows that it is men who are more superficial and more hypergamous than women. :) Oh, and that still doesn't prove anything. Because porn is a fantasy, it's not a guide to how people establish romantic relationships. Looks are not the only factor. LMAO
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 08:01 PM
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I checked the article and second and third most popular categories were: "Mature" and "MILF". LMAO As always happens with RedPillers, they attach a source that they think proves them right, but it turns out to disprove them in the end.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 06:03 PM
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But they are not teens, they are adult porn actress. So men are attracted to woman who are old but looks fine, so The wall does not exist. What a surprise! (Let's ignore the fact that your "data" leaves all men as pedophiles.) You are such a clown, dude. Go out of here.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 05:54 PM
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I notice the same thing. Women are infantilized and victimized. We are still not seen as adults capable of doing harm.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 05:20 PM
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Sorry if i don't help you :/
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 01:53 AM
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Go to doctor/psychology Please. Read Feeling Good by David Burns Left Bread and shit-food for Brain Fog. Meet with people.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 01:45 AM
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Anyone is programmed. LMAO Psy ev is BS
/r/MGTOW223/03/21 07:57 PM
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Yes, it is normal. It is little known that this paraphilia exists (few people have it). What is common is the stereotype that we like "bad boys". And some go further and say it's an instinct (LMAO).
/r/ExRedPill23/03/21 07:52 PM
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Women who establish relationships with criminals are hybristophiliacs. It is a paraphilia. It occurs in men and women who usually have had a negative childhood and mental illness. Hybristophilic men often even help their partners to commit their crimes. And women who go to prisons and fall in love with criminals, establish an IDYLLIC relationship with the man. There is no full-blown relationship if he is locked up. Women with this paraphilia usually enjoy the prisoner paying attention to them (h…
/r/ExRedPill23/03/21 07:45 PM
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It's not worth arguing with people who believe there is such a thing as toxic masculinity, really. That concept lowers guys' self-esteem, but, oh, what does it matter to say that masculine is instrinsically negative. Even if you attach graphs and data to them that most men would rather protect a woman than hurt her, they don't change their minds.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/21 07:41 PM
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Yes, and there are many cars that can run you over. And a lot of birds can shit on you. And a lot of women can abuse you psychologically (Why aren't you afraid of them?). (But it's different! They are men! As always, cheap sexism of feminism always used for convenience). Living with paranoia doesn't help anyone and it's true that only a small percentage of men commit crimes. Most men who have a healthy concept of masculinity are peaceful. And besides, many men, if you are in trouble, would save …
/r/ExRedPill23/03/21 07:36 PM
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Reality: Woman are humans. The end.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/21 03:02 PM
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Reality: Woman are humans. The end.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/21 03:02 PM
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Take care of yourself and you will look good for a long time.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 02:27 PM
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See Sam Vaknin's channel Here is a video about Cold Therapy
/r/ExRedPill20/03/21 11:38 PM
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Thank you. I am autistic and sometimes I don't get sarcasm.
/r/ExRedPill20/03/21 03:08 AM
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Nope Is painful when the guy does not text me or ask me about my things.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/21 05:01 PM
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God bless you
/r/ExRedPill16/03/21 08:49 PM
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I have to confess (19/F) I am (a little) obsessed with my chin. I have malocclusion. If my jaw was straight, my teeth straight and my chin more towards the front, I would be pretty. But no :c I don't know if looks are everything; I just know that on occasion I've had chemistry with people who aren't attractive. Who are shorter or fatter than me. I have my own thinking and I think one of the things that matters is smell. A certain type of scent on men I really like.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/21 08:48 PM
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He was handsome. But a shitty person.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/21 08:42 PM
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Yep, the toxic ones.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/21 08:39 PM
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Philosophy of dating: Don't be a shitty person. Walk away from those who are shitty.
/r/ExRedPill13/03/21 04:30 PM
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I have a father, brother. I want to have a husband. Of course I care about men. I've seen how cruel some women can be, how much of a freeloader they can be. I've seen men suffer for different things. I've talked all night to men trying to comfort them, even trying to keep them from killing themselves. Actually, I think the issue goes the other way. In general, men are disadvantaged in certain areas and in general no one cares. Not even men themselves (not all, obviously). It's not unique to wome…
/r/ExRedPill12/03/21 05:21 AM
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In a blog I read some time ago, dating simulators are proposed for men to learn how to flirt. Before, flirting was more ritualized, now everyone goes his own way and everything is more uncertain. Women should also flirt and take the initiative. I also read in a blog of a real seducer that before flirting, you should try to have fun and go to places with normal people, not just bars and parties.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/21 05:44 PM
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Expired :c
/r/ExRedPill08/03/21 02:05 AM
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I recommend that you consult with a therapist. You can also read and practice the books by David Burns and Albert Ellis. Or you can look for a virtual assistant who can help you, such as Yana. If you are suffering, don't ignore that. Many men avoid going to a doctor or psychologist. It doesn't hurt to take care of yourself and go to a professional.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/21 04:20 PM
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Thank you ❤️
/r/ExRedPill03/03/21 04:54 PM
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"She's not yours." Yes, we are not property, we are people and we can leave if we want to. Good thing they finally found out.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/21 02:16 AM
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Friend, it is normal that after a breakup you think "they are all like that". It would be weird if you didn't think so, really. The problem comes if you cling to that idea. It's okay for a season to feel bad and recognize yourself as a victim, but make sure you move on afterwards and have other experiences. About hypergamy, it can be simpler than that. Maybe she's just a shitty person, or impulsive or was dissatisfied and couldn't express it, or had avoidant attachment. If you didn't do anything…
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 06:18 AM
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I believe that the RedPill is just another manifestation of what man has been doing for decades or centuries. If they were really enjoying the decline, they wouldn't be slut-shaming women. The RedPill are doing the same old thing, what men have always done: being promiscuous and blaming women for it; being promiscuous and cherry-picking "biological" data to justify that promiscuity. When the very evolutionary evidence they appeal to doesn't hold up or agree with men's desire to be monogamous. It…
/r/ExRedPill18/02/21 03:18 AM
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Oh, come on, please... Trivers has already been refuted, women are not more selective because of their parental investment. Semen is not cheap. Men are not polygamous by nature, monogamous men are more fertile than polygamous men, they have more chances to end up inseminating the same woman. So there is NO reproductive MOTIVE for male promiscuity, so all that nonsense about men carrying multiple partners better than women is garbage. No, we are not "designed" to do anything; in the animal world,…
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 02:25 AM
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You foolish men who lay the guilt on women, not seeing you're the cause of the very thing you blame; if you invite their disdain with measureless desire why wish they well behave if you incite to ill. You fight their stubbornness, then, weightily, you say it was their lightness when it was your guile. In all your crazy shows you act just like a child who plays the bogeyman of which he's then afraid. With foolish arrogance you hope to find a Thais in her you court, but a Lucretia when you've poss…
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 11:20 PM
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I think that incels also have a lot of self-fulfilling prophecy. They are getting younger and younger and they are closing in on themselves and the idea that they are not pretty enough. I've seen 19-year-old incels complain because they don't have a girlfriend: dude, I don't have a boyfriend either.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 10:45 PM
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Cordelia Fine in Testosterone Rex explains that men have a double standard about one-night stands and sex they have with their girlfriend. If they have it with their girlfriend, they care about her orgasm, if it's just one-night stand sex, they don't give "a shit" if the girl orgasms. One night stands are just for experimentation, not to give them orgasms. I think this may be the reason why they stereotypically say that women need affection before sex; it's a mild way of saying that the man won'…
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 10:35 PM
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And the best way to get rights and more consideration from society is to write pseudo-scientific falsehoods about women, right? If you are worried about divorce, get married with separation of property. No court is going to greet you with flowers and hearts, they are all dehumidifying; ask the raped girls. About domestic violence, the only thing you care about is blaming women. Dude, all my adolescence I grew up reading even in women's magazines what kind of men to avoid. Instead of doing the sa…
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 09:54 PM
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How unpleasant. I know, because I experienced something similar. They want to be "captains" without deserving it, just because of what they have between their legs and they tell you that you should follow them just because of what you have between your legs. I'm sorry to tell you that it's hard to get a man out of there, it's sad, they believe that being more dominant is the answer to their problems and their frustrations. Also some men just want to have a family so they have kids to boss around…
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 09:19 PM
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"It's gone too far." Bruh. These guys are getting funnier and funnier to me. I'll comment on something I've been thinking about RedPill, after reading Testosterone Rex. These guys really think that women should stop having multiple partners and their sexual freedom, because they think it will make Western society more fertile. But they don't think the same about male sexuality. Well, it just so happens that this idea of the caveman inseminating a hundred women and having a hundred children as a …
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 08:59 PM
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I find it very amusing and complimentary that Rollo Tomassi suggests that we are calculating with our relationships. I mean, I don't have the faintest idea what I'm doing with my love life. LOL
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 01:45 AM
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I don't know if you read the article I attached. I don't think you did.
/r/ExRedPill05/02/21 02:31 PM
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You don't belong here, dude.
/r/ExRedPill05/02/21 04:20 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/kuwodr/why_is_evolutionary_psychology_so_criticized/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share Here is a post about criticism on Evolutionary Psychology. Hope it helps.
/r/ExRedPill04/02/21 08:19 PM
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In my opinion, the issue of female fidelity in the RedPill is of great concern, but not that of male infidelity. It makes sense that it would become a concern, in case the woman becomes pregnant by another man. But false paternity is pretty low. From there on I think there should be more leniency on the subject. At least 80% of women with an unfaithful partner end up forgiving the infidelity. That does not happen in men, even if there was no pregnancy resulting from the infidelity. Sorry for so …
/r/ExRedPill04/02/21 08:15 PM
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It makes no evolutionary sense to ruin a working relationship with infidelity. If you read a little about female infidelity, it usually happens: -In revenge for their partner's infidelity. -When they are dissatisfied with the relationship. -After several months or years without sex.
/r/ExRedPill04/02/21 08:11 PM
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She works from evolutionary psychology. A pseudoscience. I already made a post about it here. Also in the Detox Kit at the top of this subreddit there is a post explaining that scientifically it is not known about whether the "Alpha Fux/Beta Bux" dual sexual strategy is real.
/r/ExRedPill04/02/21 08:08 PM
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Martie Haselton? It is all BS
/r/ExRedPill04/02/21 08:04 PM
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? The more sexual freedom there is, the less sexual crimes are committed. Correlation does not equal causation. Sexual signals It's funny you should mention this, because men mistake anything for a sexual signal. Literally some believe that a woman's "no" means "yes". They also confuse sexual desire with sexual consent. They think it is sexual for a woman to drink wine with them in the same room and take off her heels. I guess it's not very decent for a woman to show her feet to a man while drin…
/r/ExRedPill04/02/21 07:47 PM
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"If a woman wears deliberately revealing/tight clothing she is doing it to get sexual attention from men" Are you a mind reader? Nope, so you don't know why every woman wears tight clothes. As an autistic woman, I sometimes have to wear tight clothes, because there are seasons when I can only stand fabrics that fit my body. Same with short garments, I can go months without being able to stand the texture of a pant or skirt on my legs. The last thing I think about is "men". "And as for the point …
/r/ExRedPill04/02/21 04:11 PM
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Get out of here
/r/ExRedPill04/02/21 05:14 AM
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I think: "How sexy" or "Hey, that dress looks great on her, I want it" "Where did she get that outfit?" or "Wow, what she's wearing looks a little uncomfortable, I would never wear it". Sometimes I feel a little bit envious, like: god, I want to be her, but I know I can't be her. I think that.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/21 04:10 PM
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Thank you for your answer ❤️
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 05:44 AM
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Were you an MGTOW? How did you end up MGTOW? Is it true that most people who are there are only there because they can't really get a partner? Do MGTOWs really believe what they say or is it just that they repeat the RedPill over and over again because of peer pressure?
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 04:44 AM
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Yes, my bond with Tomassi is more emotional than intellectual. I started reading him a while ago, a few entries. I thought he was okay, even though I didn't agree with everything. But then the man I liked stopped talking to me, after telling me that women disgusted him. Then I was confused, and to understand why he did that, I read Tomassi. The first book. Bullshit. Then we talked again and he basically told me that ALL women were whores. So I hate Tomassi and I hate that guy because he believes…
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 01:52 AM
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Copy paste from another post: "I (19F) ended up on the redpill for having met mgtows in anti-feminist /masculinist Spaces. I understand that masculinists in English are stained with the redpill; Not so in Spanish. Also in Spanish the mgtow are slightly different, I think they are a little more organized with each other and have "fundamental principles" that every mgtow should read. In short, I'm not feminist and will never be feminist, and to have a contrast to the feminist wave, I went into ant…
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 12:14 AM
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It is a branch of anthropology that has an evolutionary approach. As far as I know, they argue that culture and biology act together and affect each other. As I said, it is one more reproduction strategy, specifically economic within the scientific literature. It was common for fathers to marry their daughters to men with more money, because the man had more money. And it was also common for women to have little or no income of their own, so naturally most would be married to a man with more mon…
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 12:03 AM
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Let's take it one step at a time uwur 1.4 I forgot to talk about hybristophilia. Like hypergamy, I think it's a concept that is warped in RedPill. It exists, it's real, but I don't think it's intrinsic to being a woman. I mean, the whole thing about women being attracted to Dark Triad men because they are evil is a caricature. I have lived most of my life with a person with narcissistic personality disorder, in this case, a female person. She in private life is very bad, but in the face of socie…
/r/ExRedPill31/01/21 11:46 PM
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All :v 1.Female Nature. I think RedPill is wrong to be biological determinist. I think it should be a little more consistent with itself, because it only values the cultural shift of feminism, and admit that culture influences sexual dynamics and how each sex behaves. For now I think the answers on the topic is within evolutionary anthropology and not within RedPill or evolutionary psychology. 1.2 Hypergamy, the term itself has been deformed. According to academic definitions, hypergamy means ma…
/r/ExRedPill31/01/21 11:21 PM
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I don't have any model of that in my house. So I doubted. Thank you for your answer uwur
/r/ExRedPill31/01/21 03:55 PM
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Thank you
/r/ExRedPill31/01/21 03:54 PM
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Na, te han colado con eso de que el feminismo es igualdad. Ambos términos no son intercambiables entre sí. El feminismo tiene una teoría determinada sobre el mundo que dista de ser intercambiable con el igualitarismo. No estoy diciendo que eso haga malo al feminismo. Es sólo que no es igualdad per se.
/r/ExRedPill30/01/21 04:50 AM
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Totalmente de acuerdo
/r/ExRedPill29/01/21 05:47 PM
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I agree on the first meaning you make. Yes, indeed you can't force someone to like you.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/21 05:44 PM
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I have an entire post on this subreddit that criticizes evolutionary psychology uwur But leaving that aside, as I said in another comment, I made the post from memory from a popular book about female sexuality. It's not something specialized, nor am I an expert. Much less would I know how to say more than two sentences in a row about asexuality without putting my foot in my mouth :S. Interesting what you say; I can't respond appropriately.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/21 02:11 AM
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Mmmm...nope
/r/ExRedPill29/01/21 01:53 AM
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OMG :0 Sorry uwur
/r/ExRedPill29/01/21 12:58 AM
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¿? I'm not a guy, I'm a woman. Tomassi cites nothing and no one to make his "rule". Exception? What? I literally just wrote that for at least 50% of women it is a necessity that there is an ideal scenario to match both desires. It is more than studied and recorded, since Master and Jhonson that sexual dynamics change with age and over time. Tomassi's 'rule' needs to be tested, not my post. M&J even created a technique for couples to reconnect sexually. Come on, attach some serious sexology study…
/r/ExRedPill29/01/21 12:54 AM
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And well, yes it is an emotional thing on my part. However, I couldn't find any other way to word it. It is difficult for me to write in English, and on this subject, as I am not an expert. It's also something I wrote without working on it much, I just thought about it and wrote it. To give more accurate arguments I should reread Brochman again (I wrote from memory) and consult her sources. 🤷
/r/ExRedPill28/01/21 10:10 PM
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I say it's cruel, because it leaves all the burden on the man about female desire, when it's more complicated than that. I'm not saying that Tomassi's rule is cruel per se It's also a harmful idea, because Tomassi's solution is worse than the "problem": adopt the DreadGame or leave the relationship. At the top of this subreddit is a post explaining why the DreadGame is not a good idea: it's basically about manipulating women and pushing them to a limit to get them to agree to have sex. That's im…
/r/ExRedPill28/01/21 09:45 PM
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It is normal, the mind works based on stereotypes, to save mental energy.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/21 03:07 AM
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I think RedPill in a way is right in saying that relationships are "throwaway" now, but PR blames women and creates a crappy theory. Human to human relationships are shaped by material change in society, and now the technologies we have allow for more individualism and "liquidity" in relationships. For example, it is difficult to maintain a stable relationship if your job requires you to travel constantly or is very demanding. Something that is often talked about when it comes to sexuality is th…
/r/ExRedPill27/01/21 04:23 PM
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Oh, as a woman I hate it when they are falsely cold about things. It makes me mad, it drives me crazy.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/21 04:59 AM
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Oh, thank you uwur
/r/ExRedPill26/01/21 07:49 PM
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Really? Send link omo
/r/ExRedPill26/01/21 07:48 PM
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"Changes in the feminist dialogue." LMAO, from the beginning that hold the same ideas, with minor variations. But basically since the sixties it is the same discourse: patriarchy exists, men oppress, privileged men. And it continues to this day. Feminism will not change to make room for men and give real solutions to it.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/21 02:35 PM
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Yes, feminism is super anti-war. That's why feminists are not afraid to do historical revisionism and talk about the suffragettes as the first feminists, who were the same women who handed out white feathers in the street to shame men who didn't go to war. I quote Daniel Jimenez, an MRA: Marit Nybakk, who chaired the Norwegian Defense Committee, told the national daily Dagbladet in 2002: This is a war of liberation and also a war to liberate the women of Afghanistan. Therefore the women's rights…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/21 02:32 PM
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I think MRAs are confused. They have been captured by the pop popularizers of evolutionary psychology. I think they need to get over that paradigm and realize that science actually admits that the sexes have been shaped by culture and that gender exists. At least in Spanish MRA Daniel Jimenez talks about "gender issues". So I think they are close to that paradigm. The thing is that Jimenez is not talking about a patriarchy, but about traditional gender roles for both sexes.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/21 01:59 PM
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Linda Nicholson, a feminist, stated that the "waves" of feminism was merely a metaphor. And Naomi Wolf said she adopted the term "third wave" as a marketing ploy.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/21 01:55 PM
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That book was not initially feminist, it was posthumously considered feminist. It is actually an existentialist book. I am not the one who published the post, but I agree with what it says on certain points. I've read feminist literature and I'm still waiting for a book that isn't sexist towards men and cares about their problems.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/21 01:50 PM
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I have read Rollo Tomassi's three books, his blog and many RedPill's blog in English and Spanish, and have seen Incel and MGTOW content. I even read "his scientific sources"; most of it is evolutionary psychology, a pseudoscience. Lol. I think I can say with certainty that it's just misogynistic garbage.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 08:33 PM
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Hahahahahahahahahaha, you're hilarious. If only it was just about calling "bitches" to the "bitches"! No, the man I was dating believed in the RedPill and called me a prostitute, a cock warmer, and that I disgusted him. Me being a virgin. LMAO "REdpIlL TeACh T0 lo0vE WoMEn"
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 08:25 PM
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Oh, I'm the one who usually shows interest. Once the man told me I was easy and another time he grabbed me by the breasts. Last time, a man turned out to be a misogynist and called me a prostitute - I'm a virgin - after showing sexual interest in him. Anyway, I can't stand having a passive role, so I show interest soon, and if I don't, I try to be kind and say I'm not interested. Although difficult, I think my strangest experience (at 14 years old) about it was that the boy didn't understand tha…
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 04:37 PM
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Thank u too
/r/ExRedPill24/01/21 09:24 PM
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Yes, lately I've seen them obsessed with the idea that "All women are feminists." I've even seen one of them give likes to things like "Women should have lots of children, that's what they're good for".
/r/ExRedPill24/01/21 02:20 PM
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People NEED to record the following: The rational person, who reads and critically weighs all political positions, or even their own party's political positions and is guided by reason and not emotion, IS A MYTH. People vote irrationally. We are irrational and emotional, and reason is strongly linked with emotions. Without emotion there is no reason. So all this "women shouldn't vote because they are more emotional" crap has to stop.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/21 05:48 AM
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Well, first, you climb slowly. First talk in front of a mirror, or a camera/voice recorder. You can talk whatever thing you want or practice in private or with a friend some scene from a series/movie you like. -This helps to loosen you up. Then talk to your family, then your friends/acquaintances. Then people at your school/work. And then with complete strangers on the street. That's what I did to learn how to talk to people. That gradual progression will slowly get you used to it. Going from th…
/r/ExRedPill23/01/21 04:57 PM
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here Is a blog in Spanish.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/21 05:07 AM
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I (19F) ended up on the redpill for having met mgtows in anti-feminist /masculinist Spaces. I understand that masculinists in English are stained with the redpill; Not so in Spanish. Also in Spanish the mgtow are slightly different, I think they are a little more organized with each other and have "fundamental principles" that every mgtow should read. In short, I'm not feminist and will never be feminist, and to have a contrast to the feminist wave, I went into anti-feminist Spaces. There I foun…
/r/ExRedPill21/01/21 05:10 PM
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Yep uwur
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 03:02 AM
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I (F19) falled in love with a 39 year old man, not for his money, but because he was autistic like me. He encouraged to me to accept my autism and he understood me well. I miss that :'(
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 02:46 AM
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I made a blog in spanish about exredpill and I made a video talking about my experience in Mgtow sites.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 02:32 AM
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I was on that subreddit. Only one time I thank that there was a dude writing. And yes, I was brain washed, but not for a man, for RedPill itself, cuz RedPill says to women: if you think that you are different, you are wrong, you are solipcistic and you belive that you are special in some way. RedPill does not fit with your own experience in love/life? Well, you are lying, you are being solipcistic, AWALT, and all that stuff. Also, for me personally, I felt so hard the slut shaming on RedPill...R…
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 02:21 AM
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Tanned Balls University
/r/ExRedPill13/01/21 01:24 AM
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Autism is not a "problem". You are. —an autistic girl.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/21 01:04 AM
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Yep.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/21 04:39 PM
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-Pollet, T. y Saxton, T. (2019). How diverse are the samples used in the journals ‘Evolution & Human Behavior’ and ‘Evolutionary Psychology’? Evolutionary Psychological Science, 5, 357-368. -Rellihan, M. (2012). Adaptationism and adaptive thinking in evolutionary psychology. Philosophical Psychology, 25(2): 245-277. -Richardson, R. (2007). Evolutionary psychology as maladapted psychology. Cambridge: The MIT Press. -Sahlins, M. (1977). The use and abuse of biology: An anthropological critique of …
/r/ExRedPill11/01/21 06:08 AM
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-Ketelaar, T. y Ellis, B. (2000). Are evolutionary explanations unfalsifiable? Evolutionary psychology and the Lakatosian philosophy of science. Psychological Inquiry, 11(1): 1-21. -Krasnow, M., et al. (2011). Cognitive adaptations for gathering-related navigation in humans. Evolution and Human Behavior, 32(1): 1-12. -Kurzban, R. (2010). Why everyone (else) is a hypocrite: Evolution and the modular mind. NJ: Princeton University Press. -Laland, K. (2017). Darwin’s unfinished symphony: How cultur…
/r/ExRedPill11/01/21 06:07 AM
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-Campbell, A. (2002). A mind of her own: The evolutionary psychology of women. NY: Oxford University Press. -Chiappe, D. y Gardner, R. (2011). The modularity debate in evolutionary psychology. Theory & Psychology, 22(5): 669-682. -Cosmides, L. y Tooby, J. (1997). Evolutionary psychology: A primer. -Darwin, C. (1859). On the origins of the species by means of natural selection. London: John Murray. -De Menard, A. (2020). What’s wrong with social science and how to fix it: Reflections after readin…
/r/ExRedPill11/01/21 06:07 AM
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References -Al-Shawaf, L. (2019). Seven key misconceptions about evolutionary psychology. Areo Magazine.-Al-Shawaf, L. (2020). Evolutionary psychology: Predictively powerful or riddled with just-so stories? Areo Magazine.-Barkow, J. (1973). Darwinian psychological anthropology: A biosocial approach. Current Anthropology, 14(4): 373-387.-Barkow, J., Cosmides, L. y Tooby, J. (1992). The adapted mind: Evolutionary psychology and the generation of culture. NY: Oxford University Press.-Bolhuis, J., e…
/r/ExRedPill11/01/21 06:06 AM
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Sorry, i used Robert Glover's definition.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/21 04:59 AM
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Go to therapy. In my opinion, misogynists begin as "Nice guys", that is, they want to be good and please people, while hiding an inner anger towards others for not being as they wish. All that attitude changes in therapy. On the other hand, I think that in these times it is difficult to see women as human beings. It is an excess, or it is either exalted or totally despised. It seems that about women there are no nuances. Still, I think it is enough to know that science considers that there is no…
/r/ExRedPill11/01/21 02:08 AM
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The RedPill uses basic manipulation: it makes you choose two paths artificially, one "good" and one "bad". The "truth" or the "fantasy". There is no truth in the RedPill, only a compilation of beliefs and rationalization; Rollo Tomassi in his three books does not use sources and most of them do not. And when they do, they tend to select evolutionary psychology studies with no statistical significance.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/21 04:37 PM
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Because they support Trump, lol. Rollo Tomassi (a RedPill ideologue) did not support Hillary or the idea of a woman being president of the United States. The Redpill people also kept saying that Trump was an Alpha male and comparing him to Biden's "Beta".
/r/ExRedPill09/01/21 04:30 PM
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I fix it for you: Because it exposes pseudo-scientific information based on nothing about women and because it teaches men to be misogynistic and mistreat women.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/21 04:28 PM
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When they are asked why they talk so much about women, if they don't care, they usually answer that they are in the business of warning other men. Well, I think that in order to "warn" other men, they may well have made a series of videos among themselves explaining every "risk" of being with a woman and leaving her hanging on the internet. And that's it. But it's not like that, they just keep repeating the same ideas over and over again.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/21 03:38 PM
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I understand, however I would advise you to resolve your insecurities first. There must be more to your insecurities than just the RedPill. A cognitive-behavioral psychologist could help you, or consult books like those of David Burns (he is a pioneer in cognitive-behavioral psychology). I say this because it seems that the studies and information you find are linked to you in an emotional way, and that could make it difficult for you to critically evaluate the information. I also think you shou…
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 05:44 PM
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I only know Martie Haselton from a debate she had with Salpolsky. As far as I can see she also uses evolutionary psychology, which has been criticized from the philosophy of science, evolutionary biology, neuroscience, anthropology, and psychology. I haven't read Haselton's work, but if she uses evolutionary psychology, it doesn't look good to me. Also if the post you attach just quotes her, well... It is very biased to use only one author and only one discipline to support a "theory". Still, I …
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 05:26 PM
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Well, thank you for the links.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 05:16 PM
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Yes
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 05:15 PM
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I'm sorry, but the mgtows, at least in the Spanish-speaking community, cite David Buss and authors who base their ideas on evolutionary psychology. For example, Steven Pinker is not an evolutionary psychologist, but he does share ideas from the line of evolutionary psychology. The same is true of popularizers such as Debra Soh or Roxana Kreimer. They also tend to quote Cindy Meston, who collaborated with Buss, and Leo Seltzer, who also seems to be an evolutionary psychologist or shares ideas fro…
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 04:15 PM
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"Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks" Is based on David Buss work. (Sorry if i have bad grammar)
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 03:52 PM
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I'm sorry, but I'm a woman and I don't like muscles to the touch, it's weird. At sight they are great, but seriously, hugging someone strong too much... "hard" is strange. I'm also a little scared at the prospect of dating someone much stronger than me who might, I don't know, bend an arm. Please get it out of your head that all women will be unfaithful to you and that they apply the dual strategy proposed by David Buss. That proposal of evolutionary psychology has not been able to be replicated…
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 05:41 AM
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Keep in mind that the RedPill relies mostly on evolutionary psychology, which has been heavily criticized in the scientific community. Some scientists even say that they hate it, and that this "science" should disappear, because they have a naive knowledge of how biology and evolution work. The "science" that precedes evolutionary psychology is sociobiology, which was once criticized by scientists like Stephen Hay Gould and labeled as the art of storytelling. There is also much criticism of the …
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 02:21 AM
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It is not about restore the "bluepill brain". However, you are still on bluepill, cuz you care about what woman think and what they do. If one girl rejects you, forget about that and carry on. If you care too much about what other people think, you don't need any "pill", you need a therapy. Read David Burns/Albert Ellis books, they may help you if you don't have enough money to go to therapy.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 01:56 AM
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God bless you
/r/ExRedPill05/01/21 04:01 AM
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It's possible that you are, or you may just be suggesting yourself. If you think you might be on the spectrum, consult a specialist or you could try self-diagnosis - this is more controversial, but I understand that not everyone has access to a specialist. I caution that both the information on the network and the specialists may be outdated or biased. Stay away from Autism Speak and things like ABA therapy.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/21 09:53 PM
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Why do people listen to RedPill Gurus?
/r/ExRedPill04/01/21 03:18 PM
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Mmmm I haven't checked any studies or anything serious. But I know people who do that, and it really suits them. On "scientific evidence". You have to distinguish. Just because there is no evidence of something, doesn't mean that something has been disproved, but only that there is a lack of evidence. If someone does a study comparing the health of a group that does Nofap, another group that masturbates regularly, and a control group, well, I think there would be evidence of what works and what …
/r/ExRedPill04/01/21 11:44 AM
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And School of Attaction channel
/r/ExRedPill02/01/21 07:27 PM
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Here Is the channel of Dr.NerdLove
/r/ExRedPill02/01/21 07:24 PM
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I always thought of it this way: the RedPill mixes irrational things with other things that are true. I think that before trying to discern what is real and what is not, it is better to throw it away completely and move on to reading other guys like Mark Manson or Dr. NerdLove.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/21 07:19 PM
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Keep in mind that the RedPill relies mostly on evolutionary psychology, which has been heavily criticized in the scientific community. Some scientists even say that they hate it, and that this "science" should disappear, because they have a naive knowledge of how biology and evolution work. The "science" that precedes evolutionary psychology is sociobiology, which was once criticized by scientists like Stephen Hay Gould and labeled as the art of storytelling. There is also much criticism of the …
/r/ExRedPill02/01/21 07:06 AM
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I'll tell you something: women use these apps as a last resort. I spent YEARS looking for someone in real life, a friend to go out with and talk about books. It didn't work out. I installed a dating app to look for a friend, at the end. It repelled me and I almost never opened it. But I got a lot of boyish likes every day. I would check it every once in a while and discard it. Some were older, and others didn't fit my profile; they were looking for relationships or sex, and had very different ta…
/r/ExRedPill30/12/20 12:05 AM
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Maybe this could interest you https://io9.gizmodo.com/myths-about-the-love-hormone-oxytocin-that-could-ruin-30885233
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 10:24 PM
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It's all BS https://io9.gizmodo.com/myths-about-the-love-hormone-oxytocin-that-could-ruin-30885233
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 10:23 PM
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I know that fact. The RedPill ignores half of it by encouraging men to have lots of sex and women not to, when in fact the satisfaction in marriage from having many sexual partners falls on both sexes, only that the man's satisfaction is greater in all cases than the woman's.
/r/ExRedPill25/12/20 07:56 AM
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What you say about men is debatable, especially because there is masculinism and there have been masculinist protests that are ridiculed by the media and by people in general. It is also biased to blame the patriarchy for men's problems. At least in the Spanish-speaking masculinist community there is talk of traditionalist gender roles, not patriarchy, which oppressed both sexes in different ways. Also because there is gynocentrism and male disposability, which is the human instinct to give more…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/20 07:13 AM
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Correction: Due to gynocentrism, which is part of the "nature" of all humans on earth. Even the MGTOW's assume that the reflex of preserving female lives before their own is present in them. Feminism is gynocentric - so is the RedPill - and it wants to protect women in a despot way - because it doesn't really ask all women; this is why even feminism itself is reminiscent and seems to criticize itself continually.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/20 06:53 AM
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Thank you for responding to me I've already left the RedPill man, and I try not to look back. About autism, you're right. It is society that does not understand us, and there is nothing wrong with us. I just sometimes forget that, and the RedPill encouraged my self-hatred.
/r/ExRedPill19/12/20 08:03 PM
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What I fear most is meeting a RedPill man in real life. I have a lot to say. —Mgtow: I talked to them a lot for months. As much as they say they don't, they are misogynists. None of them at any time thought my intentions were good or neutral. Even the most civilized of them told me from time to time that maybe I had some fetish with the mgtow, that I was a harpy, that I was lying, that I had second thoughts. I am autistic and there is almost never any subtext in my words or intentions. What I sa…
/r/ExRedPill19/12/20 07:02 PM
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Your story reminds me of my narcissistic mother. It was chaos, I fought all my life for her to love me; she will never love me in a healthy way. I know now that she loves me in her own way, and her way of loving makes me want to keep her away. I recently published my story with a RedPill man as well. It is similar to what you describe. He didn't believe me, he didn't believe my words. He trusted anyone else more. He thought I cheated on him; maybe to this day he thinks I loved him for his money.…
/r/ExRedPill19/12/20 07:04 AM
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No, I don't like being treated badly. I like to be treated well, but "well" does not mean that a man has to act needy all the time. I am autistic and need my space from time to time; I am repelled by men who don't understand that, who text me every day or tell me they love me (!) in a month. I run away from men with anxious or avoidant attachments, they make me suffer.
/r/ExRedPill19/12/20 06:45 AM
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I don't know. I don't like censorship, but at the same time I think I could improve - at least on the surface - things. Maybe less people will get infected with Incel ideas, at least in Twitch.
/r/ExRedPill18/12/20 04:29 PM
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They usually have bad experiences and do not reach orgasm. They often wonder why the guy disappears after having sex - so they really wanted a long-term relationship.
/r/ExRedPill18/12/20 04:24 PM
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TOTALLY AGREE
/r/ExRedPill18/12/20 04:13 PM
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No, you're wrong. Women tend to be more forgiven and receive more sympathy, even if they are aggressors. They spend less time in prison. About forgiving abusers; it has to do with the dynamics of abuse in the couple. However, on the other hand, women do help to encourage violent behaviour in men. The "white feathers" are one example. Even suffragettes gave out white feathers to men to humiliate them for not going to war. Men who were not violent were usually humiliated or sometimes idealized. I …
/r/ExRedPill18/12/20 06:54 AM
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WGTOW
/r/ExRedPill17/12/20 10:32 PM
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The Diaries of Sylvia Plath
/r/ExRedPill17/12/20 07:31 PM
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I don´t like that ;-;
/r/ExRedPill17/12/20 06:30 AM
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All mgtows loose their shit when woman only want to be married and have kids, but also loose their shit when woman wants a career, and earn their own money. NEVER FAILS
/r/ExRedPill16/12/20 10:48 PM
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They are full of contradictions, it is not worth talking to them :v
/r/ExRedPill16/12/20 05:09 PM
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Because I knew the RedPill and believed in it for months, after a RedPill man hurt me and called me a prostitute, I questioned everything and ended up here.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/20 05:31 AM
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Hah, I'm so frustrated and tired. Many mgtow and RedPillers fill their mouths talking about how autistic men are lonelier than autistic women. But they don't propose anything. Ironically, feminism on the other hand, agrees with the Crip theory and has autistic spaces, at least that's what I've seen in the Spanish community. We autistic people have a huge job to do in society to be included and understood. I wish there were spaces for men like you to meet people and be included in society. As a w…
/r/ExRedPill15/12/20 10:47 PM
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I know that dolls, a Mgtow called Latin HL promotes that dolls in his channel. Those dolls are sexy 7u7 Sometimes I want that mgtows buy a doll and then let women in peace.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/20 10:27 PM
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¡Felicidades!
/r/ExRedPill15/12/20 08:11 PM
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Do you really think that someone who loves a "bad boy" has no problems? Women who are attracted to "bad boys" often have self-esteem problems, a history of abuse, problems at home, or traits that are also dark. Women are bombarded from childhood with stories about how we can change the "bad boy" with love and understanding, and about how we have to "educate" these men at the expense of being abused. Do you really think these women are "enjoying" while putting up with boys who treat them badly?
/r/ExRedPill15/12/20 05:56 PM
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Thank you uwur
/r/ExRedPill14/12/20 03:42 PM
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What do you really want? To lose your virginity? You could do it with a prostitute, if you want. A relationship? Why? If you had a girlfriend, what would you want to do with her? Get married, have children? Have a house, lots of dogs and go for walks in the mountains? What kind of person do you want to be with your partner? If you hate yourself and feel you are not good at anything or are not passionate about anything, go to therapy and find something to become competent at. Don't worry too much…
/r/ExRedPill13/12/20 08:11 PM
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If you are bad with women, it is very likely that you will end up in a short-term relationship with a woman with low self-esteem, personality problems, family problems or abuse. No self-respecting, self-loving woman will put up with you abusing her, or if one stays with you, you will have a toxic and unhappy dynamic with her. I recommend that you practice assertiveness and responding to verbal attacks. (Check out Barbara Beckham's books) Meet people, many people. Don't go to bars or dating apps.…
/r/ExRedPill13/12/20 07:57 PM
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Can you send me a PM? I can't ;-;
/r/ExRedPill13/12/20 03:36 AM
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Totally
/r/ExRedPill12/12/20 11:45 PM
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I falled in love with a man before to see his face (internet). I falled in love to "beta males" since teenager. They were a little taller than me, a little overweight. They also didn't have more money than me. Maybe I am the Nawalt. Or maybe I'm real and the RedPill is trash. 🤔
/r/ExRedPill12/12/20 09:34 PM
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A mgtow inconsistency They say that women are bad, that there is no NAWALT. But at the same time they tell women to get married soon, to be virgins and all that. So I asked myself, why, if women are bad, do they encourage them to get married? Do they not care that these women ruin their husbands with their "feminine nature? If they are "anti-gynocentric", why then don't they wish all women were dead? (Without women there would be no gynocentrism). No one understood my moral dilemma. According to…
/r/ExRedPill12/12/20 09:17 PM
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Thank you
/r/ExRedPill11/12/20 06:21 PM
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Congratulations! I love babies. We must continue to fight for a more just world.
/r/ExRedPill11/12/20 04:47 PM
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Thank you for your response. Yes, it's degrading. But part of me wants to keep suffering, it's almost the only thing I know. I suffered all my life because of my narcissistic mother and that made me vulnerable. I will try to lean on my new friends and stay away from RedPill content, I also think I could tell my therapist about all this. But I'm afraid, maybe he'll agree with the RedPill, I don't know. Yes, I will read the Kit, I read a little bit last night. I was relieved when I did. Again, tha…
/r/ExRedPill11/12/20 03:49 PM
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Now that you mention it, I see the positive side. This will serve me well in the future. Just because a person shows me a study doesn't mean he's right. Nor because I've written three crappy books. Nor because he has a following. Now I can see things in a much more critical way. Thanks for the empathy, uwur
/r/ExRedPill11/12/20 12:48 AM
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I really liked the video. Also that it mentioned Susan Forward, I read her work about toxic parents and it helped me a lot to overcome my narcissistic mother. Too bad I didn't read her work on toxic relationships, I think it would have saved me from believing in the RedPill for so many months. I'm really angry with Rollo Tomassi, very very angry, I can't believe it. He is the kind of person I will never wish to be. I hate that with his books he ruined my relationship with a beautiful man. I hate…
/r/ExRedPill10/12/20 08:03 PM
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A graph of the degrees of morality in both sexes. (The red line is me, a woman) https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-n0I5Gl8g-IM/X3-2K2kIsZI/AAAAAAAABHA/q4gYyShcSfkBavTwwIi8eER-lqCUTbFLQCLcBGAsYHQ/s1346/sexosmoralidad.png
/r/ExRedPill10/12/20 06:44 AM
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I do not know. I guess it depends on the context. If the man proves to be fragile from the beginning, I don't like it. I was with a man like that, with problems, and I had them too. It all became extremely toxic. If the man breaks down in a justified way, I think it's logical that he feels bad. I personally don't like romance very much, I had a bad childhood and a bad example of my parents regarding love, so all that makes me feel very cynical. It is very difficult to give up on romantic feeling…
/r/ExRedPill10/12/20 02:28 AM
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Why?
/r/ExRedPill09/12/20 10:07 PM
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THIS
/r/ExRedPill09/12/20 09:42 PM
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Friend, you need to talk to many women, have many friends and have those friends introduce you to their friends. Talk to women of all kinds. Read books written by women, listen to music written by women, TV series produced by women, movies made by women. Talk to professional women, doctors, nurses, teachers, lawyers, engineers, miners, writers, veterinarians. Join mothers' forums, read their concerns and problems. Read about the female brain and body. Also about the male brain and body. Know the…
/r/ExRedPill09/12/20 06:49 PM
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I recommend David Burns books, Its a psycholyst. Helps me a lot with my anxiety. Recommend Tai Chi too for confidence. I think that the excercise works for men rather than a talk therapy, or combined with them. (sorry for my english) ;-;
/r/ExRedPill09/12/20 06:26 PM
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