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18

Oh honey, NO ONE is getting laid nearly as much as they claim in high school. One of my buddies ended up an actual 40yo virgin. Dude wasn’t gross or unattractive and certainly not low-value, just had other priorities (a fine human being, built his own company, owns many patents, handy, has actual outdoorsy hobbies, loves animals). When he found a lady to spend the rest of his life with, I bought him a giant stack of sex how-to books and a beginner’s gift box of sex toys. He and his lady were del…
/r/ExRedPill12/04/26 02:55 AM
9

Thing is, if you raise them and love them, they’re “your” kids regardless of genetics.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 04:33 PM
2

In violent agreement with you :)
/r/ExRedPill03/03/23 03:30 PM
20

I’d argue that at any age people should leave abusive douchebags. But your point is valid, a day spent with a douchebag is a day wasted.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/23 05:02 AM
4

One of the many issues with nuance in the English language. :)
/r/ExRedPill16/01/23 04:34 PM
7

It’s certainly not a requirement, but ought to be an option.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/22 02:55 AM
3

Dude, she is at work and is REQUIRED to be nice to her coworkers. It’s not a shit test or anything stupid like that, get out of your head. There is no teasing or flirting going on. Go home, have a wank, and get some post-nut clarity on the situation.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/22 03:35 PM
4

Seriously, why are you even thinking of inviting people who are assholes to celebrate a life event with you? They’ve isolated themselves with their behavior. It is not your job to rehabilitate them.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/22 11:44 PM
4

If you like Japanese otter videos, you’ve gotta get into capybara videos.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/22 09:53 PM
0

Looks and money don’t matter. The capacity and willpower to take care of yourself as a human goddamned adult, however, does.
/r/ExRedPill04/07/22 05:11 PM
3

This is totally normal, and part of normal fantasizing. Reacting to sexual material doesn’t really mean much of anything when it comes to your sexuality. While his research has been superseded by modern work, I highly recommend reading up on Alfred Kinsey and how he started exploring the relationship between hetero- and homosexuality. It’s an interesting historical basis for learning more.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 03:40 PM
13

The average penis size is something like 5”. Watch less porn. My friend, most women cannot orgasm from penetration regardless of the size of what you stick up there. Worry about giving great head or being able to apply a multitude of fun toys and manual approaches. There is not a woman on this planet that you want to be with who will complain that you gave her two or three orgasms to your one. Focus on giving great orgasms and being a decent human being.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 05:53 PM
30

It is not your responsibility to clean up his toxicity.
/r/ExRedPill23/05/22 04:20 PM
2

In a big city with proper mass transit, it’s a liability. Unless you can afford a garage spot (mine is $150/mo and that’s a STEAL, I’ve seen $350-500/mo in some neighborhoods), you’re constantly going to have to go and move the car around and have to go retrieve it when it inevitably gets towed.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 01:26 AM
6

As with all things, It Depends. Is he fully capable of living on his own as a fully independent, grown human being but is living at home to take care of his parents or save up a down payment or has a travel-heavy job or the like? Then it’s fine. Multi-generational housing is okay. If it’s because he’s a 30+yo man who still needs his mommy to do his laundry or make him nomnoms, he can fuck off with that.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/22 03:58 AM
2

For example she advised black woman to never wear their natural hair, curly hairstyles or braids on a first date. What the actual frick
/r/ExRedPill13/03/22 03:15 PM
9

Eeeeeeeexcept that when you include the age of the father, it turns out that the age of EITHER parent affects likelihood of premature births, genetic defects, or other health complications. Autism in particular is linked to the FATHER’S age rather than the mother’s. Your sperm get old and stanky, guys. Just a bunch of old gym socks swirling around in the bottom of your balls. Shoulda froze it when you were 20 if the “absolute peak of neonatal health” was your goal.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/22 07:12 AM
2

Men can get cellulite, certainly; it’s just fat pushing through connective tissue in a certain way. Women and men have different fat distributions and percentages, and women tend to show more skin than men (booo toxic masculinity, ranger panties are fine guys!), so you tend to see/hear about it more on women is all.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/22 03:53 PM
3

You’re doing god’s work there, friend.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/22 05:00 AM
23

Right? Double Income, No Kids is pretty fantastic.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/22 06:08 AM
4

Yep. Keep you poor, desperate, tired, and distracted, and you won’t notice who’s stealing from you.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/22 03:32 PM
4

My grandmothers and great grandmothers, happily married young and to the same man for their entire lives, had always worked. It’s not women in the workforce making you po’, guys. It’s the rich at the top hovering up the surplus from any gains in productivity over the last 40 years.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/22 03:16 PM
2

Absofuckinglutely.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/21 06:47 PM
10

Dudes in their 30s/40s who are trying to fuck women in their 20s are creepy. Unfortunately, many of the 30s/40s men who approach 20s women outside of a professional context are… trying to fuck them.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/21 11:54 PM
3

That’s not an orbiter, that’s a creeplord. They are in no way competition to you. That makes me think there’s value in differentiating intent. Do women keep a chain of guys on-call in case her man fails whatever the fuck a “shit test” is supposed to be? Largely no. Do women have a bunch of penis pests flitting around like gnats trying to get into their pants at any moment? Often yes.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/21 09:08 PM
5

I don’t mind when men reach out to me in a vulnerable moment. I mind very much when I’m being used as an emotional tampon. Your women friends aren’t your psychiatrists.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/21 10:06 PM
2

To be meta for a moment, I’m curious whether these redpill people think that all of the women in the world have meetings about what “tests” to perform on their partners or conspire to “trap” them or whatever.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/21 10:04 PM
1

The right way to say no is “that cut doesn’t flatter your figure the way [X other dress] does”.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/21 10:02 PM
6

I watch this sub because I’m fascinated by the misogynist-to-fascist pipeline exposed by the whole Gamergate affair.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/21 03:16 AM
2

If you’re defining your masculinity based on your profession, is your dick going to fall off when you retire?
/r/ExRedPill30/08/21 05:05 PM
2

Get into an indirect process path and go get some exposure to other human beings.
/r/ExRedPill30/08/21 01:55 AM
4

What exactly is a “dude job”?
/r/ExRedPill29/08/21 10:16 PM
3

You’re just going to feel so good after that jaw surgery heals up. It’s amazing how much that constant pain/pressure affects our outlooks.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/21 12:13 AM
14

I feel like I’m the only person who actually took good lessons from 48 Laws Of Power. They’re good tools when applied with empathy. Like all tools, unfortunately, they can be horribly misapplied to manipulate and abuse people. Maybe part of it is because I read the book in a professional context rather than in trying to get laid.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/21 04:06 PM
2

Plenty of people don’t even have their license right out of high school.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/21 03:00 AM
4

Well, at least people are learning the Greek alphabet from this entire ridiculousness. :)
/r/ExRedPill10/07/21 02:57 AM
2

No. https://aeon.co/essays/whatever-happened-to-the-noble-art-of-the-manly-weep
/r/ExRedPill10/07/21 01:55 AM
5

“Less men” should be “fewer men”, grammatically.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 02:59 PM
6

Fewer.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 02:47 PM
2

Just like men, women don’t want to have to deal with a human sponge. You don’t have to own a house or a giant condo or anything. It’s more like “can you make rent on your own (living with roommates counts as “on your own”, btw, because it’s independent of your direct familial support network) and is your place not actively a health hazard”, and they’re just using a salary number as a crude heuristic. My now-husband and I were poor as SHIT when we got together. But we could each live on our own, …
/r/ExRedPill03/06/21 11:17 PM
4

Seriously on that #2. Imagine saying “baby, I want you to make less money and slum it in a lower-status job because it makes my peepee feel small.”
/r/ExRedPill14/05/21 12:03 AM
6

Weird hobbies will absolutely turn away some people; that’s good because that means that you two aren’t a good fit. Being open and honest about your weird hobbies will make it more likely that you find the one who clicks with you. Even if that person isn’t into the hobby itself, they might find it one of your endearing traits and appreciate it.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/21 02:25 AM
11

Because I am not a joyless shitlord, and you aren’t paying my consulting rate.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/21 08:43 PM
8

Nah, watching baseball. Here, try these: https://www.khanacademy.org/math/k-8-grades
/r/ExRedPill11/04/21 08:30 PM
9

As a statistician, I assure that that is not how “numbers” work.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/21 06:43 PM
12

Yes, the priorities do change over time and start to favor men who fold their own laundry or actually throw a mop around the kitchen once in a while.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/21 10:52 PM
1

I recommend Bill and Ted as a compass, “be excellent to each other”. It’s really all you need.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/21 08:39 PM
3

Oh wow, this whole press is garbage. Looks like they buy up dying journals for the brand name, redirect them, and then have a pay-for-publish model. This means that non-scientific articles can be pushed through these journals and given an “academic” look and feel. This is how pseudoscience garbage like “evolutionary psychology” has been trying to buy its way into credibility.
/r/ExRedPill13/03/21 05:33 PM
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Great callout at the top. My guy likes chocolates, yoga pants, getting flowers, bubble baths, snuggling, kitty cats, getting pedicures, and crying at smoopy movies. That’s what he enjoys and that’s great! He has cried in front of me, and with me. He’s expressed plenty of vulnerability in terms of how things, people, and situations make him feel. When he has been unemployed in the past he shared his angst and frustration at feeling always passed up, and before professional exams he shared his anx…
/r/ExRedPill08/03/21 11:43 PM
3

Because waaaa Google scholar isn’t supporting his weirdo assumptions.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/21 12:06 AM
3

Do you want a robot uprising? Because that’s how you get a robot uprising.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 12:19 AM
1

Upvote for “pink bazooka”.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/21 05:06 PM
5

Men have cried since forever and it’s fine. My supposition, not listed in the below article, is that “manly men don’t cry” is more repressive shit meant to control men by enforcing an unreasonable norm. https://aeon.co/essays/whatever-happened-to-the-noble-art-of-the-manly-weep
/r/ExRedPill22/12/20 11:28 PM
11

That’s called “customer service face”.
/r/ExRedPill19/12/20 05:02 AM
3

We worked around it. You’ll have to be ready for a broader set of intimacy— good old bangin’ may be too painful or jostling for you for a while more, but there’s plenty more ways to make each other happy without penetration. For the alienation, finding ways to participate or “tag along” that work for you at your speed and your ability to engage can be important. Sometimes he wasn’t up for tagging along to an event, but that’s a lot easier to conquer with FaceTime/Zoom these days. Other than that…
/r/ExRedPill23/10/20 09:16 PM
5

This is the answer. Source: Was casually dating a guy who wrecked his shoulder and was in a sling for months and also couldn’t “do anything fun”, and he went through a lot of “I’m useless now and feel alienated from everyone and you’re having fun with other people and now I’m worried about us”. 20yrs later he’s still here.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/20 01:24 AM
1

Please don’t think I’m trying to “talk down to you” or something like that because of your age or anything, that is not my intent. My intent is to simply provide some old farty hindsight. So our teens, especially late teens, are rough because they’re a transitional time. It’s really hard to form lasting personal relationships and maintain them because everyone is either about to or already scattering in a million different directions (jobs, college, military, etc). That’s not a you problem, that…
/r/ExRedPill14/10/20 10:20 PM
1

Dude self-wallowed in dismissing himself on at least ten different points before getting to one that someone you might want to spend time with would actually care about. He’s got other shit that actually needs solving. Turns out you tend to hate yourself when you’re non-neurotypical, live in a frustrating world with little space for the way you think, and don’t have an adequate toolset of cognitive approaches and medicine.
/r/ExRedPill14/10/20 10:09 PM
1

Just looked at your history. Oh man, you’re just starting out in life. Scratch the stuff I said before except for talking to your shrink. Ok, you’re still trying to figure out who you are and this pandemic isn’t helping. You’re feeling isolated, but that’s in good part due to the pandemic, not because of your personal attractiveness to other humans. Most people worth developing some kind of relationship with aren’t going out right now because, y’know, plague and stuff. So now is the time in your…
/r/ExRedPill10/10/20 11:49 PM
1

Then you need to work with your therapist on some cognitive behavior tools. I’m not interested in people who “don’t like books” because they tend to be incapable of holding large, complex ideas in their minds and exploring them extensively. It’s not even the subject matter, either. Hell, just look at the divide between the sci-fi film dweebs and the novel dweebs. Video can be a lot of fun, but it rarely gets into the real exploration of sci-fi concepts.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/20 11:21 PM
1

“And books aren’t really my thing.” Well there you go, big turnoff right there. Go get properly diagnosed and medicated. It’ll change your life.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/20 11:09 PM
4

Outside of the rape? Nah.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/20 08:00 AM
37

Jesus. Your sexual history has no impact on your value as a human. Don’t buy a house with anyone you’re not married to. No, “going to marry him Real Soon Now” is not enough. It might be worth getting a few sessions with a therapist to talk through how you see yourself; they might be able to give you a few more cognitive tools in your armory to help reflect on your upbringing and how that affects your perception of yourself.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/20 03:49 AM
5

There’s a considerable troll population in this sub, don’t mind the morons.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/20 03:22 AM
1

A scumbag saying provocative things in hopes of a payday isn’t “the other side”. Try a truly conservative site, like FreeRepublic.com. They are user-supported, not ad-supported, and have been around for decades.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/20 08:39 PM
1

Yes, the ex-cop desperately trying to get his grift off the ground is surely a trustworthy source. Out of here with that ish.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/20 04:57 AM
1

This is not the take you want it to be.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/20 04:55 AM
4

That last line, just... wow. The most optimistic read of that is problematic.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/20 04:45 AM
2

Women keep control of their drinks so they don’t get roofied, are you incapable of maintaining custody of a rubber?
/r/ExRedPill22/06/20 09:50 PM
4

I didn’t read it like that. I read it as her saying “wow, that ended up telling me more about him than the date would have” after the fact, rather than her setting it up as a deliberate test.
/r/ExRedPill04/02/20 02:32 AM
3

Sometimes it happens like that, though, especially if you’re on the east coast and the decision was made on the west coast.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/20 09:59 PM
2

Ok gamma
/r/ExRedPill27/01/20 11:51 PM
8

In this thread: women valuing emotional intimacy and relating to how to express vulnerability Also in this thread: your dumb ass pretending to explain what those women REALLY want
/r/ExRedPill26/01/20 03:55 PM
1

One man marrying multiple women over his lifetime because his previous wives died in childbirth.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/20 12:16 AM
3

20 years into my relationship here. Familiarity, trust, intimacy, and shared experiences together. We got together when we were poor as shit, and over the years became rather successful in no small part because of how we supported each other through it. Cooperation, not competition; when one makes more than the other, that’s a win for both of us! We are each better than the other at different things, and that makes us stronger.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/20 10:57 PM
2

I don’t know how poetry became “feminine”. Used to be if you couldn’t drop a verse you weren’t a properly educated man. Whoever narrowed poetry to meaning love sonnets ought to be shot. Emily Wilson’s translation of the Odyssey is an asskicking good time which is mostly dudes boasting of their triumphs to each other. Men are starving themselves of their own culture and I don’t get it.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/20 07:53 PM
5

I feel like the part about writing for yourself ought to be highlighted a bit more. Writing down what’s going on in your head and heart, without trying to perform for an audience, let’s you get things down, and then come back later and reflect on what you wrote and how it affected you. I write absolute mounds of trash I wouldn’t show anyone while I’m trying to work out a problem, even professionally. It helps me really see what I’m trying to get at. Sometimes in Evernote (for myself, undecorated…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/20 04:23 AM
2

I could be totally wrong, but it might be that the way redpill/púa/whatever encourages one to frame the questions encourages one to stop at an easy assumptive answer, and terminate the inquiry. I’m in a heavy STEM discipline, but the way I learned to ask better questions was through the liberal arts. Studying history (real history, not fact-and-date regurgitation you get in high school), philosophy (the classics first; Greeks, Romans, and Chinese have fine texts with good, free translations on K…
/r/ExRedPill15/01/20 10:42 PM
6

You’re not stupid if you asked a question and then learned. :) No one was born knowing all things about all history for all time.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/20 10:28 PM
9

It says very little about sexual preferences and a whole lot about pregnancy mortality.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/20 05:37 PM
3

Moreover it’s a useful tool in the workplace. Any time I come across a self-described “alpha male” it’s good to know that there’s an insecure, territorial poop chunk who needs to be isolated from the rest of the team if we are going to accomplish anything in a nontoxic manner.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/20 04:50 AM
2

Have you tried the classics, like Epictetus or Marcus Aurelius? Get back to basics on how humans have thought about how to live.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/19 03:55 PM
1

Rosey Palm and her five sisters?
/r/ExRedPill24/09/19 12:11 AM
2

Worst ad ever.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/19 03:31 PM
7

Not a looks comment here. The acne/breakouts has got to be uncomfortable as shit. Get thee to r/SkincareAddiction and read a bit. I have rosacea that literally feels like my skin is on fire when it touches off, and reading though that sub helped me figure out a simple routine that really helps. The rest... you’re spending a lot of time comparing yourself to an unreachable ideal. You’re putting yourself into some terrible thought spirals and putting yourself down when you do so. You should find w…
/r/ExRedPill25/08/19 01:11 AM
2

Sounds dorky, but keeping a journal about these thoughts, then going back to examine and reflect how you felt that day and why might help. Doesn’t have to have fancy pens or anything if you don’t want. It could be a word document or something. Or a cheap composition notebook if you feel like drawing it out that day. If you keep it on paper, divide each page in half: one half for your feelings and thoughts in the moment, and save the other half for later when you want to go back and analyze them.…
/r/ExRedPill30/07/19 11:39 PM
16

It’s the reason they don’t want a second date. You look fine, and your profile and text chatter seemed normal enough. But when they met you in person you said something or did something repellent.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/19 09:31 PM
11

Personality, manners, personal hygiene, hobbies, political views...
/r/ExRedPill12/05/19 09:23 PM
2

Ehh. I think the reasons why matter. Women aren’t looking for a guy they have to finish raising, so if you’re living at home because you’re being spoiled that’s a no-go. However, if you demonstrate that you’re capable of being independent (job, Pro-actively care for the house/your parents/your car/etc) it’s very different. My dad and his brothers all lived at home until they got married, but each had a job/trade and took care of the family before they started their own. Concentrate on getting jo…
/r/ExRedPill09/05/19 11:06 PM
0

That was not the argument at all in any way.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/19 04:05 PM
12

Do not stick your penis in someone who does not wish to respect your reproductive strategy.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/19 01:19 AM
6

No, what I’m trying to say is that the signals that dudes mistake for “being led on” are what women simply consider the normal levels of emotional intimacy of friendship and trust. Like, “dude, check out what my new jeans do for my ass” is actually friendship behavior because she’s just pumped about a great pair of jeans.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/19 02:33 PM
8

Beta orbiters is not a thing. Women open up and talk about feels and worries and jokes and dreams not because they want to emotionally string you along, but because that’s how we interact with friends. Women are comfortable with a wholly platonic emotional intimacy with our friends because we aren’t punished for it by the predominant social structure.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/19 06:18 AM
7

It’s a learning experience. It’s all good, you’re being reflective and thinking about how you want to approach your next one when the opportunity arises. That’s healthy stuff. :)
/r/ExRedPill27/03/19 04:27 PM
4

Paul is a cunt.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/19 06:33 AM
2

It’s the informed, affirmative, withdrawable consent that makes it work.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/19 03:40 AM
3

Can you afford a counselor? Might be worth a few sessions to have them help you build some better relationship tools.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/19 06:53 AM
16

The “Rock” approach is effective here. Any time you’re working with a woman, pretend you’re interacting with Dwayne Johnson. NO: “Damn Dwayne, that shirt is sexy” YES: “That’s a cool shirt, Dwayne”
/r/ExRedPill04/01/19 03:40 PM
7

Out of curiosity, was there a particular moment where you realized it, or was it a gradual process?
/r/ExRedPill29/12/18 03:14 PM
4

We put some holly boughs on the cock carousel this time of year so that it’s more festive.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/18 02:48 AM
3

It’s okay to ask sincere questions like this for clarification. In the professional world I consider it a strength, even. :)
/r/ExRedPill23/12/18 09:39 PM
5

Thank you for bringing the data! :)
/r/ExRedPill23/12/18 09:37 PM
4

Hey, what’s going on with you? You sound like you’re in a shitty place right now. When’s the last time you had a good night’s sleep? A reasonably nutritious meal? Had a nice long shower with some nice-smelling soap? Walked around outside in the sunshine? Read a book or worked at a craft hobby? You’re in a spiral right now and gotta pop yourself out of it. When we feel shitty about life we tend to do things that might seem stimulating in the short term but make us feel even shittier in the long t…
/r/ExRedPill22/12/18 05:06 PM
2

Hey duder, It’s okay. Spend some time getting to know yourself and working towards becoming someone you like and trust. People sometimes forget that “self-care” isn’t all just bath bombs and warm blankets with a Netflix binge. Self-care is about maintenance and building ourselves, too, whether that’s “hurrr hit the gym and get buff” or working with a counselor to build some tools to deal with a hangup or presupposition you’ve got. Make you your best you, first and foremost!
/r/ExRedPill15/12/18 12:19 AM
11

Glorified blog post with cherrypicked pictures. Don’t let it rule your life.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/18 09:26 PM
13

Clearly masculinity hinges on being desperately sensitive to what some random internet schmuck thinks of you.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/18 04:26 PM
3

WRX. Mostly stock except for a bitchin’ light rack on the front and a fresh alternator.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/18 10:32 PM
51

My husband loves chocolate, candles, and long baths reading a good book. I buy him Tori Amos vinyl. He bicycles to work. He plays D&D. He loves his cat and is down with feminism. He’s also a licensed professional engineer, an aikido black belt, and a big dork for his race car. Do you really want to narrow your definition of yourself to what other people think masculinity is? Who gives a shit about what Joe thinks if you are happy and pursuing what YOU want out of life?
/r/ExRedPill02/09/18 03:12 PM
2

I swear to god I thought this was about working out with moobs. Have you considered boxing?
/r/ExRedPill27/08/18 04:12 AM
1

My husband grosses $40k less than me; the gap widens if you include bonuses. The money ain’t why I married him. Don’t fret over it. Be a good human to yourself and others.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/18 12:01 AM
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