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I don't disagree with your points. power dynamics tend to be back and forth of one person being in the better position. I think this is just a snapshot of when the man is in power. Sex is more dangerous for women, men need to just accept that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 09:37 PM
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The general dynamic is men persuing women and women making a choice with a high degree of information. High School, college, a few years after, they have the social circle that is unexplored and you keep meeting about 300 different people every year. The passive tactic of "just saying yes when you feel like it" stops working when you stop meeting a stream of new people. Post 30 you are fairly socially isolated. You have to change jobs, pick up a new hobby, or be extremely social. You no longer h…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:04 PM
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Categorizing women into neat specific behavioral boxes. Patterns arise out of the chaos. The pattern does not define a specific point you as a person may be in. Women are people, thus, they vary. Not getting in the moment and changing details about the interaction when you get feedback. Cultural differences matter, they are a major blind spot in relation to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 01:18 PM
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No need to reinforce, my core message is for greater exredpill, and the OP. Not all relationships are romantic but they are relationships. The authors of those books more or less repeat the same stuff over and over in a number of different ways. Thinking about your motives, the motives of people you interact with, how to obtain goals, and if you have the tools to get those goals. 48 Laws of Power takes a ... for lack of a better word... microscopic, view of human interaction. Its not advice but …
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 09:11 AM
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- The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate - Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus - Death by Meeting: A Leadership Fable...about Solving the Most Painful Problem in Business - The Happiness Hypothesis: Finding Modern Truth in Ancient Wisdom
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 07:08 AM
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There are other equally effective ways of dealing with people that doesnt telegraph psychopathy.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 12:53 AM
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The behaviors can be read as psychopathy.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/21 07:07 PM
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Pick up some books on communication and internal happiness. I don't think the surface, unemotional observational information of RP is bad. Its the type of people that need that information in their lives tend to find it when they are upset, angry, or lack additional skills needed to properly integrate it. Women are completely rational normal human beings, on the whole, the major difference being their genitals. They need to take some extra precautions when pairing up. The psychopathic and/or bro…
/r/ExRedPill23/03/21 04:00 PM
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Exposure, make friends with men that are married and happy. Note how they interact with you and others.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/21 04:33 PM
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Odds are in your favor dude.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/21 02:36 PM
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It's a cope to avoid self-improvement and responsibility for one's own fate and situation. Poor, get a better job, fat or skinny, get in shape, poor social interactions or sex, google and experiment till you figure it out. Even poor mental health, go to therapy. Ugly face, get your teeth fixed, a skin peel, and improve your jaw muscles by eating better. Hair plugs, hair dye, make-up, get or have tattoos removed. Not the ideal race for your area, move. I think the only thing you cant fix is being…
/r/ExRedPill22/02/21 11:06 PM
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Economic injustice has had cycles, usually, the king died, the new king forgave all debts, or reissued the money so debts lessened. Basically giving everyone a clean start. The greeks and Romans had an uprising every few hundred years when things started sucking. We are now getting to ours in the financial aspect, but you are talking about social dynamics. My view is the person in power dividing is religion. The culture war divide is along the same lines as religion. Churches are businesses. The…
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 12:20 AM
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I'm pretty sure its a cope for the more psychopathic pillers. There are three main mating styles for males of any species, spreading, protecting, and sneaking in. The idea that women are helping men along in spreading or sneaking in protects the ego of someone upset that there is even a possibility they could be cheated on. It could be a bit of a projection onto women. Im not sure. There are women that want only the best in a certain sense, and will bounce, or will cuck a guy, but I don't think …
/r/ExRedPill19/01/21 03:47 PM
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Cycle these people out your life.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/21 03:13 PM
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Pretty much perfect
/r/ExRedPill17/01/21 08:05 PM
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Makes me pity them, its mostly just conservative bunk. Women "appeared" to be more submissive in past generations due to the culture of the time. So the next generation grew up being taught "that's how things worked". But urbanization and more civil rights have broken that model. As a society we need to figure out what to teach our boys.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/21 09:40 PM
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Alt Right Playbook This is a wonderful series and honestly needs to be part of the sidebars in many of the communities so they stay focused on solving problems and stop being crypts for hatred.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/21 09:01 PM
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Make plans to do things you would enjoy even alone. Then do them. Like eating out, going to the park, seeing movies, etc. Make your life fun.
/r/ExRedPill06/01/21 06:20 AM
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Greet them, ask how they are, and listen. Most female relationships (I as a male) have is just me providing a safe emotional space for them to vent and cyclically checking in on them. Do occasional favors as you feel like it. I then date myself and invite them along as I can afford it. It has worked out pretty well to maintain those friendships.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/21 12:35 PM
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I honestly think RP filters for them. Most women would see these behaviors as red flags.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/21 11:00 AM
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yay purge!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 03:26 PM
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> For this post, I am referring to "simp" by its proper definition: a guy who thirsts over girls heavily and thinks the way to their hearts is to shower them with kindness and attention and submit all agency to them. Bad definition, the qualifier of "...and its not reciprocated". People in "mutually beneficial arrangements", are simps by that definition which isn't correct. There are hordes of women where gifts, dates, outings, and kind words are valid romantic gestures; in fact, those three thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 02:51 AM
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Possible but they would have shown up sooner. These children dont die of random immune deficiencies, they die at the hands of their social group. I think its that they can more easily connect, and self label.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 11:03 PM
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I think that is one factor but not the whole thing. You have to factor in changes in different hormone profiles, financial needs, population density and culture shifts. I agree over all though. The last few months I've seen this influx and get getting into their mental space its sorta obvious. I feel bad for them because its all in their heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 11:01 PM
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A failed relationship or problems getting sex. Men are problem driven. If they dont have a problem presented to them they relax and do nothing. When they have a problem they search for solutions. RP offers workable solutions. I think the toxicity you are alluding to is caused by so many broken and hurt men gathering to one place that the ones that dont find a solution stay there. I think more men find solutions in the sidebar and move on than ones contributing to that ball of hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 01:44 PM
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This makes it clear that other parties are not being intellectual honest, nor are they mentally healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 09:40 PM
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Women can be just as emotionally abusive to their offspring, and we are all familiar with the Karens of the world. There are just as many Kens too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 02:23 PM
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I think it might make up a large part of the population of them. Those that "stay" with it. I think the rest didnt learn the social cue due to life situations and it helped and then they move on to purple if they like the community. I think the first wave of RP was legitimately men facing socioeconomic changes where dating needed to be adjusted. PUA was enough then add in some theory. I feel like they are on marriedRP, the rest might be autistic and I question if I am myself because I find it ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 08:03 AM
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Im sorry, which part? Could you clarify Im happy to elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 01:33 AM
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I'd argue looks to an extent as it only takes exercise,... which is free.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 04:42 PM
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No. Providing a sense of support and security is. This could be via a combination of personality, fiances, muscle mass, skills, social status, or a host of other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 04:40 PM
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I largely skipped over the anger/anxiety/hopelessness phase you are describing due to a number of things. One of them being recognizing that women are people to with the same goals and that sex and reproduction is more risky for them. Making women feel SAFE, and not pressured has been my take away and strategy from all the "pills". You hate anxiety, so do they. Also I dont think any of the pills define women as "objects", all of them use specific language against that, be it "children", "queens"…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 05:20 AM
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Rape is far worst, but both situations are about lack of consent by one party. A woman can say she doesnt want a relationship with a man, and leave the relationship, if that man forces himself on her, its wrong. A man can say he doesnt want a relationship with a woman, and leave the relationship, if that woman forces herself on him, its.... STILL WRONG. A relationship is a mutual commitment, when that commitment is over because one or both of the parties fucked up its over. That risk that it cou…
/r/ExRedPill17/09/20 08:03 PM
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True, but there is enabling and respecting one gender, vs giving that gender rights to redefine what it means to be the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 02:19 PM
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- (Female Strangers) occasionally - (Male Strangers) often. Usually on second meeting or introductions. Gay men hit on me. - ( Female friends ) rarely, only to backhandedly insult another female - ( Male friends ) occasionally, usually in frustration to get a point across - ( Women you're sleeping with/dating ) occasionally, usually in frustration to get a point across ​ Its usually that I look like some celebrity, or sports player if not pointing out that I should value myself more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 02:01 PM
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No its not, no amount of sex or money is gonna make me ok with enduring emotional abuse of any form.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 07:16 PM
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Feminism started out just, and moral, did what it needed to do and then devolved into a revenge plot after equality was achieved. This is actually normal for when a suppressed group gains fair political and or economic representation. I think the revenge plot that is manifesting in the last wave of the moment as it dies down need to be addressed so it doesnt cause a political backlash or worst a cycle of abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 07:06 PM
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I said "feels like", she does not have to work. This gives her lotus of control over her time and reduces her stress level.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 11:44 PM
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Yes, but its very expensive and takes a spine. - Learn financial sense - Always have a certain number of months pay saved - Make enough so she feels fine not working - Make enough so you can afford your previous life style + 85% of her expenses - Look at her like she said something extremely funny when she says anything about how you spend your money. That covers most the tingles and problems. The jist is be a responsible adult and dont ask her for help. Its not her responsibility, when she feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 08:37 PM
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Being in an authoritarian state that is using all of its resources to either fight off, or being aggressive towards other states drains the well being of its people. But that capitalism doesnt have a "cap" or control usually when it going for a goal will build itself to the state of attacking other states. It will seek profits by any means. Its a great engine as long as it stays in its cage. My point is it has edited gender roles over time in an effort to gain more consumers and cheap workers. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 08:32 PM
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There are a lot of married ugly guys though, there are ugly guys that get laid too. So this doesnt pass the sniff test. I will give you that it is a large percentage of the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 06:05 PM
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Excellent observation! I ran across this video this morning incidentally. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ejoAG5n19iE Corporations are groups of people ran by a few, they are able to do more "work" as a group and work to achieve as close to being legal, a monopoly. They eat away the market of the single person. People are going to gravitate to work where they are psychologically comfortable, and any weakness corporations will exploit for profit gains. Its easy for people to get stuck in a cycle …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 05:56 PM
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I think it depends on the region too. Hahahaha those genocidal maniacs!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 05:23 PM
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Mostly because its been a slow paced change over several generations. The odds people you interactive with are just a touch different vs vastly different has changed. People are not going to complain when they feel prepped. I agree that Gen Z will be better but not due to some "moral degradation". Do you want Nazis because thats how you get Nazis.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 05:47 AM
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It pains me too. https://www.strike.coop/bullshit-jobs/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 05:43 AM
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People are raised on a standard. They become adults, things have changed they have no mechanism for understanding or adapting. Their are two options, gain new information and adapt, or cry bloody murder and do something to revert the situation to what they know. On one end we have the nuclear family and patriarchy (not being ironic), on the other community and matriarchy. In both men can have all the sex they want they simply have to understand what is requested of them and then build a life ach…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 04:28 AM
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Going to have to go with a hard NO on that logic. It is important as a MALE to understand relationship functions with and without sex. If you cant resolve the will to do something without the reward of sex then you need not do that thing. Handing over your dopamaine centers to another person for a while can be a fun exercise in self control. So this is the complete opposite of what you want to be doing you want to be dopamine slave to none. It is maybe a good idea to understand the kinks of othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 02:45 AM
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RP : Going for Dark Triad BP : "There are no gender differences" Blackpill : giving up on life MGTOW : giving up on having offspring I... really get it. Its hard its difficult, women can suck, the laws suck but 3 of those 4 are giving up on the meaning of life, and the first what meanfully makes us human.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 12:24 PM
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Younger women have their looks, as you get older other things become important. Having a refined decent personality, not being self destructive, basic decision making skills, planning skills, simple establishment as to not be a total leech. Younger women are emotionally draining and risky to date due to lacking theses things on the average. Due to the whole "patriarchy" and "hypergamy" yatta yatta, women get these in their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 06:48 PM
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Introversion doesnt preclude someone from being selfish to the point of narcissism so this arguement/advice doesnt have ground to work up from. It also makes the false assumption introversion is some type of burn out and not really a man wanting his peace and everyone else can go and fuck off. A person can selfishly want to not be bothered with people as a form of enjoyment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 06:44 PM
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Other more pressing matters at the moment like stopping police officers from busting into our homes and killing us. Basic medical care, let alone extra paper work. Digitizing all these records so they can even be manipulated in such a matter. ... you know, running society.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 02:43 PM
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Because testosterone,...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 02:11 PM
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You arent privy to peoples thoughts so I think the RP view that women cant love the same is out of context. They just love differently, most people love differently because its a nurture thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 05:54 AM
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Self study, mentoring, and bodybuilding
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 06:36 AM
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I would love to hear your take on Blackpill and MGTOW in regards to the following; while I see MGTOW as fullfilling oneself personally, is it not just removing oneself from the genepool? Genetic suicide? Much respect for your studies and work. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 09:00 PM
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I dont think the claim is bizarre considering it is based on statistics from dating apps. But at the same time I think you are correct in women want to see some effort. The problem is that culturally men are discouraged from doing this beside, scent, and a haircut and bodybuilding the last of which quickly goes beyond what women find "ideal". Nothing can be said for fashion in lower classes, makeup, and other aspects of grooming.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 01:40 PM
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Parroting RP talking points,... Its not that the concept is surprising its the ratio of what "looks good" percentage to women is far off from what men consider "looks good". Where men would date the upper 40% of attractive women with no question, women would only react the same to the upper 15%.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 03:50 PM
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No. Especially not in this generation. They still need to complete the same task men do to not die of exposure and starvation in this society. They might have it better or worst in some specific ways but I dont see it as "easy mode". They still need to get through school, find jobs, make a career of sorts, and manage a love life. Maybe even more social problems. I think there is a very real difference in maturity that hits women SOONER than men due to physiology, and they exit LATER than men due…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 09:13 PM
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I've noticed that this has more to do with a persons "love language", and romance is simply expressing it and it being received well and proper. People often dont match up on this. Guys usually have to experiment in the courting phase but it levels out as both start to care about the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 03:12 PM
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You misunderstand, it not supporting a whole person, its the ABILITY to support a whole person. Also its not a crumb of sex its all of the sex because you can bang who ever. Its not one, its "its that time of the month, gonna crash at his place", and keep the rotation. She leave, next one pop up. Its a comfort test, you give nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 01:13 AM
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It isnt about morals, its risk management.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:16 PM
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I prescribe to this because it leaves the door open to rekindle the relationship. Much of the online community is focused on getting out of bed and dressed figuratively, and a large part just giving up on going out the door. Its more an advanced technique.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:11 PM
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Personally no. Im pretty good at asking "why". When I feel like I get a non-bs answer I work on myself, stay friends with her, and swing back later. Usually its sex but no relationship beyond in between relationship hookups and emotional comforts. This is ok, but feels hollow. A guy has got to accept that sometimes he looks like a risk or he will not get what he wants ultimately.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 03:54 PM
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"someone that can take care of themselves, me, and our child" is not a long list. I broke it down to be more obvious. Its also not a bad deal because it is effectively no deal. Men should be trained to just exist like this, in the same way they know to speak and wipe their ass. The point is they dont get the training due to societal breakdown. Men get told "she will like you for you", but the you of that time was something akin to a self sufficient and emotionally stable man. Make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 03:51 PM
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You will be used for by what you offer freely that is just how humans work, whether that result is friendship or monogamy depends on what "cost" you put on it. Men that have their shit together figuratively speaking will be able to cook, clean, make an income to support themselves +2, and manage themselves socially. Sex becomes the "cost" of the friendship, like; guys buying each other drinks, going to that party you dont want to, listening to your buddy breakdown after you told him not to deal …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 05:41 AM
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No its fine, limited resources on the planet anyway. We dont want a rat utopia.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 06:04 PM
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It has to do with genetic survival. Until very recently via technology men did not know if the child woman bore was his unless his literally kept his eyes on her day in and day out. To keep that guard up cultural (patriarchy), behavioral(mate guarding), psychological(obsession), and possibly genetic(identifying young) systems have developed that make men very controlling, insecure and obsessive about a womans reproduction. For men that have 'kicked' that insecurity its because they deal with wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 08:18 AM
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Acknowledgement that I am a human, you know that I have the capacity to raise and love a child. That my body tires out like everyone else. That I become afraid, sad, depressed, lonely. That Im just like everyone else in my needs and weaknesses. At the end of the day just some appreciation for going above and beyond and baring extra pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 03:51 PM
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As "that" type of guy I have to say I admire your type.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 01:30 PM
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Going by body count yes, LTR not so much. RP has made me much more picky. Its made it much more obvious when I am being manipulated and has allowed me to calibrate the romance a bit better. Fucking around all the time is not a end life goal so I've just taken a romantic break and continued self improvement without the additional emotional responsibility. I know its the truth because women complain about certain types of men, and then still fuck me/put up with my ways so... Its an eerie feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 07:17 PM
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Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 08:04 PM
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Its the same, weights are slightly different. Looks, status, income, personality are all important but looks more than income and status. Personality arguably is equal in both genders for importance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 05:50 PM
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Legalizing sex work properly, (no pimps, health checks required, registration, privacy protection, etc...) and fixing child care laws around divorce so men are treated fairly would solve most of it honestly. After that found a league of pro-women business schools to pump a few hundred ultra rich female CEO's into world to even out the pay gap and the statistical and behavioral problems are fixed. (Basically become any European country)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 05:49 PM
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Thats, part of it, but women have different motivational mechanism and understanding and accepting them is also a large part of it. And its wonderful-> awful -> normal -> pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 08:04 PM
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Yeah after the escalation. I just find asian women to be super shy and cautious with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 03:25 AM
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Yes, but talking about cultural differences here. All icecream is cold, but its not all chocolate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 06:47 PM
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We need to trade notes. For jewish women just get them talking and drunk. From there polite kino like playing with their hands. See "amused mastery" for talking points.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 03:36 PM
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Easiest would be the the trp defined "constant shit testing alpha widow". Emotionally insecure and high expectations of how much you care about them. Specifically women that have dated emotionally unavailable, non-supportive, and/or poorly communicating men. Bisexual(lesbian?) women in difficult relationships not meeting their financial or sexual needs are also easy. Needy, messy, and impulsive. I am usually not the womans ideal type physically, but I am in all other aspects for the relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 03:31 PM
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If a woman is miscalculating her SMV, after a while it will auto correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 03:35 PM
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Initially amusement, if he has a degree of success the mate guarding kicks in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 02:32 PM
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Your assumption is false, men do select for height.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 08:12 PM
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Because they are already in these toxic dangerous situations when they finally "wake up". Women with these behaviors/thinking might be attracted to them and just hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 11:30 PM
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u/SmurfESmurferson and u/Aaren_Augustine I think you two basically nail it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 08:16 PM
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Correlation is not causation. Do deer prefer death by wolves or do wolves enjoy hunting deer? Unethical strategies are just effective due to allowing for a broader selection of actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 01:13 PM
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Male non-toxic perspective; the number doesnt matter her view of sex is what matters. Four views here, overly chase, controlling, positive, and slutty. Overly chase is the virgin, or marriage only types. These are personally a red flag for me. Controlling is a deep monogamy only, or sex negative; red flag. The others are fine, but slutty is an orange flag for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 08:08 PM
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I've come away from this sub more positive personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 05:26 AM
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I appreciate the offer but I consciously refuse to adopt a fatalistic or hopeless world view given the overwhelming evidence that perception makes ones reality, environment; ultimately shifting outcomes. The black pill ideology makes sense but ultimately is an active choice against effort, assertion, and maintaining ones locus of control. Even if ultimately fruitless in the genetic and romantic sense the energy generated by the urges and efforts can be transmuted into something that gives a high…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 04:02 AM
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If men are in denial, and both genders are flawed, what are female shortcomings, and is it possible men are in denial about those shortcomings? If so then I think your argument is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 03:47 AM
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LOL that is legit cute, have an upvote <3
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 03:44 AM
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Not you, shoo depressed child.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 03:40 AM
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Withholding dick that's it. First date is oral and hands only. But what is a date? If so maybe if it's super informal hanging out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 03:29 AM
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Man makes me wonder where software engineers are on that ladder.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 03:03 AM
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Um that's a centuries old one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 02:46 AM
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Only if he is very sexually vibed or overt about it. Nwwow nya ruu rawr nyan.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 01:42 AM
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That is a fail statement, yes. But that isn't what it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 01:41 AM
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Reproductive incentive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 05:09 PM
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Adventuring all around the friendzone it really feels like a "first impression" thing. People I've been openly sexual with when they are single still cuddle up. Friendzone ones not as much, its like starting at -10.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 03:18 PM
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Don't care to do so, and its dangerous not to. The romantic notion you are putting forth is extremely costly energy wise and emotionally. He could misread things and get his feelings deeply hurt. Better offend you, you offend him, than you deeply emotionally hurt him, and you question if you've just been sexually assaulted by "a friend". Friendzoned guys are men trying the tactic you stated. Obviously it doesnt work all that often.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 02:55 PM
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We agree on everything but the causes and divorce rape. > Of course I don’t share the mindset that all women are, in nature, focused on extracting goods from men or that all bisexual women are like that. I think the proper way of saying this is that "humans are in nature focused on extracting safety from the group". It is not a male female thing, but the roles of each and how they go about it are different. I often end up as the guy these sexually fluid women jump to and the pattern is usually t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 02:51 PM
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"plate for anal" -> "re-classify position" "spin plates" -> "prefer non-monogamous long term relationships" "all women are like that" -> "humans optimize their positions" "Drunk captain" -> "depleted position" "frame" -> "preferred position" "alpha" -> "sturdy" "beta" -> "passive" "amused mastery" -> "adult parenting" "shit test" -> "mutual position inquiry" "comfort test" -> "miscommunication"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 06:15 PM
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There is fault on all sides for what I can see. A common but understated occurrence in black communities is women running men off. Usually passed down mother to daughter a distrustful hysterical state, its portrayed in sitcoms and used as a comical stereotype but it is true. The woman is truly unable to accept security from a man due to upbringing, or the socioeconomic conditions of being in the inner city drive her sense of security down so far she sees him as an active liability. It is complet…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 11:41 PM
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Its the default preference, in my experience, but still JUST a preference. Individuals vary. Dont assume, take cues and talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 10:42 PM
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Left wing policies and morals are built on the well being of large, usually urban populations. These populations due to poverty and close proximity tend to have more broken families. The cultural knowledge and motivations of masculinity are degraded here so there are few people to show the other side. So all the people in the know also end up being rural authoritative super christians. I'm starting to softly believe this subreddit is the "left rp" take. Very little of the information of RP is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 10:35 PM
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What will it take for manosphereans to admit that many of men's problems are actually caused by masculinity This mentally registers as "if only everyone was a girl". If not masculinity then what do men aspire to? Femininity? This rings of nonsense but I'll bait because there is a lesson to both genders here. Toxicity, its not genetic, its memetic. Female perspective of masculinity taught to boys in modern western culture is toxic. Positive masculinity is a male to male transfer primarily. The cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 07:50 PM
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Not one you want sex in. This is what friends are for.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:55 PM
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Gonna take a stab at it and give it up to the reason they dont do many things. Its not socially acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 08:29 PM
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Put simply, "women, please do not manipulate or play ignorant in regards to the sexuality of men." Dead bedrooming a loyal kind and supportive husband is uniquely cruel. Empathy would be encouraging him (maybe vigorously) to continue improving himself. Don't get angry because he faps in the bathroom occasionally watches porn, or eyeballs an attractive woman. Clearly explain your needs and wants and reward him for progress. In casual dating it would be avoiding pitting two people against each oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 04:32 AM
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The culture I am from,... - Go to school and ignore women and sports till I am 18 - Go to a religious college and make friends with people. - When I graduate marry a "friend" all of this while maintaining my virginity. - After have kids and be super controlling breadwinner that somehow does not work weekends and can take Fridays off. In the culture I am in - Stab other people in the back - Make insane levels of income - Try to nail everything male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 07:25 PM
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Respect personal boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 06:39 PM
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Thats how we know TRP is full of shit or atleast the moderation there has been so poor that ideas like this have become standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 06:38 PM
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Ok that is fair and what I was trying to understand. It sounded like you where setting yourself up for men with many red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:38 PM
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Casual sex being defined as any sex before marriage or a series of one night stands, or a few one night stands or got dumped by someone they thought things where working with?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 01:59 PM
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Good foundation hypothesis. My 3 of my 4 grandparents were very poor, one was middle class. By my generation my dad had gotten a decent job and my mom was struggling. We were very traditional. Focus in my upbringing was learning to maintain a good job, go to the military not college, take the sure way dont experiment. By highschool where were middle class, somewhere around 80 to 100k a year. A home in the suburbs and I went to the best public HS in the city. Girls mystified me, I was a social ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 09:55 PM
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Ok that is fair. Insightful, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 04:11 AM
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Reasons like what for example?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 08:20 PM
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What makes an unattractive woman? Its largely weight at the end of the day and that can be fixed with surgery and willpower. SAME FOR MEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 08:18 PM
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Its both genders, SMV is relative between groups. 18yo women are not dating 40+men by and large and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 08:17 PM
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MRP likely is more effective. MRP's goal is treat the cause internal insecurities in the man and poor performance in the masculine roll of a marriage. It simply says work harder in that role, and how to do so. There is some extra things in the book no more mr nice guy that help long term. Chore play just treats the symptoms. BP is default mode of our society so obviously it doesnt work when it is not working and works when it is working.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 08:14 PM
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I used to get friendzoned a lot then I figured out just always be bluntly or blatantly sexual; if it isn't socially acceptable MAKE it socially acceptable by shifting frame. This has worked out in my favor mostly. You get put into the "Carezone", and the "Nukezone". These can be objectively worst. Carezone she actively tries to run off all other women in an attempt to "protect you", while also subjecting you to shit test. You can still "date" her, including sex if she is single but she is alloca…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:49 PM
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I agree, I am seeing the same things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 08:30 PM
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The consequences of poor selection on a womans part could result in direct death, or death of genetic lineage. So like all negative stimuli females (of most species) are evolved to avoid males that endanger them. An accidental pregnancy, outcasting, or STD will end a woman in these regards more quickly than a man so women have to be more selective than men. Men on the other hand are build to be as unselective as evolutionarily reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 08:28 PM
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I think this sub is pretty balanced, the questions are rarely emotionally loaded and the responses are even. Sometimes trolly but anyone asking serious questions gets serious responses from a wide spectrum of backgrounds. TRP,... *sigh*... its side bar is worth reading and studying. The book "The Red Pill", and the two after it are real positive eye openers. Keyword here, positive. The sub itself displays cult like behaviors. It seems to have split itself into three parts. TRP, a pure pit seems …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 07:58 PM
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Needs to be proportional to age else its a red flag. Factors like kids and long term relationships also play in.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:34 AM
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TV video games phones and tablets make kids silent still and non destructive. The idea of playing outside is a parents invention to relax without stress for an gour or so. More efficient to dont have to go look for them later. its a practicality thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:29 AM
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Why not both?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 03:11 PM
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Im not wholly sure of that. Millionaire men arent walking up and steal wifes by pulling out wallets. I think it is "slightly" more complex than that. Looking at it closer women loath worrying. Money is a quickfix not a whole fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 03:33 PM
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Yes. But when bux doesnt exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 08:24 PM
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No. AF/BB remember, less capitalistic the society the more women can select for physical features. Beta has bucks and bucks mean jack shit when she gets all her needs and her childs needs met by the tribe and state. At that point men are just company and fuck toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 07:51 PM
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You've missed the point entirely and set a straw man on fire. Care vs Harm morality is stronger than loyalty to any one thing, respect for an authority, or the sanctity of anything. You dont hurt people, no matter what you do not hurt people. You do not hurt people to render out fairness, you do not hurt people to display loyalty you do not hurt people even when requested by an authority, you do not hurt people to maintain the sanctity of something your culture. This is simple but really hard to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 07:42 PM
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I concede that consumer spending on credit is a problem! It is just only about 1/4th of it. Trade is taking our wealth and another nations wealth and creating an equilibrium of it between the nations. You take out a loan, you go into crushing debt you never will pay off, you die or go bankrupt, debt gets cancelled, lender takes a loss. You pay off the debt, lender takes the money, lender splits it or spends it back into the economy. Its a closed system, money is rare created or destroyed. Inflat…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 03:37 AM
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Thats true but it has nothing to do with gender. Its always been currency degradation to finance war. Rome and the Byzantine empire lasted centuries till they did that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 08:40 PM
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Modern medicine and socialism cover most of the usefulness of the tribal family patriarch. DNA test to know if a man is the father, treatment and protections against STDs, safe abortions, financial protection during pregnancy in some countries, free child care in developed countries. Men are useful, they make the load lighter, but increasingly not required after the age is a certain age. Children are a cost and risk in this age. Almost a luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 06:45 PM
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I'm told by others Im a 7.4 to an 8. I think Im like a 5 because I am short and skinny-fat overall, gf is latina perfection and young. Short too so I see her like a 8.9. When I was married I thought her like a solid 7 apparently she took it as an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 08:38 PM
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Take a step back, and look. It is not male vs female, it is human survival vs individual ego. Female goals and how men relate to them is what you will find in the book series by Tollo. Explanations of all the cognitive dissonance women have and the resulting behaviors and how to respond in a way that gives them comfort. "The dark side" of this is stressing women so they behave in a way that allows a relationship to exist. Women have a natural power advantage by being the controllers of reproduct…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 05:35 PM
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We are just going to ignore /TRP's cult-like behaviors and say black pill is the cause of the die off? I agree they are dying off, but the cult infected subs are not the ideas. The ideas are getting stronger and more refined more mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 04:01 PM
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For men this is an understood risk and lure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 03:20 PM
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Generalizing yes but rarely. They are accessible but not "influential" In my case, my phone calls are not returned and the mother will call screaming that I need to come and get her daughter because "some plan about her care" I was not notified off and threatens to cut my side of the family off if we do not do as she request. She lives with her mother and her father was ran off also. My brother is now dating a different girl and they have a daughter. It is the grandparents, three sisters, my bro…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 03:19 PM
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Simple survival. The mother usually gets the kids and cares for them, in divorce rape situations the mother does everything in her power to run the father off and take his resources. After the father is gone the child is completely dependent on the mother. The mother also usually turns to other women for support not men. Child is handled mostly by women. Its difficult to think ill of your care givers. I have a niece in that situation. All she cries about is spending time with her dad, and when s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 02:45 PM
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Money isnt physically attached to you. Your mind is and you dont see people taking the minds of men away. A woman's sexuality historically has been treated like property. Systems like marriages, especially arranged ones with exchanges, women not having as many rights and their decision making power stripped and controlled by men. I am not advocating feminism just stating what equality in that context looks like. Now it is different, STDs are rarer, there is DNA testing, and laws have relaxed. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 01:15 PM
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Yes, but it can flip back around into a hate fuck situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 08:01 AM
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Its a coping mechanism for sure, but not against success. Its a coping mechanism against outside thinking, self improvement, self control, and introspection. Anything that isnt what they are trying to be is "beta" its failures put under a microscope, and the failures of the "alpha" being worshiped ignored. There are MANY, so very many methods of securing the trust and devotion of women to varying levels of success. Having billions of dollars is one way. Abusive dark triad is another.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 01:16 PM
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Divorced guy here, trick is your behavior. Even if it doesnt work out dont be a jerk so much as that she thinks you need to suffer for it. My view now adays is if we have kids, you can bloody well have half. I dont actually care.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 04:21 AM
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Thank god for sexting. Allows measuring this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:21 AM
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Yes - Jumped on my back and groped my chest like something out of an axe commercial. - Getting close and sniffing me. - Sitting near and staring and/or fidgiting - Following me around kind of the way a pet does - Constant approval seeking - Attempted rape - Jealous behavior - Attention seeking behavior - Causing drama that results in me coddling them. - Seeking my help constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 04:39 PM
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Lets be honest here, they ignore nearly every other difference too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 04:32 PM
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I didnt have a anger phase, the book "Red Queen" primed me. Before : Oddly behaving and inconsistent fickle humans.After : Beings glued to specific predictable biological and social urges they struggle to reconcile mentally. The urges are logical but complex and result in what at surface level appears random. They are just beings protecting their genetic lineage like any other being on this planet. I see womens behaviors toward me as my active choice, but it depends on my energy expenditure. Ick…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 04:23 PM
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I'm infj _^ I can accept that assessment that purple is a bargaining state. There is no point to the bargain though the behaviors cant be truly modified. So what is the "second" red state?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 03:51 PM
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"Women are children" pffff no, that cant be lmfao. Tried it. Night and day for game. Women became more playful with me, demanding my attention and my relationships got much easier. Tried other stuff and started reporting thats when I noticed RP is a cult flopped over to marriedredpill because at that point I had figured out I should try as hard in each relationship as if it is a marriage after doing an experiment and ending up doing poly for 2yrs. NMMNG was on the side bar, read it, and it all c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 02:43 AM
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Some fallacies here... Blue Pill Men from what I've seen are what are covered in the book "No More Mr Nice Guy", caregiving but not caring, egocentric and self blaming full of shame. They want to be loving but stick strings on things. This makes them self loathing and passive aggressive. They can be extremely masculine in the common definition, fit, well spoken, athletic, but its a behavior toward the self not a external thing. They have boundary issues so become targets of toxic women. Because …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 02:18 AM
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So what do you do to unwind psychologically that doesnt involve another human male or female. Just surveying for science. Senators would love to prove that solitary imprisonment isnt torture.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 12:59 AM
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Define emotional tampon... and value.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 12:50 AM
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You realize I am agreeing with you right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 12:47 AM
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That is extremely unrealistic and psychologically unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 08:55 PM
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Speaking in extremes, you are allowed to fully cry (but not say anything) for deaths, stillbirths, or miscarriages, and comas. Personally what I did was keep a few exes around, ones that I've fucked pretty damn well and have a solid relationship with. I am vulnerable with them, dreads the main squeeze, you get intel about yourself and your relationship you would not otherwise have, and when something bad happens to you women are pretty amazing because she looks at you like a kid. In extreme circ…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 08:54 PM
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Doing all the chores of two or more people, and having sex with an increasingly unattractive person isnt fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 07:52 PM
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Black atheist liberal here. First,... (this is becoming a pet peeve),... up down is not the same left right, that is to say a mildly socialist-capitalist driven economic system that keeps people producing economically regardless of age, gender or other determinable demographic, is independent of that societies authoritarian controls over independent lifestyle decisions. That is to say modern France, Britain, Germany, Norway, Demark, and modern countries (excluding the United States), are not Chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 05:18 AM
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In my experience the female taste where very random. Their where many cliques in my high school and other factors that enforced those cliques. Inner-outer scuffles and social dominance fights in certain groups. In one group I was the nerd and low grade male, in other groups I was the trophy due to my racial background. Who you date has little "social" impact at that age. Teens are more likely to cheat and "it just work out". So they try different things and work out preferences that stabilize ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 06:13 PM
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Yes I find acting delusional like that exhausting. I'm natural introverted so it is a very serious drain. Some of it sticks eventually but its more so the quip responses, not the more complex detection and escaping. Those take real energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 03:54 PM
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If he is an introvert yes. You dont have access to your SO's friends and those connections.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 05:43 PM
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Dick in vagina or anus. I'd take me a while to respond otherwise and the number would be nonsensical.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 02:11 PM
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Friend means not fucking, but cares, RP says women only care about children, sees you as a child. Motherly instinct checks out. Thats the "logic" anyway. In my experience women do make good friends and many of my closest friends are female.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 05:12 PM
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Umn, I think you are partially correct (ignoring the creepy bits) Its gender role non competitiveness and comfort, not male vs female. If a culture's view is for the male to stay home and cook and clean and he is raised to do that then that is his gender role in that society. It would cause him emotional discomfort to not be doing that role. In Japan it used to be that women managed the money, not men. The issue with the current western world is that the male role is largely pointless and the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 02:36 PM
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Yes and no. Its attractive when it is predictable, and/or reflexive to his state. If she only acts crazy when you are slipping on your duties as a man, or showing doubt, frustration, or volatility its fine. There is an off button. But there must be an off button. True crazy is not appealing, mild insecurity is. It means a man has a role to fill and can feel needed, wanted and helpful. The woman is acting as a mirror for his own feelings, and showing the collective feelings of the couple giving h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 05:50 PM
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At this age I dont care, its more about STD history and children. I think its odds if its really low without a reason like previous marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 02:25 PM
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10/10 with a 10/10 Im sorry I dont see whats hard to understand here. She has everything women want and men want, he has everything men want and women want. Seems normal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/19 05:05 PM
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I agree, but its also not gendered men do this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 04:31 PM
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Because sane people can work together. Deadbeat dad is usually the result of a male being pushed away. Be it due to abuse, or trickery the man physically leaves, but he doesnt financially leave. She is freed up to find another partner but still has his money or can use him as a backup babysitter. She is "free", by tricking him into thinking he is "free", or pushing him away because she is "crazy", or she asserted he is "abusive". Endgame speaks for itself. You go from 2 parents caring for the ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 09:38 PM
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Rejection is one thing, retaliation for attempting is another. The woman becomes "so insulted", that the man could think he is at or above her level she seeks vengeance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 05:25 PM
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Certain levels of stoicness. For example when women become violent, apparently it is "manly" to completely ignore her when she is up in your face like a drill sergeant. A woman punches a guy in the balls people laugh, a guy punches a woman in the gut people call the cops. There is a double standard here pushed by both sexes for men to subject themselves to needless violence from women. As a man I've found if I want to share my emotions with a woman it comes at a cost, its like borrowing money fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 07:18 PM
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Cheaper ways of doing that. Just invite a female friend over and she wont be able to help herself in my experience. The good friends at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 03:27 PM
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End Goal was always sex. Would you do any of these things for a normal friendship? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 07:33 PM
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It started as that, yes. But it devolved. "Those that can not do, teach". It started with a generation of men trying to help, they got the next set of men going and then some of them did not fully let go of the spite. They passed that spite on to the next. Those that go to Zion, and those that become terrorist in the Matrix. Men with internal issues that make them a danger to women are going to fail to make any of the techniques there successful. Having money, having mental stability, being comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 07:08 PM
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What about amicable divorces before 30s?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 07:24 PM
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Because a sane dude drops spoiled milk once it spoils.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 06:08 PM
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lol, nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 05:38 AM
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RMV is sorta +-5yrs, everything outside of that is USUALLY out of bounds. agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 05:28 AM
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Please tell me the other 10% is because of emotional distance, and or immaturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 05:26 AM
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If you are not a damaged guy, blue pill like most but well adjusted nothing really wrong. 20-30 is core dating time. If a guy is really trying hard to see how things are going to go he can only date and try to make it work with 5-10 women. That is a really low number. There are many people that do things this way because of morals, religion, careers. Add in break time. Most people see monogamy is "moral". So they waste a lot of time with toxic people and take few risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 03:45 AM
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Serial monogamy completely blows your theory out the water and be it inate or cultural womens tendency to admire older men. Age creates tiering, a guy in his 30s is low value to a girl ages 18-26, then 26-35 he is high value, then 35+ haha to young. RMV is sorta +-5yrs, everything outside of that is USUALLY out of bounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 02:35 AM
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Or he could just be divorced because it didnt workout for whatever reason. I think you may be working back from your conclusion here. There are many women over 30 and the average marriage age is 29, so obviously people still get married well over 30. I think 50 might be the number you are looking for. People vary and relationships done properly take years to work out. Its not bang bang, oops pregnant going to give this one the rest of my life. Or bang bang bang, bored ok. Or even BANG first one …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 02:27 AM
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Grow, lose their minds, spend way to much emotional resources into controlling relationships, yeah all the same. I think responsible sex practices and a full understanding of the physical and psychological consequences of all forms of it need to be given as options to society. As the thread is trying to push, it puts the risk more so on men, and men are good with risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 03:21 AM
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There are problems with abstinence let us not kid ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 12:15 AM
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I disagree, but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 05:08 PM
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I think you ment that for someone else...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 10:05 AM
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Well now he knows the difference between "know, no, and nuu". That is a step.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 12:43 AM
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Thats called coparenting. Thats different.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 12:17 AM
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It's already established law that the government can take 1/3rd of your labor to give to the poor stupid people who get more and more of your labor the more kids that they have. Or to use your labor to make bombs that bring democracy to Iraq or to protect the opium fields in Afghanistan so the cia can sell heroin to us. Current family wealth and personal innate intelligence. While in America oppression is ceasing, its had a generational and cultural effect to create pockets of economic traps bey…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 12:08 AM
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In a word, yes. See "The Denzel Principle"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 11:42 PM
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Attack, cast blame, cast shame, dishonor, kick down, insult, etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 11:42 PM
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I disagree that it is a tendency of this sub. I find it to be rather egalitarian with a good mix of RP and antiRP with extremist on both sides and many people being kinda in the middle. I do admit that these males exist. I agree, RP proper gives a straight shot of what to do to get the female attention you want as a male. Work out, keep your hygiene up, develop your finances, be emotionally available, do not be a risk, and set boundaries. Men failing to do this have internal issues so that they …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 11:40 PM
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Guy here, basically my perspective too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 11:19 PM
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It means a person wont fuck themselves over and mess up a good thing, but will ditch a bad situation. Safety rating of current mate divided by mate change risk divided by safety rating of any other potential mate divided by change risk. Its also not a gendered issue males do this too. If a chick is "crazy", but has your children, and take your livelihood or pull some family strings and get you fired your behavior will be a bit different in how you leave her if she was sex positive, adjusted, unc…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 10:26 PM
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Please watch : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DfYbajvptTA
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 05:01 AM
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Joe is a check the facts, go with the results, dont knock it till you try it sorta guy. He is more of a father-type male than a C.Grey-type, or thug-type, or forever-college-stud-type. He has a male sub-gender role nailed down. Would many men be better people with Joe's mindset and habits, yeah, should all men be like that, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 04:58 AM
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Is it not a big thing? Do you have statistics showing it is not?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 04:47 AM
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This kink takes a very long series of signals to execute that depend on trust and communication. Congratulations on reaching a new deeper connection with your lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 02:45 AM
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Hedonism is just a (necessary) part of obtaining enlightenment. Everyone in hell is there because they want to be there. They have experienced so much pleasure in the after life that pain is the only thing that stimulates them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 03:56 PM
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You do realize that is like saying, I, as a black man, should respect the slave trade. I live in the most profitable country in the world and I am comfortable. So clearly I should respect the slave trade. No, religion is terrible. Yes you ARE absolutely correct that religion created in and outgroups that lead to protections that allowed societies to flourish. I think you are wrong in understanding what it is today. The religion at its core is a control system. A control system that was an experi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 03:51 PM
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America is toxically religious. to be pro-prostitution is to effectively be anti-religion, because the twisted way religion works it tries to be a societies SOLE MORAL AND POLITICAL system to the best of its ability. Think of religion as a parasitic memetic organism, that is alive that only wants like the rest of us to survive. Getting rid of prostitution protected society at some point that is why it is there. You are completely correct. I think prostitution would rebalance the male-female sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 03:43 PM
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As a male, from a woman : "You are cute",... like am I a baby? wtf. "You are so nice", I argue this one, what they mean to say is that I am dependable but I make an effort to not be #niceguy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 06:36 PM
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Why would someone want to date/LTR you or just have sex with you? By most metrics I think I am an ideal pre-wall betaBux, or maybe post-wall alpha target. Basically I am "safe". Just flirting with me long term will shape up your significant other. Im a catch for anyone not an alpha widower. General I am consistently told I am 7.5-8 in looks, I dont find myself attractive though. I'm also short. Early 30s. Women I find attractive tend to say I am out of their league, women I dont find attractive …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 06:20 PM
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My experience is that in the TRP model they either value themselves less, or work on a different standards model. Any person you become a drain on their life you are kicked but tomboys seem to just want for less. As a high value male you cant cheat on them like a standard high value woman. They are more male aligned in boundaries and values. The mechanic isnt different, its not even really gender different. No one wants to be with someone that doesnt hold up their end of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 05:21 PM
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yes, yes, heavy petting and beyond without partners consent. The boundries depend on the stage of the relationship honestly. As a guy if a woman has a girlfriend and is still seeing me, I do not care in anyway. She can go as far as moving the girl in to the house and screwing her while Im at work. Girl on Girl idc, as long as Im getting my needs met. If she is juggling me and another guy when I find out I usually just leave unless it is a long distance relationship. I get that people have needs,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 04:38 AM
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It devalues the price of female sex. Only a scorned woman reaches the insanity of a male deprived of all sexual release. Willing to do anything for so much as a peek of skin. Without access to porn, hookers, strippers, camgirls even, the male is putty. It wouldnt be "sexlessness" if prostitution was legal, these same men would work hard and save up for a hooker. The underlying emotion is jealousy and powerlessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 09:38 PM
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Whichever one or hybrid spectrum thereof aligns with the gender role you are most happiest playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 02:57 AM
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You seem happier, sarcasm aside, could you describe the sensation in more detail? I find this interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 02:54 AM
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The Red Queen Women are very logical to avoid risky men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 02:10 PM
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Women are attracted to signs of stability and protection, usually targeting the top 20%. No one wants to see death due to childbirth, have a hard time raising a child, or suffer disease/famine/violence. For men ages 18-26 it is usually difficult to see if a guy is stable. It makes sense to be really picky. Women smartly avoid men that show signs of mental, social, or financial instability. Freaking out over a bill, rage, poor social skills, poor hygiene, not being able to lift something, and not…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 02:11 AM
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Yes personality wize. But women like that I become friends with. Extremely intelligent women with deep empathies. Friends are more valuable to me than sexual partners, and usually the chemistry is not felt back because its just a numbers game. Even if I start deeper relationships with women I click with and it does not work out we stay friends and I stay in her support system because it brings me joy. I think intelligent well nurtured women are that valuable to the gene pool. While I cant spread…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 01:52 AM
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Is going to the pool or beach bad parenting?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 01:53 PM
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Perfect!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 01:03 AM
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What I read in The Rational Male, what I see in TRP, and what I see on MRP are pretty different. I am pretty sure TRP may be the result of an administrative power trap. The 48 rules of power is pretty fucking useless and is the "red flag". Most the men going there are going to be jaded on women and bring those views with them. That is the lens they will be seeing this information with. Usually freshly scorned or abandoned. A large number of people grow, and then leave that place with better soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 12:57 AM
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Money... money fixes so much of that. A good dentist A personal trainer A nutritionist A personal stylist A personal RP couch A therapist In more extreme cases, a good plastic surgeon. You can move to a location where your race is more propment. The only thing you cant really fix is height and overall skeletal structure. The great thing about this age is anyone can educate themselves enough to make into the 85th percentile. and get the above things. Not easily but with years of dedication. I am …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 12:33 AM
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For men, do they like their partner because she is not just good looking, but patient and supportive even in his darkest hour? That and kids, thats what makes me purple not red. I think there are some intercicies that RP hasnt ran over yet, or is actively ignoring. Because I am willing to accept that true love doesn't exist and we are by default animals. Then you have a warped view of what love is. My interpretation of RP is to act that way to all women at all times. If the resulting harem-esque…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 12:24 AM
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No. You are trying to represent a multifaceted regime of behavior modifications down to one aspect. You calling it background noise makes me think that your view of RP is that it is only to get women to flock toward you. It is true that is what lifting does. It creates a primal urge of attraction but there are other things that need to be learned. How you treat women has an instant effect on how attracted to you they can become. Hot guys get cheated on too, swole guys get marked as "emotionally …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 10:50 AM
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Yes. Dont let women be your source of energy, gain joy from being their's, then it all clicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 03:07 PM
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There are egalitarian and authoritarian feminists, which are your speaking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 06:51 AM
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I'm sorry I dont understand what you are implying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 03:20 PM
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Parenting, it all comes down to parenting. They pick it up from family and friends of family.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 02:30 PM
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Ok, one, fuck the media, thats just an authoritarian agenda so gender study types dont feel cognitive dissonance. Here is what you do to keep purple. Understand that women are trying to survive. They are given a net of options, all of them are nice but they NEED the least amount risk for the venture. Are you low risk? Emotionally, socially, financially, physically, are you low risk to her? When you approach be non-threatening... damn so many guys go for the number and dont even say their name. U…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 09:24 PM
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Being sex positive. While a person might not be in the mood for sex, it doesnt mean it is ok to then shame their mate (or others) for having a dog-like affectionateness toward them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 09:47 PM
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Dawwh I appreciate that! <3 Going places, meeting people randomly and speaking in a flirtatiousness manner, while asking truly meaningful questions about a persons outlook on life and history irregardless of gender is what resulted in the flair. These are not "ventures". They are for fun and when I have waves of extroversion. For whatever societal reason straight single women do not go out alone. They are already on "dates", or in a pack. So I rarely meet them this way. So going through other ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 07:13 PM
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Financial Responsibility Empathy Introspective Observation of others Healthy sex drive and a respect for the sex drives of others Some level of decisiveness Talkative
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 12:51 PM
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Comparing a woman TRYING to catch the man of her dreams, to a froomp that just selects from the line of men eyeing her. Hair 90 Birth control 45 Condoms, because 1/20 failure rate, 15 Razor, 10 Razor Gel, 10 Ubers / Taxis / Extra Gasoline 40 Perfume 15 Seasonal wardrobe addition 100 Unless you are getting a BJ on her couch with her in her pajamas right after she woke up, and she is on the hairy side she put something into it. Think about a woman you've never seen in shorts. Or doesnt really smel…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 12:29 PM
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they feel obligated to, or pressured into it. I dont think that is the case, nor the complain from the OP. I'm agreeing that women SPEND just as much money on dating as men. But her input goes across multiple dates, and in most cases its the men auditioning to her. But at the end of the day she has the opportunity for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 12:25 PM
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I wouldnt date her if she was doing the job. I'd also monitor her general spending habits and keep an eye out for sudden changes in cash flow.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 07:24 AM
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Looks like garbage to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 06:45 AM
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I'm redish purple but my opposing pill I would call blackpill, but also mgtow seems dumb too. Blue-pill is just a strawman, but MGTOW and blackpill seems to me at least an excuse for dejected men to completely give up. Its genetic suicide. RP showed me two things, what to improve to get what I want, and in what way to change my expectations. MGTOW didnt get those points. They seem to think women are fundamentally evil, and not the reality of simply taking the most logical, moral, and safest surv…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 04:41 AM
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The complaint comes from at the end of your venture, did you get laid? For most women doing that much the answer is yes. For men, its a coin toss.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 04:21 AM
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Drug abuse and drug use are not the same thing. You are correct they do not advocate for marriage. But they do focus in on maintaining long term relationships, or "RP on hardmode". There are things in life where two people doing something is better than just one. Much like medications (drugs) they can have side effects or be abused. Sometimes it helps to know when to change your dosage. For example ones wife who has dedicated themselves to assisting in the maintaince of the home be it financiall…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 02:57 AM
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This is so true. This is so fn damn true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 02:47 AM
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Wanting to save or improve one's marriage is by definition about relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 02:43 AM
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As long as they arent very religious. Occasionally I run into women like this, they are fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 08:43 AM
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If you where not interesting they would not have interacted with you in the first place. No one feels safe with an erratic person. Lets say a woman ask for help, and you very consistently do not help her, well she'll get the hint and not ask for help. Receiving help in a specific way may be fundamental to a relationship to her. It can be a host of things. In what specific way are you "consistent"? Do you consistently never return txt, phone calls, do you consistently work or keep the apartment c…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 09:15 PM
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you means you are fundamentally doing something wrong to trigger her insecurities and lower her trust. Its possible to be consistent and still cause insecurity, in that cause you are just consistently doing it, and as you pointed out they are consistently leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 07:41 PM
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This made me laugh harder than it should. Good insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 07:10 AM
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I think what you showed as liberal feminism is centrist, and "ok"; socialized feminism is the real fear of r/TRP. Men can negotiate via genes and income potential. Socialism removes that, why do you need a partner if you have the following for free? : free child care 630am -4pm free medicare for mother and child housing allowance (UBI) A woman would only need to pay utilities and food. Thats easy to cover with a part time job, allowing her to properly raise the child. If she is lucky she can fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 07:07 AM
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"God why did he get so fat, poor guy" "eee, dude you need to run away"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 06:46 AM
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Umn no. That power dynamic if its draining to you means you are fundamentally doing something wrong to trigger her insecurities and lower her trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 06:45 AM
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The point of the ring is that she can sell it off and start a new life if you do something stupid, or something repeatedly stupid that justifies ending the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 06:41 AM
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I live here, the women are mostly ok. Not the most loyal bunch and all could stand to lose 30 pounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 09:30 PM
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Amen lady!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 09:25 PM
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Local guy here... NO THE MARKETING WAS SHIT! I live in this city and this article is complete horse shit. Go to any bar in any part of the city and there is an open chair for any women beside every single male. You want a rich guy? Go to Ballentynes 20 odd bars. Want someone in the 70-80% range, go to Pineville or South blvd, want a tall muscular frat type white male, North davison. Guys escaped from the thugs life, gottem East Charlotte. Latino, Central Ave. Gay, plaza midwood, super young univ…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 09:23 PM
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seasonal 5ks football tickets and needing a shower installed for guys coming back from the gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 06:38 PM
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More so the management and supporters. So the nerd is the qb. Imagine being dragged out your office to play ping pong cornhole and darts. Like an underwhelming frat house.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 04:35 PM
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Yeah I agree, but they still need to learn to behave, thats part of learning manhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 03:36 PM
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Hi me in the past. These guys at work are not nerds, they are all jocks; and its hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 03:34 PM
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I'm sorry we have VASTLY more resources than you, provide unparalleled security and have the overall confidence to totally not give a fuck about anything or one. /s women go for the 85%+, nerds got it in everything but the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 03:32 PM
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Yes, those guys sink to the bottom of /r/TRP, rest of us take it incorporate it and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 03:29 PM
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I mean this in the nicest way possible, I think both groups failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 03:21 PM
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sigh fair. That doesnt change the power dynamic in there. Its extremely unhealthy and kinda moronic in execution.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 01:04 AM
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You promised us to keep it up as long as it remained active, we agreed Was there a definition of "active", agreed on?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 09:28 PM
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For those of you who thought the win condition was "learning something new about RP" and/or "changing some minds over on TRP, or in a wider audience" and/or "having some fun debating RP with some people knowledgable about RP"....I'm sorry to say it looks like we "lost". But only because it appears the TRP Mods pulled, handing the "win" condition to those above. I disagree, I think its very clear that TRP doesnt represent the ideology it prescripts to and is acting as an authoritarian stronghold,…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 09:25 PM
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Be better than 85% thats the initial marker, the next marker is better than the next immediate guy, the next marker is make leaving risky. There is no perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 09:13 PM
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No, its completely self interested in its own goals. Its amoral remember? Behaving ideally for the sake of women is the result, not the motivation, sex and reproduction are. Happy wifes, girlfriends, and harems is a side effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 09:11 PM
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No. Okay,... to explain. The women I date I would happily let divorce rape me. If you meet the standards for me to marry you, you can have half the next morning. I get Dreamgirl with RP so why bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 09:00 PM
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I want to agree but I've met a number of women that happily nail true-force-lonely types if they meet a number of safety checks. They are really clear that this is just to get you on your feet. Women at large yes they are mostly like this. I think it is a cultural thing. Women that are exposed to male pain and the negative effects it has have empathy because they understand it via exposure. Therefore I dont see this as gendered because thats just how empathy works.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 06:47 PM
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Im fairly left leaning to start with and this idea crosses my mind often and bothers me. Its not a win-win solution for society but I will try to explain my thoughts best I can. Prostitutes existing allow men to seek sex outside of relationships. It gives them options. (This might be hard to understand but) sex for men is a drive, like thirst, having to pee, or wanting to eat. You can go a month without eating if forced, you can go your whole life without sex if forced. Yet notice what that driv…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 04:27 AM
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No one is mad about the baby, they are pissed about the terrorism. Its war dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 04:03 PM
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yes, edit "nor raised with what attracts women".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 09:15 PM
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RP-PUA : fearing but surviving MRP : happy victory DBR : unhappy victory MGTOW : happy defeat
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 09:13 PM
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Being honest Sandman is a good example of the ideology. But its possible for people to hear the same information and take it as information on what not to do, why, and the consequence; then make a better effort at the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 09:10 PM
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I find MGTOW mostly incomprehensible, but I think the root of it is scorned men. RP and especially MRP are specific steps so that does not happen and all parties involved are end the end happy. Like,... dogs poop and and pee, do these things so they dont poop and pee in your house, at what point should a dog owner learn about owning a dog? If they dont then they would be a terrible dog owner and make a traumatized adult dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 09:08 PM
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For me it didnt come, it was more like pity... my personality does not anger much. I went from begging to threesomes, in a matter of months it was rather jarring. The main thing was that I had read a book on evolutionary behaviorism. That allowed me to justify female behavior as in defense of ones own existence and genetic future. Rollo's second book touches on this. I find it sorta frustrating that it is not more interwoven into RP views.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 04:10 AM
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The data I saw has it more like the top 15% of the population, but yes. Why the change in female behavior is because now everyone is halfway entitled to a mate. There isnt the one rich caveman wifing up the whole village. The personality aspects of men matter to women because without them her survival rate, and her offsprings survival rate take a nosedive. Just simple survival of the fittest in my book.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 03:01 AM
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Have you met Americans? They are really fat. No one wants to fuck anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 02:57 AM
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Thats insightful, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 02:53 AM
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There is a distinct possibility that I am wrong here, but I am fairly certain that realizing that "one sucks, but one can fix it eventually" does not compare to the agony of female psychological abuse normalized by our society used when they feel "mildly misunderstood". Blue Pill methods I would not call by any stretch bliss. I'm being slightly sarcastic, my point is most of us are coming from pure pain.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 02:31 AM
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Women arent evil, why are you sexist? Its hunt or be hunted, engagement is inevitable.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 09:38 PM
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Same, and well said. I'd like to add that modern feminism a victim mentality and any social change or development will have an authoritarian element to it. Right or Left, authoritarian actors simply want power and for others to suffer in the case of feminism, BLM, and Israeli, its a revenge fantasy that only flips the nouns of the statement and does not remove the injustice. That is not to shame proper wage comparison, even handed policing and justice systems, and a nations right to protect itse…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 09:25 PM
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"The Red Queen: Sex and the Evolution of Human Nature: Matt Ridley" doing more research into that brought me to Rollo's books. I think its kinda intresting the sentiment in all those books doesnt match this subreddit much at all. I've found the MRP much more informative for "what to do", and here for "a collection of all roads of action, more theory" Red Queen is a really good primer for people, it dives into some logic expressed in Rollo's second book. Honestly it should be in the sidebar. But …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 09:19 PM
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Yes. It is easier to communicate with, and predict women. Hearing "women are crazy" I see as appalling now. Women now describe me as charming, crude, and nice not creepy weird and passive-aggressive now. Its easier to express my feelings and for me to understand the feelings of women.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 09:14 PM
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Certain racial and sub-racial groups have an elevated general intelligence required for modernity, while others have a less developed one. It is true that culture and the environment created racial differences. Culture is now racially determined though. This given is faulty. Take any human group, beat them down, isolate them, limit them to the poor classes and do this over the course of about 100yrs. You are describing class differences and cultural differences caused by access to unbroken gener…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 09:11 PM
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If you dont reproduce whats the point? Hard mode or deadbeating seems like the only option. I understand if one loses frame (I love the biological step-mother plan) then government is gonna make you pay. But ignoring that whats the down side that outweighs the misery while in frame?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 09:04 PM
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When I am not dating anyone and she has a dedicated partner but for what ever reason is obsessively bent on having sex with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 07:02 AM
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Where I live this isnt a paradox, its well understood and laughed about. When given tons of resources creatures reproduce faster Before the industrial revolution more family members ment more labor; higher number of resources and survival rate Cities invert this, having children is extremely costly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 07:00 AM
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This question is not gendered. A unique persons, unique personal needs and wants, that they themselves are unable or unwilling to provide to themselves that another is. There are things that are more likely to be on the list depending on a persons gender, sexuality, culture, and class; but they usually fall into the following in no particular order. Companionship Friendship Emotional Support Financial Support Sex Child Rearing Social Validation Physical Protection Labor Information Gathering and…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 06:55 AM
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I feel this has no bearing on much of anything. Maybe even a positive because it factors out the fact she might be a prude.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 06:22 AM
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notices approach Hi.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 10:44 PM
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Its not romantically selected against in our culture "atm".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 10:40 PM
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Yeah we are on the same page. But I wouldnt say all women are so unique that the advice can be thrown out the window sporadically. Its a theory of understanding motivation not individual behaviors. Women are still humans and I feel the logic is solid enough that some of the nouns can be replaced and it still check out. A common saying in redpill is "treat women like children or the oldest teenager in the house", and the behavioral view for most men will "just click". If a person doesnt respect o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 10:39 PM
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I think this is kinda incorrect. Im not completely familiar with blackpill but for redpill what I learned is the following: All woman are like this They are constantly testing the metal of the relationship and bond She does this for her own personal safety She does this for her own personal amusement There are horrible bad things that can happen (like divorce rape, and dead bedroom) Do as she is expecting and bad things wont happen. Fail to do as expected and bad things happen. Basically women c…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 08:38 PM
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I agree and feel the same, Im divorced, the information came to late. I was single and wallowing. I took what I learned here and applied it to each of my new relationships. Same timezones of when to get out, when to search, what to say and how to think. I saw all the same things in women that trp rants about but mrp takes as a part of hard mode. Even though I cant contribute here, I love the place and you guys have really helped me grow. Literally and figuratively.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/18 08:08 PM
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go without her. Thats what my dad did. Yeah the food ended up being bland and repearive but he saved about 40% on groceries. Can she cook basics or does she microwave, unfreeze stuff?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/18 04:37 AM
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"Biological step mother" approach comes to mind. You have 4 kids not 3 btw. Why does she have access to your funds?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/18 04:23 AM
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Zay-el-ion. Not a lion.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/18 09:12 PM
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T_T I try not to post much. It only gets me in trouble. The information here is practical and useful but I have no way of adding to the community. I regret posting.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/18 03:16 AM
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Hawt Guy passes his genes on easier, rich guy passes his ease of life on easier. If the Hawt guys genes do not translate to assets naturally then the Hawt guy loses because all his children die, or do not reproduce. Rich guy will fail because he cant pass on his knowledge effectively over a long lifespan and has a very short time to do so. They are only successful if they can reproduce copies of themselves that can do the same and so on. Environmentally Hawt guy gets killed from gang violence, S…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/18 07:13 PM
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Who is BPP? Sorry, Im a lurker.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/18 06:52 PM
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Similar situation here, but she ran off and got Chad to knock her up after poofing effectively at no cost to me. Just blocked me then called when it was time to sign. I got a comfy job as she had pridefully stated she was leaving, so after your emotions have settled I recommend the following. Keep em plated as you have them. Be rather honest about that they are "just an option", and you have x options. Basically play the dread game for FWB. Learn exactly what these women are using you for, or ra…
/r/askTRP13/11/17 04:59 AM
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Even with this explanation I still feel left out and confused as fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/17 09:43 PM
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No, its not disrespect its effort. You may take the child less seriously because you have to mentally test each thing a child says. If they say something "normal", you let it pass silently and put in EFFORT to let the child know that you understand. You ask questions and push for clarification. You make sure you are on the same page as the child. Something you say can have an effect on them. The 40yr you just kinda nod along and agree, if you say something you know it didnt have a real effect on…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/17 04:11 AM
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no. no it is not. randomly getting laid off is not part of ones personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 10:13 PM
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Introduce self Behave in a natural manner Talk with extra energy on actively listening and UNDERSTANDING what she is saying. Show empathy Get her talking or explaining something Get her to move around with you Leave Cycle this till you start mixing social circles Core of it is "you need surprisingly little permission to do stuff", "people need an out", "build social hierarchy around yourself", and "Be a decent human".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 02:40 PM
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They are both mentally damaging roles. When the other person in the relationship does not interact or value the others personality. People regardless of gender push themselves to depression and suicide to feel these roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 02:32 PM
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Most men arent condesending though. They put WAY more mental energy into communication when they are speaking to children. Additionally MRP encourages men do the chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 02:23 PM
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I think you nailed it man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/17 04:48 AM
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Doesnt this go back to the following? Be attractive Do not be, not attractive Addressing the comments of other redditors, this can be cultural/person to person. I've gotten the same results from a variety of different products, I've also gotten negative results from the very same products. One day a woman hates my scent, next day same time, same routine, a woman is trying to rip my clothing off explicitly stating she loves my scent.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 02:31 AM
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Its like never saying "to", because it sounds like "too", so while around students you always say "also", so they dont get confused. Its purposely cutting mental connection and replacing them with other more appropriate ones. Casually dating, one woman at a time, with high investment, till she marries him, or one cheats or ends it. Compared to Main Plate where its many women, they have more or less equal investment except this one which is slightly odd in that shes gotten more than usual (clearl…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/17 01:02 AM
2

Connotation spoils education.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 11:16 PM
1

Use them as frame target practice. Anger phase will pass, just need to process it.
/r/askMRP13/10/17 06:10 PM
2

I think you miss the point that the sausage has to age a tiny bit. Its technically sausage and is edible, but wont taste right for a little while. Same with a pie, or a steak. Gotta let it sit for a moment. Watching naturals its just an experience thing. Two guys in their 40s, where one got it when he was 18 the other 30, are going to be nearly equal I think. And by 50 you wont be able to tell. My thoughts via my own observation. You are right RP is bitter, takes some time for that taste to clea…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/17 04:06 PM
1

Which vary country to country, which is why he doesnt understand.
/r/askMRP12/10/17 02:46 PM
1

LTR Medium attractive bisexual girl that works near my job, she wore me down and waited patiently for me to be "single". Hips like KimK, my racial background. Bit obsessive, cultured, smart, nerdy, works out relaxed around me. Does not add stress to my plate and is respectful. When asked "what do you add to me" she responded with intimacy, company and peace. very submissive. She beat out all the following: Plate 1 is getting married, but I got a free pass from her wife. Going to let her just be …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/17 04:25 AM
1

Cant give more details, because personal privacy but that's not an option. Either way I see your point. Im out ASAP.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 02:53 AM
2

Ill figure something out, if there is nothing to learn from watching this interaction Im out.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 02:53 AM
1

Yes, but its rare. People are not conditioned to do this. The next best thing which is less unusual is for people that have been in many relationships to meet each other and over a series of conversations lay out expectations. It takes effort, its not natural mentally occurring due to fear of rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 06:37 PM
1

Where does real confidence come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 02:19 PM
1

Yes. To be specific men that have confusion with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/17 04:42 PM
1

I have preferences, that's a deal breaker. Straight and simple. She can do her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/17 04:05 PM
1

Okay, so a decent human being? Yes silly, a surprising number of people, male and female do not know how to do this, only softly emulate it. I want a man who tells me I'm rattling off nonsense. He has to listen fully to respond. I don't need that. For the most part, fear has its part. It shouldn't be gotten rid of, but listened to. Fair point, this behavior enforces equality not condescending. The rent is due, help, I'm stuck on the side of the road, help, baby has a fever etc. Verus previous th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/17 03:56 PM
1

Its an anti thought, not a metric. Consider how men normally treat women. How would you describe that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/17 03:35 PM
1

Id like to imagine that a man that treats you like a child, and then treats you poorly would be a bad father and partner in general. Versus a guy that treats you like a child but also how your parents wished that you would be treated? The child treatment is to stop Nice Guy(TM) thinking. Women are not objects, prey, nor wanting to be burdened with the male ideal of equality. The idea is to put maximum energy into the interaction like you would a child. A man that : Focuses on what you are saying…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/17 03:32 PM
1

My understanding RP took the red pill and digested information given to them. How they practice it is debatable. BP actively rejected information given to them, do not apply it, wish they never learned about it. Plugged in, dont even know what RP is. The metaphor is based on the Matrix movies. Remember that some people after taking the red pill went back in, jacked in, and fought. Others hid in Zion. Others made deals with the machines to get jacked back in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/17 03:20 PM
3

This is easy, STFU and do exactly as YOU please, do not verbally communicate till she cracks and keep daddying as you see fit. But mostly speak through your actions not your words. In the mean time look to move on.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 01:37 PM
1

Women that see themselves as neglected, or see the utility of intelligence. Type 1 : Women with lower self esteem, a degree of mental illness, and higher intelligence. If this is all that is off about them they dont "date" me they just declare me useful and make me their friend/fwb/friend of their boyfriend. I like them they are mad chill. I think they find me by casting a wide net and seeing who accepts them for them. They range from a 5-8s The more redpill I've gotten the more mutually enjoyab…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/17 07:08 PM
2

All I got out of this was a whole lot of REEEEEE in the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/17 05:17 PM
1

"there has literally never been a high SMV black man that has been with a black woman" Never heard of "the denzel effect"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/17 04:48 PM
1

1.) Just the really annoying ones that act like they are hipster mean girls. Its new way daddy issues vs being a super hot cock gobbler. 2.) I'd guess even population distribution, sounds like a great idea for a study.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/17 04:46 PM
1

Denzel Washington?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/17 04:42 PM
2

Same with any other physical attribute on another race, Asian intelligence, latina hips, Caucasian hair. Its just that you dont SEE it so the mind wonders.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/17 04:09 PM
1

Physically; Kino.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 08:17 PM
5

Black and native american genetically. My mothers side are native americans and share croppers, my father ditched at birth. My step father again share croppers but my grandfather managed to buy land and have a large family so they where "well off hard working country folk". My grand mother describes all my grandfathers in redpill terms, but my fathers generation is fairly purple. Low divorce rate in my family till recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 04:52 PM
5

Keep them engaged conversationally with you, then push pull grab and lead or carry them suddenly. Show comfort with them when they show comfort with you. Then de-escalate, push pull tactics.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 02:12 PM
1

(Going to take you seriously for a moment)... Or that the woman is actually better, and doesn't know it. Also apples to oranges. Men have a set of assests, women usually a differetn set. The males value could increase over the relationship, and hers fall, or vice versa. I think that its " they are both of approximate value"? with in 1-2 points with self esteem being the largest modifier. You have good points.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 02:22 PM
1

WOW twisting data much. Have on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 03:03 AM
1

WOW twisting data much. Have on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 03:03 AM
0

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 03:00 AM
1

XD LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 02:24 AM
1

yoh Atlas, we gonna fuk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 01:09 AM
2

game over man, game over.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 09:13 PM
1

They are worth feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 08:56 PM
2

Like a daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 08:55 PM
1

luls
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 08:52 PM
1

Juggling a harem of women, complete ingestion of your blog is a low priority (but a priority). Thank you for a more clear answer much appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 08:52 PM
1

Both.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 03:39 PM
1

Holy fuck, serious question. Why are TRP and MRP split? Shouldnt they be one unit? Seems like cowards ran the married guys off? and isnt being married and red-pill aware technically make you purple pill? I just want your take because the divide is fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 01:30 PM
1

You have a valid point. My point was not to enrage the illogical one in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 12:54 AM
6

Using a fake name? That seems immature, cowardly, and not maintainable.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 12:30 AM
3

When weighing your options, you will never be able to measure the true investment of your particular girl if she knows that she is one of many. One might argue that if she knows she is easily replaceable, she will try harder to win you over, but ultimately, you shouldn't need other women on display to do this if your game is optimized and you are high SMV. This thought comes to mind. Observation #1: "Premature optimization is the root of all evil" has become "Optimization is the root of all evil…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 10:50 PM
1

Taking a page out the MRP handbook: I make no verbal contracts about housework. I do not complain about housework being done or not done. I do all the house work, or at the very least attempt to. I do not complain about housework. Internally in my mind, all housework is my responsibly and domain. I make no negotiations about housework, beyond increasing standards to SO's taste. If she does any housework, bonus time for me I can do something else with, most likely other housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 10:59 PM
0

I'd give him a physical copy of "The Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi, then make sure he read it. Then make him work out for 8 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 10:46 PM
12

I have to agree with all the above.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 02:35 AM
10

I dont feel like you handled that correctly at multiple points...
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 02:32 AM
-2

Christ. I've been thinking this for a while I'm so glad someone put it to text. Once that king like leadership mentality sits in and you find the resources to push, everything else just comes. Leader fucks, keeps the bitches and the bucks. The leader doesnt spin plates, he just has a stack of them in the kitchen.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 02:36 PM
1

Same ship here at times, but sometimes it would be an attractive person and their personality would be extremely nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 01:29 PM
1

Well fine but my point stands of the reasoning. Having your own kids genetically and giving them the best. If that biological logic does not jive with ones life situation so be it and there is nothing wrong with single mothers if the guy is up to the challenge and easing into a long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 07:24 PM
1

Yes, and yes. I grew up in such a situation and Im not going to say its 100% toxic, its just a more difficult dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 08:19 PM
1

The advice isnt about the female as much as the male of the relationship. Children need resources they can not get them on their own. Women seek resources for their children, that makes a good mother, she takes care of her child by effectively any means. Children take up a certain amount of resources per child. Excess resources spent on a single child results in better quality of life for that child. Having less children is less stressful on the parent, or parents. Men are usually unburdened by …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 07:14 PM
1

That sums it.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/17 05:38 AM
1

Metaphors where not very helpful.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/17 05:38 AM
1

Gender redefinition is a sexual strategy by those in a failure state. The person fails, for what ever reason, the base 2 gender roles. Gender might be better defined as a family proto-unit with a biological female, a biological male, and then QUALITIES provided by those 2 or more people. Surviving Individuals + One or more Offspring = [Male([nonGenderedQualities...], gentics) + Female([nonGenderedQualities...], gentics) +... Human([nonGenderedQualities]) The female function takes in the cost of …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/17 01:55 AM
2

Hypergamy is fueled by insecurity. He's lower status he isnt gonna run off no one is going to steal him, she is secure. If she is financially fit on her own hes effectively a puppy to her. Its not always looks, and finances, its also game, power dynamics, and emotional security that are "ups" women balance, men to.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 07:19 PM
1

Social pressure in HS.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 02:02 AM
8

Yes. /r/theredpill is a subset of the overall red pill mentality its aimed at younger single guys, then you have married red pill aka "red pill on hard mode" and they seem to not get along fully. Then MGTOW, then general pick up artistry. They all disagree on how to handle women. Then MRA which is just legal stuff, then general male intrest. Then there is a paired female aspect of the sphere for each.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 03:14 PM
4

1.) Women have more fluid sexuality 2.) Women have needs. They exhibit on average an extremely low resistance to charm, game, and resources. With higher SMV a PUA can just scoop them by the pairs. They are easier targets than normal straight women in my experience. It seems like a failure state sexual strategy to me. Lesbian relationship provide both with resources, emotional support, and in some cases a second parent to for child rearing. Im not saying its fake, im saying awalt as to say, women…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 03:11 PM
1

1. Sadly 2. Deep medication and recording how people react to me. 3. A noospherian deity. 4a. Provide emotional and financial support, pass my knowledge along. Provide social protection via my intellect. 4b A harem. I was given a selection of roles by groups of people. I selected the best one. 5a. No. 5b. No. 5c. http://www.ericberne.com/games-people-play/aint-it-awful/ 5d. Blame youre parents. 5e. You can choose joy, and redefine life.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 01:34 PM
1

alpha/beta "alpha/beta" is a group dynamic by getting to the point of marriage you've already established yourself as "her alpha". In most cases she isnt immediately going to run off. So called Chad Thundercock is less inciting considering she has more to loose now and will be more heavily shamed if caught. As for egalitarian, you're/we are both adults so we do what ever the hell we want. MRP comes in here, by asserting that as the male I should prioritize certain things that are in my gender ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 11:21 AM
1

My ideal is that I feel I can have children, as a male, with a female. The we both raise those children without her having an emotional spasm and fucking it up, or emotionally abusing me in the process. That's MRP, which apparently isnt RP I'm told. So even Rollo isnt RP, go figure. I literally spent six hours researching and formulating this response.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 07:23 PM
1

It means you are fucking up, next or fix your frame. You can soft fix it by telling the guy off when he is sober, or hard fix it so the girl doesnt even allow this.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 06:49 PM
1

Then whats the "Red Pill Endorsed" sexual reproduction strategy?
/r/askTRP19/09/17 06:48 PM
1

She didn't choose what she's attracted to. She didn't choose to be attracted to men with muscles. She didn't choose to be attracted to men high in the social order. She didn't choose to be attracted to men with confidence, men who lead, men who protect and guide the family. She married you for a reason, you ... specifically you,... to some extent, are those things. And it is within your power to do those things. You arent mad at her, you're mad at yourself for not putting in the effort sooner. S…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/17 03:17 PM
2

There is a recent thread in redpillwoman "being black and redpill"; in short yes there is. They are regarded as "submissive". Not hard to find. Honestly most women are "nice". Its their stereotype. Means ones are the oddities.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 01:22 PM
1

I'm going to have to disagree, from my own experience. Growing up I've always wanted to see women do well and I was raised egalitarian. My dad was the bread winner but I saw how unhappy and grouchy he got being the single bread winner. Things where happiest 2/3 him, 1/3 my mom. He focused more on money and house maintenance, my mom more on, cooking, and childrearing. They did equally on errands, who's check went to groceries, laundry, so on. It wasnt that we struggled when my mom didnt work, it …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 04:06 AM
1

Means grow a harem
/r/askTRP15/09/17 01:28 PM
7

Soft Next Consistent clingy behavior. Hard on the shit test to the point its annoying. The princess-holding a dolly asking "Why" for the sake of asking why is a shit test I find particularly annoying because it shows she is not thinking or listening. Its just a way of saying FUCK ME NOW WHAAAAA. Hard drops in intellegence Whining about my intelligence Whining about my success Genuine disrespect, simply because I have to pause and think up a punishment and that takes energy. The harem adopts them…
/r/askTRP12/09/17 08:30 PM
0

This made me laugh harder than it should have.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 11:15 PM
3

Over a previous marriage, and two other LTR's I saw this behavior. My work forces me to be at a computer most the day and I work from home time to time. I saw that earily in the relationship I would accidently do MRP type stuff till I got comfortable and never sacrifice work. Keep working out, spend weeks slowly letting my other female/options/friends down. One tattooed me with hickies while I was glued to my post working all night. I dont understand what does this. I think its a comfort test of…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/17 01:49 PM
1

Im short, so I have to game the group or isolate. That is a disadvantage. In practice this is time consuming. Once down to the dirt being short is the only thing that makes me appear mortal. Like you said OP, A&A. The result is you take home a table of girls not just one. Again, resource/time intensive. Her : Well I'll always have over you that you are short! (or black) Me: Well I'll over have over you that you are pretty with your self determining ass. Be a doll and <insert command>.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 07:24 PM
2

There is little men can give women they can not get on their own now unless their life situation is seriously screwed. That dynamic is still very much there, its just far more unique and you have to figure things out as far as in what ways they will respond. They usually signal this.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 02:16 PM
1

=_- I think he should fab and go snuggle his wife. Its not "sexual pleasure" that tweaks men out in marriages, its lack of intimacy and a sense of rejection. As long as its clear she is very affectionate then I dont see the need for the outsider. I think that relationship has deeper issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/17 02:20 AM
1

Men are wired that way, its not the manosphere. Actually women to; how do you feel about cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 06:17 PM
1

Redpill has little to nothing to do with civilization in what it lays out. It could be rationalized that way yes but the tone, wording, and allowance of vice is specifically shock treatment. Going from always treat women like princesses to amused mastery which is borderline condescension and not to emotionally abusive asshole is difficult. It is very possible to over correct especially if someone is bitter which I think most of that subreddit is. That doesnt change the fact that speaking to a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 10:12 PM
3

Third wave feminism is largely a authoritarian movement trying to consolidate power from two mostly equal classes into one, as is human nature. Given the chance they both would oppress the other and have, and do. Sexual strategy is amoral in both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 08:16 PM
1

I felt it helped convey my tone that alpha is poorly defined.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 07:55 PM
1

Games People Play
/r/askTRP05/09/17 06:12 PM
2

I'm an atheist so there are no 'concrete defined vices and virtues', for me. There is simply no "simplistic" text for me to base my views on. The closest thing I've found that fits my views based on science is "** the moral foundations theory**". Care: cherishing and protecting others; opposite of harm. Fairness or proportionality: rendering justice according to shared rules; opposite of cheating. Loyalty or ingroup: standing with your group, family, nation; opposite of betrayal. Authority or re…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 02:49 PM
1

"stfu" in BP language.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 09:05 PM
4

not only that but he also explains how typical red pill tactics (stonewalling, defensiveness) are key indicators of a failing marriage. tldr: 81% of you will get divorced if you wont listen to your wife. This is a strawman because this isnt MRP (Married redpill), tentents of MRP are as follows Get in shape immediately Do better at work Improve your dress and style When she insults you with the intent of hurting your feelings ignore and forgive her, as if she never spoke. Dont react to it, dont e…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 01:59 AM
1

All women are like that, and its fucking awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 10:41 PM
1

Can I just get a woman who enjoys spending time with me? She doesnt even have to be hot tbh. Those are called friends; they can also be male. Still, it's kinda dangerous if she has a few orbiters or a big bro. Don't be creepy, be honest. If she says something like she has low self esteem say something like "I know you own a mirror, I know you know you are sexy. I'd love to fuck you, but that might just be me." And just leave it at that. She will instantly shit test the remark or just eat it. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 10:29 PM
1

Hehehe, glad I could give you a chuckle! A woman that matches the male fantasy of caring and listening to his every emotional wave and then comfort him (or at least women) and then have sex with him and be hot and bothered when by some psychic power realizes that he wants sex. All while keeping house, and working to add to the income, and take care of the kids. And then be 100% faithful. That woman ... has an ulterior motive that will cost you your ego and or wallet. A woman like that is going t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 08:48 PM
3

My belief, to clarify I dont think that women lie about their feelings in the moment. That would make them pretty evil to drag a person along for so long and just jump off eventually when they get a chance to what "in the moment", is a better option. Followed up by how they justify it vs actually fixing the relationship with a bit more energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 08:30 PM
2

I think this is a perfect post that deserves to be added to the sidebar notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 07:01 PM
6

"Women seem to subconsciously keep their options open."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 06:56 PM
1

Sex This is the first half of the be all. Reproduction "eventually" is the next, and you "stay" so you dont get ruined due to local laws. Not gonna reproduce? Ok Darwin Award for you. The amount of "effort", is really low if you put your energies inward and in high traffic areas. You can increase your sexual market value by focusing on and succeeding on doing things you would have done anyway. Women will come flocking. Its a win win because women want you, and they dont want to lose a "good guy"…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 06:29 PM
1

The point of consent is the point of responsibility. I have a theory that some women purposely sabotage relationships to get child support and over the decades its been institutionalized. Its in the best interest of the child and mother to have additional support, that is a given; but child support depending on how it is enforced the woman is harming the child and the man via the state arrangement. The child doesn't get a what could be the best father figure (education, emotional support, care) …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 06:23 PM
1

Its more like male reproduction tax at time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 05:21 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CILzZG7Go4w Act like it never happened, if she talks about it play dumb. Sometimes,... even sexual strategy has limits, and retarded babies are a no go.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 01:46 AM
3

I agree, and to your point women do not, which results in the perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 10:29 PM
5

Cold logic doesnt dull a woman's actions like it does a man (stereotypical)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 03:45 PM
2

Its not inherently a self-defense mechanism, nor is it worded as one. It is used as one for somone that is fearful of loss. The point of the message is to not be fearful of loss. I think thats the big difference between pre and post redpill rage, or purplepill and mgtow. Its just your turn means that your turn can end but it could equally be that you are the last one taking a turn, or the only person getting a turn. "She's not yours, its just your turn" and "Relationships require work" Are sayin…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 03:43 PM
2

If not a coward, date, just learn to deal with women and go about what you where doing. Else be a hermit from women. Depending on where you live local laws about out of wedlock children might force it. We have shotgun wedding laws where I live. The state will send a summons to women that have children out of wedlock and pressure them into filing child support. Especially if they are on government support of any form.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 01:16 PM
17

You jack in avoid agents, or hide in Zion till the machines come. Route A 1.) Watching them squirm against your use of that knowledge. This can go on for a while...depends on your actual acceptance. During this time you learn to love women again. Rollo said "you can love women or you can understand them". I think its a mildly misleading comment. "Women are children", in that context is more insightful. Learning to love women despite their nature, and not in a dumb brainwashed manner. https://www…
/r/askTRP29/08/17 02:17 PM
1

Going to take a moment to point out that RedpillMusic is locked up and invite only.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 03:35 PM
2

Eeerrrg, thats an odd question. No woman is suitable for a beta. She'll naturally be repulsed by him. It simply means she has no fear of loosing him because she knows she can do equal or better rather quickly.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 03:28 PM
3

Oh yeah I've seen that before, girls with higher SMV and brains are difficult to dread. Always be at least level with a girls parents.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 01:25 PM
20

This is the correct answer. ♂ Usually a son has 2 generations to call upon to learn this information with the additon of local laws making it a bit more obvious. Broken lines of fatherhood and income have mostly faded this information. The internet has been a massive information share have given more and more people access to what others know.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 04:33 PM
1

Therapist, and meditation. You need to strengthen the mental muscle that lets you ignore stuff after looking at it critically. The one before reaction. An app like headspace is a cheap start. But really find a therapist if you can.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 01:24 PM
3

Focus on the biological motives for this and understand that most people male and female are largely ignorant, or willingly ignorant of it. Just knowing this stuff puts you in the power seat to control people via their subconscious desires and motives. You can adopt a win win mentality and get people to bend to you. Using this mentality you eventually build up a pack like a male lion.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 07:30 PM
3

♂ Amen.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 07:28 PM
2

Find a safe space if the idea of marrying someone in today's fucked up system bothers you. THATS WHAT IM TALKING ABOUT! Someone has to go back into the matrix and fuck up shit. -LeftAndRed THATS WHAT IM TALKING ABOUT!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/17 02:38 PM
3

Good Got some awesome stuff for a field report Weight is edged up with my wall, just need to push. Work is going well Been way more social, my friends are scared. Bad Been pretty comatose this week, only did one day of cardio and one day of lifting. Cancelled a date, nexting due to own fuck ups.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 07:06 PM
1

Unnatural, or so unattracted to current options they cant precieve it. Pretty sure someone will sweep them off their feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/17 06:56 PM
0

When they are in their 20s yes. When I hit 21, I got married and there was a very distinct sense of missing skills. I have those skills now, but unless you have an unbroken line of fathers going back to the civil war; I dont see that coming to someone naturally. I got them by hunting down old grumpy men and AWALT-princesses before finally landing on TRP where everything got explained with a neat little bow.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/17 04:15 AM
1

I'd say no, Rat Utopia went extinct, and the winners of a major war usually go extinct or are over run 100yrs after the fact. Best option is to keep the borders closed, dont initiate violence and maintain an overwhelming military. I think the guy was just nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 10:18 PM
1

I send brotherly shoulder pats. Text her and just have a conversation for a few days. After you get her going good with conversation call her, setup a date. Dont speak to her till you are on a date. If she cancels, repeat till you are on a date or to occupied with the next plate to initiate another cycle. keep frame on the plate Not judging but start lifting and fasting.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 10:11 PM
3

I think you are trolling, but for education and entertainment sake for others: LTR at 18 got married when I was 21, divorced at 26. After signing the papers a new girl ever 3-4 months. Only limiting factor is effort. So many of them at this point I cant spin them all and I monk down to just conversation and netflix weekends due to stress. If a girl doesnt see/talk/touch your cock after 3days she gets afraid is what I am finding now and start looking for it elsewhere. I'm not saying that in a neg…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 10:08 PM
3

Not all one chick, some needed more work than others but I'll let you imagine. Most of this was while I was plugged in. put her in class to get her ged put her in college got her to lose 40lb got her some goals got her a job taught her finances bought her a new woredrope Taught her how to do her hair and makeup put her in a driving class got her to gain 20lb Introduced her to thoths Introduced her to not-thoths. Fucked her gf taught her a job skill Monk teasing for a month Ignoring her Being rea…
/r/askTRP17/08/17 07:55 PM
2

About a 5/10 on response. You didnt seem amused, or amplify her comment in a positive manner, only threw it back at her. You want to make insults have no point, not punish people for making them. It was good that you got her to compare you to other guys she liked, and put the conversation into a good place. Your closing lacked authority.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 07:40 PM
1

Domestic skills are useful and both genders need to know all of them if they can manage. Hobbies are just that hobbies. Personality of the other mate dictates if they are attractive. Personally I find most stereotypical feminime hobbies kinda annoying to watch/listen about in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 07:33 PM
1

Coming from RP I would actually get married again. The nature of women seems logical and sane to me. Im liberal, and I think anyone that voted for anyone but Sanders is either uninformed or wants to see the world burn. Im not a frat boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 07:31 PM
3

Male No interest in sports. Short 5'4" I have a high pitched voice, people mistake me for a woman on the phone. I think this might be a socialized effect though because it sounds normally deep when I wake up or I am alone for a signifigantly amount of time. I like to cook and clean even though I'm horrible at both. I'm pretty low energy I hate hunting, camping, generally being outside except to warm myself from to much A/C or dust.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 06:44 PM
1

Shouldn't that worry be mutual And so would she. The major take away from redpill you are likely missing is over in the marriedredpill subreddit. It's a far more pragmatic take with specific actions. it more clearly defines the consequences of your actions and I suggest reading over it. Women are normally risking lives while we are wasting our time and money. You misunderstood "right now", as continuous fleeting, when it is really continuous assurance. She thinks that you are a foundation of con…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 04:24 PM
1

They are simply trying to stay informed. Part of RP is trying to get as many facts as possible and part of being conservative means having to look harder for information that fits your views.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 02:14 PM
1

if you are really small you might just be able to talk to them/hr about it and let things play out a bit.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 05:27 PM
2

Highly appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 03:54 PM
2

Make sexual strategy in biology a required sub study of science class.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 03:16 PM
2

I agree I'd like to see teachers paid more but I'm not sure that's a gendered issue. Women also like working with children (in general) more than men and that's perhaps one reason that gap exists. Why should the state be mandating this? You already have access to laws regarding divorce, no one is hiding what the consequences may be. Why do we even need this when prenups are well known and enforced? First thank you for taking the time to take my points one by one. My point about marriage is that …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 03:14 PM
2

good point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 03:08 AM
15

Depending on the state issues around child custody and child support violate "what seems to me to be" normal criminal/civil due process by going through "family court". This needs to be abolished or legally corrected. If a mother puts her child up for adoption she has to notify the father, and receive acknowledgement that he also is giving up his rights. Do gentic testing to the best of the laws ability after the fact. Marriages should be treated as or accompanied with legal contracts where the …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 01:18 AM
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Child support laws, child custody laws, marriage laws being made more reasonable. Marriage of the current binding should only be available to people that have produced offspring from it, everyone else gets a weak financial binding. I dont see how men get off in anyway in divorce without the womans choosing to let him go. If he is a poor husband he is punished in court, if she is a poor wife, she gets half.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 12:25 AM
2

Can you give this dimwit a competence test?
/r/askTRP15/08/17 12:24 AM
1

Juniors tend to be sloppy, ignorant, and usually very humble as they quickly grow. She sounds rather malicious and just straight out incompetent.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 12:22 AM
1

Yay!!
/r/askTRP14/08/17 07:07 PM
1

If you dont mind me asking could you pm me the name of the chat software?
/r/askTRP14/08/17 06:43 PM
1

So what time will you be getting up tomorrow? 6:50am Personally I wake up at 7, get out of bed by 8, to work by 9. Get home at 530, eat, asleep by 7, my body then wakes me up around 10. Then I go back to sleep around 1am no later than 2. This is gonna be hard.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/17 04:33 PM
2

You don't get sex from someone who genuinely loves you on Tinder. That's where you go to get used like a Fleshlight. What is sex without love,... its just sex. Much like how you find that rather appualing to get used like a fleshlight, odds are he at some level feel the same way. I know I did. But what drives a guy to do it is 100% illogical and biological in nature. ITS NOT A CHOICE FOR US Some days its all that consumes your mind. Its distracting, wasteful, and dangerous. It feels like OCD.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 03:00 PM
2

secure in the knowledge that there’s no room left for women to hate them even more. This made me chuckle, its extremely comforting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 02:55 PM
19

Document failing work with your boss, and make sure your own shit is in order. Keep your cool around her and stop caring. Dont hack her chat dude =_= Build a case with HR. When she is two faced, punish her for it by "reminding her" what she said to you in front of other people. Never speak with her alone. Ever.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 01:30 PM
9

I wouldnt call you Chad (I wouldn't call Chad "Chad"), women are manipulative and unfaithful, just like all other humans. If your morals say back off, JUST back off. Dont call her, dont return a text, when you see her smile wave and act like you've never fucked; and when she goes nuts say "you're married". Dont ever "turn up the beta", odds are you've gotten buff, gotten your life together (she's trying to get you to pay for stuff) so that crap is actually a turn on for her. Means you are just l…
/r/askTRP14/08/17 01:23 PM
1

I picked this mentality up on my own the hard way in my late teenage years reading up on psychology. Its a lost art EXCELLENT parenting. <3 !!! Give him a copy of "The dicators handbook"
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 03:25 PM
1

My physical appearance, voice, speech pattern and facial expressions dont match the words I say. People find it jarring to meet me irl. I look harmless but speak like a dragon.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 08:56 PM
4

'brief' vs 'constant'; see "no refractory period".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 01:14 AM
1

Lifting fixes many things, including eye contact via the mechanism described. There might be other issues though like being short, a different race, shy around women, other BP programming still not washed out.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 03:37 PM
2

Its that or have your genes removed from the gene pool. :-/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 03:26 PM
1

Having personal ethics Might I suggest evaluating ethics one cant maintain and just removing them in the first place. Dont bother with guilt.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 03:15 PM
3

You can be buff and still a bitch in conversation dude. Thats not sexy. If you act like a spaz while she is trying to figure out if you like her or not.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 03:14 PM
1

http://rspb.royalsocietypublishing.org/content/279/1739/2883
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 02:06 PM
5

Women; biology even knows this by making more of them in famine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 01:13 PM
3

If you are over 18, ignore them in this aspect. The reason for this is that women regardless of the relationship use men. If you make yourself more attractive odds are you'll run off and stop supporting them in some aspect.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 04:41 PM
3

I love you people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 02:10 AM
0

Red Pill, Thug-Life, Player-Life - He picked her. Guy does everything, and I do mean everything within his power maintaining income, home, and care of children. Woman feels like she would be pretty screwed over if she lost her mate. Has total respect for him. He isnt necessarily dedicated to her, she doesnt complete him, shes just there. "Trophy gf" situation. Regardless of income the guy dazzles her with a deep sense of physical and financial security. The relationship is romantic and stays rom…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 01:46 AM
1

The two I know are female, and a female voice comes to mind. I'm not saying the job is not stressful but like a nurse, its a support job where you are caring for people. IT is stressful in trying to ignoring that that one decision you made last year might set a kitchen on fire, or make a car swerve into a building, or siphon millions of dollars out of someone bank account, or cause a gas line to explode, or cause a plane to malfunction. Additionally your performance is a judgment of "how you thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 01:01 PM
1

<3 I like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 05:04 PM
1

Please elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 04:45 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nBOniV7TILE&feature=youtu.be Just watch this...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 04:40 PM
1

ugh watch this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SfdRdyGarJg
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 04:39 PM
2

RP here, but as one of said assholes I can explain a bit. For starters when women say "personality" when they are talking about traits of assertiveness, and the "magical alpha mentality". Put simply this mentally it fun and relaxing. Everything is cared for. Its generally attractive. The issue is it can be scaled badly. The source of the personality is not always a good one. Thats where abuse comes in. As to WHY these guys seem like assholes is because they have a very solid mental frame of refe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 04:18 PM
2

Yeah female communication skills are sorely missed; Its just not a friendly environment to them, nor should it really be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 03:37 PM
1

._. doesnt seem like that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 03:36 PM
2

Biologically we are different, so we are psychologically different, so we act differently. The deep call for equality is a result of social and economic challenges over the years. The classical system fails in many ways. The core way men should "act", is not transfered genderationally we have to learn it ourselves. Go with the flow of havign to take care of everything yourself and the rest will fall in place. Think hard about "what really is marriage, a wife, a girlfriend" and you'll see a lot o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 03:05 PM
2

You didn't mention project managers "Mid management" While we can both agree that not having a PO is stupid I have seen it done. Usually by startups and mid sized companies that simply dont know any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 01:55 PM
5

Its kinda hard to explain if you havent lived it. https://gizmodo.com/programming-sucks-why-a-job-in-coding-is-absolute-hell-1570227192 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MticYPfFRp8 Basically it is mentally a high pressure job. What you physically do up until you type those characters that become the program is irreverent. You have to be able to think, and more importantly think without emotion. That in and of itself is a handicap for women on average and will disinterest many that could be nurses…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 01:09 PM
3

I agree with you, but as a counterpoint maybe it is more likely for men to sacrifice work-life balance because reproductively we are female centric. If we want to keep our mates, gain new/better ones we have to work hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 12:51 PM
6

As someone that works in tech I'm sure he will be perfectly fine. Yes, the tech world is really small but odds are he's made bank from Google already and has skills enough to be a silent contractor for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 12:47 PM
1

Yes thats an accurate thing to say, "they dont deserve me". And the ones that I've been with will say the same. Women I truely love I have a hard time convincing them that they do deserve me. Its not that I havent found a good enough women its that they self destruct or run off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 06:41 AM
5

Good Got my license finally,... I've had a bad life,... bought a sports car. Solid easy 36 hours of fasting Started getting compliments on my appearance again Meditated every day Bad Downgraded my bed Didnt keep to my workouts, but wore my body out by doubling out on the cardio. Lost my friday night due to my body shutting off and sleeping till saturday. Dating is a logistical nightmare right now, hopefully solved in the next month or so.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 06:53 PM
1

Most men here think women can get any guy they want with no effort "Most men here think women can get A guy with no effort"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/17 05:00 PM
3

No you'll fuck a ton of women instead of just one.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 03:39 PM
4

I seriously question the emotional support part. I think both parties work equally "hard" on the marriage to its breaking point just in different ways. One (gender neutral) might be more of a provider, the other an emotional support, home maker, care taker, or they are equal in those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/17 01:50 AM
1

terpers arent looking for hyperfeminine, just attractivish, a decent sex drive and faithful if committed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/17 01:47 AM
1

I just needed someone to say this because the thought seems to have lapsed from the subreddits collective mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/17 01:45 AM
7

Yes, that mental journey IS the red pill. When neo gets up starts screaming and then pukes. That is what you are seeing. I got mad, I went through it, now I dont care. I expect women to be slutty and hypergamistic. I sympathize with hypergamy, I experienced it as a male. Its logical. The issue is as men as a whole, we are lied to about it. Let the RPs process this. They each individually need to learn and cope. They are going to be angry or give up, those that dont go PUA or purplepill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 08:52 PM
1

It's just selective evidence. I think it would be a good idea for this subreddit to find something that summarizes ways men get emotionally shorted. You are right not all women are like this. Just enough to create a gender role stigma of "Men should hold doors" Men being emotionally abusive is common but it isn't default. I'm not making light of anyone that has been abused by a man emotionally. I'm asserting that it seems to be the default behavior of women over the course of a relationship. AF/…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 08:44 PM
1

I didnt see it as abusive until after I was out of it and recovered. Normal puppy love, no personality red flags beyond a distrust of others. Yellow flag was the decreasing sex and her jealousy over when I would privately watch porn. The abuse would come when she did everything she could to deprivation me of any form of sexual gratification. Over half a year married no sex, no porn, no fabbing in the bathroom. I honestly think she was trying to drive me to cheat because she was doing so on the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 07:03 PM
7

Your logic is very twisted here and you are attaching it to the wrong type of male archetype. The actual request is highly ironic. Its the same argument as second wave feminism. Men simply want respect, maybe understanding, of their emotions. Female : I have cramps, leave me alone Male : I'm horny, leave me alone Female : I need attention Male : I dont feel appreciated Female : I just had a child, I need time off to recover before going back to work. Male : I work 60hrs a week, and havent had a …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 04:39 PM
1

Chronic Depression; This actually sucked, not because of the depression but when she came out of it. Ended terribly and put me into my own depression. Autism : Love this chick, shes married but calls me for threesomes. Checks on me emotionally and helped me through my own depression. She taught me what a healthy relationship felt like. Depression/Borderline Personality Disorder : ... she was really mean, great sex the months she was manic, then she would poof. If I ignored her by accident she wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 05:34 AM
1

Defending bad arguments tends to be difficult. Dont beat yourself up. Nice e-meeting you. <3
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/17 04:42 AM
1

Doing my due diligence on validating RP. TRP has some undertones from hurt men I dont like that pollute the overall message. I was expecting more serious discussion here but there is a real troll vibe for half the conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 02:04 PM
2

Distance by any means or destroying the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 02:29 AM
14

I used to be a "creepy nice guy", my SMV changed due to suddenly making 3-7x everyone in my peer group, a divorce from a hot girl, and my depression from it fucking with my head so bad I became a blatant asshole. Some of my female friends had very bad boyfriends very clingy, they would say kind of rapey stuff, insult them, stalk them in some cases. One day we where sitting around playing some games and the girls bf rightfully insulted her for saying something idiotic. It was poetic so I made a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 02:23 AM
1

I'd put it more like so 10 You've came your pants and havent noticed, RedPill Knowelege be damned you cant think outside of figuring out how to immediately impregnate her at all cost. 9 Shes really just an 8, but your preference dimensions and race. Speaking to her gives you a boner. Hope that she is stupid or lusting for you because you are gonna be at a disadvantage. 8 She's unnaturally pretty. You stare not out of lust so much as curiosity how she came into being. May have flaws that add not …
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 11:31 PM
21

Women arent faithful, even if you work your ass off and create miracles for them. I'm talking utterly transform their quality of living.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 09:39 PM
2

Then remove yourself from the possibility of mating and your fantasy will check out.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 06:18 PM
5

Out of genuine care I'm going to take a moment to dissect this and fill in some gaps. 1.) This isnt something your mother could ever teach you properly, no shame to her. At least on this subject, its like asking someone what the inside of their stomach looks like. Its not a thing a person can know off hand for all but a tiny fraction of people. Women and men both have the common intrest of reproducing. That makes us hard wired to want to be treated a certain way and have specific biological diff…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 06:17 PM
1

Yep just wait till morning. If you focus and screw till shes had enough it solidifies in her mind that you are a good mate. Men get lazy and clear headed after a bust. Women get foggy minded and energetic after.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 05:39 PM
1

Willingfully missing the point of communication.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/17 05:28 PM
1

Men talking to other men. Especially when teaching. No reason to mix words here.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/17 03:51 PM
2

but men are overt...
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/17 02:56 PM
2

Yep, agreed. Keep frame, women want to objectify us, we objectify them. Egalitarianism.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 02:53 PM
2

But we arent the same "type" of people. Some of us like our gender roles.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 02:52 PM
1

I'm not going to disagree with you on this but this would have consequences. Men with no resources, social standing, or looks would be wifeless their whole lives on average. I honestly feel the legally binding parts of marriage should be removed. I feel marriage is a religious exercise that the state should enforce based on the terms of the religious individuals entering it within legal reason; NOT DEFINE MARRIAGE ITSELF. Not I am not saying gays cant marry, they would just write their own contr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 10:47 AM
1

Have sex with someone you arnt attacted to or for the sake of her pleasure.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 10:17 AM
6

What else are you supposed to do with them? They equally objectify us.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 10:14 AM
1

Then dont. He left out general game, friendship development, and most importantly mentality. A crippled king is still a king. Develop your charm and mind. Let go of your limits. Fight.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 10:11 AM
1

Haters, jealousy, just in case it wasnt innocent. Better safe than sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 09:57 AM
5

Men are romantic, and like to chase. Focus on one thing and hunt it. This is psychologically unhealthy because he will put in a large amount of energy into creating a relationship with a woman with the (usually uncommunicated) goal of sex with her. When he fails he will have wasted his resources and resent her because of the attachment he developed. This cycle has a clear pattern and it starts with shallow compliments. Women are keenly aware of their own beauty; unless there is a sudden change. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 07:58 AM
5

perfecto
/r/askTRP31/07/17 10:25 PM
10

One at a time, at the same time.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 07:49 PM
2

It makes fun of men that label themselves as nice guys, because they are not nice guys. They really just passive aggressive. Women pick up on that and do not date them. They resent this, then they see her chase a guy using the opposite strategy as far as they can tell, win or lose for her get even madder. But mostly most nice guys are jerks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/17 02:29 AM
1

pussy fucking... and Self respect and mechanisms for building and acknowledging the inner self of others, freedom to pursue without guilt ones own greed, freedom from envy, freedom from gluttony, freedom from wrath, freedom of sloth but more so the mechanisms to avoid it. Moreover freedom from prudence, an understanding of true justice, capacity for the full range of temperance, unwavering mental fortitude, certainty the freedom from hope and capacity for charity. Leaving religion for truth and …
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 07:37 PM
1

First part is wrong, second part is right sounds like a plan. Its just plate. FWB is a slut coping mechanism for both genders. Dont term your relationship. If anything you are an 'n'.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 05:35 PM
1

♂ Brah nailed it.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 05:31 PM
3

Thats your conditioning talking. Have sex, dont talk about it. If she brings it up say you enjoyed the sex; would love to do that again and it doesnt change anything in your friendship as far as you see it. Additionally you care about her the same as before. Speaking from experience it puts you in a place of comfort. Odds are she will date and have sex with other people but if she meets up with you again (baring morals/loyality) will be open to sex again. Think of this as a save point in a video…
/r/askTRP30/07/17 05:11 PM
1

Keeping your options open means not giving her beyond the requested trust and commitment. Basically dont become overly comfortable with her to the point "you change", as women say. Marrying her doesnt mean putting all the bills in her name also, or expecting her to cook from now on, or listen to your feelings. Or even pick up the slack around the house. It just means you arent sticking your dick in other people or raising someone elses kids. Shes your mate not your mom, bluepills treat their mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 05:07 PM
2

This post needs to be pinned somewhere!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 04:47 PM
2

http://www.ericberne.com/games-people-play/why-dont-you-yes-but/ Any reason why I shouldn't do it? Because you dont want to. Dont fuck people you dont want to fuck, fuck people you do want to fuck. But personally I say fuck everyone.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 04:40 PM
3

Sounds like rape fetish, be careful with that. You're gonna have to use your words. Time for dread. Next time she does that say; Well If I cant fuck you I'm gonna go fuck .... <whats her name> And then actually go and do it. Call her let her know how it was. Next time, you guys get wrapped up try to talk her into taking responsibility for your boner. Just pull your dick out. Overall be clear you want to have sex, but dont be bum hurt if you dont.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 04:37 PM
3

Move to foreplay, just grab her and fuck her. (with a condom)
/r/askTRP30/07/17 04:26 PM
2

To add to this, they are only like this till a certain point in their lives. About 28-32 they stop and demand commitment. The "general subconscious" hope is that he either falls for her or knocks her up. Men (being human) generally will try to support their children and by extension the mothers of their children. ♂
/r/askTRP30/07/17 04:23 PM
3

I dont think women would benefit from that. "Just be yourself" is a protection response of a sexual evaluation mechanism. Women use quick judgments to easily asses a mans worth. They dont really want you screwing with that tool. Its like expecting a lesbian to tell you to dress up like a woman and play a trap against another lesbian. Both sexes have two sexual strategies which conflict or conform. "Slutty" women that have lost sexually will say they want a "strong bad boy", women that see themse…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 04:06 PM
4

Love leads to a fear of loss,... “Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.” Suffering leads to knowledge, knowledge leads to freedom... "You can love women or you can understand them" Become mentally Alpha via benevolence The darkness is in the light,... if you have a religion I suggest you get rid of it with bleach and nukes. All modern major religions are the fossilized bones of ancient redpill. You are looking at the bones, you need…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 03:23 PM
-4

You leave the way you came in. Make sure you have closure. I suggest fucking for one last hoorah,... angerily and aggressively.... till shes shaking and cant move. Sex and survival dont have morals. PERSONALLY I'd get her to get all her stuff out my place, or my stuff out her place over a few days. Then sit down and tell her you know. Tell her you are going to see other people, and you dont give a fuck what she does. She might keep fucking you (yay sex), or commit to the other guy. Basically mak…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 01:40 PM
1

You are in an ok place, just keep moving. The fact you found 3 jobs is more talent and tenacity than most.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 01:39 PM
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Time and meditation. You learn to "move" thoughts out of your head consciously.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 01:35 PM
1

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 02:16 AM
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The mechanic of it is the male not informing her of his intention and she taking it as a friendship another guy would treat another guy. You'd react the same if a guy came out the closet on you and was insistent on fucking you doggy and you being his bbf-bf. Labeling it manipulation is just male hampstering.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 02:15 AM
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I learned this the hard way and I try not to fall into this trap anymore with a fairly simple technique. Any new friendships with women if I find them attractive I a openly sexual from the start. I dont try to trick her either. I'm very open with the fact Im trying to fuck her. By doing this I've noticed I'm subject to a double standard by women. Its TOTALLY ok for me to say oversexed objectifying things, Hug and pet them. Even talk about sex and have sex. Understand that this isnt a "special tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 02:13 AM
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Wife, Man Cave, Sex Dungeon, Pick Two.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/17 04:15 PM
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"sexually harass", you are going to have to define this term. Considering we have evolved from street rape and caning the threshold for "need to protect", is rarely triggered. Guy aggressively flirting, naw Guy feeling up what looks to be his gf, nope Parent beating their spoiled child after snapping, Im likely not going to bother with. Slapping across the face, this will trigger it. For me at least the jacking off thing will trigger it, but at that point you have to measure up if getting punche…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 04:56 AM
2

White knighting has no connection to political affiliation. Both groups do it, its just what the females in said group are squawking about is the mirrored view point of the knight.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 04:24 AM
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Wolf Den?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/17 09:11 PM
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From missionary position take both her legs close them put her feet over your shoulders and hold them tightly so she can only squirm from the waist up. Aim your dick up to rub the length of the super clitoral structure. Humans generally have more leg strength than arm, and women more leg strength than men and you just violated all that with pure arm strength, restrained her mostly, while delivering intense pleasure. Happy fucking.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/17 09:10 PM
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Redpill, I have to agree. My favorite tactic is just getting dressed up well going to a QUIET bar and sitting outside and talking to people. I a a pretty hardcore introvert so its pretty hard for me so I have to get liquored up to do it. After that its all about holding frame and being a decent human. 1.) Be attractive 2.) Dont be not attractive Being social is attractive. People naturally look for the easy route be it making more money getting muscles or improving social skills. Its a whole pac…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 07:57 PM
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Learn not to lie to people, plain and simple. Shit like plating, negging, emotionally manipulating, setting up an unequal relationship dynamic, threating to leave and even cheating Plating, explain to your partners what you are doing. A surprising majority of women seem to "just understand" Negging, dont have to do this because they know they are competing over you. emotionally manipulating, dont have to do this because they know they are competing over you. Also learn to treat women as you woul…
/r/askTRP27/07/17 09:08 AM
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You can be a dark edgelord where everything is woe is me, the fact women cant bend you from your perspective of live is what charms them. Charm is the result of keeping frame
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 08:25 AM
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it's a middle class projection. Your father stayed,... why?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/17 08:24 PM
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Flirting is easier when your first goal when meeting an attractive especially attractive lady is stating your intentions for sex. Then any comments that derail that "reality", ignore or deconstruct. Understand "charm" as what this sub calls "frame". Set reality, dont have a conservation, you are basically a television. I person cant influence what is playing.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 07:46 PM
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You are confusing frustration with hatred. There are men that hate women, but the vast majority of it is simply frustration. Frustration can be solved for.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/17 06:01 PM
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Choice. Decide not to be those things for starters, logically work backwards piece by piece to figure out what you need to do. It might be medication, talking to a therapist, removing or adding things to your life, more time in the gym, taking supplements, etc As for charm, you gain that by talking more and more with women. You have to choose not to be afraid, sex is secondary, learn to enjoy a conversation with everyone, and every conversation. Via practice and study. You can be depressed and c…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 05:50 PM
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Excellent points. I acknowledge them as likely studied and well reasoned, I do not deny them as facts. My counter point is "How do we remove the incentive for women to choose government support over relationships once children are in the picture?"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/17 05:43 PM
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Boinking the babysitter every morning and night, who happens to be the mother of my kids. I have no reason to get married except for the sake of my possibly future children and I dont need to get married to do that.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 05:27 PM
1

Whats a normal conversation with him like?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/17 02:32 PM
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Shaquawna The personification of the African American inner city slut that pops up bangs you. The rubber "breaks" and takes half your check and kids after making you run off with a dry cold pussy and constant nagging?! Yeah she exist in our minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/17 02:20 PM
2

sounds like exjw is gonna be your new home.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/17 02:46 PM
2

Brings a tear to my eye man!
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 01:36 PM
2

I get uncomfortable around gay men the same way a girl gets uncomfortable around a rather unattractive over sized male trying to talk to her even if its non-sexual. It took a very long time to work this into my game. As long as my genitals are not being touched I try to be as inclusive as possible. I have a win-win-win policy I've noticed being nice to the gay friend is worth much more than her beta-friend. The gay guy UNDERSTANDS you. So you depending on somethings you can entertain him with so…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/17 01:34 PM
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People are just pissed with the tumlr-types and those that want to obliterate the concept of gender. It works for hetero and homosexuals which is 97% of people very effectively. It even works for transsexuals because they are transitioning. Its two wide blocks, and a tiny rainbow portal in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/17 12:56 PM
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Find more plates
/r/askTRP24/07/17 11:52 AM
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Ironically there is a more emotional aspect to it. After a man is say married or in a deep LTR it takes an emotional connection to pull him away. Chad means a guy that is physically better than what she has. For men that cheat its more about minimums. The woman has to give him a certain type of attention. Its not purely sexual, its more like appreciation, friendship even. Outside of that oh yeah perfect equivalency fuck the hot ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/17 07:35 AM
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"Oh I traded in my 40 for 20s", what do you think? There are a biblical plot lines around this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/17 05:44 PM
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Let that minority be. The rest of us have a physical polarized trait for the purpose ultimate purpose of reproduction which results in psychological differences and by and large created systems to assist us with that. Stop oppressing us breeders!!! I understand and get if some people dont have a gender, or want to be a different gender. But the idea of "attacking the concept" of gender and gender roles is a huge disservice. 93% of people perfectly fit in those roles, 97% if you add in homosexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/17 05:34 PM
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Carrot, stick, you are nice as long as they are in what ever mental bubble you stuck them in. Also you arent being an asshole, you are reaffirming what ever you said is reality nothing less nothing more.
/r/askTRP23/07/17 01:40 PM
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Next time she touches you grab her hand and rudely (without harming her) remove it. As if disgusted. Then act like nothing just happened. Dont even comment on it. Also dont move away from her. If it happens again grab her hand and ask "are you flirting with me"? Treat her as if you would a little child. I dont recommend fucking this chick because work, but thats upto you. Unless you can smell that her panties are wet dont take it as teasing, odds are the kissing stuff is just cultural.
/r/askTRP23/07/17 01:36 PM
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A person that has an unusually high sexual appetite for new partners (from the perspective of their gender) and acts on that desire, usually to self detriment. Not to be confused with a whore who trades sexuality for gain. Slut by urge, whore by necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/17 01:26 PM
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male, 20 odd partners none have asked. At least not directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/17 01:20 PM
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My exwife put it poetically it was the last "nice" thing she said to me I'll never forget it. Searching for understanding it ultimately brought me here. "I cant love you the way you want to be loved"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/17 01:18 PM
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I have to agree with /u/afkinwhitemale I've lived the same thing. Had the same reasoning explained, and seen it in practice. Its part of the culture. I think it has to do with a generational lack of fathers more so than anything. And its not that black men have it "easy", they are ran off. As you said they want a relationship, black women dont because they largely grow up knowing a safe life without a father, and dont know how to deal with that form of a relationship. And there are reprocussions…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 05:42 AM
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You've never dated these bitches have you, go pull yourself and shut up till you've been through one trying to nag you to death. Daily nuclear shit test and fire bombardment.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 05:22 AM
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Lived this, I have to agree. The worst most demasculating experience I've ever had is having an older black woman spend about 10hrs explain to me in detail the reason why. The most damning part was IT WAS RED PILL LOGIC. Read the book "The Denzel Effect".
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 05:20 AM
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"The left", is a result of the issue not the cause.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 05:17 AM
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Programming, real programming where you learn like 6 languages, market is 80k+ in all major cities. You sit on your ass, and get over 21 days of vacation usually. You can make 50k if you are a total fuck up with no degree.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 05:10 AM
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Yes, see shit testing. When they do this you know whats up, its time to fuck.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 04:46 AM
1

The culture that invented the Karma Sutra? Dude no idea, I've never seen them to be at a disadvantage than any other race. I'm multiracial so I guess I see things differently.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 04:45 AM
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so she doesn't have to be sexually pluralistic. Maybe we should be exploiting this?
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 04:42 AM
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My threesomes are from putting redpill to the test on the hardest target possible, lesbians and bi girls. I have much more to try to do to flesh my theories out first but I'll try to explain what I've found. I can say this, if you are in a LTR, or even with plates dont "ask". The women sort this thing out themselves and come to you in each of the instances I've had. This is another level of plate management where you dont turn into a fucking coward and ghost. A bi chick once told me pre red pill…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 04:20 AM
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So Adele - Hello, is about a woman either having beta regret or an alpha widow, cant tell but shes pass "her youth". Song by a guy it sounds like one-itis Here is a good cover/remix to make it more clear. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rDWuqrJAyGw Songs that turn into major hits tend to show the deeper gendered pain that love and breakups have. Charlie Puth - Attention, Chainsmokers - Closer, Ed Sheeran - Shape of You are examples of this.
/r/askTRP23/07/17 03:20 AM
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Fantasy fulfillment. Why do guys listen to rappers?
/r/askTRP22/07/17 08:22 PM
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Christ. Yes if you want to fuck her then 1.) be attractive. Missing the follow up of 2.) Dont be not attractive. Which means the other 2 weeks out the month having actual social skills. Im not saying dont lift, dont hone your game, dont build your self esteem. I am saying DO ALL THOSE THINGS IN ADDITION TO, have your finances in order, have your home in order, manage your kids so they show you respect, manage your social life, manage everything about yourself to the point shes an accessory. You …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 08:21 PM
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Remember that alpha beta are behaviors, not dogs in a pack. If you have no skill in managing that womans emotional ups and down with a good dose of confidence arrogance and moral dread then you shouldnt be in a relationship. My understanding is they look for a man that's masculine traits flow with her own.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 05:37 PM
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Certain type of woman out of my league approached me and we had a long conversation. It dispelled some thoughts about talking to the higher end of women ... the ones that look like dolls born to be bred. It felt natural and I was able to keep my composure. I know women arent "mystical creatures" but it takes doing everything yourself to fully ingest you know? I felt some bluepill mentality go away. I have confidence I can pull hotter women now.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 06:37 AM
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Wouldnt have been my first this year I dont feel the intense regret. Its fun yes, but a tad complex.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 05:55 AM
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So why end instead of just saying no and continue fucking her?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 03:43 AM
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No, when she called for me to come over I was sleep and missed the call.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 03:40 AM
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"No true Scotsman" eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 05:17 PM
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Good Fixed some financial issues I was having Started working on a new income method Pulled new girl for a date next week Had some interesting conversation with this amazingly sexy girl, found out what she did for work and my world view changed some. Some serious higher SMV validation this week based on female behavior from that exchange. Bad Yo yoh'd back up 2 pounds Only worked out twice this week Missed a threesome because I was sleep
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 01:47 PM
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Intresting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 01:39 PM
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If you ever want him doing more, get him in the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 12:45 PM
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Hot Sane and side girl is Hot Smart. Have an emotional relationship with the smart gal, dumb wife at home not causing you drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 01:41 AM
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LINK ME!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 01:30 AM
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vs marrying the first girl that sucks your dick, hurts your self worth, and slowly clamps her legs shut before blaming everything on you leaving and taking half of everything you own if not all effectively. A few hundred bucks a month is pennies. Lets call it even and call it a "huge discount".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 01:26 AM
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The mad lust does not happen till later, think in the context of teen pregnancies, as if those where normal. Its bearable and somewhat interesting at ages 15-16. At 17-19 he wants it and is willing to commit to do so. Think "high school sweet hearts". Running around pre-civilization this sinks up. 20+ It is "damaging", he is an "adult", a man that should be doing what he was raised to do which is protect his mate and assist in raising his children by providing and protecting. Instead he is layin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 01:22 AM
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Hatred at women, its like being mad at a wild animal for trying to kill you. Slut shaming, people like sex get over it. Man whore shaming, people like sex get over it. Radical conservatism as a conclusion of redpill logic. RP gives an understanding of the biblical laws frameworks and how it protects country men women and children but disregard how it is effectively now inhumane and new solutions need to be developed. Marriage being viewed as a purely romantic thing and not a way of protecting bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 01:08 AM
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Watch the 50 shades Darker movie. Plot is a guy gets mad money smarts and muscles, then gets unplugged by a fucking unicorn, then woman converts him back to BP and kicks the unicorn and harem out. All while there are two other BPs in the background. They literally dedicate a full 5 mins to this one shot black guy getting friendzoned, then a sub plot of a the outward manifestation of the "the blue pill rage", where she nearly gets raped. Also butt sex and bondage. Good movie for "study", I could …
/r/askTRP21/07/17 12:37 AM
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I agree. Causal dating isnt a contract, marriage is, so until that commitment it works, because truth be told, as men we have more options than just here. Statistically 10% chance from a bar, or just jump on Tindr. You can find something in 3 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 12:27 AM
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Explain calmly and confidently your intention to fuck her so hard her leg shakes for an hour and cant walk normally the next day and that you will not be "just her helpful friend", then ignore her till she does any of the following overt DTF sends nudes agrees to go to YOUR PLACE, or a secluded place for sex After that tie car rides to bangs in a 1:1 ratio. Understand IT WONT LAST and date other people. Let her know you are dating and fucking other people. Is she following along still? Let off o…
/r/askTRP21/07/17 12:26 AM
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"Zombie luvr. INFJ. Netflix addict. Street tacos are my favorite. Sarcasm is my second language. Ben & Jerry's cherry garcia rocks my socks." INFJ here, I love netflix. God I wish you where a chick. Anyway I raised my age from 25 to 30 and I saw less bots. Bots will always be a thing. Usually a direct specific question. Just learn to say things that bots cant respond to, try to move to txt calling or some other app asap. Saying just call me adds some escalation anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 12:09 AM
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Yeah by why do you "want" to have sex? and if you took sex out of marriage would people still get married? would people stay married? It's women who have the real abundance. Pretending you're rich doesn't make you rich. This is the real question and problem being addressed. If you are "attached to", one woman because she gives you sex, she can use that to effectively get over on you and provide sex only when she feels the itch. If you are not attractive then that will be rare. If you as a male h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 12:04 AM
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Are men going around having sex to "knock up" women? Hell no This is wishful thinking, what "is" sex? If you have unprotected sex what are you potentially doing? Creating offspring. So approximately 1/4th of children live in single parent homes, and half of them are receiving child support, so something near 1/8th of men, 10%-12% it could be argued are "going around knocking up women", even if it is just once. Have you never heard of "rolling stones", or "dead beat dads?", "shotgun weddings"? Fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 11:37 PM
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Evolutionary, you end up knocking up one or multiple. That part is simple. The next part is emotional. Most men crave sex and are very open about that. The dream of most men is to fuck when ever they have time till their balls are dry constantly. Men also naturally want variety. But the real thing is establishing abundance mentality and self worth. Once you know you can have any woman, or close to any type of woman you want your tolerance for games, shaming, and drama goes way down. At that poin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 10:33 PM
1

8 months
/r/askTRP20/07/17 10:35 AM
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Also not all black people are cool. I have to agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 06:35 AM
1

The opposite is true. People in difficult situations will avoid staying in those situations. Lets say half those people are women, they would seek the shelter of someone with space to share. Whats the cost of that? Sex. Say we had a population of 100 people evenly male and female, mated off in pairs of equal attractiveness. Allow multiple wives or husbands. Men would tend to have more wives, depriving lower value men of wifes, or women would convert men to being nannies. I'm pretty sure mens dri…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 11:45 PM
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1.) Being in an environment of sexually active people. 2.) They have done something to drastically reduce competition. 3.) Low pickiness 4.) Risk taker For men : Living in a densely populated city and being able to support yourself with the spare income equivalent to that of one or more other people value signals very quickly. This is something that usually takes men till their late 30s to do, if ever in some cities. Driving to a bar in a decent car, and nice clothes and in conversation expressi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 11:36 PM
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Starting out, I treat children with a bit more time and respect than adults. I give them more patience and put more effort into understanding what they are trying to communicate. 1.) Only women, in private settings after a one time initial interest statement. There is no reason to treat men like this. Someone trying to muscle you at a bar should be treated as if they are completely calm and having to repeat themselves. Use"why diving", or "start with the why", a leadership tactic. 2.) Its useful…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 10:56 PM
1

I got pilled by a chick to start with soooo......
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 03:01 AM
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Ratio of being able to start relationships with people you find attractive with little to no friction vs complete shut down. Approach rate of the opposite sex. Defeatist or toxic behaviors of others your same gender (role).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 02:39 AM
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I think you are projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 02:37 AM
2

Seems obvious,... am I missing something?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 02:37 AM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KkSz3o7zY-k
/r/askTRP18/07/17 01:26 AM
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Yes and no. There is a social barrier to massive amounts of casual sex. You quickly get labelled social as the group whore. Also women going out with these men dont know they are constantly dating often when hooking up. They only have his personality and looks to go on. Assuming he is doing the the maximum work of paying $10 a month and swiping right indiscriminately daily. Any dates he gets are due to her preference in him and his total lack of preference. I think this calls for experimentation…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 01:03 AM
2

Going to agree...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 12:58 AM
1

Going to agree...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 12:58 AM
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Example Insult : You are a piece of shit man. Response : Yep I am THE SHIT, I am fucking awesome. Thank you for noticing. It really means so much to me that people are noticing I am THE SHIT. You dont "register" the negativity. They are forced to either explain the insult or be silent. A joke isnt funny when it has to be explained. Example Insult : Knock knock Response : WHOOOOOOOOO THE HELL DO YOU THINK I AM IM KAMINA OF TEAM GURREN LAGANN!!! See how the joke is cut off. Insult : Do you even li…
/r/askTRP18/07/17 12:54 AM
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I'm a traditionalist, but I've ended up doing half and half PUA. Not by large effort but by attraction. I dont pump and dump so I've ended up with something akin to a small harem. I'm looking miss right sorta ended up with plates that are half right with each trying to correct themselves to gain more of my attention. Some give up and I feel the slot. Others leave and cycle back. I'd like to settle down with someone on my level.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 08:55 PM
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To quote her as she asked for the divorce, "I cant love you like you want to be loved." She also mentioned that I'm a monster. Apparently thats an attractive trait to some women. I dont really think anyone can but myself. The experience left me broken, so going forward I just try to have everything setup financially from the git go.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 07:04 PM
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I lost my job (sex stopped that month) Trained to be a programmer for 3 months, she gets a promotion got a job after 4 months, it didnt pay for the 2 months I had it, we lost money. went on job interviews for another two months, shes screaming at me. Got a seasonal job, it only paid for 1 month, next month was on call did not get called; job didnt contribute to immediate bills paid off credit cards. At this point she is continuously livid. Got a new job after that working 50hrs a week, she gets …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 06:10 PM
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This is core. It gets people to "like" you by disarming them. It value signals that their opinion is laughable to you but you will listen and engage.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 05:45 PM
1

Link me something on the TBP/nice guy logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 02:01 PM
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I feel dumb. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 02:28 AM
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Yes. Breed and the child not have a toxic mentality of their parents so they can be a functional adult that understands how to do the same thing till there are no more humans. Is there a REAL marriage alternative? Co-parenting without legal bindings?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 02:16 AM
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28yo male, 21 so far, I was married form 21 to 25. There was a whole year and a half where I did not have sex. Then another six month stent just because I was focused on repairing my life. I've had what I would consider more than my fair share of threesomes because I seem to attract bi women. While I was happily married sex 3 to 7 times a week, while single, average to once a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 02:06 AM
1

You say advice I say business analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 02:03 AM
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Breed + Raise children with as much access to resources as possible. I'd like for the other party to not turn traitor doing that process because she had a bad day. I'd like to be able to pass on my genes and knowledge, many men would. I think that is the core desire of the blue pilled. Is it pointless to want that? Or is it a risk mitigation exercise. I want to minimize risk. Obtaining a +100k salary in bumfucknowhereville with a small harem seems more do able than a legal marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 02:01 AM
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Programming Teaching Watching Anime Anime is sorta a generational thing. Most women my age I've noticed have some type of critical analysis of an anime. Most women hate my other hobbies because it makes me extremely disconnected while doing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 01:55 AM
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I have an incomplete sensation I am trying to fill. I guess its that I need a place to actually talk about this stuff openly and honestly outside of a mantra?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 01:51 AM
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</sarcasm>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 01:46 AM
1

Clarification isnt censorship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 01:44 AM
1

Ah, I've seen that phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 01:39 AM
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Reading that caused a distinct painful pin like sensation in my brain similar to being hit very hard and then standing up rapidly thereafter. Thank you. I feel that I am at that stage, that is why I am here... I think... but your comment helped significantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 01:36 AM
1

terp I dont mean this sarcastically, but could you define the following words so I understand your comment please? TERFs, Terp. They came off as jargon to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 01:32 AM
1

Awh. Insightful! Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 01:19 AM
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I agree: Step 1.) Be attractive Step 2.) Do not be not attractive.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/17 01:08 AM
0

Difference between cat calling and cold street approach is maturity and creativity of the execution. Catcalling would be amateur implementation. The simplistic addition of a pause and an self introduction massively increases success.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 11:19 PM
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I've seen no real evidence that TBP is anything more than a satire as so that TRP subreddit's extremely strong logical basis stays intact. I think there are some issues with your method. I believe it would be better to programmatically scrape all or most of both subreddits (and related ones) with the code being open for review. Science.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 11:13 PM
2

Good * Lost 2.2 Pounds Bad * Missted a few work out days.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 04:49 AM
1

AWALT, normal natural thing Chad. Just fuck her when you see her blah zay blah zay. If it upset you ghost, but I think you should find this amusing.
/r/askTRP15/07/17 05:17 PM
1

I agree with your observation. What if both? They want to dominate and be submissive.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 02:57 PM
3

Years of functional feminism, and a few decades of extreme feminism. Im understanding a BP as "average joe" not privy to our conversations. Male tendencies that foster traditional values later in life have been shunned by the women that raised this generation. Aggression, bull headedness, sexual appeitite. Women arent aggressive, women arent bull headed they communicate, women arent sluts, women arent hairy. Women raising children where the father chain has been broken or got an ultra dose of fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 02:07 PM
2

Year before kindgergarden, teach the tyke to run that playground!
/r/askTRP11/07/17 11:19 PM
3

Deciding to have high self-esteem. Fake it till you make it. Set reachable series of goals, and achieve them. Learn to agree to insults thrown at you, and then expand on them, own them.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 06:02 PM
3

This exactly. For the vast majority a "socially acceptable expression of", as you put it that "women's true purpose towards men is sexual gratification and child bearing" will net better behavior. Dont be a misogynist. Basically, dont "lean" on them to better highlight their positive qualities. A woman under stress, especially stresses she attributes to you not doing something and her "helping you", is a terrible thing.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 05:57 PM
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After 4 years and a number of partners I think bi, or bi leaning lesbians might be in the "settle down" mental phase while also in the reproductive state. They are laughably easy to spot and pull at bars and non party situation. Simplistic conversation and honest sexuality seems to be the sacking tool. Oversimplified example Im gay dude Thats wonderful! I like boobs too! In fact yours are pretty perky lucky. But look over there now that girl GOD DAMN! Her back must hurt. I think the worst exampl…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 12:34 PM
4

Amen for running off the plantation. There truly is a self defeating mentality in the black community. The options are clear, leave the innder city/ghetto/poor areas, or wallow for life.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 12:09 PM
1

I made a website then listed myself on an outsourcing website. Something more formal than fiverr.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 10:43 AM
2

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=10DQeSk1LaY
/r/askTRP10/07/17 09:36 PM
5

They are lying. Talent !== Experience
/r/askTRP10/07/17 07:33 PM
2

RAW JavaScript. Im in application development. Ionic/Angular is a solid thing to study. Also Electron, I use heavy amounts of Nodejs. Python and C# are also solid options. Depending on where you are in the country Java. Having a solid background in C# and Nodejs with Angular and/or React will net you a solid job.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 05:25 PM
2

Yes, thats how I started my career.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 05:24 PM
3

Someone add this to the side bar please!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/17 04:36 PM
10

https://www.freecodecamp.org/ https://www.codecademy.com/
/r/askTRP10/07/17 04:15 PM
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Become a programmer; HTML/JS/CSS/Node.js Its a pretty "sit on your ass, low stress" type of job. If you are talented and work in a nice place you get like hour long lunches to go to the gym or they have a gym in the building. Most programmers/IT are huge gym rats due to the free time. Having nothing but reddit and youtube to stare at a good percentage are health nuts or redpill. 30k in 3m 40k in 1yr 100k in 5yr My discord server is https://discordapp.com/invite/J5wEPNG just ask the staff there t…
/r/askTRP10/07/17 03:49 PM
2

I just dumpped her after that actually, but my point is the comment is a form of manipulation in and off its self. It doesnt matter if you fall for it or not because she tried to manipulate you. Therefore she is manipulative. Im saying it IS a trick in HER bag of crazy. Are you implying that women are not manipulative? Creatures constantly looking for a chink in mens armor? That they are peaceful and just do as we say after a point? No its constant, they never stop. And when/if they ever find it…
/r/askTRP10/07/17 03:30 AM
1

Well, women are manipulative, and you did say it is our weakness. Logic on 3 checks out. For "the weak willed", yes it is bullshit. From my own experience the line "you spend so much time with your friends and family and not me, I only see you every Friday". The fact that you had to link something points out the validity of his assertion. Women "can" if they are manipulative enough assert control. All women eventually weaponize their vaginal gatekeeper position to pressure men into doing somethi…
/r/askTRP10/07/17 12:12 AM
1

GOOD All in all good week emotionally, no depressive bouts. Got women on the rotation to respect my boundaries more. Two are going on and on about marrying me Worked out each day Got farther into Preventive Medicine. BAD Havent gotten back on my diet fully.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 08:02 PM
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Live life for yourself, enjoy life for yourself. When that is genuine the rest is natural. Females should be irrelevant and as interesting as a pretty flower. Stop smell it (talk to her) see if you can pick it if not whatever. The next piece is keeping frame when she says dumb stuff to test if the reality you are experiencing is real. Basically, women see confidence as their inability to convince you of things.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 08:44 PM
1

I'll stick to that till I build up more will power.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 05:47 PM
1

Good Started new workout plan. Feels much better, no joint pain just the muscle feels like it's flappy and that pump feeling. When I walk by a mirror I feel much better Slowly getting through Rational Male : Preventive medicine Rotating the plates, upped the dread game for a nice lay. Started programming a new personal website for passive income Bad Felt very depressed all week due to the bit of oneitis I cant seem to shake causing me to explode on everyone around me. Keep fucking up my fast att…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 09:07 PM
5

Proper financial management No emotionally indulging women that arent plates
/r/askTRP28/06/17 03:03 PM
3

Ruins your self-esteem, fucks up your relationships with women, hinders your ability to make logical decisions, causes depression.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 05:15 AM
3

I think that it is lack of fathers. The black community over half the population is effectively fatherless. A normal male alpha or beta ar being run off by these women. No fathers to teach daughters to control themselves, and no fathers to pass redpill on to their sons. These work and entertainment places are also places where young men meet older ones and pick up just enough info to understand the basis of the redpill. Like "women are children", or "you can love women or you can understand them…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 12:41 PM
0

G-Easy
/r/askTRP09/06/17 11:07 AM
1

I dont think thats the case here, I think that women just dont wanna work in this field and then cry wolf.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 09:35 PM
3

Not without redpill at least, then they get predictable as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 09:34 PM
1

I've seen it, a guy cowboys a central feature he has over 10yrs experience and its turns out to be complete shit. The two girls on the team integrating with it lock themselves in an office with a whiteboard and beast mode a fix. The guy quits. My team comes around I'm looking at the code base and sure enough the code was shit where it wasnt one of the women overwriting with proper techniques. Merit is merit, the issue here was more so seniority. Staying edged in tech is hard and the new guy/girl…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 12:42 PM
3

I am going to have to disagree with this. JS is a terrible language for people that dont learn JS and think it is like any other language in the way it is built. Much like redpill where you limit your attachments and seek understanding to her bizarre behaviors so is JavaScript. Douglas Crawford talks on the language expound on this much like Rollo did. Hell he even got ran off as a speaker for "slut shaming the internet". When you learn the difference between a fruit, and a gorrilla in a jungle …
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 12:19 PM
1

I took this route professionally I can confirm its pretty easy and you get practical skills fast. Its also in high demand in the 90k+ range in most major cities, well into the 80% margin. Be a Chad, learn to program.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 12:13 PM
2

And you use that freedom to be where you want to be /u/XaroundtheworldXx. The anger comes from the realization that women are the other half of our species and not these goddesses to be worshiped. They are as illogically horny as us, if not more so. It shows you how to take yourself out of the situation. It isn't about you. YOU didn't fuck up, its just nature.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 07:20 PM
4

Yep. Take time away from plates, focus on your own offspring, and when she goes nuts, well just move on happily to the next one.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 05:12 AM
2

Via reality questioning. For maintaining frame learn the patterns of when someone questions the way YOU VIEW reality and learn how to dismiss them. "Do you really think so" "I dont know" "I dont trust that" "Are you sure" "How about instead" "No way" "You have to be lying" "are you compensating for something" "I dont believe you" "I dont think we should do that" The answer to all of these is "I don't care about your opinion on the matter, because I known that I am right", or some form of that. W…
/r/askTRP23/05/17 05:53 PM
3

I ran into this bizarre facet of female thinking before I found this subreddit and the burning question of what caused it is what drove me here. The basic run down is thus: Ex boyfriend does something girl finds aggravating She trash talks him to me I agree with boyfriend, same thing She says its "ok" when I do it. I still dont fully understand this. I got away with saying some pretty directly mean and sexist stuff. I was actively trying to hurt her feelings out of spite or other reason and even…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 05:39 AM
1

She cant be destructive toward your ego. If her shit test bother, not inspire you she's not the one. Her prods should be mentally stimulating not damning.
/r/askTRP16/05/17 06:25 AM
3

She replied with: "You're so selfish Can someone explain that reasoning (non-reasoning)?
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 04:28 AM
7

They really just want the free drinks. Watch how they tip.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 12:32 PM
1

World domination it is then!
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 03:39 PM
1

Think of it as, "there is always room for improvement". You can always be focused on building your wealth, health, and game. This is the male equivalent of female "dread". The red pill of it is seeing that it effects us to and we should always be vigilant. Blue pills have no idea, and women can pick up on clues of when its in effect. End your fear by making her fear. Accept the reality and just make 'other guys' rarer and rarer. Kill off the competition by bettering yourself.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 08:48 PM
1

"to be self-reliant" ... I think this doctor is mentally ill.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 10:04 PM
3

To clarify the sarcasm, part of his income upto 50% of his assets (maybe more) 18+ years of responsibility, his check garnished during that time possibly preventing him from maintaining his own personal needs and very likely investing into someone else romantically. In extreme cases jail time.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 08:16 PM
4

Saying male birth control is less dangerous than female is also. I apologize that I did not make my sarcasm more clear. For suicide to popup in a small trial is a red flag.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 05:00 PM
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Women : bigger boobs, self confidence, less PMS, bit more moody. Men : loss of looks, loss of ambition, way more moody, suicidal. Yeah totally equal. Really Feminist?
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 03:21 PM
1

You're talking to a child, hard to get upset with a child.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 03:17 PM
2

This validates some of my research thanks. I think the way you have your set up is "the real natural order".
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 12:34 AM
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