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| 12 | Ex-RPs do you have cautionary tales?Ehm... let's see... completely fucking up my social reputation on campus for acting like a socially retard alfa from the beggining; blowing up relationships due to insecurities like past partners; being misogynist and trying to pick up women, which is a rather esotheric experience for lack of better word, because you are trying to impress someone whom you actually dont like nor respect due to believing they are just hypergamous, shallow pieces of trash, which makes the whole thing kida awkward a… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/07/26 10:10 AM |
| -2 | Is this man red pilled ?Don't need to meet them in person to talk to them in private and get to know their history and what they think. Red Pillers do indeed notice a real pattern because they attract what they are, usually high self esteem women dont fall for red pill bullshit and if they do they run when they violate their boundaries, while dark triad women who love to play manipulative games, or low self esteem women put up with their bullshit, hence TRPers notice "a pattern" and they are right. I dont know whats th… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/07/26 09:51 PM |
| 9 | Was my ex-boyfriend red pilled?Yes, he was literally watching the content and spouting all the cliches lol | /r/ExRedPill | 25/07/26 08:00 PM |
| 10 | The ultimate False Dilemma: Deconstructing the RP categorization of women.Something here doesnt add up. From a statistical stsndpoint aint no way you are getting cheated on 5 times in a row with 5 completely different people unless you are brutally unlucky or are just picking like absolute shit | /r/ExRedPill | 25/07/26 06:29 PM |
| -2 | Is this man red pilled ?Because a) i know who are the people who hang around here, including the women, having met some of them outside this sub over the years (enough to have noticed a pattern) and b) there's nothing normal about opening a thread like this and the immediate top, most voted comments (plural) are women just telling the OP to leave the guy over what is mostly murky behavior within 3 or 4 dates, but as you can probably guess i dont know the guy and wish him nothing but absolute failure if its a dark triad… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/07/26 03:53 PM |
| 2 | The Tate brothers got arrested againThese P.O.S out here trafficking women, raping, assaulting people, literally acting like the bullying psychopaths they are on social media for everybody to see, yet the average "red pilled" dude somehow thinks these are not the kind of men who would scam every singly penny of theirs with their "universities", with no care for their well being whatsoever. To build a case like this on 3 different countries you need to have a gazillion victims, witnesses and means of evidence but somehow everybody … | /r/ExRedPill | 25/07/26 11:40 AM |
| 0 | Is this man red pilled ?To me it would be, as i got no patience for games, but i also recognize that mere push-pulling is, for the good and the bad, quite common as yet another dumb social influence tactic that people use innocently because they are trying to look cool, datable and not too desperate to the other party as dating is confusing to most people and they don't know better. It's just like playing hard to get. Dumb? Yes. Annoying? Absolutely. But is it a clear indication of an evil manipulator? No. It largely d… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/07/26 11:29 AM |
| 4 | My boyfriend watches porn and is redpillPorn seems like the least of the problems when your boyfriend literally started dismissing you just because he allegedly got rich (as the saying goes, give people a little power and they will show their true colours) and literally told you to your face he wants to fuck other people (what the fuck?) because he's looksmaxed (what the fuck?2) | /r/ExRedPill | 24/07/26 05:19 PM |
| -2 | Is this man red pilled ?It's very simple, people need to get a grip before coming to the internet and confidently tell someone to break up with someone they dont know based on a single perspectice, especially in a sub like this, where the kind of women who conflate here typically have a very specific mindset (abuse survivors, politically oriented women, etc), some having been hurt by men immensely and having been exposed to piece of shit red pill men (which fortunately is not most men), hence unitendendly projecting a … | /r/ExRedPill | 24/07/26 08:28 AM |
| -2 | Is this man red pilled ?Dont listen to the advice of the women in here, this is not a sub where you'd take dating advice from the kind of women that hang around here. Think before you do something drastic. To answer your question, he sounds a bit red pill but the things you are mentioning tells us very little. As a matter of fact, him taking you to fancy dinners would rather be anti-red pill as its quite beta bucks, so... If he truly was red pill, you'd have noticed by now a overcompensating manly attitude, he would ha… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/07/26 07:40 PM |
| 12 | Came here from the jubilee episodeThat's why i find it hilarious when TRPers claim that they actually love women because thay accept their nature. "Yeah, i think women are, manipulative and shallow social climbers... but i love them" lmfao what | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/26 11:54 AM |
| 4 | Mark Manson debates red pill guys on JubileeDamn, i remember you. You're old school as fuck lol Hope all is well with you. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/07/26 11:38 PM |
| 0 | Mark Manson debates red pill guys on JubileeYour point comes accross as super dehumanizing and condescending, basically saying that male problems are created by men themselves, that men are a bunch of reactionary sore losers who are just mad women are getting rights as if men were nothing but a bunch of domineering assholes angry that their power was stolen from them, and that most of the problems are just imagined because they are told they got problems when deep down they dont. I also think that feminism is largely a scapegoat and imagi… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/07/26 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Mark Manson debates red pill guys on JubileeWho are you? Jon Sins? Dj Fuji? I cant remember who he used to guest coach other than those 2 | /r/ExRedPill | 20/07/26 11:12 PM |
| 13 | Came here from the jubilee episodeThat's one of the main reasons i left the red pill. This need to keep a facade all the time such as "being Alfa" because otherwise girls would lose attraction to me was just exhausting. I just wanted to be myself and be relaxed around my girlfriend, dating should not feel like a chore. Looking back how silly was to think my girl would find me yucky if i was not alfa lmao... And "being a dictator" is horrible advice. People don't like that shit and is going to ruin your social life. To the averag… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/07/26 10:18 PM |
| 6 | Redpill is growing in arab wolrd why?Because manipulating young kids desperate to get laid and with deep self affirmation needs, or manipulating the average mid life dude who feels lost because he just divorced his wife, etc works with the same social influence tactics and endoctrination gimmicks | /r/ExRedPill | 16/07/26 08:53 PM |
| 2 | I don't get it. The only people doing and teaching cold approach and game are redpill types.Know the difference between harassment and someone who failed to interpret someone's interest in a failed kiss. And no, there is no problem asking to kiss someone, ultimately i think we all should just do that, but this is ignoring really a lot of people don't want you to ask. I, for instance, once asked a woman on a scale of 1 to 10 how much she wanted to kiss me and she said i ruined it because i asked for authorization, so there's that. But yes, ultimately a woman that gets all offended just … | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/26 02:53 PM |
| -4 | I don't get it. The only people doing and teaching cold approach and game are redpill types.Dating is usually a violation of social norms in it's essence. Asking people out on a date, going in for a kiss, flirting... all of this is risking offending the other party. The more it escalates the riskier it becomes. People usually just spontaneously kiss, they don't ask for permission, for instance. So you are making a move on someone assuming they want the same thing and risking rejection, awkwardness, offending, etc. Cold approaching follows similar logic. This is probably number one reas… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/07/26 09:10 AM |
| 2 | Can I still be considered exredpill if I'm into pickup?Ain't no problem with picking up girls | /r/ExRedPill | 12/07/26 08:53 AM |
| 0 | “Multiply the number by 3”Dude, you dont have to justify yourself to anyone, if body count its important to you then its important to you and thats fine. Nobody is going to date anyone they find "yucky" just to be the bigger man. Anyone is free to chose whoever based on whatever criteria they want, even if that made you an hypocrite and you had slept witha gazillion women and now want a virgin that would be kinda sad but still you dont have to accomodate anyone's expectations. Lots of pointless arguments would be kept fr… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/04/26 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here just see many of the Incel types as just horrible human beings??Not doubting, just found it funny that out of all the potential criticism to point at JP they chose "he misgendered my favorite actor"... particulary when it comes next to saying that incel are horrible people and the bald dude from tik tok is a sex trafficker lmao | /r/ExRedPill | 06/04/25 01:21 PM |
| -5 | Anyone here just see many of the Incel types as just horrible human beings??>and Jordan Peterson is a bigot who misgendered one of my favorite actors. Lmao is this a real quote? | /r/ExRedPill | 03/04/25 08:39 PM |
| 3 | Red-Pill Leaning Guy Looking for Honest DiscussionGo to www.datepsychology.com and follow Alex Datepsych on twitter (the author of the website), he does really good in refuting a lot of incel and red pill bs while also not bullshitting anyone and higlight the studies red pill cites that are actually true. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/02/25 11:08 PM |
| 3 | I can't stand to even look at attractive women anymore.Dating those said attractive women wouldn't really make you happy in the long run. We just think it would, but it wouldn't. Our brain just likes to trick us that sex and money makes us happy. Yet, once you reach that finnish line, you just go like "wow, that's it"... and start craving something better. It's human nature. I guess what i'm trying to say is: quit thinking you're missing something amazing by not dating these women. You're not. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/25 11:18 AM |
| 4 | What I Learned from a Red-Piller on Their Death BedThis sub has been around for like 10 years, thousands of people have came here, many were former TRP, even PUA gurus and TRP coaches were here but now that you came and said that there's no such thing as an ex TRPer i think it's game over. I mean, it's not like countless people came her with that "you dont stop being TRP" bullshit that rollout myassi came up with for mind control reasons - "cant get out even if you want to". I guess all there's left is for me to delete this sub. Thanks for your … | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/25 04:54 PM |
| 7 | Can we have honest convo about the red pillAint shit to say. With a few exceptions, Red Pill would be good if it was presented under a "list of shit women may do or act like that aint cool and how to better protect yourself from it". Instead they forget that women are cool too, they can be amazing human beings too, they arent always trying to fuck with you or take advantage, and some of the beliefs are just baseless misogyny like women being "so emotional" they cant be responsible for themselves or not being fit for leadership positions,… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/25 10:00 AM |
| 3 | I still believe in the red pill even though it's harmful.But I don't know what else to believe inWomen are human beings, meaning that like every human beings, they are flawed. Red Pill does a good job in describing typically shitty behavior patterns that some women may exhibit. All of these weird ass concepts like monkey branching, hypergamy, etc, are mere generalizations of shitty behavior that you may sometimes encounter on women. There may be some general gender differences but you will often find shitty behavior from many men just the same, and stuff like female dating strategy also hig… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/12/24 06:22 PM |
| -3 | What red pillers get wrong about the "girls love bad boys" tropeActually, i agree with you to some extent. I don't think that dating is necessarily harder than it was 50 years ago (dating has always been hard), it just has different problems attached to it. simply put, both men and women want to keep the advantages of traditional gender roles that benefit them while attempting to abolish what doesn't benefit them. Ladies: You can't expect your man to be taller than you or muscular/masculine yet claim that female beauty standards are oppressive and judging hi… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/12/24 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Dating harder more now then everLol, dating isn't harder now than ever, the truth is that dating has always been hard. Pople are just voicing their concerns more through social media and algorithms just turn it into a mass hysteria. Dating is not much different than the housing market, sellers just want a copious amount of money for a mediocre flat, while buyers want a nice home in a good area without paying a dime more of it's worth, so the result is a massive shitfest as you'd expect. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/10/24 09:42 PM |
| 9 | How do I keep a woman?So why was this woman disgusted of me? My mind immediately jumped to the fact I'm a 5'7, effeminate, undominant male with a shit car Then why did she almost hook up with you in the first place? If she found you that repulsive from the beggining wouldn't she have just rejected you from the beggining as well? then how do I keep a woman's desire and respect so shit like what happened to me and what happens to hundreds of others doesn't happen ever again? How do I make women want to ride me until I … | /r/ExRedPill | 08/07/24 07:26 PM |
| 1 | New research connecting TRP to other Dark Triad relationship outcomes. Participants were recruited from r/TheBluePill!How rigurous were you in confirming TRP allegiance? A problem that i keep stumbling upon is that a lot of women in this sub and others claim they were dating a TRPer when they were not. Most of the times they mistake a random douchebag with a TRPer, which despite the obvious commonalities, are not the same thing. They read the shitty tactics that TRPers advise and figure "hold on, my ex kinda used to do this to me" and erroneously conclude their ex was a TRPer, but the truth is, you're only a TR… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/06/24 11:56 AM |
| 1 | An anti-Red Pill dating coach I enjoyed listening to on Youtube, Anthony Recenello, brags in his audiobook about the age of his very young gf - should I stop listening to him?Mark Manson, Dr Nerdlove, Howie Reith, Sania Khan... there are probably more but yeah, i haven't kept track. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/06/24 11:40 AM |
| 4 | An anti-Red Pill dating coach I enjoyed listening to on Youtube, Anthony Recenello, brags in his audiobook about the age of his very young gf - should I stop listening to him?I don't think there's anything inherently wrong with dating someone considerably younger or older as long as there's consent and respect and the relationship is happy, but bragging about dating a woman in her early 20s just reveals that he views her as a symbol of status wich is kinda shallow in itself and just reveals that his motives are murky. It doesn't surprise me that even an alleged healthy dating coach would do that as even many of these dudes still got inadequacy feelings over having gr… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/06/24 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Rich Coopers “high net worth” high performance coaching is now $83.33 per minuteThe type of people that would benefit from the alleged coaching this scam artist does cant afford to pay that much. And the actual people that can afford to pay that much most likely dont need that sort of coaching anyway. So how come is this shit even sustainable. Also, if this piece of shit has the audacity ti charge that much where are the victoria secret models he's dating. Scam artists like this only thrive because people dont hold their feet in the door when asking for evidence of their cr… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/06/24 09:46 AM |
| 3 | A different questionDespite the rampant hookup culture and everyone having one night stands with a lot of partners that goes on in America I’m still a virgin guy who missed out. Is this really true? I imagine that if it's true then you probably know at least 30 or 40 people with the freakiest sex lifes, right? You can name them all with ease, right? And if this is the case how come you would not be more experienced? With so many sluts around it would be easy for you to get one, isn't it? If they are fucking everybo… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/24 09:47 PM |
| 6 | I used to be friends with a dude who hated woman and got laid a ton.True, no point downvoting you, anyone not agreeing with this sentiment is a tremendous cunt tbh... | /r/ExRedPill | 24/05/24 07:59 PM |
| 1 | I used to be friends with a dude who hated woman and got laid a ton.Nobody is saying you can't have meaningless sex, but if you're gonna fuck a piece of shit it does say a lot about you as a person | /r/ExRedPill | 24/05/24 07:57 PM |
| 10 | Red pillers are going InsaneI place this shit on top 15 most bizarre shit i've seen on red pill. Right above Myron from Fresh and Fit being caught on a sugar daddy website simping for women and immediatly before that wannabe coach ex con who was also a drug dealer who met his wife on a drug deal | /r/ExRedPill | 23/05/24 09:28 PM |
| 7 | Red pillers are going InsaneCan't make this shit up | /r/ExRedPill | 23/05/24 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Is waiting several days or a week to call or text a girl after a first date in order to avoid seeming needy a red pill idea?Back in the day, Mystery used to advice to wait 3 days before contact so yes. Which is funny because out of all the advice i used to follow i found that one to be the least effective. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/05/24 09:54 PM |
| 1 | My best friend constantly talks about how hard his dating life is because he is juggling 4 different women who all want to be with him and he doesn't know which one he wants.Point is: Doesn't matter if it's the experience of the average man or woman, people always want what they don't have and overstimate how wonderful life would be if they could have those things | /r/ExRedPill | 22/04/24 07:13 PM |
| 2 | My best friend constantly talks about how hard his dating life is because he is juggling 4 different women who all want to be with him and he doesn't know which one he wants.So what? I was in PUA and TRP for 4 years. I thought losing my virginity would make things easier for me. It didn't. I thought having a same night lay would make me feel better and more confident. Again it kinda didn't. I've had a number of sexual experiences, and yet, none of them gave me much of an high. Just last month i had dinner with a old PUA buddy of mine. This dude was super good looking. The typical case of a guy who just needed confidence to start fucking women. He's had sex with over… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/04/24 08:21 PM |
| 12 | My best friend constantly talks about how hard his dating life is because he is juggling 4 different women who all want to be with him and he doesn't know which one he wants.Well, you were THIS CLOSE to being elightned... but as usual in this sub, everytime a dude is close to come up to a massive conclusion about his life, he just shoots at the fucking goal post spectaculary. I will give you a hint... If your friend is fucking 4 women and still isn't happy... what does that tell you about the pointlessness of fucking multiple people? | /r/ExRedPill | 17/04/24 08:09 PM |
| 4 | I would caution people here against saying that men here are unable to get laid or dates because they're misogynisticWell, i don't see how telling a guy he won't get laid because of being misogynistic is something to "be cautious" about. If you're already barely getting any, being mysoginistic will only hurt your chances more and is a "luxury" you're not really allowed, as people won't put up with that shitty behavior unless you bring a lot more to the table, so how's telling a guy to stop being mysognisitc to improve his chances any wrong? It's like me telling you that you failed the exam because you didn't s… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/04/24 08:03 PM |
| 1 | How to get over your resentment of promiscuous women?If you don't want to date promiscuous women then don't. If the reason you don't want to date them is because of jealousy or what not it's perfectly fine too. Even if it comes from a place of weakness or whatever, it's fine. I'd never in my life would commit to a promiscuous woman and this is also partly due merely to pride, and i fully admit it. so what? It's my choice, don't care if it's fair or not, at the end of the day nobody is going to date someone because "it's the right thing to do". I j… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/10/23 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Adam22 situation is a perfect example of how masculinity and alphaness are unattainable and stupidLol, i don't think any of that is "alpha" either. It's just that Red Pill considers that Alpha and the point of the post is to criticize red pill.. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/23 09:19 PM |
| 1 | let me ask this if red pill hit a billion men what will yall do because no matter saying how bad the red pill is its growing and nobody will stop itNothing, Red Pill reaching 1 billion men would be the absolute best case scenario because at that point the amount of public attention over it would be huge meaning that more and more intelligent people with social influence would be able to refute it publically and have their message heard. Besides, Red Pill is a lie, and if it reached those many men, it's crumble would be more and more appearent. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/10/23 09:36 AM |
| 3 | What does this sub think about Hamza?A lot can be said about this. Ultimately if you're happy with the advice and results then keep doing what you're doing and more power to you, i guess. But plenty of people lose weight on all kinds of diets, doesn't mean those are healthy or don't present a toll to the body long term... Plenty of people do no fap, doesnt mean its not a placebo... | /r/ExRedPill | 15/10/23 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Jada Pinkett Smithshe's your average hoodrat, of course she behaves like red pill would predict. Some people who grew in poverty, around drug dealers and thugs is the exact kind of people red pill applies the most to. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/10/23 09:33 PM |
| 3 | are you a simp if you buy her onlyfans?simp or not it's definitly a waste of your money. Paying to see titties it's literally what kids used to do in their 1940s. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/23 09:18 PM |
| 8 | Olivia Fane: Intimacy is seriously unsexy.What's the contradiction? Too much of a good thing is a bad thing. Attraction seems to be an ethernal balance between having to open up to someone so that you're "reachable" enough to establish a deep emotional connection and become familiar with someone's presence, and at the same time being "unavailable" just enough so that there's still a sense of mystery and curiosity flowing in the relationship. Unfortunately most people fall too much on one side or the other. Red Pill clearly falls too muc… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/23 02:27 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on Wheat Waffles?Some average black pill idiot doing black pill propaganda and destroying the minds of other feeble kids, like him | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/23 08:43 AM |
| 29 | My redpill content watching boyfriend broke up with me after 8 yearsYou were diagnosed with BPD and you fully admit you were in a trauma bonded relationship for years even before he got into red pill. It sounds like Red Pill was just an extra ounce of gas on an already ravaging fire. Don't take him back and don't try to go back to him. Close this chapter of your life and focus on yourself. Nothing good will come out of restarting a toxic relationship with a guy who is now red pill on top of that. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/09/23 02:21 PM |
| 0 | Adam22 situation is a perfect example of how masculinity and alphaness are unattainable and stupidWell, he fucked more women than you, has more money than you, is more famous than you, so i guess you stand lower in the hierarchy than a guy who watches his wife get rammed by a mandingo, innit? | /r/ExRedPill | 22/09/23 04:03 PM |
| 14 | I’m scared of cheating in this generationI don't know if cheating is very prevailing or not, what i do know is that your best defence is yourself and your behavior, just be the best boyfriend you can possibly be and chose your gf wisely and be vigilant of potential red flags, and you shall have no problems... | /r/ExRedPill | 22/09/23 01:42 PM |
| 1 | is there a link between autism and red pilled men?Definitly downvote brigaded comment, nobody here would realistically disagree with this comment | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/23 05:07 PM |
| -7 | is there a link between autism and red pilled men?TRP turns you autistic depending on how deep you go at it | /r/ExRedPill | 15/09/23 09:25 AM |
| 13 | Interesting dating experiment done by sociologistLmao you wrote the fucking Bible to express something so innocuous. As usual, Incels and Incels Pickmishas crying about what are otherwise regular, normal and rather innocent dynamics that no adult would find disturbing at all, but for whatever reason Incels do and classify it as a national tragedy. In today's episode the problem seems to have shifted from the (now deceased) "Women find average men repulsive and ignore them" to "Yeah, well, women may send a lot of messages to average men on dati… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/09/23 10:50 PM |
| 1 | be alonedone | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/23 08:53 PM |
| 12 | PUA vs RedpillRed Pill is nothing but a rebranding of PUA. Rollout Myassi himself used to be part of sosuave.com which was an old PUA forum, and most of the shit he writes are rip off of PUA ideas. Roissy and Roosh V are ex PUAs too. I remember an old school seminar DVD by Neil strauss himself and Mystery who coined the expression "seeing the matrix" to refer to the ability to decode social situations when you learn "game"... and "taking the red pill" as leaving your old life to become a PUA. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/23 08:52 PM |
| 7 | Advice for a guy with OCD on cold approach & datingIf anything the fact that you had success cold approaching would be in itself an indication that you can still have success in the fututre, even if sporadic. I don't know how anyone would approach hundreds of women and from a probabilistic point of view don't get someone to like you unless you're just THAT unattractive or something | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/23 03:52 PM |
| -5 | My boyfriend seems to be into redpillIdc, there's been a surplus of women for like 2 years or so now with this talk about their "boyfriend being red pilled", with these posts having a lot of engagement, i never said anything so far, but it's about time we start blaming people who are also part of the problem for red pill spreading, and that is women who fall for that shit. If your boyfriend acted like a douchebag and seduced you based on that you need to take accountability for that. Only excuse being if he wasn't really red pill o… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/23 12:10 PM |
| -5 | My boyfriend seems to be into redpillWell, joke's on you because if you fell for him and he was red pill already when you met him then you're the one who was futile enough to fall for red pill tactics in the first place. Decent women don't fall for red pill douchebags. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/23 08:56 AM |
| 2 | My boyfriend is a red piller, help!You really need to ask yourself why you fell for a man like that in the first place. I really hope you realize that falling for a red pill guy is an insult to your intelligence, that you got heavily manipulated and also makes everyone around you question your principles given that decent women don't date piece of shit psychopatic men | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/23 11:53 PM |
| 7 | Hear me out I think women have it harder than men because of patriarchy and male privilege.Does it matter who has it worse? Each gender, race, look, class, etc, all have their own problems, even if some have more than others, nobody has it perfect | /r/ExRedPill | 08/08/23 03:04 PM |
| 12 | My Experience With the Red PillIt literally, has never been EASIER for men to get laid. True, most men will be getting more sex partners throughout their lifes than they did 50 years ago After thousands of approaches, I can tell you most women don't want to have sex right away, and they don't want to cheat on their boyfriends. True, it goes beyoned me how basic common sense like this get's questioned... I know plenty of loser guys who got laid in college being drunk. True, i was one of them Most women are also jealous, and bo… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/08/23 05:41 PM |
| 5 | What are your thoughts on the book “The manipulated man” by Esther Vilar?Just a perspective out of many on specific gender issues. Not even a particulary good or accurate perspective. To put it politely... | /r/ExRedPill | 30/07/23 11:20 AM |
| 10 | Struggling with interaction when things get more seriousIf you're trying to act as "non-needy" then you're "needy" by default, as you're putting up a front of someone you're not to impress someone else. It's all about context. Being enthusiastic about talking to someone you already hooked up with twice in a row is more than acceptable behavior. Acting "desinterested" and starting with the games and pretenses just to not look desperate is needy be default. It's a paradox of sorts, but yeah. Just chill and enjoy your interactions. Be less in your head,… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/07/23 12:41 PM |
| 17 | Can I forgive my ex for being redpilled in the distant past?I mean, it all comes down to his present beliefs, and above all, the way he behaves and he's treating you. Red pill is only important as a proxy of how is going to treat you, right? If you give him a chance and he treats you right, red pill past is irrelevant as long as he keeps treating you decently. But let him know that the moment he pulls any RP Clown shit on you then is the moment you're leaving... | /r/ExRedPill | 28/07/23 12:33 PM |
| 1 | “Gen Z sexless Generation”when they say Gen Z is sexless do they really only mean the men? Depends on what you mean by "sexless". In the past decade at least 70% of people had 1+ partner in the previous year. Based on this Source. Also this is the source of the source. In 2022, about 15% of men and 13% of women aged 18-25 were sexless, with results probably being a bit more skewed to the younger cohort being more likely to have been sexless in the past year (The closer to 18 years old, the more likely the person is sexle… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/23 01:10 PM |
| 6 | another no girlfriend postNgl, when i was into PUA i lost count to the amount of times not having my own logistics ruined my chances. Like, having your own place to bang and/or a car is THAT important. Unfortunately, i only acquired these MUCH later in life. I've seldomly seen anyone talking about this. Sex is a spontaenous act that only happens in the right place. I don't think people realize how much of a cockblock it is not to have your own place and transportation... | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/23 11:07 AM |
| 2 | another no girlfriend postFor me thats the main reason why i would watch it is because i feel i can’t get that experience in real life Did you ever: Approach dozens of women in real life (wether it's cold approaching on appropriate venues like nightlife or warm approaches like friends of friends)? Tried to ask many women out on dates (and i'm not talking about just random strangers online, i'm talking about women that you've actually met or had any long, meaningful interactions)? Tried to "pull the trigger" with the wome… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/23 10:57 AM |
| 16 | What does this sub think about Hamza?Usually pseudo-scientific fads (nofap, dopamine detox, paleodiet) more based on faulty science than actual research. Also massive marketing and little guaranteed results, where everytime someone fails with self-improvement advice it's always framed as "your fault" because "You didn't try hard enough" or "missed step X" and if you deny and just point the obvious flaws on the advice they will just tell you you're "avoiding accountability". And the massive cult following of certain coaches and "gur… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/07/23 10:29 PM |
| 12 | What does this sub think about Hamza?It's a somewhat common move for these dating coaches to rebrand their businesses as a more Trad Con/Religious self-improvement advise and political propaganda. Doosh V did that. The "reformed player" and "spiritual awakening" is appealing to a certain segment of their audience. "Look, bro, bitches don't matter after all... all that matters is to be happy and honored, bro" type of speech. Partly because to be a dating coach requires a lot of credibility and is hard to keep the facade for that lon… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/07/23 04:52 PM |
| 17 | What does this sub think about Hamza?I just watched part of his "Worst mistakes i have ever done in dating" and it's nice to see he seems to be over TRP concepts but also just plain ironic to see him making the exact same points many people in this forum made over the years and been criticized by TRPer ad nauseum, such as him saying that you attract what you are and if you pretend to be a degenerate "alpha douchebag" to attract women chances are that you're more likely to attract specific kinds of women that TRP is more likely to w… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/07/23 01:47 PM |
| 1 | My Redpill Solution.I'm highly suspicious of the dopamine detox fad, but this does seem like a cool idea that could work regardless of it being dopamine detox or what not... Seems cool | /r/ExRedPill | 26/07/23 08:33 AM |
| 6 | What are your thoughts on OnlyFans?Just an online migration and democratization of strip clubs logic. You get a free glimpse of the nudity just to water your mouth and you gotta pay for more explicit nudity. Just like strip clubs. If you want you can slide on their DMs for exclusive content and to shoot your shot just like when a stripper takes you to the private. Much like strip clubs, it's trashy and lame. That's it... | /r/ExRedPill | 24/07/23 09:02 AM |
| 1 | The rawness.comFor whatever reason the URL has been excluded from Wayback Machine | /r/ExRedPill | 24/07/23 08:59 AM |
| -1 | Adam22 situation is a perfect example of how masculinity and alphaness are unattainable and stupidMasculinity isn't about sex or materials. It's a state of being. It's focused around virtues and or a willingness to accept suffering when necessary. It's about character, not about hedonism or risking your life arbitrarily. If Adam22 has mental issues or not is a whole different discussion. But he does fit the masculinity ideal. You're mistaking stoicism for masculinity. While both are related concepts, masculinity is not just (exclusively) stoicism. We know from social psychology surveys that … | /r/ExRedPill | 24/07/23 08:27 AM |
| 2 | I'm mostly out of red pill, but I struggle leaving the "high body count" and "pair bonding" thing behindSo, wether past promiscuity signals a bad girlfriend or not i don't see what's the problem here. You're not sure about dating a woman with an extensive past. Wether you distrust them or are insecure about it or whatever, in my humble vision, you're allowed to be insecure or a cynnic. At the end of the day you are who you are. A human being who, much like many other human beings, is insecure or distrusting. No need to beat yourself over that. Maybe someday you'll think differently. Maybe not. Eit… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/07/23 05:01 PM |
| 4 | Exredpillers, did your game change the more you liked someone? and it what ways?Hmmm, i'd say i would keep about the same amount of tactics and techniques independently of the more i liked them or not. If anything it would be lower as time progressed because i would run out of routines, or things to say or do or what not. What i would notice is that the more time progressed or the more i liked them, the more i would feel anxious or uneasy about wanting to be myself | /r/ExRedPill | 18/07/23 06:09 PM |
| 9 | Hookup Culture: Real or Myth?The general consensus is that it's only real for the so called "promiscuous 10%" of men and women, who tend to be hooking up with one another... Other than that most people (men and women alike) have been having less sex than previous generations. If you got the time and want a compreenshive, dense source of all the scientific data here are the best posts you can read regarding this: How have relationships changed in the last ten years? How many sexual partners did men and women have in 2022? Ar… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/07/23 08:24 AM |
| 1 | suggestions for anti redpill books or podcast youtuberDestiny... and Alex Datepsych also lays to shit most of the stuff they say | /r/ExRedPill | 11/07/23 08:05 PM |
| 3 | DocumentaryI take it that participants need to be on your region? Or are online interviews valid? | /r/ExRedPill | 11/07/23 10:00 AM |
| 2 | How many Men here, believe men invented built and lead humans in every way until modern times?It's not "men", it's SOME men. And SOME women also have contributed to the state of today's society increasingly more after equal rights have been progressively taking over. You don't get to claim credit on SOME men achievments simply because you share the same gender with them. Likewise, SOME men were responsible for a lot of failures, etc. You also don't have to take shame over that just because you share the same gender. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/07/23 12:06 PM |
| 5 | Richard Cooper now charges $997 per 15 minutes for a call. This is almost criminal.Man, i feel so tempted to pay that shit just to get on the call and spend my 15 minutes telling him how he's a scammer idiot who simply has no credibility to coach men on anything at all, let alone charge 1000 bucks for it | /r/ExRedPill | 03/07/23 09:04 AM |
| 3 | How did patriarchy start ?But seems to have sprung up around the time humans developed animal agriculture. It developed prior to that because plenty of the remaining hunter-gathering tribes have somehow anti-female or toxic masculine cultural practices, such as menstruation taboos like forcing women to live sceluded while menstruating due to fears of corrupting men with "femininity" through the blood, violent manhood initiation rituals or male dominated cults where men secretly plot to pose as deities and spirits to tric… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/07/23 03:36 PM |
| 5 | Men only...https://www.reddit.com/r/Prison/comments/14mkhpx/is_this_true/jq329uy/ | /r/ExRedPill | 30/06/23 08:39 PM |
| 7 | Posting on a throwawayNo, it's not. You believe that because that's what Red Pill fed you and probably your only source of information is what Red Pill gives you but things get a bit different when you actually start digging into other sources other than the bullshit TRP feeds you. In 2021 more women were sexless than men The data show that promiscuity is low. 88% of all respondents reported having not had sex, or having had only one sexual partner, within the entire year of 2021. More women than men have not had sex… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/23 08:28 AM |
| 10 | Posting on a throwawayHow do you know other people are vastly experienced? Are most people you know irl disclosing to you their experiences? My guess is a firm "no", because most people don't go around revealing their private matters, so from a purely rational and logical perspective you're just assuming other people are vastly more experienced. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/23 10:02 PM |
| 10 | Men only...Anyone saying "No" is in denial There's no such thing as not hating someone you view as a manipulative, social climber with borderline personality disorder If you're TRP you hate women and for good reason, unless something is wrong with you, it's only natural to hate someone like portrait of women that TRP offers. Unless you already hated women before joining TRP, TRP 100% made you hate women or on the very least dislike them. Don't even start me on the "loving women for their nature" cope | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/23 08:15 AM |
| 10 | How do I stop feeling so hopeless?If you believe you'll never suceed, then you never will If you believe you will, then there's a chance you will There's really no option that to just outright reject black pill. Even if black pill was true, you'd just have to shoot your shot and grind to succeed, really a "succeed or die trying" type of logic. Staying in black pill wil bring you nothing but doom and perpectual depression. I have absolutely no idea why anyone would willingly be a black piller and abide to the shit they believe in… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/23 05:34 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts about channel "Thinking-Ape"?Just a black pill lite content creator, if there's such a thing. Wanna be philosopher trying to make deep points. I've seldomly seen anyone who touches on the same points as he does without being rotten to some degree. TRP, Black Pill, all this shit... it's like crack: Not even once. Not even a little bit. Kudos for him on finding Alex Datepsych tho. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/23 01:52 PM |
| 15 | How does the Red Pill Community Feel about Mental Illness?I don't recall seeing TRP talking about mental illness unless it's referring to women, in which case they just have some odd fixation with Cluster B personality disorders to ocasionally refer to people with Borderline Personality Disorder, which they just confusingly think it's the natural state of most women, despite recognizing at the same time it's a mental illness (which is odd because a criteria of a mental illness is that it's statistical abnormality). When referring to men, i don't see mu… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/23 01:44 PM |
| 2 | What advice would you give a 36-year old incelBut that intuition must be based on something. It's based on nothing but the overall feeling that you get from someone. Surely you can tell when someone is mad at you, respects you, likes or dislikes you, is afraid of you, etc. So surely you can also sense to some degree if a woman is interested or not. Surely you never know for sure. Surely you may always have your doubts. But ain't nothing like pulling the trigger to find out. I do too. But I never manage to get numbers. If you lead a regular,… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/06/23 03:53 PM |
| 3 | What advice would you give a 36-year old incelLol, there's no "magic bullet" to know when to say what or ask someone out. Either you just shoot your shot or you don't, based purely on the intuiton of what's going to be the response from the other side. When i approach, i don't ask her out right away, i just talk about the average bullshit, who are you, what do you do, crack a few jokes, ask for a number and that's it. There's no pratical advice for this sort of stuff, it's largely just talking normally and when the time of asking out or goi… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/06/23 03:44 PM |
| 2 | What advice would you give a 36-year old incelIt depends. I have approached multiple women at bars, yes, the overwhelming majority leads to rejection, alas not really a brutal, ugly rejection, more like flaking on me after a while, after exchanging phone numbers or social media... The girl i'm with right now i met her through an approach on a festival. I reckon this is far from the best way to succeed, but for some guys who simply have no social circle to rely on i don't know any other option. Other times i chase women i know from social ci… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/06/23 02:52 PM |
| 6 | What advice would you give a 36-year old incelOut of all the women i have ever dated i can recall maybe 1 or 2 that were interested in my early on. If you're waiting for signals then you're massively reliant on your first impression alone, and most people simply can not create a strong, atractive first impression from the start. You need to shoot your shot and risk rejection, and become comfortable with it. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/06/23 02:29 PM |
| 5 | What advice would you give a 36-year old incelMost of the average guys i see failing at dating are simply not trying hard enough. Some guys just have this weird conception that if they just exist and are okayish attractive then things will eventually work in their favour, which is true to some extent, but it also makes you massively reliant on chance. If you're not talking to 2 or 3 girls at the same time you're not trying hard enough If you effort consists mainly of trying to match with random women on Tinder you're not trying hard enough … | /r/ExRedPill | 22/06/23 02:16 PM |
| 3 | Any other exPUA here?Ruined my social circle, labeled as a clown by pretty much everyone, barely got laid, quite the waste of time... overall i look at it as just some dumbshit i did back in college days, i guess | /r/ExRedPill | 22/06/23 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Any other exPUA here?Not at all | /r/ExRedPill | 22/06/23 08:10 AM |
| 4 | Any other exPUA here?Yes, from 2010 - 2014ish, approached over 1000 women, organized conferences, met a few "gurus", over 80 guys from lairs, etc | /r/ExRedPill | 21/06/23 09:58 PM |
| 3 | One thing that worries me is the fact that these guys get a lot of views on YouTube or what I consider to be a lot of views.Like, every 20 something year old kid is now bombarded with this type of shit in their youtube recommendations. This shit went mainstream, people are well aware of it... Which is good merely because the sooner more people put eyes into this crap, the quicker it will crumble, which it already kinda started. Every fucking 20 year old dedicated his life to lifting and being mean to women, to the point where the average woman is now tired of the average narcistic douche with the same recycled "suave… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/06/23 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Ex-RP what was the most difficult part about being RP?Feeling like i couldn't love because after all women are just pretty much portrayed as pieces of shit, and feeling like i couldn't be loved because women only see you as a commodity of sorts. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/06/23 05:21 PM |
| 3 | From Redpill to manhoodIt's not a "certain degree of masculinity" so much as it is a "certain degree of health". You should strive to have an healthy dose of confidence, compassion, empathy, etc. All of these virtues are good in the right measure, wether they're traditionally masculine or feminine. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/06/23 03:59 PM |
| 7 | From Redpill to manhoodFrom Red Pill to Manhood? No offense, but I don't give a fuck about no "manhood" whatsoever, and neither should anyone else. This whole manhood shit is an idea that goes really well together with the idea of "self-improvement" and transcendence and so every "manosphere" coach just milked the shit out of it ad nauseum to the point where it means NOTHING anymore (it never did to start with) Every 20 something years old kid is bombarded everyday on youtube with Manosphere content, including red pil… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/06/23 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Watching smash or pass face to face videos made me realize being short should count as disability in datingOut of all the women i dated, seldomly was any of them into me right from the start. When all you got to differentiate yourself is your looks, of course you're gonna be rejected exclusively based on your looks. Besides, youtube videos are usually fake or exaggerated anyway. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/06/23 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Anyone members who identify as ex red pill interested in being interviewed for a YouTube video?Can you share which channel is it? | /r/ExRedPill | 19/06/23 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Am I Hitting the Wall?You're a man, you don't really hit "the Wall", whatever that made up shit is anyway | /r/ExRedPill | 15/06/23 09:18 AM |
| 2 | The myth of ‘girls only liking tall guys’SNL = Same night lay Idk, all i know is that statistics point to hook ups being more common back then, contrary to popular belief | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/23 12:31 PM |
| 13 | The myth of ‘girls only liking tall guys’Hook up culture isn't really more popular. Most statistics show that casual sex was happening more in the 80s and 90s last time i checked. If anything, it's just that casual sex is both more accepted and easier to pursue openly nowadays, with dating apps, etc In terms of height, i don't think the case is much different. Women always cared about height, it's just that nowadays that's more noticeable with guys throwing tantrums on youtube videos over social media profiles of women publically claim… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/23 08:24 AM |
| 4 | Those who drank the Koolaid, what is one 'fact' that was shared by the leading Red Pill fuckwits that you later discovered was absolute dysfunctional garbage after you left?Well, unlucky me then who apparently am the only person in the world who used these "fantastic" antics and it didn't work | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/23 08:09 AM |
| 16 | Those who drank the Koolaid, what is one 'fact' that was shared by the leading Red Pill fuckwits that you later discovered was absolute dysfunctional garbage after you left?Being a douchebag with a IDGAF attitude will take you places. I mean, it did take me places... Completely burning my social circle on campus first year of college, that is... | /r/ExRedPill | 06/06/23 06:23 PM |
| 20 | Don't understand why y'all hate redpill when everything they say is not all falseI'm 5'8, ugly too and i smash Sucks to be you, i guess | /r/ExRedPill | 01/06/23 04:57 PM |
| 12 | Men who like to date significantly younger women creep me out(especially within the 18-23 range)It all comes down to the why you're chasing a woman that younger than you. Shit like control, fertility, fewer sex partners, etc are all bullshit, shallow, stupid motives. If you however fell in love with someone significantly younger than you because you got a good connection, similar values, nice personality, etc, and assuming there's no abuse or exploitation going on from either side then i see absolutely no problem marrying much older or much younger people, it's nobody's business. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/23 09:57 AM |
| 1 | My best friend’s boyfriend is an Andrew Tate fan, War Room member, and belongs to at least 1 red pill chat group that I know of…. Should I be concerned?I don’t know how bad it is with him specifically.. is it possible for them to have a healthy relationship if he also subscribes to the red pill? Depends on how deeply and seriously he takes it. Of my extrp days i know a dude who was deep into TRP but he would not put any of it into practice according to the people who were close to him and his gf. A lot of these guys really are all bark and no bite. If he did put anything into practice, it was pretty mild stuff or behind closed doors. The relati… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/05/23 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Alex DatePsych deconstructs the idea that women are liars and will try to completely hide their wild sex lifes due to social desirabilityI don't know you, nor your context, and i certainly can't predict the future. All i know is that i've seen countless unattractive people getting laid at some point in their lifes. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/23 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Alex DatePsych deconstructs the idea that women are liars and will try to completely hide their wild sex lifes due to social desirabilityI wouldn't know, i don't know if he ever said that or what context he said that. The most i've seen him say was that personality isn't really something you can change out of the blue or willingly, so most incels will keep being incels if their personality traits lead them to be that way. Me, personally, i think he concluded that based on personality studies that show that personality remains stable over time, but that's different than saying that you can't alter your personality, because most pe… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/05/23 07:34 PM |
| 2 | How important are looks, money and status for making friends, garnering respect and finding a meaningful relationship?Very important, but you can be average in all of those and still find a lot of success regardless | /r/ExRedPill | 11/05/23 01:22 PM |
| 3 | Expecting women have a low body count is hypocriticalWhat i posted was an excerpt from a paper by Steve Stweart-Williams, a prominent evolutionary psychologist. It's so funny how y'all just have this black and white view about how anything you somehow find mildly negative is the direct product of "wokeness" lol... Wokeness has nothing to do with what i posted lol | /r/ExRedPill | 08/05/23 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Expecting women have a low body count is hypocriticalNo it’s not me who‘s generalizing over 4 billion people. It’s a well known scientific fact seen over all mammals. Women choose sexual partners and how many they have. Men don’t choose it. That’s why there’s peacocking etc. only in males and not in females. Andrew Tate never talks about that he chooses to have sex with women cause he knows it’s purely the woman’s choice. I mean i have to teach you basic biology I’m ok with it but stop arguing with it. I just love it when an idiot thinks he's so i… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/05/23 09:08 AM |
| 13 | Expecting women have a low body count is hypocriticalLol it’s insanely hypocritical. My ex would always say that women “shouldn’t put out too easily” but at the same time if a woman does “put out”, then he “might as well take advantage of the opportunity” This is obviously super demeaning to the woman, but if you think about it, it's even more demeaning to the man. Basically he's essentially saying he's an animal who can't control himself and has to "take advantage of opportunities", or a loser who needs to take advantage of all "opportunities" be… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/05/23 09:02 AM |
| 42 | Men who were Red Pill, but are not anymore, what was the single most important, hard lesson you learned that led to you leaving?If i had been normal all along i'd have more dating success, with half the stress and 1/4th of the trauma and regret that i got | /r/ExRedPill | 28/04/23 02:37 PM |
| 3 | Why you think that the LMS theory it's wrong?Do i believe that LMS is super important? Yes, so does pretty much everyone Do i believe it's the single, most important thing in dating and that people will switch you off or just outright reject you if you lose them or don't have those things? No, and so does pretty much everyone That's the thin line that separates us, the normal people, from the red pill and incel loonies | /r/ExRedPill | 23/04/23 10:13 PM |
| 7 | What are your thoughts on Chris WilliamsonAverage red pill podcaster trying to present himself as more purple pill when he's obviously not. It's funny because he brought Alex Datepsych for an interview who clearly put to rest a lot of the bullshit he tries to regurgitate every single episode and you could tell he was uncomfortable with it. He still tried to name the timestamps in that video with keywords to suggest red pill conclusions. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/04/23 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Yesterday A Man Verbally Attacked MeBecause it's a way to preemptively descredit the people who think that men should have helped a woman in need because that's the social normative, and who often hang around this sub | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/23 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Yesterday A Man Verbally Attacked MeThey are not obligated to help women for the fact that they are women. That's my point... | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/23 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Yesterday A Man Verbally Attacked Meto prevent someone getting assaulted? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/23 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Yesterday A Man Verbally Attacked MeMost likely | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/23 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Why does AlphaM get so much hate here?I got nothing against that dude.. he was one of the least ridiculous iirc | /r/ExRedPill | 14/04/23 05:57 PM |
| 14 | Yesterday A Man Verbally Attacked MeLol, quit it with that MGTOW bs, that's no excuse, everybody should protect everybody, independently of being men or women, the moment they see an injustice being practiced. My comment is a mere reminder, though, that men are not obligated to protect women for the mere fact that they are women, as a way to shut any potential hypocrisy from anyone out there browising who calls themselves a feminist yet still thinks men should protect women. People should protect people if injustice is happening i… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/04/23 11:48 AM |
| -6 | Yesterday A Man Verbally Attacked MeShould men have protected you? Probably Are they obligated to do so? No, because women aren't defenseless children, last time i checked. And anyone who's a self-considered feminist better agree with me. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/04/23 08:21 AM |
| 2 | Can we ban the use of the word “females” instead of women on here?Roughly translated: "A patient of the masculine/feminine gender (or sex)" Edit: I'm portuguese, our word for male is "macho", which i believe is the same as spanish. I can't stop laughing thinking if if a doctor refered to a patient as that "macho".... "A 47 year old macho has entered the emergency room with significant pain in his abdominal region" LOOOOOL | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/23 03:16 PM |
| 12 | Can we ban the use of the word “females” instead of women on here?This was actually one of the funniest things that happened to me when i went to therapy because of TRP and helped me realize how ridiculous TRP is. I never realized how stupid it is to refer to someone as "male" or "female" because most of thet content from TRP was english and for some reason it doesn't sound as weird. But when i went to therapy, explaining what TRP was and how my mind was conditioned, my therapist was like "Lmao, so you don't look at men and women, you see people as the males a… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/23 12:25 PM |
| 35 | I recently found out that a guy I’m talking to has a high body count and I am repulsedI don't even know where to start. The guy likes you because he objectifies you/sees you as a prize ("A virgin. I'm gonna have what no other man had yet" aka NARCISISTIC MOTIVE) From a probabilistic point of view there's nothing normal about bedding 200 women and none of them qualifying as relationship material. It's impossible to be like that and not catch feeligs for someone at some point unless you're either a psychopath or a narcisist who just wants to add another notch to his belt for braggi… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/23 11:07 AM |
| 2 | Some questions on Sisyphus55's videoThe testosterone blackpill is that you shouldn’t expect to raise your testosterone a meaningful level by any natural method, that the effect of natural testosterone on almost all traits (behavior, personality, physical) is only ever small when not zero, and that the small changes you are able to achieve are unlikely to result in major outcomes for you. https://datepsychology.com/the-testosterone-blackpill/ | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/23 02:20 PM |
| 2 | 99% of you aren't even ex-redpillersYou're right, TRP is perfect and wonderful and it would never hurt the lives of anyone who actually try to employ it's advice at all, no siree | /r/ExRedPill | 19/03/23 08:56 PM |
| 27 | My disturbing experience with a Red Pill man at workI'm sorry you're going through this. Please stay safe and go to HR if you have to. Alas, that type of dude is the kind of guy with his head so far up his arse, that if you go to HR he would just come to reddit and open a thread about "this one foid at work" who "lied to HR that she was sexually assaulted" and how it's so unfair because "society is anti-men and believes fake rape allegations" and just can't, for one second, step back and realize the shit he reads on the internet is most of the ti… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/03/23 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Men of Ex redpill, how do honestly view woman?I don't view "women" nor "men", i see each individual person for their own personality and what their actual idiosincrasies are | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/23 01:17 PM |
| 6 | SECOND paper published regarding our TRP project, which used The Blue Pill and this sub to recruit.Nice, i like the fact that Academia is getting closer to the sub, whatever the area of study | /r/ExRedPill | 09/03/23 05:43 PM |
| 3 | I legitimately hate men now and am heartbrokenEven in a sub i mod, i roll my eyes at the posts you people often make. If some random incel came her with a post "i hate women and am heartbroken" - you'd all be messaging me about the dude and downvoting him into oblivion yet have the audacity to make this kind of post? I mean, no problem with hating men, if you have bad experiences with men, then you should then admit to yourself how you truly feel and then try to work through it, see if they are justified or just your mind playing tricks on … | /r/ExRedPill | 09/03/23 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Detox First Aid Kit - Start Here!It does "disagree", because the bottleneck is the result of random demographic variables such as warfare and patrilineal culture and not dumb shit people like you seem to believe such as "foids only chose Chad, it's been like that since the dawn of times because evoloootion and alphas and shit" | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/23 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Detox First Aid Kit - Start Here!Because twice as many women don't reproduce for every man, simply put. There was a neolithic Y chromossome bottleneck which TRP uses and abuses to try to prove hypergamy is a natural phenomenon but this has been debunked: https://news.stanford.edu/press-releases/2018/05/30/war-clan-structubiological-event/ The TL,DR is that Stanford scientists claim that the reason why more women than men contributed to the average genetic pool today is because of high prevelance of war during the neolithic (in … | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/23 11:29 AM |
| 6 | Andrew Tates struggling in prison conditions others deal with fine again.Lmfao, we can't make this shit up, people completely lost the notion of ridiculous in the last few years, the fact that Tate has a cult following and is actually taken seriously when he behaves the way he does and writes shit like that is MENTAL. Ever since 2016 i just feel like i live in a worl of complete non-sense. From Trump being elected, to PETA suggesting that riding an hyppogriff in Hogwarts Legacy is animal cruelty... Just constant non-sense everyday... | /r/ExRedPill | 02/03/23 09:52 AM |
| 2 | Is evolutionary psychology even a thing?I find Buss, Geoffrey Miller, and a few others quite bafoonish. Both of them have the deepest intellectual narcisism of thinking their work is just the ultimate jewell of scientific prowess. Both of them will dick ride anyone who comes forward as a fan of their work. Eitherway, 90 percent of TRP theories are misinterpretations or just plain intellectual dishonesty in interpreting evolutionary psychology, a field that is in itself already controversial for reasons that are not just ideological, a… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/02/23 10:57 PM |
| 3 | I can't take it anymore can someone please tell me where the redpill reddit are?Not ironic at all if you think about it | /r/ExRedPill | 20/02/23 09:26 PM |
| 2 | I can't take it anymore can someone please tell me where the redpill reddit are?You shouldn't be here. You're only supposed to be here when you try red pill and inevitably fail, and most importantly, admit it to yourself. Instead of hanging towards the path of ultimate stupidity, nihilism and suicide tendencies of "Incels", you come here once you're fed up with red pill. so please, do go to the red pill sub and come back once you realize you wasted your time (or worse). Let us know when you finish that process. Take care.. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/02/23 09:11 PM |
| 7 | Is evolutionary psychology even a thing?There is Evolutionary Psychology, a controversial yet still scientific field that is often criticized due to certain methodological shortcomings, and then there's this bullshit that TRPers make up and label it "Evolitonary Psychology", which is different than real Evolutionary Psychology | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Help - how do you respond to “redpoll truths”?If you're on twitter follow Datepsych - https://twitter.com/datepsych Check his older threads from like the past 4 months or so, he debunks a lot of TRP stuff, it's really worth it | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/23 05:20 PM |
| 3 | Isn't Hamza literally this jerk from Madagascar? (hope this sub allows a bit of funnies, haha)This may come across as a huge surprise to you, but when people make a joke critizing a douche you dick ride doesn't always mean they are jealous of them... In fact, most often that not, when someone makes a joke about a douche you dickride it just kinda means that he's a douche that deserves criticism | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/23 04:23 PM |
| 5 | Isn't Hamza literally this jerk from Madagascar? (hope this sub allows a bit of funnies, haha)Lmao | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/23 04:18 PM |
| 3 | ExredpillsDress fashionably and don't mind about the comments of your peers. Go to the gym and lift. Get involved on extracurricular activities where you can make new groups of friends, drop those activities if you ain't making friends there. Don't respect people who don't respect you, don't be afraid to tell them outright to fuck off. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/23 09:11 AM |
| 3 | You folks are hypocrites.I'm not gonna open those links, i'll just take your word for it, assuming that indeed it's the exact same situation and context between a man who wants to stop contacting women and a woman who wants to stop contacting men, both for the same type of reasons. There is no "You folks" here. There are people, some people here are good, down to earth, while others are indeed hypocrites, most people fall somewhere in the middle. This is a mere sub on reddit, don't think that you're gonna get great advi… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/01/23 09:22 AM |
| 1 | My boyfriend of 3 months consumes Red Pill ContentRelationships that start so perfectly (Love bombing) are always sus. NEVER commit to anyone without a 9 month trial period (thats how long honey moon phase tends to last). | /r/ExRedPill | 15/01/23 11:57 AM |
| 12 | Andrew Tate exposed in court.I wrote this 5 months ago regarding Tate He's the new Dan Bilzerian. Like Dan Bilzerian, he will eventually be exposed or grow obsolete. The "What colour is your buggati" is the new "your mom" joke. Except that it sucks even more as a comeback. Dude already exposed himself trying to hit on a woman by claiming he was the world first trillionaire and that he would "take care of her and she would never have to work" lmfao, isn't that a bit "beta bucks"? You can't make this shit up. Like any interne… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/01/23 11:16 AM |
| 25 | what was the most beautiful thing that your red pill phase took from you?my humanity and my empathy | /r/ExRedPill | 13/01/23 11:06 AM |
| 1 | I didn’t do it, update to the girl from college. She left me then cut me off a few weeks later. And isn’t going back to our college because her parents are making her transferIf she's BPDish then i'm afraid there isn't really a possible route for a relationship anyway, so there's that. Next time don't allow yourself to fall in love with someone who's so unstable. Get to know them for months first before allowing yourself to fall in love. In dating, heart isn't the only thing that matters. Mind does too.. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/23 05:34 PM |
| 0 | I didn’t do it, update to the girl from college. She left me then cut me off a few weeks later. And isn’t going back to our college because her parents are making her transferI mean, why would you want to be in a relationship with a girl who doesn't want to be in a relationship with you anyway? If you like yourself the way you are and you think you're a decent prospect and she still doesn't want you then she's the one in the wrong. She also sounds BPDish... of course she wouldn't want to be with an actually loving person. NEXT, i guess... | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/23 04:36 PM |
| 11 | Female Sexual ResponsivenessIt would help if you actually posted the continuity of the paragraph: According to Basson, for many women in long-term relationships, a desire for increased emotional closeness and intimacy or overtures from a partner may predispose a woman to participate in sexual activity. From this point of sexual neutrality — where a woman is receptive to being sexual but does not initiate sexual activity — the desire for intimacy prompts her to remain open to becoming sexually aroused (via conversation, mus… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/23 09:21 AM |
| 9 | Losing a husband to RPI'm so sorry for what you're going through and i feel your pain. It's so unfair that your husband fell for the propaganda. It must feel like such a fucking waste. I can't even picture it, really. It's unfortunate but it is what it is. This is what RP does to couples. He's not coming back, even if all of a sudden he started to treat you right it would be a mere way to "calibrate" to manipulate you to stay with him. Don't stand his bullshit. Maybe the more women expose this shit and break up thing… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/22 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone knows Sex And Culture by JD Unwin?You got so many things wrong in one post. First of all it's 100 years from the start of sexual revolution. So this would mean it's been 60 years of sexually free culture for us, not 100. From American Psychological Association: "Hookups — defined in this article as brief uncommitted sexual encounters between individuals who are not romantic partners or dating each other — have emerged from more general social shifts taking place during the last century. Hookups began to become more frequent in t… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/12/22 09:58 AM |
| 3 | I’m out of redpill but…No, Alex Datepsych is a researcher that debunks a lot of manosphere bs | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/22 08:24 PM |
| 1 | I’m out of redpill but…https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CJs98oHWkgY&ab_channel=alex.datepsych | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Explain again how hypergamy isn't true...I'm not gonna go over any of that shit. I've debated that shit ad nauseum over the years, i've gave multiple replies to most of the things you're talking about, if you're interested search the gazillion of posts and replies around here. Also, this is for exredpill people, not current red pill people, so kindly fuck off.. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/22 09:45 AM |
| 2 | Explain again how hypergamy isn't true...Do you even read the shit you post? Keep throwing random scientific papers on here. The problem with dudes like you is that you just see a paper with the title "sexual strategies" or "evolutionary" or "gender differences" and somehow just reference it thinking that's evidence of anything. NONE of that shit demonstrates that women only go for men above their league, idiot. Read the shit you post... | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/22 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Explain again how hypergamy isn't true...I wonder why people like you just throw around a David Buss paper (who i'm much more acquainted than you, i can tell) and go like "checkmate!" when the paper you referenced has NOTHING to do with Hypergamy. send me a paper that proves that women want a man above her league, particularly a top 20 percent man if you want to prove hypergamy. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/12/22 09:37 PM |
| 3 | Attacking a man because of the medicine he takes is literally a part of toxic masculinity.Red Pill - "You can't offer an opinion on how to live an happy life if you're on anti-depressants" Someone in the back - "But what about Rollo Tomassi and all of these guys who write books and blogs on how to pick up women and be an Alpha that fux a lot and surprass betas, when they're 50 years old, married for 30 years, and whose nobody ever saw them dating multiple women? Or all of those guy caught in sugar daddy sites like Fresh and Fit, saying they want to spend money on them and take care o… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/12/22 09:45 AM |
| 3 | Attacking a man because of the medicine he takes is literally a part of toxic masculinity."Masculinity can't be toxic" lmao Historically you have examples of how random and shitty masculinity can be. The Simbari, for instance, force pre pubescent boys to literally suck dick and swallow semen as a way to humiliate them so they become more "raw" and "ingest masculine power". Does that graphic, disgusting image seem to you non-toxic? Many tribes around the world seclude menstruating women on the simple account that their afraid of "being polluted with femininity", doesn't that seem ridi… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/12/22 09:38 AM |
| 14 | How exactly did you divorce yourself from TRP?It all comes down to reclaiming your common sense. I'm sorry but a bunch of dudes on the internet didn't crack the code and uncovered some sort of "secret dark truths" that the average person isn't aware of and that explains the entirety of dating. First, almost all dating can be explained by common sense. Some of those are unfortunate truths (Women like looks, money, status or get an hitch for bad boys), none the less it's still a form of common sense that most people are aware of and willing t… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/12/22 06:01 PM |
| 4 | I'm 25 and haven't had a date or GF since high school.Dating is hard by default, to pretty much everybody. Going to meetups and struggling is normal. Just try to enjoy yourself and make your move on the women you like and hope for the best. Don't take rejection too seriously, just try to meet people, get to know them, have fun, and if you get success then awesome, if you don't then that's okay anyway, just keep trying until you succeed. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/22 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP?Yet here I am, a RP guy trying to tell an anti-RP person that dating is more than sex and that your "lay count" isn't indicative of your true success with women. AHAHAHAHA r/exredpill isn't about the actual RP. It's about misconstrued notions of what these people ( like yourself) think the RP actually is. I feel bad for those people, as it seems they've associated all these different things to be foundational RP concepts when they really aren't. TRP isn't your enemy it seems - it's yourself Cong… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/12/22 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP?Well, don't know why you keep bothering me, i already said you're right, and that i'm retarded. Obviously TRP is flawless and if someone has tried to employ that shit hundreds of times and failed it's surely not because the advice doesn't work, right? I don't know why a dude like yourself is still here, i mean, we are all retarded here and people don't usually argue with the retarded, for instance, i don't go to Flat Earthers subs to argue with them because i just know they'd be too stupid to ar… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/12/22 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP?Nah, won't even finnish reading that shit... You're 100 percent right. I approached over 1000 women in real life using game and TRP principles and barely got laid essentially because i'm retarded and couldn't "understand the advice" even after over 1000 attempts and 4 years of reading ebooks, participating in forums, attending conventions and sarging with dozens of guys. Took a random dude on the internet who knows jack shit about my life back then or my experience with it to show me this. TRP a… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/12/22 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP?It's just amusing to see how your try to orbitate between "TRP has brought me success" and "TRP doesn't actually promise success"... and also shifting the responsibility from "You're the only one that can give yourself a spectacular dating life" to "TRP has provided me more success than any other dating avice". It's almost like the rationale behind TRP is "the advice works, but we make no promises". That's okay but puts you in a very convenient position where TRP can take credit as sound advice … | /r/ExRedPill | 08/12/22 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP?Look, dude, it would be easier if you just admit to yourself that TRP didn't bring you anything tangible or valuable as opposed to try to move the goal posts to pretend that you're now somehow better because you're "aware" Don't know where you're trying to go with this anyway. If TRP won't really help anyone to fuck multiple women, and would just rather help "making better decisions" then it's quite fucking meh. As a matter of fact, I've seen people fuck up their dating lifes spectacularly becau… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/12/22 04:39 PM |
| 10 | With people spending less time outside and more time on social media, is the future of dating online-only, where only a select few men and women have any chance of a relationship?No, but if that was the case, and 99 percent of people were to date only through online dating, then the dating dynamic online would be much more similar to the real world. You'd have a much more even gender ratio, people's standards would be a little bit more down to earth, as they would have no choice but to conform to what they realistically can get if they want a relationship, which would be someone on their level of "datability"... | /r/ExRedPill | 08/12/22 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP?Bitch, please. How far can your head be up in your ass not to admit how TRP actually defines as success? For starters, TRP believes the natural mating system is polygyny. It's only natural that men want to fuck multiple women and it's only natural that women want to share the top men. For this dynamic alone, the ultimate conclusion of TRP is that you should indeed be fucking multiple women. That's the end goal as it is the natural order of things. Due to parental investment theory, the male is h… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/12/22 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP?Well, if you're soooooo old school, surely you'd recognize that TRP is nothing but a rebrand of PUA with less marketing and more emphasis on shit like lifting etc. Even some of the ideas like hypergamy, AWALT, etc were around, we just didn't call them that. In the old reddit forum TRP was defined as a sexual strategy, so yeah, the goal is fucking wether you admit it or not. Ain't no point "being aware" if you ain't gonna do nothing with that info anyway | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/22 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP?No, it's not. I'm old school. Back in my day, TRP was (and still is) dating advice. The goal of dating advice is, you guessed it, fucking. That's why game is central to TRP. It was only way more recently that you guys tried to move the goal posts and claim it's about "awareness of what's really going on between the two sexes" because most of you weren't fucking. Which put's you all in an awkward situation in which, since most of you weren't fucking, you'd have to admit TRP was failing you and is… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/22 10:36 PM |
| 13 | I hate how much more power women havethat's just them over focusing on the negative parts so they can demonize men further Maybe it's you who's focusing on the positive parts so that you can self-victimize or exacerbate women's privilege maybe not for you I'm trying to help you by explaining to you that it's kinda futile that you're concerned with being "unfuckable" when having sex probably won't make you that much happier anyway, so you have nothing to be worried about. If you understand that your situation won't be significantly … | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/22 11:19 AM |
| 17 | I hate how much more power women haveWell, it seems clear than in a woman's perspective being sexually attractive is not really "power", often it can be the opposite of power, so you can take away from the equation the "unfairness" of it all, because women can be struggling with the fact that they are "fuckable" as weird as it may sound. Now, being "unfuckable" isn't really an issue unless you pedestalize the shit out of sex. And the truth is sex isn't really something transcendental. If you had all the sex in the world you'd prett… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/22 10:32 AM |
| 62 | I hate how much more power women haveBeing "fuckable" is less than flattering to most women. Women do not like the fact that men just want to fuck them like a piece of meat. And often just leave them like it's nothing after using their body and satisfying their lust. Many (simple minded) men just want to fuck a woman but not actually commit to her. Many (again simple minded) men just want to commit to the most attractive woman they can potentially get. Their top priority for a relationship AND for staying commited is something as v… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/22 10:13 AM |
| 12 | Did TRP cause you to push your friends away? If so, why?Yes, overall it's common for TRP dudes to ostracize their former friends, specially if they don't conform to their new found bulshit theories and/or if they don't bring them clout to impress women. Their relationship with former friends varies from wanting to impress them or convert them with their new theories and lifestyle OR just trying to ostracize them because they are not TRP. Or some odd mix of both scenarios... | /r/ExRedPill | 01/12/22 01:20 PM |
| 5 | Red Pill Detox First Aid Kit - Start Here!Whoever wants to take care of it has my permission to do so | /r/ExRedPill | 01/12/22 01:13 PM |
| -5 | Ex-gf might have left me for someone else and lied about it. Help!Don't worry, OP. Most women won't do that to you. She's 18 and a hoe. Also, first few months dating anything can happen so manage your expectations. Next! | /r/ExRedPill | 29/11/22 09:09 AM |
| 3 | How to stop "spinning plates" and be faithful in LTR?I know you will say stop sticking your dick in other women... but it is not that simple. It is that simple. How can you keep yourself from stealing a car you absolutely want or killing someone you hate (exaggerated examples but you get the point) if not through exercising self-control and/or avoiding exposing yourself to anything related to these tempatations. Just exercise self-control and also avoid tempting situations like going out at night, talking to women, etc. If you still find it too ha… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/22 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Redpillers constantly say that women are "attracted to guys that are willing to walk away."the red pill | /r/ExRedPill | 26/11/22 05:35 PM |
| 8 | Redpillers constantly say that women are "attracted to guys that are willing to walk away."Overall, i'd say that the "playing hard to get" trope is generally speaking a widely used tactic by both men and women that (again generally speaking) tends to work. I'd also say it's only healthy to do up to a certain level only... "Willingness to walk away" wouldn't even be something i'd connect exclusively to TRP. It's a lesson learned by most arround their teen years when they find out that if they ignore their boo a little bit they seem to chase harder lol | /r/ExRedPill | 26/11/22 05:30 PM |
| 16 | How should one detox from the red/blackpill when their surroundings constantly confirm them?How can you tell the earth is round when your surroundings constantly reinforce it's flat? Here's the thing people don't get. Red pill offers explanations. Those explanations make sense. But just because something makes sense doesn't mean it's true. It just means it's a well told story. This is why i wrote that red pill is a reasoning based belief system and not an actual evidence based belief system. Explanations make a lot of sense but what about actual evidence? Evicence concerning TRP are us… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/11/22 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Turns out that kindness and companionship is the biggest turn on for men and womenYap, it is. Being kind alone is not very likely to take you anywhere. Still, that doesn't mean it's not a very valuable characteristic. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/11/22 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Turns out that kindness and companionship is the biggest turn on for men and womenOnly consistent finding is dating up in "wealth/status", the rest women are willing to compromise. This, of course, in mate preferences. In mate choice people tend to end up with those who are of similar value or characteristics, including status, anyway.. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/11/22 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Turns out that kindness and companionship is the biggest turn on for men and womenThere seems to be a huge incongruence between self-reported studies (what we pretend or think we want) and what we actually go for in real life situations. No, there's not. Some authors like Norman P. Li have experimentally shown that what people claim they want is what they actually go for in real life proxies like speed dating. 95 percent of dating studies are based on self reports and people are more than willing to admit their preferences for looks, status and kindess Paul Eastwick and Eli F… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/11/22 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Are there stages to detoxing like stages of grief?Well, you just need to know that everything you read regarding red pill theories are just that. Theories. You can't believe in TRP or reject it if you never applied it. If had you never put TRP in practice (which is okay and a wonderful thing btw) then you never really started your TRP journey to start with. At this point TRP is just a bunch of stories you read online, literally. So treat them as such. You don't really believe in TRP, or if you do you'd be fooling yourself because you never real… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/22 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Are there stages to detoxing like stages of grief?I mean, to be honest, those who never actually applied TRP in real life can't detox because you can't really detox from something you never really tried. In a situation like that, TRP is just a handful of concepts in your head you can't really say you believe in or not, because you never tried it. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/22 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Are there stages to detoxing like stages of grief?Not applying TRP in real life isn't a bad thing at all, obviously. And i think the overwhelming majority of people who identify as TRP don't either, otherwise there wouldn't be so many to be fair. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/22 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Are there stages to detoxing like stages of grief?Sure | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/22 04:45 PM |
| 9 | Are there stages to detoxing like stages of grief?Ehm... if i had to map my process it would be like this: 1 - Action - Being a believer in TRP and actively applying it in real life 2 - Reality Slap - Getting little results or going through a lot of painful experiences due to TRP 3 - Tolerance - Believing in the TRP bullshit that if i'm failing it's because i'm not doing things well enough, "take responsibility", etc. As the saying goes, ignorance is bliss. 4 - Questioning and Breaktrhough - Insisting on doing TRP and repeatedly going through b… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/22 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Are there stages to detoxing like stages of grief?The 5 stages of grief are mostly pop science and don't really apply in all situations, if not most situations. https://www.compassionatefunerals.com.au/blog/stages-of-grief/ https://www.mcgill.ca/oss/article/health-history/its-time-let-five-stages-grief-die https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/supersurvivors/201707/why-the-five-stages-grief-are-wrong | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/22 09:18 AM |
| 4 | What are signs that you are in the right path to completely detoxing yourself of the redpill?When you're sckeptic of the things they say or have a much more nuances view of how dating works and understand that TRP doesn't apply in a lot of situations at all | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/22 09:15 AM |
| 4 | Is it ridiculous that I'm jealous Women can use Onlyfans as extra income?what you're talking about, i'm 100% jealous of anyone who makes 75K a month or more taking pictures to sell to to stupid people | /r/ExRedPill | 18/11/22 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Hamza has become so cringe recently.It's not recently, he became cringe a long time ago | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/22 11:10 PM |
| 5 | Hey r/exredpill, how do you feel about a woman/girl who BRINGS redpill ideology to a relationship where the guy doesn't know about it.Lmao, tell her she needs to be homely, never leave the house, cook for you and be your sex slave. If she wants to play fucking stupid gender roles then she can go ahead and be the first one to start lol... let's see how that plays out lol | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/22 01:48 AM |
| 1 | What to think about this study?I shared it in a statistics group I’m in and they pointed out that not only is the sample size too small for a global population, the survey is too simple and hasn’t been replicated. Well, if you have a degree in statistics you'd know that a sample size of 400 may indeed have sufficient statistical power to detect significant effect sizes, assuming they tested their model conviniently. Your problem isn't that the "samply size is too small". Your problem is that this is only ONE test made within … | /r/ExRedPill | 12/11/22 03:41 PM |
| 8 | After watching House of the dragons, honestly see redpillers point of view, regarding the fangirls for Daemon TargaryenOut of all the TRP "dark truths", the "women like bad boys" is probably THE ONLY one that i think has some validity to it. No point in catastrophizing that shit though, as this is actually a popular trope, you see it all the time on the media, to the point that it's borderline blue pill/common sense. I dont know why women like that, or exactly how many women like that, but i should add however a small detail that people overlook or are not aware of, which is that women who like that shit are usu… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/11/22 03:29 PM |
| 15 | Love letters to inmatesThis has already been discussed ad nauseum. Book "Women who love men who kill" was a compreehnsive study of this and celarly shows a pattern of abuse among the women who engage in this sort of abherrant behavior. Also, some women are socially inept and love the idea of having a boyfriend without actually having to deal with him outside, because they got issues with intimacy. They like the inmates as a pet or something. Some women may indeed like them because they see these men as "violent alphas… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/11/22 09:48 AM |
| 5 | What to think about this study?The overwhelming majority of social science is based on sample sizes smaller than this. Most sample sizes are accurate, otherwise we'd be implying the overwhelming majority of publishied statistics are wrong. Datepsych also has a wonderful take on this: https://datepsychology.com/no-the-sample-size-is-not-too-small/ Mind you, the 46,1% percentage is allegedly pertraining to "lifetime cheating". It doesn't surprise me that a total of 46% people cheated before in their life. Technically, that boy … | /r/ExRedPill | 11/11/22 09:37 AM |
| 6 | Is there a "Modern Male Mating Crisis?"I don't agree with Costello. I think he spent a little too much time studying incels to the point where he bough into the half assed TRP theory and it now has become his pet theory tbf... Alex himself seems to pend to the idea that there's no mating crisis. Or at least the percentage of singles stay the same. https://twitter.com/datepsych/status/1558739688508297217 https://datepsychology.com/how-have-relationships-changed-in-the-last-ten-years/ The idea that few men have had sex in the past year… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/11/22 11:50 PM |
| 7 | I can't quit blackpill, I can just take a break. Whatever I do, I'm back to the beginning. Anyone have an idea about this? Is there any other way but to fool myself?How about this: Start anew. Forget any black pill, forget blue pill, forget any pill. Get your ass in a Yoga class and meet some women. Don't go there with any expectations, just befriend all the women and genuinely appreciate the interactions. Yoga classes are perfect for any dude struggling with this. Not only most of the attendees are usually women, everybody in there has this super friendly and "accept everyone/love everyone" ethos, which is perfect for any guy dealing with social anxiety or… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/11/22 02:34 PM |
| 3 | I think I can ask women questions in this sub. "Women only like the tallest, richest, and most handsome men and don't give the others a chance" and "They don't care if a man with these qualities is an asshole." Why do you bother about when we say this?I do agree that women may fall for "bad boys". This isn't even red pill, this is actually quite blue pill. You see it all the time in the media, and all that. I also think that women who are the most likely to fall for that bullshit are also themselves not healthy (again, plenty of research showing that). Anyway, i checked your original study, and well, things clearly aren't as straighforward as you think. Psychopathy predicted higher average desirability ratings from women who viewed their dati… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/11/22 10:33 AM |
| 28 | I think I can ask women questions in this sub. "Women only like the tallest, richest, and most handsome men and don't give the others a chance" and "They don't care if a man with these qualities is an asshole." Why do you bother about when we say this?Believe what you want to believe, dude. Just think like this: At the end of the day, it's your poison. The people in here, wether they are telling the truth or lying, will keep on with their own lifes. Ugly guys will keep getting laid. And your situation will remain the same or change based on what you do. If you want to convince yourself "women only care about looks" and how you're doomed for life then fine. But own your decision and stop coming here throwing that shit. I repeat, at the end of … | /r/ExRedPill | 07/11/22 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill Detox First Aid Kit - Start Here!If by "purple pill" you mean that truth is somewhere in the middle between the idealism of blue pill and the extremism of red pill, i'd agree i guess. Unfortunately, over the years "purple pill" came to mean a "red pill lite" rather than a good, honest compromise between red pill and blue pill, so if that is the purple pill definition we're using here then i wouldn't agree | /r/ExRedPill | 06/11/22 04:47 PM |
| 12 | Does r/exredpill love / like men as a whole?There is no "this sub", this isn't a monolith, far from it, this is one of the places where people with the most varied and contradictory opinions conflate... often non-peacefully, unfortunately. Some people love men, others hate them, most are probably somehwere in between... | /r/ExRedPill | 06/11/22 04:45 PM |
| 1 | How much does leaving parents and living alone improve dating chances?It's one of those things that if you have is not guarantee of success, but if you don't, it makes your life a 1000 times harder. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/22 08:14 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of Alpha Male Strategies?It's funny how you idiots think that "being feminine" is the ultimate insult or something. Even if i sounded like a woman, i'd very much prefer that over soundind like a TRP faggot | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/22 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Oxytocin, pair-bonding and casual sex: does a high n-count impairs women's ability to keep a relationship?Thanks, same to you, bro | /r/ExRedPill | 03/11/22 09:11 AM |
| 15 | I have an important question in this subNo, because it was a very gradual experience of recurrent failure over time | /r/ExRedPill | 02/11/22 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Help my bf has become redpilledBreak up with him, it's only a matter of time until he starts being abusive and dread gaming you. If he get's his act together and understands that the red pill made you leave then he can come back. If he starts pulling the red pill shit to manipulate you to go back to him that's a confirmation of his stupidity and a gigantic red flag and get someone new. Preferably the gayest looking, feminine man lmao... But in all seriousness, be careful, things can get very bad on these upcoming times. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/10/22 10:30 AM |
| 11 | Curing SexismI mean, prefering to talk to men over women has nothing wrong unless you're prefering to stay away from women because you associate certain negative traits with women, and above all, generalize these negative judgements to all women instead of trying to individualize and getting to know her as a human being first. Other than that, i too prefer to talk to men, but it has nothing to do with sexism, merely most men have interests in common with me than women (more likely to like sports or things i'… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/10/22 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Oxytocin, pair-bonding and casual sex: does a high n-count impairs women's ability to keep a relationship?Yeah, i just "deflect it by judging". I mean, i asked you to post the scientific resources that support the TRP claims i mentioned (such as women with high N count are less likely to be good partners because of oxytocin) when the burden of proof is all on you, yet you didn't. You merely acused me of being intellectually dishonest, illogical and unable to comprehend the studies, as well as mumbling some conspiracy theory about how studies are corrupt because they are funded by external companies … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/10/22 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Oxytocin, pair-bonding and casual sex: does a high n-count impairs women's ability to keep a relationship?That's a lot of words and petty excuses for "I don't have any studies that support the bullshit i believe in" | /r/ExRedPill | 27/10/22 09:04 AM |
| 3 | What do you think of Stirling Cooper?Never said otherwise. Jokes sure's on me for engaging on the lunacy at some point lol | /r/ExRedPill | 26/10/22 07:41 PM |
| 3 | What do you think of Stirling Cooper?He's a cunt, and if i could shit on his mouth i 100% would. What do you want me to say? I hate these cunts due to my personal history with TRP. I do agree acting like this doesn't make me look good, nor particularly credible nor a role model, but this is the internet anyway and i'm going to take a few minutes of my day to talk shit on guys like this... You're right though, i should ultimately start being more faithful to myself. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/10/22 06:26 PM |
| 3 | What do you think of Stirling Cooper?I AM a hater. The point in this case is not making valid arguments, because we are adressing him as a person, not adressing his ideas. As a person he is a cunt. That's a subjective statement based on an opinion. For adressing his arguments, my entire participation on this forum over the years has been aimed at criticizing TRP views, which he subscribes to. So don't need to make the same arguments ad nauseum either. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/10/22 04:28 PM |
| 3 | What do you think of Stirling Cooper?Closeted homosexual, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation... he's on at least one of these, it's just not natural to be an hypermasculine douche without being overcompensation for something lol | /r/ExRedPill | 26/10/22 02:12 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of Stirling Cooper?Nope | /r/ExRedPill | 26/10/22 08:58 AM |
| 5 | What do you think of Stirling Cooper?Absolute cunt. As for his sex tips, i never watched those, but judging by his general outlook in life i'm almost 100 percent sure they are cringe and i'm always 100 percent sure he has a small penis, erectile disfunction or something along those lines, because there's absolutely nothing normal about being an hyper masculine disrespectful cunt except if you're overcompensating for something. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/10/22 08:54 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of Stirling Cooper?Nice try, Stirling Cooper | /r/ExRedPill | 25/10/22 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Oxytocin, pair-bonding and casual sex: does a high n-count impairs women's ability to keep a relationship?Post all the scientific evidence that semen retention is real or that sex makes vaginas loose or that high N count women get their oxytocin circuits messed up. And i'm not talking about some half-assed, out of context, media coverage of some study, i'm talking about an actual published peer reviewed study from the original source. You can't, because there's little to none. You're the one who needs to fact check TRP claims. Not me. If you go to the sticky post in this sub, i got a lot of scientif… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/10/22 08:22 AM |
| 3 | Redpill, Blackpill made me gay.yeah, but you forgot the #1 reason why it's a thing to the average TRPer: "It's instrisically humiliating to date someone other people touched and had for free while i had to pay the commitment toll, which make me feel beta" While normies don't like promiscuous people due to simply not sharing the same values or views over sex, TRPers dislike it because they feel it's a threat to their (very toxic) self-image and masculinity. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/10/22 06:10 PM |
| 0 | What date should you initiate the first kiss and get intimate in general?wasn't asking for consent, she jut thought i was asking to kiss her | /r/ExRedPill | 23/10/22 01:54 AM |
| 0 | What date should you initiate the first kiss and get intimate in general?I've literally had a case of a woman who was (very negatively) shocked that i asked (spoiler alert: i didn't even ask, i just jokingly asked how much she wanted to kiss me which was in line with the context of the conversation we were having). Still got away with it because i just said "nah, if i wanted to kiss you i wouldn't ask, i'd just do this" and pulled her towards me and kissed her (worked very well btw). So clearly you can't talk for all women. Some may want you to ask others don't, eith… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/10/22 04:20 PM |
| 0 | What date should you initiate the first kiss and get intimate in general?There's no "asking for consent" in a kiss. Consent is exercised by accepting or rejecting the advances. There's no dating without crossing boundaries of social norms at some point. Going in for a kiss you risk offending the other part at some point, and that's okay, as long as you just take the rejection gracefully. Surely, you'd agree that for a lot of people asking for a kiss or consent at all stages of interaction kills the mood. This is 100% normal and expected behavior, most people don't as… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/10/22 11:51 AM |
| 9 | Could having multiple partners make you happier?Yes, sex won't bring you happiness. I've had SNLs and all that, was surprised at how underwhelming the whole thing is. I imagine a guy that has a lot of women will quickly just adapt to it and it will lose it's appeal fast. Like it says in the article, nature is a cruel hoax. Sex won't make us happy, we just think it will. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/10/22 08:12 AM |
| 4 | Brainwashed by the RP and have a question.People in tik tok acting like hoes get visibility precisely because they act like hoes. And since they get visibility for acting that way they get a disproportional amount of views which gives the impression that most women are hoes because those are the videos that circulate around the most, but it's truly just a minority... mostly doing it for the views rather than being hoes irl | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/22 08:44 PM |
| 1 | you will never achieve anything in life2 MDs, a post grad and get paid 3 times the average salary on current job but thanks for your insight none the less | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/22 08:08 PM |
| 12 | How can I avoid embracing the “women are only attracted to misogynistic men” idea when all my anecdotal evidence points to that being true?I'm quite sure Andrew Tate is loved by women for being misogynistic rather than being (or at least appearing) rich and muscular... not. This assuming anything that he projects in his social media is real to start with... or pretending that the fact that he runs borderline prostitution businesses and has power over his female employees doesn't contribute to any "success" he may be having. On the other hand, for every guy that is a charicature of a misogynist, i'm quite sure you know multiple guy … | /r/ExRedPill | 15/10/22 05:05 PM |
| -6 | So I got permanently banned from a Feminist forum today...Who gives a shit about feminism or politics? | /r/ExRedPill | 12/10/22 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Why Game Is F*cking Us All Up - how PUA / Redpill strategies lead to long term dissatisfaction and unhappiness (For Exredpill men)Lol, that's David Tian, probably one of the few good people out there in the whole PUA douchebaggery | /r/ExRedPill | 11/10/22 09:33 AM |
| 3 | It's a scientific fact that hypergamy does not existJust last saturday i went out to some bar, got a midly attractive MILF, around 45 or something, exchange a bit of convo, very interesting person, ended up making out with her, didn't take home because of logistics (had a guest at home and she's from out of town as well)... Worth noting i'm one ugly scrawny mofo with the looks of a 15 year old despite being 30... now i'm texting her, maybe ama smash, maybe i won't but still... went home thinking what the fuck are y'all mofos on the internet talki… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/10/22 04:52 PM |
| 2 | It's a scientific fact that hypergamy does not existDo post all the scientific evidence showing that women only date men above their league then. This is a post citing scientific papers, i won't take shit like "it's 100% real, bro" as if we were on the same level in terms of actual arguments. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/10/22 02:34 PM |
| 2 | I can't leave the Red Pill because I have a redpilled friend that is insanely good with womenHere's the thing: That type of shit stands out precisely because it's the exception rather than the norm. I've literally never seen that happen in my life, i suspect i'm not the only one arround here, not to mention that i've tried that sort of posture while being red pill with massive failure... so where do we stand, really? If you're so sure of red pill, why don't you become that guy yourself? I can't really imagine a guy like that going around a professional envrionment without causing massiv… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/10/22 11:11 AM |
| 2 | Is alpha widow a real thing?A lot of people, doesn't matter if man or woman, has that "one that got away", doesn't mean they'd "drop anything" to be with them | /r/ExRedPill | 10/10/22 08:15 AM |
| 16 | What Are Your Thoughts on "Average Women Don't Like Average Men"?Average people content with being average don't spend money on self-improvement products, but average people who don't feel like they are good enough do. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/22 08:16 AM |
| 2 | Can we talk about women with BPD.My point being precisely that that wasn't really the main goal here | /r/ExRedPill | 05/10/22 07:01 PM |
| -2 | Can we talk about women with BPD.No, i'm not seeing things, as i've been around here just a little bit longer than you, and i know well the kind of folk that linger around here and what type of posts and comments are around there. Nobody is blaming "women", rather they are blaming "women with BPD" - actually, "people with BPD" as OP clarified further. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/10/22 06:38 PM |
| -1 | Can we talk about women with BPD.Yes, because this is a forum to help people go back to normalcy. Not a forum for people to constantly try to "educate" other people on gender politics. This is not about you, it's about the person asking for help. Stop trying to make this about you by relaying on the smallest aspect of OP's post to take the chance to talk about your personal political views. It's almost as if people are just looking for the slightest hint of alleged misogyny to start waving their gender justice axe. Educating pe… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/10/22 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Why would women nowadays want to be monogamous?This is what i find brutally confusing... every guy who is or was red pill has spent an extensive amount of time being force fed "gender differences" and how women are choosy and coy because "evolootion" ™, yet will all of a sudden just be genuinely confused about why women would want to be monogamous/why are they not fucking at every single opportunity they got? lol | /r/ExRedPill | 05/10/22 05:39 PM |
| -1 | Can we talk about women with BPD.Of course, the first, top comment would be someone just dragging this onto the "gender" bullshit... | /r/ExRedPill | 05/10/22 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Can we talk about women with BPD.Lol, why the fuck is everyone in the comments just turning this on OP by dragging the discussion into some out of context "IF iT WaS a MaN woUld YoU holD him AcCountable?" and "Do YoU HoLD yOurSelf AccOuntable For DATiNg Her?"... Some of you fools just care about punishing people or just dragging discussions to "gender" bullshit. Yes, BPD women (and men, for the one's already shivering) should be held accountable because everyone should be held accountable for their behavior. Hardly a point anyo… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/10/22 05:33 PM |
| 10 | If you’re really ex Red Pill…..A lot had to fall in the right place for that to happen, but ultimately yes. I don't know what's the point of your question, though. People not wanting to date single mothers is not really something exclusive to red pill. The only difference is that normies don't want to date a single mother due to the responsibility, while TRPers don't want to date a single mother due to some "i'll be raising Chad's kid, that makes me beta" dumb hysteria/toxic masculinity bs. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/10/22 05:26 PM |
| 0 | (Rant)I am so tired of how Red Pill men have a double standard when it comes to supporting men who have been sexually victimized by women but not men who were sexually victimized by men and how they can actually support male survivors.All I’m saying is that there are a lot of people out there who do horrible things and their stats aren’t reported because they don’t have convictions. I can agree to that. I also think you can agree that most men are not criminals nor are they a threat on the simple account of being men. The stats that you showed do seem to prove that IPV is the exception rather than the rule. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/10/22 03:46 PM |
| 1 | (Rant)I am so tired of how Red Pill men have a double standard when it comes to supporting men who have been sexually victimized by women but not men who were sexually victimized by men and how they can actually support male survivors.Not gonna go through those statistics and their veracity (i'll make an exception and take your word for it, even though i always ask for the original source from a peer reviewed journal or governmental agency), but none of those are indicative that most men are engaging in criminal behavior. As far as i'm concerned, 30% of women being sexually assaulted could potentially be traced back to the same minority of men. As for intimate partner violence, those statistcs carter specifically to the relat… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/10/22 02:23 PM |
| -2 | (Rant)I am so tired of how Red Pill men have a double standard when it comes to supporting men who have been sexually victimized by women but not men who were sexually victimized by men and how they can actually support male survivors.Yes, but only a small percentage of men engage on criminal behavior. The overwhelming majority of men do not. That's the point of OP's argument. Still a fact that, taken together, the average man tends to engage on immoral behavior more so than the average woman. But you're talking about actual crime rates, and the overwhelming majority of men do not engage on crime - meaning that the overwhelming majority of men are not threats to anyone when it comes to criminal behavior. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/10/22 11:41 AM |
| -2 | (Rant)I am so tired of how Red Pill men have a double standard when it comes to supporting men who have been sexually victimized by women but not men who were sexually victimized by men and how they can actually support male survivors.This is actually a good reply, and the downvotes only go to show that those aren't always accurate metrics of a valuable post | /r/ExRedPill | 03/10/22 08:32 AM |
| 5 | (Rant)I am so tired of how Red Pill men have a double standard when it comes to supporting men who have been sexually victimized by women but not men who were sexually victimized by men and how they can actually support male survivors.Hold up didn’t you make a post stating “women won’t lie to you about their past or cheat”. Nope, never said that, and if i was to say that would be as a mere generalization to try to balance a little bit the AWALT mindset of a dude who seems to believe that good old "all women are whores" imprinted by red pill. And there's no "you people" here. There's ME and you're refering to ME. And the truth is that you won't find me praising anyone on my self-perceived team. If you go through my post histor… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/10/22 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Why do ex red pill people say body count doesn't matter?I think the insecurity is more about how they feel "beta" that they ended up "paying the commitment toll" for a woman that everybody else had for "free". Or they feel "beta" that the woman was "riding the cock caroulsel" fucking multiple "chads" and now is allegedly "settling" for him. Eitherway, it doesn't matter. Studies or no studies, they don't have to try to justify to themselves or others that it's a rational choice to not date promiscuous women. Like, they don't like whorish women, due to… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/22 06:23 PM |
| 31 | (Rant)I am so tired of how Red Pill men have a double standard when it comes to supporting men who have been sexually victimized by women but not men who were sexually victimized by men and how they can actually support male survivors.I'm sorry for what you went through. It's so sad when people have this dumb "partisian" mindset of "nobody on my team can do any wrong". In this case, TRPers believing that men are never perpetrators of violence just because they ride that MRA wave. Wtf... | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/22 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP?I get what you're saying, but still there's no better way to attempt to build a social circle irl than activities | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/22 12:11 PM |
| 2 | Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP?Then the internet is not really the best place for that. Joining multiple activities of like minded folk would probably be the best option... | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/22 12:05 PM |
| 15 | Is it even worth trying to compete on Tinder ?In addition to what everybody has said, correct me if i'm wrong, but the app's algorithm already shows women the profiles of men who have an above average level of likes. Particularly to new female users. It's a way to keep women interested, because if they see the app is seemingly full of attractive men then they'll keep using it. Which, in a dating app, is a top priority, as they have to keep their low female audience hooked. same is true for men: To keep them interested, dating apps will have… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/22 11:55 AM |
| 2 | Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP?Ex red pill isn't really a "side", it's a mere sub on the internet to share advice and info that may help one go back to normalcy. I admit the sub may be perfectly toxic for many, as all kinds of people conflate here, and it confronts a lot of ideals that people hold dearly, from politics to ideals of love and relationships. It's only natural that conversations turn sour very easily. In a way, that's the beauty of the sub, confronting issues in a raw way may sometimes be transformative. Still, y… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/22 11:46 AM |
| 6 | Why do ex red pill people say body count doesn't matter?Stop generalizing, there's no "ex red pill people", there are people here, some ex red pill, some are not, some believe past matters, others don't. I for instance am a mod here and i believe promiscuity isn't a good marker for a LTR. This is common sense. Anyone trying to argue otherwise, suck it up already. I also believe, however, that relationship variables are much more important to define the success of a relationship rather than personality characteristics like promiscuity/sociosexual orie… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/22 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP?Do whatever makes you happy... if TRP truly made you happy be my guest lol | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/22 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Question to r/exredpill; Do the women in these videos exist in the real world? How do you avoid them? I mean r/exredpill tells me that these women don't exist.Obviously those women exist. I'de even say that most women, to some degree, care about status and that's perfectly okay. The same way that most men also care about "shallow" things like looks. What seprates healthy people from unhealthy people that you should avoid is not if they care about shallow aspects is the DEGREE of the intensity, frequenty, quantity or context on which they like those shallow things. A woman that wants a guy who at least has a job and dresses decently is okay. A woman wh… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/22 08:35 AM |
| 6 | Do things like this confirm the redpill narrative?Don't know why that bitch's opinion, whoever she is, matters so much. It keeps being regurgitated ad nauseum in red pill. According to red pill "women don't know what they want" but all of a sudden what this bitch says is "true" and gospel because? I mean, for every woman that says something like this, there's 10 more saying they "want a good guy" etc, but when women say it, red pill just rejects it. However, If a woman says something that is coherent with red pill, like this quote, then shit hi… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/09/22 06:22 PM |
| 6 | I’m falling back into the red pill due to being jaded that I have to do all the approachingHow is falling to red pill going to help you? You'll still have to do most of the work. Guys always have to do most of the work, and in dating apps it's even worse. Dating kinda sucks a lot, for preety much everybody, going to red pill ain't going to change any of that. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/09/22 06:08 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on these studies and statistics?Come on, now. This exact post has been posted here 100 times now, once every couple of months, stop spamming this. Post deleted, if you want to discuss this go revive one of the 100 threads related to this.. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/22 08:16 AM |
| 5 | Hoping to interview an ex-redpillerHello, i'm interested, can you PM me your e-mail so we can exchange messages from there? Regarding me: I'm 30 years old, i was in TRP for 4 years, quite deep into it, even used to organize conventions. Now i'm ex TRP and a mod in this sub... | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 10:44 AM |
| 10 | Because of my lack of success in dating, I think I've missed out on a fundamental part of young adulthood.Dating really isn't a fundamental part of growing up. People vastly overstimate how happy dating is going to make them or how transformative dating is. As a matter of fact, some of the shittiest moments of my life happened because of dating, some of those moments were even at a time where i was dating an amazing woman and had all the reasons to be happy - yet i wasn't. I suspect most people can say the same. Point is: Quit thinking that you're lacking something if you're not dating. It won't mak… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 05:30 PM |
| 0 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?I think gender politics is blown really way out of proportion right now to the point there's really not much value in engaging in any of it. Even when i was in TRP i always found really weird why people would discuss politics like abortion, etc when the purpose of the whole thing was first and foremost dating advice. There's no space for politics in dating advice, really. People want to know how to make their dating situation better, they don't care about no feminism or anti-feminism. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 02:04 PM |
| 40 | Why men prefer younger womenFor all i know, it's all about good looks. Younger women tend to have better looks. I don't know of anyone who likes women for age per se, except maybe TRPers who think that 50 year old Angelina Jolie is worse than the average looking 20 year old girl. I think a good deal of the obsession of TRPers with young women is to simply try to hold women past 25 to an impossible standard out of revenge fantasy: Since they feel that women have impossible standards on them, then they try to have narrow, im… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 09:12 AM |
| 22 | Ex RP’ers, I have a questionYes, TRP is full of contradictions like those. The hamstering they pull regarding it is the good old "a key that opens many locks is a good key" non-sense, but will still lament the fact that "female nature" is ruining society because of only fucking with Chads lol... They hate Chads and the sexual dynamics of "todays sexual economy" (LMFAO) but they want to become the very thing they hate the most. Devote their lifes to become Chad. If this (devoting your life to become what you hate and turn s… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 09:08 AM |
| -1 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?Politics in general isn't the answer for this. Please, stop trying to force feed politics to people. Politics or social activism has NOTHING to do with dating and shouldn't have. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Oxytocin, pair-bonding and casual sex: does a high n-count impairs women's ability to keep a relationship?Please send me the official source of those statistics. Please, notice i'm talking about the official sources published in a peer reviewed journal or a governmental approved study. Not whatever blog post, reddit post or youtube video you saw those statistics. If you don't know where those statistics come from and never read the original source then it's safe to say you don't fact check the stuff you read, which is the absolute minimum to even elicit any serious comments on this, so i suggest you… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/09/22 08:44 AM |
| 7 | The "rewards" for successfully implementing Red Pillor example, on a social level, a red piller recently claimed on a well known podcast that his advice is ultimately only any good for a 'tiny percentage of men', but even if it is, 'at least he's giving them the tools for success' Could have told me right at the beggining when i was a 18 year old kid on campus walking around acting "alpha" and fucking up my whole reputation, spending the rest of college almost alone and with no friends lol Fucking trpers... | /r/ExRedPill | 20/09/22 07:17 PM |
| 1 | The idea that men don't like overweight or ugly women is a misogynistic, misandrist Red Pill myth.The demoralizing effects of men's bravado about not dating fat women is one of many factors that spurred the whole body positivity movement. My problem with body positivity (and this is my own opinion) is simply that why would i try to convince myself i'm good looking when i'm not (at least for most people)? That's just denial and narcisism, It's okay to be ugly, being ugly doesn't make me any less valuable as a human being worthy of respect. To try to convince myself i'm good looking when i'm u… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/09/22 07:17 PM |
| 1 | The idea that men don't like overweight or ugly women is a misogynistic, misandrist Red Pill myth.I understand your point and can empathize with what you're trying to say but i fully disagree. I'm not TRP anymore, but i do believe in common sense and doing so isn't really misogynistic or misandrist. Overweight and ugly people are tendentially considered unattractive to most people. That's common sense. Does it mean that overweight or unattractive people can't date? No. Does it mean that certain people can't find unattractive or overweight people attractive? No. But to just close your eyes to… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/09/22 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Myron Gaines impregnates their guest in Fresh and Fit who is an OnlyFans girl.https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/o0b3bj/the_rollo_tomassi_timeline_exposed/ If i recall correctly these come from one of the many videos of his former associates/enemies exposing him, (21 convention, john alexander, etc) i'm not sure if those are still up given that this is technically defamation and violation of privacy, but wtv | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/22 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Alex DatePsych deconstructs the idea that women are liars and will try to completely hide their wild sex lifes due to social desirabilitythese guys were not sucked into the manosphere by “scientific truths”and then became misogynists. Not necessarily true, most guys just become radicalized because TRP plays into their insecurities about how they are just in the bottom of society, unable to form relationships with women both because they are told they losers and because society is rigged, TRP has always gone much more deeper than misogyny. They don't become misogynyst until being exposed to the idea of "female nature" as a chaotic… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/09/22 08:34 AM |
| 2 | Alex DatePsych deconstructs the idea that women are liars and will try to completely hide their wild sex lifes due to social desirabilityJust because someone will talk about evolutionary psy or gender differences or so doesn't mean they are TRP. Under that notion, i'm a TRPer myself because i often talk about the same things as this guy, using the same approaches. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/09/22 08:52 PM |
| 3 | Addressing the whole "80% of men are below average" clam: It's likely complete horeshit.There are also studies showing that the strenght of the emotional connection also leads to more O's Eitherway, i think that the more attractive someone is the more O's is hardly surprising for anyone | /r/ExRedPill | 07/09/22 08:16 AM |
| 6 | Addressing the whole "80% of men are below average" clam: It's likely complete horeshit.I don't think the vast majority of relationships lead to dead bedrooms, nor do i think that dead bedrooms are caused by (just or mostly) dating someone on the bottom 80%. Just last week a study showed that mismatch sex drive between couples is actually merely explained by differences in testosterone between the sexes...https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0301051122001648 | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/22 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Addressing the whole "80% of men are below average" clam: It's likely complete horeshit.This is messaging first. Replies to messages is summarized on this graph: https://web.archive.org/web/20170316015704im_/https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/800/0*piLLN20dFKVYci7_.png | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/22 06:11 PM |
| 26 | Addressing the whole "80% of men are below average" clam: It's likely complete horeshit.Most TRP and black pill "science" is like that. Biased interpretations and citations lol | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/22 11:55 AM |
| 3 | Alex DatePsych deconstructs the idea that women are liars and will try to completely hide their wild sex lifes due to social desirabilityHe's 10000000 miles ahead of red pill, he posts all the original scientific paper sources, unlike TRP who doesn't really post data other than the ocasional media coverage of some half-assed study they didn't care to read. If you go to his site - www.datepsychology.com - he has a lot of dense posts with a lot of scientific resources to the point where his posts could easily be published as a dissertation or a scientific paper. He's not doing the same as red pill at all. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/22 08:41 AM |
| 6 | Dr. Glover and newest book red pill?There's no problem with banter or game, as long as you're not trying to fake your entire personality and as long as you're well intended and respect women, and don't view them as horseshit who should just be pumped and dumped | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/22 08:36 AM |
| 48 | Addressing the whole "80% of men are below average" clam: It's likely complete horeshit.The infamous OK Cupid study also shows that women still message the "below average" guys more than 50% of the total messages if i recall correctly, while 2/3 of male's total messages are sent to the top 33% women lol | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/22 08:34 AM |
| 20 | Alex DatePsych deconstructs the idea that women are liars and will try to completely hide their wild sex lifes due to social desirabilityIf you're a TRPer or Incel looking to detox, it's almost mandatory to follow Alex DatePsych on twitter and youtube. My humble opinion, ofc. He's an absolute gem of a dude, don't want to elevate him to Godhood or anything, and i'm not saying he's right about everything, but i've never seen someone deconstruct a lot of TRP prejudice with so much rigurous science. DM the dude if you like his work, he started out not long ago and good work needs to be supported. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/09/22 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Myron Gaines impregnates their guest in Fresh and Fit who is an OnlyFans girl.Plurality of experiences, i guess. I would not have left the community if i didn't fuck up my dating life and social life due to applying TRP | /r/ExRedPill | 05/09/22 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Myron Gaines impregnates their guest in Fresh and Fit who is an OnlyFans girl.Not gonna argue with that just gonna say the following: The sun being a big ball of fire in the sky burning, the sun rotating around the earth or the earth being flat all intuentively "make sense", yet none of these things are true. Until you research statistics yourself, know the original sources, and have the technical knowlegde to know how to interpret those said statistics, it all means next to nothing. Pulling a nice graph with fancy statistics in a show with a few numbers on it and claimin… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/09/22 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Myron Gaines impregnates their guest in Fresh and Fit who is an OnlyFans girl.It's not based on "one"... You have multiple instances of these so called coaches not holding their ground. Fresh has also been caught in sugar daddy dating sites, was even publically dating a self-proclaimed gold digger a while ago... Rollo Myassi for instance married a woman with an extensive sexual past, Donovan Shart married a woman over 40 despite denying veemently what he did, not to mention that he has been convicted of fraud... These are just a few examples. What more evidence do guys ne… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/09/22 02:34 PM |
| 3 | Realistically asking, but to those who come here to throw shade at Red Pillers that are coming here to ask questions, do you really expect them to be responsive to your opinions afterward?On that matter, i don't know. I want to belive that an actual decent user of the sub won't really be shitty to a TRPer if a TRPer won't start with being a TRPer, but the truth is this is yet another sub on the internet, all kinds of people conflate here, and plenty of users are here just to beat up TRPers out of frustration or out of their own prejudices or past experiences with TRPers or so. In a way, it's expected, TRP and anti-TRP deals with a lot of core beliefs and themes that people hold d… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/22 09:01 PM |
| 14 | Realistically asking, but to those who come here to throw shade at Red Pillers that are coming here to ask questions, do you really expect them to be responsive to your opinions afterward?Most of the times, nobody can convince someone that TRP is bullshit, they need to reach that rupture point where they start questioning everything on their own based on their own experience. Deep down a TRPer knows if he wants out of TRP or not. And the truth is that most people don't want out of TRP, they just kinda wish TRP wasn't true in their minds. Huge difference there. Either TRPer's just take the advice and counter-points here seriously and legitimately accept it, or they engage in long … | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/22 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Do women really have that many options ?There is no "pill" that's going to save you. No amount of far fetched theories on evolution or "game" that are going to turn you into some fuckboy. Dating advice is merely about improving yourself as much as possible in terms of looks, status, personality, etc and shooting your shot as much as possible, owning all rejection as much as possible. Dry spells to some extent are also normal for just about everyone, you're not a "loser" for going some time without sex either. A lot of feelings of inad… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/08/22 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Andrew Tate prefame sex tape discoveredI didn't have to see that but kudos to him. Took them over 10 years to show an actual TRP dude getting laid, out of dozens of snake oil salesmen out there who came before him.. which is telling | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/22 10:24 PM |
| 2 | If you want to stop boys from getting radicalized, you've gotta start making senseYeah, well, the sun being a big ball of fire in the sky or the sun rotating around the sun also make.s sense, yet it's not true. Just because something makes sense doesn't mean it's true. Particularly when they are simplistic, over-generalizations for how women behave. Also, we got a shit load of hard scientific evidence as well, it's just that for whatever reason, it's always held to a level of scrutiny you guys never put on the evidence that confirms whatever are your own pre-conceived belief.… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/22 10:20 PM |
| 3 | It's a scientific fact that hypergamy does not existhow exactly did you choose the 'relationship standards' as THE BASELINE, so that man are 'dropping' from it? Men and women have the same standards for marriage in total SMV. The pattern is actually very clear: The stronger the level of commitment that is expected from a man, the choosier he will be. If that level of commitment is "lifetime commitment" (Marriage), then the standards will be indistinguisble from women's standards. Therefore what defines men's standars is merely his commitment obli… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/22 10:16 AM |
| 1 | My ex girlfriend (untreated BPD woman) made me redpilled.Not formally nor officially, but i did date women with what could be considered quite aberrant behavior and BPD-like symptoms, mostly due to using red pill tactics. Question still stands: If you date a BPD woman, you just move on, you don't join an internet group that you know will only teach you how to date and keep BPD women, and repel regular women away. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/08/22 08:57 PM |
| 12 | My ex girlfriend (untreated BPD woman) made me redpilled.And instead of merely recognizing you stepped on a piece of shit and moving along you decided to jump in the madness and become "red pilled" because? | /r/ExRedPill | 18/08/22 03:07 PM |
| 1 | The red pill is the Bible on how to manage toxic people?Well, here's the thing... You don't "manage" toxic people, you merely cut them off. You don't establish "relationships" with toxic people, you merely establish a power based dyad based on multiple attempts to trying to exploit the other party and in which deep down neither of you is going to get anything fulfilling out of each other. So is TRP a way to "manage" toxic people? If by "manaing" you mean beating their ass at their own power games then maybe, but that's about as useful as knowing how … | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/22 11:06 AM |
| 8 | TRP on politicsDudes go to TRP to get a girlfriend, come out borderline Nazis instead and still unable to get a girlfriend. Politics has no space in dating advice, it's fucking ridiculous how these dudes get indoctrinated in politics when their goal was to better their dating lifes lol | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/22 04:43 PM |
| 6 | Rollo MyAssy doesn't read what he postYeah, it's fucking ridiculous how he doesn't read what he posts or just plainly tries to bend posts to somehow fit the shit theories he comes up with. Alexander is a boss, for the first time there's a real coach who actually reads and understands studies and is shitting on a lot of TRP dogma and communicating real science to the community. I kinda tried to do the same over the years but i lack the motivation and credibility of this dude. Since he fits the "Chad" archetype he can reach those clue… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/22 04:39 PM |
| 49 | Can Women give accurate dating advice to men?The idea that women "don't know what they want" and therefore won't offer sound dating advice is nothing but hamstering from the average TRP guru to explain away the fact that women will often directly contradict what they teach and descredit them. The truth is that TRP dating advice fails, and fails often, but whenever it fails it quickly gets explained away as how you "miscalibrated" or "failed a shit test somewhere" or otherwise did something wrong and you're encouraged to "take responsibilit… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/22 04:31 PM |
| 3 | I am scared that Andrew Tate will make the RP mindset mainstreamInternet is guillible as fuck. People understimate how many guys rent cars or do just about anything to look rich on social media, especially if they are trying to create some sort of brand/persona that they tie down to a side business, like Tate. Sometimes i wonder if there shouldn't be an internet trend obligating people to prove their real worth. You're flexing cars and clothes on social media? Post your bank extract on social media and prove you're debt free. You're flexing beauty, muscles o… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/08/22 09:57 AM |
| 21 | I am scared that Andrew Tate will make the RP mindset mainstreamHe's the new Dan Bilzerian. Like Dan Bilzerian, he will eventually be exposed or grow obsolete. The "What colour is your buggati" is the new "your mom" joke. Except that it sucks even more as a comeback. Dude already exposed himself trying to hit on a woman by claiming he was the world first trillionaire and that he would "take care of her and she would never have to work" lmfao, isn't that a bit "beta bucks"? You can't make this shit up. Like any internet douchebag before him making a name for … | /r/ExRedPill | 09/08/22 09:04 PM |
| 3 | How the fuck do TRPers spin plates?So spinning plates isn't that cool after all and may even suck in some situations to the point you need to go on an online forum asking for help!? Ah... it's almost as if TRP isn't that much worth it in the end... | /r/ExRedPill | 29/07/22 03:03 PM |
| 13 | How the fuck do TRPers spin plates?I have empathy for someone out of congruence with my own values. Empathy is not something i offer in exchange of having kindness back or expecting anything back. Eitherway Women aren't a monolith for you to boldly claim they don't have empathy for men. Some women have treated me like shit, other women have treated me wonderfully. And if you're in a FWB situation with a woman you don't actually know if she's been leading other guys on or so unless she tells you so. If she does, then i'd agree tha… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/07/22 03:01 PM |
| 3 | How the fuck do TRPers spin plates?Yeah, so you allegedly had a whooping 2 FWBs and it turned out fine, so good for you. Now tell me: You think the mythological Alpha Male™ creature that TRP likes to dick ride so much can go around fucking dozens of women and a substantial amount of them wouldn't catch feelings? All just sex, drama free, no questions asked? You think that an Alpha Male™ who's spinnin 5 pl8zzzz at a time won't have at least a couple of those girls giving him some drama? That's the point of the post. TRPers act lik… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/07/22 02:30 PM |
| 4 | How the fuck do TRPers spin plates?Well, if anything you prove exactly my point: Average clueless TRP dude who thinks that casual relationships are as simple and always turn out exactly as they are supposed to. Cut straight to the point: How many FWBs you had yourself? Not a single one of them caught feelings? Bitch, please. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/07/22 02:04 PM |
| 3 | How the fuck do TRPers spin plates?Heard of it and practiced it enough to know how drama filled this kind of relationship can often be, like i imply in the post | /r/ExRedPill | 29/07/22 01:55 PM |
| 15 | How the fuck do TRPers spin plates?I don't blame you because you're clearly indoctrinated in Incel propaganda and don't know better. There's a lot of what you said that's completely delusional. I won't explain to you why you're wrong because me and hundreds of people in this sub have written multiple comments over the years about it to the 1000 guys who came here with the exact same rethorics over the years, most of them to no avail. Eitherway your comment proves my point: You can't really spin plates, unless you just plain hate … | /r/ExRedPill | 29/07/22 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Detox First Aid Kit - Start Here!Well, that post is a mere alternative and much healthier perspective on masculinity as in comparison to TRP. Me, personally, i think a man should do whatever the fuck he wants, masculine or not. I'm not going to try and play some sort of masculine persona just to comply with expectations or whatever lol | /r/ExRedPill | 29/07/22 09:11 AM |
| 37 | Why do so many of you hate the red pill?Why i hate TRP? Approaching over a 1000 women and barely getting laid, destroying a lot of social connections because of acting "alpha" to the point where i still suffer today because of it, heavy memories of humiliation and having lost good relationships with good women because of trust issues all may have something to do with it... | /r/ExRedPill | 25/07/22 08:12 AM |
| 2 | Turned 30 recently and still 0 experience with womenI meant in general. A lot of people's problem is to merely get the confident to chase women, particularly attractive guys. I don't advise against cold approaching, just be kind and respectful if the other person doesn't talk to you and leave... | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/22 08:35 AM |
| 5 | Turned 30 recently and still 0 experience with womenHow often do you make a bold move and try to flirt directly with women? Asking them out and acting as if you're interested, etc | /r/ExRedPill | 20/07/22 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Hey exredpillers. Are you sure men don't have a hard time dating? because you said so?The overwhelming majority of people have struggles with dating, because everybody (men and women alike) wants the best partner they can possibly get. Most often than not they want more than they can get or deserve. Dating is frustrating to most people by definition. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/22 08:32 AM |
| 3 | Hey ex redpillers. try to take me out this "false ideology" this "rabbit hole" try to debunk me on the redpill.Lol, this sub has been up for years, and there have been multiple takes on red pill being debunked, the entire sticky post in this page has plenty of resources debunking red pill, so i don't know wtf you're talking about. You want a good, straight to the point argument on TRP being bullshit, then here it goes: If you're red pilled, are you fucking multiple women? Do you have 3 or 4 plates you're spinning? Are you a top 20% male? Well, then, there you go, because what's a better metric to analyze… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/22 08:26 AM |
| 4 | Positive reinforcement, or too close to redpill logic?I mean... okay? Isn't this kinda like saying, men want to party in their 20s and settle down in their 30s, and by the time they are 40 they have already built a legacy? I mean, isn't that just a common sense generalization? Why put labels on it and present as if it was some sort of cutting edge technology self-help information? | /r/ExRedPill | 13/07/22 08:35 AM |
| 1 | Question: If BlackPill is true...Nvm, didn't understand what you were trying to say, sorry for my dumb reply | /r/ExRedPill | 11/07/22 02:01 PM |
| 10 | I feel like my prime will end, how to get over redpill brainwashing?I'm quite sure that the vast majority of women you know are not in their prime yet they have meaningful relationships with men. I'm also quite sure that out of all the 18 year old women you know or may have known, who are in their "prime", aren't married to some prince charming either. Your chance at love isn't over just because you're not 18 anymore. It's as obvious as the sky being blue. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/07/22 06:42 PM |
| 9 | It's a scientific fact that hypergamy does not existYou've been "Proven time after time" that hypergamy exists, but when confronted with your numbers you get defensive. Just admit you ain't got enough first hand experience with women to know what you're talking about. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/07/22 06:34 PM |
| 13 | “Men love Romantically Women love opportunistically”More like "you were never a real TRPer" because under their logic you can't be a TRPer and leave... "once you see it you can't unsee it" as the saying goes. Unfortunately, i was much more into TRP than the average TRPer, so i'm living proof that you can be a TRPer and leave.. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/07/22 04:13 PM |
| 5 | “Men love Romantically Women love opportunistically”I didn't write this post originally. All credit to Atman714, the almighty | /r/ExRedPill | 09/07/22 04:11 PM |
| 3 | “Men love Romantically Women love opportunistically”You mos def onto something | /r/ExRedPill | 09/07/22 04:10 PM |
| 18 | “Men love Romantically Women love opportunistically”Note: The post above belongs to atman714, reposted here due to user no longer being on reddit | /r/ExRedPill | 09/07/22 09:44 AM |
| 50 | “Men love Romantically Women love opportunistically”If you're exredpill like me, you've probably heard it said that women love differently. Perhaps, if you've traveled deep enough, you've even seen it said that women are incapable of love. According to TRP, men and women are fundamentally different in how we love. Men love women very deeply, wanting to protect and provide. Men are truly the romantics. Women, on the other hand, view love more as an opportunistic gain. Women go off of their "tingles," while men go off logic and rationality. It is a… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/07/22 09:43 AM |
| 2 | It's a scientific fact that hypergamy does not existWhat people 'end up with' and what they pine for are completely different things. And tell me, what other potential way to study relationships do you have other than monitoring who people actually end up in a relationship? If you ask women what they like, it's self-reported and according to TRP "You can't ask women what they like, they don't know what they like, look waht they do not what they say, etc". If you actually study who they chose: "well, maybe they are not getting who they truly want"… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/07/22 08:41 AM |
| 2 | It's a scientific fact that hypergamy does not existLmao, a strawman is attacking an argument that the other party isn't really arguing for. I didn't really attack any "strawman argument". I swear you Rollo Tomassi minions only know what a strawman fallacy is and don't even know how to identify it properly. Maybe start reading a book more often? | /r/ExRedPill | 08/07/22 08:32 AM |
| 3 | It's a scientific fact that hypergamy does not existHow many women have you ever had sex with in your life? | /r/ExRedPill | 08/07/22 08:25 AM |
| 15 | It's a scientific fact that hypergamy does not existThis comment is a perfect example of how you just can't reach TRPers with arguments. In a thread full of studies debunking hypergamy, a woman literally says that she has dated ugly men with no aspirations, and nowadays is looking for a good man with good sense and somehow that's still traced back to "hypurgahmee"... Apparently, having any sort of standard, even if non-shallow, is being hypergamous nowadays. Wanting a good guy with his head on his shoulders is not hypergamy, it's a rather basic, … | /r/ExRedPill | 08/07/22 08:24 AM |
| 5 | Do you guys think this has some truth to it?"Oh my gawd gurl... s'like... Josh is SO HAWT! He's such a wolf" lmao Just the tone of her voice screams bimbo, her whole appearence screams bimbo, even her house perfect, nitpicked decor feels bimbo. Just the fur coat and the french bulldog resting on her sofa alone denounces her as a bimbo. Why can't people look at someone and contextualize everything they say based on how they present themselves? To answer your question: No, you can't really put everybody into these specfic categories of "she… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/07/22 10:43 AM |
| 62 | Do women really freak out if they're still single into their 30's-40's?Actually, if anything, now that i'm approaching my 30s and met many late 20s and women in their 30s, i'm surprised about how many women DGAF. I've met a couple of women lamenting not having a kid already, but none of them are desperate and trying to settle... | /r/ExRedPill | 07/07/22 08:25 AM |
| 8 | Who to follow on YouTube about dating and girls? THere is too much anti-female a lot.Nope, unfortunately plenty of women saw the market potential in TRP and are also making TRP videos, so a dude gotta be careful about it | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/22 08:26 AM |
| 4 | Who to follow on YouTube about dating and girls? THere is too much anti-female a lot.Tricky question because there's pratically no coach that is flawless in their advice, but i'd say: Alex.Datepsych Steve Mayeda Pinnacle of Men has a couple of good videos (but only a couple) David Tian King Pill University KPU In addition, here are some other decent sources: older Mark Manson content (particularly his www.postmasculine.com site, now discontinued, but can still be accessed through wayback machine. The best posts are the one in 2011 - 2014ish), Howie Reith, Doctor Nerdlove, The Ma… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/22 08:25 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of this video?For the couple of minutes i've watched seems quite good | /r/ExRedPill | 05/07/22 08:23 AM |
| 4 | Red Pill is a useful temporary medicine9/10 times i see this kind of post it's virtually always a dude who in essence is indeed TRP, just not very hateful. It's a very thin line between getting decent and valuable teachings from TRP and being a TRPer who still thinks that women are somehow ruthless hypersexual social climbers but somehow is okay with it. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/07/22 04:48 PM |
| 5 | This is not the "red pill"First time i ever saw the term red pill was back in a PUA seminar camp from 2005 where infamous PUA Mystery refered to learning "game" as "seeing the matrix" of social interactions. From then, PUAs started using the term "Red Pill" to refer to the "awakening" for the reality that women only want to go to the top 20% men, despise nice guys, disney expectations are bullshit, etc. Because nazis typically recruit in internet forums where the loners and frustrated men with feelings of inadequacy and … | /r/ExRedPill | 03/07/22 11:13 AM |
| 7 | What is the opinion of this subreddit on people like this?yes, lmao | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/22 10:03 PM |
| 11 | Incel Science?We got a shit ton of Scientific papers disproving plenty of pill shit here, besides here's a few takes on the last time we spoke about the Black Pill Science sub: Most studies in psychology are actually bullshit. There is indeed a massive so called "Replication Crisis" within psychology. Look it up. In 2015 a team of psychologists attempted to replicate psychology studies and found that over 60% did not replicate. I have master in Psychology and i can confirm. Usually, the "sexiest" the theory, … | /r/ExRedPill | 01/07/22 09:02 AM |
| 1 | It's a scientific fact that hypergamy does not existTodd et Al., 2007 conducted a real life speed dating study (so, they studied actual choice, not preference) and they still found that women chose men based on their own level of self-rated attractiveness (so, self-rated attractivness does play a role on who women chose, contrary to what you're saying). They chose men who they thought were on their own level. If Hypergamy was real, you would expect the vast majority of women to chose men above their own self-perceived level of attractiveness, mos… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/07/22 08:47 AM |
| 4 | It's a scientific fact that hypergamy does not existif this was true, dating app would not show that most woman are competing for a minority of men as far as attractivness. And we would not find the same pattern, when we look up to app where woman/men ratio are fairly the same. No, because dating apps don't really mimic what happens in real life, except maybe at low acquaintence level. In an app where you have an unlimited surplus of alternatives + is strictly based on the first impression of pictures with no prior acquaintence then obviously you… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/07/22 08:14 AM |
| 5 | The manosphere played themselves (US politics)Lol, yeah, abortion are virtually always defined by the looks and status of the father and/or how much she can exploit the father financially by having the baby... Things like "i don't have the financial means to raise a child" or "i'm too young to raise a child", "it was an accident" or anything of the sorts aren't really some of the top reasons why women get abortions.. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/22 08:13 AM |
| 4 | JustPearlyThings: Emotions and vulnerabilityFDS is based on the same logic as TRP. They both believe that relationships are adversarial and are preety much a fight between men and women to see who takes advantage at the expense of whom. The only way in wich they differ is the self-enhancing bias in describing their own sex. FDS think women are the moral sex, while TRP think that men are the moral sex. Even then, they have their own moral shortcomings (even tho they don't admit to them): FDS are unapolagetically hypergamous while TRPers tr… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/22 06:05 PM |
| 5 | JustPearlyThings: Emotions and vulnerabilityI dont' understand, that study suggests it's men that get turned off by women crying... | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/22 11:43 AM |
| 21 | The manosphere played themselves (US politics)They got exactly what they wanted, which was to deprive everyone from having all the casual sex they (TRPers) wanted to have but feel like they personally can't. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/22 10:35 AM |
| 12 | Honest answer, did any of the RP dating coaches you use to watch get you laid?The question isn't if i was getting laid. The question is if the amount of time and effort and all the game gimmicks and theories were actually usueful or worth it and the answer is a very, very taxative No. Also, out of the dozens of guys i met IRL in the PUA community, those getting laid were usually already good looking or had something going on for them that facilitated getting laid, or were otherwise just playing massive numbers games, approaching everyone, having low standards and doing ev… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/22 10:31 AM |
| 15 | JustPearlyThings: Emotions and vulnerabilityWell, apparently she admits that as a woman, she's naturally inclined to be a ruthless social climber without much of an ounce of empathy for men (or anyone really), narcisistic in nature, irrational/overly emotional, almost like a child, whose sole purpose is to subconsciously achieve her power fantasies by fucking top 20% alpha males and living vicariously through these powerful figures. That's what she thinks about herself by actively endorsing TRP. Good for her, i guess. Anyway, where's the … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/22 09:12 AM |
| 6 | How many sexual partners did men and women hace un 2021The sample size is 4032 people, he specified that the data is available in the GSS 2021 which is open access... | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 02:59 PM |
| 3 | How many sexual partners did men and women hace un 2021The post does say that in the last five years, 41% of women aged 22-30 reported having had 1 partner. Stat goes up to 77% for women who had 1 to 4 partners in the last five years. It reaches 83% for the total of women who had 0 to 4 partners in the last five years. In case you're wondering, 64% of men had 0 to 4 partners in the last 5 years. Theses stats are nothing but a nuclear blue pill... | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 12:30 PM |
| 5 | How many sexual partners did men and women hace un 2021Yeah, 84% of women had sex in 2021, so? Don't get what point you're trying to make... | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 12:21 PM |
| 15 | How many sexual partners did men and women hace un 2021So almost twice as many women are sexless in the 26-30 age range? Also this doesn't talk about 2021 only, there are statistics for the past 5 years... This whole study is an absolute roundhouse kick in the nuts of the incel theories | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 09:15 AM |
| 18 | How many sexual partners did men and women hace un 2021No study has ever shown that people are sleeping with each other left and right. Actually, most studies have shown the opposite trend. What has been a source of great hysteria was a 2018 survey showing that men were increasingly having less sex within the past year. Well, as it turns out, 2021 did show the opposite trend: Women had less sex, it seems. So If Incels and TRPers have an ounce of intellectual honesty then they can come up and base themselves on this study to claim that their theories… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 08:46 AM |
| 2 | It's a scientific fact that hypergamy does not existBecause a) "Look what they do, not what they say", am i right? If women are still statistically pairing up with men of similar value what does that say about hypergamy? b) Occupational status is different than general status. Dominance, for instance, could be interpreted as a form of social status, yet the Kendrick's study shows that women want a men that's a 3/10 in Dominance. Where's the hypergamy in that? c) Hypergamy is about wanting someone above you in total SMV, not just above you in occu… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 08:38 AM |
| 14 | Jordan Peterson is red pill?No, they are not. Just because someone is a scientist doesn't mean they are right. I can say, for instance, that he based his first rule of "Standing straight" in Amy Cuddy's research which doesn't replicate. He based a lot of his masculinity takes on Roy Beaumeister pop science books arguments (ex.: like the idea that twice as many females replicated in comparison to men, and because of that humans are polygamous), which have been proven wrong. He also bases the core of his theory in Jungian Ps… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/06/22 05:24 PM |
| 6 | Red Pill Detox First Aid Kit - Start Here!Both men and women want to date the best partner they can get, and yes, women TEND to like status, good looks, good personality and a multitude of other traits. The difference between what i believe and TRP lunacy is that TRP actually thinks that women will go EXCLUSIVELY and OVERWHELMINGLY to men ABOVE them, typically top 80 percent, which is a lie, and that women will, generally speaking, feel like they are "settling" or are even slightly unappreciative of their partners if they are dating som… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/06/22 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill Detox First Aid Kit - Start Here!if hypergamy doesn’t exist, getting in good shape, getting your money right, getting a good style, are all useless, hmm yea ok lol No, because hypergamy is merely chosing a man above you in smv. Obviously being good looking, social, high status attracts women, but that has nothing to do with hypergamy. Hypergamy is chosing someone that is worth more than you in looks, status, etc, and that's bs. Real life doesn't work that way. if game doesn’t exists, girls don’t care how bad you are socially, b… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/06/22 08:03 PM |
| 0 | I’ll never get out the redpill.What's positive feedback? | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/22 09:16 PM |
| 30 | Why should I leave the red pill?The point of the server isn't to convince anyone to leave or stay at red pill. That's something only you can decide. Either you are satisfied with red pill or you're not. And that's based on it either bringing you results or it doesn't. To most guys it doesn't bring any results but they prefer to stay at red pill because "i got a sense of actual reality and know what i can expect". To those guys i don't know what to say because if they just wish to resingate to the fact that reality if this weir… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/06/22 12:33 PM |
| 3 | Should you never reveal yor weakness and vulnerability to women? These comments were found in Tribe of Men's video "Woman with A STRONG FATHER FIGURE tells it how it is"https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/kxdzob/how_to_communicate_weakness_or_vulnerability_to/ | /r/ExRedPill | 01/06/22 08:10 AM |
| 11 | Insecurity of girl leaving for a "bigger" dudeHow would that play out? Women don't know what dudes are hidding below their pants nor will ever believe a guy that claims he's "big" because every guy claims he's big anyway. If she had left you for a dude with a bigger shlong, she would have had to witness the other dude's shlong first, meaning she was already cheating and belongs in the streets to start with. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/22 08:08 PM |
| 3 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillWomen have plenty of dating options even among men they feel safe around, which means their dating value is on par with top-their men (hypergamy) Let play around a bit with TRP logic. If women were hypergamous, those options wouldn't really be options to start with. Inevitably they'd only go for "top tier" men and be rejected for long term relationships, as those men would not commit to them. If you want to reduce TRP logic ad absurdum, then women do not have dating easier than men other than fo… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 10:47 AM |
| 5 | Red Pill Detox First Aid Kit - Start Here!Lmfao... Quoting yourself You have maybe 20% of the female population would make suitable mates maybe actuslly give af about your mental health because thats. How is that statistics or basic math? Those are literally just numbers you pulled out of your arse. Again Then when you take into consideration how compatible your morals, ethics and personality are that may be 1% of the female population. How is that not speculation? You're just pulling random numbers out of your arse and calling them sta… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/05/22 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill Detox First Aid Kit - Start Here!I love how you tried to frame yourself that "yeah, you guys are right, red pill is toxic but there are SOME points that are actually valid if y'all intellectually honest"... and within a couple of responses just went full retard on TRP propaganda. I'm not even going to explain why you're wrong, as i already had to do that dozens and dozens of times to the same brainwashed dudes that came here before you, and it's tiring to say the same things all over again. All i'm gonna say is that sucks to be… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/05/22 09:43 AM |
| 4 | Red Pill Detox First Aid Kit - Start Here!Society and the current zeitgeist aren't a monolith for you to claim that "women have been dry snithching on social media" and "the double standards are unreal". Some people or some segments of society behave like that, others don't. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/05/22 08:40 AM |
| 3 | Red Pill Detox First Aid Kit - Start Here!There is no "why you all think that's toxic". This is a mere sub on the internet with a multitude of people and a multitude of opinions. I don't think red pill is ALL bad. I think there are indeed valid points. I also think that literally all of those points can be reduced to just common sense. Women liking high earning men is common sense. I don't even consider it a red pill point. Almost every valuable idea in red pill is kinda common sense or could have been gotten in less bullshitty, less to… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/05/22 08:11 AM |
| 3 | Don’t wanna be red pilled but dating is really breaking meWell, let's hope you are indeed smashing and didn't fell into the good old "i used to be a feminist and got no results, now i'm red pilled and still get no results, but at least i learned enough bullshit concepts regarding dating that makes me feel like i'm actually in control of anything at all, even tho i'm not and can't see it" | /r/ExRedPill | 17/05/22 08:14 AM |
| 5 | Don’t wanna be red pilled but dating is really breaking meYou really think all of those things are maigically gone if all of a sudden you become TRP? TRP won't bring you any less frustration. Quite the opposite. Quit online dating, it's a scheme of incentives bringing the worst in people. Think about it, virtually endless dating possibilities; low effort, first impression's based judgements of potential partners; no consequences for rejecting someone... Even women who don't want to be shallow and impatient become shallow and impatient by being part of … | /r/ExRedPill | 16/05/22 10:29 PM |
| 13 | +18It's all true, i once posed as a woman in a nightclub, and i managed to fool everybody. Long story short, i went to the woman's bathroom and i noticed all the women were going to the same cublicle but not coming out. Intrigued, i decided to check it out and i was baffled, there was a secret passage behind a toilet that led to a small elevator to the basement. There i found all the Chads fucking literally all the women in the nightclub. It was instantaneous, as soon as they arrived in the basemen… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/05/22 01:01 PM |
| 2 | I'm finding it difficult to argue against the points made in this video...Man, take your tin foil hat elsewhere with that pseudo political conspiracy theory bullshit, nobody cares about what you have to say | /r/ExRedPill | 14/05/22 10:15 AM |
| 2 | I'm finding it difficult to argue against the points made in this video...That's a very deep question that nobody has a taxative answer to, so no point thinking about that | /r/ExRedPill | 14/05/22 10:12 AM |
| 3 | PUAs take middle ground approach to red pillTRP and PUA are pratically the same thing, so... | /r/ExRedPill | 14/05/22 10:10 AM |
| 24 | I'm finding it difficult to argue against the points made in this video..."It all started with the father, the father role in our family has been killed off, which means that our purpose has been destroyed" - No, because my purpose as a human being is whatever purpose i want to give myself, not "being a father"; "The average divorces lasts 11 years, and then through divorce she will get the kids and the finances" - It is a fact that women tend to be indeed more homely and caratakers, wether it's because of culture or biology, so what's the problem with a woman keeping… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/05/22 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Befriending women has made me less misogynistic but more red/blackpilled.What is a lot more experience? What were the exact body count numbers? | /r/ExRedPill | 12/05/22 12:33 PM |
| 60 | Befriending women has made me less misogynistic but more red/blackpilled."Confident Chads with High Body Counts"... Best of the best? All of them tall, chiseled jaw, rich guys? Did you actually met them? Did they disclose body counts to you? Did they actually admit to dating them or it's just some guys they found attractive or were talking to or so? Sounds more like you're just projecting your own confirmation bias... From a probabilistic point of view there's no chance there wasn't at least a single outlier "average guy" in that list. From a probabilistic point of v… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/05/22 08:29 AM |
| 2 | Your real age matters more than looking a certain age.As a 30 year old who looks 12 (lmao) i can safely say this is bullshit. People do discriminate and expect different things from you based on your appearence, at least at first. Of course, the way i talk, the way i carry myself, the people i'm surround with eventually gives away i'm not actually as young as i look, but yeah, i could 100% fool people as an higschooler. Unless you disclose your real age, and a girl feels that "eek" unexpected feeling, then yeah, you can be rejected, still, being 40… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/05/22 08:18 AM |
| 6 | How to stop “relapsing” ?If you were TRP you wouldn't stop being hurt. TRP just gives you the illusion of control by filling your head with a bunch of made up concepts that you can relate to justify a dating failure like "i failed this shit test, next time if i pass it it shall succeed", but in reality it's all an illusion, since there's always something you can pick up to justify why you failed on dating. It's just like religion - You pray, and if it works, you don't even question anything regarding why it worked, you … | /r/ExRedPill | 11/05/22 12:23 PM |
| 10 | You guys come here with your very redpill thoughts.. to an ex redpill forum…. And then argue and gaslight people that make sense… but are opposing of your STILL redpill views.It all comes down to the way some people argue a point. There's only a thin line sperating "arguing for" red pill vs "arguing about" red pill. A guy looking to detox and wanting to contrapoint should do it from an inquisitive point of view like "What do you think of AWALT? Do you think that TRP has a point because X, Y, or Z?", instead of "In my experience, AWALT is true, because of X, Y or Z, so i think you're wrong". Because then, not only you're technically defending TRP, you're reinforcing y… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/05/22 09:02 AM |
| 3 | My first formal relationship after leaving the Redpill and it ends up badly. Any advice?Only a couple of points i can make: 1 - Don't think that dating isn't a vastly frustrating experience for the average person. It's frustrating for preety much everyone, TRP or not. 2 - It doesn't matter if she cheated or not. It doesn't matter if it's true or not. All that matters if you're comfortable with finding her hugging some other guy, if you're not then it's a deal breaker. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/05/22 08:54 AM |
| 6 | What do you think about this post?I have refrained from commenting your posts so far, but it has been obvious from the beggining that you're not really here to be helped, you're just trying to preemptively validate that your situation is hopeless and that you're beyond repair. If you already have all the answers regarding your situation why would you be here? Yeah, to answer your question, that post is great and should be your next steps concerning how to cope with your situation. You believe you're beyond repair as firmly as yo… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/05/22 09:25 AM |
| 1 | If the reason women are more sexually selective on dating apps and in public is because of stranger threat, why do they find way fewer people sexually attractive even among people they feel very comfortable with (ie. male friends) than men?In my understanding, in the process of getting to know each other things escalate and sex usually happens before a relationship actually starts. So in a way, every relationship starts out on "casual dating" grounds at first. That's what i meant by STR being used as LTR prospection. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/22 10:18 AM |
| 12 | Kevin Samuels did nothing of significant value for the Black community.I'm gonna disagree, contrary to expectation and say he did. Part of the Black Community in America, which was his audience, lives on marginzalized poor areas with high violence and crime rates (again, his audience). Some woman with 3 different kids from 3 different Gang Bangers (!) complaining about loyalty and that she deserves better because she has earned her diploma as a beautician and is ready to start a family needs to be checked. I'm sorry, but i do think Samuels was right on giving wake … | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/22 08:45 AM |
| 1 | If the reason women are more sexually selective on dating apps and in public is because of stranger threat, why do they find way fewer people sexually attractive even among people they feel very comfortable with (ie. male friends) than men?In terms of mate preferences is more for LTR than STR, alas it's also valued for STR for a variety of reasons. First, women use STR to prospect LTR, so naturally what is attractive for LTR is also for STR, and secondly specific forms of status are also valued in STR. For instance, Conspicuous Consumption and Heroism are 2 of what i recall out of the blue. In terms, of studies, i recall Norman P. Li study on mate budget, and even Buss and Schmitt infamous sexual strategy theory shows that Status … | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/22 08:33 AM |
| 1 | If the reason women are more sexually selective on dating apps and in public is because of stranger threat, why do they find way fewer people sexually attractive even among people they feel very comfortable with (ie. male friends) than men?https://www.researchgate.net/publication/200008835_Integrating_Evolutionary_and_Social_Exchange_Perspectives_on_Relationships_Effects_of_Gender_Self-Appraisal_and_Involvement_Level_on_Mate_Selection_Criteria This is the study showing that men have lower standards for STR but not for LTR (there's a slight increase for women standards but it's no statistically significant due to p value) | /r/ExRedPill | 05/05/22 08:44 AM |
| 5 | Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP?"Weheheh, look at all these beta males tormented by sexual frustration, thank you Rollo Tomassi, i'm now red pill aware and know all the secret dark truths and shit... i'm becoming the best version of myself by the day, Red pill has been working so well for me, to the point that in over 2 years of red pill i managed to get a plate which also happens to be my ex. Sky's the limit" CAN'T MAKE THIS SHIT UP LMAO | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/22 11:13 AM |
| 6 | Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP?You just found out about Married Red Pill, but i'm somehow the one that knows nothing of red pill. LMFAO! Anyway, Red Pill IS about FUCKING and is about DATING. All of these hypergamy, female nature, AF/BB, all of these pertray to dating. None of these pertray to becoming "the best version of yourself". That's the goal of the average self-help forum. Married Red pill compromises a small percentage of the entire universe of TRP and are just half a dozen losers with dead bedroom problems, the rema… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/22 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Open Thread: What would you change about this Sub to make it betterThe emphasis of this sub is to deconstruct certain beliefs and going back to normalcy, dating advice while employed isn't as much the focus. What do you think of a post with resources for approved dating coaches like Mark Manson, etc? | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/22 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Open Thread: What would you change about this Sub to make it betterWhat do you think of a "No defense or criticism of feminism or politics in general" rule? | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/22 08:35 AM |
| 1 | Open Thread: What would you change about this Sub to make it betterWhat do you think of a "No Low effort Posts, particularly for Circle Jerk reasons" rule? | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/22 08:33 AM |
| 4 | If the reason women are more sexually selective on dating apps and in public is because of stranger threat, why do they find way fewer people sexually attractive even among people they feel very comfortable with (ie. male friends) than men?Studies show that men are less selective than women in short term sexual scenarios, but are choosy the same in LTRs | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/22 08:24 AM |
| 2 | If the reason women are more sexually selective on dating apps and in public is because of stranger threat, why do they find way fewer people sexually attractive even among people they feel very comfortable with (ie. male friends) than men?The short answer is 2 major factors: Because men have an higher sex drive and are more willing to drop their standards to fulfill that sex drive in short term sex, but are about as choosy as women when it comes Long term relationships, that's why they find more women sexually attractive but both genders are about the same in romantic attraction. Because women employ more importance than men on Social Status and Personality, both of which have an impact on sexual attraction, and both of which hav… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/22 08:18 AM |
| 8 | I don't think this sub is the place to quit redpill anymore. I see more women here to humiliate redpills than men who want to get off the redpill now. This place no longer looks like a safe space.You didn't try to question anything, you merely acused me of "misinterpreting" red pill and our entire exchange in that thread is within that context. You think i misinterpret red pill. I think that acusations that we "misinterpret" red pill it's nothing but a BS recurrent defence from TRP in general to shut down criticism. Because red pill keeps it's "teachings" subjective enough for people defending it to move it's goal posts as they see fit in discussions. It's extremely easy to merely tell a… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/22 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP?This isn't a "debate" sub, bro. If you're looking to "challenge your views" (nobody wants to challenges views they are certain are correct btw) stick to reading the sticky post and research a bit around the older posts, otherwise the purpepill sub is your jam. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/22 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP?If you were truly red pilled you'd know that the moment she broke up with you she went fucking some other guy to "get it off of her system" and then came back to you as her BB. Now she's exploiting you, as she got you locked in the situation she always wanted to lock you in, that is: she's with you in what is pratically a relationship but she's free to fuck other guys, which she conceals from you as it's obvious that you would freak out if you knew, like you did last. Also, truht be told, you're… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/22 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP?Getting back with an ex isn't really anything to boast about as a result. Particularly if you take into account that her mind was already tainted by past feelings towards you. However, it really begs the question... what would have happent if you tried red pill with her and it didn't work? 9 out of 10 guys in that situation would ask for help on a TRP forum and immediatly conclude that he "failed a shit test somewhere" or "miscalibrated" instead of concluding the obvious which is that TRP can an… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/22 08:46 AM |
| 3 | You didn't take the red pill, you still lived in your own delusionsLmfao, you obviously never read that book | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/22 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP?First - No, red pill is not about becoming "your best self", red pill is about dating and laying women, period. And becoming "your best self" would merely be an instrumental part of reaching that final goal. If TRP was merely about self improvement you could join any self help group and would not need to know any bizarre concepts like hypergamy or female nature, as those pertray to DATING. You know why? Because Red pill's ultimate goal is to DATE, unless you want to go full MGTOW or so, which is… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/22 08:43 PM |
| 13 | I don't think this sub is the place to quit redpill anymore. I see more women here to humiliate redpills than men who want to get off the redpill now. This place no longer looks like a safe space.This sub is a mere forum on the internet for sharing advice and help. Nobody here promises salvation, and as far as i'm concerned, it may very well get you on a worse position than you did when you came here. Getting good resources out of here all depends on who you are and who you chose to listen to around here. If you're seeking salvation or a one size fits all "ideology" the promises you to solve all your life problems if you do "X, Y or Z" then join religion or movements like TRP with their … | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/22 01:55 PM |
| 15 | I don't think this sub is the place to quit redpill anymore. I see more women here to humiliate redpills than men who want to get off the redpill now. This place no longer looks like a safe space.You don't need to have first hand experience with TRP to offer good advice or give sound arguments, much like you don't need to be a mathematician to claim that 2 + 2 = 4. From a purely logical point of view, Arguments and advice's value are independent of whoever is making them. I mean, look at Coach Red Pill and Rollo Tomassi. Those guys are literally self-proclaimed THEORY guys. They are not approaching women, they are not gaming women. Yet,the average TRP gave a chance to guys like that... | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/22 01:39 PM |
| 16 | I don't think this sub is the place to quit redpill anymore. I see more women here to humiliate redpills than men who want to get off the redpill now. This place no longer looks like a safe space.What can be said? when the supposed "redpill detox first-aid kit" is a bunch of conjecture written by a dude whose sole sources are other posts written by himself, and statements like "There's further evidence that women aren't more choosy than men. Rather, it's men that are less choosy than women" (which would be hilarious if it wasn't so sad that a grown man actually thought that was some sort of coherent argument), All the posts in there have scientific sources addressed rightly. If you check… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/22 01:21 PM |
| 19 | I don't think this sub is the place to quit redpill anymore. I see more women here to humiliate redpills than men who want to get off the redpill now. This place no longer looks like a safe space.The problem is that ExTRP men are a small audience by nature, because only real TRP men that actually employed the advice IRL by approaching and gaming multiple women and suffered extreme consequences like social humiliation, still not getting laid, getting on toxic relationships, etc are the ones who start questioning TRP at some point and seek help. Most TRPers are just college kids or recent divorcees who are mostly armchair reddit philosophers, they don't actually approach, most of them just… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/22 08:53 AM |
| 9 | Why do Red Pillers hate western women?Lmfao, more like you try one and see | /r/ExRedPill | 30/04/22 09:43 PM |
| 12 | Why do Red Pillers hate western women?Because they won't have sex with them. Next question... | /r/ExRedPill | 30/04/22 09:42 PM |
| 23 | That didn't go well for Frest & Fit...Yes! Fucking Yes! This is how you talk to a TRPer. That Aussie dude is a legend. And people say i'm bad when i throw that kind of energy at TRPers, but you don't debate bullshit, you tell them to stfu and stick "their freedom of speech" in the arse right by the side of the feeble minded that give a fuck about listening to them. And look at how powerless and embarassed that "Alpha" looked. Will try to twist this around next show about how much of a "beta" that Aussie dude is for whatever reason. … | /r/ExRedPill | 30/04/22 09:41 PM |
| 3 | No, your girlfriend doesn't want to cheat on you with a "more alpha guy" (based on science)Lol, no idiot... The collective understandment is that women only go for the top 20% of men, with some claiming that on the very least women will only be minimally satisfied in a relationship if the guy is above her in SMV. Depending on who you ask, you get somewhat different predictions, given that TRP is mostly a collection of subjective horse shit, with enough space for you guys to move the goal posts whenever it suits your argument. Anyway... Taken together what this all means is that women … | /r/ExRedPill | 29/04/22 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP?You know, this is truly remarkable... 10 years ago when i was TRP the goals were loud and clear: To become a a top 20% male and "get laid like a rockstar"... it then went all the way downhill, from avoiding dead bedrooms, to get a girlfriend all the way to "identifying high quality women" lmfao... I guess the general and constant lack of results of most of TRPers leads to this kind of hamstering where the goal was never to get laid but to "identify high quality women"... Let's put it very bluntl… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/04/22 05:17 PM |
| 4 | RSDTyler - "I get approached.."I mean, if you are walking down the street and someone is walking in your direction, technically they are approaching you and you're being approached lmao | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/22 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on this?Well, i did make an argument with some basis on TRP "logic" so you may be right | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on this?Even if men didn't get the option to cheat at the same rate, that doesn't mean that men won't cheat more. If you're with a girl for 5 years, chances are that within those 5 years at some point you're gonna meet a girl that's gonna like you and have the option to take advantage out of it. A woman may have a 1000 dudes looking to smash her but if she doesn't take interest in any of them and keeps looking for the absolute best because "hypurgahmee™" and trying to safely "mankay branch™" then she ma… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 08:45 AM |
| 4 | Thoughts on this?Gotta love TRP non-sense... Men "want to spread their seed" and so it's legitimate for them to "exercise their options", while women don't. But at the same time, somehow, women cheat more than men and men are the "romantic sex" because... i don't know... reasons... probably feminism or so. You'd guess the sex "programmed" to "spread it's seed" would cheat more and be less romantic, but somehow there's some logic twist that leads them to say otherwise. It's virtually just portraying women to be b… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 08:29 AM |
| 2 | Fresh and Fit misinterpret research methodologyThis is exactly how it feels debating with a TRPer most of the time. I don't know if they are just dumb or just retreat to defensive inattention regarding anything that contradicts their point. Someone wise once said: "Arguing with an idiot is like playing chess with a pidgeon. It'll just knock over all the pieces, shit on the board, and strut about like it's won anyway." Fitting. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 02:32 PM |
| 5 | Coach Red Pill is Missing in Ukraine, rumoured to have been murdered by Ukranian Nazis due to his anti-Zelinsky opinions :|Red Pill teaches people that a certain sense of "defiance" and "bluntness" is cool and alpha, and also provides a sort of acceptence regarding having and vocalizing "fringe" opinions and rejecting "common sense" ideas that the majority agree with, sometimes just for the sake of it. After all, everything in red pill is kinda fringe, while blue pill (common sense) is virtually always wrong under TRP doctrine lol. Well, guess this dude may have learned the hard way that being blunt with one own's o… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/04/22 08:41 AM |
| 34 | Stop looking up "research, studies and statistics"Problem isn't looking up studies, the problem is that the majority of people are grossly uneducated in science and statistics even in today's society, to even know how to interpret, understand or even check studies, and what sources are appropiate vs what aren't. Most people don't know what an efect size, an R Square or a P value is. Nor do they know that just because there's a study proving something doesn't really mean it's scientifically proven - You need to make multiple studies with multipl… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/04/22 08:23 AM |
| 2 | Are the women Kevin Samuels interview for real or is it all fake?Being college educated is a mere proxy for decency, you're not wise, stable or decent just because you're college educated, particularly in the USA where poverty lines still mean that you somewhat still have access to a level of public services that would be considered mid class in other countries (Some South Central ghettos look better than mid class neighbourhoods in many countries) . Even Cardi B is College educated, and yet she's trashy. It is a fact that the vast majority of women calling t… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/04/22 01:45 PM |
| 9 | Is cold approach success a myth?It would not call it a myth, back when i was in the PUA community i met guys that had cold approach success, but it's a massive numbers game and plenty of guys get no success whatsoever... | /r/ExRedPill | 21/04/22 08:24 AM |
| 15 | Are the women Kevin Samuels interview for real or is it all fake?His audience is mostly older and are not the type to be looking for thugs like the typical “gangster rap Bs” you’re peddling. His audience routinely calls complaining about dead beat baby daddies that went to prison. Why? Because they are mostly from high-crime, high-poverty suburbs where they meet this type of man. And women of all races and ethnicities all call in with the same BS. His audience is still overwhelmingly black and/or with very specific communication patterns (a certain presentati… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/22 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Given upA 5K yearly tuition is perfectly achievable, if not go work a minimum wage job for a year to save enough money for education. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/22 03:10 PM |
| -2 | Given upPeople believe the weirdest shit, specially the people with the lesser arguments. Dating isn't THAT hard, from a probabilistic point of view you're not THAT unattractive nor autistic and you should have had at least some female companionship if you actually had put in the proportional effort in chasing women you think your case would deserve. It's almost impossible to go chase hundreds of women with a realistic mindset and not get at least 1 girl interested. You don't have no friends - Get yours… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/22 09:29 AM |
| 39 | Are the women Kevin Samuels interview for real or is it all fake?I think it's fair to say that people who were raised in envrionments of violence and poverty did not have a normal upbringing so why would they turn out to be normal people? Kevin Samuels audience are mostly black women from the suburbs, raised on troubled communities, calibrated to the historic reality of a rather racist America or exposed to the influence of "Gangsta Rap Culture". Most people do not know what are the challenges associated with being born as a black person in America nor the ce… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/22 08:27 AM |
| 2 | What hairstyles would fit my chubby baby face the best?You have a very good looking, seeminlgy oval shaped face, almost any haircut will suit you | /r/ExRedPill | 19/04/22 08:35 AM |
| 2 | Why do people listen to Coach Red Pill? He's a fool.I was never MGTOW, nor is MGTOW referenced anywhere in this thread lol what are you up to? I'm genuinely confused by your comment | /r/ExRedPill | 19/04/22 08:31 AM |
| 2 | Curious to know what y’all think of this statistic?that graph on how attractiveness correlates to message received for men is either wrong or was right for the time that post was written i.e 2009. Or a third hypothesis: Dataclysm graph is wrong. I mean, look at it: the men on the 100th percentile got a staggering average of 5 messages a week? Yeah, so the 6'1 chiseled jaw surgeon is struggling on online dating with less than half a dozen weekly messages from women then? Okay lmao. Yet contrasting with a 1 message/week for men starting on the 60t… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 11:23 PM |
| 34 | What makes you an exredpiller?Approaching over 1000 women in real life, and barely getting laid, and becoming a joke on campus for acting alpha may have something to do with it... Ruining every serious relationship due to applying TRP concepts when i 100% felt that i could have just been myself and it would have worked way better may be yet another factor... | /r/ExRedPill | 14/04/22 08:28 AM |
| 3 | Very bad day at work. Was my anger justifiedThere's a lot of context being left out, so i can't give an accurate opinion on this. And communication is also key in understanding the situation, if your mannerism came across as aggressive or patronizing, even if you were oblivious to it, then yeah, you were the asshole. I don't think people will ignore you for sport just because of that neutral question, so yeah, there's a lot that is being left out. I don't know why you chose to post here, because this is kinda offtopic for this sub, but i'… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/22 09:02 PM |
| -2 | Bothered by the thought of my girlfriend getting off to other people - any advice?Why are you so stupid and trying to turn this around by playing the "racist" card? | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/22 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Bothered by the thought of my girlfriend getting off to other people - any advice?Why is it the the most edgy, idiotic ones are from 3rd world arabic leaning countries? | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/22 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Bothered by the thought of my girlfriend getting off to other people - any advice?Don't care, at the end of the day i'm the only one smashing lmao as long as she keeps it that way makes no difference to me... On a more serious note, i don't mind if she fantasizes about someone else, that's perfectly okay. I'd be more disturbed at the "why" she's fantasizing over someone specific as that may speak volumes of her values. Also, i would not like it if my girl asked me to kiss a girl either, as that's just the kind of shit the typical sensation seeking bitch i'm trying to avoid wo… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/22 02:54 PM |
| 4 | Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP?Yes, TRP's goal is to lay multiple women. Claiming otherwise is merely "hamstering" from the average TRPer who can't have those kinds of results while being reluctant to simply admit that he's failing or that TRP is failing him. TRP's goal is not to be on an "LTR" because, simply put, you don't have to join a group like TRP and learn about all those deep concepts just to get a relationship. The average joe can eventually do that without the need of something like TRP. TRP is about reaching that … | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/22 09:53 AM |
| 23 | Why is it considered taboo to state that a man's looks are #1 in dating?Because 9 out of 10 times the guys that come here with that kind of rethorics are incels who promptly accompany that sort of logic with "it's over" and "women only go for top 20%" and other BS that simply isn't true. And because there are plenty of other factors in dating that may sometimes supplant looks, as mismatched couples in looks still exist and they aren't that rare, so... | /r/ExRedPill | 08/04/22 08:14 AM |
| 5 | this subreddit is an echo chamberAny attempt to dissuade with the opposite point of view is going to be met with downvote no matter how sound the argument is. I think this is problematic. This isn't problematic at all. Downvotes are just downvotes, they are not an objective metric of how right or wrong you are. As a mod in this sub, i've been downvoted multiple times despite being one of the most vocal people against red pill. Why? Because there are a pluralism of opinions in this sub, many of them are from PC leaning people, w… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/04/22 08:33 AM |
| 4 | Shower Thought: Female hypergamy is necessary in order for human society to avoid devolving into an IdiocracyWell, more evidence that hypergamy doesn't exist then, given the rapid spread of extreme human stupidity in the last 6 or 7 years... | /r/ExRedPill | 05/04/22 11:19 AM |
| 10 | Red Pill Detox First Aid Kit - Start Here!I see a lot of "you're wrong, you're lieing, etc" but no peer review, published study from the original source saying why i'm wrong. NOT a SINGLE one. Why wonder why that is. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/04/22 08:26 AM |
| 2 | Starting to become an incel.Quit that Janitor job, get some part time job elsewhere, invest in your education in something else, preferebly something that has an high employment rate and is well paid. You deserve better than cleaning trash for a living. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/22 08:24 AM |
| 1 | Where does this idea that men get better as they age?most of what i said is based off my own experience with foreskin restoration. as well as other men. but of course, robot like you refers to that as "anecdote" Then say that from the beggining, that it's just your own anedoctes whatsoever, and we wouldn't have this exchange ban me, help me not waste time any more on here. Okay, then | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/22 02:44 PM |
| 1 | “It will happen one day”No, it won't just "happen one day". From a probabilistic point of view, if we are walking on this earth for an average of 80 years, and having social interactions then yeah, at some point you'd probably date someone, still, that's no guarantee whatsoever. If you want to date, you need to put yourself out there, chase women as much as possible, risk rejection, be very mindful of your own worth and what you can realistically get. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/22 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Where does this idea that men get better as they age?Hold on, then... You're entitled to your opinion, but you don't talk to me like that, that's number 1. Secondly, despite me giving less of a shit about circumcision (actually, i think the whole circumcision hysterya on the internet is completly lunacy from both sides) you're completely wrong, as i did a 2 minute search (!) and found a meta analysis AND a systemic review showing that Male Circumcision has no adverse effects whatsoever. I assume you're not very well educated in science, so let me … | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/22 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Where does this idea that men get better as they age?Please, post all the studies (the original sources, not media coverage or blog posts) you're mentioning regarding circumcision, otherwise comment will be deleted as unfounded. Anytime someone mentions a study has to post the source or comment will be deleted. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/22 08:44 AM |
| 43 | Where does this idea that men get better as they age?The whole thing that men age like wine and women age like milk is blown way out of proportion, and the way red pill puts it, it's just a plain lie. Yeah, i guess many women do value certain qualities in men that come with age. But simply put, this dumb idea that men in their 30s or 40s are at their prime and by comparison women at their prime will gravitate towards them is nothing but a massive COPE. A mere revenge fantasy to keep the hopes of the 20 year old virgin TRPer alive about "this one d… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/03/22 11:33 AM |
| 8 | Did anyone else screw up a relationship because of trp?Yes, and it's basically why exredpill exists now I wish she could have known the real me. It's my biggest regret Couldn't have said it better | /r/ExRedPill | 29/03/22 08:09 AM |
| 4 | The Female Mating Strategy Curve. (Theory)Well those studies they are talking about are referring to various studies where attraction chemicals where measured and the theory behind it along with the other biological theories OP mentions is actually proving more and more closer to the fact that when it comes to children the body does the rest of the work to keep the family together if it is healthy or apart if it is not. Well, then do take the time to cite those said studies properly and reference them throughout the text properly, so th… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 02:13 PM |
| 2 | It's a scientific fact that hypergamy does not existThe "mate value" assessments will be subjective and flexible from one person to another. Some people overestimate the value of other people, who in turn underestimate their own value. Well, that's interesting. I had an exchange with a guy here the other day that said the exact opposite of what you're saying and claimed i was "misinterpreting" red pill and that a woman's subjective self-appraisal means nothing. You can probably find it if you dig around these comments here. Anyway... The only thi… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 09:30 AM |
| 6 | Bullies are happier, have more sex appeal, says study. So science seem to confirm that RPs ideal masculinity is a good strategy and possibly just human nature... so what's your response?You're a fucking idiot. I checked the original source. Here it goes: SAMPLE: 50% of the sample was FEMALE. Which is obviously going to skew the results, particularly in the sexual debut perspective. HOWEVER, they didn't even measure actual sexual behavior, they simply conclude bullies have more sex appeal because they SELF REPORT to have higher social status, and the authors make the case that this is kinda connected to being sexually attractive LMAO okay. This was done in a sample of 8th, 9th a… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 09:14 AM |
| 7 | The Female Mating Strategy Curve. (Theory)Referencing a youtuber doesn't account as a real reference, so please don't use "(Smith, 2022)" as if it was a real reference. Check the posts in the First Aid Kit to see what's expected as a reference. We want APA norms and all that. All in all, interesting ideas, i could toy around with some of them. Women losing attraction after a 6 month period because of not having been impregnated, i'd say that's more of a end of the honey moon phase over anything else. If that was true, women who are on b… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 08:55 AM |
| 3 | The Female Mating Strategy Curve. (Theory)This sub isn't hostile to evolutionary psychology. Some people here are hostile to evolutionary psychology. I've used evolutionary psychology on numerous ocasions to debunk a lot of red pill ideas. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 08:47 AM |
| 1 | I’m insecure and don’t trust my girlfriendNo, you can't, it's perfectly human to be attached within a relationship. If anything, red pill only made you insecure and by extension overly-attached, you care deeply about this girl and there's nothing wrong with that. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/03/22 10:32 AM |
| 1 | I’m insecure and don’t trust my girlfriendLet's talk about FACTS. She knows you're in a tough position financially, allegedly didn't care. She saw you cry. Did she go like "ewww wtf"?... no, she counselled you and made you tea instead. She even offers to pay for dinner. She's allegedly not trying to exploit you financially. These are the objective, really, palpable FACTS that truly happent and are not the mere result of what you THINK is going to happen. I don't give a shit about what some random coach you never met nor knows your GF sa… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/03/22 09:32 AM |
| 5 | How do I avoid the bad women out there?I studied Psychology and after years of dating experience i have a counter-intuitive golden rule that applies to both men and women in terms of screening a date: The more someone invests on superficiality like social status, popularity, confidence, dominance or validation the more anti-social or unhealthy their personality tends to be. And the more they tend to seek these same characteristics they got on others, as what people value in themselves tend to be the same they value in others. There's… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 09:19 AM |
| 7 | Redpill ruined the perfect relationshipThanks for reaching out, dude. Let me know if you need any help on how to deconstruct specific red pill ideas.. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/22 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Mark Manson's View on porn - thoughts?I don't watch porn. I find it tremendously weird. But i'm very skeptic of the hazards of watching porn and think that people kinda blow it way out of proportion. But yeah, what's sexy about watching a disgusting looking hypermasculine dude with disproportionate muscles and penis aggressively fucking a fake titted, hoochie looking woman with fake moans and cumming all over her face? It's not sexy, nor cool, nor edgy, it's just plain uncomfortable to watch... all in the context of a terrible, sure… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/22 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Sister dating a dark triad scared for her lifeGosh, i hope so! Keep safe, bro.. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/22 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Sister dating a dark triad scared for her lifeI'm sorry but if this is true there's absolutely nothing normal about this situation, nor is there absolutely nothing normal about your sister if she's dating a dude like that and is unwilling to leave him. If domestic violence in your country is a public crime 100% report the dude, fuck what your sister says about "loving him". You do realize this man is a criminal and may very well kill your sister? Get as much evidence as possible regarding his domestic violence and his dealings. Reach out to… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/22 01:26 PM |
| 6 | Ex-redpiller but still MGTOW?I still am MGTOW because I will never date a woman ever again, but I will not subscribe to hate based off of my own experiences. There's actually no problem with this. You you want to refrain from dating because you find it a deeply frustrating experience, and feel like you would be happier focusing your energy elsewhere then i'd say that's actually perfectly fine. As long as you're not starved for emotional connection, or don't hold grudges onto women, or believe the propaganda i'd say that you… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/22 04:21 PM |
| 3 | What’s the cringest thing Red Pill material has ever made you do or say?Well, it's a long list. But probably Peacocking, alas that's a bit more PUAish | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/22 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Some of the attitudes shared in this sub are distasteful and borderline RedPillThe person you're mentioning was banned. Any sort of FDS rhetoric in this sub is not allowed. People don't seem to realize this is a mere sub on the internet with a varied audience and many clashing opinions. Yes, there are stupid users in here. Yes, there are stupid opinions in here. This isn't a perfect reddit sub promising salvation and morally perfect users because at the end of the day we are all regular human beings, with very different views of what may work. Don't come here expecting peo… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/22 04:14 PM |
| 2 | I’m addicted to escorts.Lady, with all due respect, can you very kindly shut the fuck up? You're turining the sub into a whole Kindergarden food fight vibe, but that's not the issue. The issue here is that this sub isn't really the place to discuss gender politics, because as you can see here, it virtually always turns into a clusterfuck...? As much as i agree that men are socialized to be violent, the overwhelming majority of men are NOT commiting violent crimes and so your statistics are innocuous they only refer to … | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/22 01:59 PM |
| 2 | I’m addicted to escorts.This sub exposed itself. This sub didn't "expose" itself because there is no "this sub" as if we are all part of a collective mind. There are individual people opinions, some of them may suck completely. This is a mere sub on the internet with a multitude of opinions and a wide audience. You come here to get advice and you get advice. Some of it great, some of it good, some of it innocuous, some of it bad and some of it terrible. Eitherway you get advice. It may or may not "save" you. Eitherway … | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/22 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Am I overthinking showing vulnerability? Even with my girlfriend?https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/kxdzob/how_to_communicate_weakness_or_vulnerability_to/ | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/22 01:43 PM |
| 5 | Isn't the fact that people hitch up with others with similar attractiveness prove leagues exist and looks aren't that subjective?If we can distinguish this difference from others, then how is the blackpill or looksmatch incorrect? Some people are consensually more attractive than others. There is always a great level of subjectiveness, of couse, with people disagreeing to different levels just how much a said person is attractive, while other people (exceptions) may even consider a consensually unattractive person as attractive or at least not unattractive. Eitherway, it's true: Generally speaking people can more or less … | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/22 01:40 PM |
| 6 | Question for mods/admins: Jordan Peterson?I didn't make that rule, i got nothing against Jordan Peterson, other than a lot of his rethorics and a lot of his studies are actually quite trash, it's laughable for instance that he cites Amy Cuddy in his first Rule of "standing up straight with your shoulders behind", because her studies don't replicate, and Jungian psychology is much better defined as philosoph rather than science per se. I guess he's a scientifically informed philosopher at best, and not a particularly good one. Eitherway,… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/22 01:30 PM |
| 7 | Guys that were deep into red pill, did the number of girls you hooked up with increase or decrease after you were indoctrinated?increased from 0 to a girl every 250 approaches or so | /r/ExRedPill | 01/03/22 09:18 AM |
| 2 | Single moms and pregnancyI suspect it props their 'mating strategy' and 'evolutionary psychology' or is it 'primatology' of hunting for the best genes. Problem is, in humans sex is largely had for pleasure. This is exactly what Evolutionary psychology claims. It's the difference between what is known in evolutionary biology as a proximate and an ultimate explanation. Women don't " select men based on their genes", women simply feel an EMOTIONAL sexual attraction to people who happen to have what are thought to be genes … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/22 09:13 PM |
| 3 | I don’t know why I should spit out the red pill when it has worked so well for me.His username and the fact that he mentions he is south asian kinda gives it away | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/22 01:51 PM |
| 3 | Being only 5ft pushes me into the dark corridors of Blackpill.We have talked about that "stat" endlessly here in this sub, so you're quite late to the party. You can see this exchange of mine with u/TashDarke where i offer all the possible explanations for why that "sexlesness" rise happens while Tasha just believes and gives very good reasons for why those stats are bad science to start with. It would be of your own best interest to read that for a a change, instead of filling up your head with incel propaganda. Anyway, 72% of men getting laid in the past… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/22 10:27 AM |
| 2 | Being only 5ft pushes me into the dark corridors of Blackpill.Yeah, i've been in TRP long enough to know that "stats" are usually fabricated BS once you check the original source. Just because a certain segment of you guys get no female attention, or feel like you get no female attention, doesn't mean it's the same for the overwhelming majority of men. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/22 09:55 AM |
| 5 | I don’t know why I should spit out the red pill when it has worked so well for me.Why is it that everytime some dude comes here swearing on the absolute effectiveness of TRP is virtually always a guy from India, Kenya, Tunisia, etc... Let's put it like this: You're not "slaying pussy" on those non-WEIRD socially conservative countries. Quit lieing to yourselves, really... | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/22 09:53 AM |
| 2 | Being only 5ft pushes me into the dark corridors of Blackpill.If by "social darwinism" you mean that the more attractive you are the easier it TENDS to get in dating and the more unattractive you are the harder it TENDS to get in dating then yeah, sure. Everybody would probably agree to that lol | /r/ExRedPill | 24/02/22 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Being only 5ft pushes me into the dark corridors of Blackpill.That really depends on the extent of the condition and how it affects you. That's something much more subjective than having a clear and firm physical disability... | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/22 11:13 PM |
| 5 | Being only 5ft pushes me into the dark corridors of Blackpill.Disfigured or extreme disability or so | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/22 05:30 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of Alpha Male Strategies?Lmfao, you know nothing about me or my mindset, or the "pussy i get". My experience with TRP has been much deeper than yours will ever be and i know very well what TRP is about. Just deal with the fact that some people don't respect your AMS idol and just because people don't give a fuck about his theories doesn't mean they are on a "scarcity mindset" or are "incels". have the balls to argue your points and enjoy a good debate instead of banning people like a bitch. No, because that that would m… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/22 02:56 PM |
| 14 | Being only 5ft pushes me into the dark corridors of Blackpill.I would understand that "It's not over", it's virtually never over unless you're in some absolutely extreme situation, there have been other men in your height that found a girlfriend, just try to do what's possible and what not to achieve that. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/22 10:04 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of Alpha Male Strategies?Lol, it has everything to do with everything because he targets the fake nails, fake hair, hoochie, ratchet suburban type women with a beautician diploma lmao.... the kind of trash TRP works in. Also, his video trying to approach "snow bunnies" is epic and one of the most cherished memes on the endless hall of shame of TRP "guru" BS. And you're banned just because i can ban you and it delights me to humiliate you and abuse my power over you. That's what's up ;) | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/22 09:11 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of Alpha Male Strategies?:( | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/22 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Redpill thoughts again 😓she know I've never been with any girl, unfortunately she started dating and practically at the same time she found out that i liked her, and since yesterday the voices in my head tell me that i don't stand a chance because of these redpill thoughts Maybe she's deceiving you, maybe she isn't. But assuming that she is does that automatically mean that everything related to red pill is true? Some people are good, some people are bad, most fall somewhere in the middle. The fact that she was mistrea… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/22 09:18 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Okay then. Maybe not her, but comment still applies to a lot of people on Instagram. Showing off looks they don't have, money they can't spend and trips nobody cares about, as if getting on a plane to go to some beach on the other side of the world meant they were superior to anyone. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/02/22 09:08 AM |
| -8 | [deleted by user]Just plain sad the lenght that some people go through with the photoshop and the cameral angles just to get some likes on instagram. Validation monkeys, really. Not to mention how futile it is to show off your genetics, which aren't even genuine in her case lol. You want to show off, show an actual achievment that took work like playing an instrument or something. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/02/22 05:28 PM |
| 2 | ExRedPill, ExIncel, Looking to make a changeSounds like your problems go a bit deeper than red pill or black pill. From family issues, personal issues, etc. Maybe you should probably focus on getting therapy if you want to invest in that and think it would be beneficial. Join meditation classes, yoga... and keep investing in your personal activities and make new friends, join chouchsurfing sites or meet up sites... may be cool to keep you occupied. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/22 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Against Dread Game (Based on Science)Rollo Tomassi is based on data, not ideology Hav you actually took the time to research his data on it's original source? | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/22 08:19 PM |
| 5 | The Struggle To DetoxI guess I'm asking can you really fully detox if part of the RP is true (even though 80% is pseudoscience b.s., false narratives and toxic AF)or is my only option to get married outside of America? I don't believe any of those stats. This doesn't mean the stats are wrong per se, it's just that i have never took the time to research them and on the overwhelming majority of the cases, TRP stats are wrong or half truths. For instance, MGTOW cry all over alimony but never mention that alimony is onl… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/22 09:22 AM |
| 9 | How valid are studies about facial attractiveness?Okay, here's my opinion as someone who did an MD in Social and Organizational Psychology, wrote a thesis on Evolutionary Psychology and has an entire collection of several scientific papers cited in this reddit, on both my Posting and comment's history. I'm no expert whatsoever, far from it, but here is my humble opinion: To talk about the validity of studies regarding facial attractiveness would be extensive, complicated and probably the majority of people here have little knowledge to talk abo… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/22 01:35 PM |
| 3 | Whose read this book Models? What were your thoughts on it? Good takeaways and bad takeaways.Probably the best book on dating, still a bit hanging around some TRP stupid concepts the time it was written tho. Mark's old blog had a lot of great and complementary content to the book, as well as some corrections, too bad it doesn't exist anymore | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/22 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Mark Manson and hypergamyhttps://www.researchgate.net/publication/255683170_Mate_Preference_Necessities_in_Long_and_Short-Term_Mating_People_Prioritize_in_Themselves_What_Their_Mates_Prioritize_in_Them This tells us nothing about Hypergamy. It shows nothing about women wanting men who are above their league (SMV) or top 20% whatsoever. It merely displays the fact that women like social status more than men (common sense) and attribute only about 30% of importance to status, leaving 70% to other characteristics. Those ch… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/22 02:32 PM |
| 5 | What is exredpill?Exredpill is a mere sub on reddit to share advice on going back to reality for people that used the "advice" and got massively burnt in their dating or friendship relationships. Almost all of red pill statistics are fake or minsterpreted and you'd know this if you check the original sources. A prime example is the OK Cupid study, that shows that women message "below average men" 50% of the time and that men only overwhelmingly message top 30% of women in dating sites, which are all contradictive… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/22 09:20 AM |
| 2 | Thanks to this sub, a man and a woman somehow fell in love with each other and we thank you for it existingAmazing! Congratulations! | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/22 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Never was a red pill. But I like to understand ideologies from all types of groups. What do you y’all think of Andrew Tate.For some odd reason, people constantly ask about this dude like every month and immediatly delete the post afterwards. I don't know why. I think it's the same dude, who probably has a fetish on this dude. Tate is a piece of shit, it would make me really happy, from the bottom of my heart, if he died. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/02/22 09:09 AM |
| 1 | I want to leave TRP, but can’t stomach giving up the perksVery convincing troll. I rate about 8/10... mos def much better than the guys that come here saying "i want to leave TRP but last night i arrived home and found a muscle car in my drive way and my wife was moaning hard 69ing a muscular, bald dude with a gigantic cock in our bed". To me what gave it away, apart from being a new account, was this part: I get hundreds of matches on Tinder which essentially gives me an infinite flow of women, I have enough money to afford designer clothes, vacations… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/22 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Red Piller Here - Why Should I Quit?https://www.pnas.org/content/104/38/15011 whereas women, who were generally much more discriminating than men, chose men whose overall desirability as a mate matched the women's self-perceived physical attractiveness. P.S. And before you piss yourself with the "discriminating" bit and start shouting "hypergamy" know that by more "discriminating" they simply mean that men liked most women while women simply liked those they actually thought were in their league, meaning it's men that are hypogamo… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/22 12:35 PM |
| 51 | This red pilled video has 300k likes on Tik tok. Is it safe to say that the majority of people these days are red pilled?You can also treat a woman like shit and not only she won't drop her panties but you also get slapped right in your face lmao. I mean, it's all very relative but TRPers can't see that because they act like this: TRPer: Treats a woman kindly Woman: Doesn't fall for TRPer TRPer: "AH! See!? I told you being a nice guy won't work" Also TRPer: Treats a woman like shit Woman: Doesn't fall for TRPer TRPer: "What, it didn't work!? Must have been because i failed a shit test somewhere..." Classic! | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/22 10:10 AM |
| 8 | Red Piller Here - Why Should I Quit?Ah, okay, so you haven't been putting game into actual real life practice and getting socially burnt and you haven't been dread gaming a SO and living a roller-coaster relationship. You're just a dude who stumbled on TRP on the internet and read that Rollo Tomassi turd and it just kinda resonates with you because it kinda explains some of the behavior you experience with your ex and now spends his time reading and commenting on reddit. Of course you don't know why you should quit TRP. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/22 09:47 AM |
| 6 | Red Piller Here - Why Should I Quit?Funny how you guys can't really think about anyone without putting them in one of your manosphere authistic boxes. Just because i shit on TRP and mention something as innocuous as good looking men being more likely to get dates must automatically mean that i'm black pill, am i right? I despise that Black pill lunacy. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/22 09:39 AM |
| 20 | Red Piller Here - Why Should I Quit?This isn't about convincing anyone to stay or leave. Either you put TRP into practice irl and failed or succeeded. Or you're just a keyboard jockey talking tash online about women based on a big pile of nothing like your "personal experience ™" of "i liked this girl in my class but she switched me for some greasy dude in a leather jacket so now i'm red pill" or "my buddy Charlie divorced his wife and she turned his life into living hell" or based on deeply,well reputed studies like "i'm red pill… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/02/22 10:38 PM |
| 25 | Curious to know what y’all think of this statistic?You nailed it. Also, i'm just gonna share the photos of the guys/gals that were considered average and "top tier" by both men and women in that "study" (mind you that in this "study" average to top tier means top 20% of men): These were the guys that were considered "average" - https://web.archive.org/web/20170316015704im_/https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/800/1*IPwVkWPmKUSk6EexXR1OIg.jpeg These were the guys that were considered "near the top of the range" - https://web.archive.org/web/201703… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/02/22 09:34 AM |
| 15 | Did you hate women?When i was TRP i hated women. Who in their right mind would not hate women when you're TRP? It's perfectly normal, okay even, to hate women if you think they are all hypersexual social climbers who will merely use you for your money unless you're a good looking psychopath. I lied to myself telling that i actually "loved women" for their "chaotic nature" as Heartiste (A TRP charlatan guru) used to say but that's just a cope. If the average TRPer admitted to hate women that would create great diss… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/22 08:45 PM |
| 4 | It’s so weird how can I still kinda believe this mess even though it doesn’t match my lived experience at allIt's because they conditioned you in the following ways: It's pseudo-cientific jargon makes it look legit and valid; It presenting itself as "secret knowledge" only a "select few" are aware of feeds to people's own sense of narcisism and being special; It presenting itself as a secret "club" appeals to people sense of belongingness and identity; It selling you a "dystopic" view of reality and how dating is fucked appeals to people's sense of urgency and insecurities. It then presenting itself as… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/22 08:38 PM |
| 5 | Are women even sexually attracted to men?Women finding out looks aren't everything after a couple of bad dating experiences is slightly different than "women want to fuck chad and use you for your money", as that would be quite the logical leap, but then again logic and intellect was never the average TRPers virtue | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/22 08:25 PM |
| 17 | Im sick and tired of being perceived as cute and non-threateningit seems that a lot of people find intimidating, unfriendly, piece of trash dude way more hot. Or at least intriguing. It's not how many find that archetype hot or not, it's about if this people who tend to find that hot give good partners or not (spoiler alet: they kinda don't). I dont know why being called cute would be annoying, it would be much more upsetting for me to be called hot but be mistaken as a macho psychopath over anything else. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/01/22 12:02 PM |
| 25 | Im sick and tired of being perceived as cute and non-threateningNow a little bit of context - Im a really athletic 25yo guy. I play pro sports, workout a lot and have tons of non-sports related hobbies (such as books, feminism, chess, animals and etc.). I would even dare to say that Im physically more capable than most of the dudes out there (key word - most). And I never had problems with getting dates or even ONS. What is more, ladies usually love talking and spending time with me. So you're perceived very positively from the outside perspective, but you'r… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/01/22 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Youtuber Alexander Grace's Education? ( FACTS, not speculation )https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/mol4wc/youtuber_alexander_grace_here_looking_for_someone/ He then sent a PM to the mods saying that there's a message to the mods at the end of the description of this video to prove who he is https://youtu.be/_dPHuNGKazk | /r/ExRedPill | 30/01/22 11:21 AM |
| 8 | "Why are women here?"Says the red pill dude who's been posting here for a whole week now because he can't deal with the fact that red pill is fake and people he views as his "peers" are leaving it | /r/ExRedPill | 26/01/22 10:40 AM |
| 10 | My gf recently told me that men who are “Hoes” are dicks and don’t respect women but at the same time I wonder why those men have such high body counts if women don’t like men like that.https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/47fj77/the_end_of_the_bad_boy_mystique_largely/ | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/22 05:43 PM |
| 3 | Can we discuss how some people are indifferent to lookism?Well, it's really just about not letting ugliness get in the way of what you want. Just aim high and be bold with yourself in trying to date who you want. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/01/22 07:09 PM |
| 13 | Can we discuss how some people are indifferent to lookism?I think discrimination based on appearence is real and a much more serious issue than people are even aware of. It's true, people who are ugly are perceived differently than good looking people in ways that have been consistently shown to be negative while the opposite is true to good looking people. And the worse part is that it doesn't seem like the general public is being educated on this or that there's any sort of real activism about this. The problem is that the average Incel is so persona… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/01/22 05:45 PM |
| 19 | I Don’t Know If My Experience With Redpill Is The Cause Of My Current Success In The Dating SceneYou just said it from the beggining. You're not a "Chad" yet still have dating success. The bits of advice you've been eployed are mostly common sense self improvement. There you go. The vast majority of guys i've seen having any decent success in my TRP days were guys who were already good looking or otherwise had something else going on for them, they just needed a bit of confidence to actually start talking to women. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/01/22 09:15 AM |
| 2 | Has TRP made me impotent?Yeah, that's what happens when you're fucking people you don't like or don't respect... happent to me when i was TRP | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/22 02:33 PM |
| 3 | serious question: how do you trust people?If you don't trust the other party, particularly in a romantic relationship, you're fucked too and so is your relationship, so you don't have much choice. Just acccept your vulnerability and trust your partner as long as you don't have multiple, clear red flags. Being cheated on or so isn't really the end of the world unless you don't trust your own resilience or just put your partner on a pedestal so much you think you'll never get someone new ever again. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/22 09:43 AM |
| 14 | I lose respect for girls with high bodycounts.I feel like the difference is with girls they're just giving themselves away to all the horny guys who would fuck anything really, some dudes fuck socks, so it doesn't mean anything except the girl has no respect for themselves. If a woman wants to have sex with multiple men but doesn't do so because she's scared of what other people are going to say she doesn't have respect for herself and her wishes either. It's all very relative. Eitherway, you don't have to respect high N count women. You ar… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/22 09:39 AM |
| 3 | Why we do struggle to admit that looks matter a lot for men?All i'm trying to say is that yeah, looks matter, they are important, but it's far from over if you're ugly, unless you're grotesque or something... | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/22 02:46 PM |
| 6 | Mark Manson and hypergamyIt depends on how you define hypergamy. If your definition is "women like men of status" - yes. Any other lunacy related to hypergamy like Women only go for top 80% - No Women only go for men above them in SMV - No Women will leave you at the sight of a better deal - Absolutely not Women only go for men of higher status than themselves - No | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/22 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Why we do struggle to admit that looks matter a lot for men?It's the most obvious, common sense fact that looks matter for men. Ask any normie who has never heard of TRP or anything of the sorts and they'll tell you it does. When someone mentions that people "struggle to admit that looks matter for men", at least in the context of this sub, what they really mean is "Why don't people admit that women are shallow, only go for Chad and you're fucked if you're sub5 our even bottom 80%" and are botheredby the fact that people don't admit this "reality". Which… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/22 09:18 AM |
| 4 | Academic critique on the basis of age-gap relationships and evolutionary psychologyI've been following her channel and i thought of posting this link before. She's quite informative, i recommender her channel. I think she also made a take down on more TRP content, like Doosh V take on romanian women. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/01/22 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Can the damage be permanent?Here's something i wrote a while back better explaing Red pill logical faults https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/kih450/oxytocin_pairbonding_and_casual_sex_does_a_high/ggr39n8/ | /r/ExRedPill | 15/01/22 01:21 PM |
| 5 | Can the damage be permanent?When you start looking at TRP through a criticist lens you get to see all the logical faults. Look at the AF/BB theory. You go outside and you see plenty of couples who seemed matched in attractiveness or even mismatched with the guy being uglier than the girl. This is all explained away by TRP as these guys being beta and the girls being with them out of convenience, as what they truly want and lust after are "top 20% men". Yet, from a purely logical perspective, what do you think it's the most… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/01/22 01:18 PM |
| 14 | Can the damage be permanent?Yes, you can, they just try to tell you "once you see it you can't unsee it" as a typical cult tactic to try to keep you from leaving ("it's impossible, bro, don't try to leave because you can't"). You can leave when you understand this, and when you do your research and think the theories through you see they're all rooted on faulty logic, and more importantly, when you actually have real life experience, particularly positive experiences, with dating women. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/22 09:13 AM |
| 10 | My experience with Corey WayneOn the subreddit, I got slammed by his followers telling me all the ways I am not following his material to the T. All I did is try to challenge the fact that you have to constantly be checking on yourself and the margin for error is apparently 0% (if asking a question via text can be considered an error). This is exactly what's wrong with the manosphere dating advice. Everytime someone applies the advice and fails, it's always because they didn't apply it "well enough" or "correctly enough". It… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/01/22 03:43 PM |
| 28 | I Challenge Red Piller's on Twitter to Box. Why Are They All Spineless Bitch Ass Punks?Going around saying "fight me irl" is kinda cringe tho | /r/ExRedPill | 12/01/22 02:13 PM |
| 1 | My last post, with this i mark the end of this toxic phase.Clap Clap Clap Clap Well done! Best of luck with your new path. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/01/22 10:13 AM |
| – | Lurkers in healthy relationships: why are you here and why you should leave.This is a fringe internet sub, the normal, down to earth people are the majority but don't participate much because they find this place disgusting, a waste of time or are just ignored and dismissed as "coping" or "normiesplaining" if they try to counter-argument or "blue pill" if they say something even mildly positive about human nature lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 09:16 AM |
| 46 | Why is Red pill so additive? I don't understand how it sucks in so many people?Why is TRP intoxicating?: It's pseudo-cientific jargon makes it look legit and valid; It presenting itself as "secret knowledge" only a "select few" are aware of feeds to people's own sense of narcisism and being special; It presenting itself as a secret "club" appeals to people sense of belongingness and identity; It selling you a "dystopic" view of reality and how dating is fucked appeals to people's sense of urgency and insecurities. It then presenting itself as the "solution" to navigate thi… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/01/22 09:07 AM |
| 19 | I wanna have a stance on this from you guys. Something that redpill never talks about. I’ll link the video down there and my question next to it.Of course, he is. Do you really think a 28 year old has a million dollar "side business" in adddition to his DJing career which, by the way, is about to blow up internationally? Who the fuck says "i am making million dollars on a side... my main occupation is being a famous DJ" LOL... and asking advice to a nobody like Richard Cooper lmao... Mental | /r/ExRedPill | 11/01/22 02:45 PM |
| 25 | I wanna have a stance on this from you guys. Something that redpill never talks about. I’ll link the video down there and my question next to it.I'm sorry, but i clicked on the video and i saw Richard Cooper and i got my tinfoil hat to protect my IQ from dropping just by looking at him lmao, but when "Sam", with his profile picture toungue kissing a dog, came in saying that he's 28 and "has a rotation of 6 girls" and is a DJ/Producer but is about to make 7 figures this year i just had to close it as i'm not really a fan of bachelor fiction. It's fucking insane that nobody is calling that guy on such obvious bullshit on the comments, and … | /r/ExRedPill | 11/01/22 12:00 PM |
| 4 | Rich Man and "High Value Man" being allowed to CheatLol, who would have thought? Women who rely on their rich husbands to provide them a very comfortable wealthy lifestyle often do not divorce their asses for cheating. So? If anything, the fact that a woman won't get mad or hurt at her husband's infidelity only goes to show she doesn't love him and he's just her "Beta bucks". | /r/ExRedPill | 11/01/22 09:16 AM |
| 4 | Insecurities of having girlfriend leaving for a Dominant Black Guy.Maybe it's a thing media's pushing, maybe it's a common fantasy for a certain segment of people, eitherway you shouldn't really be bothered by this unless your would be girlfriend gave you clear, factual reasons to be insecure about it. And since you're single... | /r/ExRedPill | 10/01/22 02:18 PM |
| 17 | Insecurities of having girlfriend leaving for a Dominant Black Guy.Let's start out by asking: Has your girlfriend even gave you an hint that she likes dominant or black men? Did she tell you that directly? Is she talking to any black guy or does she have any "dominant black" friends at all? Past that, do you personally know anyone who has been switched for a "dominant black man" in real life? These are the first questions because they are factual. If the answer to all of these questions is no then case closed, being insecure about that makes no more sense than … | /r/ExRedPill | 10/01/22 12:10 PM |
| 1 | The pill debate and their theories are ridiculousYour general conclusions are good, unbiased and balanced. Even i can see that, as an exTRP who has approached over a 1000 women, admin the national PUA forum at my country, but maybe i'm "under informed" lmfao. Truth is that if you're not indoctrinated to the Black/Red lunacy you'll always be seen as a "under informed" guy who "knows nothing of the real TRP" or "is in denial" in the eyes of those who follow the cult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Why is acknowledging the fact that most men are not physically attractive to women seen as massively controversial and even TRP'rs are in denial about it?Both men and women want to maximize what they can possibly get, and would go for the absolute best if they didn't have restrictions, so it's fair to say both men and women settle for what they can realistically get. The question is wether men and women are content with what they settle for. As we all know, they are, depending on the case of course, it's only internet virgins of TRP who refuse to admit that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 09:16 AM |
| 17 | Anyone else looking at content here and redpill at the same time?The sub is aimed at people wanting to detox. It assumes people have tried red pill and it has failed them and now want to go back to normalcy. The sub isn't really about learning about "alternative perspectives" to "find out what's true" whatsoever. This is not an intellectual exercise. So, no, nobody is learning simultaneously about red pill. Besides, if you wanna find out what's true, you should employ the advise irl. If it fails (spoiler alert: it probably will), then you come here. If it doe… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/22 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Why is acknowledging the fact that most men are not physically attractive to women seen as massively controversial and even TRP'rs are in denial about it?Women don't value looks nor short term sex as much as men so the intensity of the stimuli it takes them to be DTF needs to be much higher. This means you won't see women simping and verbalizing their attraction unless the men is THAT good looking, but that doesn't mean they find all the other guys unattractive. They just don't chase them because looks are not their priority. This creates the illusion that women only value the top good looking men when it's not true. Women priorities are also muc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 03:58 PM |
| 3 | It's a scientific fact that hypergamy does not existAnd yet, i'm the guy who just posted an etirety of scientific data debunking your fads and you're the random dude who can't understand the very simple fact that men drop their standards rather than women raising them lmao | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/22 03:32 PM |
| 2 | It's a scientific fact that hypergamy does not existOnly fucked up because it doesn't validate what you already believe in | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/22 03:13 PM |
| 4 | Briffault's Law RevistedYour post is OP as fuck. The fact that it only has 6 upvotes as of right now shows exactly what's wrong with this sub. I wrote a commet with the original Briffaults law to show it has nothing at all to do with the interpretation TRP gives it: https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/lwoyb1/what_happens_with_briffaults_law/gpipdwi/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 01:49 PM |
| 15 | Can Red Pill make society go back to a time like the 1950s or a patriarchy, even go back to gender roles?Even if they did, they would still be all bitter about something, claiming their women deep down are just secretly lusting for alphas and they don't truly want them and it sucks to have to be a provider and not being allowed to try to fuck other women and such lol TRP is ALWAYS a lose-lose strategy. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/01/22 09:56 AM |
| 5 | Self Esteem vs Self CompassionYeah, and this is exactly the same advice Mark Manson gave us back in 2013... too bad he stopped offering dating advice, and with all the shit dating advice all the PUAs and TRPers copy from one another, nobody copies Mark Manson lmao | /r/ExRedPill | 06/01/22 08:57 PM |
| 4 | A critique of Evolutionary Psychology"Buss’ research has shown that, compared to culture, “the effects of sex on mate preferences were small”[64]. Only 2.4% of the variance is due to sex. What the fuck! He's refering to r square. That means that out of all the potential variables that explain mate preferences, 97,6% have nothing to do with gender LMFAO... said by the top star of evolutionary psychology. I'm baffled because i had never seen that statistic and i consider myself very well read on evolutionary psychology. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/01/22 04:01 PM |
| 4 | I wrote an article about people from this subredditThanks for reaching out! | /r/ExRedPill | 04/01/22 08:21 PM |
| 3 | Coach Red Pill - Fat Deluded Old Fool. Help me make a video roasting himThat dudes roasts himself by merely existing | /r/ExRedPill | 04/01/22 03:13 PM |
| 4 | TRP always tells us question where you get your information from and that social media isn’t a reliable news source, but what is Rich doing? Shamelessly supporting a twitter comment about the vaccine. Who the hell is “Dr. Malone”? I doubt he fact-checked.Where is the "my body my choice" pussy hat wearing crowd on this And here i am, thinking that a world wide pandemic could potentially be enough of a good argument to suspend individual freedom, particularly if you take into account that it's a virus that can spread and affect OTHER people through your own individual choices, while things like abortion aren't really as big as a pandemic nor does it affect the population as a whole, so naturally the "my body, my choice" crowd would not jump on thi… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/01/22 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Help me understand this situation as an exredpill manHol up, Hol up, Hol up... You can't be the BB if she's hitting back on you despite being with some other dude, and stalking you on instagram and all that...maybe you're the AF, instead? Or maybe you truly are just the second option? Who knows? I mean, it's not like TRP is an actual, well founded explanation that's worth anything, eitherway that's not the point. Point is that you don't like this girl. If you don't like this girl trying to make sense of her behavior is futile. Eitherway you'll nev… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/01/22 04:09 PM |
| 4 | #1 REASON Women FIND Modern MEN UNATTRACTIVEIf it was a video saying that women want nice guys you'd be posting it as an example of "what women say they want is not the same as what they go for"... but since this validates what you already believe inyou have to wave it around | /r/ExRedPill | 03/01/22 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Women's high divorce rate is because they leave "respectful, caring, supportive men" for more "masculine" men, says woman psychologist and 4 decades marriage counselorAn Huffpost opinion piece does not act as evidence. The only acceptable evidence are peer reviewed published scientific papers. Also, the lady says "The women I have treated who have left their husbands for more "masculine" men" which strikes me as slighty different than "Women's high divorce rate is because they leave "respectful, caring, supportive men" for more "masculine" men As your statement implies that the root of divorce is overwhelmingly women prefering masculine men while the lady tal… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/01/22 09:47 AM |
| 2 | Dread Game Is NonsenseHello, I'm the dude that originally wrote the post you base your video on. Just wanna say thank you for doing this video, over the years i've done a lot of research on many claims of TRP and PUA and i think i've done a good job tackling many of the negative aspects of it, but i've never had the motivation nor means to "spread the message" and it's a wonderful thing that youtubers are picking these posts and spreading them on youtube, which as we know is the main source of information for most gu… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/22 11:30 PM |
| 8 | Red Pill Detox First Aid Kit - Start Here!Those 2 concepts are completely unrelated and only people who know zero about evolutionary biology think otherwise, so i won't even start | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/22 04:34 PM |
| 3 | Is chasing self-improvement a negative experience in itself?Desire without attachment | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/21 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Can seduction be learned? a.k.a “Game”"Game" like playing hard to get or push-pulling would be nothing but a collection of social influence techniques and psychological tricks to seduce someone. Thnk of it as sales techniques or something. Can you learn sales techniques? Yes. Will you sell your product everytime (or even most of the time) just because you got sales techniques in your "pocket"? No. Can they boost your chances? Yes. Can they also fireback horribly and hurt your chances depending on the context? Yes. In the end, is the… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/21 12:08 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill Detox First Aid Kit - Start Here!let me know if you need anything | /r/ExRedPill | 28/12/21 07:31 PM |
| 3 | There’s a conflict I would like to get your views on. Mark mansons models vs rational male Rollo TomassiWhat Mark means with being yourself is to be emotionally congruent and authentic. This means that you should act based on your values and respecting your needs, and through honest communication letting people know that (aka what he calls "vulnerability"). Of course that if you're naturally needy you need to be self aware enough to also know that your true self isn't healthy, so you can't really be yourself until you solve your internal "neediness" which is usually rooted on psychological unwelln… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/21 08:03 PM |
| 7 | What were the most damaging aspects of the Red Pill teachings to you?Perhaps a very overlooked and competely not obvious side effect of having been red pill: It made me have too much of a relaxed outlook of life and think that life was too easy. When i was 18 i thought i was goona become a dating coach or digital nomad or do some other entrepreneurship thing that would make me rich or some shit, so i dint work hard in college. I thought that, because i was red pill, i was special and had access to secret information and influences that no other kid my age did. I … | /r/ExRedPill | 26/12/21 12:08 AM |
| 1 | FDS women shouldn't frequent this sub, there is no High-value male potential hereshe got banned as soon as she posted, and you gonna get banned too if you don't shut the fuck up about FDS and don't stop crying over mild insults. Now be normal and make good use of the forum. We're all adults, minimal useless drama = ban or posts deleted. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/12/21 12:01 AM |
| 1 | FDS women shouldn't frequent this sub, there is no High-value male potential hereStill don't know what's your obsession with FDS, but clearly you weren't here a few months ago when there were recurrent active posters. If there are current FDS posters then they have been giving decent advice as of late because i haven't seen anything schocking lately. We bullied the shit out of a couple of (stupid) FDS in the comments, they're laying low now. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/12/21 11:53 PM |
| 1 | FDS women shouldn't frequent this sub, there is no High-value male potential hereEvery FDS is welcome here if they are willing to detox, this isn't just for exredpill dudes. I don't know what's your insistence on FDS either, this sub has gotten much better in the past couple months regarding any FDS trying to troll. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/12/21 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Bro, got a haircut yesterday and feel uglier then before..Everybody can relate to feeling bad about their fresh haircut, it's because people usually like the familiarity and a new haircut doesn't feel familiar. This has actually been studied, no joke.. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/12/21 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Does her sexual history even matter? pt.1But that's irrelevant. the median is 4.3, this means that 50% of women has less than 4.3 average partners. Do you think that religious women or asexual women account for 50% of female population? Also, you need to account for the fact that age is probably the biggest predictor of sex partners, so women with over 10 partners are probably much close to 49 years old than 25. You're blowing this way out of proportion. Once again, average men only start considering N count as a deal breaker for arrou… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/21 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Does her sexual history even matter? pt.1Oh yeah, my bad, it's not 88%, it's 82% of women that have less than 10 partners... or 75%, depending on the source... In eithercase, most women aren't promiscuous, just as i said. #admitit | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/21 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Does her sexual history even matter? pt.1Figure 3 | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/21 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Does her sexual history even matter? pt.1Lol, the argument preety much ends when the first source shows that 88% of women have had less than 10 sexual partners. Also, your 10% argument is laughable, 11% of millenial women are guilty of infidelity vs 10% of millenial men, yet, of course, you had to present the information as being 10% more disloyal than men LMFAO. Which by the way would be wrong unless the sample of men and women are the same and the results are statistically significative. Apart from that, everything in your own source… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/21 03:05 PM |
| 25 | Women of exredpill - Is Alpha Fucks Beta bucks true?Just a couple question to put this into perspective: Why would you assume a dude who is narcisistic (hence, hooked on trying to look powerful) would not lie about the women he got? I'm assuming you weren't there to witness all of these said hookups, so how do you know it's true? How do you know that women found him attractive for his narcisism and not for something else like looks? him manipulating them, maybe even acting as a huge simp towards them? How do you know these women aren't mostly men… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/21 02:10 PM |
| 5 | Does her sexual history even matter? pt.1Lmfao, but you didn't have to research the entirety of the scientific literature to convice yourself that it's okay and reasonable to reject sluts for long term relationships lol... People are free to reject a date based on whatever romantic criteria they got, even if they are hypocrites themselves... No need to waste all that time. Just chose whoever you wanna date/reject lol P.S.: Also... #admitit | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/21 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Does her sexual history even matter? pt.1I actually reference the first study you mentioned in a later part where I refute the “you’re either a prude/virgin or a slut” myth. Guys (and girls) usually want some experience but not too much. Yeah, ideally. But the average limit in regards to past partners is 13 to 15, meaning that people are still willing to date people with at least those many partners. The unpleasant reality is that promiscuous women generally don’t make for good long-term partners, and if you don’t want to get cheated o… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/21 12:58 PM |
| 9 | Women of exredpill - Is Alpha Fucks Beta bucks true?The answer is an absolute, solid, unquestionable yes. And also an absolute, solid, unquestionable no. You can't really come up with a one size fits all mantra for how half of the human population behaves, particularly if that mantra is regarding something as complex as human behavior and human nautre, and also sexual desire. I know that it would be much conforting to think that you can come up with a rule that you can apply to the overwhelming majority of women to know what to expect. Maybe, in … | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/21 11:20 AM |
| 2 | Does her sexual history even matter? pt.1A study in the journal of Sexual Research has found that both virginity and promiscuity are, on average, unfavoured among both men and women. With virginity being both as undesirable as someone who's on the degree of 7-8 partners. Likewise, the degree of which people started to report going below 50% probability of dating someone due to sexual history only started of the thresholds of 15 partners. Further, this study has also place that thresholds in 13 partners among people with LOW Sociosexual… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/21 09:39 AM |
| 0 | Does her sexual history even matter? pt.1It is true, it's common sense that slutty people don't give good partners. However, let's not try to ignore the obvious: The only reason why TRPers care about it it's because it reminds them of their own feelings of inadequacy due to the fact that it makes them feel "beta" as in their own pathetic views of relationship they think they are trading commitment for sex, so they feel cheated if a woman has a lot of sex without commitment. And because most of them are virgns and sex starved, so they d… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/12/21 11:29 PM |
| 7 | Most egregious/stupid thing you’ve heard a RPer or RP guru say?And for the record, because i always like to provide evidence of TRPers stupidity, particularly when it's a level of stupid that goes beyond belivable standards, here's a blog post covering the original post of the lunatic that said that shit. "men invade, women invite" lol https://wehuntedthemammoth.com/2016/01/09/racist-pickup-artist-asks-are-muslim-invaders-too-sexy-for-western-civilization/comment-page-2/ | /r/ExRedPill | 22/12/21 09:17 PM |
| 9 | Most egregious/stupid thing you’ve heard a RPer or RP guru say?Women want to be raped and abducted as war brides because "something something evolution" and "something something strong alpha males impregnating them and defeating their beta husbands" and that's why women have a subconsious drive to invite or be open to the idea of having refugees in the country, including muslim refugees who, as we all know, are terrorists and women secretly crave that extreme violent tendency of these super alpha males that these said terrorists obviously are. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/12/21 09:11 PM |
| 5 | Most egregious/stupid thing you’ve heard a RPer or RP guru say?Does that mean it's okay if i just assault Rollout Myassi? I mean, under his own logic, it is. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/12/21 09:04 PM |
| 9 | Most egregious/stupid thing you’ve heard a RPer or RP guru say?When you're a "beta" with a "scarcity mentality" who merely pedestalizes sex due to not getting none, like Kevin Samuels, it's obvious that all you're gonna value in women is sex itself and the frequence on which she was "used" by other men (being non-virgin) because you that reminds you of all the sex you ain't been getting while she did. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/12/21 01:17 PM |
| 10 | I still don't see how redpill or especially blackpill is wrong.I'm ugly, low self-esteem and confidence, have no education, status, personality, etc. If you're indeed all of those things, and aren't merely depressed and engaged in self-defeatedness (which from a probabilistic point of view you are because it's hard to fail at literally all of those things) then why would you need red pill or black pill? It's a completely blue pill (common sense) idea that you're gonna be set to fail in dating if you lack all of those things, so no point being part of the cu… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/12/21 02:07 PM |
| 1 | It's a scientific fact that hypergamy does not existLmfao, bye and hope you get better soon | /r/ExRedPill | 21/12/21 09:09 AM |
| 26 | I can't stop going back and forth to red pill youtube channels because these cheating situations bring back serious trust issues.Why would you go to red pill channel over videos like this? Understand something, people... cheating and infidelity happen, it has always happened and will always happen. It's unfortunate, but there's not much one can do about it. Nobody contests that, what we contest is the notion that the overwhelming majority of women will do this at the sight on someone better because AWALT and hypergamy. That's just a deluded, poorly adjusted and toxic attitude that only deeply insecure people like TRPers b… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/12/21 07:41 PM |
| 2 | It's a scientific fact that hypergamy does not existShe isn't because she holds herself to an higher standard than the man she wants. That's the point, it's the self-appraisal that matters, not what her objective value is. And even assuming that she was hypergamous... Why weren't the women in these studies claming to want, on average, a man who was at least a 8/10 (top 20% men)? How do you explain that statistically speaking people end up with those of similar SMV if Hypergamy is true? Why do men also have similar stats to women in terms of stand… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/12/21 12:30 PM |
| 2 | It's a scientific fact that hypergamy does not existFor fuck sake, dude. Yes, i do understand your point, i already told you it's wrong. And you were this close to understand what i'm trying to say when you mentioned that women over valued themselves significantly yet completely fucked up again: the studies very clearly show that women both over value themselves yet still go for men they think are below them. If you can't comprehend my very simple point by now, i don't know what to tell you anymore. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/12/21 09:15 AM |
| 3 | Did the discord for this group disappear?Yes, due to trolling, but it may eventually come back | /r/ExRedPill | 19/12/21 12:46 PM |
| 2 | It's a scientific fact that hypergamy does not existOkay, since you're too dense to actually admit that you're wrong, i'm just gonna mop arround with you a little bit. There were 2 studies. In one of the studies, women rated themselves to be more attractive (in total SMV) than 67,46% of the remaining women and in another study with a different sample of women, the self-appraisal was 70,21%. So, in total SMV, the average women in these studies believe themselves to be close to a 7/10, roughly speaking. These women claimed the absolute minimum they… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/12/21 12:48 PM |
| 5 | Hypergamy is real but both sexes have it and it is not what rp says it is.You're mistaking hypergamy for maximizing. You're right, both genders maximize in the sense they want the best partner they can possibly get. However, only women are hypergamous under red pill theory, meaning that they will absolutely only date someone ABOVE them in absolute "SMV", namely top 20% men. Probability of dating someone below that then progressively drops until reaching men on their own level on which they will allegedly "tolerate" a relationship with. Women don't date people below th… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/12/21 09:26 AM |
| 2 | It's a scientific fact that hypergamy does not existNo, i'm not saying that women are hypergamous unconsciouscly and stop trying to do some mental gymnastics to put words in my mouth that i never said. One of the justifications red pill offers to justify whenever a woman is dating someone that's obviously "below" her or whenever a fat, ugly woman is acting entitled regarding what type of man she thinks she deserves is precisely that hypergamy is based on her own subjective self image. So a woman who's dating a dude "below" her is only doing so be… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/12/21 09:15 AM |
| 4 | why do some women like Andrew Tate?Usually it's just daddy issues, sensation seeking personality, "feeling the need to be protected by a strong male" due to anxious personality, internalized sexism, unrestricted sociosexual orientation or some combination of all of these | /r/ExRedPill | 16/12/21 03:34 PM |
| 2 | It's a scientific fact that hypergamy does not existNo. Most people have a self serving bias where they consider themselves as more attractive than what most other people view them as. So, even if the average woman is a 5/10, she still considers herself a 7/10, and is consciously willing to go for at least a 6/10, which is technically inferior to what she considers herself to be. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/12/21 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Bitterness about my situationNo. I don't even think i'm offering advice, i'm merely stating what should probably be common sense. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/12/21 01:04 PM |
| 12 | Sorry, I'm not chasing women or playing games.It goes beyond me how people aren't even willing to do the bare minimum to have dating success and then still complain because things are the way they are. You know, working to make a living sucks, it consumes all my time, yet i have to work. It's LIFE. Same goes for dating. Nobody ever told you that? I get you. Every man get's you. Picking up women takes work. Making an effort to pick up women sucks. Dating as a whole is frustrating. But at best all you can do is raise some awareness over that … | /r/ExRedPill | 16/12/21 01:02 PM |
| 8 | what is it like to have a husband or boyfriend red pill?Was he truly red pill or just a random douche? Was he truly exposed to the theories and the numenculature of AWALT, hypergamy and all that stupid shit? I know the difference is next to none, but plenty of people refer to their "red pill" boyfriends despite those boyfriends not having been exposed to that shit. I know that to many people "red pilled" is just a generic term for calling someone a "douche", but there are many differences between the mind of a real red pill guys and the mind of some … | /r/ExRedPill | 16/12/21 10:53 AM |
| 4 | Exactly How Long did you Follow the Red Pill?Around 4 years, but yeah, 2 years was when i started getting tired of it. Please, leave your channel online, even if you don't update it. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/12/21 10:38 AM |
| 4 | Bitterness about my situationI'll add that i've never asked a girl out, because i've never had the chance, and mainly because i know i'm already virtually rejected due to my looks, so why even bother? Well, there you have it. Not hard to conclude what your problem is. Yes, i've tried everything, i guess. I went to college, i play sports, i have a job. You guessed wrong. The most important part of dating isn't really to self improve, is to actually try and chase women. Like, it's so obvious and yet so few guys do it. You're … | /r/ExRedPill | 15/12/21 03:14 PM |
| 13 | This is what you attract when you try to sleep with as many women as possibleIt goes beyond me how people can still take TRP seriously with the obvious amount of bafoonery going on. Makes no sense to me. From the hosts of F&F to those invited bimbos. How the fuck can someone claim AWALT based on the shit those bimbos say and do? I mean, isn't it obvious that those women are a very specific demographic of shallowness? How can someone take those F&F dudes as a model for being "alpha"? Do people seriously expect that the kind of behavior and shit they say in that show won't… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/12/21 10:19 AM |
| 8 | Red Pill only talks about the extreme negative side of female nature.Yap | /r/ExRedPill | 13/12/21 09:16 AM |
| 30 | Only 12% of straight men feel desired by their partners.Whenever sensationalist statiscts like this come up, i always suspect something fishy is going on. So, 12% of men reporting "feeling desired as much as they want", while 88% wanted to "feel desired more". Okay, why wasn't there an item asking for men who "feel little desired" or "don't feel desired at all"? To put it into perspective, if you ask people their level of satisfaction with money, most would probably say they'd like more, despite not living under poverty line. I can already feel incel… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/12/21 09:15 AM |
| 2 | 80/20 and SMV Debunked (Studies and Data)Good find, it pinpoints a lot of facts that i've been saying for years: First, it found that both men and women try to maximize by contacting the most attractive people. Seems like women aren't really any more hypergamous than men, and the study shows it. But the most important aspects for me were these: In other words, compared to offline dating, online dating solicitations may reflect ideal rather than realistic preferences, and the original matching hypothesis may apply only to the latter. Th… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/21 03:53 PM |
| 3 | It's a scientific fact that hypergamy does not existYes, they do, actually, Kendrick studies shows that women rate themselves an average of 7/10 SMV yet want a 6/10 SMV man, which is more or less the same pattern for men... and plenty of statistical datal showing that people end up with those of similar value, on average. So yeah, hypergamy isn't real, science knows this, common sense knows this, i know this, you know this... I'm not trying hard for shit, i got my own car (already paid for), my own house (already paid for), a liquid salary that's… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/21 11:18 AM |
| 2 | It's a scientific fact that hypergamy does not existAlready explained in the comments Women have high standards for relationships and casual dating. Men have high standards for relationships (very comparable to women) and low standards for casual dating. Therefore, It's men that go below the baseline of general choosiness in dating. Obviously, if men have lower standards than women, that means that women have higher standards than men, but the direction of the effect is better explained by the fact that men drop their standards rather than women … | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/21 09:49 AM |
| 2 | It's a scientific fact that hypergamy does not existPost the endless list of all the studies that prove hypergamy then | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/21 09:47 AM |
| 1 | I've gotten close to falling down the redpill pit several times over the past ten years. How did you realize it wasn't the way?that book has absolutely no resemblence with red pill, which passage makes you say that? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/21 11:11 PM |
| 4 | I've gotten close to falling down the redpill pit several times over the past ten years. How did you realize it wasn't the way?Mark Manson is anti RP. There may be a couple of points inspired by the manosphere but he's anti RP and any dude who was reading his blog posts back when he was a dating coach knows this. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/21 09:08 PM |
| 3 | Women dont care about a mans strugglesLol, you don't know me or anyone i dated so shut the fuck up number 1. Also, here's shut the fuck up number 2: The study confirmed earlier research of a divorce or separation rate among cancer patients of 11.6 percent, similar to the general population, but found the rate jumped to 20.8 percent when the woman was sick versus 2.9 percent when the man was ill. And you're just spitting typical bs talk of someone who has never dated anyone irl and the jack shit they know about dating was through red… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/21 09:06 PM |
| 4 | I've gotten close to falling down the redpill pit several times over the past ten years. How did you realize it wasn't the way?i still cringe over the rejections i took, the shit i said or did to appear alpha, the way i treated women, etc | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/21 08:58 PM |
| 1 | I've gotten close to falling down the redpill pit several times over the past ten years. How did you realize it wasn't the way?You're missing everything here | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/21 08:58 PM |
| 5 | I've gotten close to falling down the redpill pit several times over the past ten years. How did you realize it wasn't the way?Just started being normal again and chasing women like a regular dude.. reading Mark Manson, Howie Reith has helped... | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/21 05:10 PM |
| 24 | I've gotten close to falling down the redpill pit several times over the past ten years. How did you realize it wasn't the way?Started applying it irl... barely got laid, missed on a lot of friendships, made a lot of cringe and shameful stuff i still have to deal with to this day. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/21 03:28 PM |
| 13 | what is it like to have a relationship with a red pill?Depends on the level of indoctrination of the said TRPer, but usually it's just a roller coaster relationship filled with drama and abuse which they call "dread gaming" lmao | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/21 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Cant use tinder anymore.A city with no clubs and pubs would be too isolated or small for Tinder to be an option anyway | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/21 09:22 PM |
| – | Always stick to the "texting is for logistics only rule" or you will end up like me - crying and dead insideLMFAO 10/10 trolling I already thought you weren't really right in the head when you posted saying you messaged 40 women out of the blue invinting them for a date because you should only "text for logistics", but you were spitting the usual incel non sense in the comments so you just came across as yet another clueless incel, so nothing suspicious. Then you said that a woman actually agreed to go out with you but you imediatly asked her if she was paying for her own date. Epic facepalm, but once… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/21 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Is it ok if I don't want to pay for a woman on a first date?You don't have to pay unless it has been specifically agreed to. I never pay for dates, for instance. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/21 08:56 PM |
| 32 | Is it ok if I don't want to pay for a woman on a first date?First you go around asking random women to go on a date directly, with no previous contact, because "only text for logistics". Now that you got a girl willing to go on a date with you the first thing you shoot is "can you pay for yourself"? Dude, either you simply lack the awareness to know how to actually flirt or you're not even willing to try to chase women, just pretending to do so. Just chill a bit. I mean, don't want to be mean, but you're shooting yourself in the foot multiple times with … | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/21 04:37 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with the red pill?There isn't any teachings or "how you should live your life". There are, red pill is first and foremost about fucking and dating advice to achieve that. Simply the unfiltered truth of the world as a whole. If it's wrong or untrue then it is not the redpill. You define red pill as the "truth" itself, and then base that premise as the evidence that red pill bullshit observations (AF/BB, etc) are true because red pill is the truth. Lmao, what an amazing capacity for logic. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/21 02:36 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about Think before you sleep channel ?lmfao of course i didn't | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/21 11:21 PM |
| 25 | Are rape apologists too dumb to realize masturbation is always an option for men?Any dude who plays the uncontrollable lust excuse for rape is essentially playing himself. He's basically saying that he's an animal with uncontrollable urges wh omay hurt someone, like a ravaging dog or something, so he's essentially admiting and agreeing that he belongs in a cage, far from human contact. Congratu-fucking-lations lmao | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/21 08:34 PM |
| 8 | Is texting really for logistics only?You text 40 women out of the blue to set a date because you want to follow the rule "only text for logistics". They all say no. Instead of concluding that texting women only for logistics isn't really a good strategy your conclusion is the opposite, that is they're only fucking guys who will put low effort like... texting for logistics only. Tell me how that logic works lmfao | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/21 08:22 PM |
| 2 | What's wrong with the red pill?Your argument reminds me a lot of religion. "It's not that praying doesn't work and it's not that god doesn't exist. It's just that the people who are the true believers and have real faith who pray correctly are the ones whose prayers are heard". I just hope that you realize of how much of a circular logic fallacy you're commiting. I mean, according to you if someone uses red pill and fails, it's because they minsinterpreted it or didn't adapt. It's always the practitioner's fault. Let's preten… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/21 06:10 PM |
| 4 | What's wrong with the red pill?Posting the same old cherry picked data from media articles and non peer reviewed studies wont take you anywhere. If you want to see all the science debunking TRP read the sticky post. Do your own research instead of spamming what everybody else has spammed before you. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/21 06:04 PM |
| 4 | What do you think about Think before you sleep channel ?He's a clown | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/21 03:02 PM |
| 3 | What's wrong with the red pill?If you have to ask then you're not ready to have this sort of conversation. Also, this isn't the place to discuss the merits of red pill. Either you're happy with how red pill has affected your life or you're not and want support in getting out. This is for people wanting out. This isn't for people wanting to "debate". All i can ask to the average TRP is "Do you really think that red pill is so flawless and so bullet proof that it can't really go wrong and there would not be people wanting to de… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/21 03:01 PM |
| 4 | What do you think about Think before you sleep channel ?https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/qcx1uc/what_is_your_opinion_on_this_youtube_channel/ The question has been asked before here. Also he once got doxxed here by a woman who knew him irl and later messaged the mods asking us to ban her or he would get his lawyer involved lmao | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/21 09:24 AM |
| 2 | Explain again how hypergamy isn't true...This is what is meant by "neutral demographic forces" right? Warfare and other models aside, I think there's an opening in here for an explanation like "due to tech, sometimes, a minority men are 40% more able to support a family than other men, and that 40% more food could lead to more than 40% more wives, and they end up with more wives due to female preference". Fair enough, but those men were merely selected out of a contigency (bottleneck) and not due to an actual evolved mating strategy/pr… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/21 09:23 AM |
| 2 | Explain again how hypergamy isn't true...I already spoke about that many times and it's actually very easy to debunk that misinterpretation. First, the method they use (analyzing the lack of diversity of Y chromossome) does not necessarily mean men where reproducing polygynously, and the data you present has also been shown by Poznik et al to be the result of a simple byproduct of a bottleneck by neutral demographic forces consistent with bronze age cultural spread. Factors like male violence (as you mentioned) and Patrilocal Marriages… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/12/21 10:27 PM |
| 31 | Off my chest.Detoxing is realizing that reality is much more nuanced to fit in some "system". Be grateful and realize there are good things and be resilient and deal gracefully with the bad things. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/12/21 01:20 PM |
| 1 | alternative to book of pook (preferably more modern)Nah, i just take pleasure in bullying you. What's the matter you don't like it when people hit you in your insecurities? I though being a douche was alpha and it's okay to play mind games with women like i play mind games with you. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/12/21 02:35 PM |
| 1 | alternative to book of pook (preferably more modern)Well, under your own words, you're a recovering addict/alchoolic from a third world country which preety much qualifies you as the epitome of a loser and a mess. Get real, lmao Go do something decent with your life and stop being a simpleton who fell for an internet cult | /r/ExRedPill | 01/12/21 12:38 PM |
| 2 | alternative to book of pook (preferably more modern)"saved my life" lmfao... how endoctrinated and brain washed do you have to be to think that it literally "saved your life"... If you dickride a book or ideology so much to claim something as strong as it saving your life then that's already a huge red flag on how you're being manipulated and are oblivious to it. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/11/21 02:21 PM |
| 0 | alternative to book of pook (preferably more modern)Now there, be polite. Don't think i won't ban you just because you're handicaped. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/11/21 10:48 AM |
| 1 | alternative to book of pook (preferably more modern)Yeah "Play Doh Coloring Book" "Let's learn the numbers! - age 3 to 5 edition" "My first alphabet book - 1st grade school guide" Given your condition, those books are next in helping you evolving your mental intellect. Keep strong, brother. At this rate you may learn how to tie your shoes before you're 15. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/11/21 09:43 AM |
| 4 | Is there any validity to NoFap?It's a good thing you came up with this topic, because No Fap is a great example of how a couple of out of context scientific studies and just a general, collective tendency to fall for poor logic can lead to large social movements like No Fap. Simply put, there's simply not enough evidence that No Fap works, and while i do admit there isn't evidence that it doesn't work either, it's very important to clarify that No Fap is rooted mostly on nothing but the propaganda ou just collective superstit… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/11/21 09:22 AM |
| 12 | A woman stopped dating me because I was a virgin. How do I keep from getting redpilled after this happened?There's this fundamental blindspot that every TRPer (or TRPer candidate) seems to fall for. We don't mean to say that the world is wonderful and that nobody will ever ruin you, cheat on you, bully you etc. These things happen all the time. The problem is when people think that the overhwelming majority of people behave like this when that's simply not true. Some people will shame you for being a virgin, some people won't. Some people won't date you for being a virgin, other people will. Some wom… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/11/21 09:25 AM |
| 11 | The experience that made me blackpilled.Whenever i read a story like this, it kinda really confuses me how one can lose perspective. As if people can't really understand that there's nothing unique or that dark about their problem and their problem is now defining of their entire life perspective, when what happent to you is simply called "life". Really, dating is hard. Heartbreak happens. That's life. Get used to it because it will happen more often. You will also be on reciprocated and fulfilling relationships provided you live your… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/21 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the black pill science subreddit? Is there another subreddit for former black pillers?This has already been talked about in another thread, i talked about it in some detail. https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/m66v0d/there_is_sub_reddit_called_blackpillscience_is_it/ | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/21 01:12 PM |
| 7 | I’m jealous of my roommates. I need helpGet yourself on extracurricular activities to meet new people and chill regarding that dating shit, some of the darkest moments of my life were when i was in a relationship. Being in a relationship, dating, won't really make you that happy. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/11/21 04:09 PM |
| 4 | Has anyone here seen Roma Army before?I don't give much of a shit about politics, particularly gender politics, and i just roll my eyes on almost every activist concerning these dead horse issues. But she alwas striked me as weird looking and with a shady past. That' about as much i know and care about her. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/11/21 04:04 PM |
| 11 | Do you think that Black Pill is true?You're thinking this through in a very stereotypical, almost "hollywoodesque" way. Nobody in real life has "limitless" options, and even if they did it would be very few people. Generally speaking, if you're ugly the odds are against you. It's true, nothing to do about that. However, this is GENERALLY SPEAKING. This doesnt mean "you're screwed", as even ugly people get dates. I'm ugly, even i had an attractive girlfriend, had same night lays, etc. Is it much harder for me? Yes. Can every single … | /r/ExRedPill | 25/11/21 11:17 AM |
| 10 | Do you think that Black Pill is true?If you want to predict people's behavior, you can't really generalize without risking a great level of failure. People are people, their behavior vastly depends on their individuality and the context they're in. You may have seen some women betraying friendships to get with a certain guy, but what about all the other instances of women who don't do that that you can't really see or never noticed? Lookism may be true to predict the behavior of certain people or in certain contexts, but you need t… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/11/21 10:03 AM |
| 13 | QuestionThere's no better argument against it than actually trying it in real life and doing it for long enough and intensely enough to know how bad it can clusterfuck. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/11/21 09:58 AM |
| 12 | How do you not fall into the trap of believing hypergamy?If anything it would be the fact that she "has so many options" but still chose to be with you would reinforce that hypergamy or monkey branching are bullshit. Besides that, if woman are indeed hypergamous then they would go for the absolute best deal they could possibly pull. The more attractive a woman is, the more she would expect of a guy. However, the more attractive a guy is the more it takes for him to actually settle down to just one woman. This creates a virtual equilibrium where women … | /r/ExRedPill | 24/11/21 09:19 AM |
| 7 | I am myself redpilled and i want to lead a civilized discussion, because i wanna hear why do you think The red pill is bad. I am open minded so if you have solid arguments i will admit that youre in the right.This sub isn't really for discussion of red pill. Most debate seldomly changes opinions, seldomly is carried with an actual open mind and achieves next to nothing. You're either exredpill and had bad experiences with red pill and now want support in getting out or you're a red pill dude. This is for people wanting out due to red pill having damged their lifes. If you're just a red pill dude wanting to check opposite viewpoints check the sticky post on top of the page (First Aid Kit) and stick ar… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/11/21 04:00 PM |
| 4 | Reciprocity in AttractionNot a single one? A single case in which you even suspected a girl could be into you? Nothing? What do you think it's more likely: out of thousands of women you met or seen in your life not a single one has been interested in you or it's just you who's been missing any signs your whole life? And what about the average men? They too never had a girl interested in them out of the millions they crossed paths with in their entire lifes? | /r/ExRedPill | 23/11/21 09:14 AM |
| 5 | Reciprocity in AttractionOut of thousands of people you have ever crossed paths with in the whole amount of years you've lived so far not a single woman has liked you? lol | /r/ExRedPill | 22/11/21 09:28 PM |
| 17 | Reciprocity in AttractionYou never started liking a girl you were not interested at first after you found out she was into you? It has happent to me | /r/ExRedPill | 22/11/21 04:20 PM |
| -7 | Are friendships with women a good way to get sex or dates?I think that PUAs make a good job out of explaining this dynamic, it's actually one of the very few pieces of advice that make some sense, you can be friends with a woman, just make sure you don't go way too much time without making a move otherwise your chance will pass. Or don't reveal too much of yourself and don't let the relationship fall too much in a friendship "frame" to the point where women will start looking at you like a brother or something. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/11/21 12:54 PM |
| 12 | Are friendships with women a good way to get sex or dates?Men find most women sexually attractive, this is what studies and data show. Damn, judging from those stats, 50% of women accept going out with a slightly unattractive stranger and 5% accept a direct sexual invitation. What the fuck are incels complaining about? Lmao | /r/ExRedPill | 22/11/21 12:49 PM |
| 11 | Are friendships with women a good way to get sex or dates?Not tricky to explain. It's a survivability bias thing. Women who are okay with their friends hitting on them or who have had relationships escalate from friendships don't end up complaining about it on the internet, while the ones that are put off by that are. And usually people are more likely to complain online than to be grateful or emphasize positive things like friendships turning into romances. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/11/21 12:47 PM |
| 2 | Need helpLike i told you, you need to realize that being red pill brings you as much the amount of suffering as it would bring you if a girl cheated on you. Realize that TRP is bullshit, girls aren't trying to fuck other men all the time, does it really make any sense that women would all collectively be secretly ravaging hypergamous sluts and 80% of men would not know about it? As some silent conspiracy between alpha men and women? lol. TRP is bullshit, dude. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/11/21 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Need helpEvery ex red pill dude can relate to that feeling/insecurity | /r/ExRedPill | 19/11/21 12:17 PM |
| 3 | Need helpYou went to red pill to protect yourself from cheating, but the truth is that being red pill is so damaging you now have the opposite problem, which is that you can't date anyone due to fear of infidelity. From this perspective, red pill failed you (as it fails 99% of us, wether we admit it or not). Think about it this way: There's no point in being red pill or thinking about infidelity if it places me on the opposite extreme to the point where i still suffer as much or more as if i had been che… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/11/21 09:23 AM |
| 2 | What would you do if you were me?Maybe she was interested maybe she wasn't. Eitherway it doesn't matter because: a) You shoot your shot when you can and don't really drag a pseudo-flirt with a girl for months before finally gathering the courage to even say "hi" on social media and b) You don't really look like you like the girl very much. In your own words she gave you rudes responses, started ignoring her and even didn't give a shit when she stared at you angrily. So why the fuck would you even lose mental power thinking abou… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/11/21 09:31 AM |
| 3 | It's a scientific fact that hypergamy does not existI just stated the fact that a 97% of marriages, the man makes more than the woman. You stated the fact that in 97% of divorce cases where alimony is actually paid, it's the woman that receives the alimony. This is VERY different than saying that the man makes more in 97% of marriages. Rather, what your stat would mean is that in divorces that have alimony issued, 97% of the times the man is the bigger earner (allegedly). However, receiveing alimony doesn't necessairily means that the partner pay… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/11/21 10:27 AM |
| 5 | It's a scientific fact that hypergamy does not existYour level of logical thinking is so bad, it's no wonder you're red pill. Let's think your "stats" through, shall we? "97% of alimony is paid by men to women" - Where, exactly, does this necessairily implies that women only want men who are "above them" in "SMV"? As far as i'm concerned a man paying alimony to his former wife tells us nothing about wether or how she finds him attractive or above her in "SMV". "Divorce rate is 70% initiated by women. Jumps to 90% when the woman is college educate… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/11/21 09:34 AM |
| 4 | Real life examples of red pillonly 2 examples out of real life situations? What about all the remaining women you know who don't fit those narratives? What about those that even are the active opposite of those examples? | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/21 08:51 PM |
| 10 | Why did passion wane? A qualitative study of married women's attributions for declines in sexual desireEMERGENT THEME #2: OVER-FAMILIARITY Although highly valued, the emphasis on closeness and intimacy in marriage was also perceived to come at a sexual cost. Knowing each other as well as they did (or thought they did) fulfilled important emotional needs, but it also led to a type of stagnation in their sexual dynamics. Romance fell by the wayside, as did innovation, individuality, and self-care. Dissipation of romance. Almost unanimously, participants longed for romance in their relationships and… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/11/21 05:05 PM |
| 9 | Why did passion wane? A qualitative study of married women's attributions for declines in sexual desireresearch on sexual fantasy has repeatedly shown that women’s fantasies have higher romantic emotional content than those of men (e.g., Leitenberg & Henning, 1995; Zurbriggen & Yost, 2004). Women also commonly report that relationship factors are arousing. Among these are feeling desired, feeling accepted (Brotto, Heiman, & Tolman, 2009; Graham, Sanders, Milhausen, & McBride, 2004), open communication (Byers, 2001), and intimacy (Regan & Berscheid, 1996). In one recent study of 356 Australian wom… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/11/21 04:59 PM |
| 3 | Why did passion wane? A qualitative study of married women's attributions for declines in sexual desireBut, but, but... i thought women "don't know what they want" and that this is all bullshit because it's self reported or whatever the typical TRP cope usually is, and which i guess applies here now | /r/ExRedPill | 12/11/21 04:53 PM |
| 5 | Thoughts on this video?Dealing with depression, or anxiety or loneliness is part of the shared human condition. I don't know why people have this weird conception that they are miserable while everybody else is leading a great, happy life. Nor do i know why people think that "if they could just reach X goal" suddenly life would start making sense. Do people really think that getting a girlfriend or so would make them happy? Solve all their problems? The natural tendendy of the human mind is to be uncomplete, desperate… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/11/21 10:33 AM |
| 4 | Do women only care about what you can provide?Yeah, it's usually like that when i'm with a partner as well. Going 50/50 doesnt have to be something "set in stone" where you divide expenses at exactly 50% all of the time... | /r/ExRedPill | 11/11/21 12:53 PM |
| 4 | Specific "80/20 rule" claim by StoverockI'm not commiting an Ad Hominem because i'm not attacking her ideas by trying to descredit her as a person. I already touched on the refutation of her ideas from an evopsych and anthropology standpoint on the other thread you opened about her a few months back. Could write something more extensive but i lack the motivation. Me calling her a dumb bitch is a mere statement of what i think of her intellect. This doesn't mean her ideas are wrong (despite they are and i already touched on the why on … | /r/ExRedPill | 10/11/21 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Specific "80/20 rule" claim by StoverockNot what i was trying to argue for, but that would sound much more realist, indeed. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/11/21 06:17 PM |
| 9 | Specific "80/20 rule" claim by StoverockAlso, on another note. That woman is a dumb bitch. Virtually her theory is "Women only want to fuck the top men, but most men don't like that so they created patriarchy to sexually enslave women. We should just create the conditions to exclude most men as they ain't worth fucking by giving them porn and sex robots and let women share the top men". It's really some unapolegetic mix between red pill and feminazism. If her ideas were true and mainstream then she would really just be offering Red Pi… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/11/21 05:54 PM |
| 11 | Specific "80/20 rule" claim by StoverockA simple 9% increase in a 30 year period of one of the greatests gender egalitarian countries in the world is laughable. If anything, a 23% of childless men is the EXACT OPPOSITE of what one would expect to find after a 30 year period, particularly if you take into account that successful sexual strategies rapidly extend through the population. In other words, if female instinct is to only fuck the top 20%, why is it that the number isn't MUCH closer to the mentioned 80%, instead being at almost… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/11/21 05:47 PM |
| 4 | ROK/Roosh V renounces PUA and converts to ChristianityYeah, i had already heard about it. More evidence that all of these red pill "coaches" are loonies. ALL of them. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/11/21 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Obsessed with female validation after breaking free from inceldom/RPSounds more like an attachment problem rather than validation. I say this because the reasons you mention for obsessing over women attention is that you're scared they're gonna leave you or that you'll never find a woman again. You don't mention reasons like wanting to feel cool and powerful for laying multiple women, which would be more in line with a need for validation. I think your problem may be due to the fact that you don't actually have genuine confidence in yourself nor think you're wor… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/11/21 09:23 AM |
| 1 | what do you guys think about Andrew Tate ?short answer is he's human trash. https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/j6uf55/what_do_you_guys_think_of_andrew_tate/ https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/qqdbfu/what_do_you_guys_think_about_andrew_tate/ | /r/ExRedPill | 09/11/21 10:43 PM |
| 7 | Incels just play the victimDon't be so directly harsh on incels unless it's some specific guy being too much of an ass, bro. Many of them are here trying their best to detox. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/11/21 10:40 PM |
| 32 | Do women only care about what you can provide?Literally all women i dated wanted to go 50/50 lol... many women even feel "implicated" if you pay for her stuff as in "now i have to reward him with sex" so they prefer to avoid feeling pressured | /r/ExRedPill | 09/11/21 09:09 AM |
| 3 | Wake up momenthttps://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/nx70nv/for_the_men_in_this_group_what_was_the_turning/ https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/l1l3h0/what_made_you_become_red_pill_and_why_did_you/ https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/o39l9s/why_i_left_the_red_pill/ https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/6wl0ju/when_did_you_realize_you_wanted_out_of_redpill/ | /r/ExRedPill | 08/11/21 09:57 AM |
| 10 | Asking a woman about how many people she’s slept with is a bad idea. Why put her in a position to lie so early in your time together?Lol, if it's important to you then ask, if it's not important then don't. Kinda sad that one would judge a woman's value on something as random as N count, and is definitly not good for you to obsess over something like that, but to each their own. These things are the way they are, not the way we want them to be, and if a dude cares that much about it, then just ask and be ready to deal with the consequences. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/11/21 09:50 AM |
| 6 | My paradoxical story of moving from "best friend" or "nice guy" into DEEPLY PASSIONATE sexual romance!If this is true, i'm gonna be honest with you. From the outside perspective, everything you do and the way you talk looks like it's coming from an absolute madhouse. I don't wanna be mean but it has to be said. refering to yourself as a "blue pill christian nice guy"... Openly talking to your wife of eleven years how you're gonna have sex with a woman who's coming to give her virginity and resenting her over something related to "unlimited sexual freedom"... Sexting with a Filipino woman you don… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/11/21 09:40 AM |
| 15 | Want to give up TRP but it’s the only thing that worksDespite all this, I’m not much happier than I was before. So red pill isn't really working. I embraced toxic masculinity and dark triad personality traits, and got into scamming and other illegal stuff to make money while I’m in uni so that I can afford a flashy lifestyle. Seriously, leave that shit alone. Otherwise, don't forget to thank red pill for the legal troubles you're eventually gonna get. Maybe write a few field reports about all the lays you'll be getting in prison if you keep like th… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/21 09:11 AM |
| 17 | DONT GIVE THEM VALIDATIONHas to be satire or so i hope. With today's stupidity standards i can't tell anymore. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/11/21 09:14 AM |
| 2 | "I Can Fix Him" Memes are making me lose my shitI never saw any of those memes, so i guess that has more to do where you hang out over anything else. And if i did i would automatically assume it was made by a TRPer. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/11/21 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on this? It got 9,500 likes so, this is a very popular opinion among men.What? Can't even derive any sense from that lol | /r/ExRedPill | 02/11/21 05:44 PM |
| 9 | I am sad. It seems like BlackPill ruined my lovelife. (Venting)I don't know how I can convince him that I love him and I don't want to leave him. And I am getting a bit tired. Instead of doing fun stuff, we end talking about, basically, BlackPill sh*t. There is no loving or being loved by people like this. Yes, you can tell the dude has moments of clarity, realizing he's being an idiot and you deserver better. But when people aren't at peace with themselves they won't let you have peace either. He absolutely fucking despises you for the simple fact you're a… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/11/21 01:15 AM |
| 5 | Why ex redpill is copeRed pill men will never find happiness. To essentially believe that half of the women race are social climbers whose sole interest is to use you is a recipe for disaster. If you fell for red pill propaganda and are happy about it and how it "is the way", and "brought you incredible results" and other baseless, empty claims that all of you guys like to brag on the internet with no evidence then good for you. Just accept the fact that some people have employed red pill in real life, approached hun… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/10/21 12:48 PM |
| 3 | I still have a lot of the insecurities that led me to RedPillDating doesn't really go without anxiety. You can and will be hurt in dating throughout your life. Some people will use you some people won't and dating them is amazing. This contrasts with red pill loonie logic that everybody will use you and manipulate you unless you use them and manipulate them first. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/10/21 11:06 AM |
| 7 | Why ex redpill is copeYou know what's a cope? Red pill dudes who feel threatened that a large cohort of people have tried red pill and failed, because it makes it obvious that their seemingly flawless "philosophy" may be trash after all, and so feel the need to open a thread like this. If you were feeling secure about red pill, you would simply dimiss us as loonies, but we hit you right in your insecurity. This isn't a sub to bash red pill, or convince people to leave. This is a sub to help people that used red pill … | /r/ExRedPill | 31/10/21 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Is the psychological component of the red pill correct?A lot of your confusion stems from the fact that people are using the same terms to refer to very different things. Overal confidence and assertiveness are attractive, kindness and empathy are attractive as well. But the concept of confidence and assertiveness as presented by red pill would be better refered as narcisism and domineering behavior while "our" concept is much better defined as self-assuredness, poise, outgoing personality, strenght or courage. So when we say confidence and assertiv… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/10/21 10:45 PM |
| 14 | Do you think the "bad boy"(good looking but cruel, selfish etc) argument goes both ways?That sort of hypocritical thinking is how you know that most TRPers don't really care about morality, or the good of society, they just want to get their dick wet in multiple women at the expense of whoever the fuck has to be burnt in the process. That "women should go for nice guys that make them happy" is just an egoistic lament and a self-serving argument of hurting nice guys wanting to fuck women, because if they actually gave a fuck about women happiness they sure as shit wouldn't turn red … | /r/ExRedPill | 30/10/21 07:25 PM |
| 9 | I still have a lot of the insecurities that led me to RedPillI'll read stories about relationships that fell apart for the exact reasons RedPill talks about, and I worry I'll end up like the men in those stories. No, you read stories that are congruent with the INTERPRETATION that red pill offers for the why those relationship ended. The actual reasons of why the relationship ended may or may not have anything to do with that interpretation. On the overhwelming majority of the cases, it doesn't because red pill is bullshit. And the interpretation that red… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/10/21 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Is there a genuine and objective argument against lookism?Women prefering certain traits due to a genetic fitness basis, or the fact that women like masculine traits or "preetyboy" traits is 100% common sense blue pill | /r/ExRedPill | 30/10/21 03:05 AM |
| 2 | Is there a genuine and objective argument against lookism?None, really, in case you didn't understand i quoted a couple paragraphs from a mere scientific paper, i didn't have to do any digging whatsoever | /r/ExRedPill | 30/10/21 03:04 AM |
| 9 | Is there a genuine and objective argument against lookism?I'm asking you to give specific examples of what would account as evidence. You merely claim "studies". It almost feel as if you're asking to buy a car. I ask you "what car? what color? what year?" and you merely reply "a car" over and over. If you want a study, i already gave one to you in my past response, so i guess that's it. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/10/21 03:16 PM |
| 13 | Is there a genuine and objective argument against lookism?Incel comprehension skills are showing | /r/ExRedPill | 29/10/21 01:36 PM |
| 11 | Is there a genuine and objective argument against lookism?Yeah, but be specific, what kind of studies? Studies saying that being kind is attractive to women? Studyies saying that women don't find good looking men attractive? What is it? As a matter of fact, i already provided a study that partially contradict some of your points in the discussion we had in the other thread: Research on the perception of attractiveness in the male body adds further complexity to this analysis (Franzoi & Herzog, 1987). Beck, Ward-Hull, and McClear (1976), for example, re… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/10/21 10:58 AM |
| 11 | Is there a genuine and objective argument against lookism?Let me start by asking, what would you consider objective scientific evidence against Blackpill? And what is a study or 2 that you absolutely consider prime example of scientific support for black pillt? | /r/ExRedPill | 29/10/21 10:08 AM |
| 1 | so how can an ugly short man with low social status attract women?Never post news articles to make a point here, always use the original scientific published paper unlocked through sci hub. I never said anything about unconventional? I merely claimed that what makes faces attractive are well rounded feminine and masculine traits. This IS a scientific hypothesis. Here's the original paper - https://sci-hub.ru/10.1037//0022-3514.59.1.61 As for the article you mentioned, seems like men with wider faces (fWHR) are tendially considered more attractive. I don't know… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/10/21 10:04 AM |
| 1 | so how can an ugly short man with low social status attract women?In terms of social status it varies widely, with some women liking certain type of niche men (some like corporate, others like sportsman, etc...). In terms of looks i would agree that it's much more "consensual", but is has nothing to do with what you're saying. Plenty of sex symbols have big eyes (Eddie Redmayne, Any K Pop dude, Daniel Radcliffe...) and while i do agree that chin is one of the most important attributes in attractiveness, not everybody has extraordinary chins. Mostly for what is… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/10/21 08:36 AM |
| 9 | What are your thoughts on Karen Straughan?Ah, yes. This woman... Tried to tear apart an interview i gave years ago to a british paper about being exredpill with her MGTOW friends in their irrelevant podcast. Preety dumb arguments, she didn't even seemed to know what red pill was, really. She just automatically put us in the "enemy" box simply because we talked shit about red pill which in her mind is kinda connected to MGTOW so that has to mean we suck or something lol. But i never made a comment about politics to start with so GG. In h… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/10/21 08:14 AM |
| 3 | Do you think age of puberty has affected your dating experience?Yeah, i guess it did. I'm 29, scrawny, but in essence i look like a child lmao. I'm not mad about it, i'm perfectly okay with it, but i only managed to grow any "decent" beard at 27 with minoxidil because my facial hair was too close to pre pubescent teen lmao. I joke about my looks all the time, i say shit like "This one time, when i was 16... so, that's last year" and people laugh. Seriously, i work a corporate job, and everytime i walk around in a suit it's like i'm the student of some privat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 12:31 PM |
| 4 | Is female hypergamy a net positive or negative for society?Men and women have the same standards for LTRs, but men drop them to frankly sad levels when it comes to casual sex. Plenty of studies showing this. Not only hypergamy doesn't exist, it's a case for male hypogamy. Ask any dude you know how many women he sees on the daily walking on the street he would fuck and then ask him how many he would actually date in a long term, exclusive relationship of years and you'd get your answer. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/10/21 09:50 PM |
| 11 | Cold approach doesn't work unless you're attractive enough to not even need to cold approachI approached over 1000 women in my red pill days. I didn't get laid much, but to say that it only works if you're attractive is not true. I met over 80 (probably more) irl PUAs and some of them were getting laid. It's true that the best guys who were having a lot of sex were attractive in the first place or had something going on for them that led to those numbers (it's amazing how fucking horrible these dudes game was), but i've met average and below average dudes getting laid as well, usually … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 02:13 PM |
| 6 | Why has the number of single women risen so much, and continues to rise, yet women are also complaining they are single and can't find a man?What they mean by single is unmarried, not single in the sense of not having a SO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 02:05 PM |
| 1 | CuriousIt is what it is, dude. Having your skin glowing and start talking to your mother again is a good thing, i guess, but it's just plain ridiculous to showcase as what counts as results and, as usual, the "you were never red pill" cope comes up once i point out the uncomfortable truth that you ain't getting anything that valuable out of red pill and that couldn't be gotten somewhere else. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/10/21 10:18 AM |
| 1 | CuriousI'm not mixing anything. That's just the cope most TRPers come up with to justify why people would voluntarily leave their new found "amazing" philosophy they think can do no wrong. Red pill is a mere rebranding of PUA to start with, with a slight bit more focus on lifting and self improvement rather than "game" anyway. The whole "look, you guys misnterpret red pill/you guys are confusing red pill with something else" is BS. Definitly, a dude who has approached over a 1000 women, 4 years of TRP,… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/10/21 10:04 AM |
| 2 | CuriousRP does a wonderful job in at least convincing people it has helped them for the better, i tell you as much | /r/ExRedPill | 27/10/21 08:52 AM |
| 1 | CuriousWas introduced by The Game. Then read (and studied in detail) Mystery Method (like actually taking notes and shit). Then read more PUA books. Then read Doosh V, Black book of seduction (or whatever the fuck it was called), peeked on book of pook, followed Rollo Tomassi and Heartiste blog... did the guided hypnosis by Hypnotica and Paul Mckenna. Used to have a notebook with my affirmations "i'm getting better and better", "women would die to meet me" and similar cringe like that. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/10/21 08:32 AM |
| 3 | CuriousSome people did make fun of me, but mostly i was always involved on some drama over some offensive comment i made to someone and "holding frame". Most people did not make fun of me, but i could tell from their body language they didn't really like me or respect me. Could be from my head, but when, after a few months of "game", you're left alone to walk around on campus with no friends whatsoever i think that's telling about what people think of you. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/10/21 08:28 AM |
| 5 | Opinion on being in a LTR before your 30‘s?"Yo, i'm 22 years old and i'm so in love with this girl, i wanna be exclusive but i won't because red pill dudes on the internet say i should only date casually in my 20s" - said no one (with a brain) ever lmao Serously, tho, if you want to date seriously do, if you want to date casually do so too. There may be costs to each option, but so what? That's life. In the case of TRPers, as usual, they make no sense. You shouldn't date seriously in your 20s but then say that your late 30s to 40s are a … | /r/ExRedPill | 26/10/21 04:28 PM |
| 1 | How do I even find friends , let alone a girlfriend?Yoga classes, boardgames clubs, music lessons... i don't know, there has to be something | /r/ExRedPill | 26/10/21 01:34 PM |
| 10 | How do I even find friends , let alone a girlfriend?I'm quite sure there are extracurricular activities in your town that you can join in. Try joining activities or clubs related to things you're interested in. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/10/21 10:23 AM |
| 14 | CuriousRealizing that i had become a joke on campus for behaving like an "alpha" and barely getting laid out of the 1000 women i approached or ending up heart broken with the very few women i ended up briefly dating | /r/ExRedPill | 26/10/21 08:13 AM |
| 3 | Whenever I make controversial opinions to my friends/acquaintances 1 to 1, they usually know where I’m coming from and agree. But many times when I make one online, I get hate.People will often not tell you to your face their true feelings or agree with you to avoid discord or out of politeness and this happens more often than people care to admit. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/10/21 08:10 AM |
| 5 | so how can an ugly short man with low social status attract women?So how is that not the case? Do guys who lack all 3 have success and that much control when it comes to their dating lives compared to those who have it? Well, so you got dating all figured out then? Seems like you're absolutely sold on the idea that LMS is all there is to dating success, so why bother posting here? I've met many average to unattractive men who have dated multiple women for a variety of reasons, but i guess you would not agree. Never said dating mutliple women and spinning plate… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/10/21 04:47 PM |
| 3 | so how can an ugly short man with low social status attract women?Nah, objectively fugly... genetic defects, 5'8ish, scrawny, etc. On the very least, even if i'm catastrophizing my situation i'm definitly on the below average side. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/10/21 03:43 PM |
| 8 | so how can an ugly short man with low social status attract women?Maybe. All i know is that i'm fugly myself and i've had enough dating experience to be content so far, so go figure | /r/ExRedPill | 25/10/21 02:48 PM |
| 2 | so how can an ugly short man with low social status attract women?Do plastic surgery if you want to, alas i think that would be a risk because a good chunk of people that do plastic surgeries end up with weird looks or odd facial proportions (i'm looking at you, Michael Jackson lmao). Plus, if you're really that focused on your looks to the point you would spend thousands of dollars and go through a painful risky process like that, you may have mental conditions than hinder you in dating anyway. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/10/21 02:41 PM |
| 8 | How does real life flirting works?Me, personally, i always feel like i have to make a move or imply my intentions somehow. Any playful joke about you guys being a couple or so kinda does the trick, as long as you're not awkward about it. At this point either she cringes or acts like she not interested or she reciprocates and "plays back". I guess most of the times, my interactions with women i end up successfully dating tend to be humorous and playful and then evolve to something more, like deep conversations and connecting emot… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/10/21 02:37 PM |
| 8 | so how can an ugly short man with low social status attract women?Have you actually been consistently rated as a 2 or 3 by other people or this is just your opinion of what * would * happen? Eitherway, i'm not here to bullshit anyone. Assuming you would be THAT unattractive it's clear that you're gonna struggle with dating. This isn't a black pill, it's preety much common sense, still, a guy who works on himself to maximize his attractiveness and actively chases women on his own level isn't supposed to have many dating problems. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/10/21 02:30 PM |
| 17 | so how can an ugly short man with low social status attract women?A few comments: Almost every incel that posts here is virtually always full of answers rather than questions. You arrived here already with a preety clear view of how (in your opinion) dating works. Guys with L/M/S get multiple women, guys who don't have L/M/S rely on luck. If you already have a very clear and strong view of how dating works then i'm not sure you're gonna take the most out of this sub. And if you, like many incels before you, won't question your beliefs or take any counterargume… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/10/21 01:30 PM |
| 12 | Are women only attracted to guys they have casual sex with?Yes Everyday millions of couples around the world have sex, but in the overwhelming majority of these the women aren't really attracted to their partners. Women who get in relationships with men do so at random. Given that women simply aren't attracted to most men, the guy they end up with is defined exclusively based on luck. Women often initiate sex in a relationship, have regular sex, spend time with their boyfriends but it's all out of obligation, don't make the mistake to think it has anyth… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/10/21 11:59 AM |
| 13 | What is your opinion on this YouTube Channel, "Think Before You Sleep"?A few months ago a woman left a comment here explaining who that dude was, claiming he lived with his mom and giving some detail about his personal dating life, which seemed to be both lacking and frustrating. She claimed to know him personally and revealed his first name and gave a couple other minor details about him. Few days later the dude messaged the mods about this one girl that was spreading lies about him on reddit, and asked us to ban her otherwise he would have to involve his lawyer o… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/10/21 11:10 AM |
| 19 | Not only this post from r/seduction is cringy, it gives false hopes to struggling young men. What do you all think?This is something akin to all cults... "the promised land" myth. Every fucking cult has this weird empty promise about how one day you're gonna rip some fantastic reward if you stick to them. "Yeah, dude, i know that right now everything sucks and praying 11 hours a day and doing sexual favours to our leader is kind nasty and weird, but ONE DAY you will reach ethernal life!" - This is the same as "Yeah, dude, i know you're 20 and a virgin and shit, but ONE DAY all the 20 year old bitches will li… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/10/21 08:26 AM |
| 3 | Have you ever had a friend that went down the red pill pipeline?Most just thought i was weird and a joke and i don't talk to some of them, but i think it (also) had to do with the fact that as time goes by you tend to lose friends when you're in your late 20s | /r/ExRedPill | 22/10/21 08:18 AM |
| 11 | Have you ever had a friend that went down the red pill pipeline?AH! I bet you did, You sound like a weight loss pills review or some shit lmao | /r/ExRedPill | 21/10/21 10:16 PM |
| 6 | Have you ever had a friend that went down the red pill pipeline?can relate | /r/ExRedPill | 21/10/21 10:13 PM |
| 13 | What is your opinion on this YouTube Channel, "Think Before You Sleep"?Preety fucking stupid, plus he once got doxxed here | /r/ExRedPill | 21/10/21 10:12 PM |
| 9 | How can I obtain a charismatic personality when I was born a dull, boring person?Well, judging by how little effort you put into thinking things through and rather just gasp into the slightest hint that you're ugly and a loser, i'm starting to suspect you're not actually here to get help or be open to change, you just kinda want people to confirm that you're a loser and doomed. If this is your goal, i can tell you right away what you want to hear, which is that you're doomed, so that you can move on with your life, because nothing good is coming out of you being here while y… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/10/21 01:50 PM |
| 2 | If the idea of being denied sex in a relationship is wrong, then why is it wrong that women won’t lower their standards to be with men they’re not attracted to, while at the same time risking their own sexual incompatibility?That's not BB. Being settled for is what literally happens to everybody, if given enough freedom of choice we would all go for the absolute best so we're all settling for someone. BB is when you're in a relationship, investing assymetrically in terms of money or other costs, yet are not having your needs met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Why some women like feminine looking men: it’s an indicator of social classThis shows both the status of the man and the woman attracted to the man. A man who can afford to look like prey is a sign that the man is from an environment where there is little violence, usually a suburban or gated neighborhood. The fact that the man can spend time on grooming is a sign that he does not perform manual labor for a living, and is therefore financially well off. And a woman who is attracted to a man like that must be of the same social class too, as she can afford to flaunt a p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 08:44 AM |
| -1 | where/how to find promiscuous women?I'm not talking about sex work, i'm talking about the general predisposition of the culture. There are many women in these countries who just have a rather sex/body positive culture (Brazil), a rather uneven gender ratio so that men are in more demand (eastern europe) or are cultures that just have some odd fixation with western culture. Some women, from what i heard, are brought up and even incentivized by their families to nail a rich boyfriend as there's this weird idea that "european" men ar… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/10/21 12:10 PM |
| 1 | If look indeed dont matter as much why is there such disparity between sexless men and men that have lot of sex?Okay then, let's do a very small exercise, since you're so knowledgeble and all... How many women and instances of casual sex have you SEEN personally happening on college or that women have directly admited to you? I'll wait. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/10/21 12:04 PM |
| 0 | where/how to find promiscuous women?Bars (look for the loud party animals); Any Freak/Hippie scene (Boom Festival, New Age gatherings, nudist beaches, artistic social circles, communist leaning circles, LSD and Ayuasca fans, etc); Sex tourism spots (eastern europe, thailand, south america...) Some large student's festivals (Spring break, local university end of the year/graduation party, etc) Major local festivities (New year party or whatever the fuck your town collectively celebrates once a year) Fetishists Forums (Do your own r… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/10/21 09:56 AM |
| 3 | Sexual partner count"The only reason why people spend money and why everybody has to spend money to buy things it's because people actually like spending their money. Not because there are other motivators behind spending money like acquiring a given product i desire." This is you. According to you women like the fact that a man is a man whore. It has nothing to do with the fact that there are other motivators like the guy merely being good looking or so. Do you really believe that if given the opportunity to chose… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/21 10:15 PM |
| 5 | Sexual partner countmate choice copy studies also clearly state that women only find men more attractive if already chosen by other women because it displays value as a LONG TERM partner and also to the extent that he's willing to commit. As a matter of fact, the dreaded paper of the "sexual strategies theory", that TRP likes to dickride so much does show that women find men whores unattractive. I mean, seriously, search the paper and look it up. Being pre selected by other women doesn't mean man whore. Again, your… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/21 09:58 PM |
| 8 | Sexual partner countMan, with your capacity for logic no wonder you're an incel lol. Just because a woman can experience attraction without love doesn't automatically mean they are more attracted to a one night stand than a husband nor that the husband is unattractive. Jesus... You're just jumping to wide conclusions and putting things in msinclaire mouth's that she didn't say or implied at all. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/21 09:52 PM |
| 3 | Sexual partner countNo, there may be other things they find attractive in the guy despite the fact that being a manwhore is unattractive. If you have sex with a woman that has bad breath you wouldn't say you've done because you're into bad breath, you'd just probably would have done it because she has other attractive qualities that make up for that. I don't know how this simple logic can't go into the average TRPers mind when this whole man whore argument comes up lol | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/21 09:50 PM |
| 10 | Making up for lost timeYou're idealizing the shit out of sex. Truth is that you don't know what sex most people are having and with whom because people don't really disclose their sex lifes so all of the potential sex you imagine other people are having or ever had are just suppositons and imagination. so treat your suppositions and imaginations as that. Cut your own mind's bullshit. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/21 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Do you think there should be a mental health recovery program who graduate high school still virgins?Good overview | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/21 09:39 PM |
| 3 | Do you think there should be a mental health recovery program who graduate high school still virgins?That's quite the cinematic charicature, and probably is more of a reflex of your own feelings rather than what was happening, either way highschool is that one time of our lives when everybody is an idiot and Kids are kids... | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/21 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Misconceptions about having "confidence".Check out this article, you may find it cool - https://markmanson.net/how-to-be-confident | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/21 04:58 PM |
| 12 | Do you think there should be a mental health recovery program who graduate high school still virgins?No. But highschool kids or people with deep feelings of inadequacy do. In the case of highschool kids, they view sex as a sign of adulthood and they all want to be like the grown ups, plus they're just horny and want to be envied by their equally horny peers. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/21 04:54 PM |
| 7 | Sigma male gotta be the dumbest shit ever?Being Alpha is the archetype of success in TRP. However, being Alpha is a charicature of a sociall dominant guy with a bad boy or "don't fuck with me, attitude" but at the same time highly charismatic and get's everybody to like him as well, meaning that is preety much an unattainable fantasy. This creates a problem to the average TRPer in which, since they can't really become alpha (as it is a fantasy) they can't be successful. Sigma is a cope and an attempt to move the goal posts so that these… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/21 08:18 AM |
| 2 | Do women secretly want to sleep with other men or are they content and satisfied with just one?Nothing wrong with fantasy, as long as people don't act on those. This guilt or judgement over people feeling attracted to other people despite being on a relationship is unrealistic and does way more harm than good. Guess it would really depend on the intensity of the fantasy tho... | /r/ExRedPill | 18/10/21 09:55 PM |
| 10 | Red pill is ruining menOkay, when your wife cheats on you, instead of wondering what steps you might have skipped or how you fell victim to hypergamy and go to AskTRP what you did wrong, consider that you were fed a lot of bullshit by an internet cult instead and come here asking for help. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/10/21 02:59 PM |
| 10 | Do women secretly want to sleep with other men or are they content and satisfied with just one?I think most people want to sleep with other people even when they are in relationships, and there's nothing wrong with that, most people also respect their bond and their partner and refrain from doing such a thing. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/10/21 02:55 PM |
| 9 | Do women secretly want to sleep with other men or are they content and satisfied with just one?The Atlantic piece is an Atlantic piece and doesn't act as a substitute for real word, peer reviewed data. And neither does an unofficial site with divorce statistics and no visible references, but even then, your sources shows that 86% of women don't cheat on their marriages, so "apparently they do" isn't really an answer. And curb your sources next time, it's about time people stop fucking around with random news articles and half baked sites, with Sci Hub and Researchgate there's no excuse to… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/10/21 02:54 PM |
| 1 | How to deal and remove Red Pill Rage from my head and life?It's a bit hard to advice because red pill lies are complex and touch on a lot of your cognitive distortions, so i guess you should open more threads to tackle each specific insecurity | /r/ExRedPill | 18/10/21 08:17 AM |
| 3 | sad about never having a girlfriendHow old are you and what have you specifically done to get a girlfriend? | /r/ExRedPill | 18/10/21 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Should I tell my therapist that I want to kill women and yell at them?In short, yes. If your therapist was to mock you or laugh at you she would be an awful therapist, therapist are not supposed to openly judge you. It's specifically considered as a good practice. You probably need medication and to be subject of oter important measures than just therapy. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/10/21 08:08 AM |
| 4 | What's the actual percentage of people women are physically/sexually attracted to?That study asked men and women to think about their friends and, as the study i quoted mentions, in that type of methodology women are simply likely to think about real platonic friends while men are likely to think about friends they'd fuck. In real life, when approached in public rather than being asked to think about a random friend, both men and women report moderate feelings of, quote, "Physical attraction" for their friend (which i'm guessing that in most people understanding is closer to … | /r/ExRedPill | 17/10/21 07:54 PM |
| 5 | What's the actual percentage of people women are physically/sexually attracted to?Most women do not find most men attractive at ACQUAINTENCE level. The reason why this happens is because women often need to get to know a guy's personality in terms of self confidence, trustworthiness, poise, kidness and willingness to commit before establishing an emotional connection and/or finding him attractive. Perceptions of social status also vary between women, depending on what they find cool on a guy, hence another argument on why women may not find most men attractive. Men do find wo… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/10/21 06:00 PM |
| 1 | If look indeed dont matter as much why is there such disparity between sexless men and men that have lot of sex?I don't explain it because it's just a niche thing, most college girls aren't having those "phases" and that shit is massively exaggerated. Just because you read a handful of comments on the internet of girls saying that (which you're not even sure were girls to start with) on reddit doesn't mean it's true. A lot of what your reading on the internet is not true. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/10/21 05:33 PM |
| 1 | TRP is dangerous if allowed to spreadAnd you and your friends have also been rejected by enough married women to know that red pill is not true. Fortunately. This, assuming that you're not a random internet virgin posing. Which, by your posting history, is very much likely. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/10/21 05:28 PM |
| 2 | TRP is dangerous if allowed to spreadYou need to have a very distorted view of reality if you think TRP is true. For this reason, any reasoning that is built on the idea that TRP is true to start with is bound to be absolute bullshit, hence not to be taken seriously. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/10/21 09:29 PM |
| 2 | "the red pill makes you love women" let me explainLol you're completely deluded and endoctrinated, and you belive the propaganda that rollo tomassi feeds you. There is No such thing as "anger phase". It's a perpectual stage. That's why most dudes, even after years of red pill, still hate women. All those dudes from fresh and fit, donovan sharpe, etc, still talk shit about women. You can feel it in their entire communcation they despise women. And these dudes aren't beggingers they are "dating gurus", dudes at the top. Anger phase is the hamster… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/10/21 09:24 PM |
| 4 | How do you detox from Redpill when you’re a woman?I'm quite convinced that red pill/black pill is a move that unattractive guys do, consciously or subconsciously, to shame and pressure women into dating them. Guess it's working with you. Don't allow it. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/10/21 09:17 PM |
| 2 | If look indeed dont matter as much why is there such disparity between sexless men and men that have lot of sex?"see it all the time on any dating subreddit" lmao... of course you're gonna find dudes that don't get laid and women that get pumped and dumped in dating subreddits otherwise they wouldn't be there asking for help | /r/ExRedPill | 16/10/21 09:13 PM |
| 12 | What are the positive things you’ve learned through redpill?Don't fall for internet cults ever | /r/ExRedPill | 15/10/21 05:10 PM |
| 1 | If I walked into anyone’s apartment and saw this I’d think I was lured into a sociopath’s lairWell, in this particular case you'd be right about that | /r/ExRedPill | 15/10/21 05:09 PM |
| 5 | Is "she's not yours its just your turn " remotely true in any sense? What kind of men is this true for?If you go around dread gaming your SO and shit like that, then yeah, she's not yours, it's just your turn... | /r/ExRedPill | 14/10/21 08:40 AM |
| 8 | “Men without women is school shooters”-The roommates podcastOkay, these dudes need to make up their minds... So, a rejected male is bound to be a school shooter. Given that 80% of men allegedly have little to no pussy then 80% of men are bound to be school shooters. This begs the question on why are most school shooting outlier incidents, but also gives credit to the idea that all men are sex crazed, rage machines that bring nothing but chaos if nobody touches their pee pee, and should probably go to prison. But then again, this would be anti-male, radfe… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/10/21 03:36 PM |
| 4 | 80/20 and SMV Debunked (Studies and Data)Hypergamy is only going for the top 20% in total "SMV", but some TRPers like to move the goal posts and claim is women going for men of higher social status than themselves, both because they (TRPers) are intellectualy dishonest and because hypergamy itself as a definition is so confusing and murky that it can be whatever they need it to be to win the argument. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/10/21 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Thank God this place exists - my storyIt's kind of a common sense idea that playing hard to get, not revealing too much about yourself, etc helps you in dating. Red pill just exaggerates the shit out of that idea. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/10/21 08:56 AM |
| 1 | Does the average person know or have RP values or is it just weirdos and losers who buy into it?Some terms and ideas made it to pop culture (chad vs virgin meme, etc), but red pill is still a niche thing | /r/ExRedPill | 13/10/21 08:53 AM |
| 5 | Facial genetics are way more important than heightNo, facial attractiveness is just the cope Incels got to try to explain away the fact that a dude who's tall or body built isn't getting laid without admitting that looks aren't as important as they think they are. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/10/21 08:51 AM |
| 13 | 80/20 and SMV Debunked (Studies and Data)The Ok Cupid "study" (spoiler alert: it's not a study, it's a report from the analytics team), which isn't even online anymore, proves the exact OPPOSITE of TRP and Incel shit. From the article: When it comes down to actually choosing targets, men choose the modelesque. Someone like roomtodance above gets nearly 5 times as many messages as a typical woman and 28 times as many messages as a woman at the low end of our curve. Site-wide, two-thirds of male messages go to the best-looking third of w… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/10/21 08:45 AM |
| 5 | “Apps promised to revolutionize dating. But for women they’re mostly terrible“-Nancy Jo Sales for The GuardianHere's an idea: Make a dating app that works like chat roulette but in a speed dating way. 2 minute video chat before people decide to match at the end. No risks o catfishing, no risk of people acting like douchebags (or at least would feel much less inclined to do so), you don't rely on picture to make an impression and can actually display a bit of your personality to impress the opposite party as well as screen weirdos that you would otherwise only be able to screen on a first date in person.… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/10/21 08:56 PM |
| 7 | Is TRP right about the 80/20 pill? Evidence against it.So a radom story on the internet about someone who knows a guy that has 3 sex partners currently = objective evidence 80/20 is true. I know a guy who holds down 3 different jobs currently, according to you this is objective evidence that some guys are over employed while 80% of people are jobless. Just to put into perspective the dumb criteria behind accepting evidence that you're subscribing to. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/10/21 08:42 PM |
| 4 | Glendon Cameron is the perfect example of the type of filth and disgust the red pill promotesSaw an excerpt of that video... What the fuck kind of mother sends messages to an ALLEGED millionaire and has sex with him in front of her daughters, and then (possibly) forces them to join in? What kind of 15 year old sends aggressive nudes to a self-proclaimed millionaire and escaltes things further? Fucking skanky trash and/or mentally unstable people, clearly being taken advantage of. Also, i checked his claim that 16 is legal and indeed age of consent is 16 in close to 40 states in the USA,… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/10/21 09:07 AM |
| 6 | This thread regarding Tinder hook upsThis is propbably my most unpopular opinion, but people are usually terribly misinformed about STDs and catastrophize the shit out of them, leaving a feeling of "my life is over" if you got an STD as well as a huge fucking prejudice against people who have STDs. Really, herpes doesn't deserve much more of a reaction like "that sucks, bro", because it's really not that serious. The only part that's serious and totally not cool, is spreading it, which i guess feels terrible, but still, it wouldn't… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/10/21 08:32 AM |
| 3 | If women don't like casual sex and are so afraid of it why is there are a single mother epidemic?And what type of profile do these baby mamas have? Are they non-white? What' the educational background of these said baby mommas? What is the economical background? Find that out, and then we'll talk. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/10/21 09:52 PM |
| 14 | The trap of using others for validation and mood boostingI thought that having casual sex would solve all my problems. The first time i had a same night lay it was... fine i guess. I thought i was going to feel top of the world from the day i lost my virginity or the day i did casual, but everything i've done related to sex has been nothing but a huge "meh". I didn't feel much happier, it was just a very slight relief of "i had sex, that's good, i guess". Sex is vastly overrated. At this point, if i didn't have sex for the rest of my life i wouldn't f… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/10/21 04:25 PM |
| 2 | are women really attracted to confidence?Like i said, there is no "magic bullet" and there is no one size fits all advice that's gonna work all the time. Unless you're ridiculously attractive, nothing you're going to do is a surefire way to get laid. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/10/21 08:53 AM |
| 6 | are women really attracted to confidence?I'm quite sure women are attracted to confidence, i just think that people somehow expect this to be some sort of magic bullet as i"do X, Y or Z in a confident manner and you'll be drowining in women" and that's just not the case. There truly aren't magic bullets, nor one size fits all dating advice, that's going to work wonderfully and all times. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/10/21 08:13 AM |
| 10 | Are these Kevin Samuel chicks for real in the way they think or is it fake? If real how do they get like this?segregation of black people in the USA has led to the development of a "hood" culture among certain communities with a toxic mentality that extends to dating. These are the type of women that call Kevin Samuel's show. Samuels himself embodies some of the narcisistic, shallow, masculinity obsessed characteritics of a "hood" male. As a matter of fact, there is an enormous amount of black males in red pill... AMS, Donovan Shart.. 70% of the content creators and coaches of red pill are black, despit… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/10/21 09:30 PM |
| 29 | How do you cope with lacking facial attractiveness? The red pill is toxic, but at least offers some solutions. What are way's to get past this flaw without resorting to manipulative red pill tactics?Incels overrate the shit out of facial attractiveness. It's true that being ugly is awful. In some cases a lot in other cases not so much, still it holds you down. What differentiates me from an incel is that i don't take it as a sign it's over. I wholeheartedly don't believe it, and the dating success i've had over my life proves it. But Incels don't believe it once you put it that way. They will say any success i had is a mere sign i'm not ugly after all, in good old circular logic fallacy sty… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/10/21 12:22 AM |
| 3 | Problem with this sub.Mods here aren't a monolith, some of them do give a fuck past censorship some of them don't. Even among the mods, our way of thinking and views of what is adequate posting vary. Me, personally, i try not to ban someone saying red pill leaning stuff right away, as i think some light level debate of red pill is okayish, while other mods do. Like i said, it varies. What people don't realize regarding modding a sub like this is that you're often dealing with people that are not normal and you're oft… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/21 05:20 PM |
| 3 | How many Chads do women sleep with before going for beta and is it true that they do it?I've seen plenty of women on reddit admit on sleeping with the 5 percent and then settling for some unattractive guy when they get old and unattractive. You're seeing plenty of women here saying this whole idea is bullshit so what's your point? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/21 05:05 PM |
| 2 | This is why you don't become red pilled- Dude tries to hit on some women, gets mad at rejection, calls them names, blames being an incel, and that they want Chad instead.I'm not a PUA anymore, nor do i advise anyone to be one. I'm merely stating the fact that i've met unattractive dudes who did get laid a lot. Even if they were the exception rather than the norm. If that tickle your incel rage, your problem, doesn't alter anything. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/21 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Is FDS a good way to weed out redpillers or other sexist men?Not allowing subjectiveness regarding feelings in a relationship with a man or vetting men who don't treat you right | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/21 01:53 AM |
| 3 | This is why you don't become red pilled- Dude tries to hit on some women, gets mad at rejection, calls them names, blames being an incel, and that they want Chad instead.Lol, shut up, i met over 80 guys from many PUA lairs in 4 years of red pill, even organized conventions and shit... how many of these guys do you know? Overwhelming majority of you dudes are just internet keyboard jockeys who know nothing. I got no love for PUA, indeed most of it is bullshit and it takes herculean effort and poor finesse tactics to bang a lot of women as in comparison to merely being attractive, but it's a fact you can be unattractive and still bang multiple women. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/21 01:45 AM |
| 17 | Is FDS a good way to weed out redpillers or other sexist men?You don't have to join shady ass internet groups and risk get your mentality alianated by extreme content just to protect yourself in dating. Always think with your own head. I've seen people join TRP or FDS with disastrous consequences, even seemingly intelligent, self aware people became much more "pilled" by the mere fact they were exposed to that kind of content systematically. There may be a couple of good points in FDS regarding vetting out sexist or abusive men, still, the whole thing mak… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/10/21 05:09 PM |
| 6 | This is why you don't become red pilled- Dude tries to hit on some women, gets mad at rejection, calls them names, blames being an incel, and that they want Chad instead.You can be unattractive and still find some success by cold approaching. It kinda wasn't my case, alas i still managed to date some women. But I know many unattractive PUA dudes that managed to fuck 30+ women. All they had in common was mostly approaching industriously, have zero standards whatsoever, specifically targeting tourist women or any other kind of women they thought were easy and being bold in making a move, some of them, unfortunately, to date rapey levels. You don't have to be this … | /r/ExRedPill | 08/10/21 03:28 PM |
| 5 | Anyone feel very ashamed of their emotions?I relate to it back when i was red pill. Now i'm not red pill and i don't believe any of that retarded shit, having emotions is normal, everybody has them and you can't really escape them. Fuck red pill, even assuming women like stoic men that doesn't mean you have to be perfect or some shit. Only in the head of overcompensating losers, which are most TRPers, does it make sense that you have to be flawless to get a woman to like you. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/10/21 08:35 AM |
| 29 | This is why you don't become red pilled- Dude tries to hit on some women, gets mad at rejection, calls them names, blames being an incel, and that they want Chad instead.But, but, but... why you guys criticize red pill? lol Seriously tho, if you don't have the heart to take rejection, don't cold approach. Actually, don't even try to date. That woman was extremely polite in her rejection for cold approach standards. The worse thing a dude can possibly ever do is to react negatively to a rejection. Makes you look pathetic and makes you feel pathethic and small as well, even more than merely feeling rejected. It makes people feel cringey and awkward and lose all re… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/10/21 08:32 AM |
| 2 | Women are low effort in everything but looksProblem with the OP was the way he conveyed his post, which seemed more provocative than actually asking for help, that's why he got the responses he did. Nothing to do with getting angry for challenging the status quo. Again, you're vastly over-generalizing women. There are plenty of women with hobbies. If you join extracurricular activities you'll always find women. Unless your hobbies are all male dominated, in which case you're not gonna find as many women, but in which case you can't really… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/21 08:45 AM |
| 6 | there's no need to be angry at Kevin Samuels because men get bashed all the time and no one says anythingMen get bashed all the time, women get bashed all the time. Men get praised all the time, women get praised all the time. In different instances and for different reasons, both scenarios happen, depending on who you encounter. I think this gender discrimination issue is blown way out of proportion, and people tend to also ignore the advantages they have for being of a particular gender. In my opinion, more than gender, people are (also) highly bashed based on (lack of) attractiveness. I think bo… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/21 08:28 AM |
| 6 | Women either like you or they don't. How is it any other way?Completely off marks. In my personal experience, almost no women i've been with was into me right from the start. Even a girl i took home within like half an hour was telling me she didn't want to kiss me, that nothing was going to happen, etc. My ex of 5 years was largely ignoring me and was into some other guy the weekend i met her. In my opinion, women will never be into you from the start unless you're really her type or really that attractive, or she's just that horny or so lol. Where Red p… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/21 08:11 AM |
| 8 | Women are low effort in everything but looksThat didn't sound like asking for counterarguments at all, but even then, what do you want me to say? Your statement is as empty as it can be. If i came here and said "All dobbermen dogs are violent, don't adopt one" what would you want me to say except that you're overgeneralizing and that plenty of dobbermen are friendly or innocuous? Same logic applies here, there isn't much to say about a wide, empty statement such as "women have no hobbies" lol, all i can say is that plenty of women i meet … | /r/ExRedPill | 06/10/21 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Explain to me how and why hypergamy isn't real? A small percentage of all men are sleeping with all the women, it is a fact at this point.If you said that a small percentage of men have a disproportional amount of sex, i would agree. This is hardly a harsh truth, on many fields of life a small percentage will have a disproportional amount of results so no need to catastrophize the shit out of it either. That doesn't prove hypergamy for starters. Apart from that observation, i don't see hypergamy anywhere at all (roughly defining hypergamy as women only wanting guys who are above them in total SMV, because as we all know, hypergamy… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/10/21 01:47 PM |
| 13 | Women are low effort in everything but looksWell, and in the almighty power of your logical capability from your very obviously intellectually demanding job you couldn't comprehend that this is a place for detoxing from TRP and not for you to cry about women lol | /r/ExRedPill | 06/10/21 12:51 PM |
| 8 | I’m so sorry I hate Kevin Samuel so much, instead of complaining about Modern women, why not teach men to be men, there’s a rise in rejection killings apparently, mostly towards poc.He just doesn't make sense. All his pomp and circumstance. He is a very regular dude that glowed up the last 2 years or so. This. Plus, i'm 95% positive the dude has NPD, it's obvious that a good amount of what comes out of his mouth is complete bullshit. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/10/21 11:47 AM |
| -2 | Do older men even like younger women let alone hit on them?Well, unfortunately for you, i rule here and i have power over you. Ain't nothing you can do about it. Congratulations on turning a 2 day ban into a perma ban in less that 2 minutes. Definitely nobody's reading your shit either lmao. Respect if you want to be respected or get bullied. Go make a new account. Have a nice day! | /r/ExRedPill | 06/10/21 11:15 AM |
| -5 | Do older men even like younger women let alone hit on them?Okay, enough with this bullshit. Get a 2 day ban and come back with a clearer mind. Don't go around generalizing men as weak willed and feeble minded if you would consider offense if someone said the same about women. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/10/21 11:09 AM |
| -2 | Do older men even like younger women let alone hit on them?That shit is borderline misandrist. This is coming from a dude who hates MGTOW and never even uses that word lol | /r/ExRedPill | 06/10/21 11:07 AM |
| -1 | Do older men even like younger women let alone hit on them?There's nothing wrong with dating someone much older or much younger. There is something wrong in abusing someone and taking advantage of a power imbalance to further one's agenda. Just because you're dating someone much younger doesn't mean you have to be abusive. I do agree that major age differences are weird and risky. But i don't think there's anything wrong with them per se given that age would be a mere proxy for abuse. It's almost ageist to assume a guy dating a much younger woman would … | /r/ExRedPill | 06/10/21 11:04 AM |
| 13 | I’m so sorry I hate Kevin Samuel so much, instead of complaining about Modern women, why not teach men to be men, there’s a rise in rejection killings apparently, mostly towards poc.And he's a High Value Male who is apparently accustomed to making 10k a month (before Youtube) and yet his is riding the AdSense wave by making only one kind of content. Amazing how you can claim to be anyone on the internet and succeed among the right kind of audience. Just wear a tailor made suit and be a suave looking motherfucked to get people to believe that you're awesome and get tons of pussy lmao. Those 10K were most likely bullshit or embelished some way. I mean, red pill is the place w… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/10/21 09:15 AM |
| 8 | What was your goal as a RP-lerYeah, well, when you interpret almost every single female behavior as a red flag and/or motivated by some dark shit like "hypergamy" or "AF/BB" you're going to not be cheated on because you're probably just constantly vetting or not even going to jump on a relationship, like many TRPers don't, because "AWALT, anyway, so why be on a relationship?". And the only, true sign of partner quality is a woman that's going to be super submissive to you, do everything you want, no male friends, no girl nig… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/10/21 09:03 AM |
| 2 | What was your goal as a RP-lerI wanted to feel cool and validated to stop feeling like the perpectual nerd i felt in highschool. At 17, i thought that fucking multiple women short term would do just that. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/10/21 08:56 AM |
| 2 | Do women really have that many options ?TRP is full of confused people. Women have "tons of options" yet only want the "top 20%" of men. So... all of the orbiters aren't really options to start with, the fact that they can allegedly go to a bar and scream "free pussy" and a bunch of guys come forward means nothing when the overwhelming majority of them are apparently unattractive. Yeah, i guess that in terms of casual sex is much easier, and they could potential get a guy that is "above her" in "SMV", but this is ignoring the fact tha… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/10/21 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Most men are already trying hard or working hard and are confident. All of these have no guarantee that they will secure a partner nor give any type of progress in anything.The 2 most important aspects of dating success, particularly if you're not attractive, are chasing women and making a move. Most guys aren't talking with like 3 or 4 girls at the same time and making the move boldly when they have to. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/10/21 12:51 AM |
| 43 | Women of exredpill, is it true you don't like it when men are vulnerable with you?Will you believe what women tell you or simply dismiss it as a "women don't know what they want"? lol I've been vulnerable with women several times and if anything it only made the relationship stronger. Eitherway, a woman i can't be at ease with is a woman i don't give a shit about. Vulnerability is perfectly okay, and even healthy, provided you do it the right way. How you do it the right way? Here's a couple of ideas: How to communicate weakness or vulnerability to women | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Are shit tests real and something you have to pass?Damn, you reminded me of the old days browsing postmasculine.com and talking with Mark in the comments, forum etc lol... I actually did a little digging and got this post by Mark i totally forgot about. Kind of compliments my original comment in the thread. https://web.archive.org/web/20140610104809/http://postmasculine.com/shit-test-paranoia Mark quitting dating advice was a huge fucking loss. Postmasculine.com was the ultimate site to detox from red pill trash. It was filled with so much wisdo… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 03:24 PM |
| 35 | Are shit tests real and something you have to pass?I am very skeptic over that shit. 9 out of 10 times "shit tests" are nothing but real indicators of desinterest of women or the average midly negative and distrutful/skepetic comments that people make over any dude that acts like a "dominant alpha". I do think that women, generally speaking, don't want a dude to sacrifice who he is to impress her or don't like it when it's obvious that a dude is being an actor to try to woo her, so overall behavioral congruency is important and they may try to c… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 01:19 PM |
| 1 | why/how do bad people get into relationships/have sex?https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/47fj77/the_end_of_the_bad_boy_mystique_largely/ | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/21 08:16 AM |
| 7 | Would most older men hook up with a younger woman if they could red pilled or not?Lol what's the point of the question? What is it trying to achieve? Personally, i don't think it's about age, i think it's about looks, age being a proxy for looks. I'd much rather fuck 50 year old Jennifer Lopez or Angelina Jolie over most 20 year olds i know. Would most older men hook up with yonger women if they can/could? I guess so. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/09/21 08:16 AM |
| 5 | Why are some of you here in this subreddit?This is quite the refugee camp where all sorts of people conflate, some of these with their own personal projections and attritions regarding the TRP issue and troublesome mental schemas. From exred pill, to TRP trolls, incels, well meaning people and dumb people hoping to trash TRP or throw rotten tomatoes at exredpill guys for having been red pill at somepoint... Obviously someone's gonna get on your nerves at some point lmao | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 06:45 PM |
| 9 | Why are some of you here in this subreddit?I respect your opinion, and it's true, some people just come here to bash on TRP and shame rather than actually help, but you gotta keep in mind that this is just a random sub of the internet, imperfect in it's own way, people here are not models of moral nobility and frankly that's fine. The sub, the advice, the people here aren't perfect and that's good because perfect advice and transcendental people only exist in the fantasies of snake oil like TRP subs. In the particular case of the girl yo… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 06:36 PM |
| 4 | What is the emotionally healthy way to deal with girls going "cold" on you?Do you want to have to "be mysterious" and some sort of dancing monkey to keep a girl interested in you? Sounds exhausting. Yeah, i guess being a bit mysterious, keeping people curious and all that is important in dating. But past a certain point all of these seduction games are tiring, and being able to communicate openly is also important. So it all comes down to what you personally want: To be a "mysterious" entertaining dude just to keep a girl interested and have her chase you but feeling t… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Fear of being cheated on / trust issuesWow, so many conclusions and so little sense. I'm not trying to normalize cheating by trying to minimize the potential hazardous consequences that it may have to the victim. Cheating is always wrong no matter how much one tries to justify otherwise. And obviously being cheated on is crushing, no doubt about that, but it's not the end of the world and it's certainly not half as bad as TRP portrays it to be. Personally, to my knowledge, i was never cheated on but i've had a girl break up with me a… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 06:01 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill teaches that women can't love you for you. Suggestions on how to get past that?https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/mt2jpl/do_women_love_entirely_different_from_men_an/ | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 03:44 PM |
| 14 | Fear of being cheated on / trust issuesBeing cheated on isn't really THAT much of a big deal. You just think it is because Red Pill simply attaches a deep dark meaning to it that it doesn't really have, by shaming the shit out of anyone that is cheated on as well as glorifying the "other guy" and catastrophizing the whole situation. Under red pill you're scum if you're cheated on as dating is mostly seen as a competition of who can fuck whom at the expense of a third party. This contrast with the "normal" meaning that people tend to … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 08:30 AM |
| 3 | How do you find confidence in your appearance?You embrace the fact that you're ugly and aim high and try to conquer the things you want anyway | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 08:13 AM |
| 2 | What rebuttals to redpill concepts are there which aren't appeals to emotion?The entire first aid kit (stickied post on the front page) has like 5 percent of the possible rebuttals to TRP | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/21 06:11 PM |
| 2 | How much do demographics make a difference ?Make a whole lot of difference. Mark Manson talked about it a lot. General demographics, from race, to ethnicity to social class, to religion, to every possible idiossincrasy one has affects dating. It's part of the rational of "you attract what you are" mantra. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/09/21 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Why is RP solely based on women and sex?But then again, you're talking about marriage, not monogamy, which aren't necessarily the same thing. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/09/21 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Why is RP solely based on women and sex?However the reality is that monogamy was beneficial for men in that it guaranteed them a wife. Monogamy was never "created" or "imposed". You're confusing monogamy with arranged marriages, bridewealth/brideprice and wife abduction. Since men can no longer negotiate/buy a wife or merely kidnap her, the one's who struggle with getting women are resentful. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/09/21 12:57 PM |
| 5 | How do I stop feeling despair?I'm also terrified of the fact that if someone knows about my lack of experience they won't want to be with me. There's really nothing special to know about dating someone. It' not really a skill like playing football or writing a book, there's nothing to learn. Being experienced may get you wisdom on how to navigate things. But that's about it. Even the most experienced people fuck up in dating all the time, often spectacularly. I'd even add that bad experiences in dating are almost a given. I'… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 09:17 PM |
| 1 | “Male Sexlessness is Rising But Not for the Reasons “Incels” Claim” … thoughts on this?Not in this/all threads though. and you continue to cite sources you know aren't great science. As you're probably aware, most science isn't great science, as almost every field has problems with replicability. If i was to cite "only" the good science, particularly in relation to evolutionary psychology and social psychology related to sexual behavior or interpersonal attraction, i would never cite anything. I know most peer reviewed studies cited by TRP are trash. I know mine aren't any better,… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/21 09:28 AM |
| 3 | “Male Sexlessness is Rising But Not for the Reasons “Incels” Claim” … thoughts on this?Firstly, we should be aware that many psychological and sociological studies are not reproduced at all, whereas all studies in all science fields should be repeated and should produce the same result. This got to the point that a special study was set up to replicate 100 studies published in 3 journals, with 97% of those 100 studies having statistically significant results. In 2015 only 36% of the replications of those studies had statistically significant results. There's a lot of discussion as… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/09/21 05:28 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand if there's any hope for real.Won't blame you, i wouldn't believe it either, probably shouldn't have talked about it because it undermines my credibility, but then again, i don't care lmao. All i know is i've had casual sex, my less than Chad friends have had casual sex. I'm no player, but it has happent and it has happent to many of my friends too. If you and the dudes like you want to cry about how life is fucked and sex is impossible, well, be my guest. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/09/21 02:14 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand if there's any hope for real.Lol, and i'll even add that the night i pulled that MILF, my friend who's quite the fucking loser who can't even hold a job, lazy, dumb, the personality of a stick and with a half bald/half head full of hair (looking like fucking WWE Kane in the 90s) was also about to close the deal in another room with a friend of the MILF i pulled, BUT he did a blunt with some sort of heavy weed and basically started puking just as the girl was making out with him and already putting her hands in his material.… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/09/21 02:01 PM |
| 3 | I don't understand if there's any hope for real.I literally said that the importance of having your own place wasn't so much tied to how attractive or loavable you are, but to the chance of closing the deal. Sex is a spontaneous act. The better your logistics the more likely it is to happen. When i was in college i was living with my parents. I lost plenty of opportunities because of it. Imagine being 18 years old and having to explain a erasmus girl inviting you over that you couldn't meet her because your parent's won't let you out in a reg… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/09/21 01:52 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand if there's any hope for real.5'8 give or take | /r/ExRedPill | 22/09/21 01:47 PM |
| 7 | I don't understand if there's any hope for real.Even user redpilldetox confirms that yeah, it's all true, even you living with someone else is a boulder to your dating success. Yay. "Yeah bro, just own expensive property, no issue at all, or you won't be loved. Sorry buddy boyo!" I have never said this, and the fact that you would interpret what i said that way explains a lot of your problem. Motherfucker, i got poorly corrected severe pectus carinatum, mole in face, underweight, look like a bitch... right now i'm stressing because i'm afraid… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/09/21 12:28 PM |
| 2 | “Male Sexlessness is Rising But Not for the Reasons “Incels” Claim” … thoughts on this?I mean, I've seen several women on this very website say that they'd rather be single than date the men available to them so... yes? That has nothing to do with hypergamy. I myself would not date most of the women i have available to me. People are picky and always want the best they can get. Doesn't matter if man or woman. I don't see this happening, honestly. I live near the center of a city that has a university (hence a lot of young people) and by looking out my balcony I can see the bars ch… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/09/21 12:22 PM |
| 3 | “Male Sexlessness is Rising But Not for the Reasons “Incels” Claim” … thoughts on this?https://www.researchgate.net/publication/273809664_The_Dark_Triad_personality_Attractiveness_to_women The study is self reported, which begs the question why would this be considered valid under TRP? Also, the low DT was still considered average attractiveness anyway, as well as other variables that were considered attractive (ex.: Agreebleness) that you do not mention. https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/pere.12168 This is a study on Assortment mating. Assortment means that high Dar… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/09/21 12:15 PM |
| 3 | “Male Sexlessness is Rising But Not for the Reasons “Incels” Claim” … thoughts on this?Yeah, yeah... women are so hypergamous not even THEM are getting laid right now, am i right? Even Chad struggles in today's market. Could be... Either that or a much more parsimonious explanation would be simply that casual sex is decreasing due a general lack of social activity as in comparison to the past (less night outs and alchool consumption, internet taking most of our time, etc...). | /r/ExRedPill | 22/09/21 09:09 AM |
| 4 | “Male Sexlessness is Rising But Not for the Reasons “Incels” Claim” … thoughts on this?Casual sex has also declined for women. Why isn't gaming and internet usage a statistical factor in female sexlessness then? | /r/ExRedPill | 22/09/21 08:44 AM |
| 3 | The dating subreddits are becoming redpill and it’s annoyingWhy do people think that being on an online plataform where: a) There's a huge gender ratio unbalance; b) You're strictly confined to your first impression based on something as superficial and meanignless as your pictures; c) People don't feel obligated to be nice to you nor the consequences of rejecting someone because they think that they won't see you again nor that their reputation is at stake; d) People are just speed evaluating matches due to either an high amount of matches or a recurren… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/09/21 08:41 AM |
| 7 | “Male Sexlessness is Rising But Not for the Reasons “Incels” Claim” … thoughts on this?It's spot on, sexlessness rises because of marriage decreasing. As a matter of fact, general decreasing in commited relationships (not just marriage) are a huge factor. Most sex is had within relationships. This study found that decrease in commited relationships, decrease in alchool consumption, increases in computer gaming and decreases in average earnings, particularly in men, explain 3/4 of the decline. In terms of gaming as a cause, i suspect that this is the reflection of an extended trend… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/09/21 08:19 AM |
| 1 | What part of Game is bad? How is ugly short guy supposed to get anything or should i wait till i hit 30 to be settled for while the chick is done banging the hot guys and Chad is done with her?If you "accepted your faith" then what are you're doing here lol You already have all the answers you're seeking, it seems. Besides, if you gotta ask what's wrong with game then you're completely lost in here. This is for people who have tried red pill, got fucked over, and are looking to go back to normalcy. Plenty of these people have tried game to know exactly what's wrong with it. I know i have cold approached over 1000 women, i could tell you all it's wrong with it. But that's not the point… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/09/21 05:54 PM |
| 3 | What do you think of this guys. I like to think i left the paranoia and lack of trust behind but this Twitter thread made me sick to my stomach brought back all kinds of terrible memoriesLOL, come on! Every story that sounds soooooooooooooo extreme and cringey is most likely fake. I mean, a woman posts a twitt asking for neutral stories on "what were you doing on you used the 'was sleeping' excuse" and literally all of those stories are cheating stories? And ALL of those women are talking about how wonderful it was, how many orgasms they had and how extreme the sex was? And all of them even admit they have no regrets whatsoever? It's bullshit lmao. Trolling can only be taken so … | /r/ExRedPill | 21/09/21 09:21 AM |
| 1 | The incels are absolutely vile. I am done using youtube for now. (I am Sarah)Mating system is largely unrelated to how a society turns out. Some "scholars" have suggested that polygyny ruins society, such as higher levels of violence/war. Not only these claims are disputed, but the reason why polygyny is allegedly related to war is merely because these societies tend to create skewed gender ratios with fewer men, who then have to marry more women, as well as it creates a culture of "bride exchange/arranged marriages" to firm war alliances. Same goes for monogamy, the rea… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/09/21 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on FDS ("vetting")I agree, but from a pratical point of view, FDS expect borderline perfection in a partner. Is the average FDS borderline perfect too? No, because no one or very few people are borderline perfect and i doubt they all conflate in a group like FDS. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/09/21 08:57 AM |
| 1 | I've been thinking about a way to evaluate how "red pilled" you still are. I would like to get some feedback on this.The 10% statistics is based of a table in a paper from Marlowe that placed the percentage of single males at 11% in foraging societies. Assuming these societies mimic the "natural" mating systems outside western cultural pressure, then 10% would be a good proximate. Here's a link to the paper: https://sci-hub.st/https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1069397103254008 And here's a link to the table: https://pbs.twimg.com/media/DqCsMLGW4AEbcvq?format=jpg&name=900x900 The 0,1% stat came from a di… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/09/21 08:47 AM |
| 1 | I've been thinking about a way to evaluate how "red pilled" you still are. I would like to get some feedback on this.0,1% for men who would die virgins. About 10% for men who would never find a romantic partner. I think these are close to the real statistics of nowadays. I believe that's the answer because it's based on actual stats i read one point or another. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/09/21 08:06 PM |
| 0 | Thoughts on FDS ("vetting")Nothing wrong with vetting, just counterproductive to be done at minimal red flags and with little regard to what one can realistically expect. Vetting everybody out of a whim while not being particularly attractive isn't having high standards, it's just delusion and entitlement. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/09/21 07:23 PM |
| 10 | I'm guessing this is a redpilled girl I came across but no matter what you think of someone's sexual past, comparing it to murder is absolutely gross as someone who has lost a family member to murderLol, it's always the recurrent obession with sexual history... If you don't want to date someone based on whatever random criteria you got then don't, no need to argue with strangers on the internet to try to persuade them otherwise or worse, try to persuade yourself the decison is rational or legitimate. Even if you're irrational or an hypocrite for not wanting to date a certain person for X reason it doesn't matter, it's who you are. Nobody is going to force themselves to date someone just bec… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/09/21 11:22 AM |
| 0 | Thoughts on FDS ("vetting")Agreed. FDS doesn't really work to actually succeed at dating. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/09/21 01:25 AM |
| -1 | Thoughts on FDS ("vetting")No, an FDS vetting me out would be a huge favour to me or any man, really. By the way, you don't address me like that and you gonna get banned. Guess you vetted lmao | /r/ExRedPill | 19/09/21 01:21 AM |
| 12 | Do Red Pillers actually practice what they preach and what if they get proven wrong by someone?Well, ive met many of these dudes in real life and most of them neither look nor act as intimidating as online. Of the few that are autistic enough to be loud mouthed, nobody really likes them. I remember this one dude who was the most adamant TRPer i knew going to one of the dude's birthday party with his girlfriend and guys commenting he didn't really act like any of the shit he defended around her lol... this dude was an actual doctor in his early 30s lol, goes to show how even seemingly inte… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/09/21 12:43 PM |
| 2 | How do I avoid teaching my kids RedPill?But i don't dismiss the existence of these men. I dismiss the TRP explanation for the existence of this men which is that we live on some sort of sexual dystopia of chads and stacies, which is bs. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/09/21 12:31 PM |
| 4 | Is it a bad thing that in my opinion society should still be like how it was before, like women not having any rights?Imagine not wanting women to have any rights just because you're such a loser that can't get laid, hence have a systemic need to private women from leading a normal life just because you have to somehow control them to even come slightly close of getting a sniff of pusy | /r/ExRedPill | 18/09/21 12:26 PM |
| 7 | Are women really more emotional/annoying that men are?Are women more emotional than men? Maybe. Men could be described as more emotional than women, too. It depends on the type of emotion, how it is measured, where it is expressed, and lots of other factors. It is also important when answering that type of question not to dichotomize sex differences as necessarily being either “entirely absent” (i.e., gender blank slate-ism) or so large that men and women “can’t relate to one another” (i.e., the old Mars versus Venus claptrap). Most psychological s… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/21 10:08 PM |
| 2 | How do I avoid teaching my kids RedPill?Yeah, but the answers they offer are bs and part of a large conspiracy to which they claim to be able to "save" you from | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/21 10:02 PM |
| 6 | Sigma male trend is just justification of people's failureYes, "sigma male" is just some hamstering of a dude who can't claim to be an "alpha male" (which no dude can because that alpha is just an impossible to reach charicature of some dude that everybody loves and nobody fucks with that doesn't really exist) but has to come up with an alternate ego to feel good about himself. Just realize this whole "alpha" or "beta" or "sigma" or "teta" or whatever male shit is retarded and stop self identifying as some made up ethological concept lol | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/21 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill YouTubers are bad. So who should I watch then?Mark Manson, Steve Mayheda... | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/21 02:36 PM |
| 13 | How do I break my misogyny?FDS is just a cult of frustrated women complaining and brainwashing other women to be bitter like them. Don't judge women based on a particular group. You wouldn't judge people's intelligence and claim that most people are stupid based on reading anti-vaxxers subs or flat earther subs, so why would you judge the entirity of women moral fiber based on a random sub of stupid women? | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/21 08:53 AM |
| 20 | The brain rot has set in so deep that instead of saying “Feel better about yourself to attract people” they title their videos this…Lol, these dudes are more cringey than ever. With this type of appeals to insecurity to get views and the propaganda to sell despair justo so stories to young men so they can leech them off with their "coaching", this is getting out of hand. One of the most toxic emotions in men is hurt pride. Keep telling them some Chad is going to eventually take his girlfriend and have them "swallow his load and send them right back to him" unless you buy his bootcamp for "1199,99 USD but you have to worry up… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/21 08:41 AM |
| 2 | Poster from earlier and one pitfall I'm having is in relation to feminists - they confirm my biasTRP is first and foremost aimed at dating advice. People go to TRP to learn to get laid. Politics are irrelevant, and if TRP didn't have an agenda it would not be concerned with politics. The fact that TRP cares about politics proves it's a BS movement. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/21 08:29 AM |
| 27 | Today I realized I have a problemYou're the victim of a cult where, even assuming there are bits of truth in what they say, completely altered your sense of reality. Always remember this. If something is so far away from common sense like TRP is then it probably is BS. There is no way such horrendous "realities" would be so prevelent yet be a "secret" to the overwhelming majority of men. Just read the first aid kit and hang arround here more often. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/09/21 10:42 PM |
| 3 | The normalization of casual sex culture among women encouraged the raise of TRPLOL, you surely jest? If anything, casual sex being more widespread would allegedly solve all the problems all these incels and TRPers think society have. If these dudes were having sex and all the women were putting out none of them would be crying about how women suck and how they can manipulated them into sex... | /r/ExRedPill | 16/09/21 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Do the majority of women actually hate nice guys & are only interested in bad boys?I'm sorry if my post comes accross as cruel, I empathize with people with mental issues. I took psychology in college so obviously i know the stigma behind most illnesses and i don't intend to be cruel at anyone. However, i'm usually not inclusive of people with personality disorders, as i don't want these people in my life nor do i think they should be in anyone's life. NPD, BPD or Dark Triad personalities are all mental health issues, but they also have the capacity to turn one's life in livin… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/09/21 11:04 AM |
| 5 | Need Feedback: Women and “Orbiters”Lol... Dudes like women. Dudes want to get it on with women. Dudes therefore hang around women. Women may or many not like these said dudes. Women will either date these dudes or just remain friends with them. What's so wrong about any of these scenarios? It's really just TRP catastrophizing the shit out of a random innocent phenomenon. TRP will just shame the shit out of everyone by implying that the dudes are "wimps" who can't get laid and the women are "bitches" who are merely using the men f… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/09/21 08:35 AM |
| 2 | Do the majority of women actually hate nice guys & are only interested in bad boys?I don't know if most women like bad boys or not. What i do know is that the more fucked up mentally a woman is, the more she's drawn to bad boys. I've wrote about it in this First Aid Kit Post with all the science to prove it. Simply put, behaving like a Bad Boy is much more likely to bring you the kind of trashy, social climber woman that TRP talks about. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/09/21 08:21 AM |
| 4 | You want to leave TRP behind? Don't become Bino Becky.Nice post! | /r/ExRedPill | 16/09/21 08:13 AM |
| 1 | How do I avoid teaching my kids RedPill?Preventing people from getting hurt? TRP hurts people as much as it promises to "save" them. It tells people that real intimicy doesn't even exists. Gives people trust issues by teaching you that you're at constant risk of being cheated on. Puts you in rollers coaster relationships because "Dread game". And all of these "prevented me from getting hurt" is also questionable because plenty of suspicion it brings on is sometimes in your head, only. As a matter of fact, more often than not, the only… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/09/21 09:22 AM |
| 12 | How much does living with your parents affect your attractiveness in the eyes of women?Having your own place is one of the most important aspects of dating success. This is usually not because of how attractive you're perceived to be because most people know the housing market is fucked and don't realistically expect other people to live alone. The younger you are the more tolerated it is. Alas, i would recognize that to some women, having your own place is indeed a turn on and makes you be perceived as a "real", well established adult. Rather, having your own place is important i… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/09/21 08:29 AM |
| 20 | SolopismSolipsim is massive projection from TRPer dudes of themselves onto women. They have this narrow view of morality and if women don't conform to their moral ideal, they will claim women are "solipsistic". They can't conceive that women may simply disagree with them on morality. TRPers are simply convinced that their views are ultimately right and undoubtful, hence why they refer to their propaganda as the "red pill truths" lol TRP: Hey, woman, you suck because you [insert random, sterotypical femi… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/21 10:19 AM |
| 14 | Is the "red pill manosphere" a gateway to the dissident right? (My experience)Yes, Red Pill and Alt Right share quite a lot of audience and influence eachother quite a lot. My experience was to some degree similar to yours. Except that red pill is about fucking, it's just weird that people would be debating or drawn towards politics in red pill forums. People get in as virgins and come out as virgins but now radicalized in the far right ideas. It's dumb as hell. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/21 09:04 AM |
| 13 | I’m trying to stay away from the redpill but their videos are so intriguing…Red pill always tells a good story. All conspiracy theories do. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/21 08:43 AM |
| 1 | How do I get over my GF going on girls night out? I feel insecureLook, dude, no need for judgement. If you're insecure then you're insecure. If you don't like that your gf has girls night outs then you don't like your gf has girl's night outs. Whatever the source of your distaste, no amount of moralizing is going to do anything. There's no switch that you press to stop caring about this. At worse it should be something that you should talk through and see if you can change your mindset, but i find it that with ExTRP guys this is always kinda tricky to do when… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/21 08:30 AM |
| 3 | Red Pill is lies and the Black Pill is truthLol, 2nd choice? Jokes on them then. All of my exes were like the 1142141st choice over Emma Watson or Megan Fox... My car is my 456th choice over a Lamborghini Gallardo or any type of Ferrari... and my house is mos def my 10435th choice over a mansion in the Phillipines or a space capsule... If you wanna look at that perspective, everything is always a 2nd choice, plenty of people would always go for the very best if they could. Doesn't mean people ara unsatisfied or holding grudges lol... Most… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/21 08:14 AM |
| 2 | How to understand the feeling of hopelessness and how to deal with it?Well, yeah, they gave you a lot of propaganda, now it's kinda hard to dismistify the trash they gave you without a lot of talk and a bit of fact checking. Hang around here a bit more and feel free to open threads with things you'd like to tackle, so you can get spefic help. You're in the right spot... | /r/ExRedPill | 11/09/21 04:26 PM |
| 20 | HYPERGAMY IS IN DECLINE LOL (DATA AND STUDIES)Good research, we need more like this, thank you | /r/ExRedPill | 11/09/21 12:39 PM |
| 2 | Following the red pill got me arrested and branded a PAEDOPHILE within the local community, according to facebook commentsDamn, dude, thank you for sharing your story. Never have i seen red pill fucking up someone's life at the level it did to you. Please hang around here more often and don't listen to the dumb people pointing their finger at you over what a dumb woman did to you. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/09/21 09:24 AM |
| 3 | Following the red pill got me arrested and branded a PAEDOPHILE within the local community, according to facebook commentsShut the fuck up. This dude got his life ruined over red pill trash and the first thing you have to point out is judgement over the fact that he's not taking responsibility over a woman who accused him of harassing underage girls just because he mistakenly approached a 14 year old. This is EXREDPILL. This is not a "Roast dudes i find sexist and entitled and i don't like sub". | /r/ExRedPill | 09/09/21 09:23 AM |
| 3 | Any thoughts on this topic here?Okay, promiscuous women are more likely to cheat. Most people believe that. But let's be very intellectually honest about this. There are a 1000 factors that predict infidelity in women. Why is it that only promiscuity is recurrently talked about within TRP? Women who are low conscientiousness are also much more likely to cheat according to every single study out there. Why aren't TRPers then opening threads about how women who don't make their bed or clean their room, or have an high level of p… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/09/21 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Being shy as a guy is definitely the worst possible trait, right?Well, not much i can tell you. The biggest, most important factor of dating success is to chase and make a move. Yeah, i guess highly attractive men can also get chased more often, having girls "approach inviting" them, etc... but even these guys have to do the chasing and make a move, so if you're not willing to do that, you'll just rely on luck. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/09/21 08:45 AM |
| 4 | So what is the true point of this sub?Yes, i do think it makes it a little confusing, but you gotta see the context of this whole thing. Most people are not persuaded by rational arguments and scientfic evidence, at least not when it comes to deep ideologies like red pill. Over the years, it seems obvious that debating with TRP dudes (or BP, or PB or any other random ideology, for that matter) is almost futile. Just look at Purple Pill debate. Seldomly do you see someone in a post saying "you raised a very valid point, i have now ch… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/09/21 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Being shy as a guy is definitely the worst possible trait, right?Not true, i know many "naturals" and actually successful PUAs (all 5 of them lmfao) with high N counts and all of them do the chasing. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/09/21 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Being shy as a guy is definitely the worst possible trait, right?I've many friends with N counts close or surprassing to the 100s and most of them do admit to have to do the chasing | /r/ExRedPill | 07/09/21 10:53 PM |
| 12 | So what is the true point of this sub?Don't mean to be rude but who says people aren't gathering anything good out of it? Plenty of people have messaged my saying the sub has helped so that's a start. Unfortunately, there's plenty of lost incels and TRPers who stumble on this sub, thinking this is yet another generic sub for mental masturbation regarding TRP theories. And plenty of people who were never exTRP but think this is the right place to bash on it. Not ideal, but i guess it's to be expected comparing these people's numbers … | /r/ExRedPill | 07/09/21 10:50 PM |
| 3 | Being shy as a guy is definitely the worst possible trait, right?Well, it's not about being shy in so much as it is about chasing women and making your move. If you don't chase women and make a move, then yeah, you're massively dependent on the chance of a woman chasing you and making a move, which usually doesn't happen. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/09/21 07:01 PM |
| 10 | any comments? especially from women on this subject?Lol, okay then... I have incel looks, visible genetic defects and all that shit. I'm preety sure my scrawny ass doesn't elicit any feelings of immediate sexual attraction like 1/100 men. Yet i've had 2 same night lays and some more casual sex. I've had a girlfriend, that other people considered attractive for 5 years, and yet never had a problem with having regular sex nor making her orgasm... Apparently it's a thing that 99% of men have sex at some point in their lives but there's this silent c… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/09/21 09:35 AM |
| 6 | Body countLol, a bit late to the party, but plenty of evidence shows that people don't like high N count people nor low N count people like "virgins" as in comparison to people with "in between" numbers. And this is valid for both men and women, because high N count men are also seen as "yucky". Also, famous evolutionary psychology star David Buss conducted a study showing that in many places of the wester world, people prefer partners with at least 5 partners on average. Only people who din't were the on… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/09/21 08:31 AM |
| 12 | Can someone define "Female Nature?"No, we can't define female nature, the same way we can't define any other red pill term. Sloppy definitions is part of red pill success because what can't be convinently defined can't be conviniently refuted. They purposedly keep it sloppy so that it has enough space to change the original idea as they see fit during arguments. A good example is "hypergamy" which came to mean that women only want men above them in status, or above them in SMV, or that predisposition to go for the "best alpha ava… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/09/21 08:24 AM |
| 6 | Red Pill & Suicide?I think it has more to do with a resilience crisis in today's society. I don't think The Game has been much of a impact because most men probably never read it nor did PUA... | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/21 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill & Suicide?Err... You sure you linked the right comment? I don't see how cold approaching would lead to suicide lol... maybe repeated and intense feelings of humiliation for being rejected in public would lead to suicide, still a little bit of an intellectual stretch, because dudes who are that vulnerable don't usually cold approach and stop after the first couple rejections, in my opinion... | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/21 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Why do red pill men keep talking about this idea of "only 10-20 percent of men are having sex"?Good point, and yes the data comes from General Social Survey and it does include bi/lesbian women and bi/gay men. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/21 03:24 PM |
| 3 | Why do red pill men keep talking about this idea of "only 10-20 percent of men are having sex"?How many women do you personally know that had casual sex with 8+ men on a regular basis? This kind of argument always strikes me as being based on something that just kinda makes intuitive sense ("Men will fuck anything, so women can have casual sex with top tier men") rather than actual first hand experience of the said phenomenon. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/21 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Why is male virginity rising?Yup | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/21 12:02 PM |
| 5 | Why do red pill men keep talking about this idea of "only 10-20 percent of men are having sex"?Proves that the bottom percentage men are having less sex. Which is different than saying that only the top percentage men have sex. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/21 11:52 AM |
| 7 | discord?Discord was closed due to, from what i could understand, heavy harrassment of a female mod, which also reflected in some other problems within the channel. The new channel will be out at some point. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/21 11:30 AM |
| 10 | Why is male virginity rising?EVERYONE LOOK AT THIS GUY OH MY GOD, THIS GUY IS A GENIUS!!!1!1!1!!!!1!! LIKE, SERIOUSLY, YOU HAD TO COME HERE TO REVEAL US THE TRUTH, AMAZING, BRO NOBODY BEFORE YOU HAS EVER THOUGHT OF THAT NOR SAID THAT. IT'S AMAZING HOW IN AN EXREDPILL SUB, EXTRP GUYS WERE NEVER EXPOSED TO THAT REEAHLATEE YOU DESERVE MOD IN THE SUB, BRO!!!1!! THANKS FOR BEING BORN. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/21 09:59 AM |
| 2 | Why is male virginity rising?Yeah, almost everyone i know that has their own place are either couples living together or people who had to leave to a different city for work, in which case they seldomly afford a good decent place that doesn't involve house sharing. Personally, i can afford a place on my own, but it's still complicated. House market is ridiculous in my country... | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/21 09:54 AM |
| 15 | Why is male virginity rising?Gosh... living with my parents was indeed the most effective cockblock back at trying to lose my virginity, i still got PTSD over that shit LMFAOOO. People have no clue how much of a fucking cockblock not having your own logistics is. Logistics truly is half of dating success. Plenty of women don't invite you to your their apartment because of sharing a house, nor want to go back to a motel or have sex in a car either... Helicopter parents are also a huge factor. It's as if being 30 is the same … | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/21 08:24 AM |
| 11 | Women 30+ years oldWhy not be celibate/single/spinster forever as a woman then, and avoid dating men completely after the certain age marker, in that case? Because women don't actually become all grotesque, used up creatures once they hit 30 and TRP is a lie. Next question! | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/21 08:14 AM |
| 6 | Why do red pill men keep talking about this idea of "only 10-20 percent of men are having sex"?It's the easiest reasoning as opposed to just admit to themselves that the reason why they don't get laid isn't because women only want the top guys, it's because they themselves are below average attractiveness. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/21 08:11 AM |
| 15 | Why do red pill men keep talking about this idea of "only 10-20 percent of men are having sex"?It wasn't a "study", it was a blog post at the OK Cupid site by the analytics team. And it didn't support their argument: Despite women qualifying 80% of men as below average, they would still message below average men over 50% of the time, and men would get response rates at about the same too. The post isn't even online anymore and one can't access without Wayback Machine Archive, and nobody seems to bother to check the original source either, so that's why this myth persists. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/21 08:09 AM |
| 27 | Low value pilled man hereWith all due respect... what's your goal with this post? You listed all the areas where you're lacking. Okay, it's a good thing that you're well aware of your weakenesses and strenghts. But then what? You know what you're lacking and you know what you gotta do, right? | /r/ExRedPill | 05/09/21 03:31 PM |
| 7 | what does 'incel' even mean anymore?I think it came to mean something closer to an ideology of nihilism and mysogyny... So there may be guys that actually get laid, but since they, for whatever reason, have an "incel mentality" they're called incels lol | /r/ExRedPill | 05/09/21 12:09 PM |
| 4 | Is it just me or is there an influx of posts that are barely not redpill?One of the strenghts of the sub is that it's higlhy heterogenous in terms of views, naturally there is going to be some discord as not everybody agrees with one another. Some people prefer to take a couple of red pill points, some of these points may be rather weird or wrong in my view, but as long it's "just" a couple of points, the dude is happy and is not abusing anyone, i don't see a problem. I do think that a little too obvious TRPers and Incels been hanging around, but i think that's just … | /r/ExRedPill | 05/09/21 11:55 AM |
| 12 | Men have created society is the dumbest argument by far.MGTOW: "Hey, men created the world! We built everything, we invented everything. We created civilization in an attempt to please women and lay women. Respect men as a gender! We deserve our own earned and natural place in the world!" Therapist: "That's very interesting, Michael. And what about you, as a man? What have you built and contributed to society personally?" MGTOW: "Ehmmm... Well..." | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/21 11:19 PM |
| 8 | Replacing one unhealthy ideology/philosophy with another...Yup, and that's why i always say that exredpill is merely a sub on the internet, not a movement, nor philosophy nor anything like that. You don't become an "exredpill" the same way you become a "MGTOW " or a "TRPer" because these groups are usually stupid and deriving a sense of identity from them is stupid. I get that calling yourself a "PUA" or "TRPer" or a "MGTOW" sounds cool in one's head and shit, like you part of something, but it's just dumb. Everybody should just break this stupid cycle … | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/21 11:15 PM |
| 6 | Youtuber Alexander Grace's Education? ( FACTS, not speculation )Lol, that dude came here asking to do a video with one of us to "debate", but then bailed when he figured this was both too normie to get views or appeal to his audience, and also because he figured he wouldn't be able to intellectually bully any of us given that we also present studies and such. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/21 05:32 PM |
| 16 | Is okay to be an incel(involuntary celibate)?It's not bad being an incel, but it's bad for both your own well being and other people integrity to be a raging, hopeless, depressive, hateful, violent dude on the internet for free. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/21 01:00 PM |
| 9 | Does anybody else notice the Black guy partnered with white women trend?Personally, i haven't noticed it often. But i do agree that some women fetishize the shit out of black men for whatever reason... people who fetishize based on race are kind of weird if you ask me, but whatever... | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/21 12:53 PM |
| 17 | Can you be an average looking guy and score a very attractive woman? How much do looks matter to women?You replied to your own question... "I just think there's so many variables to attraction and it's not a one size fits all"... All in all, it's obvious that you can be average or even ugly and be with a very attractive woman, as there are guys that do have very attractive girlfriends despite not being good looking. It may not be an actual trend tho. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/21 10:05 PM |
| 6 | Do "Chads" really get all the girls?Yeah, it's because feminine looks display commitment, emotional investment and care, which are highly prized qualities by women. At least, if it was the other way around, and we'd be talking about how women only like masculine looks, TRPers would be spouting "bad boy" qualities and all that jazz, so the reverse logic should also make sense. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/21 04:42 PM |
| 3 | Do "Chads" really get all the girls?Don't forget that 40% of young men get 0 sex in a year The median of sex partners i've seen in most studies goes at arround 7 for men. This means that over 50% of men have had more than 7 partners, hardly the sexual desert incels claim it is for the average guy. But i still have to delve a bit more into these studies. And It's 30,9%, mostly among unmarried men, and only to sub 25. - https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamanetworkopen/fullarticle/2767066 | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/21 04:26 PM |
| 7 | Do "Chads" really get all the girls?Do some guys get a disproportional amount of sex? sure Do some guys get a disproportional amount of money? sure Do some guys have watched the Harry Potter movies a disproportional amount of times? absolutely Do some guys pick their noses a disproportional amount of times? yes Things aren't always normally distributed. It's only natural that a certain minority account for a disproportinal result. The problem with the concept of "Chad" is that it's much more than just the idea that a minority of g… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/21 03:36 PM |
| 3 | Are all Red Pill methods for attracting women bullshit?I'd say your post is already spot on and you seem well aware what works vs what doesnt, so no need to big debate here | /r/ExRedPill | 02/09/21 01:09 PM |
| 7 | Rejection leads to low self esteem and perception of lower self worthPeople tend to look at dating too much like a qualification or ability, which i guess it is a little... but dating is much more a myriad of chaotic coincidences than an ability or qualification. Rejection happens all the time for the most random reasons. Dating success also happens all the time for the most random reasons. I find it that a lot of my dating success has been defined simply by being in the right place at the right time over anything else. Even very attractive guys get rejected and … | /r/ExRedPill | 31/08/21 08:36 PM |
| 9 | Question: Who has it easier in finding relationships/casual dating Women or Men?Casual dating it's women. As for relationships it's about the same, if anything the average man has it a little easier than women. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/08/21 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Regarding the "You guys criticize red pill but don't offer an alternative" criticismI disagree, you posting your thoughts about advocating for people to unsubscribe to a movement on the INTERNET at mass by creating or being involved in a niche of your own is a ideological movement, therefore it's a "group" I can see that you're very new here. For starters, i don't really advocate for people to unsusbcribe to red pill. At least i don't actively try to make them unsubscribe as i find it that seldomly people can be convinced to leave or join red pill through debate or dialogue. Pe… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/08/21 05:40 PM |
| 20 | The red pills, see Islam as a solution and that many will embrace the Muslim faith for feminism, how true is this? and also I see that the red pills and mgtow, promote Islam a lot, I wonder why they promote Islam so much?I once literally spoke with a dude here that said he was former TRP but had now converted to islam and was going to have an arranged marriage. He had a thread about how western women were crap. I tried to pressure him into admit that he converted to islam because of the TRP brainwash regarding western women. He never openly admited it but you could tell from his replies that was the exact reason why he did it. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/08/21 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Is redpill THAT badI ain't judging or ranting or anything like that. I actually mean it, do red pill and tak your own conclusions. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/08/21 03:25 PM |
| 6 | What do you feel are some relationship ground rules in a LTR?Leave if you're unhappy and can't seem to be able to work on it. Don't try to change others either. May seem like really simple, empty statements but people who've been on relationships know this is true. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/08/21 03:23 PM |
| 7 | Is redpill THAT badGo do red pill, and when you inadvertedly end up in a roller coaster abusive relationship with a girl where you don't even recognize yourself because "dread game" OR when you are constantly feeling bad because you think this one girl you're really into is actually fucking 3 or 4 other guys at the same time as you (despite probably just being insecurity) OR when you go approach women and get recurrently and massively rejected time and time again despite "game working wonders" OR the few times you… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/08/21 03:18 PM |
| 19 | Why do so many Red Pillers have a chip on their shoulders about not having been able to get with younger women when they were that age?Well, since they put their selfworth on the amount of sex they can get and the quality of women (roughly defined as just being good looking and young) it's obvious that is mostly an ego/inferiority complex thing. Given that most of them also fail to achieve the amount of sex they think is appropriate or the kind of women they think is the best it also speaks volumes of the self esteem of the average TRPer. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/21 09:06 PM |
| 1 | I like toxic girls and I can't lieLol, wtf, why would you want to be on a roller coaster relationship with some dumb woman? This is real life, with real people and real consequences, you're not supposed to be on clusterfuck relationship just to feel like the main actor in a mexican soap opera. There's nothing to overcome. You know toxic women are stupid. Don't date them. It is that simple. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/21 08:45 PM |
| 12 | Why the redpill is getting big and biggerThe dating market isn't "brutal towards men", and dating hasn't been getting increasingly any difficult for men whatsover. Online dating is nothing but a sausage fest, which alone already makes women choosier. I mean, seriously, look online, you'll find over 300 scientific papers showing that the more the gender ratio favours women, the more they become choosier. The selection criteria is also made almost exclusively of first impressions, which are dictated by your photos. There's low risk for r… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/21 08:28 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts?Lol, wtf... "When a woman cheats the relationship is pratically already over". I'm not even going to address the generalizition and level of assumption behind his point, but if the relationship is practically already over then it also makes it meaningless that a woman cheats given that from the practical point of view the relationship is already... you know... over. And there's little to be done about it so makes no much difference. Also, what's up with the condoms coming out of the vase and the… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/21 08:15 PM |
| 4 | TRP didn't "change your life" let alone saved it and thinking otherwise is a mere sign of pure brainwashIt's all a matter of perspective, i guess. When i learned to tie my shoes or using the bathroom on my own it was also "life changing", i could run around recess without having to ask other kids to tie the shoes for me or having to ask the help of an adult. Still nobody would say that learning to tie my own shoes or using the bathroom on my own is something to be celebrated lol So no, i still don't think that TRP truly changes lifes the way these dudes been putting it. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/21 08:02 PM |
| 2 | TRP didn't "change your life" let alone saved it and thinking otherwise is a mere sign of pure brainwashA small boost in self confidence and a few positive reactions from women isn't really what people commonly associate with a "changed my life" statement. Usually "changed my life" means a 180º rotation, miraculous and outstanding/unusual results, and that's not really what TRP offers (despite promising). So yeah, to put it into perspective, even if TRP made good impact with someone , a dude calling this said impact as a "life changer" doesn't seem accurate to me. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/21 07:59 PM |
| 9 | TRP didn't "change your life" let alone saved it and thinking otherwise is a mere sign of pure brainwashBeing good looking or high social status getting you laid isn't black pill is common sense blue pill. And i said "people who had something going on for them", gave those couples examples, could have given any other. I don't believe looks and status are the only venues for having sex lol | /r/ExRedPill | 28/08/21 01:42 PM |
| 15 | TRP didn't "change your life" let alone saved it and thinking otherwise is a mere sign of pure brainwashIf you felt a very light breeze of air in your head for a very short moment it was probably the point of the post passing by you at the speed of light | /r/ExRedPill | 28/08/21 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Regarding the "You guys criticize red pill but don't offer an alternative" criticismI mean arguing against the idea of finding group identity to resolve your problems then advocating for a page like this to also help resolve problems is I don’t know…. Hypocritical? This isn't a group, nor a club nor any of the sorts, nor do you become an "exredpill" the same way you become a MGTOW or a TRPer. This is a mere sub/internet forum, not really a group, clube, philosophy or movement on which people can derive a group identity like TRP or MGTOW. And it's based on helping, first and for… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/08/21 12:16 PM |
| 9 | How can I avoid the rp when there are stats to back it up?short answer: By making your own research and finding out about the research that contradicts TRP, as well as researching TRP original sources to see if they back up what they claim it does. You mention for instance that women rate 80 percent of men as below average. But did you know that same data also showed that over half of the messages/responses women send are to those "below average" men as well? You mention that 50 percent of marriages end in divorce but did you know that dosen't mean the… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/08/21 12:40 AM |
| 17 | True or False QuizWell, all i know is that back in the day most guys i personally knew that were into TRP would actively admit to want to cheat. Myself included. Wether gurus would directly tell you to cheat or not, the type of overall adversarial views on dating that they brainwash men with leads to most TRPers thinking that cheating is okay OR hamstering their cheating as not being actual cheating, such as "it's okay to fuck women on the side provided you're saving your feelings for your girl" or whatever retar… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/08/21 06:31 PM |
| 3 | this is a little stupid butall because that the main character, edward culllen, is "simped" over by every teenage girl. and to know that I don't have that makes me hurt. a lot. But isn't that kinda the reality for the overwhelming majority of people? Most of us will never be "admired" or "popular" like that. It's simply a factor of being average. What's so bad about that? Why would you even have that expectation? Besides, most people that are admired are also veemently hated. You can't be a reference to some people witout… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/08/21 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Myron Gaines impregnates their guest in Fresh and Fit who is an OnlyFans girl.So you admit that acting like a blue pill "beta provider" is a good way to pick up women then? | /r/ExRedPill | 25/08/21 03:52 PM |
| 8 | Pick up artist civil warThat John Anthony shit at 22:00 reminds me of the exact same shit i did back in my PUA days. Dancing in the middle of the street because "state control", ocasionally arguing with women who didn't like my approaches, picking fights with guys on occasion because "alpha"... This is the type of baffoonery TRP and PUA makes you do. Most dudes are not in the field cold approaching so they don't know the types of situations you sometimes get involved in, most of the times unitentionally but yeah. Fuck … | /r/ExRedPill | 25/08/21 03:16 PM |
| 3 | Favorite books to read?I think that the best way to cultivate a reading habit is to read about things you actually hold a dear, genuine interest in. Everybody always say they can't really make an habit out of reading, never finnishing books, etc. I always tell them to read something about they are indeed very interested in, instead of reading some random stuff just for the sake of it. For instance, if you like WW2 read about it. So, when people ask for reading suggestions, i gotta ask what people are interested in fir… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/08/21 12:51 PM |
| 5 | I have to say that i feel bamboozled. Why is Red Pill applied to only incels in this sub?The overwhelming majority of TRPers are just lurkers or dudes whose experience merely entails creeping on some women on Tinder and rant on internet subs about feminism lmao... Very few dudes have actually applied it consistently in real life, so very few dudes have experienced the extreme hazards of it. Even those who do are often endoctrinated and blame themselves for failure because they were brainwashed to believe that "taking responsibility is alpha", when in fact failure happent simply beca… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/21 01:48 PM |
| 17 | Career/success & its impact on datingJuding by most studies a good career is indeed a necessity. Judging by my own personal observations, however, I think it helps, alas is not THAT much of game changer. Think it really depends on the girl and where you're from. Most women i know say they don't care about money, at worse they'd care about career indeed, but mostly from the perspective that you need to at least not be stuck on a lame, poorly payed/unstable career. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/21 12:38 PM |
| 5 | What are the negative effects that redpill left in your lives?Few lays, few friends from college days, memories of intense humiliation, trust issues... | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/21 12:32 PM |
| 0 | What exactly is the point?I wouldn't say one is fucked if one isn't hot. I'm not hot yet, i've had a satisfying dating life. I'd just recognize it takes a bit more work than hot people to suceed, i guess. And i'm sorry if i look like a douche, but let it be known i don't intend to hurt anyone who's actually well intended and looking for help. I do recognize that over the years i've became very disagreeble on the internet, ranting with TRPer. This (TRP) is an issue that has affected my life deeply, i get all worked up ove… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/21 12:40 AM |
| 5 | What exactly is the point?solution is to try as much as humanly possible and work on yourself as much as possible as well. I know it's mundane advice but that's literally all there is to it. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/21 12:32 AM |
| 0 | What exactly is the point?I don't bullshit anyone. Some guys claim they are the very 1/10 in terms of attractiveness. I got my doubts but then again some of these dudes aact just so low you can't talk any sense into them. Anyway, assuming these guys are telling the truth, what am i supposed to tell them when they want me to believe that they are (allegedly) the worse of the worse? Common sense is indeed that sucks to be the dude. Fortunately overwhelming majority of people can suceed at dating with more or less effort. I… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/21 12:30 AM |
| 0 | What exactly is the point?I've seen many,many people (on Facebook and elsewhere) go on and on about how men who aren't dating just need to get a better personality. This is just absurd, knowing how many shitty people can get into relationships; information from online dating studies, history, studies on NPD, and common sense prove that being a dick is kind of irrelevant if you're hot. Being a dick is kinda of irrelevant if you're hot. It's not irrelevant if you're not. It's a luxury you can't have if you're unattractive.… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/08/21 11:28 PM |
| 0 | Myron Gaines impregnates their guest in Fresh and Fit who is an OnlyFans girl.You're coping. A girl asking you to hold your purse is a shit test, which he failed. A girl acussing you of being a player and not being interested in commitment would be a shit test as well. Paying for a date is beta. This merely based on his "game" alone, and ignoring the fact that he was on a sugar daddy dating site... open your eyes, bro | /r/ExRedPill | 23/08/21 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Myron Gaines impregnates their guest in Fresh and Fit who is an OnlyFans girl.It's not a matter of "seeing it that way", it's a fact. He held her purse and when she accused him of only wanting to bang he promised he's not into One night stands and that we would stick to her. Under TRP theory this should never happen nor would ever work, unless she saw him as a meal card beta bux. Either TRP is wrong or he's a BB. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/08/21 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Myron Gaines impregnates their guest in Fresh and Fit who is an OnlyFans girl.That's also the exact opposite of what these dudes preach you should do with women. He behaved like a "beta" and got her. Effectively proving he is a fraud and "game" is shady at best. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/08/21 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Myron Gaines impregnates their guest in Fresh and Fit who is an OnlyFans girl.Yeah... he was doing "beta" shit like sending her voice messages to watch the sunrise and convincing her he wasn't into one night stands... according to her he was a "gentleman" who bought her cereals and "held her purse" lmfaooo This is a black single mom with an only fans... and he's a fraud who's even on sugar daddy dating sites... If this was any other dude y'all would be calling him a "beta cuck" and the only reason she fucked him was to get pregnant of him to try to snatch him and/or colle… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/08/21 04:34 PM |
| -6 | this is the type of shit that got me into TRP. it makes me want to cry, man. i want to believe people in the world are good and people will love you for who *you *are but then again, this stuff happens. i know that the girl didn't owe the guy sex or love, he wasn't entitled to it but still, cmonCan only speak for myself. If i invite a date over for an house party, including her friends, and then i end up hooking up with one of the original date's friends, right in front of her, i'd feel like it's kinda wrong . I don't think it would be that surprising that in a low acquaintence situation people who have put very little investment on a Tinder date would act like this, particularly with better/more fun options around. But it's still kinda of a dick move. Also, a girl in Tinder who has se… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/08/21 03:40 PM |
| 5 | this is the type of shit that got me into TRP. it makes me want to cry, man. i want to believe people in the world are good and people will love you for who *you *are but then again, this stuff happens. i know that the girl didn't owe the guy sex or love, he wasn't entitled to it but still, cmonWhy would this get you into TRP? Shitty situations in dating happen all the time, nobody ever said otherwise. Problem is to think that they are somehow recurrent and that positive experiences are next to non-existent, which is basically what TRP tries to instill on people and it's just toxic. In this particular case, while it's perfectly justified that the dude would be very unhappy with this, i gotta say that it's not even that surprising. I already wrote in my post Origins of Hypergamy and Rus… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/08/21 03:28 PM |
| 7 | this is the type of shit that got me into TRP. it makes me want to cry, man. i want to believe people in the world are good and people will love you for who *you *are but then again, this stuff happens. i know that the girl didn't owe the guy sex or love, he wasn't entitled to it but still, cmonIt's not 100% on the dude, it's 100% okay to be sad in a situation like this. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/08/21 03:18 PM |
| 15 | Despite having your own reasons for leaving TRP, do you hold onto any values/ideas/beliefs from the community that you still go by?everything i hold isn't exclusive to TRP | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/21 11:09 PM |
| 29 | Myron Gaines impregnates their guest in Fresh and Fit who is an OnlyFans girl.Sends her an actual voice message saying "beta shit" like "i wanna spend the night with you and watch the sunrise together"... when she accuses him of just wanting to bang he "fails the shit test" by saying that "i don't really do one night stands" and shit like that... all said to a girl with a only fans account... who he inveted on his show despite denying profusely that he invites these women to try to bang them ("look what they do not what they say", am i right? ;) ) This coming after the du… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/21 01:42 PM |
| 5 | I thought you guys should take a look at this, this was definitely a little hard to read but it shows you the issues of RP for sure. (Warning- talks of rape are said).removed... you got an alternative link or so? | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/21 01:35 PM |
| 6 | How ?Do you have any come backs that actually come from your own head or you're just yet another MGTOW/TRP NPC with the usual "classic men bad", "you guys are just blue pills" and all those recycled come backs? lol | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/21 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Settling down and dual mating strategy of womenIt has nothing to do with following "blue pill" or not. It just sounds too surreal to anyone. Even TRP guys i know would call BS on this. Way too many trolls come here with this type of story, and it's always some extreme bullshit... like the worst case scenerio possible ever. Always coming from recently made accounts. Like, please, people. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/21 01:22 PM |
| 2 | Settling down and dual mating strategy of womenHow do I cope with this? Okay, how can i say this without sounding harsh? As much as i'd like to help you, i can't take any of this seriously. These stories sound wayyyyyyy too fake. The more extreme and coincidentally to TRP stories are, the more likely it is to be bullshit. As a former PUA, i've met a few guys, including so called naturals, that were actually having a lot of sex. Including very attractive guys. NONE of them would ever get women consistently by merely sending a dick pick and ex… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/21 01:11 PM |
| 7 | How ?Lmfao... wait, wasn't it supposed to be the other way around? Curb your propaganda. Men are such hypergamous sloots lol | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/21 12:58 PM |
| 8 | How ?Well, for starters it helps to not be a virgin locked on a basement reading all this internet propaganda and watching stupid "coaches" who overwhelmingly have no receipts and that so happen to be self-proclaimed "theory guys" on youtube... It's better to experience live first hand by actually talking to women, have friends and girlfriends to maybe have a much broader perspective of how live actually works and knowing that not everything in dating is this absolute boogie men y'all so scared of... | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/21 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Regarding the privating of incelexitnon red or black pilled | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/21 01:36 AM |
| 3 | Im trying to turn a new leaf since trp is toxic in many ways, but i need a way to cope with my situation. How do you do it?Join activities to meet new people and from there try to actively chase women. If you're not talking to a few women at the same time you aren't trying hard enough. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/08/21 05:10 PM |
| 6 | Do women only want alpha men?Well, hows acting alpha been working for you? | /r/ExRedPill | 21/08/21 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Regarding the "You guys criticize red pill but don't offer an alternative" criticismPost literally says The advice you'll get here as alternative to red pill is nothing but (mostly) mundane stuff, common sense, or advice you may get in other places, because there are no elaborate easy answers in life. People may give you contrapoints, guide you in your detox process, give some advice, point in certain directions, like certain more down to earth dating coaches like Mark Manson, Howie Reith, Dr Nerdlove, The Mating Grounds... but that's about it. But somehow is being interpreted … | /r/ExRedPill | 20/08/21 12:35 PM |
| 5 | Can you really get any girl if your game is good enough? How does RP claim this?You can't get any girl to like you. Your success is largely defined by you, your context and the girl you're after. Not by what you do. Past a few guidelines of game like playing hard to get, not being too nice, etc, game is worthless. My opinion after approaching over 1000 women and meeting irl many guys doing the same. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/08/21 12:32 PM |
| 1 | My plan as an incelYou forgot the most important part of the work which is actually actively chasing women, flirting and making a move. Women don't usually actively approach unless you're just that obviously attractive or her type. Actively chase and see where that leads you. And get rid of this idea that is over and that you're too ugly to suceed because that will only make you give up at first rejection (which always happens to virtually all guys that every try to chase women). | /r/ExRedPill | 19/08/21 08:30 PM |
| 7 | My plan as an incelThis all comes down to the same old "incel paralysis" of just kinda accepting one fate's as set in stone and go ahead with it. Which isn't really a solution for most of you, at least judging by recurrent posts lamenting one's fate that keep popping up regardless. All i know is this: The overwhelming majority of people i know do get a date eventually. Unless you're just grotesque, which from a probabilistic point of view is unlikely, given that the overwhelmingly majority of people are at least n… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/08/21 08:08 PM |
| 5 | My stance on archetypes (Alpha, Beta, Sigma)...I don't believe in alpha or beta or anything of the sorts. At most i would believe in natural differences in popularity or prestige or something. But even those are largely context dependent and you may be alpha in a certain situation and be beta in the next one, or alpha in a certain social circle and beta in another. There may be some people who are, none the less, more easily achieving of popularity in more situations due to the fact of having a certain type of personality or image. But even … | /r/ExRedPill | 19/08/21 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Regarding the "You guys criticize red pill but don't offer an alternative" criticismProblem stems from the fact that we don't all start from the same starting point. We are all different and our situations are all different. Telling the 38 year old overweight, shy, software engineer that he should be "alpha" with a IDGAF attitude and go approach multiple women at the club and thinks may get awkward quite fast. The same kind of advice could be however potentially work to someone else in some other context. Point is: People are all different. And the situations we are in, from ou… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/08/21 06:18 PM |
| 9 | The dangers of the “numbers game” “cold approach” method red pill coaches spewWell, that's true, but i don't think there's anything wrong with cold approaching and it is indeed a numbers game. Alas, the first guy to make that obvious obserbation was Mark Manson and now TRPers leech off his advice, back in my old PUA days there was this idiotic believe that you could have like a 70+ percent hit rate provided you learned and mastered "game" LMFAO The charlatanism was even worse than it is now. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/08/21 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Regarding the "You guys criticize red pill but don't offer an alternative" criticismI refuse to offer anything other than insults and hope you continue to struggle This sub is to help people detox, not to wish them to continue to struggle. I personally don't wish anyone who's intention is to leave TRP to keep struggling. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/08/21 02:47 PM |
| 5 | FRESH BUYS A GUN? Fresh has proved time and time again he has no idea about how to carry himself. He is a clown.Yeah, i mean, an ugly, neckbeard dude that wears a turtleneck sweater with a "CEO" chain on top of it is very obviously the epitome of a "high status male" on which people can look up to and learn from. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/08/21 11:29 AM |
| 6 | "Fresh" strikes AGAIN 🤣🤣Lol, people, stop posting this drama. This is kindergarden level gossip at this point. The fact that Fresh and Fit are frauds is obvious for anyone with some level of critical thinking, a couple of baffoons show up on youtube with a fancy looking studio claiming they are the coolest-CEOs-rich alpha-alphas that fuck a lot and y'all believe it? Lol. And Aba and Preach, this is exactly what you get for saying that TRP was needed community despite being trash, look what you've done by associating wi… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/08/21 11:26 AM |
| 2 | Regarding the "You guys criticize red pill but don't offer an alternative" criticismNo, it's not, i know plenty of men that have zero awareness as for why they have ever suceeded with women. Also, don't mention "studies", if you don't provide them, i find it that 9/10 times people have no clues what studies they're talking about, nor read, nor are even capabale enough to interpret them. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/08/21 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Regarding the "You guys criticize red pill but don't offer an alternative" criticismHold on your horses right there. You're no one here to claim who the target "audience" here is or who should be banned. Come down back to earth a little bit, will ya? This ain't a democracy nor a friendly place for those who come here holding their chin high. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/08/21 07:01 PM |
| 12 | Fresh and Fit are clownsit was never good if you ask me | /r/ExRedPill | 17/08/21 01:07 PM |
| 18 | Fresh and Fit are clownsAnd does it really come as a surprise to anyone that all of those pornstars, bimbos and Miami DC party girls that dress like prostitutes and look like sex dolls have a trash mindset? | /r/ExRedPill | 17/08/21 01:06 PM |
| 11 | Fresh and Fit are clownsTo be honest, joke is on Aba and Preach. Why the fuck would they associate with a couple of clowns that say the dumbest, meanest shit always beefing with everybody in the first place? To the TRP lurker: take a look at fresh and fit. You see the kind of clusterfuck situations the TRP attitude puts you in? If you wanna hold "frame" and be an "alpha alpha" you'll be in constant situations like this... people calling you out in public, people wanting to beat your ass, etc. You're being manipulated b… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/08/21 11:25 AM |
| 8 | Women would rather share a successful man than being attached to a faithful loser?It takes a very poorly adjusted, anhiliated from reality dude to believe in something like this. This is just something that kinda makes sense within their narrative and so it sticks. Rather tha actually being based on experience and evidence. Common sense tells you that is a dumb fucking idea. Women are deeply bothered by infidelity. Tell your girlfriend you want to take a 2nd girlfriend and see where that leads you. You probably won't because you know intuitively that shes gonna get pissed and… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/08/21 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Regarding the "You guys criticize red pill but don't offer an alternative" criticismYou're right, just because it's mundane advice doesn't mean it's bad advice. That's not what i meant. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/08/21 10:30 AM |
| 3 | Here is the logic behind it if you wonder (a copy of a comment + some details)Our take downs of TRP based on science are at complexity level and out take downs of how TRP manipulates people as a cult are at hyper complexity level, for instance | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/21 09:37 PM |
| 7 | Regarding the "You guys criticize red pill but don't offer an alternative" criticismOkay, then, i get it. We are all dumb as a rock here and we make no sense. Please instead of making statements about the users open your own threads with your opinions regard TRP and how people should be helped here, your teachings etc. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/21 08:42 PM |
| 5 | Regarding the "You guys criticize red pill but don't offer an alternative" criticismPlease, don't ban the dude. No need for now. Give him a chance, i wanna see what he has to say in future threads. Dude doesn't seem ill intended. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/21 08:34 PM |
| 2 | An alternative to The Red PillGood grief. Not gonna to explain myself more eluquently, i don't wish to go on some endless exchange. Just do whatever you wanna do, if you have something special to say open threads and start specific discussions. You seem like an intelligent dude. I'm sure you got some stuff that may be of value to some people out here browsing.. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/21 08:32 PM |
| 9 | Regarding the "You guys criticize red pill but don't offer an alternative" criticismLol, at this point i don't even know what you're trying to argue about. You just seem to be interested in analyzing the merits of the formal logic of what i say and mindfuck yourself for the simple sake of it. I don't think there should be an elaborate alternative to red pill such as a whole movement or philosophy or group, because as history shows, those types of groups tend to clusterfuck preety fast. I think the best approach is to merely hold an internet sub with no specific teachings on whi… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/21 08:25 PM |
| 1 | An alternative to The Red PillGO BACK to normalcy, meaning they were normal before the red pill, which means you define a normal person by his pre red pill state, the same state that led him to the red pill in the first place, Nobody goes back to the exact starting point, they will be going back with the experience to know how to avoid red pill and similar charlatanism. there are reasons that people get into the red pill, there should be better reasons given by someone to guide them elswhere The reason why people join red pi… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/21 08:03 PM |
| 2 | An alternative to The Red PillThe advice isn't fundamentally the same as red pill. The main critic is about most of the fabricatios of hypergamy, AF/BB, dread game and all those concepts exclusive to red pill. Nobody has any problem with lifting, etc, obviously. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/21 07:16 PM |
| 1 | An alternative to The Red PillI know, i'm just summarizing your idea throughout the responses i got lol | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/21 07:05 PM |
| 2 | An alternative to The Red Pilland whatever you said here is but an escape from the duty of an intellectually rigorous analysis and refutation of the red pill, for god's sake isn't this the mission of the subreddit? No, It isn't. see? ... The goal of this subreddit is precisely to help people go back to normalcy after red pill, it's not to debunk it whatsoever (alas that's often part of the process) as i wholeheartedly do not believe in "debate" nor people changing "through debate", as there's plenty of scienific research tha… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/21 06:59 PM |
| 2 | An alternative to The Red PillThe overall consensus here, if there's any, is that there should be no "alternative" to red pill, as overall most of these dating advice schools are just counterproductive and harmful in many ways. Everybody is encouraged to rely on themselves to break free from this internet non sense for good and to just stick to common sense, down to earth advice. Judging by the remaining of your responses you seem to believe in great structural problems concerning "masculinity" and stuff of the like, which t… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/21 03:43 PM |
| 4 | An alternative to The Red PillWhy people would go back to something they know it doesn't really work? People coming here have tried red pill and got fucked over and now want out, going back to TRP would make them no favour. Besides, once again, if you stick to a self-improvement habit, going to the gym, investing in yourself, etc then i'm guessing one wouldn't be going to a pre-red pill state. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/21 01:03 PM |
| 4 | An alternative to The Red PillBut that's the point. Forget any "alternatives", all of these said groups are mostly anihiliating and spread stupid teachings. There's no problem in going back to normalcy, plenty of people are normal and find success that way. There are plenty of more down to earth dating coaches like Mark Manson, Dr Nerd Love, Howie Reith, etc, but really, just do the whole self-improvement, join activities and put some good effort into chasing women. That's literally just it. Why are people always so desperat… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/21 12:11 PM |
| 7 | Watch Kevin Samuels have a complete meltdown after a 22yo calls him out on his sh*t7:23 "I talk about dress size, not weight". "There's an actual correlation" "No, it's not" BRUH | /r/ExRedPill | 15/08/21 08:22 PM |
| 6 | Views on Wheat Waffles? (blackpill youtube channel)I actually had followed him because i found his video on why not to approach quite good. But apart from that he's actually quite trash. The video that he has listing all the possible reasons why women date unattractive men was like a lot of cope and hamstering to simply not admit that his views are wrong. He even points that fomer PUA Neil Strauss had a hot wife because she was dating him for stability based on something completely out of context and unrelated he said on an interview to forcibly… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/08/21 08:18 PM |
| 5 | Regarding the privating of incelexitlol, some people see entitlement everywhere | /r/ExRedPill | 15/08/21 04:20 PM |
| 13 | Regarding the privating of incelexitFormer incel are welcome to use this sub and/or /r/anotherway | /r/ExRedPill | 15/08/21 11:41 AM |
| 7 | Contrapoints speaks about the shooting that recently occurred and incel dom.Black pill is terrorism because it's an ideology that has led to mass killings. Black pill and incel forums/videos should be illegal and wiped from the internet. Free speech, like every other right, knows its limits. Certainly should be a very loose right, and it's hard to draw a line between what constitutes the limits of free speech. But i think i speak for everybody when an ideology that has led to the outburst of mass shootings should indeed be an objective frontier of where that line is dra… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/21 11:23 PM |
| 11 | Being a player/womanizer is overratedI was never no player, but i've done a couple of wild things and really, didn't feel as thrilled, as cool, or as high in validation as people make it out. And even if it does to some people, i'm guessing it gets old really fast. sex per se insn't really that thrilling unless you're starving or a virgin or something. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/21 10:19 PM |
| 3 | Then what should men do to get dates?It's in own way it is, but as long as you don't over do it, and you're not ill intended and actually respect women, it falls into playfulness. There's a thin line, i guess, but the truth is that almost everybody plays hard to get when flirting, really. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Then what should men do to get dates?I don't see much of a problem with push pull and playing hard to get. That's kinda common sense advice, frankly. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/21 04:47 PM |
| 7 | Then what should men do to get dates?This isn't really a dating advice sub. Max i could do is point you towards more down to earth dating advice like Mark Manson, Howie Reith, Dr Nerdlove, etc. And actually employ good, consistent effort, if you want to suceed you actually need to try to constantly be talking to multiple women. Hanging around on Tinder waiting for a couple of matches ain't going to do much. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/21 03:35 PM |
| 9 | I want out.They try to make you feel like shit so that they can control you and sell your their fix of "taking the red pill" as if that was gonna ever help you. They make fun of you if you call them out on their bullshit as "not being strong enough" to believe the "truth". It's all on purpose. They are beating you down so they can control you, don't let them win. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/21 12:06 PM |
| 9 | Sadly, this is from the shooter in UK. Please, please, please take care of your fellow Red Pill/MGTOW homies. Come on, we can do better. 💪❤No, it's hard to argue against black pill because most guys are just deep in a learned helplessness and endoctrination state that it takes professional interference to help them. Even then, some cases are beyond repair. I've delved into black pill "science" enough to know that most of you can't even actively interpret studies or ignore a gigantic aspect of contradictory evidence. Many of which is compiled in the sticky in this sub. Looks are obviously important, but even that i'd say that is a c… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/21 11:50 AM |
| 22 | Sadly, this is from the shooter in UK. Please, please, please take care of your fellow Red Pill/MGTOW homies. Come on, we can do better. 💪❤That's true too, but it's incredible hard to help many of these guys for a variety of reasons. If any black pill content was just deleted off the internet peopel wouldn't be exposed to that non sense to start with. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/21 12:16 AM |
| 34 | Sadly, this is from the shooter in UK. Please, please, please take care of your fellow Red Pill/MGTOW homies. Come on, we can do better. 💪❤At this point any black pill labeled content should simply be illegal. Statistically speaking it's behind many mass shootings. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/21 12:06 AM |
| 17 | What made you exredpill?Trying it out irl, approaching over 1000 women, barely getting laid and becoming the joke on campus because "alpha" and "frame" | /r/ExRedPill | 13/08/21 08:39 PM |
| 6 | Female Choice by Meike Stoverock: book reviewI'm glad someone checked this piece of shit, ignorant book, that obviously had to be written by an evolutionary biologist. It also reads as a deep confusion between a liberal rad feminist propaganda and a red pilled idiocy with a final blow of revenge fantasy when she says that men should be educated to accept that most of them won't even procreate and only the attractive males should be allowed to fuck. Which oddly enough treats men merely as sexual commodoties. Very feminists, no doubt. The nu… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/08/21 09:02 AM |
| 5 | What things led up to the current day gender war we have today?There's no such thing as gender wars. That's a niche thing from twitter and reddit. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/08/21 08:27 AM |
| 10 | doesn't this post prove hypergamy actually exists and that redpillers are actually right?No, it doesn't because a) the evidence is correlational meaning that i can always come up with alternative explanations for the results. Ex.: I could argue that men with higher wages are more likely to be married because men only feel comfortable enough to marry if they make more than their SO due to sexism, or that women with higher rages become less dependent of men and chose not to marry; b) Hypergamy is much more than "marrying up" and often throws around a lot of fabrications like how women… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/08/21 08:24 AM |
| 12 | Myron Gaines Exposed as a Sugar DaddyTRP coach getting exposed for the "do as i say not as i do" recurrent hypocrisy - part 1761 | /r/ExRedPill | 12/08/21 05:42 PM |
| 10 | Where did most RP gurus go wrong in their lives to fill their minds and others with their nonsense?Some of these dudes never had problems growing up, nor were losers or rejects, they merely claim that because it looks good for the typical "from zero to hero" narrative that PUAs use in their marketing - "hey, bro, i used to be a nerd just lke you but then i took the red pill and became a massively accomplished pussy slayer". It's an odd mix of tragic and stupid. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/08/21 08:47 AM |
| 9 | I'm an incel. Please help meIt doesn't take much to know what your problem is. You think you're ugly yet 80 women rated you average. You think it's "overrated". If they claimed you were a 1, you'd say that you're even worse than you thought, but if someone says you're average they're lieing? You're average, get over it. You think you're short, yet 5'7 is not short and it will never be short. "But LoOk, DuDa, 5'9 Iz dA avErAge iN mY CoUntry, sO It'Z bElOw AvERagE" - Well, never must have heard of the concept of standard dev… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/08/21 08:39 AM |
| 20 | Why do the F&F guys always end up in some kind of controversy?A dude who hates women and supports being a piece of trash to get women and get ahead in life actually duped a woman concerning money + sexually assaulted? NO WAY All TRPers are deluded, just look at the type of shit these "coaches" do to each other and to their own guests. TRP Dating coaches always at each other throats. Always fighting with their own guests. What would make you think they give a fuck about their own clients too? If you follow fresh and fit you're stupid, they spend the whole s… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/08/21 08:41 PM |
| 4 | Does Fresh and Fit prove that women dont like to hear the truth about dating.I haven't watched the show in ages nor did i pay attention to any specific points, given that most of it was just the same old, predictable, recycled TRP points, so can't answer that. Edit: Also, would want to know who these "nurses" and "writers" are really. Just took a peek at that shit, same old videos with women looking like sex dolls, half naked, fake hair, fake nail, fake tan.. Yuck lol | /r/ExRedPill | 11/08/21 03:41 PM |
| 8 | Does Fresh and Fit prove that women dont like to hear the truth about dating.The whole conception of the show itself. I'm sorry but inviting over a handfull of instagram models, cam girls and porn stars and present them as if they embody the reality or way of thinking of average women is stupid, because these women are only representative of their own demographics and not everybody else. It's common sense that this type of women are shallow, have issues or are whorish. When these women fail to deliver what the hosts want they just subtly bait them to try to get them to d… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/08/21 03:02 PM |
| 12 | Does Fresh and Fit prove that women dont like to hear the truth about dating.Well, it depends. I for once cherish my IQ too much to watch that "show", but usually when i see a TRPer talking about how person X not wanting to know the truth is something like this: TRPer: Hey, did you know that the sky isn't actually blue. It's yellow. Normal people: What do you mean? TRPer: I mean that the sky is yellow. And the reason why it's yellow is because you're inferior to me. Normal people: What the fuck? What does that have to do with anything? The sky seems to be obviously blue … | /r/ExRedPill | 11/08/21 01:24 PM |
| 15 | Do men really get better with age?It depends. Men do get better with age in terms of making more money, becoming more stable and more interested in commitment, more knowledgeble and experienced, and there's a certain charm with age. These are all positive characteristics for women. Women also seem to become more comfortable with their sexuality as they age, and also may become less picky, factors that may increase the pool of options for older men - but typically with women around their age. Contrary to popular belief, the avera… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/08/21 09:39 AM |
| 9 | "A key that opens many locks is a master key, but a lock that opens to many keys is a shitty lock"Hey guys, i'm a worthless human being. Today i ate my breakfast and that makes me a piece of shit. Why? Because there are some kids in Africa starving. You see, food is something that comes easy to me. But the average African kid needs to beg for his food till he eats, which happens on occasion. So yeah, because food comes easy for me, i shouldn't be allowed to eat whatever i want, whenever i want, and i am trash for the fact of having food easy while others don't. I mean, makes sense. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/08/21 08:48 AM |
| 3 | Something really weird just happened. Please, help.This isn't really a dating advice sub. Just know this. You'll always hurt someone feelings if you chose someone else over them, so you really got your hands tied over there. As for the 2nd girl, i'd say that either you really had that much chemistry or she's really THAT sexually permissive. Eitherway, this isn't rocket science, dude. Just do whatever you want but make sure to try mitigate any sort of hurt that may happen to the other party, whatever your decision is. I'd honestly just go for the… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/08/21 08:40 AM |
| 8 | Here's a calculator for women to find how many men fit their criteria, and the results are not goodWait, what? I searched for any income, any height, any race and marital status, the only standard was "not obese" and the probability standed only at 57%. I repeated the search for "not obese" and "5'5" minimum height, and accepting any marital status/income/race etc... still placed at 52% probability. I actually did a fairly, more basic and realist search of what could be some actual realist, but not too picky standards - 55k income + not married - 20-40 age range + not obese + not married + an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 08:21 AM |
| 14 | Online dating really is for a small pool of menhttps://www.statista.com/statistics/975925/us-tinder-user-ratio-gender/ 75% male, 25% female | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Most women who are open for hookups/ONS, casual sex, or no strings attached sex are women who have boyfriends or husbands.If this is true, i think a major factor could be that Sluts are often in relationships. They have an higher rotation of guys, eventually there always gonna be a guy that's gonna trust her enough to jump on a relationship. They then cheat because that's what sluts do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 09:48 AM |
| 8 | Recently found TRP, find it interesting wanted to hear the other side. Also former cult member, would like to know more about why some are calling it a cultThere's literally 2 posts on the sticky post explaining why TRP could be viewed as a cult Red Pill and Cultic Behavior - Why TRP is a lot like Scientology, Heaven's Gate and other cults (based on Science) Why Red Pill is a Cult - Part 2 (Based on Mark Manson's writings) Eitherway this isn't a matter of proving or disproving TRP. I'd say that if you're happy with TRP then keep being TRP. Debate seldomly changes minds. This is a sub for people who tried TRP, got fucked over (which happens often) a… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/08/21 09:11 PM |
| 11 | Why I'll never trust Charisma/Dating gurus, life coaches, Get rich quick coaches, people who're likely running a cult?Lmfao What they say: Don't be a simp/have game to pick up women; Make money by investing in crypto; What they do: Simp hard, hold youtube podcasts to meet women, travel to 3rd world sexual tourism spots or are just married and lead a normal married life. Make money by convicing everybody we live in a sexual dystopia and how everybody is gonna be a perpectual virgins unless they do what they say and buy their shit. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/08/21 11:58 AM |
| 4 | Trying to find myself againMy ex dumped me and fucked around with new guys quickly after, and some other stuff seemed true. But now i feel i have lost myself. Well, your ex dumped you and fucked around with new guys because she was in a clusterfuck of a relationship where you acted abusive. First thing people do to break free from abusive relationship patterns is to overcompensate by trying to quickly find someone else as to confirm "it's over", in their own sense. Also, typically people who stay in abusive relationships … | /r/ExRedPill | 09/08/21 08:29 AM |
| 14 | Quit Initiating Conversations with Women You Don’t KnowLol, you can't approach someone without the risk of offending them or scaring them. There was this post a good while ago about actual good venues, times and contexts to approach women that seemed quite solid. But yeah, overal, you should indeed approach women. Just be respectful and leave the moment you sense you are not welcome. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/08/21 08:08 AM |
| 4 | Grifters getting rich by teach men with red pill ideologies EXPOSED.Nice, good luck in thi project | /r/ExRedPill | 08/08/21 09:36 PM |
| 4 | Grifters getting rich by teach men with red pill ideologies EXPOSED.Hey, is your channel new? What are you aiming to do with it? | /r/ExRedPill | 08/08/21 09:29 PM |
| 9 | Grifters getting rich by teach men with red pill ideologies EXPOSED.Game is overrated, imo. Yeah, there may be a couple of principles like playing hard to get, etc that may kinda work, but all in all what's gonna define your success are the things you have in common, ease of interaction, looks, status, etc... Back in my day there was this general belief that you could pull any woman with game alone, provided you practiced and became good at game. One of the very few positive things about red pill is that it brought PUAs a bit more down to earth and said looks, s… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/08/21 09:29 PM |
| 4 | The sexual dichotomy of most women is what is making it impossible for me to leave the redpillOkay, a little bit late to the party, but here are my 2 cents Not going to debate if women have a sexual dicothomy or not, for now. All i want to say is that is a terrible excuse to be red pill. Dating is a very frustrating experience for everyone. It's true. A lot of times people don't take your best interest into account. Sometimes they even look to do so without the slightest regret. But here's the thing: Dating sometimes kinda sucks, because sometimes people kinda suck and there is nothing y… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/08/21 04:12 PM |
| 3 | The sexual dichotomy of most women is what is making it impossible for me to leave the redpillPlenty of people the infatuate romance want to take things slowly. The Madonna Whore complex is an extreme example of that. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/08/21 03:47 PM |
| 9 | Sheryl Sandberg bad boys quoteYeah, and it was a book on feminism and female agency. Not dating advice. Point still stands. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/08/21 11:35 AM |
| 21 | Sheryl Sandberg bad boys quoteIf a woman says something about how she doesn't like bad boys and only like nice guys the imediate cope from TRPers is "Look at what she does not what she says". Plenty of women say that they like nice guys or so, to the point of it being a popular idea, criticized as "blue pill" and simply dismissed by TRPers. Yet if a woman says something that goes in line with TRP all of a sudden what she says matters? Why don't you guys hold these quotes to the same scrutiny of evidence? Why isn't red pill c… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/08/21 11:00 AM |
| 6 | Study: Misogynists Believe They Are Unattractive to WomenBenevolent sexism by definition is for the most part just basic chivalry, not the bs you wrote Here's some examples of the items that are typically used to measure Benevolent Sexism: "Many women have a quality of purity that few men possess" "A good woman should be set on a pedestal by her man". "Men should be willing to sacrifice their own well being in order to provide financially for the women in their lives" "No matter how accomplished he is, a man is not truly complete as a person unless he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 02:22 PM |
| 4 | Study: Misogynists Believe They Are Unattractive to WomenThe results obtained demonstrate that the males who engage in vaginal sex at an earlier age are those who report a greater level of BS. This result could be explained due to the fact that, as claimed by Glick and Hilt (2000), adolescent males need to display their benevolent beliefs in order to fulfill their desires and maintain intimate relations. Therefore, those who maintain benevolent sexist beliefs to a greater extent are those who engage in vaginal sexual contact at an earlier age. Further… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 01:20 PM |
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