Hey guys, me again. I'm between rock and a hard place. So to make things short: I've been making some progress with a girl but it's going slow, like she's not very expressive or responsive, sometimes I feel like I'm forcing it but my sister keeps cheering me up, telling me she's liking me due to what she has observed (she lives in other state), but likes to take things at a veeery slow pace. She told me she wanted to get to know me better at the beginning, but also told me last week she's been feeling closer to me, she even called me "babe" yesterday. Two weeks ago though, I met another girl at work (also from another state through video chat), we clicked since the first time. I don't feel like I have to adapt my sense of humor or vocabulary so she feels more comfortable; there was sexual tension between us since our first video call; we're like, almost equal: we are both polyglots, we both like similar music, we both have a weird sense of humor and like memes. She even sends me kinky messages from time to time. Today she told me she had a crush on me from the beginning and engaged into sexting. She tells me that, even though she wants me to do her, she's looking for something serious and doesn't want anyone to break her heart or to play with her again. I told her I understand her for I've been used in the past and don't want her to experience that, and that I feel some things for her. When we stopped texting, I felt panicked, I have never been in a situation like this before. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, and since I've been out of the redpill for some months now, it's feeling even worse. What would you guys (and girls) do in this case? I'm not thinking straight right now and cannot discern whether what I did or said to the second girl was driven by libido or actual attraction. They both have nice feelings and I can sense they've been both used in the past. As for the first girl, the less I want to do is to crush her feelings (she's good at not feeling attachment), and even though I see both of us having a relationship, I feel things can flow better with the second one and probably I can be friends with the first one. I told my sister about it and she told me I was a fcking stupid, that she can see the first girl liking me, that I just need to give her some time, that the second girl was just an insecure wore. Now I feel confused. What can be the most assertive way of telling the first girl about the second one?