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xvszero/r/ExRedPill12/07/24 11:07 PM
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Suppression never works. What you can do is try to find things that fulfill you.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/26 12:20 AM
19

This doesn't seem ex red pill at all.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/26 06:20 PM
1

Sure Jan.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/26 03:56 PM
1

Sure, if you never want a serious relationship. Most people here though are looking for something real.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/26 03:45 PM
1

That's not the issue with 'volume'.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/26 03:41 PM
5

How the fuck did you come to that conclusion?
/r/ExRedPill22/07/26 10:32 AM
5

This is terrible advice. Shes not going to change him.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/26 10:30 AM
14

He doesn't want a healthy relationship.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/26 10:28 AM
10

Maybe. Either way he is a creepy asshole.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/26 10:27 AM
4

Why would I watch any of these losers?
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 03:04 AM
14

It's not that it is unattractive. Its that you probably aren't confidently moving towards connections. And it is usually men who need to take the first step.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/26 11:21 PM
1

You're 15, you have a lot of growing to do. You can get there.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/26 11:31 AM
2

Feels like Google can answer these 'what percent' questions fairly easily. No one who hasn't researched this would have any idea. They would just be throwing numbers out there.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/26 10:59 AM
6

Sometimes, but I wouldn't say 'a' event, I was part of various scenes where you see the same people over and over, so I made friends and next thing I knew I was getting introduced to a bunch of people, invited to events and parties and such. Or dating sites, actually reading profiles and seeing who I shared things with. That's how I met the woman who became my wife.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/26 09:11 PM
7

I found women I had real connections with through shared ideologies / interests / etc. and approached them based on these things. Also, tell her she has rad shoes. Everyone likes shoe compliments.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/26 08:51 PM
4

That's the opposite of what I said. We all know the playing field isn't level, so to speak, although finding a mate isn't a sports match.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/26 08:49 PM
12

Nobody is complaining about dating apps? Pretty much everyone is complaining about dating apps, especially with how shallow they are.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/26 06:24 PM
3

Where is this mainstream that refuses to admit that the playing field isn't level? I've never seen this anywhere, certainly not here.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/26 06:09 PM
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"Knowing how to talk to strangers" isn't the issue. Shit like "volume" where every woman is just some instantly replaceable face is the issue. If you approach meeting women like this, of course it won't turn into anything real.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/26 06:07 PM
4

What are the hobbies? I find that nerdy shit has a lot of tighter communities.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/26 04:28 PM
6

I'm a guy and I'm very successful. Instead of telling me what you think reality should be like, you could ask me and learn from my success.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/26 03:29 PM
7

Not for me it doesn't.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/26 03:28 PM
6

I dunno man. I started doing game dev and made a lot of friends through meet ups and events. I do music and made friends through that as well. The tough part is creating / maintaining the connection. When I'm clicking with someone at an event I try to exchange social media so I can keep talking with them outside of events.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/26 03:26 PM
9

Tens, hundreds to what end? No one wants to be number 193.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/26 10:33 AM
19

This seems like a terrible approach if you want anything serious.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/26 02:36 AM
15

Dafuq is volume?
/r/ExRedPill13/07/26 01:18 AM
8

Tiktok is not reality. It's not easy for a lot of men. With that said, it doesn't sound like you are particularly trying? Real life isn't a rom com, you're usually not going to bump into someone on the street.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/26 05:29 PM
1

Yeah that probably happens sometimes.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/26 02:29 AM
5

Is that a Halo and Mass Effect mash up?
/r/ExRedPill12/07/26 02:03 AM
1

Not to nearly the same degree.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/26 10:58 PM
2

Easier how? Women regularly get sexually harassed and sometimes assaulted in the dating scene.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/26 10:21 PM
2

What do you believe that the women are doing wrong?
/r/ExRedPill10/07/26 06:22 PM
3

What specifically is making you want to turn to red pill?
/r/ExRedPill10/07/26 05:52 PM
39

Good riddance to him. This entire relationship is so wrong for you that I wonder what is going on with your self esteem.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/26 08:58 PM
1

This is who he is. You don't need to hang out with guys like this.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/26 02:41 PM
7

Its not worth trying to solve, there are better guys out there to date. Casual basically means hook ups without any real commitment.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/26 05:22 PM
2

Do you have concerns about this specific guy or just like loosely wondering about men?
/r/ExRedPill05/07/26 05:10 PM
20

Chiseled jaws make you successful? What? You're just replacing red pill with black pill.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/26 04:02 AM
3

Clean your room.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/26 12:23 AM
5

Stop hanging out on weird places on the Internet.
/r/ExRedPill04/07/26 10:52 PM
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My wife, obviously. Professors earn way more than elementary school teachers.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/26 06:49 PM
1

Are you ex red pill? Because that is just red pill nonsense.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/26 06:49 PM
1

Yes, I said that she is a professor and I am an elementary school teacher.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/26 06:06 PM
1

5th grade. For now.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/26 03:27 PM
2

My wife is a professor and she fell in love with an elementary school teacher.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/26 02:45 PM
2

I don't have data on the ratios of male and female psychiatrists who fall for opposite sex patients, no. I'm not sure that anyone does, that's very specific.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/26 02:43 PM
12

Seems like a random claim with no data.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/26 11:42 PM
13

Trust regarding what? What do you need to trust strangers on?
/r/ExRedPill30/06/26 07:04 PM
19

Hypothesis 1 isn't saying much because humans are terrible at delayed gratification. 2 is pretty telling though. Most men aren't out specifically looking for virgins and the ones that are tend to be virgins themselves.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/26 03:20 AM
1

Like, what kind of stuff?
/r/ExRedPill26/06/26 11:20 PM
3

What are his politics / morals in general?
/r/ExRedPill24/06/26 10:00 PM
4

I don't think I have ever even thought about a woman's hips.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/26 04:28 PM
2

Different people like different things. You will find trends of course, but that won't tell you much about any given individual.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/26 03:42 PM
24

I've been with my wife for 17 years and they still tell me she's is going to leave me for Chad or, when they are feeling racist, tell me she must be hooking up with Tyrone behind my back. Which is funny because they also claim women in their 40s are used up and no men will want them. So which is it? It is almost like they have no consistent ideology.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/26 11:54 AM
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Don't listen to those losers.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/26 08:47 PM
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I'm saying I didn't fit in when I was younger and now I understand that a lot of why I didn't fit in is related to performative masculinity. Guys caring who was the strongest, best at sports, hooking up the most, able to drink the most, all that dumb shit. I didn't care about living up to it then and I certainly don't care now.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/26 08:54 PM
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I don't think about it much. I'm not sure I ever did. I just knew I didn't fit in with most of the boys around me and then, as an adult, men. Eventually I started to understand why.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/26 07:11 PM
2

Sometimes. In theory this is what police can be for men too although police kind of suck.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/26 07:09 PM
5

I had my first relationship at 30. Now I sleep in a big bed with my wide every night. Not saying it is ideal to miss out, but there is no time limit on it. In life in general though you really need to figure out who you are and what you want and not let the world dictate it for you.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/26 11:50 AM
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Breaking up doesn't require the agreement of the other person. You don't have to try you can just do it. There is nothing to understand, you're dating a shitty dude and need to end it. And although it may seem sudden I'll wager he was just hiding his real self from you.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/26 04:16 AM
1

Probably some attempts at grifting but I'm not sure what they would sell since these guys think nothing they do can change anything.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/26 01:27 AM
4

Black pill talks about race but only in regards to what they think are biological realities of attraction, they never talk about racist friends (or family) and how that can affect things.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/26 02:41 PM
7

No it's not unreasonable. But for most men it doesn't come from strangers.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/26 11:29 PM
2

He? I'm a man dating a woman. We're both kind, both creative, we share politics / ethics, we support each other, we give each other space to pursue what interests us. It's a good match. As for mental health we both have our struggles and we address them.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/26 08:36 PM
2

In America only 2-5% of men make 6 figures before their 30s. And only like 25-30% or something ever make 6 figures. But way more men than that have relationships.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/26 07:39 PM
1

I'm on the phone app, I don't see a translate option.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/26 07:35 PM
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It's because rp is a primarily conservative movement that imagines a past where they think they would thrive, and in a sad effort to go back to that past they try to scare women out of making decisions that lead to greater freedom, like not rushing into a marriage / kids.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/26 07:35 PM
1

Yo no hablo espanol.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/26 03:25 PM
17

Unsurprisingly the average woman doesn't want to show up to her friend group with some creepy red pill dude old enough to be her dad.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/26 10:39 AM
1

You're not missing much. I think there are some sex differences but not many. And certainly we invent a lot of shit like what clothes and make up and jewelry and such mean, when those things aren't biological at all.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/26 10:17 AM
3

I don't know the numbers because I don't sit around worrying about this stuff. I just know I'm skinny on every level. Or was, though now I'm more like skinny with a gut. I've seen tons of women on this sub alone say that size never mattered much to them.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/26 10:14 AM
6

The whole point of shit like that is to try to make insecure women feel even more insecure so that they latch onto this guy even more regardless of how shitty he is.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/26 10:21 AM
16

It's impossible to tell if she even understood your question, not to mention with multiple layers of clothes not everyone is going to feel everything right away.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/26 04:42 AM
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I don't know what this sdp sub is but Reddit subs don't represent the vastness of humanity. You'll drive yourself crazy hanging out in shitty subs. You see people who say their partner is too small and take it personally. You see people who say their partner is small but that's fine by them and you ignore that. I dunno man. Girth? Geez is that a thing people worry about? Mine doesn't have any real girth at all lol.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/26 04:38 AM
17

It's the same old guys trying to promote some kind of system where they can do whatever they want but women are all virgins or whores.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/26 11:55 PM
16

Observe a trend. No. They don't observe trends. They invent fictional trends.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/26 11:54 PM
7

Maybe don't think of women as hoes and actually try to go out and meet a few.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/26 09:01 PM
6

No.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/26 08:42 PM
5

There is plenty besides meaningless sex. You're just closed off to it. It's naive to think you stumbled upon a once in a lifetime opportunity in your early 20s. Life doesn't end in your 30s unless you give up.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/26 04:11 PM
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Soulmates don't exist, there are 4 billion women in the world, there isn't just exactly 1 that you can have a deep connection with. The thing is, you clearly have up. Not just on romance but it seems on life in general. So you're projecting to the past. But things are hard regardless, you have to learn to deal with that.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/26 04:09 PM
21

There are other women out there. You live you learn. Most of us have at least one or two "I fucked up a good thing" stories.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/26 10:00 AM
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Yeah but that doesn't make it pointless, that just means it is difficult. Either way I think working on your sense of worth will do more than trying to own a house anytime soon.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/26 03:17 PM
9

Why is your life pointless?
/r/ExRedPill27/05/26 02:43 PM
4

Almost all I wear are band / gaming / etc. tees, lol.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/26 01:11 PM
16

You're not nobody, you're you. What are your beliefs, interests, things like that? What do you do with your time? Who are you?
/r/ExRedPill27/05/26 01:09 PM
1

Luck doesn't exist. Or rather, you need to set yourself up for situations where luck can fall in your favor.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/26 01:07 PM
6

There is no direct answer to this. Some men will feel awkward and unprepared regardless, others will not. Can't predict for any given man. I can tell you my experience. I'm pretty average lookswise and I never went out of my way to change that. I certainly don't have big muscles. My mental health is trash. I was underemployed and living with my parents when I met my wife. I barely ever go out socially. Been with my wife for 16 years now There are no rules.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/26 10:29 AM
3

Dont date right wingers. Not even right leaning. It's not worth it.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/26 12:31 AM
3

Yeah but you're no one, so why should I care that you disagree? This is just noise.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/26 07:43 PM
3

Those are just things. Most people don't give a shit. And even if some do, that's just their preferences, that doesn't affect the value of a human.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/26 06:37 PM
14

The heck is a low value male? And why do you need a partner before 30? Did some rich uncle stipulate this in a will?
/r/ExRedPill22/05/26 04:20 PM
5

If you're worries about him lashing out I'd just let him know then block him on everything.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/26 01:49 PM
9

Would you want to spend your life with someone like this? Ew.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/26 07:23 PM
7

You're doing the equivalent of watching deadly car wrecks all the time and then of course when it is time for you to go out into the world all you can think about is car wrecks. Is it possible? Sure. Is it likely? No. Life is full of risks, you can't eliminate risks. But you don't have to obsess over them. I'd say get away from these sites and apps and just, live in the world for a bit.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/26 10:00 AM
6

It is all toxic.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/26 01:40 AM
11

They believe what they want to believe and no logic will change their minds.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/26 02:26 PM
3

Yes. Don't date conservatives. Sure it sucks that we are divided but dating people with shit views on everything isn't the answer. And you won't "save" them. In fact I'd argue this soft core of theirs that you're trying to unlock probably doesn't even exist in the way that you think it does. If you want to be a friend be a friend. But dating is an exclusive thing by its nature. You can and should be picky. It might seem like your dating pool closes down a lot once you eliminate these types but r…
/r/ExRedPill19/05/26 10:31 AM
3

Do you have a point?
/r/ExRedPill16/05/26 12:06 AM
1

Where are you right now?
/r/ExRedPill15/05/26 09:22 PM
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No, I haven't seen that kind of empathy from the guys who call guys beta. They're usually just assholes trying to put others down. I've also been called a groomer / child molester, the downfall of Western civilization, you name it. Usually from men. But I still hang out with men, just not the shitty ones. Of course I am affected by words, but most women aren't saying the shit you're reading about on shit sites.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/26 03:56 PM
8

Red pill are lying sexists, go figure.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/26 03:51 PM
39

Why would I look at what some women write on some shit website instead of just like, being around women in the real world like I'm already doing? And do you think all men see men as equals? Men call each other shit like "beta" and "gay" and such all the time. If You're defining men as safe and woman as not safe you have a strange definition of safe. The reason you aren't finding many communities like what you want is that you still have shitty red pill views on women. If they don't lead you to h…
/r/ExRedPill14/05/26 03:48 PM
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Just like, don't do those things. No one is making you. Although it's weird to not want to be friends with half the population due to factors they don't control.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/26 03:13 PM
3

Nah glasses are hot as fuck.
/r/ExRedPill11/05/26 01:08 AM
2

More or less.
/r/ExRedPill11/05/26 01:07 AM
1

Sorry your relationships all sucked. Mine is great though and absolutely mutually benefits both of us.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/26 07:45 PM
5

Your boyfriend sucks so you should probably address that by breaking up with him. As for female friends, honestly? You sound like you're trying too hard to "help" or "fix" things and spamming too much. Most people want friendships to stay chill at first, only once you're close do they evolve to more. PS. 360 is a full circle, so the person would be facing the direction they started. You probably meant 180.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/26 07:50 PM
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You switched one bit of nonsense for another. You and your wife can have your dynamics without trying to make it about people in general.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/26 03:23 PM
6

But what would serious look like to you? And how would the woman know you are serious?
/r/ExRedPill05/05/26 12:28 AM
7

How would they be happy in a relationship with a guy who doesn't want to be in a relationship?
/r/ExRedPill04/05/26 11:36 PM
6

Would they be happy with you in a relationship? I don't mean looks / status, but your personality and how you treat them and such?
/r/ExRedPill04/05/26 11:25 PM
6

You won't like yourself more with muscles. Liking yourself is about actually liking yourself.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/26 07:37 PM
6

What do you mean by women you like? You said you only date for status.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/26 07:35 PM
4

Therapy. Also lol at skinny guys don't hold hands. I was 6'4 and like 160 pounds when I met my wife.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/26 07:35 PM
57

He's just gaslighting you because that's what red pill men do.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/26 07:50 PM
4

Good lord, get away from this guy now. And no, you can't help him. Everyone you try to help like this will just drag you down.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/26 09:11 PM
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When it comes to our views of the world, “gender roles” and politics, they are the complete opposite. This enough is a reason to break up and move on. The sad part is, he was never like this until the end of 2024. Probably was more than you know, if he has opposite politics of yours.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/26 09:58 PM
1

Who is she and why would I care?
/r/ExRedPill24/04/26 01:33 AM
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Turns out these men who claim to know how 4 billion women will act are full of shit, who knew.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/26 05:09 PM
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where anything would be considered misogyny No. That's not a law. Share the law's text with us.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/26 11:11 PM
11

18 months is nothing. Don't come off as desperate, people don't like that. Why are you "the problem"?
/r/ExRedPill15/04/26 10:03 AM
4

Yes. It's like red pill for people who have completely given up and thus build an entire system to explain why they shouldn't bother trying.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/26 06:17 PM
4

Probably incel culture first in most cases. When I was younger and a virgin and started hearing the term "incel" in the early 00s I first thought it was just descriptive. Like, anyone who was having trouble finding sexual intimacy, which was me. (And I guess it was that at first, in the 90s, but I wasn't really online then.) So I started seeking out incel forums, figuring it'd just be like, a place for someone like me to hang and chat. But my god, nope. They were all full of misogyny and red pil…
/r/ExRedPill14/04/26 03:18 PM
3

I never got into black pill but I know there was a huge incel to black pill pipeline. Incel forums were full of this stuff back in the days and probably still are.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/26 03:10 PM
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The problem is "Who hurt you?" seems to imply there is always some woman on the other side that did something wrong. Probably no one hurt them. That's not to say they didn't feel hurt from a rejection or whatever, but that isn't the same as that person hurting you. They're just being their own person. I think they had a certain idea of how things would work, things didn't work that way, and they got angry and sexist. If they weren't already raised to be. As a teacher I see a lot of young boys al…
/r/ExRedPill12/04/26 11:01 PM
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You lied to friends. Guess what? You're not the only one lying. Lots of guys are lying. There is so much pressure on guys to prove themselves through sex so they do what you did, lie. So when it feels like "everyone" is having sex, keep in mind that a lot of boys are lying. The stats we do have show that at your age only about half of kids have had sex. You are indeed very "normal". You're not behind. With that said I know how it feels. I was a virgin for a long, long time. Much longer than you …
/r/ExRedPill12/04/26 01:41 AM
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Bru you're 16. I know your peers are all telling you they're hooking up all the time but a bunch of them aren't. Regardless, you have time to figure it out. I had no clue what I was doing at 16. Plenty of guys aren't tall. In fact, 50% of guys are at average or below average height.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/26 09:15 PM
2

So does a woman being desired by other men also make her attractive to men? Feels very simplistic.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/26 08:34 PM
1

"especially as a woman" lol.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/26 07:24 PM
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Because these guys want maids / sex dolls and AI isn't good enough yet to give it to them.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/26 07:43 PM
10

Red pill makes shit up. No surprise there.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/26 11:04 PM
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By leaving, and making it clear to him that it is because he is not a partner who deserves a good woman. But more important is to help yourself. Get some therapy. Or you'll be making the same mistakes over and over.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/26 10:24 PM
4

Yeah but I want to see how OP thinks. Because a lot of time they get stuck in the logic of "why wouldn't my partner leave me for someone hotter / richer / with a bigger dick / etc. But the answer is the same reason they wouldn't leave their partner for someone else.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/26 01:32 PM
3

Are you going to settle on looks? How hot do you need your partner to be?
/r/ExRedPill05/04/26 01:30 PM
3

You mean the guy that argued teenage prostitutes should be arrested but the men shouldn't because they were just tempted into it? Yeah he's a piece of shit. Piece of shit in a shit movement. Go figure. Not sure what your motivation is here either. This is an ex red pill forum and you seem very not ex red pill.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/26 01:23 PM
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Your links are just random anecdotes that may or may not be true. I'm not going to read all of them but in the first one some guy is talking about his male friend cheating with a women who was also cheating. So really it's a story of two cheaters cheating not some woman specific thing. Anyway, stop seeking out and random anecdotes, they don't mean anything. Question. If you found a nice girl to date would you be checking out every other girl around you and comparing their boobs sizes to hers and…
/r/ExRedPill04/04/26 06:48 AM
1

Oh I understand. I didn't find anyone until I was 30.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/26 10:06 AM
11

I don't think they are even basing it off of their circles. Most of these losers don't know many women. They're just repeating shit they heard.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/26 04:56 PM
1

I wasn't triggered or judgmental. I gave serious advice.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/26 08:59 PM
18

I'd probably see a therapist if I were you.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/26 01:19 PM
22

Bro. I take 3-4 hours to text my wife back. Some of us have work to do. Don't self sabotage. If she is going on dates then you're fine.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/26 10:19 AM
8

I remember awhile back reading an article about how underage teenage girls should be prosecuted for prostitution but the adult men who solicit them should not because apparently the girls are the ones using their bodies to gain power over the helpless men. These guys have always hated women.
/r/ExRedPill28/03/26 07:05 PM
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I'm 46, I've been around since the start, No, it hasn't really changed. It's always been a sexist ideology based on the idea that the world has been lying to you about sexism and actually women have all of the power (hence the "red pill" reference, taking the pill that shows you the truth THEY don't want you to know). It absolutely was misogynistic and woman-hating, and it never suggested treating women like "regular human beings", it made up a bunch of nonsense psuedoscience to justify treating…
/r/ExRedPill28/03/26 04:32 PM
4

Peak still makes no sense. It's the only real answer.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/26 02:43 AM
3

Sort of, except that there is no such thing as a peak age. It's a completely nonsensical way of thinking that isn't backed up by anything real.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/26 12:29 AM
4

I know how red pillers use terms. I don't see how that applies to us, since we aren't red pillers. It makes no sense to keep using their nonsense, because their use of terms like peak makes zero sense.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/26 12:28 AM
12

I don't care what red pillers define things as, red pillers are dumb. As for your metaphor, sorry, it doesn't work. Athleticism isn't very subjective, sports have specific competitions, point based, things like running and swimming are time-based, etc. Attraction, however, is entirely subjective on the individual who is or isn't attracted to someone. So yes, defining how one comes to conclusions like "peak" age is a very valid question.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/26 09:08 PM
13

Most physically attractive or most attractive as a partner? To which men, to which women? These terms mean little without context.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/26 10:08 AM
3

How different has he become? What were his beliefs before? What were his politics?
/r/ExRedPill24/03/26 10:06 AM
8

Ok so what does peak even mean in this context? It's still a pretty irrelevant term. Peak what?
/r/ExRedPill24/03/26 02:35 AM
53

Peak makes no sense. People want different things at different points in life.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/26 02:34 AM
6

Red pill women seems like the most counterproductive thing ever.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/26 09:04 PM
11

I think you're overestimating how much reach these Internet personalities have on average women.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/26 07:51 PM
14

You have to get them off the dating discourse nonsense. The vast majority of women have nothing to do with that. It's Internet personalities.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/26 06:00 PM
4

Why are you wasting time on this guy? What do you get from it?
/r/ExRedPill22/03/26 07:37 AM
5

Ok, advice for now and future relationships: Never date someone who would need to change for you to feel comfortable with them. You should feel comfortable right away. Also never date anyone not on the left with you. And "I'm not political" usually just means they have shit opinions but don't want you to dump them. People who think they have change partners tend to have strings of shitty relationships over and over. In fact, I'm going to go out on a limb and say that I'd wager you haven't had ma…
/r/ExRedPill21/03/26 10:10 PM
5

He's been lying the whole time and no, you can't save him.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/26 04:48 PM
5

Yes I know. I was there.
/r/ExRedPill20/03/26 02:39 PM
7

Serious psychologists don't sit around talking about hypergamy lol. Jesus. It's basically non existent in Western culture but red pill would make you think women are all waiting to hop to the next guy. It's as stupid as taking something like "men prefer bigger boobs" and extrapolating that into "men are going to leave their partners if they find someone with bigger boobs". It ignores how dating actually works and turning preference into something much bigger than it actually is. Ridiculous.
/r/ExRedPill20/03/26 11:16 AM
9

The vast majority of women date within their own economic circles. The way red pill talks about hypergamy is pure nonsense.
/r/ExRedPill20/03/26 11:05 AM
12

Hypergamy isn't real though. Not in the way they claim.
/r/ExRedPill20/03/26 11:02 AM
12

No, it always sucked. It was always for misogynists. Where do you think the term "red pill" came from?
/r/ExRedPill20/03/26 11:01 AM
7

More than whom? You're just looking at a few data points. A lot of red pill dudes are just lonely losers.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/26 02:56 AM
1

Sounds like you gave up on putting in the work. Oof.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/26 01:35 AM
2

Many of those men do. But those are the men in those groups, not men in general.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/26 01:33 AM
18

They're not right. It's not the truth. I'm a man and I certainly don't see women this way. Nor do most men I know, really.
/r/ExRedPill18/03/26 08:45 PM
3

So confidence is what you need to work on.
/r/ExRedPill12/03/26 09:35 PM
5

You're never going to like who you are if you can't figure out how to like who you are right now.
/r/ExRedPill12/03/26 09:29 PM
5

I'm very not masculine and I have no trouble with women.
/r/ExRedPill12/03/26 09:21 PM
3

It always feels like i cant be myself And your solution is to try to be even more unlike yourself?
/r/ExRedPill12/03/26 09:20 PM
8

You looked at her as just a hook up? Is that what she wanted? If not, why would she come back? Also why are you calling these dates? You don't date a hook up.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/26 07:33 PM
4

Different people have different ideas, no big surprise. If I were in a position where I was dating I'd probably try multiple things and see what works best for me. Or I'd just use the Internet because I don't really talk to people in the real world.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/26 07:32 PM
6

I don't know exactly how they did it, I'm just saying that I think it's actually pretty rare to get into relationships through social circles once you are past the age of 21 or so, out of school. Especially nowadays where people turn to other options.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/26 03:54 PM
18

You went no communication at all for 4 days after hooking up? That's the best way to send the message that she is just there for hook ups.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/26 03:52 PM
3

Unlike which other people though? I don't know anyone who gets into relationships through social circles nowadays. Basically every couple I know met on the Internet.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/26 11:30 AM
9

So is that not a "success" of a sort? 2 years of generally alright relationships over the last few years is probably better than most people are doing. What would be a success to you?
/r/ExRedPill08/03/26 10:43 AM
6

Ok but what happened with those two relationships? That could theoretically be years.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/26 04:14 AM
4

Or both. It's definitely both for me.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/26 01:13 AM
2

Work to what end?
/r/ExRedPill08/03/26 01:12 AM
3

Equal or more in a generic way means nothing. Equal at badminton? No, hypergamy arose to explain social class movement.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/26 10:47 PM
3

Gorillas also fling shit at each other, so what? Humans have much different and significantly more individualistic concerns than other animals. And "inferior" is absolutely individualistic. We don't have one coherent human view of it.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/26 09:32 PM
33

The writing is on the wall. This is not the guy you plan a future with.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/26 11:08 AM
2

Of course I have. They are conflating two different things.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/26 09:29 PM
10

I'm saying that casual sex has little to do with "settling" which is related to longterm relationships. Do you think women have a ton of realistic options for healthy longterm relationships?
/r/ExRedPill02/03/26 11:32 PM
13

It probably is contested by data, but what does this even have to do with "settling"? If she doesn't have a bunch of longterm relationship potentials then it's not "settling" so much as it is being realistic, which every guy does too. We can't all date movie stars.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/26 10:37 PM
8

Your math doesn't add up. How could every woman have multiple options for longterm relationships? That makes no sense.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/26 10:03 PM
5

Building friendships as an adult is tough. I've met people through music and game dev stuff. But I don't really have super tight friends anymore.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/26 01:48 AM
15

It should be innate. But if you need to work on it work on it. You have a wife right? Do you not respect her?
/r/ExRedPill28/02/26 07:09 PM
28

Step one, learn how to respect women.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/26 05:08 PM
30

Hypergamy doesn't just mean "wants the best" it specifically means seeking out someone of a higher social class to marry. Which... most people don't do, man or woman. The vast majority of marriages are same class marriages.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/26 10:27 PM
28

How old was he and how old were you when you first started dating? Don't just think about leaving, leave. He won't change. Also, remember that he gets no say in you breaking up with him.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/26 08:54 PM
5

Beta get your shit together kid.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/26 04:44 PM
3

This is... insane. And not how you build serious relationships.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/26 02:11 PM
2

Numbers are meaningless, if some guy thinks he is an 8 but can't attract so called 8s what does 8 even mean?
/r/ExRedPill20/02/26 02:10 PM
6

So, completely meaningless.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/26 03:27 AM
7

What can a male friend offer you that you can't get from a woman? What can a dog offer you that you can't get from a gerbil? These are stupid questions, no? If you want to be pathetic, be pathetic, but it's weird to throw it out into the world like it means anything.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/26 12:27 AM
26

The girl I chatted with (yes, just chatted with) for the longest time before she blocked me was rated 3/10. What does this mean? Rated by whom?
/r/ExRedPill20/02/26 12:20 AM
4

Define being men. Because I've had my wife for the last 16 now? years and I'm not at all what you would consider being a manly man.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/26 11:38 PM
6

Then you live a sad, sad life.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/26 11:37 PM
4

Nah. I'd say: Better looking Better at sex Better at housework Better at handling the details of day to day life Better with kids Probably more I'm forgetting about, this is just offhand.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/26 11:37 PM
10

Intimacy goes both ways. If you're the type of person who already approaches relationships as wanting to see the best for your partner, then you don't worry when they are growing. Any lasting relationship will see change and growth. In fact, you love to see growth from a partner when your mind is in the right place. If you're not, and you respond negatively to growth, then you have something to work on. With that said "you're not spending much time with me anymore" is completely valid and not ne…
/r/ExRedPill19/02/26 11:37 AM
12

Fact? Based on what? And do men not want women who are better than them in some ways?
/r/ExRedPill18/02/26 09:58 PM
7

Yeah but we don't say people who believe in gravity are blue pilled.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/26 08:47 AM
2

Pointing out systems are an issue isn't inherently left or right.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/26 02:44 AM
5

Not sure why you are calling it blue pilled, it's just a bunch of conservative beliefs. Not everything is a pill.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/26 01:21 AM
5

This isn't leftist in thought at all though. It's just a bunch of right wing thought.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/26 01:20 AM
6

The red pill doesn't work for finding a serious relationship. If you lie and act like shit just to get into a relationship, it won't be a serious relationship.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/26 10:50 PM
11

That's a specific group of people though. It doesn't represent the general population. Also it sounds like you need better friends. You don't need to keep assholes In your life.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/26 04:55 PM
9

What do you mean by seen though? How would you know all of these tall guys you see around are assholes?
/r/ExRedPill16/02/26 04:33 PM
22

but they still go for the tall a-holes who literally just pump and dump them Do they though? Why do you think this is true of women as a population? Honestly almost none of the women I know do that. Maybe you're cruising the wrong circles. Where do you meet women? I am alone in my penthouse all day just scrolling Reddit Ok so don't do that. Reddit is cancer.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/26 03:56 PM
4

Added note: Even doctors don't have that right. Consent is a huge thing in the medical field and unless a patient is unable to consent (unconscious, etc.) they need to consent to basically anything done to them.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/26 02:53 PM
5

I don't know what to add other than living that way sounds incredibly exhausting.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/26 02:50 PM
8

I have no idea what this is supposed to be.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/26 07:10 PM
9

I'd have to see data on this first, I don't doubt it could be true but I don't actually know that it is. Assuming it is true, I think there is not a single one reason. With the Internet people have the ability to meet tons of people, so they aren't stuck choosing one person from the like 5 available people in their backwater town anymore. Women are working and supporting themselves, so they aren't stuck in relationships they don't want to be in as much. Though it still happens too much. Cultural…
/r/ExRedPill14/02/26 06:48 PM
3

Oh we are not normal ie of the statistical norm at all. But that's ok, the norm is boring.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/26 10:16 PM
7

You already asked me this in another thread lol. But she's a bit of a bookworm nerd whatever. Neither of us feel very normal.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/26 10:04 PM
3

12-15% of men are your height or shorter. I assure you they are not all forever alone.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/26 10:00 PM
8

My wife said she wants a total dork like me. There you go, a view from another side.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/26 09:58 PM
3

Because in most cases they're lying about being happily married. Or their wife hasn't figured out who they are yet. Either way it's just part of a larger push to try to scare women back into conservatism.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/26 08:04 PM
2

They don't.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/26 08:03 PM
3

Not necessarily. Depends on the relationship.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/26 08:02 PM
7

Then find another introvert. Or not. It doesn't really matter.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/26 08:02 PM
2

More or less anything can happen. The odds may or may not be great but that doesn't mean it can't happen.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/26 08:01 PM
6

Good lord, what have you been swallowing? We have been together 16 years. There is literally nothing I do that I haven't done in front of her.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 10:27 PM
6

How could they commit to you before they knew you?
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 10:25 PM
8

Didn't you basically just ask this?
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 10:23 PM
7

The red pill are a bunch of bitter losers.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 09:35 PM
3

Obviously.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 09:25 PM
0

No, not really.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 09:22 PM
8

Yeah basically this. Also, I married a progressive career oriented woman.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 03:28 AM
11

It's not about luck. Or rather, it's mostly not about luck.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 11:06 PM
16

My wife and I were literally just laughing about this shit and we came to the conclusion that neither of us are dominant or submissive and that works for us. Everything isn't black and white.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 10:42 PM
4

No, she said she had done that in the past. Which is a different time than the present. Also it sounds like you just panicked and assumed instead of you know, communicating about it and what she meant exactly.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 10:21 PM
4

Ok but why do you specifically prefer someone who has never had casual sex? By your own logic they have more worth, so why do you think you deserve them?
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 10:03 PM
4

No, it's absolutely true. See me, personally, I've never had casual sex. Not because I think it is evil or makes a person worth less or anything, but because I just never wanted to. You clearly did want to, or you wouldn't have done it. Don't blame anything else for that. You won't grow as a person if you aren't truthful with yourself first.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 10:02 PM
3

"Only" a relationship? Yeah sorry that makes no sense. She felt BETTER about you than those guys. And you broke up with her. Goofy.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 09:59 PM
10

Yeah, and it's dumb as shit. Consider that it is A. comparing sex to murder and B. primarily used to denigrate women. If you want to move away from red pill, dropping silly terms like that is a good step. Also you didn't answer. What's your number?
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 09:57 PM
4

It's more like if your opinions suck you will get called out on them. This is an ex red pill forum.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 09:49 PM
11

This is a pretty lame excuse, and you probably know it's not actually true. You had casual sex because you wanted to at the time. Because sex feels good and you wanted that. Don't try to bury that.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 09:45 PM
6

By your logic why would someone who has never had casual sex want to be with someone who has (you) though?
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 09:43 PM
3

I don't know I I'm reading this wrong but this doesn't seem to make any sense.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 09:39 PM
15

Why are you calling it body count? That's a silly term. If you want to care about someone's past partners then do it I guess. But find a better way to describe it than a term used for murder. Body count is definitely a red pill way to describe something that is not actually hurting anyone. What's your BODY COUNT?
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 09:34 PM
2

Don't know who it is. Sounds silly.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/26 09:56 PM
3

I think you're misunderstanding me. I'm saying think isn't really the right word. I know women can fall for all kinds of men. It's like asking if I think gravity exists. I don't think, I know.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/26 09:49 PM
4

I mean no I don't think, because I know. This isn't about thinking. You can look and see.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/26 08:43 PM
5

I think he is saying that if attracting women is the ONLY reason you are doing things, your life can start to feel empty. I won't name names but a family member of mine is like this. Whenever he talks about a new hobby he basically just admits he is doing it to meet girls. Which isn't bad in and of itself but he doesn't really have a core self. He doesn't do much that he does just because he personally enjoys it. Everything is done with women in mind. And when he finds a specific woman he is int…
/r/ExRedPill05/02/26 03:50 PM
11

No. I know they can. There is no thinking about it. There is real life proof in the world. You literally described my sister's ex husband. "Then why is he an ex?" Ask him. He divorced my sister because he didn't like living with (his) kids. She fought hard for him. He didn't deserve it, but she did. She still defends him.
/r/ExRedPill05/02/26 03:26 PM
2

Dr. Nerd Love as an antidote.
/r/ExRedPill05/02/26 01:34 AM
11

No, women avoid men like that.
/r/ExRedPill04/02/26 09:39 PM
10

His hypergamy? I don't think a woman can be with a man who earns less. I KNOW a woman can be with a man who earns less. This isn't about belief, there are 8 billion people in the world, plenty of examples. My wife earns more than me and due to career choice and education level probably always will. It works for us.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/26 11:48 AM
2

I gave up a long time ago. I try to keep my hair fairly short.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/26 02:40 AM
2

Get a neat Clash shirt. Hard to go wrong with The Clash.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/26 02:40 AM
2

tall, white, wavy brown hair, average built, sad looking LOL you just described me. Except my hair gets frizzy instead of wavy.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/26 02:33 AM
5

I'm curious what subcultures these are now. Punk? Metal? Goth?
/r/ExRedPill01/02/26 02:24 AM
11

Are you also part of these alternative subcultures?
/r/ExRedPill31/01/26 10:12 PM
18

What kind of women are you attracted to and where are you meeting them?
/r/ExRedPill31/01/26 09:26 PM
12

I taught high school for 5 years and yeah, a bunch of high school kids are exposed to this shit. Now I teach elementary, and I had a 6th grader mentioning Andrew Tate in a positive way. A 6th grader!
/r/ExRedPill31/01/26 09:21 PM
2

Red pilled or at least "anti woke" which is basically the same thing.
/r/ExRedPill30/01/26 04:14 PM
9

I find my wife super attractive but a big part of that is who she is as a person.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 06:42 PM
3

Who said that?
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 02:24 PM
3

Are you here for help or here for reinforcing your broken ideas? If you approach life with a little humility you may realize that there is a lot that you don't know.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 11:33 AM
8

So, young. You have a lot of time to figure things out. You're right though, there isn't someone for everyone in some kind of magical, we all have a soulmate way. The real world is a lot more complicated than that. But most people who want a partner find a partner, eventually. Whether they choose a good partner is a whole other question.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 07:20 AM
3

How old are you?
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 07:15 AM
1

Absolutely it does. But how much does it matter, and what else matters, yada yada? Those are the big questions. Also, keep in mind that everyone has different ideas of what is attractive. There is no one objective attractiveness.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/26 01:25 AM
0

Tiktok doesn't have relationship standards it's a computer program.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/26 01:22 AM
9

Fds is in no way even remotely representative of the feminist viewpoint. Thats like saying red pill represents male liberation.These things are for eternally online losers who need to touch grass.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/26 09:44 PM
17

It's almost like the red pill is being selective in what they show to push a sexist narrative.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/26 09:33 PM
10

Most men are unwilling to take on that role. And what difference does it make how the labor is broken up if both are contributing?
/r/ExRedPill26/01/26 09:25 PM
15

I don't fully understand your question but my wife and I share the lead, take care of each other and aren't possessive at all.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/26 09:21 PM
8

That's not how feminists talk at all. But it is how red pillers talk.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/26 02:51 PM
2

Do you get disability funds?
/r/ExRedPill25/01/26 11:23 PM
6

Then you'll never have a real relationship.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/26 11:22 PM
10

Are you not a feminist? You don't think women deserve equal rights? Also why do you think height is related to submission, weakness, or femininity?
/r/ExRedPill25/01/26 11:22 PM
4

Sounds like you don't have the self esteem to realize what you deserve.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/26 11:21 PM
7

"alpha" lmao I can assure you that many women are not into those guys at all.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/26 11:21 PM
10

It doesn't affirm anything though, it's nonsense. Which isn't to say that looks and money and such don't matter, but red pill has insane ideas on how everything works that just don't reflect reality for the average person. And meanwhile you have this maybe relationship thingy that you're going to throw away for what exactly?
/r/ExRedPill25/01/26 11:21 PM
24

What exactly is red pill telling you that makes you feel better? Because it sounds like you're about to throw away something that may (or may not, we don't know) work out because of all of this red pill shit you're ingesting. Cheating doesn't really make anyone happy unless they are a sociopath, but also... who are you planning on cheating with if you think no one wants you?
/r/ExRedPill25/01/26 08:29 PM
7

I mean, sometimes. But it's probably not happening. And there are billions of people out there so there is no point in trying to force it with one who isn't interested. Believe me, I've been there. Wasted years and years in different situations hoping something would develop. Then I met my wife and yeah, it was so much easier. Not to say you shouldn't put effort in but it was a situation where it was obvious that we both wanted to keep seeing each other, so we did.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/26 03:31 PM
6

No, what makes him unpopular is that he doesn't follow the data because he has ideologies to push.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/26 01:12 AM
6

Oh we understand, he just says a lot of dumb shit. Especially about women.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/26 01:11 AM
26

Bro that's not "oneitis" that's a natural feeling that happens when a relationship with someone you care about doesn't work out. We aren't robots, we have feelings. There is only one way to not feel that pain, which is to never have serious relationships / connections. I think that is a sad way to live but to each their own. It's funny how many so called "alphas" are so afraid of emotional pain. They try to word it like some grand thing but it's just cowardice.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/26 04:41 PM
35

This is an ex red pill sub, all of that oneitis, frame shit is silly. With that said, why did you let yourself get walked over? Why were you paying for everything? Did you think you were "supposed" to as the man? Where did that idea come from? Also how were you blindsided by someone who literally moved away from you breaking up with you? That's not the action of someone who wants to keep their relationship. And why try to talk to this random guy she added? Of course that won't end well. How exac…
/r/ExRedPill22/01/26 03:12 PM
5

Bru you're 16 just enjoy life for a bit and don't worry so much about this shit. It doesn't work at all the way you think it does anyway.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/26 10:57 AM
11

It's like asking if free will exists. We don't know but it makes sense to live as if it does. Anyway, I'd die for my wife and she'd probably die for me. There is no real evolutionary benefit to dying for someone. We're just that tight.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/26 03:43 PM
3

I mean yeah you could do books YouTube influencers whatever but then you're still looking for others to tell you what to think.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/26 12:33 AM
7

I mean that why would you be so focused on women instead of yourself? Make yourself into a quality person.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/26 05:20 PM
10

Hard wired? I've literally never worried about this ever lol.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/26 05:18 PM
2

When you stare into the abyss, the abyss stares back at you.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/26 12:33 PM
12

I wouldn't call it a guerilla resistence. Most humans are not red pill and find it ridiculous. Red pill is ultimately a tiny group of people outnumbered by masses.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/26 01:02 AM
8

Sexists tend to be racists too.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/26 01:01 AM
8

Probably have to work on the nationalism too. You're going to have a lot of trouble dating.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/26 01:01 AM
18

Should women lose hope in you?
/r/ExRedPill09/01/26 01:00 AM
9

My wife took care of us for the last 5 years as I struggled with various things. I was still working when I could, but not full-time until recently. She still makes more than me and always will, because she is in a very high end career and I am not. We have been together 16 years and still going strong.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/26 12:56 AM
5

It probably won't change much. But if it gives you confidence that could change things I suppose. Still it's a rather extreme action that isn't really getting to the root issue/s.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/26 04:26 PM
5

Ducks don't learn to fly south it's instinct. Whales "learning" songs is not studying history or politics. Neither is dogs teaching fighting.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/26 02:52 AM
5

No, animals don't study these things lol. How would an animal study history?
/r/ExRedPill05/01/26 12:46 AM
5

What's a natural male interest? Animals don't study history and politics.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/26 12:14 AM
7

I don't think there is a typical coming of age. Everyone is different. Me, I didn't get my first kiss until 30...
/r/ExRedPill31/12/25 11:53 PM
5

Oh I know it, I moved to Canada with my wife a few years back and left all of my family behind. It's been tough meeting new people but it's worth the effort.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/25 06:59 PM
23

Honestly it sounds like your mom has kind of always believed this stuff it just didn't come out as much in the past. My mom is similar, hardcore right wing, hates on gays and Muslims and feminists and so on. I just tell her there are certain things we won't agree on so I don't want to talk about them. Of course my mom isn't great about respecting boundaries but I'm pretty good at enforcing them so I just redirect conversations when necessary. I'd also try very hard to go out and find good friend…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/25 06:36 PM
8

Oh I'm not saying don't do it. I'm just saying that there is some truth in that cold approaches are not really the best way to find a partner. But it obviously works for some people.
/r/ExRedPill25/12/25 05:33 PM
16

Well, yeah. No one said never talk to women. On the other hand you said you've spoken to 1,000 girls and haven't had a relationship in years? Cold approach is probably not the best way to find a relationship, if that is what one is looking for.
/r/ExRedPill25/12/25 04:33 PM
5

Bigots will bigot.
/r/ExRedPill25/12/25 01:56 PM
7

This is about making 10k/month? The answer is to find a job that pays 10k/month.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/25 04:19 PM
9

Yeah but if you don't share them with anyone then you have no support.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/25 11:42 AM
39

No real intellectual would ever use the term "hoe math". These are not serious people.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/25 12:49 PM
1

Depends on the person but considering how they have forums they basically live on I think a lot are obsessed.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/25 12:35 AM
3

It's like red pill but they believe that if you don't have the right body you have absolutely no chance to ever find love / sex and should give up trying.
/r/ExRedPill19/12/25 08:32 PM
13

This is not a forum for black / red pillers to hang out and argue on, it's an ex red pill forum. Find another place to have this silly debate.
/r/ExRedPill19/12/25 08:24 PM
11

It was recess, and the kid literally tackled someone else. The alternative was sending them in to the office and then they would probably get a call home and all that. I doubt the kid is complaining.
/r/ExRedPill19/12/25 08:19 PM
32

Children, unfortunately.
/r/ExRedPill19/12/25 03:27 PM
35

I dunno but I'm a teacher and I had a weird experience the other day during recess where a 6th grade kid tackled another kid so I gave him a time out and asked why he did it and he said something about being like Andrew Tate. I was like what? And he was like don't you like Andrew Tate? And I was like absolutely not, now quiet down and get in the penalty box. I don't even really get the connection between tackling a kid and Tate but the fact that this 6th grader is already looking up to Tate is t…
/r/ExRedPill19/12/25 03:26 PM
1

Not only have you not gotten a big enough sample size, you haven't gotten a sample size that is a true cross section of women. So really you have no idea. It doesn't matter what you see, what matters is reality.
/r/ExRedPill10/12/25 04:11 AM
2

They've said so themselves. Ah you have talked to all 4 billion women, nice. It is. No, not really. Most men date, even big guys. If you're not dating at all then there are other issues.
/r/ExRedPill10/12/25 01:12 AM
3

Thinking most women only find a minority of men attractive. Thinking your weight is keeping you from dating. Etc.
/r/ExRedPill10/12/25 12:54 AM
1

Well. Still very far from reality but at least you're trying.
/r/ExRedPill09/12/25 08:40 PM
8

Honestly at this point I'd say your goal should be to make sure you don't follow in her footsteps. You can't save her from her own decisions.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/25 04:49 PM
7

Has your mom ever had a good relationship? Some people just can't make good choices in partners.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/25 12:18 PM
48

Turns out women are people.
/r/ExRedPill04/12/25 05:31 PM
21

I dunno but I'd ignore his texts.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/25 02:39 AM
1

Yeah but on the other hand you just made all of that up, because you don't have any actual data on this.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/25 01:41 AM
1

No that's silly.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/25 12:57 AM
1

Everyone isn't going to find someone eventually. Most people are but they still need to put some work in. Especially if they want a good relationship.
/r/ExRedPill02/12/25 10:17 PM
1

Get what? A relationship? Most people find relationships eventually.
/r/ExRedPill02/12/25 05:32 PM
10

I wouldn't say proven right, because their argument is about how common things are. Like if I say I can tell you how the weather will act and I'm wrong 95% of the time the other 5% doesn't prove me right. My entire claim is still dead wrong. Plus it seems like this whole thing is based on taking jokes at face value. Which doesn't really mean anything.
/r/ExRedPill01/12/25 04:21 PM
3

Dated a woman and eventually made sweet love. No big secret to it.
/r/ExRedPill30/11/25 03:36 AM
8

What.
/r/ExRedPill28/11/25 02:04 AM
9

Sounds like the best way to get cheated on again.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/25 05:09 PM
14

There is no guarantee of a faithful relationship, like anything in life you're taking a risk. With that said any risk can be mitigated and managed. A huge part of it is simply picking a good partner. Then consistently treating each other well. Being honest with yourself and your partner what temptations exist. Making good decisions long before cheating is even on the table. Etc. But you can do all that and still get cheated on. Just like you can live a healthy life and still die in your 30s.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/25 05:07 PM
2

Sounds like you hang out with shitty people.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 10:42 PM
5

Why do you keep saying "their" side, most of the posters here are men, including me. I was a virgin until I was 30. Precisely why I know how full of nonsense a lot of this stuff is.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 10:40 PM
3

I'm a man and this sub isn't the place for whining about what you perceive a bunch of women do.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 10:39 PM
2

It's not just a phase for most people. It is a window into who they truly are.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 03:21 AM
2

Sometimes things don't work out. No one is at fault for that.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 03:20 AM
4

You should stop dating this guy.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 03:19 AM
5

Yes and lots don't.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 03:17 AM
1

Independent of what? The left or right? That's just called a centrist.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 02:15 AM
6

Don't date conservatives.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 02:14 AM
5

Watch Tom Cruise's character's speech from Magnolia. This stuff has been around forever.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/25 02:35 PM
3

Maybe, but I said hetero for a reason. Sometimes yeah, but this just means older women get screwed. Sometimes, but that sucks for the women.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/25 02:41 AM
4

I can't explain your perception because that is all that it is, a perception. I go outside and walk the streets of Toronto and see men of all types walking around with women. And that's just my perception. What the numbers say is the same amount of men and women are in hetero monogamous relationships. That's just a fact. How could almost every woman have a man but a bunch of men don't have women? Numbers don't back that up.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/25 02:26 AM
8

It's not about belief, there is research about this.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/25 01:01 AM
6

Social status? What losers are you hanging out with that care about this shit? Whatever the case it sounds like your best bet is to find a decent job and live on your own and pay for sex. No women will ever be able to tell you what to do and you will get all the sex you want from um, well, probably reasonably attractive women. You won't get the "social status" you could get from your loser friends if you were bedding hot women all the time but only huge losers care about that shit.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/25 12:58 AM
2

Then pay for it. What's the problem?
/r/ExRedPill24/11/25 12:19 AM
3

Is that your goal, to "get laid"? Or is it to have a relationship? Or what exactly?
/r/ExRedPill24/11/25 12:18 AM
8

Married men are also much more likely to not wear their wedding rings than married women. It's incredibly possible that you are not really understanding what you think you are seeing.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/25 12:16 AM
3

Sex? Maybe. But so what? Is this something the average woman particularly wants? Also anyone can get sex, you can pay for it. Relationships? There are exactly the same amount of men as women in hetero monogamous relationships so I'm not sure how you came to this conclusion unless there are just way more overweight women, in which case of course more would have partners. Now if you include non-monogamous relationships then perhaps there is an imbalance, although from what I've heard it's usually …
/r/ExRedPill24/11/25 12:14 AM
4

Well, now you know he sucks. You're still young you'll find a good one someday.
/r/ExRedPill22/11/25 03:11 AM
6

Huge loser.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/25 01:18 AM
5

Depends what exactly is being talked about, but sexism has real effects and social media affects how we talk about things.
/r/ExRedPill18/11/25 04:23 PM
1

Yes.
/r/ExRedPill18/11/25 04:18 PM
1

Yeah but only individuals can be hypocrites. Genders can't be.
/r/ExRedPill15/11/25 09:15 PM
1

Ok another option is guys who think there is some huge hypocrisy in women or something but mostly they just don't know how to find a decent partner.
/r/ExRedPill15/11/25 09:09 PM
4

Well it sounds like you're making serious attempts so I dunno. I don't know how to talk to women in real life, I met my wife on the Internet.
/r/ExRedPill15/11/25 04:00 PM
6

No. Where are you meeting the women who reject you? How are you asking them out?
/r/ExRedPill15/11/25 03:04 AM
17

Nah it isn't familiar to me. I've been called gay a lot... by meathead bros. Women never call me gay. Not that its an insult.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/25 02:29 AM
9

Sounds like you're bad at choosing women. Common denominator here is you.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/25 02:28 AM
4

Nah.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/25 02:27 AM
11

You're right. Nothing you do will change him. Don't date red pill guys. That's the only answer. That's it. Break up and move on. There is no happy ending staying. Also, the real question you should be asking is "What is up with my self esteem that I would date a guy like this?" You have to address that or you will keep making the same mistake.
/r/ExRedPill06/11/25 11:13 PM
7

If you're lovebombing the issue isn't clarity vs tension, the issue is that you're a red flag. There is no reason for a healthy person to lovebomb someone they just met, people do it for unhealthy reasons. Also you can absolutely "love" your parent, child, employer, or friend too much. In all of these relationships, when they are healthy, there is still some level of independence involved. Ever hear of the term helicopter parent?
/r/ExRedPill03/11/25 11:03 AM
4

Don't ask me, 95% of the women I've met in my life were from the Internet. I think a lot of it ties into just learning to talk to people in general though. I used to be so shy. Now I can talk to anyone, really.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/25 08:21 PM
24

It's generally either not knowing how to talk to women or being rejected by women. And with older guys it's often having had relationships or marriages, but they failed. Either way women get blamed.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/25 07:38 PM
25

We don't know these people and we shouldn't pretend we do. 2. One case doesn't prove or disprove a narrative.
/r/ExRedPill29/10/25 10:05 AM
7

Look. You know the answer. Stop dating this garbage man. That's it.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/25 03:47 PM
9

Don't waste time on losers like that. With that said, my wife and I have a lot of freedom. We don't put boundaries on each other. And if nothing else, being together gives us a kind of financial freedom we never had as independents. But it's fine to not couple up too. Don't let anyone push you down any path but your own.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/25 03:45 PM
13

It's not "ruining" him, this is who he is, there is no secret good guy hiding in there. You're wasting your time dating him. How the hell do you lose job opportunies over chan though?
/r/ExRedPill24/10/25 09:26 PM
2

If she sees no problem with it, your friend may very well be a good match for this asshole. Either way there isn't much you can do to influence her other than tell her how you feel, which you have already done.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/25 10:17 AM
20

Because they don't want women. They want sex toys.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/25 03:29 PM
18

Because black pill takes a vague truth (some physical qualities correlate with certain benefits in an aggregate sort of way) and turns it into "you, YOU PERSONALLY, are fucked if you're X, Y or Z so you might as well not try" which is sheer hogwash.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/25 09:25 PM
6

i believe Well, see, there you go. Science itself doesn't claim to have clear answers for this, hence the whole neverending nature vs nurture debate, studies on culture and socialization and its effects on us. Red pill tends to misinterpret science to make it seem like there are clear biological answers when there are not. There must be a role that each possesses There is, scientifically, but that doesn't really mean that much at the end of the day. We have evolved way beyond being mere automato…
/r/ExRedPill21/10/25 10:45 AM
13

"Women" don't do anything, they're individuals who all act differently. Basing your view of women on your own dating experiences is biased by default, you don't date a random selection of women, you choose who you date (selection bias). Not to mention it is a tiny sample size (size bias). Me personally I've had the opposite experience. Basically all of the women I've dated were great. I'm still friends with most of them. Well, Facebook friends. I suppose I just make good choices in women, I dunn…
/r/ExRedPill21/10/25 10:24 AM
17

Clubs and bars are the worst places to meet anyone if you want to find something real. Not saying it can't happen, but generally speaking you'll do much better at events based around common interests and such. Especially if you're flying solo. Anyway, the red pill shit is nonsense but no one can really make you see that. You need to disconnect from it. What is all of this content even bringing to your life? It's invented to keep you stuck so you keep consuming their content. Also as a 46 year ol…
/r/ExRedPill13/10/25 10:37 PM
15

Because if they can't connect it to science they have to admit they are just making shit up.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/25 02:22 PM
5

It's called being a pick me online to make money. If she really believed all of this stuff she wouldn't be running a YouTube channel she would be silently serving a husband.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/25 02:34 AM
1

Well, that's you alright. But what about them?
/r/ExRedPill08/10/25 09:47 PM
1

No they aren't.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/25 09:47 PM
1

They really aren't.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/25 02:06 AM
1

I wonder why.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/25 02:06 AM
0

Sounds like cope to me.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/25 01:56 AM
1

It very much is. But if you come in with a dick attitude people won't want to support you.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/25 01:55 AM
1

They're not.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/25 01:55 AM
2

That's mean.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/25 01:14 AM
5

I'd wager it goes back much further than that.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/25 12:30 AM
6

Who?
/r/ExRedPill07/10/25 12:28 AM
4

I mean, it's kind of about being a conservative. Don't date conservatives.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/25 09:32 PM
14

Why date women if you hate them? Sex.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/25 09:31 PM
7

The point of dating is to see if you are compatible. You aren't. Also this guy fucking sucks either way. You know what to do.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/25 09:30 PM
1

They hate it because they ain't it.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/25 03:37 PM
4

I mean, you kind of have to dislike a group of people to think they are all stupid. This is all academic though, since red pill dudes usually openly hate on women.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/25 06:52 PM
4

Well, if for instance someone thinks women are all stupid and men are all violent, that's still sexism. Just because they have shit ideas about both doesn't erase the sexism.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/25 11:43 AM
5

Not if they hate them for different reasons.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/25 11:06 PM
17

No, not really. Not to mention that hating men too wouldn't remove the SPECIFIC reasons they hate women, which are very misogynistic.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/25 09:02 PM
11

I don't think it is toxic, it is toxic.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/25 01:17 AM
1

I think most guys are in this situation. Men usually have to put in more effort upfront to meet people. Well, straight men anyway.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 02:19 PM
2

Who is the them? It sure isn't easy for me.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 03:45 AM
2

Yeah, I'm saying don't micro manage. Macro manage.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 03:45 AM
5

Not sure how you took what I said and came to a completely different conclusion. There is a huge, huge canyon between micro managing and not caring.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 01:24 AM
4

Maybe Reddit isn't for you.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 01:24 AM
6

Do you think the average person walks outside and people just swarm them? People don't want to be around most people until some kind of relationship starts to form.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 01:13 AM
2

He said was, not wasn't.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 01:12 AM
12

...what? That explains a lot then. You don't think men in general are worthy of women because you have put women on a pedestal. Women take shits too.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 01:11 AM
8

There's always going to be someone better Correct, except that this is true for basically everyone. Doesn't matter who you are. You could be Brad Pitt andf someone would look at George Clooney and be like yeah, I want that guy instead. someone who's worth more No one is worth anything, slavery is illegal. micro managing everything Yeah you gotta stop that. You think it is helping but it is really just letting your anxiety take the wheel.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 01:10 AM
8

Men have hurt me the most. I don't hate men though. I do dislike some men, ie ones that hurt me.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/25 02:54 AM
1

Ok.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/25 11:18 PM
7

Very true. A large part of why I convinced myself I was the nice guy was because I was a virgin. In my mind it was like, if I were a terrible guy, wouldn't I be out trying to use women all the time? But then it eventually clicked for me. I was doing that. Just not "IRL" because I was an awkward, shy mother fucker. I'll say this though, one thing that probably saved me was that I never got bitter towards women. I didn't blame women for my dating struggles the way a lot of red pill guys do. When I…
/r/ExRedPill19/09/25 12:51 PM
11

Everything you said ignores the supposed hybrid nature. In reality romance is messy and not so predictable. You can't live in your head though. You need to actually experience it.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/25 05:27 PM
11

It's tough to remember specifics. I just recall that for years I was this kind of depressed virgin and I'd be online talking to women basically saying whatever I had to say to get them to send nude pics and such. And because it was all online and not in person I somehow convinced myself that I was still a nice guy.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/25 02:11 PM
21

Honestly? The Internet. Reading up on how women felt about "nice guys" and seeing way too much of myself in it.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/25 01:56 PM
17

I mean, his claim is that it's a hybrid, what is really even the issue? It works out for a lot of people. Also, I think culture clearly plays a huge role. Look at how quickly dating has changed since the introduction of smartphone apps and such. That's not biological.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/25 01:11 PM
22

There was no "red pill" when I was younger but somehow I did pick up some manipulative tactics while thinking I was the "nice guy". I don't think it ever went far enough with anyone to really hurt them but who knows. I don't know if the women were inexperienced or not. This was a long time ago. It took me awhile to even see how I was acting as a problem. I'm not in communication with any of those people now nor would I even know how to be unless I hunted them down, which would be stalkery. So, n…
/r/ExRedPill17/09/25 01:03 PM
1

Were you having a fight or crying for a different reason?
/r/ExRedPill15/09/25 03:39 AM
2

Why did you put wife in quotes?
/r/ExRedPill15/09/25 03:30 AM
2

Feels like you need to hang out at more het / single spots.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/25 08:55 PM
3

What ways are they unavailable?
/r/ExRedPill14/09/25 03:12 PM
5

Not sure attraction works this way. And if you can't get the alts interested then how will you get the normies interested? I'd say just start listening to punk because it's the best music anyway, lol. In those situations you describe where you end up just friends, what happened?
/r/ExRedPill14/09/25 02:38 PM
21

Red pill guys are losers who lie about how things work to feel better about their lack of success with women. Most guys aren't like that. Your daughter will probably be fine.
/r/ExRedPill10/09/25 03:13 AM
3

Welp. Who knows. He might come out of it someday. You can't force it though.
/r/ExRedPill08/09/25 08:55 PM
4

How old is he? I can't say this for sure but it seems to me that the younger someone is, the more chance for them to change... eventually. Older people get stuck in their views more.
/r/ExRedPill08/09/25 06:17 PM
3

From my own logical mind.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/25 11:22 AM
1

Whoosh, swing and a miss.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/25 01:35 PM
14

Listening to zero redpillers is better than listening to one.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/25 02:18 AM
2

Nah you're definitely confused. I think you misread or misunderstood something. It's ok to make mistakes.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/25 10:36 AM
2

You seem a bit confused. Did you not understand my post?
/r/ExRedPill28/08/25 06:02 PM
57

Whenever I tell red / black pillers I'm in a happy marriage they call my wife a fat slut and say she will cheat on me with Chad. They don't care about reality they care about maintaining the fictional world they built in their heads.
/r/ExRedPill28/08/25 02:02 PM
2

Nice try. I sleep in a big bed with my wife.
/r/ExRedPill28/08/25 01:55 PM
3

Nah, it's not real. Not in the way it is presented, anyway.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/25 03:01 PM
6

What does your partner have to do with an aggregate average of the entire population? Which by the way, this study isn't even claiming to be. Your partner is an individual which you select. Do you currently have a partner? I see lots of guys on reddit who say that they are depressed by studies like this. Most of them are single and have little to no experience with real women.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/25 06:51 PM
8

It doesn't conclude with "most". Although I'm not looking at the full study, which is paywalled. Also like, who cares? How would that change your life?
/r/ExRedPill24/08/25 06:30 PM
13

There is no such thing as what "women" like, just a bunch of individuals who like different things. You can find some trends in what "women" overall like but that's kind of meaningless when you interact with individuals.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/25 05:52 PM
7

Because it sells. For some people anyway. Lots of red pill YouTubers never find a following.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/25 08:15 PM
7

Well they have to ask, I'm not starting a YouTube channel! My advice is pro bono but people need to ask specific things.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/25 08:11 PM
26

What are red pill people winning? They mostly seem miserable. Meanwhile I'm winning pretty hard. Why aren't people asking me for advice?!
/r/ExRedPill21/08/25 04:06 PM
11

Gyms aren't really the best place to feel good about yourself. Also you need to get past thinking of yourself as repulsive. Most red pill guys who think that are just like, average looking guys.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/25 03:17 AM
11

I think the details are what separates us from "wild" animals.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/25 09:16 PM
11

Do we? Animals don't really do missionary position, for the most part. And most animals don't do multiple positions. As for eating, the way we eat is so distant from nature nowadays. Open up a can of something. Take something from the freezer. Etc.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/25 06:00 PM
10

Yeah but we don't shit on the floor. Well, usually.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/25 03:05 PM
11

Also who cares what wild animals do?
/r/ExRedPill19/08/25 01:34 PM
4

Those aren't the real numbers.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/25 03:02 PM
19

Why would emotions be bad? We aren't robots. Also far right religions are shit to women so they're a terrible place to look for unbiased views on women.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/25 11:15 PM
17

Staying together for the kids is a terrible idea. Research shows that the kids pick up on it and then they just learn that being unhappy together is a part of a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/25 11:13 PM
28

Do you think most people just choose divorce out of nowhere? Often there are years of trying to make it work first. Sometimes only just the one side trying to make it work.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/25 10:13 PM
29

Feels like you should learn what emotional needs are. Yes, they are generally considered key to a healthy relationship. Here are some examples: Security: Feeling safe and protected, both physically and emotionally. Belonging: Feeling accepted and part of a community or group. Autonomy: Having a sense of independence and control over one's own life. Affection: Receiving love, care, and physical closeness from others. Attention: Being noticed and acknowledged by others. Validation: Feeling that on…
/r/ExRedPill14/08/25 10:12 PM
41

Why would unfulfilled emotional needs be a selfish reason to end a relationship? Someone has to go their whole life not getting emotional needs met? Besides, divorce is complicated. Rarely is it a single reason.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/25 09:29 PM
6

I don't personally know anyone who has thrown money at those grifters.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/25 04:08 PM
27

I mean that's what the text portion of a dating profile is, no? Picture for looks, text for personality?
/r/ExRedPill09/08/25 05:50 PM
10

If your friends getting busy with their own romantic relationship leaves no time for you, they aren't very good friends. I'm married but I will always have time for my friends (the few that I have.) My wife too. For me I spent a lot of my alone time making things. I'd write / produce music, I made a semi-popular gaming website, I eventually made my own game. It's like having hobbies but taking them into overdrive. But that's not for everyone so you need to figure out what works for you.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/25 03:47 PM
17

Life is full of risks. You can die if you walk outside of your door tomorrow. You want assurance? There is none. The older I get though, the more I realize that the big risk is getting paralyzed by fear. Getting old and looking back and thinking fuck, I wasted my life because I was scared of everything and now it is over. We're all going to die regardless, might as well take a shot at what we want.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/25 02:46 AM
8

Red pill often talks about "training" women like they are animals so it makes sense that this would be a red pill thing.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/25 02:37 PM
60

If you haven't flirted with a girl then how do you expect to date a girl? Things don't just happen, someone has to step up.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/25 05:31 AM
20

Sex is a two way street. If she's not into something at some point she needs to speak up. You're not a mind reader.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/25 10:24 PM
82

Feels like you're making this about size but to her it wasn't about size. A lot of women just find dicks funny. Hell, dicks are funny. They're goofy as shit if you think about it. Still, you have the right to feel how you feel, and ask her not to act like this. And you told her, and she apologized. Has anything like this happened since?
/r/ExRedPill05/08/25 07:25 PM
6

I'm not the right age or location but long story short we were raised to see feminism as evil in my household. Once I got old enough to start thinking for myself and get out and actually talk to a variety of people I saw through a lot of the lies I was taught.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/25 06:28 PM
15

There are no guarantees in life. For anything. I could drop from a heart attack before finishing this sentence. Anyway my dad was great so I don't have the same experience as you. I think you're overestimating how many women go for "bad boys" and underestimating how many average guys do just fine dating. Most of the dork communities I'm in don't have a bunch of bad boys but almost everyone is dating or married. Either way you shouldn't really be looking for guarantees. Just look for things that …
/r/ExRedPill03/08/25 03:02 PM
19

Yeah this. I'm boring but I'm also a metal guitarist and a video game developer and yada yada.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/25 08:42 PM
37

To me all that comment says is "what I found attractive changed over time" which is true for a lot of people. Some might even call it "maturing". As a guy: When I was a teenager my crushes were basically whoever I thought was the cutest. In my 20s my crushes were more like oh wow, this girl is nerdy and into video games like me! And in my 30s I finally started seeing things like shared ethics and life priorities as attractive. And that's when I met my wife, who I love so much and now we have bee…
/r/ExRedPill02/08/25 07:47 PM
2

I'm not sure if this is red pill or just some selfish dude who wanted a fuck buddy on his terms only. Also some people specifically try to not get attached to fuck buddies.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/25 02:45 PM
1

Well, who knows how far that will go. I'd wonder why anyone in a relationship with someone they respect would be attracted to this stuff at all.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/25 07:57 AM
1

Beginning in what ways?
/r/ExRedPill02/08/25 06:45 AM
7

Open minded doesn't mean supports dumb shit. Again, what are both perspectives? There are millions of perspectives you don't need to waste your time on obviously dumb ones.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/25 04:09 AM
21

Nothing. Red pill is stupid and anything good that people say comes from it was just good advice from long before red pill came around pissing in the water cooler. Also there are no both pills what does that even mean lol.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/25 01:55 AM
10

Apologized for what though? He told you how he actually feels. Apologizing doesn't change that.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/25 09:54 PM
15

I understand it is difficult but ending the relationship is the only answer there. You can't fix this guy. It's just going to be more and more pain until you get out. I guess with therapy it is tough. I've had a few, some better than others.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/25 07:41 PM
12

Have you ended the relationship? I'd suggest sticking with therapy. If it feels not for you, maybe switch therapists.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/25 06:07 PM
6

They do if someone is asking a specific question.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/25 01:29 AM
7

Well, the answer to the question that OP asked depends on the specific thing OP asked about.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/25 11:05 PM
13

Right but the question OP posed was specifically about rape.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/25 10:45 PM
6

What. What. What.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/25 10:44 PM
6

151 self-selected respondants picked from Twitter and Facebook. I wouldn't really call that serious research.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/25 05:30 PM
19

Because most incels are conservatives and most conservatives are bigots.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/25 11:36 AM
1

I wouldn't say that at all. Party schools tend to be huge schools that are relatively cheap to get into. A lot of the poor kids I know chose party schools.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/25 04:52 PM
1

Frats and sororities have all kinds of purposes but a lot of people join them for the parties. And to kind of have a pre-established group of "friends" without having to go out and make friends. Party colleges tend to be the huge state schools. They're cheap to get into and not necessarily the most high end schools and have a ton of students and most live on campus. All of that leads to a lot of partying.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/25 04:51 PM
1

I don't think orgies are the norm anywhere lol.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/25 04:50 PM
2

Just for starters, don't get into the habit of thinking there is some unified experience for anything everyone has. My college experience involved 2 different schools and a lot of commuting, I only lived on campus the last year. I loved it because I did make a few friends (almost none of whom kept in touch with me after) and went to a lot of music shows and such but I certainly didn't do parties and don't have any wild memories or anything like that. And if we're talking about kissing / sex / et…
/r/ExRedPill24/07/25 04:48 PM
1

Find out what?
/r/ExRedPill23/07/25 04:36 AM
7

Yeah that's my point, they think it makes them strong to deprive themselves. And there are certain cases where that is true, especially if you have a porn addiction or something. But they go overboard.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/25 11:17 PM
18

There is the usual old school conservative sex/body shaming stuff. But then there is a new school conservative manosphere "stoicism is good" stuff. It hits both.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/25 03:53 PM
3

It's nonsense.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/25 03:18 AM
4

I don't know, I've never been like that, if anything I've been the opposite. I've apparently made women feel like I don't care by being too distant in the past, something I didn't even realize I was doing. But the cliche answer, therapy, always a good choice.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/25 05:21 PM
6

I don't mean literally selling I just mean that "doesn't cheat" isn't really something you can put on your dating resume, so to speak. I'm also not saying you don't want a connection I'm saying the connection is the thing to focus on, not the "I don't cheat and other guys do so it sucks that I'm alone and they're not" etc. which may be true but it has little to do with finding a partner.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/25 05:19 PM
6

Really though a lot of people don't cheat and we don't really know whether you would ever cheat or not. Considering you don't have much experience you can't really sell yourself to women as a non cheater. Anyway, even if we take it at face value women are looking for more than "doesn't cheat". They want to feel a connection.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/25 04:00 PM
6

If you're in a hobby group and clicking with a specific person you just ask them if they want to get a coffee sometime or something. Basically, see if they want to hang out alone with you. If they do, then that's a good sign. If not, then they're not interested. Keep in mind though sometimes people will say yes because they're put on the spot but they don't truly want to. How do you know the difference? Well, the person who wants to will find the time and energy to do it. The person who doesn't …
/r/ExRedPill18/07/25 03:57 PM
6

Certainly not.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/25 03:54 PM
10

Certainly not. I don't play games.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/25 09:24 PM
14

Right but just taking T isn't going to fundamentally change how you look. Also, small changes in how you look aren't going to fundamentally change how many dates you get, that's still on you. Dude's main problem is probably that he is trying to "pull women" instead of like, meet women and connect with them. Also, women don't care about penis sizes much at all unless they are way too small or way too big. Men do.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/25 09:21 PM
10

A correlation to what?
/r/ExRedPill16/07/25 09:05 PM
19

Why on earth would you think testosterone levels matter at all?
/r/ExRedPill16/07/25 07:12 PM
24

You can't. Now, before you go oh, nothing can be done? Nah, things can be done, just keep in mind that THE OUTCOME IS UP TO HIM. So instead of thinking "how can I stop this?" and seeing anything that doesn't immediately change his mind as a failure, think "what can I do to help point him towards a better path?" The answer to that probably involves less arguing. Maybe point him to some better make role models too. But nothing is going to change overnight and ultimately he may or may not change.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/25 07:03 PM
1

In the last 10 years? I think 3? relationships?
/r/ExRedPill13/07/25 01:22 PM
5

You can get dating advice from people. Dr. Nerdlove is pretty good. You can also ask me, I'll give advice. But ultimately no one can tell you how to get a specific girl or anything like that because that's not how it works.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/25 07:04 PM
9

Sure. But it's true too.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/25 08:03 PM
9

Red pill has always sucked. What do you think the term "red pill" is referring to?
/r/ExRedPill08/07/25 12:35 PM
0

There is no single roadmap, it depends on you. What exactly are you struggling with? Trying to find the balance of being a good guy but not getting walked over by women? Which side do you fall too much on?
/r/ExRedPill07/07/25 01:23 AM
-4

Just ask me for advice, my advice is awesome.
/r/ExRedPill07/07/25 12:01 AM
5

Delusional for what? What is your goal? You can be anything you want. The women I grew up around had shaved heads and tattoos all over their bodies, they did fine dating. Many were black too, I'm from Chicago where 1/3 of the population is black. The harder you try to be something you aren't, the more it is going to hurt when you can't force yourself into that tiny hole.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/25 07:09 PM
3

Well yeah, the movie industry is always going to be the worst example though. Average every day people don't look like movie stars, they don't date people who look like movie stars. Even movie stars don't look like movie stars most days, which is how tabloid magazines make a living, capturing stars at their every day with their gut hanging out or whatever. There are so many subcultures that aren't about traditional white beauty standards though. If you don't fit in with a culture find the subcul…
/r/ExRedPill06/07/25 05:54 PM
6

I literally just told you those standards don't apply to me, and I'm not some unicorn, lots of people have lots of different ideas on what they find beautiful. And if you want to look deeper into those standards you will find out that they're incredibly racist and were designed to do exactly what they are doing to you, make non-white people feel bad about arbitrary things and promote white supremacy. Do you really want to let the racists win? If you can't afford therapy get whatever free social …
/r/ExRedPill06/07/25 01:07 PM
5

No, not really. I say this as a man, I don't care about that stuff at all. Joint color? Jesus. Btw my wife is Blaisian and she went through all of this too being taller and darker skinned and having frizzy hair and all of this stuff that isn't ideal from the perspective of European (or Asian) beauty standards and she still struggles with it and it breaks my heart because she is hot as fuck to me. But to be so obsessed with this at your age? Also a bit heartbreaking and I don't even know you. I'd…
/r/ExRedPill06/07/25 12:59 PM
12

Sounds like you're young and hang out in silly looksmaxxing forums. Those places are poison, they won't help you solve the real issue here. I can assure you that there is very little in the world that literally everyone views as a flaw, let alone "everything". And no one hyperfixates on this stuff as much as the person worrying about it.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/25 10:23 AM
21

Don't fall into the same pitfall that black pill men fall into. There are all kinds of people and everyone has different ideas of what they find attractive. Social standards are one thing but you wouldn't be dating a whole society just one individual. And don't go down the road of trying to "fix" yourself to look more white. That's silly. You have your own look.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/25 04:04 AM
4

Well yeah. I just meant from their perspective, they have become a woman hater (or maybe always were.)
/r/ExRedPill05/07/25 04:44 PM
21

A lot of red pill men are virgins or divorced men. They either don't have much personal experience with women or they do and it is negative.
/r/ExRedPill04/07/25 09:15 PM
3

Sorry I misread, I thought you said you weren't very politically active. I still think the most likely thing is he was always further from your views than you realized but he kept it to himself. A lot of guys do that because they know their views won't go over well with most women. And well. You probably can't change him. As for how to change anything, it's a lot easier to put yourself out into the world and maybe change a few minds here and there than it is to change one specific person.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/25 11:53 PM
2

I'm betting he was always more right wing but hid it to date you and now it is finally coming out. As for being passionate about politics, you don't need to become an activist, but "politics" basically boils down to "how we think people should be treated" so it does matter. Personally I could never date a centrist let alone a right winger.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/25 11:02 PM
3

What were his actual politics when you met?
/r/ExRedPill26/06/25 10:47 PM
52

Get off Tik Tok and Instagram they're poison.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/25 10:34 AM
7

Stop looking to YouTube losers for advice. If you want advice hey, we are here. What do you need?
/r/ExRedPill26/06/25 02:20 AM
12

Sure but it is easy to avoid scammers. Much harder to avoid the result of 10% of people hoarding 90% of wealth.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/25 05:05 AM
20

Figure out who is really out to get you. Hint: Billionaires.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/25 02:32 AM
21

Just embrace agnosticism. It is the most honest position about a lot of things. Does god exist? Fuck if I know. Am I going to die before I'm 70? Fuck if I know. Are there women out there attracted to me? Fuck if I know. Anyway I know plenty of short guys who date. Ever heard the phrase "short kings"? And plenty who still tower over women. My cousin is 4'10 man. You think she only dates 6 foot guys? Ha.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/25 12:25 AM
8

I dunno, I just like... didn't objectify when I was younger.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/25 12:12 AM
18

I guess. It's usually pretty transparently meant to mould women into what they think men want though. "Hey women, don't pursue a career or have any fun in your 20s, just marry some guy and crank out a few kids right away!"
/r/ExRedPill13/06/25 03:14 PM
31

Does red pill even claim to be interested in helping women?!
/r/ExRedPill13/06/25 03:10 PM
1

If someone keeps rejecting you, you're probably harassing them. One rejection is enough.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/25 12:24 PM
2

Women don't make you become needy. That's on you to figure out.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/25 12:22 PM
2

Like a billion reasons. Only she knows. One thing to consider is that maybe the date wasn't as good for her as you thought it was.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/25 12:21 PM
12

but it’s hard for me to not think what I said above when you see a woman wearing an extravagant dress, LV handbag and looks like an Instagram Influencer Is this the type of woman you are going for? I can't give you advice on that because I've never been attracted to that. I just found a down to earth woman and it worked out great.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/25 05:37 PM
2

I don't know. I used to be like that too and something in me clicked eventually but I couldn't tell you what changed. I do know that it is just a fact of life that we can only control so much. I mean shit I'm at the age now where people just have random heart attacks and drop dead and such. It can be scary if you think about it too much but it is life. This isn't to say we have no control. Living healthy makes heart attacks less likely. Etc. But that control only extends so far. And when it come…
/r/ExRedPill08/06/25 03:34 PM
3

If you're worried that you are, you probably are. But if you mean how can you know for sure how the woman will interpret / react, you can't. There are few things in this life you can know for sure.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/25 12:43 PM
9

My therapist is great, he's like the epitome of positive masculinity. I didn't start until my 40s but I sure wish I had earlier.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 11:46 PM
3

But that means what a person writes matters.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 11:45 PM
3

But you just said it doesn't matter what someone writes. Now you're saying being a people pleaser can turn someone off.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 11:44 PM
3

Yes, neediness can be a huge turnoff for some people. Lots of people date for a bit and then someone ends it. Why do you think they lose interest? It can be a lot of things really. Interest isn't guaranteed just because it is there at the start.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 11:42 PM
5

I mean, the second is clearly true. Unless you think you could tell someone you want to like, murder their siblings or whatever and they would be like welp, I'm interested, what else can I do?
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 11:41 PM
12

I mean, it's tough to have alternatives to lies that simplify reality into the exact form that men who are mad at women want. But there are many alternatives to people with open minds who are willing to view the complexities of reality.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 07:29 PM
7

Here is the way I see things. I'm not necessarily going to assume that every single person ever who said they were abused is 100% telling the truth. Obviously liars exist and especially if it is some stranger, I have no idea how truthful they are. But what I'm definitely not going to do is cast doubt on it. If someone tells me they were abused I say I'm sorry to hear that, that sucks. If it turns out they were lying, oh well. As far as bringing up your own abuse, some people will be fine hearing…
/r/ExRedPill06/06/25 06:35 PM
8

"OkCupid's research" lulz "ChatGPT" lulz "Tinder's research" lulz "hypergamy" lulz
/r/ExRedPill05/06/25 02:38 PM
6

Because politics isn't an abstract thing it's basically how you feel about humans and life. Conservatives, whatever they claim are their personal beliefs, supports politicians and laws which erode women's rights, harm immigrants, discriminate against lgbt, demonize minorities, funnel money from the poor to the rich, are trying to destroy the healthcare and education systems, etc. What kind of serious relationship can someone on the left have with someone like that? What is it even based on? Yeah…
/r/ExRedPill04/06/25 02:28 AM
6

Nah there are lots of situations that working things out makes sense. Not with red pill dudes. Life is too short to waste time on this.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/25 11:19 PM
8

There is a difference. And both don't make good relationship partners. Especially once kids are involved. Imagine a Tate guy with a son and a daughter.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/25 09:40 PM
16

Break up. Also, don't date right wingers. It does matter. A lot.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/25 03:52 PM
8

Because sexism and control.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/25 05:08 PM
56

Jealousy.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/25 02:11 PM
1

There are some but they don't tend to have Tate like ideologies.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/25 05:53 AM
4

You're also 15, that's like the worst time for this stuff. You don't know what the future may hold.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/25 08:42 PM
7

I don't know what to tell you but when I was a teenager / early 20s I thought I was ugly and eventually I just sort of... accepted myself? Homeschooling may be relevant, perhaps you don't get out enough to see how varied people are and how most people still figure out how to find a partner / etc.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/25 04:37 PM
13

They never wanted the government out of our lives. They wanted the government out of business regulation. The right has always LOVED intefering in people's personal lives with their arbitrary morals.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/25 04:17 AM
6

Lololololololololol
/r/ExRedPill04/05/25 03:43 AM
2

I mean it's pretty left / right.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/25 03:41 AM
32

Things don't go away just because you stop talking about them. Regardless, now you know who he is.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/25 03:40 AM
6

Does it matter? Your boyfriend sucks. Don't waste time on him. Dump his ass and find a good partner.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/25 03:38 AM
7

Well, yeah. My nickname growing up was pencil neck. But yeah get some therapy. And anger management too probably.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/25 03:34 AM
8

I didn't say any others I said random strangers. I care what my family and friends think about me. I even care about some coworkers. I certainly don't care what random strangers think.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/25 03:39 PM
6

To a woman I was dating.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/25 03:38 PM
7

Lived what? I was a virgin until I was 30.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/25 11:49 AM
8

It'll help you realize that random strangers are irrelevant.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/25 07:54 AM
7

No, that's silly. Get some therapy.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/25 07:48 AM
12

Why would you blame him for immutable traits?
/r/ExRedPill02/05/25 05:45 PM
2

How long did you try CBT? Were you doing your "homework" regularly?
/r/ExRedPill02/05/25 05:44 PM
5

Don't play games. And if someone around you is playing games, cut them off.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/25 05:36 PM
23

Most of them don't know what the fuck they want. They miss the "good old days" when women stayed home and relied on men, but they also have an irrational fear of being used by women for money. So they're usually just eternally unhappy.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/25 06:03 AM
1

The Internet I guess.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/25 08:59 PM
26

He sounds really stupid.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/25 10:11 AM
4

Bruh. What century are you living in? Half the people who get married young are divorced by 30. https://www.wf-lawyers.com/divorce-statistics-and-facts/#:\~:text=48%20percent%20of%20those%20who,25%20will%20end%20in%20divorce.
/r/ExRedPill30/04/25 12:15 AM
7

Which ones? The lower class to lower middle class makes up like half the population and most of them find partners. Besides, "struggle" is not the same as "won't ever succeed". Most things in life take some effort and failures before success.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/25 09:35 PM
6

I'm not referring to impressing people just like, having the money for a good life. Obviously that is appealing to a lot of women. But it's also not a necessary prerequisite to finding a good partner.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/25 07:34 PM
5

Obviously it is easier for some people but everyone experiences this to some degree. There is no guy who just walks into the world and gets to choose whoever he wants. Whatever the case it's not clear what you are looking for. Random hook ups or a loving relationship?
/r/ExRedPill29/04/25 07:33 PM
7

I'd rather be top 1% in Chess to be honest, lol. But like, top 1% in money would also give you POWER so why aren't you spiraling over that? Of courses the big question is why is POWER so important to you that lacking this makes you so unhappy?
/r/ExRedPill29/04/25 05:27 PM
15

You're not going to be the top 1% in most things. Why are you drilled in on this one?
/r/ExRedPill29/04/25 03:03 PM
17

My friends were hooking up left and right and none of them were conventionally attractive. But they loved to party.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/25 12:13 PM
6

Millions huh. Wow.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/25 10:10 AM
20

I mean the misogyny is a huge part of it, and you can't just be like oh yeah the misogyny, but. Beyond that it doesn't make much sense to say you personally tested things because the claims are usually broad claims about women in general. That would require broad research to support, not personal anecdotes.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/25 10:06 AM
34

Truth is you won't be good enough or rich enough for some people. And you will be for others. And those are the people more able to form a lasting bond anyway.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/25 08:06 PM
4

Who in "blue pill" says personality is all that matters? No one says that. They say things are too complex to boil down to these simplicities. Your "truth" is closer to what the supposed "blue pill" thinks.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/25 09:59 PM
5

?
/r/ExRedPill20/04/25 06:50 PM
19

Red pill is nonsense, black pill is nihilistic nonsense. Purple pill is half nonsense so... still nonsense. Blue pill isn't really a thing, it's just what red pill people call people who call out their nonsense to try to equate the two "sides".
/r/ExRedPill20/04/25 05:30 PM
32

Because a lot of them get to this point since they have failed in dating. They're mad at women. So-called "benevolent" patriarchy has a ton of problems too though.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/25 02:46 AM
20

Is it conscious? Not in the sense that you can just look at someone and be like ok I will or will not find them physically attractive. But I don't think it's like, genetic or something either. We get trained on what is and isn't attractive in a million ways from birth. To the point where, for instance, we see a woman with hairy armpits and think it is too "manly" or whatever WHEN WOMEN LITERALLY NATURALLY HAVE HAIRY ARMPITS. Why would we biologically be unattracted to a trait all adult women hav…
/r/ExRedPill17/04/25 03:01 AM
2

Peer reviewed research?
/r/ExRedPill16/04/25 12:09 PM
3

Why would this only apply to women even if it were true?
/r/ExRedPill16/04/25 12:08 PM
9

Building in what way? People usually use the term friendzone with someone they were just hanging out with without mutually shared romantic feelings.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/25 09:34 PM
12

Why assume they had any romantic thoughts to begin with?
/r/ExRedPill15/04/25 07:10 PM
24

True in what circumstances? What does friendzoned even mean? My wife certainly didn't ignore me.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/25 01:07 AM
5

There you go, some insight. I mean this seriously, good job not just doubling down.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/25 12:30 AM
7

This but unironically.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/25 11:59 PM
9

No it doesn't. And how you feel about it based on your limited, selective experience isn't particularly relevant to 4 billion women.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/25 11:41 PM
6

Reddit as a whole leans left and this sub definitely does as well. But conservatives who are anti red pill usually just avoid it.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/25 03:21 AM
1

Well kudos on finally figuring it out.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/25 01:24 AM
7

That's because Ben Shapiro is an always online hack who bases his identity on owning the libs. And even he wouldn't support the anti-marriage red pill shit. But if you just talk to average conservatives a lot of them are things red pill aren't: pro marriage, pro having lots of kids, pro respecting women (in a patriarchal way anyway), anti casual sex, etc. Some rando married conservative father isn't buying into Andrew Tate shit, it's mostly for the young single guys who struggle with women or th…
/r/ExRedPill11/04/25 10:09 PM
7

You never asked me for my beliefs. If you ask me for them, you can have them. I think they're better, you may think otherwise, who knows. My beliefs are certainly not the same as everyone else here's beliefs.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/25 09:27 PM
10

Yeah but when the people we are talking about range from far left to far right to everyone in between except this small sad group of men, then it is a meaningless to talk about "your" whole thing like it is two ideologies on equal footing, red pill vs anti red pill or something. Anti red pill isn't an ideology though, it is just everyone who doesn't buy into this one specific ideology. It's like saying "the whole thing of people against Nazis is..." It's that they are against Nazis. That's it. I…
/r/ExRedPill11/04/25 09:25 PM
16

My brother in law is a far right Catholic and he thinks red pill is the dumbest shit ever. My mom is a far right Catholic and she is disgusted by red pill type shit. Same with my sisters. They are all "anti-feminist" too, in words anyway. It's not just the left, basically anyone that isn't a raging misogynist thinks it is stupid.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/25 07:21 PM
11

Whose whole thing? What are you talking about?
/r/ExRedPill11/04/25 07:07 PM
14

I dunno, first video I see of hers "Do this ONE thing and women will chase you forever". Nah.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/25 02:31 AM
11

No idea who those people are. Went to YouTube, read a few titles from Zander's videos, big hell no there. Probably similar with the other two.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/25 12:50 AM
7

Well, it's not universal. Certainly not my experience. But people in happy committed relationships don't need to vent to others about them.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/25 02:07 PM
7

Maybe the men did suck. Maybe happy women don't talk this closely with other men. Maybe you seek out people like this subconsciously. Trying to understand 4 billion women based on a handful of women you know isn't going to tell you anything.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/25 01:38 AM
6

So if you wouldn't leave for "better" why is it hard to imagine a woman who wouldn't leave for "better"?
/r/ExRedPill08/04/25 10:33 PM
11

In theory lesbians could participate in hypergamy I guess. I think red pill mostly just ignores anyone not straight / cis / etc.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/25 05:49 PM
8

Plenty of men have opportunities to leave, or cheat, or both. Besides, it's a theoretical question meant to demonstrate that most people have relationship considerations beyond some specific quality of physical attractiveness.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/25 10:34 AM
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They think every woman is like that. "AWALT" = "all women are like that". They have convinced themselves it is some biological imperative of women. So they don't think they can trust any women.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/25 11:21 PM
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Would you leave for "better"? Like you have a good partner and then see some stranger with bigger boobs or something, would you leave your partner for them? Why wouldn't you?
/r/ExRedPill07/04/25 12:03 PM
2

Also, we talk about him because he is a bit of an exception. Even in Hollywood the dudes aren't all going for women in their early 20s. Yeah some are, but many aren't, and some even go for older women. It's almost like everyone is different.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/25 03:49 PM
4

Nah, red pill was shit before content creators became the voice.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/25 03:48 PM
7

No, because anything that is an attempt to generalize the population (which is rare, different cultures and all) would be set up in ways to try to ensure the broadest representation of individuals possible. It wouldn't involve a self selected group within another self selected group. The 80/20 stuff wasn't a study by the way. It didn't claim to be.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/25 11:37 PM
8

It's probably not made up but it's not a reflection of the overall population either.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/25 09:43 PM
17

There aren't any real statistics about the broader population. The statistics that do exist are from a specific subset of the population, and then self-selected within that. This stuff would get laughed out of a scientific journal.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/25 09:34 PM
28

What if unicorns pooped out gummi worms? None of this is real.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/25 08:56 PM
10

Nah, two data points doesn't support anything.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/25 04:19 PM
14

It depends on the context. Are you pretending to be her friend and doing nice things for her as a friend that, once you find out that's all you will ever be, you will stop doing? Well then, you were being a bit deceptive. And if you get angry about it and rant about how no on ever wants the nice guys or whatever, that's messed up. However if you just express romantic interest in someone and do nice things and they don't reciprocate that interest so you move on, that's fine.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/25 08:03 PM
1

It can verify truths but it is inconsistent. Woo boy.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/25 05:18 PM
5

You can just say you haven't studied AI, it's ok. Go ask AI how AI works. Also if you want to take a pro red pill position just take it. You don't have to invent an imaginary nephew that you're totally super worried about.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/25 05:16 PM
4

Great example of why we need to understand what AI is and isn't.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/25 04:15 PM
5

Any given human can verify truth if they want to. The process of verifying truth may be complex though, depending on the subject. Especially now that AI is replacing so much information.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/25 04:09 PM
6

Society is going to have a huge problem if we don't understand what AI is and isn't. AI cannot verify truth it can only regurgitate what it is trained on.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/25 03:58 PM
2

Yeah except it's not true.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/25 02:39 AM
8

It's nonsense.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/25 09:18 PM
66

Yep. Whenever I explain how my wife and I have been together for 15+ years and break a lot of their stereotypes (she makes more than me, etc.) they say she must be fat (no, but so what if she were?) or have a "high body count" (also no, but also so what if she did?) or she is just biding her time until she finds someone better (for 15+ years?!), etc. They can't even admit a SINGLE case that is outside of their beliefs, because that breaks their AWALT nonsense to pieces. They're stuck in their cr…
/r/ExRedPill29/03/25 06:04 PM
17

What a jackass. You dodged a bullet.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/25 03:44 AM
6

It gave you that impression because you didn't look for any real numbers you just jumped to a conclusion you already had. Fifty Shades is fiction. Men like playing Mortal Kombat, does that mean we want to murder people in disturbing ways? You can research from prisons. It's just not going to tell you anything about the common person.
/r/ExRedPill28/03/25 04:35 PM
17

And most aren't. Also lol at a prison study. This isn't the general population and there are a billion variables not controlled for.
/r/ExRedPill28/03/25 01:50 PM
3

Oh wait this is about telegony? There is zero evidence that this is a thing in humans. It's mostly used by racists to try to scare people away from associating with white women who have slept with non-white men.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/25 04:25 PM
2

Past lives? What?
/r/ExRedPill25/03/25 02:07 PM
6

Red is just the amount of reflected electromagnetic radiation on a certain spectrum that our eyes can see. Pills are just powered substances we swallow, often in a dissolvable capsule. Language is just an invented form of communication between individuals.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/25 02:05 PM
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Can it? Sure, I guess, technically. Will it? Probably not. He's not coming back to the way he was. Also you're not going to solve this by trying to limit his social media or anything. He would need to want to change, and he doesn't. The best bet is to move on.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/25 09:48 PM
1

You can't use logic to argue people out of positions that they didn't use logic to get into.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/25 11:11 PM
3

Nah it really isn't. Just insisting it is isn't an argument. And if we look at hypergamy it makes even less sense to insist that it exists in America. There are no defined higher castes you can marry into in order to up your social standing and escape cultural and legal oppression. And you're certainly not stuck in a lower caste for life just because you didn't marry up. We do have a class system and it's not nearly as fluid as it should be (especially in America, where people like to pretend "a…
/r/ExRedPill20/03/25 03:52 PM
5

No, sorry. Words mean things. America does not have a caste system in 2025. First, looking at interracial marriage In the US. Roughly 95% of Americans support it, at least on paper. Roughly 20% of new marriages are interracial and that number is quickly increasing. There are laws in place that protect the legality of interracial marriage and there are laws against discrimination by race. You might get some looks from your racist uncle, especially if you're in some backwater area, but you won't w…
/r/ExRedPill20/03/25 03:14 AM
5

No, there isn't. There is discrimination sure, but there is nothing like a caste system.
/r/ExRedPill20/03/25 12:35 AM
4

Hmm. Yeah I dunno. It took me until 30 to figure dating out a bit.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/25 07:04 PM
5

Ah yeah, well, the sleazy bar is what it is I guess. I grew up in the punk community and met a lot of cool people but also a lot of flakey people and such, it's a mixed bag, like anything. What initially attracts you to women?
/r/ExRedPill19/03/25 05:37 PM
7

Huh. If I may ask, how did you meet them to begin with? Internet? Real life?
/r/ExRedPill19/03/25 05:15 PM
3

What were the reasons you didn't want to date them seriously? I’ve been talking to someone and most of the time she responds until I try to make plans then get left on read for like a day and then the cycle repeats. That's usually a waste of time. It's tough finding someone who wants to meet up as much as you do, but when you do, it flows so much better.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/25 05:07 PM
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I dunno, so-called "alphas" seem to promote "situationships" over real relationships, I've never heard of anyone calling that a "beta" thing. Albeit those terms are idiotic. I tend to look at dating through a social darwinsit perspective. ...Why? This isn't how Darwin thought at all. Anyway, why all of these situationships? Have you ever wanted a relationship with any of them?
/r/ExRedPill19/03/25 05:03 PM
8

Yeah. But having standards of attraction isn't hypergamy anyway. Hypergamy is specifically about social status. The person's physical attractiveness is irrelevant. Not that red pill dudes know what words mean.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/25 03:56 PM
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Yeah but there is nothing to rewire. In the few cultures where hypergamy is a real thing it is based on a cultural situation where the only way a woman has out of an oppressive situation is marriage. That has jack to do with biology.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/25 03:14 PM
10

Yeah it's definitely just red pill nonsense in most countries.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/25 03:11 PM
12

It is a thing in cultures with a caste system where being in a lower caste has severe consequences. Like India, which has banned caste discrimination but it obviously still exists. But even then, obviously most women can't / don't "marry up", the numbers wouldn't support that. It's not particular relevant anywhere else and it definitely isn't some thing wired into women biologically. It's a result of creating social systems where women in positions where they will actively be oppressed have no p…
/r/ExRedPill19/03/25 02:54 PM
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That's not how proof works. You can't prove a thing doesn't exist you have to prove a thing exists. You haven't done that. Like I can claim that I'm hanging out with Jesus Christ right now and you can't prove I'm not but that's irrelevant since I haven't proven I am. Unless I put up proof you can ignore me.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/25 05:24 AM
20

No, there isn't scientific evidence. Also lol at "look around".
/r/ExRedPill19/03/25 05:09 AM
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No, there is no scientific evidence that women partake in hypergamy in any serious numbers.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/25 03:59 AM
12

Kids are generally at school most of the time parents are at work. And you might have different work schedules anyway. It's not that hard.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/25 10:46 AM
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Yeah but that's less some inherent trait of women and more because a lot of women get sick of doing so much of the planning and such in the home. It's like saying women lik nit when you change your kid's diaper. Of course they do, it's your kid, change their diaper!
/r/ExRedPill14/03/25 02:22 AM
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They believe in strong gender roles so they think women all just (openly or secretly) want a man who will take care of them financially. And they think women only respect men who make more than them. Meanwhile I married a professor who definitely makes more than me (she wasn't a professor when we met but she was working towards it) and it's nice. We both grew up poor and are able to not just live more comfortably than before but also help our families financially and such. According to red pill …
/r/ExRedPill13/03/25 02:26 PM
6

Oh I see, you're defending red pillers in general. The problem with that is no one interested in the truth calls themselves red pill. It's just a specific group of people pushing a specific, very dumb, narrative. Stealing an idea from a movie doesn't make their nonsense any less nonsensical.
/r/ExRedPill07/03/25 02:31 PM
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It's unclear what you are getting at but my point is that there isn't really a dictionary definition of the term per se. And since "red pill" was just a thing made up for a relatively recent movie, and even in said movie they don't use that specific term as a noun meaning "something that is an uncomfortable truth" since it is a literally pill that is red, it's a bit open as to what the term means outside of the movie. The most common use of course are these manosphere weirdos. In fact, I don't k…
/r/ExRedPill07/03/25 02:13 PM
8

Well, if you define it as truth then by definition it is true. But then it just has nothing to do with any of this shit that calls itself red pill. Still, it's just a thing from a movie, it wasn't really a common term until these weirdos tried to make it into one.
/r/ExRedPill07/03/25 01:50 PM
6

That's still not a connection. Connections are between two or more people. A one way obsession is not a connection.
/r/ExRedPill07/03/25 03:53 AM
7

No one is developing deep, intimate emotional connections with celebrities they have never spoken to.
/r/ExRedPill07/03/25 01:45 AM
7

That's not what emotional cheating is lol.
/r/ExRedPill07/03/25 01:17 AM
9

Yeah and that's your choice. But that doesn't make it a red flag.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/25 11:50 PM
8

No. In general just take what red pill says, throw it in the trash, and then think for yourself.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/25 11:49 PM
12

I've never seen that in this sub.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/25 09:47 PM
22

Why do you still speak like you're the norm when you know you aren't? Most men, like most women, want both.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/25 08:19 PM
9

You know women. Always going around asking dudes how big their dicks are so they can dump their partner over it. /sarcasm
/r/ExRedPill06/03/25 08:17 PM
13

Nah, it's shit to lie to people about having a future together while you're just waiting to get out. But lucky for us that's not how most people in couples work.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/25 07:20 PM
12

They probably think she is just biding her time until a richer guy comes along. Nothing red pill reflects reality.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/25 05:04 PM
6

Wait, what do they say is wrong about that?
/r/ExRedPill06/03/25 04:02 PM
16

This is very dumb.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/25 06:35 AM
11

Neither. What's the next question?
/r/ExRedPill04/03/25 12:30 AM
12

Sounds like cope to me.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/25 04:20 PM
16

My wife is not a single mother. You guys are so weird.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/25 03:36 PM
23

Nah, things are fine in your 30s.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/25 09:37 AM
8

Why would you take any pills?
/r/ExRedPill01/03/25 06:45 AM
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Well, obviously anyone can end up an older virgin. I'm super left leaning and was a virgin until 30. (Albeit I wasn't super left leaning that whole time.) But I think what often happens with a lot of "incels" is they struggle to figure out why it isn't happening for them and end up buying into the red / black pill narratives, which are very right wing and hateful. And they form these communities around this stuff so they end up the most prominent virgins (online anyway). A lot of them also activ…
/r/ExRedPill27/02/25 04:43 PM
1

Not being a MAGA is important but like, more than half the country aren't MAGA. That's not what connects people.
/r/ExRedPill26/02/25 07:30 PM
15

Your perception of how things are is just that, a perception. The truth is no one has any idea what to expect from any given man or woman. Think of the inherent contradictions in red pill. They try to convince men that women all have it easy and they try to convince women that they're worthless to men once they hit 30. So which one is it? Could it be that maybe both of these are nonsense? Also I have a female cousin who is 40 and has never had a partner. She wants one, bad, but she can't find on…
/r/ExRedPill26/02/25 07:26 PM
23

No idea who that is. Went to the Youtube channel. First video I see: "My Years Working As A Bouncer Taught Me EVERYTHING About Women, Girls Nights AND Exotic Dancers!" Nope. "Before Her Visa Expired My Young FWB Schemed To Get Me To Commit, Instead I Sent Her Home And..." Oh so he is a complete asshole too. You won't get anything useful from any of these fucking losers.
/r/ExRedPill26/02/25 05:42 PM
3

Pay for virginity? That makes no sense.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/25 12:09 AM
4

See, good example of a weirdo who stalked me from another sub to try to make me feel bad about it. Might have worked when I was 19.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/25 10:37 PM
4

I'd agree that calling people incels is problematic. I was a virgin until 30 and it sucked getting attacked for that, Many of them adopt this term for themselves though.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/25 04:00 PM
7

No. Is it used with a negative connotation?
/r/ExRedPill24/02/25 03:33 PM
8

Do it! The best time to start was yesterday. The second best time is today!
/r/ExRedPill23/02/25 07:15 AM
11

most of them are attracted to similar things What data do you have that supports this conclusion?
/r/ExRedPill22/02/25 06:23 PM
11

Date in the punk rock scene, they will love you. Red pill is obviously just going to make you miserable.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/25 06:22 PM
5

How do they explain anything? From their bedroom with no real data.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/25 02:36 AM
20

girlschase.com "get girls chasing you" Yeah, this site is stupid. But let's look at the actual article. "In the beginning they were much more influenced by my words and my power and complied with what I wanted. But after the 1-year drop, they become more dominant, more readily resistant to my power, and instead do whatever they wanted, whenever, without any regard to my emotions. Hence arguments." And this is billed as a woman being disrespectul? Jesus fuck. This site is very, very stupid. Ask a…
/r/ExRedPill17/02/25 09:43 PM
8

My wife is Filipina and she would tear these losers to pieces.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/25 06:08 PM
8

I'd probably just call them an idiot. What other response is there?
/r/ExRedPill16/02/25 05:48 PM
16

Your 2 cents isn't worth a penny.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/25 03:25 PM
12

Red pill is nonsense. I'm 46, 20 year olds look like kids to me now. I'd also not get too caught up in certain Christian ideology, it can be very harmful as well. A lot of girls I knew went through a lot of emotional distress because they lost their virginity and they felt like they were now worthless and impure. It's also nonsense.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/25 03:24 PM
21

Less than a month ago you posted about how angry you are at people who "disrespect" you, which seems to be basically everyone, and how you want to blow up on the next person who does. Look, maybe you're not a bad guy. But I wouldn't trust someone who talks like this around my sisters.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/25 01:12 AM
20

There is a huge gap between poor and rich that many fall into. Having money helps for sure, yet studies show that it only helps up to a certain point, which is around comfortably middle class. Beyond that it doesn't really make people happier.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/25 04:03 AM
13

I mean, in the sense that a middle class guy can find happiness without being a billionaire, yeah.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/25 03:00 AM
55

I'd offer a third solution. Question your own feelings and recontextualize who you are and what you want.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/25 01:52 AM
33

No one is "supposed" to do anything.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/25 01:51 AM
8

If he is anything like the one who shall remain nameless then he isn't going to help much.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/25 05:13 AM
34

It's all nonsense. My wife is 42 and I couldn't even imagine wanting a 20 year old instead. They just feel like children to me now.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/25 04:36 PM
14

Because he is a total dipshit.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/25 04:53 AM
3

First off there is no objective hotness level. There are people who are considered more or less attractive to society in general if you crunch all the numbers but individuals are attracted to all kinds of people. So you say "below average" and someone else might be like DAMNNNN. Beyond that, attraction can have many factors. I grew up in a sort of nerdy punk / skate culture and needy girls with like, glasses and shaved heads and tattoos and such were hot to me. There is nothing objective about t…
/r/ExRedPill24/01/25 04:19 PM
9

Yep. I was teaching high school when this got big and I'd hear my students say stuff and know exactly where it came from.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/25 04:06 PM
5

Start by realizing physical attraction isn't just a checklist of physical traits, and even if it was, there is always someone "better". Like, you could be Brad Pitt and then George Clooney steps up and someone finds him more physically attractive. Should Brad Pitt go through his life worrying about this? And attraction has so many mental elements as well. But longterm relationships are based on so much more than this anyway.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/25 12:36 AM
18

Think younger even. It's hitting a lot of high school age kids and even younger at times.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/25 07:02 PM
12

Go back to thinking they are dumb.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/25 10:00 PM
1

Over 20 different women eh? Yeah you're really, really bad at picking women. Like, remarkably so. See the advice above.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/25 03:43 AM
23

I got downvoted but here is the thing, dating someone in the hopes that they turn into someone better is always a terrible idea. Date someone who you are happy with now.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/25 02:38 AM
19

You can break up with him. He's not a good partner. He probably never was. This is who he is. He's not coming back.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/25 02:00 AM
1

Sounds like you're bad at picking a partner. See the advice above.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/25 10:37 PM
2

It's internet culture. Memes and such. They develop in every subculture, even bigot ones. Sometimes especially bigot ones, since a lot of platforms will ban them for open bigotry so they have to adopt a lot of dogwhistles.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/25 10:06 AM
7

What specifically is confusing you? It's just a bunch of white male racist sexist stuff. It all connects.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/25 05:55 AM
29

Because the odds are terrible and even when it does work its not really based on anything real. I mean, how do you even choose who you want to approach, just looks? Shit even if I was going to cold approach I'd do it based on whether she has a cool shirt or shoes, lol. That's at least something (albeit tiny) to connect on.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/24 05:38 PM
21

Cold approaches are the dumbest way to try to date. No one said looks don't matter you're just jumping to an extreme. There is no need for "strategies" but being open and assertive (without being creepy) can make a big difference.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/24 04:30 PM
13

Okcupid is a single website with a self-selected group (people who took the poll) that is built on another self-selected group (people who joined the site). It's not meaningful data for the broader population and data scientists would laugh at anyone trying to use it. Hypergamy doesn't exist in the West. People preferring put together people is not hypergamy and it goes both ways.
/r/ExRedPill25/12/24 09:14 PM
3

Ideal? Like do I have the traits she likes more than the other 6 billion or so adults on this planet? That's not a serious question for people who have been in and know how relationships and connections work. But if you mean generally am I the type of person she wants to be with, yes. Even before me she never dated "bad boys", never had any interest in them.
/r/ExRedPill25/12/24 04:51 PM
8

Places where decent men in decent relationships hang out. On Reddit I'm not totally sure but r/menslib has a lot more positive views on these things.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/24 01:54 AM
13

What do the divorce rates have to do with anything? Without context divorce rates tell us nothing. Anyway I'm nice loyal and committed and my wife loves me a lot. It's anecdotal but maybe you need to hear some good anecdotes too.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/24 12:18 AM
13

What if her father sucks, as many do? This is a weird way to look at things.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/24 06:02 AM
7

It usually is based on what data?
/r/ExRedPill23/12/24 06:01 AM
10

Well, sure. But one of the best things you can do in life is realize how little any of us will ever really know about the billions of people out there in the world. Attempts to simplify this tend to fail hard, and in many cases create a lot of pain in the world.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/24 06:24 PM
24

Why do you have to believe in some larger narrative? The world is complex and chaotic. There are many things you won't ever fully understand.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/24 04:33 PM
7

Well. Some do. Because they're terrible at picking partners and keep running into the same problems over and over. People are bad at admitting that maybe the trends they are seeing are based, at least in part, on their own decisions.
/r/ExRedPill18/12/24 04:16 PM
29

The rampant sexism and entitlement.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/24 07:21 AM
26

Nothing red pill has merit.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/24 06:11 AM
7

Lol nice wall of nonsense that doesn't address what I said.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/24 06:03 AM
17

Keep questioning. Look at sources other than your red pill ones. Also, step back and ask... what kind of person do I want to be?
/r/ExRedPill16/12/24 11:44 PM
9

I've never dated a woman who expected me to pay for everything on the first date. Maybe date more feminists?
/r/ExRedPill16/12/24 10:39 PM
84

Also my wife likes me and I'm very much not a bad boy.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/24 07:01 PM
5

That wouldn't solve anything nor would societies agree to it.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/24 05:09 PM
22

Even if this were true, what do you mean by addressed? Addressed how?
/r/ExRedPill11/12/24 02:51 PM
15

Wh... Why do you think that makes the red pill right?
/r/ExRedPill10/12/24 04:08 PM
7

This is just what I said with more steps. You don't need to learn what advice to follow and what to not follow. You need to learn to think for yourself and have basic human empathy. She hasn't "gotten it out of her system" she was mad for a legitimate reason and that hurt won't just disappear. You're fucking it up. Also, if you have been talking for years and haven't even had dates or anything you're both just wasting time.
/r/ExRedPill06/12/24 02:00 PM
22

The woman is right. You were playing dumb games and faced the consequences. No, something about that advice didn't have to be right. She was double / triple texting you and you consider this a good thing? To what end? That was just her getting more and more exasperated, trying to see if she could make this work when it clearly wasn't working. Eventually she accepted that and moved on. She didn't flip out of nowhere my man. This was all building up because you were treating her like shit. It tend…
/r/ExRedPill05/12/24 05:09 PM
2

Anti-feminism didn't start in 1971 though.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/24 01:40 PM
21

I'm 45. This shit has always been around in some form. It's mostly just repackaged trad conservatism / anti-feminism. If you're curious watch some clips from Magnolia (1999), Tom Cruise's character. It'll look very familiar to Tate and these other assholes. https://youtu.be/8I8_fxj5ZTA?si=MaMTUwrRpDTVQofu What's different now is the reach. I grew up before the Internet was a thing. You had to go out of your way to find shitty content. Now the algorithms push it to kids...
/r/ExRedPill05/12/24 01:29 PM
39

Yeah but the thing is they don't care about those issues. Issues are just a weapon to them. Like when the right pretends they care about gays to attack Muslims and vice versa.
/r/ExRedPill22/11/24 09:58 PM
26

They can't talk about real issues because they're right wingers and the best solutions to real issues are all on the left. I don't see potential in them at all because, as you said, it's not about helping men, it's about attacking women, especially feminists. They have no real interest in helping men.
/r/ExRedPill22/11/24 09:52 PM
5

Wut.
/r/ExRedPill22/11/24 03:45 AM
4

Don't live like this anymore. Get the heck out of this shit relationship.
/r/ExRedPill22/11/24 12:43 AM
7

Why would I care about any of this dork's books?
/r/ExRedPill21/11/24 02:56 AM
–

Sounds dumb.
/r/ExRedPill20/11/24 04:19 PM
3

Dr. Nerd Love
/r/ExRedPill18/11/24 06:58 AM
1

But again, you don't know that it was a factor. It could have been incidental to the guy she met and fell for.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/24 10:16 PM
4

Why are you assuming that she is only pretending to not care about money? My wife makes 6 figures but that's not why I fell for her.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/24 09:57 PM
2

What is the rejection in this context? You're asking all of these women out?
/r/ExRedPill10/11/24 03:36 PM
3

Yeah but did you call him a loser to his face?
/r/ExRedPill06/11/24 01:33 PM
6

That's just a longer way of saying because of his job. Who goes on dates and calls people losers?
/r/ExRedPill05/11/24 08:06 PM
120

Imagine going on a date with someone and calling them a loser because of their job. Can you imagine that? Probably not. Because it takes a huge asshole to do that. Don't let assholes get to you. With that said some things will be true. In general women will prefer men with good jobs, yada yada. But it's one factor among many. On the other hand I met my wife when I was working part-time at a low paying job and trying to finish grad school. She didn't mind. All kinds of women out there. If you mee…
/r/ExRedPill05/11/24 04:00 PM
7

My cousin is 4'8. She pretty much only dates guys around your height. I'm not saying life will be easy but height is relative. Most (not all) women just prefer someone taller than they are.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/24 02:11 PM
4

Don't put women on a pedestal. They're just people.
/r/ExRedPill03/11/24 03:52 PM
4

I remember her being vaguely left wing but also saying a bunch of really stupid shit.
/r/ExRedPill31/10/24 03:51 PM
4

Are these 4 friends women that you had interest in?
/r/ExRedPill26/10/24 07:55 PM
13

What part are you envious of? The love, the sex, being desired?
/r/ExRedPill21/10/24 03:02 AM
9

My thought is that this idea is really, really dumb. Also, 43% of high school teachers in America are male, while 68% of high school principals are male.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/24 07:38 PM
3

First you have to become a bit more sure of yourself. And that's tough but it's possible. I'd try to get rid of the notion that women think X or do Y and just go into a situation feeling like you're already at some big disadvantage. This doesn't have to mean it will lead to dating btw, I'm talking about any situation, with any gender. You just go in there knowing you have value and something to add to a conversation, regardless of the outcome.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/24 09:12 PM
3

Where are you routinely out of the blue hearing women talk about types?
/r/ExRedPill16/10/24 09:09 PM
1

I'm not talking about any large group I'm talking about individuals like Tate. They don't see value in women. Mature men do but he's basically a child.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/24 05:37 PM
6

Yes this happens. Haven't you see The Wedding Singer?! You have to decide what you actually want out of life then go for it.
/r/ExRedPill14/10/24 01:12 AM
14

Yes you're wrong and this is not a trend I'm seeing.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/24 03:50 AM
26

Your claim that this is a trend among women? Yes, that's bias.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/24 03:24 AM
28

Why does it seem that way? Because you're biased. That's why it seems that way.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/24 03:19 AM
6

Why would you want to date a conservative though? Gross. Imagine if you had a gay kid or something.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/24 03:58 PM
7

Right? I've been called gay (or gay slurs) by probably at least 100 different men throughout my life. Maybe once or twice by women, though I can't even recall a single time.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/24 03:57 PM
12

You just explained a bunch of situations that involved one man and one woman and made it seem like a quality specific to women. Do you see the problem there?
/r/ExRedPill09/10/24 03:55 PM
2

It feels like you're asking the wrong question here. Does anything about "traditional" masculinity appeal to you for any reasons other than this vague idea that it might help you more with dating and such? If you want to work out and get jacked, do it. If you want more male friends, make some. Etc. But make sure this is actually stuff that you want. Because faking it never really works out longterm.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/24 03:53 PM
18

I wouldn't say it changed so much as people are just being more open about now they feel. Even 10, 20 years ago it would slip out of you talked to these people long enough. Hint: "Egalitarianism" got thrown around a lot during Gamergate.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/24 11:40 PM
8

My cousin is 4'8 and I can assure you that she is attracted to men of your height. It's all relative. You're 7 inches taller than her.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/24 03:39 PM
2

There are roughly 4 billion women on this planet, anything that claims they all think or act a certain way is nonsense.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/24 03:37 PM
8

Because a huge part of their ideology is that men need to be "strong" and stoic and looking for help is "weak".
/r/ExRedPill03/10/24 03:52 PM
44

Bigotries tend to come in groups. No surprise that a sexist group is also racist.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/24 04:45 PM
1

Well, don't read up on the real Ip man. He was a lot more toxic masculinity than the movies make him out to be, heh. Anyway I don't know about long form media but Dr. Nerd Love is good for short form romance advice and such.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/24 04:05 PM
1

You didn't read the study then. Most women explicitly state that it doesn't really matter to them. Men are the only ones obsessed with penis size. And "ok but I don't believe women" isn't an argument, that's your feelings. You clearly have never been in a real relationship either.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/24 03:31 PM
1

You clearly haven't. Also you clearly don't know real women in the real world.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/24 05:15 PM
10

Just the name alone makes me cringe.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/24 11:08 PM
6

Cold approach is the absolute worst approach to serious dating. What do you even know about the person that makes you want to date them? They're physically attractive? That's not the basis for anything.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/24 04:09 PM
2

You just listed a bunch of nonsense. Why do you think any of it is true?
/r/ExRedPill26/09/24 06:32 AM
10

That's an unproven claim about nature. A woman who wants a provider can find a provider without being hypergamous. You completely ignored that most women marry within their class.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/24 02:26 PM
11

How can most women marry up? Statistically that isn't possible. In fact, we have almost hit a point where women make the same or more than men in half of US marriages. In a few more years this will be true. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/
/r/ExRedPill25/09/24 12:21 PM
8

Honestly she's probably just telling you what she thinks you want to hear because you are super, super insecure.
/r/ExRedPill24/09/24 01:10 AM
3

You don't need to believe in wacky reptile overlords to just look around you and see how much the system sucks. I'm not sure what the answer is though. I doubt much will change in my lifetime, anyway.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/24 01:05 PM
56

Red pill men want to lock women into having their kids before the women go out and get much experience. And older woman is seen as "used" to them because she... gasp... probably had sex with a few other guys before them.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/24 01:01 AM
5

Well, don't waste any more of your time on him.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/24 04:43 PM
9

You said you were currently dating him.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/24 05:03 AM
34

Let me know if I’m dealing with a redpiller or just a bitter man What difference does it make? Don't date either of those. how women should know their role Also like... you don't want this do you?
/r/ExRedPill14/09/24 11:23 PM
3

There are plenty of facts against red pill nonsense that don't require being emotional over.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/24 05:39 AM
8

Why do you need ideologies? Think for yourself. Also, the red pill ideas for how to "guard" against it just produce miserable men. Here is a fact. There are a million things in life that can hurt you. Risk mitigation is fine to a certain degree, but if it becomes something that defines your life and constantly stresses you out then you lose all potential for any real joy too.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/24 02:54 PM
9

Claiming something applies to the whole population has no truth unless it applies to the whole population. "Blue pill" isn't a thing it's just being a normal person without wacky ideas that don't reflect reality.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/24 05:44 AM
10

That makes no sense. The red pill makes claim they insist apply to the entire population. And so do you, saying things like you think everyone acts a certain way. But you're basing it on a tiny sample size that is preselected to lean a specific way.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/24 05:39 AM
17

Probably should talk to a therapist then. You're not going to be happy either way with your mindset.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/24 05:37 AM
15

Right but what you are doing is more the equivalent of going on a sub for disabled people, seeing a bunch of them don't have four working limbs, and then concluding that this applies to the entire population somehow. What you are doing is literally selection bias, which is a logical fallacy.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/24 05:35 AM
5

Then get a sex worker.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/24 05:33 AM
20

What do you mean maybe? You just said you believe everyone acts this way. Are you not part of everyone?
/r/ExRedPill12/09/24 05:32 AM
13

I didn't say anything about lions killing me.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/24 05:31 AM
6

Ok but there are roughly 8 billion people on this planet so...
/r/ExRedPill12/09/24 05:17 AM
9

And that its best not to completely trust anyone you get intimate with. Then why get intimate at all? Just find a fuck buddy.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/24 05:16 AM
27

I believe that everyone is always looking for the best deal they can get and they'll trade up if they can. I mean, not me, that doesn't even make sense to me, deal? What deal? Trade up? What? But the bigger question is, does this include you?
/r/ExRedPill12/09/24 05:14 AM
19

I go to the zoo every day and see lions. How does one not expect lions everywhere they go?!
/r/ExRedPill12/09/24 05:13 AM
25

You're right, there is a chance of another man. There is a chance you get cancer. There is a chance you get hit by a bus. Nothing is guaranteed. The secret isn't to try to get a guarantee which you can never get. It's learning to live more in the moment and not worry about potential tragedies.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/24 02:01 AM
1

Honesty is key. Someone who wants to spend time with you. Someone with good morals.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/24 03:07 PM
12

Exactly. The first time she steps out of line he will say "I thought you were different". Or worse.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/24 11:11 PM
7

The only advice is: don't.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/24 11:09 PM
6

Probably. No point in wondering what life would have been like if Person X wasn't Person X. You have to deal with the reality before you.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/24 03:39 PM
6

lol no. Feminism is in no way comparable to red pill nonsense.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/24 08:36 PM
4

Yeah in my peer group people would basically be like... wtf are you doing? No one would take it seriously.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/24 08:33 PM
8

Celebrities aren't average people. Almost none of them have serious, lasting relationships. And the ones that do are ok with women who age, obviously. Google Pierce Brosnan and his wife, look at the way he talks about her, he's still mad in love even though she's aged and gained weight and such.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/24 03:28 PM
21

The wall is an idea made up by sad men trying to control women. My wife is 42 and she is hot as fuck and the thought of leaving her for a younger woman is hilarious to me, regardless of perceived physical attraction. Younger women are basically kids to me now (no offense). I have to say too, like literally no one I know in my community is out there trying to date 20 year olds. I'm sure some 40-ish guys are like that but most of the guys I know who aren't already taken are looking for women they …
/r/ExRedPill03/09/24 03:24 PM
29

Well it is certainly racist as fuck but I'm not sure it has a coherent belief system in who should reproduce.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/24 04:17 PM
5

You're letting a fantasy made up by sad men depress you. You definitely need to detox.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/24 04:12 PM
6

I mean, step one for looking for advice is always to find someone who has been successful in what you are trying to do. These online chuds have never been successful with real relationships so why pay them any attention? And why the fuck would anyone want to be in a relationship with someone that they purposely made feel insecure? That's stupid.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/24 12:42 AM
3

Post pictures. You're probably a 5.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/24 07:05 PM
23

I don't really have many friends now lol. But the ones I have are definitely better.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/24 03:14 PM
84

I dunno but I, like a lot of men, grew up in a situation where even my own friends were calling me a pussy and a fag because I wasn't out trying to get laid all the time. Men judge other men on this stuff hardcore. Toxic masculinity.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/24 03:10 PM
26

It's the Madonna whore complex alright. This isn't just a red pill thing, I had to come to terms with it growing up in a super religious household. You're still playing it all out in your head though. If you actually started dating this woman and hanging out and cuddling and stuff I wager your sexual cravings would come on pretty quickly. The question is, would you feel ok with that?
/r/ExRedPill21/08/24 05:38 PM
10

I have no idea who this is but lots of people make wild claims. It works because other people want to believe them.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/24 01:57 AM
1

So, again, not evidence that no one has ever found you attractive. Your handful of friends having one experience means nothing. Most of us have to put the effort in.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/24 05:38 PM
1

This is not evidence that no one has ever found you attractive.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/24 04:55 PM
1

There are many shy women yes, but also in general women won't make the first move.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/24 04:36 PM
1

You have never experienced being in anyone else's head, you don't know if they find you attractive or not.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/24 04:29 PM
1

How would you know?
/r/ExRedPill19/08/24 02:32 PM
7

It's not just humour. They're racists. And probably other forms of bigots too. I'd find some new friends.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/24 03:16 AM
1

Who is "they"? Even if the average woman did that would still leave about 40% of women who prefer average or lower. Plus that's not true anyway.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/24 04:58 PM
11

Not letting someone know how much you love / care for them is stupid. You don't have to play silly games.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/24 12:36 AM
2

I'd be more concerned that he seems to consider only one variable when trying to date. You didn't mention ages, is he young?
/r/ExRedPill12/08/24 11:13 AM
3

He didn't say dating, he said "they" referencing women. Not that it would be that much better if he saw dating as useless other than to give him a family.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/24 06:46 PM
7

No, he said their value to him is, and called them useless otherwise.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/24 05:14 PM
15

It is though. He literally calls them useless in his life otherwise.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/24 05:13 PM
51

Please never start a family if you see no worth in a woman besides providing you a family. That's gross.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/24 10:54 PM
8

Because nothing is 100% anything. It's just outright false.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/24 05:02 PM
42

Picky about what? Men are very picky about who they will marry.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/24 04:02 PM
4

But did they say they thought their partners were ugly first? I've never seen anyone say they thought someone was ugly and then fell for them. It's usually more like they just didn't think they were super hot at first.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/24 07:03 PM
11

No they don't. They say that personality affects physical attraction. Not that they have zero attraction and then instantly flip a switch. Of course, that does happen to some people too, but it's rare.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/24 07:01 PM
18

I'm not sure that you totally understand how attraction works. Also, I've never seen anyone here say physical attraction follows. I suspect that you are misinterpreting something.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/24 07:43 PM
4

Wow they sure are dumb.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/24 12:34 AM
3

Yeah that sure is dumb.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/24 12:25 AM
5

I'm sure most of these red pill dudes would love to sleep with models too, so what?
/r/ExRedPill28/07/24 11:24 PM
9

Which women do?
/r/ExRedPill28/07/24 07:13 AM
12

Why do you assume everyone will have partied? Lots of people don't party.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/24 07:12 AM
6

First I'd ask you... those pick up artist techniques worked to what end? Or maybe another way to word it is, what do you actually want? And whatever that is, do you think pick up artist techniques will get you there? I don't know anyone in a healthy longterm relationship who got there with pick up artist techniques but maybe that's not even what you're looking for.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/24 09:49 PM
8

What's your longterm goal here? Anyone this obsessed over 2 inches would spot the lie the moment they see you.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/24 01:02 PM
9

Yeah but it's not really equivalent to any feminism. A lot of radical feminism tells women to avoid men. Not how to spin plates of men and lie to men to get things and so on.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 08:43 PM
14

I don't see Tate as the male equivalent to feminism AT ALL. It'd be more like a man getting dating advice from a woman who teaches women how to exploit men to become their sugar daddies or something.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 07:42 PM
28

Well, stop watching asshats like Tate, for instance. One piece of advice I've heard that applies to basically everything is "don't take advice from people with lives you don't want". For me it's easy to ignore Tate types, because I don't want to be a misogynistic asshole. So what do you want? You probably just want like a nice decent relationship with a decent person, right? This is my wife and I, as well as a lot of couples in our circle, and I can assure you that none of us act the way Tate cl…
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 07:29 PM
2

I don't think they know or care about the difference much. But I do think they see this thing they hate, which is a push for better representation in media, and they see it as some modern thing that modern feminists invented because "they already got equality so they need to make up fights to justify their existence".
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 05:07 PM
1

Not liking one thing isn't the same as whitewashing his entire legacy, lol. Also you probably got downvoted because you were trying to use MLK Jr to push your ideas on guns, not the other way around.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 05:18 AM
6

Well, again just warning signs, some moms probably deserve hate. And nah they say 3rd wave. But they also have no idea what the fuck they are talking about so it makes sense that they don't know what they are saying.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 04:47 AM
7

Well, conservatives feel that their imaginary MLK Jr who never said anything to make anyone mad other than that everyone should be nice to each other was fine. They certainly don't like the real one who specifically called out whites multiple times and also promoted socialism.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 04:45 AM
4

I'm just talking warning signs.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/24 11:02 PM
12

Lots of conservative women are trained to believe that shit.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/24 10:26 PM
24

Follows Tate types Conservative / Republican Talks down sexually active women or women who show skin online Hates his mom Talks about how feminism was fine until the 3rd wave Has other bigotries (homophobe, racist, etc.) Bigotries tend to come in groups
/r/ExRedPill21/07/24 10:06 PM
17

It's not. It's hard for you to find a woman who is interested in you.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/24 02:30 PM
4

I dunno. Move to a blue state obviously, but that may only go so far. Come up here to Canada? Though it's a lot harder than people realize.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/24 07:30 PM
22

Well, for starters it's all sexist horseshit. And rapey. Like, really really rapey.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/24 05:02 AM
5

It's hard to say what other people will think of you. Can't worry too much about that. What will you think of you? I will say that a plan to get good in bed through sex workers feels a bit flawed. And that it will be hard to find a serious relationship in the future unless you just don't tell her this, in which case you won't have a relationship based on honesty and trust.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/24 11:42 AM
9

Not picked by whom and under what circumstances? Especially if you're a man you generally have to put some effort in, you don't just walk out the door and get picked. But no, I can't think of a single quality that no one in the world is attracted to. There are people into all kinds of shit.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/24 07:18 PM
2

Those what not picked?
/r/ExRedPill14/07/24 07:11 PM
37

I'm not sure if there is a question in here but no you can't tell how much sex a woman has had by looking at her vagina.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/24 11:09 PM
9

Well, stop listening to random red pill people obviously. Most of them haven't had a single relationship longer than a year, if they have had any relationship at all, how the fuck would they know anything about this? Also you can't keep someone loving you. What you can do is facilitate love between both of you and give your love the best chance. But you can never control another person's feelings and actions. Some people just stop loving you no matter what. Then you mourn a bit and move on.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/24 11:46 PM
24

This girl fucks.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/24 11:40 PM
14

Well, reading your thread from 6 days ago it sounds like you tried to have a one night stand, she decided against it after it started, then you acted like a lunatic on her instead of saying oh ok. It obviously didn't have shit to do with your height, since she already knew that before starting. It may have had to do with how weird and potentially aggressive you were being. Hard to say. So my two pieces of advice would be: One night stands are the worst way to connect with someone. I'm not saying…
/r/ExRedPill08/07/24 11:39 PM
5

Well, sometimes consistent. Depends on your relationship.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/24 01:53 PM
6

Why would two people cancel out bills? My wife and I have a one room condo and things like heating and air conditioning would be the same whether there was one or two of us. We also only have one couch, one tv, etc. It's way cheaper to have a partner. With that said it's obviously not just about money. Or sex for that matter, though sex is nice. We are best friends and we support each other on a level that people who are just friends generally don't.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/24 01:51 PM
3

Women like all different kinds of things. My wife loves soft spoken. I don't know why you equate shyness to feminine though lol. I will say that getting out of your shell a bit helps in a lot of things, not just romantic relationships. I became a teacher in my 30s and I've become a lot more assertive and outgoing since. Kind of hard to be a shy, unassertive teacher the kids will stomp you down fast.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/24 05:25 PM
16

Then why do you think women all act this way for "Chads"?
/r/ExRedPill27/06/24 08:57 PM
12

I have a question. If you met a girl, really liked her, she was kind of cute, you dated her for awhile, were happy, and then a hotter girl came along... would you break up with the first girl for her?
/r/ExRedPill27/06/24 08:17 PM
9

No, not most. Around 1/3. And this includes men who have "less frequent" sex.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/24 02:47 AM
12

Why would hot dogs cheese cart rolling pin buttress terminal velocity nineteen high hog partition France?
/r/ExRedPill18/06/24 11:12 PM
15

They're not telling all guys to go jerk off they are telling specific guys in specific circumstances to go jerk off. Well, if this is even happening much, which I don't see.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/24 04:52 PM
13

I don't.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/24 04:20 PM
5

Right but I'm talking about the real world.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/24 07:31 PM
40

Congrats, it took me until around 30 to figure this out. Also, pro tip. A bunch of men completely wreck their bodies (smoking, drugs, alcohol, diet, etc.) by their 30s / 40s so if you just kind of maintain an ok looking body you end up in a sweet spot.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/24 08:12 PM
2

Having a good partner helps but you need to be able to enjoy life alone or you will struggle to enjoy it with a partner. It's not constant fucking lol. Still need to figure out what to do with your life.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 11:11 PM
34

One thing I'd say is unless your goal is to have sex with as many different women as possible, you don't need to find out how to appeal to the broadest amount of women. You can find a woman who likes your niche. To put it in music terms you don't have to fill stadiums. You can just be a rad local band with a small following.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 10:34 PM
2

Why?
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 04:50 PM
7

I'll add to this. In my 20s I was struggling hard and felt similarly, like my life hadn't really started. But late 20s I finally got my shit together and went back to school and was feeling pretty good about life for the first time in awhile. I met my wife soon after. Coincidence? Perhaps. But I think I was finally in a more positive mindset. I wasn't approaching dating like I'd be lucky to find anyone anymore. I finally felt like I was on a path where I had a lot to offer too. It helped my conf…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 04:49 PM
15

Get it done by mid year? Kid, no one is going to tell you this is easy. I found my wife when I was 30. Shit, 5 dates in a half a year would have been amazing for me. Anyway, you obviously have some other issues going on. What makes your life a life of misery? Did you have a rough childhood? I notice near the end you say you are waiting for life to begin. That's an odd comment. Life isn't dependent on being in a relationship. You are living life right now. And let me tell you, it never really "be…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 03:49 PM
2

Right, every movement has some problems. But 3rd wave feminism overall is a legit movement working towards equality. Red pill is a hate group. No comparison.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/24 08:12 PM
10

To pretend a legit equality movement has the same issues as a movement of sexist losers who are specifically rebelling against equality helps no one.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/24 04:44 PM
15

I can personally assure you that not everyone is hooking up in college, lol. As for paying for it, I don't personally see that as a huge moral failing, but many do, so you would either have to lie about it or be judged for it if it ever came up in the future.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/24 03:38 PM
17

Third wave feminism doesn't have "grains" of truth, it's based on big hard truths.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/24 03:30 PM
10

It really isn't.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/24 03:29 PM
23

Oh it's much, much worse than 3rd wave feminism.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/24 02:59 PM
20

Yeah except red pill doesn't give anyone the tools to see reality, lmfao. I can't address your #2 because it's something you made up that no one believes. And your use of the term "degeneracy" makes me think you're probably a huge homophobe / transphobe as well. Certainly sexist. Possibly racist too.
/r/ExRedPill10/06/24 06:12 PM
1

Does it? There are 4 billion men in the world and you think you need qualifiers?
/r/ExRedPill07/06/24 03:32 PM
1

So now you think there are good men?
/r/ExRedPill07/06/24 02:34 PM
1

Why not? There are roughly 4 billion men on the planet. You don't think any of them are good?
/r/ExRedPill07/06/24 04:04 AM
3

Yes, obviously. Finding them is the challenge.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/24 04:03 AM
1

Well there you go. You're afraid to invest much in these women. They obviously won't invest much in you either at that point. It's scary but if you want someone who will understand you and your medical issue you need to make a real connection again.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/24 10:45 PM
1

Have you ever dated the same woman more than a handful of times? When you make a connection with someone they don't just walk out.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/24 09:10 PM
2

And I shouldn't have to take meds to not be an anxious mess but here we are. Life is complicated.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/24 07:32 PM
1

Then the other 10% is your dating pool, what is the issue? And if a girl needs it right now that's what your mouth is for my man.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/24 07:15 PM
2

Maybe the issue is you have been through 25 girls. Do you even get to know each other?
/r/ExRedPill04/06/24 07:15 PM
1

You actually could carry meds around with you. Why not?
/r/ExRedPill04/06/24 07:14 PM
15

I go to meetups all the time. But yeah location matters. I would not suggest living in the middle of nowhere.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/24 05:47 AM
3

How old are you, if I may ask?
/r/ExRedPill03/06/24 02:12 AM
7

I went from being fairly right wing as a youth to incredibly left wing as an adult. It didn't happen overnight though.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/24 01:54 AM
23

People around here really rebel at the idea that red pill is just repackaged trad conservatism but... it is. The main difference is, as you said, the whole juggling a bunch of women thing, but even a lot of trad religions allow this for men too. Polygamy, etc.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/24 04:39 AM
2

I mean, we're always evolving. But evolution is slowwwwwwwww. Most of the quicker changes humans have seen in recent years are attributed to better access to food and such, not evolution.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/24 05:31 PM
22

Here is the correct answer: you're wrong.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/24 05:38 AM
4

Oh it definitely is. Especially certain specific things. Like people just act like men thinking huge boobs is the most beautiful thing ever is just nature or something, but history does not back this up.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 08:01 PM
26

My cousin is one of those guys and he had a sleep around period but for the last 10 years or so he has only been with women in longterm monogamous relationships and he is definitely a hopeless romantic. Just depends on the person.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 05:54 PM
7

What do you think of Kristen Schaal? She's like top 5 for me.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 03:02 PM
32

Because things being subjective doesn't mean trends don't exist. Conventionally attractive people are those who are attractive to a wide portion of the population. They will have it easier in dating, or at least, have it easier finding dates. If you're not conventionally attractive things will be harder, sure. But that doesn't mean no one will ever find you attractive either. Also in my experience like 90% of red pill guys who call themselves ugly are just like, average looking.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 02:28 PM
5

No that's pretty normal and if 99% of guys you know say otherwise then you need better friends. Also you're creating depressing narratives in your head. Women all find their "soulmate" after you? Soulmates don't even exist. Most of them won't be with that person forever.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 02:42 AM
2

Sounds like you're doing fine. Just make sure you don't say sexist or creepy things.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 12:31 AM
6

I never even saw that lol. Anyway, if it isn't what you are looking for just skip that one.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/24 06:45 AM
5

Recommended by whom, for what?
/r/ExRedPill27/05/24 06:23 AM
4

Because it's a made up number. There is no reason to believe numbers without evidence.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/24 05:12 AM
5

They try to convince themselves that it's just sex that they want, and they make jokes about how once robots are around they won't need women anymore. But they want what most straight men want. They want to be wanted by a woman. They want connection and intimacy. They want it all. But since they have failed at it they have to create new narratives.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/24 11:14 PM
3

Yes, more likely than today. Besides, this all ignores that what these men really want from sex is more than orgasms. They're trying to lie to themselves and suppress it, but that won't work.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/24 07:49 PM
5

But they would be more likely to see a woman as a sex object at that point. Robots won't cut it.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/24 07:13 PM
10

Decoupling sex from a person isn't a healthy reaction to well, anything.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/24 04:13 PM
6

They're not really conflicting drives at all though. Some people maybe conflate the two but that doesn't mean they're inherently in conflict. Sex bots won't solve shit. Guys can already go see sex workers if they just want sex but usually they want more.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/24 01:42 PM
39

Older men are mostly dating older women.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/24 01:21 AM
17

Why did you say 21 in another reply?
/r/ExRedPill24/05/24 03:05 PM
10

How old are you?
/r/ExRedPill24/05/24 02:22 AM
28

It's almost like they're just selling a narrative to men that gives men everything they want plus the justification of being right with God. Which really is a lot of what religion is in general.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/24 11:32 PM
13

Average guys hook up all the time and lots of people find relationships on dating sites and apps.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/24 04:57 AM
3

Where are you finding dating advice that says don't date?
/r/ExRedPill18/05/24 12:17 AM
8

It says text posts preferred I don't see anything saying a person can't post a picture of themselves. But yeah I get that it probably wouldn't help. It's just my experience with these guys is a lot of them are just average looking and being average looking is absolutely not a guaranteed path to being forever alone or whatever they are worried about.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/24 08:52 PM
29

Ok let's see a picture of you.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/24 05:41 PM
3

Bro I sound like Ray Romano, my wife and I laugh about it.
/r/ExRedPill16/05/24 05:52 AM
9

Because that's not a thing, you're taking things people say and trying to make them black and white. What is a thing is attraction is multifaceted and involves a lot of variables. Obviously physical appearance is one of those. But so is personality, unless someone is super shallow. Or related interests, and other things. And how much each variable matters depends on the person. As a guy, has every crush you ever had just been the absolute most physically attractive woman you could find? If so we…
/r/ExRedPill15/05/24 01:00 PM
10

But that's not the same as saying guys like this never do well with women. Loosely speaking there are two types of misogynists (probably hundreds but I'm simplifying), extroverts and introverts. The first does fine with women... to an extent. Like, they're never going to find a real fulfilling mutually respectful longterm relationship, but they can sleep around a bit, have some girlfriends here and there, etc. because they're outgoing and "good with people" and especially good at manipulating pe…
/r/ExRedPill14/05/24 01:42 PM
14

Who has ever told you guys like this don't date or have sex? I think you're mischaracterizing what people are saying.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/24 01:45 AM
11

No I mean used by people who claim the label themselves. Honestly I knew a lot of virgins growing up, and none of them called themselves incels. Especially at 21 it's not even that uncommon. It's mostly people who hang out around online incel groups who take on the label.
/r/ExRedPill13/05/24 10:22 PM
8

I dunno. I think of it like the term "patriot". Dictionary definition is one thing. The type of people who apply the label to THEMSELVES is usually quite another. Not always. But enough that people hesitate when they see someone call themselves that. There is a reason this guy is distancing himself from the term. He knows how it is generally used.
/r/ExRedPill13/05/24 09:18 PM
33

Red pill men have no idea what the fuck they actually want. They're just angry and raging at a world that is leaving them behind.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/24 12:49 AM
9

If you think kids get unrequited love you never met right wing parents with gay kids. Many of them end up harassed, beaten, put out in the streets.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/24 03:03 AM
5

I guess I'm confused why you would think even women in their early 20s would be looking for "beta bucks", I've never heard red pillers say women do that until they spend years getting "run through" by "alphas" first. Mind you that's all nonsense. Trust will always be tough if you start from a position of distrust. I'm not saying hand trust to strangers day one either but it helps to at least view everyone as neutral until they prove themselves one way or the other.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 05:32 PM
5

If you want a diagnosis you need a psychiatrist not a therapist. But having both doesn't hurt. But psychiatrists don't really put dates on things either. Mental health is incredibly complicated and isn't the same as like, healing a broken bone.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 05:24 PM
2

Well, I guess first I'd ask how things go. You're mentioning multiple women, do you have longterm relationships with them or flings? Who ends things and why?
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 05:23 PM
2

Doesn't red pill tell you the ones in their early 20s are just fucking around and not serious yet? Not that anyone should take red pill ideology seriously but based on that if you have a bunch of early 20s women into you now doesn't that mean you're "alpha"? Also what do you think changed that "no one" used to be into you and now a lot of women are?
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 05:22 PM
5

You're never going to get a due date from a therapist, that's not how it works.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 02:20 PM
11

Not for any of these type of issues. But I started cbt for my anxiety about a year ago and it's been a very good experience. Honestly I kind of already knew a lot of what my therapist told me but it's good to have the language to describe it now (like saying "oh I'm catastrophizing again" or "oh this doesn't have to be all or nothing") and some strategies for dealing with bad thought patterns. And honestly, it's been nice just to have someone to talk to who can tell me that a lot of people go th…
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 02:17 PM
6

You said your life experience has shown the beta thing to be true. But you're also successful with women now? What does that mean? How is it true if you're successful with women? What does success mean in this respect?
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 02:10 PM
9

He said he does quite well with women now. Must have figured something out.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 02:03 PM
12

I don't know what women go through but let me tell you, as a man, it took me awhile to figure out what I actually wanted in a partner. To be frank, all of my crushes in my teens and early 20s were mostly driven by "wow she's cute and seems nice", which are important things sure but they aren't everything, and this led to some bad situations at times because yes you want to find a partner attractive but damn there are important things that you can blind yourself to if that's your primary reason f…
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 01:59 PM
2

You know average is defined as the median, right? Like what is this group of friends of yours that are all at or above average? Do you realize how mathematically impossible this is? Unless you're hanging out with models.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 03:41 PM
4

No it probably isn't literally the exact opposite of what literally everyone here says. But even if it were, so what? These things aren't mutually exclusive. A person can hang out in their circle AND get out and meet new people in other places too. That's basically what I did. I had my circles of friends but I never dated in them.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 03:35 PM
8

Even on a small scale it's bizarre to know 18 women (and I'd imagine at least 18 men), literally no one in the circle but OP below average, and mostly average women and mostly hot men. Like, what are the odds? Odds are higher that OP is seeing this through their own bias.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 03:14 AM
6

You said they're mostly dating the average women.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 02:31 AM
13

Then he should get out of his circle sometime. Dating in your circle is overrated anyway. Once you hit 30 or so most everyone in your circle has dated someone else in your circle before, sometimes multiple people. I don't want to date someone a friend already dated.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 02:31 AM
2

Let's see a picture.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 02:29 AM
5

So then who do all the hot women date?
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 02:28 AM
8

So you know 18 women and 0 of them are below average looking? The math seems off here. Hanging out with models or something?
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 02:26 AM
16

Who told you it's easy to meet a partner? It's pretty tough really.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 02:25 AM
26

how do they not see this dissonance? I mean, that's conservatism as a whole, especially in America.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/24 07:38 PM
27

Once again clicked the first three, they didn't say what you claimed (not even close in some cases), didn't click the rest. When you have to stretch and bend to create a narrative that works against you, it is time to ask yourself why it is important to you that you believe life is harder than it is. Life is hard enough.
/r/ExRedPill30/04/24 10:44 PM
44

A few things. You can have whatever standards you want, but if you claim to be involuntarily celibate and it turns out you're just excessively picky, then your claim makes no sense. Most of the incels who show up here still steeped in red / black pill believe in shit like 80 / 20 not just "I'm a virgin because I only want to date super hot women". Incels trying to give people dating advice makes little sense. It's not wrong to not know things but you probably shouldn't comment on things you don'…
/r/ExRedPill30/04/24 10:40 PM
9

They sure seem to think they are.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/24 01:33 AM
31

...and? You think it will be good for her to be with a guy who doesn't find her sexy?
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 05:27 PM
16

I mean, have you seen this forum? A lot of the guys here are super misogynist.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 04:54 PM
35

It's not a "gift" to have someone into you. A healthy relationship is mutually beneficial to both people.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 04:52 PM
45

You don't have to console people every time they are hurt. You're going to expend way too much of your energy this way. And especially if they are women you wish you were dating, that's just a bad situation. 90% of the time when people get frustrated with others they are really frustrated with themselves. You have agency. You can be someone else besides a shoulder to cry on. Buttttttttt a lot of these "friends" aren't just friends right? They're women you wish you could be with. Also what are yo…
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 04:50 PM
30

Physical attraction is a real thing. Sure, you shouldn't get too obsessed over it, especially if you want a longterm relationship (people's bodies do change over time). But if it's not even there from the start? Then I'd say this is not a good match.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 04:28 PM
3

Never, also why would you want to? Stop hanging out on the sidelines matchmaking.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 04:03 PM
6

Only briefly until they find a good one.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 03:07 AM
4

People whose issues don't get in the way of being able to find and maintain a longterm stable mutually respectful relationship.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 10:52 PM
3

I'd say it plays a huge role in getting healthy women attracted to you. You do know healthy women that don't date misogynists exist too, right? My wife is one of them.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 10:23 PM
9

You can call it whatever you want but a misogynist incel trying to interact with women is generally just going to creep women out. Hating women and having little experience with women is a double whammy here.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 07:16 AM
10

No they can't read an incel mind. But incels tend to suck around women and that gives women the creeps.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 07:10 AM
11

Not necessary for what?
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 07:06 AM
66

I think it makes sense to look at it like this. Players can be misogynists, incels can be misogynists. The difference is players have years of experience on how to manipulate women, incels generally have little to no experience with women at all. And this is what often gives off the "creep" factor.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/24 07:10 PM
5

I think you hit on something when you said you're afraid of being forever alone. Because here is the thing. Relationships are a risk. But being forever alone sucks. I was alone until 30. It's not fun. If you want a guarantee things will work out in life, you won't get one. You might get cheated on. You might get fired from your dream job. You might get hit by a car and become paralyzed. You might get cancer and die young. Even if you coop yourself up inside and try to avoid all risks. Probably e…
/r/ExRedPill26/04/24 05:04 PM
13

It's not all luck. Choosing a good partner requires things like, for instance, not ignoring red flags.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/24 04:59 PM
3

Oh, you're this guy. I remember you. Ah well, you're totally lost, enjoy just being angry all the time.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/24 04:26 PM
3

Then go see some sex workers you'll be hooking up whenever you want.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/24 05:07 AM
2

So is that what you want then? Lots of hook ups? BTW you know married people have more sex than unmarried people in general right? Which isn't saying a lot other than maybe your group of people doesn't represent the norm.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/24 04:19 AM
7

Because there are sexists who have socialized themselves around women and know how to "play" them, and there are sexists who are very isolated from women and don't know how to act around them at all. These are two very different types of sexists. To put it in terms of 80s movies, jocks and nerds can both be sexists, but only one of those types knows how to play women. Of course, it's not the 80s anymore and nerds are cool now and blah blah blah but the point remains, some sexists have a ton of e…
/r/ExRedPill25/04/24 07:42 PM
9

No. What everyone can sniff out with ease is the type of misogynist who sits on the Internet complaining all the time. The misogynists who are out in the real world just acting "normal" around women do much better. Most of them probably don't even know what the red pill / black pill is because they're not eternally online.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/24 05:32 PM
6

Define "the best". Like, hooking up a lot? Is that what you want? Does anyone you talk to have longterm, mutually satisfying relationships?
/r/ExRedPill25/04/24 05:26 PM
14

My wife is a professor and makes way more than me. I got sick last summer and had to quit work indefinitely. She has been taking care of us since then and tells me don't rush back to work until I'm ready.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/24 04:33 PM
2

I did not know this was a thing. Seems like one of the worst possible uses of money.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/24 05:16 PM
11

They aren't. Failed parents are not a new thing. Some of us probably have one or two.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/24 05:23 PM
9

Peterson is sexist and racist and homophobic / transphobic though. And promotes baseless Christianity while being coy about his views.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/24 04:18 PM
8

Break up. That's the only answer. Let him go down this shit path alone.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/24 04:17 PM
16

Is life easy for him? Sounds like he is confused about what he wants and this makes it difficult for him.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/24 03:20 AM
2

Did you start?
/r/ExRedPill16/04/24 10:44 PM
3

Agree and amplify - Instead of arguing against a point, just agree with the person but try to connect their view to a ridiculous end. Of course, if their position DOES lead to that end, this isn't necessarily bad to call out, but red pill mostly uses it to gaslight and shut women up. Amused mastery - Instead of getting angry at a point, just act like it's all beneath you. Even laugh at it. Red pill mostly uses this to... again, gaslight and shut women up. Especially if she wants to talk about a …
/r/ExRedPill16/04/24 10:11 PM
2

Yes, you do need some help.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/24 09:46 PM
2

Probably, but probably not what you think it is.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/24 09:45 PM
2

So wait, do you think casual sex is realistic or not? Seems like most of US think you have a better shot at having sex than you seem to.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/24 09:43 PM
4

I read the first three links you provided, no one in them said casual sex is unrealistic or even implied anything close to anything like saying for the "majority of men casual sex is unobtainable and an unrealistic". I assume the same with the others. Are you sure you're not just misinterpreting people taking the position that either A. a lot of women won't want to fuck you (which is not the same as saying no one will) or B. that they find it gross that you want to approach things this way (whic…
/r/ExRedPill16/04/24 09:40 PM
4

Can you link to it? I've never seen anyone here say that. Why would they? Do they think no one has casual sex? I mean hell if you have money you can go have casual sex with a sex worker right now.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/24 06:09 PM
19

Here as in the exredpill sub? People tell you casual sex is unrealistic? What? When? Where?
/r/ExRedPill16/04/24 02:00 AM
23

Right. When he gets mad at her for being perfect it will become "I thought you were different, you're the same as the rest!" This guy hates women. Do not, under any circumstances, date a guy who hates women.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/24 10:27 PM
23

I'm not going to judge. Her first experience was SA and this is the first guy she has dated that hasn't forced himself on her. She's unfortunately not in the best position to know what a healthy relationship looks like.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/24 08:42 PM
77

Don't date redpillers. You won't change them and they will ruin your life.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/24 08:14 PM
1

What about the Internet is making you hate women? I'd unfollow all the red pill guys if you're following them.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/24 09:17 PM
4

You couldn't forgive them you'd be dead. But if someone wants to forgive other people that's fine. I'm more asking about why you don't feel empathy for her.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/24 08:52 PM
4

Well. Imagine yourself in her position. How would you feel?
/r/ExRedPill14/04/24 08:46 PM
11

Because they're sexist idiots.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/24 08:25 PM
19

The answer to every single question about women is: There are roughly 4 billion women in the world and they obviously don't all think and act the same. Every. Single. Question. That's your answer. BTW my wife has had relationships with two toxic men. Each one lasted a few months and once she realized what was going on, she left. Meanwhile I'm a normal ol' non-toxic man and my wife has been with me 15 years. Anecdotes. We all have them.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/24 08:45 PM
23

"just knowing that for some women, all it would take for a guy like him to come along and could sleep with any girl I had an interest in or was dating." Don't date those kind of women.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/24 03:41 AM
7

Where and how are you asking all of these women out?
/r/ExRedPill09/04/24 10:03 PM
4

Whose topic? No one introduced social cues as a topic.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/24 10:01 PM
14

First off, 6'2 isn't average anywhere. The Netherlands has the tallest average male heights of any county and that is 6'1/2. You're above average height and obviously this isn't the be all end all that black pill guys think it is, but it does give you an edge. It's also impossible to know if any girl has ever been interested in you or not. Like it or not, men usually still have to make the first move. Many women will do nothing even if they are interested. Some even specifically see it as pathet…
/r/ExRedPill09/04/24 09:52 PM
22

How often do you ask women out?
/r/ExRedPill09/04/24 04:04 AM
10

Why would you want consent? You won't go to jail for being a rapist for one.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/24 02:31 AM
12

But like, ask for permission for anything physical.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/24 12:40 AM
2

Try Dr. Nerd Love.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/24 12:40 AM
12

No, I wouldn't say it's not to try. Especially as men we often have to make the first move. But when people say things like you said up there, I think what they mean is improving yourself and doing interesting things and having lots going on with up your own self confidence will put you in a better spot to find people who are interested.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/24 03:01 AM
43

Those men suck. My wife is a professor and intelligent as hell and that's sexy as hell.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/24 12:50 AM
4

It doesn't matter why she's running back, you don't want to be the guy who bends over backwards for a girl like this.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/24 05:09 PM
8

I have no idea who this is. Generally I'd just say stop going to these grifters for advice.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/24 05:06 PM
6

No, what is true is love involves a lot of variables. Certain things will make it easier but that doesn't mean they are necessary. This is obvious if you look at the real world.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/24 11:29 PM
27

I mean, no, that's true too. All kinds of men find partners. But certain things make it easier. It's weird that you're more concerned about their hypocrisy than their raging sexism.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/24 03:43 AM
30

So a few basic things everyone knows and a shit ton of sexism. Yeah, no thanks.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/24 03:22 AM
49

Their messages are really dumb though.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/24 02:46 AM
101

Today? It took you this long?
/r/ExRedPill06/04/24 01:41 AM
5

Don't worry, they're not even half correct. Anyway, the first step to detox is always just cutting off the source. You have to stop consuming the content. It's simultaneous stupid, false AND making you feel bad. If you're going to feel bad, at least feel bad about the truth *cough* we're all under the thumb of the 1% *coughs*.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/24 04:02 PM
4

No, what would happen with a random girl is we have no idea because a random girl could be anyone and no one can predict randomness or they would just win every lottery. Obviously. Jesus.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/24 05:14 PM
5

No you said attractive men are allowed to be confident and talk to women blah blah blah and others have to keep their head down. That's sheer nonsense. I don't know if you actually think an "attractive" guy can just waltz into a room and be a total fucking creep and literally every woman in there drops her panties and meanwhile an "ugly" guy strolls in and literally all the women are instantly like EW GET AWAY CREEP but that's not how the world works at all. Sure some people have things easier t…
/r/ExRedPill04/04/24 05:22 AM
3

It's literally not what the OP said though.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/24 04:11 AM
5

That's not what the op said.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/24 12:47 AM
9

It's obvious.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/24 12:47 AM
12

You're not here to listen to anyone.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/24 11:51 PM
9

Nah.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/24 11:37 PM
4

My thought is it's dumb.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/24 02:22 PM
3

It's different because assuming literally no one has ever shown any interest in you can lead to "I'm not likeable" as a conclusion and then next thing you know you're buying into black pill nonsense. The fact is, even in 2024, men usually still have to make the first move. If you're sitting around waiting for things to happen then probably nothing is going to happen. That's not the same as being unlikeable.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/24 12:55 AM
3

I'm not speculating on anything. It's a logical fact that you don't know.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/24 12:45 AM
8

That's not knowing that's speculating. A lot of people don't talk at all they just stare across the classroom or whatever.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/24 06:17 PM
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