"If she's interested, she'll reply or text back no matter what you do or say" vs "You can have an impact on her reply via your actions or words"

meleyys · 2025-06-07T23:02:46+00:00

The truth is somewhere in between. Someone who's already interested in you is more likely to respond to you, but that's not to say that you can never make yourself more appealing.

xvszero · 2025-06-07T23:41:39+00:00

I mean, the second is clearly true. Unless you think you could tell someone you want to like, murder their siblings or whatever and they would be like welp, I'm interested, what else can I do?

XxMarlucaxX · 2025-06-07T23:05:05+00:00

It's both. Yeah, we will respond for the most part to someone we're interested in but that doesn't mean you can say or do whatever and still get a response. Your behavior or words can turn someone on or off of you bc that's demonstrating who you are as a person.

DenverKim · 2025-06-07T23:58:00+00:00

What you do or say can and will directly impact whether or not she’s interested. Seems like a simple concept to me.

I’m not sure if this is relevant to what you are trying to figure out, but if you want to improve your chances of a woman replying to you then you have to make sure and give her something to reply to. If she asks you a question, then don’t just answer it, but also ask her a question in return. I’m consistently shocked by how many grown men don’t seem to understand how basic conversations are supposed to work (I know women do it too).

If you are giving her things to actually respond to, and she still doesn’t, then she just isn’t interested and nothing you say or do is likely to change that.

throwbackblue · 2025-06-07T22:19:32+00:00

set up a date. if she likes you, she will meet you

Equivalent-Cat5414 · 2025-06-08T03:06:55+00:00

There are certainly some things you can say that will be a turn off, but it also depends on the woman. Like if you ask for nudes from a woman you barely know or send a dick pic, no matter how much she already liked you that may make her hate you and think you’re a pervert, or that may actually lead to her sending nudes. I’ve responded the 2nd way a few times before when I was interested in the guy but I’m sure there are plenty of women who’d respond the 1st way.

Lonely_Insurance4588 · 2025-06-07T21:44:18+00:00

Option 1

Title	"If she's interested, she'll reply or text back no matter what you do or say" vs "You can have an impact on her reply via your actions or words"
Author	AGuyWithoutAName_
Upvotes	3
Comments	21
Date	June 7, 2025 9:33 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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