Happy couples

waffleznstuff30 · 2025-03-06T17:40:56+00:00

It exists.

Relationships aren't these bizarre power struggles. Its not this transactional agreement. And whatever else red pill/incel crap tells men.

It's finding a human you enjoy spending time with. And spending time with them. Sex is part of that it's like the perk. But really the foundational thing is finding someone you enjoy spending time with and they enjoy spending time with you. Cuddling up on the couch playing games and enjoying each other's presence is kinda the bread and butter of it all.

I say this as a person in a healthy relationship.

I_do_it4sloots · 2025-03-07T08:25:18+00:00

They are either jealous or they think she's cucking him with Chad while using him for betabux, depending on their personality. This belief comes from a mix of being extremely introverted / not having had a proper social upbringing / not having had enough positive social experiences + suffering from anxiety, past traumas + being exposed to internet redpill / blackpill content which cements these false beliefs, coupling all this with not believing in positive emotions, or for example that bonding between people can happen naturally, because this never happens to them in social settings due to their anxiety, stiffness, creepiness.

GoAskAli · 2025-03-07T11:01:07+00:00

I've been with my husband for almost since 2008. We fall more deeply in love all the time.

He's my best friend and the best guy I've ever known.

xvszero · 2025-03-06T16:02:44+00:00

Wait, what do they say is wrong about that?

Fuzzy-Constant · 2025-03-07T12:31:08+00:00

I always figured they didn't see a relationship like that growing up so deep down they don't think it's a real possibility.

dumbbitchcas · 2025-03-08T01:24:17+00:00

They have this need for women to be completely subservient to them. They think the man is weak for enjoying a safe normal relationship(something most people know they’d be lucky as fuck to have)

centaurus_a11 · 2025-03-09T18:14:09+00:00

I think that in many cases, it’s because they don’t have many examples of healthy relationships in their own lives.

Like, my previous relationship wasn’t healthy, my parents’ relationship wasn’t healthy, my uncle’s relationship isn’t healthy either. None of the relationships in my maternal or paternal family I’ve heard of, were healthy. My only exposure to healthy relationships was through word of mouth in my social circles and even they had issues which make me question just how healthy they are.

This makes me skeptic about all relationships in general and I don’t have a very optimistic view on relationships. Doesn’t mean I think that all are bad.

Soft-Neat8117 · 2025-03-08T16:15:16+00:00

What's wrong with a woman cuddling next to her husband while they watch some British crime drama together?

I could easily cuddle with a dog. I could watch TV alone or with a friend.

What else besides sex can she offer me that I can't get elsewhere?

PutsWomenOnPedestal · 2025-03-06T19:08:15+00:00

the idea of a healthy relationship seems almost completely foreign to them

To be honest, the idea of a healthy relationship is also foreign to people who aren’t incels.

What's wrong with a woman cuddling next to her husband while they watch some British crime drama together?

Seems like a low bar, lol

Title	Happy couples
Author	samof1994
Upvotes	29
Comments	96
Date	March 6, 2025 3:54 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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