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Pics are also for personality
/r/ExRedPill22/08/25 01:07 AM
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Hahahhaha regret and depression from having good harmless fun? That's not real. It happens in a few people who have casual sex even though they don't like it. But when people who like casual sex do it it does not result in regret or depression
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 03:53 AM
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Lmao these don't prove what you're saying at all. The last one is just feelings and opinions but not actual reality
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 03:52 AM
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Read the posts where people are suggesting break ups . The majority of people who come to reddit talking about their relationships have disastrous relationships.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 03:43 AM
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You don't belong here. This is an anti conservative and pro-reality and logic subreddit. This is a place for critical thinking. Not for your irrational beliefs
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 03:40 AM
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There's nothing wrong with either gender being a whole consensually
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 03:38 AM
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Be rational there is nothing wrong with a consensual harmless activity
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 03:37 AM
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Because none of this is based on rationality. If you're being logical and care about truth: casual sex is not bad no matter what the gender is Like lmaaaooooooo at the absurdity of thinking that a harmless fun activity is bad hahahahahahahahahahahaahahahahaha
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 03:35 AM
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They're taught to by society.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 03:34 AM
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No it is not. You only think that because of your feeling s and because that's what you were taught to think. You do not have this belief because of logical thinking based on evidence
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 03:33 AM
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There is no evidence that people having consensual casual sex causes any harm. Like how the hell would it? It is literally just doing an activity that feels good. O know plenty of people that do it and they're perfectly healthy. Being against casual sex for everybody is extremely irrational and not based on evidence at all
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 03:32 AM
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Nah. The only thing that matters is consent. Like why the hell else would it matter? There's nothing wrong with two people consensually having a good time. Nothing bad happens when people have a good time. Its harmless.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 03:31 AM
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Fuck this so much this sub has changed. This sub used to be so much more rational. Like this sex negativity is nothing more than feels over reals.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 03:30 AM
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nah this is such a ridiculous comment. There is nothing wrong with consensual sex
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 03:29 AM
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Neither genders are effected. The effect depends entirely on the individual. There is nothing inherently bad about it
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 03:28 AM
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Its not. I ask it to summarize chapters from books and it gets it totally wrong. At the moment it's not meant for people to get legitimate information.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 03:23 AM
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The red pillers believe in that religious model of patriarchy you described there. But they also believe that most "modern women" have been corrupted by feminism. So they are angry because they can't have that kind of patriarchal marriage. You can't follow that model of benevolent patriarchy if women are rejecting the idea.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/25 05:52 AM
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A romantic relationship is a form of friendship. Most people are turned on by the people they are in a romantic relationship.
/r/ExRedPill11/03/25 01:27 AM
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Divorce rates are going down now that people are being more choosy with who they marry. Before divorce rates were higher because people married just to get married
/r/ExRedPill09/03/25 12:29 AM
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Men are looking for a friend who turns them on. You should enjoy being around the person you're gonna spend your life with.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/25 12:28 AM
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Lmao there is no way youre going your own way if you're having sex or a gf. Do you realize how stupid that sounds?. Like if you have a gf how can you even remotely claim to be going your own way?? That is the stupidest thing I have ever heard in my life. I am baffled as to how someone could possibly think something that stupid.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/25 01:05 AM
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Genuine MGTOWs are just out there living their lives. They're not wasting their time joining a group dedicated to being single. There's no need for a group like that. You just live your life. Travel and business and investment advice is everywhere.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/25 01:03 AM
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You can easily escape it by not reading that content online. Don't even go online except for work or school related stuff.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/25 10:03 PM
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You don't have to understand it. It's still true though. But when you see people you think are below average looking, that doesn't mean that they're partner finds them physically unattractive. Different people are attracted to different physical traits.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/25 02:37 AM
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Children.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/25 12:31 AM
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It's definitely not todays dating world. It was not any easier for short guys in the past. But also you're not short - just an inch below average. It shouldn't have much of an effect on you at all. Always try. It's stupid to not try. It's pointless to not try. Don't listen to people online. They don't know what they're talking about. Just log off and try doing all sorts of irl activities that you like to do.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/25 12:30 AM
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Learn logic and critical thinking. Use your brain Go outside. Read books from qualified authors.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/25 10:26 PM
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We do not have a widespread promiscuous culture. At all. Not even close.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/25 10:24 PM
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Most are more attracted to their partners than they are to other dudes/hook ups
/r/ExRedPill28/11/24 03:04 AM
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Ah so you just want to lie and not have anyone check to see if you lied or not
/r/ExRedPill12/10/24 12:20 AM
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Because you told people to do that... If something happened to you then link the comment where it happened.
/r/ExRedPill12/10/24 12:19 AM
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The people who think it's bad that women have male friends or men have female friends are just jealous. I would say those jealous types of people both men and women equally.
/r/ExRedPill12/10/24 12:18 AM
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Working out is definitely not traditional. Working out is definitely a more modern day thing. Thicker skin is ABSOLUTELY not traditional. Lmao I'm thinking about how fragile men were back then. Mostly male friends is not traditional, men today still have mostly male friends.
/r/ExRedPill12/10/24 12:16 AM
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Well if they're complimenting your personality that doesn't mean it's instead of your appearance. They probably like your appearance too.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/24 03:10 AM
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Those things don't have anything to do with actual kindness and respect. I was 20 when someone did the walking on the car side of the street thing. When I heard that rule I laughed out loud at the absurdity of it. The idea that a car is going to crash into the sidewalk is so unlikely to happen it is absurd to me that anyone would think it actually matters or is a polite thing to do to walk on the street. It's fucking ridiculous and hilarious.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/24 05:21 PM
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You're not being seen by most women because that's how basic numbers work. The app doesn't show you to most women. There are far too many men for the few women in those apps to see you. They aren't seeing you because there are far too many other men they would have to swipe through in order to get to you. It has nothing to do with their filters
/r/ExRedPill13/09/24 05:17 PM
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Online does not mean dating apps. The statistic that says half of couples meet online includes other platforms that aren't dating apps. Half of couples meeting online doesn't prove what you say it proves. Half of couples meet on real life therefore dating apps are optional and irrelevant.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/24 05:16 PM
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Lmao. Everything has happened at least once
/r/ExRedPill13/09/24 01:35 AM
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Reddit is a terrible representation of regular people. It's not because they're lying. It's because reddit attracts a certain specific group of people that are very different from average people.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/24 01:35 AM
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Damn you are so stupid you've never heard of are tests.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/24 09:05 PM
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Lol
/r/ExRedPill07/09/24 09:04 PM
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"body counts" aren't any higher than they were in the past. This is a huge historical misconception. People were having just as much casual sex 100 years ago
/r/ExRedPill07/09/24 09:04 PM
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Red pillers are against that.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/24 07:36 PM
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You're both just regular people. A minority of people make over 6 figures in the US but these people are overrepresented on reddit and are out of touch of what average people's lives are like. Most women end up dating someone with a similar income level as themselves.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/24 07:32 PM
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Most women would do. Most women watch porn too and banning it would be a massive violation of the people's freedom of speech. Sexuality is not bad. It is a huge part of what makes us human and what makes life beautiful and wanting to see depictions of sexuality is human nature. Porn has existed ever since drawings have existed and will always exist. Attempts to restrict our sexuality have always made everything worse and repression causes people to release their sexuality in harmful ways.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/24 07:30 PM
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Healthygamergg
/r/ExRedPill16/08/24 11:54 PM
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One anecdote doesn't prove anything
/r/ExRedPill12/08/24 11:17 PM
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The women you know are much extremely atypical. The vast majority of men and women have multiple friends.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/24 09:59 PM
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There's probably some other valid reason but it is extremely unlikely that the actual reason is their looks
/r/ExRedPill04/08/24 09:57 PM
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Temporary situationahips aren't any higher than they were in the past, this is a huge historical misconception. Everything you say here isn't reality, it's just things that only exist in your mind
/r/ExRedPill03/08/24 11:45 PM
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For most couples I see, the two people are equally attractive. If there ever is a mismatch, it is always the woman that is the more attractive one
/r/ExRedPill02/08/24 05:58 PM
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It doesn't take any privilege to reject someone. Anyone has the capability to reject people for whatever reason they want. A partner is not a necessity.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/24 10:17 PM
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You can't spread education about that. You can't change what people are attracted to. Attraction is based on physical characteristics and we don't have control over what we find attractive.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/24 10:15 PM
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In most countries you're above average. In the US you're above average height. You can't get away with lying about your height, they'll eventually find out when you meet in person
/r/ExRedPill26/07/24 10:11 PM
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Everytime I see a couple, they are usually equally attractive. If there ever is one person that is mor conventionally attractive, it is always the woman. I have never seen a woman be with a man more attractive than she is.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/24 05:00 PM
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This is a temporary issue caused by your location. A lot of people go through times in their lives where they can't date because of the logistics of their current situation. There's no use in getting tinder matches that live hours away. You wouldn't be able to meet those people.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/24 12:38 AM
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It's really like less than 2%
/r/ExRedPill28/06/24 04:17 PM
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They are completely removed from reality
/r/ExRedPill28/06/24 06:43 AM
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I've been to Walmart. If you go there you'll see plenty of chubby men holding hands with chubby women.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/24 09:55 AM
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Most young guys in their 20s are not virgins. A lot of people want to be single at that age because they don't want to settle down
/r/ExRedPill20/06/24 03:43 AM
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My straight girl friends do check out average looking guys and talk to me about them. They aren't open about it in public though
/r/ExRedPill20/06/24 02:50 AM
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Everyone is aware that those things can happen with a minority of people who watch porn. But there is no evidence that it will happen with most people who watch porn. Most people are capable of watching porn in moderation and without developing any issues
/r/ExRedPill17/06/24 07:33 PM
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It's only an addiction if it gets in the way of you functioning in other areas of life
/r/ExRedPill17/06/24 05:49 PM
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Just because attraction can grow after getting to know someone, that doesn't mean that it will grow for every person. There are just a lot of people that you're never going to grow attraction to, no matter how great their personality is.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/24 05:25 PM
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The vast majority of people watch porn and jerk off without becoming addicted. Jerking off is a completely normal and healthy thing to do.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/24 04:31 PM
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The men there aren't representative of normal men. Most men don't prefer a virgin woman. Most people lose their virginity and realize that it changes nothing and doesn't matter
/r/ExRedPill17/06/24 12:58 AM
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They aren't normal guys, these are people who don't deal with rejection well because they have had trouble fitting in with their peers all throughout their lives.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/24 10:38 PM
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Those aren't red pill
/r/ExRedPill16/06/24 01:34 AM
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There is no rampant hook up culture. A tiny minority of people are having regular one night stands
/r/ExRedPill12/06/24 06:33 PM
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That is not an example of what you were talking about I have never seen a comment here invalidating insecure men's experiences
/r/ExRedPill12/06/24 06:31 PM
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Can you provide examples of those comments?
/r/ExRedPill12/06/24 04:47 PM
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I do t understand why you can't carry around Viagra with you
/r/ExRedPill04/06/24 06:56 PM
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Yes everything you mention here is important but also many lonely people may be dealing with negative emotions such as anxiety and sadness which makes it hard to connect with people whenever they do attempt to socialize. So it's also important to address any internal issues.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/24 11:10 PM
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Socializing more is not an unrealistic goal at all but it does depend on location. In the right locations there are vast amounts of opportunities, but you have to be patient and willing to try. The challenge for many red pillers/ex-red pillers is that they didn't learn to socialize when growing up, they've had negative experiences in the past or they have some neurodivergency that makes it difficult for them to socialize. These people would have had the exact same struggles with socializing 30 y…
/r/ExRedPill03/06/24 06:04 PM
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Just the fact alone that God is referred to as "he" is sexist against women
/r/ExRedPill03/06/24 01:27 AM
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You will be better off with women that like your true self. You shouldn't change the way you act based on what you think is attractive to women. That will only attract women that don't like who you really are.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/24 01:32 AM
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Both things can be true: that there are misogynists that attract women and also being a misogynist can prevent you from attracting women. Incels have a different brand of misogyny than the men you're talking about. It's the type of misogyny where you're bitter about women rejecting you that is off-putting.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/24 12:50 PM
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Let's say hypothetically that women are attracted to 10% of men. That 10% would be a different group of men for each woman. There is so much variation among different women on what they find attractive. So an average man could be very attractive to a woman if he fits her type.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/24 03:23 AM
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It's not bad morally but it's not good for your mind to aspire for something solely for the external validation. And it's not good to compare yourself to men you think are chads. Your validation has to come from yourself. What women or other men or society thinks about you does not determine whether or not you are a cool and good person. You don't need to be a Chad to find women to connect with romantically. You have to stop placing value on society's idea of what a Chad is and be your own Chad.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/24 02:57 AM
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But incels don't just claim that dating is harder for less "attractive" people. They claim that dating is impossible.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 04:44 PM
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Wait why wouldn't the fact that men outnumber women matter? Clearly if there aren't enough women then a lot of men just naturally won't get many matches. Because there aren't enough women, a man's profile won't be seen by women.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 03:23 PM
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But in this post you said you tried dating apps
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 03:22 PM
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I have a friend who finds Seth Rogan insanely attractive, while my other friends thinks that he has zero sex appeal.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 03:20 PM
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There is so much debate about whether or not a given person is attractive or not. People don't universally agree on what is attractive.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 03:18 PM
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But you weren't even asking for any help in this post. So the goal of these replies aren't to be helpful because you weren't seeling help.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 03:15 PM
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Dating apps are not proof of anything. What happens on dating apps cam only tell you about what the people on dating apps are like. It doesn't tell you what people in general are like. The algorithms are also manipulating what happens on dating apps.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 03:14 PM
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Having no one attracted to you is much much much much much better than being abused.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 12:09 AM
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If that were true then that would be an advantage for men and disadvantage for women. Everyone should be encouraged to be confident.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 12:04 AM
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You can get a bunch of messages by going on Grindr. If you want the experience of being a woman, then you have to imagine yourself getting a bunch of attention from men . That is what it's like being a woman. Getting sexual attention from women is NOT how you should think of what it's like to be a woman. Would you want a bunch of sexual attention from men? If not, then you would not enjoy being a woman. A man getting sexual attention from women is not the equivalent of a woman getting sexual att…
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 12:01 AM
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Only for sex. If it's a relationship then both have the same amount of options because most people are monogamous. So if there are a group of single men than there are a roughly equal amount of single women.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/24 11:58 PM
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It's not. You can have women as friends while also having women you have sex with
/r/ExRedPill27/05/24 05:24 PM
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You can see women as more than sex and still want to get laid
/r/ExRedPill27/05/24 05:57 AM
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I think the main problem for red pillers is that they see sex with women as something that increases their social status. Having sex with robots won't make red pillers feel like that increases their social status.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/24 04:45 PM
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Don't look at online dating advice. Most 16 year olds don't have any experience with dating. You'll be better off just living your life and learning about dating through experience rather than trying to follow online advice. Most people just learn from experience. Looking at online dating advice can make you worse.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/24 04:33 PM
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There's a difference between wanting to date someone and being desperate
/r/ExRedPill18/05/24 11:30 PM
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Have you tried quitting reddit and other social media?
/r/ExRedPill18/05/24 06:15 AM
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That was me so I tried as hard as I could to be able to move somewhere else.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/24 03:28 AM
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I've heard this advice mostly from men irl
/r/ExRedPill18/05/24 12:44 AM
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It happens a lot but that doesn't mean that it has to happen. I've known adults that were very intentional about maintaining friendships and they've been able to maintain platonic connections because they put the effort into it.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/24 12:24 AM
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You don't have to envision a future alone. If you're not ready to accept potentially being single forever, maybe you can accept potentially being single for the next 6 months or something. You cam still try dating but remove the pressure on yourself.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/24 12:21 AM
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It has helped me to see it more as a "want" rather than a "need". If I see a relationship as something that I need then I'm going to be very miserable every day which is going to prevent me from connecting with people when I am interacting with them. If I see it as a "want" then I can still pursue it but I won't put too much pressure on myself when interacting with people, and I can still be at peace if things don't work out with someone. The important thing to note is that acceptance of being s…
/r/ExRedPill18/05/24 12:19 AM
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When I look around outside I don't see that at all. Only on the bus or something but that's not a problem. When I look around at parks, bars, malls, restaurants, etc. I don't see people on their phones much.
/r/ExRedPill16/05/24 04:39 PM
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Exactly. In areas that do have spaces for adults to meet, I see people socializing way more. The reason some people stay inside in some areas is because that area literally has nothing better for them to do
/r/ExRedPill16/05/24 03:21 PM
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It is real but it is exaggerated online. If you go by reddit you would think it's much worse than it actually is. When people talk about it online you would think that socializing among young people is almost completely dead. But in real life, bars and clubs are crowded with young people and I'm always seeing young people hang out with friends and significant others. What is happening is that there is a higher percentage of people that aren't socializing, but they are still a minority of the pop…
/r/ExRedPill16/05/24 09:03 AM
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Most people are physically attractive to at least some people. Most people have some physical features that at least some other people find attractive. Both looks and personality play a role in sexual attraction.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/24 07:16 PM
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It's not rational to form conclusions based on anecdotes. Because human minds don't process the data accurate. Human minds can be selective with which anecdotes they take in, remember, and internalize. And there are other anecdotes that our minds ignore. So maybe you're ignoring all of the times that non-misogynists got laid.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/24 07:07 PM
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Incel doesn't mean involuntarily celibate. Every single group that labels itself incel believes in an ideology. The thing that brings those members together is the ideology, not the fact that they are involuntarily celibate.
/r/ExRedPill13/05/24 11:27 PM
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You don't need a label to describe this condition.
/r/ExRedPill13/05/24 11:24 PM
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You're not an incel. Incel does not mean involuntarily celibate. It means someone who believes in incel ideology.
/r/ExRedPill13/05/24 11:24 PM
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They want women to be virtuous with every other man except for themselves.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/24 12:55 AM
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Well if you really are that ugly and it's impossible to find anyone that wants to date you then you might as well stop worrying about dating and spend that time doing something enjoyable. Idk how anyone on the Internet is supposed to fix your appearance. And it sounds like you don't want to hear anything else aside from "you're right, it is your looks and there's nothing you can do about it."
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 08:54 PM
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Therapy really is much more important than anything you can find online. The reason your friends or random people online give bad, generic advice is because they are not professionals and they don't know what they're talking about. You should really consider that every time you get frustrated by advice you see online. You should not expect anything better from random people.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 07:31 PM
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????? The commenter just said they'll put in an equal amount of effort as the other person. A relationship could easily get started that way. It doesn't have to involve chasing.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 03:23 AM
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I don't think cold approaching is 100% bad, but I think it's hard. I think you'll have more luck approaching people in a place where people want to socialize and you have to be very good at reading people for cold approaching to work. But cold approaching does work out well sometimes for some people. Overall I think it's hard to find good solutions by posting on the Internet and the people who find the most success with relationships are the people who are not so obsessed with finding a relation…
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 03:16 AM
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You are the one who first made the claim that attractive men are more likely to pump and dump. So you are responsible for proving it. The burden of proof is on the person who makes a claim.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/24 05:03 AM
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Less attractive men are not less likely to "pump and dump". Most people tell both genders to have reasonable standards. Bo Burnham has a song about this called "Lower your Expectations".
/r/ExRedPill30/04/24 09:34 PM
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It doesn't always. It can happen that way sometimes, but that's not going to happen with you and her
/r/ExRedPill29/04/24 03:31 AM
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That's just one person's opinion
/r/ExRedPill29/04/24 03:29 AM
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Most people aren't attracted to most other people of the gender that they're into. Just because someone is a part of the gender you're attracted to doesn't mean you're going to be attracted to that person. You shouldn't date her
/r/ExRedPill29/04/24 12:37 AM
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They usually are attracted to each other, that's why they have sex
/r/ExRedPill29/04/24 12:34 AM
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They probably do know how to write better, but they're just choosing not to put effort on reddit because this is just a social media platform, not a job
/r/ExRedPill26/04/24 10:16 PM
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But most commenters in this sub are men
/r/ExRedPill25/04/24 01:42 AM
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There are plenty of men in this sub, plenty of exredpill men
/r/ExRedPill24/04/24 04:23 AM
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Most men who commit suicide have had sex
/r/ExRedPill23/04/24 10:39 PM
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People still get mental illnesses, whether or not they're sexually active. Many attractive male celebrities have deal with drug addiction and other mental health issues.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/24 10:36 PM
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Most people do end up with their "looksmatch"
/r/ExRedPill23/04/24 10:33 PM
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Can you link some comments as examples?
/r/ExRedPill23/04/24 10:32 PM
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But masturbation is just not the same. It doesn't feel nearly as good as sex.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/24 06:51 PM
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The men who get laid can be misogynistic, and they usually have a different type of misogyny than the red pillers do.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/24 05:16 AM
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You took that comment too literally. They meant to just talk to women respectfully, not to literally go up to a woman and politely ask for sex.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/24 06:16 PM
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I don't think it's unobtainable for the average man. Maybe it's unobtainable for the average guy to be having casual sex with new women every week, but the average guy can find someone every once in a while.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/24 03:29 AM
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Because human brains are flawed and have cognitive biases. Most people see other people being confident and just assume that the confident person is confident for a good reason. Most people hear someone say something confidently and just believe that what they say must be true, even if it is totally incorrect. This is how Donald Trump became so popular. It's just human nature, and human nature isn't perfect.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/24 04:47 AM
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Well when it comes to dating, mathematically men and women have the same number of options. Because most people end up in a relationship with one other person of the other gender.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/23 10:21 PM
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Most incels refuse to go to therapy so I feel that you are pretty different from the stereotypical incel
/r/ExRedPill08/11/23 04:39 PM
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Some do. But most of the time the “bad guys” act nice at first. So most women who are with bad guys do not like bad guys.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/23 04:48 PM
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Incels have too much time on their hands
/r/ExRedPill06/11/23 01:59 AM
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It doesn’t make sense. If you’re a man transitioning to be a woman you’ll get opportunities to date men. But these incels aren’t even attracted to men so how would that benefit them?
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 10:23 PM
2

Nah i go out and live in the real world unlike you. Misogynistic men at every real but we encounter them whether or not we have sex
/r/ExRedPill24/10/23 03:32 PM
1

So you admit that those feelings of disgust are completely irrational
/r/ExRedPill24/10/23 03:31 PM
1

Do you understand that your feelings about sexuality are just your feelings and not everybody else’s? Do you understand that different people are different? Andrew Tate isn’t normal. You are vulnerable during sex but that doesn’t make it harmful. You’re vulnerable every time you share your feelings with someone but it’s still good to share your feelings. Everything in life that is worth doing comes with the risk of getting hurt. You’re vulnerable every time you try to get to make new friends. Yo…
/r/ExRedPill24/10/23 05:07 AM
2

You can’t say that something is bad for everyone just because you don’t like it. You have to have an actual reasons. You can’t say that something is bad just because. Everyone I know that has slept around a lot has never experienced any of those things. The vast vast majority of the time, casual sex is harmless. Those risks are not that high and those risks are also present anytime you go outside or socialize with people. Birth control exists, condoms exist, STD testing exists. Here is what I wo…
/r/ExRedPill24/10/23 05:04 AM
0

The RP guys who go to the gym aren’t successful with women though.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/23 04:59 AM
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No that is not the core message. No one would give a shit about the red pill if that was the core message. The red pill is about their belief system about how men are all inherently one way and women are all inherently another way.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 07:15 PM
3

Answer the question
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 06:13 PM
3

And yet neither you or the other person have not actually provided an explanation as to why it would be harmful to sleep around
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 06:13 PM
6

Welll you were taught bullshit. There’s nothing inherently shallow or irresponsible about sleeping around. It’s possible to do it responsibly. For some people it is just like doing any other fun activity that people do with friends. There is nothing inherently special about sex. Sex is what we make of it. Sex is a different thing for everyone. It’s fine if you want it to be this special thing for you personally, but for other people it is not that special and that’s okay. And do you notice how y…
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 06:11 PM
4

Therapy for doing a fun and harmlesss activity? Hahahaha
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 06:08 PM
9

You have the right to say your opinion and other people have the right to tell you that it was a stupid opinion not based on reality
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 06:05 PM
2

You really need to understand that different people are different. Sex is just an activity for some people and there’s nothing wrong with that. It’s no different than doing other activities that we do with friends. It’s just a fun and harmless time. It doesn’t have permanent psychological or physical effects.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 06:00 PM
2

No
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 05:55 PM
1

Show the proof
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 12:31 AM
1

You didn’t read the post
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 12:29 AM
0

Not everyone is you.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 12:28 AM
1

But sex doesn’t have negative effects on your body and mind like drugs do
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 12:27 AM
1

That’s really not true. Most promiscuous people are in a good period of their life. Most are just doing a fun and harmless activity Your experience is solely your experience
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 12:25 AM
0

This person is repeating red pill nonsense and has no idea what they’re talking about
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 12:23 AM
1

Not everyone is you. Different people are different
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 12:23 AM
1

Hahahahahhah. No it’s not
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 12:20 AM
1

You don’t know what you’re talking about It’s not wrong to view sex as a physical activity Everyone is different You are very arrogant for wanting everyone to be the same as you
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 12:20 AM
0

You’re just repeating incel redpoll nonsense
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 12:19 AM
1

It bulslhot not real science
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 12:19 AM
0

It is bullshti
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 12:19 AM
1

Lol You knoow that it’s very easy to be promiscuous when you’re single and then experience love when you meet someone to enter a monogamous relationship with? There are also promiscuous people that are in committed open relationships. There are also plenty of promiscuous people that don’t desire romantic relationships but feel love from their friends and family. Romance isn’t necessary for everyone to have a happy life.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 12:17 AM
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Nah you’re just full of shit. All of the promiscuous people I know have so much better mental health and healthier relationships than anyone else I know. Sex is a fun and harmless activity. Promiscuity indicates that someone likes to do fun and harmless activities.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 12:14 AM
1

None of those people in the red pill subreddits are having any sex and they have non advice on how to do that. It’s just terrible advice that doesn’t work
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 12:11 AM
1

But that’s not true about promiscuous women. It’s true for some women and some men, but not that many.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 12:08 AM
3

They don’t cite that much research, and the few studies that they do cite don’t support their claims.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/23 04:04 PM
2

There’s nothing wrong with sleeping around
/r/ExRedPill19/10/23 04:05 PM
6

A woman who votes Republican definitely has internalized misogyny
/r/ExRedPill19/10/23 04:03 PM
16

And red pillers exacerbate this issue. Red pillers believe that anger is the only acceptable emotion for men to have
/r/ExRedPill19/10/23 04:02 PM
11

There’s nothing wrong with that. The problem is that the Red Pill community is inappropriately named. Their community doesn’t reveal any truths.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/23 04:01 PM
2

They don’t need to be posting fore there to demoralize lurkers. The stupidity of what people say there is demoralizing enough.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/23 03:31 PM
3

Yes. It is better if it’s a person you just met. If it is with someone that you’ve known for a while then you can do something a little bigger for the first date.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/23 03:23 AM
5

Yeah. The people in that community don’t have much life experience, which is why they believe Red Pill claims.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/23 03:21 AM
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No one was talking about non consensual sex trafficking though. Some people enthusiastically consent to doing sex work
/r/ExRedPill11/10/23 03:19 AM
8

You’d be surprised by what goes on at nursing homes.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/23 03:17 AM
2

There is a lot of free porn but maybe someone wants specific types of porn that they cant find for free. Some people have extra money to spare.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/23 03:15 AM
3

It’s just people that are horny. The majority of customers aren’t lonely men.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/23 03:11 AM
3

You aren’t as long as you understand that you’re just a customer and don’t have any more expectations beyond that. There’s nothing wrong with paying for OF.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/23 03:10 AM
1

Oh my god lmao you are so stupid. It’s good to judge people when they do something that’s worthy of being judged. It is bad to judge people when they don’t do something that’s worthy of being judged.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/23 04:21 PM
3

If you only care about safety then the best lifestyle choice would be to stay in your home and never socialize. Every time someone goes out there is always a risk of something bad happening to them.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/23 05:40 PM
1

No there aren’t.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/23 05:17 PM
9

No, it doesn’t show that no man wants to keep her. You’re assuming that she wanted to keep a man, and that she was trying. But she was only intending to have sex, she wasn’t looking for a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/23 05:16 PM
7

The risk of violence is just as high in long term relationships.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/23 05:15 PM
1

You don’t even go out in the world though. So why do you think the world confirms them? Clearly you only ever spend any time online and never do any offline activities
/r/ExRedPill28/09/23 11:06 PM
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Red pillers are not masculine though.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/23 11:05 PM
3

There are women at all sorts of income levels. People on Reddit tend to be middle class or higher, and both middle and upper class men and women are usually snobby.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/23 03:45 PM
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These statements only make sense to people who don’t know people in real life and get all of their impressions about humans on Reddit
/r/ExRedPill27/09/23 10:49 PM
2

Do you understand that people on that subreddit aren’t representative of normal people. Most people don’t go on that subreddit. People that are in happy relationships aren’t going to go on that subreddit - they have nothing to discuss. The only reason for someone to go on that subreddit is if they have things to complain about.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/23 12:51 AM
2

It’s not about addictiveness. If you consider looking at porn cheating, and then your partner looked at a porn magazine one time, then your partner cheated. Your partner cheated whether they did it one time or a hundred times. Therefore if you consider porn cheating, then cheating was just as common in previous generations.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/23 12:50 AM
2

You were saying that porn use was less common in previous generations. But it wasn’t. If you consider watching porn videos cheating, then you would also have to consider looking at porn magazines or reading porn books cheating. Internet videos are more easy to access now but in the past people looked at porn magazines just as often as they look at videos today.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/23 12:41 AM
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Because those people are overly insecure and need to work on themselves. It is not healthy to expect a partner to never look at any porn. The vast majority of men and women look at porn. The vast majority of people look at porn while in a relationship and very few people want to stop their partners from looking at porn. It is overly controlling to try to police your partner’s masturbation habits. And the subject was cheating in previous generations - the accessibility and realism of the porn is …
/r/ExRedPill23/09/23 12:36 AM
2

Yeah but you’ve never been on college campuses from the past, you’ve never been to the wild parties that used to go on a hundred years ago. You don’t know anything about what people were like in the past. I’ve heard so many stories from old people. They were wild when they were young.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/23 12:27 AM
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Why would anyone count porn use? And most people have been looking at porn ever since porn has been a thing. And porn has been a thing ever since cavemen could draw.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/23 12:25 AM
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You can’t just claim that gen z is more promiscuous without any evidence. You can’t just base that claim in your personal feelings. Facts don’t care about your feelings. People on Reddit keep repeating this lie because they have personal issues with finding a relationship, and rather than do any personal introspection, they decide to blame other people for their personal problems.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 08:38 PM
1

Why are you repeating this lie? I already told you that it’s not true at all. Teens and young people today are less promiscuous than young people in previous generations.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 08:26 PM
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Cheating is not more common in this generation
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 04:11 PM
7

The vast majority of people are still monogamous. And casual isn’t the same as poly. Poly is not casual. Poly involves committed love.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 03:04 AM
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That’s not true at all. Casual sex was more common in all previous generations. You have a false romanticized notion of the past.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 03:04 AM
1

The language being used is absolutely saying it’s impossible. “You NEED to be a taller guy” “You NEED to be making 6 figures” “If you aren’t a chad then don’t even bother”
/r/ExRedPill21/09/23 02:52 AM
1

Well some acquaintances have the potential to turn into good friends over time. Most of them won’t, but most friends start out as acquaintances.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/23 02:50 AM
1

Guy friends are a way to help meet women. If you keep on making guy friends, then maybe some of them can invite you to social events like birthdays where there will be both men and women. Guy friends have women in their lives that you can come across.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/23 02:48 AM
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It’s just going to be very very hard to meet people if you don’t socialize. The more people you meet, the higher chance you have of meeting someone who is compatible with you. You aren’t going to even have a chance of meeting someone if you don’t socialize at all. And if you don’t have friends, a girlfriend is not going to help you feel less lonely. We all need multiple people in our lives.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/23 02:45 AM
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But if your average height then you don’t even need to think about moving to other countries. That’s not going to solve a single to not because height is literally 0% of the issue. You would have the same issues in other countries, because your problems have nothing at all to do with your height. Height is only a concern for men that are below the average height.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/23 03:31 AM
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I read your post history and you’re obsessed with height and are convinced that your height is your problem. I thought you would be like 5’2 or something. But then I find out that you’re 5’8!!!!! You don’t belong on r/short. That’s literally the average height. The average man does not have trouble finding people to date. The vast majority of men that are 5’8 are able to find dates. It is very very obvious that height is not your issue. Why would you even think it’s about tour height when you ar…
/r/ExRedPill20/09/23 12:26 AM
2

I would say that it’s mostly just people who have had bad experiences that go online to talk about them. And people who are happy with their relationships don’t have any reason to go online and talk about it. Also, I want to say that cheating was very common in the past like in the 1940s and 50s. It was an open secret that married men were having affairs. It was something that women expected and had no choice but to accept. That’s why it is such bullshit to romanticize the past.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/23 12:04 AM
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I don’t like most of these subreddits, though not all of them are misogynistic, they are just annoying. I don’t like r/dating and r/dating_advice. It’s a lot of people who just want to whine and not actually take any advice or put in effort. They keep repeating the lie that “hook up culture” has ruined modern dating, but that’s nothing more than a myth. Hooking up has existed for all of human history and casual sex is actually less common today than it was in all previous generations. It’s just …
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 05:53 PM
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Nah honestly most incels don’t try even though they will lie and tell you they did. But the further you talk to them it eventually comes out that they never try And I’m a lesbian
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 09:16 AM
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Most men don’t have your experience of getting played and cheated on. Why did you bring that up?
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 09:10 AM
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Youre e not worth any of our time. You have zero expertise and zero knowledge and zero critical thinking skills
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 09:02 AM
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And we’re not telling men how to exist we’re just talking about once men who are no where near representative of average men.’ You are just really not an intelligent person at all. When people provide actual substantive arguments you don’t address them. You always just start going off about things that have nothing to do with what anyone said.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 09:01 AM
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But a date isn’t an hour. It lasts many many hours and you would have to pay a prostitution thousands of dollars to spend the same amount of time that you do on a regular date. You literally started arguing that you’re not a misogynist when I never called you a misogynist!!!!!!!!!!
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 09:00 AM
1

Then they shouldn’t pay for they should just try to find people that also just want to get laid
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 08:59 AM
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I said $200 PER HOUR. With a relationship you’re spending hundreds upon hundreds of hours with that person. I never even said that men don’t pay for anything when dating. What the fuck are you arguing against?????
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 08:57 AM
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There’s a differences between restaurants and human beings. I compare things and I can compare human beings but I don’t RANK them. I don’t rank my friends, I don’t rank my family members, I don’t rank my exes. They are all just unique individuals and it’s not possible to say that any one is better than the other because they are too different to rank.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 08:48 AM
1

You state that the comments are gaslighting. The comments are stating that it is possible for men under 6ft to date. Therefore, you are stating that the statement “it is possible for men under 6ft to date” is gaslighting.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 08:45 AM
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Nobody told them to ignore. The only thing that these comments said is that it is possible for men under 6ft to date. Nobody said it wasn’t harder for shorter men.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 08:43 AM
1

But by deductive reasoning that is what your comment is saying. You state that the comments are gaslighting. The comments are stating that it is possible for men under 6ft to date. Therefore, you are stating that the statement “it is possible for men under 6ft to date” is gaslighting.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 08:42 AM
1

All I’m saying that it’s a product of insecurity that can be worked on And you literally said yourself that it is all about insecurity.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 08:40 AM
1

You can ask them to show you the results of the test. You don’t have to take their word for it And I’m just pointing out that there’s no rational reason to care.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 08:38 AM
1

You still never explained how paying for people you’re in a relationship with is the same thing as paying for sex?
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 08:34 AM
1

But you didn’t call out reality. All you did was tell your personal story and it’s completely irrelevant. That is not what happens to most men.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 08:33 AM
1

You aren’t a Vulcan at all lmao. You’re not logical.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 08:23 AM
1

This has nothing to do with anything I said. I never stated that you didn’t love your ex wife. I never called you a misogynist. All I said was that your experience of paying that much money is not representative of most mens experiences. Men usually pay for dates, but they’re not paying $200-500+ per hour. That’s how much it costs to have sex with a sex worker. Don’t you understand that the experience of paying for sex and the experience of paying for your date’s food are completely different? A…
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 08:22 AM
1

2/10 women will absolutely date 2/10 men
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 08:17 AM
2

There will be other women in the same boat. Most people tend to date other people that are similar to themselves.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 08:16 AM
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Sex isn’t usually using women’s bodies. If both people want to have sex, no one is being used. There are women out there that like to just have sex. I am a woman and i know many women that do.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 03:41 AM
2

A lot of women like casual sex and benefit from it. Everyone is different. Don’t generalize.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 03:39 AM
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There are some women that do just want to have sex. You have to meet and talk to a lot of people in order to have a higher chance of finding women that also just want sex.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 03:39 AM
1

But that’s just your reality. That is not most men’s reality. That is not how most marriages are.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 03:36 AM
1

Well the way it works is that you would maybe make male friends at the drawing classes, and then you can hang out outside of the classes, and you can get invited to social events that they are doing with their friends, and you meet their male and female friends and develop more connections.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 03:33 AM
1

You might have to ask someone you know in real life, they know you better and can be more helpful. They can tell you how you are coming across to other people. And if you really don’t know anyone then you can try to find a counselor.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 03:30 AM
2

If you compare sexual partners that is a very weird and rare thing to do. It is not normal for people to do that.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 01:14 AM
1

So you agree that you don’t need to be a taller guy to date in the US. But you were saying earlier that is it gaslighting to state that it is possible for men under 6ft to date.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 01:10 AM
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It a because your comment is so fucking stupid you didn’t address what I said. You need to learn how to read.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 01:10 AM
0

It’s not the relevant data. Did you read my comment? I said that I know a lot of women have preferences. But the statement in the OP is NOT that a lot of women have preferences. No one was disputing that statement . The statement in the OP is that it’s impossible for men under 6ft to date. That is not what people were disputing.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 01:09 AM
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No one fucking said that it’s not true in these comments. Please point to the comment where anyone said that. All that anyone said that it is not impossible for men under 6ft tall to date.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 01:06 AM
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Oh my god but that is not what anyone is saying. You don’t know how to read. The statement in the post is “you need to be a taller guy to date in the US”. The reality is that there are men shorter than 6ft that date in the US. That is all that people in these comments were saying. It’s not gaslighting to say that. I know a lot of women have preferences but that is not what the statement in OP is. Please please please take a logical thinking 101 class.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 01:05 AM
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ANYONE can learn to work through their insecurities. My comment was advocating for these men to do what is the healthiest thing for themselves, and that is to work through their insecurities. Not to reinforce them by making up some bullshit about women.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 01:03 AM
1

If you’re bad at sex then you will be bad at sex whether or not she has had previous partners before. People know that the sex is bad because they didn’t have a pleasurable experience. It has nothing to do with past experiences. Just because someone has never had sex before, that doesn’t mean bad sex is going to feel good.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 01:01 AM
1

Are you aware of STD tests? You can ask any potential partner to take a test before having sexual with them.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 01:00 AM
1

The data doesn’t support any of those claims in OP’s post. The data very easily supports the claim that it is possible for men under 6ft tall to date.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/23 09:04 PM
1

But the claim being made by RP and in this post is that it’s impossible for men under 6ft to date. There is no data to support that. The claim is not that women prefer men 6ft or over. The claim is not that a lot of women will only date men 6ft or over. The claim is that all women will only date men 6ft or over. RP is not claiming that attractive people get more attention or that people cheat. RP is making more extreme claims than that. Those ideas that you’ve stated aren’t controversial at all …
/r/ExRedPill16/09/23 03:32 PM
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The solution is for those men to learn to not be insecure about that. It’s an irrational thing to worry about. People don’t compare and rank their sexual partners. If someone is with you it’s because they like you, it doesn’t matter how other people in the past were.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/23 03:25 PM
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Yes RP does target vulnerable men and that includes autistic men. However I want to make it clear that autistic men are not more likely to be misogynistic than neurotypical men.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 03:33 PM
2

The red pill is supposed to be about providing hidden truths about “female nature.” “People like attractive people more” is not some hidden truth. It’s just a basic thing that everyone knows. Even children know that.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/23 02:42 AM
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What you described is not red pill ideology. That’s just basic truths that everyone knows. Yes, people like atttractive people more. Lol. Thats not some grand revelation lol. Everyone already knows all of that so there’s no need to say it or talk about it. That’s not red pill.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/23 05:36 PM
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Well men can also get sex easily from other men. And I know you’re not attracted to men, but you don’t seem to understand that you being able to have easy sex with men you’re not attracted to is the same situation as women being able to have easy sex with men they aren’t attracted to.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/23 03:22 AM
2

It’s not at all easy to find a sugar daddy
/r/ExRedPill01/09/23 03:31 AM
7

So the issue you’re describing on your post would mostly be solved if you were to just masturbate. Obviously if you don’t masturbate then you’re going to feel a lot hornier. There’s no reason to do that to yourself, you’re just needlessly making yourself more frustrated.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/23 06:22 PM
4

Normal men would laugh at this post.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/23 04:43 PM
1

OP is claiming to know what normal men want but he doesn’t have a single clue about what normal men are like at all. Red píleles have never been normal men, and normal men never become red pillers. And I’m not saying “normal” like it’s a good thing, and being abnormal isn’t a bad thing. It’s just that red pullers need to undertstand how out of touch they are. The vast majority of men would laugh at this guy for writing this post. y’all really need to understand that normal men are the men who bu…
/r/ExRedPill25/08/23 04:42 PM
3

But the vast majority of men don’t feel this way. The vast majority of men don’t agree with red pill ideas at all. Normal men don’t feel nearly the same as you do. Normal men aren’t bothered by the idea of multiple genders. Normal men aren’t becoming red pillers.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/23 04:39 PM
6

The vast majority of people just jerk off for 5 minutes every day and then move on with their day. Are you calling 99.999999999% of people beta losers?
/r/ExRedPill25/08/23 04:37 PM
1

There is zero reason to believe that her not wanting to have sex with her partner has anything to do with who she had sex with in the past. There are so many other factors that are way more common and make a lot more sense. Maybe he is bad at sex. Dead bedrooms happen with literally all types of people. Dead headroom’s happen with people who were virgins when they married, dead bedrooms happen with gay men, etc. literally all types of people.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/23 01:25 AM
2

Tate has talked about it directly on video, he explained in detail what he does to traffic women
/r/ExRedPill22/08/23 01:44 AM
5

You could try another hobby like making music, making art, or partner dancing. It is hard to judge chemistry through messages on apps but the purpose is to meet in person and see if you have chemistry.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/23 01:42 AM
4

Shorter guys should try dating in their own country. If they want to move for different reasons then that’s good for them. But they aren’t going to have better luck dating in other countries.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/23 02:01 AM
6

That statement about men not getting compliments is only true when it comes to compliments about physical appearance. When it comes to things that aren’t about physical appearance, men get complimented more than women.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/23 12:18 AM
7

This conversation is about a mother who NEVER gave her child a compliment ever about anything. It has nothing to do with brutal honesty. Every single human being has at least one thing they honestly deserve to get complimented about.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/23 12:15 AM
3

It hardly had any blue pill people. It wasn’t much debating, it was just all red pillers.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/23 08:25 PM
0

1-2%
/r/ExRedPill10/08/23 01:13 PM
2

Yes :)
/r/ExRedPill06/08/23 03:46 PM
3

Brad Pitt, Leonardo DiCaprio, and Johnny Depp are not attractive anymore, despite being more attractive than most men their age.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/23 01:29 AM
3

Paying shouldn’t be based on gender
/r/ExRedPill19/07/23 04:18 AM
1

What evidence do you have for that? Every single person I know has had sex by the age of 20 and everyone turned out fine. At age 20, most people are more than ready to have sex. And why did you say 18-20 and then 25? There’s a huge amount of time between ages 20 and 25.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/23 06:28 PM
3

The important thing to understand is that there were people who were having casual sex all throughout human history. It is absolutely not more common today. It’s likely less common today.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/23 03:51 PM
1

This is definitely not typical for lesbians. Don’t worry about it, a lot of people have been with 5 partners or less in their lifetime.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 09:50 PM
3

An okcupid study only tells you information about people on okcupid. It doesn’t say anything about people in general. It’s very possible that most men on okcupid put bad pictures, so they actually were unattractive in the pictures.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 03:39 PM
10

Absolutely not true. If you go outside you’ll see plenty of average guys in relationships.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 04:22 AM
1

Of course
/r/ExRedPill14/07/23 01:34 AM
5

There are many different options other than online dating and there always will be
/r/ExRedPill13/07/23 05:30 AM
4

It depends on your location. There are some cities where irl meetings are common
/r/ExRedPill13/07/23 05:28 AM
0

No because sexual assault is not about lust
/r/ExRedPill09/07/23 05:43 PM
13

You don’t need a group to do that. You just live your life. A group dedicated to choosing to be single is just inevitably going to turn toxic, because there’s not a lot of things to talk about. Just be single and live your life. People that are actually going their own way aren’t going to want to join a group about it. Because they are simply just living their lives and not obsessing over being single
/r/ExRedPill09/07/23 02:08 AM
6

Do you realize how stupid you sound? If all of those women are talking about their boyfriends, then obviously there are a lot of men that have girlfriends. Women do not have it easier at all.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/23 06:16 PM
7

Everyone just really needs to chill about “body count”. The vast majority of people have had less than 15 sexual partners.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/23 08:50 PM
3

Trust me. Women who behave like you don’t have any friends either.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/23 12:01 AM
1

Yes :)
/r/ExRedPill28/06/23 11:59 PM
1

At this age, your life has barely even started
/r/ExRedPill27/06/23 01:55 AM
1

Yes, I have known people that have changed a lot. But I don’t think that online strangers can help them.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 04:09 AM
6

No. Assertiveness is a trait that both confident men and women have. Assertive is a separate thing from aggressive.
/r/ExRedPill22/06/23 09:58 PM
2

The people there don’t know what they’re talking about. They’re mostly people who spend all day online and don’t have that much experience with what they’re talking about. They just make shit up.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 11:50 PM
5

We already have socially enforced monogamy though. Monogamy is the only thing that’s socially acceptable in our society. Promiscuity and polyamory are not socially accepted at all and they’re not mainstream at all. And he’s a piece of shit for wanting to control people like that. Let people do what’s best for them. Everyone is different and monogamy is objectively NOT best for everyone.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 03:19 PM
3

There is no rise in hook up culture. Hooking up has been a thing all throughout human history, and the amount of hooking up is the lowest it’s ever been today than any point in human history.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 03:17 PM
7

That’s not the reason why men don’t go to therapy as much. The therapy methods were made by men and studied with male patients. The reason that men don’t go to therapy as much is because of the stigma.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 10:27 PM
2

Lmao nah it’s much harder to find women as a lesbian than it is as a straight man
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 06:04 PM
4

Jordan Peterson is worse than many people on your “do not watch” list
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 06:01 PM
6

Because MGTOW is not actually about men going their own way.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 06:22 PM
3

You have no idea what asexual means. Asexual means you don’t experience sexual attraction. experiencing sexual attraction towards a romantic partner makes someone not asexual. I’m a lesbian and I can tell you with 100% confidence that women like sex just as much as men do. Probably more.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 09:50 PM
1

It’s very easy to have casual sex for a time period and then enter a long term relationships. Those two lifestyles aren’t mutually exclusive at all. And open relationships exist as well so you can even have a long term marriage and a lot of casual sex at the same time.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/23 12:22 AM
1

You can make sure that you see a person’s STI tests before sleeping with them, and also use protection. People can have s lot of partners and avoid STIs by doing so. There is no evidence of mental health issues involved in promiscuity. Not anymore than non promiscuous people.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/23 12:21 AM
1

50 isn’t much at all. There’s 365 days in a year. People can have sex and avoid STIs by making sure that your partner gets tested before sex.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/23 12:19 AM
2

You can have deep relationships with friends of the other gender. Romantic relationships aren’t necessary to understand people of a different gender
/r/ExRedPill08/06/23 12:17 AM
0

This subreddit loves slut shaming. The only issue people here have with the red pill is that red pillers believe there should be a double standard. Unfortunately, this subreddit is still somewhat red pill because people here like to slut shame everybody except for just slut shaming one gender.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/23 12:16 AM
2

But sleeping with women without a relationship doesn’t mean you’re not connecting with women. A romantic relationship isn’t the only way to connect with people. A man who has a lot of close friendships with women understands women better than a man who has a wife but doesn’t have any other women friends.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/23 12:10 AM
2

Their “body count” is less than 5
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 10:52 PM
2

Myron has not slept with 300+ women. He’s maybe slept with like 2 women.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 10:50 PM
1

There’s no evidence for that correlation though
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 10:34 PM
2

There’s no evidence that a high number of partners leads to attachment issues
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 10:33 PM
0

Hook up culture isn’t real. There have always been some people hooking up all throughout human history. It’s less common today than it was in the past
/r/ExRedPill26/05/23 05:07 PM
0

Celebrities aren’t even dating Pete Davidson for his money. The celebrities that he has dated are making way more money than he is.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/23 05:03 PM
21

If someone is going to cheat then they are going to cheat whether or not they have friends of the other gender
/r/ExRedPill26/05/23 05:01 PM
3

It’s not really that easy to do sex work. It’s not just undressing. It takes work and skills. You have to maintain your appearance, have marketing skills, have customer service skills, have sex skills, etc. it’s not okay easy money.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/23 02:29 AM
2

Well people in relationships on the “lower” levels are just as happy with their relationship as people in relationships on the “higher” levels.
/r/ExRedPill11/05/23 09:30 PM
5

You can always be able to find friends and romantic relationships with people that are on the same level as you in terms of looks, money, and status.
/r/ExRedPill11/05/23 03:10 PM
3

You called women females. Women don’t do that. Only incels do that.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/23 02:02 AM
1

Hook up culture isn’t real. There are some people that like hooking up and there always has been. Casual sex has been in the decline for decades.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/23 12:04 AM
1

There’s no evidence that two parents is better than 3 or 4. There’s no evidence that two parents is better than the child being raised by the community.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 10:02 PM
4

Your language is the exact same as incel men. I’m sorry but women do not speak like this lmao. You’re angry at the idea of a woman sleeping with a lot of men. That’s what incels do. Women don’t call women whores as an insult. The only people who do that are incels. There’s no sleep with the entire world agenda. There have always been some people who sleep around. Casual sex has been on the decline for decades. There were more people having casual sex 100 years ago than there are today. There wer…
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 09:55 PM
2

But the evidence and data shows that people who engage in casual sex don’t have any more mental health issues than people who don’t. The only thing that you have a right to say is that it’s better for YOU personally not to engage in It. You cannot say that for anyone else. Everyone I know that has casual sex is mentally healthy. It only gives mental health issues for SOME people. Casual sex does not give people mental health issues any more than long term relationships do. You have a bias that g…
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 09:43 PM
1

I already understand why they think the way they do. It’s because that’s what our society teaches people and people don’t question what society teaches them. The ey only believe because that’s what they’ve been told. They never thought about their belief. They just believe what the religion tells them to believe.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 09:24 PM
1

Because I’m tired of illogical shit. I’m tired of people generalizing all human behavior based on their own personal preferences. It’s not about my lifestyle . I’m a lesbian. I just think misinformation is bad.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 09:23 PM
1

But you did say that. You said promiscuity is bad. You said casual hookups are harmful. That’s a generalization. It’s not true that they’re harmful. They’re only harmful for some people, and for other people they aren’t harmful. There’s no evidence that it’s good or bad for the majority of people.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 09:18 PM
1

And I’m allowed to say it’s stupid and objectively incorrect. Misinformation is harmful. Red pill beliefs are opinions too. Climate change denial is also an opinion.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 09:15 PM
1

Well OP is saying the opposite. OP is saying that it’s always bad for everyone which is an incredibly stupid and just objectively incorrect thing to say.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 09:09 PM
1

Casual sex. It was a typo
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 08:54 PM
1

Individual people are individuals. Casuals sex is good for some people and bad for others. There is no evidence that it is bad for everyone, and there is plenty of evidence that it is perfectly healthy for some people. It is impossible to generalize and make a general statement about how casual sex affects human beings, because every human being is different. I know so many people who have casual sex but are perfectly healthy and have healthy, happy, and close relationships.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 08:54 PM
3

I’m a lesbian. I know much more about women than you do. And you say youre a woman but you’re not. You’re an incel man that doesn’t interact with women or men and that doesn’t know anything about human beings. Oxytocin isn’t something that just runs out when it gets released a lot. There are many activities that release oxytocin, and doing those activities doesn’t stop you from releasing oxytocin the next time you do that activity. Bonding with someone one time doesn’t impede your ability to bon…
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 08:30 PM
1

You’re full of shit. Sex releases the same hormones that other activities we enjoy doing. Hanging out with friends, holding a baby, getting massages, etc releases these same hormones
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 08:00 PM
1

Please stop projecting. Hook ups aren’t generally unhealthy. We are all unique individuals. Stop being arrogant. Just because something is unhealthy for you doesn’t mean it’s unhealthy for everyone. Just say you want a Virgin because you’re insecure. It’s okay to be insecure. It’s not okay to arrogantly decide you’re the only person in the world.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 07:45 PM
1

Nope. Hundreds upon hundreds of studies have shown that children of gay parents have just as good outcomes as children of straight parents. So one man and one woman is not best.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 07:43 PM
0

Now I know you don’t know what you’re talking about. Hook up culture isn’t real and hook ups haven’t created these problems. There was just as much hooking up 100 years ago as there is today. People were always having casual sex throughout all of human history. The problems people are having today are caused by capitalism and have nothing to do with people hooking up. Casual sex has actually been on the decline for decades.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 07:40 PM
1

You never actually addressed any of my points because you don’t have any arguments against them. You must know that you’re wrong.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 07:37 PM
1

Because it’s an incredibly stupid belief. There is such a thing as truth and lies. Saying that casual sex is bad for everyone is a lie. It is incredibly stupid and arrogant to try to make claims about other peoples personal experiences. There are plenty of people that have casual sex and are perfectly fine and healthy. You can only say that it’s bad for you. Misinformation is bad. Is it okay to accept climate change deniers just because they have different views? If you make a claim, you have to…
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 07:36 PM
2

It’s not about succumbing. There’s nothing wrong with having sex. You don’t succumb. No one succumbs. We just make decisions to do things that we want to do. Sex is just a fun activity and there’s nothing wrong with doing it.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 06:50 PM
1

It wouldn’t be better if everyone had one partner. That is the stupidest ticking thing I’ve ever heard
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 06:46 PM
1

No. What they said was not reasonable at all. Saying that casual sex is always bad is just objectively a very incorrect, irrational, and unreasonable thing to say.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 06:45 PM
1

False. Objectively incorrect. There is no research that makes that claim.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 06:44 PM
0

Promiscuity is objectively not bad.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 06:43 PM
1

Admit you are objectively incorrect
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 06:41 PM
2

Everyone needs to just stop whining about OLD. If you don’t like it then don’t use it. No one is being forced to use it. OLD never took away the other options for meeting people. People who whine about OLD just like to blame anything else but themselves for their dating problems.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 06:34 PM
0

Stop spouting your bulls hit religious beliefs. You should be banned here. You are no different from a red piller
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 04:30 PM
1

Please explain how doing a fun harmless activity is bad for everyone
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 04:29 PM
1

You’re a conservative. Please stop being that
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 04:29 PM
1

One Form of relationships is NOT better than the other
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 04:27 PM
1

The idea that casual sex is bad is nothing more than red pill nonsense. It needs to be against the rules of this subreddit. Please don’t ever believe anything conservative.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 04:25 PM
1

It needs to be against the rules of this sub to say that casa duals sex is bad. That is a red pill belief
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 04:24 PM
2

You’re a red piller. The idea that casual sex is bad is a misogynistic red pill dumb belief. All conservatism is bad.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 04:22 PM
2

Not true for men or women
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 04:21 PM
1

Nope they’re just full of shit. That is a lie and there is no such research that says that.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 04:21 PM
1

You’re wrong.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 04:20 PM
3

There’s no reason for saying a lo body count is ideal. There’s no evidence for that claim
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 04:20 PM
1

No hay does it matter. Just because something is easy to do doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with doing it
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 04:18 PM
1

Speak for yourself and stop being so self centered. It’s not like marrying a stranger. It’s just like doing a fun activity with a stranger. Sex isn’t inherently special.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 04:13 PM
1

Most rapes and abuse come from long term relationships. That’s just the factual statistics. Abusers in long term relationships take advantage of the fact that their partner trusts them, which makes it easier to abuse them.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 04:12 PM
1

We are all unique individuals and it is not possible to generalize
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 04:10 PM
1

Please understand that you are not the only person in the world. Please stop being so arrogant.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 04:10 PM
1

Everyone is different. Do not say that casual sex is bad, that is incorrect. It is only bad for some people.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 04:09 PM
1

Casual hookups are not harmful. They’re harmful for SOME a people, but perfectly fine for others.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 04:09 PM
1

It’s not a fair view. It’s not harmful to casually sleep around if that’s what someone wants. It’s harmful for some people, but not everyone. It’s not inherently harmful.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 04:08 PM
12

The people who aren’t in toxic relationships aren’t going to be talking about their relationships as much.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 06:48 PM
1

Did you tell him about how Andrew Tate’s online course is a scam?
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 05:21 AM
3

But there’s nothing wrong with dating people at your level. “Ugly” relationships are just as happy as attractive relationships
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 05:56 AM
3

If it were true that women only find 20% of men attractive, then it wouldn’t be all women finding the same 20% of men attractive. Different women have different types.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 05:55 AM
2

All red pill is the bad kind
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 05:53 AM
3

Fuck social conservatism
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 05:50 AM
6

You’re just spouting red pill bullshit. Fuck traditionalism.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 05:47 AM
7

“Pair bonding” is red pill pseudoscience
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 05:47 AM
2

Why is this garbage upvoted here?????????? It’s okay to be promiscuous if that’s what you want. It’s okay to have one monogamous relationship if that’s what you want. One isn’t better than the other. People were NOT happy with the strictly enforced traditional way.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 05:44 AM
-1

Uhh you can easily speak your thought out loud without having to pay someone $150 an hour
/r/ExRedPill14/04/23 02:42 PM
4

You both don’t know anything about history. Promiscuity is not any more common today than it was 100 years ago or 200 years ago.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/23 05:57 PM
2

Men cheating on their wives was a very common aspect of traditional Christian marriages
/r/ExRedPill31/03/23 05:55 PM
6

Virginity does not create more loyal and long marriages
/r/ExRedPill31/03/23 05:54 PM
1

They are called weak because people know nothing about history and just have this false idea about how people were in the past
/r/ExRedPill28/03/23 07:07 PM
3

But having sex with a man isn’t allowing a man to treat you like trash. It’s just doing a fun activity together with a person
/r/ExRedPill28/03/23 07:02 PM
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