According to Hamza…

senorbuzz · 2026-04-18T16:15:45+00:00

In one of his videos Hamza says that if you dry in front of your girlfriend she immediately loses respect for you.

It depends on if you use a towel or a hairdryer tbh

xvszero · 2026-04-18T17:09:27+00:00

Turns out these men who claim to know how 4 billion women will act are full of shit, who knew.

LolliaSabina · 2026-04-18T20:34:52+00:00

My fiancé can't talk about his late grandpa without tearing up i'm saying how much he wishes I could have met him. It doesn't mean I can't respect him ... it means he's a man who loved and respected his grandfather and misses him tremendously.

BreakingBadBitchhh · 2026-04-19T00:30:50+00:00

LMAO this one is the funniest. There are only 2 main scenarios in which a woman would lose “respect” after witnessing this. A) she is extremely emotionally stunted/immature (pretty common amongst high schoolers) or B) your partner already has resentment towards you for other reasons, typically related to feeling like they have been taking on the majority of the burden/work in the relationship.

If you are crying everyday over very small things that usually indicates a health/hormonal issue regardless of gender but outside of the things I’ve listed the regular response would be a deepening of the relationship

LunaTheLouche · 2026-04-19T09:58:23+00:00

Speaking as an middle aged man who’s been with the same woman for nearly 30 years, I’ve cried in front of her (or with her) several times and it never made her lose respect for me. If anything it’s deepened our relationship.

If a woman “loses respect” for you if you cry in her presence, then she never saw you as a human being in the first place. If you are with a person with whom you have to bottle up your deepest emotions, that is going to cause damage to one or both of you somewhere down the line.

wilhelmxmachina · 2026-04-18T15:44:32+00:00

Do you lose respect for a woman when she cries? It depends on why she is crying, right? It also depends on who you are - and if you are empathetic or a bit of a twat.

This reminds me of a quote by Jack Handy: “If trees could scream, would we be so cavalier about cutting them down? We might, if they screamed all the time, for no good reason.”

meleyys · 2026-04-18T18:39:20+00:00

My boyfriend has cried in front of me several times, and I only love him more for it.

Mother-Eagle-7445 · 2026-04-21T17:13:56+00:00

Context really matters. My husband is generally pretty stoic and when he brings his pain to me & cries I feel so honored that he feels safe being vulnerable with me. I feel an intense urge to love and protect him - I see a deep and beautiful soul who I'm privileged to guard while he lets his guard down for a bit to rest and heal while he recovers.

The times his crying has been a challenge for me is when it's a reaction to me expressing pain and a need to be seen. I will admit it has hurt my respect for him when I notice a pattern of persistent sensitivity to my requests to see my pain and be curious about my desires and inner world. No one can be accountable or react well all of the time, but when the net result seems to be much more sensitivity, avoidance, & shutting down & much less accountability, curiosity, and repair effort (despite my consistent cheerleading, support, owning my mistakes, & working on improving how I show up) it becomes harder and harder to continue trusting him (and respect kind of follows)

Temporary_Client9353 · 2026-04-18T15:50:26+00:00

Muito pelo contrário, um homem demonstrar que tem consciência da vulnerabilidade da sua masculinidade é uma prova de confiança.

Brilliant-Frame-7345 · 2026-04-18T22:29:39+00:00

There's absolutely nothing wrong with crying.

But there's a difference between crying, and doing nothing but crying then complaining and not doing anything about it.

Even you as a man will get irritated when your girlfriend keeps crying about something and instead of communicating, she keeps crying and complaning, right?

Same deal with men towards women. You can cry, but afterwards, after you release all of that, you have to find a way to solve the problem at hand and deal with it.

For example, if my mother or father die, I will definitely shed some tears. Maybe I'll need a break from work for a week or two. But afterwards, I have to accept reality that no amount of sulking and crying will bring them back. Because my parents themselves would not want me to grieve for them forever, they would want me to continue on living.

The most valuable accomplishment in life a parent can achieve is seeing that their child can live life without them, that means you raised them well, and they can depart this world without regrets later. How would you think they feel if they see their son or daughter still crying for months and months since they were gone? They'd be disappointed.

FiggyGalleta · 2026-05-11T12:41:41+00:00

For the longest time I didn't know what to do with crying people, friends, girls, guys, partners, anyone. My family wasn't the most emotionally warm/supportive growing up, so I literally just didn't know how to be there for someone when they're down/overwhelmed/etc. Sucks to have people grow up that way, because down the line we all cry and need support, and we'll all need to support others. Sounds like your gf knows how to support you, so in that aspect you picked a good one dude!

freaklikeme263 · 2026-05-19T22:34:03+00:00

I think it’s really sweet when a guy who normally hides his emotions cries in front of you. It’s like him saying, “I trust you.” Which is very attractive.

carter_barceIo · 2026-05-22T00:44:36+00:00

I still dont know what true on this matter. I feel like a coward and scared when I cry in front of girls. I did in fact experience a girl lossing respect for me as I cried in front of her. It hurt me badly. I was insanely blue pilled and begged for validation, so its likely a bad metric. Perhaps it was also just her, I later learned she didnt have good mental health etiher.

From what Ive gathered its best to try not to bother a girl with your tears. Often times crying to men, or your brothers is best. Girls dont need to feel responsible for you, thats often too much for a healthy relationship. But I dont think crying in front of her over a legit thing is a bad thing, in fact it could make yall get closer.

Of course if someone feels im wrong, please tell me. Im still figuring thigns out and would love guidance

meleyys · 2026-04-19T17:28:15+00:00

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