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| 4 | According to Hamza…That’s the manliest way | /r/ExRedPill | 18/04/26 07:12 PM |
| 14 | According to Hamza…In one of his videos Hamza says that if you dry in front of your girlfriend she immediately loses respect for you. It depends on if you use a towel or a hairdryer tbh | /r/ExRedPill | 18/04/26 04:15 PM |
| 4 | AdviceMaybe a good first step would be to stop seeing relationships as an achievement | /r/ExRedPill | 13/04/26 08:42 PM |
| 7 | I 20m love her 19f and feel peace with her, but I’m unsure if I’m ready for this life or holding myself back from a version of life I haven’t lived yet. met 2024 octIt sounds like she gave you the love and attention you were missing for most of your life, but you never intended to give her the same love and attention back. Please let her go find someone who wants her fully and completely. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/26 02:21 AM |
| 7 | Has the meaning of Red pill changed?It’s always been chock full of misogyny. The guys who are the face of RP have realized there is no public consequence anymore to being vocally hateful and have amped up their rhetoric. They’ve normalized their behaviour to younger generations. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/26 06:27 PM |
| 4 | How do you persuade boys and men to drop Red Pill when so much of women’s dating discourse demands 666: ‘6 figures, 6 pack, 6 ft’? It’s the elephant in the room.I’m trying to understand what you’re saying. Some women are unattainable to certain men because they lack the certain attributes, but these “666” men are attainable by all women? | /r/ExRedPill | 22/03/26 07:27 PM |
| 5 | How do you persuade boys and men to drop Red Pill when so much of women’s dating discourse demands 666: ‘6 figures, 6 pack, 6 ft’? It’s the elephant in the room.They don’t owe shitty men anything. It’s not their responsibility to “represent women’s dating discourse”. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/03/26 07:21 PM |
| 8 | How do you persuade boys and men to drop Red Pill when so much of women’s dating discourse demands 666: ‘6 figures, 6 pack, 6 ft’? It’s the elephant in the room.Does your dad treat you poorly? Does he act that way towards other people too? | /r/ExRedPill | 22/03/26 06:58 PM |
| 3 | How do you persuade boys and men to drop Red Pill when so much of women’s dating discourse demands 666: ‘6 figures, 6 pack, 6 ft’? It’s the elephant in the room.This is excellent advice. Like you said, a lot really does depend on the relationships they see around them. I wonder how many guys who are susceptible to RP bullshit have parents who displayed an unhealthy and unbalanced relationship. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/03/26 06:56 PM |
| 11 | How do you persuade boys and men to drop Red Pill when so much of women’s dating discourse demands 666: ‘6 figures, 6 pack, 6 ft’? It’s the elephant in the room.What women? Where? | /r/ExRedPill | 22/03/26 06:38 PM |
| 4 | How do you persuade boys and men to drop Red Pill when so much of women’s dating discourse demands 666: ‘6 figures, 6 pack, 6 ft’? It’s the elephant in the room.the loudest messages from the women‘s side Where are you seeing this? Are these clips shared by the manosphere guys? | /r/ExRedPill | 22/03/26 06:36 PM |
| 1 | was I bamboozled by a redpill friend? (my gut says yes)Uh no. Funny enough, it sounds like the opposite. He wanted to be friends with you and later wanted to set you up with one of his friends | /r/ExRedPill | 22/03/26 04:18 PM |
| 21 | Have you noticed that the red pill movement today isnt the same movement of 10 years ago?Ummmmm so the beliefs you still have about women continue to be as incorrect as they were 5 or 10 years ago | /r/ExRedPill | 20/03/26 10:42 AM |
| 4 | Thoughts on new Louis Theroux Netflix documentary?When did he poke fun at them? | /r/ExRedPill | 20/03/26 02:59 AM |
| 6 | Thoughts on new Louis Theroux Netflix documentary?I think it showed a whole new world to people who aren’t more than moderately online. I feel like I’m familiar with a lot of online spaces and even some of the stuff from the doc shocked me | /r/ExRedPill | 19/03/26 10:07 PM |
| 14 | Thoughts on new Louis Theroux Netflix documentary?I found it interesting, but I wish it was a bit longer. I was amused at how big of losers those influencers really are. All they do is project this fantasy of happiness but they’re so insecure. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/03/26 10:05 PM |
| 5 | I believed them 😣What makes you so angry towards women specifically? | /r/ExRedPill | 18/03/26 10:01 PM |
| 3 | I believed them 😣I hope when you say “in treatment” you mean with a therapist because there’s gotta be some deep seated trauma underneath this | /r/ExRedPill | 18/03/26 10:00 PM |
| 9 | I’m having a hard time with wanting to be nice to women who I meet who are interested in me and vice versa who I am interested inAre you the same with men? Like do you not feel the need to be nice to men in your life because that exhibits “simp behavior” too? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/03/26 08:12 PM |
| 2 | I've been cold approaching on and off since 2020's autumn...How long were the relationships? What do you say when you approach these women? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/26 11:01 PM |
| 8 | Cold Approaching is trashIn what situation would you walk up to someone with headphones on and casually start a conversation? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/26 10:58 PM |
| 12 | Sexual selectionI’m sad to say they likely won’t watch/believe that because it is hosted by a woman | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/26 03:50 PM |
| 2 | How to desconstruct the toxic idea of "She's settling for you but really wants the "hotter/alpha" guy who didn't commit to her"Men can date attractive men too if they like. Is that what this is about? | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/26 02:09 AM |
| 2 | How to desconstruct the toxic idea of "She's settling for you but really wants the "hotter/alpha" guy who didn't commit to her"Is the idea that women have easier access to more attractive men, in general, wrong? To me this reads that you don’t find many women attractive. Question, if you were at a shop and there were 10 women inside of that same shop, how many would you estimate are attractive? | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/26 02:08 AM |
| 6 | Struggling With My Girlfriend’s Past and My Own Double StandardsNo, that's not true. Lots of people have these sorts of issues, but many adults work hard to learn from and grow from them. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/02/26 01:23 AM |
| 9 | Struggling With My Girlfriend’s Past and My Own Double Standards100000% this. My partner and I were completely different (and worse) people in the years before we met. We don't talk about those days except on a surface level because we aren't those people anymore. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/02/26 01:16 AM |
| 7 | Struggling With My Girlfriend’s Past and My Own Double StandardsI get that. Tbh, what is bothering me the most is that it seems you fundamentally do know better. What is mentally getting in your way? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/02/26 01:10 AM |
| 11 | Struggling With My Girlfriend’s Past and My Own Double StandardsHoly shit what an awful way to think about the woman you claim you love | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/26 09:50 PM |
| 49 | My boyfriend of 6 years is sexist\ redpill and it’s making me miserable I am thinking about leaving him soonRun. Don't walk. This guy sounds vile | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/26 08:30 PM |
| 3 | I realized it was all lies after years of looksmaxing and moneymaxingI even worked as a model for a while, but I quit because I was getting too many advances from my gender Please tell us more about this | /r/ExRedPill | 20/02/26 02:26 AM |
| 25 | I realized it was all lies after years of looksmaxing and moneymaxingI’m sorry but this thing of adding “maxed” to everything is so fucking hilarious as someone who is outside of all of this | /r/ExRedPill | 20/02/26 02:24 AM |
| 4 | Am I still red pill? I do agree that modern viral redpill creates more harm than good, but I still agree with the principles of redpillI don’t want to push you away from this subreddit like others might because I think you might be willing to learn, but I must say your belief system is very warped | /r/ExRedPill | 20/02/26 02:18 AM |
| 4 | Am I still red pill? I do agree that modern viral redpill creates more harm than good, but I still agree with the principles of redpillI’ll push back and say I agreed with your points on what makes someone more attractive to women, but you’re missing 2 big things. I’d add a number 4 to your list, and that’s women also feel security through feeling heard and cared for. Most importantly though, a woman raising up their own safety and security and confidence does not in any way take away anything from her partner. There is no such thing as “levels” | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Am I still red pill? I do agree that modern viral redpill creates more harm than good, but I still agree with the principles of redpillI’d normally agree but they seem to be asking intelligent questions and are looking for answers to patriarchal indoctrination. Maybe I’m naive though | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 11:13 PM |
| 4 | Am I still red pill? I do agree that modern viral redpill creates more harm than good, but I still agree with the principles of redpillI’d think about it more like, if you asked a random man on the street if he “would rather date a thin woman or a fat woman” the majority might say thin. But really the majority would date any woman who turns them on, or shows them affection, or has a personality they like. Additionally, most men would happily date an average sized woman, the same way most women would happily date an average height man. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 11:05 PM |
| 4 | Am I still red pill? I do agree that modern viral redpill creates more harm than good, but I still agree with the principles of redpillYeah. And tbh I don’t see it as manipulation to act more confident at all. As an introvert that’s how I get through hard work days, meet new people, and deal with presentations. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 10:41 PM |
| 6 | Am I still red pill? I do agree that modern viral redpill creates more harm than good, but I still agree with the principles of redpillI kind of see what you’re saying, but I believe there’s a big difference between acting confident and acting like a different person. Especially in new social situations. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 07:04 PM |
| 5 | Am I still red pill? I do agree that modern viral redpill creates more harm than good, but I still agree with the principles of redpillThat’s a long post, but you don’t really say what you actually believe is true about redpill. You’re very vague. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 06:59 PM |
| 18 | Thoughts on male ‘epiphany phase’?What do you think is wrong with women in their 30’s? | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 07:32 AM |
| 5 | How do you guys explain the fact that women in general want a man that is better than them in some way?What on earth are you talking about? | /r/ExRedPill | 18/02/26 09:55 PM |
| 9 | I think I finally (as a woman) cracked red pill…I can kind of see where you’re coming from, but I see a lot of those traits sounding like general insecurity more than anything connected to the larger RP ideology | /r/ExRedPill | 18/02/26 09:35 PM |
| 12 | How do you guys explain the fact that women in general want a man that is better than them in some way?Excellently said, and I couldn’t agree more. I want a partner that makes me want to be a better person, and I want to be the same for them. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/02/26 09:29 PM |
| 7 | How do you guys explain the fact that women in general want a man that is better than them in some way?I don’t think it’s about “being men” as much as it is about the perception that masculinity = safety and security. I think that also connects to the idea of men being weak or “simps” if they show their emotions or share their insecurities with others. There is the belief that projecting security is manly and any deviation from that must surely be feminine. But those beliefs are pushed by the most insecure men you can imagine because they’re trying to bring others down. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/02/26 09:25 PM |
| 2 | I don’t want to be “red-pilled”, but I’ve seen too much and am kinda low-key traumatized (please help me)Throwing an idea out there… Someone else mentioned volunteering, and I know at face value that sounds lame and you immediately picture picking up garbage or making soup, but there are a million different ways to volunteer in your community. There are probably a lot of underfunded school districts or neighborhoods near you that need a hand. I don’t mean you need to volunteer with kids or teens, but how about helping other young disenfranchised people who are struggling to learn a new skill? Actua… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/02/26 03:48 AM |
| 2 | I saw a video of a woman saying she wants a tall, handsome, rich boyfriend. It really touched me.You’ll find the right person too. You seem like such a genuinely good guy. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/26 12:24 AM |
| 4 | I saw a video of a woman saying she wants a tall, handsome, rich boyfriend. It really touched me.May I ask then, what are you bringing to the relationship? Are you well educated? Funny? An excellent handyman? Good with kids? Kind to others? Well read? Clever? Fit? Handsome? | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/26 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Ok so it’s not women’s job to heal men’s mental health struggles… I agree but have some questionsWomen also experience a difference in looks, romantic competition, and insecurity. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/26 12:16 AM |
| 17 | Why ”quit” ”redpill”?The huge masterpost pinned at the top of the subreddit likely has most of the answers you’re looking for: https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/ho4cvx/red_pill_detox_first_aid_kit_start_here/ | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/26 12:11 AM |
| 14 | Why do you think relationships don't last as long as they used to?Lol no it’s not a crisis of masculinity. What even is that? | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/26 06:54 PM |
| 3 | I saw a video of a woman saying she wants a tall, handsome, rich boyfriend. It really touched me.Ok now that you've shared that you're 1.73 meters tall, let's change your perspective. Look up the following women: Ali Hewson - Specifically, check her out in 1982. That was the year she married Bono from the band U2. That was a year before U2 became popular. They're still together to this day, and outside of her husband's life, she is also a very successful businesswoman and activist. Whitney Alford - This is Kendrick Lamar's fiancée. They started dating when they were teenagers, long before h… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/26 11:16 PM |
| 3 | I saw a video of a woman saying she wants a tall, handsome, rich boyfriend. It really touched me.DUDE! That's not even that short. Duuuuuude! | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/26 10:15 PM |
| 11 | An extroverted woman can fall in love with an introverted or shy man.Absolutely! In many cases, they can be more compatible. The one thing that will trip you up if you choose to date an extrovert though is the jealousy thing. Extroverts will naturally want to go out and be more social, and good partners will understand that an introvert isn't always up for going out. That's where trust comes into play. You'll need to be able to trust your partner and not let jealousy eat you alive when they go out without you. That can be very hard. On the flipside, it can be won… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/26 07:31 PM |
| 6 | Why "pill" content has become mainstreamWhere did you get your information on millennial women? | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/26 06:21 AM |
| 3 | Why "pill" content has become mainstreamGood read. That actually is a the sort of thing the guys you’re trying to direct your message to would understand (I hope). Love the addition encouraging them to wash their asses btw | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/26 06:20 AM |
| 8 | Why "pill" content has become mainstreamReally? I’d say almost everyone I know considers their husband or wife their best friend. Life is hard and I want someone next to me who will make me laugh and comfort and encourage me. I love my friends but they’re not going to be the ones next to me in the real shit that life brings. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/26 06:06 AM |
| 10 | Why "pill" content has become mainstreamthe patriarchal hierarchical order and the nuclear family have been a part of humanity for millennia. That is simply human biology That’s not true. Biologically humans are more similar to egalitarian or matriarchal societies. Patriarchy is more tied to colonialism than anything else really. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/26 06:02 AM |
| 9 | I'm obsessed with looking youngerFirst of all, you need to talk to your doctor and try a different antidepressant. Whatever you’re on now isn’t cutting it. Secondly, stop posting your photos to receive external validation. People irl don’t pick apart your looks the way people online do, and they definitely don’t judge your looks the way your own brain does. Are there any women you admire? Celebrities or leaders or women in your life? | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/26 04:27 AM |
| 9 | Do you think the number of sexual partners matters?Yeah I’ve been following your thoughts about OP having OCD for awhile now, and I also have OCD and I agree completely with your assessment. Like you, I see both sides. I do worry if he took these questions elsewhere he would get much different answers that would further cement his redpill beliefs. Sorry to talk about you like this, OP, we’re just genuinely concerned for your mental health as caring strangers. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/26 11:57 PM |
| 14 | Do you think the number of sexual partners matters?FWIW, I disagree with them. At least if you’re posting here you’re hearing from people who may be able to change your line of thinking | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/26 10:41 PM |
| 2 | If you ever actually spend enough time in the red pill, you seem them break their own rules.I’ve never heard of this Rollo guy until now but after one google I’m howling at how much he photoshops himself. Not very secure in himself (they never are) | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/26 02:22 AM |
| 10 | I saw a man in the comments of a video saying that all the women he knows want a dominant man. Do you think he's right?You saw one comment in the replies of a video and actually considered his opinion? Why? Who was this man? | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/26 02:17 AM |
| 5 | Do you know of any anti-red pill channels that address this issue with empathy?How many liberal minded college women will give you a long list of how capitalism is destroying the middle class but they'll refuse to date a guy that's working at Mcdonald's How many of those women do you know and have talked to about this belief? | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/26 08:23 PM |
| 1 | When women actions align with certain claims about redpillI don’t think I understand what you’re saying. Are you saying that women prefer to date more attractive men when they’re younger even if those men don’t have stable careers, but that as women get older they tend to prefer men who can provide financial stability and care less about looks? Maybe I don’t understand RP ideology… but doesn’t this fly in the face of the idea that women only want tall attractive “gigachads”? | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/26 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Falling down the Red Pill hole... why should I stop?Are you unemployed because of your disability? | /r/ExRedPill | 25/01/26 09:00 PM |
| 1 | my oneitiswomen, like men are not a monolith. So the redpill gained traction from being the only source that was willing to admit this You genuinely believe that redpillers are the only ones who “know” women aren’t a monolith? | /r/ExRedPill | 23/01/26 02:11 AM |
| 1 | my oneitis"Oneitis"? Wtf is that? What she said about your work was uncalled for, as you are very talented, and she sounds insecure and immature. How much younger than you is your ex? I told her that if it was better for her career and income, I would support it — but I also clearly stated that our relationship and being together should still be a priority Why should your relationship be a priority over her career and income, especially when your complaints about your relationship seem to be about how muc… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/01/26 01:51 AM |
| 8 | Do you know any women who love their stay-at-home husbands? I'm young, 17, and I'm coming off the red pill.You should look up the difference between nationalism and patriotism. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/26 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Do you know any women who love their stay-at-home husbands? I'm young, 17, and I'm coming off the red pill.Childcare costs are so high these days that a few of my friends did the math and realized it would cost more for both of them to work while paying for daycare. Like they'd actually be in the hole financially if someone didn't stay home. I know 2 stay at home dads and it's a great and equitable balance for their families. The wives absolutely do love it. I've also seen friends go through losing jobs or having health issues, where the wife has had to become the primary breadwinner and it works out… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/26 01:43 AM |
| 28 | The Red Pill and Narcissistic MothersConsidering how their post history shows they commented that “feminism is a literal cancer on our society” only 10 days ago, I’m doubting the ex part too | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/25 08:42 AM |
| 5 | The Red Pill and Narcissistic MothersThat’s a worrying thing to see in yourself. I guess the worse thing that could happen would be looking at the connection between serial killers and men who felt neglected by their mothers. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/25 08:29 AM |
| 18 | Why are men who have never had sex painted as right-wing misogynists?I think you’re getting stuck on the term “incel” as it does technically mean involuntarily celibate or someone who is a virgin and doesn’t want to be. However, the “incel movement” was adopted and morphed by angry young men who fell into misogynistic echo chambers who were then preyed upon by hard right wing grifters and politicians. The “red pill” was these men being pushed into believing their virginity was the fault of all women and other outside factors. There’s a good article here with an i… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/25 06:07 PM |
| 3 | Can someone explain why red pill guys are successful with dating and hooking up?It’s like with Epstein, horrible human BUT if we said he sucked at what he did then that’s just dishonest? By "what he did" do you mean professionally or with "women"? Because professionally he was a criminal and made his fortune through money laundering and blackmail. Women-wise, he raped and sex trafficked underage women. FFS do not look up to Epstein and Tate as role models in any way. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/03/24 08:21 AM |
| 6 | Are women less romantic than men?This is an excellent response | /r/ExRedPill | 11/03/24 08:50 PM |
| 13 | Are women less romantic than men?If you love men so much more than women why don’t you look at being in a relationship with a man? Genuine question. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/03/24 08:41 PM |
| 7 | RP is like feminism for men?I'm curious as to what you think feminism is, because is about equality for genders, not anger or deception. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/22 06:13 AM |
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