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I think it's also a place for people to share their stories. Entering the manosphere, what got them there, how they left, and so on. It's also for people who have run into redpillers/blackpillers to share their stories.
/r/ExRedPill08/09/21 01:43 AM
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You keep asserting this stuff is real without anything to back it up. Insulting people doesn't make your point true.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 01:53 PM
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Lol do you have any sources on that? 29% of white married women with children are breadwinners: https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://iwpr.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Q054.pdf&ved=2ahUKEwjtkYW4_-zyAhWhAZ0JHdtoBygQFnoECBsQAQ&usg=AOvVaw3H4PY75SbZPiam3VNfou5C Do you not understand what the cost of living is right now and how it usually takes 2 incomes to buy a house and pay the bills? How old are you anyway?
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 01:50 PM
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so wrong, I never seen or wintessed or even heard of men dating a woman just for money and using her for money; I heard men using women for sex, NEVER for money. Well then you haven't paid attention or done enough research. Women are hypergamous; they always want to date someone better than themselves. Are men hypergamous, yes but way less than women. Women usually want a provider, etc. Hypergamy has been debunked on this subreddit multiple times. You can search for it. Do you have any evidence …
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 01:02 AM
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Men have used women for money throughout centuries. The term gigolo would not exist in English dictionary if it didn’t. It was entirely legal and acceptable for men to marry women with great inheritance and claim it after marriage. While such practice don’t exist in most countries anymore, many men still marry women based on her or her family status. I've seen it happen in my own life. A male family member insisted he be in charge of all the finances in the house, and that his wife's money was h…
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 12:58 AM
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Yes, plenty of people are attracted to wealth. This is no secret, the average person knows this. The difference is that redpill says all women are like that and it's one of the only things they care about. How many women do you think care only or mostly about money? Edit: also redpill makes it seem like it's a problem that women have, not a human problem.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 11:25 PM
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What are you confused about?
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 11:19 PM
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Not to mention, male golddiggers definitely don't exist /s
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 09:41 PM
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Women are out earning their own money, what do they need other people's money for?
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 09:24 PM
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I wonder if the chart includes or doesn't include people who are bi/gay/lesbian? I wonder how many women have decided to go sleep with women, lol.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 03:05 PM
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I'm not surprised. Redpillers/blackpillers make women sound like female horndogs, but why would women be chasing men in that manner if they aren't going to have an orgasm?
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 06:47 AM
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No shit. Absolutely.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 06:07 AM
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Lol exactly, it doesn't even make sense if one understands evolution and natural selection.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 05:39 AM
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I don't mean to sound like I'm on FDS or something, but for real. So many dudes lie and hide shit. It's too difficult for some to just be a decent person, so they pretend to be. Or they pretend to have their act together as an adult, and as soon as you move in with them they need a 2nd Mommy. I'd rather be alone than deal with someone like that. Who the fuck raised these guys?
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 05:36 AM
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Women aren't actively trying to control anybody. If they like a guy, they'll go out with him. If not, then they won't. It's that simple. If you feel like you have no control, that doesn't mean someone is trying to control you.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 05:31 AM
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They don't know how to read statistics and they can't fathom how people meet in person.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 03:38 AM
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Yeah I don't want to shit on OP in particular. I just notice a lot of lonely dudes on here will pick out one aspect of dating and fixate on it. Lol we can't change other people's desires so I don't see the use of complaining about it in the first place. It's not even just the internet/media that shapes our desires when we are young. Our parents and other people in our lives do it to us. It's no secret that sexual abuse can drive people's desires one way or another. But It doesn't have to be abus…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 02:55 PM
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Copy and pasted my other comment: I don't care too much about what happens between consenting adults. What makes us develop our sexual desires is VERY complex and there's a LOT of factors. Too many to count. It starts when we are kids. I would guess most people don't even know where their own desires come from and how they formed when we were younger. I think it's not a stretch to say that whatever we were exposed to as children (sexual or not) is going to point us in a certain direction. I'm ju…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 02:40 PM
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I don't care too much about what happens between consenting adults. What makes us develop our sexual desires is VERY complex and there's a LOT of factors. Too many to count. It starts when we are kids. I would guess most people don't even know where their own desires come from and how they formed when we were younger. I think it's not a stretch to say that whatever we were exposed to as children (sexual or not) is going to point us in a certain direction. I'm just some random internet person and…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 02:38 PM
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To defeat your confirmation bias, hello... You are stuck on this because you want to be.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 02:19 PM
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Everybody hates white men, you don't have to remind me. Lmao. I understand incelers/redpillers with that asian fetish thing, but do normal adjusted white men do that? I don't think it's ingrained in our culture in any of the same capacity. Confirmation bias. Don't even get me started on porn which is just "Big Buff black xxxx White girl", clearly everyone is into it as there's a reason it's so popular. So you've never checked out Asian porn? Ever heard of hentai?
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 02:14 PM
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Yeah this is why posts like this are controversial. I think this "form of attraction" is unique to you because you care about it for whatever reason. What's so special about it? I don't know and I don't care. It's not my business why other people get together. What about white dudes that want to date Asian women and fetishize them? I think you're only adding to the stereotypes. "Black women don't feel the same for white men, hmm I wonder why" have you considered that maybe it's not because of bl…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 02:05 PM
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I think it's really difficult to answer any questions regarding race on this subreddit. It opens up a huge box of problems that involve stereotypes and generalizations. That being said... I'm friends with this couple. White girl and a black guy, they have been together for years and have a baby together. They would have been married by now if it weren't for covid. We live in a blue state but even then they've had to deal with a lot of racist people. People staring at them, making stupid comments…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 01:39 PM
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It means she followed you. That's literally it. Don't overthink it. That being said, if you like her, try talking to her.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 06:48 AM
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That's how you make a bad situation into something way worse. Don't do it bro.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 08:54 AM
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Who are you?
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 08:15 AM
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Bad idea to stick your dick in crazy.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 08:08 AM
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https://fivethirtyeight.com/features/whats-the-average-age-difference-in-a-couple/ Well for starters, age gap relationships are more common among older couples and gay/lesbian couples. Most couples are close in age, like 5 years or less of an age difference. I don't see any evidence that says younger women ending up with older men is the norm. Now, if you're talking about older guys chasing after younger women... that's a different story. These guys usually get labeled as creeps, groomers, or ev…
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 08:06 AM
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Is there any reason you are here other than to assume the worst about others?
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 08:29 PM
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Assuming that is the only goal you have in life. You can do better.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 08:27 PM
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I wouldn't have used such harsh words. I will agree there are women-only subreddits on reddit that ban any remove any users they find out to be guys. Because guys will storm in and cry about how it's actually men that are being silenced and have zero safe spaces to talk. Thanks to toxic masculinity, they bash on safe spaces and then turn around and wonder why we can't have nice things. That being said, please keep it civil.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 08:25 PM
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This right here. Beliefs don't exist in a vacuum.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 08:02 PM
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This is exactly why my friend's relationship is on the rocks. He has zero motivation to do basic adult stuff.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 06:25 PM
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Because there is more to relationships than just sex. People want companionship too. Just because you can't relate, doesn't mean it doesn't exist.
/r/ExRedPill30/08/21 02:33 AM
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I also had a friend whose libido was higher than her boyfriends. She was so upset that he wouldn't touch her.
/r/ExRedPill30/08/21 01:25 AM
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r/deadbedrooms
/r/ExRedPill30/08/21 12:01 AM
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That being said, I'm not saying all women are the same. Plenty of women do have high libidos. But the orgasm gap is a real thing.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/21 11:02 PM
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What do I really want? For this housing market to not be total bullshit so I could afford my own place. Oh, you mean sexually? Oh. Let me think on that... yeah I still just want my own condominium. Health insurance would be great too. Horny dudes on the internet overestimate how much a lot women think about sex.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/21 10:47 PM
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A great way to debunk opinions is to ask questions. Lots of questions. Such as, where did you learn that? Why is that person an expert? What are their qualifications? Why are people with little or no experience with women claiming to be experts on women? Are you sure that's a healthy way to approach anybody? How does one shitty person prove all women are like that? Are you aware men do the same thing? And so on... make up your own questions too to fit the conversation. Just by playing devil's ad…
/r/ExRedPill27/08/21 09:58 PM
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Trust, respect, intimacy, consent... none of this matters to men?
/r/ExRedPill27/08/21 02:41 PM
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These redpillers must constantly be horny all the time, because it's like they can't even comprehend that other people aren't thinking about sex all the time.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/21 11:30 PM
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It doesn't even have to be a cult leader. Some individuals are just very manipulative and deceitful. They will work the same magic on people, except on a small scale.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/21 10:56 PM
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Yes, divorce rates were at their highest back in the 1970s, if I remember correctly.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/21 01:52 AM
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Let me guess, what he was doing wasn't really cheating? Lol
/r/ExRedPill26/08/21 01:24 AM
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Sure there's Brad Pitts and Taylor Lautners out there, but who gives a flying fuck? The fact that they exist doesn't mean it's automatically what women want or expect to have.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/21 10:05 PM
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Report that shit
/r/ExRedPill25/08/21 10:01 PM
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Well considering I've seen/heard a number of redpillers say that men don't/can't cheat, I guess your question is null.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/21 06:37 PM
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Why should anyone care? It's disturbing the way you talk about women like you're observing animals in a zoo.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/21 11:09 PM
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Unpopular opinion here... but So many American women are fat, unattractive, socially awkward and boring... Yet that does not stop them from getting married. The bar for dating is MUCH higher for men than women... Men have to have a car, house, degree, tall, looks, Job, and have a go getter mindset. If a man says he wants to be a stay at home dad or is overweight... Somehow this reflects badly on women? Sounds like women have standards and men have none.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/21 09:23 PM
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Lol, it's Wikipedia and it references an article from 1986. Is that the best you've got?
/r/ExRedPill24/08/21 09:15 PM
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Are you seriously asking this?
/r/ExRedPill20/08/21 04:01 PM
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Right. Honestly every time (just a few times but enough times) in my life I was ever cold approached, I automatically say no. It catches me off guard and I just don't fucking know them.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/21 05:41 AM
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This is good advice. If you're going to cold approach and ask somebody out, at least do it respectfully and don't get butthurt over it. If they turn you down with a "sorry, no thanks" then the proper answer would be "I understand, no problem, enjoy the rest of your day."
/r/ExRedPill20/08/21 05:39 AM
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Women have a wider variety of what they are attracted to, compared to men. If a girl isn't into you, move on. There's other fish in the sea. You can't make people become attracted to you.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/21 05:32 AM
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This subreddit is not to battle against redpill or blackpill. This is a subreddit for people who want to leave redpill or blackpill, and they have to have an open mind to do so. You came here with a circular argument, expecting others to debate you, and claiming others don't know how to use reason and logic? There's nothing helpful or of value about this post.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 10:52 PM
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You have a lot of circular logic going on here. "Looks are important because looks are important" is basically your argument. Do you have anything to support that claim? And why should we give a fuck what one person says on PPD?
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 10:46 PM
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I don't see how your key/gold analogy follows. You have an opinion, you created an argument to demonstrate that opinion and you claim it's true because you claim the premises are already true. But you didn't demonstrate that the premises are true. Logical arguments are only as good as the information you feed into them. How do you think ugly people get together and date? How do you think they pass on their "ugly" genes? If they literally couldn't ever get laid, they wouldn't be able to pass on t…
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 10:19 PM
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Makes me wonder if some dudes know the difference
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 12:06 AM
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What a fucking creep.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/21 09:27 PM
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Is there any evidence of this statement being true?
/r/ExRedPill17/08/21 02:47 AM
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Women: "I just want a dude who makes enough to pay his bills" Dudes: yOuR sTaNdArdS ArE tOo HiGh!!! Basic adulting is too tough for some guys.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/21 02:35 PM
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You're not even an adult yet. You're 16. You need to hear this: teenagers will be total assholes. They can and will be total assholes to both adults and other teens. This part of your life may totally suck. But you have to get through it. People are finding relationships and sexual experiences a lot later than previous generations. It it totally okay. Some people find those things as early as jr. High, some find those experiences in high school, some wait until after high school or in college. I…
/r/ExRedPill16/08/21 05:21 AM
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Some really great quotes here: The latest of these killers to whine about “missing out on teenage love”, as if teenagers everywhere are enjoying thrilling erotic escapades (they aren’t). It’s imaginative envy, ephebophilic FOMO. It’s often explained as “male entitlement”—and yeah, the “promised” “deserved” thinking is entitled. But aren’t girls also raised with unrealistic expectations, set up for later disappointment? Yet entitled women don’t go on killing sprees when Prince Charming doesn’t ar…
/r/ExRedPill15/08/21 01:19 AM
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Be thankful it was only for a week! Some people are stuck in it for years, or an entire lifetime!
/r/ExRedPill15/08/21 01:16 AM
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Switch things up. Drop some info or cool stories about yourself. They need something to be interested in, right?
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 07:28 PM
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That's part of it. But it's more about what makes you interesting. What makes you tick? What makes you different from other people? What cool stories can you tell? What adventures do you have planned for your life? That's what I was referring to. There's an art to being honest but to also keep them guessing a bit. I'll use one of my own examples: I like to tell people I once went on a storm chasing trip. It grabs people's attention, I'll tell them about the trip. Then I'll say something about ho…
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 07:25 PM
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I would speculate that such tactics may get you second dates because it gets someone's attention. They'll go on a second date because they feel they have to figure you out or something. Girls want to go out with guys who are fun and interesting. I suggest you find honest ways to be interesting and to get their attention. Just my 2 cents.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 07:15 PM
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I think we can at least agree that many couples shouldn't get married in the first place. Thank you for a productive conversation today!
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 07:09 PM
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That's a manipulative tactic and it's not honest and it's not cool.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 06:15 PM
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Which tactics worked and how?
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 04:29 PM
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I said there is a wide variety of reasons people divorce, and you interpret that as me saying people divorce due to abuse. I said people divorce for such-and-such reasons, and you interpret that as me saying men do this or women do that. I can't have a conversation with you since you don't understand the definitions of basic everyday words and you jump to odd conclusions because of it. Do you normally have issues communicating with people? Edit: so I see now that English isn't your first languag…
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 04:09 PM
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It's really not worth my time arguing with you since you insist on making ignorant statements and misinterpreting what I say.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 03:58 PM
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40% is not a majority.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 03:40 PM
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Also I didn't say it was men who act nice but abuse after marriage, I said it was people who did that. I didn't make it a gendered thing because literally anyone of any gender can do it. You're really jumping to conclusions, bro. Not to mention putting words in my mouth.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 03:38 PM
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No, I never said that. People get divorced for a wide variety of reasons.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 03:36 PM
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I have zero idea where you're getting that from.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 03:06 PM
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I think it's really clear you don't understand how toxic relationships work. I think it's also clear you don't understand that people can and do change over time. People who are toxic and abusive usually put on a good show, and don't show their true colors until later. People often ignore abuse until shit gets really bad. Really? Being incompatible isn't a good reason to get divorced? Being different religions, having different sex drives and desires, different opinions on whether to have kids, …
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 03:04 PM
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You can't use statistics to predict the thoughts and wants of individuals. Well, you can. But good luck getting that to be successful.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 02:20 PM
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I don't think sticking to your word is a good thing 100% of the time. Sometimes the smarter idea is to leave. And sometimes people shouldn't have gotten married in the first place. Sticking to your word at all costs is a great idea until you realize it can be used as an excuse to put up with very toxic behavior. Besides, sometimes people just aren't compatible anymore. Life is too short to try and change someone or to stick with someone who just isn't working out. I'm not so much pro-divorce as …
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 02:16 PM
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You either married an untrustworthy person (why would you do that?!?) or you have trust issues, because if there's anyone you should trust it's the person you marry.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 02:13 AM
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Haha this might explain my own dating life.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 01:12 AM
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But, culture cannot induce desires that don't exist. Correct, this is why anti-gay conversion camps don't work. For example, culture can shame promiscuous people into being less so, but cannot make an asexual attracted to anyone. Being promiscuous is an action, while asexuality is a trait. People can make choices on the former, not the latter. This is why the influence of culture has its limitations. Edit: that being said, I think the other commenter has some good points so take what I say with …
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 01:09 AM
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I would hope his wife has told him at some point or another why she loves him. It's a pretty normal thing for couples to do.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 01:05 AM
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I hope so too.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 01:02 AM
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The simplest answer is that humans are trash and the best thing to do is to be a better example of a human being. I know the feeling.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 01:02 AM
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I wouldn't say it's the majority of redpillers (or even blackpillers) but that's largely because a lot of redpillers seem to be virgins or inexperienced with sex. Can't be a single father if you're still a virgin.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 01:00 AM
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Why would your parents and friends not want to know? I grew up in an abusive household. Honestly a number of people I did confide in just ignored me, didn't believe me, insinuated I deserved it, or just plain didn't understand. Opening up about abuse isn't easy nor is it straightforward. I worry that a community’s lack of empathy and willingness to help enables bad people to be bad :( This x100000000.... There should be accountability for bad actors. In a perfect world, this would be the case.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 12:57 AM
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If everything was going right in a marriage, a couple wouldn't be getting divorced. Men, for whatever reason, usually don't want to end things even if shit is going wrong. Either they ignore the bad shit that's happening or think divorce isn't an option. I fail to see how this is a noble thing. What's your opinion on the 20% of dudes who do initiate divorce? What if it was reversed, and 80% of divorces are initiated by men? Keep in mind that filing for divorce doesn't mean that the marriage fail…
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 12:54 AM
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I've dated dudes who look similar to him.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 12:30 AM
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This is so relatable.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 12:12 AM
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I grew up in a misogynistic household and my parents are semi-redpilled. I truly thought I had zero worth because I was born a girl. Basically it gave me ptsd and made me depressed and suicidal. It took years of hard work to get my mental health back. If redpill/similar beliefs are true, then why does it cause such mental distress in people? Why don't my parents have any friends? Why are they such miserable assholes? Why do they enable abuse? If bluepilled liberals are idiots and are totally wro…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 11:25 PM
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It's back up now. It got set to private or something.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 11:17 PM
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The article is behind a paywall for me. It's not enough to just point out the statistics. To prove hypergamy you'd have to provide the reasoning for said statistics and some sort of evidence to back that up.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 04:23 AM
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I can say I've recognized each of these traits in other women here and there, so I think you're getting somewhere. But I still wouldn't generalize a whole population.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 09:34 PM
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Many (if not most) humans have some sort of tribalistic mentality in some form or another. Politics, religion, race, their next door neighbor who blasts loud music and won't mow their lawn, their sibling that they always had a rivalry with, and so on. Gender is just another thing to argue about.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 09:32 PM
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I would bet that redpill guys are more likely to die alone. Their horrible attitudes and beliefs scare decent people away. And anybody who does hang around them is probably not a healthy person to be around either. My parents are semi-redpilled and they have zero friends. Yes they have each other, but my mom is so incredibly manipulated (battered wife syndrome) she's effectively braindead. Think of the military guy's wife in American Beauty, that's basically her. Having a partner like her is wor…
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 09:29 PM
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To answer your questions, yes they could have come from his redpill beliefs. Honestly the best thing to do is move on with your life and be thankful he's an ex now.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 09:20 PM
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Agreed, it's like they weed themselves out of the dating pool.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 01:26 PM
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Sounds like you're projecting.... since you're just here to assume the worst about others and complain. I know you're only lashing out at me because I happen to be one of the random internet people that you stumbled across today. I've hung out in r/menslib a bunch of times. It never ceases to amaze me how loads of dudes ask for solutions but don't take the advice. I've said it a dozen times, men need support groups and many guys need to go to therapy. But when I brought up such ideas, they laugh…
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 10:35 PM
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Wow, you immediately jump to the worst conclusions. No, I can't think of any off the top of my head.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 10:03 PM
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Do you have anyone in real life you can look up to? Does anyone in your life set a good example for you? Check real life first before you go looking on the internet.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 08:45 PM
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You said it yourself, nobody here knows shit. So how can you claim its a phase? Besides, sometimes people don't realize that they are fucking shit up until they have to deal with the consequences. Consequences = being dumped, or at least being told "I'm not putting up with this anymore." Edited to add more
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 08:42 PM
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None of them. The real alpha people are the ones who don't want or need such labels. Think for yourself.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 08:39 PM
4

Exactly. It makes zero sense to want validation from someone you deem to be stupid and worthless. What these dudes want is blind praise and worship. But if someone is stupid and worthless, exactly how is their validation worth anything?
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 08:38 PM
2

Yeah, and you're doing the same thing.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 08:34 PM
2

I would never be with someone who didn't allow me to fully express my thoughts and feelings. Trying to change him is a waste of time. You're wearing rose-tinted glasses.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 06:30 PM
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No one should stay with someone who labels them as stupid. People such as yourself is why abuse and toxicity goes ignored. I'm going off of what OP has said. So by your own admission, you don't know jack shit either.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 06:24 PM
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How is "women don't want to hear it" prove that it's the truth? Have you considered that nobody wants to hear it because it's wrong?
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 02:00 PM
3

You deserve better than him.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 01:36 PM
4

Think for yourself.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/21 06:04 PM
1

Neither is reddit, so why are you here?
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 07:07 PM
4

So it's cool if you seek someone out for the purpose of getting laid? But if she does the same, she's bad? Fuck off. The double standard lies within YOU, not with all women.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 05:28 PM
2

You seem to have this idea in your head that people should be strictly monogamous and only talk to one potential partner at a time. That's not how real life works. And this whole mindset of yours is based off your own insecurities, which you can't deal with so you get upset at others who decide to use their freedom as they wish.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 05:23 PM
2

Take it up with Wikipedia.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 05:20 PM
5

You were too scared to communicate, so you go and put the blame on the other person? Real nice. I would be mad if I were her, too.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 05:19 PM
2

The whole point of dating is to find out what you like and who you like. There's zero commitment until it's actually decided between both parties that there is commitment. 🎵"If you liked it, then you should've put a ring on it."🎵
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 05:18 PM
2

Yup, came here to say this.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 05:16 PM
10

Is it wrong for a guy to go date or sleep around with other women if he's been seeing a girl but they aren't official yet?
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 06:22 AM
6

30F here, INTP. Wow lots of INTP's here.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/21 06:31 PM
12

How about we just don't manipulate people? Yeah let's not do that.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 06:38 PM
4

Censorship is about the government. Not private businesses that run websites that can host or not host whatever content they want.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 11:42 PM
3

Why do you think loads of women prefer to get to know a guy before they make up their mind about him?
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 11:35 PM
3

Apparently wanting to be with a guy who also makes decent money so you can buy a house/condo together is too much to ask for.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 11:31 PM
2

Yup pretty much.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 11:12 PM
3

At least you admit it, and that takes courage to do so. To be totally honest, I think you have bigger issues to deal with than being single right now. We can't diagnose you but like the other commenter said, it sounds like some sort of borderline or narcissism problem. Please get help.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/21 12:56 PM
3

Most women want relationships instead of hookups because it's more fulfilling for them, and somehow this fact makes your life horrible? Why is a relationship not satisfying for you?
/r/ExRedPill02/08/21 11:54 PM
2

Fucking thank you.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/21 09:06 PM
3

Nothing better to do than look for stuff to inflate their own egos.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/21 03:29 PM
9

Why did it catch your interest? Her story is just that, her own side of the story. Is it really hypergamy to say "my ex didn't pull his own weight and the expectations I was taught when I was younger are bullshit"?
/r/ExRedPill02/08/21 03:28 PM
4

That's a pretty strict stance to take. But I do think it's important to be skeptical of all information one hears and reads.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/21 03:24 PM
7

I think misinformation in any form can be extremely dangerous.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/21 03:22 PM
2

People thrive off negativity. There's a mechanism in our brains that makes us look for negative shit and remember it well. It's part of our survival instincts. Unfortunately it often does more harm than good.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/21 06:30 AM
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He's a far right winger. He's been on Newsmax and his YouTube has been demonetized for hate speech. Despite being in favor of conservative values, he's in his 70s and never married. He's against sex before marriage but he had a kid out of wedlock. He claims racism doesn't exist, which is weird coming from a black dude. He's in favor of sending black people to back to southern plantations. He's a massive fucking hypocrite, and this is just with 5 minutes of research. I don't even want to list any…
/r/ExRedPill02/08/21 06:26 AM
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So, incels/redpillers are the ones making fake profiles and lying to women, and somehow this proves that women are dishonest and disrespectful? What? I have zero respect for liars and fakes.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/21 06:15 AM
3

I can understand that. But we aren't cavemen anymore who need to spread their seed everywhere. There's enough people on this planet and people have different priorities now.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/21 04:39 AM
3

Women who want to get married tend to be more vocal about marriage than women who don't want to/don't care.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/21 04:23 AM
2

"Getting passed around" and cheating are totally different things.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/21 04:14 AM
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If she was an adult, educated about sex, and used protection and stayed safe, yeah I wouldn't give a crap.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/21 04:12 AM
3

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Madonna%E2%80%93whore_complex
/r/ExRedPill28/07/21 04:09 AM
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As for your second article, it says nothing about women wanting a big strong dude. That implies physical appearances. The article was talking about dominant and powerful men, which is more of a mindset and an action. I don't see what the big deal is, since loads of people (men, women, and LGBTQ) love being dominated in bed. Feminism tackles more social issues and the power dynamics between men and women. There's a difference between that and power dynamics in the bedroom, if we're talking about …
/r/ExRedPill28/07/21 04:00 AM
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For the sake of argument, in today's economy why should any woman settle for a dude who doesn't have a job? Especially if she's financially stable herself and probably college educated. Why aren't guys getting their shit together as adults? Don't need to be a millionaire, but you should still be able to support yourself as an adult.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/21 06:14 AM
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PREACH
/r/ExRedPill25/07/21 09:58 PM
2

Can you define "success" here?
/r/ExRedPill25/07/21 09:12 PM
5

Sarcasm?
/r/ExRedPill25/07/21 04:54 PM
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I came here to say something similar. People who don't have their crap together (mentally, having a stable place to live, a job, things of that nature) usually are more difficult to have a relationship with. Their mental illness or baggage creates problems, it's hard to go see them when they don't have a place to live, it's difficult to do stuff you want to do when you don't have money, and so on. I don't think it's unfair to want to avoid shit like this.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/21 04:53 PM
4

"Finish line" what does this mean, anyway?
/r/ExRedPill25/07/21 04:18 PM
3

True. I'm not gonna lie and say I've never done the same thing, we all have. But I fully embrace that anything I learn could be wrong, and that's how I move forward.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/21 12:56 PM
7

So you're fully convinced of hypergamy based on only one study?
/r/ExRedPill24/07/21 12:46 PM
4

Okcupid doesn't even represent dating as a whole.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/21 12:43 PM
5

Lol redpillers are horrible at reading statistics.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/21 12:37 PM
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The burden of proof lies on whoever makes the claim. If someone says hypergamy exists, then it's on them to prove it. It's not the burden of someone else to disprove it.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/21 12:29 PM
4

Well, at least you are honest enough to admit it
/r/ExRedPill24/07/21 11:34 AM
8

Sounds about right to me.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/21 11:33 AM
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The point is that redpillers made the claim, so they should provide the evidence. It's not rational until there is sufficient evidence.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/21 10:02 AM
3

Are you aware that not every woman thinks the same thing?
/r/ExRedPill24/07/21 09:58 AM
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Whoever makes the claim, the burden of proof is on them. There's not exactly an equal number of men and women on earth, for the record. Under age 40ish, there's more men than women. There's just no way for there to ever be an equal distribution of partners. I also take issue with the fact that people are being looked at like resources.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/21 09:53 AM
4

Don't put it in your mouth in the first place
/r/ExRedPill23/07/21 07:28 PM
10

I agree.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/21 01:17 AM
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I've mentioned this before and I'll say it again. I think there should be mental health help and positivity groups for men. But when I suggested this on various subreddits such as these, men laughed at the idea. What if this kind of help existed, and all they had to do was pick up a phone or find a calendar and show up? Nobody seemed interested. They push away the help they want and need.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/21 01:17 AM
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People, including women, just want stability. No need to be rich, just make enough to pay your bills and don't make stupid financial decisions. It's just a basic requirement of adulthood. You'll be fine.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/21 12:54 AM
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It's so hypocritical, omg. Everything they complain about is due to toxic masculinity, and then they turn around and encourage such toxic masculinity. It's absolute bullshit. Please don't ever delete this post, OP. We need more awareness about all of this.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/21 08:20 PM
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I really don't want my brain to turn to mush by reading that stuff, it's bad enough I hang around here. Lol. But I do know how deep they bury their heads in the sand. I agree.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/21 07:12 PM
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I'm just amazed by people who think women don't create anything. Women get more college degrees these days, are starting to earn as much/more than men. I have women friends who work in the trades, like with sheet metal or woodworking. Some of the most successful and talented people I know have been women, running businesses as very prominent people in the local communities. "Men build stuff, women make men" is offensive. It's not a statement about how things actually are, but how these assholes …
/r/ExRedPill20/07/21 07:09 PM
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Stories like yours are important. We get drive-by redpillers in this subreddit who are like "lol redpill is great, I don't see the problem with it, why does anyone leave it?" We need stories like yours to show the reality.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/21 06:55 PM
2

I would be lying if I said I never got a laugh out of some of the stuff I saw on FDS. But I don't want such a toxic place to ruin my view of humans so I pretty much never visit there. I don't think it's wrong to have emotions, it's what makes us human. It's just a matter on what you or anyone else does with those feelings. I understand the trust issues. Ultimately though we all have to take chances if we want to get anywhere in life, and I don't want to live my life stuck in the house afraid to …
/r/ExRedPill19/07/21 06:35 PM
1

It sounded like most of your argument was based around "women just want a hot baby daddy" so that's where I just made up the 50%. Having kids is fucking demanding, expensive, and painful. Anyone who doesn't take it seriously (whether they want kids or not) shouldn't be a dating candidate for you anyway. So it boils down to you being insecure/depressed about yourself. I'm not shaming you for that, but honestly that's what redpill guys boil down to. Underneath all their "science" and "logic" is ju…
/r/ExRedPill19/07/21 04:36 PM
1

https://www.census.gov/library/stories/2017/11/women-early-thirties.html https://www.census.gov/content/dam/Census/library/publications/2017/demo/p20-579.pdf It's not 50% (I never claimed it was) but it's no secret that the birth rate has dropped over recent decades. Why would you assume a woman who slept with dudes in the past wants to use you? Should women assume non-virgin dudes want to use them? Something like 61% of men are fathers, which is far from describing the "small minority" of child…
/r/ExRedPill19/07/21 04:02 PM
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Not every woman has or wants kids, so this kills half the argument right off the bat. I think it boils down to this: who gives a fuck who younger women sleep with? It's 2021 already.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/21 03:34 PM
1

First you say Indian men have zero chance, and now you say women only "prefer" white guys. Pick one. Do Indian guys have a chance or not?
/r/ExRedPill18/07/21 05:06 PM
1

These dudes are projecting their own issues.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/21 04:41 AM
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Redpill has no soul.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/21 04:22 AM
2

If it was really that detrimental to getting laid, then there wouldn't even be an Indian race or culture. They would have died out ages ago due to no reproduction. How do you think your parents got together and had you?
/r/ExRedPill17/07/21 10:45 PM
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Your mom sounds like a debbie downer here. Not that there is a lot of info to go off of here, but I would ignore her. If the girl wants to keep talking to you, she will. Just be chill. You got this.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/21 10:07 PM
2

What is popular is not always popular.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/21 09:39 PM
3

There's a link to the study in this thread. https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/ojvtt0/arent_some_redpill_ideas_in_line_with/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share Your bitterness isn't doing you any favors, bro. Edit: enjoy your ban for spreading misinformation and sexism. Edit 2: wow, harassing DM's. How lovely.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/21 09:37 PM
4

Right, because no woman out there works out that hard. /s
/r/ExRedPill17/07/21 09:33 PM
7

Yup I get it. I go for creative/musical types. Apparently I'm picky for liking guys who play an instrument, despite the fact that I took 8 years of piano lessons and I taught myself guitar. Lmao.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/21 06:11 PM
9

That's not a high standard to have, especially if you provide the same thing in return.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/21 02:08 PM
2

You don't get out much, do you?
/r/ExRedPill17/07/21 02:02 PM
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No, not really. Everyone I know is just a normal person from the midwest USA and most of them are paired up with someone else. There's more to life than just whatever you see on TV or Instagram.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/21 01:54 PM
11

Nobody except the most immature and shallow would do that.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/21 12:48 PM
11

Average people date, get laid, and get married all the time. This shouldn't be news to you.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/21 12:45 PM
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Just want to point out that being rejected because of looks doesn't necessarily mean someone thinks you're ugly. Like, a girl might get asked out by a guy but she says no because he's not her type. He might be a polo shirt and khakis type of dude with blonde hair, when really she's into skater dudes with dark hair. I think most people have a "type" and there's nothing wrong with that.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/21 12:44 PM
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It's actually men who care more about looks when it comes to dating (compared to women), and the statistics reflect this.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/21 12:35 PM
2

I think they have a lot of the same ideas. But TRP men seem to take their issues out on other people more often than blackpillers, who seem more likely to self harm and turn their hatred/insecurities inward.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/21 10:54 PM
1

90 is old as dirt compared to 30, lol
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 05:08 AM
7

They took the matrix idea and butchered it. It's barely a shadow of its original meaning. Just because something claims to be scientific, doesn't mean it is.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 04:23 AM
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In terms of sex differences in the age of mated partners, men reported having partners younger than themselves, whereas women reported having partners older than themselves, on average, b = −0.96, SE = 0.05, p < .001. Women reported partners older than themselves, M = 2.43, 95% CI = [2.31, 2.55], and men reported partners younger than themselves, M = −2.26, 95% CI = [−2.39, −2.13]. The sex differences (bs) ranged from −1.77 in Algeria to −0.48 in the United States. Overall, we replicated the wor…
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 04:22 AM
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Sorry I'm on mobile so it's hard to read and reply and format all of this. I've heard redpillers/blackpillers say women only care about looks and money. Well it turns out men care more about looks than women, and of course women are more likely to look for financial stability when they don't have as many rights as men do. Apparently women prefer traits such as kindness, intelligence, and health more than men do. You'll never hear redpillers citing this. Not that I'm an expert or anything, but I …
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 04:11 AM
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Results Sex differences in mate preferences Across cultures, women reported a higher preference for an ideal mate with good financial prospects than men, on average, b = −0.30, SE = 0.03, p < .001 (Fig. 1). Mate preferences were standardized across countries prior to analysis, so this and all b values can be inter- preted as equivalent to Cohen’s ds. The average for women was 5.48, 95% CI = [5.46, 5.51], and the average for men was 5.11, 95% CI = [5.08, 5.14]. The smallest sex difference was in …
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 04:07 AM
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That article is behind a paywall so it's not very helpful here. Beyond age of partner, neither pathogen prevalence nor gender equality robustly predicted sex differences or preferences across countries. I'm not sure what that means, and I wish the article wasn't behind a paywall so I could figure it out. Somebody please ELI5. Ultimately, it's a bad idea to try and use studies like this to predict what the preferences or dislikes of individuals are. We're not talking about studies that are about …
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 03:48 AM
11

People often marry for the wrong reasons, and/or when they are young and dumb.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 02:53 AM
3

So what is your conclusion then?
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 02:49 AM
3

I'm glad you found a philosophy that works for you and it seems decent to me. It really has little in common with the way Redpill is today though. Carpe Diem to you too.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 01:15 AM
3

I wouldn't call that redpill, personally. Labels are important.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 01:00 AM
5

I don't want to go into specifics (too much personal info) but I'll describe it in a nutshell. My stepdad doesn't know what redpill is but he has similar beliefs. What roles belong to men and women, the "nature" of men and women, life is basically a game to be played and people are to be manipulated, it's important to keep certain people (usually women and girls and minorities) in their place, health and fitness are very important. He's also a right-winger and that aligns with a lot of redpill b…
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 12:58 AM
3

I wasn't redpilled myself, but I saw how my parents had redpill beliefs and how fucked up their marriage is.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/21 11:55 PM
12

The statistic says nothing about the reasons why people divorce.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/21 11:54 PM
4

He's angry and outspoken and hateful of women because he knows how shitty his own life is.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/21 06:29 PM
2

What's with the attitude?
/r/ExRedPill13/07/21 06:26 PM
2

Ever visited r/deadbedrooms?
/r/ExRedPill13/07/21 06:25 PM
11

People want their spouses/partners to want them. People who really want someone else other than their partners would just go do it already.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/21 06:48 AM
15

It was cringey and I could only watch a little bit of it. It was definitely some sort of fantasy someone wrote, and not realistic.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/21 06:46 AM
9

Sarcasm
/r/ExRedPill13/07/21 01:26 AM
15

Insult the woman you want to date. Classic redpill move. I'm sure it won't scare her away. /s
/r/ExRedPill13/07/21 12:38 AM
1

You could have just said that without the woo-woo psychic stuff.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/21 08:46 PM
1

I don't know what I just read
/r/ExRedPill12/07/21 05:32 PM
2

Ooo Heaven is a place on earth... Lol it's a fucking youtube link.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/21 04:28 PM
2

https://youtu.be/NOGEyBeoBGM
/r/ExRedPill11/07/21 03:43 PM
2

🤣 omg I forgot my brother had a bunch of those.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/21 03:42 PM
2

No, that's not true. Do you have any reason for being so shallow? Can you come up with a reason that isn't a "whataboutism"?
/r/ExRedPill11/07/21 03:34 PM
4

You sound like a very shallow person.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/21 06:57 AM
3

I can't get into specifics but I will say I've seen bikers do great deeds for other people. Did you know there's a group of big tough biker guys who help out abused kids? They go talk to the kids and help them stand up in court to testify against their abusers. The kids feel more protected that way.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/21 03:28 AM
6

I remember hearing a story about a couple. I don't remember who told me the story or where/when the story took place. But a man beat up his wife on multiple occasions. She gets fed up with him and one day while he's sleeping, she goes and pours boiling water on him. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/21 03:25 AM
3

I haven't watched his content. But I remember another Redpill YouTube dude who was claiming that domestic violence only occurs against men. Any violence towards women is just to keep them in line. This sort of premise also puts forth the idea that "women who claim DV are always lying."
/r/ExRedPill09/07/21 02:51 AM
5

Young people marry each other to build a life together. They build stability together. That's the goal, anyway.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/21 01:03 AM
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I just find it ironic that redpill preaches that men have no value until they are older, and yet young redpilled dudes bitch and complain that they don't have any value as a young man. Like, why the fuck would you promote an idea that deeply upsets you?
/r/ExRedPill08/07/21 10:55 PM
12

When you stop viewing a different group of people as human and start seeing them as an enemy or something to be controlled, violence and hatred quickly grow.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/21 08:33 PM
8

Unfortunately I don't think there's anything you can do. I've been through the same shit with my parents.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/21 08:31 PM
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My stepdad is kind of redpilled. He doesn't know what redpill is but he still has the same principles and attitude. He's a serial rapist and he's been manipulating my mom for the past 30+ years.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/21 08:30 PM
7

Apparently bikers can't be nice people! I swear, redpillers only know how to operate off stereotypes. It's almost as if they spend all day online and don't socialize much...
/r/ExRedPill08/07/21 05:17 PM
2

It doesn't have to be a tangible product. You can sell people ideas. You can sell them hope. You can sell them a scapegoat.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/21 02:43 AM
2

r/minimalism
/r/ExRedPill08/07/21 02:41 AM
2

Because you don't see marriage as an equal partnership and you're probably a control freak.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/21 02:36 AM
2

Is there a name for the "pick me" girl when she hits middle age/old age? Just wondering.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/21 02:35 AM
4

That subreddit is a dumpster fire. I swear, I've spoken to a couple people on there who were probably psychopaths or sociopaths. I could just tell from their tone that they have zero life behind their eyes.
/r/ExRedPill07/07/21 04:31 PM
13

Men will always put women on a pedestal as long as they are sexually attracted to women.
/r/ExRedPill07/07/21 03:03 PM
5

🤣🤣🤣 so true
/r/ExRedPill07/07/21 01:40 AM
1

Where should the survey be posted, then?
/r/ExRedPill06/07/21 05:08 AM
2

Because they are afraid and they hate women, it's pretty simple.
/r/ExRedPill04/07/21 05:45 PM
3

So what is your solution? Abolish child support?
/r/ExRedPill04/07/21 05:44 PM
2

Child support is for raising the children. Alimony is rare, something like 10% of divorces involve Alimony being awarded. And it's usually only when one person gives up their career to be a single parent and they've been married a long time.
/r/ExRedPill04/07/21 05:43 PM
1

Evidence?
/r/ExRedPill04/07/21 05:41 PM
1

Then you haven't been paying attention.
/r/ExRedPill04/07/21 05:40 PM
5

Some say there are also a lot more single women, compared to the past. So it can go both ways. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2015/nov/10/dating-gap-hook-up-culture-female-graduates https://www.inquirer.com/news/dating-match-millennials-marriage-study-single-half-20190322.html https://www.bentley.edu/news/nowuknow-why-millennials-refuse-get-married I don't think this is rocket science: Research about this trend draws panic on the Internet and tense media coverage. …
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 10:39 PM
2

Stay single for awhile. Detox completely from social media and dating apps. Get therapy, Maybe see a psychiatrist too. Start by making and keeping genuine friendships. Save dating/hookups for later. Edit: typo
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 10:02 PM
4

Everything you said, I totally believe it.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 09:55 PM
13

For what it's worth, she sounds like a miserable person to be around.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 06:29 PM
3

Definitely not during 20s and 30s anyway.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/21 11:47 AM
1

Would you be interested in dating someone who didn't take you seriously, didn't listen to you, pretended to know you better than you know yourself?
/r/ExRedPill30/06/21 06:21 AM
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If you go around saying stuff like "women have it easier" then women aren't going to be interested in you.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/21 06:04 PM
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Movies aren't real life.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/21 01:54 PM
1

No worries, I could have written myself a lot of what you wrote. My friend got me a job at a company to get me out of working crappy retail jobs. This was when I was halfway through college already. I was not expecting to fall in love with my industry but I did. This is why on this subreddit and r/IncelExit, I encourage young people to be social and make connections with people. Because it can help in so many unexpected ways. I'm not a very good student and I basically just pushed myself through…
/r/ExRedPill29/06/21 02:16 AM
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Redpiller/blackpiller: Fucks up basic human interactions Also redpillers/blackpillers: "why don't women approach me?"
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 09:32 PM
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$14 in Canadian dollars? That's like $11 in USD. That's what minimum wage is where I'm at. I actually really try to be consistent in my beliefs and I appreciate it when others are too. I'm glad we got to a much more civil point in this discussion. I was suicidal because I was abused by my parents for the first 19 years of my life. My parents are semi-redpilled (they don't know what redpill is but they certainly act that way) and they treated me and my brother accordingly. I got away from them, p…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 09:30 PM
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Haha I could have written this myself. I am getting professional help but this stuff is still addicting to read.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 07:31 PM
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Being suicidal for a long time, for one. Yes, I'm in the USA. No, minimum wage isn't enough to live off here. I just got a job making more than 2x minimum wage here but I know I'll still be struggling a bit due to COL. I don't want to move because I don't know anyone in any other places and my industry ties me to urban areas. I think of ambition and taking responsibility to be separate things, although they are connected. No worries, you might have called me out on some inconsistent beliefs I di…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 07:00 PM
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JOEY DOESN'T SHARE FOOD!!!
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 06:38 PM
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Based on your posts history, you and I actually have some things in common. Good for you for going into the trades. You gotta do what you gotta do and there is no shame in that. Once again, it's not the living with parents in itself that is shameful. It's the lack of ambition and refusal to take responsibility. We all get fucked over in life. What matters is how you deal with it.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 06:06 PM
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It's a very good question and I don't mind that you asked. Except I don't really know.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 05:57 PM
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I'm gonna sound like an asshole here, but you're either surrounded by the wrong people or you're doing something wrong to scare people off.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 05:25 PM
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I don't pretend to be anything. Nobody supported me through college but I went and finished it anyway to prove them wrong.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 05:21 PM
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Your solutions (from what I hear) are always "other people should do this and this" or "women should do this." I never hear the words come out of your mouth "I'm going to do such and such to improve my life." I'm tired of your complaining, bro.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 04:56 PM
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I don't see posters saying the same thing about men at college campuses. If you really wanted to finish college, you would have found a way.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 04:54 PM
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We have never argued over art. I get frustrated with your conversations because you complain about the same shit over and over, with zero solutions in sight, and it's exhausting.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 04:20 PM
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Exactly. I work in the arts and most of my friends are artists. Roughly equal numbers of men and women. Everyone encourages each other's work. Nobody gives a shit about gender. Either OP is hanging out with the wrong people, or they aren't being truthful.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 02:28 PM
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Sounds like he should seek out other artistic women who will appreciate him.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 02:20 PM
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Woman here and a professional artist. I have zero idea what you guys are talking about.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 02:10 PM
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None of it. "Hit the gym" and other self-improvement stuff isn't unique to redpill.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 02:09 PM
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Exactly what assistance do women get with college that men don't?
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 01:02 PM
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Your point agrees with what I said. This isn't the oppression Olympics, bro.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 01:01 PM
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I'm 100% serious, the second you stop worrying so much about all that, the easier things get. And confidence can naturally come from that. Stop trying so hard. Figure out how to deal with your anxiety and worrying here. Stop giving a fuck.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 06:12 PM
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Respect and obedience is the same thing to them.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 03:38 PM
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Even that doesn't stop some of them.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 03:37 PM
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You don't know what logical fallacies are.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 03:32 PM
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It's not going to happen in your lifetime so why do you keep waiting around for it to be so? Ignore what you can't control and work on what you can.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 03:29 PM
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I hate to break it to you but you're asking for stuff that probably won't happen in your lifetime.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 02:45 PM
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So if you don't want men's sexuality demonized, but you don't want it applauded, then what do you want?
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 04:13 AM
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So you have no sources to back up your claims and you don't care about the definition of words. You are illogical and this conversation is over.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 04:02 AM
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I wasn't aware that there were racist feminists out there.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 04:01 AM
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If liberals are telling men to go get some, then they are also saying it to women. Equality and consistency. You keep blaming stuff on feminism when feminism is not at fault.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 03:50 AM
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All of the stuff young dudes go through that you are complaining about is due to old school gender norms, not feminism! So I don't know why you continue to blame feminism for what it is not at fault for.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 03:48 AM
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I don't know what you're rambling on about. You still haven't provided any examples of how widespread it is, men getting demonized for their sexuality.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 03:46 AM
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Examples: Be sexually aggressive. "Get some! Get some!" Or "you haven't gotten laid yet? Loser." "Take upskirt shots" heard that one from my misogynistic, asshole stepdad. He said it to my brother. Also, being shamed for being gay and/or feminine. Or just being called gay as an insult, even if you're not. If you've experienced anything along those lines, that's due to conservative old school gender norms.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 03:44 AM
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It's not acceptable for anyone to say any of that shit. Why would you think I think that?
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 03:39 AM
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Yup, couldn't have said it better myself.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 03:13 AM
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Criticizing a group is not the definition of the "no true scottsman fallacy." Exactly, you're waiting for the day where people's opinions are all consistent. You'll die thousands of years before that happens.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 03:12 AM
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It does matter if it's classic or extremist. Jesus christ. Do you not understand how big the difference is? Would you not tell the difference between some peaceful Muslim family who lives down the street, and some extremist groups that go cause suicide bombings? According to your logic, they're the same thing.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 03:10 AM
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Classic feminist doctrine doesn't demonize men's sexuality. I don't know where you're getting this from. Most child neglect is done by the mother/mother figure. Most violent child abuse is done by the father/father figure. The statistics reflect this. Everyone is going to beat their spouse? Wtf, where did this come from?
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 03:07 AM
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If everyone is really that conflicting to you, then why do you keep wanting their acceptance and approval? Why would you value what they say anymore? How can you respect their opinion anymore? I don't take anyone seriously if their opinions are really inconsistent/contradictory. I don't respect their opinions anymore. Think for yourself.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 03:05 AM
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Ginger rolls sounds like an amazing food, I'd love to try that recipe.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 03:02 AM
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no true scottsman fallacy Where? I don't think you're using that term properly. Classic Feminism vs. Extremist feminism is like the difference between Islam and Islamic Extremists. The two ends of the spectrum are vastly different, despite using the same label. It's not that I don't believe you, I just think you're incredibly confused.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 03:01 AM
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You are right about assault and rape. men are inherently predatory Well, the statistics say most sex predators are men. Have you considered that it's not inherent in men, but that most men are brought up to be taught to be sexually aggressive? You can thank misogyny and sexism for that. That's not feminism. Were you raised in a religious family or religious area? If your sexuality and sex drive were demonized, you can probably blame religion and purity culture for that. That's also not feminism.…
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 02:58 AM
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Question: do you feel like you are held to more conservative standards in the area where you live, or do you feel you are held to more feminist standards? Or do you think that everyone around you where you live is an inconsistent idiot with the messages they send you?
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 02:52 AM
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ginger roles 🤣 Guys and girls are taught different things growing up. Men are taught traditional roles, women are taught both traditional and feminist roles. Hence the confusion. You weren't brought up feminist. You were brought up by abusive jerks who only labeled themselves as "feminist." Hence why you're confused. I believe you said you were from a state in the southern USA, where people are usually more conservative. Women who expect men to read their minds are idiots, I agree. I had a best …
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 02:50 AM
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Because women have to worry more about their safety, that's why. Not that you would understand the feeling. Women who want to make the first move, will. If she doesn't approach you, she either doesn't like you or is too passive and clearly not your type. Quit assuming all women actually want to approach but refuse to.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 02:47 AM
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If somebody has zero standards, I can't respect that. Zero standards because of biology, which means men can't ever be disrespectful? This makes zero sense, and paints all men as fucking animals. Anyone who took that podcast seriously and believed it, you're a goddamn moron. Prostitutes don't even want to deal with redpillers, I would suspect. The prostitutes should charge more for their services to them.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 02:43 AM
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Okay, so you're doing it because you want to be accepted. Why didn't you just say so? Look, being lonely can suck. Most people feel like they want to be accepted by others, at one point or another. But trust me when I say, when you stop giving a fuck about other people's stupid opinions, it gets so much easier. You'll probably gain some confidence that way, too.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 02:34 AM
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"A lot of men have pointed it out" Who? Who are you referring to? Can you point out examples? Do you have any articles or studies on that? Because otherwise you're just making it all up. Conservatives want traditional gender roles, yo. It's part of the definition of "conservative." My entire extended family is conservative and I don't think I've ever heard them describe anyone else as "creepy." That word doesn't come out of their mouths unless they are talking about Halloween or ghosts. If they'…
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 02:31 AM
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I agree about purity culture. I forgot about that. It's really toxic. I went through a little bit of it growing up, so I'm familiar with it. Although I don't think purity culture is what OP went through. He's repeatedly said his toxic family identifies as "feminist", which a lot of fundies/evangelical Christians probably wouldn't label themselves as. Tbe point I was getting at is that I think OP takes his own experiences and projects them as being widespread problems.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 01:46 AM
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Do you have any examples of men's sexuality systematically being demonized starting from a young age? Besides your own life? Please leave some articles or studies on this being a widespread problem like you sound it to be.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 12:53 AM
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Yup, but you're the bitch for making awkward guys feel bad because they don't know how to approach you! (This is sarcasm, I promise!) For real, guys here are gonna get mad at you for pointing all of this out. But they never seem to get mad at the other cat calling guys who ruin it for everyone else.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 12:49 AM
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So you do give a fuck about what people's opinions are, despite how bad their opinions on dating are, because when you initially hear it it sounds good? Come on. You have to be smarter than that. Are you really that gullible? Think for yourself and stop giving a shit.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 12:38 AM
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If someone gives you bad advice, then why do you continue to take them seriously? Why give any more fucks about what they say?
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 12:01 AM
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Because misogyny still plagues our society, that's why men get shamed over their income more often. I've made more money than every guy I've dated except for one. It's not the dollar amount that's shameful, it's the lack of ambition. Assuming that's even the case. Minimum wage isn't enough to sustain oneself and plan for the future. So I don't even know what you're talking about. If one makes enough money to do so, then there is no shame involved anyway. r/lostgeneration will probably interest y…
/r/ExRedPill26/06/21 11:39 PM
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Why are you so obsessed with rules on dating anyway? You make posts like this all the time complaining about contradictory messages you get from different people. It's a part of life bro and it's all going to get easier once you just accept that sometimes people suck. You seem to be doing a good job of figuring out what works for you and what doesn't when it comes to dating. So why do you keep worrying about what other people think? Who gives a flying fuck and why are you even letting it impact …
/r/ExRedPill26/06/21 11:33 PM
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Because there's other insults directed towards women, that's why. There's loads of gendered insults out there and all of them are disrespectful. The problem isn't working a minimum wage job and living with your parents. The problem is if someone refuses to do anything better with their lives and then wonders why women have higher expectations. Especially when more women than men are college educated these days and it costs a lot of money to just get by. I think a lot of dudes feel emasculated by…
/r/ExRedPill26/06/21 10:41 PM
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Men are shamed more for being low status because women are already deemed lower status. I agree people are idiots if they shame people for living with their parents.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/21 08:24 PM
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I don't know who reported this as inappropriate for this subreddit due to "text posts only" since that is not a rule here. Videos and links are allowed here.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/21 01:30 PM
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And you're done here with your lies.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/21 01:14 PM
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There is zero evidence backing this up. It's controversial because it's a total lie.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/21 02:32 AM
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Lmfao... I swear redpillers would be much happier if they all went to church and went looking for ultra conservative women to date. I'm sure places like Alabama (or fuck it, even the Middle East) would have much better dating pools for redpillers. 😆
/r/ExRedPill24/06/21 02:30 AM
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Same.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/21 02:25 AM
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You're so young, you don't need redpill. You'll be fine without it. Just remember that people in their teens/early 20s can be total idiot jerks so don't take everything your peers say seriously. Just date different people and stay social. You'll be fine!
/r/ExRedPill23/06/21 10:25 PM
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What specifically about redpill did you want to talk to her about? As in a philosophical way, or a dating strategy way...
/r/ExRedPill23/06/21 10:13 PM
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Ok just clarifying. Thanks. I don't see why redpill should be a subject that is off limits. If you don't trust your long term partner, then who can you trust?
/r/ExRedPill23/06/21 10:11 PM
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Ltr?
/r/ExRedPill23/06/21 10:09 PM
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Oof, this hit home for me. I remember being told the same thing that "respect comes from fear." And "you don't need self esteem, you just need to do as I say." Total fucking control freak.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/21 01:35 PM
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This subreddit is for those who want to leave redpill, are in the process of leaving, or have left. It's also visited by people who have been affected by redpill even though they never took the pill themselves.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/21 03:51 AM
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😆
/r/ExRedPill21/06/21 09:13 PM
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Lol good point.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/21 09:12 PM
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Yup, parents have way more influence over who their kids marry in those cultures.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/21 06:28 PM
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I don't know what country you're in. You might be among very traditional people. I live in the USA in a relatively liberal state. People usually date and marry within their socioeconomic place. Dating and marriage is completely possible for most people here. I've seen it many times where women have dated/are dating dudes despite deserving someone better than him.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/21 07:06 PM
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I can't believe this has to be explained to people. "Hey, maybe DON'T beat your girlfriend because she doesn't like it."
/r/ExRedPill20/06/21 03:16 PM
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Haha, more times than I can count. Do you only see women in your life as paired off with higher tier guys?
/r/ExRedPill20/06/21 04:16 AM
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And men don't?
/r/ExRedPill20/06/21 03:34 AM
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OP contradicts himself all the time.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/21 07:05 PM
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You get over it by not telling yourself any more lies like "women don't have to try."
/r/ExRedPill19/06/21 02:51 PM
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Tribalistic mentality.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/21 12:44 AM
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That's not the issue here.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/21 09:23 PM
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Absolutely. Take any real life story, any statistic, any hypothetical scenario, and they will find a way to pin the blame on the woman/women in that story.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 10:18 PM
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I agree that way too many people out there are shitty at communicating. It really grinds my gears.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 07:47 PM
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I think it begs the question: why did she lose interest? There's like a dozen possible reasons why.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 02:50 PM
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Nice word vomit there.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 01:55 PM
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Just my personal experience, but I've seen a lot of relationships/dating end when the guy doesn't understand that there's a problem and refuses to address it so she just leaves. It makes zero zense in his mind but that's because he doesn't understand that there was a problem until it was already too late.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 01:50 PM
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"Less evolved" isn't even a thing lmfao
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 04:23 AM
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Wow your reading comprehension is horrible.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 06:30 PM
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Lol you call that a hobby?
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 06:26 PM
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Just want to say that it's possible not many of us know what geeks and gamers is.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/21 10:34 PM
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This question comes up a lot in this subreddit. Basically no matter what a woman does, they will hate on her.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/21 10:32 PM
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That's called manipulation and it's a stupid immature game.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/21 02:11 PM
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It sounds like you're stuck in this mentality due to a lack of imagination. People break up for all sorts of reasons. Usually people just aren't compatible. I don't know why you jump to the conclusion about millionaires and chads. I've seen dozens of couples break up and divorce in my life, and I'm just a normal middle class person. They broke up because they were incompatible, there was toxic drama bullshit from one partner if not both, or someone cheated. No rich Chads in any scenario. More an…
/r/ExRedPill14/06/21 02:11 PM
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Have you considered for a second that the guys they dumped may not have been as great as you think they are?
/r/ExRedPill14/06/21 10:27 AM
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excellent case studies This is the questionable part.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/21 08:22 AM
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Men and boys are encouraged to be successful in getting laid. Just because you had your ass beat as a kid doesn't mean that what you experienced is the trend in society. You should seek help for your trauma.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/21 08:21 AM
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This is r/exredpill, not r/exfeminist.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/21 06:03 PM
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Legally, anyone under 18 is a child.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/21 04:43 PM
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This is a BRILLIANT comment. Spot on. Some people don't know how to feel good or important unless they are hating on others.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/21 12:52 AM
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Please report such creepy PM's to Reddit and/or us Mods.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/21 12:51 AM
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He is a predator, she is a minor. This isn't about dating, it's about grooming. Get it right.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/21 12:49 AM
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Came here to say this.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/21 12:48 AM
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I'm not accusing any redpillers of anything, but I know from experience some of those old misogynistic farts will just take what they want from younger women regardless if she agrees or not. Consent be damned.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/21 11:53 PM
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Maybe you should worry about yourself more and less on what other people are doing.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/21 01:24 PM
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Not to mention, they can't tell the difference between extremist feminists and your run-of-the-mill average Suzy Q who just labels herself one.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/21 12:08 PM
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Because they think life is a video game. "If I do X, I get Y." But life doesn't work like that.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/21 12:06 PM
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Trial and error. Lots of trial and error, brainstorming. Try building your own philosophy based on morality, how people should be treated, the purpose of life, and so on. It's basically considering your own opinions on these topics and making them consistent with each other. Once you do that, you can figure out how that applies to romantic and sexual relationships. Forget trying to label it as anything and forget where your ideas come from. Just judge things on their own merit. Good news is that…
/r/ExRedPill11/06/21 05:24 AM
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Yeah dude. That's why people have different opinions and that's why conflict exists. People disagree on shit 24/7 so that's why we all receive different messages growing up. There's nothing we can do about that. Have you tried ditching both feminism and redpill? Think for yourself. Quit putting labels on stuff. Quit trying to pick a side and come up with your own life philosophy instead. Loads of people become adults and they realize their upbringing was a lie, or mostly untrue. Like when people…
/r/ExRedPill11/06/21 05:14 AM
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Yeah, that's basically how the brain works. We're all told conflicting messages growing up, not just about dating but all sorts of stuff. Finances, health, school, current events in the world, sex, literally anything. Part of growing up and becoming a mature adults means filtering out the bad or useless information. Edited to add more
/r/ExRedPill11/06/21 05:01 AM
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Which part do you think is true? Just curious.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/21 04:59 AM
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Feminism isn't a dating strategy.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/21 04:58 AM
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Oh, so a woman has no value other than what her body can provide sexually. That's not toxic at all. /s
/r/ExRedPill10/06/21 11:51 AM
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Dude you need to get off the internet. Your post history bro. Internet bad.
/r/ExRedPill10/06/21 04:15 AM
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Doesn't matter how many he makes. His ideas either stand or fall on their own merit.
/r/ExRedPill10/06/21 04:12 AM
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🤢🤮
/r/ExRedPill10/06/21 04:12 AM
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"It's easier to fool people than to convince them they have been fooled."
/r/ExRedPill10/06/21 04:11 AM
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There's a pink elephant in my back yard. Do you lose sleep at night knowing that I could be right?
/r/ExRedPill10/06/21 04:11 AM
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Why should anything this guy say be considered true or important? Why do you value anything he says?
/r/ExRedPill10/06/21 04:10 AM
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Wow that's some toxic bullshit. Also why the fuck would that woman agree to be in the video?
/r/ExRedPill10/06/21 04:09 AM
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Thank you. I don't mind that you asked. I have some trust issues. Life has taught me that I just can't depend on other people. I don't know how to answer your question, because how can I plan for others to take care of me when pretty much everyone lets me down? Kids and marriage aren't a guarantee that I'll be taken care of. I don't mind continuing to work, even after I retire, if health allows it. I like working and I know what activities I want to do in retirement. But who will be there for me…
/r/ExRedPill10/06/21 04:01 AM
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This kind of mentality is great fodder for someone to have a madonna-whore complex with their partner. It creates dysfunction, it ruins people's sex lives, and it's not good for the self esteem of either partner. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Madonna%E2%80%93whore_complex?wprov=sfla1
/r/ExRedPill09/06/21 10:57 PM
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Thanks. I try. Lol
/r/ExRedPill09/06/21 10:31 PM
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Here's my story if you want to read it. 30F here. It might be of interest to you. https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/mgjwyl/how_do_women_get_over_the_conditioning_that_looks/gstq19p?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3
/r/ExRedPill09/06/21 06:50 PM
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Generally, the way people change their minds on any topic is to detox from the material you were previously consuming and start paying attention to different viewpoints. You don't have to agree with everything someone else says. Just take it into consideration and seriously think other viewpoints over.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 11:11 PM
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Agreed.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 10:34 PM
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Misogyny.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 10:18 PM
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Not to mention, there's more women in college anyway. I didn't read the study but it sounds like a useless statistic.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 10:17 PM
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🤢🤮 No thank you, I don't need to visit that place.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 07:25 PM
1

This is actually hilarious. Thank you.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 07:24 PM
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There are stories on this subreddit of women who dated redpillers. It should be easy enough to search for. I had redpill-like parents. I'm a woman. Being raised by them was hell.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 11:01 PM
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It especially makes me sick because most couples I know aren't involved in power struggles, but redpillers like to lie and say all dating/relationships/marriage are like that. The fucking audacity and projection...
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 10:59 PM
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The problem is that men who harass women will gaslight them into saying it's love, respect, affection, and so on. Even if a woman turns him down, her safety and reputation are still at risk. If someone was showing genuine signs of affection, not harassment, they would understand that they should fuck off if their advances aren't wanted. Desire in itself isn't the problem. The problem is that too many people don't know how to keep their fucking hands to themselves, and their desires for whatever …
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 10:57 PM
1

I haven't looked into it but I'll take your word for it.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 10:29 PM
1

I actually kind of agree with you. But there is zero way to turn asexual. At least none that would be considered morally acceptable by most people in society, and where doctors would be willing to perform such procedures.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 09:39 PM
1

If she accepted your invitation, then why the fuck are you making countless posts on reddit complaining?
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 09:28 PM
1

It sounds more like obsession to me. Maybe codependency. She's not interested in you. You've already been told this, but for whatever reason you can't accept it.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 09:22 PM
2

Lol, I thought the stereotype was that men are more visual?
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 08:17 PM
1

Hitting? Or hitting on? People are allowed to go search for whatever dates they want, as long as it's between consenting adults. But if someone says they aren't interested, take a hint and leave them alone. These rules are pretty simple. No need for redpilled misogyny and manipulation and games. You also didn't address my point.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 08:16 PM
1

You've posted your story on multiple subreddits, including here the other day. What advice, information, or support are you looking for that you haven't found anywhere else? You were seeing that person for just a number of weeks and it didn't work out. It sounds like it's time to move on. Being hung up on any one person is almost always a bad spot to be on.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 08:14 PM
1

Independence is not "trendy." It's literally a necessity to get by in life.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 08:11 PM
8

They're definitely angry that women aren't chasing after them. But imo, most women want to be left the fuck alone.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 06:53 PM
7

It makes sense when you remember that many blackpill and redpill guys are STARVED for attention. Sometimes, literally any kind of attention at all.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 06:50 PM
19

Being sexualized isn't helpful if one doesn't want to be sexualized in the first place, for starters. I wouldn't take it as a compliment, myself. It opens one up to being used. Let's say you take a chance on someone. But they use your body to meet their sexual needs and don't give a fuck about yours. Not all sex is good. Not all people are respectful. Rape and assault happens every day. Women can be sexualized VERY young, before the typical age where people even understand what sex is. It's also…
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 05:35 PM
23

Agreed. This right here. Being sexualized opens one up to being used.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 05:24 PM
2

I've had similar experiences to that.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 12:41 PM
2

This rant is hilarious.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 03:56 AM
3

They must be dumb, because clearly the woman has all of the responsibility. They're too dumb to handle such responsibility. Edit: sarcasm, not sure if it was obvious
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 03:46 AM
3

Ok, so 80% of women within like a 3 month period checked out youtube at least once. So what? There's loads of content on there. It's free television. Accessing YouTube is not the same as being a content creator. I fucking love YouTube. I love music and I love educational videos.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 03:45 AM
3

Well, I'm doing my part by being childfree. Parenthood is not for me. But I can't control what anybody else does and it's not my fucking business. So what am I supposed to do?
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 03:42 AM
5

Why should anyone listen to your misogynistic bullshit?
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 03:29 AM
3

Sounds like there's a lot of dumb guys out there who deserve to be single and not a father. Edit: changed a word
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 03:27 AM
2

The data says 80% of women are on YouTube making content? Or 80% of YouTube content creators are women? There's a massive difference there. Pick one.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 03:26 AM
2

More single moms? Sounds like the dads need to step up... you aren't helping your case bro.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 03:25 AM
2

What is your point with all of this? Why should any of us care?
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 03:24 AM
1

I'm 30 and all of the many female friends I have, they are married, engaged, or in long term relationships. 80% of the content on YouTube may be from women, but that doesn't women as a whole.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 03:18 AM
1

Parents had more influence back then when it came to who their kids married.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 05:12 PM
6

Where are those girls in their late 20s and early 30s? Dating dudes who don't spend their whole days on social media checking out younger girls. Some are married with kids already. Or they are single and cool with it. They're too busy with their own lives to feel the need to show it off to everyone.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 04:47 PM
1

That's definitely the vibe I get from Gen Z. I totally believe it.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 04:07 PM
2

Company. Someone to talk to and do fun stuff with. Having a +1 to events is a huge deal for me. Extending my social circle.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 04:07 PM
3

Pretty much.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 02:01 AM
4

Lol, of course women were gold diggers back then. They literally couldn't have jobs or bank accounts. Any income they did make was from low wage shit: sewing, factory work, being a nanny, stuff like that.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 12:37 AM
6

Lmfao 😅
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 12:34 AM
7

Very true, it comes with the territory. Younger people tend to not understand the value of a dollar. (Yet)
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 11:09 PM
6

Agreed, there's no universal truth here to our personalities. I care about money, but that's because I've been living on my own for over 10 years now and I've had to support myself. Most guys I've dated, I made more money than them or at least I had more stable jobs than they did. Nobody is coming to save me and pay my bills, lmfao.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 10:40 PM
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Exactly, If a couple decides to have kids together, it's not unreasonable to expect both parents to financially support the family and do the hard work of child raising, or at least divide up the work in whatever way makes sense for the family. For some reason, this doesn't compute with some redpillers.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 10:36 PM
21

Same as anybody else in society. Some are gold diggers, some don't care about money whatsoever. People usually date within their socioeconomic class anyway. More and more women are college educated and are the breadwinners in the family. That doesn't fit with the stereotypical gold digging mooch that redpillers like to portay women as. Having good financial skills and knowledge is great but you don't have to make six figures or more to do that.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 10:16 PM
3

No worries, I was just making a stupid joke.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 10:09 PM
1

The first person to get butthurt is the person with the invalid argument! /s
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 09:05 PM
16

I believe the actual creator of this subreddit is nowhere to be found. But u/redpilldetox is basically head moderator. He's a guy, used to be redpilled. Edit: Sexism hurts everyone.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 08:55 PM
2

far left antifa leftist want us dead LMFAO ok bro. Keep on making shit up.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 07:25 PM
1

Lol. They don't speak for all feminists. You know that just because people label themselves with the same word, doesn't mean they all agree on everything? The same thing happens with right-wingers, too. By definition, I'm a feminist, and I don't agree with the idea you mentioned. Large age gaps in general are a bad idea. Besides, you're using an "appeal to authority" fallacy. I forget the exact name of that logical fallacy. Besides, I'm pretty sure those on the left wing care less about what aut…
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 06:58 PM
2

Do you have a source on that? Generally, large age gaps are not a good idea in relationships at all. No matter the genders of either partner.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 06:42 PM
9

Evidence or gtfo. By the way, have you heard of Google? It's quite easy to look up examples of women doing good deeds for humankind.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 05:49 PM
3

No, it's not. Exactly what makes you think this is a good argument? Nobody here would say it is ok.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 05:48 PM
6

As if men never do that. Or as if not everyone has had that mindset at some point in life.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 01:08 PM
12

Solipisim in particular is due to the lack of data or evidence if women caring about anything other than themselves. Do you honestly believe this is the case?
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 12:19 PM
3

Why does that matter?
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 04:42 AM
28

Older women are too smart and experienced to fall for their bullshit. Redpillers can't admit this, though, so they just demonize them.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/21 10:23 PM
1

You should speak to a professional about body image issues.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/21 09:18 PM
1

Why don't you make a new account and delete your current one so you can avoid everyone who bothers you online? You seriously should stay away from the internet since it seems to cause you considerable distress. But for some reason, you continue to seek out such conflict.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/21 09:06 PM
3

We can't help you fix that. You have to figure out how to help yourself.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/21 08:36 PM
2

What deformities do you have? Serious question.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/21 08:34 PM
5

I think you need professional help. I think we have all seen enough of your comments and posts to know that your problems need help that is beyond reddit's pay grade. We can help you discuss redpill ideas and problems that young men go through. But we can't fix your problems for you and we cannot change the world to as you see fit. I don't have the patience for any comments or posts of yours where you flip out on other people and spread sexist ideas. I'm giving you a chance to play nice in the s…
/r/ExRedPill03/06/21 08:30 PM
3

Question: are you interested in dismantling your beliefs or not? Because spreading sexist comments like you continue to do is against the rules of this subreddit, and it's confusing to people who actively try to leave redpill. Taking your anger out on others is also harassment.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/21 08:17 PM
2

You're being treated like garbage because you spread sexist incel beliefs and people are tired of it. People don't want to hear depressed bullshit all day. It scares them off. Go get help.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/21 08:09 PM
3

Does it matter? Your logic still doesn't follow.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/21 08:05 PM
2

I don't understand where you got this victim idea out of a stupid ass meme on reddit.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/21 07:59 PM
7

The alternative is to just be a better person and figure out what works for you. Personally, I was fucking miserable after being taught redpill-like sexist bullshit when I was growing up. I figured out that friendships and dating are better when I stopped trying to be someone I wasn't, and I treated people with respect. I stopped listening to people who repeatedly gave bad advice and didn't listen to me. I learned to take criticism.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/21 07:56 PM
3

Why do you want to spend any time with him?
/r/ExRedPill03/06/21 12:11 PM
6

Redpillers, blackpillers, and MGTOW all basically subscribe to the same sexist ideas. I think the difference is in how they approach those beliefs and act on them: Redpill: edgelord pickup artist internet troll. Blackpill/incel: more into looksism probably due to body dysmorphia, "woe is me" crybabies. MGOTW: "Fuck all of this, I'm out. I'm done with women. Now I'm going to go complain about them all day on the internet." These are the stereotypes, anyway.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/21 03:07 AM
6

Correct, any time a legit problem in the dating world is mentioned, it is acknowledged. But nobody is going to pretend that it's the worst thing in the world either.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/21 12:33 AM
5

I think you're missing the point.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/21 04:38 PM
6

Young love usually doesn't last anyway.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/21 03:42 PM
1

And you know this how?
/r/ExRedPill31/05/21 11:35 AM
1

Women of all ages wear makeup, I'm not entirely sure how your example applies. Not all men are chasing after 20 year olds.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/21 05:21 AM
1

Going off what he says... his ex was manipulative and he also has a mental illness. Definitely going through some shit. Not trying to be an asshole here but I highly doubt he himself knows what's holding him back. I don't think he's getting the help he needs. He blames feminism for his problems but honestly it's probably just mental illness.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/21 08:22 PM
13

I've turned down every single guy (not loads but a handful) who cold-approached me. Why? I don't fucking know them.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/21 04:05 PM
3

Women have it easier when getting casual sex. Casual sex is not the same as dating or relationships.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/21 03:19 PM
2

Look, after all of your efforts, there's only a couple possible reasons why you haven't been successful in dating. Bad luck You are indeed doing something wrong, whether you know it or not Being surrounded by the wrong people/living in the wrong area This is what it boils down to. And it's probably a combination of all three.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/21 03:01 PM
0

If you understood that it's not a guarantee, then what part don't you understand?
/r/ExRedPill30/05/21 02:22 PM
4

Insecurity. Lots of Insecurity and ego problems.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/21 02:14 PM
14

Having a social life increases your chances of finding dates. It does not guarantee that you will find dates. Very few things in life are guaranteed, and I see you are still struggling with that concept. Same with many dudes I see on subreddits such as this one.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/21 02:13 PM
1

No, you just have poor communication skills.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/21 04:33 PM
1

I still don't know what you're talking about. You make zero sense.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/21 03:10 PM
7

There's a reason they mention 50 shades of gray all the time and harp on it.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/21 12:00 PM
1

Clearly you haven't learned any of that shit if you still bitch about it.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 04:07 PM
1

Thanks for proving my point.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 03:54 PM
1

I really don't know what the fuck you're talking about.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 03:54 PM
1

I don't understand your ramblings sometimes.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 03:51 PM
2

I ran into a girl last year who I went to high school with. It was at a baby shower for a friend of mine, and I had no idea that she and I knew people in common. She's my age (30ish) and she's dating her boss. (He's probably around age 50.) I told my other friends about it and we were all like, "well that's never gonna work out."
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 03:38 PM
2

I like the story of your great grandfather. It reminds me of my own grandfather and what a good role model he has been. He worked many jobs over the years, he was in the army, he raised a family of 4 kids. He survived his family being split up after his mom died, and he still remembers the trauma from that nearly 80 years later. He's got an old school, Catholic republican mentality but he feels no need to shit on other people for their gender or whatever path they take in life. He's stoic on the…
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 03:35 PM
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I find it stupid how redpillers and old-school misogynists think such work is easy and not meaningful. But then most of them don't know how to do housework, can't keep their own homes clean, and claim they don't have time for such stuff.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 03:26 PM
7

Keep your sanity. Don't go there. Besides, a lot of them have been banned/quarantined.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 03:22 PM
1

Not entirely sure how you came to that conclusion. Some people find their unicorn, some people settle a little bit, some people settle A LOT.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 02:36 PM
1

I don't think you're ever going to be happy as long as you keep seeing getting a girlfriend as a prize or reward. You won't appreciate her for who she is and you'll be clingy as fuck. I'm sorry you don't understand the value of hard work in itself. I'm sorry you don't seem to understand that the right thing to do is keep trying and do the adult things you are supposed to do even if you don't get rewarded every time for it. You have this video game mentality to life where you expect a reward ever…
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 02:26 PM
2

For most people, their sexual attraction changes as they age. They remain attracted to people roughly within their own generation/age group. There is something to be said about relating to/having stuff in common with somebody and being attracted to that. I've seen older women point out the occasional younger guy as attractive, but they don't chase after those guys and divorce their husbands over it. Probably like 99% of the time, and with the exception of maybe some really rich celebrities. I kn…
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 11:39 AM
1

I didn't do any of my hard work for the purpose of finding a partner. Quite the opposite, I wanted to be as independent as possible. I still have issues but I'm pretty happy with that, and with how things have turned out. Yes, people have respected me more but that's more of a byproduct.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 11:29 AM
3

Now you're just making shit up. Your comments have nothing to do with my story, either.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/21 08:25 PM
1

Absolutely. A million times over. I've been to hell and back multiple times. It was some bullshit but I wouldn't be where I'm at, otherwise.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/21 08:24 PM
1

No, he was not. Just stopped commenting about a month ago.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/21 07:32 PM
1

Dude, everyone goes through this at some point or another. Everyone has to find the motivation to keep working on shit if they want life to get better. Hardly anyone gets a free ride.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/21 07:32 PM
1

Defo18, is this you?
/r/ExRedPill26/05/21 01:48 PM
1

Yeah I'm like 90% sure it's him.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/21 01:48 PM
1

Just because it hasn't happened yet doesn't mean it won't happen. Everyone has flaws, bro. But the more you work on yourself, the less likely you are to attract decent people and not toxic abusive nutjobs. If you don't want to work on yourself, then you're more likely to end up with that kind of person or end up alone. It's not about guarantees, it's about probability. Life isn't a video game.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/21 01:47 PM
1

I've been wondering the same thing. I think he created a new account. Same writing style and they both claim to be black dudes.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/21 11:30 AM
2

You need professional help for your mental health.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/21 11:05 AM
2

I have no clue what you're trying to say here.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/21 11:01 AM
2

r/menslib talks about this a lot. You'll probably find more valuable information over there.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/21 09:32 PM
1

People are not entirely 100% emotional or 100% rational. Everyone is a mix of both, and everyone can choose how they act on their emotions.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/21 09:27 PM
3

What makes you think that success means you can/should stop doing whatever you were successful at? People keep working on stuff despite having already succeeded at whatever they worked on, for many reasons. Boredom, intellectual curiosity, wanting another challenge, wanting to succeed again, or just for fun. Why does this make you feel inferior?
/r/ExRedPill25/05/21 09:23 PM
1

You probably feel like a worthless failure because you still base your success off of what other people think of you, and not what you have accomplished yourself.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/21 09:19 PM
8

I don't visit that subreddit. Never have and I don't need to. Why? Because I was raised by parents who have beliefs very similar to redpill and I already lived through that bullshit. Why did I leave? I was suicidal and self-harming. I hated myself.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/21 09:16 PM
2

Therapy is for yourself, to help you change your own thought patterns that upset you. Therapy doesn't work for those who insist it is impossible, and expect the world to change to accommodate them. It is totally possible, and the world isn't going to change itself to accommodate you.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/21 09:14 PM
2

I find it interesting that you say that, because loads of redpill guys seem to think that connections don't exist. Or if they do, it's fleeting for women. Just a thought.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/21 09:11 PM
2

Then you need therapy.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/21 03:43 PM
2

You're making a LOT of false assumptions here.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/21 12:35 AM
4

I don't think you understand what dating is about. It's not supposed to be "find one person and stay with them forever." Dating is supposed to be about finding the right person. In doing so, you're gonna find a number of people who aren't good for you. Nobody is actually seeking out bad people, it just comes with the territory of dating. You speak as if women actively seek out bad guys. I don't know why you make this out to be a bad thing, that casual dating is essentially like shopping around. …
/r/ExRedPill25/05/21 12:34 AM
2

Pretty much what the other commenter said. We were ALL fed some bullshit growing up. Everyone, no matter what sex or race we are. It wasted a lot of time, but the way to make it less of a waste is to learn from it and move on. That being said, what's your plan? It's your life and it's your responsibility to figure out what to do with it.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/21 10:47 PM
2

Good answer. I agree.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/21 10:44 PM
3

The blame isn't on you, but the responsibility is. Because this is your life and you have to figure out the best way to deal with your issues. You're asking for answers that don't exist. So you can either accept that and move on, or invent some fake answers to placate yourself. What sounds better?
/r/ExRedPill24/05/21 05:51 PM
3

Maybe there are hardly any statistics because human nature is very difficult to nail down? If that's the case, then maybe you're not going to get the kinds of answers you are looking for and you need to come to terms with that. Stop looking for answers that aren't there.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/21 04:18 PM
3

What sort of evidence would change your mind?
/r/ExRedPill24/05/21 03:42 AM
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A redpiller might not go out of their way to abuse or mistreat a woman. But it's still likely that they aren't a pleasant person to be around. Decide what kind of people you want to be around. And see him for who he really is, not what you want him to be.
/r/ExRedPill23/05/21 09:39 PM
3

You have no morals and can't difference good and bad without thinking of the consequences. You are just a empty box that will only think about the outcomes and will never be a real person who do things right. So apparently I don't think of consequences/outcomes, but I only ever think of consequences/outcomes? If you're going to insult people, then at least be consistent with your arguments and don't contradict yourself like a moron. This is progressive BS you believe, but don't get twisted you w…
/r/ExRedPill23/05/21 05:14 PM
2

You sound like a very messed up person and I don't have the slightest clue where you are getting this crap from. You're doing a horrible job of explaining your arguments.
/r/ExRedPill23/05/21 05:10 PM
2

I don't know what the fuck you're talking about. There's plenty of things out there that I consider dangerous or unpleasant, but I'm not going to shame people for participating in it. Riding motorcycles, diving off a cliff, other unpleasant jobs. I put sex work in the same category. Just because sometimes they go okay ("handsome dudes give you a nice treatment") doesn't mean it's not still a risk. People have the freedom to make choices, but they are not free from the consequences. This must be …
/r/ExRedPill23/05/21 04:15 PM
1

"Well-behaved women rarely make history."
/r/ExRedPill23/05/21 12:24 PM
6

I lurk a lot on r/deadbedrooms and its related subreddits. The grass is always greener on the other side.
/r/ExRedPill23/05/21 05:00 AM
1

Sure. Although there is also the "report" button.
/r/ExRedPill23/05/21 04:57 AM
1

I am a mod. I have not seen any such behavior. Feel free to report any comments that you believe break the rules.
/r/ExRedPill23/05/21 04:39 AM
5

Time for a new job?
/r/ExRedPill22/05/21 10:23 PM
2

Like I said, you don't get to decide for others what their opinion is. And you don't get to decide for them what they find offensive. Have fun offending people. Let's see how far that gets you.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/21 08:40 PM
3

Every setting outside of a biology class or doctor's office. Look, loads of guys on these subreddits have shitty social skills. Part of the reason is because they insist on doing shit their own way, even when it's insulting or off-putting to others. Then they turn around and wonder why they have no friends and can't find a girl. I don't know you or what you have going on in your life. But I'm leaving this here for anyone to read: if you want friends and you want to attract people, then be more a…
/r/ExRedPill22/05/21 08:33 PM
3

It's a rude term. And you don't get to dictate to other people what they should or should not be offended by. If you insist on using it... then have fun creeping people out. If you want to get along better with people, then call them by what they preferred to be called by.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/21 08:25 PM
1

Saying "male" is dehumanizing too. It reduces people to their bodies only. Because it's not only biology that makes people into who they are. There's culture, personal experience, people have their own natural talents, and so on.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/21 08:21 PM
1

Men and women.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/21 07:47 PM
3

It's dehumanizing.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/21 07:46 PM
4

Stop referring to her as a female, for starters.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/21 06:56 PM
3

You should post this in r/IncelExit too. This is important, thank you for sharing.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/21 05:11 PM
1

Same.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/21 04:29 PM
6

That doesn't really solve the main issue though, does it?
/r/ExRedPill22/05/21 04:27 PM
8

On a related note, there have been instances of violence caused by incel/blackpill types.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/21 01:09 PM
12

I echo everything you said. I grew up with narcissistic parents and it turned me into the total opposite type of person, like you mentioned.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/21 01:08 PM
15

She needs serious therapy. She needs to detox from the content she's reading and never look at it again. I (30F) was raised in a misogynistic, abusive household growing up and it made me suicidal. My parents taught me similar shit to redpill. My life didn't start improving until I cut them out of my life completely and worked on my self esteem.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/21 01:07 PM
5

Then they turn around and blame someone else for spitting on their plate.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 10:56 PM
11

"Responsibility" is a word they all run away from and get angry over.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 10:55 PM
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I'm not entirely in favor of sex work. But that's more because it can be a dangerous job and it's easy to get exploited. It's not because I'm here to slut-shame anyone. Quite the opposite, I hope for the safety of sex workers. When redpillers (or anyone else) says sex work is easy and why doesn't just anyone do it, "gee I wish I could do such an easy job"... there's a reason why not every woman decides to get into porn or sex work. Because it can be humiliating and degrading. It's too easy for n…
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 09:13 PM
5

Redpillers are a type of person who places zero value on anybody else who they don't find attractive enough to fuck.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 04:37 PM
5

But apparently looking for jailbait or immature young adults is alpha? Come on. You know better than that.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 04:34 PM
5

Uh-huh. Whatever you say.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 03:13 PM
3

Lol sure.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 02:50 PM
19

Laughs in childfree
/r/ExRedPill20/05/21 10:42 PM
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Why do female sex symbols have huge boobs and tiny waists? It's just what men find attractive. Women find muscular men attractive because it's instinctual. Strong men produce, strong healthy children with a better chance of survival. I think you have touched on my point. Men do not attribute personality traits to large breasts and small waists. Women do associate certain personalities with muscles. Actually yeah they do. Women with huge boobs get slut-shamed more often than small-chested women, …
/r/ExRedPill20/05/21 06:39 PM
3

You worry too much.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/21 11:51 PM
3

You can't change other people and you can't change what they do.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/21 11:34 PM
1

I'm a woman and I'm sorry I can't change other women's minds for you. I'm cool with it if guys want to be open and genuine. But I get it that other women out there aren't like that. We aren't all the same and you just have to find someone you mesh with. It's part of human nature. Literally everyone does something from time to time that they didn't even realize they did. It's stupid, but yes humans do dumb shit every day.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/21 11:32 PM
1

Don't put words in my mouth. You don't get to dictate my opinions.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/21 07:05 PM
3

I think you missed the point. Everyone has insecurities. Everyone has feelings of vulnerability. Both men and women. The important thing is working hard to overcome them. And while you can be open and vulnerable with people that you trust, the important thing is to not take your insecurities out on other people. It's also equally important to be there for others in their time of vulnerability. To the best of your ability. Most things in life are not unlimited and without restrictions. Better get…
/r/ExRedPill19/05/21 06:48 PM
5

There doesn't seem to be any FDS members here lately, at least not in the past few months. From what I've seen, anyway.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/21 05:51 PM
1

Wow you really had to go digging for those ancient comments. Those comments, by the way, are drowned out by the other countless comments all over these types of posts that DON'T like FDS. Nice try.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/21 01:34 PM
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There have been zero positive posts about FDS in the past 6 months in this subreddit. I did just check. You can stop spreading lies now, thank you.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/21 09:25 PM
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I've no idea honestly. Its something thats been bothering me for a while. Why do so many men want to believe that women should (and even want) to be dominated and controlled by men? It's a made-up belief with no basis in reality. They made it up so they can victim blame. "Oh she wanted it!!!" My closest guess to why they're obsessed with controlling and dehumanizing women is because they've built their identity on "not being women". As in they have no role model to tell them how to be a man, but…
/r/ExRedPill18/05/21 06:22 PM
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I would raise them to not take crap or manipulation from anybody, so they would steer clear of redpill types in the first place.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/21 05:56 PM
5

Above all, you need mental health help and you need to work on that. Unfortunately, that is above Reddit's pay grade.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/21 07:17 PM
2

Oh definitely. I absolutely love going to concerts, I've been to dozens over the years. I would instantly dump any guy that told me not to go.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/21 11:44 AM
3

That is so fucking sad. Edit to clarify: it's sad that he's doing this.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/21 11:38 AM
2

What's the problem with her going to a few concerts?
/r/ExRedPill17/05/21 11:24 AM
3

Yup she was probably checking you out.
/r/ExRedPill16/05/21 06:52 PM
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“What’s the point If I’m gonna be seen as undesirable forever by the opposite sex?” This is the core of the issue, isn't it? Way too many people base their self esteem on whether or not someone else wants to fuck them. It's ridiculous.
/r/ExRedPill16/05/21 01:43 PM
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Another post about height. I swear this subreddit gets a post about this nearly every day. Being short is not the end of the world. But backpill guys insist on fixating on their height, because it's too damn difficult to address anything else that could possibly be making them dateless and lonely. Yes, being short can be a disadvantage. But there's plenty of women out there who just don't care, or will give a guy a chance anyway. Unfortunately the severe mental anguish and anxiety a short guy ha…
/r/ExRedPill16/05/21 12:44 AM
1

I think loads of people refuse to read someone's profile. When I did online dating (like 5+ years ago) I would put on my profile that I don't have kids and don't want any. But occasionally a single dad would DM me anyway. It's fucking stupid. I would also make it clear I didn't want anything long distance, either, and yet people from across the country would DM me. Wtf.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/21 06:50 PM
1

What about the people who have that stuff you want but don't treat others like shit? Your line of thinking here is deeply flawed and irrational. I'm not saying this to be an asshole. I'm saying you need help and this is beyond reddit's pay grade.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/21 06:24 PM
1

Tell them to fuck off and block them. You didn't answer the question. Why do you listen to them and take them seriously?
/r/ExRedPill15/05/21 05:45 PM
1

You do have the right to stand up for yourself. Why do you keep listening to them?
/r/ExRedPill15/05/21 05:17 PM
1

I definitely wasn't thinking that.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/21 05:11 PM
1

You don't deserve it. So why do you treat yourself that way? Don't you stand up for yourself?
/r/ExRedPill15/05/21 04:58 PM
3

I wonder this too. I know there are reasons why people do this but it still seems senseless.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/21 04:42 PM
5

Libido is a powerful thing.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/21 04:41 PM
1

Look, it's not that I don't believe you. I do believe people have given you a lot of shit in your life. But you seem so confused and your way of speaking and thinking is distorted. People are going to continue to give you crap and bully you as long as they see you as an easy target. You have to find your inner strength and treat yourself better.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/21 04:36 PM
1

Evidence?
/r/ExRedPill15/05/21 04:11 PM
3

These guys pretend to be something they aren't. That's how.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/21 01:35 PM
1

Says who?
/r/ExRedPill15/05/21 01:31 PM
2

Agreed. I was raised that way and it was a fucking nightmare.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/21 01:30 PM
2

Very well said.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/21 12:07 AM
2

Exactly. They can't live up to their own definitions of masculinity. They know it but are afraid to admit it. Trying to take women down to a lower notch makes them feel better. Yuck.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/21 12:03 AM
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Been there, done that, it sucked.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/21 11:16 PM
3

"Masculine energy" lmao barf
/r/ExRedPill14/05/21 08:02 PM
2

You guys aren't strong enough to accept our teachings If this is true, why does redpill target young dudes who feel weak, powerless, emasculated, with no control over their lives? Besides, I grew up in a household where I was raised on teachings similar to redpill. It fucking broke me. I didn't gain any strength or self esteem until I got the fuck out.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/21 05:13 PM
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All that said, if you feel like you need to spend this much money to watch some bearded dudes act important and get you all riled up against feminism and feel like you have enough value to approach a girl and talk to her, you might have your priorities misaligned. Besides, all of this can be done for free lmao
/r/ExRedPill14/05/21 05:06 PM
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tHeRaPiStS aRe bLuEpiLLeD!!! PsYcHoLoGiSTs aRE cUcKs!!!
/r/ExRedPill12/05/21 12:03 PM
6

I've seen them live and they aren't that good with their live shows. But I adore that genre of music.
/r/ExRedPill11/05/21 06:28 PM
2

You're young. Everyone starts off in life having dating problems. People don't meet their soulmates at like age 12 and live together forever in a fantasy world where nothing goes wrong. That's not real life. Just keep meeting people and keep socializing.
/r/ExRedPill11/05/21 04:41 PM
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🎵 Do you feel like a man when you push her around? Do you feel better now as she falls to the ground? Well I'll tell you my friend, one day this world's gonna end, as your lies crumble down, a new life she has found." 🎵 The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus
/r/ExRedPill11/05/21 04:36 PM
1

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate it.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/21 11:59 PM
2

Exactly this.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/21 11:48 AM
2

Honestly that manager is a douchebag. He should have known better not to cross that line. For what it's worth.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/21 11:47 AM
3

Lol right? Like, nobody's been paying my bills since I became an adult. Wouldn't it be nice?
/r/ExRedPill08/05/21 11:47 PM
2

That's really sad.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/21 11:46 PM
3

I haven't heard of this group, but I just want to say that if this guy gives off any red flags you shouldn't stick around him. Go with your gut. Good luck.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/21 03:01 PM
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Plus they probably project their own desire to be a social climbing gold digger. And/or they have never met or had experiences with people who are actually decent, loving, and not shallow.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/21 02:44 PM
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It's their own insecurities coming to the surface. They feel like they aren't good enough, so they have to bash other people. Especially women.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/21 02:41 PM
3

I'm sure love is shallow among shallow people. Not everyone is shallow, though.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/21 11:10 PM
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Loads of people at your age still live with their parents. It's not that big of a deal.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 11:11 PM
3

Same here. I hope you guys are ok.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 03:44 PM
2

I don't know why you're saying this when earlier you were saying redpill has nothing to do with wanting control. Are you okay there? You seem confused on a lot of things.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 07:52 PM
2

I mean, this person can't even keep track of the person they keep calling "sexist"...
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 07:23 PM
2

That's not their username, and I still have no idea where you got the idea that they are sexist.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 04:32 PM
2

I don't understand what sexist idea you think OP has.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 03:39 PM
5

Thank you! By the way, good luck on your journey!
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 02:37 PM
5

The original definition of redpill was based off the Matrix but it's been totally transformed into something else since then. It's an ideology that preys upon mostly guys who have at least one of these issues: insecurity and control issues, social and dating issues, mental illness, being bullied/abused. It presents sexist ideas to them, or makes their previously held sexist beliefs even worse. We don't often discuss the original redpill idea in this sub because it's not very relevant anymore, an…
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 02:35 PM
4

Why? You'll just take it all the wrong way.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 02:18 PM
4

Why would a woman be afraid of other women due to redpill? u/yulemguysmmoja what is your gender? Just to clarify.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 02:18 PM
7

Wow you have very poor reading comprehension.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 02:14 PM
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OP is a guy. And again, I don't understand how you got to your conclusion. They were talking about not focusing on women so much and worrying about themselves.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 02:11 PM
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I can't help you if you insist on taking my words the wrong way. OP is recovering from his sexist mindset. It's a process.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 01:59 PM
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Yes, you are wrong. Because that wasn't my intention with those words.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 01:52 PM
5

No. Because Redpill can and does plauge women too, just not as often. I never said all men are power hungry control freaks. Because women can be too. There's indeed a number of them out there that are men though, and Redpill targets these dudes. Don't put words in my mouth.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 01:48 PM
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I don't know how you got to that conclusion. You decided to ignore the way redpill preys on guy's control issues, and now you're ranting about sexism?
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 01:05 PM
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Just because the redpill ideology doesn't explicitly say "we are all about keeping control" doesn't mean it's not part of the attitude a lot of redpilled guys have. I think plenty of us on this subreddit have read what redpillers have to say, and when their arguments and experiences are taken into account, they are very much afraid of losing control.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 12:29 PM
2

It's definitely easier and more likely to happen if you socialize and hang out with decent people. Especially in person. Just my own observation... I know a lot of guys think they have to play the numbers game. Meaning messaging lots of girls, talking to lots of girls... to me, that's about quantity. Not quality. To me, that shows desperation and aloofness. It doesn't do anything to build trust or show kindness, and it doesn't demonstrate being a quality person to be around. Women want to feel s…
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 12:34 AM
1

That's fantastic!
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 10:53 PM
1

I'm genuinely not saying this to be an asshole, but you made your bed and now you have to lie in it. Even if you did your time, the stigma never goes away. But I'm sure you already know this.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 10:13 PM
1

Not the worst crime, I agree. But what did you expect?
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 09:50 PM
1

Broken link?
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 07:49 PM
3

Like I said, I think it deserves its own post. It's a huge topic.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 07:34 PM
5

It's problematic at its best, and it's used to spread bigotry at its worst. I think this deserves its own post.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 07:22 PM
8

They love biological determinism, that's why.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 07:09 PM
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It's women's fault because they didn't fuck him to save his feelings after he got beat up in prison by men. Duh. /s The dude went to prison and now he's wondering why people treat him like crap and why women avoid him... like dude, you committed a crime of some sort. Life is not going to be easy anymore.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 01:25 PM
3

Very true.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 12:20 PM
1

Well my parents had that sort of relationship, so there's that.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 02:26 AM
6

Yeah, people write music about all sorts of fucked up shit. This song is about a vibrator: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IQNBQI3UDag This song is always a gem: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i8WzWqlJsQk ​ I think people find it more important what the artist does behind the scenes. ​ "Love The Way You Lie" by Eminem and Rihanna is about an abusive relationship, but if anything it brings awareness to domestic violence. It doesn't necessarily promote it. There is a difference. https://www.youtu…
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 02:20 AM
5

I've spent too much time on that sub lol
/r/ExRedPill03/05/21 09:21 PM
5

"All XYZ people are like that" when you exclude the people who aren't like that.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/21 09:20 PM
5

Ooo I relate to this a lot. Except I experienced it more working in retail stores, not dating.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/21 08:43 PM
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An ideology is toxic if it takes credit for all of your accomplishments and blames you for everything that goes wrong. Ideas should be criticized. Credit should be given where Credit is due. Blame should be given where blame is due.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/21 05:00 PM
2

Just because it feels like you don't have control, doesn't mean you don't. I think this conversation has run its course.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/21 04:46 PM
2

No worries. Honestly the more I talk to you, the more I think that you're dealing with an age/growing up thing. Not a gender thing. Yes, men and women have different expectations put onto them. But people in their 20s and 30s learn (when they get to that age) that many times those expectations were bullshit. For many different reasons. Both men and women deal with this. Just don't give up. You'll figure it out.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/21 04:20 PM
2

Just because you don't like the consequences, doesn't mean you don't have a choice. Do you not believe in free will?
/r/ExRedPill03/05/21 04:18 PM
2

Yeah it is a choice. Maybe as you get older you'll figure that out.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/21 04:12 PM
2

That's good that you're figuring it out. It'll get easier as you get older. It comes with age, trust me. But in the meantime, figure out how to keep improving your life. On your own terms. Don't give up. Don't do it for other people. Do it for yourself.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/21 04:11 PM
2

Just because it worked for you that way, doesn't mean other people don't need guidance. With guidance comes being under pressure. I'm the opposite, I was given either bad guidance or zero guidance. Literally I've never gotten good advice growing up. I had to raise myself. I'm almost 30 and I'm still figuring shit out on how to be an adult. I got criticized all the time too. The problem isn't that society puts pressure on young people, guys or gals. It's that adults have their own biases and prob…
/r/ExRedPill03/05/21 04:02 PM
2

Thank you for pointing out examples of toxic masculinity. This is why we need to throw out old gender norms and roles. Unfortunately, I see so many guys on reddit complain about the unfair expectations they are under, while also refusing to throw out the old gender roles that enforce such expectations they are stuck living up to. They hate the game but insist on playing it. It's your call what you want to do with your life. Try your hardest and quit following such stupid rules, or just whine and…
/r/ExRedPill03/05/21 03:54 PM
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Can't tell you how many DM's I've gotten where dudes actually believe that everyone else in the world is as shallow and materialistic as they are. They project their own gold digging onto others.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/21 03:50 PM
2

I never fucking said "all men." Jesus christ. And I never said women can't be nasty either. I mean, according to your logic, putting pressure on young people is problematic and shouldn't be done. Right? So who are you to tell her not to shit in a pringles can? You're bitching about the pressure you're under and it's like you want society to totally change so that way men never feel pressured ever. That's not going to happen and that's not how life works. I gave several examples to show that your…
/r/ExRedPill03/05/21 03:47 PM
2

Guess what? Women aren't all the same. We don't all think the same. I'm a woman and I think those women are in the wrong for acting that way. Plenty of women friends I have would agree with me. I think you're missing the point entirely, and that's why you invented a strawman argument there. I find it unfortunate that society doesn't teach or allow men to be vulnerable. And I find it unfortunate that the only possible outlet for a guy to be vulnerable is through his girlfriend/wife. It's not fair…
/r/ExRedPill03/05/21 03:42 PM
3

Lol the problem is that young people don't know shit and they need good advice from good role models. Christ, most women I know have dated guys at one point or another who don't understand that they should shower every day. My first boyfriend after high school didn't know you can put a trash can in your room. He used to just throw garbage everywhere. It's not just hygiene and cleanliness, either. My parents were bad role models to my brother and I, and he had anger issues. How do you think a you…
/r/ExRedPill03/05/21 03:37 PM
2

Why do you think men are told these self improvement things over and over again? How do you think guys would act if nobody ever put pressure on them? How do you think the world would be if nobody gave young people any advice?
/r/ExRedPill03/05/21 03:25 PM
4

Fucking exactly. Thank you. Yeah I still have PTSD, and basically my body learned to shut down and zone out. There's fight or flight, but the 3rd option is "play dead." The times I did fight back, my life was made into a living hell worse than it already was. Besides, I tried telling people what was going on, and every time I got ignored. Like, being rejected for dates multiple times is a 1st world problem compared to that. Sorry not sorry for saying so. Unless these guys we speak of have been p…
/r/ExRedPill02/05/21 10:49 PM
5

I've been sexually assaulted/harassed myself. Every woman has either dealt with men like that, or know another woman who has dealt with men like that. It just pisses me off when guys who don't do that shit start crying that girls avoid them because they are afraid of being assaulted. Strange dudes are literal strangers. Safety is more important than saving someone's ego. It's bullshit that these dudes get mad at the women. Why don't they get mad at the actual creepy guys who fucking ruined it fo…
/r/ExRedPill02/05/21 10:36 PM
4

I just don't understand why this is a goal. Very few people get excessive external validation in any way, shape, or form. You know the saying, "everyone gets their 5 minutes of fame"? Like if it does happen to you, it'll only be for like one night or something like that. I don't mean to be negative here, I just don't see how this is realistic.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/21 10:31 PM
3

Lol. You dodged a bullet.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/21 09:19 PM
6

A very similar thing happened to me a year ago.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/21 09:17 PM
5

Because not all work comes with rewards and recognition. Yes, you've done a great job so far. But not everyone sees that when they initially see you. Not everyone knows your whole story. Why do women still see you as a threat? Because they don't know you. It's literally that simple. There's no database all women refer to when they cross paths with a guy and they can check and see if he's safe or a threat, helpful or a user, trustworthy or hurtful. Women worry a LOT about their own safety. Some m…
/r/ExRedPill02/05/21 08:19 PM
5

It sounds like you struggle a lot knowing that you've done the best you can and you've made improvements, but there seems to be no rewards for doing so. Is this correct?
/r/ExRedPill02/05/21 07:04 PM
6

What exactly is your point here?
/r/ExRedPill02/05/21 05:45 PM
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Why are you jumping to a strawman argument that women want billionaires? Where are you getting this information that women who want driven and financially stable partners can't provide the same themselves? If anything, more women go to college than men now, and most women have jobs now where they provide a substantial part of the combined household income. Compared to like 50 or more years ago. Why is it too much to ask that the guy pull his weight too? Especially since these days everything is …
/r/ExRedPill02/05/21 05:30 PM
2

Not all women are going to understand what men go through, and most men won't understand what women go through. It's part of life and you're asking for something to change that is probably impossible. Some experiences are universal, like rejection and embarrassment and being used. Some people experience some things worse than others. Once again, it's part of life.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/21 04:49 PM
4

Do you think that no relationships have any time when the man is emotionally vulnerable? Or that there's no sexual attraction in those situations (there's no such thing as 'attraction points')? I know plenty of people who do not question their partner's manhood or sexuality for showing emotion or vulnerability. Pillow talk (before or after sex) is a great time to be vulnerable and talk about deep shit.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/21 12:27 AM
6

Yeah, different people have different definitions of weird. Taxidermy is probably considered weird by most people. Some people have much different standards of what is "weird." I knew one girl who was worried it was too weird of her boyfriend (now husband) that he played on a baseball team and they wore vintage-style uniforms. Then again, she grew up very sheltered.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/21 12:21 AM
5

Misogynistic people exist everywhere.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/21 05:33 PM
5

If you never leave the house and talk to people, you'll never know for sure.
/r/ExRedPill30/04/21 10:55 PM
3

Agreed
/r/ExRedPill30/04/21 10:54 PM
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This has been discussed a lot on this sub already. Here's some reading material for you. https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/kyrqm0/its_a_scientific_fact_that_hypergamy_does_not/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/k8klh4/post_of_woman_who_went_through_a_devastating/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/ExRedPill30/04/21 09:28 PM
4

I'd say the priority for a lot of women is their education and careers, so they can support themselves. It's really difficult (if not impossible) to survive off of one income these days if you want a house and family and stuff. And we're still fighting for reproductive rights and against sexual assault/abuse. The one good thing women have going for them is that it's easier to build emotional bonds with other women friends. Then I see on reddit all the time that guys are upset that they feel so a…
/r/ExRedPill30/04/21 05:45 PM
9

r/menslib is better
/r/ExRedPill30/04/21 09:02 AM
6

I feel like the slam dunk Vaush had was asking if the guy had friends, and he said that he didn’t have any. I think that’s demonstrative of many TRPers and indicative of waaaaay deeper problems. Agreed. Some redpiller slipped into my DM's awhile back. Generally I don't mind if someone just wants to talk. But this dude really was under the impression that literally everyone is really shallow, a gold digger, and trying to use other people. It was really sad and I can't even imagine living a life w…
/r/ExRedPill30/04/21 09:01 AM
3

I think you're already on your way to recovery. This is awesome.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/21 07:49 PM
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There is no wall. There is an age where women can't bear children anymore, but that doesn't mean their lives are over. Nobody is worthless if they can't/don't have kids.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/21 06:06 PM
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Here's some stories I dug up for you. https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/jmnew6/i_found_out_my_ex_boyfriend_was_watching_trp/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/mhvx80/i_feel_like_shit/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/bfhufb/discussion_with_mgtowred_pill_boyfriend/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/ExRedPill27/04/21 11:24 AM
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Yes. It does take time. Changing yourself doesn't happen overnight. I know you want relief right away but it just doesn't work like that. It took time for you to become the person you are now, right? It's also going to take time to become somebody else. And yes, I've dealt with that bullshit myself. It's a pain in the ass, especially in the USA if that's where you're located. But we only have one life to live. IMO, might as well make the best of it. If people on reddit are really that nasty to y…
/r/ExRedPill25/04/21 06:56 PM
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Dude, I get it. I haven't been through exactly the same stuff but I get it. It's an ugly cycle and it sucks reading your comments and knowing you're sabotaging yourself. I think it's safe to say you don't have the tools to cope with life alone or to stop the cycle you're in.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/21 06:40 PM
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If you've never asked a girl out, that means you've never been rejected. Please put all your efforts into your mental health. You deserve a lot of support, man. And you need it.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/21 05:52 PM
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Good. I'm really glad you're doing that. Life isn't fair doesn't mean you should give up. It just means nobody is entitled to anything and some people have to work harder than others. I know you're in bad shape now but you're putting words into my mouth. Try to get to the bottom of why you take stuff the wrong way.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/21 05:49 PM
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By the way, maybe if you worked on your mental health for awhile and quit drowning yourself in negativity on the internet, maybe some women will become interested in you. Nobody wants to date someone who is constantly throwing a pity party.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/21 05:42 PM
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Because life isn't fair. And no, women aren't allowed to pick whoever they want either. Women get dumped and rejected too. And yes, you are allowed to date. Nobody said you can't. "No I don't want to go out with you" is not the same statement as "you aren't allowed to date ANYBODY." if you can't understand the difference here, then you're definitely not thinking logically. Please get professional help.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/21 05:41 PM
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Self harm doesn't turn you asexual. I really think you're taking things the wrong way and you're not being rational in the slightest. You really have a lot of false, harmful, and unhealthy thoughts. Please get professional help.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/21 05:32 PM
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The Instagram models and the Beverly Hills housewife type. But not every woman is like that. Probably like 99% of women aren't those types. Then again, a lot of redpillers and incels have very little frame of reference outside of the internet and media. I wonder if they ever even notice just regular women out in public. The quiet girl who sits behind him in class. The lady that is a receptionist at the doctor's office. The woman who works at the grocery checkout. The woman who walks her dog by h…
/r/ExRedPill25/04/21 03:37 PM
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Where are you getting this idea? With what evidence?
/r/ExRedPill25/04/21 02:57 AM
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Do you mind elaborating? Most people really only care about themselves and their own problems.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/21 11:13 PM
13

Picturing those family dynamics makes me cringe.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/21 04:35 PM
12

"losers cannot help losers become winners". And somehow redpillers and blackpillers continue to only listen to each other, despite a lack of success.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/21 04:34 PM
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This is an interesting observation and I don't think it can be ruled out. I read a lot on r/deadbedrooms, despite not being in one myself. There's an interesting dynamic between high libido/pursuer types of sex (typically men), and low libido/avoidant types (typically women.) It never ceases to amaze me that the higher libido people think that the lower libido people (or even their own partner) think that sex is being withheld from them out of spite or some sort of game. As if actually not wanti…
/r/ExRedPill23/04/21 04:31 PM
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Not offended whatsoever. Lol, projecting. I just mod here, bro.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/21 04:18 PM
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You post a lot and you rant a lot. I think you overthink things quite often. Not that sociology isn't a fascinating subject to discuss. But it's like you're constantly expecting society to change so that way you can have better luck in dating. It doesn't work like that.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/21 04:58 AM
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Agreed.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/21 12:11 AM
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Yeah exactly how does one leave a toxic ideology while never becoming against it, anyway?
/r/ExRedPill22/04/21 09:28 PM
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The truth is the truth regardless of who says it. Good advice can come from anyone. If someone wants to leave behind an ideology, they absolutely have to be exposed to new people and new ideas. There's no way around that. If someone wants to come up with an ex Redpill subreddit for men only, how long until it becomes an echo chamber? Women exist out there in the world. Women exist on the internet. I'm saying this in the nicest way possible: deal with it.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/21 09:26 PM
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Check the detox kit. Edit: adding a link https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/6552ir/ask_yourself_do_you_really_have_results_with_trp/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/ExRedPill22/04/21 04:54 PM
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This question is asked on this sub occasionally, not just by OP.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/21 03:18 PM
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Thank you for the correction!
/r/ExRedPill22/04/21 03:14 PM
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Also nobody is forced to take any risk here, so I don't know why you've mentioned it several times. Dating inherently comes with risk, same as any other activity in life. But no one is forcing you to date someone. It just comes with risk if you do decide to date. The choice is yours and the risk is yours.
/r/ExRedPill21/04/21 12:27 AM
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Yeah I don't understand the attitude among so many blackpill and redpill guys that if the goal of being with so-and-so your whole life doesn't work out, that it's a massive failure. Not everyone has that goal. And it's not a massive failure that makes someone untrustworthy.
/r/ExRedPill21/04/21 12:25 AM
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That's why employers ask for high school and college GPA's from younger prospective candidates if they are fresh out of school. But they really don't care about what grade you got in English in 7th grade. And they definitely don't ask adult job candidates as long as they have relevant work experience.
/r/ExRedPill21/04/21 12:21 AM
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Who said somebody is obliged? Edited because typo
/r/ExRedPill21/04/21 12:13 AM
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I think once it's determined someone is doing better, then it doesn't matter anymore. Edit: also it depends on what exactly they did in the past.
/r/ExRedPill21/04/21 12:09 AM
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The ending of a relationship doesn't necessarily mean someone fucked it up.
/r/ExRedPill21/04/21 12:07 AM
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Somebody has changed if they aren't doing the unhealthy behaviors they used to. Bonus points if they are doing healthy/productive things instead. Also generally they can self reflect and understand what went wrong and how to do better.
/r/ExRedPill21/04/21 12:04 AM
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Yup. I think they complain about women being emotional and desperate but really they are projecting their own emotional desperation. How are women being the desperate ones when we're doing most of the rejecting, anyway? The most attractive people are independent, I would say.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/21 05:47 PM
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Same. The path I'm on currently is my dream. But I would have done it so much sooner if it weren't for shitty parents who insisted I do only feminine jobs. I would have been more successful by now. It was difficult for my brother too. They favored him blatantly but it was a hindrance, not helpful. Giving children and teens the tools they need to figure out their lives on their own is the best way to parent. Deciding for them their roles and making them do it is hurtful. Misogyny hurts everyone.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/21 05:25 PM
1

I was taught similar stuff growing up.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/21 04:56 PM
2

Yup I get it.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/21 03:45 PM
2

Maybe I'm just a bitter atheist but this doesn't surprise me.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/21 03:22 PM
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I'm an atheist so I don't get it. I think if Christianity were true, there would be a lot less diverse beliefs about Christianity. People indeed make their religion fit their own beliefs. No True Scottsman Fallacy. I mean, there's misogynistic Christians out there and there's more liberal Christians out there. They all claim to be true Christians. So who's to say who is right? And why doesn't God come downstairs and sort it all out?
/r/ExRedPill20/04/21 02:50 PM
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It's not entirely a feminist world bro. You're operating under a lot of false assumptions.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/21 02:20 PM
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Why are you complaining that women don't approach when you have experiences that say they do approach? Why are you complaining that women only want to be pursued when it's clear plenty of women do? You're ranting about stuff that makes zero sense.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/21 02:01 PM
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It sounds like you're under the impression that girls just don't approach guys if they're interested. Have you considered that maybe they aren't interested in the guy in the first place, and that's why they don't approach? Why are you assuming the girl is even interested? Maybe she hasn't made up her mind yet.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/21 01:11 PM
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r/menslib
/r/ExRedPill19/04/21 04:44 PM
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They refuse to believe women have any troubles with dating, at least none that aren't shallow. So any woman who speaks up about dating troubles is automatically a laughingstock to them. Then again, they freak the fuck out over any woman who speaks up over anything. They have nothing better to do with themselves. They project their problems onto others because they don't have the guts to deal with their own problems. Joke's on the redpill dudes: at least she's getting dates.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/21 04:41 PM
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The chick who said that to you is fucked up. It's fucked up no matter who says it. Nobody should have to do shit they aren't comfortable with. End of story. People can approach others, but back off if they are uncomfortable. End of story. Clearly you're tired of gender roles. Well here you go. Here is some simple rules for you with zero double standards.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/21 04:11 PM
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What is hypocritical about it?
/r/ExRedPill19/04/21 03:59 PM
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This isn't a difficult concept dude. Women often don't approach guys they don't know. It's a safety thing. Just because I want them to feel safer doesn't mean I'm going to urge them to go approach guys when they don't feel it's right to do so.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/21 03:53 PM
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Yup agreed
/r/ExRedPill19/04/21 11:00 AM
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I don't think you understand that old school traditional dating rules are being used at the same time as modern dating rules. Different people have different expectations. It's not one or the other, bro. Just because you have only seen women who want it the traditional way doesn't mean that there aren't more modern women out there.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/21 06:00 AM
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Why does it matter what year it is? Social changes take a LONG time to occur and we are nowhere near done yet.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/21 05:57 AM
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If women don't approach because they think it's inappropriate to do so, then exactly why do you think women don't approach men?
/r/ExRedPill19/04/21 05:56 AM
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Who says that guys can't be courted too?
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 10:59 PM
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I just want to say thank you for sharing your experience. It's very valuable information here and it's brave of you to share it.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 05:46 PM
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Yeah it's awarded in something like 10% of divorces these days, last I checked. Besides, several states are no-fault divorce states. Meaning it's mandatory that in divorces, all assets get split down the middle evenly. The only exception is if someone claims domestic violence, or a prenup. California is one of them, where a ton of celebrities live. (These are just stats I remember off the top of my head, I can dig up sources if needed)
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 05:33 PM
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I think the label isn't too important if one still fits the description.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 05:03 PM
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You seemed to reach that conclusion, and then you backtrack on it. Nice job.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 04:59 PM
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Sure, men usually make more money than their wives. So why jump to the conclusion that one partner needs or doesn't need the other for money, and intends to use them for money/benefits? Do you have any evidence of what goes on in the minds of every married person? Edit: not to mention, if what you said is true, why aren't married/divorced/widowed men smarter? Men are more likely to remarry (compared to women) after being widowed or divorced. Sounds like men like being taken advantage of, accordi…
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 04:41 PM
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Why are men more likely to initiate divorce when their wife gets a terminal illness?
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 04:28 PM
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This is written wonderfully. I can confirm with my own experiences that loads of people out there like this exist.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 04:18 PM
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I'm sure it's possible. But it's also probably pretty rare. And I highly doubt it can be something that can be taught to others and sold as a method to improve your marriage. Besides, if he's doing this without her knowledge and without her consent, that is not okay. Redpill loves to pretend that consent and communication aren't necessary in relationships, so all the RP relationships out there sound like manipulative games. It not only sounds exhausting, I find it to be morally WRONG.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 03:16 PM
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I couldn't even finish reading this. What a horrible, manipulative, degrading marriage. Also I believe a lot of stuff on RP marriage subreddits is made up.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 02:32 PM
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"The way to a man's heart is through his stomach " and b.s. like that.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 02:29 PM
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So much for redpill being scientific...
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 02:19 PM
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I would definitely love to hear what she has to say.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 11:20 AM
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It makes me wonder if the guys who say that stuff are projecting.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 11:09 AM
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People of both genders can and already do trust each other. They just generally don't hang out in this corner of the internet.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/21 01:06 PM
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Truth
/r/ExRedPill17/04/21 01:05 PM
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My friends and I are about 30 years old. I can confirm. If anything, life has gotten better and I'm glad I'm not in my teens/early 20s anymore. The freedom is priceless.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/21 01:04 PM
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That's how a lot of ideologies work. They appeal to people and show them the "truth" but really they are insecure deep down and don't want to admit it. I think it happens to most people in some way or another, at some point in their life.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/21 07:17 PM
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Don't confuse the basic ideas of feminism (equal rights) with the SJW tumblr bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/21 07:13 PM
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That's not how a relationship should be. Good for you for getting out.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/21 07:12 PM
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That doesn't make it a biological cause. Once again, I think you should go make your own post on biological determinism.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/21 08:02 PM
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I think if you want to continue this conversation, you should consider making a post about it.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/21 07:45 PM
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pressured to be better That's a social influence, not a biological one. You aren't helping your own case here.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/21 07:32 PM
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People aren't born suicidal. And men are not born destined to commit suicide.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/21 07:26 PM
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Trans people have a higher rate of suicide. There also might be some queer/questioning guys out there who have experiences with suicide and/or redpill and/or the manosphere. No need to gatekeep. It's a pretty standard question that pops up in nearly every survey you'll take in your life. So why get upset over it?
/r/ExRedPill15/04/21 06:53 PM
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The purpose of the study is to learn more. I think a researcher from a university who is looking into this subject will already understand the difference between gender and sex.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/21 06:24 PM
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Body dysmorphia seems to fit their mentality.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/21 01:01 PM
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You're speaking to the right person since I've been through some of the shit she has been through, and I grew up with redpill-like parents who believed in all of those old gender norms. That being said, also during her time period medical science was undergoing a revolution. Mental health was not the same it was today. Her mother was placed in mental institutions because she was diagnosed paranoid schizophrenia. Did you know that schizophrenia was an umbrella term for basically anyone deemed cra…
/r/ExRedPill15/04/21 12:54 PM
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I'm 29 too. Apparently according to the 20 year old redpillers on Reddit, we are as old as dirt. According to the dozens of older people (60s and older) I know and have had conversations with, we are spring baby chickens. I'm going to trust the people who have actual life experience on this one.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/21 12:43 PM
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This is quite the stretch. She had an unstable upbringing, her mom married an abusive guy, Marilyn never knew her father. Marilyn was sexually abused growing up, and her mother was thrown in mental institutions. She suffered from addiction and what looks like (in hindsight) mental illness/mood problems. Her death was self inflicted, and no wonder. Edit: forgot to mention she also suffered from several miscarriages. I believe that one of the scenes from Some Like It Hot (running up and down the b…
/r/ExRedPill15/04/21 12:31 PM
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All of the links in the original thread linked to Amazon. Gaslighting how? Besides, you agreed with me.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/21 12:18 PM
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At the end of the day, the question remains: how did you treat them?
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 10:56 PM
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She might have a point. Just in my own experience (I'm a woman, late 20s) I have felt safer when I was dating someone. I don't want to go into details. But I had someone repeatedly sexually harass me in the past. He left me alone when I was dating someone. He didn't respect me, he respected the guy I was dating. Being single, I would have to put up a bigger fight. This is just my opinion and my story. I can't speak for the women you know. I'm just throwing out ideas. Edit: typos
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 10:53 PM
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I don't think there's a way to quantify this, or measure it. How does one measure "niceness"? The most simple solution is to check your own biases. It could just be the area you live in or the school/job you're at. You could be treating them differently without realizing it. It could be that the unmarried women you ran into are more defensive, and they feel the need to be for whatever reason. Maybe they are more stressed out, and it comes off as hostility.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 10:44 PM
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I think writing stuff that is meant to be read by others comes with responsibility. Yes, people can be influenced. Especially younger people and those in vulnerable populations. If you produce media that is geared towards them, you have power over what they can consume. That power comes with responsibility. There are also serious consequences for spreading false information. I do think content creators (books, youtubers, news channels, artists, and so on) should be held to certain standards, if …
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 10:35 PM
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I wasn't arguing with you. I thought you had a well written answer. I never said I didn't like your answer. I have no clue what you're going on about.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 10:18 PM
2

Do you think censorship is always wrong?
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 10:13 PM
2

If we strike them down and argue with them, their behavior gets worse. If we leave them be, their behavior gets worse. So what's your solution? Where's your metaphysical framework and philosophical argumenation?
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 10:11 PM
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Just adding to what you said: meanwhile, women are his downfall. Seductive, evil temptress witch whores. They aren't even creative with their stories. Stuff like this dates all the way back to antiquity. Notice how he's a force for good. But somehow in all his power and glory, there's no sense of personal responsibility for when he does fall for lust, greed, sin, and so on. He's so powerful, and yet so weak. It's like a superhero story. Such a story also breeds the Madonna-Whore complex.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 10:02 PM
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There's never been any scientific findings or consensus that either gender is smarter than the other. What major someone picks in college has nothing to do with IQ. There's a lot of cultural and family influences that influence what people choose, too. What does the study about workplace bias have to do with anything? Check out the YouTube channel The Take. They break down many stereotypes in the media. They explore the way both men and women of all races are portrayed, both bad and good. Edit s…
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 07:37 PM
2

Can you provide some of his sources?
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 07:12 PM
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I think every single one of his claims deserved to be laughed at. (I haven't watched his content, I'm just going off what you said. I'm not giving that jerk another view.)
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 07:05 PM
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She doesn't need a boyfriend. But clearly she wants one, and she chose you. Why is that not enough? Why should she need you, and not just want you?
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 02:40 PM
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And?
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 02:39 PM
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I'm not upset. You just keep contradicting yourself.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 02:08 PM
2

Obviously you're still upset if you keep complaining about her.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 02:06 PM
2

Then we're on the same page. Cool. Just my 2 cents: please seek help. You're obviously not over her. It's not healthy. You'll feel better once you stop thinking about her and talking about her all the time. Isn't that what you want?
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 01:56 PM
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Everything you said is obvious. My point was, he's clearly not over his ex because he talks about her 24/7. But he lies to himself and says he's over her.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 01:41 PM
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I made a post about communication and social skills, and you started ranting about your shitty ex. Yeah that's off topic for the thread.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 01:36 PM
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Wow. Total lack of personal responsibility there. Nice job.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 01:12 PM
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There's nothing wrong with talking about experiences. That's not the point. I've just seen this guy rant and rant about his ex, ever since I found this sub almost a year ago, he injects it into evey conversation even if it's totally off topic. He's not being honest with himself by saying he's over her.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 01:08 PM
2

Those have become more staged over time too.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 03:33 AM
2

They also practice and they have the experience to get their bodies to do what they have to do.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 03:29 AM
2

It's called lube.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 03:10 AM
2

"This title is not available for purchase." Good.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 02:57 AM
1

I believe you. I just don't see how you're over her.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 01:59 AM
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Not every girl is going to act the same towards you. Honesty and respect go a long way. I know you mention your ex a lot. I know she fucked you over and that legitimately sucks. But you got to find a way to get over her, bro. You dwell on it way too much and it's unhealthy. Aren't you tired of remembering her and talking about her?
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 12:06 AM
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I've already forgotten about it. Let's just move on. Lol don't worry about it.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 12:00 AM
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Agreed. The worst is when their insecurities lead to them thinking you will cheat on them, or you already are. I've seen/heard it happen a dozen times. "I'm fat, I'm ugly, you're probably gonna leave me for someone else." "No way you love me, you're probably doing it with so-and-so." Stuff like this. Then their partner leaves because they're tired of the problems and the drama, while the insecure person is convinced they were dumped because they were cheated on. Not to mention, it's impossible t…
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 10:36 PM
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This is exactly why communication is important. Don't just go grab someone and expect them to dance with you. That's really risky, just like you said. Something along the lines of "hey, want to dance with me?" Would be more appropriate. There is subtleties to dating. But that still qualifies as communication, even though it's more advanced. If you suck at reading those signs, there's nothing wrong with being more straightforward and looking for a girl who won't play the dumb games you hate.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 10:31 PM
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You're not alone. I understand completely.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 10:01 PM
2

Yup, that's pretty much my philosophy.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 09:29 PM
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My own insecurity or somebody else's? Yes either way. I'm not sure why you would disagree with my point and then create an example that agrees with it.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 09:10 PM
1

What would annoy me?
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 08:55 PM
3

I honestly don't understand what point you're trying to illustrate.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 08:50 PM
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By definition, anything that exists in a vacuum doesn't affect anything else. Personally, I wouldn't be annoyed if someone was insecure. I would be annoyed if they refused to work on it, and wanted others to cater to them.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 08:21 PM
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I would argue that the opposite of confidence is insecurity. And being with someone who is really insecure can get exhausting.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 08:02 PM
1

I don't think you answered the question.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 07:41 PM
3

Communication and socializing is the bare minimum. It's not the only ingredient to successful dating. If I'm wrong, then please explain how social/communication skills are not needed for dating and marriage.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 07:30 PM
1

Cool story bro, lol.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 07:26 PM
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Yup
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 07:15 PM
2

Communication is communication whether there are euphemisms or not. When I said "want to watch Netflix?" Is communication, I was referring to the video service and I was not making up a euphemism. For real. I have a feeling you're disagreeing with my post just for the sake of being the fly in the soup. How's that for an euphemism? Lol. Anyways. I believe I made my point.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 07:09 PM
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Communication doesn't have to be verbal. You still managed to communicate with each other. Obviously you got on the same page somehow. Even "want to watch Netflix?" Is communication. You mentioned couples you knew that were married. They had to get to know each other at some point. Do you think they just used telepathy or something? Communication is a part of socializing.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 06:55 PM
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You don't have to have outstanding social and communication skills. Just some basics. That was my point. I'd love to know how the couples you speak of are doing. If they actually feel connected to each other and can work through problems. If they made it as far as marriage, then they definitely communicated at some point. Even talking to each other is communication. Unless it was an arranged marriage and they didn't even know each other until the wedding day.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 06:39 PM
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Lol. You're comparing your one night stand to long term successful dating and marriage. No wonder we aren't on the same page here. And yes, I hope she does practice some communication with whoever she dates/marries long term. And I hope she expects the same in return.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 06:26 PM
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Not necessarily.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 06:14 PM
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We're talking about more than just sex here.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 06:06 PM
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The key word there is "manage." What exactly do you think a man and a woman do during their time together until sex happens? Just stare at each other? If they do anything other than that, then communication and socializing are happening. Even your hookups that you had, they still required some sort of communication to happen.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 06:04 PM
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Oh absolutely! I can't tell you how many times I've had guys who've liked me but didn't take the initiative to make conversation, in person, and went about trying to get my attention in the most creepy way. Same. The reason I got together with my boyfriend now is because we hung out as friends and spent a fuck ton of time talking first. And that's another thing, you need to take the initiative and put yourself out there if you really want to meet and connect. When people go to clubs, it helps to…
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 06:01 PM
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For the record, my grandpa is in his 80s and has a girlfriend. He courted her the old fashioned way: bringing her flowers and talking to her. They met through people they both knew.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 05:54 PM
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That's a rough story, I'm sorry. You know, in my post I was just speculating. But your story confirms that one possible answer.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 05:51 PM
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Submission isn't just about sex.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 05:50 PM
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Like if all you and her wanted was a hookup, that's cool. You do you. Just having sex can be arranged. But actual dating and marriage requires more. It requires socializing and communication, especially if you want a genuine connection with someone. People do more stuff together than just sex. I would be really fucking surprised if there was any evidence showing that successful dating and connections didn't require social skills. If it wasn't the case, then why isn't PUA tactics like hitting on …
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 05:48 PM
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Letting the husband make all/most of the decisions. (Like finances or family matters.) Not putting up boundaries and/or not enforcing them. (Such as: a girl letting a guy do whatever he wants to her in a sexual manner even though she doesn't like it.) Not speaking up for yourself or defending yourself. (The mentality of "boys will be boys" helps perpetuate this.) Accepting blame when it's not warranted. (I experienced this one myself. My misogynistic parents blamed me for shit my brother did.)
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 05:38 PM
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That's basically what my point boils down to, people don't socialize in person much anymore. Although I would call social skills a "trick."
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 05:27 PM
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I'm not sure how accurate or truthful this article is. But it claims that The Daily Beast has uncovered significant evidence that TheRedPill’s founder, a redditor named pk_atheist, is actually a state Republican lawmaker. According to the Daily Beast’s findings, pk_atheist is one of many internet handles belonging to a 31-year-old Republican lawmaker named Robert Fisher. Fisher created r/TheRedPill near the end of his initial campaign for the New Hampshire state House of Representatives, in whic…
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 03:22 PM
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Let's put it this way: just because you heard it first from redpill, or if that was the first time it made sense to you, that doesn't mean it was original to redpill. Shitty ideologies like redpill lasso people in by sprinkling some good advice on them, said by people whose confidence makes them look like experts. Then they unleash the dogshit misinformation and bigotry. If you try to leave, they appeal to your insecurities and the negative information is addicting to read. This is how cults bas…
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 01:31 PM
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It's pretty standard dating advice. If redpillers ever said that, it's not unique to redpill. Besides, redpillers must not be good at following their own advice since so many of them insist on sticking to online dating only or PUA tactics.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 01:04 PM
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How exactly?
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 11:33 AM
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Hope you don't mind but I'm just gonna lock both posts. OP has made his mind up and the conversations are going nowhere.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 10:14 PM
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Everyone's been trying to tell you it's not a big of a problem as you're making it out to be. If you aren't going to listen to us, then why bother coming here? We can't help you otherwise. If you're not willing to take any chances, then dating isn't for you. Part of dating is putting yourself out there and trying new stuff that seems foreign and risky.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 10:03 PM
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Don't turn down social events, as much as possible. Go out and meet as many people as possible. Try out new experiences and try learning new things, even if they seem dumb or boring on the outside. Learn to accept that sometimes you'll fail and sometimes you'll get rejected. Don't just sit inside all day gaming and studying. There's so much in this world to experience, and not all of it comes from books and computers.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 09:55 PM
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Why are you so hung up on this?
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 09:50 PM
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You actually inspired me to write a post on this. So if you don't mind, I'd like to do some research and gather my thoughts. Is that cool? You can have a better answer then, and not just one I came up with on the spot.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 08:59 PM
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Before I type out a long ass answer on how, the question is would you be willing to try? After all, it's the root of your issues. And working on that takes a long time and a ton of effort, but it's totally worth it.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 08:53 PM
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Have you considered working on your insecurities? You do have that choice.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 08:43 PM
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Ignoring your insecurities won't make them go away.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 08:32 PM
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Men of all body types can and do end up in long term relationships. What more proof do you need? We can't make you open your eyes and see for yourself.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 08:14 PM
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Abs and biceps don't make a bad boy, his attitude and behavior does. People (both men and women) do it every day: they see someone's physical features and judge them on it. Their judgments are wrong all the time. People judge women, too. Flat chest? Oh she's a tomboy, or a lesbian, or a virgin. No way could she be slutty. Big boobs? Oh she must be slutty. That's where the disconnect is in your logic and redpill logic. Once again: literally everyone compromises in dating, whether they realize it …
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 07:01 PM
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I'm probably the one person who has commented on your posts the most today, so I apologize if I'm harping on every point you make and bugging you with that. That's the thing about redpill, it takes a tiny grain of truth and runs with it. It looks on the surface to be the answer to everything, but really it keeps playing with your insecurities. It appeals to your insecurities while also making them worse. The answer is to stay the fuck away from all redpill content. There's a woman out there some…
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 06:46 PM
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Everybody settles for something in their partner, everyone. And over time they either learn to love their partner more, or they grow apart. Both men and women do this. There's no relationship drive thru where you can place an order and get what you want 100%.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 06:11 PM
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You asked what was cherry picked fodder for the dogma.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 06:08 PM
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There is a tiny grain of truth to it, bro. That's how they lasso guys into this ideology in the first place. They take it and run with it to the extremes. That's what turns so many of these guys to be angry and messed up. It's best not to swallow the pill in the first place. It's a sugar pill laced with poison. If you want the sugar only, then go find sugar.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 06:07 PM
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Thank you for pointing out. I think the main question is, why do you believe in redpill? People in general like people who are in shape.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 05:43 PM
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I think you answered your own question there.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 05:29 PM
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Among a very tiny sample size of women whom we don't know how they were chosen to participate in the study.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 03:57 PM
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I'm just adding onto what you said, lol.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 03:06 PM
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One more thing I want to mention that is often forgotten when TRP'ers bring up scientific studies: trends are just that. Trends. They don't speak for all people, assuming the trend is actually true in the first place. A trend is not the psychology equivalent of a law in physics, where nothing goes against the trend. A conclusion like "70% of women in this study liked the muscular guys" is often taken to the extreme that basically says "All women only want muscular guys, therefore if you're not b…
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 03:05 PM
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Exactly, how is "work out and lose weight" unique to redpill? Are all fitness gurus redpilled or something?
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 02:58 PM
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The first article doesn't even describe what the photos of muscular men are compared to. Are they being compared to slightly less muscular men? Average dad bods? Obese guys who look like they haven't showered all week? Depending on what the photos are compared to, it's going to skew the results one way or another. And if the study does no comparison and only asks women if they like the pictures of muscular men, then it's not a very good study and it doesn't prove anything.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 02:57 PM
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How did you lose your life dream? Can you come up with some other life goal? You're only 16, your life has only just begun. What women are "taking advantage" of you? How are they doing so? How are they (or anyone) treating you like a sex offender?
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 02:27 PM
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I just want to point out that 160 women is a ridiculously small sample size. It would be nice to see the actual study.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 02:10 PM
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None of that supports your original claims. Nice try.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/21 11:45 PM
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Let's be honest, if you had any evidence you would share it.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/21 09:02 PM
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Evidence?
/r/ExRedPill11/04/21 06:48 PM
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Evidence?
/r/ExRedPill11/04/21 05:57 PM
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Nevermind the fact that it probably happened when she was a minor. How can anyone blame a kid for what their shitty parents did?
/r/ExRedPill11/04/21 05:51 PM
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Yup. It's funny because many redpillers are far right/alt right.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/21 05:43 PM
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Yeah it's a huge contradiction within redpill. Women are conniving and sneaky and evil. They know who the bad guys are and they choose them. At the same time, women are stupid as fuck and can't think for themselves. This is a good way to identify if an ideology is bullshit. When the enemy is both very smart and sneaky and evil, but also stupid.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/21 05:30 PM
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They believe men get fucked over in life, so they bash women for any and all reasons. As if that makes anything fair.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/21 04:14 PM
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It's kind of like r/childfree. All they do over there is bitch about children. Are they truly happy? Are they truly going their own way?
/r/ExRedPill11/04/21 03:59 PM
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"All women are like that" is true when you ignore all the women who aren't like that.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/21 06:05 PM
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No offense but your life has just begun and you're too young to get sucked into this bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/21 06:04 PM
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Source?
/r/ExRedPill08/04/21 07:50 PM
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I like this no-nonsense attitude. Someone who can't handle you when you're vulnerable is not your type of person.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/21 07:49 PM
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If you don't like it, go start your own sub.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/21 03:33 AM
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Even if she doesn't find a guy, who cares? What's most important is that she takes care of her kid and they are happy.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 07:14 PM
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INTP here. Nice to meet you!
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 07:04 PM
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Life taught me early on that the American Dream is a lie and there's no guarantee that life will have happiness and security. I also don't believe in Heaven/Hell or a higher power. Might as well make the best of it.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 07:03 PM
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Just curious, what MBTI did you get?
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 07:01 PM
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Just in my own experience, refusing to be vulnerable (or limiting how vulnerable one will be) always backfires. I can't begin to count how many dating stories from people I've heard that went "I was closed off and they dumped me, now I want to try to be vulnerable around them, will they take me back?" Life comes with risks. If you can't be vulnerable around your partner, then who else can you be vulnerable around? They are the one person you should definitely trust.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 06:59 PM
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Remember that to redpillers, women are both the prize/reward and the enemy they have to compete against. Anything that reminds the RP guy that a woman had sex with someone other than him deeply bothers him. A kid is a pretty obvious reminder. How dare she have sex with anyone? How dare she have freedom/no commitment from a boyfriend/husband? So they stick to these revenge fantasies that say she's used up, doomed to failure, she is of low value, ect. There's also zero room for nuance or understan…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 06:41 PM
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And/or their moms are single moms. Mommy/daddy issues.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 06:24 PM
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Have you tried therapy?
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 12:16 PM
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You were making some okay points until the misogyny kicked in. Have you considered that it's being misogynistic that is what is making zero women interested in you?
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 12:13 PM
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If they all approached me out of nowhere and I didn't even know them? Yeah. It makes me uncomfortable. Instant no.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 11:55 AM
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For the record, you also don't have to go to clubs/bars if it's not your thing. There's plenty of social events, or at least there will be after covid. Concerts, sporting events, hobby groups, game nights, festivals, arcades, all sorts of stuff. Look for events on Facebook or meetup apps. I promise you can find fun stuff to do, and there will be women there to meet. Besides, even if you go to some events and don't meet a lovely lady, at least you can say you tried something new and you had a goo…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 10:47 PM
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Insert confused John Travolta meme here
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 04:34 PM
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I was thinking of the same thing!!!
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 03:51 PM
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Lmao no kidding! Like if I actually met in person the men I think are the hottest, I can't even guarantee then I would want to bang them. Shit, I can't find my sex drive. It must be around here somewhere... did I leave it in the pocket of my jeans that I threw in the wash? I'm getting tired of lonely horny dudes on the internet who daydream about getting laid assuming that everyone else is just as horny as they are.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 03:27 PM
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Once again, you're going about it backwards. You found some claims you like, and now you're trying to work backwards and disprove them. That's not how the burden of proof works.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 03:13 PM
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Every single girl in that class announced her body count? And they all had slept with over 20 people? This would have to be an anomaly to be true.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 02:53 PM
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young man There's your problem. The experiences of young guys don't speak for the sexual experiences and desires of everyone at every age. We all know what people in their teens and early 20s are going through, they are going through a lot of changes. Life is confusing, your hormones are raging. It's different when you get older. Have you visited r/menslib? They've had discussions on this particular topic a handful of times within the last couple months. They might be of interest to you. Basical…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 02:07 PM
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So that being said, how does this article answer your questions in your post?
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 01:57 PM
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Not to mention, this whole post is operating under the assumption that literally everyone has a high sex drive. All men want to get laid and will bang anything that moves, while women are also just as thirsty but only want a certain kind of guy. It's fucking bullshit. There's plenty of people (both men and women) who are not trying to sleep with as many people as possible. Some people don't want sex that often, or even at all.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 12:40 PM
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It sounds like you are buying into these assumptions and now want evidence to disprove it. This is backwards. Someone redpilled made the claim, they should provide evidence for it. Until then, these claims are ridiculous and should be dismissed. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Burden_of_proof_%28philosophy%29?wprov=sfla1
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 11:36 AM
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Talk to her and get to know a bit about her first. See if she is somebody you would actually want to go out with.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/21 03:24 AM
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I can't speak for other women but I always automatically turned guys down when they did this to me.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/21 01:12 AM
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It's an issue for everyone.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/21 07:53 PM
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Thank you. Exactly.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/21 07:51 PM
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Your comments are still up, aren't they?
/r/ExRedPill04/04/21 07:10 PM
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I didn't claim to know everything. There's plenty of things I don't know. But it's pretty clear that redpill spreads misinformation and has hurt people. It's not subjective to say so.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/21 07:09 PM
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She let her guard down, you kept yours up. I wouldn't be surprised the next time if you let your guard down but she decides to keep hers up. I mean this in the nicest way possible: you had your chance the first time.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/21 06:31 PM
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Removing false or misleading information is not censorship. But nice try.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/21 06:27 PM
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Came here to say this.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/21 02:09 PM
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She blocked your number, she got back with her ex, she said "don't touch me." She made it really clear to you.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/21 07:31 PM
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She made it clear she wants to be left alone. It's time to move on.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/21 07:21 PM
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I think we're all tired of you taking your anger out on others. I don't want to lock this post because you should be getting help, but it's pretty clear you want to insult others that do want to help you. So I will be locking it. Take a break from the internet and go get professional help.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 06:59 PM
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So block them.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 06:29 PM
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Why would you listen to such garbage advice?
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 06:28 PM
2

Does that sound like a good idea to you?
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 06:27 PM
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Wow you are really jumping to wild conclusions. I get it that you are really upset and this is a sensitive topic for you. But when you blow a conversation out of proportion like that (claiming people called you evil when they didn't, putting words in their mouths) then people are less willing to listen to you and less willing to help you. If you act like this in person too and not just online, then it's no wonder women have avoided you. I get it that you have issues that need to be worked throug…
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 06:26 PM
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Not to mention, why is "male nature" never discussed?
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 06:12 PM
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It was an awkward moment and I wouldn't overthink it that much. She was probably reacting to you staring or having a weird look on your face. It's not about genetics. Awkward shit happens, and the important thing is to not make it awkward next time. Try to laugh it off. I get distracted by all dogs.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 03:54 AM
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Tinder (or any dating site) will give you a large quantity of options, but quality is hard to find. Meeting people (women in particular) in person is what I recommend. A girl will learn of your reputation, you'll know people in common, you might already have shared interests. Physical attraction doesn't matter as much when people know each other better. A good reputation and a good personality will help a lot. In my opinion, there's less pressure when you go to ask out a friend on a date. Same w…
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 03:39 AM
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You must not be aware of the loads of ugly and average guys who do get laid. Why the fuck are you listening to them when they say the nastiest shit about you?
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 03:30 AM
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They don't know. They just pretend to know. Redpill is a great way to get women to run for the hills.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 03:28 AM
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Do you really expect her to have already had sex with you? If you like talking to her, keep talking to her.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 03:27 AM
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Women didn't ask to be seen as a resource or prize. I don't agree with seeing anyone that way. Plenty of people in the world agree with that and are trying to have society move towards that kind of future. Do you want people to be used in that sort of way? If not, then why be redpilled? It sounds like you're unhappy with what redpill is offering. Why listen to those people who say nasty things about you, calling you a bitch and whatnot? There's nothing wrong with being a virgin. Absolutely nothi…
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 03:22 AM
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No idea what you're talking about. Are you going to provide your evidence for your claims? Everyone here is still waiting.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 03:10 AM
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And yet you're redpilled.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 03:07 AM
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Evidence, please. And I highly doubt that experts in biology will agree with you.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 01:45 AM
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Because reducing people to whatever society says their role is... it's damaging.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 01:43 AM
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hoard it Sex is not a finite resource.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/21 09:02 PM
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Therapy is for yourself. To help see things in a new light. To learn more about yourself. To dismantle unhealthy thinking patterns and coping mechanisms and to replace them with new ones. If you're looking for a solution to gender-related issues in the world, then no. Therapy isn't the solution. And any solution that you are looking for will take many years of work powered by a society as a whole. But if you want help just for yourself, to become a better person in spite of this, then therapy is…
/r/ExRedPill01/04/21 04:18 PM
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I just want to say that if you need a friend to talk to about the abuse, DM me anytime. Hang in there!
/r/ExRedPill01/04/21 04:13 PM
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Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
/r/ExRedPill01/04/21 03:34 AM
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I wish you the best too. Good luck.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 09:46 PM
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I didn't remove your comments, did I? They're still up.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 09:24 PM
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That much we can agree on. If you really want people to turn away from rp, you should encourage them to go there to decide for themselves. If the ideas found their are really so batshit, then they should find that to be clearly self-evident. Right here. Anyone is welcome to visit this subreddit if they abide by the rules. Being anti-censorship is about allowing citizens to speak out against the government. There are no such laws saying who and who isn't allowed to speak here on Reddit. Internet …
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 09:07 PM
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I'm not going to encourage anyone to visit TRP because it is so toxic and damaging to people. Besides, why encourage people to visit it when they've already seen it? Does an alcoholic need to visit the bar to know they should quit? We have a rule here against recruiting for TRP.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 08:53 PM
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Fart in their general direction.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 08:21 PM
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Most people who visit this subreddit already know what redpill is and they have their own experience of it. There's no such rule to this subreddit that redpill has to have a fair representation. This isn't a courtroom. Besides, TRP people often don't even give TRP a fair representation because they only point out whatever they believe is good about it. To address your analogy: You shouldn't be getting computer advice from only one person anyway. Generally the advice in this subreddit encourages …
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 08:20 PM
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It's not just fortune that's needed to overcome dealing with bad partners. It takes self awareness, courage, hard work, communication, and not being stubborn. Edited to add more
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 06:08 PM
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I wouldn't call it a murder. But these dudes love to think that anything other than cheating/dishonesty is not a valid reason to divorce/break up. Especially if it's a woman that has her reasons.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 05:46 PM
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So basically the only woman good enough would have to not be human
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 01:40 PM
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Shamed for what, exactly? And why shouldn't those players be shamed? Seems like you're also assuming those girls know they are with a player.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 11:36 AM
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I don't want kids because of issues my PTSD has caused, let's put it that way. I'm not sure about marriage for both of the reasons you mentioned. Plus I'm just used to taking care of myself for so long. I'm comfortable with both decisions.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 11:35 AM
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That's why I used the word "probably." Are you in therapy?
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 11:33 AM
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It's interesting because redpill/blackpill guys also dehumanize and objectify themselves.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 12:26 AM
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Exactly! So why should any woman who is mature and well adjusted fall for a redpill guy? Even if she did, nothing she did for him would be good enough.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 12:23 AM
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Thank you for asking. I put a LOT of effort into my friendships, since they were there for me more than my family was. I had a lot of issues making friends when I was growing up. But I found some nerdy people who were awkward like me. So my group of friends brings me a lot of joy. I love my job, it brings me a lot of happiness. I love to learn, and there's always some new subject I'm interested in. I love art, I love dogs, I live for concerts and music. I always had trouble making goals since I …
/r/ExRedPill30/03/21 10:51 PM
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To answer your question: probably some chick like this. https://www.reddit.com/r/FundieSnarkUncensored/comments/maseyy/not_sure_if_this_girl_who_shit_herself_and_is/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share Or just any fundie girl on that subreddit.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/21 10:04 PM
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Ahh ok, I was having trouble understanding your position. Thank you for explaining. I agree that hopelessness is often the biggest feeling why someone might go off themselves. It depends if suicide is really a solution to problems. If it's a reliable solution, then I guess we have to logically say that men are great problem solvers. If we don't call suicide a solution at all, but just a form of escape and a result of untreated mental illness, then we have to logically conclude that men are reall…
/r/ExRedPill30/03/21 09:15 PM
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Projecting what, exactly? Remember that men are more likely to choose violent methods of suicide, like guns, while women are more likely to choose nonviolent methods like taking pills. The violent methods tend to be more effective. So the methods themselves lead to the higher rates. Also remember that women attempt suicide more often, but men are more likely to actually complete it. If talking about issues isn't the solution, then what is? Besides if you're going to make claims that men are bett…
/r/ExRedPill30/03/21 07:48 PM
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Even if that's true, why does it matter?
/r/ExRedPill30/03/21 07:08 PM
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I can see where you're coming from. I just think there's something to be learned from everyone.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/21 06:52 PM
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Agreed.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/21 06:51 PM
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Agreed. Unfortunately that is how wisdom is gained. By learning and making mistakes. Such as who? I mean, the best people to learn relationship advice from are those who have been in relationships, whether successful or unsuccessful. Learning what not to do is still valuable.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/21 06:36 PM
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I'm a woman, and I don't concern myself with the kind of women you speak of. Because I know they are just as unhappy as manosphere guys. I've been burned badly by guys too. But I surround myself with good people and good male friends to remind myself that there's decent guys out there. I think we should stop with the pill names. Besides I'm pretty sure white pill already exists, although I can't remember what it's about.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/21 06:15 PM
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I find it interesting that TRP/MGTOW guys are so upset over how women (allegedly) have more value due to looks, reproductive abilities, and sex appeal. And yet they are the ones who continue with this ideology that values women in this way. The only way to win is to not play.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/21 06:12 PM
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No matter what women do, TRP guys will complain about it.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/21 06:09 PM
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29F here. I was raised by a parent who has similar beliefs to redpill. Not only did it fuck up my life, but it ruined my mom's life and hurt my brother too. I saw the damage it did to my mom. She was an outcast growing up in the 1980s. She had a shitty previous marriage and she fell for the manipulative PUA type of guy and married him, then had my brother with him. They are in their 50s now. He believes women are only valuable for their looks, youth, and ability to have sex and give birth and do…
/r/ExRedPill30/03/21 05:59 PM
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Take this as a lesson about how big of a cesspool the internet can be. I don't think words can describe just how toxic it can be. It's really easy to get sucked into negative spaces on the internet and it's 100x more difficult to climb back out. The solution is to not go there in the first place. Fill your news feeds on every social media you use with whatever makes you happy and makes you learn more. There are just as many positive content creators out there as there are negative ones. The algo…
/r/ExRedPill30/03/21 02:40 PM
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Don't read FDS. The women on there can be just as bitter as MGTOW's. r/twoxchromosomes is better.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/21 02:33 PM
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Ahh ok, thank you. I responded to your other comment so let's continue that discussion there.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/21 06:53 PM
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I never said all men go out and cheat. We are talking about statistics and trends here, right? Nothing we are saying applies to all men or all women. It's discussed all the time in this sub and in r/menslib. Men don't have the social support networks as well as women do, and therefore they rely on their wives for that reason. Getting divorced means they lose that support. Not only do men lose that social support, but men want their social support again after divorce. This probably explains why m…
/r/ExRedPill29/03/21 06:51 PM
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According to a study conducted by wf-lawyers.com, about 50% of marriages in the United States end in divorce. Of those divorces, about 80% are initiated by women. That 50% figure is often cited and is likely to be on the high side, but it is illuminating that 80% of divorces are filed by the wife. These statistics suggest that more women are dissatisfied with their marriages, at least to the point of ending them than men, who may feel the need to continue on with the family union. While some mar…
/r/ExRedPill29/03/21 06:45 PM
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Where is the 80 20 coming from? What are you referring to?
/r/ExRedPill29/03/21 06:30 PM
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Women are more likely to initiate divorces, but men are more likely to cheat. From what I read, women are basically less willing to put up with bullshit. They have higher standards for relationships. I think this makes sense when you put it all together. Men are less likely to have social support systems so they don't want to leave their wives (their only social support) even when there is unforgivable bullshit. So they might go cheat. I can dig up some sources if needed.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/21 06:16 PM
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Filing for divorce doesn't necessarily mean they lost feelings first.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/21 06:07 PM
2

Yes that too.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/21 03:07 PM
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If it upsets you, then don't read it. Block them, don't visit those sites/pages. Turn your attention to whatever makes you happy and productive. Avoid that bucket of crabs.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/21 02:38 PM
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Not sure. I avoid both kinds of baloney.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/21 02:31 PM
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Redpill for women, if I remember correctly. I could be wrong.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/21 01:18 PM
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International studies have found highly endorsed reasons for divorce to be marrying too young, communication problems, incompatibility, spousal abuse, drug and alcohol use, religious differences, failures to get along, lack of love, lack of commitment, and childlessness, to name a few (Al Gharaibeh & Bromfield, 2012; Savaya & Cohen, 2003a, 2003b; Mbosowo, 1994). https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4012696/ I wouldn't call that "growing apart", bro.
/r/ExRedPill28/03/21 04:18 AM
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He could cheat, beat her, mess with her finances, kill their dog, whatever. If she files for divorce though, then it's all her fault! /s
/r/ExRedPill28/03/21 04:17 AM
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Does it matter? Besides they are both messed up people.
/r/ExRedPill28/03/21 04:15 AM
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Bullshit. I can think of a dozen scenarios where that is so unreasonable and unfair.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/21 10:39 PM
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I was raised by a parent who held a lot of beliefs similar to redpill. It was hell. Being on here has given me a lot of insight.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/21 10:38 PM
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Alimony isn't even that common. It's rewarded in something like 10% of divorces, and even then it's not always lifetime payments. It's like one one lump sum or a number of payments for x amount of years. Redpill guys worry their heads off about something that rarely happens. Besides, if you never want to pay alimony, marry someone who can also support themselves.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/21 06:43 PM
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Does it matter? Women exist on the internet and they have the freedom (just like everyone) to visit whatever sites they want. Besides, I'm looking forward to the day when there is a subreddit for guys only who want to leave redpill and/or blackpill. I can start taking bets on how long it lasts before it becomes another echo chamber.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/21 02:22 PM
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They want the traditional housewife SAHM, but don't want to pay for anything she needs. They want all of the power and sex but none of the responsibility. Can't have it both ways.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/21 02:18 PM
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Agreed.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/21 02:14 PM
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Bro what are you doing here if you're still redpilled?
/r/ExRedPill27/03/21 02:14 PM
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That doesn't answer the question. Why does it matter who files for divorce?
/r/ExRedPill27/03/21 02:12 PM
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Why does it matter who files for divorce? Someone filing for divorce doesn't mean the reasons for divorce are all of their fault.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/21 05:57 AM
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Think about what makes couples stay together for many years. If it was only about attractiveness and playing the game to find the hottest person possible, then what is the incentive to stay together? Clearly factors involving personality, compatibility, and working through issues together are paramount. Also think about why it is that people break up/divorce. People usually cite reasons such as infidelity, money, being incompatible in some ways, mental health, family problems, losing trust, thin…
/r/ExRedPill26/03/21 05:29 PM
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Not working for me, then again I'm on mobile
/r/ExRedPill26/03/21 12:33 AM
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Yeah it's not a good thing. Anyone can be a victim and anyone can be a villain.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/21 11:12 PM
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Broken link?
/r/ExRedPill25/03/21 11:11 PM
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Agreed.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/21 06:09 AM
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Thanks for exposing your ignorance.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 03:22 PM
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I already explained that. Generally if someone is a good person with morals and values, if they have decent social skills and respect for others, if they continue to seek out people, if they have decent hygiene, they will find relationships and connections with other people. I hesitate to give this answer, because usually these conversations go down the path of the other person saying "but I tried that already, why can't I get laid?" Then there's a dozen different possibilities for answers to th…
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 03:22 PM
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Because it's a dumb statement.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 03:20 PM
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It's not only affecting men. I never said that. It affects everyone including men. Where did you get that idea from?
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 03:19 PM
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Yes. And you also assumed they have it easy.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 03:19 PM
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I didn't say anything about dominance or submissiveness, did I? I was poking holes in the statement "men don't want confident women."
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 03:18 PM
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You contradicted yourself there.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 03:17 PM
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You made a lot of assumptions about things you have no clue about.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 03:16 PM
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Struggling economy means people have less money and struggle with cost of living. People having less money and more financial woes means people are less likely to date, get married, have kids. Money is a major cause of stress in people's lives. And it's pretty well established that the economy and other problems in the world affects birth rates. (People have to get in bed with each other in the first place to have kids. This is the correlation.)
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 03:16 PM
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Confident and dominant aren't the same thing.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 03:11 PM
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Men don't like confident women? Really?
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 02:29 PM
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The economy. People living at home later and the housing crisis. People staying in school longer. Mental health. The internet. Young people not learning social skills like they used to. Helicopter parenting. There's loads of answers.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 02:29 PM
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Your first sentence... That's quite the ignorant statement there.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 02:26 PM
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"Don't stick dick in crazy" is something I have told my female friends too. Although obviously it would be metaphorical, and it still means "Don't get involved with people who will drive you nuts and turn your life upside down."
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 02:24 PM
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Working out, being confident, staying healthy, these ideas are not unique to redpill and they existed before redpill.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 02:23 PM
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Of course it won't attract redpill refugees. Because these are guys who are lonely and lost, and they want a simplistic answer. So they can think "well then if I do XYZ I'll automatically find a girlfriend." But that's not how life works and there are never guarantees. Life isnt as predictable as any of us hope for. This doesn't sit well with people who have the "video game approach" to life and dating. They just want the user manual so they know which buttons to press to achieve whatever result…
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 02:19 PM
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Like I said, there is no one answer.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 12:18 PM
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There is no magic answer and there never was. TRP likes to sell the idea that there is because it is appealing to young guys who feel lost in life and the dating world. Those gurus make money off of this.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 11:29 AM
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You don't have to keep up the facade.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 01:47 AM
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Tribalism and toxicity is kind of inherent in humans. People are still capable of great and good things. Seek out these good things and be thankful when they happen. (I'm not ex redpill but I doubt this is something ex TRP people would disagree with me on.)
/r/ExRedPill23/03/21 04:30 PM
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Agreed
/r/ExRedPill23/03/21 04:53 AM
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It's kind of a toxic sub, but r/childfree would agree with you here. There's a lot of entitled single parents who go on dating sites and get offended when someone online doesn't want to date them because they have kids.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/21 04:53 AM
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I relate to it, and I'm not even a guy lol
/r/ExRedPill23/03/21 04:51 AM
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So many removed comments on that post, lol.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/21 04:51 AM
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Here's what probably happens with some of these guys. Their mom and dad have kids, her and dad can't make it work together, dad is a deadbeat and runs off. Mom is stressed and has to raise and discipline her kid(s) on her own. She probably has some issues of her own. Kids don't like discipline. Son (future redpill) sees mom as a bitch and idolizes the dad he doesn't know. It's easy to hate the parent you didn't get along with, and it's easy to daydream about the one you didn't know. This adds mo…
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 08:20 PM
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Sounds like your ex had a chance at having a good girlfriend (you) and he threw it away.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 08:15 PM
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Anytime!
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 07:03 PM
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If you take care of your health and personal grooming, there's not much to worry about. (Unless your family has some really bad genetics... but even then taking care of yourself will make any genetic health conditions easier.) Don't take advice from guys in their 20s and 30s about what being age 40+ is like. They haven't seen it or experienced it. Redpill guys just want to guilt women, and ageism is another way to do it. You'll be fine. Just take care of your health while it's still easy to do s…
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 06:46 PM
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No worries, I like answering questions. Ask as many as you want! How someone (male or female) takes care for their appearance and health in their youth definitely starts to show in their 40s and 50s. Smoking, being overweight, lack of dental care, fatty foods and sugar, lack of exercise/being active, excessive drinking, lack of good grooming and style, lack of hygiene and cleanliness, and so on... all of these things age people by a LOT. It's not a gender thing. It's a health and personal care t…
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 06:24 PM
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They're all kind of old school when it comes to that. The typical "oh I'm sorry my hair is a mess today, oh I love your dress where did you get it?" I would say they have a typical view of their looks for women their age. They complain about how they look but it's in that self deprecating, humorous way and they do it to make their friends/family feel better. I would call this normal and relatively healthy. Women who are really insecure of how they look when they age will act much differently. My…
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 06:10 PM
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Mostly it depends on a person's health. People can look great and feel great at any older age if they took care of themselves when they were younger. My dad is 60, he looks like shit because he didn't care for himself. My grandpa is 87, he says he feels like he's 60 and he looks very similar as to how he did at that age. It's because he took care of his health.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 06:01 PM
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You're not too old to listen to anything. Listen to whatever music you want.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 05:58 PM
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I'm nowhere near my 50s but I'm going off of what my older friends and relatives say. 50s is where people officially don't give a fuck anymore. They know who they are and what they want. If they took care of their health, then they're in good shape and it definitely shows at that age. Generally it's the height of someone's career. People's kids are usually grown by this age, so they can focus more on whatever they want to do with their lives and not have to spend all their money on their kids. I…
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 05:57 PM
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I wonder quite often: who the hell are the parents that raised these guys?
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 05:51 PM
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On the 1st day, he created a Tinder profile and said "let there be SEX." On the 2nd day, he trolled the forums on 4Chan. By the 3rd day, only one girl liked him online and it turned out to be a bot. On the 4th day, he read some studies on gender but took them all out of context. On the 5th day, he spent the whole day watching MGTOW YouTube videos. On the 6th day, he went to the gym to looksmaxx. On the 7th day, he rested.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 04:52 PM
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The Bible and religion itself is the source of a lot of misogyny in the world. That being said, this is being taken to an entirely new level lol
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 04:46 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 04:14 PM
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Yeah that's the only time limit women have.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 12:56 PM
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It's bullshit. I'm almost 30, same as all my friends. Life is great because we are out of the teens and early 20s bullshit everyone has to deal with in life. There's a lot of responsibility that comes with being older. But I think it's worth it. I have a ton of older relatives and friends. They say being in your 50s is where it's at. And none of them would ever want to go back to age 20ish.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 12:11 PM
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Great point. Other ways a couple can protect each other: Help them with car repairs so they drive a safe vehicle Cooking good foods and helping each other with health issues, to protect against illness Stand up for each other against toxic people, to protect against mental health issues and chaos
/r/ExRedPill21/03/21 06:15 PM
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From my own observations, redpillers often project their issues onto women. Their insecurities make them feel deep down like they don't deserve a relationship themselves. They are picky about women. They know they are undesirable for some reason or another. They will make life hell for any woman who gets with them. I think they seem to project their sex drives onto women, too. Complaints of women being promiscuous say a lot about how promiscuous they want to be.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/21 05:03 PM
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It's really messed up how they value women: for their looks, their virginity, their bodies, and whatever feminine roles a woman fulfills. Women never asked for it to be this way. Sure, plenty of women have taken advantage of it and plenty more have promoted patriarchy itself. But it doesn't mean women originally asked for it to be that way, and it's unfair to blame it all on modern women. Shoving people into arbitrary roles is dehumanizing and it is a waste of an individual's personal talents an…
/r/ExRedPill21/03/21 04:08 PM
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Find a divorce attorney and go from there. They will walk you through it.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/21 01:12 AM
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It's because they want the status and benefits of being married, but none of the responsibility. They want the commitment from the wife, while not wanting to commit themselves. (Or at least make it so she doesn't have options besides him, while giving himself options.) Yes, it doesn't make sense. It's a very selfish and logically inconsistent ideology. It's born out of insecurity, abuse, and ego problems. It's born out of the mentality of "someone will fuck me over so I will preemptively be an a…
/r/ExRedPill21/03/21 12:15 AM
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Thank you, I appreciate it
/r/ExRedPill19/03/21 01:56 PM
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If you missed it, then you weren't paying attention.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/21 01:33 PM
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Yeah it goes hand in hand with that.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/21 02:12 AM
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Not everyone would understand lol
/r/ExRedPill19/03/21 02:12 AM
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The biggest thing is that they are terrified of rejection and having a woman leave them. If she's a housewife with no job and depends on him for money, she can't leave. Obviously it's hard for them to admit this.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/21 12:32 AM
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Redpill guys don't value women much, only for what she can give him. They want to make all the financial decisions but have none of the responsibility and to never have her ask for anything. Don't you understand? If you have friends, that means you could possibly meet another guy and leave him. I doubt these guys have ever done any housework. They say it's easy, and yet won't do it... hmm... If you're a woman, too bad. This entire comment is sarcasm and is just pointing out the stereotype.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/21 12:29 AM
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They are mad at all women. Single moms, housewives, promiscuous women, virgins, younger women, women older than 30, working women, childfree women, women who have kids, black women, white women, Asian women, straight women, lesbians... no woman is free from their bitterness.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/21 12:24 AM
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There's something ironic about ideologies such as MGTOW. r/childfree and militant atheism also is the same way: people create this identity for themselves that is about something that is nonexistent in their lives. Such as not having a wife, not having children, not being religious. Unfortunately many people can go in a toxic direction and start hating on whatever it is that they don't participate in. It's strange and weird, and anyone who was truly happy with themselves wouldn't need to lash ou…
/r/ExRedPill18/03/21 07:20 PM
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I don't know you but it sounds like you're picking up on the bullshit they say, which is good. Keep an open mind, and keep listening to different opinions. You'll be ok!
/r/ExRedPill18/03/21 07:15 PM
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I wouldn't say I was raised in a redpill household because I can't label it as such. My stepdad was not redpill. Although he was a right wing religious man who holds many of the same beliefs redpill guys have, so I think it's safe to say the results of his husband/parenting styles would be the same/similar as any redpill guy would do. He holds certain beliefs that life is a game to be played, that women should fulfill certain roles, that men (such as himself) deserve to be at the top of the hier…
/r/ExRedPill18/03/21 07:08 PM
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I think they say a lot of degrading/dehumanizing stuff about women without realizing it.
/r/ExRedPill18/03/21 05:55 PM
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I suggest he find help first
/r/ExRedPill17/03/21 10:05 PM
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If you're getting 100% of your information from dating sites, that's a huge problem. You need to detox from social media and dating sites, like yesterday.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/21 10:03 PM
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self harming to turn asexual You can't make yourself asexual. That's not how that works. Especially by self harm. You need to see a professional IMMEDIATELY.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/21 10:02 PM
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https://www.britannica.com/topic/determinism https://www.britannica.com/topic/biological-determinism https://www.britannica.com/topic/free-will I think it's quite the leap to say that these arguments support the idea that people cheat and they can't help it. From my understanding of it, it's saying people are influenced by natural and social factors up until the point they do have to make a choice. If people don't make their own choices, then why do we ever hold anyone accountable for them?
/r/ExRedPill17/03/21 09:59 PM
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Yikes. This went down the wrong path. It wasn't my intention to be an ass. Honestly I don't know where this convo went wrong.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/21 09:09 PM
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shrug I didn't realize it mattered that much to you.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/21 09:02 PM
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It is scary to know people are capable of great harm and breaking trust. Unfortunately it happens every day. And yet people still move on with their lives and do their best. People still do great things because they chose to do so. There are loyal people out there. There is zero guarantee that nobody will ever hurt you. There is zero guarantee you won't ever hurt anybody else. This is a tough life lesson to learn. That doesn't mean it's not worth trying and not worth living. Can you try naming e…
/r/ExRedPill17/03/21 08:54 PM
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There's also other experts out there that would argue the opposite. This guy is not the end-all-be-all of this argument. Humans have been debating this for ages. I think you're taking this one youtube lecturer way too seriously. You still haven't answered the question: how does this relate to your own life and why does it bother you?
/r/ExRedPill17/03/21 08:39 PM
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Not to mention, what does this have to do with our daily life anyway? Like, let's pretend we don't have free will for the sake of argument. Okay. I still have to work, make decisions, set goals for myself, be nice to people, pay bills, be good to my SO, and so on.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/21 08:38 PM
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Okay? So what? Why are you upset about the fact that you can't control what other people do? Edit: what I'm getting at is, how does this relate to your own life? Why does that guy's opinion matter?
/r/ExRedPill17/03/21 08:29 PM
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You can't control what other people do. You can only control what you do. Why is this upsetting?
/r/ExRedPill17/03/21 08:24 PM
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Are you aware that there's a lot of philosophical arguments that suggest humans do have free will? If the videos upset you, don't watch them. Why is this something that is on your mind?
/r/ExRedPill17/03/21 08:19 PM
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Who said that humans don't have free will?
/r/ExRedPill17/03/21 08:15 PM
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I don't understand what argument you are trying to make, nor do I understand what tangent you were going on about. We were on the same page originally. I was referring to prudish people who won't even discuss premarital sex and look down upon those who do get divorced. Meanwhile these same people have been divorced before and/or had sex before marriage. I was referring to hypocritical people like this, and I don't take them seriously. Fun fact: the man with the world record of most marriages and…
/r/ExRedPill17/03/21 07:16 PM
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I agree. That's why it's hypocritical.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/21 06:49 PM
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I would argue that a huge number of people do find premarital sex and divorce to be taboo. But they are hypocrites and do it anyway.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/21 06:08 PM
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There might be something to be said about "survival of the fittest." Some people with severe physical or mental issues (severe mental illness, physical deformities, developmental delays, ect) most likely won't be able to reproduce and pass on their genes. I'm talking about very severe issues, such as health problems that prevent someone from being mobile. Or birth defects or mental illness that keeps someone from functioning in society. No, being 5'2" and having a bald spot doesn't count as a de…
/r/ExRedPill17/03/21 05:04 PM
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I don't think anyone focuses more on an incel's looks than the incel himself.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/21 02:19 PM
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Do you mind leaving a link to the sub? The claims made by blackpill and redpill are debunked all the time. There is no such thing as blackpill science or redpill science. Any actual scientist, researcher, or psychologist would laugh them out of the room. Because redpill and blackpill people take studies that were already done, and butcher them and misread them and take them out of context. Plus they don't set up their own rigorous studies. Don't believe everything you read on reddit.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/21 12:05 PM
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It's not scientific.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/21 12:00 PM
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I agree with a lot of this.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/21 10:25 PM
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No worries. I figured a straightforward answer would be the most helpful to you. Just do some research. Watch some psychology lectures, read about ptsd and abuse and codependency. Find some self help books on those topics. You're on the right path, asking questions and showing a lot of insight. You just need to expand your horizons. You'll be fine. Hang in there. Edit: I actually have PTSD myself and I've done a lot of reading on this stuff, I'm no expert but if you have more questions I'm here.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/21 05:42 PM
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That's your own perspective, sure. But you really don't know what goes on in the minds of people. Usually people who stay in abusive relationships do so because they are at least one of thse: A. Afraid to be alone (I've even seen redpill and blackpill guys be guilty of this mentality, they are ripe for finding a toxic relationship) B. Had shitty upbringing/parents. C. Have some sort of "sunken cost" fallacy mentality. They've already been with the person so long, oh they were nice once, maybe if…
/r/ExRedPill15/03/21 05:25 PM
7

You should do more reading on mental illness and abusive relationships.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/21 03:17 PM
4

I never said it wasn't. The difference is that when people spend money on drinks, dinner, gifts, and so on, it's because they actually want to spend time with the person. It's not about the money.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/21 02:17 PM
4

Because that costs money. Besides there's loads of creeps out there that do it because they want power and dominance, and it's easier to just go after random women they know or whoever they run into in public. They think they are entitled to women and shouldn't have to pay for anything.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/21 01:35 PM
4

I went through almost the same thing, due to years of abuse in my family. I completely understand. On occasion I still have to fight off negative thoughts such as the ones you mentioned. If you need someone to talk to or if you have specific questions, I'm here. Please don't hesitate to reach out. The biggest things that will help are therapy and surrounding yourself with respectful people. You need to care for your insecurities and emotional wounds, while also letting the world prove to you tha…
/r/ExRedPill15/03/21 12:28 AM
30

Especially since they all can't agree on the definitions amongst themselves.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/21 11:14 PM
4

In other news, water is wet lol
/r/ExRedPill14/03/21 10:05 PM
8

Yeah if women aren't nice, then why is OP caring about her brother?
/r/ExRedPill14/03/21 09:04 PM
6

Exactly, besides it sounds like he wouldn't take kindly to his sister giving him advice.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/21 03:25 PM
36

He found this movement and started believing in it because he was already insecure and/or unhappy in some way, and the ideology fed on that. He needs professional help and therapy. You can't change his mind for him. My advice for you personally is to go about your own life as normal. Follow your own dreams and goals. Speak as you normally do and follow your gut. Don't buy into a word he says. He's saying crap about women because he himself feels inadequate and/or angry for whatever reason. You t…
/r/ExRedPill14/03/21 02:58 PM
3

Generally if it has cartoon characters, don't take it seriously.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/21 02:53 PM
5

Also, 30ish is around the age that women know for sure what they want and won't put up with bullshit anymore. This scares redpill dudes.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/21 02:07 PM
1

This right here. True. They conveniently forget that women didn't ask for it to be this way.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/21 02:05 PM
6

I think people shit on others for getting older because they can't deal with facing their own aging and all the shit that comes with it.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/21 01:56 PM
3

No dude. Quit putting people into boxes you like to label, maybe you'll be happier.
/r/ExRedPill13/03/21 11:19 PM
4

Kufar doesn't describe much besides a nonbeliever of islam. It doesn't describe anything about what someone actually does believe. Besides, this is your own definition. It's not widely used by most people. Both of these reasons is what renders it to be a useless term.
/r/ExRedPill13/03/21 10:24 PM
4

Like I said, it's a useless term and doesn't describe anything.
/r/ExRedPill13/03/21 09:11 PM
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