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Yeah sure but why aren’t you mentioning the toxic pua manipulation part of trp? Lol, trp isn’t about just improving, it has an extreme misogynistic and manipulative background too, and that’s wen things go south
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 05:15 PM
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The heck bro?, this is like saying I’m a drug dealer because money dictates it all, no, money isn’t the issue, it’s how you get it, not comparing money with women but what women find attractive isnt the issue, is wether you use those PUA /trp bullshit tactics or just get to talk and live like a normal man
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 08:16 AM
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Dating apps have a high tendency for hookups, not serious relationships, perhaps that’s the issue, do it the old fashion way, explore and meet people
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 09:56 PM
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Just check any of your relationships and you’ll realize why you love who you love, and why your friends love who they love, personality is key
/r/ExRedPill26/03/21 04:53 PM
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To enjoy life without any dumb cults, believe me, one year down the line and all this interest in dating tactics bs is gonna fade away, life is great, but you have to live it without those cults, live your life
/r/ExRedPill23/03/21 02:44 PM
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I.. haven’t really seen that in my years of existing here, and I’ve been in a social circle with 20 yo, people usually date their alike ages, there are exceptions, but really a 20 year old that is starting university is going to Date a 40 year old woman? Nah man, they stick to their uni pals
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 05:25 PM
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And, cmon man, a young 20 yo girl full of life, in university, is really going to date a 30-40 year old dude? They will probably be with people in their careers and enjoying time with their friends
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 05:51 AM
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This, hence they will further reinforce their belief that they are all the same, because bad relationships are the only thing they attract
/r/ExRedPill19/03/21 04:09 PM
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Being femenine is a sin damn
/r/TheRedPill23/02/21 06:20 AM
2

Feminine lmao, so following your own ideals with no red pill bs code is feminine? Plus, why you use feminine as an insult?
/r/TheRedPill20/02/21 11:40 PM
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Why don’t just live your life and experience it normally, risk it
/r/TheRedPill18/02/21 05:05 PM
1

Oh god what is this lamery of a post
/r/ExRedPill18/01/21 08:57 AM
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True, faking being an alpha sucks, used to be red piller about 1.7 years ago, and brother, I’m happier than ever to be able to be me, and express myself, including my feelings and everything, red pill is filled with toxicity, pseudo science and outright dumb shit/assumptions
/r/ExRedPill12/01/21 04:25 AM
2

He looks like a red piller chad to me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:44 PM
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Red piller caught on camera, 1924, colorized
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 09:59 PM
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Not only a good meme, but dis some real shiet
/r/ExRedPill29/12/20 05:52 PM
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A women being married doesn’t equal no financial problems, just like the husband, both contribute, one way or another
/r/ExRedPill17/12/20 08:53 AM
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Absolute Trash, I was deep on trp, it fucks your life and your social bonding skills, and worse part, it hooks shit people, meaning the girls you’ll date will be shitty people cause like you, you will attract what you are, fulfilling the prophecy that all women are like that, while in reality it’s your own fault to get in that bad rabbit hole which changes and limits your perspective in life
/r/ExRedPill11/12/20 04:34 AM
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Dunno man, relationships are cool and all but an ideology only focused on “getting” gurls, eeehhh I think there’s more in life
/r/ExRedPill02/12/20 02:20 AM
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Welp, someone with a high n count doesn’t sound quite stable, meaning they can’t keep their relationships for a reason, but a fucking 40 yo virgin isn’t great either
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 07:04 AM
2

True, without a catching phrase or a “hook” why would anyone be more interested
/r/ExRedPill13/11/20 06:49 AM
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He’s probs only attracting not so great people with his not so great, manipulative-like attitude, that’s my biggest bet
/r/ExRedPill05/11/20 03:40 PM
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The only standard is to be a healthy person, that’s it, and not being a doormat, don’t let anyone step on ya, no need for trp bs n all day shiet
/r/ExRedPill05/11/20 07:19 AM
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Yeeehh this doesn’t look too healthy, from both parts, just an example to get started, she doesn’t mind you calling her a hoe, or truly get mad at you for it, yeeeahhh nah this ain’t healthy, don’t get into that relationship
/r/ExRedPill03/11/20 02:54 AM
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I’m pretty sure I won’t die blaming the other sex, can’t blame using just a category as gender, blame people that actually hurt you, don’t generalice
/r/ExRedPill02/11/20 12:47 AM
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I’d much rather be your so called simp than listen to this shit
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 01:55 AM
3

Great human beings attract great human beings, lovely people lovely people, good men attract good women, and vice versa, toxic cunts attract toxic cunts, that’s my advise, be a great man, your own man and not a doormat, but a good man.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/20 07:57 AM
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XD
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 07:43 PM
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I’ve been here for a long time, unsure if there are servers at all
/r/ExRedPill13/10/20 09:26 PM
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Y
/r/ExRedPill13/10/20 09:24 PM
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You decide whenever you want to cuff yourself or enjoy the real world
/r/ExRedPill13/10/20 08:57 AM
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Women can be great people just as much as men, don’t place your bad experiences as the norm
/r/ExRedPill13/10/20 08:56 AM
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You doom yourself with that thought, filling a self fulfilling reality
/r/ExRedPill13/10/20 08:55 AM
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By not ex red pill I mean the dude doesn’t know about the pills probably
/r/ExRedPill12/10/20 04:53 AM
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Negativity is a limiting belief, you are but sealing your fate with that mentality, the word can be bright, extremely, you will have to work very, very hard to archive it, but if you truly want it and are willing to work for it, you can be happy.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/20 04:52 AM
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Misogyny is wrong, toxicity is wrong, hating and seeing everyone as a competence in who is more “”alpha”” is wrong. Enjoy life, no bs, follow who you are not who you fake to be
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 10:46 AM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 03:44 PM
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Simple, trp actively manipulates and has misogynistic elements, you are encouraging loving yourself and improving, I don’t see how these two match
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 04:48 AM
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This! You get what you give
/r/ExRedPill16/09/20 09:48 PM
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Life in general my dude, just give it a quick, unbiased look and you’ll realize it
/r/ExRedPill16/09/20 04:21 AM
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I absolutely agree with this, I was wrong in my statement
/r/ExRedPill06/08/20 10:15 AM
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I’m ending this conversation, there’s no need to keep wasting time, see it for your self, you’ll enjoy life even more after transcending the pill just like I did
/r/ExRedPill06/08/20 06:46 AM
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Well shit, seems like reason and logic doesn’t apply to you, why do you think trp is quarantined, if you expressed your ideals in public how do you think “normal people” would react (spoiler, will be totally against you cause no society likes shit people, good people attract good people) Everyone manipulates, sure, but faking being with other girls, making her fear and using the i will leave you card if you don’t... isn’t good stuff my dude. Yes, I know the red pill, I even read the whole “The R…
/r/ExRedPill06/08/20 06:45 AM
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Bruh TRP actively encourages abusing mentally and manipulating women, it encourages what id called “dread” it preys in women’s insecurities and mentality, fuck, Hera the best example, would you like your mother, sister or daughter dating a red dude? Open your mind, see the real world and how the social dynamic works, check any, I say absolutely any post in TRP and you’ll see misogy no matter what. Transcend the pill, see that life isn’t black or white, it’s a grey scale and can be actually fanta…
/r/ExRedPill06/08/20 06:26 AM
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It isn’t about hooking up or anything, ex red is about seen that women are people, men are people, people are people snd can have feelings, to get out of that all women are the same / they’re whores pit, for example, if you said you opened emotionally to our gf, maybe said something that bothered you or stuff like that trp will fucking go ballistic against you, and that’s fucking wrong, you can be happy and meet amazing people, women can be amazing people with feelings and they’re actual human b…
/r/ExRedPill06/08/20 06:01 AM
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He’s holding frame so much he’s gonna fucking die from brain damage due to the lack of blood from the sheer pressure exerted by his body
/r/ExRedPill06/08/20 03:09 AM
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Here’s the best answer you can have on why red pill is bad, check the “proof” or exibits part in the middle https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/ho4cvx/red_pill_detox_first_aid_kit_start_here/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/ExRedPill03/08/20 02:26 AM
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Yeeeahh nah, I would suggest it, you say if you imagine that you can manipulate and hurt them mentally it makes you more confident you are wrong as fuck, plus the sheer content of trp, the generalized “women will cheat” they’re all the Sam etc will dig up inside your mind and fuck you up, just be confident, don’t be a doormat and go out, no need for silly cheats. AND this post is very out of topic, endorsing trp isn’t what the goal of this sub is, the goal is to DETOX from the red pill, check fi…
/r/ExRedPill24/07/20 06:48 PM
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You get scared to approach, you didn’t even fail because you didn’t even approach in your “rejections” what in reality happened is you think people just don’t like you without even contacting first ;)
/r/ExRedPill23/07/20 11:29 PM
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It does increase your confidence, you get to man up and talk, each time you address a girl, even if not for dating just opening up to a complete estranger boosts your confidence and each time you are more comfortable, the only way to increase for confidence is to get out of your comfort zone, you ask a girl out, and she says no, who cares man? You keep your head up and stay cool, being each time a bit more fearless when addressing people and such, that mentality of “failure only worsens things” …
/r/ExRedPill23/07/20 11:28 PM
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Risk it man, you have to go through the no’s to get the yes’ses. Either outcome is good, she says no to you, good, you know she ain’t interested and move forward. She says yes, good you know she is interested and see how it goes! Man up dude risk it, plus doing this increases your confidence
/r/ExRedPill23/07/20 11:03 PM
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Hommie, enjoy life, talk to whom ever you want, do you even know what a friend is?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 05:54 PM
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Simple, someone that makes your life simple, an easy relationship, no “dread” or manipulation, overall a good human being that respects you as much as you respect her and treats you as much as you treat her.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/20 07:53 AM
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Women and men aren’t objects, what you want is a good woman, someone who makes you smile, and reciprocates your own. A good human being
/r/ExRedPill18/07/20 08:38 AM
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You have a very wrong mindset, and if that is your meaning of happiness, you will never be truly happy. You need to be happy and satisfied with yourself before entering a relationship, relationships aren’t the source of your happiness; they are just an extension of your own. Work first in yourself and your self worth my man
/r/ExRedPill17/07/20 10:19 PM
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I feel ya now, but seems like other duds didn’t get it too xD
/r/ExRedPill16/07/20 04:35 AM
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Why hate? Do you get anything from it besides being bitter and sad about life?
/r/ExRedPill16/07/20 04:32 AM
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Well, the red pill teaches not to go to broken women with trauma past, it’s fair she doesn’t want to be with a broken man with trauma past, or are you going to double standard it?
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 07:27 PM
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Amazing guide / detox, even with this much knowledge red pillers still keep their blinding ideology, best wishes for everyone!
/r/ExRedPill09/07/20 03:33 PM
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It’s not “hypergamy” no reasonable person, well, no two reasonable persons on a lovely relationship are going to just dump it for someone “better” decent human beings don’t do that, closest thing to hypergamy is ending a relationship because it isn’t just a good relationship, and anyone can do that, but healthy, confident and loyal people whom enjoy each other company wouldn’t ever dump to that.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/20 04:43 AM
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Glad to hear you are alive :) The community is growing faster than ever, but nows its a mix of people, ex red and others like black pill and stuff, some not willing to improve and bringing bad vibes to this community, but overall we are doing alright, you’ll eventually find through the community At the end, what matter is to cherish life and see that it can be beautiful in its own way! No need for toxicity. Everyone should be open for improvement, never say it’s too late or that you are doomed. …
/r/ExRedPill05/07/20 11:19 PM
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I second this, id love if ex red was more about transcending the pill into greater, more loving relationships, you can be vulnerable and everything, it isn’t a competition to see who’s more alpha, there are good girls as well as there’s bad girls. Personally I’m more into ltr and loving the fuck outta my partner. Trp might have some things that are correct, such as not being a “simp” and stuff like not being a doormat, but more than half is misogynistic bs. It’s all about being confident, knowin…
/r/ExRedPill05/07/20 11:06 PM
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I feel you brotha (sister rlly xD) but yeah they need help or to have unmatchable will power, we help everyone here but truly we aren’t responsible for anyone, specially less for these dudes who bring the high energy of this community down and aren’t willing to change Take care pal
/r/ExRedPill05/07/20 08:18 PM
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Exactly this!!! It sounds tough and wrong but honestly I don’t what that energy bringing us down, we are to support others, but to the extent it doesn’t lower our high energies
/r/ExRedPill05/07/20 07:54 PM
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Also, I’d love to hear what you all think
/r/ExRedPill05/07/20 06:43 PM
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Shut the fuck up, you fucking troll, he is going thru shit and you enjoy his suffering? People like you are disgusting
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 08:48 AM
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Not me, I’m referencing the average self proclaimed red piller
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 02:34 AM
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There you go, direct proof of what I mean, and no, trp is a set of tools to grow and do you, but morality still stands
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 02:33 AM
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You got some solid arguments and you sent this message with a “love” golden cover, by this I mean I saw no trace of hate in your answer, absolutely wonderful. But I must add some things. Also the abundance mentality, should be more like, be fearless and you can love and be loved again, but do give all your love, what’s the matter with not doing it Sure I had failures just as everyone else but I did got that I wanted by the time, but just realized full on red ain’t the way, but sure all knowledge…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 01:25 AM
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I’ll probably get banned in trp for this, but I’ll still give it a shot. First of all, exred was originally made for dudes like me that trascended the pill, my man, reality isn’t black or white, it’s a scale of grays. Exred is plagued by incel and blackpill dudes now, back in the good ol days it was men like me whom realized red pill isn’t the greatest way to live, because of the toxicity and fear, y’all always fear women will leave you, always blame them and never blame yourself for your shitty…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 12:42 AM
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Haha! That is actually true ! My girlfriend said the same about me but I just deflect her statements by showing how much I love her and turning down other girls. But yeeee gym dudes get more attention and are generally more into well, that attention, tho gym is healthy. But heck, no one wants drama I feel you! Take care pal/gal!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 08:18 AM
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Yeah he/she must be a percentage physical attracted to someone, they don’t have to be models but there’s a minimum, otherwise we would be lying, let’s be honest here, but true for me too looks aren’t it all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 10:53 PM
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Not really, one should feel happy and content before entering a relationship for maximum enjoyment! Relationships are an extension of your own happiness, not the source of.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 03:45 PM
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Yeeahhh and not only that manipulation and making them feel bad on purpose ain’t healthy, healthy people attract healthy people! When I was a kinda “chad” bit toxic red piller all I attracted was “low quality” hoes, cause toxic attracts toxic. You’ll eventually see! Remember to take knowledge from all sources not just one
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 05:55 AM
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Well, I don’t actively use red pills direct tactics but from time to time I use a softer way of “dread” like in a teasing way, and keeping my masculine core at top notch, holding “frame”, and being confident as fuck, as well as social skills. Like, everything but with love and no fear. Also you can be vulnerable from time to time, it’s alrighty. Sooo more than using red is common relationship sense at top notch Note: everything I do is in a non manipulative way, maybe just a bit, what normal hum…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 05:51 AM
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Well, I am ex red pill cause that shit breaks relationships, since then I’ve been enjoying the best relationship/ships in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 05:34 AM
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Hey man that’s wonderful! Best wishes to you, pretty great to hear you are going well and nice! And those are marvelous news! You know the rules, be a man, be the mountain, don’t let yourself be disrespected and don’t be a doormat, keep your masculine but remember you can be vulnerable too, be someone who everyone would love to be around! Take care my man, I will update for sure, I promise you that. Stay safe! You can read some Coach Corey Wayne and download his book, some red logic but about be…
/r/ExRedPill30/06/20 08:04 AM
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Just been 3 months, but everything is going amazingly, I know little time but everything is great, even relationships wise, even even while quarantined
/r/ExRedPill30/06/20 02:14 AM
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Wrong, it “works” if you actually do what a normal human being does, go outside and ask girls out, no need for red pill bullshit, but that shit fucks you up, better to be alone than in bad company, plus, here’s your problem, women aren’t everything
/r/ExRedPill30/06/20 02:12 AM
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This! Preach boy! Your body your mind your soul and your essence, it’s all yours and no ones to tell you how to behave, be happy and makes other happy! I’m glad you broke out of the limiting believes of the tainted red ideology.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/20 11:06 PM
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Self Improvement and not being a doormat, but at what cost? Bitterness about life, fear and well, handicapping your relationships massively
/r/ExRedPill26/06/20 02:09 AM
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Bitterness lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 08:52 AM
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Damn, red pill surely hit you hard huh? You’ll find the right path, hopefully
/r/ExRedPill17/06/20 07:03 PM
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Bro, this is what I mean, be fearless, women are people too man, just as me and the dude who commented women can be good people too. TRP surely has brain washed you my friend I hope you find the light and break out of the ilusion.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/20 12:06 AM
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Nope, not true to some extent I tell my gf I love her pretty much every day and shower her in kisses, she does the same and stuff. Just be confident and don’t over do it in a way it doesn’t feel natural If you are dating it might lower attraction a bit cause it breaks misery, but don’t fear that, do what feels right, keep your head up, your social skills top notch, enjoy life, and be fearless!
/r/ExRedPill13/06/20 12:03 AM
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Tell a lie enough times and people will start believing it’s true, damn red pill, it’s like conspiring against yourself, just as you and me are good people willing to share love and such, women are too. Red pill makes you live in a constant state of fear that is not worth it Believe, improve in yourself, share some love and give accordingly to what you are given, don’t be a doormat, it’s common sense, no need for red pill bs
/r/ExRedPill07/06/20 11:21 AM
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Does it matter, if you are actually happy?
/r/ExRedPill05/06/20 03:34 AM
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What did she say? She removed it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 03:23 AM
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There’s thousand of female out there, and tens that are nice and lovely human beings, why stick with one that has a clearly bad history and plenty of red flags? History repeats itself
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 05:25 PM
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It’s sad but most probably true
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 05:24 PM
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Whatever works for you man, but I hope you find that inner peace, you’ll feel amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 07:24 PM
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“I’m chad” has only three posts and two of them are about anime. I’m cool with Japanese shit, but now you are out of character, go back to your moms basement
/r/ExRedPill29/05/20 09:03 AM
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What are you even saying bro? So then you should get in relationships when you can’t stand not being in a relationship? You should be the source of your mental stability And what are you even saying again? So then relationships are the reason for happiness? Bro wtf? You share your happiness in a relationship, but it ain’t the source You make 0 sense bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 09:01 AM
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Faking everything, faking what’s called frame, suppressing your feelings, distancing yourself and all that manipulation shit trp teaches is actually pursuing
/r/ExRedPill29/05/20 02:46 AM
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Bro you think you are like more chad or some shit just cause you insult and are bitter bout life? That’s taking you no where buddy
/r/ExRedPill29/05/20 02:44 AM
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Yeahh, the article is more “poetic” than actually useful and stuff
/r/ExRedPill29/05/20 02:42 AM
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You need to be happy with yourself and alone before trying relationships my man, relationships aren’t the reason of your happiness, but just an extension of such
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 02:31 AM
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One or then cases don’t confirm it as a norm upon the thousands, not everyone is the same and you can’t use this case to generalize A good woman, or man would comprehend and give a few taps on the back, and then show love and support, that is a worthy human being. This chick might have not been the best out there, hence the reaction
/r/ExRedPill22/05/20 11:40 PM
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Suck my prEmiUM cock
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 07:00 AM
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XD prEmiUM vagina
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 06:57 AM
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Difference is, red pill men actually work in themselves instead of blaming other for shit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 06:55 AM
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iM a prEmiUM pErSOn Df is a premium person nigga? Like Minecraft? You can use your own character skin?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:34 AM
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PURGE IS THOSE HERETICS! amiright?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:02 AM
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XD he’s indeed a über simp, heir to the simp throne, master of simps, simp goD.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 10:11 PM
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Should’ve made a TLDR i Read about 70% of your post I’ve attracted bitches, and good women, red ideology attracts the hookup type and not lrt material When I left red pill I started having a better life and attracting better women, as an example is my current gf, which is an amazing, loving girl, honestly all against red ideology, the only women that fit in that ideology of cheating and what else are the low quality hookup type Maybe you just had a bad experience, I could see your partner was ve…
/r/ExRedPill11/05/20 09:29 PM
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I’m not cool..... I’m megA coOL
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 09:36 AM
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I love how anyone likes to give relationship advice, even though 95.73% of the time they don’t knoW shIT Even an incel who hasn’t even dated a woman would give you “advice” Only receive advice from people which their relationship with their partner is one you would like to reciprocate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 09:29 AM
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Pretty incel here*
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:37 PM
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They all look the same, like asians
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:33 PM
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The incel slayer
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:29 PM
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Bro... that’s a war crime burn it with HOLY FLAMES
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:52 AM
1

While not fully fat, you are a tad overweight, and don’t come screaming “shE aInT faT” because the girls from your country are all fat in average.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:34 PM
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And maybe a extreme invasive face surgery, maaaybe 4,5/10
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:31 PM
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7.8? Is the corona also inflating this value
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:21 PM
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Fairly accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 11:27 PM
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Well, i love how they are a 2x1, dish washer and auto cooker Jokes aside, I absolutely love my gf, she makes my chest warm from all the love and affection, love her lips, her chest, her booty, her personality, her everything <33
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 11:21 PM
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What a simp
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 11:00 PM
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How so? 32 days since this post and I’m doing fantastic!
/r/ExRedPill03/05/20 07:26 AM
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xD
/r/askTRP30/04/20 11:19 PM
2

You like 40k, don’t you, brother
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:16 PM
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No logical reason? The support and satisfaction to have a partner you can trust and spend your day without worrying, to sleep next to someone you truly like, to enjoy and cherish the little things together. That’s why I enjoy relationships and my current one
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 11:27 PM
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Women dependent on men? Riiiiiiight, not good idea pal
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 02:30 AM
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You don’t ask the fish how to fish, you ask the fisherman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 09:11 PM
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XD i bet you are either an incel, or a red piller, hommie, just as there’s good men there’s good women my dude, awalt as well as nawalt, don’t you have female friends or had a lovely gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 03:57 AM
12

Same, red will place and convince you of one view and one view only, toxicity and bitterness
/r/ExRedPill23/04/20 02:44 PM
2

Isn’t as full filling as having sex with the partner you love
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 03:08 AM
1

No xD, she just said that most attractive men tend to prefer long term monogamous relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 10:36 PM
1

I’m more into the commitment guy, there was this days when I was full red, where I only got casual, but not commitment, spoiler: not my jam. I love commitment with the right girl, romance is playful, trusting and in general a lovely story, I’m big into commitment as I much rather be with a lovely high quality woman than many causal thots (xD) Commitment can be an amazing experience with the right girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 10:33 PM
2

I mean, yeeeah I hanged out and made out with girls and stuff, but eeeehh, I like more someone who just the simple act of walking next to her shoulder would fill me with happiness (currently in an amazing ltr)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 12:44 AM
1

My red mentality only attracted the hookup and what else type, in more into romance and ltr type.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 12:38 AM
2

Meditate and reflect, think within yourself, work on your mind as well as you train your body
/r/ExRedPill21/04/20 08:52 PM
2

You’ve gotta work on your confidence brother, you must be in a state of perfect harmony with yourself, try writing down when you feel off and what triggered it and how you could overcome it in the future, that’s a neato trick to boost confidence and what else
/r/ExRedPill21/04/20 07:20 PM
3

Cause while sure, red has self improvement, it also breeds toxicity and hate towards woman, literally, this comes from an ex red piller, it breeds misogyny and general resentment for life, if the relationship fails, never your fault, she screws up in dumb ways? Dump her. She doesn’t want to give you a blow job? Dump. Df is this toxic shit? Soo blue pill is a satire of red pil and their unreasonable views.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:35 PM
4

A man in top of his notch will not have problem to find sexual satisfaction, and for example, a proper relationship should satisfy such needs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 06:22 PM
5

Red pills breeds resentment with life and misogyny, it visualizes women like threats and potential bombs towards your feelings, which isn’t true, it materializes them like objects. Far toooo much not fulfilling
/r/ExRedPill19/04/20 08:33 PM
2

Maybe 5, 5.5, where I live the average girl is a 7-8 no joke, so maybe I’m biased but she ain’t that goood, she doesn’t have a special body, not fat is just a basic and her face is just ehh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 06:53 AM
2

What? For me she’s easily below average, what’s even near 7 about her?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 06:28 AM
4

Pal, would you like to be in her position? Like you are the bf of this lovey chick, but she ends up breaking with you cause she didn’t really care. Care about others too man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:20 PM
2

I’d say this is “ultimate alpha” cause an alpha can be also a prick, but an ultimate alpha is the one that is the heart of the tribe, the soul of the party, or just someone confident enough, manly enough and a tad bit provider enough that most enjoy his company!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 12:49 AM
7

While im not a full believer, going away from red pill and it’s derivatives is a great choice! Best wishes to you
/r/ExRedPill10/04/20 08:09 PM
1

Wrong, sure I got laid as red pill but quality woman that value themselves won’t date a toxic prick. Non red manipulation bullshit has made my relationships far more fulfilling
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:55 AM
4

Don’t be jealous about Rpiers, (I used to be red pill, now ex red pill) red pill is bad, it is trash, it encourages hate towards women, it objectifies them, it supports and teaches manipulation against woman, red pill isn’t good. Only good part is self growth and that’s it Just be confident, dress well and practice your social skills, no one wants a thot or a toxic chad
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 08:19 PM
2

Wayne has probably more fucking experience that the two subs combined, I’d say it’s fucking solid for ltr, you don’t need to be a bitch and ignore/ not face timing
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:52 AM
2

Glad to hear :) take care pal
/r/ExRedPill03/04/20 07:02 PM
3

I don’t want to be judgmental, but the core, the main “flaw” from my perspective, was that enormous age gap, don’t blame yourself, but that could’ve been the primer of the end of the relationship. Don’t feel bad, you are young, you’ve got a lot to see and a lot to explore! Each relationship is a learning experience, you know what to do, you know what not to do, and you know what to look for, best wishes to you. This won’t be the last relationship, for sure, I’d imagine you in a year or two in a …
/r/ExRedPill03/04/20 02:18 AM
2

Don’t worry too much, ask her out again eventually, lotta things can happen while in quarrantine
/r/askTRP02/04/20 02:24 PM
1

Cut the red ideology, and started seen people, specially woman, as human beings, stop thinking about all that awalt bullshit, women are good people too, don’t fear, what you fear you attract, but what you face, disappears
/r/ExRedPill02/04/20 03:03 AM
1

And sure, I’ll post an update in 2021, I got an amazing gut feeling about this.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/20 06:11 PM
1

Thank you :)
/r/ExRedPill01/04/20 06:07 PM
3

While I’m not blue pill, I rather am purple pill, you can be tough and unbreakable mountain and all, confidence and everything, just allow yourself to be vulnerable, just a bit. I’d suggest you to follow Coach Corey Wayne advice, best advice out there Just don’t play games with people and their feelings and that’s all
/r/ExRedPill01/04/20 06:07 PM
7

Couldn’t said something better! Treat as you’d like to be treated!
/r/ExRedPill31/03/20 11:07 PM
4

This, nothing else is relevant
/r/askTRP31/03/20 10:50 PM
1

This isn’t very ex red pill, sure you want to share your thoughts, but, where’s the exred reflection? Not sure if this is the right place to post that, this community is mainly for the detoxed and willing to archive greater things in life, may it be self growth, relationships or nice toys (economical)
/r/ExRedPill31/03/20 04:39 PM
0

What the fuck is this shit mentality? It was HER turn with him and she fucked up, he better give that ticket to a woman who values it
/r/askTRP31/03/20 02:45 AM
2

Honestly, if mgtow forced you into a man like that I’d go for it xD but Tis a different case
/r/ExRedPill22/03/20 06:56 PM
0

If she has any level of value and is not some random worthless thot, she’ll leave, no need to be a fucking piece of ass
/r/askTRP06/03/20 06:28 PM
3

yeah! Fuck that bitch! (I hope that’s what ftb means xD)
/r/askTRP25/01/20 09:08 PM
2

Indeed, one could deduce many things from high n count, such as breakup ratio / high tendency and low value as a female
/r/askTRP25/01/20 09:04 PM
13

Phone calls are far more manly and dominant than just texting, it’s a tad old fashion but it’s a “strong” move, she might even chicken out
/r/askTRP25/01/20 02:11 PM
2

Just read that, pretty solid stuff!
/r/askTRP22/01/20 12:24 AM
2

Relationships, may they be fwb, plates or ltrs are adventures! Keep going and see what it happens, do yo really need someone to tell you or follow a strict book of rules on how to engage / follow with girls? Be you and discover by yourself what will your action lead to
/r/askTRP19/01/20 06:28 PM
2

You could try sales, low entry requirement and high opportunities of growth, but I’m a software developer soo cannot give you much advise, although if you decide to become a software dev, you don’t need any school / university / college bullshit, but an amazing portfolio
/r/askTRP19/01/20 06:21 PM
7

This is a brotherhood pal, treat em like your own homies, he’s asking for advise from red men, we shall give it to him if we have an answer
/r/askTRP19/01/20 06:20 PM
2

Man that’s pretty fucking misogonic, this is why TRP has a bad reputation, it is tainted by people like you who think women are no more than what they hold between their legs, as you said explicitly. Grow a pair man and stop the hate, that won’t get you anywhere “No greater than what they hold on their legs” Shit like this makes us quarantined
/r/askTRP19/01/20 02:58 AM
7

Incels are incels perhaps due to their development as a person: Perhaps since young their social skills were not developed a lot, soo they hit the endless loop, it get worse and worse with time as they compensate with other hobbies the lack of social satisfaction. Either they break the loop and find some strong self help and implement it in their life (breaking bad habits and replacing them with better ones is extremely hard for someone used to only play games etc) or they go deeper down the soc…
/r/ExRedPill19/01/20 02:46 AM
3

Every person is his/her own little ecosystem, every human is different. I am not Dan nor Tony, we are different beings, can’t use that comparison, pal, but I can sure use the same card you used. Have you even seen married successful and happy people? Here is an example: Victoria and David Beckham A younger one, felix and marzIa Each person has their own meaning for happiness, some like hookups and others like ltrs, to each one their own. Best wishes to you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 09:11 PM
2

(My male perspective) If you have a Red pill ideology and want a true relationship; long term, hooking up ain’t the thing, sure sex is nice and the adrenaline / sensation of the chase is amazing, but it’s way too shallow, there are better shit than just hooking up, like being successful, making a successful project has a far greater feeling. Soo yes, you eventually will get bored from the shallow boring, simple thots who only have their looks as a thing. Well, this is my experience, maybe some d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 08:53 PM
1

What? 20 years agooo? I love cooking, it’s pretty nice and have my fair share of good looks (this ain’t coming from me, I was red pill and hooked with 8/10s girls, not anymore, it’s too shallow and pointless) finding a good man is difficult, never easy, just as finding a good lass! There are good men too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 08:40 PM
1

Ahh I comprehend. Oh well, hmm. Welp still, best wishes to you then, stay strong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 08:33 PM
1

You are in a 12yr relationship? Woah! That’s impressive! Best wishes to you! World needs more love, relationships like those !
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 08:24 PM
1

I have met girls like this in the past, some of them were into studying philosophy and all, dunno why some men are saying that only men can do this? Why the hate on women? Both sexes are perfectly capable. Now, it is rarer as females are born, while men are forged: what does this mean ? Females don’t need to do much, society puts their food on her plate, unconfident ? No problem, uninteresting? No problem But for men it’s different, they are forged in the fire of experience, unconfident? You fuc…
/r/askTRP18/01/20 06:53 PM
1

High risk high reward baby! Not only him, but if you stay at top notch too the sides will balance themselves! Plus some men (as well as girls) are marvelous and loyal, if you get with one of those, no much trouble!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 05:50 PM
1

They were there? Not judging, but learning, soo just their presence was enough for you ? (I’m not judging, it’s okay not to answer, i just like to learn peoples points of views and naturality)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 05:46 PM
1

Same for guys, but this boils down to being confident in your self, a lot of attention sure, just play along, be confident and secure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 02:49 PM
1

Why’d you sleep with em if they were gross ? Hmm
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 02:48 PM
1

Thanks for the opinion pal, gonna check that book then, knowledge is power
/r/ExRedPill16/01/20 02:55 AM
5

He basically giving onenitis formula
/r/askTRP15/01/20 02:44 PM
18

Putting women in a pedestal, in any type of way
/r/askTRP15/01/20 02:48 AM
2

Dread? Your first solution is to fuck her mentally? No, he should get busy and work on himself, girls are hormonal fire trucks, if she’s on her period she’ll be like that, best way to get someone’s attention is to remove yours.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 11:20 PM
0

Why though? Distancing that strongly only makes healing more difficult, good terms and everyone’s happy
/r/askTRP14/01/20 05:23 PM
2

Cut the carbs, increase protein and fiber, veggies fill you up and their caloric value is insignificant
/r/askTRP14/01/20 12:50 PM
8

Beta Billy is the answer my friend, she’s with some Billy that secures her, gives her comfort, an emotional tampon and walking ATM, BB/AF, in this case you are the AF and her bf is a BB. She’s fucking dudes while her boyfriend / partner funds her activities. This is sad man, poor Beta Billy guy.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 05:11 PM
1

Well, there might be something serious going on in the background, you don’t truly know why she’s acting like that, aren’t you her bf? Open her up and discover what it is. If there’s nothing like that, well, tough luck, it’s up to you to decide if you’ll wait or next.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 02:03 PM
3

Truly, these peeps don’t face the problems but bail out in the slightest trouble, pretty childish.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 01:46 PM
4

I second this, take the strength of correlation and confirmation bias into mind, a high correlation could just be a coincidence, search online, it happens (oftenly)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 01:25 PM
2

Exactly! You know how’s the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 02:37 PM
26

If you are too inclined to red pill ideology, you will attract the hook up, easy type (not LTR material). You gotta slowly attract a girl not with red tactics, but with sheer security / confidence and “love” not those “dread” and mental manipulation bullshit. Believe me, I’ve been there, it’s just a matter of detoxing from the sheer red ideology which attracts hoes mostly. Date and analyze the girl, what does she care, does she like you physically ? Or / in addition finds you truly interesting? …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 06:59 AM
2

Yes, I highlight the meditation part. Have your core, your mind, your essence in peak performance, meditate and read a lot, train your brain and “soul”. By this I mean archive inner piece and complete balance. Helps for weak moments, neediness, willpower and more. Peak “inner” performance. Train your brain as much as you train your body. Gain emotional muscle.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 04:50 AM
1

Some people leave and become ex red pillers cause the lifestyle isn’t very full filling, it truly isn’t, a different mindset and ideology is needed for true bond relationships. But well, it’s up to you to decide, trp will mostly deny this and tell you dis is only way. It’s up to you to decide what you aim for.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 04:34 AM
2

Want to test it?
/r/askTRP06/01/20 11:15 PM
3

Solid advice, true teachings and they work, he even has a part dedicated in his book 3 percent man into keeping long term relationships and relationships in general. His view of men and women is equal, no red pill misogyny, I’d say one if the best, if not the best.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/20 04:00 PM
0

If you are in TRP for meaningful relationships, wrong ducking call, it will absorb you and convert you into a pro player, but is it worth it? Dunno man, up to you to decide Full on red ain’t it if you want meaningful relationships, but cum and dump is its core and its ideology will lead you to that
/r/askTRP05/01/20 06:25 AM
4

Pretty sure, don’t know why it isn’t anymore, this even is still updated
/r/ExRedPill04/01/20 10:01 PM
1

Thank you!! Thanks lots bro
/r/ExRedPill04/01/20 07:41 PM
2

Yes yes! Please, tag me if you find it! Sorry pal I don’t have it
/r/ExRedPill04/01/20 07:08 AM
1

Thank you bro :) Take care dude, people like you, even though I don’t know you, are the ones who helped me get back to the correct course. Stay safe :)
/r/ExRedPill04/01/20 07:06 AM
3

:) You lighted my flame I’ll keep spreading the fire Thanks, good friend. Stay safe out there.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/20 07:03 AM
1

For me it really got me laid, super efficient, but to what extent, it turns you pretty toxic against women, no true relationships, nothing
/r/ExRedPill04/01/20 12:59 AM
3

I comprehend your view a tad bit, not saying I agree or not, being your own man, that’s solid advice, but I’d add a bit more love and trust
/r/ExRedPill03/01/20 10:40 PM
3

I got laid while red pill, had plates and didn’t give a fuck. But then, how did I got into true lovely relations in my blue pill days? Red pill works, but the inner core, it’s 90% will consume you, you’ll become heartless, not true relationships but jump and dump type.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/20 08:04 PM
3

I don’t know you, I don’t know how you live, nor who you are, and you think the same about me. Even though you don’t know me you have dedicated such time for writing I am thanking you, truly, bro. Thanks a lot, I comprehend and gawd, you don’t know how amazingly you are helping me. I wish the absolute best for you, please take care, stay safe man. You are an excellent person, willing to got his far for a random. Thanks for the help <3
/r/ExRedPill03/01/20 08:01 PM
5

Thanks a lot man, truly Maybe this took some time to write but, believe me you are helping me in incredible amounts I appreciate it, and wish the absolute best for you
/r/ExRedPill03/01/20 07:10 PM
1

Man, I’m slowly becoming ex red pill, I truly miss real love, eh, well, best of luck to you I guess
/r/ExRedPill03/01/20 10:07 AM
5

Dude, friends are your best allies, my true friends haven’t left me down in my lifetime, count on people too, you are not alone, but ofc don’t bother them extremely
/r/askTRP03/01/20 09:52 AM
7

I’ve noticed from ex red pillers that full on red pill makes you feel a bit empty, meh, I’d say try to love a bit more (don’t say this is beta) take the risk and well man up if things go wrong
/r/askTRP02/01/20 09:43 PM
6

Don’t get too hooked, I know TRP doesn’t like ltr too much but a girl posting sexy pics is a red flag, soo yeeah it’s a plate, nice but don’t get too hooked up with her, there’s no correct answer but to not give her your comittement
/r/askTRP01/01/20 04:48 AM
13

Friendly warm advice here Chill and wait man, this is a stage, a hard breakup well, is hard, there’s a lotta women, I thought the same but no, there is better women, why would you even care so much for someone who dumped ya? See all relationships as opportunities to grow, don’t get stuck in the past You’ll get over it, just ducking get busy on something productive, and for me the best cure was to hang out with many girls Gut luck bro
/r/askTRP01/01/20 04:38 AM
1

Traps for the win (2d)
/r/askTRP31/12/19 10:24 PM
1

Metaphoric Synonym for understand me
/r/askTRP30/12/19 08:13 AM
1

Bros before hoes, always, a bitch can break up with you, a bro will mostly never will, friendship is forever (metaphor) but hoes aren’t. There’s time for both, a day with her and two with ur bro
/r/askTRP30/12/19 04:42 AM
1

Why do you want your ex back? Do you just post shit to fake a lifestyle? What’s wrong man, no need for that bs
/r/askTRP30/12/19 04:40 AM
1

Solid advice, and yes, true brotherhood here, stay safe man
/r/askTRP30/12/19 04:06 AM
4

Absolutely fucking love this, you are a genius
/r/askTRP30/12/19 03:59 AM
1

Dude why df are you posting this shit? This is askTRP not like, dream gay diary stories, there’s no need for overthinking, she’s just dream it and that’s it, end of story, feel me?
/r/askTRP30/12/19 03:56 AM
2

My little grain of opinion here: Well, enjoy the moment man, like if she’s good and all just have fun then, don’t hesitate to leave if she fucks you up in any way, and don’t do dumb shit she wouldn’t do for you. Easy, if you get fucked just fuck her back, aka she fucks up in any way you dump her instantly. Just follow red pill truths, but do remember awalt, just don’t get oneitis, and, well. Good luck to you, have fun and don’t overthink, but also don’t hesitate bailing out when needed, don’t be…
/r/askTRP30/12/19 03:50 AM
4

Indeed, social circles it’s like one of the easy ways to get chicks
/r/askTRP23/12/19 08:03 PM
1

I’ve noticed the same shit is happening to me since I got this mentality and worked in my self I’ve deduced it’s due to you not giving them validation / reaction or the shit for their bullshit, they find you annoying because you don’t stand to their shit like a basic beta male would, just keep your cool.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 06:02 PM
1

Fkng rip and destroy
/r/askTRP11/12/19 01:31 PM
1

Nah fam, leveling your game at work is about connections and efficiency, he should go
/r/askTRP08/12/19 05:33 PM
2

Totally, cause the supplier isn’t getting its shit cut in half and balls deep in debt, he (bussines) can always find another vendor with some marketing n shit
/r/TheRedPill08/12/19 05:23 PM
32

ASD is just like a panic attack in a public presentation for men, two steps forward one step back, escalate and push / slow down a bit, then escalate back, treat it more like a marathon, not a race
/r/askTRP02/12/19 04:24 AM
12

No no, dude, have fun with this one, send her a pic of a mega hot guy or something, then hard next, say some shit like don’t remember ? Your loss, show her the gold, but don’t let her touch it, she’s crazy, don’t stick your dick there, but atleast you can get a funny reaction, then block. It’s up to you xD
/r/askTRP21/11/19 11:46 AM
3

Ho tal u?;!?
/r/askTRP14/11/19 05:47 AM
6

Here, a light hearted answer, not gonna scream on your butt, redpillers should show more love to fellow men xD. You need a purpose, something that inspires you, something that’s makes you wanna keep moving forward, something that induces deep inspiration and a wish to improve in such hobby/skill, take for example digital art, or an instrument as a hobby, that shit is really inspiring, now, sure, engaging with women help, tis like the most predominant cure, but if that isn’t working (weird) only …
/r/askTRP11/11/19 12:54 AM
1

Well said soldier, move on if necessary, no hesitation
/r/askTRP08/11/19 02:31 AM
18

Lol I used to think the exact same fucking thing, she’s attached, I know everything about her etc etc, but guess what? Shit happens.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 07:15 AM
1

Pain and tear, lift and improve your confidence, boost your social skills, know the game, if the deck you were born with is shit, you gotta play n train both physically and mentally twice or trice as hard as everyone else, purpose is key, maintain frame and build up, as stated earlier, those social skills.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 11:59 AM
5

Solid fucking response! Love this mindset
/r/askTRP31/10/19 10:56 AM
5

TRP In a nutshell xD
/r/askTRP08/10/19 05:47 PM
0

You are trying to justify/ reason an emotional based being / action with logic, don’t mix feelings with logic, cause you won’t find an answer with the latter, or at all. Keep moving toward.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 06:15 AM
1

I wonder, but not showing signs of jealousy wouldn’t mean an abundance mindset and hence alpha traits?
/r/askTRP18/09/19 04:00 AM
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