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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 12 | Ex targeting oldest son with DCFS allegations | Active_Albatross9483 | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/24 02:29 AM | |
| 7 | Maternal Divorce Immunity | Active_Albatross9483 | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/24 01:13 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Maternal Divorce ImmunityErgo the problem. I do exactly that, DCFS says "sounds like a family court issue", I explain I can't take the conversation to family court and they have the evidence which I can't have and they shrug. The police say "take it to the judge". When I explain my divorce case doesn't include third parties, they shrug. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/24 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Maternal Divorce ImmunityShe does that constantly too. And in Illinois visitation abuse is a misdemeanor. So is unlawful imprisonment. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/24 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Replacement father"How do you guys deal with the fear of being replaced?" Simple... she WILL ABSOLUTELY try to replace you. There is nothing you can do about the attempt. All you can do is be the absolute best father you can be and build and maintain the bond you already have. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/04/24 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Is your ex-wife better off after divorce?Depends on what you mean by better off, but I have a divorce lawyer (now judge) in family, was involved in helping reform the divorce law in my state almost 20 years ago, and now a few divorce lawyers. Financially, almost always, the woman is worse off and man is better off. Emotionally/socially, it entirely depends on how either deal with it. In my case, I'm better off financially by far. I put more away in retirement first year divorce was final than in previous 20. Ex always wanted to spend 1… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/04/24 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Ex targeting oldest son with DCFS allegationsI should be clear, 6 previous... against her. This is 7, last two ironically based on her hotline calls. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/04/24 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Ex targeting oldest son with DCFS allegationsSon has his own lawyer, I haven't told him the development so he could enjoy the holiday, but I'll let his lawyer field it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/04/24 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Ex targeting oldest son with DCFS allegationsNo safety plan, 6 previous were unfounded and their patience is up now | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/24 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Quick Question from Anyone's ExperienceSo a couple things are going on here... one is you have pre-marital assets, to a degree those aren't necessarily split but the increase in value may be (depends on your state on judge)... ASSUMING you can prove it's premarital. As far as alimony, what matters is the financial situation as far as INCOME at the time of divorce. Who pays for what doesn't really matter. Since you already retired, that's "good" because you don't have to fight her to retire (decision was already made). She is still wo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Trial and alimony adviceMost states do child support and alimony by calculators and it's based on income not expenses (absent special cases, and we're talking kids with special needs / disability). If she wants to fight, minimize the legal expenses by not negotiating or getting drawn into drama. For reference, I spent maybe $40k on legal fees because my ex wanted to fight everything, she spent $150-200k. Kids will eventually realize who is buying affection... focus on loving them and bonding. Don't need spa days for th… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Stbxw writing dumb shit via co-parenting appNever wrestle with a pig. You both get dirty and the pig likes it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 03:44 PM |
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