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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | Got used for a fucking ride to some other dudes houseAm I just gullible? She was really smart in the way she went about it, we flirted for a really long time | /r/seduction | 06/06/19 01:57 PM |
| – | An epiphany I just hadYes I love fucking my friends. I don't understand what you're suggesting here though. Is the implication that you think relationships are important? Of course they're important. But if you think that you NEED them you to fulfill your life you won't get them. This is a common effect. The more you try for something the less likely you will get it. I don't want there to be a misunderstanding here. It sure is great that you've had 4 or 5 relationships that were good for you or whatever, but that doe… | /r/seduction | 25/04/17 09:12 PM |
| – | An epiphany I just hadI phrased this incorrectly. I was in a relationship for 4 years. Yes she shaped my life and I thank her partly for the person I am today. This isn't a bitter post about that. Just as much as she changed me I would argue my friends have done the same thing. So in retrospect, all relationships are just friends. A relationship won't make your life any more better or successful. You don't need women to have a good life or to be a good person in other people's eyes | /r/seduction | 25/04/17 09:08 PM |
| – | Who do you think is the number 1 pickup instructor?RSDTyler. Blueprint literally changed my life | /r/seduction | 25/04/17 07:57 PM |
| 2 | TATTOOS: Anyone notice any difference with girls after getting tattoos?They love it. It makes you more "mysterious" to them | /r/seduction | 23/04/17 08:37 AM |
| – | Will women expect you to keep your same frame at all times?I know this is sarcasm but this seems contrary to the belief that "if you show even an ounce of neediness all attraction gets thrown out the window" I know there must be some misunderstanding and I would like some clarification in order to further improve my game | /r/seduction | 22/04/17 11:32 AM |
| 3 | Came across ex-girlfriend for the first time after 2 years of self-improvementModels and No More Mr. Nice Guy are bare bone essentials. I also think The Rational Male is important but it's more Red Pill than seduction. Still, it changed my life. Same for RSD Blueprint. Also, The Way of The Superior Man. These are books you want to learn about intergender psychological dynamics which help a shit ton and turn you into a social god. Another one that doesn't get mentioned enough is The Gorrilla Mindset. This has not a lot to do with seduction directly but I thank this book fo… | /r/seduction | 11/03/17 05:35 AM |
| – | Came across ex-girlfriend for the first time after 2 years of self-improvementI wouldn't say that haha. I have become much more attractive, but I still don't approach during the day. Tried it a few times and was uncomfortable with it. I am super confident in bars and clubs and general "night man" things plus tinder works for me pretty well too | /r/seduction | 11/03/17 03:30 AM |
| – | Came across ex-girlfriend for the first time after 2 years of self-improvementWhat I'm saying here is once they "figure you out" (and she certainly did) to discover that you are indeed beta, they usually aren't willing to give you a "second chance" to prove yourself to be alpha. They already know you are beta | /r/seduction | 10/03/17 06:10 PM |
| 1 | How does one strive for goals that are independent from the clause "in order to get women"I don't do it for pussy. I use music as an expression of my emotions and I think that is perhaps the most beautiful part of it. I still think, though, that on some complex subconscious level, we do it so our voices are heard. We do it for the attention, or with the intention of other people hearing our forms of expression. This can be translated into "power", and the more power you gain, the more pussy you attain | /r/askTRP | 05/03/17 06:30 PM |
| – | How does one strive for goals that are independent from the clause "in order to get women"If fucking wasn't important to you than why would you do it at all? Why would you come to the Red Pill if you didn't decide one day that women in your life was important and it was something you wanted? Surely, one day, when you become a successful author, you would want to pass on your legacy to your offspring. Would you not be upset if you died before you could have kids with a hot as fuck wife? | /r/askTRP | 05/03/17 04:58 PM |
| 1 | I feel asexual after years of blue pill behaviour. Do you have any advices ?You sound like me. There are periods where I don't even bother messaging hot girls I've matched with on Tinder simply because I don't have any interest or time to devote to it. Let's be honest here. The courting process fucking sucks, man. With the exception of bars and parties (which is super easy anyway) it takes a lot of patience and effort to actually get with a girl. I have dry periods but then I have periods where I feel very horny and lonely, and then I begin to get borderline rape-y with… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/17 09:59 AM |
| – | How to make girls feel more comfortable around you?This is the most backwards advice I have ever heard. | /r/seduction | 11/02/17 10:02 PM |
| 3 | Do you really keep body count?I've slept with 5 and I'm 20 years old but have friends that have been with 15+. I need to start cold approaching, but suffer from the good old approach anxiety. Currently reading "She's Six Steps Away" and hoping that program helps | /r/seduction | 17/01/17 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Models: Attract Women Through Honesty - Mark MansonYou're sort of contradicting yourself. The reasoning that "generally people wouldn't like you" is not because people are turned off by some aspect of your personality unless you have absolutely autistic mannerisms. It's because you're giving your power away. You don't think that you're good enough for certain people. You'll never win that way. If you trust yourself and lead the conversation, people will trust you. Socializing is not some selective process. We're all of the same, we're all human … | /r/seduction | 13/01/17 11:54 PM |
| – | Models: Attract Women Through Honesty - Mark MansonThe vulnerability part can be very confusing and misleading. Mark here does NOT mean weakness, insecurity, etc... NEVER show to a woman that you're weak in any way, I've learned this from first hand experience. Show (not blatantly) that you have your own problems but you take full responsibility of them because you are a man and you don't need anyone's help. I also interpret that part of vulnerability is being your 100% true self and not trying to change aspects of your personality for different… | /r/seduction | 13/01/17 06:51 PM |
| 1 | What is the purpose of life?This may receive some criticism but my personal perspective on the purpose of life is very nihilistic/hedonist. Basically, how do you know where we are? Where is the universe? What happens when you die? Who are you? These are questions we can not answer for sure. Read the Ernest Becker book The Denial of Death. From a young age we are taught to become great human beings, our egos pressure us to be the best of the best because everyone fears the physical death of their bodies. Building these "imm… | /r/seduction | 06/01/17 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Looks do matter, and anyone who says otherwise is lying. We are socially conditioned to work out until we are gorillas, and this is the only way to get a girl's attention if you are not good looking alreadyAdmittidley I have been cheating a bit on my diet recently. But I already do this. I consider myself fit, others tell me how much considerable amount of muscle I've gained over this past summer. And I continue to lift weights 4x a week. But when it comes down to, literally, because the guy you're competing with is bigger structurally than you is fucking stupid. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/16 06:39 AM |
| 0 | Looks do matter, and anyone who says otherwise is lying. We are socially conditioned to work out until we are gorillas, and this is the only way to get a girl's attention if you are not good looking alreadyThis is what I thought too. But time and time again I've confirmed that bigger is indeed better | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/16 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Looks do matter, and anyone who says otherwise is lying. We are socially conditioned to work out until we are gorillas, and this is the only way to get a girl's attention if you are not good looking alreadyWhy would it not be at least somewhat analogous to real life game? | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/16 05:33 AM |
| 3 | Looks do matter, and anyone who says otherwise is lying. We are socially conditioned to work out until we are gorillas, and this is the only way to get a girl's attention if you are not good looking alreadyThis is only on tinder. On tinder muscles trump everything else all the time. I would argue in real life we act very similar and he is probably more insecure than I am (have had drunk talks with him) Or maybe I just have worse pictures. I'm really more sure | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/16 03:45 AM |
| 0 | Looks do matter, and anyone who says otherwise is lying. We are socially conditioned to work out until we are gorillas, and this is the only way to get a girl's attention if you are not good looking alreadyIt's not a contradiction. I said he is substantially bigger muscle wise than me. I may be taller and have better facial features, but in my experience having twice the bicep muscle size will get you much more girls than any of that | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/16 01:57 AM |
| 0 | Looks do matter, and anyone who says otherwise is lying. We are socially conditioned to work out until we are gorillas, and this is the only way to get a girl's attention if you are not good looking alreadySo generally if you just keep doing it the same old, your body will follow in time? How do you tell if you need to eat more or eat less? I already switch workout plans every few months. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/16 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Looks do matter, and anyone who says otherwise is lying. We are socially conditioned to work out until we are gorillas, and this is the only way to get a girl's attention if you are not good looking alreadyThis is exactly what I'm doing. This is somewhat of a different topic, but it feels like in the past few months I have hit somewhat of a plateau. I feel like I'm not gaining as much size as I was during my initial phase of lifting. Like I very clearly have muscle, but I'm not huge. I also eat a shit ton (it's mostly clean, I eat a lot of cold cuts and nuts) with a somewhat slow metabolism. My friend has the metabolism of a race horse and practically got abs as soon as he did a plank. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/16 01:10 AM |
| 1 | HOW TO GET LAID LIKE A WARLORD: 37 Rules of Approaching Model-Tier GirlsVery well put. Perhaps the biggest revelation I've had is to think of seduction as a challenge. Not in the overcompensating douchebag way, but the "this is me and I'm gonna do this, what are YOU gonna do about it?" kind of way. Frame is everything. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/16 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Studying only inner game does not work for me.Where does inner game come from then? Is it your experiences that shape you and you learn from? Or is it something completely different? I want to change my perspective. I want to look inside myself. Hell, I've done high doses of acid before. I do anything I can to improve myself and value myself to a higher degree. All of these "life drugs" like meditation and reading and exercise make you feel gratified and self-confident, but how do you see the world in a different light by yourself? I'm also… | /r/seduction | 31/10/16 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Studying only inner game does not work for me.So before studying game I only banged one girl. It was my long term girlfriend of 4 years. I lost her to another guy because I was a bitch and I was a needy fuck. I only know that now after evaluating my behavior with this new perspective on women. Everything after that is after studying game. I've only approached one of the 3 girls after that I fucked but we had mutual friends so it was kind of easy mode. Girls just come to me only if I'm their my direct line of friend groups. Either that or I'… | /r/seduction | 31/10/16 05:58 PM |
| – | [Serious] What do you say when a girl calls you hot?Honestly, I get this from a few girls and I just respond with "I know". I think the cockier you are about it the better | /r/seduction | 11/09/16 08:30 AM |
| – | I'm decent with eye contact. But anytime the other person is also making good eye contact, I break itI have the opposite problem. I can make good eye contact but anytime the other person breaks it I also break it. Otherwise I just feel like I'm creepily staring at them. | /r/seduction | 29/08/16 12:59 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with aggressive girl 'friends' who try to kill your vibe and throw provocative statements at you?She wants to bring you down. Laugh it off, you're way better than that. Once you show you are unstoppable you become insanely attractive | /r/seduction | 05/08/16 06:18 PM |
| – | 22 years old, senior in college, never kissed a girl, any tips on getting over regret and motivating myself to keep pushing?/u/nike747 is right. Previously was depressed and wanted to have sex. By jacking off I came to the point where I felt like I didn't care if I had sex or not and I was void of any desire to have women. Not jerking off and only cumming while with women will give you a shit ton of motivation and confidence to do so. I'm not a pioneer of /NoFap/ and won't tell you not jerking off will make you a superhero, but I will tell you that after 56 days of not jerking off I finally mustered the balls to get … | /r/seduction | 04/06/16 11:26 PM |
| 3 | How to transition from submissive to assertiveRead No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover | /r/seduction | 07/05/16 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Self help books?google the pdf | /r/seduction | 13/04/16 04:55 PM |
| 2 | 19 year old sophomore, made my first cold approach ever but feeling discouragedThis is something I've kind of overlooked, and yeah you're completely right. I'm kind of caught up over the number and I'm ending up burning myself out and trying way too hard to get a girl. But that's the thing, if it's not the fear of never finding an intimate partner ever again that doesn't act as my drive or motivation, what does? Should I only talk to a girl and approach only if I have genuine interest in their personality? Because the girl I talked to did not seem very bright, and judging … | /r/seduction | 15/02/16 06:02 AM |
| 2 | 19 year old sophomore, made my first cold approach ever but feeling discouragedI have pretty good social skills as it is. What makes you say I'm desperate? What am I supposed to do? Sit around and wait for a girl to come by? | /r/seduction | 15/02/16 03:24 AM |
| 2 | About to lose my virginity, need advicePersonally, I just watched a bunch of passion porn videos and just copy what the guy does. I'm pretty sure girls love it. Look up that James Dean sex tape, apparently he's a good fucker. I think a big part of sex is letting go and doing what you want. Like she's giving you her body for you to control, be confident and just do it. But also keep her pleasure in mind | /r/seduction | 20/01/16 07:35 PM |
| 0 | Physical escalation and how to get to kissingThe sideboard is kind of shit right now, I've read through all of it already. also I'm really lazy. | /r/seduction | 19/01/16 10:26 AM |
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