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I was devastated by my divorce I lost 40lbs. Than I found out she cheated with an employee of mine. He has 12 domestic violence charges and an arson charge he is still facing. 5 kids that refuse to talk to him and im pretty sure a confirmed case of herpes according to his ex. Im ok with it now. I started eating again and put on 8 lbs this week
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/25 05:15 AM
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I'm the top guy in our company the only person above me is the owner. He said I can't because the guy would come back a sue us. So I walked away from a 92k a year job
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 02:52 PM
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Actually, quite the opposite. im very gentle but far from passive I always believed in karma and i dont think to be kind you have to let people walk all over you. I alwaystry to lead by example and wouldn't. I believe to be kind, you have to be confident Especially with women, there is no need to boarder a line of cocky when kind will get you further
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 07:01 AM
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I also love how you would think that after 3 months of sitting alone in a house having no clue why your wife met you, there is no confidence Anger was the first feeling I felt besides sadness for 3 months. So doctor what else can I fill you in on
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 06:49 AM
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Lol. Like I said you don't know the story. I told him to tell me the truth and I would shake his hand and we would go back to as if nothing ever happened. It wasn't till he started telling me he was going to shake my head before he shook my hand. So it sounds like you're very insecure and like to pretend you're the smartest person in the room who has all the answers without all the information. But what do I know I'm too insecure to really know
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 06:45 AM
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I also went to court for him to talk to the judge and tell the judge he has been showing growth and change and becoming a great leader. I was helping him and his cousin build his house for free on the weekends after the storm took it out. A oath no but maybe mutual respect
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 06:13 AM
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The only emotion she mastered was happiness and she was always like that no matter what was going on. I just thought she was so positive
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 05:57 AM
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So this is it if agree with you except she just celebrated 7 years sober. Me and a few of my friends now that I have a clear head are realizing that she is an actual psychopath. I always said she was the happiest person I ever met and it seemed like her only emotion even her empathy seemed fake. Now he is o e too but more violent and open. One thing I noticed is he started to sound like her and she started to get mad like him. Now Google what would happen when an introvert and extrovert psychopa…
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 05:53 AM
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My lawyer said this was one of the craziest divorces he handled. He didn't even know how she got a domestic violence restraining order without violence and it was clear she did it to get the dog. And turns out I forgot to remove her from the cameras in the house so she could of just been sitting there watching me freak out all day
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 05:44 AM
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I always tried to be a good boss. So all the guys would look out for each other but there were only 3 people who knew and they all except him avoided me. I thought they just didn't want to be around me
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 05:30 AM
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I wasn't if it was just cheating. He watched me lose 40 lbs go 3 days at a time with no sleep and just lose my will to live. And he would pat me on the back and say it will be alright boss man
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 05:28 AM
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When I tell you if I told you the whole story it is the craziest thing I ever heard. I had to tell my lawyer and he said he has now idea how I got out of this alive. Turns out 2 of her exs committed suicide and my lawyer said it looked like she was doing it to me too
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 05:25 AM
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One thing I did forgot go mention . His ex girlfriend told me he beats the shit out of women. Because he was my employee I had to do a background check and it took over 300 pieces of paper to print it And he's facing 9 years for arson now
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 05:13 AM
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That was it. I never did anything wrong. I asked her and she hung her head and said I was abusive. I told her im a lot of things but abusive is not one of them. I've never yelled called her out of her name or disrespected her and everyone who knows us knows that. She just fell in love with a meth head.. but what does kill me now she lied and got a restraining order so she could take the dog after I already proved it was mine.and now I have to fight it the 23. She has no clue I have an arsenal. I…
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 05:08 AM
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See, so that's the funny thing. That is me. Before the divorce, 205 pounds built, let me tattoo from the neck down been to prison. Lived all this crazy shit life. Only difference is I grew up and got a career.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/25 10:15 AM
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I don't know if you happen to understand exactly what's going on here.This is all talk to text.There's not only am I worried about core.My freedom, the person that she's cheating on me with is a psychopath who would be sitting across the street from my house with a rifle. I've worked with the guy for 8 months now. He has been in prison longer than he has been free.Let me tell you he's not a bright person, and he doesn't understand consequences.He's already gone to a prisoner for 9 years.He doesn…
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/25 10:09 AM
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Honestly this has probably been the best conversation i had in 3 months
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/25 08:46 AM
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I do the same today too I got rid of every picture of her.There's not a single picture in my house on my phone.Nothing, but for some reason, her facebook popped up on my page, and it's still our wedding photo.As her main picture and I just thought today i'm like, I don't even know who that woman is from the other one that i've talked to a couple months ago
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/25 08:26 AM
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I wish i'm from new york city moved to new orleans and then move to lake lore, north carolina population, 1,600
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/25 08:25 AM
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It is literally the absolute loneliest thing i've ever felt.It is crazy.I could sit in my house and go about four or five hours without saying a word
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/25 08:18 AM
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Im sorry man. This shit is just confusing to me. I just dont understand how the person who treated me so sweet has turned so cold to me over night
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/25 07:29 AM
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She tried staying in the spare bedroom.I had, and I just told her it was too much for me.I said I can't live in this house with a stranger and she can't afford to live here by herself.So she had to go move out into a smaller place.But I tried that when I tell you there was no sleep.I did not sleep a wink while she was here
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/25 07:19 AM
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One thing that really sucks about this is we just moved into a very small town in the mountains. Not my decision. But I have no friends here or family anywhere close. So I left all my friends and family to follow her up here and I literally have no one.. this is actually my only outlet
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/25 07:18 AM
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So it sounds like they already did the divorce on their end and the paper work is just to make it official
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/25 07:08 AM
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This has been the hardest thing I ever went through and honestly I had a very hard life. I met her my first year sober and she was almost a year sober. The best 6 years of my life. We opened a business I won 100k on a scratch off ticket we took trips everything was great. 2 days before the divorce we were talking about how much we have grown. And than she asked for a divorce on our wedding anniversary. It caught me off guard bad
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/25 07:07 AM
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I haven't done the therapist yet, but I believe that should be my next step. I don't sleep. I average, like 4 hours a night. It just seems like this stuff. Hits guys a lot worse than it does women. I just don't get it.I've always been like a very masculine.You know, man who confident been a contractor all my life like the man's man.And currently, I feel like a little, tiny bitch, no confidence to look anybody in the eyes walk through lows of my head down shit sucks
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/25 06:46 AM
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I am really hoping that I can get back to that part because I have a complete gym inside my house.Everything I could ever need.And I just look at it and keep walking away.I cannot eat.I'm trying so hard, but there is no appetite
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/25 06:28 AM
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That is exactly what happened to me.She pretended for a year and a half that everything was good and she completely mentally and emotionally checked out of this relationship.And pretended the whole time that it was good.She actually told me she felt like it was very performative
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/25 05:38 AM
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I have been for 2 months it was working till the divorce sank in and I just got the news about 10 minutes ago my best friend just died and im pretty certain it was suicide. So it just got a little heavier
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/25 07:32 PM
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My stbxw told me she wanted a divorce on our wedding anniversary 2.5 months ago it was our 3rd anniversary but we just celebrated 6 years together . Im 42 an still have a big sex drive. My wife knew us not being together was my worst nightmare. I have literally fought to not end myself. I gave up 7 years of sobriety. Im a very fit heavily tattooed guy and woman have always been attracted to me. I have girls asking me to come over for sex and wanting to just get me alone. Im so messed up in the h…
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 02:05 AM
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This was great advice
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/25 06:49 AM
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Now that we have been separated for over two months, I did finally look over our relationship that we had.And I literally took care of everything, and babied her through everything.And even in our business, I paid her fifty percent even though she had zero experience and was more of a burden on the job than I helped.I believe I made things too easy for her
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/25 04:59 AM
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Thank you ill check them out. And if you ever been on the second floor of barely Legal on bourbon Street. I built that bar and stage.
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/25 02:55 AM
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I did a talk to text cause I knew it was too much to try and text out and I will lose all my train of thought
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/25 02:34 AM
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I just wish I had some sort of answer. At least if it was another person that I knew that I was not the problem.Just wanting freedom to be able to go to yoga and aa meetings without having to check in.Just seems crazy to me. I was in mid city.What part are you from
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/25 02:33 AM
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