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LifestyleAdditional_Effect840/r/seduction05/04/21 12:57 AM
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I let it known that I’m talking to her because I’m attracted. Avoid asking for directions and then saying “didn’t really need directions just thought you were cute” Just start with saying I think you’re cute. Comes off as more masculine. Hours before sleeping with the girl I break the touch barrier, make out before hand at the venue and just lead the way back to my house and make the move
/r/seduction04/11/21 01:27 AM
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This make a lot of sense. I also read somewhere that everything a man does is subconsciously done for wanting sex as the end game. It’s our nature
/r/seduction04/11/21 01:24 AM
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You can learn some tactics online but I learned via trial and error in real time. So practice with girls you meet/ go on dates with
/r/seduction04/11/21 12:25 AM
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I’m not saying I sleep with 95% of the girls I go on dates with. I’m saying that 95% of the girls I’ve slept I’ve met on the same day. Two different things
/r/seduction04/11/21 12:24 AM
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Always my place first but if she offers hers then that’s fine with me
/r/seduction03/11/21 10:25 PM
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Never been in this type of situation. Was this a girl you met online? She might have envisioned you in a particular way before meeting you and the way you acted was different then her expectations which is why you guys didn't hook up the first time. I'd tell her dinner at my place and then escalate from there.
/r/seduction03/11/21 09:28 PM
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6'0 per my physical but I had shoes on. Realistically I'm in the 5'11 range. You're most likely insecure due to what you've read online, is what i'm willing to bet on. Have other girls ever told you "sorry you're too short for me" in person? I doubt it and if so then that girl isn't for you. If only tall guys were getting laid then the population average in the US would be higher. Average male is 5'9 I think. I like girl with big tits/ass. Does that mean every girl I've slept with has had big ti…
/r/seduction03/11/21 09:26 PM
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Nice. Can definitely happen but personally those environments are not my strong suit
/r/seduction03/11/21 07:22 PM
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Thanks man
/r/seduction03/11/21 05:46 PM
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Thanks for the feedback. My goal was to share some insight on what’s worked for me and if someone learns a thing or two it’s a bonus
/r/seduction03/11/21 05:21 PM
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A feat I have yet to accomplish. Mine is 2 girls in the same night. (Separate - not a threesome)
/r/seduction03/11/21 05:12 PM
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I've learned that only guys that are successful with women while at the same time being successful in other areas of life can understand our mind set and lifestyle. We're birds of a feather from what I can see
/r/seduction03/11/21 04:33 PM
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I get what you mean, good comparisons. It's all about finding the perfect healthy balance.
/r/seduction03/11/21 04:31 PM
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Good comment. Yes balls and initiative are key. If you don't make the first move the girl will assume you're not attracted to her or worse, think you're a pussy for not making the move. Girls will make it easy for you though, they'll stand close, talk really close to you. Sometimes they even make the first move but I wouldn't depend on this. As a man you should be the one leading things on
/r/seduction03/11/21 04:27 PM
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Got a few lays off social circle in college but the bulk of it came from online and bars
/r/seduction03/11/21 03:58 PM
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Thanks for your insight. Though I must say a count in the thousand range is beyond impressive, basically rock star or celebrity type count.
/r/seduction03/11/21 03:51 PM
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You nailed it. It just comes down to being normal and socially calibrated. I think a major advantage, is not only having friends at a young age but also being exposed to other girls to learn fundamental social cues. It's really a numbers game too, I can have the best "game" in the world but I would still not be able to sleep with a lot of women if I lived in rural America simply because I wouldn't have access to a lot of women. I also agree to only focus on the girls that are attracted to you. S…
/r/seduction03/11/21 03:20 PM
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In the beginning, I just had a few chicks I would see/bang consistently and then get a new batch the next year but I got bored of that. Over the last 3 years is where I've seen the most success. High teens to low 20s range. But this year has been my best, coming in at almost 30 which I'll likely hit before the year ends.
/r/seduction03/11/21 02:18 PM
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Hey man, glad there's another like minded person out there and can relate! Yeah, I mainly just wrote this as I was thinking it without proofreading anything. I'd say you're right. What I meant by "game" is really PUA tactics/one liners. If you lost your virginity at 18 and hit 100 at 25 that means you've been more efficient, so good stuff. 95% is more accurate than not accurate in my case. Some were one night stands in bars (which mainly, I go for the girls that look slutty tbh. They know why th…
/r/seduction03/11/21 02:14 PM
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To each their own then
/r/seduction03/11/21 12:58 PM
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Good point. If I'm being honest, in the beginning I would say that the girls expected the latter. But shockingly enough, now that I give off casual sex vibes I've gotten more results. Women get hornier than men sometimes and want to have casual sex too, it's up to you to bring it out in her.
/r/seduction03/11/21 12:39 PM
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Exactly
/r/seduction03/11/21 12:36 PM
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Agreed. College was the best time of my life. You can always make more money/repay debt but you can never get back time.
/r/seduction03/11/21 12:32 PM
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I am financially stable, yes. But in college I wasn't. In college we are all essentially on the same playing field, in a way. The biggest difference between now and college is that I would be able to tell girls to come straight over to my dorm, student housing, etc. and that was normal. Now? Not so much. Most older girls (out of college age) expect a date first.
/r/seduction03/11/21 12:31 PM
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BF material would be making a reservation at a nice restaurant, picking her up and dropping her off with maybe a make out before leaving. The sweet spot is being able to hold your ground, stand by your opinions wether or not it might piss her off a bit, make her meet you for the date (don't pick her up) and also just be cool about it and give off a vibe that you're indifferent to wether or not you end up sleeping with her that day. But make it known you're sexually interested in her and make the…
/r/seduction03/11/21 12:28 PM
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As the person who responded to this earlier said, ask open ended questions. Comment on things that would make her give a response.
/r/seduction03/11/21 12:25 PM
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I agree it's an art. Look at one of the first comments I responded to.
/r/seduction03/11/21 12:23 PM
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This isn't a way to solve problems. It's just something I enjoy but can seem taboo or "douchey" simply because sex is involved. I have other hobbies and a good amount of friends, I travel, exercise, you name it. But nothing makes me feel as good as spending time with a woman I find attractive, pursuing her, going on the date and ultimately sleeping with her.
/r/seduction03/11/21 12:23 PM
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Not flexing, just sharing some things I've learned. The average girl I get is a 7. This is something that is always associated with guys sleeping with a lot of girls. It has nothing to do with it in my case. I simply have a high libido and enjoy being around women. It seems guys can't have this without having "issues". Doesn't make sense to me.
/r/seduction03/11/21 12:19 PM
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I have heard Dan Bilzerian say this, but I believe this was recent as he's 40 now. In his 20s/ early 30s I bet he felt great. But people change and so do our interest. I don't want to prematurely burn though a phase in life until I truly feel I get no joy out of it.
/r/seduction03/11/21 12:16 PM
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This is true I have to say, if we exclude all people in relationships.
/r/seduction03/11/21 12:13 PM
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Lost my virginity at 15 so it's taken me roughly 10 years to sleep with 100 girls. That's about 10 girls a year if we do the math on it. It's doable, and isn't that difficult if you put in the work. A lot of my free time is dedicated to this. But hey man, if you're mentally ill I would focus on fixing that first. Being financially stable helps to a certain degree but I have never used money to sleep with a woman. And there are plenty of rich guys that can't get laid without using money to their …
/r/seduction03/11/21 12:12 PM
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Not “super” but I would say good looking. I do have a nice place and good paying job (but I didn’t in college and was still able to get laid) Median girl is a 7 I’m Italian but have olive skin. Some people would say I’m white and others might not How many 10s? I would say zero, I put girls like Margot Robbie in that caliber. But I have had some 9s (under 10) How many 4s? Not many. A handful at most.
/r/seduction03/11/21 12:06 PM
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Exactly, well said. “How did you do that” just simply walked up to her and sparked up a conversation. This is how people met 50+ years ago. Learning social skills at a young age is key which unfortunately not everyone does but this is an area to address first before trying to learn any seduction skills.
/r/seduction03/11/21 11:59 AM
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NYC
/r/seduction03/11/21 11:57 AM
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I'd be willing to try and get an LTR if the right girl comes along but I fear I'll sabotage it by wanting to be with other girls. I'm just not ready for it right now. You calling up a different chick after sleeping with your casual gf.. I've done something similar only I left the girls place and had a different girl come over to mine as I was heading back home. I would say don't do much reflection, if you felt at heart it's just a casual relationship. In most casual relationships both parties ar…
/r/seduction03/11/21 03:16 AM
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No, I meant this past weekend I slept with my 100th different girl. As of recent, I've been able to sleep with 1 new girl a week.
/r/seduction03/11/21 03:00 AM
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Fair point. What I meant by "game" is to avoid cheesy pickup lines, faking high value, etc. "Game" is important no doubt, but I would suggest learning social skills over anything else. If a guy opens a girl with a canned pick up line they sound robotic and a girl can sense that from miles away. Me talking to a girl and getting her number is not really "game", it's just basic social skills and me letting her know I'm interested in her. The teasing/flirting part I guess can be considered game but …
/r/seduction03/11/21 02:56 AM
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As do I, couldn't agree more on your last sentence. Which is why I've only had 2 serious girlfriends. Both of which were 9s in my eyes. What are your thoughts on this lifestyle ruining any potential future LTR? I think my psyche is already messed up considering I lose interest in girls I sleep with. I'd have to seriously be in love to ever have another LTR.
/r/seduction03/11/21 02:44 AM
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Population in my city is over 8 million
/r/seduction03/11/21 02:36 AM
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And as I’m sure you’re aware neediness is the number one way to ruin attraction. I don’t have girlfriends though, I just pump and dump if I’m being honest
/r/seduction03/11/21 02:13 AM
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STDs are always on my mind, I get tested a lot and condoms help
/r/seduction03/11/21 01:52 AM
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haha yea, seduction isn't a science. It's more of an art. It's hard to write it out or can take up a lot of time. Had a blueprint in mind as opposed to the seduction process for this post
/r/seduction03/11/21 12:51 AM
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As in the subreddit or actual seduction?
/r/seduction03/11/21 12:47 AM
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Made a group chat. Adding those that are interested.
/r/seduction05/04/21 04:09 PM
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Lmk if interested and I’ll PM you
/r/seduction05/04/21 02:08 AM
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