AdhesivenessOk9106 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
31	It's possible that we've missed signs of interest and unintentionally friendzoned a girl in the past.	AdhesivenessOk9106	/r/ExRedPill	16/10/21 10:08 PM
25	Misconceptions about having "confidence".	AdhesivenessOk9106	/r/ExRedPill	19/10/21 01:16 PM
19	Creating attraction sometimes starts with as curiosity	AdhesivenessOk9106	/r/ExRedPill	27/10/21 02:45 AM
1	What really makes good personally?	AdhesivenessOk9106	/r/ExRedPill	15/10/21 06:07 PM

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2	Misconceptions about having "confidence". Needing a feedback loop to be triggered outside of yourself before you are; is like sitting in car in the middle of nowhere with a flat battery in the middle of nowhere and hoping some help in the form of another car appears and hooks up jumper cable and starts your car. The cause comes from you and not a reaction from a feedback of someone or something else. I wouldn't define their loose meaning of confidence as what is actually is, the fact of the matter is, some of them do probably have an un…	/r/ExRedPill	19/10/21 04:33 PM
1	Misconceptions about having "confidence". I think once people question the red pill philosophy and think for yourself, you start looking into other ways of thinking and new truths. That's what I did and slowly I started to find answers for questions I've had for years, because a strategies used is by grifter is to be be vague if you don't know, but never say "I don't know". The way you described it and whats echoed in this thread is exactly how it always worked and few understand this, it's taught backwards, it always starts within the …	/r/ExRedPill	19/10/21 03:26 PM
1	Misconceptions about having "confidence". Then we're on the same page. If those things aren't what brings out a creative urge within you then find something that does. Only when you engage in what you feel is something where you can do your best work mentally and physically that's when true confidence is developed and everything else will fall into place. Confidence is attractive and people will see when you cultivate it. The things outside you are just barriers so don't focus on them. Not even money should be the source of it, because …	/r/ExRedPill	19/10/21 02:42 PM
3	Misconceptions about having "confidence". My quesion to yiu specifically is, what is permanent? You need reasons to be confidence as expressed above, but you're still, seeking something to be confident of outside of yourself is temporary, the positive reinforcement handicaps any growth in that areas and I would argue is even more troubling than believing that it's an emotion that comes without cause and your only the effect that reacts to what you don't have any real control over. What happens if you get into a car accident and lose the…	/r/ExRedPill	19/10/21 02:11 PM
1	It's possible that we've missed signs of interest and unintentionally friendzoned a girl in the past. It's all about the duality, the assertive vs the passive. 9/10 a woman who's comfortable in her femininity isn't comfortable in that position unless she has to be. Women can be pragmatic when they go to work and deal with people and make decisions. But would let the guy they've taken a liking to make the move, decide on place to go eat ect. other than we have to be ok with a 'no' and be fine with either outcome, that might just mean she wants to process these new emotions she's experiences, and …	/r/ExRedPill	18/10/21 02:25 AM
1	It's possible that we've missed signs of interest and unintentionally friendzoned a girl in the past. I can see how that would make things difficult. Have you bought into "game" and it's concepts and have they ever garnered any results? Nobody will ever say Autism is an advantage, but it's also not a disadvantage either. If a woman knows about it beforehand and she sees something in you after months of getting to know what sort of guy you are, then she would help, if the spark is there, where as idiots like me and other guys have no excuse to not pick up on it. Hows your experience been online w…	/r/ExRedPill	18/10/21 02:05 AM
2	It's possible that we've missed signs of interest and unintentionally friendzoned a girl in the past. Yeah you have be genuine, authentic and open new different outcomes into trying brute force my way into things rather than allowing there to be flow. Every moment is ought to be appreciate while living in the moment. General anxiety is doesn't help, I've dealt with it on and off, the fear of the future and certain social situations will influence how you behave. Another thing which I may do post on is the idea of confidence, what it means and why it would actually matter in an online context. Ho…	/r/ExRedPill	18/10/21 01:46 AM
1	It's possible that we've missed signs of interest and unintentionally friendzoned a girl in the past. I can roughly count on my hand the amount of times that I can now view much differently hindsight today because it's always 20/20 as they say. The fact that women don't approach is a factor that I forgot to consider as well. What makes it a bit unfortunate for millennials and older millennials is last environment where it was effortless to meet available women was at college campuses, there was no sleaziness about the encounter or no creep radars up. While I realize there are lots that needs to …	/r/ExRedPill	16/10/21 11:10 PM
1	What really makes good personally? Why would it be weird to look for indicators of good maternal instincts. Children will be with their mothers more than their fathers, so women are the primary teachers and there's no better way to teach than by example. Am I wrong to assume that women place a lower importance on the equivalent for men? Another thing to add to the deal breaker part, Its quite frustrating when the person you've been talking to for long time just stops talking to you over some "deal breaker" I did and they won't te…	/r/ExRedPill	16/10/21 09:38 PM
1	What really makes good personally? We all wear masks when we need to so perhaps it's better to form new habits in place of habits that are seen as negative today. Such as some aspect of hyper masculine traits that are picked up from red pill spaces i.e online, locker room or the barber shop.	/r/ExRedPill	16/10/21 09:13 PM
1	What really makes good personally? I don't think evil people are drawn together for the most part unless it's some sort of underground cult. And Charisma would probably be focal point of attraction here and whether the person choses to stay after learning of their partners defects is up to them and shows their character at the same time. But I think you might be referring to when serial killers gain notoriety and intentionally amassing a fan base, and if you are then as messed up as that isolated incident is... that would also be…	/r/ExRedPill	15/10/21 10:17 PM
1	What really makes good personally? What did the commenter you were replying to say? It was removed by the time I saw this.	/r/ExRedPill	15/10/21 10:01 PM
1	What really makes good personally? What personality do you find attractive? Most guys have a clear idea of what they believe they found a quality woman. When there's no clearity of what is good, it reminds vague. Who defines what good? Something that may be objectively good for me such as placing importance on self preservation could be viewed as heartless and uncharitable to someone else. And let's say you are a generous person, something most people would agree is a good trait to have... then other people would have to know you…	/r/ExRedPill	15/10/21 09:59 PM