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| 70 | The insults | CMV | Aditya-Kalita | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 07:13 PM |
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| -1 | What do you think are the factors leading to so many men’s lack of romantic success *besides* hypergamy?at least to a woman of comparable attractiveness. Women of comparable attractiveness want studs 😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 04:00 AM |
| 5 | Don't mistake a man's lack of options for better moralsPeople’s core values aren’t based on how they look. Well on principle I agree with everything else you said. However I would like to add one caveat to this last sentence. Yes, looks don't define a person, however a certain pattern is often seen amongst people of both genders in unique ways. I don't know if it's everyone but when a guy is uglier or say dorky looking in his childhood and in teens and then grows up to become a handsome young man, (I almost fall into this category) they have somethi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 04:33 PM |
| -1 | Don't mistake a man's lack of options for better moralsSo you're one of those. You are the kind of person who will cheat on your partner because you found a better match on an app. And then blame the guy for being not good enough and not cheating on you because he didn't have more options than you. If he was getting 100 dms a day he would have cheated on you right? That's your logic. Fair enough. I know you. I know the people like you. I have known you for a long time. I find you disgusting. Please seek therapy. And if you think you don't need it th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 04:22 PM |
| 1 | If all men want is sex, and women aren't special, why does it matter what a woman's body count is?I don't understand the central contradiction that seems to be at the center of TRP. All women are good for is sex, as that is all men want from a woman. Therefore, no women are special, because all they offer is sex and every woman can offer sex Men want women with a low body count, because that means sex with her is more special and thus she is of higher value. [Male 28, Tone of this essay- Calm] Tbh I failed to understand your whole post or the point of it. However here are my 2 cents regardin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 04:52 AM |
| 4 | Your SO is not willing to do something sexual with you that they've done in the pastM28 here Depends on the thing. For eg if its like BDSM or something related to threesomes etc I need to understand the whole scenario what's going on to comment on that. However on pure principle perspective it's weird. Lets take (for example) a woman wants to have anal sex with you and you refuse to have anal with her. But she knows or has seen videos of you having anal with other in the past and enjoying it. Will she accept that? I don't know. Most certainly not, but I am also not a woman so i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 04:29 PM |
| 3 | Is it true that women's standards are higher for casual sex than for a relationship?ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS MATE | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 06:57 AM |
| 4 | Why do so many guys lose their edge in a relationship or platonic friendships with the opposite sex, but when being with their bros their drive and ambition is still kicking in, where as with most women this doesn't really seem to have a strong deteriorating effect?Because we are taught to impress. Whereas when we are with our bros we express. There is a difference between the two. When you express you're more real. You don't fear judgement, you don't fear consequences. If anything that reddit has taught you, one of the things is that women look for the smallest things about a guy to scrutinize. And the women around them, their friends or women in general absolutely bash the guy for the smallest of errors. Guys know this happens and that's why they are not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a single mother with a dead kid?Nope. I don't mind being a supportive friend though. Just doing friend things like going to movies or shopping or having a normal day out. Probably will do a good job finding your next potential partner as well. However I have to disappear as soon as they are in the scene. Just out of respect for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 04:51 PM |
| -5 | Men should be able to get someone at or near their level of attractiveness, and being told “it’s not a points/bartering system,” “you are what you can get” or that “no one is obligated to date you” are simply deflections and gaslighting nonsense.My advice To men: Your attractiveness is determined by the cover you are able to put out. That is external beauty. Save your personality for worthy women. And only focus on banging as many worthless chicks as you can. Be upfront about wanting sex only. Most women below 30 are looking for a dick with no strings attached. Just make sure you are clear about it. When you're flooded with worthless chicks women find you attractive. I don't know why. It works like magic. I am not at all the 9 or 10 but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 04:44 PM |
| – | Men should be able to get someone at or near their level of attractiveness, and being told “it’s not a points/bartering system,” “you are what you can get” or that “no one is obligated to date you” are simply deflections and gaslighting nonsense.is it just that you find men more attractive? Typical retard insult calling someone gay, just because they said in some couples men are more attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Men should be able to get someone at or near their level of attractiveness, and being told “it’s not a points/bartering system,” “you are what you can get” or that “no one is obligated to date you” are simply deflections and gaslighting nonsense.Fair enough. This is common practice with most average people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Is it ALSO a red flag if a man has had casual sex but never a relationship?but they always expect me to put so much more effort into dating them than what they are willing to provide. Fair enough. That's a proper explanation for your situation. A lot of people just shrug it off and say I don't want it at all. But you're upfront about it and you are interested in relationships. Just not interested in unequal effort. Probably this is the situation with many guys who I would say fall into the attractive enough to attract, but not so much that they are willing to do the ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 03:50 PM |
| 1 | The One and Only Problem In Front of Men is the Lack of LeverageSo you saying those 60 million men are all model type rich guys? You didn't count the guys wagging tails for women with children because of their inability to attract a woman that doesn't have a child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:04 PM |
| 2 | The One and Only Problem In Front of Men is the Lack of Leveragewomen are less influenced by money and the need to have children. They're more interested in men who are reliable, have an attractive personality, and have ambition in life. Agreed on this. However a lot of women are looking to work 5-6 days a week and party and crash at a studs bed till they are 30. Enjoying the free dinner, booze and when they are done. But when its time to marry they want settled + well mannered + not a psycho. Ahem ahem. Unfortunately they get the psychos because the sane he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:03 PM |
| 2 | Is it ALSO a red flag if a man has had casual sex but never a relationship?So I'm wondering, what about a guy that has had sex but never been in a relationship because he never wanted one? Would women find that a turn off? Not a woman so can't comment on turn offs. But I would like to know why you never wanted a relationship. If its anything like "its my wish", "my life my rules" and you have no good explanation I wouldn't bother to know and neither bother to ask anymore. It just makes it easier for me to not trust you. Makes you less human (From a guys POV who is a ro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 11:49 AM |
| 2 | Is it ALSO a red flag if a man has had casual sex but never a relationship?Either you rate 4-5 as 6-7 or you purposedly or unintentionally ignore people that aren't attractive to you. Idk what is worse tbf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 11:35 AM |
| 0 | Is it ALSO a red flag if a man has had casual sex but never a relationship?Thats not the problem at all. You chose to ignore people who don't fall into this category. That makes you a discriminator. Congrats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 11:34 AM |
| 1 | I don’t understand why the debate for dating and dating preferences are neededWhy do men care that some women wants a rich tall guy that she can control most of them can't control, and they dump their traumas on us thats why. Why do women care if some men wants a submissive virgin that’s also good in bed not a problem unless its manipulative. Which in some cases is. you can’t find someone like that, then ether lower your expectations or stay single Thats a bad precedence to set I would say. Lower your materialistic expectations is correct. If I am into superficial perfect… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Do you think that the "Mating Crisis" will actually lead to anything significant?Female selectivity is something which has been part of our species literally since our dawn Agreed. it's natural and society won't fall apart Agreed. It won't directly because men cannot affect society as a whole even if they tried. The control of society is mostly with women and they are the ones that can determine the shape of society in years to come. However as a domino effect of a larger civilization issue in the macro sense is what's worrying. Increasing number of crimes are part of this. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 07:52 AM |
| 6 | Do you think that the "Mating Crisis" will actually lead to anything significant?Some men will suffer What do these men do after that? Surprise surprise. miserable but life will go on without them. Most of them consist of workforce around you. Unhappy people around you working is never good news. Especially you see whats going on around you, open your eyes, open the news. Its a huge number of unhappy people regardless of gender. If you dont see the ill effects of that I am sorry you need to be checked. Unhappy women kill the growth of societies Unhappy men kill the growth of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 07:38 AM |
| 2 | Would you rather date a 21 year old and pay for everything or date a women over 30 who splits things 50/50?That is ofcourse a genuine reason but a lot of people use it as an excuse. I would like to know what the person is doing about it. I mean are they "looking for work"? Or are they sitting and hoping it'll come to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 10:01 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather date a 21 year old and pay for everything or date a women over 30 who splits things 50/50?It's a good question ngl. Interested to see the answers. Personally my first thought is someone around 25, who doesn't mind splitting. I don't mind paying full if it's me who's picking the place etc. (I ain't paying full if you take me to a very expensive place, we can split). I personally don't like dating over 30 because I am myself not 30 yet. But also dont wanna be a daddy for a jobless 21 year old. It doesn't matter if she does dishes at a restaurant. And an empty mind is a devil's workshop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Most men simply want women at or even slightly below their level of attractiveness, or just one who isn’t overweight. Most women feel entitled to men way more attractive than them and meet a whole laundry list of criteria. The whole “neckbeard wants supermodel” narrative is fictional projection.Most supermodels aren't attractive. Period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 03:32 AM |
| 2 | The insultsThis should be top comment. Precise, concise, valueable. Basically they are Andrew Tate with some hair on their heads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 03:24 AM |
| 0 | Listening to older women is actually beneficial to younger women when it comes to datingIt's like saying a 60 year old man that has been fired from every job he did giving advice to young candidates about jobs has the same value as 60 year old man that has had a successful career in one or more than one field, never fired and loved and adored by his peers. No they don't. Its not the same. One learnt his way stumbling through a series of mistakes. One learnt the art of avoiding serious mistakes. Prevention is better than cure. Its a generalization I know but thats how it is. For the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 07:40 PM |
| 6 | Discussion : AmI the only one who notices women hide their partner on social media more than men?If I ain't in your gram, you ain't getting a ring. 😅 It'll be a terrible paradox | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 01:12 PM |
| 3 | Discussion : AmI the only one who notices women hide their partner on social media more than men?Nah. Its everyone. It's not gender specific. They'll find an excuse for it. Even if their Facebook or Instagram profile is private. That means only one thing, they aren't sure about you. But a lot of people say they are sure about you and then they don't post you, it's clear what is happening in that scenario. You're just a person who is useful to them for the moment. They'll get rid of you and blame you for that as well. Its a real thing. I would understand someone doing that if that person is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 01:10 PM |
| 0 | Most of the arguments against Age Gap Relationships are TerribleSo what’s the appeal? Life with someone who is not traumatized, Sex with someone who is not traumatized, no headache and nagging, romantic getaway to exotic places, lesser risk of std. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 08:18 PM |
| 0 | Most of the arguments against Age Gap Relationships are TerribleAnd the idea of moulding someone to be the perfect partner says to me that they don’t want a fully-formed person with independent thoughts and ideas and a personality that grew organically I would prefer a person that grew organically but older people have so much trauma that it is very unsatisfactory to even think about dating them. Surely 20% of older women must have no such trauma but I am not interested in such a small pool. Rather date 60% of younger women with minimal trauma. Point being -… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 08:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….Having a child derails your life Well idk where you live but having a child when you aren't ready affects guys more than girls in my country. encouraged by my mother to get an education and be financially secure Good mother. Both things are really important. consumed my life leaving no room for a relationship or even enough time to notice those around me to find them attractive in the first place. I know you are truthful but sounds untrue. Atleast for most people i know this is not the case. My … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 07:52 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….I was taught to focus on my goals, not boys and that’s what I did. Good for you. If you meet older single ladies pls do ask them about their single life because of chasing goals though. I am sure they have a cope story made up that sounds inspiring and supposed to give you courage to be alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 06:35 PM |
| 6 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….Well you're just one of a few unfortunately. However decades of brainwashing that a man must be Handsome and Tall, otherwise, he must be funny, charming, do his male duties without a question, not expect any female duties in return because they aren't obligated, to attain attention from women is a leading cause of this behaviour. I know you were busy with your goals but you only noticed guys that were fulfilling either one of the criteria. Now I cannot say that you aren't free to have that as yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 06:32 PM |
| 5 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….Men can very well stay and remain in relationships with women they don’t even like bc it will still provide some benefit even if it just means getting off regularly. See this is where I call out people with a lack of empathy. We have a lot to lose in relationships too, but sadly you seem to totally be oblivious to that. You only want to look at things from your perspective. Respectfully, please reassess what you said. Right now saying such things you come off as very ignorant, or clueless to the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 06:21 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….wrong partner Are we speaking about wrong partner in terms of the superficial sense ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 06:16 PM |
| 2 | The insultsShe used to share things like that on social media. I probably got duped looking at those that she might be level headed and sane. Which I am not saying she's not. Also I don't think she's a bad person or there isn't scope for improvement. I just cannot deal with people with certain type of mindset. I prefer people who aren't pretentious and not intentional hypocrites. Key word : intentional. We all are hypocrites in some way or another. We all put standards that are hypocritical in nature somet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 12:40 PM |
| 1 | This is very anecdotal, but as a man, i miss the attention, do others also?Would they date a person who looks like Dan Conner? Not unless they can deliver comic relief lines like him who practised each line 30 times before the shoot and did probably more than one take for each shot. Has a great writer writing lines for him to deliver, portray him as the stereotype guy with an incredible sense of comic timing. Because that's what is required right? You must have great comic timing otherwise you're a useless piece of shit. Hours of practice every day to get that 10 lines… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 08:03 AM |
| 2 | The insultsAh yes. Truly a work of art. They think we can't see them 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 07:54 AM |
| 1 | The insultsAh. So be a man. Grow up. Men don't cry. You sound like Andrew Tate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 07:50 AM |
| 1 | The insultsSo insults are justified right? Name calling etc are a common part of societal discussions, I get it. But you cannot on one hand claim that mental health is important for everyone, and then do everything to fuck someone up seconds later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 07:49 AM |
| 1 | The insultsAlso true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 07:46 AM |
| 1 | The insultsUgly people/incels have to be positive/meek 24/7 or else they deserve ridicule. This ✨ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 07:46 AM |
| 5 | The insultsThe words that come out of a person's mouth often speak about the speaker and not the listener. It speaks about their upbringing, values, mood, perspectives of the speaker etc in such a way that it gives a rare opportunity to catch a glimpse into their world, into their brain. And in this cocoon of madness you can see a pattern and remember it. And next time when you encounter someone with the same pattern you recognise them instantly. And its better every time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 07:44 AM |
| 5 | The insultsusername checks out 😀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 07:39 AM |
| 4 | The insultsAh the typical, X is not dangerous because Y is dangerous more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 07:36 AM |
| 9 | The insultsVirgin/small dick shaming isn’t cool, but Everything before the word 'but' is a lie is no assurance that anything after it is the truth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 07:31 AM |
| 1 | The insultsFat and ugly would be an appreciation for you. What you actually are is a termite of society. Because it shows that you subscribe to this toxicity that nothing should affect you and you're supposed to be emotionless. People like you are perpetrators of societal disbalance. When people like you have kids these kids grow up toxic because they learn from a young age that nothing should affect them and they see that everyone else around them has human emotions they try to attack them for it. They di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 07:24 AM |
| 3 | The insultsSex is more important to women than men and that is facts based on science. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 07:23 AM |
| 5 | The insultsScenario: A person (guy or girl) says to a girl "Its always the flat chested girls pretending to not care and has an idgaf attitude" infront of you. Do you the say same thing: Insults are never polite. They are meant to hurt you, not to validate you. You cam shrug them off, laugh at them because they inaccurate, or fully embrace them and agree (which is what I do when someone calls me a bitch). But you should not let them feed your insecurities to that girl if she felt uncomfortable/disgusted/hu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 07:15 AM |
| 1 | The insultsI already mentioned in my post they justify it. And there you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Where do you think this new push to call men pedos for being attracted to 18-24 year olds is coming from?In your clown big island country maybe. There are other mega countries where 20-30 is the demographic for highest votes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 07:05 AM |
| 3 | The insultsWhy? Because men aren't supposed to have emotions right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 07:04 AM |
| 3 | The insultsI don't think becoming masculine is a problem in general. If someone wants to be masculine or feminine is totally up to them. But then they will judge you for the same which is hypocritical and that's where the problem lies. Greta Thunberg is a political tool used by powerful people as a mascot of their propaganda. I think people take her way too seriously than she deserves. She is just a pawn in this game and will be sacrificed in the right moment. Andrew Tate is a clown trying to cash in on a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 06:56 AM |
| 6 | The insultsA lot of them are the same. And quite a few of them are just nicer in the beginning and when you know them they are just the same type. It just creeps up on conversations more and more. They try to show a good side to strangers because they want people to view them as being fair and just, and don't show the same level of effort with people they know because the truth is already well known to their near and dear ones. This facade is for strangers in an attempt to cleanse their personality and gai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 05:01 AM |
| 2 | The insultsPersonal anecdotes I would say. Met a girl. Went on a couple of dates. The third date spot was picked by me and it was also the most revered spot in town. It wasn't too busy, it was a rooftop cafe on a monday so. Date was going well until she made a strange face towards a waiter who came to ask something. Fair to say he had a pretty face but his skin tone was dark af. And in my country dark skinned people (men and women) aren't liked by many people. And I wanted to avoid such people who follow t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 03:48 AM |
| 2 | The insultsdisagree. Most people won't have the balls to say that to anyone's face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Where do you think this new push to call men pedos for being attracted to 18-24 year olds is coming from?Yup. Bad choices in 18-24 are affecting the gas prices. Let them bitches not have voting rights till 25 isn't it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Where do you think this new push to call men pedos for being attracted to 18-24 year olds is coming from?Yup. Have to change voting rights to 25. Since these low iq 18-24 year olds are responsible for choosing retards in elections | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 07:23 PM |
| 0 | Where do you think this new push to call men pedos for being attracted to 18-24 year olds is coming from?had a "feminist" argue Tbh its your fault for arguing stuff with a low iq individual. Anyone who identifies themselves or associates themselves to this societal terrorist organisation needs to be outcasted from conversations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 07:20 PM |
| 2 | This is very anecdotal, but as a man, i miss the attention, do others also?Nobody even looks at the fat man. You don't even know any fat man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 07:18 PM |
| 1 | This is very anecdotal, but as a man, i miss the attention, do others also?men were always expendable Or men have always been made expendable by systematic oppression? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 07:17 PM |
| -3 | This is very anecdotal, but as a man, i miss the attention, do others also?disgusting Disgusting is based on looks and its facts. First check your brains and go to therapy to fix this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Why are people so obsessed with age gaps when it's such a niche issue?It sells Yup. 💯% accurate. Its easier to sell bullshit to the low iq people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 11:36 AM |
| – | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.Thats because society has brainwashed men to say that they are happy in their relationships when they are not. And if they do come out as unhappy they are called names, called a predator, called selfish, called a cheater But cheer and support the women when they come out as unhappy. There are literal support groups for unhappy women. Its the reward they get which is not the problem but the women judge a man for saying that they are unhappy in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 08:48 PM |
| – | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.Bringing up pre internet stats to satisfy your ego? Shameful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 08:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.Diverting topic when unable to counter. Typical low iq stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 08:44 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.Similarly women looking for men that they want financially capable- 50% Not a wife beater, psycho- 45% Caring, Loving- 30% A least decent looking and in not bad shape- 15% Taller than her by 5 inches- 5% Single and willing to commit- 3% So you're looking at less than 1% of the total population. So whats your point? lower your standards? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 08:43 PM |
| – | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.Scoring a new pussy isn't the problem. Scoring the pussy worth spending time with is the main issue. You show some cash and have broke bitches lying flat on your feet. But they will be there only until you keep spending for their expenses in college or uni. The main issue is in that kind of a structure no real chance of a connection. Its just gets boring after a point. Been there done that. There is nothing better than having a woman that likes you as much if not more than you like them, in your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 08:33 PM |
| – | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.Most men could find someone if they were willing to lower their standards enough. What the fuck??? Why would I fucking lower my standard you twat? The standard will remain the same. Say the same thing to women who cannot find love. And you'll be schooled like never before. Never lower your standards for some average low iq girl My standards are set: High IQ Ambitious and Focused Ability to handle Business Ability to handle people Understands relationship Doesn't subscribe to this red pill blue p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 08:27 PM |
| -4 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.some men are looking for a monogamous relationship; What are you waffling about you idiot. Its not some men. 90% of all men want monogamy. Probably even more than that. Get out of your porn world you fucking femcel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 08:18 PM |
| 4 | Being a "good person" or not has zero impact on your dating lifedon’t think women think about who they’re attractive to Women don't need to think that because some simp would pay for her entire life in the WORST CASE SCENARIO anyways. She might be living in his apartment doing nothing and once they are "together" he cannot get rid of her without suffering heavy financially. So in her worst case scenario she either gets: A. A simp who will show "love" to her but probably not treat her great, but fulfil most of his duties and expecting very little in return. O… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 06:53 PM |
| 8 | The truth is that majority of men won’t even approach/talk to women, yet they keep blaming them for the their lack of success.If the risk reward ratio is so low why don't you do it? By you I mean the majority of women. Look, the reality is women want men to approach them a lot even if they won't really entertain any of that because it boosts their ego. And that they dress up, put so much makeup on, take a lot of time to get ready and go out and the only dudes (mostly) that hit on them are the creepy ones or the dangerous ones. And that is very unsatisfactory for the ego. And if I am being honest as a dude I would also … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Do TRULY average men actually struggle to date and have sex?Most people are average and date, marry, have sex with, and settle down with other average people lol. Actually not true. Very average girls (not looks) get dating and conversation experience from a young age which makes them better over time. Cannot be said the same about average guys. Even if they are smart or have the potential to grow. The prime reason for that is lack of experience in dating circles. Lets take 100 guys and 100 girls in college. The same 20 guys from college are dating most … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 04:58 AM |
| 3 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?fucking done being stoic Being stoic doesn't mean being emotionless. Being stoic means not showing your emotions to people you consider idiots, or incapable of understanding the life of a man. Be vulnerable to the right people. Strangely enough, I've never felt more intimacy in my marriage or in my friendships. If a woman panics and flees at the first sign of you not performing the appropriate masculinity Good for you. Again being vulnerable with the right people. But you don't have to be vulner… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 02:31 PM |
| 6 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?Be masculine. Don't be toxic. That's what you're saying. Nobody wants that shit. You'll be labelled as emotionally unavailable in 3 days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 02:22 PM |
| 1 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?Everyone cheers it on until they are 40 and without a husband. Then their muscles are giving up. They get tired halfway through the day taking care of everything and desperately need a man and settle for a man who is wanted by no one. While the men she lost because of her incompetence get decent enough girls regardless. It's high time men realise that good women are easier to find than good men. So if you know you're on the right track ignore these bitches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 02:20 PM |
| 2 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?Rule no 1: Be Attractive (lucky to have that) ☑️ Rule no 2: Don't be unattractive (lucky again) ☑️ Rule no 3: Display toxic traits (easy to do) ☑️ Rule no 4: Be successful (hard to do, almost there) ☑️❔ Rule no 5: Dont look at other bitches (not hard) ☑️ Rule no 6: Have a fake positive personality (easy af) ☑️ Rule no 7: Accept her flaws but be ready to change yourself (really tough to do this, unrealistic) ⚠️ Rule no 8: Protect her from brainwashing (no idea what to do) 🚫 Anyone has any clue wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 02:17 PM |
| 4 | Promiscuity in women being viewed as unattractive is not a double standard. Lack of sexual discretion is unattractive in general. That's the standard for all genders.Women are attracted to men who are wanted by other women, but not to men who sleep with lots of women Not particularly true. Maybe some women definitely are grossed out by promiscuous men. But women who see Men that are good around women typically ignore or you can say "turn a blind eye" towards the potential promiscuity at play here. They tend to look at the positives of that man because women are naturally designed to have a positive outlook. This is because biologically women have to endure t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 11:15 AM |
| 4 | Promiscuity in women being viewed as unattractive is not a double standard. Lack of sexual discretion is unattractive in general. That's the standard for all genders.Slut Shaming and Virgin shaming is done by women mostly. Just not explicitly. It just reflects through the behaviour and with time seeps through in the attitude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 11:05 AM |
| -1 | When women learn men of all ages are attracted to teens, women can no longer look at men the same way.Great post to reveal womens IQ. Thank you OP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 03:03 PM |
| 14 | When women learn men of all ages are attracted to teens, women can no longer look at men the same way.Murder isn't biological, natural and normal. Wtf are you delusional? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 03:02 PM |
| 1 | At what age did you first receive sexual attention from adult men?a lot of adults are pervs" what you actually mean is "a lot of adult men are sexually attracted to underage girls." No I don't. Perv adults ≠ pervs attracted to underage girls. I expected common sense from you. red piller Not they get defensive and resort to insults. You clearly didn't really understand a thing. I had to clarify everything to you like for a 6 year old. Which is why its not wrong to assume your education is either substandard or wasted. that you didn't actually answer, You seem t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 07:44 AM |
| 0 | At what age did you first receive sexual attention from adult men?Wow. You gathered this from what I said? Did you go to school? I understand why you made this comment. You already think I am justifying the behaviour of these creeps. I just saying its a factor. Its just not the decisive factor. The decisive factor is a lot of adults are pervs. Maybe I should have been clear. But I expected common sense because I think you were seeking for varied opinions on this post and maximum people have already mentioned their stories and its evident from that l, what the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 06:38 AM |
| – | At what age did you first receive sexual attention from adult men?What did you learn can you elaborate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 06:08 AM |
| -1 | At what age did you first receive sexual attention from adult men?For all the uneducated pretentious individuals here: Read about the use of Oxytocin in cattles and how it is harmful for the young girls. Read about the alarming rate of 80% of women facing very early purberty. The reason why this is important is girls today are facing puberty and hormonal changes as early as 7 (read the delhi case). Most girls should be attaining puberty at the age of 13-14 but a majority of them are facing this at 9,10 and 11 because of GnRH hormone release due to adulteration… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 06:07 AM |
| – | At what age did you first receive sexual attention from adult men?Completely ignoring everything else which makes complete sense. Typical low iq behaviour | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 05:53 AM |
| – | At what age did you first receive sexual attention from adult men?This post is terrible imho. Because the reality is lets say Men from age 18-50 you might come across on streets or people you see in general, from when you are aged 8 or 9 till about 16 is in thousands if not more. I would take a low ball number 5000. So even if 200 of them have made lewd comments or approached with sexual intentions thats 4%, or lets say 600 have just looked weirdly that is still a lower percentage 12% But your post is aimed at making it look like it's 90% if not 100%. Which is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 02:45 AM |
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