| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 11 | Going through a divorce with my abusive soon to be ex-wife, looking for advise. | Admirable-Exercise-9 | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/21 10:23 PM | |
| 1 | Burning the candle at both ends. | Admirable-Exercise-9 | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/21 10:20 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 3 | Burning the candle at both ends.You’re right. I do have to figure it out. I’ve done it before and I will do it again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/21 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Burning the candle at both ends.Every attorney was asking for a $6k retainer because I had been to several court hearings since 2019. So to review all documents and file the correct forms plus a jointer to have a 3rd party be a part of the divorce was costly. This is where getting an attorney was a good idea, they got me more money for the house buy out than 10k I was being offered. About two weeks ago we went to a settlement hearing and that cost me 1700 for the attorney to try to settle this case and avoid a trial. That was … | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/21 10:54 PM |
| 2 | I’ve reached the end, sock dayAppreciate the feedback and the video. Hope your kids are part of working on that project car. What is it by the way? | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/10/21 07:41 PM |
| 3 | I’ve reached the end, sock dayI started running again since my physical health was also deteriorating. But to honest, I felt less stress fighting this alone than I do with my attorney. I have about $800 left in my retainer and with the trial starting in January and no money left I feel beyond depressed. I keep telling myself that I’m a good father but this feeling of giving up is overwhelming. I paint to ease the stress but even that has no joy. Reading how you overcame this rigged system is uplifting but knowing how rare it… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/10/21 07:10 PM |
| 2 | I’ve reached the end, sock dayCongratulations. After 2 years of fighting it alone I finally got an attorney based on the feedback I got in this forum and so far it’s cost me 7k and I’m still barely going to trial. I’m hoping for the best but it feels hopeless. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/10/21 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Going through a divorce with my abusive soon to be ex-wife, looking for advise.Thank you, I appreciate all of the feedback. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/21 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Going through a divorce with my abusive soon to be ex-wife, looking for advise.Thank you, I know that throughout this whole fight my concern has and continues to be that my children know I love them. The one day I just got with them after not seeing them for 4 months straight was amazing. Them crying wanting to stay longer with me felt bittersweet but I will continue the fight. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/21 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Going through a divorce with my abusive soon to be ex-wife, looking for advise.Thank you! I will check out the site. My current employer offered a legal plan with access to attorneys and 4 hours paid for but the offices never call back. I am paying for this and it feels like a waste | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/21 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Going through a divorce with my abusive soon to be ex-wife, looking for advise.I have proof of her abusive behavior. I filed a police report when she busted my head open in front of my daughter, I have video of it. The cop that took my report shrugged it off and told me that’s what Latina women are like and laughed. I felt powerless. I hope to find a good and dependable attorney but googling just has me making call after call and some of these attorneys just don’t sound like they will be good. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/21 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Going through a divorce with my abusive soon to be ex-wife, looking for advise.You’re right. I initially was looking for an attorney but she would harass me at work, she ended up sending my HR anonymous emails pretending to be an employee at my job stating I sexually assaulted her and if my job did nothing about it she would get a lawyer involved. My job fired me and though they could not prove I did anything wrong after a short investigation they decided that CA is an at-will state and let me go. I couldn’t afford 3,500 then and now that I have filed divorce and the case … | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/21 07:30 PM |
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