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(26m) 2nd gen Asian American here, I have slowly given up on the idea of marriage altogether. When I was 20 I dreamed of being in a happy marriage with a wife and 4-5 kids where I would be the cool Airline Pilot dad. I’m 26 and since HS I have been in one barely situationship where I dated her a couple times but she dumped me for a guy she was seeing on the side and everyone else never got past talking stage. This is my last year of giving it a good earnest try at dating. I want a monogamous rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:40 AM
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I think that the way the dating coaches approach dating is wrong but the methods are right. Their mindset is about adding the notches to their belt, a lot of guys(myself included) do not care all that much about sleeping with a ton of women and just want a relationship. Modern dating for the average 20 something is hell and many of us are forced to adopt these tactics because being a “nice guy” gives people the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:18 PM
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I willingly went into the industry because I have loved aviation since I was a child. Some people go into these industries for more than a paycheck, when it comes to Aviation in particular its not a trucking job where anyone can join, you have to love it in order to survive, other wise you will be miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:27 AM
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Blanket bandaid medicating is a awful idea on so many levels, lemme explain three. 1-Major disqualifying factors for high skill careers involving machinery. Men do a overwhelming majority of physical/dangerous/high skill such as my career as a Airline Pilot. Anti depressants do more than suppress mood, they also induce drowsiness and other side effects that may reduce your ability to operate machinery. Now imagine thousands of medicated truck drivers, boat captains, nuclear technicians, forklift…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 11:12 AM
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How on earth do you bring something to the table when you are literally just getting your life in order?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 10:35 AM
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Lots of people in general don’t touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:57 AM
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Yes. contrary to most pilots, I don’t like advertising it because it draws the wrong kind of attention
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:14 PM
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My career made me instantly appealing but I honestly never thought of that aspect because my Autistic ass went into the career because I’ve loved it since I was a kid. Its kind of made me a bit bitter because years of trying beforehand got me nowhere and the moment I added it to my occupation on dating apps I got hit with a bucket load of matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:41 AM
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I’ll let you know when I hit my 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:13 AM
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Honestly it depends on the person, I’ve been rejected 30+ times(sometimes brutally) and I haven’t flung off the handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:54 AM
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As with most things tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 08:19 AM
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Time to act stupid in the classes from now on
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:32 PM
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Have a honest conversation with him about why you rejected him/her. Most people ghost because they lack the maturity to face their problems in a uncomfortable situation. Ghosting leads to zero growth on both sides and just shows a high level of immaturity. Yes I get it that some people ghost because the other party is crazy or dangerous or both but they’re not the rule, just exceptions and people tend to focus on those too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:26 AM
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Some people are able to just brush it off, but for a lot of younger people who have thinner skin, the rejection will make things awkward and they never have a conversation about it so it festers at the back of their mind making the interaction’s uncomfortable. And attraction can happen at anytime, you may not find them attractive(looks or personality wise) initially then as you hang out and interact more often you may find that thing that makes you attracted to them in a romantic way, could happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:18 AM
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Usually I just lurk and meme but this comment resonated with me so hard it felt like a punch to the gut. from being a emotional teddy bear to being deceived into as a third wheel to recently where a girl flirted with me because I was the smartest person in class and ghosted me the moment the semester ended.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:13 AM
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Still do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:54 AM
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Drink some tea 🍵
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:52 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:38 AM
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Eh. Fair, at least I can travel much more easily
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:39 AM
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Tee
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:37 AM
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I’d rather spend the 300$ on ammo and avgas
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:35 AM
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Jokes on you this is the green pill debate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:34 AM
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No because of my career
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:32 AM
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I don’t even try to get involved anymore, I’m here for carnage
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:12 PM
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☕️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:58 AM
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I mean of for me looks just gets you in the door, personally is what makes me stick around. Part of being mature growing up and getting old together, hopefully with kids. Sticking it out through the thick and thin. Today’s culture of instant gratification + fomo is a blight that has poisoned modern dating and relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:31 AM
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Can’t wait to sort by controversial
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:25 PM
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All pills are dumb, people should just go to a workout group or something
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:49 AM
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Time to sort by controversial and make some coffee
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:48 AM
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I’m sure Venezuela would agree with you happily
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:39 AM
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Ngl this is the most reasonable response I’ve seen so far, people in this sub should just opt out, focus on hobbies. Since I stopped dating I’ve been able to travel and enjoy a shit ton of hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:23 AM
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The easiest solution to this is make high skill non-college jobs more viable like Mining, Construction, and Transportation. But that requires slashing immigration and cutting down on global imports which no one wants
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:17 AM
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I for one want to see women in more dangerous trades like industrial fishing, mining, logging, transportation, and frontline warfare. Equality on all fronts, including workplace accidents!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:13 AM
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I mean, would you want to work on a crab fishing boat, out on a sea oil rig working with heavy equipment, piloting a passenger aircraft in a storm, or thousands of feet underground mining coal? Would you be willing to put life and limb to prove him wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:10 AM
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Not enough people touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:57 PM
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This just in: OnlyFans and porn economy collapses overnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:05 AM
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Honestly I mostly lurk here and sort by controversial because its fun to read when i'm travelling
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:04 PM
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Cats outta the bag on abortion. It will happen whether legally or illegally. Even then the results won’t stop the collapsing birth rates
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:03 PM
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They should fuck each other and call it a day
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:14 AM
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Yes, I wouldn’t mind a stay-at-home wife. But thats up to her in the end. Especially with my career path leading me to be away from home for days to weeks on end I’d like some security knowing the kids and house are always cared for while I log time in the sky.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:02 AM
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Having large amounts of Single young men is dangerous for a society. They have no one to live for, so who do they die for? And if someone can reach out to them with a malicious idea in mind? Its not hard to see how you can convert a large group of desperate lonely men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:40 AM
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I wonder about that too, its the 21st century and you can get your rocks off with a bit of rubber and plastic nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:29 AM
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People will complain about everything. OP’s point is trying to expand our thinking to how being men being unsuccessful at dating affects his family. Women are pickier nowadays so what was seen as average back then is no longer attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:25 PM
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Its less of nice guys and more of average Mcaverage. Again, this is more of a societal disconnect between generations. Gen Xers are probably the last generation to enjoy traditional methods of courtship before the internet blindsided us
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:11 PM
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Maybe 30 years ago. In todays world it should definitely be more common
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:07 PM
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Reading most of the comments really doesn’t paint a pretty picture for my future. Back to the skies I go
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:05 PM
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My dad did it, he taught me how to fix my own truck(including engine repair), carpentry and plumbing work(we renovated his current house when I was in high school), taught me to shoot my first pistol at 15 and rifles at 18, even taught me how to grill. His main fuckup was getting me into anime lmao. I owe all my self reliant skills to him and I plan to do the same if I ever have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:50 AM
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The dad’s job is to teach the son how to fix the car, fix the house, shoot a gun, play catch, be self reliant and grill a wonderful steak.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:00 AM
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You’re in good company. Maybe in another life or universe the result is different
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:55 AM
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I think its less about blaming mom and more of how parents with outdated views on the world are wondering how are their sons failing to find love.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:52 AM
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Honestly what he has described is pretty damn close to how my mother is. She wonders when I’ll get a girlfriend and it hurts my heart when I tell her “some day”. Like someone said in one of the comments, my mom wants grandchildren sometime soon and I want kids one day. I’m 25 now and I’ve given up hope of finding love.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:50 AM
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To be honest, finding someone outside of America is my goal. The culture here in SF has basically ruined any chance I possibly could’ve had. Given my persistent failures here and my future career requiring I travel around the world, fuck it. I just want a chance at finding love and starting a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:46 AM
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Revealed she was vegan
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:25 AM
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Honestly if their own family is trash, considering my background I think it would be a upgrade
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:10 PM
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This is why you live with parents the Asian American way
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 07:38 AM
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Tbh no one knows anymore and like you mentioned, the sexual “revolution” basically burned down any set standards and norms on dating and courtship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:30 AM
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A classic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:21 AM
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Come sweet death
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:27 PM
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The decline is still being looked into, but there seems to be a correlation with pollution and solvents, With higher female born in communities where a petrochemical factory is located near by or if a parent is a known smoker. Its still being investigated but its one among many potential factors like nutrition and hormone cycles.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:51 PM
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Don’t weight more than me and no fear of heights(Pilot’s life lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:25 AM
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Live in the pod, eat the bugs, play on the cloud, take the bus, tie your tubes, own nothing, be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 11:17 AM
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“Dating for women is like shopping on amazon, dating for men is like a job interview” -Sun Tsu probably
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:54 PM
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Better get on it and take whatever your next relationship is more seriously. Also think deeply about if you want kids as thats a serious choice that is in your case time sensitive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:50 PM
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Unattractive is fine as I’m pretty plain when it comes to features. However as a Student Pilot who would like to take dates up on flights in the future, it would be nice if the date in question doesn’t max out the weight limit of the small aircraft as that can be a hazard. Useful load when fully fueled on a C172 which I fly is 423lb and I weight 173lb. Assuming we aren’t bringing baggage thats a 250lb weight limit. And thats pushing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:19 PM
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Wasn’t intended to troll. My intention was that due to the higher standard that are set on men, it causes many to opt out and seek companionship in other ways besides meeting actual women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:44 PM
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I mean I probably can’t speak for all men, but a good portion of dudes don’t care for the sex and just want the prospect of a happy mutually beneficial relationship, if we just want pleasure our right hand and the corner prostitute is there. The issue is in todays climate the average joe basically lives with a giant void in their heart where friends and immediate family can’t fill. Everyone wants to be wanted by someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 08:04 AM
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From the environmentalist standpoint? No. From a Economic standpoint? Absolutely. Immigration imo is a short term band-aid on a larger problem. The funny thing is immigrants tend to adopt their new home’s culture and within less than a generation their kids tend to follow western cultures, as such its only temporary and last about a generation or two. There are multiple reasons for population decline, death by a thousand cuts if you will: Western populations tend to have kids later in life and l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:50 PM
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There aren’t enough of em
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:19 PM
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Quit with the illusion of superiority. Idc you think I’m stupid, just give a explanation other than the usual tankie non-answer of “grifter.” Any moron with a twitch or YouTube account can be a grifter no matter what they spew
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:01 PM
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Pearl is alright, I think its great that she is inviting a broad range of people onto her podcast and having debates although she has a bad habit of letting arguments between guests drag on too long
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 11:49 AM
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Can you explain in deeper detail than just, hurr durr grifting!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 11:46 AM
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Typically when people say this it’s just to get you off their back. This may be true but its too general and avoids asking harder questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:02 AM
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Some advice for you, stop scrolling on reddit during broad daylight. go out and enjoy the world and chat with your coworkers, classmates, friends, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 10:59 AM
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Friends are friends. Doesn’t matter if guy or girl
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 10:56 AM
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Maybe when it first formed it would’ve been a good yard stick, but nowadays like the Incel community, FDS is basically a man hating Femcel community full of bitter and jaded women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 10:52 AM
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I’m mainly on hinge because I know it keeps intentionally sending me people I don’t like so I can dislike them. Makes me feel better after a long week lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:31 AM
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Anything is a dating app if you are desperate enough
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:52 AM
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I have no clue, I’ll ask once I get into a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:47 AM
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To be honest theres nothing that can be done. Dating companies like the current situation as desperate men will do anything to try and get lucky. I know half of those apps will throw a bot account every so often to entice people to buy premium, only for it to ghost you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:31 AM
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I would say I’m a pretty average man. For context I’m 25, Asian American 5’8” and I’m a College Student and Student Pilot in the SF Bay Area. I’ll be honest my dating life is pretty bare. I have been in 1 relationship years ago, and a handful of dates. In my teens I was a painfully shy and incredibly lanky autistic kid who was known as the “plane kid”. I tried dating and failed miserably, I think I asked like 7 girls out and got zero success. At 18 I got into my first relationship but it was pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 11:04 AM
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Massive part of this is due to birth control during the sexual revolution. We are now able to decouple sex for the most part from reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:31 AM
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If they’re on PPD, at least they seem willing to learn compared to just staying in incel forums circle jerking away about all wamen bhad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:01 AM
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Boring Can’t read social cues very well Well so much for the dating advice, I’m screwed from the start happening after all. I guess I’ll have a surrogate child later on then with the money saved from not dating. I’m off to go fly planes now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:35 AM
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I just learned this, its Beta Bux
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:59 PM
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Nothing changes, I’ve stayed the same online as I am IRL. The only thing that changes is people now know I have more social media than they thought
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:31 AM
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Dude, you’re asking for a Unicorn or a trap
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:06 AM
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Male, 24 Interested in me as a person? Honestly none. Recently a lot of women are starting to show interest, although it started to happen the moment I posted on social media that I’m a student pilot so it left a very bitter taste in my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:41 AM
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It sorta makes sense given us guys need a objective in sight or a bunch of parameters to meet to maximize certain outcomes. Doesn’t make it right but considering that the current generation, social literacy is lower than actual literacy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 08:56 AM
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I think everyone in America needs to work out more in general and stop glorifying desk jobs where you’re immobile for majority of the day. Lets be honest you’re fat, and I’m not gonna sugarcoat it cause you’ll eat that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:42 AM
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My idea of a date is at the food court at my local mall or my local cafe where I’m a regular
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:43 AM
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Dunno where you live but all the boba joints around my place have multiracial staff, the only place I know that selectively hires based on race is jolibee and they mainly hire filipinos. just a fair warning, most 1st generation asians are pretty racist. I know this cause my parents are 1st gen asian. Heck I’m seen as a fake asian often times because I identify more as a American than whatever country my parents game from.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:41 AM
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it will stay that way until we get more women into men dominated industries like Oil drilling or electrical work.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:40 AM
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its a easy argument to fall back on that many forget no longer really exists
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:38 AM
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The wage gap has to do with gender-based discrimination in the workplace. This is illegal in the USA and a lot of western nations. Men typically work higher paying jobs because a lot of those higher paying jobs are things that are either: Dangerous Already Male centric like Engineering Incredibly uncomfortable All of the above Women are already crushing men in college education and occupying more and more higher paying office jobs so the gender pay gap argument no longer holds as much water.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:37 AM
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Not to mention a lot of the jobs that are male dominated that pay a lot have a lot of risks attached to them like Oil drilling, underwater salvage, Search and Rescue, Truck Driving, Construction work, minging, so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:31 AM
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Yeah had a girl say she actually liked me but instead went for another guy for reasons she never explained, just that she felt like she was in a kpop drama
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:37 AM
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In my first relationship, it definitely made me more proactive. I realized that due to my circumstances and the Nature of RNGesus that most women won’t find me attractive, so I am going to have to work to hold down anything. I definitely worked out more, grinded harder, and studied harder as I had something to look forward too. But as the saying goes, better fish in the sea and she dumped me for my co-worker at the time. Even though I was crushed I definitely learned a lot and in the end I was a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:05 AM
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I left a edit at the bottom
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:36 AM
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I heard Philippines and Japan are nice this time of year
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:49 AM
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Aight, Asia here I come!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:46 AM
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Familial pressures. They’re worried about my lack of a romantic life, especially since my parents and grandparents had children in their mid-20s and raised large families.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:58 AM
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I’m planning to work abroad as soon as I get my degree, so its definitely in the plans
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:46 AM
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I’ve been told by many that I look very average. Not handsome, not ugly, just very average.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:35 AM
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Maybe as soon as I leave the current state I’m in
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:33 AM
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I speak limited cantonese and I’m learning Japanese and Tagalog, I can see this happening to me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:32 AM
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Not sure if I want to stay in Australia for too long tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:17 AM
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Yeah, thats true. Honestly I stopped caring, I just found the entire thing kinda amusing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:16 AM
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Or they just want a green cards tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:12 AM
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Its a mix of both dating apps and asking out in person at my college. I’ve been unlucky at both
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:10 AM
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So it sounds like either way, I’m going to asia to find love
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:53 AM
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I mean I consider myself pretty milk toast bland in terms of appearance. I haven’t had a successful date in… since 2016. Not for a lack of trying, I’ve been ghosted more times than I can remember using 7 dating apps and I’ve been rejected multiple times in the past 3 months. But yeah even during that date I got no action. I’m just chocking it up to unlucky. I’m just mainly focusing on improving myself and not really active pursuing anything. Gym, college, flight school, and working is basically …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:50 AM
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My dad told me this: Money or fame makes anyone look attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:13 AM
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Many of them are looking to have kids before their biological clock runs out, can’t really fault them for that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:10 AM
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I think part of his argument relies on the hypergamy angle, which is debatable. The underlying complaint I see is he just wants a relationship instead of a massive amount of meaningless sex. I could be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:58 AM
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Honestly reading the comments would solidify your views. My take is this, yes it sucks to date in todays era period, Whether you are he/she/it. Now that said, part of being a man is rising up to the challenge, we can complain about it all we want but as you alluded. There are two paths you can take, one of them is not good for society: One: Focus on yourself, self improve don’t chase. Work hard, study hard, provide something to society. Go to the gym, improve your hygiene, dress nicer, you get t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:54 AM
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