~ archived since 2018 ~
~ archived since 2018 ~
| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 5 | Lessons Learned: Never Ignore Your Wife's Relationship with External Validation--Social MediaMy ex’s validation bucket leaked too. Maddening to deal with | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/12/25 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Useless at 50Very good book. That and group therapy did wonders for my attachment issues and ability to be assertive about my needs. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/25 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Useless at 50Are you me from the future? Man, I’m having the same kind of experience but I’m not as far down the road as you are. Ain’t easy keeping up with a 35 yr old but what a problem to have! that’s what the gym is for. Plus- we have experience on our side and there’s no substitute for it | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/25 07:16 PM |
| 3 | Useless at 50Man- I feel you. Im @50 as well. My ex cheated on me with guys who I literally laughed at when I found out about them bc I was head and shoulders above them in every conceivable category. I too lived to care for her etc. it wasn’t about me, she cheated bc she had a bottomless need for validation; anyone could have fucked her no matter how pathetic. In the aftermath of my divorce I lost my job due to layoff and my kitchen flooded. There’s hope though. At my lowest point I focused on therapy and g… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/25 07:12 PM |
| 9 | Do yourself a favor, go on a solo trip.I took myself to Barcelona and Amsterdam on a solo trip 5 weeks after my stbx left. It was hard at the time but I look back on the trip with a lot of fond memories- got a badass calf tattoo from a top artist in Spain, saw some great live music, watched some euro cup with passionate fans and enjoyed some beautiful art. I drank great wine. Smoked excellent weed. I had a 6 ft 1 blonde teach me that mayo on french fries was actually pretty good. (I didn’t try to hook up with her but it was a fun tal… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/25 07:06 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter