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| 3 | How can I maintain confidence throught time? | Inner Game | Advanced_Hedgehog427 | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 06:29 PM |
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| 2 | How to fix a babyface as I have a feeling it is my biggest barrier to a successful dating life.It depends on your social circle or places you frequent, but from the perspective of the average woman I think it make a man look more immature. | /r/seduction | 17/04/26 02:34 AM |
| 9 | How to fix a babyface as I have a feeling it is my biggest barrier to a successful dating life.It is a curse now, but it will be a blessing in the long run, you could a different hairstyle that make you look older or "dangerous" or sum, facial hair helps too | /r/seduction | 17/04/26 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Dating much youngerIs a thing for human beings being atracted to the older side of their opposite sex when they're young | /r/seduction | 16/04/26 02:45 AM |
| 51 | How should a 74 year old male spark attraction from a female?Well aparently he's looking for the advice and knowledge of a 90's+ | /r/seduction | 30/03/26 10:37 PM |
| 2 | women love nice guys , stop with the bad boy bullshityou're not a bad boy you're just a weirdo, you can have some charm even being a silent one but you have 0 Also these male coworkers are the men they feel comfortable with, that's not necessarily attraction. | /r/seduction | 18/03/26 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Did i do something wrong?Low interest, she's just playing with you, she likes you enought for her to think about it and not reject you right on the spot, but she dislikes you enought to ignore your advances because you create no sexual tension between you both, you're too safe, too googy, friendzone material, there's no risk for her if she ignores you because you're always there available Start being a bit more distant, don't engage easily if she tries to meet outside work again and don't engage yourself, make her fight… | /r/seduction | 28/02/26 07:00 PM |
| 1 | The first time you fuck a girl you have to slowly escalate to it without asking. But every other time you can just ask her, why is that?You never ask boy you always escalate | /r/seduction | 26/02/26 05:29 PM |
| -4 | How are average looking men supposed to meet women?Yeah I'm tired of these average looking mothofockers whining about not getting hot chicks, they're not for you, deal with it. | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Started talking to a professional athlete. How do I keep him around?I'm sorry you have no chance | /r/seduction | 16/12/25 03:23 AM |
| 70 | It's all smoke and dust until she's in your bed. Don't get excited early.Nah, he did right choosing the friend who was actually interested and not playing stupid games | /r/seduction | 15/12/25 05:49 PM |
| 1 | you think when girls go on a trip they're getting smashedOk you're right on that one, this guy is not even close to smash that girl, she probably just sees him as emotional support but she's def not sexually atracted to him | /r/seduction | 13/12/25 07:57 PM |
| 0 | you think when girls go on a trip they're getting smashedBeing exclusive is a label so a hoe doesn't sleep around, real women don't need labels to be faithful to the man she's seeing, or talking to. | /r/seduction | 13/12/25 07:32 PM |
| 2 | you think when girls go on a trip they're getting smashedWomen who just go to trips for the sake of it gives me ick, like there's something in them that is never fulfilled and have to go in constant adventures (yeah believe me, dicks are on their mind when they think about traveling) There's a high percentage that she will have sex, maybe even with someone else and not one of her friends, why she didn't even invited you?... You're being naive friend, let her go. | /r/seduction | 13/12/25 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Change my view: leading women on is the most effective way to be a man who sleeps around.I was talking about hot guys that have multiple women my little friendo | /r/seduction | 19/11/25 09:40 PM |
| 10 | Change my view: leading women on is the most effective way to be a man who sleeps around.dude you're not even 7, real hot guys doesn't need to bullshit women to keep em' around, real hot guys make women move mountains to make you both exclusive if you're open about foolin around. | /r/seduction | 19/11/25 04:39 AM |
| 20 | How do you cope with a girls past ,His friend will fuck that woman the moment this guy turn around anyway | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 10:38 PM |
| 0 | I slowly give it up with womenNah fam, 300 aproaches a week is mental, even 100 a week seems undoable, you might have a job but is not just approach, you still gotta text, follow conversation, and try to set dates with a lot of women constantly, unless you're really unatractive and of 300 approaches only 1 or 2 are interested, its exhausting to do all that but I guess thats for men who doesn't have passion or hobbies. I wonder, if any of those girls actually becomes his gf, what would that guy do with his life? would his gf … | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 10:23 PM |
| 1 | I slowly give it up with womenaight champ if thats what works for you keep doing it | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 03:56 PM |
| 4 | I slowly give it up with womenHonest question do you even have a job? | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 03:44 PM |
| 2 | How to sexualise it?Sure kiddo, I got more whenever you want. | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 05:44 AM |
| 2 | How to sexualise it?If a hot girl said to you "My last boyfriend break up with me because I kissed a guy in front of him, he's trash", would you agree with her that her ex is trash? because that would make you look fucking stupid, this is not an example, this literally happened to me a few years a go in a party and I said to her, even tho I wanted to eat every cm of her body, that she was indeed the trash in this situation, she looked at me straight in the eyes, shocked, a few minutes later I was eating her tits in… | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 01:04 AM |
| 30 | How to sexualise it?You don't have to do anything to create sexual tension; that's something that comes naturally when you don't have an overly pleasant, huggable, and curious childlike energy, which many young adults seem to have. You just talk like a man who knows who he are and what he's doing, look at her eyes while talking, smile and banter from time to time and sexual tension comes naturally. | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 07:24 PM |
| 35 | How to sexualise it?Yeah, stop having chihuahua aura | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Im confused?Sorry I didn't see your comment before, you have to expose yourself more to people, talk more with anybody, not just girls, tell a random story, learn to tell a story and add spice to it in the go, women love that shih. | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 07:39 AM |
| 3 | Im confused?I think your problem is that even tho you acknowledge your strenghts you're insecure about yourself because of the way you talk like "I'm more quiet, I'm in the lower". You can be a more introspective guy with a little selection of friends and still own it, you do have to practice your confidence because you still need to be a bit of a smooth talker, have some banter to get a girl to like you, your height and face is a plus yeah but with women is all about how you make her feel. | /r/seduction | 06/10/25 10:00 AM |
| 7 | Masturbaition Questionaint it perverted to masturbate while seeing a woman having intercourse with another guy for money? | /r/seduction | 05/10/25 07:37 AM |
| 3 | Is it common for you to get laid when you are least focused on it?Yeah its like a law of life, thought sometimes go out expecting nothing and you come back the same way | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 08:05 PM |
| 3 | Your most useful seduction tip?Its true in one part but if you see the sub there's a lot of men strugling with women even when they have their shit together and even good looking guys, you can have a decent salary, car, your own place, but if you don't know how to enchant women its gonna be hard, very hard, it could happen that you find a woman that sees your potential without you having to pursue her but thats not frequent. Contrary to that I've seen dudes that doesn't work, doesnt have anything going on for themselves and j… | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 03:56 AM |
| 3 | Your most useful seduction tip?Sad reality is that none of these will really help you have sex appeal and atually score with women, thats an attitude thing | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 07:04 PM |
| 7 | Why do women randomly ghost lolYou have to text to set a date, you also were probably replying too fast or too much friendly or girly energy, too much emojis, too much "hahahaha" and not setting a date, you bored her. | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 07:57 PM |
| 9 | Are older women easier than young ones?They're easier to approach, they'll make easier for you to say something to them or will be more agresive with eye contact and such. | /r/seduction | 07/09/25 02:10 AM |
| 5 | Natural flirting, natural flirting without memorized material?Thats the only way I'm my opinion, over using memorized material will come off as weird... | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Should I pay evrything on a date??Did you invited her out for the first time? Yes you should. She didn't even flinch to try to pay her part? thats a bad signal | /r/seduction | 26/08/25 11:19 PM |
| 2 | She caught me in a stupid lie, how do I recover?The best way you can recover is not giving a damn. | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 06:40 PM |
| 3 | She caught me in a stupid lie, how do I recover?When a girl acts cold you just have to go no contact, thats all, is as simple as that, if she doesn't react, good, one less thing to worry about. About your lie, it seems you're kind of overthinking the situation, like, why wouldn't she believe you went to the concert and act all detective? your action was stupid but what she's doing is weird, just let her be, if she ask say there were different bands playing and just ignore the situation, don't say you posted stuff to make her jelous because ho… | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 06:30 PM |
| 1 | I think im afraid of women and I feel that Im going to die alone if I dont change nothing.The only way to combat this is exposure, is not only to shift your mentality because maybe one night you think about it and start to feel Tony Stark, but then the next day when you're actually infront of a girl you start to feel weak again. You have to adapt yourself to uncomfortable situations until they become the usual, maybe start conversation with a girl that is cute but not that intimidant to you and keep going until you start to feel more confident, is beautiful when you start to be yours… | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 10:19 PM |
| 4 | Do you avoid porn?Yeah but is still better than watch a girl being f by 5 dudes with perfect bodies, poses and illumination ykwis | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Women will disrespect you when you win the frame controlwin the frame control... In text... Over a girl you don't know... you lost the moment you posted this | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Guys, i attract loads of Not hot chicksDude's game on zen's level but he can't get at least a 7 that he genuinely likes, suuuure. | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 02:16 PM |
| 5 | What makes someone go from attractive to just a friend before anything even starts?I suffered the same when I was younger, I was really atractive fisically but when girls got to know me better they would slowly (sometimes faster) lose interest, I was just too friendly and had a lot of "kid" energy, I didn't even knew what sexual tension was lmao (Cons of growing up without a strong father figure) I'm more manly and sexually agresive now at 28 (still have some of that kid energy from time to time) but at least I know more how to act with a woman I'm sexually atracted now. Its n… | /r/seduction | 18/07/25 04:42 AM |
| 118 | Why is this sh*t so hard?You're doing it wrong if you approach it from the 2 ends (too nice or too direct), find somethig in the middle, be flirtly, but don't give yourself away. Don't pretend to go out with every atractive girl you meet because they can sense when you are a "player" (even if you don't win any game) and they can smell desperation even if you try to hide it with a concrete wall. Flirt with them, but don't be bothered by it, do it like you don't want anything in return, don't seek for aproval, don't seek … | /r/seduction | 04/07/25 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Why Don’t I Have Approach Anxiety? Is This Normal?No social anxiety and dumb as a rock, perfect candidate for women. | /r/seduction | 09/05/25 02:09 AM |
| 12 | Tips for dealing with a female playerI had a similar experience with a coworker, shes just trying to farm attention from you, my best advice is to just keep ignoring her and focus on your life, those kind of women worth nothing | /r/seduction | 23/02/25 11:41 PM |
| 3 | If I had a glow up, can I flirt with a girl who didn't correspond with me in the past?Post a pic see if she reacts, if she do ask her out | /r/seduction | 12/02/25 07:07 PM |
| 3 | What are some seduction secrets for women?Totally, I wouldnt have a problem if she has another place in mind honestly. | /r/seduction | 12/02/25 05:56 PM |
| 112 | Trying the "come here" routine with women I liked and falling flat.Yeah you probably look like an irritating cocky bitch, dont be authoritative over anybody thats not your employee / girlfriend ( depends on context) / younger sibling, if you dont want people to secretly hate you. | /r/seduction | 12/02/25 05:29 PM |
| 6 | I’m tired of taking LsHow could you even say something like that? It: Helps with your mental health Improve your looks Improve your confidence You get more used to being around people specially atractive women If you really want to you can chit chat with people to improve your social skills. How come none of that wouldn't help getting women? | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 06:50 PM |
| -10 | How do I become someone more memorable to men?Ew | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 10:43 AM |
| 2 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Forget about that do something fun and productive with your life, go meet people. | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 07:11 AM |
| -1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Brother women can also being insecure beings and will be with men with not remarkable characteristics for that, they can even reject handsome or atracrive men from the start because it hurts their egos. | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 01:45 AM |
| 2 | What is your step by step make out strategy to turn on your date on when kissing?I would never do this, finding our own rythm together is much more thrilling for the first time and if you make her feel secure she will let the wildness out | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 02:25 PM |
| 2 | I can’t text nor talkI feel you're giving them too much power, worrying too much about what they'll think if you dont reply correctly or dont know anything about the matters they talk about, you could say "I dont know much about the subject but you could tell me more while we grab a drink" or something dude, be more direct, texting is for setting date so if they have initial atraction use that oportunity to set a date, dont get lost in shallow and boring conversation over text while they have a crowd of guys already… | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 08:30 AM |
| 8 | How do you escalate during a quick coffee date?Your mistake is believing what women says instead of what they feel which is almost always totally different things | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 10:06 AM |
| 2 | How is the dating world after 30?The profile pic doesnt fucking help | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 09:21 AM |
| 3 | What’s your biggest delusion or cope when it comes to game?Its true, the charismatic/honest but flirty guy wins the game and you'll find good women in my opinion, but you gotta be very socially calibrated. | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 06:30 AM |
| 5 | He’s handsome, in shape, has a good job—but women don’t stick around.Its true, but there are moments when I actually become extroverted when I'm being loudly, very social or the center of attention and I actually feel like it feeds me instead of drain me, but its very rare and they doesnt happen at will, they often involves either alcohol (not always) or being surounded by certain people or feeling a certain way. | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 07:13 AM |
| 89 | He’s handsome, in shape, has a good job—but women don’t stick around.It is like that, as a handsome dude that can get girls attention pretty easily, they get the ick pretty fast if I say or act weird, which it used to happen a lot in the past, I'm a loner, now I'm much more socially calibrated and I can be extroverted at will and I do it pretty dang well, but its so exhausting to maintain it | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 10:00 PM |
| -3 | Approached hot mom and daughterNice story, bet it gave a boost to perform even better in your date | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 05:50 PM |
| 38 | Quiet/reserved guys: How do you manage to not become that “quiet guy no one knows” in social groups when you’re the new one?What helped me the most is trying not to think and say whatever comes up in my mind first, it needs practice and constantly being surrounded by people | /r/seduction | 30/09/24 12:22 AM |
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