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Yeah, probably est I'll still single. Not that I've been trying though. I've been taking a break.
/r/seduction20/09/18 01:20 AM
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Depends. I'm not a girl but long hair can probably get annoying.
/r/seduction20/09/18 12:53 AM
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Yeah for sure. I don't look for it I mainly observe lower body movements if anything. I rarely stare into eyes like that. 😂
/r/seduction10/06/18 02:32 PM
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I can tell most of the time if a girl is interested in me just by eye contact alone. Most of the time I don't act on it however since my confidence is 0 >.> Also when their pupils dilate does that mean it's an IOI? I've only seen it once or twice but I know it's a sign of interest.
/r/seduction10/06/18 12:48 PM
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I'm too scared to touch because I'm afraid I would make things weird. I'm weirded out by touching because I don't like being touched myself. Is there a way I can fix it? Being more comfortable with touching.
/r/seduction23/05/18 11:32 PM
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I should but I'm too scared to ask >.< This was in a more casual event though.
/r/seduction23/05/18 11:17 PM
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I've had this happen to me too. Didn't know if it's accidental or on purpose.
/r/seduction23/05/18 10:41 PM
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I've screwed up so many friendships that almost turned into relationships by over thinking >.< Feelsbadman. How do I stop this? The over thinking I mean. Is it just trial and error?
/r/seduction03/05/18 11:56 PM
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This is happening to me right now... Am so confused send help. Also learned recently that straight up telling a girl you like them may not be a good idea, but now she seems interested should I ask to hang out?
/r/seduction23/04/18 06:06 PM
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I keep forgetting I'm subbed both to r/gaming and r/seduction and was very confused I was like... Wait gaming without alcohol? Then I saw the second line xd. Also this video will be nice for me since I'm kind of religious and don't plan on meeting girls in bars.
/r/seduction20/03/18 03:55 AM
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I want to know this too, but I have noticed if they notice that I'm checking them out. They change their posture and do it again. I think it's intentional. (Usually when sitting) I think it's a sign of interest(don't quote me on this) but this is just from what I've observed as well. Maybe it's an open indicator they want to be approached?
/r/seduction13/03/18 02:18 AM
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Oh okay, thanks. What if we already know each others names?
/r/seduction09/02/18 09:15 PM
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Should I initiate small talk? Like hi how's it going? and play it cool?
/r/seduction09/02/18 04:41 AM
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Yeah that's what I figured out, and I did execute very poorly and didn't handle the rejection well.
/r/seduction09/02/18 04:40 AM
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Thank you. I need this. Especially about the part "Nothing has killed you so far" resonated with me. Thank you kind sir. I've tired myself out and gotten major moments of anxiety just by over thinking.
/r/seduction10/01/18 07:53 PM
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I would want someone to gradually get into it and not trying to rush to get into a relationship or whatever
/r/seduction30/12/17 11:02 PM
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Wow thanks for the long explanation. Appreciate it
/r/seduction30/12/17 09:06 PM
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By not doing what I just did
/r/seduction30/12/17 09:06 PM
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Haha thanks that comment made me smile. I admit I had to look up the song. Also I dislike khakis and I have to wear them to church >.< would rather wear sweatpants all day.
/r/seduction30/12/17 09:05 PM
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I don't really know how to how anyone that I like them. I know actions speak louder than words but I don't know how to show that with my body. Some people are really good at escalating and showing through body language and touching that they like them but I just through myself at people expecting something would happen but it never does and I get dissapointed
/r/seduction30/12/17 08:28 AM
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Well for one thing I didn't know what I was doing at the time, and told the 2-3 different girls I liked them via online, and pushed it too hard and lost a few friends that way. It wouldn't have been needy if I just let it go the first time and things would've been okay, but instead I pushed it way too hard and lost a few friends because of that. It was my fault and once I stopped blaming other people that were involved I really just looked inside myself and got extremely depressed because of how…
/r/seduction30/12/17 08:18 AM
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Dude I'm in your same boat. Still living with parents though but wanna get laid as well. Also live in a Christian house hold. It sucks man. I wouldn't say women are the "devil" in anyway shape or farm. Mine would rather you just to get married first, but I would like some experience before hand and they're like "nuhh you must be marriedaj'asd'ajie" and it's kind of frustrating. That just makes me want it more(it also sucks because the only way right now I can possibly move out is by marrying som…
/r/seduction30/12/17 06:47 AM
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Having never been asked out before like that, heck yeah. I'd get laid by any girl at this point. (low self esteem that's why i'm here)
/r/seduction26/12/17 05:36 AM
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This is really, really good advice. Didn't really join this sub to get laid but rather work on self improvement and videos like these really help my emotional state in check. (Maybe the getting laid part will happen after this who knows)
/r/seduction04/12/17 11:43 PM
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Should've done this :/ I've just left the girls or they left me without much thought. Didn't want to hurt the friendships as it really was kinda awkward how I did it. Oh well live and learn.
/r/seduction27/11/17 11:17 PM
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dude WTFrick I actually feel calmer just listening to this what. Thanks my man
/r/seduction03/11/17 06:03 AM
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I've actually missed so many opportunities and I never see the girl again :/ Really good advice
/r/seduction25/10/17 03:25 AM
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Thanks, I appreciate your answer. So I should just talk like normally unless if they bring it up in conversation?
/r/seduction25/10/17 12:09 AM
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Most people would say they're crazy and just want attention, but I had this recently with a super harsh rejection and now she's giving me the weirdest ass mixed signals i've ever seen. I've been trying to ignore her since I still "see" her regularly, but she's been really persistent man i'm so confused >.<
/r/seduction08/10/17 11:53 PM
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For me anyways this girl straight up rejected me harshly but acts super innocent around her friends and even said quite loudly "I would like to get his number" and instantly knew that she wanted something and was talking about me. Never been confused in my life.
/r/seduction08/10/17 11:50 PM
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Approach anxiety, I get anxious af(frik) especially when meeting new people not just girls.
/r/seduction05/10/17 11:54 PM
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Y'know you could just ask the guy
/r/seduction27/09/17 03:31 AM
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Haha
/r/seduction05/08/17 12:45 AM
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Just yawn if she yawns back then she was looking at you. In reality though I think lots of consistent eye contact and smiling is a plus. Also girls that she shy and possibly really like you will look at you wait for you to make eye contact then look down and away.
/r/seduction04/08/17 08:27 PM
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Practice strong contact with your own eyes in the mirror. Then when this attractive women is looking at you. You'll know how to look at her. Strong contact is good, but don't do it for too long be sure to look away to make her wonder if she likes you.
/r/seduction28/07/17 02:20 AM
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Eh what ever works for you, do it. I just find it better for me at least to so it in person
/r/seduction27/07/17 03:33 AM
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If I ever use social media to look up girls that I like I usually get obsessed with them without barely even knowing them. So I would say try to get to know them in person if you can. Also being in person makes them trust you a bit better.
/r/seduction27/07/17 03:26 AM
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Good job! That's pretty cool gives me some hope about hookups, and especially after a 7 year break up.
/r/seduction24/07/17 12:51 AM
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Ah, yeah I understand how u feel. One time i told this girl in her 30s(I swear she looked 19 or 20, and I swear she was interested in me.) that I liked her and she told me she was not interested in me and was 30... That wasn't awkward at all haha. Some older women are so beautiful that they look 10 years younger than they actually are.
/r/seduction05/07/17 05:09 PM
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Dude, I'm honestly in your same boat. (I'm 20 interested in girls 25-30ish) and no girl that age wants a younger guy (from my experience at least they them selves seem to be interested in older males. Again, go for it and see what happens! (You've got nothing to lose!) I'd like to know this as well. Because after failing pretty hard with girls my age I'd like to try I with older woman as well.
/r/seduction05/07/17 02:27 AM
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Wow! Good read. I don't like long posts but this was very insightful thanks.
/r/seduction29/06/17 01:08 AM
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For example, I was clueless when I was younger on how to talk to girls and what to do if I liked a girl or if they liked me. One girl A (this took me awhile to figure out) really liked me, but I really liked girl B(who didn't like me at all) and then when I told girl A I liked girl B she stopped talking to me for a while, and then the other girl stopped talking to me. So I gave them both space, but then after awhile(a few weeks) they started to "hover" around me or linger and I didn't know why t…
/r/seduction15/06/17 02:56 AM
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Thank you kind sir, I needed this today. I've lost really good friends that were girls because I took things too far, and made things awkward. Question, is it possible to be friends with those girls if I explained the situation to them from my point of view or should I just let them be and move on to other girls? I did give them lots of space and realized how stupid I sounded. How do I make things not as awkward? (I'm like bronze level in dating haha)
/r/seduction14/06/17 11:48 PM
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Thank you! :) (I've never heard about video replies before about now) I'll try this out. Thanks again. Will get back to you soon.
/r/seduction12/06/17 03:00 AM
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Dang it
/r/seduction09/06/17 07:03 PM
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