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Actually, yeah, lol. Yours might well have done too, why should she ever tell you?
/r/askTRP07/03/17 09:42 AM
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Women will be loyal under two circumstances: The man they are currently with is the most alpha they can get; or The risk of getting caught cheating with a person of higher SMV is worth less than holding down the current SMV partner they have.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 09:42 AM
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Cheat. You can fuck a hooker or a stranger and she will never know. She gets her prince alpha charming, you get your great relationship and masculine imperative met.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 09:37 AM
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Be honest: Do you have any specific/unorthodox fetishes?
/r/askTRP07/03/17 09:35 AM
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I mean the "we should have less sex" doesn't just come out of nowhere right?
/r/askTRP15/02/17 08:59 PM
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We need to see the texts.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 03:25 AM
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/r/Codependency
/r/askTRP23/10/16 03:21 AM
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If she gets hurt then it's on her. You've made your intentions clear, there's nothing more you can do.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 03:13 AM
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It's the virgins that are insecure about it.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 03:10 AM
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my dick is like 5 and a half inches, which causes some insecurity I do fear confrontation though, and would rather keep my mouth shut if something is bothering me, and withhold my outgoing body language on nights out around other males incase it gives them an excuse to fight me. lmao okay well unrelated to the bdsm fetish you wanna sort this shit out. 5.5 inches is a perfect size. Also, you don't need to be confrontational to get what you want. If something is bothering you, make it known. That …
/r/askTRP23/10/16 03:05 AM
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Really hard to understand the context and tone in which these things were said. Could simply be a semi serious joke about the fact that you are tall/look strong. Could be because you're a creepy neckbeard without the social skills to recognise when you are making a girl uncomfortable. Could be a combination of to two.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 09:35 AM
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You are still in the anger stage. Soon you will realise that all attractive women have orbiters- its just how the world works. Not sure what advice you are looking for, your analysis is clearly on point and yes you are just another beta orbiter with oneitis for this "ltr material". As a side note what did you expect - she's in a relationship.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 09:29 AM
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If it was just a bit of banter, and no an insult or an attack on you, I would just forget it happened and start talking to her today as if nothing happened.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 09:11 AM
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Firs things first, what did the text say?
/r/askTRP03/07/15 08:58 AM
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“I want to hear your voice; I am having a moment of low state. It's not because of you: I am just feeling bad” Why why why why did you send this text? I don't understand. Nothing is going to turn her off faster than going all emotional on her. She doesn't care if you're upset about petty bullshit. She's the one who's supposed to cry on your shoulder, and you're the one who's supposed to not cry at all. If you're upset or overly emotional keep it to your self. You're her rock. As soon as she real…
/r/askTRP06/11/14 05:51 AM
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I'm agree that comments like that aren't gonna help OP. But they do provide good perspective for everyone else who hasn't trapped themselves yet.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 10:31 PM
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Pm me a picture if you want. I'll see if I can give any advice. Your hair is easily solvable. Go and talk to a decent hairdresser. If it's short enough it won't be curly. If you get decent enough product it can look good curly. It's not an issue. To answer the main question, no you're not fucked, you're at a disadvantage, but unless you are legitimately deformed you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 04:07 AM
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I'm 5'7". I know it's probably worse for those of you guys even shorter than that. But the idea is still stands as you say, there's no point fretting over things we can't change.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 05:26 AM
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It doesn't "shatter my inner being". But it does annoy me to come over to TRP and see a circlejerk of self pity about being short.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 05:19 AM
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It matters loads, you're absolutely right. Someone who is 5'3" is never gonna get the HB9s that those 6ft+ get. But it's better to be 5'3" and ripped than 5'3" and fat. That's the point I'm trying to make. There is no use in wallowing in self pity over things you can't change.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 05:17 AM
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Just too elaborate. If she so desired she could now go to the police and claim that the only reason she made out with you was because she was scared and she wanted the key so she could "escape" and that as a result, you kidnapped/trapped/sexually assaulted/whatever her. I'm sure she was into you, and the making out was genuine. BUT by her not having a way to leave, and you 'refusing' to let her leave, you put yourself in a very risky situation.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 06:24 AM
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Holy shit. First of all you need to work on your English/writing ability. That was painful to read. Secondly, don't trap girls in your building. That is definitely crossing a line. "No means no"... but you didn't give her a way to say no. I wasn't there so I can't give a read on body language etc. But no matter the body language, you shouldn't be putting girls in situations where they can't leave.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 03:22 AM
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I'm imagining after all the reddit backlash he ran to his fellow mods for backup and they also told him he was a dick. So then he ran away from reddit altogether.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 08:53 PM
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I'm a straight man who's never get married or have kids. I guess my parents should have aborted.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 05:46 AM
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Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP27/10/14 04:57 AM
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There is a point where having more visible muscle seems to reduce your SMV. I agree with this to a degree. But I also think, at least for people not on steroids, you don't need to worry about it. I can't think of a single natural bodybuilder who has crossed the threshold into "too big". In reality, anyone here who pushes their body to it's natural limits along with maintaining a low bodyfat is never going to be "too big".
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 11:09 PM
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Lol she shouldn't be so offended by that. I'd say just go and pick her up at 10.30. And if she's still not over it go and find someone better.
/r/askTRP16/10/14 10:27 PM
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You have to find balance between giving it to people straight and not being an ass. You can look back through my posts and see that I don't sugarcoat shit for people. But I don't have to post shit like this where its not needed. Also nobody ever said he was going to have a voice like don draper. But if he practices his tone, inflections, body language etc. even by basing himself off a character like DD. He will see improvements and that's the point that was being made.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 02:50 AM
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Personal opinion: Break up. If she does end up moving over in the future and you reunite etc. etc. then great. But don't waste your time waiting on something that may or may not happen, and don't try anything long distance either.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 04:43 AM
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Been with my SO for 4 years. It is pretty much dead. Not sure if it will ever get better. Then why are you with her?
/r/askTRP21/09/14 10:30 AM
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Ask her on a date. Stop being an idiot.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 10:15 AM
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Yeah but like. Have you been homeschooled. Or did your parents just let you quit school at the age of 10? Don't you legally have to go to school until you're 16 in Australia?
/r/askTRP17/09/14 11:15 AM
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This is all seems a little bit pathetic tbh I would just break up and move on.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 06:44 AM
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Other than "reading up" what have you done to change or improve yourself?
/r/askTRP16/09/14 11:43 AM
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Stop using smilies. Organise a date asap.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 04:03 AM
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Also, how old are the girls?
/r/askTRP15/09/14 11:21 PM
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How old are you? (That's not an insult, a genuine question)
/r/askTRP15/09/14 11:21 PM
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Personally I would ignore that exchange and pretend it never happened. There's not really anyway you can succesfully reply to that last text because you set yourself up badly with the one before. I would just wait a day or two without replying and then send something along the lines of what tqzz said.
/r/askTRP14/09/14 02:44 AM
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And what did she send? A pile of bras?
/r/askTRP12/09/14 06:37 AM
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You're a fucking idiot for having an argument with your feminist girlfriend over a feminist issue. I don't even have the words for this. Your actions are not in anyway TRP, and even though most of us here agree with what you said about feminism etc., in what world would it be a good idea to have an argument about it with your LTR? She would likely end up coming over to your POV in the long run anyway if you could hold frame and avoid emotionally charged BS. TRP did not lose you your relationship…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 09:50 AM
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Just because you're not as tall as Pook is not an excuse to not want to better yourself. Sure, Pook went from 7's --> 10's. And yeah, height is important to women, and maybe you'll never reach the same level as Pook in terms of available women. But wouldn't you like to go from 5's --> 8's? Is that not still an improvement? There is no excuse for not getting ripped. It will increase your SMV no matter your height.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 11:03 PM
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arm strength needed to lift my fat ass off the ground Not the best answer. But the lighter you weigh, the easier pullups are. I'm sure someone will come in and share some good gateway exercises. But the best gateway to doing a pullup is going to be to lose weight. Unless you were being hyperbolic.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 10:09 PM
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To be honest I'm imagining OP has left out important details. A few of my predictions being: This girl has cheated on him at some point. They've broken up and gotten back together a number of times. ...tbh it doesn't sound like a 'proper' relationship. I know that sounds like bit of fallacy. But a long term relationship is generally not a real relationship. Especially when your so called girlfriend of 5 years isnt even attracted to you.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 11:50 AM
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There looks like there's already enough good advice here but I still want to say that you were right to end that relationshop. There are a million women in the world who will live closer to you. Enjoy sex with you. And with enough time, 'love you'. That relationship seems like a lost cause. So its good you've left. Now never look back.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 11:44 AM
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He's 5 foot 6. Short but not short enough to justify leg lengthening surgery. Especially when there are so many other things he needs to focus on first.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 01:54 AM
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Yeah OP! And if you work really hard YOU could become a genocidal dictator of YOUR own country too!!
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 01:50 AM
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I often see women cite "large hands" as one of their biggest turn-ons. If you have a nice build, which you will get if you work hard at the gym, girls are going to see that before they even look at your hands. Seriously. Being insecure about hand size is one of the craziest things I've ever heard, fucking hell bro. Most girls won't give a shit unless they are comically small, which they probably aren't, they're probably proportional to your height. getting buff I think looks kind of ridiculous o…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 10:31 PM
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Because most guys with self respect don't want to be in a relationship with a cheater.
/r/askTRP23/08/14 07:11 AM
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can we stop pretending women will be attracted to you if you're not good looking? Not true. Just because a guy does not have conventional super model looks doesn't mean woman aren't attracted to them. The guy who pulls most out of all my mates does not have an exceptionally attractive face. But he has a good body (lifting). He dresses impeccably. He has smart hair. And his general attitude and confidence are what get the girls. Funnily enough. Those are all things that everyone has control over.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 04:51 AM
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I'm at uni and I reckon it's about 30:70 RP:BP. But most of the RP'ers are just naturally RP most likely due to the way they were brought up.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 12:20 AM
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Hey bro. People usually get a hard time for being upset over their ex on here. But 9 years is a long time. I'm sure people would be a lot more sympathetic if you 'lost' your wife in a car accident or something and you couldn't get over her. Break up is not the same thing but try telling that to your brain! My advice is to focus less on 'getting over' her and just focus more on your own life and meeting new people. Just keep doing what you're doing and let time do the rest of the work. You're not…
/r/askTRP14/08/14 11:33 AM
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"standing there talking for over 1,5 hours" Standing where talking?
/r/askTRP13/08/14 05:27 AM
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"Let's talk about X" Starting to sound like Tumblr in here.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 03:52 AM
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I had a fwb who gave me the "I'm on my period btw" line when we were arranging to hang out. My reply was "You have a mouth." In the end we had sex with a towel down anyway.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 02:04 AM
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If she does things behind my back I have no prob no longer being exclusive Generally this doesn't need to be stated outright. You're attitude should show her you're willing to leave if necessary and she should be able to deduct what sort of behavior is crossing boundaries.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 11:54 PM
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I agree. I used generalizations to get the point across to OP. It's fine to show a bit of emotion, but if he's gonna be sending texts like that I feel like he needs to a bit more reading before he starts complicating things.
/r/askTRP
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This is not entirely relevant, but what was the "joke"? Give her a ride. Don't text her unless she texts you first. Go and pick her up at 10.30 like you said you would. Don't discuss her bitchiness last night. Just continue as if it didn't happen. You sound sort of bitter and passive aggressive. Last night just seems like a bit of a hiccup and I reckon you're over thinking it.
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