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Blackpill DiscussionAggravating-Cry-8383/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 09:24 AM
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Blackpill DiscussionAggravating-Cry-8383/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 08:45 PM
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I’m so short she wouldn’t even see me in a crowd like that.
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 05:07 PM
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I see what you mean man. I think it’s because I’ve given up on trying to get with women that I don’t get nerves anymore. In fact I sometimes stop myself from feeling attracted to them because I know I stand no chance. They are just people to me, who happen to be women.
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 04:14 PM
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Not inherently, but dating as a man makes you worry constantly about whether you are fulfilling what is expected of you, and women expect a lot from men. If you don’t meet those expectations, in the bin you go.
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 04:08 PM
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I agree with your closing statement. Personality is important very much so if you are average enough to physically look decent to most women. But being extremely below average makes it harder to depend on personality, because you are automatically deemed as unappealing by women. They could like you as a friend, but mutual attraction is the key.
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 04:05 PM
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I see women as women. I just know that most of them don’t care for my existence. It is what it is. Life of a below average guy.
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 04:01 PM
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Then the question doesn’t concern you
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 01:18 PM
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I don’t think LL is logistical at all. There needs to be more research done for me to be convinced. There are a ton of long term effects. Really, there is no safe way to better the height situation.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 12:52 PM
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Bro I understand looksmaxxing and have done a lot of it. Im just saying that being 5’5 is a big falio. You red-pill dudes are just ignorant. Edit: also I’ve been gymmaxxing for 2 years and already have an aesthetic physique. I do skin care and style my hair ect. Yet it doesn’t matter because being short significantly impacts attractiveness. Red-pill only applies to a very certain extent.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 12:19 PM
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Can’t heightmaxx if your growth plates have sealed. That is utter cope. Chadlets still aren’t chads and get mogged by the average guy.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 11:59 AM
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I don’t have Chad potential at 5’5 man. Be real for a second.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 11:53 AM
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Soul crushing. I agree with you there, at least for me I’m not overly optimistic about dating with the way things are. It’s like love and companionship is becoming a very fragile incentive to be with somebody.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 11:51 AM
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I was told all my life that “women like kind men”, as a grew I’ve seen men who treated women like fodder, but they were extremely attractive and had women crying over the phone that they give them more attention. If I treated women the way they do, my house would be vandalised and my reputation would be ruined. There is so much more to “women just like kind men” than they let on. I had one friend that was the sweetest guy ever. Respectfully, courteous and intelligent. But he was “too nice”. That…
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 11:45 AM
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That is disheartening to think about. Imagine marrying a woman, dedicating your life to her just to find out she was cheating on you. It’s absurd. That’s the one thing I fear, even though it’s very unlikely I’d get married.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 11:37 AM
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Oppressed minority? Jfl
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 09:13 AM
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I couldn’t do it to my family
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 09:10 AM
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Rope saying based? Based.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 09:55 PM
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This guy makes it look easy. He must have an amazing personality.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 09:23 PM
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Probably because it’s not real
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 07:37 PM
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I thought femcel was a joke term
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 07:32 PM
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Same, honestly I’m so tired. Nothing excites me anymore apart from sleep, and maybe Spider-Man 2 coming out in a week. Life is ass.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 01:46 PM
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Cats are chill. I like cats.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 03:39 PM
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And on top of everything, when you bring up how disadvantaged you feel. People will instinctively dismiss you.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 08:03 PM
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Especially when those men have the confidence to ask them out on a date.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 01:50 PM
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I would still say the same, sometimes men would just take someone who wants and appreciates them. Just my take.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 01:41 PM
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Because some of us actually want love and companionship. You must be trolling?
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 07:56 AM
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19 blackpilled since 16
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 07:32 AM
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I doubt he’d be offended, that wouldn’t be an appropriate reaction to somebody just talking to them.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 07:16 AM
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I go to the gym 24/7 at different times of day. The amount of times I’ve seen muscular husky men with not so good looking women comparable to him is almost insane. Your odds aren’t impossible imo.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 07:14 AM
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Thanks for the kind words, I’ll think about it.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 02:46 PM
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I can’t reach out to people, I wouldn’t want anyone close to me to know about any of this. I already tried to reach out and they react as if it has very little meaning and I had nothing to worry about in the first place. I appreciate the gesture. I just know I can’t pull myself out of it alone, but I also know that nobody can do it for me. It’s perpetual and deep rooted for as long as I was short, which is half of my life. It’s insanely difficult to flip the switch when you’ve believed a certain…
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 02:44 PM
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Perhaps
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 11:57 AM
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I wouldn’t really call the people I’ve met who judge me for my height crappy. They think the way they think and that’s okay. I can’t force them to accept me. I get where you are coming from but it’s really just a sense of belonging. I’ve met some blackpillers who are like me and just think that stuff like height and looks is important, but we don’t hate women and all that shit. In fact we often talk about self improvement. Although I absolutely understand, the culture is toxic, but it’s usually …
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 11:38 AM
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By self improvement what is that entailing? I’m already physically fit, good hair, good skin ect. What’s next, money? I know guys who don’t necessarily have to “self improve” but still do fairly well.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 11:12 AM
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Jesus bro. Where do I begin? First of all, I’m not an avid blackpiller. I guess that’s in nature contradictory, but I only really see the lookism side to it. I’m only blackpilled because I grew up realising how different I would be treated because I’m short. Everything you just listed? First of all what the fuck is that even about? Second of all I don’t support any of that women hating mumbo jumbo. I have a predominantly matriarchal family, raised with one brother and more sisters. I think there…
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 11:10 AM
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I have a friend group where they are all 5’11+. I stand out a lot. Plus I try not to think people are bad because of it, people like to make fun out of short guys there’s not a lot I can do about it. I get it. I can’t control the way people see things.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 11:03 AM
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Small but not 5’5 small. Usually the men are between 5’8-5’10. Not high but not very short either. I’m not an immigrant but I am black so yeah… Plus it’s not really about getting laid, that’s not a big concern of mine. I would rather just have a good romantic relationship.”Getting laid” lacks any higher meaning in my opinion idk.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 11:00 AM
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My guy I do go out. How is it wrong of me to say that most women do not prefer 5’5 men unless he compensates with something grand? I have a lot of sisters and friends that are women who all say that they wouldn’t mind dating a guy as long as he is taller. Not tall. Taller. That’s cool. But I’m 5’5. I have dated in the past, it only confirmed how I felt about this. They always went on about how I’m the “exception”. Which fine I guess, but that just proves how uncommon it would be for them.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 10:52 AM
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UK
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 10:48 AM
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Not necessarily, I think that even 5’7-5’8 is a good height to do well in dating. I have been told I’m short in the past, even had people make remarks at me when I’m with my friends.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 10:47 AM
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Everything you listed about yourself doesn’t sound bad at all, what was that meant to do? Draw a comparison? Heck I’d much rather be in your position, an overweight nerd who plays warhammer who’s average height is definitely able to do well in dating. Your position is far better than mine. Look, by all means I’m not saying you have to be some “chad” to do well in dating.Average guys do fine, I’m incredibly aware of that. It’s just that I fall way under that average, and maybe the average under t…
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 10:44 AM
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The average male height where I live is 5’10 by the way
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 10:27 AM
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I think it’s just confirmation bias. I’m 100% shorter than most men. The average is not 5’5. That is severely below average. Where I live, I see more tall women with guys who aren’t tall but aren’t really short like me. Like average height guys with tall girls. In fact I rarely even SEE guys my height. I’m not sure you know how short 5’5 is. I don’t believe in all that “normie” shit. I get why you’d make that assumption but the only part of the blackpill I agree with is the lookism and height as…
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 10:26 AM
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I agree with the gist of what you are saying. You don’t need to be a rocket scientist to see how detrimental the blackpill is. A lot of it’s tenets are obviously illogical since life isn’t that black and white. It is full of unpredictability. But There are core things that do relativity make sense. More so the importance of height(looks). In my instance, some aspects of the blackpill make sense because I’ve seen it firsthand being short. Otherwise I wouldn’t touch the ideology with a ten foot po…
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 10:19 AM
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I’m mean I’m not here to disagree. I’m fully aware the nature of the blackpill isn’t something to be proud of. I’m guess I’m somewhat glad you dislike the blackpill, it means you have no reason to see anything in it.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 09:59 AM
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Isn’t 19 enough to somewhat gauge how my dating experience will be? I understand what you are saying but out of everyone I know I’ve had the least success dating.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 09:54 AM
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No I completely understand what you mean
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 09:52 AM
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In what country is 5’5 a perfectly average male height?
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 09:51 AM
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I think about them because they are the vast majority, therefore the vast majority of my dating pool is as far off as our neighbouring solar system. I am more likely to meet them then someone who doesn’t care. They fall in love with those obviously terrible guys usually because they find them attractive right? Am I wrong for making that assumption? At least the toxic guys I’ve met that had women falling in love with them were conventionally attractive.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 06:37 AM
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Came out the womb “It’s over” Relatable.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 06:26 AM
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I kinda already have engaged with looksmaxxing and the typical stuff. It has almost made me inadvertently more blackpilled since I have recognised that my ceiling/potential is lower than other men, and inherently there’s nothing I can do about it. Even if I go down the surgery route.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 05:57 AM
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That’s true for the standard guy but I’m 5’5. A lot of women would consider that a deal breaker regardless of my other attributes. Attraction is important and it can’t be forced artificially, rightfully so. Idk it doesn’t sit right with me that I would probably get the “he’s short but he has X”. I want to be on an even playing field. Life is unfair I guess.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 05:53 AM
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I’m really just trying to come to terms with it. It’s rough. It really is.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 10:45 PM
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Yeah it’s my height that did it for me. 5’5 at 19 is so bad man. That’s what drove me towards the blackpill tbh.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 10:31 PM
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I’m literally 5’5 I’m certain it will matter to a noticeable degree even in adult hood
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 10:30 PM
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I see. It’s a matter of how soon you get exposed to it.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 09:33 PM
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I mean I think It’s a mixture of the experiences I have had combined with observations. I haven’t felt necessarily inclined not to have this mindset. I see how the way I look impacts me, it’s hard not to align myself with this even when I don’t want to. I struggle to explain it being brief.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 09:31 PM
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Ignore him. It’s really not worth the slight irritation.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 12:04 AM
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Agreed. I’ve got a good face but at 5’5 it practically negates the benefit. So Face unless you are below 5’7
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 12:01 AM
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Lmfao
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 09:38 AM
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Because it’s not body-shaming if it’s directed towards men. Its that simple. Our issues do not matter we gotta suck it up. I reckon this TikTok trend of dunking on short men is more indicative of the fact that women on the internet aren’t necessarily fond of short men, which isn’t surprising. We are generally considered “less manly” therefore deserving of less respect. I wouldn’t say it has reached epidemic levels, but it’s certainly a clear indication to some sort of public opinion about short …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:26 AM
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Honestly I think those viral posts are an insight to how women feel about short men irl
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:12 AM
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No you can’t, people would report in these instances.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:00 AM
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