| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | How to talk to girls? | Inner Game | Aggressive_Special25 | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 05:30 PM |
| 0 | Do you need to have money to date? | Inner Game | Aggressive_Special25 | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 01:09 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| -1 | How To Make Any Boring Conversation FlirtyHonestly this is the best piece of flirting advice I have ever read | /r/seduction | 25/06/26 08:51 PM |
| 6 | What actually makes a guy instantly attractive?Iv never owned my own place before so what does that mean? If I owned my own place I would just make myself feel st home | /r/seduction | 16/04/26 05:06 PM |
| 19 | Is reading women written fanfics a good way to learn seduction?This is possibly the best thread on reddit | /r/seduction | 03/04/26 09:40 PM |
| 2 | 6 months into relationship, What would you do?Relationship needs a destination. Yours is a dead end. Why continue? Waisting your time | /r/seduction | 05/03/26 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Unethical seddit tipI usually leave my drink out in the open for a few minutes. Then I know I'm definitely getting laid that night! Sometimes they are hot. Mostly whales though | /r/seduction | 16/01/26 01:59 AM |
| 1 | What's the fastest you've hooked up with someone ?15 seconds Was in Thailand in the ocean about waist height. Saw another female. We looked at into each other's eyes and I went for it. I came after a minute and then we parted ways. Was fun. Koi sumoi. | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 04:02 PM |
| 1 | How do i make it obvious that im looking for a serious relationship as a female?I wouldn't ask. If they are serious they would say yes. If they just want sex they will probably say yes too. Rather try ask them questions that indicate their own intentions.... Then make a decision from there? | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 05:53 PM |
| -6 | Friendly reminder: NEVER take a girl out for dinner on a first dateExplain to me how flying them to Paris to have a coffee means I'm a simp? Im simply taking them for a coffee like you would? | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 11:09 PM |
| -7 | Friendly reminder: NEVER take a girl out for dinner on a first dateBleh, if you want to be cheap follow this guy's advice. If I had the money I would take them on an all expense trip to Italy and have dinner at the fanciest restaurant. I'm sure that would be a better strategy than a coffee at Starbucks | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 07:57 PM |
| 4 | How to frankly be lucky now?I have had 3 relationships in my life. In all 3 the love and attraction was mutual from both sides. I don't know anything different but I know what you mean when people seem to be together just because they scared of being alone?? It's madness! But yes your right it is rare and when you find it don't blow it like I have done 3 times so far. 4th time lucky for me I hope! | /r/seduction | 11/04/25 10:55 AM |
| 9 | Most guys don’t have “approach anxiety.” They have pre-rejection panic.Well said. I was the same. Then I went through real hardships and that made me say to myself 'wait if I can survive all this other crap then talking to a beautiful cute girl should be an absolute joy! What is wrong with me'. And yes now I am no longer like that. The hardships I had helped me get over my biggest hardship in my life! | /r/seduction | 05/04/25 12:45 PM |
| 2 | Mid 50s doing cold approach?I'm friends with a really old guy he is like 80. He won't approuch anyone who is more than 20 years younger than him he has an age limit. Anyways he is the best pick artist I have ever seen. He is just kind and polite to them. And he gets all the grannies! | /r/seduction | 04/04/25 09:18 PM |
| 3 | The Real Battle Every Man Must FightI'm going to dress up as a roman gladiator next time I go out I so excited I'll even get a helmet with red tassels ontop. Plus a sword and some gold coins! | /r/seduction | 01/04/25 06:22 PM |
| 1 | When she says "you're very forward" is that good or badCare to elaborate about what you mean "being at ease with yourself" in your response above? With examples so my stupid brain can understand. | /r/seduction | 01/04/25 12:33 AM |
| 28 | Most guys don't believe in seduction, and this puts you ahead of them all!I disagree. Being seductive is not a performance. Life is not a film. And you don't have to perform a show to get someone to like you or to build attraction. You will eventually run out of energy in keeping the lies up and the relationship will fall apart. Be yourself then you will find the right one for you. You don't need to put on a show for anyone. | /r/seduction | 31/03/25 05:02 AM |
| 1 | How to play it when your life circumstances are subparBe honest and tell them the truth. I'm in a similar position and I tell girls flat out I'm broke and I got nothing. Some instantly leave - but sometimes you find the ones who want to actually get to know you personally, and they don't care about your circumstances aslong as they can see you have a life plan to better yourself. These are the keepers. | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 09:34 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I'll never get better at this...Imagine the girl you were looking for was a car. What car would they be? | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 09:31 PM |
| 2 | How do you get a hookup/kiss at a nightclub as somebody who overthinks what they doI said that to a girl now and she just looked at me and giggled. What must I do next?? | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 09:18 PM |
| 9 | She invited me back to her home but we didn’t have sexShe was hoping to get an orgasm from you. She got nothing. Most likely she Wil ghost you. If she is patient she will give you another chance | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 01:31 PM |
| 32 | Be real how easy is it to pull girls at a club or bar?Why do I struggle to believe this. Deep down in my stupid mind I refuse to believe this. I always think to myself they will blow me off us men are disgusting to them they just don't want to be harassed. Yet logically I agree they are putting on makeup, buying erotica sexual novels and falling in love with ware wolves and vampires. Maybe I'll dress up as Dracula next time I go out | /r/seduction | 21/03/25 10:20 AM |
| 1 | how to create sexual tension with wordsWhisper in her ear and say to her "I want to get you naked and kiss you all over" Get them wet and horny every time! Thank me later | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Seeking RejectionBeing told to piss off? Or being ignore entirely. That destroys confidence it doesent build it. To build confidence is to actually lay the chick not rejected by her. Let's agree to disagree? | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 07:34 PM |
| 0 | Seeking RejectionThat's something else though. Absolutely don't let failure stop you but getting beaten in a fight again and again won't really help you build your confidence. Winning the fights or laying the chick will | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 09:32 PM |
| 0 | Seeking RejectionGarbage. Like saying go get punched in the face and you will eventually get used to it lol. Fine go and get rejected I'm sure you will feel better that way | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 08:38 PM |
| 0 | Seeking RejectionGetting rejected ain't gonna help you bro. | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Need to change my mindset…Best advice I have ever read in my life thanks for this | /r/seduction | 25/12/24 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Top Reasons Why You Can't Get LaidYour absolutely right. I wish I could just flip a switch and update my mindset. Your suggesting I talk to woman about what sexually pleases them - wow that is scary for me. I cringe at the thought!! Any advice how I would bring up the topic? I will try bring up the topic in future to attempt to get over this sticking point. I appreciate your advice on this. Cheers. | /r/seduction | 25/12/24 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Top Reasons Why You Can't Get LaidThank you. This belief vame form when I was a young child my dad would show my mom affection and she would push him away as say things like sis and he is disgusting. My mother is a nasty person. But it has stuck with me my whole life I really wish I could rewire my brain to view this in a positive light | /r/seduction | 25/12/24 02:43 AM |
| 4 | Top Reasons Why You Can't Get LaidMy issue if anyone can help me is I believe that wanting a girl and wanting to have sex with the means I'm a perverted siko. I know that's not true but that's how I feel deep down inside. I say to myself if a girl knows I want to have sex with her she will think I'm disgusting and Wierd. I have such a bad mindset how do I change this please someone help me otherwise I'll be going extinct like the dinosaurs when in truth I want to breed like a rabbit but as I say I just can't get over the idea th… | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 03:27 PM |
| 2 | I’m officially physically attractive. Now what? My experience with not focusing on building genuine confidence.I have been through what you are talking about. No amount of convincing myself would change my mindset. No amount of people's advice would change my mindset either. What did change my mind set is I got very luck where I got a gorgeous girlfriend who seemed to love me and she was super attracted to me. She showed me this by showing me affection and lots of great sex. After years of her pushing my self confidence up eventually I found myself to be sexually attractive to woman. After years of her s… | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 09:23 PM |
| 0 | Why do women like vampires, werewolves, and vulnerability?Care to elaborate further | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 12:08 PM |
| 7 | Dating seems like a chore to me. How do i change this?Stop jerking off. You will be so horny that you won't beable to stop yourself from interacting with woman | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Do you need to have money to date?OK thanks. I have achieved. I have made millions. And lost it all. I'll make it all back. Right now I'm down in the dumps. But I guess that's business and that's life. So ye I feel like I'm alright just going through a poor phase in my life. Cheers! | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Do you need to have money to date?I think I'm fine on point 2. Point one is where I struggle. I always play it safe and avoid sexualising the woman as I don't want to be seen as a pervert or a sex addict (I'm probably both). Can you provide some examples of conversations that aren't too safe and mundane but are not too sexual and catch the woman off guard. In the past when I try be more sexual I come across way too strong. So I'm either too weak (passive) / all jokes and funny not serious or too strong (sexualy aggressive) / too… | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Do you need to have money to date?Feel good? Care to elaborate with what you mean by that? | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Do you need to have money to date?How often would you say is the minimum amount you would need to take them out? I would need to budget for this | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Do you need to have money to date?Thanks for the feedback. Guess this is just an insecurity of mine. I feel better about myself now. Now I can focus on making cash! Cheers. | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 03:17 PM |
| 1 | How to talk to girls?Will that not creep them out? This is exactly my problem. Are they that easy that I need to just try get closer and closer until I get what I want? Hmm maybe I need to believe in myself more. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 10:16 AM |
| 2 | How to talk to girls?Good point. Wish me luck. | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 06:18 AM |
| 1 | How to talk to girls?So I either avoid sexual stuff. Or I made a comment about how I have a sex room like 50 shades of gray and I would like them to come see it. They landed up calling me a sick pervert. It did come out of the blue though... Maybe I should build up to comments like that. I don't have such a room though 😂 wish I did though! | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 06:17 AM |
| 1 | How to talk to girls?Thanks man I'll go through everything you sent! Cheers | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 06:15 AM |
| 2 | How to talk to girls?I'm reading this now. Wow. Thank you I needed this. | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 09:20 PM |
| 1 | How to talk to girls?So your saying I should be myself and not hide my sexual intent? I hide my sexual wants because I feel like then I'll just scare them off. | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 07:42 PM |
| 2 | How to talk to girls?That is where I struggle. I seem to miss the signs and they get bored or frustrated or even think I'm gay. I often times get asked if I'm gay. I'm not but I seem to make woman think that because I seem to miss all the hints. What is wrong with me please someone help me. | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 07:41 PM |
| 1 | How to talk to girls?So remain a gentleman. Play it safe. And occasionally throw in a bit of a tease. Sounds easy enough. | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 06:44 PM |
| 1 | How to talk to girls?Can you give examples please. | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 05:54 PM |
| 0 | How to talk to girls?If I'm a gentleman and I speak like I usually do I seem to bore them. When I say talk shit I mean to just talk about random fun non sexual topics, until your saying they start bringing up sexual topics? If I try be a gentleman which I am I seem to bore them..? | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 05:53 PM |
| 2 | How to talk to girls?So your saying I must be non chalant, funny and chilled. And when they start flirting with me then I can jump in on the action? So I must just talk shit for a while to them? | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 05:44 PM |
| -7 | Best excuses to switch conversation partners at a bar when you are out soloI once blatantly said to a chick "sorry but your not holding my attention anymore" and started speaking to another good looking girl next to me. She got so upset I felt really bad but I never knew what else to say that was the truth | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 12:41 PM |
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