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Routines and schedules. I have a block schedule of cleaning tasks to do certain parts of the day, and after a few months, it's now autopilot. I was a "disaster = needs to be cleaned", but now I am an "untidy = needs to be cleaned" person.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/23 02:00 AM
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It's conditioning to repel "unwanted" behavior. People hear "tradwife" and think of women who are chained to their home, drowning because they are anchored to their children, and enslaved to their husbands. Since "feminist" now draws the image of the unmarried, overweight, blue haired, mentally unstable woman - there has been a shift back. That doesn't fit the narrative of sticking you Into a 9-5 job for 50 years to contribute to social security so they can loot the funds when needed and tell yo…
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/23 03:43 AM
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I'm not going to read all of that, but I got the just (btw, TL:DR are your friend for more responses). First you need to take accountability for yourself. It wasn't hooks up culture and being raised Christian that led to you being single, it was fear of rejection. You didn't want to have to tell a guy no and be rejected and you didn't want to try new ways to dress or act out of fear it would led to rejection by your family. That's ok, I wouldn't even call these past mistakes, just some life less…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 10:06 PM
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Nope. It's like window shopping. It doesn't harm anyone until the impulse comes over you and soon you are trying to offload your old couch on marketplace to offset some of what you paid for the new one. Yes, you cannot control what he thinks but you can definitely let him know that when they come out of his mouth near you, they now affect you. It is up to him to control the urge to spout out random thoughts and to control these impulses.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 08:34 PM
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You will need to find a man that needs you more than you need them. Basically someone with absolutely no home skills. Honestly, I see these relationships much later in life, after a man has had children with a first wife and they divorced and he isn't looking for another mother of his children, just a wife. You could hope to find a very career driven man. One that is looking for more a personal assistant that looks good at company dinners and parties. But that should sum it up: you are looking t…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/23 02:43 AM
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The rule is supposed to be that the person who asks pays. So if he asked you out, he pays. However, now it seems courtesy to offer to pay your half "thank you so much for such a lovely dinner, would you like me to get my half?" 9/10 he will decline. And then yes, offer to get the drinks next time you go out, and to reference the dinner.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/23 03:39 AM
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So I am going to be a weird one, my husband and I (and all of our kids with phones) have find my iPhone app on. So if we wanted to, we could go I to it and see where any of us are. I do occasionally track to see where he is when he says he is on his way home (my race to clean up a little bit more or change out of my sweats to something better). For my kids I track them when they go for walks. We do t live in a high c time area, but I am afraid they got their sense of direction from their father.…
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/23 04:30 AM
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I've got a really high arch so I can't wear heels very often so I am barefoot or in crocs. Occasionally I wear plain white tennis shoes.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 07:31 PM
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You will have to find someone that will accept you for your past. This guy isn't that guy. Next relationship, when this comes up, say the number. Sounds like you are not proud of those numbers and this is self acceptance. You can't change the past, but you can work today to create a past your future self is proud of.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 07:13 PM
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"I live frugally off a small investment income from years ago." You are being truthful, and by saying it's small, it perceives that you are only taking care of yourself and it isn't enough to provide for more than that.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 02:48 PM
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I'm confused, have you given more BJs than kissed guys? I think part of this is you are making a game of it. He asks "how many guys you kissed?" And you are like, I don't want to tell him the real number, so I'll give a false one and then give him a real one later. His anxiety and anger builds and then you tell him the real number and then upset that built up anger and anxiety comes out. Unfortunately this relationship will go no where and this is the quit point. Him asking your sexual history (…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 02:44 PM
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What.... are you even considering staying with him? Someone who you not only admitted that not only hurt you but that you see no life with? This is done. Time to make a reservation at a restaurant t (the money for a public place is a good security) and time to end it.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/23 08:50 PM
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Really nails should be natural neat and trim. Skip the polish, it just leaches chemicals into your nails. If you want some shine buy a buffer board.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/23 05:45 PM
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I screenshot my banner notifications. I photoshop frames around them. They are proof of peoples inability to cope of external Point of views.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/23 05:02 AM
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Oddly enough, I am in a 18 year marriage but "red-pilled" has become the name of a traditional marriage like mine, and I laugh. You get a lot of "well people don't care about that anymore" and the irony is people are studying books 60-80 years ago and trying to follow that information and at the same time are critical of it. People are trying to modernize it and realize that it was modernizing marriages and relationships that got people online trying to read these old books for help. TLDR: I am …
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/23 11:34 PM
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I know this is a rudely way of looking at it, but you assisted this man in cheating and IMO is as bad as being the cheater, and in some cases worse.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/22 02:28 AM
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So I don't find it abnormal to not have romantic interest at 17 and you can't plan out your life at 17, just pencil in some goals. Seeing how most people do not have their first child until their mid-late 20s, you have plenty of time to discover your path in life. It may very well you are not romantically interested in anyone in your local area. Then it comes to branching out to widen your pool. Personally, I didn't find actual romance and romantic feelings until my 3rd boyfriend. We ended up ma…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/22 01:47 AM
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I don't follow trends. It will cost you more down the road. Think of a practical style you would like to use. Narrow down of you like modern or traditional, neutrals or bold, metal or wood. From there find complimentary colors on the color wheel and remember the rule of 3 and to keep things balanced.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/22 05:59 AM
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It depends on it. There are some procedures that are legitimate medically necessary. However if the goal to look like someone else, I find it a big red flag. Not only is the women not comfortable with themselves, but may have children one day and wonder why they don't look like mom.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/22 05:56 AM
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So first you need to talk to him. Too many people refuse to talk to their spouses until they get some reassurance their feelings or ideas are validated by strangers. Write it down before you talk. Make 4 columns. For a week write down why he does do, what you wish he would do, what you do, and what you really don't want to do anymore. Take a good look at the list. And think back... was working your idea to bring in more money or was it absolutely necessary? Sometimes women end up going to work b…
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/22 06:40 PM
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As big as you are comfortable with. Some people life a lifestyle where they can only comfortably care for one and some can comfortably care for 10. It doesn't matter what the world thinks what you should do, and it definitely isn't up to social media to dictate your life. I wouldn't even trust a paper written into the affects of children in multiple children homes because it will only be rebutted in a few years (if not months) with another academic paper on the opposite. However we have some med…
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/22 02:37 AM
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So stepping back, it seems like he is angry about a lot of things. Maybe having to move from you, couldn't even get the apartment in his name, had to fight to get problems fixed, then for the rental company say "oh, we want to show it, so don't get comfortable." Now his reactive reposnses isn't the best. But stress makes us so stupid things. Talk it out with him but also call the rental company. You don't mention how often or how much notice they are giving to show it, but make sure they are giv…
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/22 08:41 PM
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Well do the tattoos themselves offend you or the fact he has tattoos? Tattoos are removable (with scarring). If it's something that will bother you and you can't see past, you should move on. As a red flag? It depends on the why. Ask him more about how and why he chose the ones he got. Some people have a lot of feelings and memories inside of those tattoos.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/22 08:34 PM
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