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AiAmDreamer/r/MGTOW27/06/17 11:44 PM
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AiAmDreamer/r/askTRP25/08/17 02:12 PM
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After high school, when I decided I was tired of being depressed and changed myself, and then I was reminded of it semi-recently, after I'd gone beta for a girl, knocking her up with a miscarriage following suit. She decided to go on a drug binge after that and ignored me and fucked around while I wallowed in misery and helplessness on my deployment. Tried to make up like an idiot when I got back, and that fell through, along with my other attempts. I've stopped giving a fuck now and I've decide…
/r/askTRP19/06/20 11:22 PM
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The idea of MGTOW itself is generally the same as TRP, but without any focus on sexual strategy. It’s basically a subdivision of TRP in my opinion. I think a big issue that has arisen with the movement, however, is the fact that our drive to reproduce has also motivated our drive to innovate/conquer. Too often, people driven to hatred fail to learn how to control themselves, and so men consistently rejected by women lose their desire to reproduce and their drive for greatness. Too many within th…
/r/askTRP08/01/18 03:13 AM
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So what if you lose a plate? You want to fuck your plate’s friend, so be a man and just do what you want. There are plenty of other girls who will be happy to be your plate anyway.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 02:11 PM
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Women are by nature emotional creatures. Men are by nature logical creatures. Women want men to relate to them in the only way they know how: by stirring up emotions. So they create drama to aggravate men so they can be “relatable”. What they don’t comprehend, however, is that they’re playing with fire, so they always cry when they get burned.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 06:51 AM
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From my experience, the friend will generally act as a cock block, and so I try to avoid situations like that. That’s not to say that you can’t possibly plate the friend as well, but it’s going to be harder because you’re splitting your focus. My suggestion is to dissuade her by some means from bringing the friend, or otherwise cancelling the date if she insists.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 06:36 AM
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No shit Sherlock, these subs aren’t for you. Go to r/RedPillWomen if you wanna post shit like this.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 12:44 AM
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My opinion is be honest, but don’t make it a big deal and change the conversation directly after. Your thoughts can manifest reality, so if you think people will see it as weird or a problem, then they will. If you think it’s weird that they would see it as abnormal, then they’ll likely think so too. Then by changing the conversation, you don’t have them dwell too much on it anyway.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 12:38 AM
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It’s a reference to an xkcd comic, #37. Look it up, it’s funny.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 12:31 AM
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You only just started on your journey. You’re getting over years of bad habits, it won’t be magically solved in just a few months. Hell, I’ve been reading TRP and self improvement stuff for nearly 2 years, and I still struggle with certain aspects sometimes. My current issue is that I’ve lost the frame I had when I talked to girls. Keep practicing, and over the years you’ll look back and be able to realize just how far you’ve come.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 12:27 AM
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And charming. Bitches parents love it when their lil girls date “charming” guys.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 12:06 AM
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Good bot.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 11:57 PM
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Neither. Treat them as you would with children, cos that’s what they are: grown-ass children.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 11:56 PM
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Awwe you think I bothered to created an acronym, how cute :3
/r/askTRP31/12/17 12:38 PM
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Moment she said she’d rather be just friends, you go “Awe, such a shame. Oh well, your loss.” It sounds like you already know what you need to do, and that’s to move on. Sure, her brother is cool with it now, but she’s changed her mind. Friend zone her, and if brother dear asks what happened, simply tell him what happened. If she shows interest in the future, you can consider her again, but I wouldn’t put my money on it. Your best bet is to move on. EDIT: To add on: she’s been distant and dry, s…
/r/askTRP31/12/17 07:18 AM
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thanks, legit useful advice finally. Yeah I like to troll as much as the next guy, but I also like helping out and giving advice too. and I have various ways of knowing Women are sneaky bitches, and that’s about all I have to say about that. Right now I think I'll soft next and demote, but I'll decide tomorrow on soft/hard. And yes I do have FWB lined up, no worries Sounds like a plan, it seems like you’ve already got things mostly figured out and were just looking for some opinions to back you …
/r/askTRP31/12/17 07:10 AM
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1) You have a kid with her. Good job. 2) Too little information. She’s a control freak sure, but how are we supposed to know her temperament when it comes to losing control? There are varying levels of degrees man. 3) That being said, I don’t know why you give a shit unless she can do some lasting damage. Which I suppose she could do since you two have a kid. Again, good job. 4) Man, go get your shit together. You sound a bit like a douchebag. Chill out, find some other girls to mess with other …
/r/askTRP31/12/17 06:57 AM
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EFA: Early Frame Announcement. Basically what that means is that when you first meet someone(especially a woman), you indicate by some means your intention. If she is receptive, you are successful. If she’s not, enh well you probably move on. When you befriend a girl, you set your frame as solely her friend. Once she views you as such, it becomes nigh impossible to convince her to see you as anything other than beta(even if you are alpha). You’d need to do something drastic. For example, there’s…
/r/askTRP31/12/17 06:48 AM
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First off: you mentioned almost everyone you talked to unanimously agrees you shouldn’t break up with her. Realize that the vast majority of the population, likely including your friend group as well, are fucking idiots when it comes to handling shittests and relationships in general. So fuck what they say, because they don’t know shit. Next: You should at the very least soft next the fuck outta this girl. Soft next and demote her to less than an LTR. Personally, you mentioned something about he…
/r/askTRP31/12/17 06:29 AM
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Depends on the message you wanna give her. Personally I might respond with some predatory, like “I dunno, does a (jaguar/lion/wolf/etc.) keep track of all its kills?” But then, I like to think like that. Really tho, imo you want an amused response, something that says “I don’t care how many chicks I’ve fucked(cause there’s always gonna be plenty more for me to fuck).” As for her wet dream: no shit she wants to fuck. She had a sex dream about you, AND she told you about it. What does that tell yo…
/r/askTRP11/12/17 12:27 AM
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To start: you didn't need to explain your opinion on sexual preference since you already did. I admit that I half agree with you, but you're not entirely correct either. There have been studies of the brain's neural structure which backs homosexuals and transsexuals on their sexualities. That being said, I think people with strong wills and minds can consciously change their sexual preferences. You'll likely be hard pressed to find people capable of this, though. WHY do people do that ? Are some…
/r/askTRP04/09/17 06:28 AM
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You got my upvote because your comment is funny and made me laugh aloud.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 05:28 AM
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Your preferences are yours, but I personally wouldn't ever promise monogamy again to a girl. I like to keep my options open, plus it gives me an abundance mentality that if one girl denies sex I can always get it from another girl. Huge power play, especially as sex is one of woman's strongest weapons. Any girl that wants monogamy from me gets a straightforward "No, it's never going to happen, don't even ask because the answer is always going to be no." If she doesn't like this, she's free to fi…
/r/askTRP04/09/17 05:23 AM
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You got yourself in too deep. You invested a bunch of time and energy into this girl, and in the end she hates you. You hacked her shit to prove a point, and it did nothing. You keep worrying about her, and she's not even sexually attracted to you. She doesn't fucking care about you. During this entire time you're trying to be all caring and nice to her, and for what? She gets all kinky with everyone else but you. Really dude? You're gonna keep standing by that? And after all you've tried to "he…
/r/askTRP04/09/17 05:04 AM
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Sure thing dude, long as your system works for you.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 01:09 PM
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I give three tries because life can be unpredictable and people can make mistakes. If I've set up a date with a girl, and we have to reschedule because she either forgot about the event or it's an emergency, I allow two more tries. If the date doesn't happen by the third scheduling(so it's been rescheduled twice), then I call it, soft next her, and I don't bother trying to set up another date. I focus on having sex on the second date, but sometimes the girl doesn't put out until the third. So I …
/r/askTRP03/09/17 12:02 AM
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Just don't promise monogamy, and when she pushes for it, tell her no, you're never going to do it. If she doesn't like that, that's on her and she's free to go find someone who will. Just don't get butt hurt or anything if she starts dating around too.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 11:41 PM
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Probably should, yeah. She contacted you to hang, and now she's screwing around with you. Might be one thing if you contacted her first, but you didn't. So either ghost or soft next. If you really want, give her a third shot, but no more. By my standards, if it doesn't happen by the third instance/try, then give up and focus on another target. Finally, are you aware of the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder? If not, you might want to check it out, you can find it by googling it with the tag "filetype:pdf…
/r/askTRP02/09/17 04:02 PM
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How to know if you are the smartest person in the room: - Everyone else takes longer to learn the material or complete the project/task at hand. If this sounds like you, that you're finishing before everyone else, yes you are the smartest person in the room. What to do when you're the smartest person in the room: - Use your extra time to help the people who want to learn to find the solutions you did. Acknowledge your intelligence only when people point it out, and move on. It's already obvious …
/r/askTRP21/08/17 09:20 PM
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You know where and how you fucked up already. You: - dropped your other plates for her - gave her extra special treatment and benefit of the doubt - allowed yourself to grow super attached to her - allowed yourself to view her as the unicorn You already know what you should have done: - been indifferent about your commitment to her; if you're looking for something more serious, wait for her to push for it - kept your other plates around, if only to fuck; she'll eventually either drop off or star…
/r/askTRP15/08/17 06:56 PM
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Well yeah, there are some girls who can actually make conversation, but I don't rely on them for most of my interactions and trust. It's too unreliable for my tastes, so I focus on hanging out with my crew instead.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 03:15 AM
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Call it sexist, but I'd rather hang out with guys over girls any day. They tend to provide more interesting company with the addition of making less drama. Girls just waste my time with their pettiness.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 02:11 PM
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The "ok human" bit could be contextual, based off his conversation with her before. I agree, definitely don't say "That's the hardest I'll try." You might imply that in whatever you say, but really, you want to direct her to give you what you want, without her fully being aware of your control.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 05:05 AM
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I'm polygamous now, never going back to monogamy, so I'd tell her "Cool beans girl, we're both adults here so you're more than welcome to be with other guys, I genuinely hope you find someone to make you happy!" Indifference the fuck out of it, since you can always get plenty of tail elsewhere.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 04:58 AM
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If your physical attributes are on point, then your issue lies with your mental attributes. You're prioritizing in your mind girls and your lack of status with women, and especially later in life, this becomes a huge turnoff. I understand that you have little experience with women, but you really want to treat them like an accessory. That they're just a flashy little bracelet you picked up from some street vendor, and that if you lost it, well oh well, it cost $2 anyway, so what's there to care …
/r/askTRP22/07/17 03:00 AM
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For one, consider your choice very carefully, because it's not something you back out of. Admittedly, you might have already been pushed on the path, so you may have no choice anyway. The Nine Laws by Ivan Throne is a book about obtaining dark Triad traits. A sort of cross between an autobiography and an instructional book, he details the rules and ideas of the dark triad, as well as sharing details about his own personal life lessons in the dark world. Note that a true dark triad is impossible …
/r/askTRP20/07/17 04:12 AM
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Great, so gold diggers can find rich men. Good for them. Virtually none of it explained "Here's how to treat a guy". A lot of rich men these days are able to keep their money because they're good with finances. Likelihood, they also know how to shoo people off from trying to scam them from their money. Women are way too predictable and obvious when they're trying to get something out of you.
/r/MGTOW04/07/17 02:15 AM
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I say it because the spirit of innovation tends to move westward. Japan and China have advanced themselves far beyond the rest of the world in their innovative ways, so it's clear to me that the spirit has passed or is in the process of passing from America to Japan and China.
/r/MGTOW03/07/17 12:33 PM
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The only (long outdated) reason I see why we should thank women is that our early biological desire to reproduce motivated us to impress women with our accomplishments. Then men realized they liked feeling good about their accomplishments anyway, and women were just a nice side bonus. Actually I'll add one more reason (current with the times) we should thank women, and that gratitude should be for their shitty behaviors and actions, without which many of us would still live in submission to wome…
/r/MGTOW01/07/17 08:12 PM
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For most, anxiety is exactly as you described. The person begins experiencing severe panic when coerced to do something, sometimes even at the thought of doing something. However, for some others, they misinterpret their slight discomfort with (usually) social situations as anxiety. It's fairly easy to tell which is which: panicked versus awkward. One major thing to note is that it is treatable, and I'm not talking about drugs(though there's a chance they may be needed for extreme cases). Most k…
/r/askTRP01/07/17 07:53 PM
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I just took a job offer for a marketing/consulting company that works with a major telecoms provider. Working on commission, I am going to accumulate 200-300k over the next 2-3 years, investing portions of that to build it to 500k. Living minimally off of savings and investments(of which I will continue to grow and diversify), I am going to return to school, finish within three years(degree or not), and begin phase two of my career, which is working with technology, machine learning and robotics…
/r/askTRP01/07/17 01:36 PM
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Judging by some of your responses, either you're very serious about what you're talking about but you still love messing around, or you're just a huge fucking troll. Either way, props to you for having fun. I don't know if I'd say I'm obsessed, but I'm certainly insistent. I intend to orient my life around my happiness and being the best I can be. To that end, I just read The Unchained Man by Caleb Jones, and I've plans to read many more books and learn many more skills. Also more props to you f…
/r/askTRP01/07/17 01:03 PM
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What are your thoughts on my second question, regarding whether woman's conformity to the man's lifestyle allows her to more easily tear you down?
/r/MGTOW01/07/17 10:36 AM
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Google "dicarlo escalation ladder filetype:pdf". It will instruct you explicitly on the steps to escalate to sex. Watch her body language. You're looking for her to be deferential to you, perhaps playful but relaxed. If you're confident enough, once you've begun phase two of escalation(getting to sex), you could probably just tell her to blow you. If not, start making out and direct her hands to your dick. If all goes well, she'll get the hint. If you want to continue further, continue escalatin…
/r/askTRP01/07/17 03:35 AM
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My current technique? No, I don't sorry. I started off doing Mike Cernovich's posture exercise, but what I do is slightly different. The exercise requires you to have an awareness of your muscles. Like how you consciously flex your bicep to make it look bigger, you're going to use that same concept except focused in your back. Focus your attention to a spot along your spine, just below your shoulders. Ideally it will be centered between the bottom tips of your shoulder blades. Then you tighten t…
/r/askTRP30/06/17 05:21 PM
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The Japanese and the Chinese are the new Western world.
/r/MGTOW30/06/17 04:58 PM
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Sure thing. One thing that helps me keep my back is that I got into the habit of flexing certain back muscles every so often throughout the day. These would be primarily your trapezius and rear deltoid muscles, if you're curious. Trains my back to keep my shoulders back naturally.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 12:30 AM
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Some things to add for reference: - Standing up, your palms should naturally be facing in and parallel with each other. This should be accomplished with the orientation of your shoulders alone; your arms are relaxed. - Your back needs to be kept straight no matter what. Someone should be able to put a meter stick to your back and every move you make keeps your back aligned with the stick. - Once you have correct posture then you need to focus on maintaining it. This probably won't be too difficu…
/r/askTRP29/06/17 06:04 PM
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The vast majority of them don't, no. When you get to the bare bones of their actions, they're just automatic responses designed by nature
/r/askTRP29/06/17 05:08 PM
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Yeah, Cernovich is really how I got started with a lot of red pill concepts. Unfortunately, he's gotten rather political as of late, in my opinion. I haven't heard of B&D, what's that?
/r/MGTOW28/06/17 11:01 PM
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The Look.
/r/MGTOW28/06/17 08:08 PM
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Essentially, yeah you're completely right. Now the dilemma lies in a woman's uncanny ability to subjugate her partners. The question is, are men who have been subjugated by their women just initially weak-willed, or did they become weak-willed by their women chipping away at their frame year after year? And if it's the latter, is this ability aided by her conformity to her man's lifestyle, being that it allows her an "in" of sorts to his worldviews and thusly any possible chinks in his armor?
/r/MGTOW28/06/17 08:03 PM
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This actually makes some sense if you think about female nature. When women encounter a high value man, they tend to restructure their lives in accordance with him(provided they've entered a relationship). They will actually begin mirroring some of his behavior and lifestyle. Presumably the reason is because women have little structure in their own lives, and that is part of the reason they need the man to provide it for them. However, biological proof such as this could legitimize this line of …
/r/MGTOW28/06/17 11:34 AM
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I am confused. I already posted this 42 days ago, and I have no memory of reposting this. What? Edit: Link to my original post. I have no idea how this got reposted, much less how I reposted it myself. Help?
/r/MGTOW28/06/17 11:10 AM
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I would, yes. Physical contact creates an emotional connection, and this is generally heightened for women. A kiss probably wouldn't be as bad as sleeping with her, but you should still avoid it. Biggest reason for avoidance though is that you generally don't want to hurt your standing in the company. If you don't care, well, by all means feel free to go for it if you want.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 02:26 AM
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I don't have many readings on the subject yet, only some light experience. The books I am going to read on the subject include Playing Well With Others, The New Topping Book, and My Secret Garden. An online quiz I took also helped me get a bit of a better idea of my preferences with BDSM. It's fairly extensive, so expect to see questions regarding the extreme side of things. Some people just dig it like that, and those are their preferences. I would also recommend checking out the comic Sunstone…
/r/askTRP27/06/17 07:05 PM
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I should have asked, what is your impression or understanding of BDSM?
/r/askTRP27/06/17 11:40 AM
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Have you given any thought to trying out BDSM then?
/r/askTRP27/06/17 11:26 AM
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So you can't go back to regular sex, that's fairly standard, but you're bored of having rough sex. Do you still like to dominate though?
/r/askTRP27/06/17 11:09 AM
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After a few months of dating/fucking, you should probably tell her straight up that you're "never going to promise monogamy, so don't even ask, because the answer is always going to be no." If she doesn't like this, she's free to leave and find another guy who will. Also turn off your goddamn notification sound for tinder. That's unnecessary, and if you're still messaging a girl on tinder then she need to have unfiltered use of your time. And while I'm at it, you should set your phone to silent/…
/r/askTRP27/06/17 05:56 AM
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If you're having doubts, then just cut it off. Seriously. You're just going to get into bigger issues with her as time goes on, so just next her. Regardless of everything else you've said, the biggest red flag is your own doubt, and that's going to invade your every thought until you can't deal with this chick anymore. End it for the sake of both of you.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 05:43 AM
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treat a woman like a princess ...she says, wearing a collar.
/r/MGTOW27/06/17 05:09 AM
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Exactly. TRP is a great introduction to this whole new world, but most enter this world because they got burned by women and society. They find TRP and learn how to fix themselves, and then they start branching off elsewhere to where their passions lie. Caleb Jones has a great analogy in his book the Unchained Man, where he equates your lifestyle to a motorcycle. Family, love, fitness, spirituality, etc. are essentially your engine for the motorcycle, but finances and sex are your tires. Without…
/r/MGTOW26/06/17 09:52 PM
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Your mate doesn't need to smell her vagina. I get that you're probably sex starved horny kids, but seriously, that is completely unnecessary. Fuck the girl, tell a good story that'll make them laugh, add her to the tally, and carry on. Don't try to preserve some girl's stupid twat juice so you can get high off it.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 04:58 AM
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And for those who still live at home(like I am currently), be strong. Grin and bear it, and meanwhile work like hell to gtfo.
/r/MGTOW23/06/17 11:26 PM
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I told him to read Gorilla Mindset and The Psychology of Winning. Those are, in my opinion, two great books to get people interested in changing their lives to get started on their new paths to success.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 07:06 PM
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It really makes you wonder... If it hadn't been for feminism, could we have actually been on the verge of such accomplishments by now?
/r/MGTOW22/06/17 02:06 PM
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The accumulated filth of all their sex and murder will foam up about their waists and all the whores and politicians will look up and shout "Save us!"... and I'll whisper "no."
/r/MGTOW22/06/17 01:49 PM
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Nearly all them are much hotter and they're not as bitchy(supposedly). Source: My brother who takes regular vacations in Europe
/r/askTRP21/06/17 01:17 PM
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Start reading Caleb Jones' BlackDragon blog, he's got a goldmine of information about this sort of thing. Although he will give girls some degree of commitment, he refuses to promise monogamy because he wants to be able to have sex with whoever and whenever.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 01:11 PM
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Use ">" to format the block quotes. Ultimately the choice to do things for people first is up to you, but I do believe you should be the first. It's fine if they did something already, but it's good to do it before them. Your actions are investments of your time. As time cannot be recovered, it is the most valuable currency of all. Furthermore, like any other investments, you should never put in more than you are prepared to lose. People especially will attempt to get you to waste time with them…
/r/askTRP21/06/17 02:33 AM
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It is up to you to decide who to discard and who to keep. You are starting a new life now. I ghosted the vast majority of my old friends, but I knew that most of them would go nowhere. I am refusing to settle for mediocrity as they are. Your story might be the same, it may be different. The way you handle your relationships is up to you. Bear in mind the phrase "crabs in a bucket". If your former acquaintances are parasites(as they appear to be), then by all means cut ties with them. This includ…
/r/askTRP21/06/17 01:07 AM
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I'd also like to add the fact that when men had to hunt in groups, they needed to quickly interpret each other's intentions so they could coordinate effectively and take down their prey. Thus, man's innate ability to tell body language(as well as assess danger) became a mandatory trait, as opposed to "woman's intuition", which is useful to a woman but not a necessary skill for survival.
/r/MGTOW20/06/17 11:55 PM
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Yes, you are in the anger phase. The duration it will last is dependent on you. For now, meditate and continue learning and improving. Do not control your anger. You can't control it, only direct it. Channel it into your passion and drive. Once your anger begins tapering off(imagine you're a glass of water and you're overflowing), begin learning how to manage your emotions and use them as tools. Anger is one of the strongest emotions so start with it. Get angry and then become neutral. Practice …
/r/askTRP20/06/17 11:40 PM
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Per Dictionary.com: Sociopath a person with a psychopathic personality whose behavior is antisocial, often criminal, and who lacks a sense of moral responsibility or social conscience. Psychopath a person with a psychopathic personality, which manifests as amoral and antisocial behavior, lack of ability to love or establish meaningful personal relationships, extreme egocentricity, failure to learn from experience, etc. Based off this, I'd argue they're more sociopathic in today's world due to th…
/r/MGTOW20/06/17 04:59 PM
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Done stuff like this, can confirm that letting my crazy out to stretch its legs for a couple minutes has done wonders to keep my sanity. Then once you've done it enough you can start to direct that energy to whatever you need done.
/r/MGTOW20/06/17 03:22 PM
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To be honest, I've read some reports of how well women do in the military, and I wouldn't put my trust in any of them to their jobs. Anytime they've been out in the field in the usual position men fill(basically anything engaging with the enemy), they've underperformed miserably. I wouldn't trust a women to die for my country the way a man would.
/r/MGTOW20/06/17 03:16 PM
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More than just psychopaths in today's world, mate. They've developed into full on sociopaths.
/r/MGTOW20/06/17 03:09 PM
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Stay in the moment Say what comes to mind, she doesn't like it that's her problem follow the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder if you don't know what that is, look it up with the search parameter filetype:pdf amused mastery don't talk about yourself, talk about her if she asks a question, you must answer it, but only answer it as succinctly as possible, deflect the subject back to her be relaxed, imagine how it feels to have done this 100 times. In fact, you've done it so often it's almost boring now If…
/r/askTRP20/06/17 02:54 PM
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When you surround an army, leave an outlet free. Do not press a desperate foe too hard. Never back people into corners dude, that's just asking for trouble.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 12:33 AM
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Shit tests are neither good nor bad. They simply are a way of nature. Deflect personal attacks on your looks with narcissism. You look 15 Good, that means I'll look younger longer! laughs Insinuate that you are the most beautiful person there, but always laugh off your comments like you're just joking around. Additionally, do some improv. Watch stand up comedy. This helped me out greatly, as when you force your brain to almost instantly say whatever comes to mind, your brain will rewire itself a…
/r/askTRP10/06/17 10:25 AM
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The only person you should ever take seriously when comparing yourself to anyone is yourself. Am I better than who I was? If yes, then good. Am I where I want to be? No? Then keep working. I personally want to have sex whenever I want with whoever I want. Can I do that right now? No, I need to work on my game, among some other things. I'm also slim and want to look muscular. Can I achieve huge bulging muscles? No, not for almost another decade of lifting. However, I can have that slim athletic f…
/r/askTRP10/06/17 12:41 AM
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He looks like a 12-year-old boy. He looks like you could knock him out with an easy punch.
/r/MGTOW09/06/17 01:05 PM
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Confidence like that takes your SMV miles. As embarrassed as a girl might get, they love the validation they get when stared down as sexual creatures.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 05:17 PM
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Oh I do. If I need to enforce something I will be merciless. Such is the way of nature itself. However, I only intend to use force if I must. Otherwise I prefer to be really chill about things. It's vitally important to create an environment where your children can feel free to be themselves or at least seek your help/advice for plenty of their issues. At the same time, they need to understand that certain actions have consequences, and they must learn to accept and handle those consequences to …
/r/MensRights06/06/17 01:43 PM
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Afraid not, but good try! Here's a participation award 🏅
/r/MensRights06/06/17 11:34 AM
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Did you know that there's a thing called a line, and when it's crossed you need to put people back in their place?
/r/MensRights06/06/17 03:19 AM
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Start reading BlackDragon's blog. He's got a ton of good stuff there. If you're not already, become polygamous. As a male, your brain will naturally attach more emotion(love) if you're dating only one girl. Doesn't matter if you were dating multiple girls at the same time at one point, your brain will always revert to this tendency, it's just a matter of time. Polygamy will combat this because your brain can't handle too much emotional attachment to multiple objects. Like how women are better at…
/r/askTRP05/06/17 04:45 PM
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Pfft aright man, you take it easy there lol
/r/MGTOW05/06/17 04:30 PM
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If, in the future, I had a teen who didn't fold and put away their clothes, I'd probably put up a sign like that, honestly. It gets the point across in a humorous way, which I like, plus I would be the type of parent to enforce it if need be.
/r/MensRights05/06/17 04:25 PM
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Well great news! It's going to be a global event, so you'll still get to experience its glory! :D
/r/MGTOW05/06/17 04:12 PM
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Yeah, as much as I can see where you're coming from, hell no will I give up online dating. Via Caleb Jones the Black Dragon, under his system you could rack up plates easy as fuck with virtually minimal effort. Admittedly I haven't tried it yet, but the logic is sound, and he's tested it multiple times with other men as well. So yea, I'm keeping the online dating.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 03:10 PM
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I'm going to assume you're exaggerating when you say it will last ten minutes, as yes, the war likely will not last long. The issue is that it will be bloody. It's not just going to be feminism versus the manosphere, but it's also going to involve cultures clashing, countries around the globe at odds with each other, and the opposing sides regarding technology progression. Plenty of people have weapons, and even if they don't, they know enough to either get some or make some. From there, people'…
/r/MGTOW05/06/17 02:56 PM
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It's going to be a brutal civil war. Only the strongest will survive. I predict it will break out within the next 10-15 years. Prepare.
/r/MGTOW05/06/17 09:35 AM
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Breaking frame is not the end of the world. It's not going to suddenly mess up everything(usually). That being said, your frame is directly tied to your reputation with people. Women are especially brutal regarding this, particularly when it comes to attraction(e.g., shit tests). So as the saying goes, "It takes a lifetime to build a reputation, but you can lose it in a minute." Since you've presumably broken frame with this woman, your reputation with her has sunk depending on the severity, and…
/r/askTRP05/06/17 09:26 AM
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Your past may create you, but it does not define who you are.
/r/askTRP29/05/17 04:28 PM
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Different girls respond differently. It sounds like you're not as responsive to being given attention, but for women that thrive off it, the removal of attention is a powerful action. You'd mentioned that you're a nerdier girl. You've probably learned to live off of less attention. Other women haven't. Thus, you gained something of an outsider's perspective.
/r/askTRP29/05/17 01:25 PM
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but what do you mean about the girl went home with him because she saw me? i still don't understand that. It's sort of reverse psychology. He's interested in her, so he gives you attention. Accordingly, she becomes jealous and possessive, since she's probably under the belief that he and she are supposed to get together. So the tactic works out and he sleeps with her.
/r/askTRP29/05/17 12:51 PM
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I believe there are some degrees of denial in their attitude. often they look fake, they try really hard to show me that I have no power over them, at the point they can look robotic to a smart girl. For others it could become a cult which brings no much joy. You address perfectly some of my issues with both groups. MGTOW is a great concept, and the "going your own way" is actually an essential part for complete success in life. Most people don't understand the necessity for being independent of…
/r/MensRights27/05/17 02:29 AM
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I've heard good stuff about meetup.com or whatever it's called. Make connections on LinkedIn. Try to network with everyone, at least a little. Charisma will help greatly as well. Always be the "MVP" of whatever group you're in by providing the most value. Yes you can still have an awesome social life without going to college. You just need to have some ideas of how to get started.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 10:50 PM
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you guys have some responsability in it, if you would learn to not turn a blind eye to girl mistakes, that could help. I agree. It's been a few years since I broke up with her, so I've moved on and learned from it. The problem is, unfortunately, the fact that feminism has become so pervasive in the media and minds of the masses that men have grown incapable of handling women who act up. Women being unfaithful, self-centered, arrogant--they're often defended as "strong and independent". Then poli…
/r/MensRights26/05/17 09:51 PM
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I'm an aggressive type, and I like take initiative, but a few times, after a date, I decided: I want to see if she cares enough to do one single move. So I didn't call them, and they didn't either, of course. I can relate to this. My second girlfriend was a year older than me, dated her in high school so my senior year she was in college. She pretty much ghosted me all the time. I would text her, she'd read it and not respond until hours later when I texted her again. A couple times I decided to…
/r/MensRights26/05/17 03:15 PM
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Honestly who gives a shit if he's an actor, skips leg day, pays for the girls, whatever man. You see he has fun, he parties a lot, and he's jacked. As a man who wants to live a fun and happy life, that's all I give a fuck about. Do I care to live exactly his life? Nope, cause I have different interests. But I will have plenty of money so I can effectively do whatever I want? Hell yeah brother
/r/MGTOW22/05/17 10:41 PM
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I've been following Dan on instagram for a little while now. I love his posts, his is truly a life to emulate.
/r/MGTOW21/05/17 05:17 AM
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Another big issue is that men form deeper emotional attachments than women. Hence, monogamous BP relationships can be very destroying for the man, who put forth so much work into the relationship only for the girl to disregard it by breaking up and quickly moving on to the next guy.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 10:35 AM
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The PatREEEEEEEEarchREEEEEEEE
/r/MGTOW18/05/17 10:25 AM
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Well it's clear that one standard bitch is worth less than a cent, so supposing all women are standard bitches in your book, then all women are worth less than a cent for you
/r/MGTOW18/05/17 12:22 AM
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THE PATRIARCHY REEEEEEEEEEEE
/r/MGTOW17/05/17 10:15 PM
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This was on my twitter feed. Felt too relevant not to share.
/r/MGTOW16/05/17 10:12 PM
1

So pretty much the edge of orgasm. What about my second question?
/r/askTRP16/05/17 02:41 AM
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Afraid I'm gonna have to side with some of the others who are at odds with their mothers. My mother has been incredibly manipulative and domineering in my family, to the point that my eldest two siblings can hardly stand to talk to her, and my other two siblings and I are likely to follow suit or similar once we move far enough away. I don't like it, but I can't change the fact that my mother is one of those parents who destroy their families(or at least their relationships with their families).
/r/MGTOW15/05/17 05:07 PM
1

By edge you mean the edge of orgasm? And are you supposed to practice all of this at the same time or separately?
/r/askTRP15/05/17 02:02 AM
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Amazing. Not one mention of doing improv. Improv is honestly a great way to reprogram your brain so you can be more charismatic, though that's just one result of many. Find a good improv group or class, one where you have to make things up on the spot. I clarify this especially as there are many improv groups who like to do pre-scripted skits and scenes, and they often do the same thing over again. Make it your goal to become the zaniest guy during the scenes. Do the ballsiest shit possible, as …
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 07:37 PM
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So what do you say to the countless numbers of religious people who say a significant reason for their belief is that it has manifested in their life - their lived experience. Yet - logically speaking - they can't all be correct. Countless numbers of people have believed things that are consistent with their experience and yet are not objectively true. A person's subjective beliefs regarding an event does not make mean their beliefs are true or false. Supposing that z=x+y, a person's own belief …
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 04:15 PM
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That woman is hilarious. The whole time, she in particular is trying to pin the dude down with labels and psychoanalyses, and he's just saying "Nah, it's none of that." Comedy gold.
/r/MGTOW09/05/17 04:19 AM
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This may be related, it may not be. My brother once described his observations of the female hierarchy of power versus the male hierarchy of power. What he noticed was that the men in a community or group deferred to and respected the men with the most influence. These men tended to be charismatic and honorable, or simply held the most power. These respected men almost never changed their position in the hierarchy and always remained at the top, and no one questioned this. The men below, however…
/r/askTRP08/05/17 06:25 PM
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20, but I've not yet fully gone my own way. Living with the parents to save money, and my mother can be especially annoying with stuff like this. The bonus though is that it forces me to build my skills and body!
/r/MGTOW08/05/17 03:09 AM
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I see what you mean, though my opinion remains different. I believe anyone who is a part of a community or group of thought is an unofficial representative of the collective, and thus they ought to behave accordingly. Clearly, as you say, this miscreant is no more than a juvenile troll. EDIT: For anyone wondering, the troublemaker(who has now been removed) was making obscene and derogatory remarks. The two comments I recall were something along the lines of "having a punching bag to cum in" and …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 03:07 AM
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Chill, dude. You're a representative of TRP. Act like it.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 03:54 PM
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Sounds like you're in stage four.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 09:58 PM
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Fair enough man, they're your values to uphold. Also, if it helps with your decision, getting the guy to chill out with you could be as simple as telling him, "Look, I dunno what I did to piss you off, but whatever it is, I'm sorry." And just leave it at that, wait for his move. Again though, if that doesn't align with your values, by all means find a solution that will.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 06:33 AM
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Yes. /u/Draki1903 and your responses are exactly what I meant. Making people believe they have power over you is the best way to gain power over them.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 11:25 PM
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For one, your company is stupid for putting more women than men in an office environment. That's a recipe for drama and eventual disaster. Depending on the situation and your cleverness, however, you might actually be able to "befriend" this guy who dislikes you. It would require submitting to him for a time so he warms up to you, but it would also give you a way in, as well as allow you to steadily gain influence in the group. Essentially, he becomes the "official" leader, but you would be call…
/r/askTRP12/03/17 11:07 AM
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From secondhand experience(friend is cutting weed out himself), this is probably gonna be the most effective advice. Helps you build discipline, as well preparing your body for not having it anymore.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 11:43 PM
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So are you saying it's your destiny to fail? You're determined to fail? Cause that's how you make it seem. How about being destined to succeed? That out clockwork universe has been set up perfectly in that you are predestined to come out on top of everyone else? That's the way I see it. You're just playing a role, sure, but your role could be the hero of the story. Think about that. That no matter what, you come out as the victor. Of course, that doesn't mean you can just slack off. Even in stor…
/r/askTRP10/03/17 01:47 AM
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"You mess with the bull, you get the horns." I can't think of a better way to describe feminism's actions in recent times. This is just adding to the mix. It wouldn't surprise me if, in the coming times, we experience revolution, and someone decides to impale the statue on the bull.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 01:30 PM
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1) Start meditating. There are many forms of meditation, but I'm going to recommend staring at a small, fixed point. Your vision will start getting weird and blacking out; that's to be expected. The point of this exercise is to have that one entity fill the entirety of your thoughts, and you stop thinking. Some benefits: clarity of mind, amazing focus, a powerful stare, and control of thought. After that exercise, shift meditation to the standard closed eyes, and shift that focus to your breath.…
/r/askTRP05/03/17 12:57 PM
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Started taking my RP journey more seriously, mostly just been MGTOW and Monk Mode to help with building frame and restructuring my mind. Mostly I've been working on creating an insatiable hunger for learning while also developing an IDGAF attitude. Some other stuff I've scheduled for myself has helped with keeping up the motivation, and I've been experiencing almost an amazing drive as a result. Even though I probably unknowingly began my journey the beginning of last year, I'd declined for a bi…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 04:06 PM
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Part of my research has led me to a lot of men regretting the vasectomy, usually because they keep experiencing pain. What's your take on that? Also, I've seen a couple videos of performed vasectomies, so would you mind sharing your experience of the operation?
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 06:21 AM
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1, This might be a better question for askTRP 2, There is no foolproof way to have vaginal sex without the risk of pregnancy. Even vasectomies have a risk of failure(though it's incredibly tiny). That being said, on average you just need to worry about the condom breaking or falling off. Condoms are rubberized latex if I recall correctly, so micro-tears would lead to a broken condom anyway, same as if you made a tear in a balloon. And if you're really that scared of a girl taking your sperm, you…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 06:18 AM
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That's scarily close to one of my own experiences, and the reason I got wayy more mindful of using condoms. Admittedly though, the girl loved partying(and all that that implies), so irregular periods weren't exactly uncommon.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 06:03 AM
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It would probably be a year or two before I did it anyway. I have personal circumstances that might make the operation awkward or disadvantageous for me right now.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 02:41 PM
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I'm well aware of all this, but I'm still paranoid of the condom breaking.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 02:34 PM
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It is things like this that makes me seriously consider getting a vasectomy, even though I just turned twenty.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 06:07 AM
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Roughly the same here. I just lurk, especially since I haven't read all of the sidebar yet. I've rather just been focusing on diving into books relating to TRP in congruence with what people post here.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 05:08 AM
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This reminds me of Gorilla Mindset, a book I read that probably began my journey into TRP. Good read and good post.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 04:50 AM
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