Premature Ejaculation holding me back

pouyanz · 2017-05-14T23:36:57+00:00

I last 2min the first round always. But second round i can go 3 hours. Hows your second round? Tell her to suck you for the first round

-memento · 2017-05-15T02:02:12+00:00

Edge, and rub the head in circular motions + kegels and reverse kegels.

You probably got premature ejaculation from cumming to quick from porn videos when you were younger, you need to train to last longer, so probably stop the porn for a while because it will just excite you too much.

Just listen to music while you edge for 15 mins, if you edge and don't cum for 5 days, you will shoot a lot.

a0001_i1100 · 2017-05-15T02:34:45+00:00

easier said than done, but you've got to own it if it happens and have an IDGAF attitude about it if it happens. Then proceed to follow the advice that others have listed here. It really isn't a big deal if it happens. It has probably happened at least once to every guy.

Thinking about it, dwelling on it, especially right before getting laid and then being all nervous and breathing heavy and having a pounding heart as you start to go at it, will exacerbate the problem. You need to be calm, enjoy the ride and have FUN with said girl. Don't over think it. BREATH. If it happens just brush it off, rest up for a while, then go for a round 2. You need to quiet your mind as you go into sex, DO NOT THINK ABOUT PE, just enjoy the process and fulling embrace the moment from start to finish. If you are thinking "oh I hope it doesn't happen" or "this better not happen again" it will likely happen. I know because it has happened to me.

I recommend (if you are getting laid regularly) to not masturbate. If you are not getting sex on the reg, maybe jack it ever week or 2 weeks and go for length. Dont rush it, enjoy the process and feelings and get to know what will make you go. Don't watch porn, as many will also advocate.

this little video actually helped my mind frame with it quite a bit. good luck.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6nuVgg484XI

Mescuzzi · 2017-05-15T05:25:55+00:00

Do you masterbate?

If so, quit that shit... immediately. I stopped fapping last year around October. Any time I climax now is from a chick. I swear to you, you'll be more focused, you'll have more drive to meet up with chicks, have less anxiety (because you'll be horny as hell). There seriously are so many reasons why you should stop. I've never looked back.

Read The Sex God Method. Figure out your weak areas - Dominance Emotion Variety Immersion and start working on that. If you're really worried about climaxing too fast, make her go down on you till you bust a nut. Make sure you're giving directions, etc. A chick will do what you say if you've lead the entire date. She wants to please you. After you bust, immediately focus back on her (while you give yourself some time to collect again). Then eventually work into PIV.

Gotta work on removing the negative thinking too. If you think about it, it's going to happen. I think that's where your problem is.

Focus a ton of energy on the foreplay portion of it. Get her so hot and bothered she is dying to fuck you. If you bust early, say something like "fuck, you got me riled up. We're just getting started" or whatever. Just say some confident shit.

TL:DR - stop jerking it and/or watching porn. Read Sex God Method, remove negative thinking about premature ejaculation. Oh yeah, and Read Sex God Method for fuck sake, it's a game changer

BusterVadge · 2017-05-15T13:08:40+00:00

Try a low dose of viagra from time to time. It not only helps erection strength but it helps with PE too.

Pitchfork51 · 2017-05-14T23:56:17+00:00

Jerk off or have a god damn drink before hand

remember_that_girl · 2017-05-15T03:27:22+00:00

In addition to all other advice here, I would try meds, but that's just me. Pregabalin works well for me to make the dick pretty insensitive while erection is still maintained.

fasikalika · 2017-05-15T06:22:42+00:00

How many times do you work on your cardio and how intense is it?

Title	Premature Ejaculation holding me back
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