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| 15 | Girlfriend wants me to “rape” her. How do I go about this in a smart way?You’re overthinking this. She is simply telling you to be more dominant in your guy’s sex life. She’s your girlfriend? If she wanted to false accusation you, it would’ve been done already. Research DEVI from sex god method. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 12:19 AM |
| 3 | Just looking for that juicy advice. Nothing complicated at all.If she hits you up first, set a date then and there. If you don’t hear from her, wait approx 4-5 days to reach out and set a 2nd date. Don’t plan and set the date more than 2-3 days before the actual date. If she hits you up within the week (earlier than you expect) just role with it and set a day. The key is to strike while the iron is hot. But if her interest is low, or is a girl who lets the guy do all the texting and logistics, you need to convey that you have options and are not an eager be… | /r/askTRP | 12/03/19 03:17 AM |
| 6 | Found a text suggesting lunch with guy from gym. Should I say something?Set a boundary and stand by it. Don’t let her play your emotions with her little act of not thinking anything by it. Either you’re not cool with her behavior with this, you let her know and act accordingly or let her do weird shit like this and she sets the frame of your relationship for your emotions to get walked all over now and into the future. I would tell her flat out, “ my girlfriend let’s me know when she is having lunch with another man and the reasons why, or she is not my girlfriend.”… | /r/askMRP | 13/02/19 02:00 AM |
| 4 | Found a text suggesting lunch with guy from gym. Should I say something?Demote her status. Tell her why and exactly how you found out. She might throw a fit. She might say she was going to let you know but hadn’t had the chance yet. That could be a bluff or tru...How long has this lunch thing been planned? That is what you need to figure out. She should be telling you upfront about stuff like this and reassuring you it’s a business move. Her hiding it shows there is more underlying than business. Be calm and state the facts. If she wants to have lunch with other guy… | /r/askMRP | 13/02/19 12:35 AM |
| 4 | Confrontation between me and an AMOG (Alpha Male of the Group)... Am I retarded/short-sighted or was I right to stand my ground?Totally agree. You didn’t lose your cool. You had a human reaction and handled it well. Ignoring his blatant disregard and AAing and making it some joke to this girl is fucking weird. It’s tit for tat. It’s little kid shit. Akin to “your dumb.” “Well your stupid.” You handled it like a man. Making a joke out of that shit is pussy. Kick him the fuck out. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 03:53 PM |
| 4 | Confrontation between me and an AMOG (Alpha Male of the Group)... Am I retarded/short-sighted or was I right to stand my ground?You handled it perfect in my opinion. Fuck that’s guy. Your car, your rules. You were clearly the AMOG. Jessica’s loss for not seeing this and suggesting you not stay with her. That right there is a red flag and makes me question how quality the girl really is, even if she is a smoke show. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Asked my opinion and when I gave it honestly she tried to agrue about it?Because you’re insecure that another higher status available male will swoop her up. That is your truth. | /r/askMRP | 07/02/19 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Damage controlBoth. I’m angry at myself for the lack of control and that I hurt her with these actions. | /r/askMRP | 02/01/19 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Damage controlThank you. I’ve accepted it, but it still feels like shit. Moving forward and learning. | /r/askMRP | 02/01/19 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Damage controlShe is a good person and I’m angry that I hurt her. That’s all, it’s not about losing her or keeping her, morally I don’t want to hurt people close to me. Yes not married and no kids. Thanks for the reply and blunt truth. | /r/askMRP | 02/01/19 05:13 PM |
| 75 | What are some Red Pill quotes that have stuck with you?Correction: She’s not yours, it’s just her turn. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 04:39 AM |
| 4 | BoundariesBfdbndj | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 02:43 AM |
| 3 | I Keep Going Soft and Don't Know Why?It’s mental. Your stressing on it. Do your best not to let it bother you and DGAF. Once you have a good experience, try to embrace a positive feedback loop. Read SGM. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 01:37 AM |
| 3 | Her Birthday?Honestly, look up something cool and that’s completely your own idea wherever this trip is. Plan a little trip or experience within the trip. The glow sticks around the room feels a little like you’re trying too hard. Stay casual. Experiences trump material items. | /r/askMRP | 10/11/18 12:59 AM |
| 1 | What are some Red Pill Careers?Something dangerous | /r/askTRP | 03/11/18 01:26 AM |
| 3 | Was directed here: (25M) dealing with first big breakup with (25F)You have major issues. Start with side bar and all recommended readings. Especially no more mr nice guy. You have covert contracts all over the place and this girl doesn’t even respect you. Could be your behavior but still, you’re better off starting fresh my man. Work on your self. Read no more mr nice guy by Robert Glover. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 11:43 PM |
| 5 | Is kissing on the first date a good idea?Yes it’s a good idea. It’s the perfect measure of whether you should invest more time in the girl or not. The timing is key. The date should be progressively moving towards the kiss (and eventually sex, even if it’s a date or 2 later). You want to kino and build comfortability and familiarity before just diving in. These are all generalities and each circumstance has it’s exceptions. Overall, I advocate working towards a kiss minimum on the first date to gage her interest level. High interest = … | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 01:06 AM |
| 2 | I did the mistake of opening up about how I feel to my girlfriend. Now she's distant. How do I recover?It’s not as big a deal as it’s made out to be. As long as your not a whiney little bitch to her everyday, I wouldn’t worry about it. You’re a human being, it’s alright to say your under a lot of pressure at work or your worries about your sick relative or whatever the case may be. But you need to deal with it like a man. No whining. No cryjng. Stoicism is key. Don’t bring it up multiple times or every day. One and done. Mention what’s on your mind, how you will handle it and move forward. As far… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/18 03:44 PM |
| 2 | How to spike a girls emotions verbally!!!Anything that will give her some sort of feeling. For instance, ignoring a shit test and not responding will not spike emotions. Doing the same date, date after date. Every once in a while tell a girl how fine she is(best while sex or after). Dropping a text message once in a blue moon, hey thinking about you. Buying her a little gift once in a blue moon. Pumpkins work well this time of year. The little kind, not a big ass one. I know some of those are not verbal but that’s all I got. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 12:39 AM |
| 1 | What to do with wife who is constantly on phone?Maybe ramp that up a bit if she’s continuing the behavior. turn tv off and go lift or meet a buddy or go for a run or play guitar. But ultimately man, it comes down to how attentive and interesting you or being. Better yet: turn tv off. Grab phone out of her hands gently but confidently. Set it on the coffee table or night stand or whatever. Begin to escalate-make out, run your hand between her legs etc etc | /r/askMRP | 10/10/18 01:33 AM |
| 1 | What to do with wife who is constantly on phone?Depends on the context whether it is disrespectful or not in my opinion. If it’s a show or movie you guys watch together: disrespect. Mindless flipping through channels: okay behavior. On phone at dinner or a date: disrespect. However, you gotta be more interesting than the damn shit she’s looking at on the phone. I call out my ltr when I think she’s being disrespectful with it. Something along the lines of “if you want to be on your phone that’s fine, I’m going to go do X.” I can relate. | /r/askMRP | 09/10/18 11:13 PM |
| 2 | What’s the womanese translator for - “I just feel like we’re at different places in our lives”Pretty sure it’s a translation for: “I’m still enjoying the CC.” She wants to fuck around with other dudes and not have you get in the way of that. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 10:17 PM |
| 3 | In my case, how would I bring a girl back to “my place”?Invest in a tv and furnish the office with it. Or a guitar. Learn a simple song or 2 on guitar. “Hey i have this song I’ve been working on that I’d like you to hear” boom. Or try to get back to her place. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 10:16 PM |
| 14 | Dumped by LTR turned LDR today.Enlighten us on your needy, scarcity, insecure behavior you displayed so other newer users know not how to be. What did you do, act, say? | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Strange medical ailment just came up, and I have a trip planned with ltrWhat do you mean by a “man on 3” | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Strange medical ailment just came up, and I have a trip planned with ltrWhat do you mean | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Strange medical ailment just came up, and I have a trip planned with ltr30 years old. Can be caused from straining and I actually think lifting caused it last night | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 08:00 PM |
| 2 | "Feel Free To Text Me Tomorrow ;)"Then I’d go with option one and rest up and fight off the cold. If she asks tell her you had a cold. Confirm day of date or night before. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 08:22 PM |
| 8 | "Feel Free To Text Me Tomorrow ;)"She’s testing to see if she’s your only option. Don’t text her. If you text her tomorrow, you’re entering her frame. Most thirsty guys would text her just for the mere attention and to be show how good and attentive he is. Don’t be like other guys. Remain a mystery. It seems like she may have high interest level. Have fun on the date, it should go well. Edit: it may be a good idea to text the day of the date, or Sunday night: “See you at X at 7:00pm” or whatever time you’re meeting. I didn’t rea… | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Plate luring me with sex.What’s a thot? | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Is music a good way to raise SMV?“There is a groupie for everything.” | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 10:39 PM |
| 14 | Posted a Snapchat story hanging out with a girl. Girl I'm trying to game replied and asks me if it's a date. How do you reply?No reply at all. Keep gaming the other girl, hit her up in a day or 2 | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 02:04 AM |
| 1 | My girl wants to move in together. What should I do or say?Tell her for the sake of your relationship that you guys should live separately. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 01:46 AM |
| 1 | LTR asks "Can I work Saturday?"Let her work. There will be other date nights. Unless this was a special occasion or something. Telling her to not work when her job asks her to for a mediocre date night seems needy to me. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 01:11 AM |
| 2 | 20M in a 2year LTR, with occasional sex and have only just now discovered TRP (looking for some guidelines)Google search should suffice. Levels of dread the red pill. Red pill side bar. Red pill reading list. Start there. Read the main sub daily. This ask sub occasionally has some golden advice. Married red pill (MRP) is a good sub for red pill relationship advice and issues, it doesn’t just pertain to marriages. There is also askMRP | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 06:17 PM |
| 5 | 20M in a 2year LTR, with occasional sex and have only just now discovered TRP (looking for some guidelines)Well, you can’t negotiate attraction or desire so don’t discuss a damn thing. You only want to do that if you are in late stage dread levels. Now, being so new, you need to digest the sidebar, key terms and theories (ie levels of dread), and required readings. Work yourself and work on becoming a top percentile man to increase her attraction. This could be a long process. (Years). I would read up on levels of dread. Don’t discuss the sex thing, be cool and non-chalant, you want to convey you kno… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 04:24 PM |
| 8 | Those of you who found TRP years ago, why are you still here?Every once in a while, I need a reality check | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 06:51 PM |
| 1 | How bad was this fuck upWas the DEERing the bigger of the fuck ups or does it even matter? | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 07:30 PM |
| 5 | Babysitting drunk girlHow bout a good old fashioned "No worries, meet me at X at this time" without any of the bull shit. That shows interest enough and will stand you out among the rest of the needy fucks. Everyone tries to be clever and witty, just be genuine. You giving her your time is showing intent enough and they know the game. just be cool | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Knee hurts during doggyStand up on your feet. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 07:25 PM |
| 11 | Going to hard next gf when I get backWell, a hard next is no contact whatsoever. Your erase the person from your life completely. So that would be the best way. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Is this the seedling for abundance mentality?I screen shot your post. A few of your points are great reminders I often lose track of. As far as getting there, i would say don’t lose track of your mission, keep on it and have fun on the ride. The girls should be a product of a great life. You do have to put out some effort along the way if you want your needs met. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Perfect job at good company in shit locationExperience is good. You can use it to get where you want to be. Also, in terms of social life and being a red pill aware, high value man, there is still a social hierarchy. Strive to be the top 20% in this new “shit” city and you will be fine. Make the most of it for what it is. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 03:19 PM |
| 5 | Weight LiftingIt’s not like you will get Schwarzenegger big or like the extremely jacked dudes you see who use drugs overnight or in even a couple years. There are so many other benefits besides “getting” big. Regular lifters who have been doing it for at least a couple years have better muscle mass, strength and better looking bodies than most, yet are not grossly big. I mean, ask yourself this: are you satisfied by remaining outside the top 20% or do you want to be considered a top 20% man? Do you want to b… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/18 04:50 AM |
| -4 | LTR considering going away to a different state for 4 monthsTough sitch. 4 years is tough to throw away on something like this. If it’s truly her dream and not just some whim to take a break and see other people I would be pretty torn too. It might be worth talking to her about and seeing where she’s at with this relationship and what she intends. 4 years is a long time to just give up for something like this. Idk man it’s not like she’s saying she needs a break. Be prepared for the worst case scenario, hope for the best. I would handle it this way (just… | /r/askMRP | 29/07/18 04:09 AM |
| 9 | "I don't want anything romantic or physical but I'm down to be friends" -former plate“Okay, take care” | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 04:20 AM |
| 3 | ltr wants to try new thingsDon't try to do it all at once, ease into it. Think variety. Now would be a good time to read SGM or brush up on it. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 04:06 AM |
| 1 | How to effectively lead significant other into ‘OYS’ mode?I’m asking for tips on how to get her into the same mode I am in. | /r/askMRP | 16/07/18 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Girl compliments me: "ur hot", what is the trp approach to this?I think the best move is just escalate to a date or hangout. Agreeing and amplifying or coming up with a witty comment back seems silly to me. “Cool, let’s grab a drink this week, what days are you free?” | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Anyone 30/40 yo living with roommates?I’m 30 and live with roommates. It all depends who you room with. You room with gamers, we’ll don’t expect much of a social circle. Honestly I’d prefer to live alone, so I can do whatever I want but I am sacrificing to save money for a house down payment. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/18 03:49 PM |
| 10 | Really Need help.This sounds super needy, clingy, desperate and thirsty. Do you think these behavior traits could’ve been the cause of her not being attracted to you? Look, for real, you should dive deeper into this sub Reddit. Read all the recommended books, sidebar, etc. All should fall into Place if your as badass as you say you are. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 10:24 PM |
| 10 | Really Need help.She sees you as a friend and not in a sexual way. Accept it for what it is and move on. Why are you wasting time on ONE girl who is not invested. Your problem is that you know you need to move on but can’t because you’ve over invested in one girl who was not worth the time and effort. You’re protecting your ego at this point in hopes that it will all work out. Just embrace the rejection and move on. Don’t contact this girl again is my advice. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 09:31 PM |
| 2 | My ex after I ghosted her has one of her friends add me on Snapchat and send me a video of them at a party. I blocked the friend as well. Should I have dealt with that situation better ?I'm confused, you have to open somebodies story to view it or open it if they send it to you. You have a choice to view it or not, whether they are a friend or not. Are you DEERing right now? | /r/askTRP | 01/07/18 05:01 PM |
| 9 | My ex after I ghosted her has one of her friends add me on Snapchat and send me a video of them at a party. I blocked the friend as well. Should I have dealt with that situation better ?No action is the best action. Why did you add her back? should have just left her friend request pending in the universe for eternity | /r/askTRP | 01/07/18 04:03 PM |
| 7 | Rejected but feel optimistic and respected!..?Keep on trucking. Home in your game, your wit, your charm, learn to pass shit test, work on your body and aesthetics. Move your efforts to other prospects that may pan out. Experience trumps what you read in books or online so good job with that. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 11:12 PM |
| 3 | A lot of TRP boils down to how you go about/present/and word things you say and do. Can someone give me some examples of BP wordings and RP wordings. Like the same situations but handled differently.Less is more. I have been trying to articulate my point in as few words as possible and cut straight through the bullshit since I learned RP. That’s my biggest take away and I think it could generally apply to Your question. The most loved and respected artists, musicians, philosophers apply the less is more principal and I think it goes a long way in communication. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Decided to date my coworker, it’s going horribly. How do I break up with her without ruining my career and life?Get a better job and then get a better gf. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Do second chances work?Ehhh snooping was bad behavior on your part. You shouldn’t have to do that in a good relationship. Obviously you have some insecurities or you can’t trust this girl. But now that you know what she was concocting behind your back, do you wanna tolerate that from an ltr or stick to your guns, have a backbone and be a high status man? Your call man, no one can help you here. If it were me, I’d keep seeing the girl, but end anything serious with her and attempt to plate other girls at the same time. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/18 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Girl says date is too early??Works better than backing down, supplicating, maneuvering your schedule to hers and failing the shit test. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/18 07:54 PM |
| 1 | "Send me my pictures"You’re over thinking this. Have fun with this girl. Send them over. Remind her what you did to her. She wants to relive it. Invite her over again. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/18 04:11 AM |
| 1 | "Send me my pictures"Haha why would that be a shit test? She is giving you no shit at all. Think of it like a fun experience you had with her and the pics are equivalent to standing in front of a dope ass mountain or some other view. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/18 02:02 AM |
| 1 | My LTR don't want to tell me name of guy she is working outHuge red flag. Why invest in some one who cannot be honest and upfront with you? | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 05:17 PM |
| 1 | 4 years in LTR and I lost my frame. How do I get it back?Don't "offer" to lube her up. Just do it with your mouth. As far as sex goes, stop being timid. Take control. Grab a fist full of her hair, yank her head back in the heat of the moment. Read Sex God Method. That may increase your frequency. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 04:17 AM |
| 5 | "You are fine, you are a cute boy, but I am looking for a man."I would just take it for what it is but not dwell on it too much. Continue improving and implementing trp. Eliminate feminine behavior. Keep gaming other girls fuck what she thinks. Don’t let it shatter your ego, you’ll be alright | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 02:36 PM |
| 1 | All the signs point towards me being ugly, what do I do?Get offline. Practice what you do online only in real life till you get some results. Start working on what you can change. Hygiene, get in shape, analyze what you wear, make sure it fits right. have cool hobbies and good friends, all will fall into place. Rejections are part of a mans life, learn to love them because each one will have a little lesson behind it and strengthen your frame and game as to go. Read the essential books and posts. Sidebar. Book of pook May help you | /r/askTRP | 07/06/18 04:27 PM |
| 1 | What books would you gift your long-term girlfriends or wives?I don’t even know what it’s about I just know it’s a book women like. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 07:17 PM |
| 4 | What books would you gift your long-term girlfriends or wives?Harry Potter. Twilight. Fifty shades of grey. Haha honestly if she doesn’t read what makes you think she will like that as a gift? If you give her a gift make sure it’s reward for good behavior and something that will reinforce that behavior (something she genuinely likes) into the future. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 05:56 PM |
| 0 | Have any of you done shrooms, how was it?They poison your body when you ingest them triggering the hallucinatory effects, among other symptoms such as feeling sick, sweating immensely, loss of motor functions, loss of cognitive thinking and mental sharpness to name just a few. "I'm so confused yet understand everything at the same time!?!" People die on those things, people do stupid shit on those things. I do not recommend it to OP. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 03:43 AM |
| 0 | Have any of you done shrooms, how was it?It is a fungus that grows out of cow shit | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 12:05 AM |
| 0 | Have any of you done shrooms, how was it?I would argue Psylocibiln mushrooms are poisonous to an extent | /r/askTRP | 04/06/18 08:05 PM |
| 0 | Have any of you done shrooms, how was it?I wouldn’t recommend poisoning your body and severely altering your brains chemical state (temporarily, or it could have an adverse effect and be more long term) in order to try to feel better. Stop grasping at straws and put in some actual work on yourself with meaning and purpose, that should make you feel better about yourself than ingesting poison. I don’t recommend them. Just my opinion | /r/askTRP | 04/06/18 04:41 PM |
| 6 | What to do when LTR rejects request for pic while she's away?No other words or action needed. You stated what you want, up to her to reciprocate. Her text response is a shit test, don’t respond to it. If she doesn’t send you a sexy pic, don’t bring it up, act like it ain’t no thing. For all she knows some other girls are blowing you up with pictures. Do not be butt hurt about it or show it. Reward her if she sends them. Don’t placate and drool over them, but imply covertly that you appreciate her (and the pic). I usually respond with a “the things I’d do … | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 08:17 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with "size" insecurityOkay, we’ll you got shit tested and handled it well in my opinion. Follow the advice everyone else has said here, don’t even worry about it. Honestly, that would be a huge turn off for me and big red flag if a girl talks like that on a first date. Call me old fashioned but that’s not very feminine behavior. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 08:55 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - One party, two women.Were you always a natural or did you go through a transformation? I think many could benefit from hearing your story. This FR also motivates me as one has already said. Hit gym hard this morning. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/05/18 10:51 PM |
| 4 | Is it bad idea ( blue pilled) to write poem for my girl....?If you decide on giving her said poem, I would only give it to her after you tear her in half. When your coming down and cuddling say hey I made something for you, and bust it out. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 07:37 PM |
| 3 | How to be more subtle with my dread?Your entire reaction was actually a complete breakdown in frame. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain this?Thanka for your feed back. Going to read betaization process in detail. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain this?What do you mean? | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain this?Unfortunately there is a bit of a habit. This is happening more frequently as we are spending more time together. Also, it usually occurs after drinking, as I let me guard down. This is the only girl on my life so as much as I don’t want to say I have oneitis, it’s probably there. Although, I am prepared to walk away from this relationship should that need to eventually or ever happen. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain this?Ok, I could see that. I just feel so cringeworthy after this happens and wonder to myself “wtf?!” | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain this?I perceive our SMV to be about the same. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 04:00 PM |
| 8 | Broke up with LTR of 2 years... BUT..You think a girl who doesn’t trust you, respects you? She sounds needy and usually a persons partner is a reflection of who they are. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Do women's vaginas generally smell unpleasant?Yes they smell, but honestly you should Like it and be attracted to it on a primal level. Embrace it dude. Some girls put some sort of perfume or deodorizer on down there made specifically for that region. Idk your post is kind of funny | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Husband (m26) encourages another man (m26) to hit on me (f25)?Sounds like he is just messing around and showing off (showing you off) and having fun with his buddy. Are you reading more into it than what’s there? | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 09:05 PM |
| 1 | In a relationship with a girl 3 years my senior, she passed a comment saying "maybe you're too young to understand that". Feel this is quite a put down and unsure how to react.I’m 4 years older than my gf and she makes fun of my age fairly often, especially because I’m about to turn 30. I just tell her, ‘we all know your attracted to older men’ or ‘yeah almost to the prime of my life’ etc. You could spin your responses in that light. Don’t let it get to you, and most importantly, don’t show it if it does eat at you when she sends those jabs. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 08:14 PM |
| 2 | In a relationship with a girl 3 years my senior, she passed a comment saying "maybe you're too young to understand that". Feel this is quite a put down and unsure how to react.You’re making it way too complicated than it should be. Women say dumb shit all the time. Best response would have been to laugh. Then forget about it. Seriously, why are you dwelling on something that meaningless? If she continually puts you down then that’s another story but don’t sweat this. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Hold her accountable on this or let it go?So she reached out and asked if she could come over. A day after she told me She would let me know. Said she got her shit done. I’m feeling like I should let it go. Saying no feels like I’m creating unnecessary drama. Should I tell her she didn’t keep her word by getting back to me Tuesday pr just drop it. It all seems very minor and I should drop it. Your thoughts? | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Hold her accountable on this or let it go?Haven’t got a confirmation yet. Here’s how I see handling this one of two ways: Being a bit more on sympathetic side saying: “I didn’t hear from you so I made other plans. babe, I know your working hard and busy so let’s get together this weekend when you’re freed up.” (Only after she reaches out of course-at this point she is late, which is the point of my post) Or “Give me call when your free” and telling her over phone she didn’t uphold her end of the bargain and I expect better of her. I wou… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 02:07 PM |
| 4 | LTR Shit test. Can I get some insight?I think your response was good. You made light of it, didn’t get jealous. Don’t bring it up again. If she keeps mentioning him or brings it up again, remain, indifferent, centered, and cocky and funny. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Caught my ltr of one year snooping through phone.Set a boundry with her, ie "you will not be in a relationship with a girl who does not trust you." If she improves, great. If not, walk away. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 02:02 AM |
| 2 | What to do if she offers no alternative date?You could either ask her blatantly when she’s free or passively day “okay, hit me up when you’re free” or something along the lines that lets her know the ball is on her court. Meanwhile pursue other women | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Is this a shit test? How to answer? LTRNot a shit test. Do some more reading. Invite her over. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/18 11:29 PM |
| 3 | Cant go to an event LTR bought 2 tickets for due to being sick , frame.You go. Unless you have diarrhea and vomiting or a fever. You go and You don’t mention feeling crappy. Just my opinion. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/18 05:39 PM |
| -4 | What to do when gf calls you out on liking hot girls on instagram?She’s your gf? Make her feel special. Give some comfort. Consider respecting her more. She’s a plate? Keep doing what your doing, and invite her over when she says stuff like that. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/18 02:29 PM |
| 8 | I kissed this girl at a club last weekend and I have her Facebook. How do I go about initiating a conversation?No, you don’t mention it. You kiss and date many girls at once, remember? You can’t keep your kisses straight. Also, you get so many of them, that there is no need to mention it because it’s just a normal thing. Convey an abundance mentality. You must do it covertly, not overtly or else it will backfire on your ass and seem needy. Do not mention you are dating multiple girls or anything (whether you are or are not) but it’s the mindframe you want to have. It is totally fine if you are not dating… | /r/askTRP | 20/04/18 03:22 AM |
| 9 | I kissed this girl at a club last weekend and I have her Facebook. How do I go about initiating a conversation?“Hey, I’m going rock climbing (or whatever cool thing you do) on Saturday, you should join” | /r/askTRP | 20/04/18 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Somebody talk me out of sending this. Or not.Didn’t read the other comments. DO NOT send that message you composed. You need not respond. You’re the high status man dating multiple women and don’t have time for games, remember?? | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 02:10 AM |
| 1 | What's the best way to respond to "you're not giving me enough attention"?Don’t say anything else stupid. You invite her over or for a date is your next move. I would’ve just said “okay baby” and then proceeded to invite her over. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Asked a girl out twice for brunch and she flakedBrunch is very friendish and not very sexy. Try a date that will lead to sex more naturally. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Is rap naturally red-pilled and rock blue-pilled?Every genre has its groupies. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Any RPers skateboard?Basic/intermediate flat ground tricks.. basic box and rail tricks | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 09:49 PM |
| 12 | [Premature Ejaculation] Help, i ejaculate 3 times before i even get my pants off and it destroys my confidence everytime im with womenI second this. It's natural to release your load. Going months without is not natural. If you have an addiction i could see why dudes go NoFap. Go once a week and edge. I think daily jerkin could desensitize your junk for the real thing. Also, this issue is all mental. Just chill, these girls don't don't mean anything. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/18 05:28 PM |
| 10 | I said I was going out w/ the boys, no text backDon't say anything about it. It's not even a big deal anyways...bringing it up on your end will make it a big deal. If she brings it up keep it light and playful and fun then change the subject....change the subject to something like "hey i cant wait to see you." Remember its no big deal. As far as her not responding - my guess is that it didn't sit well with her, potentially a good dread game move. She's sitting at home with her parents and she's salty you go out with the boys, potentially gami… | /r/askTRP | 25/03/18 02:51 PM |
| 7 | On tinder, 20 years old never had a girl friend. I asked this girl out kind of, did she already kind of reject me? What do I reply with ?You need to NOT "kind of" ask the girl out, and you need to ask the girl out. A "kind of" sort of questions will get a "kind of" sort of response. I dont know, I feel like that is common sense. Be direct, and don't ask. Examples: "Hey when are you free to get together?" "response" "Great, lets meet at X at 7:00." "I'm going on this beautiful hike I've always wanted to do, you should join it's going to be epic." "Hey, I'm performing at X, I want you to come." | /r/askTRP | 25/03/18 02:44 PM |
| 14 | Cheating on LTRYou should not be in an exclusive/commitment bound relationship if you have that urge. You need to be spinning plates to satisfy your needs. Maybe it is the thrill of it and getting caught that is attracting you though, based off your post. I would say, don't do it, that is a shitty move, you are going to hurt her if she finds out. Also, will your conscience be able to handle that burden? You think after you do it you won't have feelings of guilt? If youre insistant on this, maybe discuss openin… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 03:00 AM |
| 2 | 2 questions: Was nexting the right move/how do I develop a better frame, mine sucksThree strikes she’s out. Move onto a new prospect, maybe she will see you with new prospect and reach out (maybe not), but this is how you move on, avoid oneitis and potentially start spinning multiples. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/18 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Best way to handle thisHaha honestly, if I choose to not stay in the hotel I’m choosing to ruin her fun which could in turn ruin my fun (to what extent idk) but I’m trying to choose which consequences I want to put up with. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/18 12:57 AM |
| 1 | How often do you guys post on your Snapchat stories / instagram stories?Never, I don't have time for that shit. Something is off here...You don't have time to text and set up dates but you have time to post to social media. Hmmm. Interesting. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Ltr of one year going down hill, how can I apply more dread?She is displaying signs of low interest. Back off your attention and continue to do you. Be prepared for a possible branch swing. If the amount she is currently investing in you is not up to your standards for an LTR then you should consider other options. I would say back off, soft next or go back to asking her out on a date once a week, treat her like a plate. Start dating other girls if that is a possibility. Be sure to tell her that you don’t mind continuing seeing each other, but the amount… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/18 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Did i took dread too far? and how to confort her after dread?It sounds like you were legit busy and doing you, which is good. It sounded like you did a bit of a 180 from how you were handling her before based off your post, so I was just throwing out some cautions that would come to mind with that. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/18 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Did i took dread too far? and how to confort her after dread?Personally, I think it is kind of weak to straight up ignore an ltr of about a year just for the hell of dread game. I would ask yourself: has she exhibited any behavior to make you apply the dread? There’s a fine line, of course don’t text her all day everyday, and if your truly busy, fair enough. But to just not respond for the hell of it because you feel you need to apply dread, at the core, is needy, and manipulative behavior. Of course you should always be improving yourself which is low le… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/18 08:20 PM |
| 5 | Should I bring my GF to a work event?Bring her only if it can benefit you. If you’re a loner at work who most people don’t know and if you guys are gonna stand in a corner by you’re selves, I’d reconsider. If female coworkers approach and talk to you without you overtly making an interaction happen, that would be low level dread. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/18 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Are sites like okcupid basically female-centric?Word. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/18 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Are sites like okcupid basically female-centric?I’ve never used any online site myself, but I’ve seen acquaintances of mine, who are average guys (not redpill aware, don’t workout, kinda lazy, average looks) get dates with cute girls off tinder. It’s what they do during and after the dates that have fucked them over. Also, this in a smaller market place and they have shown me how they use tinder. One guy pays to use advanced features of site and the other mass swipes. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/18 02:34 AM |
| 1 | My LTR is getting an abortion tomorrow. How do you suggest I go about being there for her but still maintaining RP behavior?What kind of BC was she on? | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 02:43 AM |
| 3 | Girlfriend broke up with me. Said it’s all her faultIt’s simple. She has better options. Keep improving your self socially, aesthetically and mentally. No harm no foul. Keep moving forward. Rejection is a good thing, you want a girl who is totally into you, you don’t want ones who aren’t all in, around. Those are the ones who do shady shit like cheat. She did a good thing by breaking it off clean. Respect her for that and be thankful for the experience you gained with her. Take time to process this as you need, keep the mourning to a minimum as m… | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Weird question, but don’t know a good responseDon’t send pointless shit to girls you actually want to sleep with. That’s setting yourself up for friend zone. That’s what their girlfriends would do, that is feminine behavior. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Respond to this text“Hit me up when you’re all free and clear and we will set a definite date.” | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 02:46 AM |
| 4 | How to implement the Sex God Method with new plates?Focus on dominance and variety on newer relationships. Emotion will come as the relationship develops. Immersion is to be practiced at all times as much as possible during any sexual performance. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 02:44 AM |
| 7 | I don’t know what shit test this is. But I know it’s one.Telling her she cannot go is a display of insecure behavior. Let her do what she wants. You choose to be with her or not based on her behaviors, trying to control someone’s life is pathetic. Just cause she wants to go have fun isn’t a reason to get all jealous. “Okay, have fun babe.” Would’ve been a good response. As stated, you need to read Rollos GNO article. Twice. Implement. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/18 01:26 PM |
| 2 | I’m thinking about getting my girlfriend & I a vibratorFair enough. However, I’m speaking about the topic I posted about and not the fact that I need to read SGM again to retain further info (which I agree that I need to do). | /r/askTRP | 12/02/18 03:25 AM |
| 2 | I’m thinking about getting my girlfriend & I a vibratorJust cause it isn’t addressed doesn’t mean it shouldn’t be used. Honestly I just look at it as a toy to have fun with and enhance our sex life. Not a dildo replacement to myself. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/18 03:13 AM |
| 1 | I’m thinking about getting my girlfriend & I a vibratorThis was my thinking. Honestly it’s just a toy to enhance our sex life is my thought | /r/askTRP | 12/02/18 03:03 AM |
| 1 | I’m thinking about getting my girlfriend & I a vibratorMy girl needs clitoral stimulation to come. Mostly she needs to ride me to come. I think this could be fun and we could do different shit and add variety. My only worry is her becoming dependent upon it to come, what do you think about that | /r/askTRP | 12/02/18 03:01 AM |
| 3 | I’m thinking about getting my girlfriend & I a vibratorI don’t remember him addressing them, can you inform us if I am wrong | /r/askTRP | 12/02/18 02:54 AM |
| 2 | I’m thinking about getting my girlfriend & I a vibratorI’ve read it. Have the pdf | /r/askTRP | 12/02/18 02:41 AM |
| 1 | I’m thinking about getting my girlfriend & I a vibratorAlso, it’s a vibrator not a dildo, for clitoral stimulation | /r/askTRP | 12/02/18 02:39 AM |
| 1 | I’m thinking about getting my girlfriend & I a vibratorAlso, it’s a vibrator not a dildo, for clitoral stimulation | /r/askTRP | 12/02/18 02:38 AM |
| 2 | I’m thinking about getting my girlfriend & I a vibratorIdea is to add variety | /r/askTRP | 12/02/18 02:35 AM |
| 8 | coach corey wayne - red pill or not?He actually advocates plating. But he calls it “dating multiple women.” He advocates it until you find a girl worthy of an LTR mostly. A lot of his stuff is heavy on the relationship side as you have noted. He presents red pill advice for the masses, the blue pulled listeners. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Texting going really well then she stops replying.How long has it been since she responded? Quit the texting. If you guys have a date set, plan on being there at that time. Don’t “text to confirm” that the date is still on, that’s her job. If you don’t hear anything, show up to date, if she doesn’t show, have fun by yourself | /r/askTRP | 02/02/18 09:19 PM |
| 3 | What are your best first hangout ideas?Invite her somewhere you will be performing. Pick up or league sport game, band performance or open mic, somewhere you volunteer, invite her to the gym for a gym date, hiking a mountain, skiing/snowboarding, bowling, mini-golf, driving range, shoot pool at a bar...the list goes on...fill in the blank. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/18 03:38 AM |
| 5 | She sends me selfies of herself without any messages afterYou set a date. She’s putting herself in your orbit, it’s now your job to make a move to set up a meet up for sex to happen. I just got some good advice from some askTrp peers yesterday in regards to this. My LTR sent me 3 cute selfies thru the week. My responses to the first 2 kinda sucked. But first one I got, I set up a meet up. Second one I got I told her she made my day. One I got last night I told her “I can’t wait to look into those eyes while you take my rock hard dick.” Not surprisingly… | /r/askTRP | 27/01/18 03:40 PM |
| 0 | Do women "shit test" during text game?Great convos with women then they're "busy".What are these comments? | /r/askTRP | 27/01/18 04:00 AM |
| 0 | Better way to set up sexual tension through text with LTR?Only thing is, I’ve been seeing this girl over a year and she’s my LTR. I did logistics only with her as long as I could and it worked wonders. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/18 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Better way to set up sexual tension through text with LTR?I see your point | /r/askTRP | 26/01/18 09:25 PM |
| 3 | Stuck in a shit test need helpYour texting is almost to “try hard” in conveying confidence. It almost comes off as needy (hard to say without actually knowing you or your personality). I suggest covert confidence displays vs overt confidence displays. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/18 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Wrists hurt from liftinghttps://stronglifts.com/bench-press/#Wrists https://stronglifts.com/overhead-press/#Wrist_Pain | /r/askTRP | 24/01/18 04:00 AM |
| 4 | Books on Personal Finance, Investing, "Making Money"Total Money Make Over - Dave Ramsey. This book helped me get and stay out of debt. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/18 01:19 PM |
| 4 | Asking my sister's hot friend outIt would be more successful in your favor if your able to isolate her, game her and run some kino on her. Also, be aware the affect it could have on your sister and hers friendship and ultimately your relationship with your sister. Personally, I wouldn’t do it, I see this as akin to the “don’t shit where you eat” philosophy. There are millions of other hot girls that are not your sisters friend that you might have better opportunities for isolation, game, kino and pull. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/18 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Roommate slept with other Roommate's girlfriendStay out of it, mind your own business. Observe the crash and burn. How to not let it happen to you? Don’t be like Brad and don’t be like Chad. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Should you block your ex or just unfollow on IG? (and other social media)I didn’t read body of post, just stating generally to title. I would agree, yes delete 100% if cheating and super toxic female, or if you feel you could give in and take her back | /r/askTRP | 03/01/18 09:20 PM |
| 3 | Should you block your ex or just unfollow on IG? (and other social media)This is a good point. I would argue though that by not blocking or doing anything is building up those frame control muscles. Not digging through the trash, abundance and avoiding oneitis is basic beginner RP knowledge. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/18 09:03 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with a New Years snubI like your idea of telling her it’s a major turn off. Shows congruency. It could end things or change things for the better. Be prepared | /r/askTRP | 03/01/18 08:27 PM |
| 11 | Should you block your ex or just unfollow on IG? (and other social media)Not blocking an ex and not unfollowing an ex shows the ultimate confidence and IDGAF what you do attitude in regards to an ex. I wouldn’t do anything at all unless she is incredibly toxic. I think most people say to block ex’s so that you’re not easily persuaded to dig thru the trash or get hurt by stalking her. If you have some self control and move on, who cares? | /r/askTRP | 03/01/18 08:22 PM |
| 3 | How to thrive with women in today’s SMP with women getting so much validation from Tinder/InstagramNot sure. I've heard social media is the future of game. I also like to think living outside of that world as a male puts you in league of your own so to speak. It takes a lot more balls and confidence to game in person such as cold approaching, rather than mass swiping and messaging. This post could open up a good, intellectual debate. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 03:55 AM |
| 1 | How do I unfuck this text game snafu?Well, you shouldn’t send another text until you get one from her so right now just chill. You could have responded to her “poor attempt at an insult text” by completely ignoring it and not acknowledging it. I would’ve responded with “come over so I can yank that thing” or simply “I’d love to see you, come over girl”....ie just escalate to a physical interaction | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Ltr in weird situationGet a job, start paying it off. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Should i wish her a merry Christmas after this?She might hit you up in that time frame. Don’t get your hopes up on it though....Don’t worry, waiting that long is a good thing: it displays non neediness, abundance, and that you have an interesting life (even if those things might not be true). Hit her up for a date and don’t be a pussy. You’re a confident man who knows what he wants, hit her up but give it some time. If she flakes again, consider moving on. 3 strikes and you’re out. Good luck | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Ltr in weird situationMove out of your parents ASAP, there are more benefits than you would even know | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Should i wish her a merry Christmas after this?Ok, do NOT wish her a merry Christmas. Ask her out on a date after the holidays when logistics may work. If she flakes again move on dude | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Ltr in weird situationAre you guys 14 years old? | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Same shit test all nightIgnoring the shit test is almost as good as A & A in my opinion, depending on the type of shit test. Repeated shit tests of the same material call for ignoring after 1 or 2 agreements and amplification. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Same shit test all nightAlso, keep in mind, shit tests are attempts to break your frame. Subconsciously she could have been repeating the shit test to try to get you to crack. Never crack and shit test is passed. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Same shit test all nightTake it as a compliment if that’s the only thing she could latch onto | /r/askTRP | 22/12/17 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Same shit test all nightWhat was the test | /r/askTRP | 22/12/17 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Girls that suck at text?Yes, but strike three and your our. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/17 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Girl text "you ok?" after showing abundance, how to respond?Good response on your part so far. You could not respond at all and wait for her to reach out again or just say, “yeah I’m good, hit me up when you’re free” done. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/17 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Wastes 1 year of lifting, what do I do now?Hey, I’m similar body type. Been a buck 30 since high school days until I learned about TRP and started working out about a year and a half ago. I’m 147lbs now. I started by just doing push-ups, then to gym with no program (not a great idea). I started 5x5 in October. Don’t give up on it. You have to take it seriously and follow the program. I recommend reading the website thoroughly, and keep coming back to it as needed, and visit the 5x5 reddit often. I was at a similar spot to you where I rea… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/17 07:07 PM |
| 3 | Girl takes my hand, drags me around the bar, then everything goes south. What did I do wrong?They are leading you and you are not leading them is my assumption. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/17 08:47 PM |
| 5 | Instagram dmYou don’t need to do anything else except sit back and wait for her to hit you up. In meantime, keep talking to other girls. Flawlessly executed so far. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/17 03:58 PM |
| 11 | Ran into LTR's Ex and drama ensued.I don’t think there was a shit test here, you are the one that brought it up. What you brought up to her shows insecurity in where you guys are at in the relationship. I mean, you asked the question, you didn’t hear what you wanted to hear is what it came down to. Best to move forward and pretend the fight didn’t even happen. Display confidence and always assume she will stay with you and don’t bring it up to her, while at the same time, you have to be aware this relationship can end at any mome… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/17 01:28 AM |
| 1 | What do I do here?Honestly no. But I wouldn’t stop her and act needy or butt hurt. I would begin to mentally prepare and accept the likelihood of a break up or branch swing or cheating and begin to monitor her actions much more closely | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 12:29 AM |
| 1 | What do I do here?By this, I am assuming you are saying it may be wise to instill the dread available in this situation. My only concern is it may open up doors to jealousy and dread game on my GFs behalf, which honestly has been very low and a non issue at this point. Any thoughts on that? | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 12:13 AM |
| 1 | What do I do here?By telling my GF? Can you elaborate your thought | /r/askTRP | 11/12/17 11:15 PM |
| 1 | What do I do here?If I ignore, is there a point to even bringing this up to LTR? I don’t want to instill potential jealousy behaviors from dread (she has shown no signs of this ever). | /r/askTRP | 11/12/17 11:14 PM |
| 5 | Do high smv guys ever get embarrassed?Are humans human? | /r/askTRP | 06/12/17 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Being Ginger, would you say dying my hair would raise my SMV?No, it would lower it. Shows massive insecurity. Red is cool man, ie red pill | /r/askTRP | 04/12/17 02:57 AM |
| 2 | LTR question: is saying "I love you" a big deal?Let her say it first. Make her work for it - it is equivalent to her working for you ie. chasing you. It is the first commandment in the 16 commandments of poon, which you should be aware of if you are lurking TRP. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/17 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Help Me Introduce More People To Red Pill!No | /r/askTRP | 01/12/17 09:48 PM |
| 1 | 1st date ended with making out.. what next? N00B hereAsk her on second date in one week. Continue escalation, touching, kino. Not too much, subtle yet convey you want to touch her more. Invite her back to your pad to try a bomb drink you make, or some ice cream you bought or a song you learned on guitar or whatever. Girls usually feel ok having sex 2nd or 3rd date, sometimes the 4th. Try a date that doesn’t involve dinner or watching a movie. Go get drinks and play pool or something, then go for a “walk” or whatever | /r/askTRP | 28/11/17 09:03 PM |
| 1 | What does this girl want. I want to bang but she’s got a complicated boyfriend or some shit. Text in post.You’re texting her too much and sending unnecessary text messages. Set up a specific date via text, period. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/17 03:54 AM |
| 7 | Women's EmotionsYes, polarization > a boring dud. The emotions should always be positive ones. Avoid heavy topics, or negativity. Spin bad things into positive learning experiences. 97% of people bitch and moan. Be above that. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/17 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Success with a lisp?Isaac Brock. Look him up. He is undoubtedly an alpha in my opinion | /r/askTRP | 18/11/17 06:53 PM |
| 2 | How the fuck do you get over being ugly? (Not deformed)No, it's from within but you play the victim. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/17 01:48 AM |
| 1 | to wear skinny jeans or not to wear skinny jeans?Feminine | /r/askTRP | 11/11/17 01:19 AM |
| 1 | accidentally send a screenshot of me and this girl's convo back to herOwn it, don't give a fock, don't mention it, don't apologize. Go on date which you both agree to with day and time | /r/askTRP | 11/11/17 01:17 AM |
| 3 | I stood up to LTR and she broke up with meRead first and last paragraph only. You should not be upset at all, you should be over joyed. She is selfish, materialistic and not ltr material. A girl worth anything or cares enough about you would not be tallying up money and the things she did like that. The relationship to her was 100% transactional. Yes ghost and never look back. Bullet dodged, bright futures. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/17 01:10 AM |
| 1 | She got “mad” at me for ignoring her Snapchat... shit test passed?You passed. Giving in and responding (ultimately falling into her frame and trap) would have been a failed shit test. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/17 01:54 AM |
| 13 | What are fun things to do with an ltr?Sex | /r/askTRP | 06/11/17 01:50 AM |
| 4 | How to deal with a woman talking about her problems?Listen, smile and nod. Give advice only if she asks it and say "are you sure?" It's something you usually have to put up with if you want to get anywhere with them, even on the initial meeting. She would be doing 80% of the talking which will usually always be about her life, drama and problems and the guy does 20%, usually just initiating the questions and topics. Also, doesn't hurt to tease, smirk and make fun of their "problems" here and there, but that can be overdone. Being a good listener … | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Soon to be LTR going away for a month in February?Idk | /r/askTRP | 01/11/17 07:12 PM |
| 3 | Soon to be LTR going away for a month in February?If you like her and want to LTR her that's cool man. The other advice is relevant to the fact that anything can happen and you need to have abundance mentality. Do what you feel is right, no one can tell you what to do for your exact situation. It may fail, but hey, that's life and it would be a learning experience. It may turn into an amazing relationship, and that's cool too. Keep reading and studying these principals moving forward, apply them as needed. As far as her going away and how to ha… | /r/askTRP | 01/11/17 03:10 AM |
| 4 | LTR doesn't have my backOkay, my honest opinion: the problem is your behavior and not your girl. She is reacting to you, man. Why are you venting to her? That's what women do to men and the man is supposed to listen. Only give advice back if she asks for it, otherwise you just listen. Also, try keeping your opinions to yourself, unless blatantly asked. You could have used a little more intellect and finess in stating your opinion that would not have caused the entire group, including your girl, to not have your back. I… | /r/askTRP | 31/10/17 01:58 AM |
| 3 | What are you supposed to do when somebody is hitting on your gf?If he offers to buy her a drink let him, have her order 2 of what ever, when drinks are served, she grabs both, brings one to you, you thank the guy for the 2 drinks | /r/askTRP | 27/10/17 10:13 PM |
| 6 | Tried out push/pull, did I push too hard?With all due respect, you were the fickle one. Work on congruency and aligning with what you want and your desired outcome. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/17 10:09 PM |
| 3 | Tried out push/pull, did I push too hard?My thought is she backed away cause you weren't setting up dates when she would be hitting you up, and therefor not hooking up with her. Essentially with this particular one, you were not available enough and/or blew an opportunity. Trp are guidelines that are not black and white for every girl or situation, like I said before, it sounds like this one needed a little more from you to keep it going. Next time when they are reaching out and hitting you up, set up a date and hook up with her. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/17 09:43 PM |
| 3 | Tried out push/pull, did I push too hard?The way you handled her before her backing away and how you handled it once you saw her giving you less to no attention are polar opposites. Texting her in the morning and then calling her out for no response is the needy part of this. It could be she was looking for something which you are not and decided to next you because you weren't giving her what she needed: enough attention and a relationship. Don't worry bout it, move on or try to adjust your game to her while pursuing other girls. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/17 09:19 PM |
| 15 | Girlfriend does not respond after I called her out - what to do?Yeah, the Facebook profile pic thing was a test. She knew it would get to you and it did. Had you not responded, it would've shown mental strength, an attractive quality in suitors for females. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/17 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Did I fail this comfort test?Is it appropriate to respond and reciprocate in this situation? | /r/askTRP | 17/10/17 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Did I fail this comfort test?Is it appropriate to respond and reciprocate in this situation? | /r/askTRP | 17/10/17 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Did I fail this comfort test?Deleted first post and tried to make this one more concise and to the point | /r/askTRP | 16/10/17 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Did I fail this comfort test?Can you elaborate? | /r/askTRP | 16/10/17 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Got my first number todayShe won't find out until she's gone, invite her over. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/17 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Is Cold Approach a viable strategy?Yes, give it a whirl. Don't give up, keep approaching. Has worked for centuries. While you are approaching on a daily basis, keep focused on improving yourself, in the looks, game and status areas. As these go up, and your Smv rises, the rejections may lessen. You are likely to get some numbers, dates, hook ups, maybe some girl friends if you at least try. There will be some rejections. Just do it for fun and learn | /r/askTRP | 15/10/17 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Had sex now whathttps://www.goodlookingloser.com/laid/index/retention-fuck-buddies This link has helped me. I think the advice is solid and will apply even if she is looking for commitment down the road (ltr exclusiveness etc). Just let that be her idea and don't push for it (labels/ltr). You could potentially be seeing this girl a long time regardless of a label or commitment. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/17 07:57 PM |
| 13 | LTR wanting a night to sleep by herselfYou gotta give her some space every once in a while and you should want it too. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Need good reply to her when asking for a dateA good reply would be: Hey, I'm going to (venue name) at 7pm, you should join me...,,. Then pick her up and seduce her | /r/askTRP | 01/10/17 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Need good reply to her when asking for a dateYou are right that she is testing your frame. She's trying to weed you out Of the masses. Just don't give a shit about it. Dude if she comes to you, score! If Not, her loss 100%. Girls want a guy who is 100% sure of what he wants and does, not a dude who asks as tries to appease, which is what 90% of the male population does. The reality is, She gets dudes hitting on her all the time and they are blue pill. They say corny shit, white knight the fuck outta her, put her on a pedestal. Don't be lik… | /r/askTRP | 01/10/17 04:13 AM |
| 6 | Need good reply to her when asking for a dateThis is good advice. The ball is in her court dawg, do not go to the blue side. Tell her where you will be and that she should come Meet you for a good time. If not, o well her loss, game other girls that you see at said venue. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/17 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Called my LTR before work todayAlso, look up some of coach Corey Wayne's texting videos on YouTube. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/17 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Called my LTR before work todayAs counterintuitive as it sounds, you need to care less how her day is going and more how yours is. Don't be a total dick, ask how she is when you see her in person, but for real.,, sounds like you either work with her or see her plenty in person that you are likely texting her too much and too available to her and it may come across as needy. Do your own shit, text her for hanging out only, and dates, and let her text you man. If she is texting and pursuing you, she isn't dumping you. You are c… | /r/askTRP | 30/09/17 12:02 AM |
| 1 | How to hold frame as a sensitive guy?You haven't gone through enough. You're soft. Once you've taken enough shit, your soul will become calloused. Keep crying when your up against that wall until you do not anymore, then you will have your "frame". | /r/askTRP | 29/09/17 01:58 AM |
| 7 | Ex reaches out, I think I handled this the right way, but I'm new to this shit...What was the outcome you are hoping for here? Can't say you handled it right without knowing what your looking for out of this...but in all honesty I would say you handled it wrong for 2 different outcomes: If she ghosted you and you are over her you should not have responded at all. If you wanted to hit that, you should have eliminated the small talk and escalated for a date or meet up immediately after she reached out. "Hey thinking about you blah blah blah...". "Hey great to hear from you, le… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 01:48 AM |
| 1 | My LTR on the pill, how do I deal?My girl got on the pill 3 months into seeing her and I didn't see any change. She just switched to a new one about a month ago and she is still as sweet as ever. Hope I don't see these changes | /r/askTRP | 22/09/17 01:23 AM |
| 1 | My LTR on the pill, how do I deal?Drastic changes though? | /r/askTRP | 22/09/17 12:49 AM |
| 1 | My LTR on the pill, how do I deal?In my experience, the pill has never caused a drastic personality change in a girl. Either thats the way she is or her attraction level has dropped to close to zero with you. It could be the way she is, and enough time has passed and she's showing her true colors. If she's saying its the pill that's an excuse. If you don't like the behavior seek out something better. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/17 11:44 PM |
| 8 | My LTR on the pill, how do I deal?It's not the pill making her like that. It's either how she is, or her reaction to your prescence and vibe | /r/askTRP | 21/09/17 08:02 PM |
| 0 | My LTR wants to reschedule our plans for today. Should I just cancel completely?If you had solid plans with her that she committed to and then broke the commitment, then I would soft next. Maybe go about your day and get busy doing other shit and dont respond. When she starts blowing up your phone simply explain, "you bailed, I got busy " (nicely and gentlemanly of course). Then schedule your next date with her on the spot right then and there. (Push, pull) If they were sorta vague plans, just do something productive until you guys can meet up. That's what I'd do. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/17 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Quick question about asking her out by text messageDon't next yet. Girls shit test even subconsciously. Keep frame, ask again don't get in a silly banter back and forth about nothin. Keep texts to logistics of meeting up only. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/17 04:07 AM |
| 3 | How should I react to LTR wearing revealing clothing when we go out?Just be stoked. At the end of the day, who is she fucking? Neediness and jealousy are 2 states that turn a girl off. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/17 05:48 PM |
| 1 | 9 mo ltr didn't respond (first time)Ok, so what would you do? | /r/askTRP | 13/09/17 12:43 PM |
| 1 | 9 mo ltr didn't respond (first time)I don't text her unnecessarily. I suggested a diff day to hang out and got nothing back. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/17 12:43 PM |
| 3 | Girl losing interest cause of sexDon't text her, don't over pursue. Wait for her to text you, or put herself in your orbit to set a date. Night dates only. Get some drinks, don't get sloppy black out whiskey dick, go back to your place and get wild. Being needy and trying to set up your next hangout while she is still there with you before she leaves, or texting her first and/or too soon after you just saw her is more likely to make her lose interest rather than an attempt at hangover sex (assuming she is interested in you in t… | /r/askTRP | 12/09/17 02:24 AM |
| 7 | Found out that my "unicorn" (ltr of 5 years) is stalking a fitness trainer in her gym, she doesnt know i know, should i do anything or ignore?I would say just chill, just cuz you saw a Facebook search don't mean anything. Girls look at everything on Facebook and stalk hella people. This is a non issue in my opinion. If you bring it up and act insecure it could backfire. Just keep improving you and let her choose what she wants. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/17 12:46 AM |
| 1 | The infamous talk about how you feel about her...Good reply to this post. I wouldn't call what you did a fuck up but she warned you, if you keep up the emotional outbreaks when drunk, it will ruin the relationship you got. Usually you want her to bring that stuff up, which is what she did in the first place, so I think you're ok. Just don't make a big deal, keep hanging out and hooking up. If you must, just wait for her to text you again then schedule a date. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 07:30 PM |
| 3 | Dude got ahead of me and I let it, was I right?Over analyzation. You did fine. You stood up for yourself but didn't let the act break your frame and escalate it into a shit show. Good job. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 12:26 PM |
| 14 | How did I mess up this interaction?You were not specific and confident enough when you asked her to the venue. You left it open like "please come meet up with me, I hope you like me enough to come meet me". You also admitted you were not sure of the venue or other venues around. You need to act 100% sure even if you are not. Also, girls don't want to make decisions in what to do and where to go, that is your job. Keep your texts short and simple. KISS keep it simple stupid. "Lets start with a drink, meet me at X at 7pm?" Then wai… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 03:37 AM |
| 5 | Should I try to RP my close friend.Lead by example | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Hey. Need help in response to this asap"Haha you're funny, I'll be there at 7pm" etc or something like that. If she no shows, Owell have a good time | /r/askTRP | 06/09/17 04:48 PM |
| 3 | LTR wants to break a settled boundary.She might sense your insecurities and is likely testing your frame by starting little arguments and fights. Do not get into arguments or fights. Nothing good can come of it. Don't do anything, tell her you like her wax and then smash that. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/17 05:11 PM |
| 4 | LTR wants to break a settled boundary.Also, don't even trip about the waxing. And get out of the cheat o phobia frame because that will push her away, unless that's what you want. That is insecure, needy and not confident behavior. You are the prize! Just hangout with her, and have fun. You have nothing to worry about. If she moves on, Owell so do you. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/17 05:04 PM |
| 6 | LTR wants to break a settled boundary.Look homie, let her go out with her friends and be free. If you see signs or she displays behavior you don't want in an LTR, then fire her from the job. Controlling behavior can be seen as needy and an insecurity. I know it's hard and it is a very normal thing, but you gotta let these girls have their freedom and not smother them. It's up to you to decide if you want to be in that ltr. Your getting laid right? She will respect you more if you are nonchalant to what she does and if you display th… | /r/askTRP | 02/09/17 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Fwb says she actually gets turned on when I am protective of her or (mate guard) is this a real thing?Be careful not to let this develop into actual jealousy. Jealousy = neediness | /r/askTRP | 30/08/17 07:31 PM |
| 5 | Dumped LTR, She talkin shit on Facebook. Worth defending myself?Absolutely not | /r/askTRP | 30/08/17 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Called out GF, comfort tests insue, I react. How did i do, where to improve?Thank you for reply. I went comfort mode because she sincerely apologized numerous times, cried and told me how much she didn't mean to upset me. She said she was trying to be playful. Her emotional outbreak was also having to do with other stress she has talked to me about and brought up again that night, I couldn't just ignore it. I know she was feeling very emotional about some other unrelated subjects and needed the comfort. Based off your comment and comments of others, now I am only questi… | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Called out GF, comfort tests insue, I react. How did i do, where to improve?ok, thanks man | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Couldn't get it up... What to expect?Hopefully you laughed and told her you were on drugs when you were all flacid in front of her. If so, schedule a hangout SOBER so you can have a peak performance and smash. If you didn't laugh it off and tell her, schedule a hangout anyways, and be SOBER so you can have a peak performance and smash. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 03:50 AM |
| 16 | My Prime is Over?The rest of your life, silly goose. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/17 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Did I handle this well?Ok, great you banged her before. But last 3 times you got nothing. That's 3 strikes bro. Next her, don't text her. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/17 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Did I handle this well?Should've just seen where it went without the text. The text was needy, trying to nail down a FWB situation without actually getting there first. Always see where it leads and speak with actions, not words. IE she treats you like a friend and does t put out after 3 hang outs, you vanish. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/17 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Without shoving TRP down my friend's throat, how do I explain that he's going down a slippery slope?Show by behavior and results only | /r/askTRP | 11/08/17 11:27 PM |
| 2 | [Dread game upgrade] how can I make my LTR feel the dread?The underlying principal of dread is that you have options and can easily walk away at anytime. I would say comfort tests are her reaction to your dread at this point, and your responses to C tests are appropriate for where you are at in the relationship. I would think a girl would love it getting that comfort while knowing you are shredded, working out, and in the meantime her dread hamster is going overdrive. Keep it up. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/17 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Girl sent me this message after not replying to my last textWhat's your problem? Why so hostile? he can do whatever the fuck he wants. Redpill isn't a little box every dude needs to fit into, take from it what you will. Chill out | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 07:21 PM |
| 13 | Ex-GF[20/f]and her new boyfriend[25/m] live on the same dorm floor as me[22/m]. I am going mad! Pls helpI know it's hard man, I've been through same exact thing, no joke. I'm 29 now and looking back on it, it's really silly. You will get over it. You need to start talking to and gaming other girls right away. Not just one, multiples. Your at a university for god sakes, there is a plethora of girls ready to open. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Skinny guy bulking upI'm probably in your league. Always been skinny. Everyone will tell you to go to gym and use iron vs calisthenics to bulk. I incorporate a push up and pull up/chin up day in my 5 day work out routine. High protein diet. Protein shakes. Eat a lot. Look up videos on 300 push ups a day results | /r/askTRP | 25/07/17 01:58 AM |
| 24 | Why would high SMV younger women date older guys when there are plenty of high SMV younger guys around?The difference between boys and men. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/17 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Art of Texting and contacting LTRDo you initiate dates or do you wait for her to contact you then initiate, generally? I have backed off quite a bit on texting her and responding to her pointless texts and snap chats and I havnt heard from her in almost 2 days where normally it's been at least every other day. Do you think this could backfire? Any issue with the man initiating contact to hang out? (This goes against Corey Wayne's method, which is what I've been reading and implementing lately) thanks | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Unable to get hard when it's timeHave her blow you. Try no jacking off at all until you resolve the getting hard situation. Seriously, even if you bust quick it's better than not at all or not getting hard. Read sex God method. Most importantly don't over analyze this, the and more you think and dwell on it, the more it will mess with your mind. Most of the time, staying hard, Prematurely ejaculating and not being able to cum is all mental and not a dysfunction of the cock. Take comfort in the fact that this girl digs you and y… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Banged a week ago. Back in town next week. How to text?No earlier than 36 hours before the meet up. Any earlier might make the excitement fade | /r/askTRP | 15/07/17 12:28 AM |
| 4 | Trip advice (plate and friends)Look, there is too much hostility and sarcasm in replies on Asktrp. (See above). I'll try to offer my advice as I was in a similar situation last weekend, except this girl is my GF. Practice amused mastery. Try to have fun no matter what, for your self, not for your girl or her friends. Don't try to lead or force anything. Go with flow. If the opportunity to lead comes up, take advantage of it. Don't let not being able to be the dominant one and getting all the attention bring your state down. (… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/17 10:25 PM |
| 1 | A few F-ups (frame losses) with Ltr, how did I handle them (damage control) ? RedPill me if needed.Thanks. I have a hard time with balancing open honesty and agree and amplifying on shit tests. I'm gonna reread what I need to. Any thoughts on finding that balance? | /r/askTRP | 06/07/17 01:29 PM |
| 1 | A few F-ups (frame losses) with Ltr, how did I handle them (damage control) ? RedPill me if needed.Thank you. I'll read more into amusement mastery. Any thoughts or insight on it before I dive deeper and do some digging? | /r/askTRP | 06/07/17 01:27 PM |
| 2 | LTR - Lack of appreciationOkay, so from your little tid-bit here it looks like she has the power in the relationship - but hell what do I know, I'm just basing it off of your description of her nuclear "Don't like it, don't be with me" etc. That is the type of frame you should be conveying. I think what you did for her little cousins and nieces is a awesome thing to do and it should be acknowledge and appreciated by your girl. Give it some time. If it doesn't happen, I personally would take a mental note. Never do anythi… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/17 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Any early-30s guys tired of constant disappointment decide to lower your standards to find an LTR?When they do, don't take it seriously. Laugh at it, make up some BS, ignore it completely, change the subject, or just strait up tell her why: "I don't discuss past relationships because it's not beneficial for either of us, baby. I just want to enjoy our time together"... etc. etc. Avoid getting her N count and avoid giving yours. I am always prepared for this question and you are right, they always bring it up but I'm in your same boat man, one girl i was with I found out her past hook ups, re… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/17 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Any early-30s guys tired of constant disappointment decide to lower your standards to find an LTR?Seriously it is best to just not even bring it up or discuss it, just enjoy the time, company and moment. If she tries or asks for a partner count or about past girls just A&A, laugh it off, ignore it or straight up tell her its an object not open for discussion because the outcome or knowledge gained from such info is never a good thing. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/17 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Any early-30s guys tired of constant disappointment decide to lower your standards to find an LTR?Don't ever discuss past sex, relations with another girl. For her sake and YOURS. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/17 04:16 AM |
| 3 | "Accidental" Snapchat?Could be test, like a shit test or a heat test to see if your still interested and to see if you will take the bait. I think the point of the test would be that she's thinking about you and wants to hook up and is trying to prompt you to initiate a meet up (best case). Ppl do weird things man. Or she really meant it for her new dude who happens to have same name as you.... | /r/askTRP | 25/06/17 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Plate said no more to sex.. could be shit test.I think it's simple: watch her actions not her words. Don't hit her up, let her come to you to "hang out" even if it's not drinks, chill with her, and I bet you bang. If not, then you know what to do next time she hits you up. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/17 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Why is she doing this? tl;dr inside.She's pissed you have a double standard. It's not ok for her to do that, yet you pulled the same shit and she is showing you what she expects out of your end of the bargain (agreement to be in an LTR) with someone. Just let her cool it for a few days. If I was in your shoes and wanted to keep the LTR going, I would go no contact 2 maybe 3 days, if you don't hear from her, reach out, ask how she's doing and apologize, then end it and show you mean I by your actions | /r/askTRP | 24/06/17 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Tip's for picking a bar on the first date.It all depends on how you got her number, how you know her and how you gaged her interest level. How did that go down? | /r/askTRP | 21/06/17 03:25 AM |
| 12 | Texting OK when you won't see each other for a while?I would keep texting at a minimum until your both back at the college in August. And no body would fault you if u didn't reach out until August. Maybe send her a Snapchat or 2 of you doing some cool shit but other than that I wouldn't wear her out with pointless text gossip/checking in etc | /r/askTRP | 21/06/17 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Fastest way to cut belly fat/belly ponch in 1 week??Can't fault you cuz that's not a wrong answer, but without surgery. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/17 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Very attracted to a girl in a short summer college class that is ending tomorrow. I've been afraid of blowing out in front of everyone. How do I pull this off and escalate from zero?Once class ends, let her get up to leave before you, immediately get up and bee line to her. Ask her to hang out, ask her on a date. "Hey, come grab a drink with me to celebrate finishing this class." Keys here are: no hesitation, ask no matter what, even if she's walking with someone or talking with someone. Be polite but not supplicating. And ask at the very next class, don't wait till the last day of class cuz it will show you planned it too much and waited till last moment, instead of just s… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/17 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Good decision to next for a week or so?No, you ask her out anyways if that's what you feel in your loins | /r/askTRP | 18/06/17 02:40 PM |
| 3 | My friend's soon to be wife invites me out to drink with herSounds like a situation to avoid in my honest opinion. Can't you go out with a girl besides your buddies fiancé??? Think about it. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/17 04:22 AM |
| 2 | Ignored by a girl, feel like shitIt happens man. Happens to every guy. I got hung up on a girl whom I scored the digits, thought about her for three days then texted, thought I had it in the bag and..nothing. No response what so ever. My current ltr, responded right away and we have an awesome relationship. It all depends man, don't give up. Rejection is part of it and a good thing. It is meant to happen to weed out the females that are not compatible in your life. Keep approaching, keep getting digits, and keep escalating if y… | /r/askTRP | 16/06/17 04:18 AM |
| 1 | How to close on drinks with girl on Friday? Help your dude outGeneral guidelines: hour at each venue/date idea. Have three spots picked out. Example: 2 bars, one hour each. Then go on a walk to store, pick up some alcohol or ice cream, Bring her back to your place at around 10. Close. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 04:22 AM |
| 2 | How to close on drinks with girl on Friday? Help your dude outMeet at bar. 7pm is a better time than 6 in my opinion. 6 gives you too much time to get too sloppy and too much time at the bar which could make it feel as if it is getting stale. Best way to combat that is to change venues, try to mix in something than other than just sitting and drinking-see and band/get drinks, go dancing/get drinks. Okay to sit and get drinks at one of the venues to rest or warm up into night, but your gonna wanna mix it up. Hell even "lets go on a walk" is a fail proof las… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Paid for hooker, couldn't get hard. I'm I gay?You would know if you're gay or not. I'd chalk it up to nerves, setting an expectation on yourself to perform (you've been likely thinking about the moment for a while since you paid for a prosti, and jacking off too much (assumption). Unless you actually are gay. Also, it could have been the girl...possibly an unattractive, unenthusiastic prostitute that you had to give your hard earned cash. Recommend don't whack it at all, no porno and try again in a week or two. Or game and seduce a women wh… | /r/askTRP | 12/06/17 12:18 AM |
| 3 | No social media presence but GF wants me to get SC or IG. What to do?Not too worried about it, had the tickets before I knew her. I know what has potential to happen but that could happen at anytime, anywhere. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/17 02:29 AM |
| 7 | According to the main sub and the sidebar, is the following correct?I'll tell you this much: ever since I stopped waiting around for the "right girl" to find ME, and eliminated victim mentality and started cold approach and talking to them, I started getting dates, to make outs, to finding an awesome LTR in less than a year. Sure there were rejections and flakes and fake numbers but it's not a big deal at all and the experience is worth it. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/17 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Just turned 30, an absolute mess of a beta. Is my situation hopeless?It is ok, it doesn't matter it's in the past. Move forward. One step at a time, and luckily any progress you make (no matter how small) is going to be PROGRESS. I recommend: reading, exercise, getting out of the house, talking to strangers. Do you have any hobbies or passions??? Get involved with that. Find some new ones....adult softball, play guitar, go to open mics etc. Don't force anything, build it and they will come....but you have to put in the effort and not post shit & read shit online … | /r/askTRP | 02/06/17 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Just turned 30, an absolute mess of a beta. Is my situation hopeless?Did you ever meet your LDR in person or was the "relationship" all online? You said she was in UK and you are in US, so we have to know. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/17 03:56 AM |
| 2 | LTR feels jealous about me lifting.I think you played it perfectly, especially for where you are at in the relationship. I think when you get deeper into a LTR responding with comfort like that is a good thing (especially while instilling your dread - it is a good push/pull technique), and you did it well by re-enforcing what you expect to receive for the relationship to continue to grow. Props. Side question, how long have you been lifting now that she is starting to see the results and what is your routine?? | /r/askTRP | 31/05/17 03:21 AM |
| 1 | LTR girls VS plate girls, whats the diff psychologically speaking?Then psychologically what makes them stay (or commits, no cheating) with a man who sees one girl only. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/17 02:54 AM |
| 1 | LTR game? (maintaining frame)I would also add that if an opportunity comes along to take the lead, take it. You should strive for a good balance of STFU (don't talk too much) and AMOG (but not over bearingly and only if the opportunity presents itself to lead. Don't pull some weird shit outta left field). | /r/askTRP | 24/05/17 07:50 PM |
| 0 | LTR game? (maintaining frame)Don't be afraid to be kind of flirty with them, especially if they are hot. It's a fine line through, don't over do it. Subtly is key. This should instill some low level dread. Be cool, don't over think it. I agree with first post here too. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/17 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Raising Smv question: protein shakes and acneThanks, I've cut out milk and whey protein. I'll try incorporating more fish into diet. I eat pretty well and balanced otherwise. A little heavy on the eggs though. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/17 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Raising Smv question: protein shakes and acneThanks I'll try the salicyliv acid cleanser | /r/askTRP | 24/05/17 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Raising Smv question: protein shakes and acneI've switched to organic plant protein powder and it seems to have come back | /r/askTRP | 24/05/17 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Raising Smv question: protein shakes and acneThanks. Difficult to get amount of protein I need that way. I really don't have time to make 5 or 6 meals a day but I will try to incorporate constant nut and bean snacking | /r/askTRP | 24/05/17 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Raising Smv question: protein shakes and acneNot anymore | /r/askTRP | 24/05/17 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Raising Smv question: protein shakes and acneThanks, I don't whack it anymore. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/17 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Raising Smv question: protein shakes and acneThank you for the tips, I eat a lot of eggs for protein so I will scale those back and incorporate more fish. The breakout is on my back. Face is fine (I get the random face zits now and then but that doesn't bother me cause they leave fast). | /r/askTRP | 24/05/17 03:49 PM |
| 2 | GF blatantly flirted with an alpha in our friends group.That is unacceptable behavior from an LTR. I would not tolerate that and I would have huge suspicions especially since she has "known him for a while." I would lay down the law and tell her that, that kind of behavior will never happen again (unless your ok with it) or potentially break up. But that's just my opinion. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/17 01:56 AM |
| 1 | its either my beta 300 pounds at 21 ass embraces the red pill or commits suicide? idk what to do?There is a wealth of knowledge and info here that can only make your situation better. Embrace it | /r/askTRP | 24/05/17 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Gamed her friend after she lead me on - now it's blowing up in my face?Oh, and I wouldn't stonewall hard next until your options are depleted here, unless you are totally just not feeling the situation anymore...in that case sure, hard next-do what you want. I wouldn't ask for an explanation, they are just shit testing you and an demanding an explanation would be failing the shit test. The version were you end up scoring with either or both is to continue to escalate for a date or hang out outsite of your little library smokes. Good luck | /r/askTRP | 20/05/17 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Gamed her friend after she lead me on - now it's blowing up in my face?I don't really see this as blowing up in your face. You're getting shit tested. Escalate for a date, see where it goes. If none of 'em want to go out with you move on. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/17 04:54 PM |
| 1 | What are some hobbies besides dancing and rock climbing where you can meet chicks?concerts, rock shows, rap concerts, open mics. can be anywhere from ameture to bigger names. works even better if you are the one performing, even if it's an open mic or whatever | /r/askTRP | 19/05/17 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Premature Ejaculation holding me backeasier said than done, but you've got to own it if it happens and have an IDGAF attitude about it if it happens. Then proceed to follow the advice that others have listed here. It really isn't a big deal if it happens. It has probably happened at least once to every guy. Thinking about it, dwelling on it, especially right before getting laid and then being all nervous and breathing heavy and having a pounding heart as you start to go at it, will exacerbate the problem. You need to be calm, enjoy… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/17 02:34 AM |
| 1 | 4 months of sex on the reg, getting hit with PE & ED. Tips, advice, methods pleaseThis has been a sudden onset, not symptoms that have been around and persistant. I am not going to get a prescription | /r/askTRP | 28/04/17 12:57 AM |
| 1 | 4 months of sex on the reg, getting hit with PE & ED. Tips, advice, methods pleaseHaven't read it, tried to find the full thing online PDF but all I could find was an outline of DEVI. Amazon had it for like 230 bucks or something rediculous. Know where to find it?? | /r/askTRP | 27/04/17 08:37 PM |
| 2 | 4 months of sex on the reg, getting hit with PE & ED. Tips, advice, methods pleaseThanks my man. We'll see how it goes. Have you gone through a similar situation?? I've literally been fine up until a week ago. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/17 05:33 PM |
| 2 | 4 months of sex on the reg, getting hit with PE & ED. Tips, advice, methods pleaseIs this likely a phase and will pass?? This happened one other time with a previous gf, but we just had more sex and it went away after maybe a week. That was a long time ago too | /r/askTRP | 27/04/17 04:53 PM |
| 2 | 4 months of sex on the reg, getting hit with PE & ED. Tips, advice, methods pleaseThanks. The humility of it got to me. I had a feeling that I shouldn't have gone there. I'll proceed accordingly. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/17 04:27 PM |
| 2 | 4 months of sex on the reg, getting hit with PE & ED. Tips, advice, methods pleaseThanks for advice, I'll pick some up today. What you think of rhino pills and the like?? | /r/askTRP | 27/04/17 04:24 PM |
| 1 | 4 months of sex on the reg, getting hit with PE & ED. Tips, advice, methods pleaseI don't think that is an issue at all, she is awesome and is sexy AF. I want to keep her around, hence my freaking out about this | /r/askTRP | 27/04/17 03:41 PM |
| 2 | 4 months of sex on the reg, getting hit with PE & ED. Tips, advice, methods pleaseIt is pretty good, I eat healthy and gym at least 4 days a week. I drink alcohol weekends though. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/17 03:40 PM |
| 1 | That moment when you think you care too muchhttps://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/67753n/is_it_a_bad_sign_when_the_girl_youre_dating/ https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/65pkpd/analyze_my_plan_for_handling_this_situation_with/ | /r/askTRP | 25/04/17 01:13 AM |
| 3 | What did you do to improve yourself, know yourself, and overcome your inner demons, specific to your identity?Put you and yourself first always. Do what you want to do and feel like doing, not for other people. Immerse yourself in a hobby and/or passion that can get your mind to transcend the past/future and bring you fully into that moment. For me that is playing guitar. I used to be concerned and hoped people would like my style and music, until recently I began to tell myself, "you know what, it doesn't matter if they like it or not, I'm doing this for ME." Continue your self improvement, don't take … | /r/askTRP | 22/04/17 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Analyze my plan for handling this situation with GFTexting is at a minimum, just enough to arrange meeting up. If she sends random texts I'll engage a bit. Just to be clear, she occasionally texts me out of the blue, but not much for planning dates or meet ups. And it has been even less so since we agreed to commitment, which I know can easily be explained. Thanks for reply | /r/askTRP | 16/04/17 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Analyze my plan for handling this situation with GFOkay, thank you for your input. Do you think it may be more beneficial to let this ride the way it has been, or begin to implement more hard core dread which I outlined in post? I'm leaning to just rolling with the way things have been and gauge moves to make from there. Don't want to start contacting less and have the potential for things to fizzle out. Anyone else with their two cents welcome to weight in. thanks again | /r/askTRP | 16/04/17 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Analyze my plan for handling this situation with GFI understand this. However, this seems to be contradicting 2/3 ratio rule, makes me feel as if I am the the one doing the chasing, and over investing. That is what I am having trouble coming to terms with. I have been leading and she is following 100%, is there something I am missing here? | /r/askTRP | 16/04/17 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Analyze my plan for handling this situation with GFDread level 3 with elements of level 5, 6, 7, & 8 mostly applied to her. I work on my own shit and hobbies without her, work full time, gym at least 4 days a week. I talk to other women in front of her where I can. Usually see her once during the week, then hangout 1 or 2 days of weekends. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/17 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Analyze my plan for handling this situation with GFYes, I am certain of that. If its great for me, its definitely great for her. Everything about the relationship is good and I am very happy with, except for what I have lined out in my post. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/17 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Analyze my plan for handling this situation with GFPretty amazing. I am definitely getting my needs met. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/17 03:25 PM |
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