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Blue Pill Exampleremember_that_girl/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 05:20 PM
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Not really, looks like you are still trying to do it in a sneaky way instead of saying it directly
/r/askTRP20/06/19 12:14 PM
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Sorry I still don't get it. People in that page are discussing how his commenters are racist but no mention of the posts
/r/askTRP11/05/19 10:08 AM
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The above post has no racism and I haven't read his other stuff. What kind of stuff did he say?
/r/askTRP11/05/19 10:02 AM
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How so?
/r/askTRP11/05/19 09:24 AM
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Not if you indulge in pornography and video games.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/18 04:07 PM
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Posts must be requests for advice OR clarification It's called askTRP, not tellTRP. Not pollTRP, or discussPhilosophicalIssuesWithTRP, or haveAConversationWithTRP. Violations of this rule will result in an immediate and permanent ban.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 04:02 PM
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She's lying to send virtue signaling - "Oh I'm such a virtuous woman who has a low n-count! Worship me!" Nah, not in this case. Her post history shows she is struggling from being a near-virgin at age 32 and being too shy and nerdy.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/18 03:38 PM
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She also says that only man was an overweight nerdy boy. Yeah, and this thing is also a bit unusual for a CC rider (she describes the guys she is approaching): I've gone from more quiet, nerdy guys to outgoing party types. So according to her comments seems like just an overweight nerdy bookworm in depression. She can handle it though. Best comment is from a lesbian who says that she has nothing to complain about with a dating pool of 95% of the male population, as opposed to lesbians.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/18 03:28 PM
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She says she used to be overweight in college but is 115 lbs at 5'2. However some of my assumptions about her could be wrong: I've been on the receiving end of a lot of bad treatment because of my looks, being laughed at, called names, being told that I'm ugly. It may not be the only reason, but I've had it drilled into me by a lot of different people in my life - men and women - that it's extremely important. And all the men I've liked, they've all chosen someone more attractive than me. A lot …
/r/TheRedPill28/10/18 03:08 PM
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My god, she proves every TRP point in the comments section. She basically says she wants a beta now: Friendship is definitely my priority. I've been treated so badly over the years, I just want someone who treats me with respect, who I can talk to, who I feel comfortable with, who I can trust. I'm very much willing to compromise on physical attraction, what I want is companionship. On the other hand, she claims that she does not have much experience with men and "never been on a date" so I am no…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/18 03:07 PM
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Congrats on your self-improvement. But as I never called her and never tried to contact her, she gave up on the idea and started the divorce process. You don't believe that, do you? She needed something to justify she's not a whore, and her excuse is that you didn't care about the relationship.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 04:40 PM
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How is this a request for personal advice or theory clarification?
/r/askTRP23/10/18 05:36 AM
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Gosh, happened to me so many times. I didn't fuck one girl TWICE when she was in my bed and 1.5 years later she is still my best & most faithful girlfriend. Go ahead and try again with her, champ.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 02:35 PM
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walking ATM Solution: date women from developed countries in Europe and Asia who are not focused on the visa but are still focused on family.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 12:06 PM
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Oh she just thinks I like driving, which is true. I did previously make solo driving trips when I was driving for 16+ hours each day.
/r/askTRP01/09/18 10:32 AM
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Well, if Mr Zaitsev tells me to keep it, I better fucking keep it. Спасибо.
/r/askTRP01/09/18 10:31 AM
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I hate the advice about the name which people keep repeating. Many people don't like being called by their first name. People with nonstandard names don't like to be called because you're going to mess it up anyway. Most importantly, it's just unnatural and immediately obvious when people try to do the first name trick.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/18 05:35 PM
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Just make sure you fuck before the party. On the day of the party itself, they even stamped our hands with the guesthouse address to have our asses delivered there - it assumed that everyone will be wasted. I saw people fucking publicly and girls peeing right in the crowd. I was mostly chilling at the mushroom bar though. If your girl went there, send her a message to let her know you no longer need her service.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:43 PM
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Good Lord, full moon parties in Thailand are the trashiest I've seen. Traveling there is not being cultured. Go there if you want to fuck a starry eyed 17 year old who drinks for the first time. Otherwise, read a fucking book at home. Source: living in Asia
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:18 PM
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I disagree with this for the simple that there should be some balance of power. A woman can legally force a man to pay for the kid for 18 years even if he doesn't want the kid for whatever reason and even if the woman is an abusive monster. A man should be able to legally kick put the woman and the kid without any compensation if he finds out that the kid is not his and the woman is a cheater.
/r/PussyPass19/07/18 03:55 AM
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It's not just france in California, the child of a married woman living with her husband at the date of conception, will legally be treated as the husband’s child unless one of the parents goes to court to claim otherwise within two years of the date of birth. Miss that 2-yr cutoff, and you are permanently daddy, even if the dna tests say otherwise .
/r/PussyPass18/07/18 06:45 AM
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Dominate me with your thoughtful apology and detailed defense of your actions, cowboy
/r/askTRP16/07/18 01:26 AM
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My girlfriend is complaing of exactly the same as you. Pretty obvious to me, you're neither fun not good to keep as a connection. Become fun and powerful. Also: http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person_p2/
/r/askTRP12/07/18 01:22 AM
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I wonder if AWALT can be mitigated. For example, I know that my LTR (low mileage, 4 partners) cheated on her previous boyfriend when they were about to break up, but haven't officially broken up yet. I'm certain she will do that to me too if our relationship breaks down, so I am going to try and preempt that by kicking her out first.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 05:24 PM
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It's almost as if women are not the same as men (sorry for my bigoted view).
/r/PussyPass04/07/18 03:34 PM
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This is not a response to the OP but a follow up to the others: Would STFU help in this situation? Like, completely stop talking and ignoring her except perhaps a few ironic remarks.
/r/askMRP04/07/18 02:04 PM
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No but that's her mother's surname (no joking)
/r/askTRP04/07/18 10:51 AM
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Speaking to her doesn't help. She's like: "two and two is four". Me: "ok, so you're saying two and two is four." She: "no!!! Why you can't understand me!!! I said that two and two is four, why you have to push me and why can't you just understand me and listen!!!"
/r/askTRP04/07/18 06:32 AM
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This is the type of person that I won't be able to convince to do drugs, not even weed. That sucks
/r/askMRP03/07/18 08:04 AM
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It was not that serious haha I guess I need to hear you that I shouldn't be the one digging out the trauma, because back in college I was basically a gay friend to many girls and I thought it's easy to dig out their traumas - they shared their stories of rape, tough life, and some nasty shit with me. I shouldn't be the one doing the digging now. And of course even though she understands there is a problem she is completely rejecting of any idea of therapy
/r/askMRP01/07/18 02:47 PM
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To be a higher value man I'm mostly focusing on getting a better job now. But you're right, not doing enough. I hear it, I'm going to focus on my self instead of her. Why do I sound codependent though?
/r/askMRP01/07/18 02:39 PM
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Oh, she's far from riding the cc. As for me, I just got an interview for a much better job so we celebrated that too. Her mom? Her mom is a mental wreck and she raise three kids alone because she's a heartless unemotional bitch. I think my LTR is doing a lot not to be like her. I heard you though, I'll be prepared for anything with her and keep doing my own shit in life without getting distracted.
/r/askMRP01/07/18 02:35 PM
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This is why I questioned her while she was still drunk and when she was recovering a bit. That strategy worked well with my ex wife, who confessed like a bitch. So yeah, I didn'tget any info from her and the event was not the type where you could fuck someone discreetly. Yeah I'm definitely going to be on the lookout for more red flags because I don't want to babysit an emotional wreck. But so far she's earned a lot of credit with me and she still has some to spend.
/r/askMRP01/07/18 02:24 PM
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then do it
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:36 AM
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Top answer
/r/askTRP27/06/18 06:16 AM
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Great advice, thanks. I'm definitely telling her to bang the orbiters, she used to have a few until I said I won't tolerate any branch swinging
/r/askTRP27/06/18 06:07 AM
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Haha what do you mean by that? She regularly takes it and swallows and doesn't ask for anything in return 😍😍
/r/askTRP27/06/18 05:37 AM
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She just says it's because she's scared of permanent damage and the rectum becoming loose. She's scared of many things. For me it's more like because I don't want to be a bitch she dominates. I think that may lead to permanent loss of her respect for me.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 05:30 AM
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Come on.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 05:18 AM
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There is too much guesswork here, your friend / you needs to act more and guess less.
/r/askMRP26/06/18 09:37 AM
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This is completely acceptable if being a cuckold is acceptable to you. Otherwise it is not. If he legitimately wants to keep her and revive the apparently very stale relationship, he needs to read literature on how to create attraction, and possibly get someone else who he will "jokingly" refer to as a girlfriend. For this particular situation it may no longer work but sure, go ahead and try fixing it.
/r/askMRP26/06/18 08:47 AM
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So it would basically be socialism. Where you are afforded guaranteed sex. The Soviets actually tried to do it in early 1920s, but somehow that didn't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 01:11 PM
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Submissive is not really the right word to describe it. My LTR can be a pretty wild animal and has a bright personality, but she just doesn't see a problem letting me decide and pretending to be a dumb bunny sometimes. It's not a taboo.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 02:41 PM
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I can report that Hong Kong sees a much lower N count. Source: LTR with N=3
/r/askTRP15/04/18 02:35 PM
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No response. Ever. Do not block, do not respond, do not read messages. Not a single indication.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 12:27 PM
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You will see one in three... two... one
/r/PussyPassDenied21/03/18 05:15 AM
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You haven't talked to a liberal in a while.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/03/18 05:13 AM
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Not every woman has a snatch and not everyone who is menstruating is a woman.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/03/18 04:55 AM
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I know what you're saying about learned helplessness, and experienced it myself too, in some other area (needed to break up but didn't). No amount of advice from friends helped. People need to do it on their own - arrive to the conclusion that they need to do something by themselves. Some people will never arrive to that conclusion, and their life will be a failure. About inceldom, I'm not sure how it is more common among men than women since it takes two people to have sex. I personally feel it…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 03:26 AM
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I know more than a few, probably six or seven. You can't give them any sort of advice because it is dismissed with "I can't. I just can't."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 05:06 AM
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My god, what a sub. A whole new world. Opened the first random thread, a woman at BMI 28.3 complains that "she's not really fat" but her boyfriend wouldn't have sex with her. Good lord.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 09:15 AM
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Sounds terrible. Well, you dodged a bullet then. Not your job to fix him.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/18 02:20 PM
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This isn't normal but perhaps understandable. It's either that your SMV is much higher than his, so he is obviously worried, or it's his own insecurity due to trauma and inability to respect himself. Good for you to move on.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/18 02:05 PM
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In my humble opinion, he should not vent it to you, but nevertheless you may listen and empathize. I don't know your guy but I feel he will probably be annoyed to hear your suggestions for the courses of action. If you are able, try to subtly (not openly) influence him to find a new job that wouldn't have those frustrations. If he doesn't do anything about it, those venting sessions will sooner or later start affecting your relationship. You can't force him to do stuff, but you can try to influe…
/r/askMRP22/02/18 06:38 AM
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Her: "I'm serious, I am really worried"
/r/askTRP21/02/18 08:36 AM
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Is that really a hard rule? Early in my LTR, she wanted to meet another guy for dinner who was courting her. I told her straight away that she won't go out alone with guys who are obviously into her, and that it doesn't need further explanation. That was controlling, but that worked. And no, she's not doing it secretly.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 06:35 AM
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I feel that talking about it after the fact (days later) won't help and will make her very defensive.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 11:17 AM
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The guy will be surprised, but I rate your chances as follows: 60% chance that he will be absolutely OK having sex with you; 30% chance that he will treat it as your advantage compared to other potential partners, and will be happy to take this chance to start exploring your sexuality with him; 10% that he will be an ass about it and say that you're like a log in bed, in which case you don't really need this guy.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/18 01:54 PM
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We average about 2-4 times a day This sounds like a lot. And it's not bad. But I've seen relationships of people in their twenties where the guy ended it because he couldn't take it anymore. I don't think he is bored of you. 0% chance. It's just really a little bit too much for his libido.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/18 01:42 PM
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Exactly. Walk around looking like a winner and make jokes about it.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 01:30 PM
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In my view, not necessarily. My own LTR is pretty shy, both naturally and as a flirting tactic, but doesn't have self-esteem problems because she's pretty hot.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 01:28 PM
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Good job holding the frame but I'd be cautious about those types because they could #metoo you for "rrrrape". I'd just make fun of her and excuse myself for the night.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 05:18 PM
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What do you feel about her? Given your understanding of the TRP, what do you think is going to happen next?
/r/askTRP29/01/18 03:14 AM
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Go to Europe, sir
/r/MGTOW26/01/18 06:07 AM
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If you can't find one, you can try turning the whore into a saint. If she feels you're a man, she may. Source: my ex turned from a whore into a saint by her new boyfriend after I was being a total faggot for years.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 11:10 AM
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And even more messed up that some men want to go back to the old days Who, except some immigrants, wants that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 02:12 AM
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I paid off my mom's high interest debt, and she repays me monthly in interest free instalments. Took just one day to convince her because of how much money stays in the family.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/18 02:23 AM
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Sounds like bad advice to me because first, fuck Xiaomi, second - the court may not look well upon your character for filming porn without the girl's consent.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 02:46 PM
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My LTR No, she's not anymore.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 02:35 PM
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humblebrag I don't know, dude, if she REALLY didn't want it, sometimes it's worth to stop pushing.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 11:43 AM
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Why am I acting so damn nervous? Because you have needy love for that girl.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 11:17 AM
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If you don't want to decide for yourself, then definitely still a beta End it and find three new girlfriends.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 03:23 AM
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I told her if she doesn't want to be together than to break it off and we'll call it at that. why are you letting her decide?
/r/askTRP04/10/17 03:17 AM
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I'm in the GMT+8 timezone (Hong Kong). Camille Paglia A person of any gender that behaves like a cunt. Nobody because God Prince Milo Yiannopoulos doesn't go that low. /u/AutoModerator
/r/PussyPassDenied03/10/17 08:54 AM
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i'll just leave this here https://i.imgur.com/2a2nxax.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 03:35 AM
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Well, it is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 02:57 PM
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It is hypocritical that black people can ask for equal rights, but white people asking for equal rights are called Nazis for no fucking reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 02:56 PM
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Isn't it hypocritical that "women's rights" are a thing but "men's rights" are considered a lunacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 11:41 AM
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until she moved out Then you should be crazy to fuck her. Actually, I'd skip this bitch if she's still living in his place but sexting other guys.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 10:00 AM
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Probably poor job prospects otherwise.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 06:03 AM
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I don't see your exact problem? I'm 30, been in LTR from 22 to 30, dumped her, dating a hot bitch now, got a promotion at work, seems there's no problem to redo your life at 30.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 02:39 AM
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Makes sense. But what if she brings it up herself. Something like "the other day you didn't let me go out with Chad, you're so controlling". Treat as shit test?
/r/askTRP31/08/17 07:11 AM
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OK, I agree, but... so setting the boundaries explicitly is a bad idea? Pretty sure I've seen this idea here on TRP sometimes.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 06:57 AM
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you might be being a bit of a dick to her or something Could be that maintaining frame and answering to shit tests requires being a bit of a dick. I guess I need to replace dickishness with more of amused mastery. Still, I am hoping that she may even like me being a dick sometimes, because it is sharp contrast to the absolute pussies she dated before. ("I had to rape him because he was too shy to touch me" - says she about her last bf).
/r/askTRP30/08/17 12:26 PM
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Ignore. "Here's your chance to learn me better" - your hand escalates. If she still rejects, then try again in 5 minutes. If still rejects, stop and kick the bitch out.
/r/askTRP25/08/17 07:57 AM
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Give me her number and I'll fuck her then.
/r/askTRP25/08/17 06:53 AM
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Go to a bar, get a beer, fuck her She texts me For fuck's sake, dude, what are you waiting for
/r/askTRP25/08/17 06:10 AM
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Some of them are fucking awesome at sex. They will invest their whole heart and soul into it. The best sex of my life was with a girl with an ugly face but beautiful body who didn't have sex for a few years. She also cooked me breakfast and we had a nice date after that. Just amazing. I can't generalize whether they are more likely or less likely to stay loyal. I had experiences with those who are absolutely devoted to the guy, and I've seen those who go crazy once they taste the dick and go on …
/r/askTRP25/08/17 05:20 AM
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RemindMe! one year just type that and you're set
/r/PussyPassDenied25/08/17 05:02 AM
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Any suggestions to deal with this?? Make sure to keep nudes and conversation history. You'll need them in court.
/r/askTRP25/08/17 03:18 AM
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I don't know, what are you doing so far?
/r/askTRP24/08/17 07:05 AM
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She did tell me that she "Is really vulnerable right now". It sounds like a nice idea to help a girl in trouble, but She's unstable, so she may pour it all on you, including a rape charge She needs a distraction. She doesn't care about you.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 06:05 AM
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she wants to talk about "what I want" Typical symptom of a woman who you didn't fuck. My gf is like that too, when we don't have sex for a few days. I recommend you run away from her before she claims you raped her.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 05:42 AM
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How does one truly be happy alone? No, no, no. While it's fine to go into a monk mode for a few months, you need to overcome yourself, find friends and relationships. Maybe at first the friends will suck and the relationships will be limited to one-night stands. Start with something. People without friends and relationships will likely suffer from mental illness and reduced success in life.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 01:19 PM
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What's the perception of you? They perceive you as a dork, laughing at you? Or do they perceive you as sexually attractive and try to get your attention? I sometime joke about a girl (who is there and can clearly hear me) when talking to a friend, as a way to poke fun at her. It's good fun - when she looks at me, I give her a smile. But if it's bad stuff, it seems that everyone is trying to humiliate you. Spend 3-6 months rebuilding yourself, then find a new social circle / work / whatever other…
/r/askTRP22/08/17 12:44 PM
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Your kiss is like a drug: better not to try second time Obviously that's a "what are you waiting for, fuck me now". Just be less overt about it, say you're watching a movie tonight and you have some wine, invite her to join. My LTR gf is Asian and she still says 'no' to absolutely everything as a way to tease me. Not sure if it's an Asian thing or just a girls thing.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 12:36 PM
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Never, ever tell, deny until your last breath, even after you break up. The song "It wasn't me" by Shaggy is not really a joke. I wouldn't be able to take it and I'd just break up with this one while you are still young. No explanations. I went through 7 years of constant fear that she'd find out and it wasn't nice.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 11:11 AM
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What's her age? sounds really fucked up
/r/PussyPassDenied22/08/17 07:23 AM
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Honestly Russian and some Asian seem like a higher quality wife material than the average Western girl. Source: Asian gf, doesn't drink, cooks, cleans, fucks well, respects the guy, and is happy about doing it.
/r/askTRP19/08/17 04:02 PM
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Sex and the City yes, you are missing out - you can get the proof that AWALT.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 10:04 AM
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Then you explain how she has given you rules (fuck me well) and you feel beholden to those rules Best comment so far. You are right. Maybe I'm the one who self-imposed those rules, or she did so, but I will work on destroying that. That's a sunk cost fallacy. She's worth extra effort because of the extra effort you already put in? No no I mean that any other girl, unless she has significantly smaller SMV, would require same effort and I won't be able to "relax".
/r/askTRP18/08/17 08:24 AM
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I guess an extra twist is that she only had two boyfriends before, both for very long time. And I am really aiming for a long term with her.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 05:56 AM
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I would recommend to consider how you became this way, through parents, people at nursery or school, or otherwise socially, rather than biologically. Also consider whether you reading about feminine behavior and fall victim of confirmation bias, similar to how when people read about symptoms of a disease, they will start feeling those symptoms.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 11:29 AM
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Marry hear, spend 10 years together, eventually divorce and regret your failed life. Or end this relationship
/r/askMRP15/08/17 08:32 AM
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You suffer from a victim mentality. Get rid of that and half of the work is done. Appendix A: http://lamcdn.net/the-village.ru/post-cover/sQkxNnAzj4AQ1Oq55ku_QQ-default.jpg
/r/askTRP14/08/17 08:19 AM
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Yeah in tech. I'm exaggerating of course so yeah, I will go this way and just flatly refuse to talk. I think I'd be good at doublespeak too ("We need to act immediately to empower our talent and reduce bias!") given that I was born in a commie country.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 08:05 AM
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When asked to elaborate I just told them I keep my politics and work separate Yeah, but that kind of gives you away as a conservative. You have to either state your political views clearly or be burned at the stake.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 07:57 AM
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Absolutely yes, same as psychedelics for example. More fear, more anxiety, more social awkwardness. Downers help but don't get hooked because they make it better in short-term and much worse in long-term.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 06:29 AM
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I wouldn't drop out of college at the risk of permanently harming your lifetime income.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 06:16 AM
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Put up a camera and show this shit to her. Threaten you will go to police. Fight back. One day, move out and dump them without every saying a word again. It's only for a few more years. After that, you're free to have your life.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 06:15 AM
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I appreciate you caring about the daughter (you're going to lose her BTW), but your wife had great sex for these past few days and she will divorce you as soon as she's reasonably assured that the next guy is going to be with her. You can eat it or start covering your ass for the divorce.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 05:52 AM
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'sleep cancer' Dude that's offensive. I had a friend who died of sleep cancer.
/r/askTRP10/08/17 08:02 AM
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To add my own, mentioning your past drug use (which has stopped for some time) immediately killed it with one girl I had.
/r/askTRP10/08/17 07:59 AM
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You don't drink coffee to resolve your problems or hide away from something. In that sense, even moderate, reasonable use of LSD or ketamine can be considered a good thing (e.g. twice a year, when alone at home, with a clear idea about why you are doing it, and in a dose that will not lead to consequences).
/r/askTRP09/08/17 02:51 PM
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no asking what she is doing (you don't give a shit) no funny joaks (lame, although she understands and she will still be fine if she likes you) "hi this is the guy you met in [place] I'm going to the [this beach / this club / this cool place] tomorrow at [time]. Join me!"
/r/askTRP07/08/17 09:56 AM
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You are not their dad to educate them about being on time. Ignore their lateness and act normal See what you can get from them and get it Don't consider them for LTR
/r/askTRP07/08/17 05:46 AM
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If you are being asked that in a non-sexual interaction (e.g. at work), keep confident and say the same story, with less details but more jokes. But quickly end it to avoid attracting pity. Example: Because I'm an Iron Man. Went through a back surgery to become one. Was worth every cent I spent on it! (laugh) I'm perfectly fine now. Because I'm programmed to look for my next target. (laugh) It was a back surgery a few years ago, it's alright now.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 05:43 AM
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If you live in the Western world and are over 25 you won't find a girl who hasn't sucked at least 15 cocks. Can someone confirm? I haven't lived in the Western world and I find it hard to believe. Are you exaggerating or serious?
/r/askTRP31/07/17 02:01 AM
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My current job isn't bad If you're not spending time improving yourself, you are degrading. You'll be fired from your job after they figure out you didn't learn anything new in the past few years.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 01:59 AM
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Thanks for the idea. Indeed we're planning to earn more money within one year from now, so I'll talk to her about the timeline for living separately.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 06:02 AM
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I can get a room in a shared flat but honestly I really don't want to, partly because of the inconveniences of bringing girlfriend(s) and having sex.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 06:01 AM
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Borgore.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 09:09 AM
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She's going there without you to party and fuck around. Next her. Don't go with her to guard her pussy.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 04:38 AM
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Ask her to pee on your face and suddenly pull out a pregnancy test. Seriously though, talk to her straight, dominate the conversation, say that she has to abort and it's the only reasonable choice. Tell her to at least do a test, tell her you need her to do the test, so that you know what to expect and can be prepared for this big life event. In the worst case if she's keeping it, do a DNA test. It's weird she's hiding the pregnancy from you, maybe she suspects it's not yours but you are a good …
/r/askTRP09/06/17 04:35 AM
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Read the sidebar and fuck her. She doesn't want to "hike" until you fuck her. I made this mistake countless times, sometimes to the point where the girl has to scream "WHY ARE YOU NOT FUCKING ME'.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 04:32 AM
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I don't believe it's about your physical looks, even though that's what she said and even though you need to go to a gym. I think most likely reason is that you were too much of a passive cuck. I'm sure it's a lot of fun to be friends with you, and you're a nice guy and get along well with people. But that's just for friendship, yeah.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 04:32 AM
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You don't get irony, do you
/r/askTRP29/05/17 02:10 AM
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Because she wants attention and comfort but the OP is too disgusting to fuck With him.
/r/askTRP29/05/17 01:50 AM
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Here's just another hate comment for your "can I turn my life around at 21". I'm 30 and I wish I was 21 right now, I'd start a whole new life.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 04:22 AM
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It kind of annoys me, but should I ban her from doing that? I have dinner with girls too sometimes.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 08:00 AM
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Clear enough, thank you.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 04:12 AM
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Can't go to doc on a weekend... but I'll tell her next time I will get the pills.
/r/askTRP21/05/17 04:19 AM
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Actually I did stop watching porn and masturbating back in April, I think it might be a late side effect of that. And thanks for the advice. Wow. OK I'll do that. I'm still kind of worried because it will be my second failure with her. On the other hand she's really into me so she might be OK.
/r/askTRP21/05/17 04:09 AM
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I don't know. I had rock solid erections since I remember myself, but then a few weeks ago I dated this girl who was just mind-blowing, and I failed. Soon I dated another one, probably the hottest one in my life, and I failed again. I used to just have random erections in the morning or at work, but not anymore. So yeah no idea WTF is happening but I heard 30 is about the age many guys hit this wall. Of course a pill will fix it but I've never tried and I guess it won't be the same anyway. So fa…
/r/askTRP21/05/17 04:05 AM
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But wouldn't she be frustrated at not getting the full experience? I feel she will subconsciously feel I'm not a man if I'm not hard.
/r/askTRP21/05/17 02:12 AM
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Read this sub and make him budge, otherwise get another job. Going to HR seems like an easy way to resolve the issue but it will happen again. Do it if you like easy solutions.
/r/askTRP21/05/17 01:30 AM
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I recommend to curl under a blanket and cry. No, go talk to the boss, and state exactly what you want him to do or stop doing.
/r/askTRP21/05/17 01:13 AM
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I agree drugs mask problems if you do them regularly. So your problems remain unfixed and even worse while you are temporarily not suffering the consequences. However, I feel they can still be a useful tool. Similar to matches, motorcycles or firearms. Dangerous but sometimes useful. I didn't suffer from homelessness but social anxiety was the number one issue that poisoned my existence for my previous 29 years here, and I still bear the consequences of that. Some people may avoid this huge issu…
/r/askTRP17/05/17 12:18 PM
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Why not, except the dangers of addiction to benzos? I feel light drug use (benzos and gabapentinoids) helped me overcome my social anxiety and teach me patterns I could use later, without drugs. Now I don't need drugs to talk to someone anymore. I'm not arguing, just want to know what you think. I know TRP is generally against drugs as a way of solving problems.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 11:39 AM
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That's the risk you gotta take to get your dick wet! I get it the last minute because indeed a few girls bailed in the last moment.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 09:07 AM
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Get some Xanax if you're that anxious. Just fucking dance. Practice at home. Don't give a shit about girls. After you've had enough fun, either someone will approach you or you can approach someone and just smile and say hi. I was really anxious of parties and clubs, after your first time it's going to be fine. Having a friend helps but don't only talk to your friend or you'll lose all your chances.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 06:49 AM
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When it's that obvious, I just get a hotel room and ask her to sneak out for one hour. She can say she went shopping, to a doctor, friend or whatever. But I've recently talked to two married girls and in the end both of them bailed because they just can't find a suitable time and/or excuse to get away from their families, even though they really wanted to fuck.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 06:45 AM
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Just date anyone for practice. Normally if you date ugly girls people will judge you, but you're leaving this group of people soon anyway, after your graduation. Incidentally, the ugliest girls I had sex with were also the best at it.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 05:31 AM
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After school people are less willing to give you shit and more willing to fuck. Kids at school are very herdlike, ruthless to those perceived as below them and licking the ass of those perceived above them. I was considered outcast and the worst loser at school, but new girls I got to know after that thought I'm a fucking god.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 04:02 AM
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Thanks. Good point that she doesn't want me but still desperate to keep me, probably scared of loneliness or something.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 03:16 AM
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Slim but pretty. Not sure if attracted but often says I'm handsome. Probably the issue is not the looks but past womanlike behaviour on my part.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 03:16 AM
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Whenever I read the "never deal with a cheater" advice, I'm always thinking that there's an added nuance that I myself is a cheater too. (not OP)
/r/askTRP17/05/17 01:33 AM
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Make sure you don't start with "sorry", "I don't know maybe it's just me but personally i think maybe", or other stuff like that. Maintain eye contact. And yeah, high school is not real life. Rules don't apply here. Once you get out of there into the real world it will be easier.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 01:30 AM
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Probably not a girl who will be OK with a non-serious relationship, like just dating and casual sex. Is it wrong to assume that?
/r/askTRP15/05/17 10:24 AM
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All great advice, thanks. I won't show any jealousy then. Even now, when I did show jealousy, she gave me some good indicators: When she messaged someone and was smiling, I said she must be messaging a guy she likes. She let me see her phone to make sure it was her girl-friend. After she returned from travelling alone for a week (just before our first sex), she went out of her way to deny it when I joked that she must have been having tons of sex every day on her trip.
/r/askTRP15/05/17 06:31 AM
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OK, got your point. She should be looking for ways to keep me, not vice versa.
/r/askTRP15/05/17 04:46 AM
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Wants to dump you It would make her feel like she's a bitch So she is pushing you to dump her instead, so she can claim higher moral ground
/r/askTRP15/05/17 04:45 AM
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Clarify top dog? What should I do if I integrate with her circle? I don't have many people I know in this city, maybe just 10 or so, 4-5 who would hang out with me as friends.
/r/askTRP15/05/17 04:32 AM
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Thanks for reminding she has options and she'll take them. I'm kind of naively believing that she's sincere about a relationship with me, but on the other hand, she was the one who initiated breakups in her previous relationships, so I'm thinking you're right that she will take those options at any time.
/r/askTRP15/05/17 04:30 AM
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I am not trying to fix anything, we just happened to get close over a drink and had sex at the next date. For my taste, she seems way better, prettier and more interesting than the other girls I'm dating, so I'm willing to try LTR with her.
/r/askTRP15/05/17 04:26 AM
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In addition to all other advice here, I would try meds, but that's just me. Pregabalin works well for me to make the dick pretty insensitive while erection is still maintained.
/r/askTRP15/05/17 03:27 AM
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You should get more experience with Asian girls. Or leave them to me. One just made a bracelet for me and invited me to try the cookies she made.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 09:22 AM
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Is it too late to flip now? Let's say when discussing the time for the next date, I'd say "You're only dating me because I'm your best option, so I'm not sure if I should see you again".
/r/askTRP12/05/17 03:34 AM
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Amazing advice. Thanks. ♂
/r/askTRP12/05/17 02:17 AM
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Meet educated girls from other countries. They are less sjw.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 01:01 AM
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Thanks. Why is it a textbook-bad thing to do. Someone raised the ethnicity issue in my last post saying that sometimes Asian culture may require a different approach, so I thought it's worth mentioning.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 01:57 AM
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Thanks. Valuable analysis. Yeah I really bombed this one.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 04:28 PM
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Thanks for sharing. I hope that's the case. She is acting kind of surprised, but of course my instinct is to blame on my stupid actions.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 01:35 PM
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Ok, I just sent her this - Change of plans! Come over to my place instead in the evening, Saturday or Sunday night. We can get some drinks and watch a good movie. Do you think it'll work out? Any comments?
/r/askTRP02/05/17 01:14 PM
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Lol I offered her to paint my door (which looks horrible) and she said yes
/r/askTRP02/05/17 01:12 PM
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Yes!
/r/askTRP02/05/17 01:11 PM
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So you recommend to next and don't try with her again? I offered to meet her at the airport when she returns later this week, she just answered "ahhhh". WTF.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 12:25 PM
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Ok, so the cheating revelation meant that by that time she realized I'm not going to have sex with her, and so she moved me to her "beta" folder? That makes sense.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 12:15 PM
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OK. Plenty of reading to do but holy shit, I literally had no clue that she could be open to sex. Wish I knew this before that date. Anyway glad I got your advice before the next time I meet her.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 11:16 AM
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I will. I remember now, that was one of the things that discouraged me: when we sat on the sofa together, she seemed to distance from me sometimes, as if to avoid getting too close. Probably I misunderstood. She was also adjusting her skirt often so that I wouldn't be able to see under it (we were sitting with our legs on the sofa, so at times it was pretty revealing).
/r/askTRP02/05/17 11:04 AM
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Got it. Apparently I was not aggressive enough and missed my chance to have sex that night. Any tips on how to recover? She's probably thinking "what the hell was that, he invited me over but we did nothing".
/r/askTRP02/05/17 10:55 AM
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a girl expects sex if shes comming over. I was also expecting sex, but she gave me zero hints, and I had no plausible reason to get closer to her and escalate further. Is this a rule without exception?
/r/askTRP02/05/17 10:38 AM
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Let me post the first serious answer: It worked for me just by asking her for a damn dinner after work. She was more than happy to turn dinner into drinks. I'm still working on continuation though. But a dinner with a co-worker sounds pretty innocent, no reason to say "no".
/r/askTRP02/05/17 10:30 AM
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Is this really a good idea to just start with "hey"? I've heard from girls multiple times that it's annoying and they don't want to respond to that.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 10:27 AM
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Got it. That's what I had my doubts about - posting on social media to seek attention. Probably that behavior was a little girly.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 12:33 AM
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Well, either she gets even more turned on, or she will get dry and frustrated because she can't get enough. I can't be sure what it will be so I assume the latter.
/r/askTRP
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I didn't make her that dirty yet, but I'm working on it. She's too nice, sweet and innocent for now.
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I'm sure this happened to someone and that's terrible, but of course it's not anywhere near commonplace. There isn't even a reason to do that unless you have some sort of mental issues. So yeah, sounds like another "all men are pigs' thing.
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