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Eat something, but try to go longer next time. It's all about discipline.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/22 12:19 AM
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No joke man, that bitch would be a 3/10 for me. The 3 points would be for her face, ass, and pussy. The rest can go to hell lol
/r/TheRedPill05/01/22 04:52 PM
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My dream was to be like Chad. I couldn’t just accept that genetics and my face had doomed me. Wow. You still haven't changed the way you look at yourself. You're doomed to repeat this pattern or ones similar to them unless you change your self image. Listen up, pussy.... Your genetics or hand you're dealt do not determine the quality of your life. You, and only you do. You're a fucking man. Start acting like one. You have zero plan, and have accepted your fate like one of the dead masses of the …
/r/TheRedPill05/01/22 04:41 PM
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Fuck yeah brother. 47 year old man here. I ended up starting with 5x5 a few years back, I was doughy as fuck, and could barely bench 120. After getting bored with that I started more advanced programs and am now benching 240 with a pretty nice cut. It's never too late to start. Once I got into top shape, a lot of things changed. More female attention, other men want to do things for me, and my daughters boyfriend basically idolizes me.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/22 01:01 AM
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Way harder than just finding new bitches. Why should OP waste his valuable time?
/r/askTRP21/06/21 12:19 PM
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You've got the wrong impression of who we are. I'm a 47 year old man with multiple plates, the oldest of which early 30's. I make 6 figures and put 2/3/4 plates on the barbell. Listen to these guys. They know what they're talking about.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 02:23 PM
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When you fall into beta behaviors like tracking her, trying to check on her social media accounts, accusing her (even if you're right)... A woman will see you as controlling and psycho. So you're kind of both right. You're acting beta and she's a lying bitch. It sounds like you're better off without her, and that you have a lot of work to do on yourself. Don't get me wrong, I am not blaming you for her shitty behavior, but there are things that you can do better next time. Like hard next and gho…
/r/askTRP20/06/21 11:57 AM
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50mg of viagra. You'll last about 2-3 times longer on the first pop. The second will seem like you're a superhero. I wouldn't use it regularly, just when you're planning something big.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 12:14 AM
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I've fucked a lesbian and her girlfriend. It was kind of strange tbh. I opened them at a club, they kept on re-initiating and we ended up at their place. They want to hook up again sometime too. I'm still scratching my head over it. They say they're lesbian, their social media screams lesbian but they sure as hell don't seem it to me. I say just enjoy it, OP.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 12:12 AM
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Feels like warm mashed potatoes
/r/askTRP14/06/21 11:08 PM
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There are always signs.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 11:01 PM
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It doesn't always have to be passive. You can employ active dread in rare circumstances. Passive dread (going to the gym, out with your friends where hot chicks will be, etc) is something you should be doing constantly.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 06:42 PM
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I can't believe this is the only post that brought the "it's a joke" thing to light. It's not a joke until OP reacts negatively to it. I'd just end things because I don't want a MFM, and I don't think OP does either. Would be a deal breaker for me.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 12:11 AM
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Ask her if she shops at old navy or REALLY old navy. Or you can ask her for a werthers after you fuck her.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 03:37 PM
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Agreed. Hindsight is always 20/20 though, which is why I prefer plates to LTRs currently. I've got enough in my life to keep me busy without needing an LTR.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 03:35 PM
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What can you hope to learn from someone with flawed logic?
/r/askTRP08/06/21 11:51 PM
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I'm 47, a few years back had a LTR that was 16 years younger than me. She liked EDM festivals, I did once in a blue moon, but not as much as she did. Later (post break up) found out that she'd be walking around with her tits out when she was at festivals with her girlfriends. ​ Here's the deal my friend... You can't control her behavior, and if you try, she's just gonna see you as weak and branch swing. I'd say your best bet is to make your boundary known. "Any girlfriend of mine wouldn't do tha…
/r/askTRP08/06/21 11:21 PM
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The fuck did I just read?
/r/askTRP07/06/21 12:43 PM
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These clubs are more of a thing of the past than something that will serve you well currently. Unless you're getting into politics as a career, then you need to hobnob with these oldsters.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 02:37 PM
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You're retarded. Find less toxic girls to bang. This chick will give you trouble, guaranteed.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 02:32 PM
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Listen brother. You seem desperate for a LTR. We've all been there. Once you get experience with women at a certain point it will just click. You don't need to settle anymore. Nobody is replaceable (except for family), soulmates is bullshit. There is no "the one". This might seem negative, but it's actually a very good thing. You know your value and you're not looking to settle for anyone who's "bad at relationships". You will probably not listen to us, but that's okay. Just keep it in the back …
/r/askTRP31/05/21 03:59 PM
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Huge red flag. Plate only.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:40 PM
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I'm not into watching dudes dance lol
/r/askTRP30/05/21 08:24 PM
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You seem to know a whole lot about homosexuals. Interesting... Dancing isn't really my thing but I do not see a dance floor exclusively filled with gay men when I go to a nightclub.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 02:48 PM
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but why would she tell me about it if her intentions were to cheat? It gives her a way to rationalize to herself if she ends up branch swinging... "But I told him about this hot other guy and did he step up? no...". Of course it's all bullshit but women are different than men and need an excuse to break up with someone other than one is hotter than the other.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 12:57 PM
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^^ And ghost.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 12:43 PM
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We're not excusing them. We're saying that "this is what is". A man can either accept it and work around it, or be a frustrated chump who tries to fight a losing battle. The choice is all his. I can tell you from observation that one path is WAY fucking happier than the other.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 05:50 PM
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My thoughts are.... You LTR a crazy girl, and you get crazy girl behavior. Simple male logic there, my friend.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 12:51 PM
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Can you explain why? It helps me in the gym? /s
/r/askTRP28/05/21 12:20 PM
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When you're seducing a girl in a group, you have to remember that you're "seducing" the entire group. In a manner of speaking. The same applies to your situation. Be awesome, that it all.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 11:43 AM
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Rejection Therapy. If you're 100% serious about wanting to change, it will work.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 11:42 AM
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Your first steps are to live for you. Pick a strength building program and Get your ass in the gym. Getting stronger, putting more plates on the barbell, and seeing your progress is a huge confidence booster. Start talking to people. Not just girls, but everyone. Of course this INCLUDES girls, and if you're confident and your body's starting to get decent they're going to be falling all over you. Having plenty of options will usually help your oneitis, and actually improve your relationship.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 11:30 AM
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LOL. Yes they do. Sometimes they play it a little differently, but ASD pops up a LOT.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 06:36 PM
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All girls do this in some way or another. "We're not having sex tonight". "I'm not that kind of girl". All shit tests. She absolutely LOVES sex, but does not want to be seen as a slut. Sometimes you have to escalate a little more slowly. Think 2 steps forward and one back. Give her a little comfort too. If she say's no, then you back off, otherwise you keep escalating.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 06:36 PM
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Sometimes it happens. You did a great job of getting her swept up in the moment, and escalating. Sounds to me like the energy changed when she got to your place, and therefore her mood. Was your place clean, and chick-friendly? Did it tell the story of an interesting man with a lot of shit going on in his life, or was it an average, dingy apartment?
/r/askTRP22/05/21 03:42 PM
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In a LTR? Noooo.... Where the hell do you get this idea?
/r/askTRP22/05/21 03:37 PM
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If it walks like a duck....
/r/askTRP22/05/21 03:23 PM
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I lost a lot of strength, but started with a new cycle of my favorite program at only 70% of the weight I was doing before the pandemic. I've been adding weight each week and now I'm back up to ~90% after a couple of months. I have lost some mass, and that'll take a bit to get back. ​ I would just jump in deloaded by quite a bit and slowly build it back. It worked for me, and way more quickly than I expected.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 03:17 PM
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Demotion is this fantasy that many men in this sub have often, but it very rarely pays off in real life. You have to be stone cold, and truly give zero fucks. But by that time, you don't give a fuck and you would rather be done with the drama and bullshit that always comes in the aftermath of failed relationships. Don't demote, walk away.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 12:37 AM
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I cycle between PHUL and PHAT. It's a good program.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 12:31 AM
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I'd say hard next. OP has expressed his willingness to orbit, which already has him in her frame from the start.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 12:30 AM
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Bitches come and go but herpes stays with you forever
/r/askTRP17/05/21 11:28 PM
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This! Bravery is the intellectual decision to act logically in spite of your emotions. It gets easier with practice as well.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 12:33 PM
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To put things in perspective, ALL women are branch-swingers. It's literally in their DNA. (but not all women are branch swingers). You will understand when you internalize the AWALT concept. When you LTR someone understand that it's never permanent, and yes, she will probably branch-swing. But that's okay, you're a man and you can handle it. You'll have plenty of other options.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 12:14 PM
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It's the only conclusion that won't land your ass in jail. Not interesting, it's just plain and simple male logic.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 01:00 AM
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The fact that she freaked out tells you everything you need to know. If it was an honest mistake or people she blocked ages ago and forgot, her reaction would have been different.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 01:15 AM
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Appreciate the fact that she didn't waste your time like some women will with stringing you along. Then move on.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 12:37 PM
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If the gym is an important part of you life, post it. Who gives a fuck what girls think. You live for you, not for validation.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 12:55 AM
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I'm not a huge fan of PUA tactics. Yes, they work but.... What works better is learning how to read a woman. Tease her just enough. Remain mysterious. Have fun and be full of shit. Then when it's time to be serious, be serious. You're in your own head about when you should push and pull instead of vibing naturally and just enjoying this woman and your conversation. You may notice that the advice I gave you could be considered push/pull. Just don't call it that. Think of it as vibing with a chick…
/r/askTRP09/05/21 12:53 AM
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Who cares? I've had women do weirder shit. Sometimes you just get a weirdo, especially when you date a lot of women. Shit happens.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 01:06 PM
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Go nuclear on her. If you don't, she'll keep coming back and you'll keep taking her back since you're still stuck in your BP ways. You really need to go scorched earth on this manipulator to ensure she'll never come back again.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 12:17 AM
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She might not have even posted it with that intention.... Chicks say one thing and do another all the time.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 12:32 AM
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Demote to what? She's already a broken plate.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 12:30 AM
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We can't tell you how to live your life.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 11:07 PM
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This is what women did before there was OnlyFans.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 07:11 PM
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Cut that bitch out of your life. You're on a road that leads nowhere but to pain.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 01:32 PM
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Do a search on this sub regarding orbiters. It should be eye opening.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 11:12 PM
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Don't have "the talk" until you absolutely have to. Your mission is to have as much casual sex as you can without the dreaded talk! What posts are you referring to? In my experience, the longer you can avoid the talk, the longer you can spin a plate.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 11:06 PM
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My opinion is that the relationship has run its course. You both want different things, and they're not going to automatically change to magically fix the failed relationship. You shouldn't care if she's riding the CC or if she lost attraction, or whatever. You should focus on healing, then when you're good to go there, you can use the extra time to improve yourself.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 09:19 PM
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Leave it or screenshot it at least so you can cringe over it in 6 months.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 09:16 PM
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Find more real options. This girl isn't interested, even a little. Your energies are better spent focusing on other things.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 09:14 PM
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Okay? She's giving you an "in". This is where you set a time and place, then STFU. I'd be like "Tell you what. Meet me at x on x, and we'll see who can handle who".
/r/askTRP02/05/21 09:10 PM
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That's the exact thing that came to my mind as well.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 09:08 PM
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IDK man, I am a ginger and I do well with Latinas and women of Italian descent. Because that's MY preference. I don't care for redheads or blondes.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 12:41 AM
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What the fuck dude.... You're a man, not a baby.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 12:40 AM
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The best way to tell is if her adams apple is bigger than her cock.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 12:31 AM
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100% agree. I think you read the situation correctly and responded perfectly. Had the new partner actually had good intentions, you should have shook his hand.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 12:29 AM
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I would usually agree, but in this case, the ex had intentions beforehand and laid into OP. A handshake could have escalated things from verbal to physical.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 12:28 AM
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Be vague. "Can't complain". Or "Any day above ground is a good day"/
/r/askTRP28/04/21 11:05 PM
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Why? You displayed weakness. You mention that you're stressed out, blue, etc.... women pick up on that and it dries up the pussy. Is it worth dwelling on? No. Best to move on and work on yourself, bro.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 08:52 PM
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Some chicks are like this. I have one who I barely talk to but she's always down for a date. We'll go a couple weeks without chatting then she hits me with a few nudes, I'll set up a date, and she accepts. Don't think too much of it, other than she knows you don't want to be serious and neither does she.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 08:34 PM
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This man spells it out for you right here ^^. Dump this chick, as she's not your LTR if she's still on dating sites. She doesn't respect you a bit.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 01:28 AM
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Or better yet, just don't think of her at all.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 08:17 PM
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Or poke some bitches holes. either would be fine.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 12:02 AM
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100% this. Withdraw attention and do NOT give in. Decide beforehand how long you're going to do it for, and stick to it. DO NOT tell her that you're not talking to her because blah blah... Just STFU, and if she pushes you, just tell her you didn't feel like talking or you were busy. Not giving in and not becoming angry with her and letting her in on why you're withdrawing attention are just as important as actually withdrawing.... And the one thing that newbs fuck up on the most. She will get th…
/r/askTRP02/04/21 12:04 AM
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I'm a ginger and it's always been a challenge. I'd say that I'm handsome but most girls simply hate dudes with red hair. I've noticed a huge increase in my success rate after about 2 years in the gym. I wouldn't say I slay, but I do damn good. So my advice is get the best body you can, have your shit together and have a strong purpose in life that shows through in all that you do.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 11:54 PM
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Your dad sounds like an incredible dude
/r/askTRP01/04/21 11:39 PM
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In order to get acclimated to something you have to expose yourself to it. Try taking a cold shower as an example. It shocks the fuck out of most people but I have no problems getting in ice cold water every morning. I wasn't like this at first, it took work and discipline. Mental toughness is the same way. Check out "Can't hurt me" by David Goggins. I think it'll help you.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 11:45 AM
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Chicks who are openly and loudly into witchcraft are fucking nuts. Give her a month, then give yourself the rest of your life to never contact her again
/r/askTRP20/02/21 12:21 AM
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Sluts are sluts my man. Who you are as a person or your actions won't change who she is.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 12:32 AM
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Sometimes I can do it naturally. I can do it every time with viagra. Usually will take that when I'm having a threesome.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 12:31 AM
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Take good care of yourself and maximize your SMV. Fuck social media. Stay off it, and do your own thing. Women find it more intriguing if you look like you should be on, but aren't.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 12:49 AM
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Why do you even care? It's only ig, and there are other chicks.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 01:33 AM
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Don't wait for "valid evidence". Trust your gut and walk away now. Hell, don't even tell her why, just say "it's not working for me anymore". The only thing she's going to do is convince you that you're wrong about her. Chicks are great at being convincing when they're pulling the most vile shit behind your back
/r/askTRP22/01/21 01:33 AM
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You need to take it with food. Fatty foods are best.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 10:16 PM
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This is rp 101. Women have men that they fuck and men that they use. If they're asking you to join their only fans then you know what they want from you. Move on and pay them no mind
/r/askTRP13/01/21 02:18 AM
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I picked up a bunch of kettlebells and sandbags. My physique is still pretty good and my core is stronger than ever. I'm guessing my big 3 lifts have suffered greatly tho
/r/askTRP13/01/21 02:06 AM
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I've thrown together my own workout program with sandbags, kettlebells, and resistance bands. It's not ideal. There's no progressive overload since it's hard to add weight each time, but it keeps me from losing too much.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 01:41 PM
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Yes, they are things to be worried about. They absolutely can't be avoided unless you live in a log cabin and kill/grow all of your own food. To counter the effects, optimize what you can. Work out/Lift heavy. Get good sleep, aim for 12% body fat. Fix your vitamin deficiencies - namely Vitamin D and Zinc.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 11:39 PM
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Think of it this way. If you're a pussy, you're never going to get any pussy.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 11:36 PM
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Judging by your post you're just not okay with the way she is. People can change short term but long term you're gonna be at odds over this stuff again.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 12:06 AM
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I would STFU until you can talk to her in person. My take is that she wants to post sexy pics for validation. It's in her nature. She doesn't give a fuck if you're okay with it or not judging by her reaction to you mentioning the ass pic. She only took it down so you wouldn't dump her. Guess what? When you break up she will say you were "controlling". First Mistake: Should have vetted her better. Second mistake: keeping her after the ass pic incident. Congrats, now you get to be "controlling". H…
/r/askTRP22/12/20 11:25 PM
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Just tell them. STDs are not a huge deal anymore. Shit happens, and if it's treatable it's nothing more than an inconvenience.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 01:26 AM
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Just assume she did, and continue on as usual. Stop being insecure and do what makes you happy. Your sense of happiness shouldn't depend on another person's loyalty.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 01:25 AM
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Having a plate is just going to increase your chances of fucking the other girl. Just don't bring it up, if she does just project that it's no big deal and escalate.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 01:18 AM
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I agree with this post. Often, I am one to say "next the bitch", but in this case it looks like OP didn't set boundaries. It's the man's job to set the boundaries, his woman's job to follow them. OP should tell his girl what she saw and tell her that "no girlfriend of mine snaps her ex behind my back". If she asks what it means (she will), OP just says, "you know exactly what it means". Then OP withdraws a little. Do not argue about it, do not say anymore about it, just leave it at that. If it h…
/r/askTRP05/11/20 02:05 AM
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She's a FWB, why should you care? Women say things and do completely the opposite all the damn time. Just accept that and continue to fuck her without LTR, or just walk away. up to you.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 12:23 AM
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The sex was probably bad or she had regrets for some other reason. Should you give a fuck? No. Move on and game other women. You're welcome.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 12:14 AM
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Personally, I have pretty much been on hiatus except for a couple of trusted plates. Well, more like one as of late. I'm okay with it though, as we have to get through the pandemic first. I'm taking this time to further my career in the ways that it makes sense to, go into monk mode, and come out stronger in a year or however long it takes for all of this to be over.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 12:24 AM
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Divorce is expensive but you can't put a price on your own happiness and masculinity.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 10:58 PM
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I lost so much strength during the first lockdown. My bench went from 240 to 180. I tried working out with sandbags and cinder blocks but it's just not the same. If my state locks down again I'm going to focus on flexibility with yoga.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 12:48 AM
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Exactly this ^^ She knew OP was butthurt. If OP hung on just a little longer, was polite, she would still get the gist of it... That his time is valuable. OP's frame got much weaker by acting out the way he did.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 12:44 AM
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You care too much and this really isn't asktrp material.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 12:40 AM
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Tell her you're a cuckold.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 12:37 AM
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Lift weights, make big moves in regards to your career, expand your social circle. 3 easy ways that you can start creating dread right now.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 12:36 PM
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Drop now. I can tell you from experience that it only gets worse.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 11:46 AM
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She cheated on you. I'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news bro. Chicks ALWAYS project their cheating on to you. They have a weird way of twisting things in their mind and projecting their disgust that should be aimed at themselves, on to other people.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 10:27 PM
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That's dread for you. This is coming from her own anxiety that you're looking so good that she's going to be left behind. I'd call this a weird comfort test since it's coming out of her own fears of you finding someone hotter. Some examples of a good response: “You have grown some tits” - Yeah, not not as good as yours, babe. “I can’t see any difference stop wasting your time” - Why don't you waste some time with me. I feel great after working out. You are 100% doing the right thing, and this is…
/r/askTRP03/10/20 02:03 PM
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I started my RP journey in my early 40's. My story is a lot different from yours but all I have to say is that life is pretty fucking awesome. Start lifting, get on TRT if you need it and start crushing it. Maybe look into sales. If you worked in finance, your people skills will translate over to sales pretty easily. Good luck, my brother and enjoy your journey!
/r/askTRP01/10/20 06:18 PM
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This has nothing to do with TRP.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 03:42 PM
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She is definitely LTR material How tf do you know that after one date? Dude.....
/r/askTRP01/10/20 03:33 PM
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But when do I pull the plug? I don't want to destroy this girl tbh, she has some anxiety problems and I'm tryna be reasonable, I'm her first anything so I can shape her with this decision, don't wanna create no hoe hoe now. Not your problem. Additionally, people tend to respect you more when you're direct and you don't jerk them around.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 03:22 PM
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Stick your cock in her ass and say "let's find out"
/r/askTRP01/10/20 03:18 PM
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If you hold your frame well and fuck 'em good, they always reach out again. I would not re-establish contact if it were me. Take it as a sign of that you're doing this TRP shit the right way.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 03:17 PM
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Thou shalt STFU about your problems around women. Your trusted guy friends are there to vent to. Let's say you had the shittiest day you've had all year... She asks how are you? You don't say well... my boss really pissed me off, I got turned up for the promotion again, my mom got mad at me... etc... etc... You say "Meh... Nothing that a drink or two can't fix" (paraphrasing from a famous EC, but don't remember who)
/r/askTRP29/09/20 08:47 PM
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She's got major issues bro. If she ever contacts you again, ignore. You dodged a bullet.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 08:43 PM
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What's a 1? A rotting corpse?
/r/askTRP29/09/20 08:40 PM
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Other girls won't sense that. Fat pussy is better than no pussy. It builds confidence in the bedroom either way.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 08:39 PM
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Girls have always wanted men who seem powerful in some aspect and always will. They want a man who can make them feel things. They will always choose a man with muscles, a big cock, amazing game, etc over money. Personally, anecdotally.... One of my plates is a married Doctor. Her husband is a surgeon. Guess who is the one that makes her cum? I'll give you a hint... It's not the rich doctor. You know what your problem is? You lack confidence. You're putting yourself on the bench before you even …
/r/askTRP28/09/20 12:56 PM
10

herpes is awesome this time of year.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 11:21 PM
1

A man dressed as a woman and flooding his body with hormones is still a man. Fuck that man if you want, none of us care.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 06:57 PM
7

I thought you were asking advice on how to blow your wad on snap.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 06:31 PM
2

You can't negotiate attraction. You can't change someone either. Your best bet is going to be to say "I'm open to that with the right person", then escalate as usual. As other posters have said, pay attention to her actions, not words
/r/askTRP27/09/20 06:25 PM
2

Not here to moralize. If you wanna bang, do it. If not, I highly suggest keeping her on the back-burner... flirting from time to time. Leaving her breadcrumbs... Etc. That way when your LTR ends you have other options, and yes it will end. they all do at some point.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 04:19 PM
1

I'd just either ignore her and block, or you can straight up tell her you'll just go out with someone who's not going to do a full background check and interrogation.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 03:09 PM
1

Just STFU about it. If she's into you she will want a re-do. Act as normal and don't ever bring it up.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 03:12 PM
2

Disclaimer... Does not work for daygaming chicks.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:56 PM
7

It takes a LOT of practice in order to become great at talking with women, especially on the fly. Your nervousness will show through, girls can sniff that out a mile away. All you can do is talk to as many as you can as often as you can, crash, burn, get comfortable with rejection, and keep trying. Once you open a hundred or more women and the nervousness fades, you are going to become clear on what works and what doesn't. I hate to tell you but there truly is no shortcut, you just need to pract…
/r/askTRP23/09/20 02:46 PM
3

I do LTR few and far between but will never get married again or have another child. Sometimes it's nice to grow close to someone, even knowing it's temporary.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 02:31 PM
1

Most women have "situational morals", which means that they base their morals and actions upon how they are feeling in the moment.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 01:04 PM
1

Think about all of that talking and flirting your did.... Hours and hours, message upon message... To warm them up for a guy who sent 4-5 messages before he took them out and banged. Let that sink in for a moment.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 12:06 AM
1

In addition to what the other guys here have said, I will keep it very simple. You're caught up in your own head! You need to relax, let go, and stop overanalyzing things. Don't be afraid to crash and burn. Learn from your mistakes but don't dwell on them. Relax and leave some space for randomness. Chicks can sniff out an uptight guy right away. They operate on pure emotion, and not analysis. You have to meet them in that realm, not in the realm of logic and analyzing. This is why RP guys usuall…
/r/askTRP21/09/20 11:47 PM
0

You wrote that she's your Ex.... Why do you even care? I don't care if my friends eat my leftovers.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 01:59 PM
1

You hit the nail right on the head. I was going to post the same thing.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 11:45 PM
3

Why not befriend these guys? Worst that could happen is that you get a gym only friend. Best thing that could happen is that you meet more smoking hot women through them. Jealousy is a bitch and it will rot you from the inside out. Be the best man you can be. I'm 46 and not in the same class as these jacked AF guys, but I'm happy as hell with my body because I've worked hard for it. I still catch hot younger women checking me out all the time too.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 11:42 PM
2

The entire concept behind plate theory is that you have multiple women in your rotation. "spinning plates" means managing you WOMEN (not woman) correctly so that a plate doesn't fall and break. You have more of a FWB than a plate. I would continue to see her as often as you like, but not often enough to get feelings. Do this while you build up other prospects and when you start fucking more women you can say that you're spinning plates. Having more options helps you a lot with your abundance men…
/r/askTRP18/09/20 03:06 PM
7

Man... 100% agreed. And IMO guys posting these questions ought to head over to the MRP subreddit where they deal with LTR issues.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 02:26 PM
2

Yeah, not a plate then. In fact, based on her responses, I would take her off your list of possible plates. She seems like a waste of time to me.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 06:23 PM
1

If she wanted to smash she would answer you right away. She's probably found a guy she wants to date or be regular FWB with. Unless by "plate" you mean girls you haven't had sex with yet, then that's a whole different story.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 06:09 PM
3

You sly bastard, you....
/r/askTRP17/09/20 01:38 PM
1

It sounds like you're being unprofessional. There is a chain of command for a reason. Be polite and if you disagree with something he does, bring it to him in a professional manner. State your case and don't be a dick about it. If things continue on the way they are, then you take up the issue with his superior. Be prepared with plenty of dates, times, incidents, and other hard data.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 01:36 PM
1

You're going to spend a whole lot of time brooding over this, but the sooner you realize there is no "the one", the better off you'll be. You will come to that realization some day, I guarantee you that. But the sooner you do, the sooner you can move on with your life right now.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 07:30 PM
1

Fuck his wife then send him the recording of it. ​ Or you can just forget about it and not waste mental energy on it.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 03:54 PM
1

All girls do this. They are nosey. As long as they are not talking to them behind your back there is no concern.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 12:31 PM
4

You're doing the right thing. She knows your time is valuable, this is a shit test to see if she can get you to invest more into her by texting her, which brings you more into her frame. I would come back with something like "I'm more of a real life reply kind of guy, come meet me for drinks after work tonight" You didn't specify whether you are actually fucking or have even met in real life yet. If all you're doing is texting this chick, you're wasting your time
/r/askTRP14/09/20 08:23 PM
5

LMFAO... on tinder. "Looking for a friend". You do not hunt polar bears in the desert, my friend.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 12:48 PM
2

You just need more practice. Yeah, you're a scared little bitch right now, but the more you practice the better you get. That's all, really. You need to adopt the mindset that while your confidence sucks right now, it will improve if you're able to learn from your mistakes and improve one small thing the next time.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 12:44 PM
2

It's shocking to most guys that the more you bend over backwards from a woman, the less she is attracted to you. It all makes sense once you understand the concept that women do not want an equal, they want someone they can look up to with the utmost respect and awe. In regards to your story, not all women will outright use betas like that. AWALT, but your examples are particularly shitty women compared to my experiences. Most betas only get used for their time and attention.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 12:41 PM
4

A little attention here and there keeps plates from breaking.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 10:49 PM
1

Do 5 hail marys and fuck 3 more fit thots.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 09:01 PM
5

Cold shower, coffee. Sitting down for a moment while my mind is clear and planning out my day (sales visits mostly). Hit up a plate of two with a good morning text. Work, gym after work, then either dinner by myself, with a plate or one of my bros. Depending on my mood. If I'm with someone I'll explore a new part of the city or introduce that person to a favorite hangout. If I'm alone, I'll read then head to bed.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 08:52 PM
1

I'm legit jealous.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 08:14 PM
1

> I began to re-vet her per-say. LOL... you don't re-vet a woman. According to my standards she is plate-only material. > I’ve attempted to leave her twice Found the problem. You're weak. Just fucking do it.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 07:52 PM
3

You can make the decision to become a man instantly. OP has decided to wallow in his own weakness and actively avoid becoming a man.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 06:43 PM
2

Last breakup I had to endure was a after a 3-1/2 year relationship. It sucked but you know what? I fucked someone hotter and younger a couple of weeks after the breakup. I pushed on. That's what men do. It looks like you have a lot of growing up to do before you get into your next LTR. You don't seem mentally strong at all.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 06:36 PM
6

Thanks for this excellent trp post of what NOT to do.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 05:35 PM
2

Not worth it. You'd be better off investing your time in trying to build up a stable of women who are actually into you.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 05:26 PM
3

You're never going to turn things around. That's how they get men to orbit... They give them false hope. False hope of "maybe you will hook up" while she fucks men she's more attracted to in the meantime.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 05:25 PM
3

OP... If you're going to read any of these responses listen to this guy right here. 6 months is BARELY enough time to vet a chick for a LTR. Trust me man, you're going to regret marrying this woman. First, you're too young to get married, second, 6 months is not even close to long enough to know someone well enough to marry them. Add this woman's lies and propensity to need constant attention and you have a recipe for disaster. Once you get engaged there is massive pressure to go through with th…
/r/askTRP06/09/20 11:28 PM
1

"Nah, maybe some other time, I made other plans". Then don't contact her again.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 01:36 PM
3

Ignore and hit up other girls. Next.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 12:51 AM
9

Don't worry about it. Just roll with it, and when she does you wrong, she's nexted. Can't be any simpler.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 12:49 AM
1

She's not yours. It's just your turn. This applies to all women, pretty much my man. If she's interested in other guys, your turn is already over.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 12:16 AM
2

She's not into you. Some women will just go with it a little to not hurt your feelings. But when push comes to shove you're not getting laid. Or in your case, not making out.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 12:10 AM
3

LOL! Found the guy in the anger phase...
/r/askTRP02/09/20 08:49 PM
2

This kind of dread works if you can make it look real and not like a retaliation for the fact that she's going out with mr beta orbiter man. That's gonna be the real challenge, is implementing dread in a way that is natural especially since by the looks of it he hasn't implemented any dread at all in this LTR. If "Sally from sales" seems even a little fake or retaliatory to her, it's going to make OP look even weaker than doing nothing.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 08:46 PM
6

Don't use Tinder for anything but cold leads (yeah I am in sales.. heh). Match with chicks and use it for practice for banter in real life. Say what you want and don't give a fuck, as other have said the chicks on tinder don't give a fuck about you either. So think of Tinder as practice for your real life pick-up efforts. Sometimes you may get lucky and get a date, but you shouldn't care because Tinder shouldn't be your main avenue of getting women. I suggest changing your life situation a littl…
/r/askTRP29/08/20 08:25 PM
1

"I didn't know that you were my mistress.... I'm dominant but never afraid of a challenge."
/r/askTRP24/08/20 08:03 PM
1

The good news is that you're still very young. My RedPill journey really didn't start for me until maybe 3 years ago at the age of 43 after my divorce. Things are going to be alright, I promise you that. Remember that when you say "She really isn't that type of person", all women have the propensity to do that, because it's what women do. We have seen it a thousand times here, literally. There are really no special cases. Whatever you do, don't come at her angry, don't supplicate to her, and don…
/r/askTRP16/08/20 01:57 PM
1

Sand bags. Get some contractor trash bags (3-4mil), fill them with varying weights of sand and load up a sturdy duffel bag. I'm able to fit 200 pounds in mine. It's killer for grip strength too.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 04:53 PM
1

This is the best way to deal with it but it's too late now since OP lied about it. He's coming from a weak frame position now since he lied.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 03:24 PM
1

Weights are the best way to channel all anger. Then acceptance fixes the anger phase. Accept what is and let it go.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 03:22 PM
1

Reading through your post, I see quite a few places in which you have neglected to take control of your life. First, going out with your LTR when you really didn't want to, second, not leaving when you wanted to. Third, (maybe) not accepting responsibility for your failed bj experiment, learning from it, and moving on to the next sexual experiment. So here is the deal. You know what's up in regards to your GF reconnecting with her ex. You don't need us to tell you what to do. Here's the part whe…
/r/askTRP04/08/20 12:46 PM
2

Get off tinder. It's for cucks who can't talk to women in real life.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 06:10 PM
2

LMFAO.... I'm embarrassed to say that I've fucked fat chicks during dry spells. Never any real ugly ones though or not morbidly obese
/r/askTRP28/07/20 09:00 PM
0

Women are more emotional than men, and when their egos are harmed, they burn your shit, their shit, or both of your shit to the ground. It inflates their sense of importance, hence their ego, and helps regulate their self esteem. I've seen a lot of bitches go completely off the rails when they get dumped. It's pretty normal. "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned"
/r/askTRP28/07/20 12:02 PM
2

I tend to agree with the others that she was just looking for attention from OP and was never serious about meeting. Sure, if he played his cards right he might have gotten a lay, eventually. Maybe... After dealing with a bunch of bullshit. To me none of that is worth it so it pays to weed out those who are not serious early on.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 08:42 PM
0

Why are we asking hypothetical questions to which we already know the answer? What a colossal waste of time.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 04:04 PM
3

Just completely ghost. Then live with the consequences. Crazy girls are gonna do crazy shit no matter what you do.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 12:55 PM
1

All attractive women have thirsty men and exes constantly trying to hit them up. Your job is to be her best option. And like others said, dread, just don't make it obvious. Try to put yourself in positions where you'll have hot women around you. If they compliment you in front of her, even better.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 06:32 PM
5

It's not worth it. Plenty of freaks out there who are not going to chop off your dick and put it in a blender.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 12:59 PM
1

Many women bail at the first sign of weakness. I'd have kept the bankruptcy thing to myself if I were you. I've seen the same type of scenario play out so many times here that I'm not at all surprised. So I stopped texting her for 3 days, then I sent her roses and texted her So you rewarded her for being a bitch? How'd that work out for you. Read up on covert contracts. She never followed up with me, and haven't heard from her in 3 days. Where do I go from here? Hard next. I have no one else lin…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 11:10 PM
2

LDR is not a LTR. If you really like this girl you can try to pick up where you left off if and when you're ever in the same location. Hanging on to the past never works out for a relationship, and that's what happens in LDRs. They're not real relationships, and guaranteed she (and you) will be fucking other people behind each other's backs... So what's the point?
/r/askTRP21/07/20 03:08 PM
1

Also: "Closure is Bullshit". https://archive.fo/ENAtL
/r/askTRP17/07/20 03:34 PM
3

You explain everything through your actions. She knows what she did, and will get the message loud and clear. Since you didn't mention kids, it would be best to limit contact to through your attorney and hers.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 03:33 PM
26

I agreed and even tried to accept it. You should have decided to divorce. Agreeing to an open relationship after the fact almost ALWAYS means she's already fucking and wants to not feel guilty. ​ I tried to like it, I tried to be happy for her, and I tried to make her happy. She just kept showing that she really didn’t care for me. First of all, she would not let me set boundaries for them. I told them that I wasn’t comfortable with things and that they needed to stop or at least put a few bound…
/r/askTRP17/07/20 01:09 PM
5

Start masturbating in front of her while watching other cam girls then when she complains tell her to STFU and hard next her.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 12:50 PM
7

Don't worry about being "creepy" the fact is that women will label any man as creepy who they are not attracted to and approaches them. It's a fact. I'm 46 and right now have 24, 28, and 34 year old plates. I'm a lot older than you are, and nobody's called me creepy. I get dirty looks from women in their 30's and 40's, and smiles from men of that age group. Personally IDGAF and I'm just going to keep doing what I'm doing until my dick doesn't work anymore. The simple fact is that some women are …
/r/askTRP15/07/20 12:27 PM
10

Even if you don't get her pregnant, you still have to worry about a STD. Fuck that shit.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 05:50 PM
2

This has been my experience also. I'm 6'3 and skinny. I've worked hard over the last couple of years and I was never "big", but I have been told many times that I have am amazing physique.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 05:48 PM
5

Haha... Yeah, I missed what you meant by Annie. My bad.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 05:41 PM
3

Like Anakin Skywalker? "Saving" his girl was the whole reason he turned evil, bro.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 05:11 PM
2

Make some sandbags. Basically smaller sandbags in a larger canvas bag. Get a nice army surplus heavy canvas duffel and you can put 150-200 pounds of sandbags in it. It's a fucking hard workout, as the sand shifts around.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 01:02 AM
1

Hard next. There are about a million other chicks who will give you a day's notice if something comes up.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 11:11 AM
0

> I started living in another city so I tried breaking up with my LTR Grow a pair and try harder next time
/r/askTRP09/07/20 12:13 PM
6

Mind them? I prefer them!
/r/askTRP08/07/20 08:52 PM
2

The only way to win the Tinder game is to not play. It's a waste of time.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 06:26 PM
2

Your time is too valuable to put up with that kind of shit. Good job!
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:58 PM
1

At this point he doesn't have anything to lose as long as it doesn't harm his reputation. Or unless his ego can't handle it I guess.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:52 PM
2

Attention seeking behavior is why. You don't LTR them because their need and desire for attention will most likely have them gobbling cocks behind your back when they get tired of boring sex.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 02:30 PM
1

I'm thinking about just telling her that I don't tolerate her shitty behaviour The best way to do that is to block and ghost. She'll get your message of non-tolerance loud and clear.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 08:52 PM
4

Your wife really fucked up when she screwed you over. You seem like a great guy who any woman would be lucky to have.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 07:58 PM
4

We got quarantined around the time that the incel subs were targeted. Unfortunately we were lumped in with incels (part of the scarrryyyy manosphere). I think the mods have been doing a decent job of keeping the incels away and we as a community are doing a pretty decent job of driving them away. Will TRP ever be unquarantined? No. Will we ever be banned? Probably not, either, as we don't have a huge target on our backs anymore.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 07:56 PM
3

Obsessing over social media
/r/askTRP28/06/20 07:14 PM
7

Pass. Bad breath.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 07:12 PM
2

I'm a tall, thin guy. No matter how much I work my legs, they will always be somewhat skinny. My upper body looks pretty great though. Not Huge, but a lot bigger than it was and very well defined. I will tell you right now, you really CAN get that V shape that men want and women drool over if you bulk and cut for a couple of years.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 06:54 PM
1

Put it out of your mind. Don't dwell on the past.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 11:15 AM
1

It might not be your choice. Get the paternity test now to cover your ass.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 11:14 AM
1

I'm in the same boat that you are. Considering buying a steel bar and a bunch of cinder blocks to roll my own gym.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 10:56 AM
6

Laugh. finish nutting then hard next.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 10:55 AM
2

Some chicks are just weird man. No need to waste anymore thought on it, just laugh and let it go.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 10:52 AM
4

This works for me but you also have to be more careful about it slipping off. I literally can't cum with a condom squeezing my dick, so I feel OP's pain.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 12:45 PM
2

Hard next. One more thing, you should be minimizing your weaknesses like they're no big deal and maximizing your strengths. But... she's your fiancee and she should be by your side good times and bad. You can do much better. Some women will run at the slightest sign of weakness. These are not good, loyal women.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 01:07 PM
1

Normally I wouldn't contact her anymore and move on. But I really don't know whats going on in her mind. Yesterday she was telling me that's she's going to bake cakes for me etc all lovey dovey and today it's like she fell of the face of the earth. Why should that matter? People do dumb ass things for reasons that you shouldn't give a shit about.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 07:24 PM
1

They will take blood, a urine sample, and maybe shove a swab down your cock. Takes 15 minutes. If you're sexually active you should be getting tested every 6 months.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 07:22 PM
1

Bring 4 or more of your own friends and make an evening of it. (Forget about dating this chick too, if she was interested in that she'd have went one on one)
/r/askTRP16/06/20 05:21 PM
3

99% of the time when a woman puts you in the beta box there is no escape. Don't take it personally, just move on.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 05:19 PM
5

The problem is not her response times. It's you. Your boredom and lack of ambition and drive in life. You should have a long list of things to do and not enough time to do them in. That's truly the only way to not be needy.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 08:27 PM
1

What's the possibility that she's an alcoholic? Every drunk driver that I have ever known has had a serious alcohol problem and doesn't give a fuck about anyone but themselves.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 06:46 PM
1

Along with all of the other suggestions, viagra works in a pinch. Take 50 mg and it'll actually be hard for you to cum (if you don't actually have ED) and you should be able to go 3 or more rounds. I take it when I'm going to be having threesomes.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 05:53 PM
3

What you need is a divorce. I did the same for about a year before I left my wife. Trust me, it's better on the other side.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 12:39 PM
0

How's this relevant to the pill? We've got lots of black guys here and have for a long time. We don't discriminate or try to race bait, even though others do.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 12:35 PM
5

You speak the truth but OP still has to do it just to get it out of his system.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 08:27 PM
4

I'd just ignore it the first time, then if she persists with trying to lure me into her frame let her go.If she's not a 10/10 she's not worth it.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 08:47 PM
1

She's expecting you to do what all other men do. Chase her and put her on a pedestal. Don't do what other men do, and you'll have her eating out of your hand. I would either not respond, or just laugh off her messages... Her: "I'm going to suck my exe's cock later"... You: "Lol, ok! Enjoy!"
/r/askTRP10/06/20 08:46 PM
4

You stuck your dick in crazy and are considering a LTR. End it now while you still have some sanity left.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 05:28 PM
1

Also, find other chicks. Nothing special about one as to where you have to put up with her bullshit
/r/askTRP08/06/20 03:38 PM
1

The problem here is not her, its your inability to lead and make a decision. You can't just keep dumping her and taking her back.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 03:02 PM
1

Work your ass off in creating assets that make you money. The best time to plant a tree is yesterday. If you want to live lavish you have to plant a forest.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 08:11 PM
2

Head over to the hardware store or auto part store and get yourself some of that plastic tubing and have her use it as a vag straw.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 02:32 PM
1

FFS man, get rid of your oneitis. Literally all of the men here are giving you the truth... Plenty more like her. I'd say just fuck her but it's obvious you would try to LTR her and you're going to regret it man.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 02:31 PM
1

These women will fuck up your life. Enjoy your STDs and bullshit drama.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 01:54 PM
2

Sure, but it will come across as butthurt since you've been at her beck and call for so long. What you need to do is find some hobbies, keep her in the loop about them, then go do those hobbies. Bonus points if there are gorgeous women where you will be at. You're going to solve your "I'm never busy" problem and instill some dread in your LTR if you play your cards right.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 01:49 PM
2

I don't get why you have to go to a movie with someone else in the first place. It's a horrrible horrible date idea because you don't talk.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 01:47 PM
3

Those are just sayings that chicks like to use in order to reframe the past relationship in their own terms. It's the same thing as closure. No roots in reality, just a way for her to validate herself and her past actions.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 03:34 PM
1

Look at Mr. Faggot here giving a shit over what his ex does. Use this as an example of what NOT to do. What to do is block her everywhere and give zero shits about what she's doing or who she's fucking.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 03:33 PM
2

You're 16 and in a LTR? Big mistake. You should be gaming as many women as you can at that age before settling on a single one. You're going to regret this so much later in life.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 02:02 PM
1

Brains, no. Minds..... Completely different. Thoughts are influenced by biological factors (hormones). The therapist knows this but is intentionally not mentioning it because "equal rights".
/r/askTRP26/05/20 02:00 PM
3

I would just say "damn" and nothing else. People are full of shit. Men, women.... everyone is full of shit. You just accept that and laugh to yourself a little, then give it zero thought. It's a waste of time.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 01:58 PM
1

I take it that by "I'm texting a girl" you mean that you're not fucking her? Stop texting girls and start talking in real life only instead.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 01:55 PM
11

Great advice right here, OP. ^^
/r/askTRP26/05/20 01:53 PM
4

I smell a ban coming on
/r/askTRP23/05/20 02:10 PM
2

Therapy is good if you need it. I would suggest finding a good male therapist. Find a guy who's masculine and will understand where you're coming from. These are fewer and father between but if you stick to older guys you'll probably have better luck
/r/askTRP21/05/20 01:44 PM
4

Quarantine is Reddit's way of killing as sub without being accused of censorship. For all practical purposes to most of reddit, it's dead.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 01:57 PM
1

No, YOU ruined you. There are lots of other girls like her out there. You are just not letting go and letting yourself get close enough to one due to your oneitis over defective pussy
/r/askTRP20/05/20 01:55 PM
2

Procrastination has its roots in not knowing what to do next. If you don't have a well defined set of goals for the day, week, month, and year respectively you're not going to work on things. Start with your daily goals, break them down into projects, then down into the smallest unit possible (action items), assign a priority of importance to each action item (A-C). Assign an effort estimate in 15 minute increments (0:30, 2:00, etc). If an action item takes less than 2 minutes, just do it. Start…
/r/askTRP19/05/20 08:38 PM
8

You are a man. You get to make your own rules. If your gut tells you no, then it's a no. Simple as that. If it were me, I would say "No girlfriend of mine would be living in a situation like that" and either she doesn't do it out of. respect for you, or she calls you controlling and you wish her best of luck and move on.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 08:15 PM
2

Or her sister's butt.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 05:21 PM
-6

You're a retard.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 05:15 PM
2

. I asked her if she did anything with him and she said no, which I do believe right now. If she's bringing this up to you, there is more. Every girl who's not morbidly obese or looks like hammered shit has men hitting on them constantly. Your girl has for sure had men hitting on her since day one of your LTR. Something happened with this guy to make her want to bring this specific instance up to you. Something is up. I know there are 100 other posts saying the same thing, but count this as a vo…
/r/askTRP14/05/20 11:48 AM
1

"Lol, Okay". Or "That's why you should be dealing with men, not boys".
/r/askTRP14/05/20 11:32 AM
1

It's pretty much carved into a stone tablet by the finger of God, my man. Being serious, it's been my observation. My old self would have kept trying and failing, the new me would give a girl 3 chances and if it doesn't happen I move on.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 12:53 AM
6

The same goes for girls of all n-counts. You don't have to kiss a girl's ass to fuck her. She's either going to do it or she's not. And it will always happen by the end of the 3rd date unless she wants a beta.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 06:33 PM
2

Pretty much every girl on there is on for validation only until corona ends. Unless we're talking about really horny skanks that you don't really want anyway. Personally I would just put picking up girls on the back burner until the world becomes a little more normal. I'm not saying don't try, just focus more on other things like making money and getting into better shape.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 06:27 PM
2

If you're an alpha type some women will leave you at the first sign of weakness. It truly is in their nature. Not all women are like this though. Edit: AWALT (it's in their nature), but also not always awalt. I agree with the other posters though. Fuck her. It's her loss, and your gain for shedding someone who doesn't have an ounce of loyalty. I'm sorry about your dad, bro. You're entitled to take all the time you need to grieve and return to your normal level of awesomeness.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 05:55 PM
3

Most women love to see man get all sweaty with other men and force them into submission
/r/askTRP11/05/20 07:09 PM
3

Same thoughts. He left the window open because he didn't really "delete, block, and move on". His ongoing mistake is giving too many fucks about an ex. His next biggest mistake was not blocking her everywhere.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 07:08 PM
1

LDR is not a real LTR. You can't instill dread from a distance either.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 11:58 PM
1

Delete your IG.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 01:48 PM
1

No response would be good... OR "Okay, best of luck" would be decent responses. Don't give her anything. She will probably want "closure" which is just her chance to feel justified in ending the relationship. Don't give it to her.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 01:47 PM
1

Wooded areas? Trails?
/r/askTRP08/05/20 06:23 PM
1

TL;DR: LDR is not a LTR. Find someone closer.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 06:06 PM
7

If you're referring to having emotions during sex... Yes! Do that! But express them in a masculine way. Read the sex god method book and you will see why. I have a high n count and I have still learned a few things from that book. All men should read it, IMO.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 03:49 PM
5

Good lord.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 03:47 PM
3

Asking if she is OK or needs help is being a decent human. Fighting with other guys over who gets to "rescue" her is white knighting.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 03:44 PM
2

Good for you for pushing through to get her number. She's not very interested and it shows. Do not worry, we have all been there. We were all new to this at one point. Move on to other women, study red pill writings. Visualize yourself in past situations in which your new found knowledge would have helped you. The visualization stuff really works to be able to apply RP knowledge to your future interactions. You are insecure and it shows. Your results with women will be better and better as your …
/r/askTRP06/05/20 03:08 PM
1

A word of advice. Read the sidebar. All of it. Being an insecure man and creating countless noob threads will get you banned, then you will not be able to get actual help when you need it.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 03:04 PM
3

There's a difference between being the King and the Court Jester. The King has a sense of humor and the power to open people up to new experiences. The Court Jester is a dancing monkey. Be the king.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:30 PM
1

I disagree. She could be sending it to feel out how serious OP is about their situation. If you're spinning plates some are bound to want to be more than just a plate. Often they will try to bring up the subject of exclusivity in retarded ways because females communicate subjectively rather than objectively like most males do. Not saying that you're wrong, but the answer isn't always as simple as "she found someone else". And OP: Stop with the constant showering with attention. One, it kills att…
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:28 PM
1

I would sidestep the issue completely by not LTR'ing. She's already set you up for the "why don't you trust me" talk. It's too late.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 03:54 PM
2

I have kept "frame" during this two months quite well, i think You may see it that way, but I see a story of a guy who invested too much into a girl who's only semi interested. ​ Thoughts on how I am employing my frame and what I may be doing incorrectly? She's not very interested in you. If she was, you would have gotten somewhere on your second or third dates if you're escalating correctly. She sees you as a "maybe, if I'm bored" and you have oneitis. (yeah, you fucking do... It's obvious dude…
/r/askTRP05/05/20 03:40 PM
7

> At the beginning of the relationship, I had more power because I could always make jokes to her and so on without her getting pissy about it. No, you didn't have more power. You were her entertainment. > Now every time I’ll do something like that, she will not talk to me for a day. She calls me names and makes up stories about me to see if I react to them, plays pranks on me. And now you're not entertaining to her anymore. WTF bro? You're the bitch in this relationship. Hard next. Block, move …
/r/askTRP05/05/20 12:04 PM
19

THIS! And Do not wait until you're divorced to start lifting. That was another of my mistakes.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 11:30 AM
1

You're not instilling enough dread in her. If you're ripped and she know there are at least 2 or 3 other women that want to fuck you, she WILL stay in top shape. IMO, I would just dump her and move on to someone more attractive. But if you really want to keep her STFU about her being fat and start installing whatever dread you can. If she notices subtly that other, more fit women want to fuck you, she'll get on the right track.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 07:00 PM
1

TBH it sounds like you are too sensitive. If you don't like your friend's personality don't hang out with him. Simple as that. That being said he doesn't sound like a bona-fide racist as much as an asshole who likes to purposefully be insensitive to offend people.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 03:24 PM
2

48 Laws of Power How to win friends and influence people Awaken the Giant Within
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:17 PM
6

Your mistake was allowing her to continue after you laughed the first one off. I'd have said "let's enjoy looking at the waves instead of laughing at pathetic guys. Keep it up and I'll start reciting poetry tonight in the bedroom instead of tying you up and slapping your ass"
/r/askTRP02/05/20 01:32 PM
23

Same, brother. I have resistance bands but it's nowhere near the same.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 01:25 PM
2

Excuses is all I see. You don't want to put the effort into sculpting your body. That's fine, try using PUA methods and see how far you get without being rich and famous like RSD Luke is. For a man without a million dollars in the bank and 500k followers on social media, lifting, dressing well, and having tight game is always better than tight game only.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 01:23 PM
3

Stop being a lazy faggot and put in the work. Sure, you can approach women when you're fat but you're not going to see great results until you get your body under control.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 01:21 PM
2

WTF is this? What's your question? This is ASK TRP, not write like a 14 year old retard rapper wannabe.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 01:18 PM
2

Stolen? Wouldn't his lawyer have a copy of the prenup?
/r/askTRP30/04/20 12:39 PM
1

The problem is you. That you care too much. They're not even in your social circle! I have a philosophy that if nobody hates you then you're not going anywhere with your life. It's normal to have haters. What you have to do is not give a fuck, and not give them an ounce of your energy.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 12:37 PM
3

Have you tried actually telling her what to do? She's only 17 dude.... She might be one of the rare, sheltered innocent ones. You put your arm around her... She doesn't reciprocate, you just say, "put your arm around me". You need to be the one leading her actions.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 12:35 PM
2

I have a strict no-flake policy. If she flakes on me once, sure, something may have come up. Twice and she's gone. I don't care what the excuse is either, if she has that much drama I don't want her.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 12:17 PM
3

Your incessant texting and video chatting made you a low value male and put you in the friend zone. She doesn't want to lose a friend, is all. Next time use text and video chat sparingly, only to build intrigue.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 11:31 AM
1

I can't speak for the rest of us, but I think that OP is clearly a fag. He signed his balls over 2 months ago and he's still pining over some ex.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 08:00 PM
3

Overanalyze much? Personally I'd have said sure.... I'll help you move if you make me sandwiches the nude the day before. That's my personality though, I'm a smart ass. And I like to watch a naked woman making me a sandwich.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 07:57 PM
1

I'm reading this and thinking to myself that this woman would make the best kind of plate but the very worst kind of LTR. Also, I see that you are 100% fully in her frame. If you're somehow able to claw your way out of her pussy, it's going to be hard to win back her respect. I'd move on if it were me.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 07:46 PM
1

It's not worth it bro.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 06:12 PM
5

Toughen up a bit. anyone can improve their SMV unless you are literally physically deformed. You have been conditioned your entire life to care about what people think, to let the past drag you down, to let worries about a future that hasn't happened and will likely never happen.... Ruin your life. You most definitely did NOT miss out on the pussy train. I'm 46 and I'm fucking hot women in their 20's. If you are serious: Start out with your physical being. Get outside in the sun. Get into shape,…
/r/askTRP27/04/20 03:46 PM
1

I use my fitbit and it works pretty well for sleep tracking. I had insomnia for a while and my magic formula was to eliminate caffeine after noon and to not work out past 5:00 at night. Either of those would cause me to sleep like horse shit.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 02:56 PM
3

Fix that and your morning boners will return. T is made during your deep sleep hours. Get a sleep tracker and try to optimize your sleep as much as you can. Believe it or not, sleep is just as important as lifting heavy when it comes to creating test.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 02:25 PM
2

She's gonna drug you and burn your house down with you in it. Run.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 02:17 PM
1

Find onlyfans girls local to your area, make porn, split the profits. If your SMV is high it shouldn't be a problem at all.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 02:17 PM
1

Sending nudes in a 1.5 year LTR can get boring. What you need to do is to take the bull by the horns and give her some tasks to do. Have her wear a butt plug and take pics. Get her to do some very slutty things for you that are out of the ordinary. Yes she is losing interest.... But also, yes, she is telling you why she's losing interest and giving you an opportunity to make it up to her. So.... If you want to keep your LTR, Make it interesting.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 02:15 PM
2

Have your sleep patterns changed?
/r/askTRP27/04/20 01:24 PM
3

I think AWALT in this case is the chasm between what women say they will do and what they will actually do depending on how they're feeling in the moment
/r/askTRP25/04/20 07:46 PM
1

Michigan? Me too, bro... I am also losing my gains even though I'm using resistance bands. So what I'm trying to do is minimize the loss and making this my best cut ever. I think I'll be down to 10% bf or less by the time the gym is open again.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 01:59 PM
70

Shit test. You failed. I'd have laughed and said something along the lines of, "I'm the best ass you'll ever meet. Ask anyone".
/r/askTRP25/04/20 01:57 PM
0

They're into pegging.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 07:48 PM
1

Generally speaking, yes. It's not a hard rule though. I'd consider myself a 7 due to my age and I regularly fuck 8s. But many of these women already have an older dominant man fetish. If you're good looking, in good shape, you really just need to know which buttons to push. In my case it relegates me to the younger women who are into BDSM but there are plenty of very hot women into that sort of thing.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 04:03 PM
1

Just wait a while, get tested for everything and be done with it. Block this chick forever. I had a plate give me Chlamydia via a bj, I was all wrapped up for normal sex... She was very apologetic and cooperative, had no idea, etc. Any woman who can't get you their test results is pure trash, just like the other poster says. You can't trust what she tells you.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 08:07 PM
0

Huge bummer. I had dollar signs dancing around in my head
/r/askTRP21/04/20 08:05 PM
1

Where you see a problem I see an opportunity. Fuck onlyfans and fuck these thots. Time to buy photo packs of models and put them up on onlyfans! We could be making 6 figures a month off of this if we're smart enough.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 07:13 PM
12

It looks like your heart is in the right place, and it's refreshing to read a post from someone who actually wants help and had put in the time to read about RP for a few hours or so. I'm not going to lie, your journey is going to be a long one. It's not going to be easy either. The good news is that you're starting from a better place than 90% of the other guys out there in the world without a clue. The very best suggestion is to lift until exhaustion. Obv you can't hit the gym during quarantin…
/r/askTRP20/04/20 04:24 PM
4

Read the sidebar. LDR does not ever work. Oneitis. But mostly, read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 03:03 PM
1

You're right, you should be thanking him... He's trying to help you prevent making the biggest mistake of your life.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 01:47 PM
2

Is she bi? You always have the option of going trans.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 01:40 PM
4

I disagree. Plates yes. LTR, no. LTR needs a balance of comfort and dread. Yeah, do not text all day long but do keep in touch every day.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 01:28 PM
2

Personally I only masturbate once a week even if I'm dying. It encourages me to have normal, healthy sex more often. Also what everyone else is saying about porn is 100% true. It will kill your sex drive and your sex life. Also be prepared to be desensitized to your wife after years of fucking the same married pussy. It definitely will happen and it's why monogamous couples sex lives eventually die off.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 01:38 PM
1

Run sprints. When you're fucking someone you're not just jackhammering the pussy for an hour. You're thrusting slow to medium, then hammering away when she's about to cum. Sprints are perfect for getting you into better shape for that. Sprints also boost your T.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 01:34 PM
2

The fact that you can't escalate at all should tell you point blank that she wants you as a friend (orbiter) and nothing more. She likes the attention from you. That's all that needs to be said here
/r/askTRP18/04/20 01:32 PM
0

The answer is absolutely not. She has to earn the right to be considered for a LTR with you and that starts with proving herself to be loyal to you. That means she fucks only you while you fuck other women.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 01:23 PM
1

So don't spin plates? Have a FWB instead or do MLTR. Beware that MLTR is redpill on super advanced hard mode though.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 01:20 PM
5

I'm dying over here!
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:14 PM
2

You are more than entitled to have it! In all seriousness I think this guy might be going through a rough time hormonally. His sudden mood shift seems to suggest it.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:13 PM
3

Always play the gay card when a fuckhead messes with you about your appearance. It works VERY well if OP is sneaky enough about it
/r/askTRP17/04/20 03:24 PM
3

Get your T levels tested. Yes, I am serious.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 03:21 PM
3

He should keep the photos of his dog. Same as I will keep the photos of my lab after she passes. Most loyal pet ever... I will be smiling rather than crying though.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 03:20 PM
1

Bullshit. Buy and hold is how all of the big investors made their money. Your type of emotion-driven buying and selling is how people lose money.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 03:37 PM
2

My perspective is that you need more experience with women. If your frame is strong enough you can say almost anything to a woman and she'll be eating out of your hand. My advice is to practice your game on other women as well. You're way too invested in this one, as everyday fucking conversation is leading you to seek advice on the internet.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 03:30 PM
1

"She's telling me less and less things voluntarily" Well according to that, it seems like this is either part of a larger pattern or you're being paranoid. Either way I do recommend you gaming more chicks. Maybe don't fuck them but have several lined up for when your LTR ends. This should be standard practice here. Every woman from a churchgoing good girl to a tattooed slut who can suck a golf ball through a garden hose lines up men for when their break ups happen. Why can't you do it also?
/r/askTRP16/04/20 03:26 PM
2

Exactly. Soft nexts work even BETTER in LTRs than they do for plates. A plate's just going to concentrate her efforts on other guys while a LTR is going to be thinking that she had better not do that again or you will withdraw your attention from her. This is part of the reason that we don't recommend cohabitation with LTRs. It severely limits your options to keep things exciting in the relationship
/r/askTRP15/04/20 08:00 PM
10

Hahaha... That list just about covers 90% of the posts here lately.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 07:50 PM
26

'this is the best news ive had all week as i now get to eat the easter egg I got you. Best last words in a relationship EVER. Keep on keepin on, my man.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 07:38 PM
1

Don't reply. Don't hard next either. Maybe she's fucking someone else, or is forming a new relationship with someone. It happens all the time with plates. They come back sometimes, you just have to let them go and let them re-initiate.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 07:22 PM
5

Archive it, then message other girls. Simple. Get into the habit of deleting or archiving them every time you send one, and if she responds cool, if not maybe revisit the archived ones once a week to ping them. After a while you won't care if they respond or not. This is the mindset you want to have.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 07:08 PM
14

The next thing you should do is find more women. It looks like you are heavily invested in this one girl. Not a fan of LTR myself but if you are, the best way to find out if she's worth promoting is to have other girls in rotation for a while. If she's still all over your mind, maybe promote her after a number of months.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 07:03 PM
1

I didn't even have to read half of this and I already know who has the power balance in your interactions. Enjoy being a submissive to this chick, is all I have to say.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 04:29 PM
1

Question. Have you actually even READ anything from the sidebar? Study that for an hour a day for a week then come back with your next question
/r/askTRP14/04/20 04:05 PM
5

Yeah, all of these insecure guys overreacting. Fuck yeah, his girl would cheat on him with an A list celeb. Anyone's LTR would. My last LTR would ask me what I thought of such and such a female celebrity and I'd just say "I'd bang". We made a joke out of it. Some of these guys are just too uptight.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 02:47 PM
32

My cock size is similar to yours and I have only had one woman ever comment on it. It was years ago, but the way I remember it was "how does a guy like you act so confident with such an average sized cock". I replied "We'll find out how average it feels when I stick it in your tiny ass.". Shut her right up. It's a total shit test, you need to use amused mastery here. I don't think that agree and amplify would work. In my case it shut her right up for good, and made her laugh (nervously).
/r/askTRP13/04/20 09:25 PM
2

It's a pretty good one for guys in a LTR. Some of the overly tough talk is just a little cringey but there's lots of great info there too.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 09:10 PM
7

Prepare yourself for a branch swing. If you haven't already start gaming other women right now so you have others to fall back on when she dumps you.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 02:30 PM
1

Then you're overthinking it.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 06:36 PM
8

"Hey" works great as a reply to some girl who's hitting you up after ghosting you for a few months. It's pretty horrible for texting women you have just met.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 01:16 PM
1

I've done pretty well in life. I'm 46, have a great career, great kids, investments, side business, really great luck with younger women. Want to know how I got here? I fucked up a lot. That's right, a LOT. I've been rejected, laughed at, not taken seriously but you know what? I never gave up and was always willing to learn from my mistakes. Failure is a good thing. If you learn from it, don't let it fuck with your mindset - it's really not failure at all, just feedback. This is the difference b…
/r/askTRP11/04/20 10:39 PM
3

They're both religious, just extreme opposites. AWALT is biology and has nothing to do with belief systems.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 01:24 PM
2

The best course of action is to always STFU and observe. See something you don't like? Move on. Otherwise just STFU. If you want to drive your LTR to another man or want to dry the pussy up instantly start talking about your insecurities. That will do it fast.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 01:20 PM
7

He's a comic book character. He gets women because he uses tricks to get them. Think of like Mystery but older and uglier with a douchier taste in style.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 01:12 PM
46

This is the exact reason that men should spin plates and take boring plates out of rotation. Part of being a man is the thrill of the hunt.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 08:46 PM
3

It seems to be getting worse. I think this is a good thing. It means that more men who are not RP are starting to wake up. This is a call for us who are intermediate to advanced rp men to take these guys under our wings. Some of them need to be called out for the faggots that that are, but others just need some real advice from a man.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 08:17 PM
17

You know... There is such a thing as OTHER WOMEN.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 01:22 PM
2

My pull up strength didn't improve much until I spent a lot of time doing compound lifts in the gym. Obviously that's not an option right now b/c of the rona... So try a progression. 1 pull up per half hour 20 times a day. Then one every 15 minutes, 10, etc. Then after a period of time bust out sets of 2 or 3. Obviously only works if you're home a lot.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 01:22 PM
12

I was going to suggest join the military. It's better than being in that environment and it's better than being homeless.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 01:17 PM
7

Ignore. Block her number. Any attention, even negative attention is a plus for some women. They like the drama. It's what gives them the feelz. Your best course is to just continue to block, don't waste your time anymore on this.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 01:15 PM
4

Exactly. Sluts do slut things. The fiancee is her security blanket. AF/BB. Simple as that.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 08:22 PM
4

I can explain it. You have oneitis. She is a serial cheater and branch swinger yet you are pining for her. The real explanation is that she's a garbage person, and doing things that garbage people do. My advice? ghost and block forever and focus on working out to exhaustion. It's going to be hard, probably the hardest thing you have ever done, as I am sure you are still in love with this chick. Pick up a new hobby or two in order to get your mind off of her. You're going to be doing a lot better…
/r/askTRP09/04/20 08:21 PM
1

I think you should keep communicating with your little bro about how great your life is. He's only 13, and there is plenty of time for him to change. Let him know that the best things in life are not found behind a screen.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 08:13 PM
27

20 years ago these women would be shamed out of existence and called whores, rightfully so. The problem with the liberalism of today is that it places cash value on pussy and female sexuality in general, making it more acceptable to do this kind of stuff. Just stay away from the whores. Ignore them, and let them be whores. What was once right (public shame) will now make you into the bad guy. Remember rule 38 from 48 laws of power. "Think as you like but behave as others". In my option the thing…
/r/askTRP09/04/20 07:34 PM
1

Yup it's completely bound to happen. If the millenials are liberal, generation Z will go the other way to rebel against the evil "old people". Same with the generation after Z. It happens all the time.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 03:56 PM
6

N counts are lies anyway, so I never ask. It's easy to tell if a woman is slutty or not by other tells. Just search "slut tells" in the main sub.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 01:30 PM
1

You seem insecure and paranoid. Any woman could cheat on you. Just don't LTR these types. Problem solved. It looks like you're not ready for a LTR anyway.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 01:25 PM
1

Have fun with her, don't LTR her. Simple.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 01:25 PM
1

A huge part of the veiny look is vasodilation. Look into l-arginine supplements.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 11:24 PM
18

Holy shit... That study. I'm going to get my ass in bed right now and it's only 7:00!
/r/askTRP07/04/20 11:12 PM
1

It sounds like you need therapy in this case more than you have oneitis. You seem to have a lot of unresolved anger and holding on to the past. Suggest finding a good male therapist, take up meditation, sink your time into a fun hobby, etc. Anything to move your life forward.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 05:58 PM
1

I mainly stick to women with a gym body but I think curvy (fat-ish) girls are awesome. They gobble up your cock and will take it up the ass on the first date. They're great for an occasional FB. Older women is a completely different story. I'm 46 and can't stomach a woman in her late 30's let alone older than me.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/20 05:54 PM
2

Bench to deadlift is apples to oranges dude.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 02:02 PM
1

Post her in the cuckold subreddit. I bet you'll get lots of the attention you crave there.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 01:41 PM
3

Yes, HER bs. Not HIS. Men are to be dealt with differently. In this case, it's a man getting physical with his LTR.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 02:27 PM
3

That's what BJJ/Muay Thai/MMA training is for. Personally I would never put myself or my LTR (if I had one) in that sort of situation. I go to classier places.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 12:42 PM
3

Cant you do something towards the women side of the conflict like A&E "so you like ass smacking? Ill invite him to a threesome. LOL. No. Just no.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 12:41 PM
2

Read it, didn't care for it. It was not that bad as a lot of others say, it was just not that good for me. I prefer Robert Greene's books. They're far more information dense than Peterson, but full of lessons that you can actually use to improve your life if you're a thinker. My favorites are (in order of best to worst) 48 laws of power mastery Art of seduction
/r/askTRP06/04/20 12:08 PM
11

I've been seeing this girl who ravenously gives me head ever time we date. Later she tells me that she doesn't give her husband head because she doesn't like doing it. But yet she sucks me every time without me having to ask. So I think almost all women will do it with a guy they really like.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 12:44 AM
1

It's pretty damn necessary. They get paid well too! I'm not hearing a lot about demand for it but I know it's there. Every larger company needs a security team. Especially with everything being kubernetes and in the cloud right now. The traditional non-cloud way of doing things is being phased out so if you're good with cloud providers and security you've got a bright future.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 01:06 PM
1

For devops languages I'd learn shell scripting, python, golang, javascript. You'll need a few skills as well. Linux and some cloud providers configuration like aws azure or google cloud platform. You'll need to know how to make configuration repeatable so chef, puppet, ansible, terraform are all things you may need to know. The big skill that everyone needs is kubetrnetes.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 01:03 PM
1

DevOps is great. There are a shit ton of developers out there and the market is full of them. They're all new-ish too so you're not gonna stand out. I was a dev for 15 years before I moved to sales a few years back. Currently due to the pandemic, I'm helping out the developers because I make fuck all money not being able to sell anything. If I had to start again right now I would go for devops. Great money, and everyone is moving their software into the cloud. Really good devops people are hard …
/r/askTRP04/04/20 11:37 PM
1

fake news? corona is no fucking joke. A friends wife passed from it. She died alone on a ventilator in an induced coma. Stay away from people for a while.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 02:23 PM
1

The problem with beta simps is that they will lie to your daughters in order to get what they want out of them. They'll tell them what they want to hear. My daughters are athletic teens. The guys they like are athletic and get good grades, popular at school. Not your beta simp type but not the alpha bad boy either. These are the types of guys I hope they continue to go for!
/r/askTRP04/04/20 02:01 PM
1

Problem is I popped a cialis and I don't want it to go to waste. Sunk cost fallacy. She's swapping spit with everyone in that apartment building. She's going to get the rona if she keeps it up. Do you not care about your own health more than wasting a pill? Also, your actions are more that of a jealous boyfriend than a FWB. She can smell it a mile away and you are 100% in her frame. Drop the feelings and start controlling your own frame a little more, or don't. If you don't I will guarantee that…
/r/askTRP04/04/20 01:38 PM
1

You might be a little too sensitive. Not sure why, just an impression I get...
/r/askTRP04/04/20 01:24 PM
1

First off, do what you want. Want to send a text? Send it. Just don't go overboard. Second, if you don't want to send one you do not have to explain yourself. Just tell her you were busy with something. If you're already texting her every day (which is a mistake for a FWB), she's gonna think you're a sperg for ignoring her on her birthday.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 12:39 PM
1

Imprint? Can you explain?
/r/askTRP04/04/20 12:36 PM
1

> I have no skills and no knowledge of proper mate-guarding so I ask you guys Mate-guarding doesn't work. If she's going to cheat on you she will cheat on you. Your best defense against that is having plenty of options if she does and being the best man that you can be in terms of manly behavior. You need to learn more of the fundamentals. Mate guarding makes you look weaker and more insecure in her eyes and can actually make it more likely for her to cheat.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 06:29 PM
1

How many other chicks are you gaming? If that number is zero, you need to increase it and you won't care about this one. It's hard to say what happened, Maybe she read your message and forgot to respond. Or she just plans on flaking? Either way, there's not a high level of interest. What would happen if a A list celebrity messaged her? She's reply right back. Without knowing more about the situation I would say that you fucked up on the first date when you didn't kiss her at least. You need to b…
/r/askTRP03/04/20 12:33 AM
1

Read it and "you are your own gym". Both have decent bodyweight exercises.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 12:22 AM
5

Great post, especially about motivation. All great advice, you better listen to this man, OP!
/r/askTRP03/04/20 12:21 AM
1

I agree. Rather than try to change the world, change yourself to be the best man you can be.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 11:45 AM
5

Plates are women that you're fucking. End of story, really.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 06:49 PM
2

Good lord. Why are you keeping this chick in orbit? Women do that. Fuck her or cut her out of your life. Game women, but do not keep them as "friends" in hops of hooking up in the future. Any desirable man can find a plate in not too much time anyway. You either have no confidence in your ability to find sexual/romantic partners or you have oneitis for this chick. If I were you I would not respond at all to this girl. Hit her up in the future when your LTR ends.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 06:23 PM
4

They wouldn't be wrong.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 06:01 PM
2

Those are some pretty impressive numbers. It's going to be super hard not to regress when you're out of the gym for maybe 3 months. Personally I am treating this as a cut, while eating maintenance calories. I'm doing a much of pushups with resistance bands, weighted pullups, dumbbell work for upper body, and goblet squats, kettlebell deadlifts, box jumps for lower. On between upper and lower I'm running sprints. Weekends are yoga. I'm really only worried about my lower body.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 05:55 PM
8

You seem kind of bitter about this. Male attention is worth more than cold hard cash to most women. They can't get it in real life anymore, so they have to get it through ramping up their social media efforts. I'm not sure what your question was? This is ASKtrp. And like you said, it is what it is.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 05:48 PM
8

Think of it as intermittent pussy fasting.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 01:48 PM
5

How old are you? Your family seems like a bunch of slobs. I would wait out the pandemic and leave asap afterward.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 01:44 PM
0

I'm in serious monk mode right now other than seeing my favorite plate. I hear ya man.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 06:02 PM
0

Next time don't ask, lead. Instead of boring questions, make statements. Like you're going to be somewhere, and she's welcome to join you. Since she's under 21, it's not going to be a bar. Think like coffee shop or maybe a show that lets in minors.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 05:38 PM
3

This is exactly what we mean by riding the cock carousel.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 04:49 PM
6

So much this.... I would take a 7 who's submissive in the bedroom and out over a 9 who's only into vanilla stuff.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 04:48 PM
1

Have you not read anything on here? Whatever number you get will be BS, so don't even ask the question. If she asks you just deflect the question.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 04:34 PM
1

Just tell them that your name's Derek!
/r/askTRP27/03/20 04:27 PM
1

As a former engineer, I appreciate this comment!
/r/askTRP27/03/20 04:19 PM
0

Why the fuck do you care about what she says if she was climbing on your cock on the first date? Ignore that shit, tell her I'm going to be at x on x day and time, you should meet me there. Then fuck her. Simple as that.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 04:18 PM
1

"Can I borrow your towel? I just hit a water buffalo on my way back home".
/r/askTRP25/03/20 10:52 PM
1

I'm doing yoga, bodyweight workouts, reading, and learning to play the guitar.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 12:58 PM
6

You're a plate to her and you have the mindset of she should sleep with you only. This seems like a toxic situation. Find better girls is my opinion. Besides, you're in quarantine so right now is the perfect time for monk mode.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 12:50 PM
3

This is a bullshit story. No escort/hooker/prostitute would go with a john to the pharmacy then hang around for almost 2 hours afterward with him.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 05:55 PM
5

I am starting to hate this subreddit. Anyone talking about emotions here is a fucking beta bitch lately. Guys, it's ok to feel bad after a break up, not because being a beta bitch is ok, or being outcome dependant is all you need. Being an Alpha doesn't mean being a fuckboi without emotions. 100% agreed But.... There are millions of other girls in the world. Some are worse, some are about the same, and some are a LOT better than this girl he broke up with. Why pine over this one when he can do b…
/r/askTRP24/03/20 04:40 PM
1

Why are you so hung up on this one chick?
/r/askTRP23/03/20 02:28 PM
1

At 19, it would be a huge mistake to tie yourself down to one woman. You will regret it later in life! You did the right thing, bro. You're going to be hurting, getting hurt by many more people in your life and after a while, it doesn't sting as badly. It still hurts but you realize that it's all part of life.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 02:24 PM
3

yeah and Navy SEALs do not sit still for a minute, they're always training, working around base or on assignment. They need the energy just to sustain their day to day activities. Their nutritional needs are exceptional, yours are not unless you're expending the same amount of energy daily.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 02:20 PM
2

My lower body's going to suffer but I'll be doing bodyweight exercises. Push ups (one armed, diamond, handstand). Weighted pull ups and dips, dumbell work (I have some of those shitty dial-a-weight dumbells). I do have the OG p90x videos and will probably do the yoga routines from that. I works sales so I'm SOL for commissions. I was an engineer at this company before moving to sales so my hope is that I can jump in there and help where needed from home.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 11:30 AM
9

He was an asshole trying to get a rise out of you. It worked. If anyone ever does this to you again, very loudly say: DUDE! WHY DID YOU JUST GRAB MY ASS?!, SORRY BUT I AM NOT GAY! Make a scene, and try to make it look convincing. Like he's trying to be a gay perv.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 11:56 AM
5

You need to read the sidebar, bro. This is the textbook definition of a plate.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 11:46 AM
4

Ouch. Well if she was just a plate, no big deal but it sounds like she pushed for more than that. She fucked up dude. That's a pretty well defined boundary that she basically laughed at.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 11:18 AM
3

She crossed a pretty big boundary. Next.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 11:17 AM
13

They chopped wood and dragged dead deer carcasses through the woods.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 11:04 AM
4

Don't respond. She's interested enough to text you again.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 06:28 PM
3

Get into monk mode ASAP. Over here, they're closing down bars and restaurants. That leaves, what, Tinder and online stuff? I would rather just step back and take a break than do that.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 12:46 PM
1

Plates: condoms or GTFO! LTR: Show me your papers and proof you're on birth control and we will consider it.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 04:05 PM
-1

I haven't heard of this, or experienced it other than someone older and wiser talking to someone young and inexperienced. How old are you, and how old are the men calling you "buddy", sport?
/r/askTRP12/03/20 03:34 PM
1

It helps to have more women in rotation. One ghosts you... No big deal, you will learn that she's replaceable.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 11:00 AM
4

This is super normal. They do it all the time in order to illustrate what they want and don't want out of you. Over time you're going to learn that women communicate covertly rather than directly like us dudes do.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 05:00 PM
5

That is the literal difference between winners and losers. In order to have a winning mindset you have to not let a fuck-up phase you. Learn from it and move on.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/20 04:37 PM
6

Block her and her friends on everything. That's the best you can do.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 06:48 PM
2

Get married, have 4 kids and film her while tyrone gives her the bone.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 06:47 PM
2

Your acquaintances are pussies. There's an inherent risk to driving to work or school every morning yet you do it without an extra thought.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 03:22 PM
2

Her - "How many girls have you used that same line on?" Me - "You mean today? Or over all?"
/r/askTRP10/03/20 02:14 PM
1

I compliment women from time to time on her taste in clothes or music. But I don't compliment her for the reason of maybe getting her to like me. I do it because I genuinely like whatever I'm complimenting.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 02:04 PM
2

Right on man... Congrats on finding a good one! My last good LTR was like 2 years ago and she was a lot like you've described.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 03:27 PM
2

Do what you want but DO NOT be boring. The deal with constant banter is that there are only so many things you can talk about before you're one of the 100 other boring fuckers in her DMs
/r/askTRP09/03/20 02:26 PM
1

> but didn’t kino or escalate. It was mostly getting to know her better, her talking at all times. Mistake. Always kino early. The worst thing that can happen is that she's not receptive to you at all, and you're just going to get faster feedback. Polarize early! ​ Yes, you did fuck up. First, your date idea was horrible. Next time keep it simple, like drinks at a chill bar or a coffee shop. Perfect for kino and letting some of your charm shine through. Second, by not escalating you came off as …
/r/askTRP09/03/20 02:23 PM
2

You're better off just rubbing yourself.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 02:07 PM
1

MMF is awesome, just don't cross swords.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 02:04 PM
1

IF there's nothing gay going on then what do you have to lose? The romanticism of losing your virginity in a special way is bullshit unless you're Christian and planning on saving yourself for marriage.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 08:07 PM
2

Yeah. Even if you don't end up fucking you can grow your social circle. Hit her up.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 07:56 PM
2

It's possible but the effort involved is better spent on other women. Starting any sort of a sexual/plate relationship when you're not the prize and you're in her frame is way less than ideal.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 07:52 PM
1

yeah, if you've fucked enough women you've fucked some other guy's girlfriends or wives. I've done it in their houses with the wedding pics up in the bedroom and all but never with the guy's blessing or him in the room... nope!
/r/askTRP06/03/20 07:49 PM
9

I love sales analogies... Just about everything in PU can be related to sales. All the guys here could benefit from some kind of sales training or even a career in selling.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 07:02 PM
1

Rock bottom? You don't even know what that is. So you're not able to get girls? Guess what, not an uncommon problem. There is nothing special about your situation. You place far too much importance on "getting girls" and not enough on the shit that really matters in life.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 04:26 PM
1

Your set/rep scheme is a lot like RPT, except with RPT you increase the amount of weight you reduce by and increase the number of reps. On my strength days I shoot for 4/6/8/(10) reps. Dropping the weight 8% in between sets. For hypertrophy days I start with 8 and work my way up to 12-14 for the last set. ​ I bet if you threw a couple of hypertrophy days in with more volume and more reps you would get a little bigger.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 04:20 PM
0

Are you gay? If not, fuck the shit out of her. If so, save your man-cherry for lance with the big cock who sites 3 seats away.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 04:17 PM
1

Well right now I'm reading "Can't hurt me" and it's a good one. Here's my top 3: 48 laws of power. Mastery (also by Robert Greene). Awaken the Giant Within - Tony Robbins
/r/askTRP05/03/20 04:11 PM
1

I don't have too much to add to this, as condoms cut off the circulation to my dick and make me go soft after a while. If I know I'm going to have to stay hard for a couple of hours at least (threesome situations, etc), I take viagra. Otherwise I will just deal with a hard on that's not as hard as it usually is, and finish quicker than usual.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 01:58 PM
1

There other women out there without severe mental health problems. End of story, really. Why fuck with mentally ill chicks? Only because you have oneitis or lack abundance.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 01:06 PM
6

Stay away from BPD chicks. Also, fuck other chicks. Who cares about this psycho.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 01:15 AM
1

I'm 46 and dress pretty casual. I don't go out of my way to dress like a 21 year old but I don't dress like the other slobs my age either. A nice pair of chinos, a henley, nice shoes, and a great haircut goes a long way. I do pretty good with younger women and don't overthink my style. I pretty much wear what's comfortable, nice looking, and what I see other people out wearing and wearing in popular fashion store ads.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 07:54 PM
1

It's one of the only supplements that actually works, so get on that shit as soon as you can.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 02:55 PM
8

My moral code is not your moral code but personally I'd wait until it's cleared up. You know, the whole do unto others thing.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 02:52 PM
6

This man knows his shit ^^. Stop gaming your girl and someone else will. OP, Get your ass to the MRP subreddit now.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 02:43 PM
8

The good news is that you know whether or not you want to LTR this chick anymore, and I hope that answer is "no". Keep her as a plate, keep up the soft next until you get back home.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 03:45 PM
1

How many others do you have?
/r/askTRP26/02/20 02:47 PM
2

A one night stand isn't a plate.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 02:19 PM
19

Jesus Christ, yes.... Sometimes you have to hard next. It's all part of the LTR game. It's not that hard to understand. If your soft nexts are failing, you hard next. Providing you're actually soft nexting correctly. If the soft next doesn't work she is simply not into you enough nor does she respect you enough.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 07:53 PM
2

But the thing that probably holds me back the most and that I want to mainly discuss here is the depression and lack of motivation. This is your problem. Not "getting girls is overwhelming". Red Pill is not just about getting girls, it is living the best life as you can as a man. Find a trusted male counselor to help with your depression. Once you get a handle on that other things are going to seem a lot easier.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 07:50 PM
7

If it's a boundary it's a big deal. Otherwise, why have the boundary?
/r/askTRP25/02/20 07:47 PM
10

Reading this post.... What's your SMV like? Are you ripped or no? What about your face? Good looking? Average? Ugly? You ask if you're ugly but you already know the answer in your heart and gut. You either are or you're not and you lack self confidence. ​ 4th girl.I extend my arm and she shakes my hand.I'm surprised. "I am surprised". Boom. Lack of confidence. The girl I made out with was a 6.The girls I also tried approaching were 7,8 and I got rejected.This gave me huge motivation in the gym t…
/r/askTRP25/02/20 03:43 PM
27

Holy fuck man.... Never trust a chick who insists she is clean. Even with my past LTR is was show me papers or GTFO.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 03:33 PM
-2

Well I wasn't offended. Some guys are pretty sensitive.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 03:31 PM
1

I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that her response is a pretty typical response to dread. Yes, it is her dumb ass fault for being a drunk ass and not realizing it was her wine glass. Yes, you did the right thing by not rationalizing or explaining it. My prediction is that when she comes back to your place she's going to fuck you until your cock falls off pretty much, if you play it cool.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 03:27 PM
1

Bro..... What about all of your OTHER WOMEN?
/r/askTRP25/02/20 02:32 PM
9

They are! I was a chump in my late teens, got married right away, and my journey just got started after my divorce a few years back.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 02:26 PM
12

No, the break is not "because of her stress". Women lean on their LTR to help relieve their stress. In an ideal relationship, you will listen and be her rock. One of two things is happening. She's either seeing or interested in seeing someone else, or you have failed to be her rock, even in the second scenario she's probably got someone else on her radar because that's just what women do. Not a big deal, it happens. But make no mistake, this LTR is over. Give her her break if you wish, but go ou…
/r/askTRP25/02/20 02:02 PM
43

Once and only once. I got Chlamydia from a BJ. So yeah it is possible. It's very highly unlikely though. Just to put things in perspective, I have slept with over 50 women and this is the very first issue that I've had. I always wear condoms and get tested every 6 months.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 01:46 PM
1

Blah blah blah blah.... End it now, vet better next time. This is not relationship advice sub, bro. We deal with the stone cold truth, and since you have to ask us, you know that the right thing to do is.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 09:18 PM
8

That's a slap in the face, my man.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 09:09 PM
2

Yeah, I was about to say that sounds more like a plate or FWB than LTR. Hell, my plates even text me more often than that
/r/askTRP24/02/20 09:08 PM
1

You're just going to have to fuck more women. You're going to be bad at stuff for a while, but 90% of your problem is your anxiety and not your technique by the looks of it. Maybe not the answer you want to hear, but it's the one you need. There is no substitute for experience.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 08:09 PM
1

Red pill is about all areas of your life, not just women. This is a common misconception and if you're not working on your grand, overarching mission you have not fully taken the pill. Career-Wise, I suggest checking out 48 Laws Of Power, and implementing the laws that make sense to you and your situations.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 03:02 PM
2

If women are insulting you, your SMV is not high enough. Work on that too!
/r/askTRP21/02/20 01:20 PM
1

Here's a rule that works very well for me personally. I don't do LTR lately but when I did, and it would end... Instead of text, write up an email or a letter. DO NOT SEND THE EMAIL/LETTER. Don't send the Email or letter. Also.... Don't send the fucking letter. Come back to the letter in 2 weeks and see how dumb it would have been to send it. Bask in gratitude that you followed steps 2-5. Writing a letter or email gets all of the beta shit out of your system. It's like free therapy basically. Yo…
/r/askTRP20/02/20 07:44 PM
1

You can try GOMAD but you till get Fat as Fuck along with your bulk. It is really cheap for the amount of calories you get.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 05:00 PM
3

You're putting the experience with this one chick up on a pedestal and self sabotaging all of your subsequent encounters. I had this happen to me once too, and it took a month of turning away perfectly hot chicks to see what the problem was. You need to get it into your head that it was NOT the chick that made you feel this way, it was the experience. You can have that very same experience with other women. Just don't chase it, let it happen.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 04:53 PM
1

so it'd be convenient if it works out, but this chick is acting like she's autistic. I'm trying to establish a common point of interest, and she responds with a single sentence, If the vibe's not there, you can't force it. Move on to others. Convenience is a plus ONLY for those with scarcity mentality. I feel like she would just ghost my ass if she doesn't want to talk to me. You shouldn't care. Ask yourselves why girls have orbiters... Then you will have your answer after your research.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 01:23 AM
6

You did the right thing. Don't overanalyze it. I find the best no drama way to next is to just stop communicating. If she's nuts and keeps trying to mess with you just block.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 01:18 AM
3

For sure. If your kill count it above 50, 100% you have been exposed to it. It's possible but unlikely to catch it if your partner doesn't have any sores. Wrapping it up helps but since it's passed by skin to skin contact, is not 100% effective either.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 11:08 PM
14

How old are you?
/r/askTRP18/02/20 09:27 PM
2

Mini golf, bowling, fowling, games (dave and busters), trampoline park. Anything that gives you an opportunity for kino. Not rocket science, dude.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 09:20 PM
1

The fuck did I just read?
/r/askTRP18/02/20 09:01 PM
1

I thought this post seemed familiar. Looking through your post history, everything that the bros here told you was right.... You should have nexted her ass THEN. We know a thing or two.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 02:31 PM
3

I bet I'm about your age... I remember what it was like to be 18 years old, too. It really does take a while for most men to understand women and how to deal with them.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 01:16 PM
1

Your mistake was "I don't prioritize you".. Yes, it's true that we should never prioritize women. But you communicate it with your actions rather than saying it overtly like that. Comes off as autistic. Your next move should have been, "Well let's have some alone time and take some pics that put those to shame". Are you already fucking this chick?
/r/askTRP16/02/20 05:24 PM
1

Mine's blonde so my grays are barely noticeable. And more white than gray. You can see it a little on the sides but I just get the sides shaved off they're gone. Face is clean shaven so no worries about a gray beard either.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 07:35 PM
7

I always just say "good girl, keep 'em coming"
/r/askTRP15/02/20 07:32 PM
1

Women are not loyal in general. And a woman's desire to fuck other women and be gay isn't evil. It just means that OP needs to end that relationship and find someone who's more suited to him.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 06:18 PM
1

For sure man... I sleep with 20-somethings all the time and I'm in my mid-forties. I get death stares from women, and even other men frown upon it. You would not believe the amount of young guys right here on TRP that resent that some older guys have such an easy time getting pussy while they're struggling.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 04:20 PM
1

You need to ask yourself why you feel the need to have a LTR. Only you can answer that question, but maybe there is a way that you can get those feelings and states in other ways. Another option is open long term relationships. You get to know someone at an intimate level, but you both get to fuck other people also. This only works if your SMV is high though, as OLTR when the girl's way hotter than the guy never works out.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 12:49 PM
1

If you're evil you should see if you can hook up a threesome before you demote.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 12:44 PM
1

Increase the buying temp first by shifting from small talk to talk that evokes emotions. Then hit her with the phone number request "to continue the conversation". Day game 101 level stuff there.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 12:01 PM
1

Yes. I'm 46 and in the past year I have dated nothing but women in their 20's with the exception of a couple in their early 30's. Just 2 days ago, I tied up and fucked a 23 year old, and she wants me to do it again this weekend. Men's SMV peaks at a much higher age, while women's peaks in their early-mid 20's. I've not come across any LTR-worthy women in this age range lately, but I don't want a LTR either.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 12:00 PM
1

You have zero game. You were about to ask her for her number right away? Might as well have pulled your cock out in line. Go read Bang and Day Bang by Roosh, and watch some Ted V youtube vids. You seriously need to work on your game, brother.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 03:37 PM
3

Pretty simple for me. Multivitamin Zinc Fish Oil Vitamin D Protein Powder Creatine No need to complicate things, I only take what most people are deficient in, and that which is proven to help in the gym with gainz.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 01:09 PM
3

I'm on FL and most of us kinky fuckers think the cuck/bull thing is so weird. Both parties seem like ultra-obsessed with their festish. When you get very deep in it, it seems to be the only thing that gets the cuck, and the bull off. FYI, OP: If you stay in this fetish long enough, you will have another man suck your cock. Hanging around on fetlife I see that it ALWAYS happens to bulls, no matter how straight they are when they first start.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 01:03 PM
2

Can you find a couple of girls that are closer? Put her on the back burner while you game others. Logistics are never a reason to soft next, behavior is.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 12:54 PM
1

My marriage was ultimately unsuccessful, but worth it in terms of raising kids. My daughters were raised the right way at least and have a good moral compass despite female nature and the ways of society. Would I do it again? Yes. But if I had to I would have ended my marriage a little sooner.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 12:53 PM
8

Yeah my rule is always let her ask first. If she's interested in one, she will bring it up. Women always do.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 07:58 PM
5

Have you ever been with a woman before?
/r/askTRP11/02/20 07:42 PM
9

> Asked about a relationship and she said that she wanted to stay single but she wasn't fucking anyone else. ​ Whoops. Too soon for commitment, bud.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 07:40 PM
6

So eat more.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 07:39 PM
3

The buying temp was not high enough yet for her number. Now it's just gonna seem awkward when you ask again. My suggestion would be to move on to the next. If you truly don't care about wasting your time you could come up with something like "Easy.... Whoever said it was easy putting up with you?". 95% sure it'll fail but she might go on defensive if you say it in a joking, non-sperg manner.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 07:37 PM
2

This is Hollywood BS that never happens. She's either attracted or not. Then eventually when she's down on her luck, the chaser looks like a good, stable, beta option.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 07:11 PM
1

Personally I'd move on. I don't put up with even 1/4 of the shit that you have. It seems like you have oneitis. You should be gaming other women, lifting, and doing things you love at the bare minimum instead of worrying about her.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 04:04 PM
1

It is what it is. Use it as fuel to become a stronger person. I think you agree with RP, but have not fully internalized it. This is actually GOOD for you. You need to see what women are capable of, be hurt a couple of times in order to learn how to handle it better the next time around.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 02:28 PM
3

ALL chicks fantasize about celebs. She would drop to her knees and suck him dry in 30 seconds flat and that's okay. You're insecure is the problem. You need to roll your eyes about it and treat her like a teenager with a crush. Here's the deal man, you can get butthurt over this stuff or realize that all women do it and just roll with it and playfully give her shit about it.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 07:22 PM
1

It is? Maybe you need to change your own hangups about that.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 07:18 PM
7

Alright man, well if she seems interested you need to polarize right now. Like "Come over and there will be no question about it anymore" type shit.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 03:43 PM
8

100% agree with this. It's too late to say anything now. The time to put your foot down is the first time it happens or don't LTR someone who does this in the first place. You you think you want to keep her, you can say something about it but beware that the cost is that it'll make you look weak, and she'll resent it. It's going to damage your frame pretty hard bro.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 03:41 PM
10

> i had a one night stand and couldnt get it up. Yikes. She is fucking with you. Ghost if you can and move on to other chicks.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 03:38 PM
2

Find the guy down the street that drives a '86 firebird with a dragon decal on the side and nunchucks in the back. He'll teach you for free.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 02:19 PM
2

She will give literally anyone her snap. Generally speaking, to women, numbers are reserved for the men who they are actually serious about meeting up with. Here's an anecdote for you: Just last week I got the number of a hot 23 year old (I am 46). She offered me her snap or ig first, and I told her I'm a grown ass man and and want something more than just sending pics back and forth. Guess what? I'm heading over to her place Wednesday to tie her up and fuck her silly.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 01:32 PM
9

I went through the same thing almost a couple years back. She wasn't BPD, but was the best LTR I had, we just wanted different things long term so we had to part ways. What helped me the most was meditation. 20 minutes a day. I still do this too, it's a great habit. People will give me shit about this too, but mushrooms helped a lot. I barely ever use them (haven't since actually), but it helped me see things from a perspective outside myself.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 12:49 PM
4

Love it! Looking forward to the next one.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/20 12:43 PM
2

I don't go for snap, I go for her number. If she can't give me that then it's a waste of my time
/r/askTRP10/02/20 03:43 AM
2

Total time waster. Move on to other chicks. This is what she tells the 90 other dudes that message her.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 01:41 AM
3

Experience. Honestly, it's the only thing that helps. Accept that you're going to be nervous for a while, roll with it, and understand that it goes away eventually.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 03:38 PM
1

Same thing happened in the gym a week ago when a new guy comes in blasting his own music over a portable speaker. Everyone just looks at him WTF? but no one approaches him to turn it off. He just stares everyone down obviously daring anyone to approach him. It's loud enough where it goes through my head phones and ruins my music. I'm not going to let this guy ruin my workout so I approach him and kindly ask him to turn it down. He does, but jacks it up a couple minutes later. This is an issue wi…
/r/askTRP08/02/20 03:36 PM
1

I used to be just like you when I first started my sales job. The only thing that helps is exposure to it until you're able to remain calm and laugh it off later. I'd get clients that would literally scream at me. I used to freeze, stutter, not know what to say (blank deer in the headlights). After about a year of this (maybe an hour or two total of being screamed at) I realized that it didn't phase me anymore and I got great at de-escalating. I hear that enrolling in an intense martial art or b…
/r/askTRP08/02/20 03:28 PM
1

So I called her today and told her I was considering breaking up with her and wasn't that stoked on her bullshit behavior lately. I wouldn't tell a woman that. I either try to apply dread to save the relationship or just cut ties. Any changes that come about with this method are usually short-lived.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 03:22 PM
5

Drunk. Nervous. Just forget about this one and keep pushing on. You're making progress! I bet your dick will work just fine when you're sober and 100% comfortable.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 03:00 PM
3

You don't owe her an explanation. Good on you for going out with another chick! Seems like you're doing it all right. Personally I would avoid the drama and just cut ties right away but if you want the trip and don't mind the drama go for it!
/r/askTRP08/02/20 01:32 AM
2

Don't mate guard, just dump. The guy wants to fuck your girl and she knows it. Disrespectful AF. Don't be a homo.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 08:39 PM
2

Real talk right here, OP. You need to break your cycle of this now.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 08:18 PM
2

I'm really sorry for your loss. What would your bro think of all this? Would he want you to use that as a crutch or to improve yourself?
/r/askTRP07/02/20 08:18 PM
2

You lost frame and it's hard to recover from that. Before you make a move you have to be 100% sure that she wants the commitment just as much or more than you do. That is if you even want a LTR. That shit's hard, man. Everyone that says find more plates is 100% right.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 07:43 PM
1

"You haven't slept with me yet". Smash then move on.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 02:25 PM
1

Coffee is my go-to.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 02:11 PM
3

Damaged Goods LDR What are you getting out of this relationship?
/r/askTRP06/02/20 02:12 PM
1

Your username seems to check out.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 01:12 PM
1

Marriage didn't work out but I have zero regrets. Even though we were obviously not right for each other we sucked it up and made a great environment for our daughters as long as we could. Now, I have 3 amazing daughters. Yes it is challenging and AWALT and all that but these kids are respectful and actually believe that their dad knows a thing or two about life and consequences. I'm not going to lie, it's fucking HARD. And takes lots of discipline to not get lazy. You CAN do it the right way th…
/r/askTRP06/02/20 01:11 PM
14

> wanted to make things interesting again, so I told her that I loved her. You went full retard. Women can NOT respect a man who invests emotionally first. One of the most important laws of holding frame is to always emotionally invest AFTER she does first. She does something for you, then you do something in return for her. It's the alpha way.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 04:26 PM
2

That's a silly way to look at it. No matter what, you're sacrificing freedom by contributing a gynocentric society. Even if you're just working a 9-5 career, you're a cog in the big machine. If someone wants to be a warrior, let them fight. It's manlier than sitting behind a desk at all day at least.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 04:17 PM
2

You're gonna have a fat wife in a few years if you decide to get married. You have to decide whether you're okay or not with that. If you're still attracted to her and you're alright with it, go for it. We can't force our own standards on you.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 01:37 PM
1

"You catch on quick"
/r/askTRP05/02/20 11:58 AM
0

I wouldn't do it a lot. You can become dependent on it. That being said, I have a threesome lined up for tomorrow and most definitely will be taking it! Only time I take it is when I need extra performance for something out of the ordinary.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 12:17 AM
3

Next. If she lies about this, she WILL have no problems cheating either.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 04:37 PM
2

She is a plate and she's busy with other stuff. I don't see the issue here? Get more plates to keep yourself busy, seems like you're treating this one as more than just a plate.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 05:09 PM
3

For sure. These guys have WAY different issues than we do. I'm glad I'm single after reading MRP a few times.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 06:19 PM
3

Yes it is. It's not going to be easy for OP though, he's going to be facing this stuff in ever increasing amounts. It would be best for him to find a new plate.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 06:18 PM
0

One word. Sports. It automatically gives him a boost in social status and raises testosterone. That's gonna put him ahead of most other men.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 02:59 PM
2

IDK man, that's a TON of fat. If you decide to do it, get bloodwork done during just to be safe. Lots of guys I know buy a rice cooker and cook a shit ton of rice and lentils and buy chicken breast in bulk to cook in a slow cooker. You should be able to get more than 3,000 calories a day for less than $20 a week with that setup.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 09:49 PM
5

Ever consider the possibility that yes, she does have a bf, but yes, she is still DTF? Happens all the time man.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 09:45 PM
1

What's your body fat percentage. Are you stressed? Almost all the guys my age have erection quality problems. I only get them during extended sex marathons so when I know I'm gonna be doing that or having a threesome I just pop some viagra. My libido seemed to improve by quite a lot once I got down to under 12%bf and got over a year of lifting experience. I was skinnyfat and it was killing my libido. I'm really curious about what your T levels are, and what sort of shape you're in. Both physical…
/r/askTRP24/01/20 09:31 PM
1

Easy. Talk to the guys too. They will know what's up and try to pain you in a bad light, but the girl won't care. Often that'll make you more attractive to her.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 04:30 PM
2

LOL... you really need to ask? No, you don't. Trust your gut man.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 04:01 PM
2

It's not complex. As others have said it's none of your business. What is your business, is if you want to keep this girl. If she's going to damage someone's reputation that's twice removed from her, what the fuck is she going to do to your when you break up? Let that sink in for a minute.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 04:08 PM
1

Call the police and her family every time she threatens to kill herself. Then dump her. It will stop. People who are serious usually don't make threats. It's done to exert power and control over you.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 03:47 PM
0

Apathy is an alright response if done correctly. Personally I would have just said, Lol... okay.... Just know that there are consequences to that. Say it like you would say it to a little kid trying to push boundaries. Then when she pushes for more information just deflect in an amused way. Of course without saying if she actually goes, then you just walk away from the relationship. Always be prepared to walk away.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 03:45 PM
1

You look alright to me... The outdoorsy type. Is that the types of chicks in your area? If not then adopt a more urban stylish look.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 06:39 PM
1

Keep initiating but if the conversation goes cold don't force it. I've found that even though some of those girls are still DTF, their personality is usually boring enough to make it not worth my time
/r/askTRP16/01/20 06:03 PM
1

(oh did I mention we are long distance?) A LDR is not a real LTR.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 05:57 PM
1

You should have backed up the files and database and then sent them to her after you deleted the website. Yes, delete the website, let her sweat over it a little, but also be professional and keep your bases covered legally by providing her with her content.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 03:20 PM
1

"Why clean it when we're gonna destroy it tonight anyway". Then you see about coming over.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 02:53 PM
1

Not having sex? Not a plate. You're orbiting at best, an annoyance to her at the worst.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 02:52 PM
5

Well if she has the herps and doesn't have any obvious sores there is less a chance you can pick something up. Still a remote chance though. Wearing a condom lessens this risk even further. Not completely though. You can absolutely get STDs from a bj too. I got my first and only STD, chlamydia, a while back from a BJ.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 02:50 PM
23

I would be willing to bet that the top contributors here would be awesome to hang with in real life. Personally, I like to be somewhat kind on here (not overly so). I'm fun to hang with IRL too. Sometimes someone needs to hear that they're a lame ass pussy ass bitch faggot. Everyone else will coddle them in fear of hurting their feelings. We don't do that shit here, we're here to push people toward success, not protect them from the harsh truths of the world.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 03:07 PM
1

yeah I was thinking that this seems like an Indian post lol
/r/askTRP08/01/20 09:10 PM
2

Harsh.... But true.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 08:40 PM
3

You got too emotionally invested and it showed. It's okay to feel something for a plate. We all do, Just don't see it for more than it really is. Girls can see this from a mile away too and if you show emotional investment before they do, it can turn a hot plate cold within seconds. Most of us made that mistake at least once. Best thing you can do is realize that there are a million others just like her or better then move on.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 08:24 PM
2

Do it. Younger women are amazing.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 07:30 PM
15

That's the feeling she's counting on to mooch off of you for help. If she was interested she would have rescheduled after the flake.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 12:57 AM
1

My understanding is that women are attracted to a couple of things on a primal level: Status... and Power. If you're good looking, spend your time in the gym to get a lean (swimmer's body). An overall athletic look. It signals that you've got good genes and take good care of yourself. It's a precursor for social and financial status (studies back this up). If you're ugly, get as huge as you can. Look like a gorilla that can rip a man's head off and shit down his throat. I've seen ugly as fuck ja…
/r/askTRP02/01/20 04:42 PM
1

The best way to deal with an evil chick is to let someone else deal with the evil chick.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 04:38 PM
0

You're not eating enough
/r/askTRP23/12/19 01:14 PM
7

Not 100%, but it's a useful concept to those new to TRP. If you behave AS IF AWALT, you will be better off.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 01:43 AM
1

This one is 100% on you. You're foolish for responding.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 01:40 AM
1

Going to take you a long ass time unless you don't mind getting fat first. I'm 6'5 and 190 currently. Was 175. I eat like a motherfucker, work hard 5 days a week in the gym and I am still pretty lean. I used to be skinnyfat a couple of years ago though, so I look a hell of a lot better than that
/r/askTRP19/12/19 03:33 PM
3

You are overanalyzing this. Either she wants to fuck or not. If so, she would have texted you. She's in it for the attention.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 01:53 PM
25

Exactly. Politicians take power by telling the people what they want to hear. This is what his tribe wants to hear, hence he pushes it. It's the same thing as that one male feminist that every medium to large workplace seems to have. He's spouting bullshit to gain power or favor by virtue signaling.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/19 01:27 PM
2

Thanks brother, I can't say much other than that your writing is amazing and has helped me a lot over the last couple of years. Keep it up, you're helping lots of men live their best life.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 01:36 AM
1

How do I put the magic back into the Land of Oz after I have seen the man behind the curtain? That's a really clever way of putting it. And the question that every man must answer at some point in his journey.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 01:35 AM
2

Thanks man. I can see your point about the quality of women being a factor. My age range is late 20's-early 30's. That means sifting through a lot of garbage to get to the diamonds. Not sure I would want to go much older, as they don't do much for me when they get to be my age. The quality of women I'm dating really has gone up, but the pool of available women is constant (and not that great).
/r/askTRP13/12/19 06:08 PM
5

Guess what? There are literally millions of other chicks with the same body or better. With a less toxic personality. Pull your head out of this bitch's ass and wake up.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 02:27 PM
2

It's a solid book. There's not much actionable advice in it, but it gets you to view the world from a different vantagepoint and makes sense of a lot of things that seem off about our world today. The next step on my journey was the mind illuminated. Great book about meditation with lots of exercises and a roadmap that driven success oriented people like to see.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 02:26 PM
2

Put it in the tip cup.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 09:46 PM
1

It's worth it if the people still love each other and something unforgivable hasn't happened. Otherwise as a last ditch effort it's a waste of money.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 06:59 PM
2

Solid advice here. I did similar things when I went through a breakup over a year ago, and it works great.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 06:55 PM
2

I get them to buy me a bunch of stuff, string them along, use them for validation, and keep them thinking that I may be just within reach of them..... ​ Wait, no... That's what women do to beta men.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 06:54 PM
1

It helps if you watch the other men fucking your plate. Also, if the other man has a big black cock, you should guide it right into your plate's pussy. After maybe 10-15 years of this, you're ready to marry her.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 07:33 PM
2

If you have many assets sign a pre-nup and get married. Otherwise just don't have kids.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 02:49 PM
11

The book of pook. Bang and day bang by roosh.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 06:08 PM
2

Seems like something a pretentious person would say to me. Usually I'll just smile and shrug it off. If you're in a group its best to address the attackers concerns and twist things around so it seems like they're being childish or petty. If it's one on one I will just shake my head dismissively and move on to another subject. I think everyone in this sub would benefit from some sales training
/r/askTRP08/12/19 06:01 PM
0

They're more masculine because they're not part of mainstream american culture. They put family values above the liberal bullshit that the white men and women of america are spouting off today. Black men are also more masculine for the same reason. The powers that be have specifically chosen the white, straight male as a target to be neutralized (and neutered, haha) in order to push their agenda of control. It's working.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 05:07 PM
7

They're men who allow themselves to be controlled is why. Modern Christianity is about submission. To God. Authority. To men of the cloth. An alpha sees through this and forms his own spiritual beliefs without needing the church to tell him what he can and can't believe.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 04:28 PM
7

You've hit the nail right on the head. Lots of way younger women, lots of crazies.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 04:10 PM
0

Yes. One of my hard rules is that if a plate gives me a sti, she's gone. I got Chlamydia from a bj a while back, she didn't know she had it, it was only a BJ, but that was the end of that. ​ Edit: To expand on this, sure, it might be an honest fuck up on her part but chances are she took it raw from someone and one of my rules for plates is that they always play protected. I wasn't sure about this chick and got a bj thinking I couldn't catch anything. Always go with your gut about someone.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 06:21 PM
1

Get tested and don't worry about it. Go to your doc or health dept and either will give you meds to cure it. Make sure they test for everything else also.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 06:19 PM
1

Yup, I was going to say that he wants a devil's three way.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 06:17 PM
4

Fingerblasting. The staple of a 16 year old's sex life.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 07:17 PM
1

It's not the worst thing in the world, but you do feel like shit. Been there. Try to get your calories from healthy fat or if you go the carb route beans and rice in a rice cooker.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 06:34 PM
7

The issue is that you're never going to get the truth. Everyone lies about it, even the most honest women you'll find. When you vet properly you're going to know how much of a whore she is by the stories she tells you. Also be aware of the stories she tells about her friends. Sometimes they're about her, but she doesn't want you to think she's a slut.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 12:40 PM
16

In addition to all of the great advice here, you should ask the guys in the mrp subreddit. They deal specifically with LTR issues.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 03:55 PM
7

You need to do something physical. Lift, fuck other women are both better options. You won't feel like fucking other women for a few days so just lift like you're trying to destroy yourself pretty much.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 11:54 AM
1

I don't feel she's that attracted to me anymore. Maybe time to end it then. If a girl is not really into me, I find one who is.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 09:42 PM
3

It's okay to soft next a LTR, just not in the way that OP did it. To do it right, you have to brush it off as non-important, then just don't hit her up for a while, leave her texts on read, etc. Walking out is a mistake, because it shows butthurtedness. Next time, just finish off the night like you don't care, then give her the cold shoulder for a bit. Apply dread if you can. This is a lot harder if you live together.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 09:41 PM
10

I wouldn't ask her this. We all know the answer... It's for attention. Personally I wouldn't care, I would just start fucking other chicks and slowly push her out of my life at that point.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 02:45 PM
3

He doesn't owe her a damn thing.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 10:59 PM
3

Good job. That takes some balls man... Closing the door completely.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 10:58 PM
2

Admit it. You like the attention. Otherwise you would have just blocked her. ​ Edit: I see later on in the discussion that you actually blocked her.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 10:57 PM
1

I'd rather go out alone than with a bad wing. You're only as good as the weakest person in your group.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 10:54 PM
1

Karma is stupid shit that girls believe in. Also, as you know, women like being told "no". Pay attention to what she does, not what she says. And don't put anymore thought into it really.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 12:26 AM
1

I eat 1-1.5g of protein per pound of weight. No gas issues for me. Maybe your gut bacteria is off? I used to get gas when I ate a lot of junk food.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 12:21 AM
4

In truth, being married is TRP on Hard Mode. This is SO true. I don't regret being married. My kids are amazing, and turned out great. But the divorce sucked ass. You had better believe that even an otherwise "decent" woman will try to drain every asset you have in a divorce.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 12:19 AM
1

Best believe I'm going to fuck this slut senseless this weekend. I have booked a hotel room tomorrow because I really don't want her to know where I live and I'm planning on keeping all communication through Facebook, so I don't have to give her my number either. Am I paranoid or smart? Even better would have been taking the conversation off facebook and using a lesser known messaging app. Less a chance of an angry cuck husband coming to kill you that way.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 12:17 AM
1

Sleep with enough women and you're bound to run into some you can't satisfy. You can get over it, you're just not letting yourself. I suggest monk mode, meditation, and read the power of now. You're way too easily hurt, too thin-skinned and your ego is fragile. What's going to happen when you find "the one" and she dumps you? You'll be suicidal, and we can't have that.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 04:38 PM
3

Do you live in such a small community that she's the only available woman? No? Then why do you even give a fuck? Go game other women.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:08 PM
8

It's never HER fault. It doesn't matter if she hit you with the car. From her prison cell, she'll tell her cellmates that you abused her. And then it would be your fault. It's never the woman's fault. Go through 5 or so breakups and you'll see what I mean.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 03:51 PM
3

Jesus christ man. Learn to write properly. Nobody's going to read that whole thing not broken up into proper paragraphs.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 03:49 PM
1

These one size fits all diets are horse shit. Try all of them. vegan, paleo, keto, carnivore. Then choose whichever one works best for you.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:45 PM
11

Broken plates come back a lot of the time if you're doing it right. Spin and spin again. The whole "don't go through the trash" only applies to LTR or someone you hard nexted.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:45 PM
1

Girls would rather have a man hit on them. They give IOIs instead of actually approaching. Your job is to not be a sperg and recognize the IOI, then be a man and flirt with her. Gay guys just hit on anything with a moist butthole.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:40 PM
1

It could have been. You failed if it was. You should have just said... "hey, I never said anything about fucking... You have a dirty mind!" Then kept making out.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:39 PM
3

By my perception, more men are discovering TRP after they're in a relationship rather than before. It would be better to lay down a RP foundation before you enter a LTR rather than to ask us to help fix your fuckups. Every other post in this sub is about LTR and that's not really the end goal of TRP.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 03:18 PM
2

The power of now. There is some woo in that book but not a whole lot, and it is ALL about the ego.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 02:58 PM
1

5x5 to lay down a foundation of strength, then go with a hybrid program when your strength gains start to slow down a lot. For me, this was 6 months of SL 5x5, then I switched to PHUL, which is an easier intermediate program. Currently doing PHAT, which is a sort of hybrid program based on PPL.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 02:57 PM
12

I've been lifting for about 3 years now. Super thin bone structure, have been skinny all my life and I can tell you 100% that you can tell a difference fully clothed. My facial structure has even changed a bit (gotten more muscular maybe). I'll never be a huge beast, but I get compliments a lot. And you're right, it wasn't easy. It took a long time before I was able to make meaningful progress with my genetics.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 02:52 PM
4

TRP is not alt-right but retards often get confused and lump us in with the alt-righters. Sure, some of the guys here lean to the extreme right but not all of us. And biology has absolutely zip to do with politics. It is what it is.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 02:45 PM
1

I'd send her a pic of Ron Jeremy to troll her.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 03:13 PM
7

I'm an older guy and in my younger days I valued commitment. The only good thing that came out of it was my amazing kids, so no regrets over that one. But I truly do regret committing to a string of women rather than spinning plates. I've still got a lot of life left in me and I feel like I'm making up for what was lost then, now. At my age it'll be too late for the men who no longer have their health and that's sad. Trust me, abundance mentality is WAY better than commitment unless you're tryin…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 12:06 AM
5

Kill your oneitis with time in the gym if you can. It really works.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 07:45 PM
1

Seasonal affective disorder. You need vitamin d (aim for at least 1000IU) and UV lamps.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 07:42 PM
3

This ^^
/r/askTRP19/11/19 07:33 PM
1

Live goes in cycles. If you're wise you will use your dry spells to concentrate on other areas of your life.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 02:35 PM
3

Agreed. This nofap business is just too much. Unless the person faps like 2-3 times a day. I do like once a week on top of regular meets with women. Nothing wrong with it at all.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 09:33 PM
5

Not a big deal that she's going on a trip. If she's hot she's going to meet guys. She may or may not sleep with any... But why should you care? You're either okay with the trip or not. If not then you know what you need to do. If you are then pay attention to how she acts when she gets back. And for sure, do your own thing. Many people would think it's a shitty move but I say you should use her being gone as an opportunity to meet more women. Maybe don't fuck them, but definitely have some lined…
/r/askTRP13/11/19 09:30 PM
1

Bullshit. You're asking us what to do. You already know what to do, you're just not ready to do what needs to be done yet. .... Or you could get married and make it even more difficult to escape your situation. yeah, do that instead then come to mrp and complain to those guys.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 07:25 PM
2

Courage is doing what needs to be done in spite of fear. It's okay to be afraid. All men have fear. Courage is pushing through and doing it anyway.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 07:23 PM
-1

You could have. You just aren't a strong enough person to. I would work on becoming a stronger, more courageous person if I were you.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 01:28 PM
2

Usually in 3 or so months when their relationship falls through.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 05:41 PM
2

Just laugh it off. It happens to me from time to time also. Literally the exact same thing happened to me at a work Christmas party last year. I just went with it and didn't give her any more attention than I would have had she not done it. Neither of us mentioned it and it's like it never happened. Not a big deal.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 05:39 PM
-7

Organ, not organs.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 05:28 PM
11

He doesn't GAF, and it shows. You can adopt a IDAGF attitude but unless you really don't, it's going to be written all over your face.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 05:18 PM
8

I'm in sales and I can 100% confirm. There are people like this who believe that their case is special. But there are no special cases. All of the stories have already been told, and telling them is just as much a waste of time as listening to them. The sooner that OP realizes the better.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 05:13 PM
17

Keep her on the back burner while you seek out girls who are more interested in you.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 03:59 PM
1

I'm kinda scared to go in for the kiss or touch her because she has a boyfriend it's more likely she'll reject me. Rejection is awesome. Stop thinking that it's a bad thing and your life will change completely, I promise you that.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 02:10 PM
1

Bottom line: She likes the attention. She thinks of you as a possible orbiter. Happens all the time bro. You did the right thing nipping that in the bud.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 02:08 PM
17

Regular women, yes. New plates or one time partners. No.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 04:13 PM
3

Enjoy it.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 06:22 PM
5

It probably is. If you made out with her a night ago it's not from her though. It takes a while for the herp to produce symptoms after being exposed.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 06:19 PM
3

It's a comfort test for sure. LTR is redpill in hard mode. If you don't know this basic stuff you're definitely not ready to handle a LTR, so I wish you luck!
/r/askTRP04/11/19 01:23 PM
3

She will SAY she wants her boundaries respected, but she really wants it raw in OP's back seat in a way in which she can say that it "just happened"
/r/askTRP04/11/19 12:59 PM
3

That's good. Play up to that image, it'll get you a ton of pussy.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 12:58 PM
3

Why are you fishing for prize winning catches in the sewer? All you're gonna pull out is turds.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 12:08 PM
3

What could I have done different, if anything? Maybe turn the conversation more sexual before that? It's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission. Nothing dries a pussy up faster than asking permission to escalate. Just do it, and if she doesn't like it she will say no. Then you back off, but only after a no. You're REALLY new at this. You'll get better at picking up cues and reading a woman when you get more experience. For now, you have to assume attraction and always escalate until she t…
/r/askTRP03/11/19 02:35 PM
2

Remember that scene where neo woke up outside of the matrix? He was pretty upset too! Reality bothers people when they've been fed a lie all their lives.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 02:28 PM
2

You got pumped and dumped, son. It happens. You'll have your heart broken many more times too, and you know what? It makes you a stronger person! Every one will get easier too, until you truly get dumped by "the one". That one will crush your soul, but you're going to come out much stronger in the end. Your lifestyle changes are awesome. Keep up on that, keep growing and improving. Now go find some other women to get your mind off this one.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 03:11 PM
6

This is why working in sales is awesome. You get so used to hearing no, that it doesn't phase you much. Anyone who sucks at approaching and escalating would improve if they learned to sell things.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 03:00 PM
8

This is SO true. I thought I knew my shit shortly after starting RP. After having my ass handed to me by younger women, I learned that I don't know shit. I've spun plates long enough and have had enough wins to give advice here but the wins are not what give a man experience, it's the losses. And how a man handles them.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 02:46 PM
1

LTR. Seeing someone else. Hard next, not plate.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 01:33 PM
7

Hard next dude.... HARD next. You set boundaries. She crossed them. Twice. FUCK THAT
/r/askTRP01/11/19 01:03 PM
2

Put your fist in her, stick your dick in it. It's like whacking off inside of a vagina.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 12:41 PM
1

Too soon. Keep vetting, if she's decent she will wait until you're ready. I have a feeling that she's going to be seriously annoying though.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 12:40 PM
2

This sort of mental masturbation isn't great for you. It's better to focus on positive things. That being said, what I think I would do is sneak up on them, whip it out and pee all over both.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 11:54 AM
2

I do use protein powder. But only 30g per day, and the zero carb kind. It tastes pretty horrible, but less so in a glass of milk. As far as supplements go, I also take creatine, multivitamin, zinc, vit D, and fish oil. I don't think the vitamins make a difference at all, I just like to try to get the nutrition I need. My staple is frozen chicken breasts, pork loin, steak (sometimes hamburger just to save some money), and then fill things out with a can of tuna or pre-cooked chicken here and ther…
/r/askTRP29/10/19 06:27 PM
1

Fuck her harder? Leave her satisfied so shes less inclined to seek other male attention? maybe not an end all cure but it would help. maybe shouldn't reward shit behaviour with a good hatefuck and she might catch on to your riled up vibe. No. Her fucked up behavior is on her, not on the man in this situation. It's not a lack of satisfaction, it is simply who she is and what she does. The other guys on here have it right when they say soft next. And during that time, a man should reflect on wheth…
/r/askTRP29/10/19 06:15 PM
4

That's absolutely SAVAGE. But she had way more than that coming, so I admire your resolve in keeping your frame.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 04:01 PM
1

Next. For sure a next... I think Uncle V was very clear with his intentions. It doesn't seem to me like you're ready to handle a demotion.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 03:57 PM
1

her mother does not let her go to boys houses It's okay, because I'm not a boy. I'm a man.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 03:53 PM
5

You only care about her actions, not what she says. Nearly all women are duplicitous when it comes to communication because she actually FEELS the things she is telling you are true, when in the REAL world, they're not. That is why we say here, judge her actions not her words. Because generally speaking her actions will tell you the truth.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 03:29 PM
2

Thanks man. All I do is prep my meals every Sunday to hit my macros. I do eat a little bit of junk but try hard to keep my carbs around 20g or so, get 180-200g protein and fill in the rest with healthy fats like nuts, avocados and olive oil. I do IF, eating 2 meals in a 6 hour window and fasting for the other 18. I could probably lose a couple % of bf and make my abs really pop but I like pizza and beer too much on the weekends.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 02:52 PM
4

5x5 is a good start if you're an absolute beginner. I started with 5x5, moved to PHUL, now doing PHAT. I'm still not "big". I'm 45 and fighting old age and genetics but have made a lot of progress. I went from skinny fat to something that women call "amazing". Before: https://imgur.com/a/130eHi9 ​ After: https://imgur.com/a/rcG0AwP ​ If I'm old and can do that, there is no excuse for any younger men in here not getting into shape.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 02:03 PM
7

I'm not, but I grew up around them. One HUGE rule is don't date other addicts in recovery. It's going to fuck up your own recovery. Other than that, if you're looking for long term plates/fwb/ltr you need to be real with them. If your SMV is high it won't be as much of an issue.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 07:41 PM
37

You should say what people want to do is their business. It doesn't affect me a bit. Basically you deflect the question. Now you turned it into a whole thing about attractiveness and social scale. She may not have been consciously aware of your friend being higher up on the value scale than you are but she is now. What you need to do now is STFU and observe her behavior.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 07:23 PM
1

I don't usually.. But if I suspect as much I'll say "Your man is not spanking you enough".
/r/askTRP27/10/19 11:46 PM
2

Dump the girl. I'm serious. There are other out there without extremely negative and dangerous attachments. This is not your problem, so why are you making it yours?
/r/askTRP25/10/19 08:37 PM
1

Do weighted dips actually increase chest size? I know from personal experience that they will help your strength for bench press since it targets all the muscle groups you need to get better at pressing.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 03:08 PM
63

My philosophy is that it doesn't matter. Just move on.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 03:04 PM
3

Anxiety and fear are created by your mind creating imaginary scenarios about the future. The solution is to live in the present. Will she fuck you over in the future? Maybe. But live for today, not for something that hasn't happened yet and may never happen. Try taking up meditation. It works.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 01:05 PM
2

Work on your abundance mentality. This "plate" is your only one, I take it? If so, she's not really a plate because you're supposed to have more than one.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 11:06 AM
1

Do what you want but AWALT. A couple of months is not enough time to really know someone well.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 11:02 AM
5

Erection drugs. I don't use them during normal sex, but only during threesomes or situations in which I need to be a superhero.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 11:01 AM
37

Sorry this happened to you, brother. Most of us have experienced a cheating LTR. It stings like hell but it truly wakes you the fuck up. Get past it by ghosting and blocking. DO NOT read her pleas and cries for help. If you need to get some of your items, try to do it through a friend. DO NOT TALK TO HER. You've learned a valuable lesson that no matter how she feels about you, no matter how on top of your game you are, someone elses game will be better and she could cheat. In the future, I would…
/r/askTRP21/10/19 04:54 PM
7

They want both, like all women do.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 02:43 PM
6

Ignore. I keep pics with my exes up on FB too. Lots of people do, and you're just being insecure if you mention it, think about it, or put a like on the pic. Yeah, your girl fucked other guys before she met you. Get over it.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 02:40 PM
4

Also crazy girls are always a good lay True, but it always comes with a price. There are less crazy girls who would fuck you anyway.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 02:04 PM
3

Yep, it freaks women out when the guy wants commitment first. Or brings up a relationship too early. She wants to be the one to emotionally invest first. It's the natural way of things.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 11:05 AM
93

Always assume attraction.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 11:04 AM
1

I'm surprised that nobody mentioned how weak your actions are? Forcing her into showing you the messages? Way weaker than just walking away and ghosting. Throwing the phone against the wall was the icing on the cake. If this happened in the presence of your friends you would have instantly lost their respect. The right move would have been to walk away right there, ghost and block. You knew exactly what you were going to find when she wouldn't show you. The drama that happened afterward was not …
/r/askTRP21/10/19 01:01 AM
6

It's a great diet....... If you want to kill yourself and have very low T. Just do keto or carnivore. Sugar spikes insulin. Insulin causes you to be fat. Fruit is all sugar. I'm sure you can figure out the rest.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 12:52 AM
5

If not then what the fuck difference does it make if they're black? Other than the obvious white cuck black bull cultural thing?
/r/askTRP20/10/19 01:56 PM
8

fucked her within the first few months (6 month grace period) You're joking about this one, and the "isn't religious" one, right? Other than those two, pretty good list.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 01:54 PM
1

Well at least he knows if he knocks her up, he's not on the hook... Maybe...
/r/askTRP18/10/19 02:36 PM
2

Who cares if you're soft-nexting. Just ignore it, pretend that it never happened. Has it occurred to you that she might be doing this to get you to break your soft next?
/r/askTRP18/10/19 02:18 PM
1

Bad advice. If you're muscular wear clothes that show off who you are. Nothing wrong in taking a little pride in your results of countless hours in the gym. I personally like athletic fit clothing, but don't go too crazy popping out of my shirts and shit. Baggy clothes that hide gainz look like shit on a muscular guy.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 02:13 PM
2

Do you guys think I can regain attraction? Nope, you done fucked up when you over invested. Your frame broke... Women want to invest in a man emotionally before he returns that investment. It freaks them out if they don't do it first. I had a similar experience in the past that almost exactly mirrors yours. I'm not a creep so I left her alone right away and pursued other women. I still think of that one date as the one that sets the bar for the dates I go out on now these days. And I don't get e…
/r/askTRP16/10/19 08:07 PM
2

> "Don't hang up on me ever again." STFU and ignore. And hang up on her again if she acts up.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 07:40 PM
1

Keep it up man.... At some point it all just clicks and you get mega-confident. That confidence shows and your success rate is going to go way up. As others have said read some books about game and learn what you're doing wrong, and amplify what you're doing right. You are already better than 95% of men. 95% won't even try because they're too afraid of being rejected.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 06:59 PM
2

No joke. Men do not do drama. Fuck yeah, it's going to hurt OP to walk away. But it's going to hurt even worse to look back on needing to "bust her" when in 1 year she will be literally nothing to him.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 06:44 PM
10

yeah, my first thought is the the author must be a sperg.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/19 11:46 AM
8

Totally agreed on that, but it's not a typical situation and not really useful for the sub.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/19 11:46 AM
89

From the article: Correcting people is also a strong sign of intellectual dominance. Since I live outside of English speaking countries, I also mostly meet non-mother tongue English speakers. Albeit my English is far from perfect, 99% of the times I’m the one with the best language skills. I always take advantage of that by asking the girls I interact with if they want me to fix their English. That positions me as the intellectually dominant party of the relationship -and their answer gives me g…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/19 11:05 AM
1

She didn't like the way you made out with her. It happens.... a girl can be physically attracted to you but then when it comes down to brass tacks if she doesn't have the tingles it's not happening.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 12:31 AM
3

You better get your ass tested for STDs. Like yesterday.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 12:27 AM
1

How did you think this was going to go?
/r/askTRP15/10/19 02:49 PM
1

You create your own moral code. All we can do is help you get laid.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 02:07 PM
1

Yeah. They're fuckin cheap too. So if you don't like them no big deal, donate it and try another brand.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 06:48 PM
7

They wouldn't be wrong.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 01:51 PM
3

I wear their henleys. They look good.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 01:32 PM
3

Low bodyfat, good muscle tone, enough muscle mass to pop out a bit and clothes that show it off. In other words, lift, eat right, then wear clothes that shows off that you do.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 01:31 PM
3

You need either confidence, which signals to women that you have a strong frame and are desirable... Or game, which is faking it, but still fooling girls into thinking you have a strong frame. Without either, you suck with women. In the past, you were probably confident with your personality and therefore had enough of a frame to attract some women. Now you just seem awkward if this post is a judge of your character. You're going to first have to be comfortable with who you are and use that as a…
/r/askTRP12/10/19 09:32 PM
3

I don't like totally ignoring people Sometimes you have to. It comes with the territory of being a man. You get to choose who is worthy of your time and attention. ​ Question:. Why does she keep reaching out? Is there any way to turn it around? I've made my intentions clear and don't reciprocate her bullshit conversation. The greatest thing a man can give a woman is his time and attention. Women love this, and that's why they have orbiters. You just need to stop replying. ​ Aside from telling he…
/r/askTRP12/10/19 09:17 PM
1

If you truly feel like you were made to look like a fool, then why are you wasting time with her? I'm not into LTR currently but there are for sure ones that will respect you. My advice is this: Do not say shit to anyone about this. Nothing good is going to come up from your mentioning it to her. It's going to make you look weak. Hard next if you want, just say that it's not working out for you, that you don't feel the same about her (which appears to be the case from what you wrote). Or just st…
/r/askTRP11/10/19 06:27 PM
1

You need to next her and learn about frame. I highly recommend reading, studying, and implementing Red Pill techniques on how to build a strong frame. Once your frame is solid, you're not going to have issues with bitches like this one.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 03:34 PM
2

Everyone tells white lies. Blatant disrespectful lies like this are an instant hard next for me though. She will end up doing something REALLY bad, then figure if you don't know it won't hurt you.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 03:32 PM
63

Not really. Any one of my girls could get a guy to come bang her in 10 minutes flat. The difference is her friends.... If her friends are hos, they're going to influence her to be a ho. Peer pressure. This is why girls weekends are a red flag, not because of opportunity but because of peer pressure to be a slut. For OP: What are your girl's friends like? That would be my deciding factor in whether to keep or dump.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 03:15 PM
1

STFU unless she asks about it. If she does then tell her it's a war wound from when you were a spy for antarctica.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 07:25 PM
1

she begged me not to leave and she has sent me messages explaining she will do what ever it takes to have me back. Not really related to your question, but you need to block her! It's easier to move on, and not go dumpster diving for rotten clams.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 02:06 PM
5

Basically, there's no reason for me to not consider her LTR material. The biggest reason is your gut feeling about her, and she fails to pass the LTR test when it comes to that.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 06:42 PM
2

Relax my man, it's just reddit.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 06:39 PM
8

I'd say hit it and quit it but since you're asking such a basic question my advice would be to stay away. She's going to suck you in and you're going to suffer for it.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 11:15 AM
16

Next thing you know, they'll be playfully wrestling and his cock will just happen to fall in her pussy.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 11:13 AM
1

It worked great for me. I'm above average in looks and have a good career. I did okay before TRP but there was a plateau in the quality and quantity to the women I was dating at the time. 3 years After TRP: I've got a better body than ever. IDAGF. And women love it. I've gotten WAY better at screening out time wasters and shitty women. I've gone from a couple of dates a month to now it's not uncommon for me to have 2 in a week. ​ Would a regular PUA product worked just as fine? Discuss. No. They…
/r/askTRP07/10/19 06:23 PM
8

If it's a one and done, I'm more apt to show some emotions. It helps build comfort and we all know that comfort helps thwart off false accusations. Just don't go full retard. It's not rocket science.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/19 01:29 PM
13

I'm 45 and have dated 20 year olds but it has always been purely about sex. I don't see that here... Like you said, this dude is out of shape and doesn't seem to have much going for him. Maybe she's got some deep seated daddy issues? Doesn't matter to you now though, what's done is done and you're going to be better off moving on.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 11:06 AM
2

It's great for raising a family. I was married for 15 years and made it work. 5 of those years were great, and the other 10 were there so my daughters turn out to be decent people. If you want kids I definitely recommend marriage and starting a traditional family. If you want love and dedication, you can find that elsewhere.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 08:25 PM
3

This! And an absolutely rock solid frame. They see right through fake alphas.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 05:55 PM
3

Marriage is a lot of work. Even if you put the work in it's not guaranteed to work. If you're not up to it or having any doubts, you should heavily reconsider.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 05:53 PM
6

If it was a total beta doing the hiring, he may have been put off by your confidence. "Never outshine the master" as others have said, but also you don't want to work with a beta. He'll go behind your back and make your life a pain.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 05:50 PM
6

Sometimes a one night stand is just a one night stand. If you want to try to plate her, go for it. Your response is good.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 03:44 PM
9

Just say "alright, then meet me at x at x:00. Bring your game face." or some stupid shit. I bet she will say no, but sometimes you get a yes. It's worth a try, just to polarize in order to stop wasting time. Like others have said, I don't even want to go out with someone who's not a "hell yes". Not worth my time.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 03:42 PM
3

Do you have green hair? If so, can it be tucked into a MAGA hat? You're going to meet a lot of far right guys at a Trump rally. That's my suggestion. ​ For dress, just keep in simple. Jeans and a shirt that accentuates your curves, not so tight that shit's poppin' out.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 11:49 PM
2

There are rare times that I post very abrasive replies. To not so gently guide people who ask vague or stupid questions into asking better ones. I try to be helpful most of the time.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 07:16 PM
6

Totally agree with this. Thinking back, the women I thought of the most were after things didn't work out for one reason or another. It was pure ego.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 12:43 PM
155

Tell her you're gay, because you are.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 12:36 PM
3

I'd agree with that. I think the type of "game" here that OP was referring to is a smokescreen. Sure, you can fool women for a night. But in the morning, you are who you are and if you're fat, low self opinion, no abundance.... You have to look at that in the mirror every morning. Red pill helps you push past all of that rather than learning techniques to appear a certain way, you ARE that certain way.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 12:05 PM
2

You think all fucking and talking about fucking and planning to fuck happens in a bedroom?
/r/askTRP01/10/19 03:28 PM
5

This is why we do not pay attention to a woman's words, only her actions.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 02:48 PM
3

Congrats, you have made it into the top tier of men judging by what you say of women's actions lately. This is a quality problem to have. So what you're going to want to do is choose the ones you want while keeping the others at a distance. Don't outright reject them. If you tell her you want to be friends, it's on her to cut the shit, not you.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 02:34 PM
2

i found out she has like 10 other dudes just like me, she's been flirting with all of them. All orbiters just like you. My advice is to just go game other women. Don't get upset, don't buy into sunk cost fallacy of "well I've been texting her this long so there must be something there". There isn't anything there other than she likes the attention.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 02:31 PM
0

> Literally not 30 minutes later she added her ex and started trying to get back together with him. It looks like you are the butthurt one. She got what she wanted, and you still care enough to keep checking her social media
/r/askTRP01/10/19 02:06 PM
5

I wish there was a way to communicate this with new guys without making them believe that their oneitis is a special case. Newbs are always confused about AWALT and other generalizations. If they read the sidebar they would understand that the generalizations are for their own good until they know this shit.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 12:54 PM
2

I'm sorry this all happened to you. While my ex never cheated on me, what helped me to get through the breakup is gym, mediate and hanging out with my bros. You're gonna be in the anger phase for a while and you may as well channel the anger somewhere productive.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 05:15 PM
3

Game other women if you haven't started already. Don't go right out and date them, just have a couple in your back pocket for when the shit hits the fan. It really helps take the sting out of a break up.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 06:51 PM
1

am I over-reacting? You're over-INVESTED in this chick. You have oneitis. You're an orbiter since you've not gotten the pussy after several dates. I'm inclined to just end things. Any tips on what to say to not come off as jealous? At this point it doesn't matter. Just end it. TBH you're better off freaking out on her to burn the bridge of ever orbiting her again as long as she's not in your social circle. ​ If I do treat this like an innocent cultural exchange am I being naïve? If by "innocent …
/r/askTRP29/09/19 02:13 PM
1

Is this your first date ever? If so, when a girl touches you like that, you touch her back. Find a way to isolate her into a more private area and make out. When she asks what you're doing later, she means that she wants to come over and have fun. ​ If this isn't your first date you should know better. You were blocked because you failed to escalate and now she thinks you're autistic or not interested in her.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 02:03 PM
6

On to the next and don't give it another thought. As others have mentioned, work on improving your SMV.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 01:11 PM
3

If she's in your social circle and you have to deal with her just tell her you've been busy with stuff. If not, block and forget.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 09:08 PM
2

Did you give her your real name? No? Wrap it up really good, smash, then ghost. Yes? Run like hell.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 05:55 PM
1

It's on the sidebar "There's this ONE girl..." all newbs need to read it.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 11:13 AM
3

Have you ever been fired from a job? It may open up opportunities for a better job, but it still hurts the ego because you took pride in what you had.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 02:04 PM
1

Hey, if she floats your boat then no harm no foul. But don't get into a toxic situation, there are plenty of other chicks who will check off the same boxes.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 05:13 PM
5

Any reason you're going after 47 year old women? Hell, I am in my mid-forties and I can't stand looking at any woman older than 40!
/r/askTRP24/09/19 03:41 PM
6

"Full time mom" = No money, and I want you to raise my kid. Keep swiping.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 03:37 PM
1

IMO 3 weeks is not nearly long enough to consider for LTR. A person's true colors might not come out for a couple months.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 03:36 PM
0

You're thinking about this too much. You found yourself a crazy bitch, daddy issues or not!
/r/askTRP24/09/19 11:05 AM
1

Good for you man. LDR never works.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 11:03 AM
2

I haven't had many flakes recently but my last date did. It was literally the best chemistry I've had on a first date, for her too. She was blowing up my phone after then got weird. 99% sure she decided to get back with her ex, who she mentioned during our date. I bet 99% of the time yours are flaking is they either met someone else or decided to pick a different option. Sometimes there's nothing you can do about it.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 11:29 PM
5

Think about it this way... You can dump them now, or stay with them. Consider how unhappy you'll be with THAT and how unfair it would be to her. Then dumping doesn't seem so bad does it?
/r/askTRP23/09/19 11:12 PM
3

Unique experiences cause a woman to be more attached. So yes and no... It's not necessarily the having sex in weird places, its that she's going to remember that and crave having you give her new, unique experiences
/r/askTRP23/09/19 12:56 PM
1

Not worth it bro.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 12:48 PM
5

All of the above. I mostly stick to day game since most of my night time hangouts are not pick up spots. Most of my "night game" is actually social circle game. But I call it night game since it usually happens over drinks. Lately I've been having success with online dating, when a couple of years ago I hadn't seen much success. To be fair, my body has improved a lot since then.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 12:21 PM
31

Yeah, I'm seeing the same thing. Most questions are about LTR lately. Not that there's anything wrong with that per se, it's just not our primary focus.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 12:19 PM
2

You should listen to the men here who have been in your position in the past and see it for what it is. You can't always be everywhere for everyone. That's not what being a rock is. It's being a strong man who has his own shit together enough to not worry about this very thing you're worrying about. Be there to listen when you can, and when you can't just tell her you'll talk later.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 11:26 PM
8

I've kept a friendship going with former plates. One even sends women my way from time to time. Best thing about it is that the friendship is really low time investment and I get a lot out of it yet. They're not all like that, some still try to hook you. You just have to bail out of those so called friendships early.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 11:16 PM
55

I'm 45, divorced, 3 daughters who I share custody with (1 is college aged). TRP improved my life by motivating me to lift, tighten up my game, and to adopt a stronger mindset. I have always been good with people but in the last 2 or so years my life's been an amazing adventure. I've gone from kind of skinny-fat to having a body that women drool over. My last plates were 29, 28, and 29. Last date was with a 25 year old and have 3 dates lined up for this week. 35, 30, and 24. All 7's or better. Fi…
/r/askTRP22/09/19 11:00 PM
2

You know how when something comes up that reminds you of her? You smile or laugh instead of feeling your gut clenching up and your muscles tighten. And the things that remind you of her become fewer and farther between. Stop trying to reach out. At this point she probably thinks you're crazy and after so many years maybe you are! One thing I did that might help you also was write a cringey letter for catharsis. I DID NOT SEND it. It's for you, not for her.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 07:50 PM
1

8 years? That probably needs therapy bro. I've been through some tough break ups where I've been in love. My last LTR was amazing. Lasted 4 years, very submissive, checked all the boxes. Problem was I'm older and don't want kids, she does and that was that. It took me a good 6 months to get over it, but I did. There's no reason that you can't move on from yours either, other than you defeating yourself mentally and emotionally. You need a good male therapist.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 05:29 PM
19

This is cringe material. In order to be a successful communicator, you have to reach the other person with words that are familiar and comfortable to them. Anyone in sales will tell you this.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/19 01:30 PM
2

Good for you! Stick with what you enjoy. I did SL 5x5 and SS for a year before I moved on.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 11:10 PM
3

I'd put my money on that she met someone else. Not much you can do, shit happens. If so she might hit you up sometime in the future.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 09:19 PM
1

I tend to get this way when I meet someone who I connect deeply quickly with. It's oneitis and the sooner you see it the better off you're going to be. In the past I've let women get away with things I normally wouldn't have because of the way I felt. That feeling is good, but you need to separate yourself from it and realize that it's all chemicals and they could be blinding you to who she really is as a person
/r/askTRP21/09/19 09:10 PM
3

PHUL, then PHAT is probably what OP wants. I tried to start PHAT right away but that was a mistake. I wasn't ready for the insane amount of volume so I had to work up to it.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 09:07 PM
11

This is the most classy, mysterious answer. I use that all the time.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:21 PM
7

Get into the sub-15% range and you're going to notice a lot more IOI. I did.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 02:38 PM
1

And OP stayed with a chick that was in his own words "ugly" for 4 years. That is low self confidence and zero abundance which translates into low SMV.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 02:18 PM
1

I don't go for numbers unless I can tell for sure that she's into me. Strong IOI, good eye contact and chemistry. Even then, I get about a 10-20% rate of non-response. My guess is that your prospects are only mildly interested. In that case, you should figure out where the issues are in your game, as if they're not interested even a little you'll get a fake number.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 07:15 PM
1

I'm JUST starting to experience this start like last week. My plan is to deload next week, hoping it helps. I don't want my arms to get small!
/r/askTRP19/09/19 07:12 PM
4

I think the proper term for what OP has is oneitis. It's okay, we have all had it at some point. But I think he needs to see it for what it is.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 12:36 PM
5

man, I completely agree. Plates can't "branch swing" because they're a plate. They're for sex, and do not have a firm grasp on a branch anyway. This is RP 101 stuff! OP should know this.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 12:35 PM
1

I'm sorry for your loss, brother. Looking back, I have had some good relationships with women who have defied the AWALT label as well. They've all ended for various reasons (was just my turn). There are good women out there, and having a AWALT mindset is not only healthy, it helps weed out the undesirable ones more quickly.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 12:24 PM
1

Any attention from women raises your SMV. From uggs, not as much as from like an 8+. Get attention from the hottest girl in the room and you're going to see an instant SMV boost, and other women will compete for your attention.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 12:13 PM
1

If you think about it 95% of LTR are doomed to failure, so just enjoy while it lasts.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 12:06 PM
2

This one is my fave too. It doesn't last long on some skin types though.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 12:06 PM
3

I'm jealous of your legs. Looking great man...
/r/askTRP18/09/19 12:04 PM
2

My last plates were 28,29, and 28. The last date I had was with a 25 year old.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 10:58 AM
3

Right now I'm doing Layne Norton's PHAT workout. It's 5 days a week, 60 to 90 minutes a workout
/r/askTRP18/09/19 10:57 AM
16

That's a great idea. I have trouble stomaching the thought of sticking to 30+. I mean, some are not too bad, but even in my 40's my preference is for 25-30 year olds.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 10:37 PM
2

I think you and the other posters may be correct. I met this girl through the BDSM community, she's 20 years younger and says she's an experienced submissive. If that's true, then she knows the drill. But we all know that women lie from time to time. Perhaps if I was more open to the idea of something more than simply sex, she'd have not been too afraid of getting attached. I'll try that for my next hookup.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 03:04 PM
27

45 - Still killin it, but I have to spend a lot of time in the gym to do it.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 11:59 AM
23

My definition of a 10 is a supermodel. 9 is your average "hot chick" in a big city. I have never smashed a 9 or 10, but I've had a few 8.5's. I'd say that my SMV is very good for my age
/r/askTRP17/09/19 11:16 AM
3

Everything is all in your head. You can use this experience to become a stronger man if you wish (yes, that is all in your head too.)
/r/askTRP17/09/19 11:14 AM
30

Hey, at least you're getting dates, right? Just move on to the next. I personally had one last week that I couldn't figure out. Hot younger submissive girl. Date was amazing, ended up VERY physical. No second date because she's afraid of getting too attached to me and I spelled out my intentions beforehand that I will never want anything serious. Bottom line is you can't win them all, but there are millions of women out there, so keep moving on to the next.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 11:13 AM
3

Self Discipline. Placing a high value on toughness. Get angry enough to not let your problems keep you down and vow to get back up every time you get knocked down. The world kicks you in the nuts, you get angry and ask if that's all it's got.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 08:00 PM
1

Those are edge cases. Generally speaking he's right. CICO isn't everything, insulin plays a huge role.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 07:53 PM
0

Check in once a week if you want. There's no hard and fast rule about how you want to play it, other than to keep control of your own emotions and don't come across as needy.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 12:16 PM
1

I practice daygame all the time, wherever I go (unless it's work or the gym). Really, it's up to you. Whatever gets you in the best mindset really.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 11:16 AM
5

AWALT bro. Remember that. No LTR is a sure thing, you're taking a chance no matter what. "fuck them right after the beers" chicks can make decent plates. LTR material, maybe not so much.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 11:15 AM
1

I tease them right from the start. It filters out the boring, butthurt ones right away.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 11:12 AM
2

Soft next, 3 days. In that time, decide if you really want to keep her. She changed the rules of the game while playing. Totally not cool.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 08:49 PM
1

45
/r/askTRP15/09/19 08:43 PM
3

Not true. If you've dated more than a handful of women you would know this. Get out there and bang more women, my man.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 06:35 PM
3

Block her. If you had someone poking you with a knife, wouldn't you use your BJJ skills to stop that? She's using emotion to hurt you. Put a stop to it by blocking.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 02:01 PM
4

I've tried them all. As an older guy the only thing that's worked for me is cutting ALL sugar and hitting my macros while lifting. All the other stuff is snake oil BS. In a few years I'm planning on TRT.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 01:12 PM
2

yes, if you had stuck with her you'd have nothing but problems.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 07:58 PM
1

And I was watching a dating show, and the guy who was alpha and cocky and was constantly making jokes was getting rejected, whereas the normal guy who barely had game was doing just fine. TV isn't even close to reality.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 01:28 PM
2

What you're going to want to do is make self-discipline one of your most important values in life. When you commit to something, get a buddy to check in and keep you on track. One thing I read in a Tony Robbins book a long time ago, is you say "I'm going to do x every day for 3 months. If I miss a day due to anything other than an emergency I'll eat an entire can of dog food". You need the carrot AND the stick. Self discipline only comes when you follow through with your own shit every day. One …
/r/askTRP14/09/19 12:54 PM
1

Nobody is innocent, man or woman. We all have our own bullshit.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 12:50 PM
2

Exercises: Kegels. Heavy compound lifts. Supplements: Zinc, Magnesium, Vitamin D. (some people are deficient and if you are it'll lower your T). Also, only jerk off a couple times a week and don't use porn during.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 01:53 PM
1

Secrecy in of itself isn't a red flag but SUDDEN secrecy is a HUGE red flag. Has your wife changed in terms of how private she is with her phone?
/r/askTRP13/09/19 01:44 PM
1

I got Chlamydia from a BJ a few months back.... There is a real risk. I haven't really changed my modus operandi, but I never knew that they were not completely safe.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 01:41 PM
3

How old are you and the women you're gaming? I stick to 25-early 30's and that group of women seem to gobble up every last drop like they'll starve without it.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 01:39 PM
1

High school is awkward as fuck unless you're QB1 or some shit. I take it that you're not high on the social ladder there. If you are, then plating is an option. Expect people to talk behind your back though. When I was in HS, I was in sports but not football, and was not super high on the social ladder. I had no idea WTF I was doing back then but managed to pull dates through other activities outside of my school. There were teen dances and that sort of thing that I would slay at.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 01:27 PM
7

that I don't think attraction works that way. Don't talk about fight club.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 01:23 PM
1

According to my fitbit, my heart rate stays just as high during a 1.5 hour workout as it does jogging at a steady pace, so I've got my cardiovascular health covered. I used to use food tracking apps to track calories but now I don't do that at all. Only my macros. I do IF all the time and let the scale and my bf% tell me if I'm eating too much or too little. Counting calories wasn't getting me anywhere, as I would always eat too much or too little. Now I listen to my body and pay close attention…
/r/askTRP13/09/19 01:21 PM
2

Approach was not bad, The only thing missing is comfort. Like /u/MisterMarbles1988 mentioned, you needed more banter. Banter builds comfort... You went in for the kill too quickly when you asked her out. You should have gotten a number instead.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 12:55 PM
11

Eye contact. Looking a woman straight in the eyes with a slight smile and not looking away until she does first.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 12:20 PM
5

If you're looking to make money in software - The people that got the richest during the gold rush were the ones who were selling shovels. Find out where and how people are making money, then make the tools to make that easier for them. You will make bank.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 11:47 AM
2

I cut out all sugar, try to hit my protein and fat macros. I don't count carbs but I would take a wild guess that I eat less than 30g of carbs a day. My workout is all lifting, no cardio. I started with SL 5x5, went to PHAT, now doing PHUL. I move between PHAT and PHUL depending on whether bulking or cutting, and I've modified those programs a little to accommodate my needs. (For example, my knees can't handle leg extensions, so I do a front squat or hack squats to hit the quads instead). On my …
/r/askTRP13/09/19 10:58 AM
3

Control the things that you can, and accept the things that you can't.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 07:46 PM
2

Always assume attraction.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 07:34 PM
1

Not everything is a shit test.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 06:32 PM
2

One of the things that had happened to me when redpill really clicked was when a plate found me another plate. This shit really happens.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 06:29 PM
12

Didn't the movie Hostel start like this?
/r/askTRP12/09/19 02:55 PM
5

She doesn't know the meaning of the term. Love is not based on feelings, it's based on commitment and loyalty. I love my daughters. I love my family. I lust my plates.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 01:34 PM
25

Great list! I cannot stress how important eating right and exercising is. I look at least 10 years younger because I've always taken care of my body. Now that I've been lifting for a couple of years, I'm muscular and get checked out all the time. The guys who were in my circle of friends in school are all fat, out of shape and OLD looking. This is the difference between and "old" man and an "older" man.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 11:04 AM
1

My first girlfriend. She dumped me, I wrote her a note quoting "our song", attached it to her windshield wiper with a rose. Cringe.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 02:51 PM
4

Hey Serg, You have oneitis, man.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 12:57 PM
2

Smile, shake your head, and walk away.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 12:23 PM
1

I shave the balls, trim the pubes and pits
/r/askTRP11/09/19 11:09 AM
3

I was taught in my bilogy class that it has a function to create and keep your odor, which should help you in mating. Okay.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 11:08 AM
1

Here's your chance to reclaim your masculinity. Don't take her back! Ignore her, and continue to chronicle her threats. In my case I did have to end up filing a police report because she showed up at my place many times, followed me everywhere and came into my work and made a scene. Every time I saw her I had my camera out recording and that seemed to be a pretty good deterrent. Eventually she gave up but it took months and the cops didn't take me seriously at all. If it had been a woman being h…
/r/askTRP10/09/19 06:23 PM
1

What's the worst case if she leaks nudes and spreads lies about you? So some dumb bitch comes up with something and it's her word against yours. You already have evidence of her bullshit. So some people might see you naked? Who cares? Just keep gathering evidence and DON'T RESPOND NO MATTER WHAT. 100% guaranteed that in 2 days she will apologize and want to "take you back". What you're going to do is ignore that as well, then be prepared for another shitstorm. I had a BDP ex and it took a long t…
/r/askTRP10/09/19 02:18 PM
1

Why do you think so many old men hang out in bars to GTFO of their house before their wife drives them nuts?
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:56 PM
5

Stop being a pussy and stop making excuses. I was a software engineer for years (mechanic before that, but still). Forget about looking for women inside of your career circle. It's all sjw/progressive chicks who will give you trouble. You need to make some friends outside of that circle whether it be at the gym or elsewhere. It's not that hard and will only happen when you stop using your career path as an excuse not creating a social circle.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 11:12 AM
2

drinking water instead of diet soda. brain fog lifting was immediately noticeable.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 03:40 PM
2

That's societal conditioning. Society frowns upon men having multiple partners, and it's driven into your head with religion, media, social activities, etc. It's not natural... Try to focus on the fact that the one woman/one man story you're fed is complete shit. Hell, get angry over it. In order to be a man, you have to reject people. People who like you a lot, and even people who love you. It's your life, not theirs.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 03:27 PM
1

Lifting. Smiling a little more (getting rid of the resting bitch face).
/r/askTRP09/09/19 01:33 PM
4

you're having sex, just get out there and game other girls too. If this one isn't worth the trouble just push her ass out of rotation.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 11:02 AM
7

yeah that's a total smokescreen. I thought the same thing.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 11:06 PM
1

Day game. Higher quality of women in general, more challenging, and more fun in my opinion.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 10:49 PM
16

Get your t levels checked first. Also ED is an early warning sign for worse stuff. Get to the doc right away. If it's just nerves, take cialis for a while.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 12:43 AM
10

This has got to be bullshit
/r/askTRP07/09/19 10:00 PM
6

Coffee shops.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 02:30 PM
1

In my experience, respect lost in an LTR can't be gained back. The MRP guys might argue that it can, but it's not easier or better than just moving on and starting a relationship on a redpill foundation.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 02:20 PM
3

Time to work on that insecurity. She's fucked several before you, will fuck several after you. It's just how it is, my man. It's up you to come to grips with reality.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 01:21 PM
1

LDRs suck and will drag you down. I promise.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 01:19 PM
4

Literally almost every woman when asked about Literally almost every woman when asked about.... Fixed that for you.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 12:57 PM
5

AWALT. They all demonize their ex, no matter what fault they had in the end of the LTR. It's their coping mechanism and a woman's way of deflecting rather than fixing a personal issue.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 12:56 PM
1

Withdraw slowly as to not make a scene or a big deal about it. Simultaneously go game other women OUTSIDE OF WORK.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 02:13 PM
10

Robert California... Is that you?
/r/askTRP04/09/19 11:04 AM
9

He's limiting himself by not lifting, and have you seen him? His SMV is very low. Sure, he may have a good thing going but his good thing could be a lot better if he put some time into improving himself.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 11:03 AM
4

On a first date say what it takes to intrigue her. Don't purposely say very little but go with the flow, create mystery. fuck with her emotions a little. Women love it.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 06:50 PM
47

you absolutely did the right thing. First she lied to you, second, it was a date, and she's going to get fucked. That's what people do after weddings.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 06:42 PM
2

Once you start eating at or reasonably above your TDEE, lifting 4-5x a week and cutting out shitty junk food your body finds homeostasis. If you're losing weight then it's meant to be. Nothing wrong with packing on 15-20 pounds of muscle after you drop the extra body fat though.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 06:34 PM
6

What are your T-Levels. Post them or GTFO.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 03:44 PM
2

that happened.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 02:13 PM
2

AWALT, but the map is not the territory, just a representation that gets you to where you need to go. AWALT is your map.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 01:09 PM
2

Plating a former LTR is black belt level stuff and you're not ready for it. Go game other chicks and work on yourself until you forget about her.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 01:30 PM
79

B could land a guy in a lot of trouble in some parts of the country. For sure, see a lawyer first like uncle V says, then follow his advice.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 01:23 PM
5

As a dad, I respect a guy who will have the balls to come up to me in person, shake my hand, and talk to me. This way at least I know my daughter's not dating a social retard.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 11:15 AM
11

Some are not loyal by default and some are loyal until you display weakness. Then there are the rare 1% who will stay loyal to you even during your darkest hour. This is the mythical "unicorn".
/r/askTRP30/08/19 11:13 AM
2

Exactly! Vetting is setting boundaries for yourself!
/r/askTRP30/08/19 11:07 AM
7

First time I wouldn't do any more than a gram. You might not get much from a low dose but you'll know how much you can potentially handle. An ego shattering dose is anywhere from 3-5g. Make sure you have a sober, trusted friend to babysit you.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 12:21 AM
4

shrooms dude... Take a healthy dose of them and kill your ego. It's going to fucking suck but you're going to come out stronger faster.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 11:55 PM
1

once and a while yeah. Gotta keep em guessing.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 11:50 PM
12

This is a real thing? I have learned something new today.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 08:35 PM
1

Stop with the verbal diarrhea. Stop being a faggot, start lifting, start approaching women. Who gives a fuck if you get rejected. Just keep improving and the no's will turn into yeses.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 08:33 PM
3

You'll be able to slay until you're in your early 50's if you take care of yourself now.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 03:19 PM
9

All she said was how I was not being nice that night but she could not for the life of her comprehend the reason I was being cold to her was the result of her disrespectful actions... Don't try to use logic with a woman, they communicate in emotions. I see where you fucked up is a lack of comfort, and your LTR also seems a little nuts by how you describe her.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 01:12 PM
17

It's a good thing. Enjoy it while it lasts
/r/askTRP28/08/19 12:57 PM
4

Search this and the RP sub for "Beta Bait" and you'll see what's up here.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 12:57 PM
16

Why are you complaining that she paid? I make my dates pay half at least.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 12:56 PM
10

Lift. Get huge and jacked. Or learn BJJ or Muay Thai. That is all you can do. No other advice is going to help you.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 12:53 PM
13

Respond with where and when you'll meet next. Then escalate.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 12:22 PM
5

My most current plates were 29, 28, and 29. I'm 45. Mind you, I have 11% BF right now, a good haircut and barely any wrinkles but still...
/r/askTRP28/08/19 12:19 PM
1

Hell yeah man... When I hit 50, I'm going TRT all the way. My levels are pretty great right now at 45 and all I do is lift 4-5x a week, eat right and socialize.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 12:18 PM
1

All you really have to do is tell 'em you're going to wait to get them back. Just say something like "funny man... just wait, I'll get your ass back when you least expect it". You have to be playful when you say it though. I think the main issue is you're getting butthurt over stuff that guys do to each other. It's all a game. Play it. Get good at it.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 12:01 PM
1

I sent nudes to other women anonymously online for sexual validation. Well there you go, Anonymously. There's no way that your gf will find out, and it's your problem not hers. Suck it up, deal with it, and move on!
/r/askTRP28/08/19 11:52 AM
2

No conditioning from parents or society. Nature and nurture both have an effect. For example, I saw a really gross looking lady at the train station this morning on my commute, with her small child dressed like a retard, and I thought to myself... That kid has absolutely no hope.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 11:46 AM
4

TRP is mostly a byproduct of the toxic hookup culture in the current west. Bullshit. im no longer young. Im interested in getting a wife, a decent looking one, who's loyal, family oritented, not a gold digger, and she must want to have kids Good luck with that. Try churches. Not saying you're going to find undamaged goods but there may be a slightly better chance. It's your only hope, really. wats the strat for me? Luck. Also, ask the guys at askmrp, they might have better advice.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 11:03 AM
1

Blue Bloods is a pretty decent cop show. Tom Selleck plays a red pill role in it.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 11:56 AM
0

Just text her dude... "hey, I just had a random thought about __, reminded me of you". If she's interested she's gonna reply. If not then well.... Keep hunting!
/r/askTRP27/08/19 11:51 AM
9

Yeah, don't just get jacked, get HUGE and scary looking. Some women like men that look like gorillas because it makes them feel protected at a very primal level.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 11:49 AM
6

My vote goes to number 1. Most guys get boring. Women need a rollercoaster of emotions to stay interested. That's why they watch shitty TV shows like the bachelor. Also, #1 is why all men should be gaming multiple women or at least flirting when in a LTR. It keeps women on the edge of her seat and keeps them interested in you knowing they could lose you at any moment.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 11:47 AM
4

Her problems will transfer to your life if you don't cut ties right now. Trust me, it's happened to many men here including myself.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 11:44 AM
7

Are you autistic? Jesus fucking christ man..... Just learn how to be social. Get off your phone and computer and learn how to deal with people in social situations.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 11:40 AM
3

Are you in high school or something? All joking aside the best thing to do always is assume attraction. The worst thing that could happen is getting rejected but that's 1000x better than not taking action. Good luck.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 11:39 AM
2

No idea man... I just know from personal experience and reading other counts that it does. 25mg will keep you hard enough to cum multiple times without decreasing sensitivity
/r/askTRP27/08/19 10:56 AM
2

I love sex with crazy chicks... It's the aftermath that sucks. The ones I've really enjoyed never got my last name or too much personal info.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 12:34 AM
5

50mg is a pretty high dose for a first time use. I would do 25 if I were you. I take viagra before threesomes and it works great for me. I've done 50mg and it makes it almost impossible to cum. 25 is way better unless you have actual ED problems.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 12:31 AM
7

move on bro. her problem is hers and not yours.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:25 PM
1

How far are you willing to drive to fuck is the question. How many plates to you have? I bet the answer is 0 or 1. IMO, just drive over there, fuck her, and say your goodbyes.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 12:05 PM
4

My current mission is to become financially independent to the point of being able to retire and walk away from everything with passive income assets that'll keep generating money for me. I've got 2 side hustles that are making me some money, some investments, and a really big 401k account (I'm in my mid-forties). I'm working maybe 70 hours a week and I'm 5-10 years away from realizing my dream.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 11:58 AM
3

Don't demote her to a plate. Since you have been in her frame for ages you're not going to be able to do that. She doesn't respect you. Edit: to be perfectly clear, leave her ass, find someone else and don't look back.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 11:54 AM
5

It looks to me like you're doing too much too soon and it seems unnatural to her. When you're in a LTR you have to work this shit in slowly unless your LTR is coming to an end and you're applying dread in a last ditch effort to save it.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 11:51 AM
6

Offer to hit the gym with him a few times a week. Get him to lift. Also hit up spots where you can approach women together. Teach by example, don't be an evangelist who leaves tracts behind for him to read.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 10:57 AM
2

your mistake was replying to her wall of text. ignore and keep looking is what you do next time someone flakes.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 12:53 AM
1

often when speaking an uncomfortable truth, the messenger is blamed.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 12:42 AM
2

cocaine.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 12:40 AM
3

What all these guys said, also a pressure flip might work too. "whoa, slow down there tiger who ever said anything about having sex?".. Then you just escalate as normal. Keep turning up the heat, keep removing clothing, and she's going to be pretty much grabbing you and trying to put you inside her if you're doing it right. Girls respond to different things though so you gotta try out a few different approaches.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 01:08 PM
2

If his adam's apple is as big as his cock you know he's trans.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 01:05 PM
2

I notice this too. Maybe we need a redpillrelationships sub or something. We have mrp and askmrp but most of these guys aren't married.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 01:03 PM
2

Nothing wrong at all... In fact this is exactly how you avoid buyers remorse and dodge false allegations. She needs the comfort bro.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 08:17 PM
14

Let me leave you with this (closure is bullshit): https://archive.fo/ENAtL Read that and you can decide what you want to do with your EX's offer.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 01:28 PM
1

If I had to compare it would be like 6-8. I am still working on 9's. My scale is super strict though. 10 would be a supermodel, 9 would be your typical instagram model, 8 would be the hot girl you might run into at the club, gym, or coffee shop.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 05:04 PM
2

Instead of inviting her out all the time do things for yourself, and implement the 12 steps of dread.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 03:48 PM
4

True AF. I did exactly this over the period of 2 years and the quality of women has increased by a LOT.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 03:47 PM
1

LTR needs a balance of comfort and dread. You're doing the right thing.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 03:24 PM
1

You're a great looking guy and your SMV will improve a lot after you spend a year or two in the gym. Find a good workout program. I was skinnyfat and went from SL 5x5 -> PHUL -> PHAT. It's helped me put on 20 or so pounds of muscle and lose my belly in the past 2 years. It takes time to get jacked. If you have the discipline to trust the process instead of wanting instant gratification you will get there.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 03:21 PM
1

The day when my plate started finding me more plates. Still makes me smile thinking about it.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 03:18 PM
1

I didn't accuse you of anything, bro.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 12:04 PM
1

If this were a female-centric subreddit, this would all be okay, and labelled "heroic" or "progressive" or some dumb shit.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/19 07:19 PM
2

sounds like hippie shit!
/r/askTRP22/08/19 06:54 PM
4

This is the right advice. My biggest regrets from when I was that age is not taking the opportunity to get experience with more women, not lifting when my body was in its prime for that, and not studying as hard as I could. My focus was on my gf, and I regret it.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 11:12 AM
2

They send you a message just to be dicks.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 10:48 AM
2

You're overthinking it. Chances are that she's not that interested if she's not replying to you right away. It's not gonna hurt to throw something else out there.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 07:33 PM
3

It helps a lot especially if you have trouble focusing in today world of distractions. Pick up the book "The Mind Illuminated". It's the best meditation guide you can get.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 07:32 PM
1

"Tell me that when I cum in your face, it turns me on"
/r/askTRP21/08/19 07:19 PM
1

She knows. There are plenty of other social platforms to make platonic friends on, yet she chooses a dating app. Hmm.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 12:32 PM
2

I was pre-emptively banned from a bunch of subreddits I've never visited also. No big deal, as I will never visit them anyway.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 11:09 AM
1

Get on Tinder in front of her, remark on how hot your matches are. Tell her to get rid of Bumble but you, yourself never get rid of Tinder. From where I'm standing, your relationship isn't worth much to her if she's on a dating app.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 11:05 AM
17

This is genius.... Evil, but fucking genius.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 09:21 PM
1

He won't get that here. There may be a chance for him.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 08:52 PM
8

Trojans is a boner killer for me. They strangle your dick. The other brands are better but still none as good as going raw.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 02:22 PM
3

It's a good idea to switch programs from time to time. I use PHAT when I'm bulking and PHUL when cutting. PHAT takes a whole lot out of me and there's no way I could run it indefinitely. I'm old though, so ymmv.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 01:39 PM
3

You need a lawyer. Let this be a lesson to others. Don't live together.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 05:16 PM
1

Do you have a fitbit or a sleep tracking app? It's a good investment as you can see how much deep sleep you're getting, when you're waking up, and how active you are during sleep. Once you know WTF is going on you can try to take steps to fix it.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 05:15 PM
3

He did soft next her, and she came back with more shit tests. Personally I would let this one fall to the ground if I were him. But if he wants to bang he can by just laughing at her like others said.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 05:13 PM
2

The next day i look on the app and she wasn't invisible on the app anymore and she had added a new picture. Now i realize we weren't in a serious relationship yet and she has her right to have the app, but after what she told me i was confused. I asked her about it and she didn't like that i brought it up. After that things got weird. She got awkward when i mentioned sex in person, but still had phone sex with me a day later. Don't pay attention to what she says, pay attention to what she does. …
/r/askTRP19/08/19 01:10 AM
9

It is what it is. This is why most of us are not in LTRs or married. Enjoy the amazing sex, don't commit.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 02:50 PM
6

That's how I have said it in my head. Like fa really red motherfucker. (in Samuel L Jackson's voice)
/r/TheRedPill17/08/19 08:23 PM
2

I wouldn't even tell her. Just ghost, lift and find other women. She'll get the point.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 02:15 PM
17

IMO, you can't. Next time don't move in together.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 09:04 PM
3

He's right. To go further.... SS is great for building strength which is essential if you want to get jacked. Think of your strength gains as a base to build on. You're gonna want to switch to a different program if you want hypertrophy though, since SS is all about strength, not size.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 08:20 PM
2

Depends on the person. I can't gain unless I eat like a horse. Even though it's healthy food I still gain some fat. Good thing is that I can easily and quickly cut. I have always been very lean, and it's a struggle to eat enough sometimes.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 08:18 PM
2

Just laugh it off and tell her that she's cute. Smack her ass when you tell her too.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 12:50 PM
4

She's more ego broken than heart broken. Move on and don't look back my friend.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 02:11 PM
6

Hard next for you AND your reputation.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 11:00 AM
6

Jesus would be his wingman.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 10:59 AM
2

She met someone.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 11:17 AM
2

You don't have to cheat to flirt. Just flirt and know that you could land lots of hotties if your girl starts acting out of line. She will know you can too, and it'll increase her attraction to you.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 07:44 PM
3

Same here brother. I usually drink 3 drinks every Friday and Saturday night. It's become a ritual to me. Last weekend I ended up partying a little too hard so I'm going to switch to one weekend night every other weekend.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 07:43 PM
27

Stop beating around the bush and tell her what you found. See what her reaction is. AWALT, but maybe someone she knows was taking plan b. Maybe she was inseminated by chad... It's 50/50 at this point if she was an otherwise decent LTR.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 07:36 PM
5

I like Layne Norton's PHAT program. It's got insane amounts of volume so you might wanna transition from something other than SL. I went SL->PHUL->PHAT.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 11:12 AM
3

Start tracking your calories. There's no reason not to. Also start tracking your sleep and ensure that you're getting a good quality 7-9 hours per night.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 01:44 PM
3

I didn't read any of this Nicholas Sparks novel that you just posted. This girl... she this she that.... Who gives a fuck? You deserve better man. Reclaim your nuts and cut her out of your life FOR GOOD.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 01:40 PM
3

What makes you think your LTR is going to take rejection well? I would block to avoid potential drama. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 11:08 AM
4

The reason 48LOP was written from a perspective of times past is to force you to sit down and think about how you would apply the concepts to modern situations. Spoon feeding it to people removes a lot of the value.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 02:53 PM
0

LMFAO... "MMA wing chun". Okay :)
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/19 12:50 PM
1

Withdrawing attention is the right thing to do. Make sure that instead of ignoring, you're off doing something else. Hang out with friends. Hell, even take up golf or something. Just make sure you're with people or doing something of value.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 11:18 AM
2

This is exactly right, and the reason why women branch swing. Chasing the high of having the tingles... And this is why OP should instill dread right away. It's not going to prevent it from happening but it may cause his relationship to be more passionate for a while longer.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 11:17 AM
2

We later talked about it and she basically said that she felt like I was trying to make it known to everyone that we are a couple. She is okay with holding hands in public, but anything more than that she gets weird about it. So holding hands in public doesn't make it known that you're a couple? Your girlfriend is a self-contradicting bitch, dude... Kick her out and dump her.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 07:44 PM
1

Say too much and you're going to kill the attraction and mystery. Say too little and she's not going to be comfortable. Don't text every day. Just maybe every few days, but don't be boring and make sure you leave her hanging on something.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 05:40 PM
11

I'm not as jacked as OP, but I'm in my forties and look damn good without a shirt on. There's no excuse for any man here to not look great shirtless. If you don't, hit the gym until you are fit. Simple as that.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 12:49 PM
15

Why, have you actually tried? You have to be confident AF too, I imagine. Any small sliver of self doubt will infect your whole game.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 12:48 PM
4

Your first mistake was working together with her. The second was instead of being strong and instilling dread you freaking bought her candy and flowers... Dude. This is what beta men do. You should have found the cutest camp counselor and started spending time with her instead. What should you do now? Just continue to ignore her. I almost guarantee that she will break up with you though.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 11:21 AM
2

It keeps me sharper. Digestion takes a lot of energy.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 12:26 PM
-1

I can vouch for this advice. Same situation here. Older guy, once married. I don't do monogamy anymore, and am into the BDSM lifestyle. I will usually have one sub at any given time, and it's great as they are more than happy to fulfill your needs. If not, then there is a neverending supply of them.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 11:17 AM
14

You're right, the Red Pill is not about being immoral. A measure of a man is how he wields his power.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 11:14 AM
1

After many approaches you're going to learn what works for you and what doesn't. If your SMV is high enough, direct approaches work best. If you're more average-good looking you have to build things up a little bit. I don't suggest getting women to fall head over heels, as that attracts the crazies and tends to push away the good ones. The good ones are going to question why you're pushing for "love" so hard.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 12:03 PM
2

You should be maximizing YOUR sexual strategy, not seeking advice here for trying to understand a woman from the viewpoint of your limiting religious framework. We can tell you AWALT, but you're not gonna listen. Sure your divorce rate may be lower, but how's the rate of fidelity within your religious marriages? NOT good. I can tell you first hand, as I've had minor positions in leadership in a Christian church. I've been to all of the consistory meetings in which every other week some "good wif…
/r/askTRP05/08/19 11:54 AM
8

What part of "she's not yours, it's just your turn" don't you understand?
/r/askTRP05/08/19 11:11 AM
2

Her team consists of most people twice her age (it’s a government job), no males that are a threat, and they are aware that she’s in a relationship. Hahaha! I'm 46 and regularly fuck women in their 20's. If you think that older men aren't a threat or think that other people give a shit about your relationship I have a bridge to sell you.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 08:48 PM
1

Fuckin right she's a lost cause. Like the other poster said, they don't operate in the same reality. Consider every word she's ever told you a lie. I have a BPD ex and one that's a sociopath. The sociopath is worse, as they'll lie to you and actually believe the shit that they make up is true with no remorse. Best thing you can do is remove her from your life for good and never look back because she WILL try to come back. Thwart any attempt she makes to try to get any kind of foothold in your li…
/r/askTRP04/08/19 08:46 PM
1

HSV1 is the kind typically on the mouth. So I would get he got type 1 from the BJ. It's kind of rare but it is possible.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 06:24 PM
1

Same here. 6'5. Skinny AF. Old AF. Took me quite a while to be benching over 200 but I finally got there.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 10:57 AM
3

Good job, man. Looks like you've made a lot of progress.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 10:56 AM
2

4 months is not long enough to get over a LTR that lasted over a couple of years. We have all been there. It just takes time.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 10:51 AM
3

Brings me peace in a stressful career/life. Gives me the "ass of a greek god" (according to a plate). Makes me feel good physically.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 10:47 AM
1

If it's not you it's going to be someone else. But if you do make sure that there's not a way that the whole incident can blow up on you.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 08:22 PM
2

You shouldn't care. Do what makes you feel good, and what gets you the results you want.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 05:21 PM
3

Depending on your body chemistry it can fade fast. It lasts a long time on most people, not me though.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 11:04 AM
3

This is the 2nd time I've read this on here. I wonder if a UV lamp would work. I live in the city and can't hang my nuts over my balcony.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 11:03 AM
1

When I was in my worst shape I could only do 4 pullups/chinups. A few years ago, I decided to start lifting seriously again and after a couple of years of that I realized I could easily bust out 15 of them. That along with your bench press weight is a good indicator of how strong you are. If I were you I would not do accessory work. Focus on the heavy barbell lifts, especially bent over (pendlay) barbell rows. The only accessory work that helps a lot is lat pulldowns.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 08:23 PM
4

Op is in total denial about his oneitis over this crazy af chick.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 07:46 PM
10

Imagine how you would have felt had you brought this girl back home and wifed her up. She'd be constantly disrespecting you.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 11:43 AM
13

You handled that just fine. You have no obligations to her or her family so if she disrespected you, just walk away and don't look back.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 11:07 AM
5

Both enjoy messaging with me and have fun with my jokes and stuff. That shows them that your time isn't valuable.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 10:59 AM
3

Looks like you have a man-crush. In all seriousness, golf needs needs people like this. It reminds me of Tiger in his prime.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/19 06:28 PM
6

This is an Indian post....
/r/askTRP30/07/19 11:16 AM
4

I agree with the meditation part. Try mindfulness. Don't let your mind run wild like this guy tells you. Your goal should be to bring your awareness into your body instead. "The Mind Illuminated" is the meditation course that you need. The root of anxiety is overthinking, and mindfulness helps anxiety a lot.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 11:13 AM
1

If you would like to study the Law of Attraction in a much less scammy way, check out Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill and also any of Neville Goddard's teachings. Modern LoA stuff is all scam artist cash grab bullshit. The funny thing is that there's only a few basic principles to master regarding how the human mind works. All of these scammers adding their own techniques are just making it confusing. Maybe that's intentional to make it seem mystical or keep gullible housewives coming back …
/r/TheRedPill30/07/19 10:54 AM
1

I don't know about any of you other guys here but I think PUA literature has value. Not as a shortcut to getting women, but as a confidence builder.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 11:19 AM
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I don't really have any thoughts on it. I've never been there and probably never will.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 11:10 AM
6

She already has by the looks of it.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 11:00 AM
1

I agree with all the other guys, you dodged a bullet! The best thing you can do is lift until you're too tired to think. I'm serious.... Lift extremely hard and immediately afterward you're going to be at peace for a few hours at least. Also helps to take up mindfulness. That comes AFTER lifting because you're not going to be able to relax at first.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 10:58 AM
5

She wants to be the one framing your relationship. Don't let her. It's the classic "I've got the pussy so I make the rules situation". Don't fall into that trap.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 11:37 PM
9

Hard next bro. There are plenty of chicks out there who wash their ass.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 11:34 PM
2

I hear you man... Yeah, I would start there then work up to doing what you can do after you get out of surgery. Constant small steps cover a lot of ground when you have discipline. Good luck with everything... If you're anything like me your life will improve a lot after the red pill.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 02:50 PM
7

Nuts out in the sun? For real?
/r/askTRP28/07/19 01:50 PM
3

then working through exercises when circumstances allows My philosophy is that if you have time to read, you have time to put in the work. People are geared toward absorbing as much knowledge and insight as they can, then when it's time to grind out REAL work they move on to the next thing. Self discipline is what most people need, and the realization that mastery only comes after you've repeated the fundamentals over and over until they're second nature. My advice is to slow down and master wha…
/r/askTRP28/07/19 01:49 PM
5

Are you reading these books or living them? Any chump can read a book, but if you truly want to change you do EVERY exercise in earnest. Personally when I come across a new personal development book I read it through first quickly then read it again, implementing the exercises over the period of a month or so. There are absolutely NO shortcuts here, you have to put in the work, man.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 01:20 PM
14

1000x this.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 11:59 PM
7

Pay attention to her actions, not her words.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 01:34 PM
11

An LTR which isn't declared is not a LTR. Either of you could go out and fuck someone else tonight.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 01:29 PM
3

Teachers? For real? Not doubting you, I never would have guessed though.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 01:28 PM
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There's no such thing as an "unofficial LTR". And stop fooling yourself - you have oneitis. You either give a shit or you don't. This girl doesn't want a LTR and you give a shit too much is the problem.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 01:26 PM
3

I agree. Mate-guarding for SMP reasons and being there for her physical safety are two different things.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 01:13 PM
1

ever stop to think that maybe she didn't receive your message?
/r/askTRP26/07/19 08:40 PM
2

Awaken the Giant Within - Anthony Robbins. THE best personal development book period. It's pretty huge and kind of dated but it's chock full of information that you can use right now. Very little filler too.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 08:13 PM
2

I came to suggest this one, too. It's a great book even if you ignore all of the "woo" shit in it.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 08:11 PM
1

You're wandering around aimlessly. Every man needs one chief aim, his mission in life. Get a mission, a job, stop looking at porn.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 03:22 PM
2

It's an old zen parable and I think Tony Robbins paraphrased it this way: If someone gives you something and you don't accept it, who then does that thing belong to?
/r/askTRP26/07/19 03:06 PM
2

1 week isn't enough time to gauge any sort of effectiveness. If you're progressively overloading and STILL not sore after a month, come back and post then.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 11:18 AM
41

Yup, never get married. I made that mistake once, and there's a lot of pressure to stay, especially when there are kids involved.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 05:02 PM
1

I always tell them "I haven't met the right one yet, but you're welcome to try".
/r/askTRP25/07/19 03:57 PM
1

I think you did the right thing here. Sure, you would have taught your friend a valuable lesson, but was he ready to receive that lesson? No.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/19 06:29 PM
2

You can't fix others, you can only be a stand up guy and offer others advice.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 12:21 PM
2

She might be nuts. Lots of tinder girls who give it up on the first date can be. The only thing you should care about at this point are false accusations. Make sure you give her a little comfort if you communicate again.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 11:56 AM
1

One, she's probably crazy and fucking with you. Two, "You realise I'm hitting on you right now?" tells me that you took too long to escalate and now you're friendzoned.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 11:46 AM
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Yeah, I have no idea what I'm talking about when I was an actual mechanic in my 20's. And a close friend owns a hybrid/electric shop. What an ass lol.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 10:44 PM
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Disagree. Anything that has moving parts and is stressed as much as vehicles are needs someone who knows how to repair it. Suspension, brakes, charging systems, etc are all worked on more than engines anyway since most will last well over 200k miles when maintained.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 09:54 PM
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Construction or Certified Auto Mechanic. Both make a LOT of money. But be aware that both will take a physical toll on your body, mechanic less so, but you may lose a finger or two.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:34 PM
2

On the phone with me she sounded blunt and disinterested and I tried cheering her up but it wasn’t happening It's not your job. Your job is just to listen. You're her rock, not her court jester. I presume she will call me in a few hours and apologise but I’m unsure whether to actually answer it or not. I would. For one thing you got too invested in her problem. You feel too deeply into her frame by trying to be a "fixer". Women hate that shit. They want a guy to listen and to be strong, not to j…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:18 PM
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Chatting more than the basics is a time waster. Basically you want to learn that she's not disease-ridden, and she needs to learn you're not crazy. Save the rest for real life interactions. Some girls on dating apps are huge time wasters.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 01:07 PM
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you STFU is what you do. Tell her "I'm here if you need me". That's all they need to know.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 01:04 PM
2

You most certainly don't need to eat every 2 hours. For one thing, it keeps a steady stream of insulin going which you DON'T want. It's going to make your body insulin-resistant and cause fat gain. Eat at normal times, or if you're cutting or doing keto OMAD or IF.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 11:19 AM
1

Who cares? She might do that anyway, and OP gets to enjoy the type of sex that most men only dream about.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 11:15 AM
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I brought it back up to her later There is where you went wrong. All women think about these things, not all verbalize them like that. Your job is to keep a strong frame, and that's where you failed when you brought it back up.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 11:14 AM
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